Are Taurus men Possessive? |
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I thought it would be nice if I put up a question every now and then for everyone to put down their opinion etc. I have done this just for fun and it is not meant to be taken seriously!!
I have had many people email me telling me stories of male Taurean possessiveness; I have also experienced this when I was younger with an Earthy Taurus boy I went out with. On the other hand I have known a handful of these wonderful men who can’t stand to be tied down and are quite the opposite of possessive. What experiences do you have of this?
Please leave comments of your own opinions on this and any Taureans out there or friends and family of a possessive male Taurus …let’s hear from you too. Also if you have any questions you would like me to ask here then please drop me a line and I will put the best ones up on the site. 
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May 24th, 2009 at 1:56 am
Oh not just the men. As a female Taurus, I can say most of us are just as possesive.
I think this has more to do with the other placements in the natal chart. For example, a Taurus with Venus in Aries may fear commitment. Actually, that would be me.
However, I can be possesive depending on the person. In some relationships, I just didn’t care what my beloved was doing. In others, I got sick if I didn’t know where they were and how they were feeling.
As for my Taurus ex’s, they weren’t posesseive. I guess because I was so much like them that they had faith in me.
May 24th, 2009 at 1:57 am
Love that picture, by the way.
May 29th, 2009 at 2:57 am
I think I had a 1 of a kind taurus. He did not even know what the word communication meant, I never even knew what our plans was until we were on our way,he’s a huge terriable liar,a huge cheater, cheap and he just didn’t offer that “Im the king of the jungle” attitude he wasn’t man enough for me. His temper cause for many beatings to me, many of my valuable things destroyed. He is very possesive and jealous. With the taurus man the bad defintely out weighed the good. He spoiled me in the begining until he started sharing my gifts with his many other women, the sex was awesome(goodlovers) I never knew when I could depend on him. You know, to come to think about it. It’s not to much good I can say about this taurus because my happiness was always short lived when he got mad that was it! he talked to much, he did’nt take care of home far as paying bills, fixing things around the house,nothing wow I never knew how much of a jerk he was and I was so deeply in love with this man. but he never budged he belived what he thought was right he never admitted when he was wrong he never apologized,he was never supportive of anything. When my bestfriend died he did’nt ask if I was ok,he never offered a hug,a kiss.He didn’t believe in me. Damn! he’s an asshole. When he proposed he was too stubborn to get on a knee and ask he just told me I was going to marry him and again being cheap it wasn’t even a engagement ring it was just a ring he brought from the pawn shop. WOw I will never date another tarus man again! jerks BEWARE!!!!!!!!
May 29th, 2009 at 9:51 am
Both my mother and father are Taurus.As a Taurus male as well as an only child, I would have to say that yes, we are. But we are always in it for the good of reasons. Not only are the Taurus male most possessive, but they are the most technical and trustworthy as well.
June 4th, 2009 at 4:59 pm
I went out with a-super-jealous-taurus-man and now dating a-normally-possesive kind of taurus man.. (I think i tend to date taurus man?!)
the first guy was so jealous to every guy-friend i had and that made us broke up. If people say that jealousy means “he cares about u, he loves u, whatsoever..”, forget it. normal jealousy is OK, but if it is too much, u will get sick and tired of it.
he was so possesive that he always made a spooky face everytime he saw me talking or joking around with some guys, and it’s not that he didn’t know those guys i was talking to.
this taurus man i’m dating now doesn’t really care about what kind of guys i hang out with, as long as i tell him beforehand.
one thing that made me think he is possesive is that he realized he likes me because he felt jealous when he saw me having dinner with my friends (there were girls too, but i was sitting next to a guy). but i think he is still reasonably possesive compared to my taurus-ex. maybe he is mature enough to control his jealousy. besides, he also likes looking at other girls, so maybe he is just being fair to me haha.
so, yes taurus men are possesive.
and i reckon, some of them are also flirtatious-they love eyecandies, haha.
June 9th, 2009 at 11:05 pm
Though it can sometimes be nice to know that your guy cares enough to BE possessive, I am with a Taurus now, and he is the most possessive guy I have ever been with. For the most part I don’t really mind, and everything with him is wonderful. But I saw the question and had to comment.
June 11th, 2009 at 6:07 pm
Oh yes, my taurus e-bf is a possessive guy. He always checks everything about me including my accounts in Tagged and Facebook. I’m not allowed to add male friends. He gives meanings to every comment posted by my male friends. He’s soooooo stubborn and he has this habit of breaking up with me every month. He broke up with me again this time. Probably he’s thinking that I shall be back with him anyways…hahaha! Let him rot!
June 14th, 2009 at 3:55 am
I’m a Taurus girl and I’m quite possessive. But geez I’m not -crazy-. I mean, yes, I get a little worried when a girl comments on my Leo’s profile, but good lord I don’t try to read his e-mails or anything or stop him from adding a friend on facebook.. oO;
June 15th, 2009 at 2:38 am
I’m a male taurus, and yes, I am possessive. But I want my counterpart to be possessive of me too. Seriously. That’s the way I like it.
June 16th, 2009 at 5:31 pm
Taurus is possesive. I have a taurus girlfriend and she is possesive to the point to where she has to know everything that I do. I have read that taurus is automatically possesive of the people and things they love. It gives them a sense of ownership and security.they are also possesive of their friends. I like a little possession, but not too much where I have to be accounted for everywhere I go or anyone I speak too
June 20th, 2009 at 10:37 am
Yes, I’m a Taurus male and I’m posessive. I think part of it is my background though. My mom was very beautiful (Pisces) and loved the attention she got. My dad (Cancer) would withdraw and find fulfillment in escape (books, magazines, movies, music etc.).
I’ve always been drawn to women who make me feel worthless. Nevertheless I do notice a pattern of posessiveness aside from that.
The positive aspect is that it can be controlled. When it is controlled the protective, nurturing side of me comes out. Which makes me predisposed to parenthood. I love being a dad. The best in me as a human and a Taurus comes out as a father.
June 22nd, 2009 at 11:24 am
I hate taurus men. Yes. They. Are.
June 23rd, 2009 at 2:30 pm
Very possesive. Stop it, or RUN if you see the signs in the beginning because it only gets worse.
June 23rd, 2009 at 3:46 pm
I am dating a Taurus man, and he tends to be mildly possesive, just not crazy. He doesn’t go through my phone or things and he don’t make a big deal about me hanging out with friends and family. Like someone said above, as long I let him know beforehand. He did admit to me he’s only posessive because he likes to protect the ones he love. It don’t bother me that he wants to know my whereabouts. Though I don’t really care to know his. I am a leo btw.
June 27th, 2009 at 3:06 am
I just divorced a Taurus man after several years together. Possessive, yes. And highly suspicious. I tried, but never felt I’d earned his trust. I could never go out of town without deleting any emails he might dig through and misinterpret. That kind of thing can kill a marriage (which it did). But to be fair, he was also stable and solid and dependable (when it came to taking care of family and his career). Fiercely loyal when it came to his children, and a stickler for doing the right thing. Even after the divorce, he made sure I’d be okay. So while the possessiveness wasn’t something I wanted to deal with forever, I can honestly say there were a few positives tossed into the mix. Not that I’d ever go back (;
July 3rd, 2009 at 6:15 pm
Yes, thats why they make much better friends. Especially when it comes to leo/taurus relationship. Even better they can be fuck buddies since the chemistry is so strong. haha
July 5th, 2009 at 6:39 am
Both my mom and step dad are Tauruses, and I would say they’re a perfect match. They’re both committed, and trust each other because they know they’re not going anywhere. They call each other’s cell phones when they’ve been out for a couple hours, like just grocery shopping. Sometimes my mom gets upset when he’s always in her business and hardly leaves her alone, but I think that may spring from Only Child Sydrome and her being used to constant privacy.
But, yes, I would agree that Tauruses are possessive.
July 5th, 2009 at 6:27 pm
I don’t know why, but I’m a Pisces and I have always had a Taurus attracted to me, and wanting me to always be by their side. Most of them enjoy playing “20 Questions” with me, especially asking me “What are you doing?” every hour on the hour. One that I’m attracted to always wants me to be by his side, even though he is googling other women. And when I can’t, he’ll text me like crazy. But I noticed that if they hurt someone they care about, they suffer, big time.
July 5th, 2009 at 7:22 pm
I’ve recently got back with my Taurus ex after 3 years. I’m a Gemini so you can imagine the fireworks in that relationship. Yes he was very possessive and controlling, and that is what split us up. However he was the most passionate and caring man i have ever met, spontaneous with his romantic gestures, and very loyal. I’m a typical Gemini in that i have always been very restless and selfish, and have walked from many relationships, but yet this one man has always held a huge place in my heart, i know the signs with this beautiful Taurus man, and hope it can be different this time, early days! Watch this space!
July 11th, 2009 at 2:08 pm
wow the chick above me just got in a relationship bout 3 weeks ago. I am almost speechless. Ive been in one for 2 weeks now. Im a virgo. Chemistry is … awesome! i mean like more then 3 times a day! and i work 2 jobs and go to school full time so its hard to find time but we manage. ! lol But he wants to marry me to. He asked me yesterday to get a tatoo of his name on me. i said no… lol him first he didnt like that response and sat around pissed off for like 3 hours bc i said i wouldnt go first. we went to QT (gas station) last night and my gay next door neighbor was there. He kept tryin to talk and get my phone number cuz he got a new phone, my taurus was sitting in the car watching everything… so i get back in the car, and he wont speak pulls out all fast and so i just told him who the guy was and why we were chatting. He suddenly relaxed and started talking about all the guys that were starring at me when i was going in. He keeps telling me he loves me but i havent said it back yet. Hes already made a key for me or his apt. I have yet to do that, he lets me drive his car and his moms car. He wont let me pay for anything! We went to eat yesterday, and as i was giving the lady the money for my sandwich he just grabs it and shoves it in his pocket and pays for it. and then gives me back the money in the car. he doesnt like to eat by himself. If i get my food first i have to wait for him to get his food and we can both sit down and eat together. Its only been 2 weeks…. lol. but the thing is i like possesive, i think its sexy in a man. i dont come across to many men that arent scared to share there true feelings about a girl and how they feel as far as who ther with and what there doing. i love it! lol
July 11th, 2009 at 5:21 pm
TJ’s comment really struck a chord with me. My ex (Taurus) used to call me several times per day (he could do that since he’s the boss at work) and he always wanted to know what I was doing. Sometimes he’d just show up in the middle of the day (it felt like he was constantly checking to make sure I wasn’t messing around, which I wasn’t). Being a Sagittarius, I like a lot of freedom in a relationship. So this was agony. “What are you doing?” “What are you doing now?” Though our divorce was recent and it’s still painful, I’m beginning to revel in my freedom. Ah, privacy.
July 11th, 2009 at 5:24 pm
P.S. Ah, but loyal? I guess it depends on the man, really. But be careful. My Taurus guy professed undying love for years, kept a watchful eye on me at all times, then suddenly announced, “I don’t love you anymore.” End of story. End of years-long relationship. No more contact. Period. Taurus the bull. Yep.
July 12th, 2009 at 6:49 pm
I met this Taurus guy. He’s so charming, so stable, very true and faithful. He is possesive. Yes, but if you make them feel he’s the only one you love and spoil him, believe me, he will stay with you forever. Once he makes a decision about the woman he wants to be with, he will do anything to be with her, keep her happy and love her as much as she loves him. Im a libra by the way and we’re so much in love!! =)
Never test his jealousy, because it really sparks out. Just love him, raise his Ego every time you can, and you’ve got him !!
Have a good day!!
July 16th, 2009 at 9:39 am
i need some advice. . . and if your not open minded dont comment please…but anyways, i been an exotic dancer for a few years now and was really starting to get a grasp on the business and about 6 months ago i met this very wealthy gentleman that basically seemed different from the other 10,000 wealthy gents in the club anyways he basically just took quite a liking to me and started paying my bills taking me on vacations put me in a beautiful new house diamonds etc…i am a single mom of 2 boys and i reallly appreciated the break from work, he has not wanted me to work since the day we met but its like i would like to work but he has helped me alot. at first i was like ok….this might work. i was and still am VERY HONEST with him since the beginning i am not up for a serious relationship but he is very needy and more and more i find myself spending more time with him then i want…at first i was blown away by his intellegence the way he spoils me and my kids and all he is doing to help me, but now months later its getting out of control…..he gets sulky and upset at the littelst things, he thinks i have all these boyfriends on the side which although i dont consider him my boyfriend i have been monogomus since i met him, that my walk is too sexy, that i dont really care if i try to go out he sulks and gets soooo upset that like, i dont end up going….today i was at my girlfriends house and had my phone off for an hour and a half and he left a message on her phone to relay me the messegae not to call him again;. its not the first time hes acted like this but its getting worse and worse. he just went thru a divorce with a woman half his age (as I am) and he is sooo jaded. i miss my freespirit i miss the independence. i dont live with him, but he manages to keep tabs on me. i mean he is amazingly sweet over the top most of the time but when he feels insecure or upset he is the worst drama king ever. i know i got myself into this situation and alot of people dont respect dancers but it is what it is, a single mom trying to survive. i am now living in a house he signed the lease on my kids love it, its way out of my price leauge but in such a safer neighborhood and i feel like he has all the power. i dont know what to do
July 18th, 2009 at 7:52 pm
I am a Taurus female. I took a test and i turns out i am 95% true taurean.
We are not Jelouse we are possesive there is a diffrence. However, if your partner never gives you a motive or breaks the trust barrier, let me tell you that no matter how much we try and you try you will absolutely not get it back. We do not like change or the unknown.
I’m dating a saggittarius and he did something simple as be late to pick me up and that forever tainted my trust for him. Where was he? Who was he with? Why does he not care enough for me that he would do this? He injected that doubt in my mind and i just cant get over it. Forever i will think this will not work.
I hate uncertainty. I dont like adventure unless it is a vacation. I will not explore what is out there either. There is not such thing as no big deal if it hurt me or bothered me.
July 20th, 2009 at 1:08 am
I am a Virgo girl and i am currently seeing a Taurus Man and he is VERY POSSESSIVE. TJ’s comment made me wonder if we where seeing the same man..LoL. I mean i have never been in a relationship with someone who was so possessive.. He literally calls me more than 5 times a day [[minimum]] and when we can’t talk he texts me. “What are you doing” 5 minutes after we get off the phone… I am a virgo so i often seek security in my relationships, so at first i loved it but sometimes it can be a bit overwhelming. I still love it because being possessed by the one you love is great… Nothing is like it. It’s only annoying when he takes it overboard. Sometimes we fight, but i know that i never want to leave him or be without him because his love is like no other.. i can tell. He brings that possesiveness into the bedroom and i swear i fall deeper in love each time. I love him, this i know.. and some say that when he is possesive of you, he loves you too… idk? Time will tell i guess.
July 25th, 2009 at 10:27 am
Hi I am a Gemini girl and I am not dating but not not in a relationship with a tarus and so far he is absolutly NOT posessive of me at all he is stable and sexy. I really find him not only intillectually attractive but physically and spiritually as well. we are both comforatable and very similar from family to views and just generate that spark an ego spark its a match made in heaven
July 25th, 2009 at 10:29 pm
Yes, i’m a taurus man, and i’m EXTREMELY possesive.
August 2nd, 2009 at 1:00 pm
I’m a taurus man and I am protective. I like my woman to have her own life, I don’t like to be the center of her entertainment, but If she says she is gonna be somewhere, and doesn’t show until late with a half assed vague excuse, my first thought is she is cheating, and the mental tick marks start, now I am going to analyze everything she does, and eventually start to become cold and slightly mean to her, hopefully making her blow her cool, and reveal what kind of shit she is into. I have found many are very dis-loyal, so I feel fine about it afterward. and don’t test a Taureans jealousy, he’ll beat the dude up, and then dump you. i know I have..and i never come back.
August 5th, 2009 at 3:15 pm
My fiance, is a taurus [I am a cancer] and he is VERYY possessive, and over protective…he is also a marine, so I did find it a little amusing how it said they like discipline.
August 5th, 2009 at 3:19 pm
I have to agree with what someone wrote, people say “he is like your puppy” but its amazing being admired so much, and adored…he calls me all through out the day, night…text constantly…if i dont pick up i get evil voicemails..[even if i am asleep] we are both military so there are things we are used to…but at the same time its beautiful keeping one another awake knowing you have to be up and about for 12 hours, swear you will go to bed as soon as you walk through the door…but there you are again working off 3 hours of “unnecessary” sleep…its so intense, and like nothing i have been apart of before…it has not dwindled one bit, infact every day it seems to get better.
August 6th, 2009 at 2:06 pm
I am engaged to a Taurean male. We met at work and started dating while we were both still in relationships. Becasue our relationship started on mistrust he has found it difficult to trust me since. I am a Gemini and used to have some of their typical trates from flitting from one to the other but for the first time in my life i have grown up, i am being honest and have changed in so many ways. I am 110% commited to him and do not want anyone else and i have not done anything to betray him but i can relate to alot of the comments added. He checks my phone, emails, facebook. I have lost count of the amount of times we have broke up and got back together. Some of the arguments have been horrific. He is older than me and i have moved away from all of my friends and family. Becuase he is so possesive i very rarely see anyone. I feel really alone at times and frightened about what my future will bring. I love him so much it hurts. I find it so hard to deal with his hurtful comments, it feels like my world is going to end. I dont know how to deal with it anymore.
August 9th, 2009 at 5:49 pm
I am a Taurus man. When I really like a girl, I am definitely possessive. I am currently seeing a sagittarius. We have been seeing each other for three weeks. I love the way she surrounds herself with good music, food, and culture. I am a homebody, while she is constantly seeking a new environment, new stimuli, and new people. It drives me nuts because she is always changing her mind. I drive her nuts because I am always calling her and texting her. I also get unnecessarily suspicious and need reassurance. I don’t mind that she goes out. I just like to be reminded that I am her man; then I feel fine. Already I can tell that I am way more attached to her than she is to me. Gotta give it more time. I suppose I need to be trusting, patient, and give her more space. I’ll take a chill pill.
August 10th, 2009 at 1:43 pm
Hi, I am a taurus female and I have been dating a taurus male for 6 months. Everything at the start was amazing, we saw each other all the time. I really felt as though he loved me. We are like twins. Almost like looking in the morror. I have never met his kids, all of them in their 20@s, infact they dont even know about me. He spends every sat evening with me. Sometimes he turns his phone off for a day or so and then it comes on and he will text me something nive. He lets me down quite a bit as his family come first. I love him so much and he tells me he loves me and wants to be with me in the future. He doesn’t seem jealous or possesive. I get quite lonely sometimes and wish that he would come over, but I do not know his landline number or have been to his house as his daughter lives with him.
I know this all sounds weird, buth there are reasons why his kids dont know about me. He is so attentive to me and makes me feel speacial when he is with me. He told me he doesn’t want to rush into living togeather as he wants it to be rite and he feels 6 months is too early. I feel sometimes that he is lying to me, but then when I see him I forget all about it. We have been away togeather for days and a couple of short holidays. Both our birthdays are at the beg of May.
Please will someone tell me what to do. I love him and I know he loves me, but he is so stubborn with his time. HELP XX
August 17th, 2009 at 11:34 pm
Hi, im a taurus and i am a male. Hells yeah we are possessive. It is in our nature, but from what we are, you have to use the right impulse on us. For a bull, use the phrase ( not literally) “it doesn’t matter, i love you”, and it will all be fine. If anyone ever see rodeo, they use the red cape or whatever for the bull to charge at. So the rodeo clown waves the cape away and the bull misses. Same goes into affect with your realtionship with a bull. He/she is charging at you with his possessiveness, stand your ground, then you just wave the cape and say, it doesn’t matter, i love you bull. n it works!!!! trust me. im a bull, i know this!!!! Use indifference !!!!!! and fear of loss (if you have to), because bull is possessive, remember that, so use his/her weakness to your advantage.
Also, from my point of view, a taurus man/woman only doubt you when he/she doesnt trust you, but once she/he accept the fact that you are trustworthy and show that you are trusthworthy, then, only then, will he/she calm down. Doubting and possessive are two different things. I read what yall have to say, and it sounds like its a doubting thing, not a possessive thing.
For the ladies here, yeah so what when us taurus guys called you 5 minutes after we hang up and ask what are you doing? IF we dont call, we would still be getting a phone call asking why didn’t you call, RIght? Happens all the time.
I am a TAURUS dude dating a VIRGO dudette.
August 19th, 2009 at 7:54 pm
I’m a taurus female. Yes, I am possessive. I’ve never dated a taurus man. However, I do have two platonic male taurus friends. I would say they are possessive. In fact its one of the traits I wish I could change. I also feel like its an aching need for security and stability. Something taureans desire so badly. We like to be in control of situations. Although its not so much as an insecurity in ourselves. Its an insecurity in the relationship. We know deep down we can’t fully control any relationship or human.
August 25th, 2009 at 5:03 pm
It is funny reading all these comments. The truth of the matter is: Taurus is possessive!! It all depends on if you can handle it or not. Me, specifically loves this and I will tell you why. They are possessive in a protection sort of way and I absolutely love it! Yes, he does ask me about guy friends and shows signs of jealousy, but it is never nasty. He is just being his overprotective self. It shows that he actually cares. Some may take this the wrong way, most fire signs cannot handle this. They need their space and think the possessive qualities are annoying and this ends badly. I have been studying couples astrology for years. I am a Pisces and I know my perfect match is a Taurus. The man I am with now I will eventually marry. I love the way he takes care of me and calls me his baby. Any other Pisces feel this way about them?
August 26th, 2009 at 4:03 am
To Brooke & Sissy: Taurus dudes are just like that. I still don’t understand why they are like that, but the Taurus that I was talking about has a girlfriend, and yet still acts like we’re in a relationship. They can love so many girls at one time it’s ridiculous, but if there is a girl they truly care about, weither they’re together or not, he will always be around the corner (most likly literally!)
August 26th, 2009 at 7:37 am
Hi all
Iam a taurus male…and im with a leo female…I admit we tend to get possessive often times because we want to have security and sanctuary on our invested love…Because taurus in reality is a very loving person, we are so weak in relationship problems specially those third party…it kills us…that’s why we act like that..But if you gain our trust…believe me taurus is so loyal and honest with you…
August 27th, 2009 at 12:07 pm
Hi, taurus male here, possessive perhaps, loyal and honest, extremely. lol. Good luck with leo girl Kish, U might need it.Interesting comments here, maybe a bit close to the bone some of them haha. From personal experience I’ve had to learn to curtail the possessive/jealousy thing but approach people now with absolute trust, dont give me a reason not to trust though as the only way is down unfortunately. I am a stickler for doing the right thing and if its recipricated look out baby!
August 28th, 2009 at 3:04 am
i am a taurus female and my 5 year relationship was with a cancer and god i love him so much and i still love him and i will always love him. i admit i am jealous and possessive but i would give somebody the shirt off my back!!!! for my ex to say “i love you baby our past doesn’t matter” i would probably drop dead from shock!!!! i love him!!! he was my little crab and i was his bull
August 29th, 2009 at 6:30 pm
I’m a pisces female, and for some reason (now I think of it) Taurus men have always been in my life. Mostly as friends, but they’re seemingly drawn to me for whatever reason. *shrugs*
Strangely enough, my first ‘real’ long term and serious relationship was with a Taurus guy. We dated for eight months, and started going out when he was fifteen and I was sixteen. Yes, I’m older than him.
I wouldn’t call him possessive AT ALL! I can’t recall any jealousy, other than some uneasiness if I said some dude on TV was hot. But, oh well. I, on the other hand, am a very jealous person and it drove him insane in the end. xD We broke up and didn’t talk or see each other for a year, but now he’s managed to slip his way into my life again… I’m that irresistable, apparently. ;D
Now I’m dating a NEW Taurus man, and I don’t really feel like he’s the possessive type. Sure, he’s EXTREMELY touchy-feely and likes to show other people that he’s with me, by constantly touching me, holding my hand, hugging, kissing, you name it. It was kind of suffocating in the beginning, but I’m starting to manage, I guess. xD I also feel like this could turn into something very, very serious…
… so apparently, this piscean is destined to have long term relationships with Taurus men, only.
(So far, that is.)
September 1st, 2009 at 8:05 pm
I can’t help to smile at Karen and Rebecca’s comment. The connection is there between Pisces and Taurus. I am like their Taurus guys, only that I am a female…lol.
I am a Taurus female, and from a Taurean’s point of view, yes we are possessive, but really in a good way.. We are possessive because we want loyalty and trust in the relationship. This would provide security of feelings for both partners. Even though we are not yet in a relationship, and we are eyeing you to be our partner, we bug you in ways you can imagine. It is not obsession or paranoia, but I just want to make sure that you will be able to handle the attitude. We are already letting you know on how we are very much willing to sacrifice everything, just for you, so in return, we are somehow expecting you would do the same, not the same of what we can offer, but at least to be at par. So it is not possessiveness in a bad taste, but in a good way. I can say the sign that can handle this kind of pressure of possessiveness is a Pisces. Pisces wants to be dominated, loved, and cared. Possessiveness is synonymous with affection and undying love. For us not to be possessive of you, would mean you are next to nothing to a Taurus. I would say for you who have Taurus partners, try to enjoy the feelings. If this would be gone, then you have lost big time. Come to think of it, all people do have possessive nature, may it be with material stuffs, or people. We are possessive of a thing, because that thing is important. Same thought applies with a person. We are possessive, because we don’t want to lose the person, because that person is important. Only, with a Taurus, this possessive streak is very, very obvious.. My Pisces guy doesn’t mind my so called “possessiveness”, because he loves it. He always says it makes him feel secured and so loved. My Pisces guy and I, it is a perfect balance.. He compensates what the stubborn bull lack. =)
September 7th, 2009 at 5:46 pm
Hi im a taurean male and yes i cant help but be possesive but im not overbearing and for all the girls that have the taurus male after you talk to that strange guy walk up to your man and hug him kiss him or make him feel more wanted and let him see you letting the other men see you do this if ya love him and want to keep him calm cause your tired of hearing his crap after just socializing then just make sure that he is most important and after awhile his trust in you will be inpenatrable and you will be the queen bee as long as he is satified in the bedroom haha
however if ever the trust is broken and he starts prodding with the trick questions where he is trying to catch you at whatever game he thinks your playing …end it its only a matter of time cause once that trust is broken everything will be tore apart slowly and with much heartache from our overbearing remarks and accusations
so yes we are possesive we want reassurance that we are the only man the best there is the best there ever was and the best there ever will be by god
lol and on that note when the moment is right hold on tight and will probably have to tell us to stop cause we dont want that moment to ever stop gggrrrrooowwwellll
reassure us and its an unstoppable force that will move worlds to make your life the best cross us and youll be sorry.. teehheee the best to you all i hope your lives are as wonderful as the yare meant to be
September 8th, 2009 at 11:47 pm
OMG! Finally found a place where I can vent. The feelings I have for my Taurus man are inexplicable. Completely out of definition and characteristics for a Sagittarius. I have found myself isolating myself from the world. I’m consumed by him. He’s consumed by me and it feels great but I have to admit that sometimes I can’t breathe. We are so different. I love the day he loves the night. I love the streets he loves being home. I finally got out this past weekend without constant supervision from my possesive Taurus. But after an hour I felt like a child without her parent and when he picked me up from the club I literally ran to him. He’s my oxygen. But you know too much oxygen…… what can I say dam if I do dammed if I dont.
What gets me about him is that he could be anywhere doing anything and he isn’t. He prefers to be with me, going thru my phone and questioning my every thought. Annoying at times yes, at other times it makes me feel loved and wanted.
Tattoos and marriage have been discussed but his outbursts slow me down and his passion speeds me up. Im on crack but its not illegal.
I wonder how I will feel six months from now when my privacy has been evaded yet again. He doesn’t trust me because he says I’m too beautiful and now we are expecting. Maybe one day I will meet his measurement of trustworthiness and this small problem might be resolved. For right now I find myself explaining my every move….so I just stand still. Until…..
September 10th, 2009 at 7:54 pm
From what I’ve seen in my life I would say Taurus is possessive. As well I know best as I am a taurus. =P Though in my 5 year relationship to Leo I learned at least to not be as possessive. It was very difficult. Especially with Leo, or at least with this Leo. =( In this experience I can at least say that in any future relationships I’ve learned enough to give a lover the space they need, that is if I am getting enough time with her. =P
September 22nd, 2009 at 5:46 am
As a taurus guy, I do think we are possessive and jealous or whatever you wanna call it. I’m very needy when my feelings are involved, but I think I’m as demanding toward myself.
I’m not trying to make excuses or anything, but I think sometime I’m living in my own little world. If I tell someone…I care for them or I love them…that’s because I really mean it…And that’s how much I trusted them. Those people are the only one in this world that would be able to actually hurt me… and if they decide to do so… I would say I have a really good memory rather then just putting it as a simple grudge.
In a relationship, I dont need your personnal diary, I dont need your daily schedule… I DO need to know I’m important, I DO need to know you cared for me.
If my sweet one is hanging out late…a few calls to let me know how things are going and to let me know she’s safe is actually expected…then again… that depends on where she is and with whom.
I’m usually very patient… but if I’m angry… I’m a freaking baby… so just let me calm down and don’t try to convince me that I’m wrong at that moment.
I’m a sucker for delicate, sweet and powerless girl that needs protection… so sulking works awesomely well against me…
I’m that kind of taurus… keep in mind that not every single taurus are the same… I know a bunch of taurus a lot more easy going than I am, but I also know a bunch of them that are way more inflexible than I am.
October 6th, 2009 at 3:08 pm
I started dating a Taurus guy about a month ago and he is showing signs of being an extremely jealous and possessive person but he would not admit it. He wants to know everything I do and where I am at all times. I just wonder if we are just starting to know each other, I don’t even want to imagine how it would be if we start something more serious.
October 22nd, 2009 at 4:44 pm
iv a taurus fiance but hes not tht possesive—infact iv to ask him if he ever gets jealous–cz i dnt have ny close male friends n i dnt usually tallk to guys much n i talk to him abt every thing—after we got engaged i even asked if hed like me to remove male friends (my college mates n juniors)he said no i dnt mind—infact i used to tell him i got so much junk maoil guys wanting to add me with silly flirtatious messages n he used to laugh with me—but he just asked me to make my profile private cz he dznt want ny one in his friend list copying out my pic for ny bad use (tht happend to some one we kno)
n i happily obliged
hes the best thing tht happend to me n im glad wer gonna b together for a lifetime
October 22nd, 2009 at 5:20 pm
n oh im a cancerian lady—-n id like to just stress on the fact tht ups n downs r all part of a loving relationship—if he duznt love u enuf he wont care abt u atall—u get all the space u have but is tht actually more important then the love of the guy u want most????
i kno my i love my fiance to death .i never thot id love ny one at all..i had horrible past experience.i told him everything n he trusts me totally…he never asked me again abt all tht—wot i say once is gud for him to belive–i dnt feel the need to lie wen i talk to him-i feel at the top of the world.
even though im quite gud in looks —he never ever questioned me.cz he knows how much i love him
hes my water,oxygen,food everything i need to live.my life is nuthing without him…n i kno he loves me more each day. but still ill learn more wen we will liv together..lolz.
October 23rd, 2009 at 2:50 am
i have dated a taurus for 4 months now. he is indeed very possesive.but not to far gone he just cares for me.I like the way he is it makes me feel cared for and loved he is the most passionate man i have met treats me with respect spoils me to death and the sex is amazing unlike anything else i am a capircorn by they way lol so we make a great match
October 24th, 2009 at 6:45 pm
I am a Taurus woman.
Both Taurus men and women are possessive. Although we always want things on our terms, nevertheless, our love is addictive! We are very sexual, sensual and passionate beings. Our words are silent, but our public displays of affection and sex is mind blowing. Our theory? We are old souls, and see ourselves as being the only trustworthy people in this modern era. We have strong ethics, when it comes to business, family values, and how we treat people. In other words, we are very dependable, but find every one else unreliable. We are very direct and honest, but thinks everyone is manipulative, secretive, phoney or sneaky. It takes a considerable amount of time to get a Taurus to trust you. Why? We fear the unknown…and most of all we fear CHANGE!
I do see my man as my posession. Honestly. Everything belongs to me! His lips, as well as his p#nis! I love to select his clothes. I love to suggest where we should eat for dinner. Pretty much, I like everything on MY terms. I know what works, so MY way is the BEST way. And I have a long planned out itenary to prove it! (laughs). I love to get what I want. I am pushy, in a secretive sort of way. Why this distorted view of L.O.V.E? Well, it takes us a considerable amount of time to let out guards down, but when it’s down…WATCH OUT! Our mates become our posession. You can only have a LOVE/HATE relationship with a Taurus. There are no gray areas. Because we approach every situation in meticulous way (ex: If it looks like a duck, then it’s probably a duck). Our possessiveness drives our mates crazy. But loving us is a natural high. Our sensuality, generosity, and acts of kindness that usually switches ‘on’ and ‘off’ lives in your heads. Departing from a Taurus is NEVER easy!
October 29th, 2009 at 10:31 pm
I have been with a Taurus man on/off for 8 years. I have literally lost count of the amount of times he has left me, only to come crawling right back after he’s hurt me enough! He is so incredibly possessive and cant bear the thought Ive ever been involved with another man. So much rings true reading all these comments. On the flip side this man is the greatest love of my life. He is fiercely loyal, protective and a wonderful father to our two children!
October 30th, 2009 at 7:24 pm
My taurus man is OVERLY possessive and jealous. It’s starting to get very annoying, yet I (aries) can’t seem to tear myself away from him
November 1st, 2009 at 3:58 pm
Well I’m a total Taurus and I have never been possessive at all. In fact I am noticably, radically not possessive.
Take last Halloween: My GF, an Aquarius from Europe, vastly younger than me (it’s a May-December relationship), and a famous and shockingly beautiful professional dancer, decided to go out on the town for Halloween with this wacky European dude, a friend who initially approached her as a fan online! I went to a different party. How do I as a Taurus feel about this? Fine! I was like: “Oh, great! Have fun! See you later!” - and I started thinking about what fun thing I was going to do on Halloween. My first answer: Stay home! But by 9pm or so I was looking through emails to find a party, and went to one, and had an impossibly great time.
I do not agree that possessiveness is a Taurean tendency. I’m very very Taurus in a lot of ways, but one thing I have in spades is confidence (typically Taurus), and this yields within me the attitude that, “well if she wants to run away with the younger European dude, that would obviously be her mistake, and I will obviously be ‘fine’ without her anyway.”
Calm, watching, taking-it-all-in, and never exploding into a reaction, no matter what we witness. That’s Taurus.
A Taurus who is possessive must have some moon or planet that is interfering with his innate self-confidence.
Since women will tend to talk about the problem they have with a possessive guy, these marginal, loser, low-self-confidence Tauruses probably get way more attention than they warrant. I assure you, ladies, that your average Taurus is not possessive of you — on the contrary there is no better choice among all the signs to guarantee you your personal freedom in the context of a committed relationship than a high-self-confidence Taurus.
But look out for those losers and whatever you do, don’t put up with their bullshit.
November 6th, 2009 at 1:11 pm
I’ve known a Taurus friend for some time…
He sometimes make comments which makes me think that he might be interested, like “Work isn’t the same because I don’t get to talk to you online.” He used to ask me to hang out all the time but I was always busy and couldn’t… One time, I agreed to come to his cocktail party and brought a few friends along. After we left the party, ALL of my friends said that he’s interested in me just from the look in his eyes when he looks at me.
So some of our mutual friends went for a short trip together. We all hung out but the entire weekend we didn’t really talk (which is weird because we usually make conversation). But he DID send me a text when I was going back home to tell me to drive safely.
Then recently we hung out but he was surrounded by girls, he’s very attractive, so girls are always clinging onto him. So I didn’t really get to talk to him or hang out with him. But everytime I look at him, he’d look at me and give me a smile… like a head tilting smile. He called me the next day after work to see if I had a good time and asked me if I wanted to go watch a movie screening with him for work. I said sure. We went and it was really platonic, he didn’t try to hold my hand or anything at all! Even though he didn’t pull back or anything when we mutually touched or when I touch his face he’d just look into my eyes. But he wouldn’t initiate contact.
We went back to his place after the screening to have dinner because I owed him a home-cooked meal I had promised a while back. So I cooked and also surprised him with a gift, Wine. He was ecstatic because he said he had been wanting a glass of wine all day. So we ate and literally told stories about our childhood and laughed every single second of it until 4 am!!! At that point, I told him I was dreading leaving because it was so late and I was getting tired… He offered for me to sleepover. I said I couldn’t. I’m so bewildered. There were no physical contact from him or anything at all… We laid side by side in bed swapping stories but he didn’t try to touch me or any of that sort.
He texts me the next day to see how my day was (to see if I was as tired as he was). And we periodically text throughout the day. And then there’s no contact the day after. And now, I’m left totally confused.
Help me understand his actions. Is he not attracted or interested in me at all?
November 9th, 2009 at 4:05 pm
What sign are you?? I think he is into you… Iam a Taurus and I have been with my Taurus BF now for ehh 8 years…. Taurus wants to do the right thing all the time so if he is serious about you (i think so) he will wait it out get to know you and see what happens and they have a lot of patients and can wait it out.. He probably likes the fact that you have been “proper”. it lets him know you are taking him serious… Oh and the thing with all the girls, he was showing off.. I am so secure with my Taurus man he can flirt with any and every girl even his ex and i dont care because he is so loyal… Taurus underneath want a girl who is respectful in every meaning of the word, literally, to people, the way they dress, act, drink, everything, even if he dont show it he is calculating all that under the surface..And if you can out respect him (be the bigger person than him, forgive where he couldent) even better! If at first you give him a felling otherwise he will hold that against you and remember. Thats where the bad relationship kicks in, if he dosent take you serious it wont be good, and he will stay in a relationship like that because of his morals. All tho it is never to late to show him you are serious. But Taurus is very possessive! and It has taken me a few messed up relationships to get that under control and my Taurus man too… and, as a side note anyone, any sigh can be a nightmare, overindulgence in alcohol or whatever, unstability, no matter what sign its not a good idea and you shouldn’t compare others that share there sign with there actions.
November 12th, 2009 at 5:06 pm
BewilderedBull-
This is normal Taurean behavior. When they feel that they are falling for you, they run or back off because they are afraid to lose control of their emotions. I believe that he still very interested and attracted to you but he just needs some time to get his emotions together. If you happen to come across and read other posts about Taurus men, you will find out that their are hundreds of other women that have gone through this same thing, including myself. You have to have a lot of patience and understanding to deal with these men. I’m not saying that all Taureans act this way but a lot of them do. I have a Taurus friend that told me that he used to like this girl but treated her sooo bad and acted like he didn’t care anything about her but in all actuality, he loved her dearly but purposely did things to hurt her. He eventually came around and they became close. That’s just an example of a Taurus male behavior when they care about you. So, don’t be shocked when he comes calling out of the blue telling you that he is down the street from your house and he will be there in a few minute and this will all be unannounced, by the way. Trust me, it happened to me a couple of times. Just leave him be for now and give him his space and he will come looking for you. Hope I helped!
November 13th, 2009 at 9:44 am
Hi Maggdalean,
I’m Gem Sun, Taurus Moon, Taurus Venus, Libra Rising, Cancer Mars, Cancer Mercury.
Thank you SO MUCH for everyone’s help! I’ve got an update to make.
So the Taurus took me out (again, to the movies) and vowed to brighten up my night because I was having a really terrible day. On our date, I had my arms wrapped around his (I initiated, of course) and his leg was touching mine but he didn’t make an attempt to try to move it or anything. I took a non-verbal communication class a long time ago and remember that if the opposite sex likes you, they wouldn’t try to move their leg away if it was subtly touching yours. So it’s a good sign, right?
We went back to his place and he prepared me dinner because he remembered that I always get hungry every few hours. I have a big appetite for my petite size.
We laid next to each other, attempted to go to sleep but was having so much fun just talking and laughing until like 4 in the morning. He can really talk up a storm!!!! And as with the first time I spent time with him, we really really make great great GREAT conversation. He definitely knows how to make me laugh and I make him laugh as well. At one point in the evening, he told me briefly about the last girl he dated and how it didn’t work because she became jealous and demanding and that the more she liked him, the less he liked her. He said he wanted a girl who isn’t always looking to be in a relationship. I briefly told him that when his friend (Bob) first met me, he asked me out on a date. And he was like, “Oh, why didn’t you go?” and I just said, “No way!” I also told him not to tell Bob that I told him this and he said, “Well… If Bob didn’t tell me he asked you out on a date then Bob obviously didn’t want me to know about it.” And I also said that I think relationships need to come very naturally and not be forced, which he agrees with me.
When I finally drifted off to sleep, he was cuddling me, his feet touching my feet and our fingers interlocking. Just the most comfortable feeling and most natural to be with him. Anyway, while asleep, my coughing woke me up and he was all, “Are you okay? Do you need water?” and I just nodded and said I was okay. Then I turned around to face him and asked, “Were you awake this entire time?” He said yes, he couldn’t sleep. I said sorry, then gave him a kiss on the cheek. It was so subconscious!!! I can’t believe I did that and was kind of surprised… haha I guess I was too groggy to even realize my own actions. But anyway, once I kissed him, it was hard to stop. I was caressing his face, running my fingers through his hair and neck, all the while, my breath and tip of my nose is lingering on his face… I placed another kiss on his cheek again, then the corner of his lips… then lightly bit his bottom lips, unsure of where and how to approach this urge to kiss him so much and so passionately. I release his lip from the nimble grasp of my teeth, and kissed him again, he responds… he perked his lips and kissed me back, both of our lips tenderly embracing and grazing each others slowly… God, I wanted to just consume him… But I managed to poise myself and and control my passion. I apologized and he said, “There’s nothing to be sorry about.” So I turn around and he’s cuddling me from behind, and I notice that he’s whimsically running his fingers on my back, FIRST time he showed any sign of initiating affection by voluntarily touching me. We both did finally fall asleep. When we finally woke up, we just laid in bed, procrastinating to wake up and get moving. I finally had to get out of bed because I needed to start my day, so I gave him a kiss on the cheek and said time for a shower!
When he was ready to go to work, he said I could stay as long as I needed. And I told him I would cook some breakfast first and then will head out. He gives me a BIG hug before he walks out the door for work and I grabbed him by his face and looked into his eyes and told him to have a good day. He said, “I’m going to be so exhausted at work. But I’ll be thinking of you to help me through the day.” When I was cooking at his place and he arrived at work, he texted me and I told him I was currently cooking him some food so he’d have something to eat when he comes home later. I also texted that I wished he was there with me. And his response was, “Same!!” AND, since my morning class was canceled, he said that I could’ve came into work with him that morning because his workplace needed extra help…
And again, he hasn’t contacted me. Does he pull back because he has to think and assess the situation?
Can you share with me your experience on how you captured your Taurus man’s heart? Thank you
November 16th, 2009 at 7:27 pm
I love my boyfriend even if he is a little possesive, but it’s mostly sweet (I can’t let him know that though!) He’s also very protective. He does need me to explain to him that my friends are friends, and they are not interested in more… but he’s not too bad with that. I’m a virgo, and we get along great.
November 20th, 2009 at 4:52 pm
i am taurus male , and i know about my weakness …. so far i try to avoid any love because i already experience the dark side in me.So i decided to love myself. Well until now i still prefer become single man that dont have family or childrenn.
Sometimes money is more reliable than love eh ese …
November 22nd, 2009 at 11:37 pm
So im terribly confused about a taurus man i like. its been about 3 mths since we’ve meet and at first i was really into him and at first i was really really into him but he told me that since he had been single for so long, he didnt want a gf at the moment. and i respected that so i tried to be his friend and i backed off but he always seemed to keep me around somehow. he would play emotional songs whenever i would say i would stop talking to him out of the frustration or he would ask me advice. well over the past three months we’ve done the deed only 2 times. and from the beginning he was very honest in telling me that he had a f*** buddy and that he was talking to other girls because he didn’t know what he wanted yet. well i told him that i didnt know what i wanted yet either because im only 20 and i still have my whole life to decide and so we kept it as friends. well i saw him about a week ago and at some point we ended up making out for like 30 minutes and we’re both showing immense affection. after the kiss he starts holding my hand and petting me like im the only one in the world and then later on that night he introduces me to his parent (because he lives with them and we’re in his room when he shows me the other girl (not the fuck buddy that he’s talking to. and you know i complimented her and i was fine with it because even she couldnt get him to go out with her exclusively if she tried (which she’s doing and proves he’s a true taurus). and the funny thing about it is im the only girl that he’s talking to that knows about her and his fuck buddy, the other girls dont even know who i am because he tried to tell one of them and she freaked out. and before i went to see him he seemed to switch up his idea of having a gf. he stated that he wouldn’t mind having a gf as long as it was loose until he was ready to make it serious since he doesn’t have a job or isn’t in school at the moment. so why would he tell me about the other girls and not the other girls about me and each other? well that night he is caressing me and kissing me and is more bold than he was before the kiss. he even called me baby at one point. and that was the second time we had sex. well i drive back home the next day and i had to go to work and he’s txting me making sure im okay and what not and so yea. . .im so unsure about him. he’s told me he doesn’t mind if i date or have sex with other man (im dating other men but not having sex with them) but he’s all like if you’re talking to anyone else, just let me know since i’ve told you everyone im talking to. and i agreed to it of course but im like why do you care?(in my head of course). and i asked him afterwards why he held my hand and was so sweet to me and he said he didn’t know why, it just seemed like a nice thing to do. I havent talked to him in a few days and im trying to give him and myself space while i hang out with other guys but im unsure about his intentions. . .
November 28th, 2009 at 11:16 am
Ok well I kind of sort of have this thing with a Taurus man. I am not his girlfriend and we’re technically not “going out” however we flirt so much. And everyone thinks we go together. Everyone calls him my boyfriend and me his girl. And like for example we were at the club. And I was just dancing just to and he like possesively pulled me to him and I started dancing on him. And then when one of his coworkers tried to dance with me afterwards he grabs my hands and he’s like I don’t wanna see you dancing with no other guy again. Wtf lol. I was just like boy whatever you ain’t my boyfriend haha. But I thought that was kind of cute though
And like if he’s around and some other guy calls me over or whatever and me and him were just talking he’ll walk with me and kind of make it seem like oh you better not be tryin to flirt with her.
L0L. So yes I definately agree their possesive. But it’s cute to me. Oh and I’m an Aries by the way.
December 2nd, 2009 at 4:58 am
i have a friend dating a taurus man at present and non commital and extremly possesive of her, calling her like 50 times a day checking her every move, really overbareing, and wont let her meet any of his family or tell them about her, and is a cheap-ass - rings her and then ses can you ring me back!. then 5 minutes later rings her again. And he doesnt like her talking to any other men, no matter who they are, married or not. Thats the only taurus i have heard of though.
December 2nd, 2009 at 10:54 pm
well reading all of these comments has me shaking in my boots about dating my new taurean man we JUST started dating well i cant even say we are dating but we are in the “just talking” stage feeling eahother out, hes so sweet tho and sooo handsome and built and he knows juat what to say to make me blush and smile he seems so dreamily perfect ya know! but reading these has me a little affraid…like cold feet what should i do i know im sensitive and they can be a little harsh but i only like possessiveness in the bedroom lol so hopefully we work out because i rrreeaally like him alot!
December 7th, 2009 at 11:57 pm
i got the though that taurus guys dont fall in love easy? but anyway im really in to a taurus guy that iv been datin for three weeks and at least see him weekly as sre new,but on the third date at the bar he invited me to join him at he introduced me to some of his mates so i thought id get along with them and have a laugth in a friednly way, and through the night on two occasions he spoke out to the 1st friend “are u tryin it”?….i was suprised he said that?but kinda like it knowin he was noticein me gettin along,2nd time he he metioned to his other mate “are yu tryin it with her”? this time i spoke and said”no,were just chattin”….lol…….i mean i was thier with him and interested in him so why does he think they would take my interest?……but anyway i have fallen for him big time but not lettin my emotions take over….its still new, he might break my heart as they are know for being cheaters?…..by virgo
December 8th, 2009 at 10:54 pm
i enjoy hes little moments of possesiveness lol, that way i know hes devoted to only me (i hope) and i enjoy reassuring him im all his and we just click……….love my taurus guy…..been together for ages now
December 8th, 2009 at 11:00 pm
been seeing my taurus friend for 6mths now and am comftable at the pace were going, we havnt mentioned being a couple but the way he expresses his feelings to me and the sweet possesivness actually turns me on……and i like diffusein it when i want i adore him to bits
i hope we last because im falling in love
December 14th, 2009 at 10:04 pm
@ mary J i dont think the way that man acted had anthing to do with him bieng a taurus he is just an awful person and did not deserve you or any other woman for that matter T applaud u for leaving
December 16th, 2009 at 3:31 am
I am a Cancer who have been dating a Taurus for 3 months now and I can’t seem to figure him out. I’m a very attractive and independent woman and I think he sometimes holds off from showing his possessive side because he doesn’t want me to know that it’s there. He will joke around like he’s concerned about certain things but for the most part; he says he’s not serious. I guess as time passes, I will continue to see the true him unfold.
December 16th, 2009 at 10:30 am
well my friend has well and truly worked out her partner for being a total control freak, she went to a staff chrismas party and he rang insesently until she left because he didnt want her near other men!! And threatens to leave her everytime she sais she has a male friend she is going to catch up with or see on just friends terms, absolute secretive contol freak jerk!! And he is still with his ex-wife on top of it, she is gunna leave him thankgod!!
December 16th, 2009 at 3:05 pm
this taurus guy has a baby and says he loves me and i havent said it back.but i do adore him.he started to be suspicious as i’m not always with him.i didnt want to get my herat broken as i recently broke up with my boyfriend.he always text me and wanted to know where i am and what time im knocking off at work and to pass by his house as soon as i arrive at my area.i loved it!i guess he wanted to make sure i was really at work!lol.and i was falling for him deeply.but didnt trust him since he has a baby and the mother of the baby was still not over him.so i decided to keep my distance but he continued to contact me.i know we made a perfect match.he was so honest and caring and loved me to bits!i was scared!
December 16th, 2009 at 3:11 pm
i need advice!what do i make of a taurean guy who tells me he loves me all the time but his ex keeps bugging him?he feels bad fro dumping her and wants to do the right thing.ah!the lovemaking is amazing!hes caring and introduced me to his friends.takes me with him wherever he goes.but the ex keeps nagging and i tend to sulk at this and stopped talking to him.what should i do?continue ignoring him or kick the ex’s butt?!lol lol.plz help!
December 16th, 2009 at 4:21 pm
My sons father is a Taurus and we lived together for 4 years and yes he was a possessive nightmare…Controlling and he physically abused me and put me in the hospital he even kicked me in the stomach while i was pregnant with his son…He beat up others and is very violent busting windows out in my house violent temper and my son is now 19 and his father hasn’t changed I thought it was just me but he does this stuff to every woman that he dates…but he was a good provider and he had a great since of humer and was a ok lover at the time as far as sexually but other then that he was horrible I finally left him when he hit me in the eye with a remote control that was the straw that broke the camels back oh and Im an Aquarious.
December 18th, 2009 at 3:00 pm
I am a Pisces female and I’ve been involved with my Taurus man since this past September. I’m glad I found this site because it explains alot about my powerful connection with this man. I’ve never experienced anything like this in my life. We were both seeing other people when we started out but the feelings between us became too powerful to the point when we were with them we desparately desired each other. I tried on three separate occasions to force him out of my life but and this is crazy; I would feel sick physically without him. We could only stay away from each other for two days at the most. He asked me recently if I love him and I told him yes I was falling for him and he said he felt the same. I have a male best friend that I’ve been friends with for about 7 years and I told him about him from the beginning. Now he’s starting to be bothered by it even though I’ve shown him texts showing how platonic me and my best friend are. I asked him if it bothered him that I was friends with him and he got very short with me and said I DON’T KNOW and then didn’t want to talk about it anymore. He calls me and asks me what I’m doing, he pops up at my door, and one night I was told he was sitting outside my door smoking a cig and I didn’t even know it! The crazy thing is I LIKE all this. This man pampers me. He doesn’t tell me he loves me all the time but he SHOWS it. It’s crazy! Anything I need him to do for me he’s on top of it. I like the fact that he’s dominant in our relationship. I find it sexy. I was thinking something was wrong with me for feeling this way. I can’t be without him. He’s in every thought. One Sunday I slept until about 2 in the afternoon and I woke up to voicemails from him telling me to wake up he missed me was going crazy without me. When I finally did see him he said he was so sick without me that he made me a CD of songs that explained how he felt about me. He gave me the CD and I will treasure it forever. It was filled with old love songs.
December 18th, 2009 at 8:15 pm
Jessica,
Taurus men seem to collect their ex girlfriends and keep them as friends. I am a Taurus, And I let relationships go when I leave. But The last Taurus man that I dated lied, cheated, and dated and played with several woman. He still wont admit it to this day. Cause often Taurus men like to be thought of as truth and faithful. Not saying that all are. But if the Ex- girlfriend is busting into the relationship, that is probably cause he wants her to.
December 22nd, 2009 at 7:21 am
Im a pisces girl and yes its reallly weird how much Im attracted to my bf (taurus)
I’ve not had this feeling with anyone else before. It goes deeper than love to
me. Idk, I dont have words for it. Yeah hes really possesive and I’ve stopped
talking to him mounths at a time cuz of that. But the more we talk about it
the better we both get. He gives more space now. Hes the best cuddler ever. The
sex is amaaazzing though!whoe!x3
December 24th, 2009 at 2:15 pm
Taurus male v’s Aries female
Great friends and lovers, get annoyed at each other at times but will not turn my back on him at all, and he don’t with me, he’s the one i trust, yes they are possessive and jelious but with my personality i attract men which he didn’t like and he attracted women which i didn’t like. this dude is a charmer
Relationship wise, Damn secretly i’m possessive and jelious too and will protect him in any way i can, (don’t think he knows that ) This dude is the bomb
December 27th, 2009 at 1:18 pm
As a Taurus man, simply put, we’re only possessive when we’re given a reason to be that way. Over the years, I’ve only found myself being possessive of someone when they’ve flirted excessively with another person, or a person has flirted with my partner, and my partner has done nothing to rebuff the flirts. That’s pretty much it.
A lot rides on whether a partner is really “present” in the relationship. If I feel like I’m putting more work into a relationship that my partner, insecurity sets in, and then the possessiveness comes out.
December 28th, 2009 at 6:02 pm
Yes, we are possessive creatures.
The reason?
We are so selective that when we do find a woman that fullfills us, we want to make sure we can keep her, often to our detriment.
Some women like a dominant type guy and those will like this.
Independent-type women will not do well with a Taurus.
December 29th, 2009 at 12:04 pm
Hi i am cancer woman and i have been seeing a taurus man since July 2009.And i was overwhelmed by the level of attention i got in our first meeting,we were introduced to one another by my longtime friends
whom met him about a year ago.It started out with polite intelligent conversation and then before i knew it, it went from wanting to hold my hand to caressing my back and in the mean time flirting with young candy!!!!!big turnoff,no love lost here so i continued with the night out enjoying myself, long story short he hunted me down the more i hid or ran this guy was on my tale, i ended up giving him a lift home which is what he want to do earlier in the night to take me home and watch tv or listen to music over a few wines.He asked to me dinner at his place the following week and i accepted,I turned up late i had had a few drinks with a mutual female friend ,it was all good but as the night got on the wine was flowing and conversation was sweet.His ex rang and i lost the plot big time,do not remember much after that but woke up tightly nestled in his bed in his arms.Embarrassed by it all and not sure what really happened i apologised and left the scene.Early stage and one i will choose to forget and left things as they were,he said heart can forgive but head don’t forget.
2 weeks went by and i carried on with my norm thinking nothing of it but a first time bad experience,and there we were again but both standoffish and nothing much to say actually he totally
ignored me but night ended back at his place, and is still that way a few times a month, to me it is the longest casual affair i have ever had, for him i am not sure what it is, but in the months that have past he has been rude,ignores me when with close friends,teases me,flirts with other woman, has shown his jealousy whew!!! when i talk to my male friends, honestly i am confused by all of this.
I have grown very fond of him and wonder if there is anything in it worth holding on too,cause between his disappearing acts and txtin when he wants to modes, when we are together it is bliss REALLY.So does he sleep with many of his potential females that he has selected or does he not sleep with the one he has chosen,there for i am just a role in the hay?.
ps i trust him and i am still comfortably happy with my own life which ever way it goes.
January 14th, 2010 at 3:17 am
All men are possessive regardless of their sign. And all women are jealous. Some are better at hiding it than others. It’s simple as that.
January 21st, 2010 at 1:12 pm
I have been with a taurus man for 7yrs now don’t know how?? Love blinds. Iam possesive he pretends he isn’t but he is and jealous as hell. Cheap as anyone can be boring in bed and if we do today tomorrow I don’t get any. I sometimes think might be fact that he is 40 and am 29?? Iam a taurus am always in heat. Lol I want sex now and a hour later and all the time and everyday Iam not cheap at all. Iam more adventurous luv fun fun n iam the type that’s always thinking outside the box he’s the oldfashioned boring ass. He’s violent when he drinks and does nothing around the house. Did I mention cheap? How can I a taurus women be so different from my taurus man? the only similarity is possesiveness and jealousy me more than him. When I checked up my ascendant I found out it was aquarius. I know he’s venus is in aries and he’s got a lot of leo influences. Please explain. My b day is may.6 ‘80. His is may 2. 71
February 10th, 2010 at 5:41 pm
Okay Gals…Gents,
Mom was a Leo….She met a Taurian by the name of Bud Huff….They stayed together for over 30 years….(Just to see who would win the battle, I’m guessing….cuz everyone hated him!)….At the end She won the battle; but not without a fight to death. I detested the man/person or whatever. He was …in my honest opinion….Purely evil. Much more insued as a child.
He was brutally cruel to everyone, unless he wanted to rob, or to suck money out of the next victim. Then he became a person who was very friendly and could agree with just about anything so long as he got his way. Then…..he would become a defender….I BELIEVE THEY CALL IT TWO FACED. That was my first experience with a Taurian.
I am an Aries.
They say a Taurus never forgets….Well we Aries dont either.
I have met a Taurus that seems to be a very likable person…..
I have slept with him…
I met him by an ad in the newspaper for beging a tenant…about 3 months ago, and things went further than I anticipated.
He then wanted to invest in a business together…but I had to do all the work. Go figure!
I have the money to buy a home by myself, but somehow felf obligated to stay for more than a few months.
Twas the Eve before Christmas that he wanted me to meet his ex wife and her new lover. BTY…. They had…the ex and new lover just bought a new home together, in my area, that I just sold out of….BIG MONEY.
The Christmas night was okay…then the ex asked us to join them for New Years…..I said NFW!!!!
A couple of days later….Friday at 10:30 just when I want to relax….BLAM!!!!! The wife calls….
Lets go and collect her and her lover (approx 40 mins away) downtown Victoria BC they went to a Scotch tasting event with the car in hand and couldnt drive it back home. LOL
Take a F CAB!!!! I say!!!!
I said NFW cuz I thought it was just plain rude on both parties side and I didnt feel well.
Heres where it gets good….cuz he then blames me for being tooooooo judgemental of his ex…oh ….bty….hes only been divorced for 12 yrs. He says that because I said that a normal person AND HER NEW BO….would schedule a means for getting home before parking your ass at a bar, I was being personal
FUCKING EH!!!
TAKE A FUCKING CAB BITCH!!!
Help me out Gals….I have been there for him but he still seems to be making it like its me
But he is still dwelling on his ex wife and her new husband.
He is Moody,….wants me to always kiss hiss ass,
I will move in the summer unless you all have another feeling……..
February 14th, 2010 at 8:12 am
Wow, where do I start. Well Ive been having a long term relationship with my bf for close to 3 years now. And let me tell you, he is the sweetest most caring guy I have ever met.I love him from his possessiveness to his protective nature. Sure at first like many here thought that his possessiveness and jealousy was a burden sometimes, but Ive learned that after talking to him about it, it was the way he expressed his love for me. I left him once because of not understading his ways, but now im back, and I doubt Ill ever leave his side. Heh on this Valentines day I just wanna tell him that I love him so so much, and that I cherish everything hes done for me. Never have I met a man who loves me, accepts me and understands me all at the same time, everday. I love you baby! And I always will. Btw Im a Scorpio. OH and, if they ever get mad over anything, just let them breathe, cuz they are stubborn as hell. And Im stubborn too so, you can alredy see theres a problem there haha. One has to stand down always. If one is mad, the other has to remain calm, and vise versa. At first I thought I was the only one who had a guy who was caring and sweet and possessive, but now I see LOTS of women having the same experience. If anyone has any doubts about leaving their taurus man, or woman (can apply to both) think about everything before you make your decision, who knows maybe it was just a communication problem. Happy Valentines Day everyone
February 16th, 2010 at 5:29 pm
i don’t know about that one . . . one taurus male i knew didn’t really seem to know what he wanted. this could be argued for all men, but i think taurus men have a real weakness for cute and pretty. the one i know grouses a lot about how bad good looking female celebrities look without makeup. up until he saw that he sang their praises.
February 25th, 2010 at 12:49 am
I am a capricorn female and am dating a taurus man. We are extremely compatible and he shows no signs of possessiveness because he trusts me. If you prove to a taurean that you are trustworthy, he will not be possessive or jealous. My taurus man is not the jealous type at all. He even lets me study with male friends. He does text and call me daily but I actually don’t mind it. He has his own interests and does not expect me to be with him 24/7. In the end not every taurus is possessive.
March 1st, 2010 at 9:02 pm
The pattern of feedback on possessiveness of us taureans is amazing. I am taurus bloke, can be quite stubborn when my mind is fixated on something (or indeed someone) but I wouldn’t say I’m possessive. I am much more for clear communication where I’ll set out what I need from my partner so I wouldn’t feel the need to be that possessive or jealous. It has worked out well mostly but if I get the feeling that I’m just being lied to willy-nilly regardless of my patience and respect for space then I’m more likely to give up relationships (including friendships) rather than fret over them. On that note I LOVE virgo girls: they seem so open to establishing clarity. And god they are so pretty and ooze class. Although i hate their nagging - I still luv em.
March 3rd, 2010 at 1:50 am
I’m a taurus girl and can sometimes be possesive of the people I love, but only if someone is hurting them emotionally or physically. But I don’t get possesive if my boyfriends are hanging out with other girls or even flirting with them, so I don’t think Im really the jealous type at all.
March 6th, 2010 at 1:51 am
My first boyfriend at age 14 was a Taurean. He was quite possessive. He never allow me to look at another guy…..even if I was commenting about another guy’s clothing or the way they carry themselves. When I would walk away, he would hold me tighter….almost getting angry. His anger turned into the wrath of jealousy. I understood his fear which meant that he may lose me. I was not the playing around type. I, too yearned for commitment and emotional security in a relationship, but I also respect space and privacy, which this Taurean had a problem giving out. His possessiveness later turned aggressively into violence. I had to break away fast and into protective custody.
March 16th, 2010 at 8:43 pm
I am a Taurus Guy and didn’t realize it but yea I guess I am possessive. Not in a bad way I mean I just need to know that she doesn’t hide anything from me. There should be trust I suppose in a relationship and I hate betrayals. But I am loyal too and a good friend. Stubborn yes and those spasms of short temperedness I hate about myself but can’t do nothing much about it.
I wish I could overcome my shyness and be a freakin playa but strangely can’t. The loyalty sticks in my heart and I see other women as blurrs cept my girl lol.
March 22nd, 2010 at 5:05 pm
I am a Gemini and was dating a Taurus guy for almost 7 months. And it’s one of those when a fairytale has gone bad. We got along perfectly, we had such a strong chemistry that there were not enough hours in the day for us to enjoy each other’s company. I was falling in love with him, but I never told him that because I wanted to be sure he felt the same way and hear the words of love from him first. And I knew that a Taurus man shouldn’t be rushed, so I was trying to give him all the time to develop such strong feelings. I didn’t think he was jelous, but boy I was wrong. There were slight messages of him having certain insecurities when he would joke about me not answering my phone because I could be on a date with another man. I ignored them for most of the time, and just joked back at him. But then one day he went into my messenger and dig up a conversation that I occasionally had with this guy from a very long past. We didn’t have ANY romantic conversation, on top it was clear fromt he conversation that I was avoiding it. This Taurus guy manufactured something terrible in his head, and then later on started coming up with all other reasons why our relationship wouldn’t go anywhere. He later proposed to stay friends while he figures out his emotions, etc. But he became a real jerk and bully. He was suspecting me at everything and I just didn’t deserve such treatment. I was always loyal to him and I tried to proving it. But I guess once the bull gets in his head, it’s there forever. So I just wanted to say that if you think your Taurus man is very jelous, think again if you want to date him. You don’t want to walk on eggshels your entire life and be treated like a criminal if you make alittle mistep. And taurus guys just need to learn how to forgive because you might be loosing the love of your life for very stupid reasons. Good luck!
May 21st, 2010 at 7:54 am
Wow, there are quite unique replies here. Ladies, I am a Taurus and I apologize to you for some of the men that didn’t act like men in the first place, which is what gives all zodiac signs a bad rap. When I was younger I found myself being possessive to a degree but only because I wasn’t ready to settle down and I was doing things that I shouldn’t have so I figured my mate was too. I stopped being possessive in my mid-twenties and it has been smooth ever since (I’m 40 now). I find that I fully trust the women that I’ve gone out with over these last 15 years or so because I have been trusted as well. Now this doesn’t mean in any way that I don’t notice when other men look at my woman, I like it. She’s a Gemini and we’ve been together for 8 years. She’s beautiful and I often tease her about how many men hit on her today, but I’m not possessive about it. Guys who mistreat their women because they think every guy they come in contact is trying to pick up on them have a self esteem issue. Relax guys, your woman is with you for a reason, don’t tarnish it because other guys appreciate what you have, enjoy it!
May 25th, 2010 at 2:41 pm
I met at Taurus and I am a Capricorn. We are suppose to be the best match on the chart for everything. He was an actor in CA and VP of a production company. He currently lives in WI. He has been around and enjoyed his life as he says even though it wasn’t as Christian as it should have been. Let’s just say he is a player and a playboy. He is so into me he says and tells me he loves me all the time. I tell him love is from God and it shouldn’t be played with. He tells me he hasn’t fallen in love with anyone in 25 years till he met me. I used his computer and came upon his sent email and read them and he had current women who were in love with him and he was loving in his emails. All the while he is trying for me to be his lover and telling me he has things to take care of so we can be together, like could I have patience. He has been single for 18 years and married 3 times. I have a pure soul and don’t want to tarnish it but I also want to give him the benefit of a doubt. I will be seeing him this weekend and will be cautious and not as loving. He will have to love me and with no sex and we will see what happens. Any comments?
May 26th, 2010 at 8:43 am
I am a Taurus male, and yes I am possessive when I love someone. I dont understand women anymore. I thought i did, but that understanding lessens every day. Ladies, why is it so bad that a man want to give you everything he has? Has society really messed you up that much that you think that you need space and time to party? Why not be happy with someone who love you? So maybe we text and call too much. Would you rather have a man that ignored you and didnt care about what you did? All we need to be happy is to know that you are ours and that you are not going anywhere. Every once in a while just send us a nice text letting us know that you are thinking about us. Maybe stroke our ego every now and then. The response from us will be greater than you could ever imagine.
Please for the sanity of all the Taurus men out there. Just accept our love and give it back. Dont play games because it will only lead to the crazy jealousy. We tend to give you our entire hearts and lives and when we dont feel that given back to us, IT HURTS!! We become the “raging bull.”
June 17th, 2010 at 2:09 pm
umm I am a virgo too and I just met this taurus he is sooooo hot and dominating i wonder how long I should make him wait. I dont want to spoil a good thing before it starts.
July 2nd, 2010 at 7:34 am
Hey, so I might be a little younger than the rest of you, I’m 18 and in a relationship going on 5 months with an 18-year-old Taurus male. I’m a Leo, by the way. Yes, he is possessive, especially if my guy friends are texting me while I’m with him, and when we spend time together he likes all of the attention to be focused on us/him, even if we’re not doing anything exciting. So, the possessiveness can get a little wearing, and as several others have said, I wish he would trust me more, but I have to admit that I am a bit of a flirt and I like to keep men on their toes because it gives me more security in a relationship–so the jealousy works out sort of. But other than that and the usual clash of wills, we get along great and really seem to complement each other (especially when it comes to the physical, we have a hard time keeping our hands off of each other!)I mean the physical side is like WOW. But mainly, I think that we ladies, regardless of sign, just have to take the good with the bad, and if you can’t take the bad, then end it all, but don’t go hating on the Taurus male,it’s not necessarily his fault.
July 6th, 2010 at 3:10 am
I’m a pisces if that counts for anything, and my ex boyfriend was a Taurus. He was extremely stubborn, but he was also extremely jealous. I was hanging out with some friends on one evening, and I wasn’t available to invite him to the event. He got so angry that he wrote angry emails to me, immature, angry things about me hanging out with my friends and not him. ( He’s 20 and so am I )
Later, after we broke up ( I ended it ) I told him I’d be out of town for a week, and that if he needed anything to just shoot me an email. Apparently, he got so angry when he wasn’t able to talk to me (during the week that he KNEW I was unavailable…) he deleted all pictures he had of me.
My Taurus boy was shy, sensitive, stubborn as hell, and jealous. Trying to get him to have a conversation with me was like pulling teeth. We didn’t click well emotionally. ( I didn’t as much, he became more attached than I did- clingy) but the chemistry between us was insanely high.
July 8th, 2010 at 2:13 am
I’m a Gem been married to a taurus for 11 years…he helps ground me! He can be posessive but when he understands I need space he gives it! His moon is in Aquarius and mine in Cancer so I think that’s why we are so comp…plus he answers when I call…he spoils me and he loves me for me…I think if you land a Taurus your set with a romatic who loves to please you and genuinly loves you…what other sign could be better?
July 12th, 2010 at 1:29 pm
Hi Folks,
It is funny here, I married my wife (she’s Leo) 10 years ago and I don’t think that I’m not possessive and that’s all wrong, I admit my self that I’m actually possessive, in very controlled way, scary I mean…
Realize that I build my environment and my world so connective, so I can hear a misstep from my partners, I don’t realize it until very recent time that she want to make a commitment that I can’t read / touch her Cellphone, and she don’t read mine. I just realize that I made this conditions, I always I asked her to bring my cell phone (if we go together, and I will treat her like my personal assistant to bring my cellphone as a symbol of higher trust of a commitment that nothing to hide)…and now going more on highly connected era like blackberry and all that things just drive me crazy, when she just connected with broader world that I couldn’t control.
August 10th, 2010 at 12:56 pm
I am a capricorn woman who is seeing a taurus male. We split up recently and now we live apart and see each other a few times a week. The reason we split is because we used to row constantly and he is mean with money and is a little selfish. I am very giving and get hurt when he can’t give now and then. I don’t know if he is possessive as he does not reveal his true feelings a lot of the time. But I know that when i go out and return home he is very moody, so I guess that reveals something. He does look uncomfortable when he is around me and i am talking to any male but he never reveals he is bothered. I have been with him 4 years and he is still difficult to work out. Possessive? not sure. Untrusting? yes I think so. Capricorn and taurus are meant to get on so well, yet I argue with him more than any other partner I have been with. Things are more heated maybe this is because we care more, who knows. Something infuriating yet addictive about taurus men, anyone else find this??
August 17th, 2010 at 7:18 am
Hmm, been married to one for almost 6 yrs. now & yes they are possessive & jealous. They will go thru your FaceBook account & texts. He has threatened to kill me, when I tried to seriously discuss a divorce with him 3 yrs.ago. He is a good father, but a horrible stepfather because he never seems to forgive the mistakes my oldest child makes. In my experience you cna’t be weak with this sign, they don’t respect tears. You have to be firm & use any means necessary ( including threatening to leave ) to your taurus man in line, otherwise they will trample all over you!
August 30th, 2010 at 5:54 pm
I am a cancer male, and my b/f is a taurus male. I have a lot of gemini in my chart. My bday is june 26. I’m impatient, and have had to learn a lot of patience with this man. However, after a month of courting and going out on dates, he finally nonchalantly asked hey, you wanna be b/f’s i said sure. haha From the beginning we had an unspoken attraction, its like we knew our roles exactly and where we fit in, in each others lives. He hasn’t shown much posession, only a couple times when i went out with friends, but i like it. To me it feels like he cares. However, he doesn’t seem possessive at all, because i dont give him a reason to doubt me. I’m constantly giving him attention, gifts, loyalty, cooking for him and spending time with him, sex etc…so he feels fullfilled in the relationship. I stress communication with him, and i give him a secure environment to do so…taurans have a hard time expressing their feelings verbally. For me knowing how he feels verbally, when we aren’t together physically is essential. So far things are good. The relationship is moving at a slower pace than i’m used to. Being a cancer, i love intensity in a relationship..emotions run wild, and run my life. I’m honest with him about my feelings, and my insecurities…and so far he doesn’t judge them, yet is trying to understand them. He is scared…just as much as i am. I understand him completely, and like a water sign…i do control and influence some of the relationship (behind the scenes). Like all cancers i have trust issues, and i trust him..and i’ve let down my walls to do so. Which is fricken scary, and can add to my moodswings when he doesn’t do some of the things i want him to. BUT i have to understand people do things in their own way, you can only be suggestive in ways that you need things done, that make you feel better. Over time this relationship is unfolding, layer by layer and its exciting and very emotionally drivin. And that concludes my paragraph essay! lol
September 3rd, 2010 at 2:26 am
i’m a gemini girl and i’ve been with my now hubby for the past 18 yrs…yes he’s a taurus …but to date i’ve yet to see a jealous side to him. I sometimes try to flirt to see if he would just give in and be a little jealous …but nope nothing zero nada….lol. I love him dearly and we hardly have any misunderstandings….we actuallly think alike …and that’s weird i know. So in short gemini’s and taurus can live happily together.
September 5th, 2010 at 8:32 pm
hi…
taurus guy are very possessive ones..even if you talk to ur guy friend, it is not acceptable to him..but ya if a taurian guy is in love he will give 110% to make the relationship successful..but when they hate its like u don exist for him at all..i’ll say they are extremes..difficult to deal with.too demanding…
October 16th, 2010 at 10:23 pm
I’m a Taurus guy and to be honest I’m slightly concerned reading some of the tales of women dating ‘Taurus’ blokes… Seriously, if they’re that crazy about your email, facebook, friends and other activities that you need to take care of in your life I’d suggest they’ve got personality problems based on co-dependence and low self esteem - NOTHING to do with their star sign at all.
Being a man of 38 I’m confident enough and secure in myself not to have to check up on the lady I happen to be dating. Believe me the ‘truth will out’ if they happen to decide to stray or be un-faithful and NO-ONE should put up with this sort of low-rent behaviour, male or female.
If you can’t trust the person you’re with then either you can’t trust yourself or you have a number of issues… I was married for seven years. I absolutely believed my wife would never cheat on me. I was not jealous at all. She was free to make friends, go out, have fun and we went out together too. It was a total surprise to me when it finally dawned on me that she had been unfaithful. Now I’m not saying we didn’t have other issues but hell, I had absolute faith in my lady, right to the end.
For those of you interested she was a Sagittarius, we have two beautiful children together and have both moved on. Since I’m loyal I’ve still got her back. Most of my friends and family can’t understand why I still care about her or why we’re friends. Carrying a grudge is a total waste of time and energy but lots of people don’t think like that of course.
I’ve read elsewhere (can’t remember where) that it takes a setback or disaster for Taureans to ‘wise up’ spiritually and actually evolve. Maybe this is what happened to me?
Above the significance of planets and the movements of the universe and energy first learn to love and respect yourself. The L’Oreal advert is (amusingly) a good maxim to live by, remember ‘You’re worth it’ all decisions about who you date and what you allow (or don’t) should flow from this point.
Peace Out
November 3rd, 2010 at 2:16 am
I’m a virgo girl and have recently (as in within the last week) started seeing a taurean guy. We went on a date this week and spent the whole time just talking constantly! He’s so intelligent and I’m completely relaxed around him. So far he doesn’t seem that possessive. He doesnt text me that often unless I text him 1st and he told me one of the reasons he split up with his ex was because she hassled him and text/phoned him all the time. He seems lovely so far but time will tell. We’re going to a concert tomorrow night so our 1st time in that sort of enviroment together may just show his true colours. I will have to wait and see.
On a slightly different note I dated a pisces for over a year and he was extremely possesive. He used to call me and text me all the time. (every half hour maximum) asking where I was, who I was with and what I was doing. Not only am I a virgo I am also an only child. I’m used to and enjoy my own company and some privacy and space to myself. I was engaged to that pisces and his possessiveness and paranoia drove me away. We don’t even talk anymore it is a great shame when we were such great friends. However my taurean doesn’t seem to be going that way
January 13th, 2011 at 6:06 pm
Wow…what a question. I am a Virgo woman and I am MARRIED to a Taurus Man. Possessive…yes, crazy…no. We are both possessive of each other in a healthy way and over our children as well. I would have to say that I am the crazier one of the 2 of us. Lol! With a Taurus man, you must be VERY upfront with them and firm with them as well so that they will get the picture. I have dated Pisces, Scorpios, Aries, Aquarius, Cancer and Gemini men and they were either way too emotional or complete a-holes for me. I am a tough woman and I NEED order in my life or I will lose myself and my Taurus husband is learning that. We have been together for 7 years in May and married for one year in May. We have had some financial hardships and we both still have a lot to learn, but according to our zodiac despcriptions…this is not something that we should be going through. NEVER let your Tauras man get lazy…nor too comfortable with barely doing anything. My husband is an only child that was raised by his mom and being with me has been a rude awakening for the most part. I will not put up with his bs and he knows it and so does his mom. But, all in all, I have never been with any man that has loved me sooooo much and will protect me no matter what. The GREAT Taurus man will be the one that has your back no matter what and they are OUTSTANDING fathers as well.
January 14th, 2011 at 7:59 am
I’m a Taurus(female) and I am possessive, but not overly possessive. I like to know that the people I care about are okay and safe all the time so I usually text them “are you ok?” or “what are you doing?” about 3 times a day. I kinda freak if I don’t hear from them but I give them their space and time to text me back. If they don’t then it’s oh well and I move on. I’ve never been in a relationship with a Taurus male so I’m not sure if they are overly possessive. I’ve read the comments and it sounds like some of the males are a little crazy haha, but I also do agree with the people who said it depends on the Taurus male.
January 14th, 2011 at 7:31 pm
I dont believe that male taurus are possessive.
January 14th, 2011 at 7:51 pm
Love the picture; I’m a Taurus, happily married to a feisty Aries woman for 12 yrs; and while i am a little bit possessive, my lady is much more so. This possessiveness all depends on the male, we are all different in our own ways; I’m a Taurus w/Scorpio (rising); I am have a temper, you bet, albeit well controlled. Although I am concerned where I see others “painting” Taurus(es), all of us, good, bad and those behaving badly, with the same paint brush. and believe me, when I hear or see, a man beating on a woman, I’ll act because not only is this so wrong, but it makes all of us look bad.
Peace.
February 17th, 2011 at 5:40 am
I’m a Sagittarius woman with a Taurus man. He’s very possessive, and I love every minute of it. He likes to feel needed. I agree with an earlier comment about how Taurus with Venus in Aries is very independent and expects his partner to be so, too. A man’s Venus can change everything. As can his moon sign. Anyway, this particular Taurus man doesn’t have his Venus in Aries, is very possessive and has never guided me wrong; his advice is usually along the same lines as my judgment. His view toward me is “trustworthy unless proven otherwise,” which is fine by me. I couldn’t live with myself and wouldn’t feel I deserved him if I cheated, anyhow (lol, why would I want to?). He’s also very protective. As far as being a Sagittarius, though, me supposed to be freedom-loving and all… when you give your partner the reassurance and love and devotion they need, and you have a track record of being trustworthy, practical and responsible, they’ll give you lots of freedom. Unless there’s something innately unhealthy about them, which is possible, too, but not as common as we like to think.
Another piece of advice — when you don’t add fire to a person’s failings, like jealousy or control, but allow them to have the reassurance they need (even if you let them have control,) they stop grasping for it as much. Feeling secure, they stop needing the same level of compensation that they needed before because you’ve opened the door to the closet and shown them that there aren’t any monsters in there. Just food for thought.
March 20th, 2011 at 5:11 am
I have been in a relationship with my Taurus boyfriend for almost 4years. In the beginning he was VERY possessive. If I didn’t reply his texts within 10minutes he’d go berserk. He didn’t let me talk/make friends with other guys. It used to drive me crazy and we always quarreled about it. But somehow after our frequent argumentms, I made him see some sense that he was being too overly possessive and it was not healthy. That was 1 year into our relationship and he changed drastically after that.
Now we’re a normal loving happy couple and he does not show his possessiveness anymore! He understands me. I guess gaining his trust is VERY important. I know if I make a single mistake, he will never fully be able to trust me again so I trend really carefully. I make sure I tell him every thing about the people I hang out with and basically let him know everything in my life in order for him to feel secure and in order for me to attain my freedom!
So I guess Taurus IS possessive but he will be fine as long as you give him a sense of security and not a reason to distrust you.
May 24th, 2011 at 2:20 pm
Yes. My sweet Taurus man is possesive. Being a Capricorn, it makes me feel secure. He and I were together over 30 years ago, and I had no idea how his jealousy and possessiveness were making him absolutely miserable! He and I are both musicians, and I’m not bad looking (I guess!) and I do have some talent (again, I guess!). It was the reaction from the men in the audience etc that made him absolutely crazy. And there was nothing he could do about it since they weren’t personal friends and changed every night! Eventually we parted - now 30 years later, we are re-united, and in the process of getting back together he shared with me what he had gone through. And I thought I was the jealous one (and I was!), he’s handsome, talented, funny and sweet - Ahhh! I can’t tell you how many times I would slide in between he and any woman talking to him - ugh! But now, when he texts 20 times a day, calls 15 times and wants to come to my office and take me to lunch, well, odd, but I kinda like it! I was married (now divorced) and last night he asks if I still have my wedding ring - I said yes, and he asks “why?”. So I pull it out, show it to him, show him that I had to dig it out of a box buried deep in the closet and asked him what he thought I should do with it. “Hock it!, Sell it! but don’t keep it.” I felt like saying, “I will if you replace it!” But maybe a little later for that!! I love this man, possesive, jealous, sweet, compassionate, send-me-to-the-moon lover, and communicates!!
November 3rd, 2011 at 9:03 am
Possessive…I’m not so sure. Maybe.
What I do know is that they are stubborn, irritating and un-aologetic: they cause problem with their hard-headedness (not to mention un-intuitiveness), and then they move on in life with barely a regret.
Honestly, I avoid dating Taurus because I strongly dislike them, as I’m sure many do. It’s sickening to know that MY sign is supposed to be complimentary to theirs. (Barf much?)
Mr. Cancer
March 4th, 2012 at 8:41 am
Not really. all signs could become possessive. I m a Gemini myself and i have done crazy stupid shit to tie down my ex bfs… I m now dating a taurus..and the good thing is i don’t have to do so much anymore and i know hes with me because hes sending me more texts and asking me out most often than any guy i have dated in the past ( i have dated all signs and mostly sags, libras, aquarius and gems). I find him very logical and calm too so i dont see any extreme signs of jealousy. I guess he trusts me because i dont spend much time with other friends once i have started to date someone…not so typical about a Gemini right? I guess its coz my Venus is Taurus..that explains why i m so attracted to stability, prestige and comfort.
March 23rd, 2012 at 12:40 pm
I am a taurus girl and i am only 11 but i have to say this is not really true the possessive part. Yeah I am strubron but who heard of a taurus who love to chat a lot and having a lot of fiends and show off? WEll i am that kind of taurus and for the eating part i am always not hungry and my parent have to push me to eat.For the possesive part i share my stuff with my friend is that counted as possesive? But i have to admit i am a little bit possisve when it come to some people hiting my friends.
March 23rd, 2012 at 12:47 pm
It me agian and I want to add that a taurus don’t have a bad temper if you are nice to thembut if you mess with then they are going to to get even and i am telling you this because if someone mess with me like pushing me and steping on my feet and stuff i will not only beat them up but I will use my brain to embrassed them or get them in a big trouble.
April 3rd, 2012 at 9:27 am
Mary J up top thier took every last word out of my mouth. LIke This has to be the same guy..When I say every single word you said.I had took look to make sure I didnt post that. But yes ONe of a kind. controlling possive abuses ,temper disrecpectful arrgant NO COMUNICATION wat so ever….Great sex!!! Fun we have short lived. wow Im still dating him hopping for change smh