Compatibility For Gemini And Scorpio |
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Gemini and Scorpio
Well you can’t be compatible with every sign, and this is proof of that. Even if Gemini and Scorpio are friends it will be a tested relationship where insults and bickering will occur on a daily basis. The Scorpio will be quite critical of the Gemini who immediately deals with that by becoming very defensive and this is just for starters! I do understand the attraction between these two, but it is merely physical and even then it’s not what either of them would like in an ideal world. The Scorpios suspicious ways will antagonize the Gemini or even worse motivate them to start playing games just to get a reaction. This isn’t healthy for anyone.
Gemini will drive the Scorpio to distraction with his/her childish idealistic theories about life; however they may find some compatibility when it comes to debating, but once again this will be short lived. Scorpios jealous streak will put off their Gemini partner who hates to be questioned on their whereabouts and details of what they are doing. The Watery Scorpio will want to enjoy nights in while the bubbly twins just want to go out and get up to mischief. This really is a mismatch! Of course this can very much depend on the rest of your chart. If you are in this sun sign relationship perhaps you would like to consider me having a look at and comparing you and your partners’ natal charts. As your personal astrologer I will find out how the land lies astrologically (so to speak) finding out the positives and negatives so that you have a far deeper understanding of your relationship.
Gemini and Scorpio just never seem to find any common ground. The Scorpio is nearly always in a perpetual state of suspicion as far as the Gemini goes and Gemini spends a lot of time rolling his/her eyes!! This really is a union best left alone, unless of course one or both of you is going through a masochistic phase! (I am pointing at the Gemini!!)
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im talking to this guy and we went out once before and he is a scorpio and i a gemini i wanted to know if it can work out between us it worked before
I Will find out his date of birth;) *chuckles* ..as i would love for you Becky to compare our charts! =)
Haha! SO TRUE… I’m Scorpio and I have 6 brothers, now, I get on with 5 of them (Aquarius, Sagittarius, Scorpio, Aries, Virgo) and yet I can’t even stand to be in the same room as 1 brother, who is GEMINI… blimey, we bicker and bicker about the slightest thing, the other day we even had a two hour long row about switching a light off! So trivial and yet neither of us will back down! Neither of us will accept defeat!!! I do tend to be quite critical and he does jump to defend himself, often with insults and put-me-downs.
It is certainly true “The Scorpio is nearly always in a perpetual state of suspicion as far as the Gemini goes and Gemini spends a lot of time rolling his/her eyes!!”
Thank Goodness I have never had the misfortune of actually DATING a Gemini….I know for a FACT that it wouldn’t work!!!
Out of all my brothers I get on the best with the Sagittarious, I find we are on the same wavelength, and the Aquarius brother I have never had an argument with although I don’t have much to talk about with him, not quite on the same wavelength!
But the Gemini brother…arghh, nobody makes me as angry as him, and I am generally a very laid back person!
In reference to “Scorpio Lady” comments on her relationship with her brother who happens to be a Gemini, I would like to say that sun-signs have nothing to do with how you gel along with others.
Every Gemini is not alike and your brother personality may be irritating but that does not mean that you will not get along well with any other Gemini.
It really shows your narrow-mindedness. I have seen some Gemini-Scorpio couples and they are getting along very well. If you have respect, love and understanding for each other, don’t give a damn about your sun-signs.
Vicky, I am surprised that you can conclude so quickly that I am ‘narrow-minded’based on a paragraph which was written in the spirit of the website. I take these topics and theories with a pinch of salt, I was merely stating that it was interesting how in my experiences I can relate to the topic. If I didn’t have some interest in the subject I wouldn’t even be on this site in the first place?! But come on, you need to lighten up a little, I am not taking the concept of ‘Gemini-Scorpio’ antagonism so seriously that I am about to write a 12,000 word thesis on the issue! I’m intelligent enough to take a balanced view on these topics…..
Are you Gemini by any chance? I get the feeling you are antagonising my scorpion tendencies :-p
Hi guys, thanks for your comments.
I have to say though Vicky that Sun signs do have a lot to do with how you get a long with others. But there is a lot more than one sign to contend with in a persons chart. I am a Gemini and I have had some very good friends who have been born in Scorpio. But it has always ended in tears one way or another. It’s just one of those things.I tend to think that my readers have the intellect to work these things out for themselves. It’s normally the case that people have problems with a person, read about there signs and it all fits into place, astrology is good at bringing understanding to us all.
I like your way of thinking Scorpio_Lady
Love & Light
Becky
To Scorpio lady - I really apologize if my words hurt you. I have no intentions to antagonize you however I felt slight sad when you mentioned “Thank Goodness I have never had the misfortune of actually DATING a Gemini….I know for a FACT that it wouldn’t work!!!”
C’mon lady, Geminis are not that bad. We don’t intent to hurt anybody but sometimes people misunderstand us. They think we’re either pulling their leg or passing sarcastic comments on them.
I had a Scorpio friend (female) in college and we used to get along very well.
I suggest that you should get more frank with your brother. He may be a nice guy and you both can make your relationship better. He is also human
I have been reading about sun-signs for now more than 2 years but I have learn one thing that any combination can work provided you have love, respect and understanding in your relationship. If you love somebody, you are more than willing to change your inner core and nature to make the other person feel comfortable.
Hope this helps!!
Have a good day - Vicky
Im a scorpion tried for many a year on and off with a gemini to make it work i had been aware of this info years ago and just wanted to confirm it that eye rollin eye wandering sack of s*** Bahahaha but we have kids together and i still do care for her but im sooooo glad im no longer living the Lie,shes always assume sex was away of getting what she wants and i fell for it many a time Bahahaha that was the best thing other than the kids about our relationship so scorpions thinking about it RUN DONT LOOK BACK JUST RUN DAMNIT LOL and those already in one your f***** but really it has worked for some…some one thing i did learn tho there no point in scorpio stinging someone who stings themself as a gemini does
could this be anymore true? you nailed it. sad, but true.
i’m a scorpio, and i’m always attracted to gemini women. fatal flaw, and all that jazz.
my moon is in aquarius, and i think the mental level is so strong, but the emotional level is pure heartbreak. no solid ground, no staying power, just years and years of agonizing attraction and bitter adoration.
but i am certainly the masochist you pronounced, and i can accept my fate in the throws of some emily bronte epic.
what can i say? gemini women are just tops to me.
Damn, The two people I am attracted to (one is a Capricorn and one is a Scorpio and i am a Gemini)
i would have bad compatibility with…sucky lol
It’s interesting reading the comments about this match. I’ve been very interested in this Scorpio-Gemini combo since I’ve started dating a gemini (I’m scorpio, of course). Besides my sunny appearance, I’m very classic scorpio, and my beau has all the classic signs of a gemini. We don’t argue, per say, but he’s driving me nuts, coming and going as he pleases. He’s an eternal kid–and he’s so moody (in the manner that kids can be). He’s getting his phD right now, and I thought, well, he could become a professor or something (I’m at that stage in my life to settle down and stuff). He actually wants to leave the field and do something completely different–like paint houses or something like that (not that there’s anything wrong with that). I just don’t like his refusal to make plans the way I do.
Despite all of that, I can’t get enough of him. We are similar in other ways–even down to the fact that we’re both lactose intolerant. His moon sign is scorpio, and my moon sign is gemini (not sure what that means, but I find it interesting). Both of our Saturn sign is Libra–which means we both like to be solitary sometimes. And one of his other signs is indicative of him wanting a steady, long term relationship–which I and other scorpios relish.
So, while I believe the sun sign partly explains who we are, I feel that in order to see if two individuals will get along you must look at all of the signs (from an astrological viewpoint). Astrology aside–just go for it. There are many many reasons why couples get along or they don’t. I mean, when I first met my guy, I liked him from the start. But there was nothing about him that screamed “gemini–you won’t get along with me.” Don’t forget biology and emotions!
I’m a scorpio with virgo rising and libra moon. My fiance is a gemini with virgo rising and taurus moon. I think I drive him crazy more than he drives me. And guess what??? He loves my naughtiness as long as I remain his.
I DON’T know if our rising signs means that we are compatible because they are the same.
I really think people should refrain from judging others based on their astrology sign. There are many exeptional people who break the mold of their sign. One of my closest friends is a Scorpio and I am a Gemini and we hit it off from the start. Sure, we’ve had our fair share of arguments but through it all we learned a lot about each other. We are both able to read each other quite easily and I am glad because he helps keep me self-aware and I believe I do the same for him. I feel so good around him and sometimes I’d question myself thinking… but he’s a scorpio, aren’t we supposed to be totally incompatible? Well… physically, there is attraction but when it comes down to it… there’s not enough chemistry for me to be in a committed relationship with him. However, when we are together we feel a beautiful sense of peace and calmness and comfortability with each other. So, don’t doubt anyone because of when they were born… you don’t want to miss a chance on a great relationship simply because you were too busy thinking of what sign there are. I’m speaking mostly for myself but I’m sure someone out there gets my drift.
I’m impressed of how it seems to be of public domain that Gemini and Scorpio are so incompatible.
I’m the typical Gemini, with Libra as my ascendant. Most of the astrological suggestions I’ve received say that I will love for life any Libra woman (perfect match). But guess what, I’m in love with the Scorpio girl, not the Libra one. I actually feel quite attracted to the Libra girl, naturally, but this Scorpio girl is so fascinating, brilliant, so hot and beautiful! She drives me crazy, and I started to look out for some astrological answers, not to be completly lost in this puzzle. Most of them say, as in this conversation corroborate, that it is a terrible match. Even though, I’m optimistic.
One of my best friends is a Scorpio. We have had our arguments, some of them quite rough, but generally, our friendship is very strong.
Now the problem is this Scorpio girl that puzzles me! Actually, I think she also feels some attraction towards me, and I’m gonna give it a try, and judging by the so many advices, warnings and suggestions about the Gemini-Scorpio couple, I’m gonna try to make this work. I might be the masochistic of the relationship, I don’t care, what the heck, that’s not going to stop me. Its a matter of pride. Besides, I’m a moralist Christian, so I think I can give her the trust she may demand from me (Typical, I’m the conservative guy, she is more like a liberal). Is this, what I am saying, possible? Any suggestions would be very welcome, I’m really into this girl, and I’d love to make her happy.
I’m a Scorpio woman who has been charmed by a Gemini man. A lot of what I’ve read so far about his sun sign seems very accurate. I’m a little disappointed, to say the least, that we’re incompatible according to the stars. I agree that a couple can overcome many and all obstacles, but only if they love hard, work hard, respect and understand one another. Anything is possible. Right now, he has me intrigued, curious, and wanting more, more, more. We never argue or bicker. I knew from day one that my slick tongue would be most hurtful and intimidating to him and make it a point to think before I speak so as not to send him running for cover. : ) But for the most part, we agree. He is very flighty. One minute he’s here and showering me with attention, then the next he’s gone and off satisfying other curiosities. But I’ve noticed how he always returns …
Wow, I find this article amazingly wrong. Not only am I a Gemini female who has been happily married to a scorpio male for over 8 years, but most of the attributes for the two signs in this article are so far off the scale it almost seems like I am reading about another sign coupling.
Thank you, Gemini Women commented… this made me feel good coz I am Scorpio n i am interested in this Gemini guy.. but i heard that these two signs are not well match.. I do have problem with him, coz he sometime calls and sometime dont, sometime SMS me and sometime dont, i jz doubt whether he is interest with me? He SMS me last two days and i decided to leave it.. coz I have enough.. Any suggestion, what should i do? Thanks..
I am a scorpio that has been seeing a gemini man for almost 2 years. Now let me tell you that, the total times we have actually spent time 2gether equals up to a month!!! Sometimes he calls and sometimes he doesnt. Sometimes he sends me a text- and most of the times NOT. When we are together, its magical. But when he leaves, he tends to forget my name. Am i hitting home yet. I too have wondered if he is interested in me. I think NOT. Its just a game he plays_ some Geminis love drama, even though they say they dont. Full of shit. Point blank. So I give him what he gives me and I still want more. Even though I know my self-worth’s. I feel Scorpios want and need love and when we are denied of it, we tend to strive and focus on more ways to obtain what we want. Also, my gemini is all I want and more. But in reality I could never have. i have better chance of winning the lottery. Food for thought.
I’m a Gemini (obviously) and I’ve been going out with my boyfriend who is a Scorpio for 2 years. We have never had a single fight. All our friends say we are the perfect couple and are waiting for him to propose to me. I’m not “flighty” or “fickle” as many Geminis are assumed to be. No matter what this website or any others say, Geminis can be EXTREMELY compatible with Scorpios.
LOL! That is me and my bf. I’m a gemini and my bf is a scorpio. We don’t fight as much as it says but when we do you can usually here us a mile away. He calls me heartless or something like that and I call him emo or something like, and I get over it in a couple of hours a day at the most but he can hold a grudge forever. The reason I think we’re still going out (7 months(sp?)) is because my other signs things are like:
Moon: Aries
Mercury: Cancer
Venus: Cancer
Mars: Taurus
and those signs go way better with scorpio, well I know cancer and scorpio is like the perfect couple the others are just more compatible than gemini and scorpio.
I have another comment it’s not about the gemini-scorpio thing but the site. Shouldn’t the newer(sp?) comments be on the top instead of the bottom? Just askin.
Hi Lucille,
thanks for the comment! I shall ask my webmaster about it, I’m no good with that stuff, good question though!
Love & Light
Becky
Hey Becky! Nice to meet you!^_^ Sorry about that, but I think it would just be more of a conviniunce(sp?) for people, and that was quick I wasn’t expecting a comment from anybody for a like a week two days the soonest.
Hi again Lucille,
Nice to meet you too! This site is very important to me not only because of the astrology but becuase of the people who visit and share their personal lives here with us, so I want to look after everyone the best I can!
I asked my webmaster/Fiance, and he said that you can do it but then it would read upside down and that it is better to have it the way it is so everyone can see what others have written first if they wish. so there we go!!
Love & Light
Becky
i totally agree with this!! im a scorpio and my ex was a gemini and as much as i love him (after all i was with him for 7 years!) we just couldnt see eye to eye on things. he didnt take things as seriously as i do, always wanting to do random things and changing his mind ALL the time! I guess being a serious scorpio, i did see a lot of his ways as childish and frivolous and it drove me mad that he wouldnt just be serious for once (it sometimes felt i was the one being masochistic!). And that part about the sex is totally accurate, we had a good sex life but it really wasnt enough to keep us together.
i wouldnt disregard another man who was gemini but id definitely work out ways that both of us benefited from it!
I am a scorpio guy and my girlfriend is a gemini. We get along just great. we have been together for 3 years now
Woahh there. I am a Gemini with a Scorpio partner, and we seem to be getting along pretty well. Of course, just like any other relationship, we have our share of disagreements, but I’d have to say that we’re the lucky Gem/Scorp couple. I’d have to disagree on some of the stereotypes about Geminis, however. Not all Geminis are scared of commitment. Geminis do want to be loved and do look for lifetime partners. As for me, I know that I am a Gemini who loves to have fun and gets bored easily, always wanting to try new things, but I am a very loyal person and simply want someone to love who will love me back.. I know, that not all Geminis are like that, and most just love to go out and get wild, but I have many Gemini friends who search for commitment as well. So hey, don’t point your finger at us Geminis. There are some of us who are goody-two-shoes and look for loyalty
Btw, I do agree with the defensive mechanisms of the Gemini lol - we do tend to get very defensive
Loren,
Everybody has a defensive mechanism. However, one of the great attributes of a Gemini is how easy they can spin around on a dime. If I do or say something to offend my Gemini woman, within a few seconds I can have her spun around and she’ll either be laughing at herself, laughing at me, or we’ll both be laughing together about what just happened that lead to her becoming defensive. It’s really quite cute and admirable.
i posted about me and my gemini earlier sayin we were incompatible and were no longer together but we have since decided to give it another go. we love each other immensely and despite all of the attributes that drive us crazy about each other and make us incompatible, the love we have doesnt go away. there are many things i love about him that i think are attributed to him being gemini and i wouldnt want to change for the world. he helps me let loose by being more fun and spontaneous and the fact he will stand up to me when im being argumentative helps a lot. i think ultimately if the two people love each other and expect that they wont always get on, they can make the relationship work regardless of star sign - hopefully it will work between us better this time round
and i didnt mean to offend any gemini’s out there, i was just saying about the one i know
I’m a Scorpio and my husband is a Gemini , we’ve known each other for 3 years and just mrries 2 months ago. We fight alot and we always reconcile. It’s hard. We can both say we can move on. But I want a relationship and I want to see how I can make this work. (fingers crossed) I think men generally are not good in relationship so it must be the women to work hard for it and maybe the guy could see that. Gemini pls don’t get bored as I know you guys are, why not think yourself lucky.
I’m a Gemini girl who’s been dating an amazingly fun and loving Scorpio for 6 months - our feeling for each other are getting stronger and stronger everyday as we discover more from each other. A lot of astrology websites say our stars are incompatible, but I must say that it really depends. Both my bf and I share similar life value, perspectives to different situations, and many fun/spontaneous moment. So far we’re very compatible mentally and physically. I must admit that it’s very true when they say Gemini get scurry away by the suspicious nature of Scorpio.. but this could be resolved if both sides are willing to work on it.
Good luck to those who are struggling in a Gemini-Scorpio relationship!
I am a scorpio-sag cuspian and i went out with a gemini for four and a half years. We didn’t fight or anything for the first 2 years the rest of the relationship was filled with fighting, emotional highs and lows. I never thought i could get so angry at someone before,besides being forced to act as a maternal figure to a man 4 years older than myself. Granted the time we shared was a lot of fun but i felt like i just couldn’t take it anymore and decided to part ways. We kept “taking breaks” and getting back together-altogether it was about 4-5 times. I went as far as moving cross country to avoid any temptation to get back with him. Out of all my relationships this had the most physical chemistry. Interestingly now in my current life im surrounded by geminis. My 2 bosses and favorite coworker are geminis. My best friends (3 of them) are all geminis! I can’t seem to quell the attraction and chemistry. I even still talk to my gemini-ex (we are much better as friends than lovers- i didn’t like the surge of jealously i would feel when he was just being his charming self) now i could care less since he is no longer my love interest. I believe the key to success is timing, maturity, and the williness of both people to work at it. Good luck to all those in this relationship.
Wow, reading through all updated post I could only sit back with amazement. I am a Gemini and my Husband is a Scorpio and we have been married for 3 years. Yes we have disagreements, like any normal healthy marriage has, but we resolve our disagreements through compromise. My husband (Scorpio) is a fixed sign and he has very logical reasonings for alot of things, and I trust his decision making process. I am a Female Gemini with my loved ones, before I met my husband I was very fickle with other men because my heart and love was not committed to the relationship. As a gemini female I am very loyal, dependable and great with money. My husband and I, place both of our checks into one account and I (gemini) controls the finances and I only control the finances because my husband (Scorpio) wanted it this way. I would have to disagree with Gemini-Scorpio not being compatible, i think if the Gemini is settled, then this is a great match and my marriage is proof. P.S. My Chinese astrology is more accurate in my opinion, for myself and my husband. He is a Pig and I’m a Dog.
I would like to say that this information is very untrue…at least for my relationship. I’m a gemini and my boyfriend is a Scorpio and our relationship is absolutely wonderful. We’ve been together 6 months & have never argued before and we’ve never really been mad at each other. Im a true Gemini and he’s definitely a Scorpio. His last girlfriend was also a gemini & that relationship was horrible. But to make a long story short not every relationship is based completely on zodiac compatibility.