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Taurus and Scorpio
Usually Earth/Water combinations are very yummy. But on this occasion it will take some work as it won’t always be smooth sailing. The family is where these two will be able to create a sound base for their relationship. They both need the same environment to live in and will work together well to achieve a great home life they therefore understand each other’s needs in this way.
The problem is that these are two fixed signs. Two people who hate change and certainly and most importantly hate being changed! They are also both very stubborn, which isn’t great when you’re trying to start a relationship. Although Scorpio is a Water sign don’t be fooled. These people can be very strong willed and want to get their way. Taurus, of course is pretty much the same. Someone is going to have to give but I don’t see any hands going up for volunteers.
Sexually they may be in for some stormy weather also. It will never seem to be the right time, or one of them won’t be in the right mood, headaches may be frequent. This couple really needs to spend some quality time getting to know each other’s desires and wants. Taurus will of course want to please his/her Scorpio lover, but the Scorpio can be a bit cold at times and even when you think you have got it right, you will find that your efforts have been wasted.
The thing is there is a chance this could work, Taurus and Scorpio given the right circumstances and other aspects of their chart, could make a go of things. But more effort needs to be put in, especially on the Scorpios side. It isn’t all about you!!
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July 1st, 2008 at 9:31 pm
I’m a Taurus and my first boyfriend, my first EVERYTHING, was a Scorpio. Now that I look back, because this was years ago, we did argue a lot but it was really just part of the reason we were attracted to each other. We loved debating over everything and the boy and I had barely anything in common except our love of music. This kid was a musical prodigy, he played the piano, the guitar, and sang like a god.
He was very secretive and he loved having me over at his house with his family, who was only his father and grandparents. (He often told me that if we married he wanted at least five kids. Yeah, right.) But being the water sign he is, he suffered from severe depression. I’m talking sanatorium stays and all. Because of this and all the other problems, our relationship was on/off for a good three years.
January 6th, 2009 at 5:17 am
I am a Taurus and I have been dating a Scorpio for 2 years and it has been a headache. It started out lovely but it turned out the only time we got along was when we were talking about sex. But the more I tried to please my scorpio man the more he found that I wasnt doing. I cant do it any more!!!!
February 10th, 2009 at 12:12 am
Taurus men are abusive (physically, and emotionally). They don’t really understand compromise. They lose control when they can’t make the other person understand/ adopt their point of view. I’m a Scorpio and I love to listen learn and compromise but this guy is a lunatic.
February 10th, 2009 at 4:27 pm
I am a female Virgo and have been dating a Taurus man for the past 6 months. It was amazing at first but we’ve been constantly fighting for the past month or so. I don’t get it, I always read that Virgo and Taurus were suppose to be an ideal match but I’m finding that what Sarah (above) said is true, they don’t understand compromise and I’m finding him to be overly dramatic and tends to make a bit deal out of small things. Does anyone have any insight?
February 11th, 2009 at 9:52 pm
To be honest, the best way to deal with them is to ignore the problems within the relationship and allow them to mysteriously work themselves out. You can tell them that they are flying a burning jet and if their mind is set on flying that baby–they will do so. You can’t say anything until they have catch fire. After they cath fire, by the way, they want you to soak with them in their depression. Good Luck!
February 17th, 2009 at 6:26 am
well I been dating a scorpio male for the past 3 years and we were like best friends in the begining now its like we fight so much but we love each other a lot and we won’t let go and im a woman who rides for mines we been though a lot but at the end of the day how I feel there’s some truth in astrology but no relationship is perfect so anyone who tells you different is a liar. building a strong relationship takes a lot of work and patience some ppl jus don’t click at all and you know when something isn’t gonna work you feel it like its posted on their heads when u meet them mines isn’t all great but its something worth fighting for.
March 13th, 2009 at 8:14 pm
I am a scorpio woman and I have been with this male taurus for a year and it has not been the best year, but for some reason everytime we say we don’t want to be with each other anymore we always end up right back in each others arms. He can’t let go and to be honest I can’t either. It’s something about the amount of love that we have for one another that keeps us together. Yes we both are very stubborn and jealous but where would we be if neither one of us cared.
March 17th, 2009 at 7:22 am
I am a Scorpio gal who has had an on again, off again sexual relationship with a Taurus guy for over two years now. Wow, best sex, of my life. His too. It started out just about sex, but Mr. sensual would always lie around in bed with me after the (mindblowing) deed, cuddling, massage, pillow-talk and the like, and after some time I realized that I had developed deep feelings for him. The sex and physical aspects of our relationship were wonderful, but he caught whiff of some of my overbearing intensity and sometimes uncontrollable passionate emotions, and basically ran off to be with a nice, safe girl. Well, after a year or so I eventually forgot about him, but lo and behold, when he finally gets done with the gemini girl, who does he come back to? Of course, I approached round two with a different attitude. This time, I knew not to trust him, not to expect anything from him, and certainly not to depend on him, and I wouldnt get hurt. Well, I did my best with that, but our feelings run deep. I managed to keep up a pretty good pretense though, and I really think that aloof attitude is what hooked him for good. Now, the sex is better than ever, our relationship is much stronger than ever after having withstood the test of time and trials of seperation and coming back together, and I’m totally his favorite girl.
Taurus, being a fixed earth sign, adjusts verrry slowly, and needs a lot of time to make any sort of significant change in his life. I think in my case though, scorpionic water weathered taurean rock/earth, and the result is a harmonious, comfortable relationship.
I could probably love him if only he had some intelligence!
March 17th, 2009 at 2:30 pm
The Taurus/Scorpio love/romance/sexual bond is nearly impossinle to break. A Scorpio I loved died years ago, and he’s still freshly imprinted in my mind. Rarely do I so something that we used to do together without thinking of him. It’s like it gets in your psyche!
April 2nd, 2009 at 5:44 pm
i ve been dating a Taurus girl for the past three years now.in fact..she loves me and i do attract her a lot…things get on worst…cos u guys know for we the Scorpios we are always jealous lol
April 2nd, 2009 at 5:48 pm
am a Scorpio and i ve been dating a Taurus girl for the past three years now.in fact..she loves me and i do attract her a lot…things get on worst…cos u guys know for we the Scorpios we are always jealous lol
April 3rd, 2009 at 6:02 am
I read all those guys comments but i do not agree with all of them. Saraha you siad that taurus are abusive, its really highly improper. Its not mean if ur taurean doesnt understand you so all the taureans will be just like him. I’m also a taurean or i’m in relationship with scorpion girl since 3 years.Or interesting thing is that still we didnt meet personaly. On internet chatting we meet with each other.Everything is still going well between us or soon we will marry maybe this year i will go to meet her first time or i’llmake her mine forever.We also fight but dont creat the situation of break up. I dont believe in zodiac compatibility its just entertain us or nothing.couples are made from heaven. just believe if God has made me he must have made my other half.
April 3rd, 2009 at 3:20 pm
This is in response to what Harsh wrote:
I’ll agree that not all Taurus are abusive, but when put under the wrong circumstances, and with certain positions in our charts, we can be. There have been many times when I’ve thrown things just out of anger, but never at someone. I haven’t really hurt a person since I was a kid. With a few quick breaths and understanding, Taurus can calm down. It’s the stubborness that makes a Taurus this way because we feel “stuck in a rut” and feel there’s nothing else to do but lash out.
And a minor note, I’ve been seeing too much God and Christ being mention on the site lately. Nothing against Christianity, I respect the beliefs of others, but not everyone believes in the Bible. Just like many don’t believe in astrology. Not everyone can find all the advice they need through Christianity and frankly, it has never worked for me. That’s why some people turn to astrology, as it is as ancient as the stars and has been used for thousands of years.
Regardless of whether there are higher powers or not, there is someone out there for all of us. We just have to have faith in ourselves that we can find them. (This should be fodder for zealously religious Scorpios.
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April 25th, 2009 at 7:14 pm
Am a taurus and my ex is a scorpio, we were thogethe for more than ten year and still I love him as much or more than at the begining. It is true this match is not easy in fact it is very difficult, we both fought about anything or for no reason. But one thing I knew we couldn’t be apart from eachother. We separated many times but this last time was the worst I felt empy with out him. So am trying to win his love back because like I say this math i crazy but true and it is worth fighting for !!!!!
May 1st, 2009 at 6:42 pm
I am a taurean, been going out with a younger scorpio.He certainly charmed me, and covered up his true self for the first few months, then when I moved in his probing, and insecurities really shone through. what annoys me is the fact that my mobile phone gets read by him, but he constantly hides his phone. I think he does it deliberately to cause an argument, and yes, I absolutely smash the place up. I hate contradictions, which is everything that a scorpio is.
Thing is, I have learnt not to discuss my feelings anymore, because I have learnt that the scorpio will twist things to get out of blame. Instead I write it down, and leave it in his chair. I keep it factual, I write about how we should both take responsibility for our relationship.
Well it seems to be working, and hey, they do say, scorpio’s see everything in black and white, so I guess that means words written on paper which they can’t twist out of, and have to accept for what it is.
Any other ways Taurus/scorpio couples sort out problems would be received graciously, why concentrate on a dark life, when you can concentrate on making it a better life?!
May 7th, 2009 at 10:53 pm
I am a scorpio rising individual, which means I have scorpio on the ascendant. I have been seeing this man with Taurus on his ascendant for a short while, but it has felt like a lifetime. We have had some stormy arguments, many many many ups and downs. And there were times I thought I wouldn’t see him again—and yet here we are still stuck like glue, like we were from the moment we met.
It has not been easy but the answer is simple: I love him. I love his brooding, quietness. I love his possessiveness & physical strength. I think he is very intelligent & still very emotional. I know that I give him a hard time often when I am silent & doing my jealous/suspicious scorpio thing; but he likes it, because it is intense & deep & solid. So, anyways, be patient. Especially if you think you are with the one. Patience & love together win out always.
May 21st, 2009 at 9:16 pm
I am a taurus female. I was in a relationship with a Scorpio male for three years.Needless to say, now it’s a blossoming friendship! The first thing to learn about a Scorpio male is the facade you see on the exterior,( the strong, confident side) is not who they really are. Remember, they’re water signs. Just as sensitive as Cancer. They’re also very secretive, and can I mention, very INSECURE! Had I would I have known about those mysterious traits, I would have approached the relationship much differently. Remember Tauruses, we prefer forthrightness and honesty. (A spade is a spade).But despite the obvious negatives, there are some redeeming qualities for the Taurus women when dealing with a Scorpio male. He can be very romantic, attentive, and very reliable. Which are the three solid traits most Taurus women are looking for…
Also, they LOVE LOVE LOVE money just as much as we do.
May 24th, 2009 at 5:18 pm
I am a Taurus female. I met my Scorpio male over two years ago. Since the moment I was introduced to him I felt this intense connection that did nothing but pull me closer and closer, like a magnetic device. Our relationship has been a roller coaster ride of intense emotions. Sometimes I feel the more deep our love runs and the more I express my emotions the further he distances himself. One would say he has a fear of commitment or is just not into me. I think it is more on the lines of a fear of losing control of his emotions becoming vulnerable in life or just vulnerable to me. What my Scorpio fails to realize is I won’t allow him to be harmed and I will go to the ends of the earth to protect him staying loyal to the end. I have most of the personaility traits I have read in reference to Taurus in fact most appear to be right on que. I am very possessive yet allow my partner to do as they wish as long as they respect and protect our relationship and me. It takes a great deal to get me in a place of mind where I need to walk away. Most would walk away years prior to me. I beleive that true love can get passed many hurdles and there are very few deal breakers. Climbing mountains is what I do best and the feeling of concuring a mountain makes me feel as strong as ever. Although keep in mind,trust,loyalty, respect and fidelity are huge for me. I am very one on one and find relationships to be sacred. That means no one else just us and our family.Friends are fine but our relationship and family first. It takes a great deal for me to trust and I mean really trust someone and once I do my well guarded wall comes down and I let them in. My final wall rarely comes down for anyone. My Scorpio has seemed to cross over all walls yet now I feel vulnerable and under a spell I have no way of breaking. I could go weeks without seeing him and he has even broken off for months yet we end up right back with each other and it is as if time stood still and the bond was strengthed even more then before. How could that be when we had not even seen each other in a great deal of time? I never could figure that one out. I also find myself feeling a psychological connection as if he never leaves and is right with me no matter how far apart we are. Yet, I have found though the more I need him desire him in my life the harder he fights his emotionally availabilty to me. The War of the Wills. I am now scared knowing I dont want to be without him yet feel it as being impossible to compromise with him. It is as if I must submit to his every wish or forget it. Control is an understatement for this one. He is the King and there is no Queen only ones that serve him. The problem or fears lie within me now. I am so tired of this constant silent mind control treatment I dont want to be around anymore. I dont need to have someone control me and I can very well run the kingdom with or without him. I would love to be a team for once. You know the Queen of the kingdom. I love to please him and watch his intense eyes fill with pleasure. Yet I do this not becuase I must it is strickly my choice. Yet he is often used to the ones that serve him with conditions as money. I think it drives him nuts how I wont allow him to buy me as he has with so many others. I want love and pure unconditional devoted love. That is the only true thing that will hold me forever. I dont know if this one will ever get that and in time I will grow very tired of the inconsistancy of his emotions for me. For the time being I have decided to retreat. I am not quite ready to give up on us. Although I must have some sort of resolution to this matter and need some space to clear my head. My Scorpio tends to come around when there is someone threatening his place with me. This time there is know one to stand between us except for him.
June 1st, 2009 at 6:55 am
wow Taurus 7 you pretty much described
the relation I have with my Taurus girl
well on some levels.
well trust me, this coming from a Scorpio
guy himself, he’ll probably come around.
I know I still love my Taurus girl.
June 2nd, 2009 at 7:23 pm
I am a scorpio girl like everyone else here is seems, my problem with my taurus man is sex. I want it all the time, he could go for 3yrs without it. I feel like he is not interested and does not want me. But I am falling now for a Libra born oct.10th that has many scorpio traits. I am lost for what to do, I dont want to settle, but at the same time I dont want to lose the best thing that has ever come my way. What should I do? Cuz I am lost.