Aries Compatibility With Virgo |
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Aries and Virgo
Some people naturally "get" each other, and some people don't. And I'm afraid that these too just don't! Their temperaments are so different that they are rather befuddled by one another's approach at well, everything! Virgo is pretty much a perfectionist and loves to make sure everything is in it's proper place. The Aries gets very wound up by these traits, although does appreciate the outcome. Aries people are free and fun loving, and enjoy getting up and facing a new challenge at the drop of a hat. Whereas the Virgo will have to think about it first, maybe for day's, then make sure the house is perfectly orderly before even thinking of closing the front door. Money is another problem that can cause more arguments. The Virgo makes sure every penny is accounted for and dosen't really agree with fool hardy spending, the fun loving Aries on the other hand just wants to spend, spend, spend. Work hard, play hard right? Unless the Earth Sign Virgo has some help from Leo, or Libra in their sign and the Fire Sign Aries is a bit less boisterous then these two don't stand much of a chance at a long-term union.
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June 10th, 2008 at 6:21 pm
This is so very true about those two star signs it’s unbeliavable. I am an aries woman and my ex husband was a virgo. As soon as the initial attarction between those two signs is gone, all there’s left is differences that are almost impossible to overcome. Virgo’s are idy, neat and predictive, aries are exactly the opposite. A union like that can never last, yet it is a good experience as i personally learned a lot from the virgo man…but will certainly not go for one ever again !
L.
June 11th, 2008 at 4:44 pm
oh man i agree to the fullest..
July 22nd, 2008 at 6:56 pm
I think its kind of right my ex was a virgo..we split up but remained close friends, now i come to realize that he would’ve held me down if i stayed with him…Its true as an aries i wanna spend money especially if i worked hard for it ,but virgos like everything simple and dont like spending the money
September 10th, 2008 at 3:21 pm
I could not disagree with this more…I am a virgo & I am far from a perfectionist & I love to be spontaneous & fun. My bf is an Aries & we get along great! I DO believe in work hard/play hard. I would say everything listsed about virgos in the above statements doesn’t apply to me AT ALL!!!!!
September 11th, 2008 at 2:40 am
My BF is an aries and everything that you have mentioned is absolutely true. i do however go along with what Melissa has to say; I think Virgo’s are a little underestimated. We enjoy spontaneity and fun just as much as the next person. I think that the Aries really brings out that side in us… it does work!
October 29th, 2008 at 7:11 am
my bf is a virgo, some of this stuff i disagree with, because we have been together for quite some time now. The money ordeal has not been a problem with us because he enjoys spending money just as much as i do. He is also able to keep up with me. He is however very criticizing
December 13th, 2008 at 2:16 am
So far so good for us. My boyfriend is an Aries and I am a Virgo. The sex is great, the friendship is working….. and as for us coexisting, as long as he puts the cereal box back I am happy. Should we fear what’s to come, or go for the ride?
December 16th, 2008 at 7:27 am
My ex is a virgo and we didn’t get along at the end, although my guy best friend is a a virgo as well and we have been friends for the longest time and barely fight… My ex liked to spend money as much as i did but always wanted others to pay for him and he would try to get everything cheaper. But anyways i still believe in our love… somehow im still attached to him and well who knows what the future reserve…
January 1st, 2009 at 10:31 am
Well, my ex is a virgo guy. At first it seems that he can keep up with my spending habits and my way of thinking & life styles. I can stand his criticizing habits. But after 2 years he shows his true self and he become so cheap and stingy. Yet, he prefer to laid back and spend as little as he can. Moreover, he also too introvert and a real deceiver. He never really lies but he deceives; intentionally make others misunderstood him as good whenever he’s not. He was very affectionate, caring, loving & think for his future wellness. But, I can’t stand his cheapness, cowardness (fussy state of minds) which leads to his irresponsibily character, easily influenced thoughts. Virgo guy is egoistics & calculating, they’ll only do things or give help after they calculate their benefits & future assurance. In doing so, they’ll deceive you as if they’re sincere. Virgo guys will prefer to run away and find a sanctuary (be unfaithful) then to face & solve any problems. However, their ego will deny this and with their fussy state of mind will plot a cunning scenario as a path to run away and yet give others impressions as if they’re innocents. They can easily be unfaithful behind yourback as if nothing has happened. Fire signs never go for a Virgo. I regret letting him into my life, we’d better stayed a best friend.
January 8th, 2009 at 11:59 am
ciel!!!
u really scare me cos my guy is a virgo and watever u say is very very true !! but the only diff is im an earth sign and i don mind putting upw ith him !! But if he’s gonna be unfaithful - then it will be a bye bye for him!!
January 9th, 2009 at 3:35 am
this is true but i believe in opposites attracting. . . my BF is aries and i’ m a virgo, although aries are hard working they really need someone like a virgo to keep them grounded. they lose there temper way to easily and over the passed 5 years i’v helped him make alot better choices in life. i really made him who he is today. he has thought me so much to, like how everything dosen’t revolve around work. he loves the fact that he can go out with the boys and i never care because i like staying home thinking about business stuff. he always knows i’m safe waiting for him, with all the bills payed. he’s always sure there’s enough money. . . A PERFECT MATCH the way i see it
January 11th, 2009 at 7:15 am
where i disagree is the attraction.. i think there is instant attraction, for the relationship to work out— YOU are RIGHT.. A and V do not last.
the last guy i dated ( a V) i am an aries.. i swear, he totally would hold be back and drag me down. V’s are sooo boring, that they “try” to give off a facade they are exciting. And Aries fall for it, but realize they are so boring. my Ex-V hated to travel, liked being homebound.
I fact i told him upfront when first met him, and discovered he was a “V”. i said “A and V’s don’t last, but you might prove me wrong.”
But, turns out I was right.
February 2nd, 2009 at 1:18 am
OMG, Ciel…you hit everything on the head!!! Im not a Aries, but i watched an old virgo friend of mine do the same thing with his girlfriend who is an aries, and he was the same in our friendship…Never really lied, but decieved…SO TRUE…tell half truths, or purposefully say something in a way to make you think something else is going on…so many Mind Games!! Always doing something for some thought out future benefit, and not because of real care…will let people just buy him stuff if he could,cheap!…and was such a coward! I know all Virgo Guys aren’t like that, but when they are living in the bad/lost side of themselves its not nice!
March 20th, 2009 at 1:55 am
hmmmm… I’m a V and my gf is an A… I’m 3 years older than her, so I feel like I have the responsibility to “correct” her or “show her the proper way”… I do look at her as a person who needs to be guided at certain things… In my opinion, everything will be all right as long as my gf keeps an open mind… I have been with an A before, so I know my boundaries… … Contrary to some comments on V, I am not cheap… I DO do things for my benefit, but it’s not necessarily leaving others at a “loss”… I think of it as a “win-win” situation… If others gain something, isn’t it fair that I also get something out of it? …
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April 1st, 2009 at 4:54 pm
Hi, I’m a Virgo and my so called by is an Aries. We have been together for 8 months now. For the pass 6 months everything was great and wonderful. Then for the last two months we started to go down hill. His personality started to show and he shift downward.He likes to take control of everything, the center of attention. Likes things his way all the time! Where we eat, he would never ask me he just takes me there. Even when we don’t agree on things its his way. Man this guy is full of it. Funny things was before I dated him I already have a bad impression of him. I gave it a chance and somehow end up liking him for his ways of thinking. Other than that I can’t stand him. I had to dress him and do all these nice things for him and nothing seems enough. I think we are not a good match. Besides I have other guys that wants to be with me more then him. I’m very faithfull to him but what is enough is enough. I don’t think him and I are better off without each other. He is too selfcenter. I rather be with someone who would love and respect me. It is not about him all the time. Kbee
April 6th, 2009 at 1:36 pm
Well, all I have to say as an Arian with my moon in virgo it’s not all that bad with my virgo partner. The matter of the relationship is about give and take, and partnership deffinitley plays a big role. If you can contain these things, then the relationship should keep flowing for however long it wants to. We realized as opposite as we are, if we love each other so much wether it would be out of my emotions or his intellectal views, we work with each other because we are different. That is the only way. I have never would have thought that I could feel this special being with an earth sign =) I give virgos a lot of credit. They are truly the most sincere in the zodiac.
April 6th, 2009 at 7:26 pm
I’m an Aries with my moon in virgo. In all honesty, coming from an arian, virgo’s aren’t bad people. I give them MAJOR credibility because they are the fundamentals of the zodiac, I believe. My Virgo partner is the best thing thats ever happened to me. We learned that it’s better to work WITH each other BECAUSE we are different. It’s a matter of give and take. The top thing I believe that is crucial in an aries-virgo relationship is partnership, which we have plenty of. Compromise is a major thing. Sometimes it is difficult because his words can be harsh and I can charge with great force with my horns, but we always work it out at the end of the day because we realize we love each other and we want nothing more than to be with each other. My insight is the virgo has to be willing to take risks and the aries has to be willing to be ready to have certain settlements. If you can work together hand in hand through the good and the bad, then nothing can stop either of you. My virgo partner makes me feel special in every way and I make him feel loved and secured. It’s good enough for me =]
April 7th, 2009 at 1:04 am
Well I just blocked my virgo from my phone. Things got out of hand. I tried to end it several times, but I’d find him or he’d find me. I made a lot of mistkes with him & I learned a lot from him. I wish I could do it all over again now that I have a better understanding of what I want out of a relationship… Then atleast I’d know whether or not he was the one.
May 11th, 2009 at 12:54 am
I am a virgo Female and i have found that my best relationships have been with two Aries Males and the other relationships that are supposedly supposed to be more compatible were in fact very bad relationships that didn’t last long
I guess I’m just an Aries lover
I mean i have only been in love twice and both times it was with Aries Men