Aries Compatibility With Scorpio |
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Aries and Scorpio
These two signs are both ruled by the planet Mars, and as such will work together tremendously. Although the Aries is unwise of the secretive nature of the Scorpio and may never know that the Scorpio almost always knows what the Aries is doing. They will have mutual respect for their abilities and are fiercely competitive, as a team they are one of the best.
If an Aries and Scorpio get together, from the outset, there will be a lot of sex. They are sexually drawn to one another greatly, in-fact these two could create their own sauna together with the amount of steam they create!!! One thing though, these two sometimes get out of pace with one another as they both run at different speeds. The Water sign likes to take it slowly, they love to tease and are highly sensual. The poor old Fire sign unfortunately, is fast and furious and can sometimes get so carried away that they boil over, leaving their Scorpio lover smouldering frustratedly!! That’s OK though, the Scorpio will forgive the Aries if it happens now and then, not too sure they will forget it mind you!!

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I tend to disagree a bit with this compatibility profile. They are both ruled by Mars, which does make them very hot in bed, but Scorpio’s unadulterated jealousy and controlling nature smother the Aries (at least when it comes to an aries female). I am an Aries female (april 4th, and am a textbook aries…) I have dated two scorpio’s… both of which were very controlling and even more jealous. The independence of the Aries can get squelched… and that is what makes Aries so unique, we don’t take ANYTHING from ANYONE! So tread carefully and watch for signs of that control and jealousy when entering a relationship with a scorpio, becuaes you don’t want to get stung.
I am an aries male with virgo moon and pisces ascending.
I must say that the greatest sexual relationships i have ahd have been with scorpios - they are uninhibited…..
They tend to be secretive but I can live with that. I find they are also well presented and are generally run of the mill type characters
Like i think both aries and scorpio are no really compatible, me being an aries know for a fact that aries are very impatient in like Love.
I fell in love with a scorpio before, and when she was sad, she would go off into hiding and not reply any of my msges and what nots, so like being an aries i was kinda frustrated and irritated by the fact that they keep going off to “hiding” leaving us passionate loving aries to like die off outside his hiding place.
Let’s just put it this way, my love for her was tragic,we didn’t like contact each other anymore after we broke up and i poured out my love for her like crazy, but she just walked away.
Scorpios are weird people s’riously..
that is alittle ambiguous…
im a scorpio girl in love with an aries girl..
wow right.. we sure do push eachothers butons but still we know how to learn from eachother and deal..
becase mostly all our problems exist from eachother, we have plenty of insecurities i think that make it harder.’
but we still prove all this compatability stuff wrong!
im not that hard to handle jesus
I would say that this profile is more accurate than most.
I am an Scorpio woman in love with an Aries man. Most of the profiles that I read would almost make me want to run as fast as I can in the other direction when it comes to a relationship with an Aries. However, I have found little of it to be true in my relationship.
Sure we have had our fair share of arguments, and rocky patches, but we seem to make it through them and come out stronger in the end.
I have never had a relationship that seems to get hotter the longer that I am in it… this one however just seems to get better and better. We have been together for almost 2 yrs. now, and we haven’t even so much lost an ounce of passion for each other. Because we are both sexually charged signs, I think that the sexual component in our relationship just might be the glue that holds us together.
I am sure that there is some validity to all the negative profiles, but if you are aware of these tendencies it’s easier to recognize them and stop it before it causes some serious damage.
…and hey, the makeup sex after a good fight is always sure to rock you world.
I feel in love with a Scorpio Man and I’m an Aries woman. We broke up a couple months ago after he stormed out. Granted I had broke up with a couple times out of the need to create space. I found him jealous, moody, unforgiving and needing attention. Our sex was the best I ever had, although towards the end he seemed to be getting risky, meaning things that made me uncomfortable. I sensed a controlling and jealous nature that started to take the wind out of my sails. I would speak my mind on these matters as they arose. Other times I felt it wasn’t worth mentioning. He is quite the penny pincher and seemed rather stingy. Which we discussed as well. I noticed too that he is stubborn, just as I am, and likes to have it his way. For the most part I found a companion with cold feet. I forced issues on this matter, another typical Aries move, but I couldn’t stand it. In turn, this turned me off feeling a lack of dedication on his part yet wanting me to give everything. I have been debating giving him a call to add closure and/or understanding to the situation. I love him and desperately want to understand him as I want to be understood and loved. What to do?
I am a female aries and i am having a relationship with a scorpion man. We are togather for almost 12 years.
i must say that we were having some difficulties during the years but our love was very strong that we passed all obstacles that appeared in our relationship.
Despite that we are togather for so long we still have the same passion and the same strong sexual relationship we had when we met!!
Scorpions are more closed and secretive but they have a big heart..
I def. agree with this.
My ex boyfriend was a scorpio he was a totel manipulator . He loved too be in control. and
was out of his mind . Jealousy was another big one i couldnt breath When we broke up i slept for a week straight that’s how on healthy our relationship was.. But i have too agree with the sex part it was amazing.. that’s the only thing that kept me with him for so long..
i am a scropio girl and in love with a aries guy…
he is sweet allways look after my needs and all….but some times he is more interested in sex then me…
i know we both ar ruled by mars planet and can run a turbine engine with the steem we generate but sometime i fell there should be a line.,…
but let me tell u a secreat they can discover great position of there own which can leave u wanting more….[:)]
Well, I met this guy and we hit it off very quickly. It was like he knew what I was thinking, I felt drawn to him somehow. Then I found out he is a scorpio and I am an Aries woman. The first think I said was oh no! Scorpios are hard headed and you can’t tell them nothing! I know because my brother is one and we fight constantly. But the attraction is very strong. Well we couldn’t control our passion and just gave in. OMG!! This man was the best in the sac I just keep wanting more and more. Could I be falling in love only after a few weeks? Because this would be unlike me. Somebody help me!! I fear it may end in a blaze of glory.
WOW…
OK I AM AN ARIES WOMAN IN LOVE wiTH A SCORPIO WOMAN..
WE’VE BEEN TOGETHER NOW FOR 5 MONTHS AND KNOW EACHOTHER FOR 2 YEARS.. WE HAVE SO MUCH FUN TOGETHER WE LAUGH WE PLAY WE SHARE ALMOST EVERYTHING SHE’S GREAT, GENEROUS,FUN, AND WE HAVE AMzAZING SEX.. I MEAN IT’S IMMACULATE! IT’S ALMOST AS IF WE ARE ONE WHEN OUR BODIES MEET,VERY PASSIONATE..NEVER HAVE I HAD ANYONE DO THE THINGS THAT SHE’S DONE TO ME OR VICE VERSA..WOW WE EXPLORED EVERY SINGLE PART OF OUR BODIES LIKE COLUMBUS EXPLORED AMERICA! SHE’S BEEN MY BEST LOVER SO FAR..
BUT!! LOL THE CONTROLLING PART IS TOO MUCH…
I’M AN ARIES AND WE ARE VERY DEMANDING SCORPIOS ARE CONTROLLING WHICH MAKES SITUATIONS REALLY INTENSE AND OVER WHELMING FOR US. I LOVE MY FREEDOM. SHE WANT TO CLIP MY WINGS AND HAVE HER CAKE AND EAT IT TOO.! SHE’S GREAT BUT AT THE SAME TIME SHE’S SELFISH, SELF CENTERED, ONE SIDED, STUBBORN AND HAS TOO MUCH PRIDE…ARIES DON’T PLAY THAT!
I’M REALLY TRYING TO HOLD ON TO THIS RELATIONSHIP BUT IT’S HANGING OFF A THIN STRING..THE SEX IS GOOD BUT IS IT ENOUGH?
I loved reading all of these…I am a Aries female and was recently involved in a relationship w/ another female who was a Scorpio fro 2 years
OK-WOW!! I am a text book Aries; giving, loving, passionate, stubborn and like for things to go my way if they can etc.. My Scorpio of 2 years was controlling, jealous, SECRETIVE, double standard, insecure, needy, SELFISH & always thinking she was going to catch me up..The sex I found to be plentiful. HOWEVER, I did not find it to be as unhibited/exciting as I would liked for it to have been.
We broke up a month ago, she was telling me 1 day how in love with me she was and 2 days later, she COMPLETLY shut down and ended things. Havent spoke to her or her NEW girl since.
When a Scorpio is down for you- watch out cause it could end as soon as it began!! When they are done, regardless if you are or not, THEY ARE DONE FOREVER!!! Not a good match!!
I am an aires woman who is dating a scopio man. the relationshi i am having with him is a totally pain. I never feel i am having a relationship, and i never found my belonging in this man. He is sometimes cold, and sometimes hot. He couldnot stand on phone more than 30 secend. But he is afraid of making decision of lossing a woman who is so generous, who loves him so much, and give up everything for him. We argue constantly, because we are all head strong, and we make up constantly, because we are all LONELY! Will this relationship work? I do not. For me, I want someone who is more affectionate, For him, he wants companion without lossing his space, which is really a big space. it is more like, when i need you, you will be with me, when i do not need you, you shall disappear. I am not sure for how long this relationship will last…And i am not sure when he will make up his mind about me….
I don’t look into star signs but I decided to its check it out and see how accurate it is since I am having issues in a relationship with my bf. I am a Scorpio male and he is an Aries male. Things started off extremely quick and we just moved in together not long ago. And I admit we have HUGE personality differences. So far I have already had at least 3 intensive arguements with him as a result of his blunt comments and opinions that I dont agree with and the comments he made were offending to me, upsets me and drove me NUTS. Secondly his lack of communication and someone who always keep to himself pisses me off. He always like to win in anything we do, he gets angry easily, stubborn, he has extreme mood swings, ie: he is excited, funny all of a sudden then minutes later he gets all moody. In an arguement he burst in anger and says things that hurt my feelings BIG time. He gets bored easily,he is self-centered in terms of keeping to himself, not affectionate, he is serious in his career, he likes to delegate at work, he likes to travel. He loves his freedom and alot of Space, I mean A LOT. He is a good listener and not a good talker at all. He hides his feelings and woulndt tell you about it, he is ignorant and dont give you any answers, he doesnt confront issues and avoid facing the facts- ie: runs away from it or dont want to talk about it. He is loyal, so far he is a man of integrity…etc.These are some of the characteristics I found about him BEFORE reading about our star signs. OK, and Honestly BEFORE reading the Star signs I was asking myself this question, what was the MAIN Thing we have in COMMON out all the issues we had so far ? ! The SEX ! ..It was Extreme ! After reading our star signs which pretty much matches our personality and I have to say I have the choice of holding onto this or let go. Yes my heart is already broken and yes I will have a hard time of letting go especially intuitively I know there is something deep in him which still makes me holding onto him. Peace and flowers to all of you….
OMG MEGAn!!! I’M SCARED 8ECAUSE I CAn SEE MY SCORPIO GIRL DOInG THAT, JUST lEAVInG ME OMG! SHE CAn 8E WARM AnD KInD TO COLD AnD MEAn..WE’RE MOVInG In TOGEtheR nEXT WEEK an IMPULSIVE MOVE I MADE. AS An ARIES WE ALWAYS HAVE A 8ACK UP PLAn, PLAn A 8 C D E F G H I J K L Mnop ect. *SIGH* no!I’m puttin all my trust in her 8ECAUSE SHE LOOKED ME In MY EYE AnD TOLD ME sHE “WOULD nEVER EVER LEAVE MY SIDE OR DO ME WROnG” SHE SEEMED SInCERE, (SHUT UP I KnOW WHAT YOUR THInKinG 8UT IF U WERE THERE YOU’D 8ELIEVE IT TOO!)…WISH ME LUCK
I an an aries woman and have recently become involved with a scorpio man. I have to say im am becoming more and more confused with this guy. He’s sweet and very down to earth, seems to really like me but I find he’s rather distant and not very open at talking about his feelings. We have had sex once and WOW!! We couild not get enough of eachother…went on all night long …The best first sex I have ever had. Since then he calls me every few days but work etc seems to keep us apart. We did have dates before the sex and he was very much the gentleman. I do get the feeling hes making an effort to go veery slow..but I am concerned it might be too slow for me if it doesnt pick up soon. I feel like I am not getting to know him well enough since it’s so long between dates. Is it safe to ask him about it or should I just let it go and just stop seeing him if he’s to slow for me? I don’t want to push or rush to fast either but I need a little more time with him, more regular to feel I’m not wasting my time on a guy who seems so distant at times. It’s like hot and cold to the extreme. I feel like he’s playing a teasing game with me. I’m trying to be a little aloof about it as to not scare him but I’m wondering if thats the wrong aproach with a scorpio. Maybe I need to turn on the heat a bit
I’m a scorpio girl and i fall for an aries girl. I don’t see myself being very jealousy. So jealousy isn’t a problem to me. But that aries i like is attached. I’ve tried to be the one for her. I bring her joy when she’s sad, be there for her all times and always making her smile bringing her tiny surprises. But she seems hard to get. I believe she only needs me whenever her partner doesn’t care for her. We shared almost everything together, true enough both we are very passionate. Should i even give up her or continues be there always for an aries?
I am an aries girl,and he is scorpio. I agree it can be very frustrating, we just recently got together, but for like two months there was a period where we both knew we were interested and attracted to one another, btu nothing happened between us. He was so confusing, always gave me mixed signals, very distant at times and then close and open at others. We got a chance to get really close as friends though, i can really trust him, can really takl to him, have fun with him and laugh,i feel a deep connection, but i just didnt know where he was going with this. being scorpio he was ofcourse all secretive didnt approach me bout the situation, and typicall aries, it was driving me mad, i needed to speak about, i was so impatient, because i knew he liked me. It got me so angry, so i can see where there would be clash. In the end it was me who initiated everything, got things going between us, and not gonna lie now we can barely keep our hands off eachother, the sexual attraction is extremely high, cant wait for our first time,im sure it will be mind blowing. Later i found out that he was so reluctant to start something becasue he feared that i wouldnt follow it through, thinking that i would lose my interest in him soon and that it wouldnt be a long term thing for me. BUt i really like him, and he is very differnt to other guys ive met, and i dont know how to get that across to him and that he really believes me. Anywaz im really worried because there are obvious communication problems between us now already, and i fear it wont work in future, wich would be a shame cause i really want it to.
Most of the comments I have read above. Here is the conclusion for a scopio man: Hot & Cold at all time, royalty when they are truly in love, self-centered, require a parter with good quality, self-closed personality, outspoken only when they are offended by loved ones, cheap, will not spend lots of money on partners, taking advantage of aries.
I have been dating this scopio man for 2 years, he is constantly changing his mind. He promised me to engage me 3 times, and broke his promise 3 times, and still expect me to love him more than usual. He told me to go to see a therapist with him to solve the constant arguements between us. Damn it, how would a therapist solve a problem of personailties differences? I wonder. He is manipulating me with this whole therapist, and threaten me that is the only way to get engaged if we are not aruging anymore. This is really nonsense to me, how would an aries not argue with a scopio? But i have to go for this nonsense, because i can see he is the man for protecting a family. It might be just my dillusion. But I am stubborn at my feelings.
I am a scorpio female. I have been sexing this aries guy for six months to be exact and i have fallen in love with him. We started off as cuddy buddies.I never thought things would get this deep for me. I told him i loved him and later in the sexxin he told me he loved me to. But i want a relationship and he so stubborn he want conversate on his true feelings and freezes up and leave me drowning when it comes to him to open up with me. This so crazy im about to lose my mind because this is so frustrating. Is he afraid to commit are im just not his type.
i am a scorpio woman fall in love with an arian man.we met three years ago and i am stll in love with him!!!dispite the differences i can’t leave him
ii am an Aries woman inlove with a Sagittarius with a personality of a Scorpio man.. we have been together for 3 months
our relationship is complex and full of tention..
he has a great personality which pulls me to him but on the other hand i sometimes cant stand him.. he is stubborn and jelous.. just like me.. he acts uncaring and like he is not scared to loose me.. he plans revenge which scares me..
we only had sex once and that wasnt even meant to happen.. i guess that we both got carried away..
i know he is not with me for sex but the way he sometimes treats me worries me..he can be very moody at times which also enoys me.. he can be hot for a minute and cold the next..
I am a scorpio female and i have been in a relationship with a aries male for a year and a half. After reading all of these posts, I can see why me and my boyfriend are the way we are. We have had many rough patches and sometimes I want to give up but there’s always the possibility of it being better. I think we shouldn’t base our relationships on our horoscopes, because if we think negative, the relationship will be negative. Me and my boyfriend do have problems. I’m jealous, he wants more freedom, I push away when i’m moody, he wants to know what’s wrong. But at the end of each day, he tells me how much he loves me and I just know it’s true and that I love him too. EVERY relationship HAS problems, you just have to not give up.
I am a scropio girl in love with an Aries guy… I’ve been in love with him for over 5 years- he is amazing. I admire his ability to initiate and his calm demeanor. I am not a jealous person AT ALL- I do not believe in jealousy,and I think it is a basic human emotion that can be overcome with good habits. I am very independent- I do sometimes retreat when upset,and I am working on that! So heres the scoop on this guy- we have known eachother for over 5 years and always liked eachother, I was just too young. Now that I am finally of age we got togeher for a short while…and then he just didn’t call. I think I was too intense in bed for him?? So he contacted me later and was like, lets hook up, I’m sorry I freaked out… and I was so hurt I didn’t respond,and everytime I see him it is always awkward and I don’t know if I should let him know I am still very into him, or should I let him be and forget it? I know we are both proud, so maybe I should just go for it? I dont know… help me out!
I was with a Scorpio male for 2 years and we broke it of f 8 months ago for over an extremely silly fight. We were so in love with one another, he was more into me then me into him, and we had the best relationship where we could say or do anything with eachother,it always felt comfortable. Now that we broke up he is being very cold to me, only want to have sex and says he doesnt love me anymore, even said that after 2 weeks after we broke up which i know is not true. i want him back so bad but anything i do i seem to push him futher away. He says he doesnt love me anymore yet everytime i need him he is there and listens, although he can be cold at times. Can anyone suggest what i can do to get him back?
i feel really sorry for all of you that have been burned by they the scorpios in your lifes. i am aries and my most mentally, physically,emotional realationship was with a scorpio male. when you been around the block a couple of times im in my thirtees you start to know when a male if affecting you differently from the average cutey or intellectual hottie you had a conversation with at work in the club, where ever you pick-up your usually cup-of-relationship-poison/or posies.he bent my world mentally which mind is way harder for this semi-diffent aries female. you have to get into my head first. not that i dont enjoy inter-acting with the male species i do get my fair share of attention,number-offers to have relationships, butty-calls, marriage,etc. but this got me good. so we did hook up after a minute,and ever-other male i ever thought i knew got deleted from my data-base.i didnt think it was possible,so for doubters it has to happen to you to believe its possible.so mr.scorpio ask to be apart of my life in a very serious way and i had to re-arrange my whole life after extreme serious thought to accomadate him when i say extreme i talking re-arranging the day-to-day thing we are all working for building up to,etc. i let you fill in any of the majors in your life that you accumate,work hard for hold precious and would under a bridge if you messed up and mis-calculated the intent of others very close to you.all warned me NOOOOO!!! MIND YOU!!! I HAVE NEVER LET ANYONE MESS UP MY SITUATION, I LET MR.SCORPIO!!! i will never let anyone get that close again. will have relationships have fun settle down all that but being burnt so un-expectedly gets to you. and he was getting everything his way to the letter after alot of over-hauling me to see things his way.i was feeling him and one day he says again mind you while i am mid-life changing for him and intermixing him into my life the way he asked me to, he dumps me for a LIBRA female and says their getting married. mind a lady he dated in the past before my time but that he told me about.well with no warning and still prompting from him to join our lives together in all ways. never been so duped and still remembering the great trip i have been on before and probably never will as close again.if i ever saw him again i probably would want,to say nothing and just lay down with him(no-sex) to remeber how he reminded me of a GREAT-BIG-CUP-OF-TEA! no one has turned me on so mentally, physicall and emotionally,SINCE.FOOD FOR THOUGHT/GOOOOD LUCK
hey ppl ima scorpio girl and im in complete love with this aries guy!!!! we met each other as strangers and now all i feel is love for him!!! i do dra back my emotions, but i am that way i like to make others feel better not make them feel worse by listening to my problems except….. when i met my aries guy i felt totally capavle of trust and he is my first love!!! he is amazing i love being with him and we do have r fights but in the end sooner or later we always make up and r love is stronger!!! he is a guy i can always trust and knws whats in my head
Scorpio men are evil and will ruin your life…this coming for a scorpio female who has ruined enough lives to know. They are insecure, jealous, and if they have ever love before…I promise you they never let go and you will never fully have them. Sorry.
I’m an Aries girl my man is Scorpio and we’ve been together for a few years now…
The sweetest thing and love is there as well as sex,sadly I’m partially agree with the above comment about not letting old stuff go.
At least I feel so.
I think it is a good deal for an Aries that wants someone sweet and caring.But for the Aries that wants it all not the best choice maybe…
I’ve known this aries guy for a couple of months and we get on stupidly well, its like an earlier comment said its like he’s known me all my life. We clicked straight away and im really attracted to him. But he does act quite fast-paced and is busy all the time whereas im the typical scorpio and need to have time to sit and be still. We are both quite opinionated and strong minded. At the moment we are just friends but i feel like i want more than that, i guess i dont know what to do?
Hi. I’m a female Scorpio. I am interested in a male Aries. I am SOOO attracted to him physically. I like his personality as a friend and in business. I am having trouble w/his brashness. He can be quite hurtful. To boot, he’s also 100% Italian–to me, this is part of his bluntness and forcefulness. Don’t get me wrong–I love Italians! I’m trying to establish boundaries w/him right now but it might be too late. I think his feelings go WAY deeper than he states and that that scares him so he’s pulling away. We got into an argument recently where he was loud and harsh, and I was logical and reasonable. I think that made him angrier! I hope he and I can patch it up together, but I may have lost him.
I am an Aries female in love w/ a Scorpio male. He said that I hurt him years ago (2 times) when actually he had hurt me first. We had not seen each other for years and now that we got it all out about who did what, I still feel like he is making me pay for what I did which was actually his fault! We have such a strong attraction to each other it is ridiculous, both have strong personalities, he has never committed to me and doesn’t trust anyone especially women! I am so tired of kind of holding onto him all this time on and off and he won’t just give in. After all this time, he finally says, “I don’t want to lose you” but does nothing about it.