Compatibility For Taurus And Scorpio |
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Taurus and Scorpio
Usually Earth/Water combinations are very yummy. But on this occasion it will take some work as it won’t always be smooth sailing. The family is where these two will be able to create a sound base for their relationship. They both need the same environment to live in and will work together well to achieve a great home life they therefore understand each other’s needs in this way.
The problem is that these are two fixed signs. Two people who hate change and certainly and most importantly hate being changed! They are also both very stubborn, which isn’t great when you’re trying to start a relationship. Although Scorpio is a Water sign don’t be fooled. These people can be very strong willed and want to get their way. Taurus, of course is pretty much the same. Someone is going to have to give but I don’t see any hands going up for volunteers.
Sexually they may be in for some stormy weather also. It will never seem to be the right time, or one of them won’t be in the right mood, headaches may be frequent. This couple really needs to spend some quality time getting to know each other’s desires and wants. Taurus will of course want to please his/her Scorpio lover, but the Scorpio can be a bit cold at times and even when you think you have got it right, you will find that your efforts have been wasted.
The thing is there is a chance this could work, Taurus and Scorpio given the right circumstances and other aspects of their chart, could make a go of things. But more effort needs to be put in, especially on the Scorpios side. It isn’t all about you!!
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July 1st, 2008 at 9:31 pm
I’m a Taurus and my first boyfriend, my first EVERYTHING, was a Scorpio. Now that I look back, because this was years ago, we did argue a lot but it was really just part of the reason we were attracted to each other. We loved debating over everything and the boy and I had barely anything in common except our love of music. This kid was a musical prodigy, he played the piano, the guitar, and sang like a god.
He was very secretive and he loved having me over at his house with his family, who was only his father and grandparents. (He often told me that if we married he wanted at least five kids. Yeah, right.) But being the water sign he is, he suffered from severe depression. I’m talking sanatorium stays and all. Because of this and all the other problems, our relationship was on/off for a good three years.
January 6th, 2009 at 5:17 am
I am a Taurus and I have been dating a Scorpio for 2 years and it has been a headache. It started out lovely but it turned out the only time we got along was when we were talking about sex. But the more I tried to please my scorpio man the more he found that I wasnt doing. I cant do it any more!!!!
February 10th, 2009 at 12:12 am
Taurus men are abusive (physically, and emotionally). They don’t really understand compromise. They lose control when they can’t make the other person understand/ adopt their point of view. I’m a Scorpio and I love to listen learn and compromise but this guy is a lunatic.
February 10th, 2009 at 4:27 pm
I am a female Virgo and have been dating a Taurus man for the past 6 months. It was amazing at first but we’ve been constantly fighting for the past month or so. I don’t get it, I always read that Virgo and Taurus were suppose to be an ideal match but I’m finding that what Sarah (above) said is true, they don’t understand compromise and I’m finding him to be overly dramatic and tends to make a bit deal out of small things. Does anyone have any insight?
February 11th, 2009 at 9:52 pm
To be honest, the best way to deal with them is to ignore the problems within the relationship and allow them to mysteriously work themselves out. You can tell them that they are flying a burning jet and if their mind is set on flying that baby–they will do so. You can’t say anything until they have catch fire. After they cath fire, by the way, they want you to soak with them in their depression. Good Luck!
February 17th, 2009 at 6:26 am
well I been dating a scorpio male for the past 3 years and we were like best friends in the begining now its like we fight so much but we love each other a lot and we won’t let go and im a woman who rides for mines we been though a lot but at the end of the day how I feel there’s some truth in astrology but no relationship is perfect so anyone who tells you different is a liar. building a strong relationship takes a lot of work and patience some ppl jus don’t click at all and you know when something isn’t gonna work you feel it like its posted on their heads when u meet them mines isn’t all great but its something worth fighting for.
March 13th, 2009 at 8:14 pm
I am a scorpio woman and I have been with this male taurus for a year and it has not been the best year, but for some reason everytime we say we don’t want to be with each other anymore we always end up right back in each others arms. He can’t let go and to be honest I can’t either. It’s something about the amount of love that we have for one another that keeps us together. Yes we both are very stubborn and jealous but where would we be if neither one of us cared.
March 17th, 2009 at 7:22 am
I am a Scorpio gal who has had an on again, off again sexual relationship with a Taurus guy for over two years now. Wow, best sex, of my life. His too. It started out just about sex, but Mr. sensual would always lie around in bed with me after the (mindblowing) deed, cuddling, massage, pillow-talk and the like, and after some time I realized that I had developed deep feelings for him. The sex and physical aspects of our relationship were wonderful, but he caught whiff of some of my overbearing intensity and sometimes uncontrollable passionate emotions, and basically ran off to be with a nice, safe girl. Well, after a year or so I eventually forgot about him, but lo and behold, when he finally gets done with the gemini girl, who does he come back to? Of course, I approached round two with a different attitude. This time, I knew not to trust him, not to expect anything from him, and certainly not to depend on him, and I wouldnt get hurt. Well, I did my best with that, but our feelings run deep. I managed to keep up a pretty good pretense though, and I really think that aloof attitude is what hooked him for good. Now, the sex is better than ever, our relationship is much stronger than ever after having withstood the test of time and trials of seperation and coming back together, and I’m totally his favorite girl.
Taurus, being a fixed earth sign, adjusts verrry slowly, and needs a lot of time to make any sort of significant change in his life. I think in my case though, scorpionic water weathered taurean rock/earth, and the result is a harmonious, comfortable relationship.
I could probably love him if only he had some intelligence!
March 17th, 2009 at 2:30 pm
The Taurus/Scorpio love/romance/sexual bond is nearly impossinle to break. A Scorpio I loved died years ago, and he’s still freshly imprinted in my mind. Rarely do I so something that we used to do together without thinking of him. It’s like it gets in your psyche!
April 2nd, 2009 at 5:44 pm
i ve been dating a Taurus girl for the past three years now.in fact..she loves me and i do attract her a lot…things get on worst…cos u guys know for we the Scorpios we are always jealous lol
April 2nd, 2009 at 5:48 pm
am a Scorpio and i ve been dating a Taurus girl for the past three years now.in fact..she loves me and i do attract her a lot…things get on worst…cos u guys know for we the Scorpios we are always jealous lol
April 3rd, 2009 at 6:02 am
I read all those guys comments but i do not agree with all of them. Saraha you siad that taurus are abusive, its really highly improper. Its not mean if ur taurean doesnt understand you so all the taureans will be just like him. I’m also a taurean or i’m in relationship with scorpion girl since 3 years.Or interesting thing is that still we didnt meet personaly. On internet chatting we meet with each other.Everything is still going well between us or soon we will marry maybe this year i will go to meet her first time or i’llmake her mine forever.We also fight but dont creat the situation of break up. I dont believe in zodiac compatibility its just entertain us or nothing.couples are made from heaven. just believe if God has made me he must have made my other half.
April 3rd, 2009 at 3:20 pm
This is in response to what Harsh wrote:
I’ll agree that not all Taurus are abusive, but when put under the wrong circumstances, and with certain positions in our charts, we can be. There have been many times when I’ve thrown things just out of anger, but never at someone. I haven’t really hurt a person since I was a kid. With a few quick breaths and understanding, Taurus can calm down. It’s the stubborness that makes a Taurus this way because we feel “stuck in a rut” and feel there’s nothing else to do but lash out.
And a minor note, I’ve been seeing too much God and Christ being mention on the site lately. Nothing against Christianity, I respect the beliefs of others, but not everyone believes in the Bible. Just like many don’t believe in astrology. Not everyone can find all the advice they need through Christianity and frankly, it has never worked for me. That’s why some people turn to astrology, as it is as ancient as the stars and has been used for thousands of years.
Regardless of whether there are higher powers or not, there is someone out there for all of us. We just have to have faith in ourselves that we can find them. (This should be fodder for zealously religious Scorpios.
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April 25th, 2009 at 7:14 pm
Am a taurus and my ex is a scorpio, we were thogethe for more than ten year and still I love him as much or more than at the begining. It is true this match is not easy in fact it is very difficult, we both fought about anything or for no reason. But one thing I knew we couldn’t be apart from eachother. We separated many times but this last time was the worst I felt empy with out him. So am trying to win his love back because like I say this math i crazy but true and it is worth fighting for !!!!!
May 1st, 2009 at 6:42 pm
I am a taurean, been going out with a younger scorpio.He certainly charmed me, and covered up his true self for the first few months, then when I moved in his probing, and insecurities really shone through. what annoys me is the fact that my mobile phone gets read by him, but he constantly hides his phone. I think he does it deliberately to cause an argument, and yes, I absolutely smash the place up. I hate contradictions, which is everything that a scorpio is.
Thing is, I have learnt not to discuss my feelings anymore, because I have learnt that the scorpio will twist things to get out of blame. Instead I write it down, and leave it in his chair. I keep it factual, I write about how we should both take responsibility for our relationship.
Well it seems to be working, and hey, they do say, scorpio’s see everything in black and white, so I guess that means words written on paper which they can’t twist out of, and have to accept for what it is.
Any other ways Taurus/scorpio couples sort out problems would be received graciously, why concentrate on a dark life, when you can concentrate on making it a better life?!
May 7th, 2009 at 10:53 pm
I am a scorpio rising individual, which means I have scorpio on the ascendant. I have been seeing this man with Taurus on his ascendant for a short while, but it has felt like a lifetime. We have had some stormy arguments, many many many ups and downs. And there were times I thought I wouldn’t see him again—and yet here we are still stuck like glue, like we were from the moment we met.
It has not been easy but the answer is simple: I love him. I love his brooding, quietness. I love his possessiveness & physical strength. I think he is very intelligent & still very emotional. I know that I give him a hard time often when I am silent & doing my jealous/suspicious scorpio thing; but he likes it, because it is intense & deep & solid. So, anyways, be patient. Especially if you think you are with the one. Patience & love together win out always.
May 21st, 2009 at 9:16 pm
I am a taurus female. I was in a relationship with a Scorpio male for three years.Needless to say, now it’s a blossoming friendship! The first thing to learn about a Scorpio male is the facade you see on the exterior,( the strong, confident side) is not who they really are. Remember, they’re water signs. Just as sensitive as Cancer. They’re also very secretive, and can I mention, very INSECURE! Had I would I have known about those mysterious traits, I would have approached the relationship much differently. Remember Tauruses, we prefer forthrightness and honesty. (A spade is a spade).But despite the obvious negatives, there are some redeeming qualities for the Taurus women when dealing with a Scorpio male. He can be very romantic, attentive, and very reliable. Which are the three solid traits most Taurus women are looking for…
Also, they LOVE LOVE LOVE money just as much as we do.
May 24th, 2009 at 5:18 pm
I am a Taurus female. I met my Scorpio male over two years ago. Since the moment I was introduced to him I felt this intense connection that did nothing but pull me closer and closer, like a magnetic device. Our relationship has been a roller coaster ride of intense emotions. Sometimes I feel the more deep our love runs and the more I express my emotions the further he distances himself. One would say he has a fear of commitment or is just not into me. I think it is more on the lines of a fear of losing control of his emotions becoming vulnerable in life or just vulnerable to me. What my Scorpio fails to realize is I won’t allow him to be harmed and I will go to the ends of the earth to protect him staying loyal to the end. I have most of the personaility traits I have read in reference to Taurus in fact most appear to be right on que. I am very possessive yet allow my partner to do as they wish as long as they respect and protect our relationship and me. It takes a great deal to get me in a place of mind where I need to walk away. Most would walk away years prior to me. I beleive that true love can get passed many hurdles and there are very few deal breakers. Climbing mountains is what I do best and the feeling of concuring a mountain makes me feel as strong as ever. Although keep in mind,trust,loyalty, respect and fidelity are huge for me. I am very one on one and find relationships to be sacred. That means no one else just us and our family.Friends are fine but our relationship and family first. It takes a great deal for me to trust and I mean really trust someone and once I do my well guarded wall comes down and I let them in. My final wall rarely comes down for anyone. My Scorpio has seemed to cross over all walls yet now I feel vulnerable and under a spell I have no way of breaking. I could go weeks without seeing him and he has even broken off for months yet we end up right back with each other and it is as if time stood still and the bond was strengthed even more then before. How could that be when we had not even seen each other in a great deal of time? I never could figure that one out. I also find myself feeling a psychological connection as if he never leaves and is right with me no matter how far apart we are. Yet, I have found though the more I need him desire him in my life the harder he fights his emotionally availabilty to me. The War of the Wills. I am now scared knowing I dont want to be without him yet feel it as being impossible to compromise with him. It is as if I must submit to his every wish or forget it. Control is an understatement for this one. He is the King and there is no Queen only ones that serve him. The problem or fears lie within me now. I am so tired of this constant silent mind control treatment I dont want to be around anymore. I dont need to have someone control me and I can very well run the kingdom with or without him. I would love to be a team for once. You know the Queen of the kingdom. I love to please him and watch his intense eyes fill with pleasure. Yet I do this not becuase I must it is strickly my choice. Yet he is often used to the ones that serve him with conditions as money. I think it drives him nuts how I wont allow him to buy me as he has with so many others. I want love and pure unconditional devoted love. That is the only true thing that will hold me forever. I dont know if this one will ever get that and in time I will grow very tired of the inconsistancy of his emotions for me. For the time being I have decided to retreat. I am not quite ready to give up on us. Although I must have some sort of resolution to this matter and need some space to clear my head. My Scorpio tends to come around when there is someone threatening his place with me. This time there is know one to stand between us except for him.
June 1st, 2009 at 6:55 am
wow Taurus 7 you pretty much described
the relation I have with my Taurus girl
well on some levels.
well trust me, this coming from a Scorpio
guy himself, he’ll probably come around.
I know I still love my Taurus girl.
June 2nd, 2009 at 7:23 pm
I am a scorpio girl like everyone else here is seems, my problem with my taurus man is sex. I want it all the time, he could go for 3yrs without it. I feel like he is not interested and does not want me. But I am falling now for a Libra born oct.10th that has many scorpio traits. I am lost for what to do, I dont want to settle, but at the same time I dont want to lose the best thing that has ever come my way. What should I do? Cuz I am lost.
June 17th, 2009 at 8:22 pm
Lisa, it is the sexual compatibility between you two. Like, its off. He feels that sex is not the most important thing in a relationship where you may feel that it is one of the important things. Its like my boyfriend and I. I could go weeks without it whereas my boyfriend can’t. I know how taurean men are, just try and talk to him about it if you haven’t.
Its funny, Taurus and Scorpios are suppose to be opposites but yet we are the same in so many ways.
…weird.
June 18th, 2009 at 6:51 am
Well I’m a male Taurus and have been dating a male scorpio for 5 months now and it’s been nothing but perfect. The best relationship I’ve ever had. Two of my worst relationships were with Virgos, which are supposed to be my most compatible signs.
So I don’t know if it’s because we’re gay or whatnot but it’s been amazing and we’ve hardly fought and get along great.
June 28th, 2009 at 3:50 pm
Gay Taurus,
I have recently started seeing a male gay_Taurus and i can fully understand what you mean. I know it’s still early and just as many of the previous posts have said.. the beginning is great. (then again… isn’t all relationships)? We first met and since then we do not want each other to leave our side. We are both VERY honest with our emotions with each other. We are both possessive and border-lined jealous. Me being a Scorpio, i’m supposed to be secretive, but i can’t be with this Taurus. It scares me to a point, but I know Taurus’ tell you what they want plain and simple. They do not like falsehood or games. Scorpios usually like to play games, but it’s hard to explain.. i don’t want to with him. Though… games in the bedroom has been a different story!! WOW! Being a Scorpio… i have always loved to please my mate. I was STUNNED that this Taurus was only about pleasing me. It has never happened. We do click very well on every subject. we get along with everyone we meet. The only thing that we have had differences on is “what’s for dinner”. We both love to eat and both lover to cook. I would suggest to the Scorpios to make some chocolate for their Taurus. I know mine loves chocolate. I find myself wanting to do anything to make them happy. I don’t mind to wear my heart on my sleeve with this one because i know he would do the same. I’m not going to stop the possessiveness though!! I’m glad that he will not either.
July 18th, 2009 at 8:26 pm
My name is adil i am a scorpio male and i am attacthed a turus girl since 8 years.We love each other and we also touch our soul.I listen from everybody and i also read that there is no best combination between turus and scorpio i also discuss this problem with my sweet love after that we decide that we will prove that it is wrong that there is no good compatability between a turus and scorpio.
So we meets and spent years and years and our love is gone deeper and deeper.We can not live a single day each other.I think that we born for each other i love you my sweet love turus You are my life and only you are my love for ever and forever.I love you
July 22nd, 2009 at 4:27 am
I am a Taurus woman who is six years younger than my scorpio interest. We have known each other for now four days and the connection is so crazy. It feels so surreal like God answered my prays. He is the description that my mind, body, and soul have been seeking for many years. We connected at hello, he is so gentleman like and he has riped my heart open where I am emotionally attached and feel so in love. He tells me that he misses me and calls me beautiful. He has shown me a better side of life and I have upgraded my taste. We have so much in common. I have expressed my feelings openly to him and he has expressed them to me. I know that Scorpios do not like rejection and they like to be reassured of how much you care and love them so I do that as much as possible. To my surprise he accepted my feelings. I pray that this relationship lasts a lifetime. I haven’t seen his jealous and possessive side but i don’t mind it’ll let me know that he cares. This relationship feels so good and right to the both of us.
August 9th, 2009 at 8:59 pm
I’m a 26 year old female Scorpio and I’ve had 3 ‘relationships’ with Taurus men. The most recent is pretty amazing. We clicked within minutes and were holding hands after a half hour. I’ve noticed the sexual chemistry is the best with this combination, 2nd only to Cancer/Scorpio relationships. The other 2: one is my best friend, has been for 12 years. We have had “relations” but in the end, it’s just a friendship. The other, well, he’s over 2 years younger and a lot less mature. The sex was great, but there’s nothing else there. We’re still friends.
My problem is that I tend to get attached quickly and the Taurus guy backs away, leaving only the physical relationship. I have learned to catch myself now, before it happens, and this time around things seem to be great. He is a different kind of Taurus (or man for that matter) in that he is very open about what he’s feeling and gave me the warning so that I could react before the relationship was ruined. We haven’t crossed the line of bf/gf because the timing for such a label is not great, however, we still spend a lot of time together and treasure it. Our faces are rarely more than 3 inches apart
I’m actually only 6 months into the dating scene after being with a Virgo for 12 years, so I’m learning from each and every ‘relationship’ and working to figure out what I want in another person and what I don’t. Do any of you who have a successful S/T relationship have any advice? I’m not looking for “The One”, but I’m always up for learning
I find that the attraction and magnetic pull I feel with Taurus men is what was missing all those years with my Virgo. It was something I swore to never live without again. I’m open for most anything, but for now, I really enjoy the Bulls.
I must say, SO much of what I read above applies to me as well. He’s SO concerned with pleasing me, in AND out of bed. He wants to take me places he remembers I mentioned (and has
and we never finish without me…well, finishing. He loves chocolate, is very emotionally open, when asked about his pet peeves all he could say was “lying”, and he’s SUCH a gentleman. He’s charming, flattering, and so darn sweet. I haven’t, however, had the problem with him not wanting sex. He wants it MORE than I do, usually.
I really enjoy reading about everyone else’s relationships, this site is awesome
August 20th, 2009 at 2:11 am
I am 20 year old taurus male and i am in a relation with a scorpio girl of same age.I read all the comment and it is quit interesting.We have been in relation about 6 7 month but very few people know about it.My girl doesn’t want many people to know about it.But mine case is a bit different from others.
I love my girl very much and just can’t imagine my life without her.But i am having a really hard time.We just don’t understand each other.I am really jealous type. But she isn’t. She really doesn’t show anything just hide within.I want her to show her feeling,love and care for me but she doesn’t.And in many cases she has hurt me so much and treated me like am nothing to her but when things are good we really have a great time.
The main thing is that she really hides her feeling within and am finding it really hard to figure it out.I really love her and want to be together and am tring hard,but there are times she make me feel unsecure.Even when i am hurt she doesn’t seem to care.Many times i have thought of ending this relation but i just can’t do so coz i don’t wana be apart from her.I really don’t know what to do and i hope i can fine my answer here.
August 21st, 2009 at 11:02 am
The bulls are the most aggressive and the most arrogant individuals among all signs.That doesn’t mean that they can’t be prevailed… just piss them off, and get out of their way. And don’t call back. They will be very angry in the beginning, then sad because you do not show interest of them being angry, then even more sad cos you don’t care for them at all.
To all Scorpio’s : Taurens are pretty much the only sign that could withstand your pressure, but don’t forget that besides mars, you have Pluto the planet of Nuclear energy (arien’s only have mars , but that is not enough against Taurus) => No one can withstand that!
Fight till the end, and then, give up for a while ,just long enough to think of your strategy to fight back. Use emotional manipulation, use their worst faults…strike when least expected:)
Good luck :), i used to give in, but now taurens are easy goal to crack.
P.S. The heaviest blow to Taurens , would be to play with their minds. Make them loose their mind … we scorpio’s are the best At it
That works too 
(ofcourse learn these stuff in advance :), you know how to make Taurus open )
If you are their coworker, let the worst things out in the open that you know about them
I’m not pissed off at Taurens or whatever, my closest friend is Tauren.As well as few collegues at work
But she knows her limits (though they didn’t know them until some time ago:) ).
Although i hate you, i still love you Tauruens
September 26th, 2009 at 5:34 pm
Well i’m a scorpio girl and i guess i’m sortof seeing a taurus guy, it’s september and we’ve been hooking up since june, and at first thats all it really was, i met him at my friends house and we just started making out and whatnot after we’d known eachother about an hour, then the time came where he wanted to have sex, and i said nooo. but he gave me his number and everything, i accidentally forgot to give him mince though, so a few weeks later i’m at my friends house again and he calls her, and she told him i was with her, so he came over. And then… i can’t believe i did this.. but we had sex, and it was the best i have ever had. So after that he was calling me preddy much every other day he would call me up and want to hangout and we’d go chill, and have some more amazing sex. Sometimes twice a day. And it was never boding, we went in the shower a couple times and yeah… all summer. So oneday he asked me what i wanted in our relationship and i honestly didn’t know (well i did know, i wanted him to be mine and only mine, but i wasn’t gona say that) so i asked him, and he said he wanted to get me know me better, and i agreed. This was on like July. So we continued hooking up through July, through Augest, and then i had this really bad feeling when school started up things were going to end, like it was just a summer relationship. Then he did it, he asked me to be his girlfriend. The first few days were really great, but it was actually like week 2 or 3 things started getting ugly. People would always tell me that he was cheating on me and flirting with other girls, and i really am not the fighter person and i don’t get mad, i get sad so this put me down and i couldn’t confront him about it. It never really felt like we were going out. It basically felt the same as it did over summer. He would be really cocky sometimes and not treat me the way someone that likes you should treat you, and he would do this thing where he wouldn’t call me for a week or so and when i called him he wouldn’t pick up. And he would tell me he wasn’t a cheater. even when he’s ‘talking’ to another girl he doesn’t cheat. and i thought this was great, until he screwed another girl at a party after i left. 3 days later he broke up with me and now idk what to do. idk why i like him so much still. i’m starting to think it may have been just solid physical attactioon but who knows. I’v been so sad for the longest time now and I don’t wanna realize that he’s not right for me. I want to fix this. After reading the other relaationships between scorpio’s and taurus’s maybe they just arn’t ment to be. We all seem to have the same struggles.
November 3rd, 2009 at 2:34 am
i am a scorpio male and i have been with 2 taurus women wich have been my longest relationships, with out a doubt the most sexiest zodiac sign… our love making is full of eroticism, passion, and intensety. but yes of course we were both jealous and possesive… but thats what makes the relationship full of passion
November 4th, 2009 at 7:57 pm
To those in a Taurus Female/ Scorpio male relationships.. Do you feel that it is,ultimately, worth the strife you have/ you are through. Do you feel both can, truly, make one another happy over the long run? Both male and female responses would be appreciated.
November 6th, 2009 at 7:22 pm
I’m a Scorpio November 8th and my boyfriend is a Taurus May 11th and I’m much more strong willed than he is but I’m really, really sensitive. He knows just how I feel even when I don’t show it, I honestly just really love him, this match works out very well for us.
November 7th, 2009 at 5:55 am
ToxicTaurus: Female Taurus here. Friendship for 2 years with a Scorpio; first 2 months we dated. Only ex-girlfriend/wife that he has remained in contact with, much less a friend. For the most part, I’ve been his “rock”, although there have been times when I’ve been stung hard with that tail, the wind completely knocked out of me. Is it worth it? For me, it’s not very healthy. But, he has no other person who is equally as honest and supportive. So, that’s my role and I accept it, knowing that there will come a time for that role to be eliminated or changed. And that’s okay. Hurts terribly, but for some reason, yes, it’s worth it.
In order for each to be truly happy together in the long run, I believe working mindfully, daily, on openess and honesty is the key. Without that, and fortitude, forget it.
December 10th, 2009 at 1:10 am
well, after reading all of these post, i found alot of them to be quite interesting. I’m a scorpio female dating a taurus male. We both are very much the poster childs for our signs. Yes, the physical side of our relationship is amazing, but it’s only amazing because we’re open about it. We both have high sex drives and aren’t afraid to tell the other our opinions. intellectually, we connect as well. we could spend days talking about the philosophies of life and books as well as just sit around and watch national geographic. Emotionally, i believe we’re both pretty reserved on expressing our feelings directly to one another. this is probably because we’ve both been hurt in the past by falling in love with the wrong person. Every moment i’m with him, the connection grows stronger. He’s attracted to my thought process, kind-heartedness, & selfless ways ( not to mention the sexy aura he claims that i have). I’m attracted to his loyalty, intelligence, gentleness (when not angry), even to his temper (strange i know), philosophies of life & loving nature.
now needless to say, when it’s bad, it’s really bad. arguments tend to be a hell hole that i wish no one to fall into. I consider myself the more rational when upset. he tends to get like the hulk when angry and i sit calmly looking at him waiting for my chance to speak. i’ll let him calm down a few days (being stubborn means it takes a while) and then he’ll hear what i have to say after i do my scorpio charm. Every relationship has it’s problems, but it’s how we work through them that make it interesting and worth while.
the passion that we both share for our careers, families, and the future is what holds us together. we may seem like opposites but when we talk, we aren’t really that much different. both of us hasn’t claimed that we’re going to get married, but on paper, when listing what we’re looking for in our S.O. we pretty much describe each other. but time will tell. communication is key
December 10th, 2009 at 5:32 am
I am a Scorpio woman married to a Taurus man for 5 yrs. We can both be stubborn and can be very fierce and intense, and if we aren’t getting along… watch out cause sparks are going to fly. However, when things are good it is truly AMAZING. The attraction between us has always been and still is undeniable. We both enjoy great foods and wine, lavish dinner parties with friends and family, and nature. It has taken some time and work to establish good boundaries with one another so that we don’t awaken the sleeping dragon in one another. He can bring me out of my funk and I help him with spotting predators. If you can make a scorpio /taurus relationship work, you will be very blessed with the outcome of a very sensual, meaningful life together.
January 4th, 2010 at 12:25 am
The most abusive and emotionally destroying person I know is a Pisces, those people scare me!
January 4th, 2010 at 12:32 am
I’m a Taurus female and the first guy i loved, and I mean LOVED to the point where I would of died for him was a Libra, we had the most magnetic chemistry ever in that relationship and yeh we pissed eachother off but we would always end up back to eachother.
February 19th, 2010 at 7:22 am
I think that we all like to see happiness in the end. I am a Taurus man and I am madly in love with this Scorpio woman but I think her ex is trying to steal her back from me. She told me she didn’t want a man but I know she is lying because i heard her almost cry on the phone. Here is the catchy part her best friend is her ex’s brother. How messed up is that it is like I am backed into a corner fighting for our love not knowing if she will take me or not. So that is where I am at in 3 days I will drive to where she lives because she lives about 2 hours away. I will confess my love for her and I will try to win her heart or at least get mine shattered. You all say Taurus men are bad but I am one. I think it is just people and their life I think some are good some are bad dont judge us all the same because. I am about to go on a risky adventure for the woman I love. I don’t know we just started dating not long for about 2 weeks seems stupid I should give up been when i looked into her eyes for that short period i could see the passion their and the love. I know she wants me but I just have to let her know she is the only woman for me. Pray for me if you pray if not say some magical words for me or something because I have everything against me and the only thing for me is the love that I have developed for this woman. It has nothing to do with sex I am waiting didnt want to rush things with her. Maybe i should of shown her I am the one by having sex but why rush everything you know. I just hope it works for me I will write on her what happens. If it dosent work out then I guess I just leave that chapter shut and try to write a new one I dont know if my heart will understand though lol.
March 11th, 2010 at 1:45 pm
Grungerviking-
I think you are a very sweet and brave man to do what you’re doing with the Scorpio woman you love. I’m a Scorpio woman and let me tell you, we love and respect when people are upfront and honest with us and if you’re not, we will know…trust me on this one! Being a scorpio that can’t seem to get a Taurus man out of my system, I know how you feel. The chemistry and passion between these two signs is sooo intense and magnetizing and it makes it very hard to walk away even if you’re bumping heads. I will say prayer for you and I hope that you and your lovely Scorpio have a beautiful, long-lasting union together.
And I agree with you, not all Taurus men are bad.
March 26th, 2010 at 5:04 pm
Wow…all ur comments are so true. I met my taurus man when i was an 8th grader and he was 19 years of age, and trust me, when i first met him i thought he was the ugliest men i have ever met, but we’ve been together for 3 years and now have broken up for good, because i promise myself i will never go back out with him, since he makes the biggest deal out of me not opening up to him. Even though i have told him i have opened up to him plenty, but he just doesn’t believe me. Now we’re just good friends and we express our self more to one another due to probably the pain of loosing each other, and it seems that after loving him for 3 years i’ve been totally freaking out on starting another relationship hoping i won’t fall in love again. I’m just hoping that slowly i will recover from this unexpected love and go back to being a player and breaking every mens heart once again…Beside i’m a scorpio so don’t hate me for taking my revenge on guys, for i have seen to many girls heart broken, including myself although my taurus man was also heart broken.
May 5th, 2010 at 3:32 am
Iam a taurus female and i just HATE scorpios!
July 3rd, 2010 at 10:06 pm
I am a scorpio female, who has been dating a male taurus for a little less than two weeks now. i have known him for a year now. In the beginning he happened to be EXTREMELY attracted to me, i found very strange because i am very insecure about my appearance. At this time i had a crush on his best friend (the one we’d met each other through). He was constantly texting me and messaging me any way possible to simply talk to me even for an hour. I replied that i was too “busy” to converse, but finally after his endless attempts and his persistance, i caved and decided to talk to him. Talking to him wasn’t half as enjoyable as texting my crush, but i chose to humor him anyways; not wanting to hurt him after learning about his pain from previous relationships. After me and my crush started getting into many arguments we evidently stopped texting and i was left talking to his best friend. He always told me he loved me and would wait for me no matter how long it took. After eight months i realized i needed him, and found that whenever i WASN’T talking to him i felt alone and depressed. i’ve never felt this before because i’ve deemed myself as too independant and strong, and feeling this, i was shocked for i have never felt dependant on anyone. Finally after many visits to his home, i noticed he was always looking at my mouth. i had never kissed anyone, never being in a relationship due to my insecurities. and because i had placed a strict wall between us he respected my wishes and restrained his desire. however, i couldnt hold back and i leaned in and kissed him. for me there were no fireworks and no butterflies, although i felt at bliss. i knew i loved him after that, and although people say that scorpio and Taurus are both stubborn and determined we both know we are willing to bend for each other, and we are planning to use our stubborness and determination to do so and make this relationship last. Personally, i think this is a wonderful connection, knowing he is willing to be understanding to my jealousy and uncontrollable ways.
July 19th, 2010 at 12:10 pm
m with a scorpio guy right now and man, is he jealous! he gets jealous even if i talk to my bro!!!that’s insane!!! but after the short rows,god, he makes sure it’s engraved in my head that m his!d best sex ever!!!! n we love each other so fiercely!!!
August 10th, 2010 at 6:53 pm
My first love was a Scorpio and I am a Taurus woman.. when i first met him i was 17 and he was 16.. when i first laid eyes on him it was the most electric eye meeting i have ever had.. we became best friends soon after and i eventually fell in love with him.. he was my first everything… thing is he kept pushing me away for other girls for about 9 years.. every 2 years we fight and stop speaking but when we start talking again its like nothing ever happened and we fall in love all over again… our problem is that he is a douche bag that refuses to change..he is a cheater and liar and he knows it I know it… and like most Scorpios he likes to be miserable and depressed.. After 9 years I’ve learned that Scorpios are very secretive and will not tell you how they feel… He does have a way with manipulating my mind.. since they are so good at it… and i am aware i back away from him… i don’t let him.. because i have the power over my life not him… If you wanna get into a Scorpio/Taurus relationship.. make sure you pick a Scorpio that is willing to talk and communicate through things if not.. pfff.. good luck trying to make them be honest with you… I’ve been through hell and back for him and i feel it wasn’t even worth it because in the end..my heart was broken and he didn’t even care to fix it.. yea he might have loved me but their love stings… hence the scorpion tail… For some it works magically for some its a hurtful memory.. i’ll always love him ALWAYS.. but i love myself more than to put myself through the pain… make sure the scorpio loves you enough to be with you…
December 4th, 2010 at 8:50 am
M a Scorpian guy. I do agree wit all those posts but love is about caring n sacrificing. M dating a taurus gal n i just say she’s very stubborn but but but we both love eachother alot…we often fight n split for some time but later all we do is come back again! n no matter wat happens m not gona let her go ever n m sure she will do the same!
January 15th, 2011 at 7:23 pm
im a taurus woman and ive been crazy about a scorpio man for about 4 years now. he is the most atrractive person ive ever met, and when i look in his eyes i feel safe and warm. when we get along, its good; its unexplainibly perfect, but when we argue, its bad; its awful. he often gets harsh with words, and over small things too, our biggest arguments are over my guy friends and me moving too slow. hes deffinately the jealous type. and weve probably split up 3 times over the last four years, it just seems like everytime we split up i cant stop thinking about him and missing him. i wish i could let him go, but i suppose ive become a little obsessive, the thought of letting him go seems impossible. at the moment were broken up and seeing other people, i thought i was over him but i cant stop thinking about him. i do believe we’ll find eachother again, even if i dont want us too.
February 14th, 2011 at 2:11 am
this is stereotypical towards scorpios
February 14th, 2011 at 2:16 am
stereotypes much? not all scorpios are like this and it is horrible to generalize and say that someone is selfish because of the month they were born in.
February 18th, 2011 at 6:29 pm
I’m a taurus girl and my first boyfriend was a scorpio. He was a very jealous person and liked to talk to other girls whilst he was with me. He asked a girl’s email address whilst I was there. He didn’t have alot of respect for me. and said to his friend whilst I was with him how he would like to “do” a certain girl. He didn’t even think of me. I did obviously get jealous and angry at him. but then he used to cry and get all sad and then I would feel sorry for him and he would drag me back in. I broke up with him god knows how many times. He would act so dependent on me. but used to show off infront of his friends aswell and make himself look like an idiot. he used to make me feel guilty for things that were not my fault and make me upset. and I used to blame his mistakes on myself. I would ask him if he was ok when he was upset and cuddle him and then he would say that it was my fault. He was very selfish. He had a very high sex drive but had no consideration for how I felt at all. so basically he ended up going in the bin. But since we both are fixed signs it took me ages to finally get rid of him. and even when we broke up he would ring me constantly. we had to disconnect the phone line. and then he stalked me. He used to get possessive too. I liked going to see my friends but he liked me to spend time with him instead. and when he found out that I liked another guy he told me that he was gay!
What I don’t understand is that according to the starsigns now, scorpio is 24 to 29th November. He was born on the 21 and is definately a scorpio. He had all the traits of scorpio. I think the dates for the signs now are a bit mixed up.
July 29th, 2011 at 7:31 pm
I could probably love him if only he had some intelligence!
Caitlin Says
lol…See you don’t love him..And what i think is that you actually undermind the relationship that he had with the Gemini, who he left you for..So you probably chased him and stalked him like the Scorpio lunatic that you are to get him back out of spite and jealousy.
Love is not what you are claiming..IN your post..It is just Sex and Lust.
And IT was all about Winning For YOU!
I am sure there are Scorpios out there that are wonderful..But you are not a fine example and a good representation of all Scorpios.So sad..
It would have been safer and better if the Taurus you got back had the balls to tell you to get a hike get some medical help!
November 29th, 2011 at 10:10 pm
I am a Taurus and mu husband is a Scorpio. The above explanation defining the aspects of the relationship between a Taurus and Scorpio is right on point in our case. We were together for 8 years. At the time when we met, our relationship was focused on me looking to him as the rock, the leader, and was willing to change due to the fact I wasn’t happy with my current situation or myself (being young but we are only 6 months apart in age.) As time past and I aged, the struggle for power, control, his coldness, and lack of emotional connection we are divorcing. We could have stayed together and continued to work hard but some relationships are not worth the fight, especially with two hard headed people that don’t like change.
March 23rd, 2012 at 2:06 pm
I am a taurusThis relationship is so not true. I got one scorpio that is my best friend and the other scorpio my enemy. But my friend and I make such good friendship because if someone ever mess with one of us they have to deal with the two of us. My friend will formed a plan to get revenge while i act it and we never get in trouble because my friend is never been double cross and so am i andI am too quick and too sneaky to be caught .