Compatibility For Virgo and Scorpio |
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Virgo and Scorpio
The Virgo-Scorpio couple will be a happy couple. Both signs can be overly critical and therefore there will always be a few hiccups along the way, but all in all these two will have a happy and long life together. When I think of this pair I think of a bar which they will no doubt be propping up (with a glass of fine wine or brandy in their hand) whilst systematically stripping everyone else in there down like a soldier with a gun, dissecting all that they are and scrutinizing there very being. And of course giggling wildly whilst doing so. I have spent such evenings with Virgo-Scorpio couples and they are always good nights full of fun, intellect and wine!
Scorpio is a stronger person than the Virgo. Scorpio people, although a Water sign do not shy away from confrontation and will always stand up for what they believe regardless of the consequences whereas their Virgo partner will be sneaking out of the door and running home as fast as they can. Virgo’s do not like confrontation and although can use words to cut and hurt people they won’t enter into a physical fight, ever. Scorpio people are big on principles and can find it hard to let go when someone does not come up to scratch in their eyes.
Sexually this couple will enjoy some wonderful nights together, Scorpio taking the lead but once the Virgo’s barriers have come down they will melt into each other’s arms and leave their worries at the bedroom door. A good match. Enjoy!
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July 30th, 2010 at 3:15 pm
I have had 3 relationships with Virgos. One was my first love, the second was a sex buddy and the third was co worker who I had a fling with for a few months. My first love was great and we got along just fine. We were together almost 2 years. We split because I thought she was cheating and she was too stubborn to tell me she wasn’t. This seems to be the only problem with the Scorpio male/ virgo female pair. My second virgo relationship was with a girl who was just someone to have sex with. She is hands down the best lover I have ever had in my life. Contrary to what is said about Virgo’s sex drive 2 of the 3 Virgo’s I was with had a higher sex drive than me. The third relationship I had with a Virgo was great. We argue a lot but we have learned a lot from one another. I love her a lot as a person. She is doing bad right now because she loves me as a boyfriend but I have a girlfriend and she has a girlfriend. I wish I could save her sometimes but loving her makes her more depressed. I feel bad for her because she doesn’t know how to be happy.
August 25th, 2010 at 5:12 am
I took the time to read all the comments and I noticed a pattern that keeps repeating: scorpio girl/ virgo guy are not that compatible as opposed to Scorpio guy/ virgo girl. I must agree that virgo guys are very weird and difficult to understand. I had a friend who was a virgo and we got along really well, we had an awesome communication, then he screwed up everything. I betrayed our friendship and, on top of that, ran away. I was left confused, angry and sad. 6 years later (right now) he writes me back asking for forgiveness and saying that i was such a great friend, such a noble human being, smart, etc, etc. and that he was really sorry for acting like a stupid jerk and that he regrets a lot to have lost my friendship. He says he has always regret what he did and has never forgotten me, etc, etc. In 6 years a person, regardless of their sign, may or may not change. In the case of this guy, being a virgo and having the typical characteristic of leaving after he does something stupid, I am now more sure than ever that I will not be replying to him or giving him an opportunity for vindication. Good thing I forgave him because I no longer feel angry or sad about the past. I must say thou, that virgo guys make good friends as long as they are sure of themselves and have no ego issues. I have another virgo male/friend to whom I explained the whole story and told me to forgive him. This friend I have is a noble human being, and sometimes believes too much in peace and love, vindication and stuff. He knows that I won’t take his advice thou ’cause he knows me too well. Before everything bad happened between me and my deceitful ex- virgo friend, I thought he also liked me, but then I realized everything was to reassure his ego. Good thing we didn’t go intimate!
So, yeah, to the Scorpio girl who likes a virgo guy the best advice I could ever give you is to make sure that he really likes you. If there is even a shadow of a doubt, a hesitation, or ANYTHING, then BE CAREFUL, don’t fall into the fantasy that he feels the same way, for they are very complicated peeps. Hopefully some day they’ll get their issues solved, until then stay at a SAFE DISTANCE from them (meaning= don’t ever let down your guard), act cool and convince them that you treat them as a regular friend, not like something more important.
Now, I see that the Scorpio guy/ virgo girl relationship seem to work very well, or well enough. This is only natural, since in the opposite case we see that a very emotional woman with a rational guy is a very difficult situation.
My conclusion: scorpio male/virgo female have waaaay higher chances to succeed.
August 25th, 2010 at 5:15 am
*CORRECTION* quote: “HE betrayed our friendship and, on top of that, ran away. I was left confused, angry and sad”
September 3rd, 2010 at 2:50 pm
I’m a virgo girl, and i have been with my scorpio boy for 3 years now. I started dating him my junior tear in highschool, and we just clicked. We have never borken up, never even talked about breaking up. I never get tired of him, even though i live with him and see him everyday! I thknk that scorpio and virgo is a great match!
October 31st, 2010 at 6:06 am
I am a Virgo girl and I have Been dating a Scorpio guy for 9 mouths and yes we do have a lot of arguments but we love each and I no we will get though anything life brings us or maybe I am just so into him hahhahaha I don’t no but I really think that Virgo and Scorpio make a great mach !!! I love my scope guy ONE MORE THING SCORPIO THINK THEY ARE SO COOL BUT REALLY THEY ARE JUST CRY BABY BUT I STILL LOVE MY CRY BABY !!!
January 29th, 2011 at 4:21 am
I have fallen in love with a scorpio dog. I am a virgo dragon. Everything feels fantastic when i am with her. But as has been mentioned. “Trust” is the issue. Something only time will show wether or not a relationship is possible. Even if not, i am thankful to of met such a wonderful person. Mysterious sexy intelligent and emotional. I love the intense energy i feel when with her. A learning scorpios are great people. And it has shown me as the analytical virgo that i dont need to know everything about the other person moment to moment but just to enjoy the energy
February 19th, 2011 at 8:03 am
I was married to a scorpio man. as friends they’re great. as spouses they’re terrible.
he was unfaithful. he lied. always had secrets (which he could never keep from me which he hated).
he did this more than once we did work through a lot of things but in the end he took off after 2 kids and 8 years together… now he wants back cuz he couldnt find anyone better but i dont go back from a betrayal like that. never again. i still have my trusted scorpio guy friends but would never EVER date another one. my moon is in libra with taurus rising, his was scorpio moon with taurus rising, im an ox he was a rat.
.. I also had a relationship with a virgo (aquarius moon, aries rising), he was a Tiger.
handled me MUCH better. but he got too needy and would snap.
we were SO a like but what kept us together also drove us apart. we were TOO much of each other.
he was my best yet worst relationship. ive had friends who have dated virgos (both male and female) and they describe it the same way.
April 1st, 2011 at 1:20 am
I think the reason that Virgo + Scorpio match results tend to vary so much is because their relationship is mostly based off of their potential.
Both signs will dedicate themselves and work hard for the one that they admire, but just like regular couples, both sides have to put in effort. It won’t work if just one of them is trying.
But they do have a lot of potential with each other. If they commit to one another, the relationship is very rewarding. One of the most important things that a relationship requires to run smoothly is communication, and Virgo and Scorpio will be doing a lot of that. As long as they can talk everything out with each other, everything will work out just fine. They usually maintain good friendships because of this too.
When they really fall for each other, it’s amazing how strong their bond is. Their qualities complement each other; Scorpios are famous for being possessive, but this brings security to Virgo. Virgos are famous for being critical, but Scorpios are strong enough to hold their ground. Scorpio’s intensity is good for Virgo, especially since they’re so deep in their thoughts themselves. Virgos are truly loyal and devoted, so this eases Scorpio’s insecurities and paranoia.
I’m a Scorpio myself, and my Virgo guy is 4 years older than me, but he’s given me the best relationship I’ve ever had. Virgos never fail to show how much they really care, and they’re the best lovers. I can talk to him about anything for hours daily, and we never get sick of each other. It’s easy to reignite the flame, and I just keep falling for him over and over again. I might be throwing out the three words soon.
June 2nd, 2011 at 11:15 pm
When I first starting dating my virgo in 09, the timing was bad. We both shown our good sides and bad sides. He cheated and so did I. We were immature. We held our thoughts and emotions inside. Two years later, we are back together and its sooo different. Its better. We trust each other more. We are open to one another more. He is still somewhat ambiguous, but I push him to be straight forward. Also, I know how to read btwn the lines with him. Its a soulmate bond and veryyyyyy intense. It can work if both parties want it to. Scorpio and Virgo are Soulmates.
June 8th, 2011 at 10:18 am
how to propose a virgo girl i m scorpio boy can anyone help me
October 6th, 2011 at 3:28 am
I AM A VIRGO GIRL AND JUST WANT TO GIVE U SCORPIO PPL ADVICE, IF U WANT TO IMPRESS A VIRGO, JUST BE OPEN B/COS FROM MY EXPERIENCE WITH MY SCORP MAN, IT IS ALMOST IMPOSIBLE TO GET HIM TO BE HONEST AND OPEN SOMETIMES. ALSO THEY TAKE AGES TO MAKE DECISIONS AND THAT DRIVES A VIRGO MAD. WE JUST WANT EVERYTHING NICE AND CLEAR. SO IF UR NOT SURE BOUT WHAT U ARE GOING TO SAY JUST DONT SAY ANYTHING AT ALL :)SO FAR JUST WANTED TO SAY THAT AS I AM TYPICAL VIRGO GIRL :))) …SORRY FOR MISTAKES IN GRAMMAR…
October 13th, 2011 at 3:50 am
Hi , I’m a virgo female and quite awhile ago I met this scorpio. Right away we were captured by one another, there was intense passion and communication. He opened up to me , sharing his personal thoughts of how he was burnt in the past by ex girlfriends .Everything seemed normal seeing how we were talking everyday. Then out of the blue a lost in interest from his side, he moves away , comes back , i reach out to him , we meet for the first time in months , he seemed eager and a little reserved when he saw me . Then after three days of seeing me he has a girlfriend.A month after that he chooses to message me asking for some songs that we were both interested in , I answered then he replied asking for me and i never spoke to him again. Can anyone give any type of input or analysis of why he drew back ? Why he decided to see me after 3 months , then has a girlfriend ?
November 26th, 2011 at 12:59 am
I have not posted in a while and quite frankly nothing has changed with my situation. I have decided to move on because my Virgo friend clearly has. He never texts or calls, so obviously his heart is elsewhere. You cannot force someone to want you or to like you. IF a man has feelings for you, HE WILL make the time for you! So I guess I am just not the right woman for him. It is just very unfortunate that we could not remain friends because of his immaturity. I feel sad about something that i truly thought was a deep bond and good honest repetoire between two individuals. All the previous posts keep stating that two signs (Virgo and Scorpio) are so compatible and have amazing communication,but not in my experience, if it is meant to be, it will be.