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Compatibility For Virgo and Scorpio |
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Virgo and Scorpio
The Virgo-Scorpio couple will be a happy couple. Both signs can be overly critical and therefore there will always be a few hiccups along the way, but all in all these two will have a happy and long life together. When I think of this pair I think of a bar which they will no doubt be propping up (with a glass of fine wine or brandy in their hand) whilst systematically stripping everyone else in there down like a soldier with a gun, dissecting all that they are and scrutinizing there very being. And of course giggling wildly whilst doing so. I have spent such evenings with Virgo-Scorpio couples and they are always good nights full of fun, intellect and wine!
Scorpio is a stronger person than the Virgo. Scorpio people, although a Water sign do not shy away from confrontation and will always stand up for what they believe regardless of the consequences whereas their Virgo partner will be sneaking out of the door and running home as fast as they can. Virgo’s do not like confrontation and although can use words to cut and hurt people they won’t enter into a physical fight, ever. Scorpio people are big on principles and can find it hard to let go when someone does not come up to scratch in their eyes.
Sexually this couple will enjoy some wonderful nights together, Scorpio taking the lead but once the Virgo’s barriers have come down they will melt into each other’s arms and leave their worries at the bedroom door. A good match. Enjoy!
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November 14th, 2008 at 2:31 pm
I always get mixed reviews about the Virgo/Scorpio pairing. Some say that they’ll do great together, being sextile and all, and others will say that they’re just a tad too different. In my eyes, they’re opposites. Virgo likes the perfect, pure and “virgin,” hence, their symbol. Scorpio, on the other hand, has an affinity for the corrupt and flawed and anything involving sex. Most Virgos are a bit too prudent for that.
I once knew a Scorpio/Virgo couple. They were good friends, enjoyed working with each other because one could handle what the other couldn’t. However, they never got past the “bedroom” stage because they couldn’t see themselves together that way. My guess it had something to do with lack of trust, as both of these signs take a while to give themselves whole to people.
November 17th, 2008 at 3:59 pm
I dont know about a scorpio being a stronger
person than a virgo- there are alot of will-ful virgo’s who can handle themselfs and others quite effective..and plus Virgos wont tollerate Nonsense, anyway..
December 14th, 2008 at 12:04 am
The guy that I’m seeing right now is a Virgo, and it’s been great so far. It’s been a month so far, and I have to say from my perspective, it’s the best combination that’s out there. Virgo and Scorpio seem to be soulmates. I didn’t meet my Virgo at a party, I met him at a bookstore.
December 18th, 2008 at 9:35 am
Virgo Scorpio couple are the best i think. I met 1 guy who is a virgo and we get on well with each other but suddenly he realized that we don’t go together as a couple and i found it wrong. So being a patient scorpio i am just waiting for him to give up and i am quite sure he will. I am still talkin to him and i find him just irrestible.
January 30th, 2009 at 11:19 am
I am a scorpio and met a wonderful virgo guy due to work. We have been chatting for over a year now and have not met yet, but we share an intense bond. I just know that we are soulmates and are made for one another. Our conversations just flow so naturally. We have lots in common and share the same moral values. There is a very heated physical attraction as well, eventhough it’s only via IM. We have become very intimate and decided that it’s time to meet each other. However, after getting really close, he now needs time to reflect and has retreated, and I have no idea why he is doing this to me.
I think virgos are extremely cautious and rational beings while scorpios are intuitive and emotional, I guess you just need to be extremely patient with virgo. I am also waiting to finally embrace my virgo.
February 4th, 2009 at 2:42 pm
I m a virgo girl..A male scorpio and female virgo can be great friends….but for a long term commitment and love i have never found scorpio guy an interesting one…dey are dominating and emotional and at the same time have a different outlook towards love and life…a scorpio cant touch the deep longing and purity of soul which a virgo girl has…
February 28th, 2009 at 9:43 pm
i, a virgo gril found myself having so much fun with a boy scorpio boy. we’ve been going on these crazy adventures, and i suddenly found myself falling in love with him.
March 4th, 2009 at 4:01 am
This what I am saying hurts lol I guess its part of being a scorpio female.. I’ve met this one vigo guy on the net,, he is really a sweet guy and all shy ye and doesn’t show his emotion much but he does do poetry and music to express it in a hiden way.. When I 1st saw him on myspace I didn’t think much of him beside that girls need to leave him alone lol,, but when he wrote me that where I took the chance to read his blog and see what he is about with what he written about hisself on his page,, I would had never guessed that ever in my life the guy that I’ve always dreamed of was actually here alive,, I got connected instantly we talk and had a nice bond then I told him how I felt he liked it but after a while something idk what happened but we slipped apart I’ve tried so much to show him the girl he looking for is in me but with everything I tried he still didn’t see it in me,, he was the 1st guy I dared to let it out and dared to not be shy and dared to give my heart to b/c I believed I could see trust in him and I don’t trust easily,, now there is this big huge change in me b/c I left a part of me and gived to much to him my words song everything I just wanted to give him back what some1 took from him and show him I was blind to see that slowly the more I tried I was giving a part of me to much and I can’t let him go but ill always be happy for him when he finds that girl,, sometimes I wished he could just see how many tears I actually cried b/c its not right 4 me to know him but be sliced for it I wasn’t even looking for love I geuss I trapped myself he a good guy a real sincere sweet guy that wants to be loved and give love to Mis right,, it hurt b/c I want to stop this feeling I have for him he doesn’t even notice me anymore and if he does why will he allow me 2 fall like dis.. I don’t even wanna give no man a chance,, im here waiting patiently on him but there is some1 els who want my love and we are cool but everytime I try the guy comes back to me and it hurt b/c its like me and him will never be and if we are gonna at sometime be soul mates it be truelly wonderful we have so much in commen but much that we can learn from each other and work together a total team am I waiting on someone that will never see me again,, he a good guy don’t think he not just c for yourself b4 judging but something happen I guess he just not into me,, he changed me in a big way no wonder why he can’t see it idk what to do im really stuck if only he knew exactly how I feel and to think I gaved my heart so he won’t be alone now he left me alone broken hearted for the 1st time I really hope someone can help me figure this out
March 17th, 2009 at 2:01 am
I think Virgo-Scorpio relationships are the best match there is. I’ve had this on and off thing with a Scorpio for over 4 years now, and I’ve never fallen for anyone harder than I have him. We complement eachother, and he makes me feel secure. He is intense and jealous, but that again makes me feel secure. And security is something I crave. We can talk about ANYTHING, and he doesn’t make me feel weird about opening up. I can share with him things I would never be able to share with anyone else. It just feels so natural. I agree, virgo-scorpio just seem to be soulmates.
March 19th, 2009 at 1:31 pm
hmm… my mom and dad are a virgo-scorpio (dad virgo monkey and my mom scorpio ox). They both get along great and have been married for about 26 years. They’ve had 3 children: female cancer dog , male gemini monkey , and male taurus dog . I dont get along great with both of my parents… seriously. I think I’m the odd one out in my family… oh-well
March 19th, 2009 at 4:37 pm
I’m a Virgo, and I’ve around Scorpios my whole life. I’ve learned that Virgos and Scorpios are mutual counterparts - half alike and half different. They’re both private souls and have problems with trust, so they need to solve any differences they have BEFORE considering being more than friends.
I’ve never been romantically involved with a Scorpio, but I’ve read that life is NEVER dull with them and they can be loyal and loving.
Scorpios are just like everyone else, only more intensified!
March 31st, 2009 at 1:56 am
All valid comments.
My Scorpio partner is unique in many ways, not just because of his astrological traits but also because of his personal nuances and foibles.
Our relationship first started nearly 2 years ago. It was a cliche ‘boy meets girl at a bar’ scenario.
What has evolved since then is that he relocated to live in my city (he resided interstate), 6 months later he moved in with my son and I, 4 months after that we became the proud owners of our first home.
We have alot we aim to accomplish and he has already started on our retirement plans and investment portfolio. We are only in our mid 30’s.
But before you vomit any further, it is important to note that there is no perfect relationship because people are not perfect. Yes we Virgo’s stive for perfection or improvement in ourselves, others and the world we live in - however if we cna all try to understand, appreciate and realise that some of those chinks, dents and imperfections actually make us all the more lovable and unique.
Most of us concentrate / build on what we have in common with our partner. That’s he easy part when things are rosey and lovey-dovey (honeymoon period).
When things turn sour, well I guess that’s where people start seeing differences in their partner that they never paid attention to before.
Sometimes those differences are the very things that can help build a stronger and more durable relationship.
Obviously we all have deal-breakers or show-stopping rules - the rules vary for each individual.
So what I’m saying is this (apologies if you’re yawning by now)…
He’s not perfect.
I’m not perfect.
But put us together and the puzzle of our lives, both now and for our planned future, makes sense.
NB: My two other long term partners have been Cancer (4 yrs) and then Sagittarius (9.5yrs). I lived and learned alot from both of them. All the while growing, loving and learning more about myself.
Goodluck to you all - sending you whitelight and prosperity in your intimate relationships both now and in the future x
April 26th, 2009 at 11:53 pm
wow. This is scary accurate. I’m the scorpio here, but I’m apparently in something called the third decantant, aso I’m not quite as stron a scorpio, but still… scary.
My love is a cusp child of virgo and leo. according to the math of the zodiac, leo’s are absolute no-no’s for a scorpio. I beleive that he takes more of the Virgo’s side.
He’s adorable, though he’d disagree with that. We actually haven’t met face to face, but it’s something special between the two of us. I can imagine that if he and I were together here, wed be inseperable, though I’d have to keep control of his impulsive negative comments about himself.
The relationship started (online, anyway) about seven or eight months ago.
My Virgo is mine, and our love is going to be forever, I can feel it.
June 5th, 2009 at 8:31 pm
I have known my virgo for years and years and I can finally say that i am in love with him. HOWEVER, as of late our communication has been going down hill and i have been trying unsucessfully to reassure him that I am here for him and he can always count on me for anything. he has been struggling with a lot lately, and I want to be there for him but he is not letting me in. I fear that he has a lot of intimacy and trust issues…..should I just confess to him how I feel or should I let it be even though I know we are right for each other…..any advice?
June 16th, 2009 at 5:44 pm
I agree with that scorpio and virgo make a great couple. I am a virgo and meet my scorpio at a Halloween party. The moment I saw him I knew that I had to talk to him. He came up to me and we had a great conversation right off the bat. No numbers were exchanged but a day later bumped into him with a friend. We sat and talked all night and since then we are still great friends. There was a moment when we were more then friends but he backed off but I still have very high hopes that things will become romantic again. I have never been head over hills for a guy like this ever. He is an amazing guy and I feel he brings out the best in me. So best to luck with everyone.
June 17th, 2009 at 4:21 am
I am a virgo tiger and felt a huge attraction towards this scorpio horse that I’ve bumped into on and off over the years….I’m finally seeing him next week; when I let him know I was interested he intensely let me know it was mutual…so, astrologically-speaking, it sounds like that feeling I get around him is dead-on…this IS a good thing. We shall see…
June 20th, 2009 at 9:42 pm
Im a scorpio who was dating a Virgo male for alittle over 2 months back from Nov-Jan. I think they are a wonderful match together i just think Virgo’s are confusing somtimes and don’t know what they want. We had great communication and a pretty good intimat relationship. But i relized Virgo’s are very hard to come out straight forward with there feeling’s which could be a problem to me since i am very upforward. He kind of just drifted apart without saying anything and that confused the life out of me lol. Other than that Virgo men are very wonderful fun people to be around. I miss him and i hope sometime soon in the future we can go back to being more than friends…..
July 11th, 2009 at 5:44 pm
i was with my scorpio for 5 years off and on. he was a mommas boy however. even when he was living under my roof, whatever momma said he did it. momma didnt like me so he started shyin away. he came and went as he pleased. i loved him to death. and i still do thats the scary part. we have been broke up for almost 2 years now. he came at me about 2 mths ago and said he wanted to marry me and that i complete him and al that other bullshit, said he wanted me to be the mother of his kids. but then he went mia for like 2 weeks (hes in the military and is station germany, after we broke up in 07 he joined) he claimed since he had been working so hard that he was gonna get drunk and go fuck someone while he was there.but not take it the wrong way he still loved me and he jsut need to relieve some tension. um no! fuck no! so after that i kind of went off and just didnt say much any more. well i guess he went off and did it cuz i havet heard from him since. except when he saw that i had dyed my hair blonde he complimented me on my myspace via email and that was it. i dyed my hair blonde and lost some weight and have now started dating a taurus which i love and glad i have found. he on the other hand i stil mia. me and my taurus are getting together all the shit that i had saved from 5 years with the scorpio and are planning on burning it together as a new start and chapter of my life.
July 14th, 2009 at 7:59 am
I was in a Scorp/Virgo relationship for 7 months.
After reading the comments I think most of the successful relationships consist of the guy being a scorpio and the girl being a virgo.
Warning to all female scorps: BE CAUTIOUS OF THE MALE VIRGO!!!
Add the fact that Scorps are already emotional beings, and add the factor of being an emotional woman and you have too much emotion for the male Virgo to handle.
I can almost guarantee you that this Virgo male will make you put down you guard and then you’ll discover that you are attracted to him and like him more than he is to you. You have created a bond with a person who is so wrapped up in making everyone envious of him, and getting back at those who treated him wrong when he was a youth - that he will not be willing to settle for a person who is not also seeking revenge. Because of this nature, he becomes vain and self-serving. Where the Scorp is the outsider who doesn’t mind being the outsider and inadvertently attracts more people to them, the Virgo is the sulking little boy in the corner who vows to grow up and become Bill Gates just to make his enemies pay!
A Virgo male will not think with his heart, even if he loves you if he assumes you can’t help him amass some type of fortune or revenge then you have to go, conquering the world is more important to him than love.
The Scorp. woman will feel left, hurt, and wondering what went wrong. She has invested her heart into someone who she thought loved her, only to find out that he will leave her with no consideration for her feelings or her genuine love for him.
August 5th, 2009 at 12:17 am
im a scorpio male (27th october) and i can’t stand virgos especially men, i find them boring, irritating, attention seeking and spineless. all virgo men i know including my father are cheatin, liars who like to use people to get what they want. and before any virgos start accusing me of hating, trust me when i say this, as a scorpion i have nothing to envy about virgos as i see them as a weaker sign. my girlfriend is a virgo and its the most boring relationship ever. i agree that we are compatible to some degree but she just dont stimulate my mind at all. im trying to leave her for this pisces girl i just meet but she is so clingy and wont let me move on. to every one out there, how do you get rid of virgos? why are they so clingy? they beg, beg, beg, beg and beg, dont they have any pride?