I, a pisces man, have dated Virgo women before.

In particular, in the mid-1990’s I dated a Virgo woman that I had quite a lot of karmic debris with. She and I had a past-life together in which I was in-love with her but she was in-love with another man. This other bloke was practicing black magic and this negative energy was killing people in our little village (I don’t recall where that was).
Well I got wind that this bloke was doing this black magic thing so I intended to report him to the authorities. Of course I did not know that the woman I was in-love with (the Virgo) was in-love with this shadowy character, so I divulged my intentions of reporting him to her first.

Upon learning this she then betrayed me by reporting me as the person doing the killings, to the authorities.

This was her way of protecting her lover (whatever sign he may have been).

I recalled this from a past-life recollection (rather like a day dream).

In this recollection I also recalled the image of me being hung.
And as I stared out at the crowd that had gathered to watch that day I saw the woman I thought I had loved standing beside the bloke that should have been in my place (both of them smiling).

Next scene: We’re back to the mid 1990’s and I am doing dishes in my home as my daydream fades and I realize that the Virgo woman I had dated a year or so before was the reincarnation of the woman who had betrayed me from the life in which I was hung.

Next scene: It’s Saturday January 28, 2012 and I’m waiting for a new woman to arrive to my home for an enjoyable evening of supper and a movie.

I hear her vehicle pull up and see her walk past my window toward the back door.

In that instant her appearance reminded me of the Virgo woman I had dated in the mid 1990’s.
It freaked me out a bit but I tried to brush it off and get on with the evening.
Still I recall that split-second resemblance and wonder what message was being offerred?

This new woman also happens to be a Virgo.

We have been communicating for about 10-days now (as of Feb. 2,2012.) as potential dating partners.
We’ve only hung out a couple times as a date, although we’ve known and enjoyed friendly communications for a couple years now.

During that time I’ve performed massage for her (I’m a professional therapist) and we have always enjoyed conversing as friends.

The one thing that this current interaction brings up for me is this:
I feel a large amount of detachment from her, which feels odd and awkward to me. We do not talk each day, which strikes me as rathr cut-off and odd. Thinking back to my relationship with the Virgo from the mid-1990’s: I always felt like I wanted more affection, warmth and depth of sharing from her and this made for some very lonely feelings for me. I felt like we were cut-off from each other frequently.

I need a lot of attention and if I compare the interaction with the current Virgo woman to my last relationship of two years (with a very affectionate, attentive and generous Taurus), the amount of attention does seem less than I’d desire.
Yes it may be unfair or prejudiced to compare but it’s what I have noticed.

Yes, the current Virgo has two children and is very immersed with her life.
I understand she has responsibilities.

Yet I do imagine that this type of detachment is what other Pisceans (male or female) may feel when interacting with a Virgo. For Virgoans, their detachment probably doesn’t reach their radar.

But for Pisces detachment is very detectable.

Also, as previously mentioned, I wonder about the new Virgo woman especially after seeing the similarity of appearance for a split-second to the Virgo woman who had betrayed me from the past-life and whom I’d dated in the mid-1990’s.

Who knows. Perhaps those tiny moments of imagination, glimpses of similarity and so forth, can be important messages to steer our course.

Thanks for listening readers and best wishes in your lives and relationships.

-Stephen

Sometimes he does something very gross, like use the plunger in the kitchen sink, but I find it funny more than irritating. Oh well. It could also be that our Chinese zodiac signs are very compatible.

I would say if you find that chemistry with anybody, hold on to it, fight for it, don’t think twice about it and don’t question it. As for me, I really hope this relationship lasts.

If it’s in both hearts to make it right it will be good..but if one pulls one way and the other another then that can happen to any sign..nothing is a guarantee in these relationships it takes two to make it beautiful…

We recently started communicating and I’m getting on really well with him and everytime we talk he always tells me how glad he is that had talked. Which i always take as a compliment. But I’m finding it difficult as the more i’m talking to him the more I like him (I’m a Virgo) but he has a girl friend I’m getting a bit confused on his flirtations as are they actually flirtations or is that just in his feminine nature of being a picese?