Compatibility For Virgo and Scorpio |
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Virgo and Scorpio
The Virgo-Scorpio couple will be a happy couple. Both signs can be overly critical and therefore there will always be a few hiccups along the way, but all in all these two will have a happy and long life together. When I think of this pair I think of a bar which they will no doubt be propping up (with a glass of fine wine or brandy in their hand) whilst systematically stripping everyone else in there down like a soldier with a gun, dissecting all that they are and scrutinizing there very being. And of course giggling wildly whilst doing so. I have spent such evenings with Virgo-Scorpio couples and they are always good nights full of fun, intellect and wine!
Scorpio is a stronger person than the Virgo. Scorpio people, although a Water sign do not shy away from confrontation and will always stand up for what they believe regardless of the consequences whereas their Virgo partner will be sneaking out of the door and running home as fast as they can. Virgo’s do not like confrontation and although can use words to cut and hurt people they won’t enter into a physical fight, ever. Scorpio people are big on principles and can find it hard to let go when someone does not come up to scratch in their eyes.
Sexually this couple will enjoy some wonderful nights together, Scorpio taking the lead but once the Virgo’s barriers have come down they will melt into each other’s arms and leave their worries at the bedroom door. A good match. Enjoy!
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November 14th, 2008 at 2:31 pm
I always get mixed reviews about the Virgo/Scorpio pairing. Some say that they’ll do great together, being sextile and all, and others will say that they’re just a tad too different. In my eyes, they’re opposites. Virgo likes the perfect, pure and “virgin,” hence, their symbol. Scorpio, on the other hand, has an affinity for the corrupt and flawed and anything involving sex. Most Virgos are a bit too prudent for that.
I once knew a Scorpio/Virgo couple. They were good friends, enjoyed working with each other because one could handle what the other couldn’t. However, they never got past the “bedroom” stage because they couldn’t see themselves together that way. My guess it had something to do with lack of trust, as both of these signs take a while to give themselves whole to people.
November 17th, 2008 at 3:59 pm
I dont know about a scorpio being a stronger
person than a virgo- there are alot of will-ful virgo’s who can handle themselfs and others quite effective..and plus Virgos wont tollerate Nonsense, anyway..
December 14th, 2008 at 12:04 am
The guy that I’m seeing right now is a Virgo, and it’s been great so far. It’s been a month so far, and I have to say from my perspective, it’s the best combination that’s out there. Virgo and Scorpio seem to be soulmates. I didn’t meet my Virgo at a party, I met him at a bookstore.
December 18th, 2008 at 9:35 am
Virgo Scorpio couple are the best i think. I met 1 guy who is a virgo and we get on well with each other but suddenly he realized that we don’t go together as a couple and i found it wrong. So being a patient scorpio i am just waiting for him to give up and i am quite sure he will. I am still talkin to him and i find him just irrestible.
January 30th, 2009 at 11:19 am
I am a scorpio and met a wonderful virgo guy due to work. We have been chatting for over a year now and have not met yet, but we share an intense bond. I just know that we are soulmates and are made for one another. Our conversations just flow so naturally. We have lots in common and share the same moral values. There is a very heated physical attraction as well, eventhough it’s only via IM. We have become very intimate and decided that it’s time to meet each other. However, after getting really close, he now needs time to reflect and has retreated, and I have no idea why he is doing this to me.
I think virgos are extremely cautious and rational beings while scorpios are intuitive and emotional, I guess you just need to be extremely patient with virgo. I am also waiting to finally embrace my virgo.
February 4th, 2009 at 2:42 pm
I m a virgo girl..A male scorpio and female virgo can be great friends….but for a long term commitment and love i have never found scorpio guy an interesting one…dey are dominating and emotional and at the same time have a different outlook towards love and life…a scorpio cant touch the deep longing and purity of soul which a virgo girl has…
February 28th, 2009 at 9:43 pm
i, a virgo gril found myself having so much fun with a boy scorpio boy. we’ve been going on these crazy adventures, and i suddenly found myself falling in love with him.
March 4th, 2009 at 4:01 am
This what I am saying hurts lol I guess its part of being a scorpio female.. I’ve met this one vigo guy on the net,, he is really a sweet guy and all shy ye and doesn’t show his emotion much but he does do poetry and music to express it in a hiden way.. When I 1st saw him on myspace I didn’t think much of him beside that girls need to leave him alone lol,, but when he wrote me that where I took the chance to read his blog and see what he is about with what he written about hisself on his page,, I would had never guessed that ever in my life the guy that I’ve always dreamed of was actually here alive,, I got connected instantly we talk and had a nice bond then I told him how I felt he liked it but after a while something idk what happened but we slipped apart I’ve tried so much to show him the girl he looking for is in me but with everything I tried he still didn’t see it in me,, he was the 1st guy I dared to let it out and dared to not be shy and dared to give my heart to b/c I believed I could see trust in him and I don’t trust easily,, now there is this big huge change in me b/c I left a part of me and gived to much to him my words song everything I just wanted to give him back what some1 took from him and show him I was blind to see that slowly the more I tried I was giving a part of me to much and I can’t let him go but ill always be happy for him when he finds that girl,, sometimes I wished he could just see how many tears I actually cried b/c its not right 4 me to know him but be sliced for it I wasn’t even looking for love I geuss I trapped myself he a good guy a real sincere sweet guy that wants to be loved and give love to Mis right,, it hurt b/c I want to stop this feeling I have for him he doesn’t even notice me anymore and if he does why will he allow me 2 fall like dis.. I don’t even wanna give no man a chance,, im here waiting patiently on him but there is some1 els who want my love and we are cool but everytime I try the guy comes back to me and it hurt b/c its like me and him will never be and if we are gonna at sometime be soul mates it be truelly wonderful we have so much in commen but much that we can learn from each other and work together a total team am I waiting on someone that will never see me again,, he a good guy don’t think he not just c for yourself b4 judging but something happen I guess he just not into me,, he changed me in a big way no wonder why he can’t see it idk what to do im really stuck if only he knew exactly how I feel and to think I gaved my heart so he won’t be alone now he left me alone broken hearted for the 1st time I really hope someone can help me figure this out
March 17th, 2009 at 2:01 am
I think Virgo-Scorpio relationships are the best match there is. I’ve had this on and off thing with a Scorpio for over 4 years now, and I’ve never fallen for anyone harder than I have him. We complement eachother, and he makes me feel secure. He is intense and jealous, but that again makes me feel secure. And security is something I crave. We can talk about ANYTHING, and he doesn’t make me feel weird about opening up. I can share with him things I would never be able to share with anyone else. It just feels so natural. I agree, virgo-scorpio just seem to be soulmates.
March 19th, 2009 at 1:31 pm
hmm… my mom and dad are a virgo-scorpio (dad virgo monkey and my mom scorpio ox). They both get along great and have been married for about 26 years. They’ve had 3 children: female cancer dog , male gemini monkey , and male taurus dog . I dont get along great with both of my parents… seriously. I think I’m the odd one out in my family… oh-well
March 19th, 2009 at 4:37 pm
I’m a Virgo, and I’ve around Scorpios my whole life. I’ve learned that Virgos and Scorpios are mutual counterparts - half alike and half different. They’re both private souls and have problems with trust, so they need to solve any differences they have BEFORE considering being more than friends.
I’ve never been romantically involved with a Scorpio, but I’ve read that life is NEVER dull with them and they can be loyal and loving.
Scorpios are just like everyone else, only more intensified!
March 31st, 2009 at 1:56 am
All valid comments.
My Scorpio partner is unique in many ways, not just because of his astrological traits but also because of his personal nuances and foibles.
Our relationship first started nearly 2 years ago. It was a cliche ‘boy meets girl at a bar’ scenario.
What has evolved since then is that he relocated to live in my city (he resided interstate), 6 months later he moved in with my son and I, 4 months after that we became the proud owners of our first home.
We have alot we aim to accomplish and he has already started on our retirement plans and investment portfolio. We are only in our mid 30’s.
But before you vomit any further, it is important to note that there is no perfect relationship because people are not perfect. Yes we Virgo’s stive for perfection or improvement in ourselves, others and the world we live in - however if we cna all try to understand, appreciate and realise that some of those chinks, dents and imperfections actually make us all the more lovable and unique.
Most of us concentrate / build on what we have in common with our partner. That’s he easy part when things are rosey and lovey-dovey (honeymoon period).
When things turn sour, well I guess that’s where people start seeing differences in their partner that they never paid attention to before.
Sometimes those differences are the very things that can help build a stronger and more durable relationship.
Obviously we all have deal-breakers or show-stopping rules - the rules vary for each individual.
So what I’m saying is this (apologies if you’re yawning by now)…
He’s not perfect.
I’m not perfect.
But put us together and the puzzle of our lives, both now and for our planned future, makes sense.
NB: My two other long term partners have been Cancer (4 yrs) and then Sagittarius (9.5yrs). I lived and learned alot from both of them. All the while growing, loving and learning more about myself.
Goodluck to you all - sending you whitelight and prosperity in your intimate relationships both now and in the future x
April 26th, 2009 at 11:53 pm
wow. This is scary accurate. I’m the scorpio here, but I’m apparently in something called the third decantant, aso I’m not quite as stron a scorpio, but still… scary.
My love is a cusp child of virgo and leo. according to the math of the zodiac, leo’s are absolute no-no’s for a scorpio. I beleive that he takes more of the Virgo’s side.
He’s adorable, though he’d disagree with that. We actually haven’t met face to face, but it’s something special between the two of us. I can imagine that if he and I were together here, wed be inseperable, though I’d have to keep control of his impulsive negative comments about himself.
The relationship started (online, anyway) about seven or eight months ago.
My Virgo is mine, and our love is going to be forever, I can feel it.
June 5th, 2009 at 8:31 pm
I have known my virgo for years and years and I can finally say that i am in love with him. HOWEVER, as of late our communication has been going down hill and i have been trying unsucessfully to reassure him that I am here for him and he can always count on me for anything. he has been struggling with a lot lately, and I want to be there for him but he is not letting me in. I fear that he has a lot of intimacy and trust issues…..should I just confess to him how I feel or should I let it be even though I know we are right for each other…..any advice?
June 16th, 2009 at 5:44 pm
I agree with that scorpio and virgo make a great couple. I am a virgo and meet my scorpio at a Halloween party. The moment I saw him I knew that I had to talk to him. He came up to me and we had a great conversation right off the bat. No numbers were exchanged but a day later bumped into him with a friend. We sat and talked all night and since then we are still great friends. There was a moment when we were more then friends but he backed off but I still have very high hopes that things will become romantic again. I have never been head over hills for a guy like this ever. He is an amazing guy and I feel he brings out the best in me. So best to luck with everyone.
June 17th, 2009 at 4:21 am
I am a virgo tiger and felt a huge attraction towards this scorpio horse that I’ve bumped into on and off over the years….I’m finally seeing him next week; when I let him know I was interested he intensely let me know it was mutual…so, astrologically-speaking, it sounds like that feeling I get around him is dead-on…this IS a good thing. We shall see…
June 20th, 2009 at 9:42 pm
Im a scorpio who was dating a Virgo male for alittle over 2 months back from Nov-Jan. I think they are a wonderful match together i just think Virgo’s are confusing somtimes and don’t know what they want. We had great communication and a pretty good intimat relationship. But i relized Virgo’s are very hard to come out straight forward with there feeling’s which could be a problem to me since i am very upforward. He kind of just drifted apart without saying anything and that confused the life out of me lol. Other than that Virgo men are very wonderful fun people to be around. I miss him and i hope sometime soon in the future we can go back to being more than friends…..
July 11th, 2009 at 5:44 pm
i was with my scorpio for 5 years off and on. he was a mommas boy however. even when he was living under my roof, whatever momma said he did it. momma didnt like me so he started shyin away. he came and went as he pleased. i loved him to death. and i still do thats the scary part. we have been broke up for almost 2 years now. he came at me about 2 mths ago and said he wanted to marry me and that i complete him and al that other bullshit, said he wanted me to be the mother of his kids. but then he went mia for like 2 weeks (hes in the military and is station germany, after we broke up in 07 he joined) he claimed since he had been working so hard that he was gonna get drunk and go fuck someone while he was there.but not take it the wrong way he still loved me and he jsut need to relieve some tension. um no! fuck no! so after that i kind of went off and just didnt say much any more. well i guess he went off and did it cuz i havet heard from him since. except when he saw that i had dyed my hair blonde he complimented me on my myspace via email and that was it. i dyed my hair blonde and lost some weight and have now started dating a taurus which i love and glad i have found. he on the other hand i stil mia. me and my taurus are getting together all the shit that i had saved from 5 years with the scorpio and are planning on burning it together as a new start and chapter of my life.
July 14th, 2009 at 7:59 am
I was in a Scorp/Virgo relationship for 7 months.
After reading the comments I think most of the successful relationships consist of the guy being a scorpio and the girl being a virgo.
Warning to all female scorps: BE CAUTIOUS OF THE MALE VIRGO!!!
Add the fact that Scorps are already emotional beings, and add the factor of being an emotional woman and you have too much emotion for the male Virgo to handle.
I can almost guarantee you that this Virgo male will make you put down you guard and then you’ll discover that you are attracted to him and like him more than he is to you. You have created a bond with a person who is so wrapped up in making everyone envious of him, and getting back at those who treated him wrong when he was a youth - that he will not be willing to settle for a person who is not also seeking revenge. Because of this nature, he becomes vain and self-serving. Where the Scorp is the outsider who doesn’t mind being the outsider and inadvertently attracts more people to them, the Virgo is the sulking little boy in the corner who vows to grow up and become Bill Gates just to make his enemies pay!
A Virgo male will not think with his heart, even if he loves you if he assumes you can’t help him amass some type of fortune or revenge then you have to go, conquering the world is more important to him than love.
The Scorp. woman will feel left, hurt, and wondering what went wrong. She has invested her heart into someone who she thought loved her, only to find out that he will leave her with no consideration for her feelings or her genuine love for him.
August 5th, 2009 at 12:17 am
im a scorpio male (27th october) and i can’t stand virgos especially men, i find them boring, irritating, attention seeking and spineless. all virgo men i know including my father are cheatin, liars who like to use people to get what they want. and before any virgos start accusing me of hating, trust me when i say this, as a scorpion i have nothing to envy about virgos as i see them as a weaker sign. my girlfriend is a virgo and its the most boring relationship ever. i agree that we are compatible to some degree but she just dont stimulate my mind at all. im trying to leave her for this pisces girl i just meet but she is so clingy and wont let me move on. to every one out there, how do you get rid of virgos? why are they so clingy? they beg, beg, beg, beg and beg, dont they have any pride?
August 21st, 2009 at 11:18 am
The Virgo’s are the MOST beautiful sign of all. I read on and on about Virgo being compatible to other signs , but it seems to be compatible with all
maybe because they never say anything without thinking about it.
They always think, think, and analyze , whatever they say it is all calculated, pure and innocent,afraid of the consequences. Never meant to hurt no one
They don;t play mind games, don’t pluck up hatred, can’t stand being in a fight…It is Everything that one could ever wish for.
My gf is Virgo, and it is the most beautiful relationship that ever existed on this planet. She is the most caring of all…not just saying that she loves you, but she also SHOWS it. by doing everything possible to please me.
I would DEFINITELY KILL FOR HER without a sip of regret, lift mountines , give my life for her.
All Virgo’s i have met are pretty much the same … they are all tidy , pristine:)
You must fall in love with Virgo, it is best that could happen. I mean look at Beyonce , look at Keanu Reeves, all powerfull but yet humble. Always in their best …ahh, I SOO MUCH LOVE THOSE caracteristic in a person. Always clear headed, never complain if they work too much…
TO the scorpion king, i wish you all the worst for making fun of your girlfriend. Do not reply to my comment , being idiot twice (by replaying again) on the web is not good thing
Love my girl!!!!! (all men should treat women like me, and all woman should be like my girl) Scorpio and Virgo=100% compatible
August 21st, 2009 at 3:27 pm
Hello Phoney..
Well I am happy for you that you have found your compatible sign. But as a responsible member you should refrain from patronising a certain sign…
Especially when you say..”all men should treat women like me, and all woman should be like my girl” Thats a bit too much… Why dont you just focus on your life instead of giving others advice of how they should be like… I mean YOU ARE NO ONE TO TELL OTHERS HOW THEY SHOULD BE..
September 7th, 2009 at 4:43 pm
HI Im virgo. I just ended a relationship with a Scorpio girl.
I WANT to get back.. it has been amazing.. crazy, sexual, funny experience…
THE PROBLEM is exactly what has been said here before.. I started critizising too much… I didnt know scorpios took so much time to take decisions.. I started loosing trust in her.. instead of earning patience (i didnt read the zodiac before starting the relationship)…
IM SURe..if she learns to be more open, and less emotional.. and IF I learn to be MORE patient and LESS critizising and judge… IM sure it can make a wonderful relationship…
Please wish the best for me
September 17th, 2009 at 10:53 pm
I’m a Virgo and I have had 3 encounters with Scropios and it’s all been a blast never ending badly (just parting of companies)
It’s interesting as I never really had a full on relationship however, I have managed to have good intelletual conversations, there passsion, likes and dislikes and vice versa. I have enjoyed their company and even manage to have a lot of fun in the bedroom.
I feel (this maybe the first for this virgo, as it’s usually ‘I think’) that it’s within’ the chemistry.
As we all have friends of different signs and signs we’re not suppose to get on with .. but we manage to get with most, whether it’s work related or circumstance somehow we just do +plus life pretty random.
SO I put it to you that if your a Virgo or Scropio be lucky!
it should not take much to find qualities you both admire. As for the negatives .. well I think it makes us only human and interesting if we can work around them. Life is not a constant state people it’s a journey. take notes, learn, be suprised, review,weigh the pros and cons however enjoy the ride. it’s a rolla-coaster!
September 30th, 2009 at 4:42 am
I’M A VIRGO WOMAN I HAVE TO DISAGREE WITH THE STATEMENT THAT A SCORPIO IS A STRONGER PERSON THAN A VIRGO I’VE HAD THREE SCORPIO BOYFRIENDS AND I NEVER BACKED DOWN FROM ANYTHING WITH EITHER OF THEM, BUT UNLIKE MY SCORPIO EX’S I DO KNOW HOW TO CHOOSE MY BATTLES EFFECTIVELY…IT’S NOT NECESSARY TO ARGUE ABOUT EVERYTHING. WE GOT ALONG GREAT BUT, THE BIGGEST FLAW WITH THE SCORPIO MEN I’VE ENCOUNTERED IS THEIR LUST FOR MONEY AND POWER..ITS A LITTLE SCAREY HOW MONEY HUNGRY THEY CAN BE STEPPING ON ANYONE IN THEIR WAY TO GET TO A PIECE OF GREEN PAPER..IF IT WASN’T FOR THE GREED I’D STILL BE WITH MY SCORPIO, BUT OH WELL GUESS I’LL NEED A BETTER VERSION OF A SCORPIO BECAUSE WE REALLY DO HAVE A GREAT ROMANTIC CONNECTION..VIRGOS AND SCORPIOS
September 30th, 2009 at 4:48 am
TO THE SCORPION KING YOU SHOULDN’T DOG YOUR GIRLFRIEND OUT LIKE THAT, YOU SAY VIRGOS HAVE NO PRIDE, BUT I THINK SCORPIOS HAVE TO MUCH PRIDE AND IF YOU KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT PRIDE, PRIDE DOESN’T GET YOU ANYWHERE, SELF RESPECT DOES, BUT NOT PRIDE…VIRGOS STILL HAVE IT THOUGH JUST AS MOST PEOPLE DO, BUT I’LL BE THE FIRST TO SAY WHEN A VIRGO LOVES SOMEONE..THEY’LL BE UNWAIVERING IN THEIR EFFORTS TO SAVE THEIR RELATIONSHIP WITH THAT PERSON WE’RE NOT EMBARASSED TO SAY WHAT WE NEED TO SAY ABOUT HOW WE FEEL SO WE CAN GET OUR POINT ACROSS TO THAT PERSON..POINT BLANK
October 1st, 2009 at 9:30 pm
Oh my….
I don’t know what to think…
I’m a virgo girl with a wonderful scorpio boyfriend, we’re dating for almost 4 months now and I must say it has been amazing. He’s completly in love with me and I feel good ^^
also I’ve my ascendent in scorpio so I can talk about my experiences with a virgo boy. The most actractive, funny, etc. boy I ever met and also the most sensitive and sad. It was just like you said (up there), but I got to understand him totally since I “deal” with him every day and I’m also a really honest person with him. yes, he enjoys flirting, but if you are not the one (sorry…
)FORGET!! he may try.. But he will never do it for a long period of time. He may keep you around just because he likes attention and as he has almost no self esteem at all, he may unconsciously find you useful. Use you, but not with bad intentions and later he will regret it.
As for my dear scorpio, I want him here everyday. Although a little insecure… I think it’s natural … All that INTENSIVE and BIG passion out of the blue, and all that sexuality!! It’s not that I don’t want. Hell! of course I want but … I feel bad saying “no” and want it at the same time. x.x
I want him forever so I just can’t understand why he’s pushing so hard. I mean… I love him! why do I have to say it 10000000 times a day? is not that i don’t want but…
I’m just so happy with my relacionship, it’s so dreamy, and we’re just perfect.
virgo+scorpio yes!FOREVER MY DEAR
October 1st, 2009 at 9:53 pm
btw SORRY for the mistakes I cannot see but i’m sure I did (PORTUGUESE GIRL \o/). just wanted to express, you’ll get there ^^… good luck you guys!!
October 18th, 2009 at 7:53 pm
i’m a virgo my parents are Scorpio and Virgo. According to my dad who is the Scorpio my mom is the best thing that ever happened to him. They’ve been married for over 35 years! I’m 23 and i’m looking for my Scorpio better half because I want what my parents have. They are very affectionate towards each other and dad always says mom is one “hot piece of ass”, gross I know. I’ve seen first hand this is a soulmate combination. My friends have always made comments about my parents lovey dovey relationhip. This combo has been underrated and under the radar on a lot of the websites I’ve seen. My parents relationship has lasted a lifetime and they are still in love. Virgo Scorpio is HOT! HOT! HOT!
November 8th, 2009 at 1:10 pm
thnks alot.. may dis astrology for scorpio n virgo goes perfect …
November 17th, 2009 at 8:41 pm
I am a Scorpio woman. My best relationships have been with Virgo’s. My first marriage was to an Aquarius man. That is the worst sign for us Scorpio’s. I am remarried to a Virgo. We are perfect for each other. We create a nice balance for each other. We have great communication, love and passion.
November 30th, 2009 at 12:11 am
Tip:
When a Virgo critizises its only because they care to notice…they don’t neccessarily want to change you I think its more the fact that they notice it and some of them try to understand it whereas others are just annoyed by it and just need to let it out…they’ll get over it eventually or just get used to it!
the thing is Virgo’s carries the criticism against them with them forever and work on it constantly to be a better person..so that’s why I think virgo analyses and crits so often…
Just a little something to think about when you are getting critized by one…
Scorpio is like fire…Virgo’s are gasoline…lol…light the fire and the fun is on!! lol….and Virgo’s may be compatible with most signs probably because they try to be as perfect partners as they can be….doesn’t mean the Virgo is always happy though!
And phoney….lol…Rutu makes some good points…but Rutu…the man is inlove….give some credit…haha…don’t take it that seriously…
Have fun kidz!
x
December 11th, 2009 at 6:34 pm
I have not been on this website in a while, so I finally told my virgo what I have been wanting to say for so very long, AND NOW HE IS NOT TALKING TO ME! So I feel like I made a huge mistake in revealing my true feelings and I don’t think we can be friends again after this…….I am so heartbroken right now, maybe there isn’t always a happy ending for Scorpio+Virgos!
January 7th, 2010 at 2:39 am
I am a Scorpio and have been with a Virgo on and off for a year. We have great sex but I think it is because he knows how to manipulate minds and I am in my 30’s as a female it will be good or you will be gone.
He listens intently; however, it is so he can find all your weak spots and he will push every button because Virgo’s are such bored individuals not because you are boring but because he hates himself even though he is a Narcisistic Evil Person.
Scorpio females love to love and love to be loved - they also communicate Something a Virgo doesnt know how to do unless it is business, acting, or scams to benefit their own ego and their own bank account.
Scorpio’s are resilient and Virgo’s are users esp mine because he is a pyschopath narcisistic man who agrees with anyone but has no opinion out loud that is but they are the most ruthless of all signs next to Sag Males
I am not able to get away from mine but he came in charming and loyal until he felt I did something that he hated so instead of helping me with my issue he used it against me to only later cheat, ignore me (which makes my blood boil), use me for financial gain, lies to others about me, he has physically, mentally, sexually, emotionally abused me, drugged me and then had me put in a rehab against my will(he needs it not me) convincing everyone I was crazy not him, putting lives at risk in traffic which could have resulted in families or children being killed (did this twice he only say sorry) words are cheap, he has hit me and each time I go to police something happens to me not him so I will just have to hope that God fixes this by giving me a special someone and him a special someone at the same time so we can move on with our lives before it gets any worse. Dont get me wrong I have my own issues like jealousy, never giving up even if it is not the best thing for me, and the wonderful trait of maybe I can be the one to change him even though I know better
I have dated a couple other Virgo men and they were ruthless as well. I leave the Virgos to the Capricorns as I bet this would be a better match - I pray for my Cancer, Pisces, Tauras or Capricorn soon before it is too late.
January 16th, 2010 at 8:35 pm
Me and my boyfriend have been together for year and a half. Im a VIRGO and he a SCORPIO! All I can say is that I love him to death. There is nothing that I won’t do for him. What surprises me is that we are stil young. Im 17 and he 19 and for most of our relationship, it has been long distance. Whoever said that Virgo and Scorpio is not a match made in HEAVEN has no idea what they are talking about.
Yes, me and him have our ups and downs but I couldn’t be any happier. We are complete opposites but we give each other what the other needs or lack. I believe that even at a young age, I have found the one that was created for me. We have no regrets going for our 2yr-anniversity in July!
VIRGO & SCORPIO is the real deal!
February 11th, 2010 at 10:28 am
Wow! I am crazy abt a virgo/monkey. Me, Scorpio/goat. Doing alot of reading and study on the combination…the virgo monkey sounds like a lot of fun, yet my gut feeling is screaming NO!!!!!!! The monkey part does not give me a warm fuzzy….seems to me it would be a short term relationship.
March 29th, 2010 at 3:25 pm
i am a virgo…and i absolutely love my scorpio..we’ve ben together for about two years now.and i wouldnt trade those memories for anything.we are very different.but at the same time we share the same beliefs and principles about life..no matter how sad i am he always says or does something that just brightens my day.when i look into his eyes..its like unlocking the mystery that lies within him. When he touches me i melt..and when he smiles my way i cant help but smile back.i gotta admit that its not all rainbows at times..he hides his emotions very well.and i just want to be there for him..but..i still love him.
April 13th, 2010 at 8:08 pm
It’s been quite a while since I have posted on here, but I am no longer speaking to my virgo crush which is hard because we have been friends for a long time. The situation just became too draining for me, although I still feel like there is potential for something to be there, he has a lot of issues and i don’t want to add anymore stress to his life. I am a very open person and i expect that quality in others, so maybe right there I am asking too much already because he just cannot give me what I need. We rarely communicate which is a huge issue for me because I am so blunt and honest, and i cannot stand being avoided, and that is what he was doing for a while so i just totally pulled away. I know that he is scared to open up and give his heart away but you wont know if you dont try, and I tried and tried and tried to make him see it but its hard trying to move forward if the other party is so guarded. Its sad but life goes on and I am going to try hard to move on too.
April 27th, 2010 at 1:49 am
this is an interesting website. i am a virgo and i am married to a scorpio man. love him but the most selfish person i have ever met…great things too though..he is passionate, committed, loyal and protects me…we get along great…we are great friends and even better lovers…but there is a dark side to a scorpio man…do not cross him EVER…and be careful trusting his integrity..hope this dosent sound terrible just honest…virgos are big on integrity and right and wrong…scorpio men in my experience are big on whatever it is they are big on…i think the relationship is still good though because noone is perfect…hell i criticize EVERYTHING which drives his optimistic self nuts…we kinda calm and balance each other…he has taught me alot about myself
May 25th, 2010 at 4:39 pm
Veronica,
I feel like we are talking about the SAME person! lol, Are all Virgos alike or is it just our situation. I am a female Scorpio who also had a friendship for years with a male Virgo, everything was great as long as I didn’t pressure him to take the relationship further. I finally confronted him once and for all after TEN years together, if we were ever going to be more than just best friends with benefits and he has not talked to me in a week now! We used to talk EVERY DAY multiple times a day and now NOTHING. I’m so disappointed and heart-broken. You don’t happen to be in Florida, do you? lol. It’s hard to let go of something I felt was so right.
July 30th, 2010 at 3:15 pm
I have had 3 relationships with Virgos. One was my first love, the second was a sex buddy and the third was co worker who I had a fling with for a few months. My first love was great and we got along just fine. We were together almost 2 years. We split because I thought she was cheating and she was too stubborn to tell me she wasn’t. This seems to be the only problem with the Scorpio male/ virgo female pair. My second virgo relationship was with a girl who was just someone to have sex with. She is hands down the best lover I have ever had in my life. Contrary to what is said about Virgo’s sex drive 2 of the 3 Virgo’s I was with had a higher sex drive than me. The third relationship I had with a Virgo was great. We argue a lot but we have learned a lot from one another. I love her a lot as a person. She is doing bad right now because she loves me as a boyfriend but I have a girlfriend and she has a girlfriend. I wish I could save her sometimes but loving her makes her more depressed. I feel bad for her because she doesn’t know how to be happy.
August 25th, 2010 at 5:12 am
I took the time to read all the comments and I noticed a pattern that keeps repeating: scorpio girl/ virgo guy are not that compatible as opposed to Scorpio guy/ virgo girl. I must agree that virgo guys are very weird and difficult to understand. I had a friend who was a virgo and we got along really well, we had an awesome communication, then he screwed up everything. I betrayed our friendship and, on top of that, ran away. I was left confused, angry and sad. 6 years later (right now) he writes me back asking for forgiveness and saying that i was such a great friend, such a noble human being, smart, etc, etc. and that he was really sorry for acting like a stupid jerk and that he regrets a lot to have lost my friendship. He says he has always regret what he did and has never forgotten me, etc, etc. In 6 years a person, regardless of their sign, may or may not change. In the case of this guy, being a virgo and having the typical characteristic of leaving after he does something stupid, I am now more sure than ever that I will not be replying to him or giving him an opportunity for vindication. Good thing I forgave him because I no longer feel angry or sad about the past. I must say thou, that virgo guys make good friends as long as they are sure of themselves and have no ego issues. I have another virgo male/friend to whom I explained the whole story and told me to forgive him. This friend I have is a noble human being, and sometimes believes too much in peace and love, vindication and stuff. He knows that I won’t take his advice thou ’cause he knows me too well. Before everything bad happened between me and my deceitful ex- virgo friend, I thought he also liked me, but then I realized everything was to reassure his ego. Good thing we didn’t go intimate!
So, yeah, to the Scorpio girl who likes a virgo guy the best advice I could ever give you is to make sure that he really likes you. If there is even a shadow of a doubt, a hesitation, or ANYTHING, then BE CAREFUL, don’t fall into the fantasy that he feels the same way, for they are very complicated peeps. Hopefully some day they’ll get their issues solved, until then stay at a SAFE DISTANCE from them (meaning= don’t ever let down your guard), act cool and convince them that you treat them as a regular friend, not like something more important.
Now, I see that the Scorpio guy/ virgo girl relationship seem to work very well, or well enough. This is only natural, since in the opposite case we see that a very emotional woman with a rational guy is a very difficult situation.
My conclusion: scorpio male/virgo female have waaaay higher chances to succeed.
August 25th, 2010 at 5:15 am
*CORRECTION* quote: “HE betrayed our friendship and, on top of that, ran away. I was left confused, angry and sad”
September 3rd, 2010 at 2:50 pm
I’m a virgo girl, and i have been with my scorpio boy for 3 years now. I started dating him my junior tear in highschool, and we just clicked. We have never borken up, never even talked about breaking up. I never get tired of him, even though i live with him and see him everyday! I thknk that scorpio and virgo is a great match!
October 31st, 2010 at 6:06 am
I am a Virgo girl and I have Been dating a Scorpio guy for 9 mouths and yes we do have a lot of arguments but we love each and I no we will get though anything life brings us or maybe I am just so into him hahhahaha I don’t no but I really think that Virgo and Scorpio make a great mach !!! I love my scope guy ONE MORE THING SCORPIO THINK THEY ARE SO COOL BUT REALLY THEY ARE JUST CRY BABY BUT I STILL LOVE MY CRY BABY !!!
January 29th, 2011 at 4:21 am
I have fallen in love with a scorpio dog. I am a virgo dragon. Everything feels fantastic when i am with her. But as has been mentioned. “Trust” is the issue. Something only time will show wether or not a relationship is possible. Even if not, i am thankful to of met such a wonderful person. Mysterious sexy intelligent and emotional. I love the intense energy i feel when with her. A learning scorpios are great people. And it has shown me as the analytical virgo that i dont need to know everything about the other person moment to moment but just to enjoy the energy
February 19th, 2011 at 8:03 am
I was married to a scorpio man. as friends they’re great. as spouses they’re terrible.
he was unfaithful. he lied. always had secrets (which he could never keep from me which he hated).
he did this more than once we did work through a lot of things but in the end he took off after 2 kids and 8 years together… now he wants back cuz he couldnt find anyone better but i dont go back from a betrayal like that. never again. i still have my trusted scorpio guy friends but would never EVER date another one. my moon is in libra with taurus rising, his was scorpio moon with taurus rising, im an ox he was a rat.
.. I also had a relationship with a virgo (aquarius moon, aries rising), he was a Tiger.
handled me MUCH better. but he got too needy and would snap.
we were SO a like but what kept us together also drove us apart. we were TOO much of each other.
he was my best yet worst relationship. ive had friends who have dated virgos (both male and female) and they describe it the same way.
April 1st, 2011 at 1:20 am
I think the reason that Virgo + Scorpio match results tend to vary so much is because their relationship is mostly based off of their potential.
Both signs will dedicate themselves and work hard for the one that they admire, but just like regular couples, both sides have to put in effort. It won’t work if just one of them is trying.
But they do have a lot of potential with each other. If they commit to one another, the relationship is very rewarding. One of the most important things that a relationship requires to run smoothly is communication, and Virgo and Scorpio will be doing a lot of that. As long as they can talk everything out with each other, everything will work out just fine. They usually maintain good friendships because of this too.
When they really fall for each other, it’s amazing how strong their bond is. Their qualities complement each other; Scorpios are famous for being possessive, but this brings security to Virgo. Virgos are famous for being critical, but Scorpios are strong enough to hold their ground. Scorpio’s intensity is good for Virgo, especially since they’re so deep in their thoughts themselves. Virgos are truly loyal and devoted, so this eases Scorpio’s insecurities and paranoia.
I’m a Scorpio myself, and my Virgo guy is 4 years older than me, but he’s given me the best relationship I’ve ever had. Virgos never fail to show how much they really care, and they’re the best lovers. I can talk to him about anything for hours daily, and we never get sick of each other. It’s easy to reignite the flame, and I just keep falling for him over and over again. I might be throwing out the three words soon.
June 2nd, 2011 at 11:15 pm
When I first starting dating my virgo in 09, the timing was bad. We both shown our good sides and bad sides. He cheated and so did I. We were immature. We held our thoughts and emotions inside. Two years later, we are back together and its sooo different. Its better. We trust each other more. We are open to one another more. He is still somewhat ambiguous, but I push him to be straight forward. Also, I know how to read btwn the lines with him. Its a soulmate bond and veryyyyyy intense. It can work if both parties want it to. Scorpio and Virgo are Soulmates.
June 8th, 2011 at 10:18 am
how to propose a virgo girl i m scorpio boy can anyone help me
October 6th, 2011 at 3:28 am
I AM A VIRGO GIRL AND JUST WANT TO GIVE U SCORPIO PPL ADVICE, IF U WANT TO IMPRESS A VIRGO, JUST BE OPEN B/COS FROM MY EXPERIENCE WITH MY SCORP MAN, IT IS ALMOST IMPOSIBLE TO GET HIM TO BE HONEST AND OPEN SOMETIMES. ALSO THEY TAKE AGES TO MAKE DECISIONS AND THAT DRIVES A VIRGO MAD. WE JUST WANT EVERYTHING NICE AND CLEAR. SO IF UR NOT SURE BOUT WHAT U ARE GOING TO SAY JUST DONT SAY ANYTHING AT ALL :)SO FAR JUST WANTED TO SAY THAT AS I AM TYPICAL VIRGO GIRL :))) …SORRY FOR MISTAKES IN GRAMMAR…
October 13th, 2011 at 3:50 am
Hi , I’m a virgo female and quite awhile ago I met this scorpio. Right away we were captured by one another, there was intense passion and communication. He opened up to me , sharing his personal thoughts of how he was burnt in the past by ex girlfriends .Everything seemed normal seeing how we were talking everyday. Then out of the blue a lost in interest from his side, he moves away , comes back , i reach out to him , we meet for the first time in months , he seemed eager and a little reserved when he saw me . Then after three days of seeing me he has a girlfriend.A month after that he chooses to message me asking for some songs that we were both interested in , I answered then he replied asking for me and i never spoke to him again. Can anyone give any type of input or analysis of why he drew back ? Why he decided to see me after 3 months , then has a girlfriend ?
November 26th, 2011 at 12:59 am
I have not posted in a while and quite frankly nothing has changed with my situation. I have decided to move on because my Virgo friend clearly has. He never texts or calls, so obviously his heart is elsewhere. You cannot force someone to want you or to like you. IF a man has feelings for you, HE WILL make the time for you! So I guess I am just not the right woman for him. It is just very unfortunate that we could not remain friends because of his immaturity. I feel sad about something that i truly thought was a deep bond and good honest repetoire between two individuals. All the previous posts keep stating that two signs (Virgo and Scorpio) are so compatible and have amazing communication,but not in my experience, if it is meant to be, it will be.