Aries Compatibility With Scorpio |
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Aries and Scorpio
These two signs are both ruled by the planet Mars, and as such will work together tremendously. Although the Aries is unwise of the secretive nature of the Scorpio and may never know that the Scorpio almost always knows what the Aries is doing. They will have mutual respect for their abilities and are fiercely competitive, as a team they are one of the best.
If an Aries and Scorpio get together, from the outset, there will be a lot of sex. They are sexually drawn to one another greatly, in-fact these two could create their own sauna together with the amount of steam they create!!! One thing though, these two sometimes get out of pace with one another as they both run at different speeds. The Water sign likes to take it slowly, they love to tease and are highly sensual. The poor old Fire sign unfortunately, is fast and furious and can sometimes get so carried away that they boil over, leaving their Scorpio lover smouldering frustratedly!! That’s OK though, the Scorpio will forgive the Aries if it happens now and then, not too sure they will forget it mind you!!
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July 13th, 2008 at 5:55 am
I tend to disagree a bit with this compatibility profile. They are both ruled by Mars, which does make them very hot in bed, but Scorpio’s unadulterated jealousy and controlling nature smother the Aries (at least when it comes to an aries female). I am an Aries female (april 4th, and am a textbook aries…) I have dated two scorpio’s… both of which were very controlling and even more jealous. The independence of the Aries can get squelched… and that is what makes Aries so unique, we don’t take ANYTHING from ANYONE! So tread carefully and watch for signs of that control and jealousy when entering a relationship with a scorpio, becuaes you don’t want to get stung.
July 30th, 2008 at 3:41 am
I am an aries male with virgo moon and pisces ascending.
I must say that the greatest sexual relationships i have ahd have been with scorpios - they are uninhibited…..
They tend to be secretive but I can live with that. I find they are also well presented and are generally run of the mill type characters
August 20th, 2008 at 1:46 am
Like i think both aries and scorpio are no really compatible, me being an aries know for a fact that aries are very impatient in like Love.
I fell in love with a scorpio before, and when she was sad, she would go off into hiding and not reply any of my msges and what nots, so like being an aries i was kinda frustrated and irritated by the fact that they keep going off to “hiding” leaving us passionate loving aries to like die off outside his hiding place.
Let’s just put it this way, my love for her was tragic,we didn’t like contact each other anymore after we broke up and i poured out my love for her like crazy, but she just walked away.
Scorpios are weird people s’riously..
September 2nd, 2008 at 5:16 am
that is alittle ambiguous…
im a scorpio girl in love with an aries girl..
wow right.. we sure do push eachothers butons but still we know how to learn from eachother and deal..
becase mostly all our problems exist from eachother, we have plenty of insecurities i think that make it harder.’
but we still prove all this compatability stuff wrong!
im not that hard to handle jesus
October 2nd, 2008 at 1:47 pm
I would say that this profile is more accurate than most.
I am an Scorpio woman in love with an Aries man. Most of the profiles that I read would almost make me want to run as fast as I can in the other direction when it comes to a relationship with an Aries. However, I have found little of it to be true in my relationship.
Sure we have had our fair share of arguments, and rocky patches, but we seem to make it through them and come out stronger in the end.
I have never had a relationship that seems to get hotter the longer that I am in it… this one however just seems to get better and better. We have been together for almost 2 yrs. now, and we haven’t even so much lost an ounce of passion for each other. Because we are both sexually charged signs, I think that the sexual component in our relationship just might be the glue that holds us together.
I am sure that there is some validity to all the negative profiles, but if you are aware of these tendencies it’s easier to recognize them and stop it before it causes some serious damage.
…and hey, the makeup sex after a good fight is always sure to rock you world.
October 17th, 2008 at 6:01 am
I feel in love with a Scorpio Man and I’m an Aries woman. We broke up a couple months ago after he stormed out. Granted I had broke up with a couple times out of the need to create space. I found him jealous, moody, unforgiving and needing attention. Our sex was the best I ever had, although towards the end he seemed to be getting risky, meaning things that made me uncomfortable. I sensed a controlling and jealous nature that started to take the wind out of my sails. I would speak my mind on these matters as they arose. Other times I felt it wasn’t worth mentioning. He is quite the penny pincher and seemed rather stingy. Which we discussed as well. I noticed too that he is stubborn, just as I am, and likes to have it his way. For the most part I found a companion with cold feet. I forced issues on this matter, another typical Aries move, but I couldn’t stand it. In turn, this turned me off feeling a lack of dedication on his part yet wanting me to give everything. I have been debating giving him a call to add closure and/or understanding to the situation. I love him and desperately want to understand him as I want to be understood and loved. What to do?
October 25th, 2008 at 10:15 pm
I am a female aries and i am having a relationship with a scorpion man. We are togather for almost 12 years.
i must say that we were having some difficulties during the years but our love was very strong that we passed all obstacles that appeared in our relationship.
Despite that we are togather for so long we still have the same passion and the same strong sexual relationship we had when we met!!
Scorpions are more closed and secretive but they have a big heart..
November 4th, 2008 at 9:33 pm
I def. agree with this.
My ex boyfriend was a scorpio he was a totel manipulator . He loved too be in control. and
was out of his mind . Jealousy was another big one i couldnt breath When we broke up i slept for a week straight that’s how on healthy our relationship was.. But i have too agree with the sex part it was amazing.. that’s the only thing that kept me with him for so long..
November 10th, 2008 at 2:58 pm
i am a scropio girl and in love with a aries guy…
he is sweet allways look after my needs and all….but some times he is more interested in sex then me…
i know we both ar ruled by mars planet and can run a turbine engine with the steem we generate but sometime i fell there should be a line.,…
but let me tell u a secreat they can discover great position of there own which can leave u wanting more….[:)]
November 10th, 2008 at 7:36 pm
Well, I met this guy and we hit it off very quickly. It was like he knew what I was thinking, I felt drawn to him somehow. Then I found out he is a scorpio and I am an Aries woman. The first think I said was oh no! Scorpios are hard headed and you can’t tell them nothing! I know because my brother is one and we fight constantly. But the attraction is very strong. Well we couldn’t control our passion and just gave in. OMG!! This man was the best in the sac I just keep wanting more and more. Could I be falling in love only after a few weeks? Because this would be unlike me. Somebody help me!! I fear it may end in a blaze of glory.
November 18th, 2008 at 6:32 am
WOW…
OK I AM AN ARIES WOMAN IN LOVE wiTH A SCORPIO WOMAN..
WE’VE BEEN TOGETHER NOW FOR 5 MONTHS AND KNOW EACHOTHER FOR 2 YEARS.. WE HAVE SO MUCH FUN TOGETHER WE LAUGH WE PLAY WE SHARE ALMOST EVERYTHING SHE’S GREAT, GENEROUS,FUN, AND WE HAVE AMzAZING SEX.. I MEAN IT’S IMMACULATE! IT’S ALMOST AS IF WE ARE ONE WHEN OUR BODIES MEET,VERY PASSIONATE..NEVER HAVE I HAD ANYONE DO THE THINGS THAT SHE’S DONE TO ME OR VICE VERSA..WOW WE EXPLORED EVERY SINGLE PART OF OUR BODIES LIKE COLUMBUS EXPLORED AMERICA! SHE’S BEEN MY BEST LOVER SO FAR..
BUT!! LOL THE CONTROLLING PART IS TOO MUCH…
I’M AN ARIES AND WE ARE VERY DEMANDING SCORPIOS ARE CONTROLLING WHICH MAKES SITUATIONS REALLY INTENSE AND OVER WHELMING FOR US. I LOVE MY FREEDOM. SHE WANT TO CLIP MY WINGS AND HAVE HER CAKE AND EAT IT TOO.! SHE’S GREAT BUT AT THE SAME TIME SHE’S SELFISH, SELF CENTERED, ONE SIDED, STUBBORN AND HAS TOO MUCH PRIDE…ARIES DON’T PLAY THAT!
I’M REALLY TRYING TO HOLD ON TO THIS RELATIONSHIP BUT IT’S HANGING OFF A THIN STRING..THE SEX IS GOOD BUT IS IT ENOUGH?
November 29th, 2008 at 2:50 pm
I loved reading all of these…I am a Aries female and was recently involved in a relationship w/ another female who was a Scorpio fro 2 years
OK-WOW!! I am a text book Aries; giving, loving, passionate, stubborn and like for things to go my way if they can etc.. My Scorpio of 2 years was controlling, jealous, SECRETIVE, double standard, insecure, needy, SELFISH & always thinking she was going to catch me up..The sex I found to be plentiful. HOWEVER, I did not find it to be as unhibited/exciting as I would liked for it to have been.
We broke up a month ago, she was telling me 1 day how in love with me she was and 2 days later, she COMPLETLY shut down and ended things. Havent spoke to her or her NEW girl since.
When a Scorpio is down for you- watch out cause it could end as soon as it began!! When they are done, regardless if you are or not, THEY ARE DONE FOREVER!!! Not a good match!!
December 5th, 2008 at 4:22 am
I am an aires woman who is dating a scopio man. the relationshi i am having with him is a totally pain. I never feel i am having a relationship, and i never found my belonging in this man. He is sometimes cold, and sometimes hot. He couldnot stand on phone more than 30 secend. But he is afraid of making decision of lossing a woman who is so generous, who loves him so much, and give up everything for him. We argue constantly, because we are all head strong, and we make up constantly, because we are all LONELY! Will this relationship work? I do not. For me, I want someone who is more affectionate, For him, he wants companion without lossing his space, which is really a big space. it is more like, when i need you, you will be with me, when i do not need you, you shall disappear. I am not sure for how long this relationship will last…And i am not sure when he will make up his mind about me….
December 14th, 2008 at 1:17 pm
I don’t look into star signs but I decided to its check it out and see how accurate it is since I am having issues in a relationship with my bf. I am a Scorpio male and he is an Aries male. Things started off extremely quick and we just moved in together not long ago. And I admit we have HUGE personality differences. So far I have already had at least 3 intensive arguements with him as a result of his blunt comments and opinions that I dont agree with and the comments he made were offending to me, upsets me and drove me NUTS. Secondly his lack of communication and someone who always keep to himself pisses me off. He always like to win in anything we do, he gets angry easily, stubborn, he has extreme mood swings, ie: he is excited, funny all of a sudden then minutes later he gets all moody. In an arguement he burst in anger and says things that hurt my feelings BIG time. He gets bored easily,he is self-centered in terms of keeping to himself, not affectionate, he is serious in his career, he likes to delegate at work, he likes to travel. He loves his freedom and alot of Space, I mean A LOT. He is a good listener and not a good talker at all. He hides his feelings and woulndt tell you about it, he is ignorant and dont give you any answers, he doesnt confront issues and avoid facing the facts- ie: runs away from it or dont want to talk about it. He is loyal, so far he is a man of integrity…etc.These are some of the characteristics I found about him BEFORE reading about our star signs. OK, and Honestly BEFORE reading the Star signs I was asking myself this question, what was the MAIN Thing we have in COMMON out all the issues we had so far ? ! The SEX ! ..It was Extreme ! After reading our star signs which pretty much matches our personality and I have to say I have the choice of holding onto this or let go. Yes my heart is already broken and yes I will have a hard time of letting go especially intuitively I know there is something deep in him which still makes me holding onto him. Peace and flowers to all of you….
December 15th, 2008 at 5:11 am
OMG MEGAn!!! I’M SCARED 8ECAUSE I CAn SEE MY SCORPIO GIRL DOInG THAT, JUST lEAVInG ME OMG! SHE CAn 8E WARM AnD KInD TO COLD AnD MEAn..WE’RE MOVInG In TOGEtheR nEXT WEEK an IMPULSIVE MOVE I MADE. AS An ARIES WE ALWAYS HAVE A 8ACK UP PLAn, PLAn A 8 C D E F G H I J K L Mnop ect. *SIGH* no!I’m puttin all my trust in her 8ECAUSE SHE LOOKED ME In MY EYE AnD TOLD ME sHE “WOULD nEVER EVER LEAVE MY SIDE OR DO ME WROnG” SHE SEEMED SInCERE, (SHUT UP I KnOW WHAT YOUR THInKinG 8UT IF U WERE THERE YOU’D 8ELIEVE IT TOO!)…WISH ME LUCK
December 18th, 2008 at 7:18 am
I an an aries woman and have recently become involved with a scorpio man. I have to say im am becoming more and more confused with this guy. He’s sweet and very down to earth, seems to really like me but I find he’s rather distant and not very open at talking about his feelings. We have had sex once and WOW!! We couild not get enough of eachother…went on all night long …The best first sex I have ever had. Since then he calls me every few days but work etc seems to keep us apart. We did have dates before the sex and he was very much the gentleman. I do get the feeling hes making an effort to go veery slow..but I am concerned it might be too slow for me if it doesnt pick up soon. I feel like I am not getting to know him well enough since it’s so long between dates. Is it safe to ask him about it or should I just let it go and just stop seeing him if he’s to slow for me? I don’t want to push or rush to fast either but I need a little more time with him, more regular to feel I’m not wasting my time on a guy who seems so distant at times. It’s like hot and cold to the extreme. I feel like he’s playing a teasing game with me. I’m trying to be a little aloof about it as to not scare him but I’m wondering if thats the wrong aproach with a scorpio. Maybe I need to turn on the heat a bit
December 24th, 2008 at 5:07 am
I’m a scorpio girl and i fall for an aries girl. I don’t see myself being very jealousy. So jealousy isn’t a problem to me. But that aries i like is attached. I’ve tried to be the one for her. I bring her joy when she’s sad, be there for her all times and always making her smile bringing her tiny surprises. But she seems hard to get. I believe she only needs me whenever her partner doesn’t care for her. We shared almost everything together, true enough both we are very passionate. Should i even give up her or continues be there always for an aries?
December 28th, 2008 at 7:07 pm
I am an aries girl,and he is scorpio. I agree it can be very frustrating, we just recently got together, but for like two months there was a period where we both knew we were interested and attracted to one another, btu nothing happened between us. He was so confusing, always gave me mixed signals, very distant at times and then close and open at others. We got a chance to get really close as friends though, i can really trust him, can really takl to him, have fun with him and laugh,i feel a deep connection, but i just didnt know where he was going with this. being scorpio he was ofcourse all secretive didnt approach me bout the situation, and typicall aries, it was driving me mad, i needed to speak about, i was so impatient, because i knew he liked me. It got me so angry, so i can see where there would be clash. In the end it was me who initiated everything, got things going between us, and not gonna lie now we can barely keep our hands off eachother, the sexual attraction is extremely high, cant wait for our first time,im sure it will be mind blowing. Later i found out that he was so reluctant to start something becasue he feared that i wouldnt follow it through, thinking that i would lose my interest in him soon and that it wouldnt be a long term thing for me. BUt i really like him, and he is very differnt to other guys ive met, and i dont know how to get that across to him and that he really believes me. Anywaz im really worried because there are obvious communication problems between us now already, and i fear it wont work in future, wich would be a shame cause i really want it to.
December 29th, 2008 at 6:56 pm
Most of the comments I have read above. Here is the conclusion for a scopio man: Hot & Cold at all time, royalty when they are truly in love, self-centered, require a parter with good quality, self-closed personality, outspoken only when they are offended by loved ones, cheap, will not spend lots of money on partners, taking advantage of aries.
December 29th, 2008 at 7:01 pm
I have been dating this scopio man for 2 years, he is constantly changing his mind. He promised me to engage me 3 times, and broke his promise 3 times, and still expect me to love him more than usual. He told me to go to see a therapist with him to solve the constant arguements between us. Damn it, how would a therapist solve a problem of personailties differences? I wonder. He is manipulating me with this whole therapist, and threaten me that is the only way to get engaged if we are not aruging anymore. This is really nonsense to me, how would an aries not argue with a scopio? But i have to go for this nonsense, because i can see he is the man for protecting a family. It might be just my dillusion. But I am stubborn at my feelings.
January 1st, 2009 at 12:06 am
I am a scorpio female. I have been sexing this aries guy for six months to be exact and i have fallen in love with him. We started off as cuddy buddies.I never thought things would get this deep for me. I told him i loved him and later in the sexxin he told me he loved me to. But i want a relationship and he so stubborn he want conversate on his true feelings and freezes up and leave me drowning when it comes to him to open up with me. This so crazy im about to lose my mind because this is so frustrating. Is he afraid to commit are im just not his type.
January 3rd, 2009 at 10:31 pm
i am a scorpio woman fall in love with an arian man.we met three years ago and i am stll in love with him!!!dispite the differences i can’t leave him
January 5th, 2009 at 6:23 pm
ii am an Aries woman inlove with a Sagittarius with a personality of a Scorpio man.. we have been together for 3 months
our relationship is complex and full of tention..
he has a great personality which pulls me to him but on the other hand i sometimes cant stand him.. he is stubborn and jelous.. just like me.. he acts uncaring and like he is not scared to loose me.. he plans revenge which scares me..
we only had sex once and that wasnt even meant to happen.. i guess that we both got carried away..
i know he is not with me for sex but the way he sometimes treats me worries me..he can be very moody at times which also enoys me.. he can be hot for a minute and cold the next..
January 31st, 2009 at 6:01 pm
I am a scorpio female and i have been in a relationship with a aries male for a year and a half. After reading all of these posts, I can see why me and my boyfriend are the way we are. We have had many rough patches and sometimes I want to give up but there’s always the possibility of it being better. I think we shouldn’t base our relationships on our horoscopes, because if we think negative, the relationship will be negative. Me and my boyfriend do have problems. I’m jealous, he wants more freedom, I push away when i’m moody, he wants to know what’s wrong. But at the end of each day, he tells me how much he loves me and I just know it’s true and that I love him too. EVERY relationship HAS problems, you just have to not give up.
March 1st, 2009 at 2:08 am
I am a scropio girl in love with an Aries guy… I’ve been in love with him for over 5 years- he is amazing. I admire his ability to initiate and his calm demeanor. I am not a jealous person AT ALL- I do not believe in jealousy,and I think it is a basic human emotion that can be overcome with good habits. I am very independent- I do sometimes retreat when upset,and I am working on that! So heres the scoop on this guy- we have known eachother for over 5 years and always liked eachother, I was just too young. Now that I am finally of age we got togeher for a short while…and then he just didn’t call. I think I was too intense in bed for him?? So he contacted me later and was like, lets hook up, I’m sorry I freaked out… and I was so hurt I didn’t respond,and everytime I see him it is always awkward and I don’t know if I should let him know I am still very into him, or should I let him be and forget it? I know we are both proud, so maybe I should just go for it? I dont know… help me out!
March 6th, 2009 at 4:20 am
I was with a Scorpio male for 2 years and we broke it of f 8 months ago for over an extremely silly fight. We were so in love with one another, he was more into me then me into him, and we had the best relationship where we could say or do anything with eachother,it always felt comfortable. Now that we broke up he is being very cold to me, only want to have sex and says he doesnt love me anymore, even said that after 2 weeks after we broke up which i know is not true. i want him back so bad but anything i do i seem to push him futher away. He says he doesnt love me anymore yet everytime i need him he is there and listens, although he can be cold at times. Can anyone suggest what i can do to get him back?
March 11th, 2009 at 12:32 am
i feel really sorry for all of you that have been burned by they the scorpios in your lifes. i am aries and my most mentally, physically,emotional realationship was with a scorpio male. when you been around the block a couple of times im in my thirtees you start to know when a male if affecting you differently from the average cutey or intellectual hottie you had a conversation with at work in the club, where ever you pick-up your usually cup-of-relationship-poison/or posies.he bent my world mentally which mind is way harder for this semi-diffent aries female. you have to get into my head first. not that i dont enjoy inter-acting with the male species i do get my fair share of attention,number-offers to have relationships, butty-calls, marriage,etc. but this got me good. so we did hook up after a minute,and ever-other male i ever thought i knew got deleted from my data-base.i didnt think it was possible,so for doubters it has to happen to you to believe its possible.so mr.scorpio ask to be apart of my life in a very serious way and i had to re-arrange my whole life after extreme serious thought to accomadate him when i say extreme i talking re-arranging the day-to-day thing we are all working for building up to,etc. i let you fill in any of the majors in your life that you accumate,work hard for hold precious and would under a bridge if you messed up and mis-calculated the intent of others very close to you.all warned me NOOOOO!!! MIND YOU!!! I HAVE NEVER LET ANYONE MESS UP MY SITUATION, I LET MR.SCORPIO!!! i will never let anyone get that close again. will have relationships have fun settle down all that but being burnt so un-expectedly gets to you. and he was getting everything his way to the letter after alot of over-hauling me to see things his way.i was feeling him and one day he says again mind you while i am mid-life changing for him and intermixing him into my life the way he asked me to, he dumps me for a LIBRA female and says their getting married. mind a lady he dated in the past before my time but that he told me about.well with no warning and still prompting from him to join our lives together in all ways. never been so duped and still remembering the great trip i have been on before and probably never will as close again.if i ever saw him again i probably would want,to say nothing and just lay down with him(no-sex) to remeber how he reminded me of a GREAT-BIG-CUP-OF-TEA! no one has turned me on so mentally, physicall and emotionally,SINCE.FOOD FOR THOUGHT/GOOOOD LUCK
March 17th, 2009 at 12:13 am
hey ppl ima scorpio girl and im in complete love with this aries guy!!!! we met each other as strangers and now all i feel is love for him!!! i do dra back my emotions, but i am that way i like to make others feel better not make them feel worse by listening to my problems except….. when i met my aries guy i felt totally capavle of trust and he is my first love!!! he is amazing i love being with him and we do have r fights but in the end sooner or later we always make up and r love is stronger!!! he is a guy i can always trust and knws whats in my head
April 24th, 2009 at 4:07 am
Scorpio men are evil and will ruin your life…this coming for a scorpio female who has ruined enough lives to know. They are insecure, jealous, and if they have ever love before…I promise you they never let go and you will never fully have them. Sorry.
April 27th, 2009 at 6:57 pm
I’m an Aries girl my man is Scorpio and we’ve been together for a few years now…
The sweetest thing and love is there as well as sex,sadly I’m partially agree with the above comment about not letting old stuff go.
At least I feel so.
I think it is a good deal for an Aries that wants someone sweet and caring.But for the Aries that wants it all not the best choice maybe…
April 29th, 2009 at 12:54 pm
I’ve known this aries guy for a couple of months and we get on stupidly well, its like an earlier comment said its like he’s known me all my life. We clicked straight away and im really attracted to him. But he does act quite fast-paced and is busy all the time whereas im the typical scorpio and need to have time to sit and be still. We are both quite opinionated and strong minded. At the moment we are just friends but i feel like i want more than that, i guess i dont know what to do?
May 3rd, 2009 at 11:27 am
Hi. I’m a female Scorpio. I am interested in a male Aries. I am SOOO attracted to him physically. I like his personality as a friend and in business. I am having trouble w/his brashness. He can be quite hurtful. To boot, he’s also 100% Italian–to me, this is part of his bluntness and forcefulness. Don’t get me wrong–I love Italians! I’m trying to establish boundaries w/him right now but it might be too late. I think his feelings go WAY deeper than he states and that that scares him so he’s pulling away. We got into an argument recently where he was loud and harsh, and I was logical and reasonable. I think that made him angrier! I hope he and I can patch it up together, but I may have lost him.
May 24th, 2009 at 5:06 am
I am an Aries female in love w/ a Scorpio male. He said that I hurt him years ago (2 times) when actually he had hurt me first. We had not seen each other for years and now that we got it all out about who did what, I still feel like he is making me pay for what I did which was actually his fault! We have such a strong attraction to each other it is ridiculous, both have strong personalities, he has never committed to me and doesn’t trust anyone especially women! I am so tired of kind of holding onto him all this time on and off and he won’t just give in. After all this time, he finally says, “I don’t want to lose you” but does nothing about it.
July 14th, 2009 at 8:35 pm
I am a aries female i can admit that i can be a bit bossy and ususally have to have it my way. i am involved with a scorpio male for a few months. in the begining it was everything i could ever want. but he is younger than me not to mention he just got out of prison. he really cant offer me anything but i feel so drawn to him i love him and just wnat to be wit him and make him happy. i have seen his softer side,loving side, but i’ve also seen the monster. i know that he wont give more of himself untill he knows that he can trust me that seems to be so far away if ever. he’s got me so confused i dont know which way is up most of the time. my mind says just walk away an save myself the hurt and painful anguish. but my heart wont listen im stuck rite now. i pray about this constantly only time will tell if this is to work but im not giving up any time soon.
July 15th, 2009 at 7:42 am
Coming from an Aries woman that survived the storm with her Scorpio Man:
For all those who are convinced that ARIES and SCORPIO relationships are doomed to crash and burn violently. Read this post, and be a firm believer that true love conquers all!
I am an Aries woman (With a Pisces Moon-I know it’s an unusual sun-moon blend, but I digress..)
and for the past 4 years, I’ve been passionately, undeniably,utterly in love with a very text-book stereotypical Scorpio man.And Basically what haven’t I experienced with him? It’s like being raised to the gate of heaven one minute then dragged to the pit of hell one minute.I never met a man that I loved so much that I was willing to sacrifice logic, my freedom ( because Scorpio lock away the key once they claim you), and even more my own inherent selfishness.( Because at the core I can be very, very selfish), but when he looked me in my eyes and opened up the “Real vulnerable Scorpio little boy inside,” I melted and I knew that I had to be as self-less as I could, and flock to his side and comfort him. A Scorpio trick? Perhaps;Scorpio’s are not noted for being noble but as manipulators. But did I care?? No as Foolish Aries that I am I stayed.Through his infidelities (which were numerous), our turbulent arguments (usually because of his ‘double standards’), the highly ridiculous, paranoid suspicions of me cheating? (Which as Aries women agree: if your in love-you only see them and only them and remain fiercely loyal), I even stayed through the moodiness and the break-up to make-ups. After the storm, I wondered why I still needed him, like water or oxygen. Even more I wondered Why (HE)could never fully let me go either (although he was very close due to a Capricorn and a Cancer).
He is my opposite in many ways, and at times it seems like he doesn’t understand me at all-like I’m speaking Latin instead of English.
Other times, it seems like we are way to much alike, and he is truly the best friend I never had. Falling in love was easy for me—With just one hypnotic glance into his piercing haunting eyes, I knew my heart wouldn’t stop beating for him, even when he took it in his hands and broke it into pieces. As a true Scorpio he would unmask his pain of losing me in private and healed my heart, wrapping it into bandages until he saw me smile again.
For him falling in love was a slow process, one of inner turmoil.That was a mixture Fear of losing control, and a fear of trusting me with no reservations.(Scorpios don’t trust anyone by the way).
It almost seems ironic that one of the most crossed star lovers, as bad and unhealthy for each other at times, can’t separate no more less than an addict to drugs.
So how did my love story end?
I finally lived the fairy tale ending,
With me as the pushy arrogant, childish,and seductive princess being carried off into the sunset by my overly moody secretive,monster, hero,passionate, jealous, amazing Scorpio man’s arms.
The storms are strong, but the rainbow afterward across the horizon made it all worth it!
Aries and Scorpio can work! I’m proof….
P.S. It doesn’t hurt that the sex is amazing neither!
Good luck to all, Keep faith in your Scorpios, I did.
July 26th, 2009 at 7:13 am
Hi, it’s me again.
What I didn’t mention before is that I am currently in a relationship (I’m female Scorpio, my man is a Sagittarius, and I’m very attracted to an Aries). Sag and I had broken-up. That’s how I got closer to the Aries.
Anyway, I saw Aries for the first time in quite a while. I said “hi”, asked how he was, and kept walking.
The next day, I unexpectedly ended up @ his place w/some friends. He was completely manic and wild. He kept asking about my relationship, how I’m doing, and making sexual innuendos (no, we’ve never had sex).
I know he’s physically interested in me. I can’t decide if he is interested in me AS A PERSON or not. How do Arians usually go about their relationships? Also, he tends to have a lot of female ‘friends’ that aren’t just friends. Yes, he’s owned up to it–I’m not just being jealous. So, I’m scared if Sag and I don’t work out (he’s not trying and can be quite hurtful, emotionally) will Aries just fool around on me, or only want me for sex, or what?
Aries did make a comment that I need to get to know him better. He was widowed once and divorced once. I’ve been divorced twice. He’s 10 years older than me.
Does anyone have any helpful comments for us? Thanks.
BTW, Sag is 17 years older than me.
August 15th, 2009 at 3:57 am
Hmm.. I’m a scorpio female just now getting involved with an arian male. Although we haven’t had sex yet, I feel it in my core that it will be mind blowing from our conversations, how naughty he is and how he brings the naughty out in me…
BUT, he has already told me that if I don’t give him enough attention, he will look elsewhere, but has made it very clear he wants me to only focus on him. He’s told me that as long as I know and accept that he’s the boss, we’ll get along fine. He’s extremely argumentative but in the next breath can say something that just melts me down to a puddle in his hands.
And people say SCORPIOS are manipulative, controlling, jealous and run hot & cold?? Give me a break.
This arian male has lost his damn mind and so have the rest of you arians that don’t see that the similarities in the two signs are frightening. But the one big difference between the two is a scorpio will recognize when he or she is wrong and admit it, where as an arian will just blame the scorpio.
This should be a very interesting journey to say the least and all I can say is.. the sex better be as good as everyone says it will be or this arian man of mine can kiss my ass goodbye!
August 23rd, 2009 at 6:39 pm
I’m a female scorpio and I’ve had a relationship with an aries man recently. We were together for two years. Aries didn’t want to display his true feelings and was a very unattached person after a year of us dating. He also stated I was crazy, or rather, “A few clowns short of a circus” whenever I would get upset about my family problems. I think that is completely absurd. Sure I’m emotional, but I’m not crazy… I actually was on my hands and feet trying to make him feel better all the time. I also sacrificed a lot of things including my own money to make him happier. So in short, not ALL Scorpios are BAD. Not ALL Aries are innocent either.
August 25th, 2009 at 11:07 pm
I’m and Aries female who has been dating a Scorpio male for 8 years now. I do have to agree with some of you that the Scorpio is great at getting into your head and having you believe that you are soul mates. When I first met my Scorpio I didn’t really plan on us going any further then a summer fling. Needless to say I found myself in loved with him. The sex is the BEST I HAVE EVER HAD!!! So much passion and mind blowing explosion! OMG!!! The first 5 years were great seem to be on the same page wanted the same thing and had the same interest. As the years are rolling by I am finding that I will never truly have this mans heart as he tells that I do. He has someone from his past that he can’t let go of and leaves me to suffer and deal with all of it.
Wish we could control our hearts!!
I have found that a Scorpio man is very capable of mind tricks. They are VERY secretive, manipulating, cold, demanding and always more into what’s good for them then what there partner wants. On a positive note, they do have a heart if you can find your way to it. Not cheap, and will make sure you have mind blowing sex!!
I like to call this relationship “Poker Face”
I do think Aries & Scorpio can work well together but this will take both partners want it!!! It takes 2 for this combo to work and trust me it is work!!!
August 30th, 2009 at 9:17 pm
ok so i am an aries girl and im dating a scorpio guy, we met accidently as strangers thru friends, and jus kept textin and talkin, then he started comin over makin excuses to come to my apartment, and i thought it was adorable, then one day he was visitin and we went for a walk around the complex and he stopped me and looked me in the eyes and said “mahria i been eyein u since that first day i came over” and as an aries i played it cool, and just said really? even tho i knew i had been eyein him too but i didnt wana scare him and seem to pushy, but this was only about 6 weeks ago, then all of a sudden we were textin and i asked him why a sweet guy like him didnt have a girl and he said cuz he couldnt find one that could keep up with his speed (im thinkin to myself, im an ARIES DUH!!!!) so i said ever so calmly….i can…. and then he asked me why i didmt have a man and i said cuz i cant find some one to keep my attention (very true) and he said again every so calmly….i can…then i was like u think so? and he was like im think so, lets find out…mahria i think you are absolutely beatiful and i was wondering if u woul like to go out with me…..that made me melt!!!! i said yes of course!! now we have been together for a month now, he drives 45 min to comes see me almost everyday, the sex is AMAZING!!!1 (thats an understatement) he makes everything about me, and as an aries i love that!! but im scared, that for once im goin to let him have my heart and he is gonna hurt me, im fallin for him extremely quick!! and it scares me but at the same time i love it!! ugh!! he already told me that he should “wife me” and my horoscope for 2009 says in october ill be considering marriage =} god i cant get this effin scorpio off of my mind!! i think about his 24/7
September 15th, 2009 at 6:52 pm
I have to say. I disagree with the compatability.But most that I have read regarding the match is the same. I am an Aries April 1st female. I have been with two Scorpios and I married the last one. They are smothering! The sex is not the best. The jealousy is overwhelming.They have no drive or ambition.The list can go on and on.
September 15th, 2009 at 7:32 pm
Iv’e read the post and agree with most the thins I read. I am an Aries Woman and I married an Scorpio man and Im currently involved with another scorpio. My husband persued me for a year until i gave in and dated him. We were married within two weeks of dating and broken up within a month. It was one of the most rememrable months of my life(LOL)! Before him I had gotten into an brief relationship with a corpio, again he also persued me until I gave in. The sex was off the chain and we had a lot of fun. We broke up for a while and he began to text me and get my number from people(changed it afew times because of him) and no matter what he kept coming back and of course I let him. But when he came back he began to talk to me and reveal himself more and explain to me what he feels and thinks as a man. We bacame really good friends and we talked about everything. Eventually we lost track of eachother again and recently we have reconnected and I love him and he loves me we just have very dominant personalities and that makes things hard sometimes but it took me ten years to see inside of this scorpio man and I enjoy every moment of it, Because even though we may not admit it we(aries woman) wants a man that can tame us and scorpio is the only one who can if you can stand all you go through to get there. We are in our tenth year and I love him more than I ever did, Hes like my addiction no matter what I always go back!
November 17th, 2009 at 4:45 pm
I am an aries womena who has been in love with a scorpio man for over 23 years. He never committed to me while we were in high school, although we did have sex. We went off in our separate lives after high school and although I tried to keep in touch he let me go. Broke my heart. I got married had children, then got divorced. Now 23 years later, we are back in the same town and both single.
We have just reconnected and are back to dating. The one thing that most have not realized with scorpios is that they need almost slave-like devotion to win them over. This is really really hard for an aries. However, once they are hooked, getting ride of them is near impossible.
He is now committed to me. Scorpio is a very dedicated sign once a committment is FINALLY made, and he will have eyes only for you. The Sex is amazing and believe it or not scorpio is one of the only signs an aries will submit to.
So if you are in a relationship with scorpio and it is worth trying to keep, don’t give up hope. If it works out it is literally a peace of passionate heaven on earth.
- Much love,
Yummy Goddess
December 2nd, 2009 at 6:14 pm
HI . all
i m ARIES and i like Scorpio girl and .. she also like me .
but some time we fight in differnt topics . and she angry lots and i always feel sad
but i just forgive her and try to talk more .. but she dont .. but one thing that i know she
really likes me from inside of heart but her reactions make her out of control.
AND thats why i allways like her she is good to me and i know hope we live togather
Stars are really works ..
ur compatiblety belong to star’s and ur names too
so keep share ur words and keep in touch ..
ARIES THE KING STAR
December 3rd, 2009 at 12:24 am
Thank you Yummy Goddess for your note.
I am an Arian. I had been dating this Scorpio man for 6 years but we broke up because he couldn’t handle his own personal issues with his life or perhaps he’s bored of me. However, he told me that he’s grateful to have me as his first love and would never forget about me.
Sadly, I still have strong feelings for him. I tried to date other guys but none of them seem to be as compatible as him. By far, he’s the only man whom I share my most interests with. IMO, interests are the most important as as an Aries girl, I am afraid of boredom. I would prefer to be with someone who can share common interests with me. I thought we (this special scorpio guy and I) would end up - me being the bride as he being the bridegroom. But this dream had shattered into pieces. And I’m still hoping that one day he would come back to me. I have never met someone like him in my life and always think that he’s the ONE. Sigh.. Is it silly?
December 4th, 2009 at 11:32 pm
I am an Aries woman, and I find Scorpio men to be so interesting and mysterious. I am hopelessly drawn to them.
December 11th, 2009 at 4:09 pm
My husband is aries I’m scorpio and we get along great if his ex wife stays out of it. She is the cause of our arguments but the making up is great and explosive. I’ve known my husband since I was 13 and he was 15. We are now 38 and 40 and the love is still there. I’ve tried other signs but failed. I’m sticking with the only man I have honestly ever loved.
December 19th, 2009 at 11:45 pm
okai, Im a scorpio girl and he’s an aries boy. When I usually get mad or sad i do go off in hiding while he just sots there and gets mad at me. He’s cocky but he’s really modest and he’s really athletic. Im none of that, but we do have te same color in common which is RED and also SEX!! Its just the sexual chemistry, Im very passionate when it comes to that he is too but he hates it when I tease him.But we love eachother though even though its puppy love. Im very stubborn and he’s not. I know how to calm him down and he knows how to calm me down, even though people dont think we are compatible I think we are, you just have to balance it out.
March 3rd, 2010 at 10:44 pm
Hi I am an aries woman been dating a scorpio man for 2 1/2 years. LEt me tell you aries gals! Fire and water sign together is very difficult sometimes, we just dont mix well, self centered, all about him, self fish, jealous, mean and blunt, keeps you on edge all the time, awesome in bed. Its time I move on….I love him, but cannot let his water put out my fire….
April 29th, 2010 at 6:18 pm
True, true. Scorpio men, hot and cold all of the TIME. It’s really hard to form harmony with us, because it’s not like I’m all over the place, when an Aries female (me) settles for a Scorpio man (him), she becomes really devoted, which is what i have done. Tried to bind myself to him because he is possevive, so I became completly loyal. But every now and then it seems like he does want his space, so I don’t smother him, either. Sometimes I feel like the damn scorpio when it comes to emotions, and maybe he’s the Aries. Funny, right? All in all, crazy, because I do love him to death, and I often feel like he can just see ‘past’ that. Sure, Scorpios are mysterious and deep, but a little often, I feel like I can see straight through his soul..
May 4th, 2010 at 11:37 pm
i m an aries man..and im deeply in love with a scorpion girl.
me and my girlfriend was friends for a long time.and dnt knw how it happened we startd liking each other and then love..i never liked her in tht way before but slowly and slowly i started loving her…but thrz something happend in our life wich i cant forger..im so loyal to her alrhough i hd a girlfriend which i told her about i left her coz of some problems and scorpion girl knwd about my ex wen we were friends….the thing tht changed me and my life was the girl i loved the most scorpion girl ditched me …she told me abt her past tht she kissed a guy who i knw very closely ..and she told me after an year wen we wer abt to get engaged…as being aries i cudnt digest that although it happend an year ago..i cud have forgt abt it if she dint talk to him after that or had no link wotsoeva..but she kept on talking to him gettin attracted towards..she dint do anything else ..its just one time kissing….the thing tht get to me tht i trusted her the most in my life…she was in love with me as she told me thn how come she kisses another guy and tells me after an year abt it wen we wer abt to get engaged …wen she told me at that point of time i cudnt leave her so i was so much in love with her…i tried to forget her…but cudnt…at tht time i dint knw wot to do …cuz before weneva she tells me like yea tht guy she tryin to get close to me tryin to hug me i belived her and thought tht guy is wrong….(and he is very close to me-sam) i always believed her and wot she said and dint knw she lied to me all this time…i just cudnt believed it…i remembered all those things wen i believed her and supported her.i was badly hurt wen she told me abt it i just cudnt do anythin about it..i cant say anything to tht guy tho he knws i love her and one day we will get married to each other and neither to the girl who knw how much i love her..i committed this mistake….ok even after wen she told me she was in touch with tht guy..infront of me she talks to him ..joke arnd wich she knws i dont like…but she asked me to trust her for once…she aint doin anythin her words…this on goin things makes me a very different person…suspected ..before we never fought no arguments ..complete trust but now i need information of every minute….whr she goes wot she does….who does she talks to …we hve fights everyday i dnt trust her nomore and weneva i try to trust her again she ends up doin something ..and the worst thing is she neva admits her mistake until i prove it ..i dont knw wot to do …i love her a lot..i want to trust her but she aint doin anything to gain the trust back..wen it comes to that guy something happens to her and like i dont exist for her…its a sad story of my life with a scorpion girl…its true thy r very secretive…she promises me many things and neva stand upto the expectation..scorpions dnt eva break some1s trust..be loyal to the person who is loyal to you !!
May 8th, 2010 at 5:10 am
I am a aries woman and I’m currently in a relationship with a scorpio guy, we haven’t been together that long but as I was reading those comments I really started to notice what I’m getting myself into I mean I don’t wanna leave him because don’t get me wrong he treats me better than anyone has ever treated me but I don’t wanna leave him because of astrology info but at the same time I know its true.I love him dearly but this stuff has really made me look into the light and prepared me for what the future has in store for my mysterious relationship!!!!
June 3rd, 2010 at 11:37 am
Im a Scorpio woman and Im in love with an Aries man… I would say that aries is definitely the total opposite of scorpio… ive been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 months now.. He likes to sex with me and I find him seductive… we are also arguing but we talk to each other and understand each other and everything’s fine.. its just the understanding…. :)Aries are also good kissers
July 13th, 2010 at 1:31 pm
Okay, i’m a scorpio woman and i have never had a physical relationship with an aries male (yet), but what you guys are all saying is true. But BUT the way the relationship turns out always depends on the personality of the person/s! I lived with an aries male for my child and teen years (my father) and honestly we clashed all the time. We never did say that we loved each other much but there was never really much of a need it was something that was always there.
Aries males can be abrubtive insensitive and intolerant which does clash with the fact that us scorpios are very sensitive weather or not we are willing to admit it but aries when they open up can and will show another side to themselves. Anyhoo just wanted to say that every person has a different personality and a different background so don’t forget that and be willing to take that into acount at times.
August 12th, 2010 at 5:50 pm
I am a Scorp girl; some of my very best girl friends are also Scorps and Aries. And for some reason or another, we’re all in relationships or drawn to the Aries/Scorpio match…and yes, the sex is awesome; mind-blowing, extreme, the absolute best ever and lasting forever but…it seems like that’s all we do. I’ve noticed that this match tends to keep going, over years and years; I’ll see my Aries man for 5 months straight, during which time all we’ll do is have crazy sex. Then, we won’t see each other for months, maybe even 2 or 3 years. Then, some chance meeting, or we’re both at the same party, and bang, there we go again…I’m not sure if this is a very constructive relationship; I’ve noticed that all my girl friends who are in this Aries/Scorpio match are all in the same situation…Basically, I feel like I really want a true, stable relationship where I really want to build and create things with someone…but no matter who I’m with, and no matter who else I’m actually in love with (and I mean, really in love)…I somehow can’t seem to ever say no to my Aries man….that’s how strong the sex is between us…
August 13th, 2010 at 8:49 pm
I a m a S c o r p i o S u n a n d M o o n w i t h L i b r a A s c e n d a n t .
M y e x g i r l f r i e n d i s a n A r i e s S u n w i t h C a n c e r M o o n a n d S a g i t t a r i u s A s c e n d a n t .
W e h a d a m a z i n g s e x a l l t h e t i m e , a n d o u r p e r s o n a l i t i e s ( m o o n ) w e r e p r e t t y c o m p a t i b l e . Y o u c a n g u e s s s h e w a s p r e t t y h o t , g i v e n t h a t a s c e n d a n t , a n d I c o u l d n ‘ t r e s i s t !
B u t h e r e i s w h e r e t h e p r o b l e m s a r o s e :
I w a s a d o u b l e S c o r p i o ( s u n a n d m o o n ) , s o I w a s s u p e r d a r k a n d d e e p , a n d s h e d i d n ‘ t g e t i t . S h e d i d n ‘ t l i k e e m o t i o n s , b e c a u s e s h e h a d a l o t o f p s y c h o l o g i c a l p r o b l e m s .
S h e w o u l d g o i n t o s u i c i d a l f i t s e v e r y o n c e i n a w h i l e , a n d b e s u p e r i m p u l s i v e . I w o u l d c o m e t o h e r r e s c u e t h o u g h , a n d g i v e h e r s o m e t h i n g t o b e g r o u n d e d b y , s o s h e d i d n ‘ t g o o f f t h e d e e p e n d .
T h i s w o r k e d ! I t w a s h e l p i n g h e r r e a l i z e t h a t l i f e m a t t e r e d a n d t h e w a y s s h e a c t e d m a t t e r e d . T h e n s h e ‘ d w a n t s e x a f t e r w a r d , s o w e d i d t h a t a l o t : )
T h e r e a s o n w e a r e n o t t o g e t h e r a n y m o r e , a f t e r 2 . 5 y e a r s , i s t h a t I g o t v e r y e m o t i o n a l l y d r a i n e d w i t h h e r w e i r d q u e s t i o n s l i k e A m I g a y , o r D o I n o t l o v e h e r ( b e c a u s e I w o u l d n ‘ t d o c e r t a i n t h i n g s i n b e d ) , o r t h i n g s l i k e d i s a g r e e m e n t s t h a t s h e w o u l d n ‘ t b u d g e o n . I w a s o n l y c o n t r o l l i n g b e c a u s e s h e w a s c r a z y a n d t e n d e d t o d e s t r o y w h e n e v e r l e f t t o h e r s e l f . S h e e v e n t u a l l y d e s t r o y e d a p a r t o f m e a n d d r o v e m e a w a y , l i k e s h e k n e w s h e w a s f r o m e a r l y o n . I w o u l d a l w a y s t e l l h e r t h a t I l o v e d h e r , a n d s p e n d a l l m y t i m e t a l k i n g t o h e r a n d c u d d l i n g w i t h h e r , a n d t e n d i n g t o h e r n e e d s , a n d b e i n g o p e n t o w h a t s h e h a d t o s a y o r h e r w e i r d m o o d s .
I d o n ‘ t t h i n k t h a t ‘ s v e r y c o n t r o l l i n g . I ‘ m s u p e r a d a p t a b l e , a n d w a s r e c e p t i v e o f h e r n e e d s . T h e n a g a i n , I ‘ m n o t l i k e m o s t S c o r p i o g u y s I ‘ v e m e t .
August 13th, 2010 at 9:00 pm
I am a Scorpio Sun and Moon with Libra Ascendant.
My ex girlfriend is an Aries Sun with Cancer Moon and Sagittarius Ascendant.
We had amazing sex all the time, and our personalities (moon) were pretty compatible. You can guess she was pretty hot, given that ascendant, and I couldn’t resist!
But here is where the problems arose:
I was a double Scorpio (sun and moon), so I was super dark and deep, and she didn’t get it. She didn’t like emotions, because she had a lot of psychological problems.
She would go into suicidal fits every once in a while, and be super impulsive. I would come to her rescue though, and give her something to be grounded by, so she didn’t go off the deep end.
This worked! It was helping her realize that life mattered and the ways she acted mattered. Then she’d want sex afterward, so we did that a lot
The reason we are not together anymore, after 2.5 years, is that I got very emotionally drained by her relentless questions like Am I gay, or Do I not love her (because I wouldn’t do certain things in bed), or things like disagreements that she wouldn’t budge on. I was only controlling because she was crazy and tended to destroy whenever left to her self. She eventually destroyed a part of me and drove me away, like she knew she was from early on. I would always tell her that I loved her, and spend all my time talking to her and cuddling with her, and tending to her needs, and being open to what she had to say or her weird moods.
I don’t think that’s very controlling. I’m super adaptable, and was receptive of her needs. Then again, I’m not like most Scorpio guys I’ve met. Her father is also a Scorpio, but I’m way different than him.
Overall, we had a damn good relationship, except for the stress and stress she put on me, the bitch things she would say to me, and the time when she would depress me beyond belief, jumping back and forth between her feelings and telling me it would never work out. She wasn’t very reasonable, and didn’t think about a lot of the things she did. On the other hand, something that I did that was negative was… hm… “control” her by telling her to stop doing drugs and hanging out with people who anyone in the world can tell you are bad influences.
August 23rd, 2010 at 3:44 pm
Hmmmmm…..Well I will say the bedroom stuff is definitely true. I am an Aries female and I dated a Scorpio Male for about 5 years, There was a lot of passion between us. He is still the best lover I have ever had. As a matter he is the only memorable person I have ever been with. Our passion was almost instantaneous from the time we met. I was actually in a relationship with a cancer at the time and refused to be unfaithful although I was so exhausted over the emotional ups and downs of the Cancer. I was so drawn to this Scorpio. I have never been drawn to any man the way I was to him. As soon as my relationship ended the Scorpio and I were inseparable. There were months were we would physical every day. I was completely in love with him. He was very mysterious and secretive though. His Pros: Super Sexy, Passionate, Protective, Powerful, and Extremely Intelligent His Cons: Manipulative, Controlling, Deceitful/ LIAR, Unforgiving, vengeful, and turned out to be a Womanizer. The crazy thing I am still not completely over him and it has been years since we were together.
November 9th, 2010 at 1:53 am
Im a scorpio she is the aries, we have an undescribable connection in every way, sexually emotionally, physically, 1 quick coffee date, a few days later and second date, and the clothing
came off and we were on fire, we are a perfect match, Ive never known such passion, experienced such intense highs, its almost angelic,
January 7th, 2011 at 11:54 pm
I am a Aries woman and have been dating a Scorpio man for 3 months. Yes the sex was fire right out of the gate and still is just as hot. He allows me to do whatever I want to him and loves every minute. On the positive side he has a great sense of humor, is a very good communicator in general and appears very kick back in nature (I said appears.) However I find him to be defensive, inconsiderate, self-centered and like other have mentioned cheap. I do not see a future but am definitely enjoying the ride in the mean time. I am sure when it ends it will not be pretty, as I have heard about the vendictive nature of the scorpio.
March 8th, 2011 at 4:55 am
I’m an aries girl & I’ve been seeing a scorpio man on and off for the past year. I have never fallen so hard for someone before in my life. When I first met him I could literally feel the chemistry we shared throughout my entire body. I’m almost certain we were soulmates in a past life. The sex is deeply emotional and incredibly intense. It can also get very violent/sadistic/masochistic at times. I seriously can’t get enough of him. It’s true about what they say. Once a Scorpio man falls in love he will never let you go.
March 11th, 2011 at 2:31 am
Hello there people… Ok here we go lol I am a Scorpio male and my “friend” is an Aries female the 1st time i met her in (MAY 2010)i said to myself “she the one” we get on so well together she live about 3 hours away from me and any time she is in my town where together, But the thing is my feelings for her is getting deep. I am very romantic to her which she say she don’t like but i have the funny feeling she does but just don’t let on. She has even said you know me to well and loves the fact i’m always there! Also she has said why am i the ONLY guy she let to get away with my cheesy lines and romance without getting a slap (haha) i respect her alot and have never tried it on (jump on her or kissed her)which is a 1st for me lol. But i really want this girl but she say she not looking for a boyfriend right now! She a busy proactive girl which i support 101% but i want to do this as her MAN!! HELPPPPPP should i just tell her how i feel and risk losing her or should i just hate her and turn my back like us Scorpion can do??
April 13th, 2011 at 5:50 am
Wow Joceline, you have no idea how similar my life is to yours
I am also an Aries woman and I have been friends with a Scorpio for 4 years and just recently I found out that he likes me and wants to have sex with me. He is really slow, and I just want things to happen fast. I can’t wait to have sex with him….I kinda feel the steam
April 13th, 2011 at 5:54 am
Johnny,
Just tell her how you feel. Aries women have always been so annoyed by Scorpio men’s secrecy. I bet she is confused with her feelings towards you, but deeply inside she wants you more than everything.
It’s the passion, nothing else matters!
May 4th, 2011 at 6:09 pm
Hey Buker sorry i haven’t been back! Ok the News! Well i went up to her city to (tell her) and give her a gift for her birthday! And since i have told her she has been more distance then before!
…..I told her how i felt and i could see by her eye that she felt every word and after i gave her my gift she was blown away! But she still said “she wasn’t looking for a boyfriend right now” so i’m back to square one or even worst cause i don’t feel she close at the moment…Soo noo telling her was maybe not the right move!!! Maybe its just time till she starts to say the things i want to here! but how long i don’t know! And should i wait? Friends tell me to move on but my head and heart say wait! And be her friend for now! So there wasn’t a happy ending to my story just yet! THIS IS LIKE A MOVIE PART 2 TO FOLLOW 
(so Johnny) is confuse still 
May 18th, 2011 at 10:49 am
Well, weird. I am a Scorpio girl in love with an Aries man….every time we had a fight, he would shut off completely and hide for a few weeks without talking or in contact with me. It could go from a week to 2-3 weeks. Then he would come back and talk me like nothing happened before. It was ok for the first few times. A few weeks ago I probably did something that upset him, now he is shut off again and I haven’t heard anything from him for two weeks. I don’t want to bug and make him feel like I was begging him to come back, I gave him the space he needed but it is getting a bit old. We know we are not compatible in many ways but communication is the key. If he is not willing to communicate then I am not willing to compromise.
May 24th, 2011 at 3:30 pm
I am an aries who is just crazy about this scorpio male. I am older but we get along ok. I met him in august of 2010. I did not actually get to talk with him in person until October. We talked immensely about every day, Then i blew up at him really angry like we do and he said what he had to say. we still communicated it just was not the same and finally i just stopped calling this was around christmas. then out of the blue around march he called and we have been talking and we even hung out for a minute. I give him his space but do i tell him how strongly i feel or just wait and go with the flow? we r just friends now and I know he is not ready for a different type of relationship so he says but what do i do with my feelings?
June 25th, 2011 at 4:40 am
ARIES & SCORPIO relation will never work. NO CHANCES….when one compromises, the other becomes overuling. As a SCORPIO MAN, I will admit that we are jealous,secretive & mood swings everytime…the ARIES is self-centered,selfish, hot headed, liars,over-ambitious unaware of their limitations etc. IT WILL NEVER WORK.
August 18th, 2011 at 5:36 am
I am a aries with aries moon in 29 degrees, and Libra rising. The interesting part is that i have four dominant sign.
Aries 18 percent
Pisces 14.6 percent
Scorpio 14.5 percent
Taurus 12.1 percent
Dominat planets:
Sun 18 percent
Venus og mars 14 percent
Pluto at last
My scorpiolady, who i love and miss darly have;
Sign;
Scorpio 18 percent
Libra and aries 14 percent
Dominant planets;
Pluto 16 percent
Venus 11 percent
And i cant remember the last one. I think it was mercery or something.
She is quite a rubin, who never expire. Me myself when i make love with any women, i make love with her whole body. With her its explotion!
I like to walk slow while her walk fast, and when we get lost from eachother i just find my self finding it awesome to catch up later. I know either I or her call later on. I use this time to deal with my own emotions or call my dudes for a beer.
If she not call, I or her catch up again, and I have made peace with that. The beautiful feel of balance. I tend to have a need for secrets to, but I kind of give up when the hunt is over. Im quite a heartbraker, i guess. I love the game and wished more ppl would be like me or find a way to make a dozen copy of my self! Hehe.
I guess i went off-topic, but thats just beautiful and understandable, huh?
Well, she loves me I can tell by the look in her i eyez, but when reality comes and kick on your door, its Ok to make action and decisions. I have made peace with my ambitions. I just want to be happy and loved. She on the other hand, want it All. The car, the house, the boat, the yatch, those kind of things and stuff.
Me my self i rather buy my self an bicycle or weekpass for subway, and when i first want a vacation I can spend it all up for an exchange of memories and traveling. I have made peace with that, and i love it. Im not an greedy bastard I love taking her for dinner, so she can study my life and I hers. Im very tolerant, but when i first get mad I get realy mad. This is where the scorpios take advantage of my patience and its roud. On the other side, it would be better to make bounderis, with out getting mad.
We was together first in 2004 until 2008. The walking part your read about, was when i met her recently, in april - mai. We was just teens when we was together in 2004 - 2008. I was deeply in love with her and she was deeply in love with me, and we had our foughts and aruments. I have a tendency to spell it out in a libeterian way of speech, and that is what she loves and hate about me. I guess my ego for having a good point is BIG, i think. But she somehow get touched on the other hand, when i use my way of spelling it out, but yeah, i can see that maybe she wants to add up something every now an then. Its the balance between feminine and maskuline, i guess.
She is highly emotional and sensetive, but harsh when she first get mad. I could baerly breath after beeing putt into her verbably gauntlet. I guess we are quite similar, huh? Love me Is what she said at the end of this day. I said “Im not quite sure if Im able not to, after your harshed reaction. I almost shit in my pants” - She laughed and forgot, i did to.
I guess im just giving ya’ll a hard time reading this or should i keep this going until one of you steal my words and make it a worldwide selling book?
September 10th, 2011 at 8:41 pm
I’m a scorpio woman in love with an Aries man. Our relationship is lovely we have an awesome connection. Our communication is outstanding I’ve never been with a man so trustworthy he is amazing. And definitely into me!!! He has way more patience than I but we both seem to be able to make our different viewpoints without it causing a disagreement. He loves every part of me and is my rock. My feelings about him are honest and untainted he allows me to love him with all of me with no reservations. Our lovemaking is breathtaking he takes me away with his touch and I with my sex drive he jokes with me all of the time that I need a sex doctor and I laugh. But through it all I feel like we can concur the world together. Business wise I wouldn’t chose it to be with anyone but him. Aries are hard workers and family oriented just like us scorpios and that is in itself attractive enough for me. I just can’t get enough of him. So if your in a new relationship give it a chance it’s worthwhile…
October 28th, 2011 at 12:21 pm
I’m a scorpio female and I’ve been seeing this Aries for the last couple of months. We haven’t had sex yet, but there is a lot of sexual tension.
There’s only one problem. He will not open up! I have a big heart and very friendly, but he is very secretive. I can be secretive, but with the right person I will open up, but he makes me want to go back into my shell. I’ve tried to break us apart about 3 times as it is driving me crazy, but he always draws me back in! It’s very frustrating and not fun at all.
November 4th, 2011 at 4:19 pm
Well, I feel for all the women who love us Scorpio men. Yes, we are a lot to handle. I’m very honest
about how difficult we can be. Yes, I’m possessive, jealous, VERY secretive, can be very moody at times. With age, I’m 44 now, this has all mellowed some. I’ve learned to accept other personality types and let them lead if need be…. except when it comes to issues of safety of bullying. If I see my partner being mistreated in anyway I have a tendency to go to DEFCON 1 in fractions of a second.
So, for you Aries out there, here is my advice: Relationships only work when their is mutual respect and compromise. IF you want your Scorpio man to be less possessive and jealous we need you to be more sensitive to our feelings and need for alone time. If you want that great sex we must be allowed to seduce, fondle, caress, and enter your soul as well as your body.
When we are moody and are in hiding, just use that time to flex your independence and do your thing. Be sure to tell us you love us and that you are happy to let us have our alone time and will be waiting when we resurface.
I do not feel the need to “dominate”, but I do want a “vote”.
Brutal honesty is almost never good for a Scorpio especially if you have a criticism or issue with us. Diplomacy and the “soft sell” are the way to go.
If this is too much to handle, politely part company, NEVER get caught cheating on a Scorpio, you’ll inherit a life lone enemy who plots your demise daily.
If you can handle this than you will gain the closest partner you’ve ever had and this person would take a bullet for you or help you dispose of any bodies you happen to slay.
If someone is on your case or against you, having a Scorpio on your side is the equivalent to having a SEAL team on speed dial.
As we all know, sexually, they is almost nothing the Scorpion won’t do to please you. If you want me to wear a chicken suit and spend 19 hours getting you off… CLUCK CLUCK BABY!!!
In short, a properly loved and delicately cared for Scorpion is the absolute best friend, lover, partner, spouse you will ever have. An abused, neglected, or cheated on Scorpion is a Nuclear Bomb balanced on the head of a pin.
Good luck.
January 23rd, 2012 at 1:22 am
Im a scorpio woman in love with a Aries man. We have been in eachothers lives for 20yrs. Romanticlly involved for 11 of those years. In my opion I think a Scorpio will love an aries forever because their ppl who cant be ignored in a crowded room or never just looked at as average ppl. As a scorpio I love to feel lucky, meaning I have to be with: The niceist, charming guy that ever lived. Aries men have a gift of making you feel so lucky to be with them and as a Scorpio like to feel lucky to have a great catch! I love my Aries man and I know other women do too but he’s with me and I love and respect him for that.