Comments on: Are Scorpio’s the jealous type?

By: responding to lobi

responding to lobi — Sun, 15 Apr 2012 06:16:21 +0000

I’m assuming you’re a pisces?

By: Lobi

Lobi — Sat, 04 Feb 2012 22:02:04 +0000

I just think that the jealous trait is not true for a Scorpio. The signs that should include a jealousy trait should be all of the fire signs! I have the worst trouble with the females that are related to these signs, even my 9 year old daughter has problems with these types. It is awful. I just don’t get it.

By: anon

anon — Tue, 31 Jan 2012 10:53:43 +0000

You say it as if they have no control over their behaviour…

Here’s the thing about this. I often times find myself, a vulnerable cancer, being hurt by a “misunderstood” Scorpio almost out of nowhere. First point of inquiry: what has Cancer ever done to turn on their “defensiveness”? Second point of inquiry: who looks like the more “mis-understood” one? I’ve already been bullied by the rest of the world who crushes me at my every sensitive spot, what made me deserve more torment under “scorpian justice”? A cancer is not capable of using hate to strike at people people, so his or her ever action never annoys/irritate/frustrate/upset people on purpose.

Even if they “can’t control their anger” and “jealousy”, Scorpios on the other hand are fully capable of going to the mis-attacked and telling him or her upfront that they made a mistake and that they were wrong for what they did…and finally, of apologizing in the end. That is the LEAST they can do after they attack someone with their unearthly penetrating abilities. (And they KNOW for a fact that they have this ability too, no matter how much they deny it or manipulatively and wittingly apply that it is just apart of their misunderstood nature)

But, why am I wasting physical energy to type this post? I don’t think that even after many scorpios reading this that they are truly capable of understanding the deep, infuriating, upsetting feelings that they cause to cancers like myself. It’s no question to me why so many Cancers in general do not look for a scorpio.

On that tangent, I know that many Cancers may say that they fall in love with a scorpio, but it is more common than not that Cancers are not the ones looking for scorpio. Its usually a scorpio who falls romantically for a cancer. And, cancer, whether or not they’ve already been hurt by the scorpio (especially at first meeting), merely LEARNS to love the Scorpio, even if chances are that they already have scorpios name on their heart’s heavy brickwall for the rest of that cancer’s life.

I’m sorry if I went so much off the subject of jealousy, but you didn’t post a post “scorpio in love.” So, I post some of my feelings in regards to this in combination to that of scorpio’s jealousy, which in my view, is a component of a bigger problem.

By: bloodscorpio

bloodscorpio — Thu, 05 Jan 2012 14:30:44 +0000

as a scorpio i personally dont think it as jealousy. really its just all about trust. we get hurt when you leave us but we wont tell you that. we expect you know that already and doesnt need saying. and believe me when were hurt we can hold a grudge for decades

By: Jordan

Jordan — Thu, 22 Dec 2011 18:35:14 +0000

YES!!!!! Nuff Said!

By: johanna back at ya!

johanna back at ya! — Sun, 27 Nov 2011 19:46:13 +0000

Oh, excuses, excuses. Regardless of jealousy, nothing in this world can truly justify rage, anger and sharp abrasiveness. this is the typical “excuse” that Scorpios use when they hurt even their own compatible signs of cancer and pisces. you know, their jealousy got the best of them and they couldn’t help it, it’s hard enough to be an emotional-charged scorpio, etc. etc.

they KNOW when their feeling anger and that they will hurt someone with it. oh, but hey, regardless of whether or not it hurts, “truth” must be told, right?

On a similar tangent, if you (Scorpio) behave in the most kind and decent manner and are the biggest sweetheart upon meeting a Cancer, chances are that you’ve been an unbelievable jerk to a previous cancer who youve torn up and scarred for life, and that, instead of having apologized and acknowledged your fault outwardly, you ran away in hopes of starting anew with a new Cancer. and, we would have a good sense of it.

By: Sam

Sam — Fri, 18 Nov 2011 21:48:02 +0000

Judging by some Scorpion women views and opinions on here..One word..Crazy!!
We of the Non scorpion persuasion, do not blame all Scorpion women or say they are this and that about them.
It is utterly foolish and simply ridiculous to even think or say some of the things, I read on here said by Scorpion women.
No Geminis and other non Scorpions do not get Jealous over All of you.Who say we are..lol
To even reply to some of the comments made by Scorpion women would tarnish my education, and my manners which my parents was well equip to give me..
So NO to all the Scorpion women who feel we are jealous.
We have better things to do.
And while holding on to all that grudge and bitterness..Try channeling it into something constructive.
Your Egos are as destructive as your views..The world does not revolve around you and people are not pawns in your games of what you want in life!

By: kay

kay — Sat, 10 Sep 2011 15:32:28 +0000

As a follow Scorpion Nov. 21 I feel ppl get the wrong perception when they use the word jealous when referring too Scorpios. We are not jealous of other ppl when it comes down too their accomplishments and the things that they have. We don’t envy other ppl psychically nor materially. We are every supportive of ppl we hold dear our heart, so you and achieve your goals and dreams and we will not become competitive with you. (But we are always up for any challenge if presented with one. And we do love a challenge in out love life. But only in those situations.) I do believe that we have a jealous steak in us but only to the sense that we are more territorial of what we believe or feel belongs too us from our love partners, family and friends. If we feel like that space is being invaded we will become very protective and defensive which will come off as jealously. I would prefer for ppl to use to the word territorial rather than jealous when referring to Scorpios cause some ppl miss interpret it the wrong way and become stand-offish with us thinking that we will become jealous of them and what they have or their accomplishments. I just recently had a friend of 11yrs become real reserved toward me just because she read about Scorpios being jealous we use to talk all the time she confines in me and I’m a good and loyal friend never and any fall out nor arguments and we always keep it real with each other I don’t hold anything back and neither does she when we confined in each other. But it seems as if she just taken it too the extreme and is now trying too look at our friendship differently and she has become reserved in what she tells me now thing that my response is coming from jealously. I its known as such than ugly word and use too describe a person who is envious of others and what they are doing or what they have and doesn’t like others to do or have more than them. That is not Scorpions that is not what we do. I believe the word jealously when referring too our traits is being missed interpreted and taken out of content. Well to end my comment on Scorpios and the jealous rage, lol. We just don’t like too feel threaten or our space being invaded and if so we will sting.

By: shakera

shakera — Thu, 08 Sep 2011 06:38:28 +0000

yes i do think scorpio’s are paranioed an also jealous because it happened with me but still trying to figure out if i was really jealous.

By: mira

mira — Thu, 11 Aug 2011 19:39:00 +0000

@ SANDY

why are you so defensive and so angry at scorpion women that you generalize everything??
aren’t you even aware that you YOURSELF is being endeveloped/immature?…try being open-minded sometimes, it might help you understand how scorpios are…

anyway…all i can say is that scorpions are truly open-minded people, and the reason why WE are so secretive is we analyze the situation based on what other people would feel…and most of the time we take the blame for some things even if it is unfair for us…and YES we become jealous because sometimes we don’t get the attention we expected from our partners, scorpions can be unpredictable that people needs a lot of effort and patience to understand a scorpion…but once you get to know them and understand them, you’ll have a different view of that person

By: jen

jen — Wed, 01 Jun 2011 21:36:40 +0000

yes…i’m a scorpio (November 2) and when i was dating another scorpio, he was rather open and also hung out with other girls. it ended up with me cursing at him at saying if he wasn’t into me, i was NOT into him. then again, i didn’t really like him, so i threw him away easily…

By: mandy

mandy — Sun, 10 Apr 2011 19:38:38 +0000

Scorpios simply get tired of our mates being disrespectful and unloyal. We as scorpios expect our mates to respect us enough to not push those boundaries otherwise they get our wrath. We as scorpios also expect ourselves to hold to those same standards, and if we dont chances are we havent committed ourselves to you cuz any scorpio woman that is truly in love will not jeopardize thier relationship for nothing.