Compatibility For Virgo and Sagittarius |
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Virgo and Sagittarius
With Virgo and Sagittarius it is most likely that the attraction will be instant. There will be excitement in both of them for the mutual appreciation of discussion and debate and long conversations into the small hours of the morning will ensue. Many astrologers believe that the Virgo/Sagittarius match is no good and doomed from the start. But I believe that sometimes these differences connect people even more. However, I do think friendship is sometimes best with these two, but if a relationship is inevitable then just don’t move in together, at least not for a long while.
Sagittarius likes the big picture, the whole view, and all three courses. Virgo on the other hand likes to dissect, slowly analyze and ponder over the little things. This will cause the fiery Sag to jump up and down with frustration. Quite simply, this couple will never understand the way the other thinks or feels, it really is best to understand that you are both different and leave it at that. No amount of lengthy debates will make you see eye to eye I’m afraid. There will be times of fiery explosions from the Sagittarius and cold quiet periods from the Virgo. These will pass.
If this Earth and Fire combination get to the bedroom then they will be in for a big treat. Virgo will find the Sag highly attractive and may throw off the normal reserved shy approach and take the lead. The Sag will adore the sweet innocence of their Virgo partner. Both of these signs can learn a lot from each other and support one another through the good and bad. This is not an easy relationship to get into, it’s one that will require work, but with doing so a beneficial union can be assured.
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February 7th, 2009 at 11:07 pm
Im a Saggitarius chick -WILD- and I have disliked & argued with a male virgo since the 1st day we met. He calmed all that down, but now he associates with my friends ONLY when I’m around them and he’s always near me -he begs for attention…I had a nightmare about him- He DISGUSTS ME!
(He wants Me(too bad)
March 11th, 2009 at 8:59 pm
I am Ms.Virgo and my husband is Mr. Sag.(4 year of marraiage).We had physical attractions when we know each other. I can tell you that we fight here and there so many times .. it frustrates me.After fight.. he acts like there is nothing happened everytime. and i was just stunned and end up quiet in silent because i can’t discuss further. I can admit.. the intimate moment was GREAT! but none the less.. it takes us good 3 years to work out some of the differences.. patiently..
March 18th, 2009 at 2:22 am
I’m a virgo male and my girlfriend is a sagittarius. We been together since 2oo5 alot of what i read about the two are accurate. we do not see eye to eye on just about anything. the sex life is great but the communcation is the opposite.
April 28th, 2009 at 7:04 am
I am a Sagittarius, my on/off BF a Virgo/Leo cusp. Love him dearly, he keeps me interested. We have some pretty serious storms, to the point it is broken off. Usually I spit the fire and he gets cold and hides for days. Then I get mad cuz he shuts me out and it gets worse from there. I am hoping that it improves. Very accurate prediction above. Right now we are just friends..
April 30th, 2009 at 9:03 pm
I’m a female Sag, and my ex is a male Virgo. I’m true to my fiery Sagittarian nature. My ex and I went back and forth to each other for many years. In communication, i’m very open and he’s stoic and reserved. That would drive me crazy! The physical attraction & our sex life was very good. We are trying for another attempt -for the 1000th time - after our last break-up 15 months ago. Hopefully, we can finally mesh together.
May 14th, 2009 at 4:01 am
I have to say……what I have read so far is very interesting. I am the Virgo women and He is the Sag man ……….Sex …. Yes … Great… But communication…..STINKS! Just plain SUX!
We don’t see eye to eye on many things so agreeing and/or comprimising is like pulling teeth. This realationship has not been just some work……….it has been a daily fricken, what now! Fight! Yeah…We can fight!Many would say……….so why stay and keep trying? Well there is just something about us that when we do come togather it’s beautiful!!! And It feels Right! And I become calm inside.
We don’t say we are a couple, even though everyone knows we are……”we are friends”…..It works better for us this way….and I have to add………It’s not easy finding someone to put up with my “Virgosis”! (as my friends and I like to call it) And he being a Sag….is just plain persistant! In a stable kinda way!
“We probably won’t make it” that’s the negatism of the virgo, “Sure we will” that’s the Sag….Positive as Hell!
May 28th, 2009 at 3:59 pm
I am a virgo female who has just gotten into a relationship with a sag man. all the given qualities of a typical sag are embodied in him, while i am the typical virgo.
i do love him a lot…and he loves me too..but i feel a little a lost about our relationship. i want stability… he wants it and suggests it too…but goes off the radar sometimes. i hate being clingy…but have been told that i may be a ‘little’ clingy.
to top it all we are in a long distance relationship…
June 7th, 2009 at 4:22 am
Im a sag girl and im talking to this virgo guy. we almost NEVER agree on things. We havent had sex… but after reading this i think i want to. lol. I’ve been wondering if its going to be worth my time dating him or if im just going to end up having to delete him from my phone ( if u kno wat i mean). I really like him, but we argue so much. idk what to do.
June 16th, 2009 at 5:04 am
I’m a virgo on the cusp of leo and my boyfriend of a year is sagittarius. We’re crazy in love and moving in together soon, so it’s hilarious that this site says we shouldn’t. We don’t fight really, but I feel like the potential is there. We’re starting to misunderstand each other in debating things, and the arguments given here explain that. Anyway, he was the one to suggest moving in, and I’m the one to push communication. It’s sad that according to his sign he’s the life-long bachelor…sigh. It’s fun for now anyway!
June 17th, 2009 at 2:01 pm
i was a virgo and my husband is sagi. we been marriages for 8 years now. sometimes it hard to know and understanding each other. sometimes we fight but not shouting to each other… it just a silence fight. we didn’t talk to each other for a few day then we having a few talk and the sex…. then the problem is solve. just like that. it frustating for me because we didn’t discussed or talked about the cause of the cold war… anyway we are a good freind… supporting each other and understanding each other but when it come to money then…. war is pending.
July 2nd, 2009 at 11:48 pm
My bf is a Virgo man through-and-through and I’m a Sag girl, but not I’m not a typical one. I have an INTJ personality so that might explain it- I’m very introverted and sensitive. Even though it can be frustrating when he hides, it’s totally worth it. This site is true, if you’re willing to stick it out and learn how to understand each other, it’s the best. But to begin with, we do see eye-to-eye on most things. We share the same values and are pretty much happy as two bugs in a rug!
But then again, I’ve never really been attracted to fire signs(which I’m supposed to be compatible with). Actually,I especially don’t see eye-to-eye with male Sags. I just don’t understand their need to socialize so much.
July 7th, 2009 at 9:41 pm
I am a sagg girl and my boyfriend of 6 years is a virgo. I feel that although the communication can be difficult at times, it is totally worth it. I am very over dramatic and get very heated in disagreements and he is the total opposite. He gets quite and doesn’t want to deal with my attitude. We are so attracted to one another and share the love for travel. I know he is my soulmate and we will be together forever (positive trait of a typical sagg).
July 11th, 2009 at 5:10 pm
I’m Sagittarius. One of my most recent friends is a Virgo. The connection was instantaneous–literally–the guy winked at me, I tossed him a bit of dry humor, and we clicked. The odd thing is, I never make friends easily. So this caught me off guard. I find him one of the more reasonable and easy to get along with people I’ve ever met. Maybe it’s the newness factoring in. We haven’t known each other long. But we have a million things in common, from way back (we both grew up in the 60s and 70s). Our attitudes seem to be in sync. I’m looking forward to seeing how this friendship develops.
July 22nd, 2009 at 4:39 pm
After reading this, it’s all completely true. He’s a male Virgo and so closed-off from telling me his feelings! I’m so open about everything and it’s very frustrating! And yes, he will go days without speaking and come back like nothing happened. I must say, it’s been a very intense six months. Worth all the time I’ve invested.
August 8th, 2009 at 5:40 pm
Hi everybody,
I am a Sagittarius woman and I have been in a relationship with a Virgo man for nearly 4 years, more than a half of the time it was a long distant one.Well, we have been “trying” our best to break up ever since we met and we are still communicating and recently he told me that maybe one day we will be together. We were fighting on a regular basis although there is similarity between us. It has been the most confusing and at the same time exciting relationship for me so far. We have very strong physical chemistry and probably the good experience during those times still keeps us together in a way.This relationship is not an easy one, I really don’t know if it will work out in the future.
August 12th, 2009 at 10:56 pm
I’m a Virgo, and my ex is a Sag. We couldn’t agree on anything, but the sex was great! We were together for 7 years, the instant we moved in we broke up. We couldn’t stand each other!
August 19th, 2009 at 3:53 am
I posted here on July 11 about the Virgo guy I met a while back. We’re still great friends. In the meantime, the Sag guy I expected to stay with forever (I’m a Sag also) decided we were over just about the time I started getting closer to my Virgo friend. I have no idea what happened with the Sag/Sag relationship (he won’t say, which is weird and unsettling), but my Virgo friend has become my closest confidant. We still click on many levels, and it looks like this is developing into something more. The attraction is there, the common interests are there, and he’s been my rock through my recent heartbreak. We’re going to be spending some time together in a couple of weeks, just hanging out and getting to know each other better. I’ll try to post again later. I don’t see any sign of disagreements, but I wonder if this is because of our ages (I’m 50 and he’s turning 54 soon), and the fact that we’ve both had our wild days. We’ve settled down a lot, and have grown. I like that we’re close friends, and will see what September brings.
August 25th, 2009 at 9:17 pm
I am currently dating a very charming, intelligent, handsome virgo man from the carribean. I am a saggitarius woman. I definitely feel that he is more sexually attracted to me than I am to him and I am loving it. So far we have not gone the distance because we’ve both decided to wait a while. In the meantime I am learning to appreciate his beautiful spirit. He is reliable, trustworthy, honest, caring, and passionate. So far we communicate well because I compromise. I know he doesn’t like long winded conversations, nagging, negativity, and gossip. So, I just don’t go there. He is very neat and orderly, and so am I. He likes beautiful clothes and women, and I definitely please him in that category. Will we last forever, I don’t care. Right now he is the present that I will enjoy for as long as possible.
September 30th, 2009 at 5:38 am
I’M A VIRGO WOMAN, I’VE HAD A SAG BOYFRIEND..THE SEXUAL EXPERIENCE WAS NON-STOP AND WE HAD GREAT INTELLECTUAL DEBATES, BUT I FEEL THAT SAG MEN ENJOY USING THEIR SMARTS FOR ALL THE WRONG REASONS THEY LIKE TO MANIPULATE PPL AND ME BEING A VIRGO I’M A GREAT COMMUNICATOR AND VERY CAPABLE OF MANIPULATING OR PLAYING MIND GAMES AS WELL, BUT I DON’T DO IT BECAUSE IT BRINGS ME NO JOY..MY SAG EX ON THE OTHER HAND SEEMS TO GET HIS KICKS BY MANIPULATING AND BREAKING DOWN OTHER PPL…SEEMS A LITTLE CRUEL AND INSENSITIVE TO ME.
October 19th, 2009 at 3:33 pm
I am your typical virgo woman and I’m currently dating sag man.OUR RELATIONSHIP IS GREAT!! We have never had a single argument and we communicate so well that other people have even marveled at our relationship.Even when we disagree about something we just agree to disagree.I have trust issues from a past heartbreak and sometimes I do find myself questioning him(I know it’s unfair and I’m working on it),but he never gets angry or upset.He just tells me what I want to know.We’re even discussing marriage and children.Are we the exception or is this the calm before the storm?
October 24th, 2009 at 3:32 pm
Virgo sun/Virgo rising/Capricorn moon - hello everyone
To viviacious virgo lady, above - good luck to you! Your post makes me feel hopeful and optimisitic, because I just started dating a Sagittarius man.
It is very early days, so it will be interesting to see where/how this new friendship goes. The mental stimulation is there. No sex yet, that will take a while (for me!). He has brought up long-term plans.
Like you, I also have trust issues due to recent heartbreak (by a Taurus man), but I am trying not to let that baggage unfairly contaminate this new relationship with the Sagittarius guy.
October 27th, 2009 at 7:15 am
i’m a ms. virgo, and i’ve dated a sag.
yes there was great intimacy but outside of the bedroom was like a horror movie. we could not agree on more than one thing without arguing. sag’s have a tendancy to be carefree, not-loyal, and very lively….didnt work one bit with me. i’m not dating him anylonger and it feels so much better to be appreciated.
October 28th, 2009 at 11:19 pm
I’m an Aries Female, and i know a couple at school. The female is a Virgo and THe male is a Sagittarius. THey fell for each other really fast and they hang out together all of the time. I’m best friends with them. But The Virgo brings allot of conflict with the sag and i do have a problem with it, but i never say anything about it. The sag does come to me for help and i do the best i can. Sometimes i wonder if their relationship will work out or not because of the analytical mind of the virgo, but I do see a future for them. The Sag told me everything, how he felt about her and how he feels when she feeling bad. It’s so touching and i sympathize with him. They both come to me with their problems. I guess i’m their shoulder to cry on, so to speak. But to me, it’s fascinating to see a virgo and a Sag attraction. With the opposite polarities and everything. I do see sensitivity in her, and i do hope she can handle the cutting words of a sag.
November 14th, 2009 at 5:00 pm
I AM THE VIRGO WOMAN AND MY BOYFRIEND IS THE SAG;YES WE HAVE HAD ARGUEMENTS BUT AT THE END OF IT ALL WE HUG OR KISS…I LOVE HIME DEARLY,HE’S VERY GOOFY VERY FREAKY I AM TOO BUT BUT AGREE-IIIINNNG ON STUFF ISNT TOO GREAT;;HE’S NEVER ON TIME HE LIKE’S TOO DO DANGEROUS STUFF I DO TOO.WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 11 AND A HALF MONTH’S NOW WE BEEN GOING OUT *E.S.T 12.19.08*BUT ONE THING I CAN SAY ABOUT HIM HE’S VERY FAITHFUL IN THIS RELATIONSHIP AND VERY ROMANTIC!
THE SEX IS THE BEST THING YET.
November 16th, 2009 at 4:17 pm
Ok…I am married to a Virgo man and I am a typical Sag. As a typical sag I can’t even have an office job because sitting in one place drives me bonkers, so I travel all over the country every week for work. IT works for us. Thank heavens for Virgo’s independence and security. My job is to schmooze and socialize with many bigwigs and this could be detrimental to most relationships, but for us it works out extremely well. We dont’ really fight, but I let him know right away if I don’t like what he says. Plus, in true sag form, I am not that emotional when it comes down to it. So I say it can work, both need to be willing to see each other’s side and the big key is to tell each other you love them every day.
November 21st, 2009 at 8:16 pm
I’m a sag 17 year old girl and I’m daiting a 20 year old virgo. I honestly don’t understand how they say virgo and sagi are not compatible! We got
Attracted since we saw each other. It was an intense and amazing moment since he’s a singer. I believe it was in the soul urge or need that we had of each other.
We are both virgins and we believe in true loyal love! We both dreamed in our dream love until we found each other. We talk a lot, about everything and we are both eager to know and learn more about each other as much as we can’t!
Since he travels a lot we don’t see each other for long…but when we do we have such a great time!!! He has a room in my house since I still live with my parents and study in my home country. He really admires the fact I’m studying med and that I’m a dedicated person!
I always cheer him up and he just cheers me up with his exsistence…we needed so much each other…I believe more now on how destiny unites the people that search for the
Same things. I also consider myself a very atypical sagi…btw….
Good luck to all of you!
We are getting married in 4 years (hahaha he already planned it out!)
November 22nd, 2009 at 12:02 pm
hey
i am a female sag and i am married to a male virgo
we are happily married and i no that its only been 2 month but we have been in love for 10 years and we have never argued not even once even thought his job requires him to take me on tour alot with him and his family(he is in a band and his family comes on tour with him)and his mother which i hate by the way although i always tell him that i love averything there is to do about him i think his mother is evil as hell but im in love and i would never say/do anythng to hurt him
and even wen somthing bothers me he is always there for me and i love him so much
he is so romantic and he always tells me that he loves me everyday
being in love is great and i dont think this site is telling the truth because signs dont mean anything i mean opposites attract and if u really like someone wen u see him/her u dont wonder wat his sign is u wonder “is he nice?” or something like that
i really dont think ppl should listen to astronomy theories especially wen it comes to love
i took a shot at letting my self fall in love with him and now i feel lke the happiest person in the universe
December 15th, 2009 at 9:07 am
Hi. I am a sag guy and have been crushing on a virgo. She’s so cute looks like gabrielle union lol, ne way I’ve been doing a lot of reading about compatibility and have found pretty much the same things (not a good match unless we work @ it). Iwe tlk a lot on the phone for hours about ne thing and its like we click so well, but she is really nit picky and clean she plans everything out n I’m so laid back and relaxed I just go with the flow.. I don’t understand y many sites say were not good for each other.. maybe its because we’ve just started to tlk on a regular basic. Ne way I think she real fun to tlk to and funnny very smart with a great sense of humar. I get along with her so better than I do with my own gr who by the way is a gemini (she’s so crazy and annoying mostly all the time) I guess tht y I find my self so attracted the this virgo.. hope we can stay good friends.. o n yea she likes me a lot she says. The chemestry is so strong lol.
December 29th, 2009 at 1:47 am
Well I’m a virgo woman and I’m with a sag man…we have an excellent relationship, we have been living together for 3 months now an still great, we never argue an we have a lot in common, sumtimes we start to disagree but it never turns into an argument we js talk bout it a lil and then let it go…I love him so much but all of the compatability readings on different sites make me worry because they say were not gonna make it and I have never loved any1 more in my life, and I js feel so comfortable with him
December 31st, 2009 at 2:56 pm
I’m a Virgo and my boyfriend is a sag. I’m rather concerned now after what just reading, but when me and him first met, we clicked instantly, was sexually attracted straight away and had so much in common. So now were finally going out, i feel as if he’s hiding something, like hes afraid to tell me how he really feels. Hes afraid to kiss me so i had to tempt him, i mean, yeah the sex life is pretty great but its just the little things that are missing. I also feel like he doesn’t care about me sometimes, and yet at other times, i feel as if im the only woman he cares about! I cant quite understand him but that’s also why im so attracted to him, because he’ so different and unpredictable.
Anywho, alot of this information was true and i suggest to get to know and understand your partner before asking them out etc.
January 3rd, 2010 at 12:08 pm
I’m a typical sagittarius girl and my ex is a virgo. We were in love 4 years ago, but we ended it because he thought i changed too much (We’ve never had sex). The next few years he would act like an asshole and then we’d end up friends again. We’re just confusing together. Recently he told me how much he wants me and there is definitely no denying the attraction because I feel it too. In the past we were just in puppy love, but now I’m realizing it must have been much more… Because ever since we started being on good terms again, my heart starts beating really fast when I think of him and I can’t stop dreaming about him. The years since we’ve been broken up he has a reputation for being a player, but I’m loving his honesty with me because he’s not afraid to open up and our communication isn’t that bad, but he makes me nervous sometimes. I’m sure we’ll end up having sex but I highly doubt he’ll want to be in a relationship with me again. Well i’ll see what happens!
January 5th, 2010 at 1:14 am
I got involved with a Virgo man, being a Sag woman myself. It seemed like we had an instant connection. I put off seeing him, because he had a gf. When he made it known that he was single, we decided to start seeing each other. I felt more than just a sexual attraction to him, but I don’t really know if he felt the same intensity for me. Turns out after hooking up, he actually was still with that person to begin with, and he basically cut me off romantically, but he still wanted to be friends. As a Sag, we don’t take no mess like that, so I called him on his bull. I don’t know if we can be friends, but I do know that he turned something inside of me that no one ever has. It’s frustrating, but it is what it is. I think anybody can be manipulative: man, woman, any sign, and any age. If a person’s insecure, they could be capable of some serious deception and scandal to make themselves feel good. I do believe if he was single, and we attempted something, we’d always be arguing because they are typically so critical, but again, you can’t generalize.
January 10th, 2010 at 8:41 am
hi!!! evri1 m a vir grl who’s fallen 4 a sag guy. infact it wz d sag guy who fell 4 me 1st n later wn i got 2 noe bout it did i strt noticin him. v both realli love each othr bt he already had a grlfren b4 v met so i try 2 b away 4rm him cuz if de r happy dn i shudn’t interfere. bt it seems as if v crave 4 each othr. v’ve neva tokd 2 each othr n no1 noes bout our feelings 4 each othr. deres onli eye contact b/w us. bt its true dat v both r physically attracted as well. most of d qualities r true 4 both of us n also dat v r adjstble. evn tho v’ve not yet tokd 2 each othr i do feel jealous @ tyms of d othr grls dat tok 2 him or r near him n m not a person who’s jealous of nething infact i dont remembr ne incidnt dat md me jealous. its js bn few mnths since v’ve met lts c whr ds d destiny tk us 2
January 14th, 2010 at 12:27 am
Well I think I have everyone beat on this site. I am a Sag woman married to a Virgo man for 10 years now. We were together for 2.5 years before that, so altogether, it has been 12.5 years.
Let me say that it is tough. I have wanted to divorce him many times, but we are Christians and so it goes against scripture. I recently started looking into the history of astrological signs because the other day the symbol for Sag came to my mind, in how we Sag’s really embody that symbol with our personalities- focused and swift.
We are at the point where we refrain from arguing but it’s like a peaceful-war. We can laugh, discuss shows, and movies, but there is no sexual chemistry there between us like it was in the beginning. Before we were married, we never slept nor lived together, so let me just say that the passion was high on our honeymoon night. Unfortunately that was the only night. We do sleep with each other er’ now and then, but it is usually very early in the morning when both of us are half sleep. Even with the lack of potent sex, he still finds time to masturbate, and would rather do that then have sex with me. He always told me that what he saw in me is the potential to make things happen. I guess meaning help him get to the next level and manage our household.
We don’t see each other much because he has a job that requires him to work long hours, and I am in bed when he gets home. I think this is what has allowed us to stay together so long as well. I have helped him acquire his own business, complete career certifications, and I manage all our finances, plans, and everything else. Should our marriage end tomorrow, I will be leaving with a few life lessons and a better sense of self, while he will be leaving with cleared up credit and a high credit score, career advancement, a no debt, mostly on the count of me.
He can be very quiet, and does not like to fight. He is not affectionate towards me, but in fact wants me to give him all the affection- which is difficult. I show my affection by giving and helping, and not so much being lovey’ dovey. It is as if he feels like I should be grateful for being with HIM- what?
I don’t know, I believe I am finally at the point where I am willing to just be by myself meaning not remarry) for the rest of my days in order to stay biblically sound and move on. I feel like I am at the point of running out and having an affair do to the lack of intimacy, fun, sex, connection, and interaction between us. He rarely calls me and can go days without seeing me and it seems as he doesn’t notice. Now I can do the same thing, but If I were to get into that mode things would be over real quick. Once I make up my mind that I am doing someting, just about all bet are off and I’m moving forward. He doesn’t like my sarcasm and playfulness, which I have all but cut out. He shuts down very easily and can not face me eye to eye to discuss serious matters. He can be very insecure, and does not like to be teased or to risk failing at a thing. Oh, and he is very cautious of things, and will show me a million and one reasons why I shouldn’t do something that seems too big, or that may take my attention off of helping and supporting him. If I’m going to be with someone, they need to both encourage and inspire me to fulfill me dreams- within reason of course. Thank God we don’t have any kids. Besides, you would need to have sex in order to have kids right?
January 14th, 2010 at 12:44 am
Oh and one more thing, my Virgo husband is very laid back, and observant, and he is not very sociable. He is also not very adventurous and does not like to do new things or be in a crowd, or do anything that does not seem sensible. One time we went to Mexico and he did not want to go to the beach because of the sand, and he did not want to swim in the ocean for fear of drowning, and he did not want to ride the Banana boat or a wave runner for fear of drowning. On the last day of the trip he begged me to get in the swimming pool, but I could NOT- I was too through. Oh and I think that during that week long vacation, we only had sex once- if that. All this after I had to save the money, schedule the trip, plan everything, and teach him how to count pesos. What a waste. Mind you all of our vacations have been like this- not including the honeymoon.
BTW- I have a healthy body weight, a firm body, and (this is what I’ve been told) a very pretty face- soooo it’s not like he’s facing gorilla woman. I do think that I am just a bit too aggressive and assertive for him- and I just can’t play off a week, soft woman. I come off as too disingenuous.Virgos are very sensitive, and need a woman with a warm gentle and sensual touch. I can “play that game” but it is not who I am by nature, and the man has to put a lot into me- (like complements, consistent genuine appreciation, and actions that show me he is trying to make a personal effort to advance himself WITHOUT MY HELP in order for me to do that.)
January 16th, 2010 at 9:11 pm
- I am a female virgo & i’m dating a sagittarius. He’s the most fun person to be around . We’ve been dating for a few weeks now & i’m deeply in love with him. Don’t ALWAYS listen to what these horoscopes and things say because they’re not ALWAYS right. But be careful & have fun with love . Goodbye ,
February 10th, 2010 at 4:20 am
I’m a Virgo, I’ve read the posts but I can’t figure out about the men. When I saw my sag, it was heat and attraction as soon as I laid eyes on him. I never really thought about getting to know him tho because of the situation at the time. But recently he’s been quite friendly and we’ve had a couple of conversations..he show’s signs of liking me but i’m not sure about it yet.
So i guess im asking, if I should be casual or flirt?
advice would be great..
thank you xxo
February 15th, 2010 at 3:49 am
I felt a need to write, after reading long response of M. Queen.
Dear M. QUEEN,
You are SOOO me, I was totally like you, (yes I am sag and he is virgo). within one year of our marriage I was totally bored and he was like a parasite to my goodwill, management skills and energy. I worked for him; always UNPAID, managed his finances and he repeatedly got himself into debt, thanks to fanciful grand projects (who the hell says Virgos are good with money, and sags are bad.. uff). YES I LOVE to spend, but I EARN FIRST and then SPEND. Virgos can spend on clubbing and showing their *fake* financial worth even when their credit card is on red limit.
The Virgo is NOT emotional, they are just *mind* and even that mind is second-rate, they do not have a Single Original thought.
YET I spent 15 years with that man and cheated on him again and again when things got too stuck for me, whenever I fell sick or pregnant, he left me all alone to tend … I never left him alone in crisi (he was always in one or another), but he never had time to look at me. I grew self-loathing when I cheated. and I became lonely and lonelier when I tried to save our marriage.
why???????????? …………… because we had 2 beautiful daughters ..
if you do not kids, LEAVE this man, NOW!!
I wasted two decades of my life and then when I came in my late 30s, this guy cheated with my bestfriend.. lol .. great, and tried to take my property and cleared my bank balance. YES! this finally got some sense into my mind,, I knew it within first year, but sags are so F***ing idealistic, especially when we become mothers, my most sincere advice to you is to leave him, NOW.. it wont get better if it is not good. I have been on my own after my divorce, he completely robbed me and drained me.. but we sags have much to thank to Jupiter..
.. One thing he can not take away is my LOve for LIfe. I have this amazing scorpio man, single, loving, grounded, he is younger to me by 7 years, never married and he is absolutely Gorgeous. LIFE is beautiful after such a long period of pain and misery and constant nagging and criticism. SAY YES to life and NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO to pain.
lots of hugs Sexy-Sag
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February 19th, 2010 at 6:00 am
I am a somewhat typical Virgo woman for the most part. The man I have been dating for 5 months is a Sag. In the time we have been dating, we have never argued about anything. He always worries that I’ll get mad at him, but that never happens. This is long distance, we’re from the same town. We enjoy the same things and are very like minded on just about everything.In all reality he could be a male version of myself. I feel that the things I lack, he has in strength (completes me)and he says I complete him also. There is a DEEP mental connection and attraction. Conversations last hours on end daily. I believe him to be my rock. Granted there are somethings about him that I still don’t get, but that is only because he likes to only give hints instead of coming out and saying things bluntly. But maybe the perfect compatibility is because he was actually born under Ophiuchus and we know nothing about compatibility with the lost sign. I definitely believe he is my soul mate though. Maybe just the exception to the rule.
March 9th, 2010 at 3:17 pm
I am a Sadge woman and have been seeing a Virgo man for about 3 1/2 years. At first I couldn’t understand him, he was always hot and cold. It was very frustrating to me. many times I wanted to just give up the relationship all together. I’m not sure what made me stick it out but I have. He is everything I hoped for. Yes we don’t see eye to eye all the times but we have alot of things we do see eye to eye about. This could be because my rising sign is virgo and his moon sign is sagittarius. Whatever the case I love him dearly and couldn’t imagine being without him. I know that if we ever allowed our differences to seperate us I would truly miss him forever. The sex is volcanic.
March 17th, 2010 at 11:25 pm
I had a Virgo boyfriend decades ago when I was doing volunteer work abroad. I have always been a shy but bubbly Sagittarius who was willing and eager to try new things. My boyfriend was attracted to me for that, I think. I absolutely adored him but he was very typical of the men described here. I never had any idea of what was really going on with him. We had a long distance relationship, meeting about once a month for several years. His parents put pressure on him to get married (to someone else) so I left the country. He took me to the airport–we didn’t even hug–we just sort of said “goodbye” and I never saw him again. I found him 32 years later–he had moved to the US and was totally different. I think I like him even more now! He was gushing about how he would have done things differently with me, if he had know what he knows now–how he had been looking for me for years… I was flabbergasted. I never thought in my life that I would hear these things. One of the things he remembered was that we never fought! And we never did, because if he ever said anything critical I never responded. I never felt the need–I felt comfortable with him and whatever he said was forgotten in the next minute. Unfortunately, he is still married to the other woman, so we will never be a couple.
March 25th, 2010 at 7:40 am
I am a Sagittarius woman who was married to a Virgo man for five years. It was honestly the best five years of my life. He had a wonderful personality, was well-liked by everyone, even if he wasn’t overly gregarious or an extrovert. We almost never fought, (although we had some doozies), and we always seemed to think the same. I get along with Virgos a lot, male and female. I tend to have a very dry sense of humor, and I value intellect pretty highly. I have never been disappointed by a Virgo man, even if I disagree with him.
My husband died in 2008 very suddenly, and I miss him terribly. I tend to find myself around Virgo men, and before I know what sign they are, I am reminded of my husband just by their demeanor. Out of all the signs that I have dated, the one Virgo was the most attractive, most compatible, and like everyone else says, the most amazing sex I’ve ever had. I don’t always identify exactly with my sign. Maybe that’s why.
May 2nd, 2010 at 4:12 pm
Im a Virgo, my best friend is a Sag. The moment we spoke to each-other time stopped.
We tend to talk for hours without shutting up, we travel, agrue - But the fun part about our arguments is that they are full of fun sarcasm. Even my Sag friend told me ” I love arguing with you, even tough u always win , i love it”.
Moste of our friends think we are in a relationship, but to be honest, I’d perfer us to stay friends forever
May 29th, 2010 at 5:17 am
I’m a sag guy with a virgo girl.. We’ve started our relationship 2 months ago.. I have to admit that she is all what I can aspire from a woman on the physical level… she is so so sexy, pretty face, innocent look.. It took us just 1 week to reach our maximum peak of what I have had of a best sexual experience of my entire life… No words to explain how great having sex with her means to me, she is so clean and sweet… On the other had, and so so so unfortunately, I think I will have to give up the relationship as soon as I can… she is so cold person, so practical, so reserved, she can’t show any emotions unless I ask her to… I always doubt her true feelings towards me… We agree in many points because we both are highly educated and know well how to handle a conversation, and when we disagree we do it so peacefully, but we differ a lot in tastes and styles.. I like delicate things and she prefers being the center of the universe as the sexiest woman.. I even wonder if someday she might be unfaithful to me, she knows how to manipulate the people who love her… but I also know how to kill my feelings for her and I’m that Sagittarius with guts.. I feel bad about having to end this relationship, but I think I will have to… But know what… Once I’ll be looking again, I will definitely look for a virgo that could have less issues than the one I’m ending with now.. I just love Virg girls after all..
By the way, sag guys are by nature flirtatious and tend to be unfaithful.. but believe it or not.. there are some out there who are so so committed to serious relationships and truly faithful.. I’m sag to the bones, and I feel so sexually attracted to a lot of women and my fantasies never end, but when I fall in love, it feels like she is the only woman on earth and all the others don’t even exist regardless to how sexy they are!!
August 10th, 2010 at 3:13 pm
Well i am an Virgo Currently talking to an sag. But to me we think alike in so many ways.No problems have emerged yet.Nor do i think it will.Sometimes i belive these horoscopes dont be telling the truth.Its not like that for all Virgos and sags. HopEfully me and this guy will actually get together soon.I really like him.
September 11th, 2010 at 8:13 pm
I’m a Sagittarius woman who has been “dating” a male Virgo for a little more than 3 years now.
The connection was INSTANT! He was the tech who came to install internet at my apartment. I asked for HIS number and called HIM 3 days later. He came over that night after we had talked on the phone for about an hour. We hung out for couple hours and he left.
The very next morning he called to ask me to have coffee with him. Well to make a long story short, starting right then we were INSEPERABLE for the next 5 weeks or so. We had the craziest things in common i.e. we both had step-fathers named Gary and his sons name is Kain Alexander and my sons name is Zaine Alexandur, same toothbrushes AND toothpaste etc…
Well about 5-7 days in he had come over to my place and we sat up ALL night just TALKING on my sofa, it got kind of deep!
We AGREED we didn’t want anything serious, neither of us were at a place in our lives where we could take on a relationship. Needless to say within 3 weeks we both became liars as to what we had originally said about seriousness. Well, I expressed my feelings first, like a dumb ass. He disappeared for about 2-3 days then came back as if I’d nevet said anything. Well it took him better part of a year to express his true feelings and commit to an ACTUAL relationship. He confessed he was “TESTING me first before he could allow me in”. (his words) Well we ended up moving in together and it lasted all of about a month. He got upset with me about the monthly bills and my share. He of course didn’t tell me what he was upset about or that he was even upset. He completly stopped talking to me on a Wednesday and by Sunday I’d had enough! I told him I was leaving and that I was done! He finally in a rage tells me what was up the past few days. Well, I’ll just say he was wrong about his perception of the situation, not that I was completly right but… I moved out and within 2 days he called asking me to come back and stay. I did but just as “roomates” until my apartment was ready. I slept on the couch which made him mad.
Anyways here we are 3 years later and I’m in love with him more than I could ever express and I know he feels the same BUT…..
We are NOT in a comitted relationship, we don’t live together and I have no more an idea today than I did 2 years ago where this is going.
I want to be with him and he says he wants the same but can’t make a comittment given our rocky past history. I definatly understand his feelings there. What I don’t understand is he calls/texts/comes by wanting me to do this with him and doi that. We spend every second poissible together (side by side). I try to keep my distance at times because I want the commitment and he’s said he cant give me that. When I do this though he gets mad. He always ends up coming over trying to be his cute sly self. He just recently accepted a job in another state. He leaves in a few days. Well when he told me this we hadnt been talking for about 4-5 days except arguing and fighting. He sends me a text saying “hey Im moving to so and so do u wanna XXX if not Im moving down the list”. (e was being a smartass about me calling him a whore). I said move to next on list. Goodluck and goodbye. Well I knew hed be by soon, he was 15 mins later. He comes in all sullen and quiet. He ends up kind of yelling at me saying “what more do I have to do to show you I’m in love with you but I’m not going to keep trying to express it in a way you’ll finally get” I want you to move with me, I want you WITH me, we can get a 2brm if you prefer but I want you laying next to me”. Now after asking me to go he tells me “now don’t come with me if you are only coming because you want a relationship, I still cant”. I was like (not that I said it but thought) WHAST THE HELL IS YOUR PROBLEM!!!!
Anyways I know he’s my soulmate and I know me, if it’s not him it’s NO ONE! I know how he feels about me I just don’t know if he will ever finally feel he’s at a place in his life where he can “take care of me” like he feels he should be able to and committ already!!??
PS..
I don’t believe he will leave without atleast trying to talk me into going. He will try by laying “it” on THICK. He leaves in 2 days we’ll see I guess.
September 11th, 2010 at 8:28 pm
Oh my god all these posts seem sooo familiar to me!! Im a sag and my “friend” of 3 years is a THROUGH AND THROUGH Virgo man!! When we “fight” it’s sarecastic and funny, witty comments back and forth. We don’t scream we just “run our mouths” then not talk for anywhere from an hour to 3 weeks.
Then he’ll text usually, a quote off a church sign, they are one of “our” MANY inside jokes. Or he will stop by trying to be a smartass but cute! I let him everytime! We hang out, have sex and alls good again! And the sex, Oh My Freakin God!! I’ve never really been “into” sex, I could take or leave but since the first time we had sex I can’t get enough! We have fun and I’m so comfortable with him ever since the very first time! We tell jokes and sarcastic remarks WHILE having sex. Oh and don’t let the tv get left on during!! We have so much fun together.
September 17th, 2010 at 12:50 pm
You doomsayers have it all wrong . Im a virgo male and my wife a sagi we been together 9 years and its the absolute best, its safe ,warm , and feels like home ,yea we fight but its great its passionate and never dull. who says this combo not work well. She keeps me out there and i keep her grounded . I been with capricorn taures and cancers and these supposed to be my perfect matches and i tell you none of them compares to the butterflies and goosebumps i get from my sagi. A word of advice for success- if your the virgo you can be very stubborn and head strong and nitpicky you need to curb this and let sagi be free and not restrict her let her fly and she will reward you with loyalty and love .
September 20th, 2010 at 7:45 am
I am a Saggi guy. Proposed a virgo girl. Till now it seemed as if it was only happening to me. But after reading all these posts i feel this is exactly what happened with me. The attraction was instantaneous…. LOL like all the other posts. I am blindly optimistic. She tends to take things quite negatively and tends to disect things to a level that ultimately turns out to be against her. It makes her unhappy in the end and that’s something that i don’t like. Coz i want to see her happy always. After a while when we met i proposed her. She accepted. Things turned out to be sour later on. I was optimistc… i still am. Huh… i don’t know why i am so optimistic that things will work out. She says she feels better when we are friends. I am so attached to her. She’s cute, innocent, caring and i just can’t stop loving her. If it’s the relationship of friendship that keeps her happy i will do that for her. Few days back we had a breakup which i kind of knew was coming my way. I don’t generally argue with her or get angry on her. She says that i am over understanding and that i will change once she says yes to marriage. I know i won’t. Although i have seen a lot of posts here saying saggi-virgo relationship doesn’t work but i believe that i can if you work on it. After all you have to work on any kind of relationship to make it work. Things don’t happen automatically. In the beginning when we started seeing each other that was my first relationship ever and being a naive person at this i expected a lot of things from her. Slowly i started accepting her the way she is. I still think that things don’t work when you try to change someone according to you. Just accept that person the way she is. Once i realized this i never got really angry or annoyed on her. She is perfect the way she is and i still love her to my bones. My committment however is not to make her mine at any cost but to see her happy. This is sometimes difficult to follow and digest but this is what it is like.
G
October 19th, 2010 at 1:19 pm
I am a sagittarius woman am now married but i once loved a virgo man. Can you imagine we are still good friends he is in a different country from mine. i last saw him 14 years ago but he has been a wonderful friend. We would have gotten married 14 years ago but family members brought about confusion and we split up. I must confess there is something about Virgo men they may be moody and all but they are fantastic lovers attention to detail. I still call up my virgo Ex-b/f. The chemistry is very hot thank God he is far away. i would not trust myself with him if he came back. I can tell him anything and i mean anything. He really makes my day once in while when i am down. Funny thing he never remarried although i encourage him to coz i can no longer have him. Virgo’s are also good with money matters as always Attention to detail. To those with Virgo men enjoy yourself but dont be too pushy and at the same time Stick to your principle.
October 19th, 2010 at 1:37 pm
MY COMMENT IS FOR ME 2 — Your story is so similar to mine. My ex moved to the US. 14 years ago. The parents put pressure on him to marry someone else and we separated. It was very difficult to accept this i mourned and cried for a whole year. He finally separated from his wife. But am now married so i cannot change the course of time. We are still very good friends and communicate often. We shared alot of things together we courted for 3 years and we had fun and fights but it was the best relationship i have ever had. It almost felt like he was meant for me. Even today the telepathy between us is very strong. When i think of him - he calls me or sends an email. very strange in my most difficult moments in my life he has been there through alot of challenges. I cannot explain this can someone tell me what you call this ?
December 9th, 2010 at 10:08 pm
I am a virgo woman who is interested in a sag man… he’s younger but that seems to work for us. He likes the older women bc he’s looking for stability and I like the excitement that he brings to my life. Now I’m not your typical clingy virgo and he’s not your typical unfaithful sag, so I’m hoping things will work out. We do have great conversation and I love how open and honest we both feel comfortable being around eachother. We both agree that this has the potential to be something but it’s rough getting it started. I’m unsure of what he wants and wary of lies due to a past lying love of mine (a manipulative virgo). I see that we are both going to try to change eachother… being who we are, we both have the ability to predict the outcome of a relationship but for some reason… this one remains an enigma for us. I think we both want it to work but are unsure about the other one for some reason…. I hope it works out… it could be a really steamy relationship!
December 11th, 2010 at 7:33 pm
Hello,
Virgo female here all I can say is that I love Sag. My best friend is a Sag we have had our down times but I can always count on her to make since out of my mess called life…..she listens and does not judge and always positive. I love that about her. My boyfriend is a Sag he wants to make our long distance relationship work….IDK about that I need him in my face day to day….I miss him…..we only had one fight but it was resolved in 10 mins and then we both act as if it never happened….the same with my BF we would fight and then get over it so fast that I would forget why we were mad at one another. It’s so weird but it is what it is and I like it that way….I have had other Sag boyfriends and they were so exciting it was something new everytime and they are so manly(is that a word)or maybe its macho….I could always count on him to be my night in shining armor and he loves a damsel in destress lol….but sometimes i could tell if I didn’t do something for myself and he knew i could… it would piss him off….so to all virgos don’t be that damsel unless your really are in trouble. Sag guy are very witty and are up on current events and some love tech stuff. And if you let go they will show you the wild side and hold your hand at the same time…..Sag need I say more….all I can say is that I have been places and seen alot of stuff with my Sag’s and man ol man was it fun….
December 23rd, 2010 at 7:00 am
If your a sag find a leo, let the fireworks commence.
January 14th, 2011 at 2:12 pm
I just wanted to say that my husband (sag) and myself (virgo) have been happily married for 10 years now. its not all doom and gloom but communication can be tough! He’s always got his head in the clouds and im always trying to get stuff done!
February 12th, 2011 at 5:10 pm
im on and off with a virgo and im a sagittarian, and yeah, we fight and we fight like mad, but we love each other, it is difficult to meet in the middle but it doesnt help when everybody gets involved either, we struggle but always work out, it is beautiful when we are together and hes really good for me, till we fight, he does talk about his feelings a lot though, just in arguements or when we try to talk he does just pass it off which is infuriating… rn we’re slowly working our way back together, but we do still have disagreements but we just don’t handle being apart, because were both good for eachother, he grounds me and i like to think im honest and grounding for him. he’s shown me so much about myself it is unbelieveable, hes optimistic and im pessimistic which is a role reversal but because of that we just balance… we just still need to learn from each other…
February 22nd, 2011 at 9:34 pm
Hi,
I am a virgo female (23) dating a sag man (20). We’ve been a couple for 3 months but have been on and off for about 3 years. In the beginning, it was all mainly about sex. (my doing-the sex is amazing) he told me repeatedly he loved me about a year and a half ago, but I just wasn’t into it. I would try to forget about this guy but something just kept drawing me back to him and finally I gave in, told him I loved him (and meant it…but I would never use the love word unless I did regardless) and I’m sure we’ll be together for a long time. But the fights we have are absolutely explosive. The only way I can really describe it is that Rihanna/Eminem song I love the way you lie (part 2)
We have our moments where we are amazing together and I can see myself with him for a long time, but I have never had such intense fights with someone as I do with him. I know our relationship will last (I hope)….with ALOT of work we both just need to bend and compromise with eachother. Everything I have read about virgos and sag’s are totally true. But I’m confident that if there’s enough love and trust, it will last. (see not all virgos are completely pessismistic lol)
February 27th, 2011 at 5:45 pm
I am a sag girl, and I am newly daiting a virgo guy. I have given my heart out too fast befor and I was crushed with my break up, but its been two months and Im kinda ready.. We met over a social iste, and we instantly clicked. I was just talking the way I usually do with my funnyness and randomness, but he totally doesnt mind, and he thinks Im absolutly beautiful. I am pretty, but hearing it fromm him makes me feel os special. And he speaks another language and thats just sexy to me so we speak german to each other!! I think I am falling for him. He has already told me he loves me
April 30th, 2011 at 4:46 pm
I met my Virgo boss whilst I was working temporarily at a restaurant. Although he was a gorgeous man, I wasn’t really attracted to him as he seemed cool, distant and straight.
A while later, we ended up working late together and I ended up sleeping over. Nothing happened the first few nights and I really wasn’t expecting anything to develop because I thought he was straight.
One evening, I wasn’t feeling so well and so I decided to go home but collapsed before getting to my car.I ended up spending another night at his place and that is when we really started to talk. I realized that he wasn’t that bad of a guy, he was just very shy.
We kissed, but he backed off and mantained he was straight and by then, before I knew it, it was too-late, I was already taken by him intellectually that his looks seemed to heighten the sexual attraction I felt.
Things got even more complicated thereafter for me emotionally and so I decided to quit. He was indifferent to it and we lost contact.
A few months later, I spotted him with his girlfriend but he was so excited to see me that I think he forgot to mantain his cool, calm, collected demeanour. He asked for my numbers, I was reluctant but ended up agreeing to give them. We talked for hours that night, I’d never experienced him being so vivacious and lively.
We met the following day at my place and this time, he didn’t hold back. The sex was incredible.
After that however, the following day, he withdrew again. He left akwardly and when I tried to call him later, he wouldn’t pick up and eventually changed his numbers.
I started dating an Aries(who is simply amazing) recently. And guess what? The Virgo made a re-appearance- professing that he couldn’t handle the fact that he was falling inlove with another man.
I’ve told him that although I do love him, I realize that I am not about to go on that emotional rollercoaster again. I like the aries and sticking with him.
Basically, what I want to say is that a Virgo-Sagittarius relationship-in my experience- seems to be based on intellectual compatibility. This builds a high-level of sexual tension. Emotionaly, however, it can be quite taxing as Virgo is cool and detached(well, atleast this particular Virgo was) and Sagittarius can seem over-eager.
June 16th, 2011 at 9:19 pm
Hello,
I am a Sagittarius and my significant other is a Virgo. I think it was the “difference” between us- that drew us in from the get go. Of course the other attractions where there, as well as the curiosity of the unknown. Now we have been together for almost 2 years, and things have been FAR from easy. Not that I do not love a challenge- but I aboslutley hate repeating myself. I am hoping that this phase we are going through will soon come to an end. I know that my being pregnant does not help at all, and neither does his being so passive. How do you read a Virgo??? I feel as though my sign is known for being open….this has become quite the show. If there is one thing I can say for sure- it is that we love each other unconditionally and always seem to work things out, even if they may take a long while. I can only imagine where we will be in the years to come. I think as long as we keep moving forward and learning more about the other, we will see great things in the future. To all Virgo and Sagittarius realtionships, way to keep things spiced up! Never a dull moment when you are dealing with your opposite. Love prevails….ture love does, so no matter the obstacle I believe whole-heartedly that this match can make it with effort!!!
June 19th, 2011 at 10:06 am
I like this Virgo guy. I’m a Saggitarius girl, 19, single, and just trying to find the fun in life. What I’m reading from people’s comments scares me because this guy is pretty adorable and cute. Is a Virgo guy clingy? I feel like I can adjust to things quite easily and when it comes to compromising I can do it well, but hearing that the Virgo person can hide their feelings for awhile scares me. I like to be open because communication is a must although I don’t quite communicate and say things I need to say as much as I should. I hide my feelings a lot and I have a huge problem with communication, but if Virgo has a communication problem then we have a problem haha. I wish I were more open with my thoughts and feelings actually. But anyway I don’t know what to do with Virgo guy. I’ll just go with the flow but so far he sounds like he would make a great friend.
July 23rd, 2011 at 8:09 pm
Kalie:
Virgos are introverts…we hold EVERYTHING inside and deal with it on a case by case basis. He may forget because he has a ton of things going on in his head…..best way to get him to open up?
Use your Sagg outgoing ability to slowly bring him out of the shell…I can tell you it will take a second for him to open up with you. I am currently dealing with a Sagg who is hard to reel in…but she has gotten me completely out of my shell…something that is hard to do…Virgos are the same as Saggs but are just more serious minded.
I had to learn early you all can’t help shooting off at the mouth….that bow and arrow thing is something else..lol
Virgo is the Sag balancing force that astrologers do not give us credit for…
If you want to talk to a virgo…ask about something that stimulates the mind.
Oh and sexually……..Virgo’s are the most sexual..we just keep it concealed behind our shy demeanor.
August 8th, 2011 at 7:43 am
I’m a Saggie woman (technically on the cusp, but more Saggie) who is head-over-heels in love with her Virgo man. We never fight, no joking, we see eye to eye and we fell in love instantly
We trust eachother, i just get over-protective at times (i just always want to know he’s ok and might panic if i don’t hear from him) because i love him and care about him.
Our natal charts say we’re very compatible too, so i guess any Virgo-Sagittarius couples who fight need to have a look at their natal charts.
Virgo-Sagittarius couples DO work!!!!!
August 12th, 2011 at 3:27 pm
I am virgo, lady in my 40s and married to a sag in his 40s. We have been married for 23 years now. So I enjoyed reading all the comments here. Virgos are generally shy but warm and easy to make friends with, observant,gossiping is not really on the agenda, we appreciate beauty and order. I like my quiet time, it when i re energise myself. In a large group of people am not very forward, its the time i guess i get to learn about others and know how to interact with them later.
My sag is a wonderful person. When he was young he was a bit crude, impulsive, so he used to irritate me.But with time he has polished up. Yes he always on the road for work and conferences.He is a very good provider, affectionate, generous.He was a kind of shy sag in ealier days but has grown out of that as he has matured. He is very outgoing, joking, on the sunny side almost always but grumpy, irritable when something has gone his way at work. The only major challenge has been his being too much into some female friends without restraint sometimes.This has cause trust issues. Which case he has addmitted. In the begining i found my sag to be the picky one. We have been quick to learn and we generally are both peacefull people. but he is the dramatic one. Otherwise, we have been a lucky couple to die for.
October 6th, 2011 at 5:58 pm
(SORRY FOR GRAMMAR MISTAKES, I AM SURE THERE WILL BE SOME) NO MEAN TO BE RUDE BUT SAG. PEOPLE ARE JUST STRANGE FOR US VIRGOS. MY EX WAS A SAG. AND I MUST ADMIT THAT RELATIONSHIP WAS MORE OF PAIN THAN PLEASURE. THEY ARE RUDE WITHOUT REALISING IT, THEY ARE MEAN AND JUST TOO OUT SPOKEN WHICH IS SOMETIMES JUST NOT AS FUNNY AS THEY THINK IT IS. MY EX WAS REALLY MEAN TO ME SO MANY TIMES, THATS JUST THE WAY HE WAS, BUT WHEN I TOLD HIM, HE WOULD JUST GIVE ME THAT INNOCENT NOT UNDERSTANDING LOOK…WHAT HAVE I DONE?? THE WORST THING IS ..THEY REALLY DONT UNDERSTAND WHAT THEY DONE OR WHAT THEY SAID WRONG. OH WELL ENOUGH IS ENOUGH AS A VIRGO WOMAN WE HAVE OUR PRIDE…WE WOULD NOT CARRY ON WITH THE PERSON LIKE THIS FOR TOO LONG. I ACTUALY REALLY FELT OUT OF LOVE WITH HIM AFTER SEEING RELATIONSHIP AS IMPOSIBLE. AFTER CRYING A LOT I FINALLY LEFT HIM AND MOVED ON! NOW I AM IN NEW RELATIONSHIP (WITH A SCORPIO) AND DONT HAVE NO MORE FEELINGS FOR MY EX SAG. WHO DOESNT UNDERSTAND WHAT THE HELL HAPPEND, WHY I LEFT AND HOW DID I DO IT??? HE IS BEGING ME TO GET BACK TOGETHER AFTER IT IS JUST SOOOOO TOO LATE. HE IS BEING ANNOYING AS I TOLD HIM I HAVE MOVED ON AND DURING RELATIONSHIP I TRIED MY BEST, BUT HE DIDNT SEE IT AND ALL I WANT FOR HIM NOW IS ALSO TO MOVE ON. HE WAKE UP TOO LATE, HE TOLD ME I AM THE BEST THING EVER HAPPEND TO HIM AFTER LOOSING ME, BUT HE HARDLY SAID HE LOVED ME WHEN WE BEEN TOGETHER. I JUST WANT TO SAY MY FELLOW VIRGOS.. PLEASE MAKE SURE U REALLY LOVE YOUR SAG. AND MAKE SURE HE WORTH YOUR ENERGY BEFORE U WILL FIGHT FOR HIM BECAUSE IT IS GOING TO BE VERY HARD WITH THESE PEOPLE. WE ARE NOT COMPATIBLE.
January 3rd, 2012 at 8:57 am
I am the virgo (gal) and my fiance is my Sag (gentleman)
If there is any way I could explain our relationship, it would be like Ally and Noah from The Notebook!We are madly in love. Sex is amazing. and even when we have our little fights, we are soon to make up. He has a temper, but Heaven knows I could too at times. I could tell that between us, I am so much more relaxed than he. But I know we bring the very best out of each other, which is where I understand that opposites can totally attract. And no two virgos or two sags are the same. So to any others that are thinking that it just wont work out, don’t worry. Its always worth the try. and sometimes a little fight for that person. I am the happiest i’ve ever been in my life and I cannot wait to seal the deal with my man. God bless !
January 11th, 2012 at 9:04 pm
Haha I read all the comments!! It’s not all true ok. Some of them I agree with. But I am not a normal sag. I am born on 15dec and I really cannot see eye on eye with fire signs and think they filrt way too much. I like a stable relationship and I am attracted to this Virgo. He told me I was his love at first sight. Must be the sag-Virgo attraction and he is so sincere and loyal and I find it hard to find in men nowadays. I like ppl who are pourin me with love. When a sagg matures mentally, she would not be so crazy and also will quieten down. Learn to compromise, learn to appreciate ppl, learn to know that drama in life is not needed. Learn how to appreciate ppl who love u so much.