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Pisces and Virgo
This is quite a yummy combination actually. When these signs first meet it will be electrifying! Which is actually rather surprising as these two couldn’t be more opposite, Virgo has nit picking and meticulous way’s whereas the Pisces is somewhat dreamy and a bit flaky. Therefore I suppose the saying ‘opposites attract’ in this case is certainly true.
The thing is that they can help each other out quite a bit. The Pisces can teach his/her Virgo lover to be more laid back and less stressed and on the other hand the Virgo can try and put some well needed order in the Pisces life. The sexual desire between these two will be strong and this is what will bond them initially. Virgo will always leave their Pisces lover wanting more, and the Virgo will be highly attracted to the adventure that being with a Pisces brings.
Sadly though this may not be the most long lasting relationship the world has ever seen. Virgo’s are known to have quite a critical and sharp tongue on them, and always pick at faults in other’s. Although the Pisces will try and ignore it, after a while it will where down the sensitive Pisces and could even lead to a bit of depression on the fishes side. On the other hand the Virgo will be driven to distraction by the seemingly river of money the Pisces let’s flow out of the bank on items that their Virgo lover just cannot justify. And here ends the romance. The only desire that will be left will be the urge to hurt and attack one another at every turn, which doesn’t make for a healthy relationship.
It is a shame really, as it really could be a lovely union, but some things just aren’t meant to last forever. Enjoy it while you can and for what it is. But certainly don’t move in with one another that would be very detrimental indeed!
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July 2nd, 2008 at 9:34 pm
Becky I love your website!! can you please give me more insight on Virgo Men??
July 3rd, 2008 at 8:08 am
Thank you very much Marie!
I am still currently writing up about all the signs and haven’t got around to Virgo yet, but as you have requested it I shall write about Virgo Men later on this afternoon. If you subscribe to my RSS feed then you will be notified when I have posted it. But I shall email you to let you know as well. I hope that is OK.
Thanks for your comment and your interest.
Love & Light
Becky
August 14th, 2008 at 8:49 am
I love ur site.bit disturbed at my virgo pisces reading,but we r still going strong.keep it up!
October 8th, 2008 at 5:40 pm
i dont think you should generalize a whole sign and make it into one group..each sign has about 3 birth groups that differ a lot from each other. for example, im the 3rd group of pisces and we generally have more of a scorpio temperament and more of an edge than your typical cliche pisces. idk just thought id bring that up because that plays a big role when it comes to real compatibility..
October 8th, 2008 at 6:18 pm
Hi there Mitz,
Thanks you for your comment. This is just a basic look at peoples basic Sun sign, I do tend to think that you can over complicate astrology though, instead of concentrating on the hardcore straight down the line facts that people really want to know and can identify with. I hear what your saying though, and once I have finished the main part of the site I will be writing about other aspects.
Love & Light
Becky
October 21st, 2008 at 6:51 am
well i read abt pisces and virgo ……. im pisces (male) virgo (female) can dey get along verywell ? i cldn’t able to understand a gurl she is virgo she is looking for honesty even i am but sometimes i crack jokes she cldn’t able to digest or sometimes she laffs i cldn’t able to read her mind ? she got some presonal prob as well like her mom n dad is divorced and she strongly believe in relationship cuz once she is hurt by her previous ex-bf but taking things in consideration i try to compromise with her nature or with her behaviour she cldn’t able to support me that much im very much tensed and if i want it i will do it sometimes i feel that i shld make this relationship to an end. she is 20 n im 25 is that sign of immautredness she has becuz of her age or of her past ? im trying hard to understand it …..will u please me out im very much sensitive…….i cldn’t able to forget this very soon ……..email me if feel so ….nihal.decent@gmail.com
November 9th, 2008 at 4:14 pm
Interesting comments re the compatibility of the two signs, however we moved in together after only a few weeks and it’s going well. You may wish to add what an amazing fuck that a Pisces is, very hot, sexy and shaggable!!!
November 10th, 2008 at 2:17 am
Gary,
Hmmmmm. Not sure about that kind of compliment. But glad things are going well for you and your Pisces woman.
November 25th, 2008 at 8:10 am
I’m a pisces woman. I’ve been in a long distant relationship with a virgo man. He’s everything I’ve always wanted in a man. Understanding, intellectual, loving, always thinking before speaking or acting out. When I in the other hand tend to just speak out about everything and anything. Cry about unnecessary things and all I do is tend to wanna runaway because he’s too good to be true. Pisces are so dramatic but, my virgo guy is always bringing me back to reality. He makes me smile with just one sound of his voice. I’ve never had that I guess. Him in the other hand has never had anyone make him laugh and shake his head and love it at the same time. The way I always do. That’s what he say he loves about me. We level each other out I guess. What I want to know is… he wants me to move to the same city as him. I want to go but, I’m scared I guess. What should I do?
November 25th, 2008 at 4:54 pm
Hi I’m a pisces woman I just wanted to comment on abusive relation ships. Emotional abuse should be talked out and if the spouse is still doing the same abuse you should get out. Emotionally abuse leads to physical abuse. I tried to help my ex husband on that. I thought it was a faze and I can eventually get my old husband back. I stuck around until one day he beat me and I ended up in the hospital. I left, no looking back, I can’t take chances on my loosing life like that plus I have a 5 years old daughter. I couldn’t do it and I don’t recommend it. Starting over is a struggle but you know what the fear will disappear and you will make it, you are alive to do so. Give your own life a fighting chance.
December 9th, 2008 at 3:39 pm
I have been in a relationship with a Pisces for a year and a half now and let me tell you it is not easy at all. It is true about the opposites and when it comes down to buttn heads it’s right on point. When we fell in love those signs wern’t out yet and we fell in love with “eachother” and were both blinded by our differences or maybe even engaged by them. After moving in with one another a lot has changed and he has become very possesive and demanding. I am very giving and would do almost anything for anyone but when you do so much for someone in the beginning of a relationship that exspect that throughout. He is very selfish as well.Thinking about himself and what he wants me to do and not do and where to go and not go etc. I try to talk to him and rationalize and I make him aware that he contradicts himself a lot telling me not to do something and then does it himself and being a hypocrit as well. I am at the end of my rope and don’t know what to do. I love him but I can’t stand the way things have ended up. At this point I would gladly take any advise that I can get.
Amanda
December 16th, 2008 at 2:51 pm
I have virtually no water planets (pisces empty), but tend to be just as chaotic as my pisces counterparts lol. My pisces friends are cool until their “ego” comes out and then everything you say is wrong and then they tell you how it should be done. It’s kinda annoying because this behavior sometimes extends into putdowns or them acting “superior”, but if you want to win pisces over just let them loaf in their own theories lol… Other than that we are about as equally chaotic lol. One astrologer told me I have a T-square (3 planets trine in mutuable signs and with pisces empty, makes this kind of attraction more emphasized, but Im not sure if that is true.
Pisces women are the best in bed and as long as they dont have addiction issues then give it a go. Some pisces I noticed have this “thing” about Passive resistance lol. For some reason I hear this more out of them than any other sign, “I’m not doing that or That’s doesn’t have anything to do with me” (Name) doesn’t do that. I hear one pisces say that a lot. I think it has to do with them not doing more than anybody else. dunno.
Do I have my issues of course I do. Im just a good observer and notice that some of you fish can be a bit wishy washy. Nonetheless, I been with one for over a year and find some of these behaviors consistent with other pisces friends and a bit funny.
December 16th, 2008 at 2:55 pm
yes im a virgo.
January 1st, 2009 at 11:54 pm
Well I was alittle upset with the Virgo Pisces reading. I am a Virgo and my husband a Pisces and yes we do tend to be complete opposites but I believe that makes are relationsip that much stronger. Learning to accept the diffrences in each other. TOgether four and a half years and have a beautiful Aries son together. Love the site though
January 13th, 2009 at 11:39 pm
I AM A PISCES FEMALE AND I AM WITH A VIRGO AND LET MEN TELL YOU IT HAS BEEN 3YRS OF HELL IT IS SO TRUE WHAT IS SAYS ABOUT THE VIRGOS AND PISCES TOGETHER LOL BUT I LOVE HIM WE CAN’T STAY APART LIKE A MAGNET
January 17th, 2009 at 10:37 pm
You know, I don’t really take astrology very seriously normally. However, I (a virgo) just got out of a relationship with a pisces man and I have to say what you said here described out relationship perfectly. It’s almost scary at how completely accurate it is. Our relationship was JUST like that. I wish I had read this first, I would have held back my critical tongue and maybe we would have been able to work it out. I really liked him
February 14th, 2009 at 12:47 am
I’m a pisces woman and have been dating a virgo man for about 4 months. I have to agree the sexual chemistry is like NOTHING I’ve ever experienced before. From the first moment we met, we haven’t been able to take our hands off each other. I don’t know if it’s meant to be, but I intend to ride this one out (no pun intended) as long as possible!
February 25th, 2009 at 5:59 pm
one of my closest friends is a virgo, and sometimes we have a strong mental connection,and he has a really good sense of humour but omg, i could never date him. i can’t take a virgo’s criticism, especially since pisces are very sensitive people. if im around my friend too long, i start to feel really down.and i would say that sexually, a virgo and pisces wouldn’t work that well, since in my experience virgos are quite prudish, whereas pisces are open to loads of new things, so the picses would end up getting frustrated and the virgo might become a bit grossed out. Although, once again, i have to say that i’m half aquarius too, so the idea of sex with a virgo just doesn’t work for me at all. i will say that virgos make very loyal friends, and that they are very faithful people, which is one of the things i like best about my friend. they are also really good conversationalists and very interestiing. whilst oppositesdo attract, as you say this won’t be a lasting romantic relationship. it could however be a very lasting friendship.
February 26th, 2009 at 3:49 pm
I think pisces and virgo combination is really bad for a love relationship. It can be a really great friendship though - at least if you only interact occasionally. I’ve known and have been involved in love (and friendship) relationships with virgo (I’m pisces man) and although the physical attraction was there, that’s about all there was.
Virgos are extremely critical and nit-picking, which I’m not saying is a bad thing, but it sure can wear on a pisces. Let me say that again - it really, really, can wear on a pisces! Pisces are typically rather loose with money, since money doesn’t have the kind of meaning that it has with some signs, and that can drive virgo absolutely batty. Also all the virgos I’ve known seem to want to know everything about everyone they are involved with, or at least they do if they think there might be something more there than is obvious. Pisces, although apparently very open, are actually quite secretive and don’t like to be placed under a microscope.
February 27th, 2009 at 1:02 pm
okay so i love the feedback more then i love the compatibility rating. i am a pisces woman down to the core and never dated a virgo before. that being said im also disppointed and apprehensive about my virgo man!!
-we met when i was out of town and i immediately felt a strong attraction to him! it had been a while for me, okay, so i my inital intention was just to let him get me off for a night.well that didn’t really happen and instead we connected in a very diff. way! i love his kisses and he makes me feel very adorned! as i said im a pisces to the core and im very intuituve i have dejavu regularly, dream of something and it will later happen exactly, like a seen from a movie ( my dream) and i had dejavu twice a day while i was out of town which was a little more than usually and when we woke up he said something and got up from the bed and i immedately remembered that “I DREAMT OF THIS MAN BEFORE!” He is truly the man of my dreams! and in my dream i felth this strong connection with him and i guess thats why i feel it more so now and have no idea what im doing, or meant to do with him!
-OUR SEX IS AMAZING AND NEVER HAVE I WANTED SOMONE THE WAY I DO HIM! but weve only been together for a short while and im afraid of the things you say to happen will. hes already talking about a long future together and my dreamy stupidly romantic ass is eating it up.. but trying not to swallow!!!
he wants us to give this long distance a try for just a short while and then move in.. but… im not sure!?
thanks!
ana
February 28th, 2009 at 4:26 am
wow, Ana! I’m so glad I’m not the only one who dreams something and it happens exactly the way I saw it in my dreams! It kinda freaks me out!
I know this bit doesn’t go with the whole love and romance topic of this site but I’m Pisces and my sister is virgo and personality wise, this site has explained us exactly. We are very close and have always been there for each other but I’m too flaky for her and I find her practical views of me hurtful. Even though we frustrate each other to no end, we are still best friends. Maybe that can happen with a virgo guy too…or maybe i’m just being wishful cuz I like a virgo guy!
March 20th, 2009 at 6:01 pm
I’m a pisces female in a relationship with a virgo female,and after reading everyones comments i feel as if everyone on here is secretly looking through our bedroom window. Me and my girlfriend where like Romeo and Juliet or should I say Juliet and Juliet, it was beautiful I’ve never been faithful to any of the women I have ever dated,I’m also 4 years older then her. The thing is in the beginning I was just getting out of an expired relationship. But when we met she was everything I have ever been looking for and even more. WE fell in love and now its almost 2 years we just moved in our first house TOGETHER… She cooks I clean we pay bills, we go dine. I’m in love with her so deep that I would give my life for her.
The bad: we fight, we argue, we battle, every other day we’re into….
Pisces: (me) ATTITUDE,I’ve never been able to get rid of anger, nor attitude problems built up inside of me.
Virgo: (her) Emotion Less, She’s never been able to let her guard down and show concern and love.
However, we’re in love. I DO NOT Ever want to lose her out of my life, and i would do anything to keep her happy even if its losing my attitude and anger issues..
SOMEBODY HELP…………
I love her with every bit of my heart my body and soul but I DO NOT KNOW what to do in this situation.
I’m dying in the inside and my attitude is running my baby away.
Pisces and Virgo? Can we make it work?
P.V=2yrs
April 1st, 2009 at 8:54 pm
I’M A PISCIS WOMAN MY HUSBAND IS A VIRGO AND I THINK IT’S TRUE WHAT I READ WE ARE ALWAYS FIGHTING BUT AT THE END WE ALWAYS TEND TO APOLOGIZE TO EACH OTHER AND START LOVING ALL OVER AGAIN IT’S BEEN LIKE THIS FOR 10 YEARS !! WOW I REALLY DON’T WANT IT TO END =(
April 9th, 2009 at 11:13 pm
Hi everyone,
Reading about the Pisces and Virgo compatability thing. Well I think if you have a strong intuitive feeling about the Virgo Man, then go for it.
I met a Virgo man on the internet, met up and it was an instant connection for the both of us, we got on great and in bed, but me being the pisces sabotaged it and we went our seperate ways. I ended up in a relationship with a Capricorn, which didn’t work out, I got bored and escaped into my ds games and tv after living together for 6 months, it wasn’t stimulating at all.
As the months went by I kept thinking of the virgo and had a strong urge to write an email to him. When I finally seperated with the capricorn, I emailed the Virgo man(a year down the line), who responded with just as much enthusiasm.
We have been chatting on the phone averaging about 1 1/2 hours each time, like we will always have something to discuss and explore. He is witty, very funny, intelligent, sexy, loving, tactile, communicative, non competative, adventurous, thoughtful, honest, a family man devoted to his boys and much more.
Please take these compatibility charts as a guide but not as gospel. Use them to our advantage, to be aware of the couple’s differences and work on the relationship.
There I guess will be some that will not match, but I think there are many factors and layers involved in a compatibility between two signs such as this.
I’m certainly going to go for it, but after a few mismatches I have become synical and a bit warey. One step at a time I say to myself which is hard for me being a pisces. I want to leap in the deep end and fall for him hook, line and sinker. It sucks to be a dreamer sometimes….. no wonder we love a good fantasy or love story. Good luck with the adventure…
April 13th, 2009 at 7:54 am
Ok, Well I’m a Pisces chick dating a virgo guy.. And we’re madly in love with each other. We always say we’re each-others, “other half”. cause well.. We are. I feel like this guy is my soul mate for real. It really does feel like we are truly magnetize to each other. We normally get alone really well. And we laugh about just anything and everything. We act like best friends, which i love! We always have our hands on each other! He’s really charming. And kind too me. And AlWAYS makes sure I’m not hungry or cold! He’s extremly smart! I love talking too him about everything. DONT think virgos aren’t sensitive too, cause they are. They’re just not as up front about it as pisces are. I’ve learned they don’t like showing weakness.. But i can feel what he feels so ha =] Trust has a lot too do with that too. And even if we do get in a fight it don’t last long at all till we’re telling each other we’re sorry. Like it says we’re supposed to fight.. But what normal couple doesn’t have fights, ya know?? It’s part of human nature. And besides its seems to make us stronger anyway. Because its like a eye opener for us. It’s like we remember how life is with out each other in it. And after we get into a fight and stay away from each other for a few days.. We realize how important we are to each other. And he knows i get my feelings hurt easy and isn’t the least bit nit picky with me. And if he starts too be i just give him that look and he laughs and smiles and says sorry lol. BUT we -talk- to each other, and let each other know if something we say stuff that bothers each other. And yes omg the sex IS LIKE NO OTHER!! lol my virgo guy makes sure I’m happy. i love that about him. So yea i personally think Pisces and Virgo are great together. But i have came across some virgos that i can’t stand, as well as some pisces that i’m not the biggest fan of either. just DON’T forget.. too each is own. [E.v.e.r.y.o.n.e] is different.
April 20th, 2009 at 6:16 am
I am a Pisces and I can relate because I was in a relationship with a Virgo but, I was the one who had the sharp tongue and if I didn’t like what he did I would speak on it. I’m not saying I was a complete bitch but he would do certain things that would just not be cool. I tried to be cool at times but I couldn’t do it no more and it’s funny because that was about three years ago and I still love him. After we broke up we still acted like we were together so I’m guessing a Virgo man is someone a Pisces is going to connect with???
Also a comment ahead said that they were a Pisces with a Scorpio temperament….what does that mean and what is my birth group???
I was born March 12th 1990
April 23rd, 2009 at 1:19 am
I am a Pisces woman and my so called “man” is a Virgo. We met almost a year ago through the internet and talked for about a month before we actually met each other in person. When I first saw him I jumped right on top of him and gave him a kiss!
Really I didn’t even know the guy, but it felt like I had known him more then what I actually had. I fell for him hard. And at the time he was going through difficult things in life.
I told him I loved him, and I don’t know if he got scared or if he just wasn’t that into me at the time because we really didn’t know each other.
We went our separate ways after a few months. Of course this was a long distance relationship so it was rough at the beginning.
We talked on and off for a while, and now we just started talking again. Reading all this stuff about pisces and virgo compatibility kind of scares me because I really don’t want to get hurt. I don’t know if I should believe it. But I guess what I can do is learn from what I have read and use it as a guideline.
I have strong feelings for him now, and now that we have been talking for a while he has told me he loved me. He is very caring, and sweet, but he gets in his moods, sometimes I just let it go, and other times it really bothers me…and then he gets frustrated with me when i ask him if he really loves me.
But I’m praying this time it will work out because I really feel for him, and maybe sometime down the road we can live closer to each other.
May 2nd, 2009 at 7:14 pm
2 Virgos, 1 Pisces….
I’ve been on the market for about 6 months now. I had just gotten out of a relationship with a Leo(male) and I’m Pisces(female), It was probably the worst relationship I’d ever been in. Typical Leo, had to party and be the center of attention at all times while putting anyone who was better then him down. Well, now that I’ve healed from the emotional abuse that was the last year of my life I’ve got 2 guys interested in me… Both are Virgos. I’ve never dated a Virgo before. Its strange… They’re like the exact same people. However both are ALWAYS working… Which I don’t understand. But anyways… With what it says about Virgo’s being very critical and can lead to taking it out on the poor Pisces, I don’t know if I’m ok with that. At least going into a relationship with a Virgo I’m aware of this and will know what to do when it happens. Which is put my foot down and not take it
I may be Pisces, but I’m also a Dragon and thank goddess for that. Its the only thing giving me a back bone.
May 3rd, 2009 at 5:13 am
I’m a Virgo and my boy is a Pisces. we’ve been together for a year now and we are still going strong…very passionate. never a boring moment. I’m not going to say that we haven’t had our bad days, but the love we have for each other compensates for those bad days, and quite frankly, we both believe that we are made for each other. it seems as if we can read each others minds sometimes, and we are extremely dedicated, committed, and loyal to one another. its an annoyance that your review could so easily say that two little things that are different about these signs could make their love not be compatible for a lifetime…not to mention that moving in together would be detrimental. we stay together all the time and share literally everything, and i haven’t found any of it to be detrimental. our relationship is definitely NOT a shame, and it is most definitely a “lovely union.” we care for each other deeply, not only are we passionate lovers but we are best friends. and i wouldn’t have it any other way.
May 5th, 2009 at 2:21 am
Hi, I’m a pisces woman in a relationship with a virgo man. We met each other through volunteer work and were best friends for a year. We fell in love…and after a year…he mustered the courage to ask me out. Long story short…i said yes, and we have been together ever since. I’ve been dating him over a year and a half…however we’ve hit an obsticle. I want to settle down and get married, and he’s scared about his financial situation. We have been going through an emotional ride for the past month…and i believe everything you have said about the pisces and virgo match is correct…sadly enough! I love him with all my heart, he loves me as well, but he’s way too critical. Constantly hurts me…emotional abuse for sure!
May 6th, 2009 at 2:24 am
I guess I am the oddball, Virgo Sun and Pisces Moon and I get along with both Virgos and Pisces. I could see myself in a relationship with a Pisces but Virgos are just mainly friends.
May 11th, 2009 at 7:33 am
I’m a Pisces gal with a Virgo boy. We’ve been together for 5 years now. We recently just moved in together and got engaged over the holidays. Sadly to say we called off our wedding. It crazy, I never really paid attention to the zodiac compatibility stuff until my girlfriend told me that Pisces and Virgo is not a match made in heaven. So I started reading about my zodiac signs and his. I was so blown away with everything I read. Everything was so true. Virgo is very stubborn and will show no emotions, towards their feelings, even when their hurting inside. They will keep everything bottled up. Very rare will say sorry even if they know they’re wrong. Their form of saying sorry is by doing things for you or by giving gifts. For the 5 years we we’re together I can count on my fingers how many times he said the word “SORRY” to me.
Although were totally opposite in every way, I weight everything on his good heart. I love him very much and I’m so heart broken that we just can be together because we’re just so different. Lets just say I’ve given all that I’ve got and have nothing more to give because he as exhausted me in every way.
They say you can’t make a person change their ways. The change has to come from them willingly. But you can certainly change your own ways and live a better and happy life with out all this hurt.
May 27th, 2009 at 7:37 pm
Hi i am a Pisces woman and my man is a Virgo! Reading all of these comments are like wow! Obviously there has to be some truth to astrology when all of us can relate to the same things. Me and my man are loving each other one minute then hating each other the next! But at the end of the day we are still together!! Don’t get me wrong sometimes i do be like what the hell am i doing but he does keep my on track even though he can be a pain in the ass!!!
May 28th, 2009 at 6:20 am
aww I don’y know what to think about all of this, I am a pisces girl( with a virgo moon) and my ex is a virgo, and I have always felt this major connection to him, and he felt it to, when we met we called ourselves puzzle pieces b/c we fit so well, and I saw how our personalities balanced each other out, we didn’t end due to our personalities per se, but we had financial issues and it was hard for him to be with me and have to take care of me b/c I came from a very inexperienced upbringing and was new to a new city( and had moved in with him)and he and I both found ourselves jobless and trying to make ends meet.Basically we fell on hard times. I still love him to this very day, I really do feel he is my match and the love of my life, regardless of what this or any other thing says. Sadly though he has moved on to another girl( he recently got back on his feet after being a nomad for almost a year, and this chick is a former ex of his, and she has forbid him any friendships with any past girlfriends which is understandable especially since he left her for another girl the first time( a cap) so she is a taurus and I guess the astrological stuff says she is a good fit for him, and they will be together forever and you’ll never know how much that truly breaks my heart, he is my best friend, the only person who has ever understood me, Im still very much in love with him, and I Know he would still talk to me if the circumstances were different, but he moved in with her when he had no place else to go ( I didn’t have a place for him to stay at the time, i was living with other people in the middle of nowhere) so now I just feel so sad about it, he’s supposed to be a filmmaker and it’s like he’s giving up his dream, but I guess he’s happy( I can’t know for sure but I assume) and that’s what I want for him, even if I can’t have him, but I wont pretend it doesn’t break my heart b/c everything tells me that he is the one, I dreamt about it more than once. I really hope a miracle can be created for the two of us.In the meantime I just continue to learn and grow and hopefully spread love to the world around me.
June 25th, 2009 at 12:06 am
i have a crush on a pisces guy and when we first met we would call eachother everyday and talk all night. i thought it would be love but then he asked out one of my good friends…smh =(
June 25th, 2009 at 2:31 am
Well, I have to total agree with the compatibility match advice here. I’m a Pisces women in a relationship with a Virgo man. And when I say I’m a Pisces, I mean, I’m the stereotypical Pisces. Sexual desire was what initially bonded us, indeed. I helped him through hard times, meanwhile hopping his negative outlook on life would brighten to some extent…but, although he got over his rough patch, he’s still so negative. We’ve been together for a little over three years and lived together for two. His negativity and criticalness has started to bring me down. I want romance, and the matters of the heart mean more to me than anything, and he just doesn’t understand my desires.I’ve been in one of those dark, emotional Pisces depressions for about a month now. I have been completely escaping in love stories in books and movies. He has noticed, but has not said much, as usual. I find myself longing for my true love or soul mate if you’d rather and questioning if the Virgo that I truly do love is meant for me? I find myself wondering if we’re both unhappy. I don’t know the answer right now, but this page helpful. Thanks.
June 26th, 2009 at 4:39 pm
My husband is a Virgo and I’m a Pisces. We’ve been together for 9 years, married for 8. I can’t see my life without him. We compliment each other perfectly, and arent’ afraid to rely on each other when our weakness appear in situations. Sure, we’ve had our stormy moments, but they’ve made us closer. Having our first child was the hardest mountain to climb, but we made it. My husband is always supportive of anything that I do. He will do anything to help me or my family if needed. He works hard to provide for us. I have seen his emotions. He cries whenever the military send him away from us. I can always count on him to be there for us. He has always made a point to be involved in any decisions that have had to be made. We planned our wedding together, buy furniture together, etc. He’s my partner is every sense of the word. It takes work on both parts like any relationship.
July 3rd, 2009 at 8:45 am
I’m an ultimate Pisces female. For past ten years I was in touch with my best friend’s brother, a Virgo. He had from the beginning claimed to have fallen for me, having a deep connection, which is true, but… I have never taken him seriously since he carefully chose sweetest words and wanted to know everything about me, but never revealed things about himself!! this seemed fake, this truly frustrated me, since I am used to people coming to me with their problems, rather than myself being studied and analyzed.
However, Virgos are rather careful, patient in their pursuit of ideals. He would say things like he is not ready yet to make me his wife and needs to accumulate necessary wealth to guarantee my happiness. The ideas are stubbornly planted in his mind…
About five years ago, a Virgo female became my best friend. She is your organized, cold Virgo with a critical attitude yet servile and loyal to a fault. When she hurt me, I turned away and cried. Yet as I put distance and time between myself and conflicts, I decided to respond with love and loyalty regardless to her critical opinions. This acceptance has made her into a different being. She never said sorry but the change of truly being sorry was obvious to me. Through her I started to realize who my Virgo man was.
I used to try to get the answer from him, it was like pulling teeth with hair. So, I decided I will accept him just the way he is and let him be introverted, just trust that if there is something I need to know he will tell me exactly when I need to know it, otherwise I was just not meant to know it. Critical? I said “when you say this you hurt me and it is not helping me” It seems to work.
Now, my problem is such: Virgos are quite smart and rooted in reality, becoming either best or worst human beings. Usually my piscean intuition is superb, but I am at a loss with this guy… is he a manipulative bastard who is malicious or is he genuinely feeling all that he claims to feel?
July 8th, 2009 at 3:55 pm
I am a virgo female and my man is a pisces but it seems like we are the opposites of what everyone is saying, he is the one that doesn’t say much and judges everything I do, which everything I do is usually something for him, he is obssessed with working and having money and is always to busy for me. I am sensitive and he makes me cry. We have some good fights sometimes but always stay together I can’t see myself without him.
July 12th, 2009 at 2:46 pm
Iam Virgo and hubby is Pisces. When we met, it was love at first site, and immediately moved in together. He is 8 yrs younger than myself. We have been living together for 22 yrs and got married last yr. He’s quite selfish at times and does things that he wants to do. I then do it with him so that I am not left at home. He taught me how to fish and we go fishing together. Every Dec we go fishing althoush he knows that I would like to sometimes do something else, but I know that if I say I dont feel like it, he would go alone or with friends. He normally asks my advice for anything he does but naturally tries to convince me. Everything I do, is to try and plse him but he can still be quite critical about, for eg., I forgot to switch on the geyser, although he can do that himself. I always try and tell him that I’m not perfect, I’m human too - but he wants me to be perfect. He always leaves all cupboard doors and drawers open after taking what he needs, dirty clothes on floor etc etc. But if I do that once, he will make a remark.If he asks me to do something, and I dont do it within a day, he gets upset, but when I ask him a favour, he does’nt like to be reminded to do it. Then after a week or so, I remind him very subtely, but he still doesnt like it. He likes to be in charge and for eg., if we go out, he will decide when we go home. If I suggest going home, he’ll say we can go now now but when he wants to leave, he will just get up and say “lets go”. If he says something is red and I say it looks pink to me, he thinks I’m arguing with him.
Any way, we still do get along fine although hes made me cry a lot in the past, maybe I’m too sensitive. I’ve learned how to say things to him that it doesnt sound as if I’m arguing or know better.
Sexually our relationship is wonderful and he can be very sensitive and wonderful too. He’s always first to say sorry and anyway, we all have faults. We do love each other and I would’nt want to be without him.
July 19th, 2009 at 3:56 pm
Eka,
As much as Virgos might understand about the world, we don’t necessarily understand EVERYTHING about what’s going on with other people individually. It’s just easier to see the shortcomings. I think we’re abstract perfectionists, but a holistic mindset makes it impractical to be as cynical as you worry that your boyfriend may be - that he would keep you manipulated for years. And to what end? Why? It doesn’t make sense.
I had a powerful fling with a Pisces years back and she later became my best friend for years. After falling madly in love with her, we broke it off but she came back to me on a vacation a few years later. I always appreciated her amazing insight and thought the world of her as a person, although there was a lingering resentment that we couldn’t be together. I was there for her too. Ultimately, she got involved with someone for whom I think she finally could allow herself to feel a sense of long-term devotion, and her personality changed. She became much more vulnerable and resented things I’d said that before just provided the clash over things she’d love to argue about with me. She started taking things much more personally than before, became erratic in her expectations of our connection, and soon afterward the friendship fell apart.
But what I realized was that perhaps even the friendship had run its course. I thought that she really appreciated feeling needed, and that this desire had hindered me from FEELING (not “being”) more and more independent as a person. In short, I wondered if she had manipulated me to a subtle extent. However, I certainly never did anything to manipulate her. Not that I could have anyway. I was (or had once been) in love with her and always respected and admired her. I was powerless to do anything but care for her well-being.
What I will say about my own experience in a Pisces-Virgo match of sorts was that I went from being idealistic and prone to being easily let down to being more realistic, but a little more cynical as well. But it was ultimately a happier combination of personality traits for me. Find out what your boyfriend NEEDS from you. Maybe it’s that Piscean sense of selfishness that he’s feeding off upon as it helps us to worry less and teaches us to become happier as individuals. If the selfishness you possess can be channeled away from YOU and into THE COUPLE, then the Virgo will probably do good things with it. But it sounds like that would be a complicated process, and that is probably why he is biding his time.
Hope this helps.
July 24th, 2009 at 8:09 am
Hi i am a pisces women in love with a virgo man, some times i think im about leave him.i just cant do it,what dos he wonts from me? hes so nit picky at times,this really bothers me and i dont no why,but i do love him and we have such great sex to gather,some times i dont fell hes hn my mind..but i dont wont to leave him i love him.
July 24th, 2009 at 8:20 am
why dos virgos go from one relationship to the next.so fast.can a virgo man keep a relationship going.with a pisces women.if he dos not love her eny more.these virgo man are so fast to find fault with thare lovers..why.
July 26th, 2009 at 12:15 am
As a Virgo what’s impossible for me to understand is the need so many people have to project an image of perfection about themselves. Sorry, but nobody is perfect. I appreciate it when others are understanding (and therefore, HONEST) about my shortcomings as well as their own, and I can’t understand why anyone else would want it any other way.
We live in an era of information - in the knowledge economy. Self-deception is a fool’s errand. If you want to be thought great, ok. You’re great. But you’re not freaking perfect.
As Chris Rock said, when you’re dating someone, you’re not dating them. You’re dating their representative. We’d all be better off if we stopped sending representatives out there and just decided to be honest about who we really are… strengths, shortcomings and all. Otherwise there’s not much of a point to being in a relationship.
July 27th, 2009 at 6:33 am
This missing link…
I am a Pisces woman and I have been reading all of your comments for months and I believe that I have found the missing link that will permanently bond the Pisces and Virgo together in love and harmony. What I have not seen discussed on the site is the evolution and maturity of the souls. Pisces and Virgos can be quite a powerful force when rightly joined together. It can work and it can be a very passionate an happy life long relationship!
I will give you a starting point as to what to do and look for.
Pisces, it is important to find stability through aligning spirituality and cerebral balance to control your emotions in order to relate rationally and communicate intellectually with the Virgo that you love. When you have found the balance your intuition will guide you and you will be able to do what few other have ever done, touch the innermost depts of your Virgo and bring a soothing calm to their fears and worries.
This opens the door for calm and rational communication that will help give your Virgo insight into better understanding your soul. Avoid acting off of emotions to communicate because that can only insight further chaos between you and you Virgo. Meet your Virgo in the meeting of minds first then Your Virgo will be at ease and the you can guide them into higher truths and understanding of the realm of the soul where emotions are free to be expressed without fear and remove the block of misunderstood feelings and communication.
A Virgo will fair best with a Pisces that has an evolved soul. This Pisces has taken the souls journey to spiritual and emotional maturity and finds independence through service and creativity. This caliber of Pisces has learned to bring order to chaos which is heightened by the orderly Virgo. This Pisces is very powerful and can make Virgo free to take the souls journey into deep inner knowing of higher understanding of self and all humanity and allows Virgo to inter into deep passions beyond your wildest dreams without fear or regret. This is a Pisces that will understand your soul profoundly and intuitively without intruding or making you feel emotionally violated while putting you in touch with your own emotions to learn compassion so that you may better serve humanity.
July 27th, 2009 at 7:15 am
The missing link…Con’t
I will be back with more. Next,we will discuss the evolved Virgo. Stay tuned, I have lots more to share with all of you. Virgo/Pisces can be one of the most fulfilling and amazing relationships when understanding of both sides is shared. I am open to questions. I hope we can start an open dialogue to gain a greater understanding of how these two signs can work!!! Good luck out there in your quests for true love.
August 3rd, 2009 at 4:31 am
Are there any Pisces MEN that have anything to say about how they feel being in a relationship with a Virgo woman? I only see Pisces&Virgo women and Virgo men posting…?
August 3rd, 2009 at 11:08 am
Well i’m a pisces male and have a virgo wife and i’m a little freaked out by what i read, all of what has be written is 100% true ! , i’m in the middle of some deep problems at the moment , and they seem to be reflected very well here , virgo’s can have a mean streak and us pisces men can take it personal, but we won’t say anything because we don’t want to rock the boat.
Gez anyone out there with some answers , i would be very greatful.
Regards Kerry.
August 6th, 2009 at 3:53 am
Kerry
I know we can be mean and i find it very hard to bite my tongue with my bf sometimes but you know just tell her how you feel even if it rocks the boat i bet she wants to hear it anyway cause i can’t stand it when he just looks at me and i know he has something to say but wont, and i wanna know whats up no matter what. Have you heard Pinks song Please dont Leave Me, thats how i feel everytime we have a fight. good luck
August 13th, 2009 at 5:04 pm
Sharlene,
please continue… I am all ears. I’m a Virgo man who has literally just fallen in love with a Pisces woman. We have known each other for 4 years, foes for 2, friends for 1, best friends for the last year, and in the last 2 months we have fallen in love. It is funny, spiritual, relaxed, profound, and deeply sexual and sensual… like soul-mates. And it has taken place in much the same way that you have described in your evolution of the souls message. We always had an electric bond even as enemies in the beginning but in the last year we have gone through very complex growth together and now we are dreaming each others dreams and I can’t think of living without her anymore. So, thank you for your insight, dying to hear more about the evolution of the virgo soul.
August 16th, 2009 at 9:16 pm
I think you make virgoes sound a little too harsh and shouldn’t stereotype them so much. this may be true for most perhapse, but to some, what you wrote could be very discouraging. to me for example. I happen to be picses woman and i’m completely and impossibly in love with a virgo man. i came to read some things about us because i get discouraged very easily. i want to be with him forever and it’s like your trying to crush my dreams. i understand that your just trying to tell what you think is the brutal thruth, but i personally think that you should put a more positive outlook on a long lasting realationship for the two. i fell in love with him in the middle of fifth grade when he transfered to my school. we eventually started dating and talked on the phone all day everyday until almost the middle of 6th grade. that was when i made the mistake of cheating on him. in the ned, we broke up because he found out and asked me what i was going to do. he was shy but loyal and understanding and he loved me very much. we got back together some time later and i kept dumping him for other guys. our realtionship kept getting worse and worse every time, though i didn’t notice it then. we were off and on for the next two years. he only dumped me once for another girl. our realationship got to the point where he called me…hurtful names. yet i still called him to har his voice. i would get off the phone crying on the floor. yet through it all i knew we were meant to be. i’m now going into 9th grade and we don’t talk anymore. i figure hes forgotten about me. i think about him every single day and have dreams about him every night. i miss him soo much and want to be with him forever, but i don’t know what to do anymore. i don’t know if i should move on or if i should hold on. so you can see how your essesment on virgo’s and pisces would effect me.
August 18th, 2009 at 5:26 am
Okay I can start off with The fact I will never Again in my life Date another Virgo In my life I’m a Pisces Woman That was In love with a Virgo Man Everything you said here Was right when We first started out It was Like Fireworks and In bed, I have Never wanted any other Man Like i did him and He always did Leave me wanting more. But The thing is Virgos have a Mean side to them. Honestly, In my Out look of it. Our Fling We never dated we talked bout it But Never came to Actually having a relationship We even talked about having a Future Kids the whole Nine Yards. But He left me for a Cancer Girl. Which What i read Bout Cancer and Virgo They make a Pretty Good Match. But the Girl he was seeing was Also One of my friends. So That didn’t last to long Not after Me going and telling this girl what his game was. I loved him He was the Man of my dreams, Everything i ever wanted In a guy But You know I hate him just as much as I love him. Its Strange Cause He is the only one that can hurt me as much as he does, And He doesn’t care. Or even Notice. 7 Yrs Of being with him And its finally over. I’m actually glad Its finally Over cause all he cares about Is Himself. At first I didn’t want To believe What was said here Or On every website I went to. But I 100% agree with This and Other Its not a Match Made in Heaven Its more of a Match Made For The other thing. IF you catch My drift. I’m done with Virgo Men and Yet again They still come Running to me. Like Flies.
August 28th, 2009 at 8:47 am
Dear Axtasa and all Virgo men
Okay Virgo man first the low down dirty truth…
The Immature
Virgo in your immatureestatr you can be, pessimistic, highly critical, nitpicky, cold, mean, insensitive, perfectionist, jealous, ungrateful, closed minded, judgmental, self-righteous, self-absorbed, have a piercing tong, be accusatory, suspicious, a worrier, emotionally detached, fussy, cranky, moody, stubborn, fearful, blind and self sabotaging.
Having these traits is a part of your Virgo make up but allowing these traits to dominate means that you have not evolved to the state of self awareness. This is an excellent place to start in self evaluation. A Pisces can gently lead you into the journey of the soul. With Pisces emotional and spiritual nature and your ability to analysis and problem solve you could emerge as quite a powerful person that has the ability to change the world through service and compassion. You will also find that you will fare better in relationships especially with your Pisces that are evolved or mature.
There is Hope… Where to start
When you find yourself engaging in one or more of these pit falls it is a sign that you need to go within and analyze your behavior and come out with and answer and a solution as to why you demonstrate these behaviors. Keeping a journal is key for the Virgo man, especially. This will benefit you especially since you are not always comfortable verbalizing your feelings. Writing is your journal is for you to see yourself more clearly and you will find it to be very therapeutic. Believe it or not writing for the Virgo man is key for personal release and for emotional expression. You are often shy about verbalizing you feelings so when you are in a relationship with a Pisces woman writing out your feelings will enhance your relationship. Virgo Man you will be amazed out how writing that which you fear to verbalize would do wonders for you Pisces female. A simple heartfelt letter can make a world of difference. Pisces “feel” and you “analyze”. So connect your thoughts with your innermost feeling and write them. Taking the time to express your emotions how you “feel” to your Pisces will help her understand you on a much deeper level and bring harmony to your relationship and it will greatly calm her fears about your love and feeling about her. I know I am asking a lot here Virgo but make it a point to find the courage to “say” what you “feel” from time to time. It will go a long way with the one you love. Please, understand that I am not encouraging you to become a sappy mess, but a Pisces woman needs you to express your love and feeling from time to time outside of the bedroom.
Passion
Speaking of the bedroom, this is not true of all Virgo men, but those of you who identify I trust that this will benefit you. While Virgo men are great and attentive lovers, some Virgo men are apprehensive in the bedroom. You will never ever have to worry about expressing yourself sexually with a Pisces woman. You are always safe to share your deepest fantasies with her and trust me she will love it. Even the most shy Pisces woman is not shy in the bed room and longs to please you. You do not have to over think sex with a Pisces she will always make you feel safe to express yourself in the bedroom. Also it is okay for you to allow her to express her fantasies with you. She might surprise you, but she more than any other sign can bring out an erotic side of you. Just a little tip, she does not mind being dominated in the bedroom. She also loves your tender nature in the bedroom as well, so whatever you are up for your Pisces is eager to please. She is spiritual, loving, sweet, emotional, passionate and erotic in the bedroom. Love making with her releases your inhibitions and is a wonderful freeing and experience.
The Mature Virgo…
Virgo in you mature state your have turned your negatives into positives and is optimistic and values hope and faith. You have learned that the only way to overcome your fears is by facing them and that being stubborn for the sake of being stubborn in really pride and the root of all pride is fear. You have learned that being judgmental means you lack compassion and you understand that compassion is born out of pain and suffering and humility. You have learned that perfection is unattainable but the beauty in striving for it makes you a student and a teacher in life. You have learned that being cold, mean, and emotionally detached means that you need to spend more time in the heart and this is where your nature to give and to serve comes in handy. You have learned that sensitivity comes through being considerate of others and that honesty does not have to be harsh or biting. When you are feeling cranky, fussy and moody you should retreat for some alone time get some sleep go for a walk, exercise, nurture your body with food take a warm bath or get body massage in other words this is the best time for you to retreat and be refreshed and your mature Pisces will understand. You do not have to do it alone a Pisces woman will help you to evolve quite naturally ands with time and practice you will be amazed at how much enjoyable and sweet life is.
The evolved and mature Virgo has learned to communicate what is right while finding solutions to what he or she perceives to be wrong in the world or with everything and everyone in general. Evolved Virgos can step outside of themselves and see the bigger picture as well as the details. Rather than using negative expression they can bring positive solutions. The evolved Virgo has learned that being critical accomplishes nothing but hurt feeling and negative energy. There is always a better to see things and say things.
Virgo man you are the most complex of all of the zodiac signs. While it is your first nature to spend time in your head the evolution of you begins in the heart. A Pisces woman can teach you how to master feelings and emotions. Contrary to popular belief you feel and love very deeply, you just have difficulty verbalizing it and showing it. It would be unfair to ask you to completely stray from your Virgo nature, but in order to mature as Virgo the journey of the soul is unavoidable. Even an immature Pisces can connect your head to your heart and your heart to your soul. The only problem is if she is immature she will not be able to hold on to you because she will become too emotional and demand expression which will cause you to retreat. But if she has evolved she will guide you into dementions of the heart and soul that your analytical nature never knew existed. She will give you insight into your own soul, as well as hers. She knows that with you slow and steady is the key. Her gentle touch soothes and waters your earthy nature. She is water and you are earth in her mature state she knows when to water and when to allow you to absorb so that the combination of you does not turn into mud.
What’s Your Type…
Pisces that are predominately ruled by Venus tend to be soft and gentle. Pisces that are predominately ruled by Jupiter tend to be bold, less gentle, cold, brash and well…bitchy. Yet they easily hurt. It is easy to distinguish between the two rather quickly. You just have to decide which one appeals more to your liking. However, do not make the mistake of thinking that the gentle Pisces is a doormat. If pushed too far she will swim away without warning of blow up at you and it won’t be pretty.
My Advice
My advice to the Virgo man who is or decides to get involved with a Pisces woman is be gentle with her, encourage her dreams and offer solutions rather than criticism and accept that she will always live in a world of her own and allow her to take you there it can be so much fun and even magical. At the same time, invite her to a place she rarely visits, reality…but only for a visit. Have you ever heard the expression a fish out of water? She cannot stay there too long. Never interfere with her dreams no matter how farfetched they may seem to you. Rather give her a practical path to achieve the impossible. She will make a believer out of you. She thrives off of what is not seen and has the remarkable ability to manifest what others said could not be done. To put it in prospective Einstein was a Pisces. What you deem as nonsense and chaos makes clear and perfect sense to her, but she can greatly benefit from your ability to bring reason logic and order to her world. Again, I say to her world she will never leave her world it is the only place she can ever live, but you are always welcome to travel into her magical world. In like manner you will always have your feet firmly planted on the ground but this girl can make even you believe that you can fly.
Virgo Man Pisces Woman
Pisces and Virgo respect each other’s differences and learn from them. You two have a lot to teach each other and learn from each other. No other sign can give Virgo such profound insight in to their own souls. Virgo you can give Pisces insight that will make their dreams a reality Virgo absolutely must be willing to have an open mind. Expanding your world is one of the best things you can do for yourself. You will emerge a stronger and much more self-aware. You do not have the think like a Pisces to enjoy the benefits of their world of day dreams and fantasy. Enjoy it! It can be intoxicating and you can return to you practical nature feeling refreshed, Pisces is a water sign and you are an earth sign. Water in life giving and refreshing, but know when to retreat so you do not turn to mud and become heavy and overwhelmed with what is meant to refresh and be life giving. When the two of you find harmony you it can be a powerful for the two of you and love does not get any better than this. Virgo you will discover what Pisces knows. Life is magical.
Finally Virgo man you have so many outstanding qualities so be mindful not to allow them to be overshadowed by your negatives. It is will take a journey into the heart and soul to overcome your immature Virgo nature but it can be done and you will find that in your evolved state you have the power and mind to solve global problems inspire a generation or those around you bring light and compassion into the world and make a Pisces girl fall madly and deeply in love with you forever. In you mature state you a real catch and your confidence is justified. There is nothing sexier than a confident Virgo with a positive outlook on life.
August 28th, 2009 at 8:52 am
Virgo Women and Pices men I have not forgotten about you. The Virgo Woman and the Pisces man Cam be a Virgo Woman’s bliss, but the Virgo Woman must learn the art of holding on to this dreamy and creative soul. I will bring insight to the Virgo Woman. Coming Soon! All Questions and Comment are welcome.
August 28th, 2009 at 9:09 am
Dear Axatse,
I’m Sorry about the name Typo. I hope that Virgo man soul evolution was insightful. If you have any comments or specific questions please feel free to ask.
August 29th, 2009 at 6:13 pm
I, a Pisces Women, just met and began talking to for the first time to a Virgo man ..and …im speechless… it was instant the connection … i cant do anything but think and want to be with him .. and its the same with him .. we both felt it and although some would say it looks to good to be true..it dosent feel that way it just feel right ..more then anything it feels like i found the biggest part of my life thats been missing .. im head over heels over him .. Virgo man has deffenetly won my heart.
August 29th, 2009 at 9:11 pm
Dear Sharlene,
Thank you for what you wrote about the virgo man soul evolution. Because when i first came and read this website i was very disapointed. i thought that they made it sound impossible to have a long-lasting realationship. so, again, thanks.
And i don’t see how this couldn’t be a match made in heaven, honestly, after what you just wrote. I think that if they are mature then it could be. they just have to be aware, given some time to accept and listen, and be ready to do it.
September 5th, 2009 at 12:47 am
Exactly Abby!
Lazy astrologers rely on what has been written for decades and pass this information off as their own. If you rely on their information, you will be convinced that Virgo men are soulless and mechanical beings that are incapable of love and real human emotion. Not so! Virgo men when they love, they love very deeply and actually have very fragile souls, meaning they can be easily and deeply hurt. They are conservative and controlled with their emotions but they certainly have them. They are shy about showing them to the world unless you engage them in conversations about humanity and injustice, then they have no problem showing their emotions publicly.
Virgos express love through giving, serving and love making especially with a Pisces woman. He feels free and knows that he can express with her the freedom to connect and explore hidden passions that he would almost never share with anyone else.
I suggest reading my earlier post if you are a Pisces woman or a Virgo man and you are seriously considering a long term relationship in this love combination and you want to avoid many of the pitfall so many have talked about. It can work and it can be amazing and beautiful for these two souls!
September 5th, 2009 at 8:08 am
Hi guys,
Once again I will say that this write up is a very basic and simple look at two Sun signs…this is not taking into account all the other aspects of a persons chart which makes a huge difference.
Love & Light
Becky
September 16th, 2009 at 4:16 pm
Dear Sharlene,
Thank you so much for the advises! I am a Pisces and really love my Virgo man but I think we are now both in the evolving state and just got into a big fight…I really don’t know what to do! He is not talking to me therefore I wrote him an email to express all my feelings…I am now very afraid to lose him…by the way how can you tell if a Virgo man is serious about the relationship cuz it’s really hard to tell!
September 20th, 2009 at 1:43 pm
Dear Pisces A
The way to know if a Virgo man really wants to be with you is through his actions. The phase actions speak louder than words are not just a cliché with Virgo men. A Virgo man in love is devoted, loyal and demonstrated his love through service, giving, pleasing and lovemaking rather than words. If there is no display of these he is not in love.
Arguing with a Virgo gets you nowhere. You have to meet them where they live, in an unfamiliar place to Pisces called reason and logic and then you can gently lead them to where you live the heart and soul. You did the right thing by writing him to express how you “feel”. My advice to you is from now on when you need to express strong emotions, write him. He will hear every word, but be careful not to do it so often that you seem like a nag. It also helps to tell him how you appreciate the things that he does well. It is helpful to have him write to you also. He will be very clear and deeply honest in that medium. Give him a safe place to express how he feels, meaning remain calm and really listen and then calmly respond even if you do not agree with him at the time. Then you can come together and “rationally” communicate. You can always write him later when you thoughts can be clearly received and expressed.
A side note Virgos a very stubborn so use your gentle touch and intuition to penetrate the walls so that you do not get manipulated and shut out. A little secret… when you are a mature Pisces you have power over the Virgo even a mature Virgo and can influence him and remove the walls that he hides behind, better known to them as shields. Virgo gets hurt easily but they will not let you know it. So again be firm but gentle with the Virgo so. Remember they need to know that within you lay trust and safety. Finally, “clear” COMMUNICATION is the key with Virgo and Pisces.
I wish you the best!
September 20th, 2009 at 1:47 pm
Dear Pisces A
The way to know if a Virgo man really wants to be with you is through his actions. The phase actions speak louder than words are not just a cliché with Virgo men. (See second to last above Post) If there is no display of these he is not in love.
Arguing with a Virgo gets you nowhere. You have to meet them where they live, in an unfamiliar place to Pisces called reason and logic and then you can gently lead them to where you live the heart and soul. You did the right thing by writing him to express how you “feel”. My advice to you is from now on when you need to express strong emotions, write him. He will hear every word, but be careful not to do it so often that you seem like a nag. It also helps to tell him how you appreciate the things that he does well. It is helpful to have him write to you also. He will be very clear and deeply honest in that medium. Give him a safe place to express how he feels, meaning remain calm and really listen and then calmly respond even if you do not agree with him at the time. Then you can come together and “rationally” communicate. You can always write him later when you thoughts can be clearly received and expressed.
A side note Virgos a very stubborn so use your gentle touch and intuition to penetrate the walls so that you do not get manipulated and shut out. A little secret… when you are a mature Pisces you have power over the Virgo even a mature Virgo and can influence him and remove the walls that he hides behind, better known to them as shields. Virgo gets hurt easily but they will not let you know it. So again be firm but gentle with the Virgo so. Remember they need to know that within you lay trust and safety. Finally, “clear” COMMUNICATION is the key with Virgo and Pisces.
I wish you the best!
September 20th, 2009 at 4:19 pm
Thank you Sharlene, I feel much better now and I love my Virgo man!
September 22nd, 2009 at 12:09 am
Dear sharlene,
you wrote that they display love through actions. but, would that still apply if they are only recently 15 and in the 9th grade. bc he is really shy. like he will show it sometimes but not very much. and he said he loved me and we’ve been through a lot, our relationship has. so since he’s really shy and likes to act like he doesn’t give a crap and is rude infront of his friends, are you saying he doesn’t love me?
September 22nd, 2009 at 12:17 am
Dear sharlene,
you wrote that they display love through actions. but, would that still apply if they are only recently 15 and in the 9th grade. bc he is really shy. like he will show it sometimes but not very much. and he said he loved me and we’ve been through a lot, our relationship has. so since he’s really shy and likes to act like he doesn’t give a crap and is rude infront of his friends, are you saying he doesn’t love me? bc he used to do some pretty sweet things, just not so much anymore. though i personally blame myself. i hurt him pretty badly. then he cruely got me back by saying very hurtful things. things haven’t been the same between us for a long time. we date so much, constantly breaking up and getting back together. do you think its possible to work things out? or have we just both damaged each other beyond repair for our relationship. and please don’t think im/this is ridiculous just because im a teenager. im serious and it would mean a lot for u to take me that way instead of just diregarding it. i love this boy so much. we’ve been on and off since 5th grade. i feel like i want to spend the rest of my life with him. but everytime we start to get close again, something goes wrong and neither of us know how to deal with it and we end up breaking up. but i can’t move on. i’ve tried. i just keep coming back to him. and him to me. do you think thay means something or is it just because were familiar to each other? are we just not supposed to be together? i’ll try almost anything.
September 22nd, 2009 at 7:14 am
Dear Abby,
I know that what you feel is very real. Love is ageless. It does not matter that you are a teenager. At your age, boys are fickle and love for them at that age is different than when they mature into being an adult male. It does not mean that what you both feel is not real, but as you reach adulthood what love is to you now will be very very different when you are an adult woman. So relax and go with the flow and don’t give your heart away too easily. Love, but don’t lose yourself. In other words, don’t give more than you are getting in return.
Virgos by nature are shy about their feelings and in the 9th grade; they are not ready for anything too intense. Because he is shy, he feels like he is exposed in front of his friends so he reacts to you in a negative way to keep his friends from seeing his feelings for you boys feel peer pressure too. If he tells you that he loves you, then chances are that he really he does, but how he shows it at this age may be a lot more suddle than an adult male Virgo. At this age, he will want to spend time with you and connect more a friend than as a romantic partner. He will enjoy talking and doing fun activities with you than getting all mushy and romantic. (Smile) Just let things happen naturally and be a girlfriend that is also a good friend. Focus on things you both enjoy and have in common. Have fun and when things seem to go wrong just write out your feeling instead of arguing. Let him write to you and tell you how he feels also, and really try to understand each other. Also, in a nice calm way let him know that it is not okay for him to mistreat you in front of his friends. Real love is respectful not hurtful. An e-mail may even work best for you. Good luck, and let me know how things go!
September 22nd, 2009 at 6:58 pm
Dear Sharlene,
I’m currently dating a Virgo man who i completely adore. The problem is ..i cannot read him at all .. Recently today he had a bad day and really will be having a really tuff next 3 weeks and i want to be more then anything someone supportive and positive in this time of stress for him but i have no clue how to go about things…. iv never been around or known a Virgo to have any clue as to how to be supportive or what the right thing to do is ..Hes currently in Med school and did pretty bad on an exam and is beating himself up over it ..how do i be a good girlfriend and try to cheer him up without looking to needy for his attention and time ? any advise is welcomed! THANK YOU !
September 23rd, 2009 at 2:03 am
I am a Virgo girl and I used to talk to a long distance pisces friend but I decided to stop. I thought he liked someone else but at the moment he said he didn’t and he said he thinks he likes me. but i didn’t believe him. A couple of months later he dated that girl but still contact me. I told him not to talk to me anymore bc i thought he was lying and i think I did hurt him. Now I feel terrible. But I don’t know if he was telling me the truth and just trying to make me jealous or he was just lying.
September 24th, 2009 at 5:44 am
Dear Jeanette6
When a Virgo man is having a stressul or hard time emotionally that is when you give him space to deal with his issues in his own head. Do not take it personal. He craves aloneness to analyze, problem solve and rejuvenate. This does not mean leave him. Be there, but just give him “room” to work through it in his own way. When he is ready to talk be there to listen. When the stormy moment passes the Virgo that you adore will return in much better spirits. Remember that Virgos can be negative so you have to remind them that the glass is half full.
In the mean time, believe it or not something as simple as sending him a card “in the mail” to let him know that you recognize that he has been having a tough time and letting him know that you don’t want to crowd him, but if he needs you that you are there to help or support him in anyway. It will mean a lot to him. It can even be done with heartfelt humor. Most Virgo men enjoy a good sense of humor. You may even want to get creative and bake his favorite cookies to sweeten his mood. Keep it simple. The simple things can do wonders. Remember that Virgos tend to be shy about mushy sentiments. So he may not do cart wills but your jester will not be forgotten. I hope this helps you. Best wishes!!!
October 5th, 2009 at 8:49 pm
i’m also a pisces woman , i met a virgo on the net who is 15 years younger but he makes me feel like am younger. He has an old soul.We are addicted spend hours a day on the telephone its been about 9 months now we’ve met twice (he lives in another country)and are spending a month together in a few weeks . We argue a lot but always he says sorry always i seem to have found a good virgo . i’ve never felt such a strong and beautiful connection in all my life he can be critical but always in a constructive way ..;all i can say is i don’t know how long it will last we never do but it has been the most wonderful 9 months of my life and i wouldn’t swap a life time with someone else for these 9 months with him, i really love him deeply. The only complaint i have is that he is less able to express his feelingsthan me but he gets ther in the end.
October 10th, 2009 at 3:59 pm
Hi, I am a virgo woman and have been dating a pisces man for 2 years now. Would love to hear a lot more about these two together in a long term relationship. Can’t wait for Sharlene’s words on the virgo woman and the pisces man. I have very strong feelings for this man and can’t seem to stop thinking about him. He is in my thoughts all the time and when we are together we just can’t keep our hands off of each other. The sexual desires are so strong for the both of us, I have never had such strong feelings for any man before this. It is wonderful yet scary at the same time. Even though the sexual desires are strong I also just enjoy spending time with him. He doesn’t talk much, is this normal for a pisces man? Sometimes it is like pulling teeth to get him to talk, and other times he talks so freely but that is few and far between. He makes life interesting, it is never a dull moment when he is around. Anyway really look forward to hearing more from you Sharlene.
October 10th, 2009 at 5:13 pm
ive heard that virgos and pisces dont go very well as virgos are too insecure and think pisces are lazy. am still going for it though.
October 12th, 2009 at 12:32 am
I’m new to your website, but i thoroughly enjoy it! Im a Pisces female, dating a male virgo. i’ve read previously that Pisces and Virgo’s make terrible life partners. I recently read your compatibility for pisces and virgos and completely agree with everything you mentioned. We recently got a place together and things have gone down hill from there.Just putting it out there for fellow pisces. Virgo’s are stubborn, insecure and selfish.
Thanks!
October 12th, 2009 at 11:42 am
Dear Sharlene,
I’m a pisces female, very very confused by my virgo man love-interest.I’m 19 and i’m still a virgin but I feel like my virgo guy is ‘the one’. I’ve never felt so safe with anyone else before and he says that he feels the same way. But I’m worried because everytime we share nights of kissing, he opens up to me but the day after he closes back up, acting like nothing happened the night before. This hurts me and confuses me a lot. I want to give myself completely to him but I’m scared that he’ll hurt me emotionally. I don’t know which actions are sincere.What do I do?
October 13th, 2009 at 6:10 pm
I’m a Pisces woman who has been dating a Virgo man for 3 months now.
When we were introduced through a mutual friend it was like instant attraction. I heard angels singing! Well not really but you get the picture. The plan wasn’t even for us to get together, it just happened.
Ever since we met three months ago we’ve spent practically every single day together.
But I find some of this wrong. He tends to be the more emotional one in the relationship and he hasn’t been critical of me yet.
We look at each other as friends first then boyfriend/girlfriend and I think that’s what has helped me stay grounded in this relationship. This has been my longest relationship so far and I think it’s because he’s so amazing.
I honestly have never met a guy like him before. He’s straight up on how he feels so no mind games. He opens doors for me, compliments me and just makes me feel so good.
He was also the first to say he loved me which I love how open he is with his feelings.
We’re younger I’m 19 and he’s 20, but I feel like we’re more mature then most 30 somethings in relationships. I just hope it doesn’t end as badly as what I’ve read.
But I believe it’s what you make of it and I’m going to try my hardest to keep him as long as I can!
October 23rd, 2009 at 2:02 am
I was in a 4 yr relationship with a pices ( I’m a virgo) and it was exactly like the reading. It started out great and then we got to where we were always trying to one up Or attack eachother and then everything fell apart. Needless to say it didn’t last.
November 2nd, 2009 at 5:10 pm
let me help you out with this pairing it wont F**cking work… Sure there is mountains of potential here and it would be a great match but Virgos especially Virgo women are emotional cowards that tend to just turn feelings off, run for the hills dig a mile deep bunker stock it with supplies and sit and wait for the second coming before they will even thing about coming up for some fresh air. As a pisces it is frightening to think that anyone could live in such denial about their own feelings and emotions (yes a pisces just said that) but my God it goes beyond infuriating and borders maddening. Pisces if you are in love with a Virgo take my advice Turn on you superhuman piscean copping powers and swim away there is nothing but hurt here… You would almost be better off messing with a Aries… at least they where their indifference and arrogance on their sleeve so you see it coming.
November 2nd, 2009 at 7:25 pm
Watch3r: I’m sorry you had such a bad experience with a virgo woman or women, but keep in mind that we are not all the same. I was reading your response and had no idea what you were talking about because I’m nothing like that, but I do care to learn more if you wouldn’t mind going more in depth about your feelings towards virgo women because as for myself as a virgo woman I couldn’t identify with anything you were saying about us being “emotional cowards” or if anyone else would care to explain that would be nice too. I’m sincerely curious and would like to know how we’re thought of (virgo women). Thanks.
November 12th, 2009 at 1:27 am
Well i have something to say…i am a pisces woman and been dating a virgo man…the key is to not give youself to easily…we as pisces are to giving…. so stop…and give only what is required…that will work
November 13th, 2009 at 4:24 am
I feel a virgo and pisces are a great match. You see i am a virgo and am with a pisces and our realationship is really good. In your little paragraph discribing virgos and pisces i act like the pisces and my boyfriend is the virgo. I cant stand all the people talking about zodiac signs when you were not the one who created the signs so you dont know what your talking about. Oh yeah just always remember oppisites attract.
November 14th, 2009 at 2:38 pm
WOW! sound just like my ex and I, from the instant bond to items not being justified sounds like our relationship described in a few paragraphs.
November 14th, 2009 at 9:28 pm
omg im laughing at this rite now… because it is true although my boyfriend and i arent broken up yet reading this makes it seem soo true… we’re going through a lil bit of fussing and it jus seems as though we want to urt each other as much as we can…. and no we have not moved in together yet… we were panning on it and after reading this im definatly reconcidering that move
November 15th, 2009 at 7:33 am
Dear Piscesmed,
I apologize for the delay. Astrology is not nor will it ever be the totality of a person. There are many different aspects that make us who we are. Astrology is merely a detailed outline of general behaviors of the sun signs. With that said, I have to be responsible when giving advice about intimacy with someone especially someone who is considering being intimate for the first time. I offer you my wisdom and advice, but I cannot make a decision for you. I simply say never ever give something away so precious as your virginity to anyone who is not fully committed to you no matter what sign he is. Your virginity is something you can never get back. It is meant to be a gift shared with a man that loves you enough to make you his wife. It should be saved and valued for someone that would forsake all others to spend his life with you. That is real love. I know it sounds old fashioned, but in a day when sex is simply an indulgence rather than the deepest most intimate expression of love, I would not recommend selling yourself short with a guy who has not proven his love and only leaves you with questions. Please know that sex does not make a man love you nor can it make him stay. Be careful not to set yourself up for a deeply pain heartbreak. Again, I cannot tell you what to do, but I simply ask that you really sit back and think about things and consider waiting for the man that is worthy of you and your gift. The man that loves you unconditionally and with all of his heart is the man that is worthy.
November 25th, 2009 at 2:17 pm
iam a pisces women and ive been seeing my virgo man for 2 years the article is very true lolz nonetheless i love him soooo much i cnt get enough of him even when we werent speaking i still had to get close to him i couldnt take him not being at my side we fuss we fight lolz but at the end of the day im calling him and were bacc laughing again i sometimes dnt kno how i would make it without him he is very thoughtful in a vry subtle yes like all virgo maen might forget to say i love u but thats wat makes it good for me is that when he does say something sweet and say i love u its real and hes not faking i want to marry him flaws and all
December 1st, 2009 at 10:05 pm
I am a pisces and have been married to a virgo (male) now for almost 13 years. What you say is true though, it is HARD work and we both have to keep at it (but isn’t anything worth having hard work)?, I drive him crazy with being a little sloppy and dreamy and he makes me cringe with his lack of openess and the inability to share (ALL) his thoughts with me(sexy mystery man)…it is funny that the exact same things that brought us together are what make us crazy now!! However, we have two children (10 yr old girl and 5 year old boy, both water signs like me) and are still very passionate about each other, not to mention what happens in the bedroom still makes my toes curl! The best is that we always put our Friendship first, the rest tends to work itself out from there. That being said, we are both Cusps (me Aquarius/Picses and he Libra/Virgo) so maybe that has something to do with it? All I know is I would be a lost soul without him and he is always saying we are meant for each other and he would have found me eventually…
December 4th, 2009 at 1:03 am
Hi lady and gentlemen,
I met my first lovely lady friend is pieces and gentleman is virgo from college. I am a virgo lady. They are friendly and happy talked together. I never have experience with them before. How interested in sweet pieces with virgo together when I talked with them. They love each other last 1 year then broke up quite sad because they were different mind and both boss way. I agreed with them without wrong person. I helped her to understand how she cope with virgo man if she love him back. She still with him as a friend now. I like them are very good persons. I wish them be happy lovefriend life. I will coming back soon. Peaceheart.
With love and respect,
SuperAngel
December 4th, 2009 at 2:28 am
Oh please! at everyone who’s saying Virgo-Pisces match doesn’t work.
I have two great examples right from my family of really awesome Pisces (male)-Virgo(female). My older sister is a Virgo and her husband, they met in college and OMG! they’re like the hottest couple ever. It’s like you look at them and everything about them just fits together. They were friends the first 4 years of college and lived together after graduation, they’re both married now and it’s such a wonderful union. LOL I don’t know about their sex life..and I’m not asking anytime soon either haha.
And let’s not forget celebrity couples and fictional couples. How about Joel Madden and Nicole Richie, they are sooo good for each other. And Ron-Hermione (fictional couple from Harry Potter). And anyway, if nothign else works out then sex is always teh best, no strings attached;)
December 6th, 2009 at 12:40 pm
are ALL pisces women air heads and lazy ?….geeesh
December 10th, 2009 at 3:25 pm
I love someone a pisces boy with virgo girl as long life together. All virgo have different taste of life. I guess the pisces and virgo have somethings. Never know xvirgoxpiscesx are missing somewhere.
December 10th, 2009 at 10:04 pm
ouch. this hurts. lol. i’ve been with my virgo man a little more then a year. i love him dearly! we do get into our issues (with money). i love to spend and i’m a pisces and he loves to save (he’s a virgo). i try to stop, but, it’s hard. lol. but, other then that-we get along just GREAT and our time together is precious… i know about their wicked tongues cause my best friend of 15 years is a virgo, my sister AND brother are virgos as well. they are just honest and they say it how they see it. lol. let’s just hope it lasts. if not, i’ll just enjoy the ride!
December 19th, 2009 at 12:04 am
Well, I can’t really say this is all true,
well I mean yes, it is, but at the same time,
there are different signs in someone’s chart.
I’m a Pisces and interested in a Virgo,
and I know that I’m sensative. But I don’t spend
money like crazy, and I take critisizm very well.
I have Scorpio rising and Capricorn moon.
I think that him and I get along well.
But yes, nothing lasts forever.
December 25th, 2009 at 11:45 pm
Virgo girl have three signs with leo, capricorn and libra? If any pisces complain my signs you will hard to talk this signs. I like pisces boy but the signs different from my signs which are totally mad mix signs lol. I go up and he go down. I go down and he go up which are drive us each other everywhere. Pisces boy signs is I think three signs are virgo, sagitarius and maybe aqaurius. I talking to this when I am thinking of him however I believe he like this.
Love you all.
December 28th, 2009 at 5:49 am
I am a Pisces Female who was dating a Virgo Male. (We just broke up around a month ago) And I am litereally flabbergasted on reading this compatibility…Our relationship was like this to a T!! We moved in together only knowing each other for a couple months. It was great at first, then all of a sudden he would just get angry and say these terrible things to me and it really hurt me. It got to the point where I would just sit there and cry after he would say all those things. I told him I was just too sensitive. He just would nit-pick at everything, and I tried so hard to be good enough for him. Eventually I became strong and moved out. It’s really hard. I mean, he did take care of me and tried to put order in my life. But I just was too broken down by his attacks.
December 30th, 2009 at 8:22 am
let forget the love
December 30th, 2009 at 8:25 am
forget the love
January 27th, 2010 at 9:36 pm
Dear Sharlene,
I was very impressed with your comments on pisces/virgo relationships and was wondering if you have any advice on pisces/libra relationships.
January 29th, 2010 at 4:35 am
Dear Danielle,
I have tons of advice for the Pisces/Libra combination. This is a strong attraction! I will get back to you in a few days. Tonight I am woking on another project, and I want to give you my undivided attintion, so check back by Sunday and I will have a post for you.
February 1st, 2010 at 6:31 am
Dear Danielle,
I have posted the Pisces woman/Libra man info under the Libra/Pisces. If you have specific questions feel free to ask!
February 18th, 2010 at 9:24 pm
Hi, I have a question about this Virgo guy. Ok, so he goes to my school and he is my neighbor as well, but I never see him outside school. I’m a Pisces girl by the way and I was just wondering if it’s normal for him to be nice because he always seems to be really nice to me. One time during pilates at school, we happened to be the only ones that signed up for it and when we went to get our yoga mats, he got one for me without me even saying anything, I mean it’s not like he went to that much trouble but he still got it, even though I was right there next to the mats. Then one time, when we were about to get on the bus, he let me get on first and got on after me. Then today, he sat in the far back of the bus and when I got up, he let me go first and waited (I think) even though he had enough time to just keep walking without stopping to let me in front….I was busy trying to put on my coat yet he stood there. Is it normal for Virgo guys to be super polite and really, really nice?!?! Because I’m kinda confused…I mean it’s not like I don’t like him, but I actually do because he’s so good looking. So I was just wondering if he likes me or if he’s just naturally nice like that. Please someone answer to this….thank you!
February 22nd, 2010 at 5:29 am
Ok so here it goes. My first time being here on this site. Virgos vary in personality even though we do have our nit picking moments and sharp tounge but the thing is how we grow up influences on wht kind of men you like. Some like men strong or other sensitive or both. What i mean is i went out with a Gemini and hes was not half bad whn i got to know him. Complicated as he was he was great till he got a big head on him. We argued but it was my paranoia that got the better of things. I just never felt i could trust really cuz my gut told me so even though he never cheated on me. Thn i met this Pisces boy who took my heart by storm. Corny as it is its true. He’s my second boyfriend and im not the type to jump from one guy to another. Meeting him was like a hint of magic that you cant really explain. His mind was different and his heart was as big as it could be knowing where he comes from im surprised he hasnt turned out to be evil. His family isnt that accepting. I did at first gave him a taste of my sharp critical tounge but he lived through it for a while. My point is hes kind and sweet and it doesnt matter what sign he is it all just depends on what hes willing to deal with and how long will it take for a virgo to realize that they just have to control themselves. It is true that pisces are lazy but if you love someone you have to be willing to teach someone a little something and learn to let loose a bit in return. But i would like to tell virgos to be careful about where they let loose because ur energy level seems to go sky high and thn youll have a high confidence. With your pisces sexual drive right by you at tht loose moment can lead to a very special and sexual evening or night. It lets a pisces know they have it made with a virgoean. I used to nitpick at some of my pisces features but i dealt with it as i realize tht i was being to strict with myself and how i couldnt let go of my past. My pisces is the one i want to stay with because he can be lazy at time but tht doesnt me he isnt up for an adventure he just needs a but of the wild side to perk him up a bit because ull keep him wanting more. Other thn sexual drives their personality can sometimes match up with yours. As for me im happily with my Pisces boy right now. We connect in many ways that noones understands why it seems the for the longer were together the more this honeymoon stage gets stronger. He loves me for me so i did my best and took my time to love him for him. In other words dont break up with someone if your just in a point in breaking up with someone who doesnt fit ur criteria of a man or woman because it is unfair and u never really knew the person. Love is critical anyways because the rules are basic and hard at the same time. If someone makes you feel like heaven then try because in the end you might loose something that in the long run would of been worth the effort and worth the fight as long as you still have enough of one another in good senses instead of bad senses. The only thing is Virgos dont share much of feelings but wht pisces dont realize is how they have all the power they need to get virgos to talk. That is to tell them tht youve been honest and tht for once it will make u feel good about one another if virgo would calm down mentally and let in on whts really going on. It goes for anyone. Just ask whts on their mind, it helps know one another and whn those hardcore argumentive moments come virgoe are clear mentally and know they have to come to terms with you because u have been good to thm. Virgos are clear and foggy but it is the paranoia tht piseces can get rid of for a short time with love. This just depends on the peoples personlaity because just being virgo isnt going to be accurate. Me and my pisces boy are alike but how we approach is our only difference. Just knowing tht is wht helps the relationship if you just ask eachother questions and speak. And id advise pisces to speak more often in conversations because over the phone Virgos are interactive and would like to learn more about you. Because while in person sometimes a virgo cant resist Pisces. The more you tlk the more assured virgo is to know that the relationship isnt all sexual because theyll know when the sexual moments come thn its ok to go. But sex is very sacred as mentioned before and i too would advice for wht ever type of person to give virgnity away when its a sacred moment and u know for sure tht the person ur with will love you for long onto marriage and on. Sexually between virgo and pisces cant be seen as sex because heart and sensual moments come first so it love tht is being made, and i know im sappy but bare with me. I sorry for writing a comment so long but i felt for putting this out after reading so many crude comments for people beleiving tht is all has to do with the sign. Every person on earth is different dont assume tht whn one thing is wrong tht it will go wrong every other way. You never know. Miss out and you could lose out on the love of your life, that someone you just cant bare to be without because as a mystery Piseces and Virgos just seem to have this magnet power to love eachother just to much and usually cant bare to be without the other. So please just dont assume after on experience just realize everyone can have the same qualities but towards yourself there can be other qualities that suites you because it usually the way things are dont that gets to you while the way others could have the same habit of doing could be a different way of doing it.
February 22nd, 2010 at 5:39 am
To coreect one of the endin sentences i meant to say tht a way a person does something can be different from how another person does it even though its is the same quality and habit. That doesnt mean one sign means they all do the same thing. You may love how a person does one thing even though its the same habit another person you know had done. But still you never know cuz everyone is different and they experience different things. It depends on how much a person does live through to see what makes them comfortable so just wait ok if it doesnt work it doesnt but at least you could say you tried and how things turned out were truly for the best
March 20th, 2010 at 5:09 pm
my virgo like to test me. and i have difficulty to pass those test
and always mess things up. anyone have any advice to give me? how to pass their test?
and is there anybody out there also same situation?
April 12th, 2010 at 3:04 am
eh.. I am a pisces woman and my ex of 3 yrs is a virgo and I am dating a virgo again.. and honestly it’s hard to decide if this shit is even real because some people and I that are pisces can be more along detached than others at least what i see and feel .. and actually SAVERS.. when it comes to money.. such as my dad too.. it’s just so weird when i read this.. does not even sound like me.. sure i can be wishy washy, love art, romance etc.. but who doesnt? … my virgo is freaking clingy.. and well i am not. my ex was clingy too, took forever for me to finally give in to him and he was a good guy.. but once i did it was too late. he gave up basically.. and well that took a week to get over for me and it lasted a long time..i seem to get the longer relationships. had a gem before too, he was my first love.. well i screwed that up and a couple few years later when he finds out my ex and i broke up that he has always wanted me back.. complete bs.. hard to believe this.. i’m so honest it can be heart breaking.. but really.. i notice when i date virgos its more mutual and laid back.. and a mutual ending if it happens.. not a total disaster like they explain.
April 17th, 2010 at 9:42 am
Im a Pisces women.
OMG so so so true
IT WAS HELL. Amazing sex, but that was the only time we weren’t fighting with each other ablut every little thing. so nit-picking it drove me crazy.
Now im with a Capricorn man and couldn’t be happier:P
June 6th, 2010 at 4:00 am
I’m a Pisces with a Sag rising and Aries Venus. I’m dating a Virgo with a Leo Venus, and the passion/magnetism is definitely unlike anything I’ve ever experienced. After dating Cancers, Scorpios, and Tauruses who I’m supposed to be compatible with, I find myself most impressed and most drawn to the Virgo I’m dating.
The complaints of a Virgo being too pushy or too demanding/critical are only issues if you’re a typical passive/aggressive Pisces. Though I’m a Pisces I don’t find myself having a lot in common with the traits - indirectness, overemotional, lost in a dreamworld. Being with a critical or observant personality should teach you to stand your ground, take constructive criticism (which from a Virgo is usually spot on accurate), and communicate with your partner rather than build resentment towards them.
My Virgo is a hard worker, moderate partier, fun-loving, outgoing, passionate person who I don’t want to let go of just because our Sun Signs don’t match. Maybe some Pisces people should see what they can learn from the situation and strengthen their backbone instead of giving up… it will really bring out the adventurous/ambitious side of you if you let it.
June 12th, 2010 at 8:02 pm
I’m a Pisces 100% and my boyfriend was a Virgo. I don’t know if being in a gay relationship changes anything, but there’s one characteristic missing from my boyfriend that might have changed everything. He was never overly critical of me. In fact, it was quite the opposite. He always supported me and motivated me. If I was down he was always there to lift me up. He was so good for me. Both of us were abused when we were children, so maybe that changed things as well. It made us both more sensitive, but I’m a sensitive fish anyway. However, from everything I’ve read he’s not supposed to be very sensitive, but he was. When I cried, he would cry. He was always there to give me comfort when I needed him. I don’t think it’s wise to base your opinion of someone on just the traits of their Zodiac sign. A lot of factors go into changing and shaping people. However, as much as I disagree with all of these generalizations of people and their signs, much of it is right on. My boyfriend and I fought a lot. It seemed like we were always hurting each other just so we could make up. That was our favorite part. We reconnected that way. It was me who initiated many of our fights. If anybody was overly critical it was me. Being a Pisces has always made me feel bipolar. Nothing can ever make me happy for long. I always get depressed. I took a lot of that out on him. I could never get enough of his love but in my eyes nothing he ever did was good enough. I always wanted more. I played the hurt victim and made him out to be the bad guy. It wasn’t fair to him, but to be fair to me it wasn’t always just in my head. He was selfish and inconsiderate in his own ways, especially in the bedroom. Still, I look back on our love as an epic fairytake that ended all too soon.
He passed away seven weeks ago and I found him dead in our bathroom. He died of cardiac arrest due to an asthma attack brought on by smoking cigarettes. I had helped him quit last year, but he started up again this year when the stress of not being able to find a job got to him. After reading more about Virgos I finally understand his need for a daily routine. I don’t have that need. I just go with the flow. I wish I had read about this before he passed away. There are so many things I’d do differently. But I want to let everyone know that I DID love him and we had a beautiful 6-year love. We lived together for the last year and brought the best and worst out in each other, but the best triumphed the worst. I miss him more than words could ever express. He was my true love. Lastly, I want to say that I love the Zodiac and find so much of it to be true, but life sometimes gets in the way of the stars and not every trait fits every person. Don’t dismiss someone because of something you’ve read about their sign. It may not be true.
July 4th, 2010 at 12:22 am
I think the what it is said about Virgo and Pisces is untrue!!!! Make it or break it is my rule - if your happy, fine, if not, do something about it
July 8th, 2010 at 8:50 am
I give all my heart to my virgo. We have weathered together. I have come to the point he is my all.I know I know I am his. We lift each other up! If I am too much water,he kicks me in butt to do work. If he is too much earth, I remind to slow down. I can’t think of my life without him! My Virgo! I love you!~
July 18th, 2010 at 12:03 am
my best friend is a pisces, i don’t understand her sometimes, but i ignore that and just hang with her, she’s like a sister >w
July 22nd, 2010 at 11:45 am
I’ve been dealing with a pices man for a little over a month now…I’m a virgo woman! And let me jus say wow! The chemistry is un real! He brings me back down to earth and the sex is amazing
September 14th, 2010 at 7:02 am
100% correct
November 6th, 2010 at 12:46 am
I can’t believe how true this is. I wish it wasn’t So, SO much. I am a Pisces female, and my (ex) lover / good friend / not getting along at all lately- Virgo man, has become iffy and upsetting. I am so sensitive to how critical his nature is, and how much a of a lone-rider he is.sex did initially bond us, and iw anted to jump into that relationship and love him up to bits, but he was unsure. he also was getting over a rather upsetting relationship where was abandoned and I think he just wan’t ready as well. I am so up and down, and I feel bad because I know that it is hard for him. We are easily aggrevated by each other much more lately. I always assume how he feels, and he doesn’t want to hear my explanations.
I don’t think it is true that our “love” and passion for each other will turn into us hurting each other, necessarily, but the fact is… it is happening. I am easily hurt and just talk and talk about my feelings and get angry and emotional with him, I cry and cry and keep predicting how he feels abouts me, and get so angry with this lack of “sensitivity” and almost feel bitter towards him. He cannot handle my emotions, and I am so afraid that this is the end….. but he is more okay with letting go, because to him this just isn’t practical… where as for me, I am so poetic and impractical that I keep suffering to make this union work. I feel like how it could work is me understanding that beneath his characteristics he is still just a man, and I realy love him for his practicality. But he would have to be okay with my moods— perhaps it is not possible, but I am thinking that there will still be friendship— we just need space right now, and to understand each other enough to let each other be, and be alone. But no hatred has come out of this. I respect him as a person, and will never forget the small year-and a half adventure we had… where I learned about myself and hopefully… HOPEFULLY made him feel a love that hasn’t touched him in the way he is used to. We’ll see. He’s quiet about it all.
January 15th, 2011 at 1:34 pm
…My boyfriend was a Libra before Ophiucus joined the group; he is now a Virgo.
I totally base my life of zodiacs/horoscopes. I have actually learned a lot about myself and why I am the way I am. I was never able to understand my boyfriend though. Our relationship was said to not be at all compatible according to the stars.
We work out so well together, when the stars said our relationship was suppose to crash
and burn. Now that there is this change, everything is making more sense! Which really
Puts a smile on my face. I stayed pisces & his switch to virgo means that we are directly
Opposite of eachother. & yes, I do believe that opposites attract. I totally
Need him to bring balance into my life & he does. While myself on the other hand
Brings a little excitement to his. I bring out the emotional side of him that no one
Else gets to see (note: its rare when I see it also)
Anyway. I’m really happy we found Ophiucus
February 17th, 2011 at 12:43 am
i’ve dated a pisces for a year and a half now, i’m a virgo, i’m exactly like a virgo except the critical part, i never criticize others unless it involves them treating ppl unfairly (bullying, rascism, ect.) he’s really sweet, makes me feel happy and beautiful, i hav trouble trusting people alot cuz i used to get bullied so for awhile our relationship at the beginning was abit funny, but i eventually realized that i can believe in him.
he’s really honest with his feelings towards me,he told me that before he met me he thought he wasn’t capable of love, he sulks wen he thinks i’m ignoring him but sometimes i’m actually thinking about something or daydreaming about him lol i’m a dreamer. i find him really cute cuz sometimes he goes hyper over things he loves, like pancakes lol he totally luvs them, i hate them but i woodn’t mind making them for him, he made me a love poem for valentines day last monster =D and i made him a heart cake. +_+ i feel like i’m dreaming *sighs*.
February 17th, 2011 at 1:35 am
I’m a virgo male and I have to say, I’ve never agreed with these negative traits given to virgo’s. simply because the last thing Id want to do is hurt someone, I never say anything critical or moan or nit pick, im not controlling either, I always suggested to my ex (scorpio) to go out and do her own things but she never did as we were in each others pockets all the time etc
My best friend is a pieces and I adore her, we get along so well, theres something between us and hopefully soon things will come together for us, I cant wait, I know for a fact that the supposed negative sides to virgo nature wont come into play with us if we get together
March 5th, 2011 at 6:34 pm
I love my virgo man , i dont know what will gonna happened BUT i love him
March 18th, 2011 at 4:47 am
Well I’m a Leo-Virgo cusp with a pisces moon and I really like one of my friends he is a Pisces, I don’t know if we could actually go somewhere.All I know is I’m planning to share an apartment with him… What do you all think?
March 29th, 2011 at 6:09 pm
I met this picean guy at college but I never had the courage to talk to him as he always seemed soo mysterious and shy. 4 years later i bump into him at a friends wedding but doesn’t come and talk to me but our mutual friend came over and asked if i knew him.
We recently started communicating and I’m getting on really well with him and everytime we talk he always tells me how glad he is that had talked. Which i always take as a compliment. But I’m finding it difficult as the more i’m talking to him the more I like him (I’m a Virgo) but he has a girl friend I’m getting a bit confused on his flirtations as are they actually flirtations or is that just in his feminine nature of being a picese?
April 7th, 2011 at 5:36 am
Well…they like to flirt! Do not take it to seriously. My pisces friends have lots of female friends and they flirt with them all, me included. I find it that when you separate from the croud and start treating him as a normal person (not someone you like, cause…most of the time they know you like them) they actually start respecting and appreciating you more. Pisces loves freedom and if you are to flirty they will start seeing you as a prospect which in many cases turns into a relationship which when not carefull turns into “slavery”. Treat him as a real friend and he will actually try to get to know you better…in thelong run that will help him get to know you for who you are which they like because they are very spiritual people. Be yourself because they know when you are acting…not like yourself and they do not like it, for they value THRUTH! Show him that you are interested in arts (music, books, etc) try to find something at which both of you are good at and love, they look for people they can conect with (soulmates), show him your free crazy side, that way he will know you are a free soul (if you are) and that will send him the message that you are not a usual girl that screams for everything. Learn to like water (beaches, pools). Let him know you are smart and also refined. Most importantly that you appreciate him for who he is, do not become critical, never ever be cruel (they hate cruelty in every aspect). Show your humanitarian side! Live life with passion! Believe me one of my friends is a pisces and when he knew I like him, he was kind of distant, but at this moment he actually invited me to live with him (AS FRIENDS). I laso know because I’m a Virgo Sun-Pisces Moon!
April 21st, 2011 at 2:19 pm
I must say everyone experenice with the pisces/virgo is very different..Oh yes opposites do attract but thats what make my realtionship more exciting..I’m pisces and he’s virgo and I love him with all my heart.He’s a very calming and very caring
and the loving is just outstanding,I be about to loose my mind behind his loving..but now back to reality some say pisces are a bit flaky but who isn’t now a days..I don’t agree with how they seem to think that us pisces women are not strong but indeed we are..It’s not one sign in here that don’t have some type of a problem or another….But a relationship is what two people make it out to be..not one but two people.If you love each other and really want this to work then my God work on it…I love my Virgo man and plan on waking up to him for a lifetime…..
If it’s in both hearts to make it right it will be good..but if one pulls one way and the other another then that can happen to any sign..nothing is a guarantee in these relationships it takes two to make it beautiful…
May 30th, 2011 at 5:30 am
I am a Pisces female and have just met a Virgo man. All I can say about this pairing is WOW. In 10 years of dating and relationships I haven’t had this chemistry with anybody. We both feel the same huge attraction to each other, want each other every minute, have a lot in common, we support each other, I can safely say it’s an ideal match. I have been seeing this guy for only a few days + txts, phonecalls but I already know that I don’t ever want to let him go. We hit it off instantly as if we were destined to be together.The sex is out of this world, and I mean it..but we also enjoy each others’ company, are becoming best friends, share so many interests. He’s not controlling at all, rather soothing, calming, supportive; tidy and organised but so am I, unlike what says in my horoscope.
I would say if you find that chemistry with anybody, hold on to it, fight for it, don’t think twice about it and don’t question it. As for me, I really hope this relationship lasts.
June 18th, 2011 at 11:01 am
I’m a Virgo Girl and I’m trying to get to know a Pisces Guy. I’m kind of discouraged by all the comments and i don’t know whats going to come of this relationship. When we met it was instant attraction. We made plans for one date and then stopped talking because I wanted to try and work things out with my ex Taurus partner. Eventually Pisces and I quit talking and when things didn’t work out I called him again…. He seems to understand why I did what I did and he respects it. Well now I just want to spend time with him and dig into his soul, but I dont know how to approach him about it. Im afraid it might scare him rather than bring us closer together. Also, when he calls and texts when he wants…. I don’t want to smother him but I don’t want him to think i’m not interested. It’s hard for me to change the tables and make him chase after me. I’m very afraid to even think of trusting him. He’s so mysterious. We agreed to be just friends but now I want to get to know his heart and soul more. I need Help. He seems interested but I wonder when he does text back for like 3 hours(granted he’s been working alot lately) if he is. I do however find myself calming down mentally with him. Like if im freaking cuz he doesn’t answer I talk myself down to calm down because he’s so easy going and i’m so worried. Please help. I really want to get to know him and I want the same in return, but I don’t want him to lose interest before he give love a try with me… What to do?
June 20th, 2011 at 3:17 am
Pisces man with Virgo woman over 30 years now in heavenly bliss -mumbo jumbo to some - yes opposites attract - and I have no regrets being married to the woman of my dreams - I bring her flowers every day and love her with all my heart and soul - you give a little you take a little - all relationships one needs to work on as a team - I would not choose another sign for my life - she is my balance and loves me dearly and I her - go with your heart and you will see - the match is perfect :))))))
July 24th, 2011 at 12:53 pm
I love my Pisces girlfriend very much Im a Virgo & have dark hair green eyes she has blonde hair blue eyes.Every one we come across say we are deffinately a spunky couple.I know all the fullas want her you can just see it in their eyes.But to tell you the truth that doesnt bother me because I just know she wont stray.She is rather clingy @ parties & night clubs bars etc which again I would prefer.She doesnt give me an excuse to get jealous.She gets alot of attention but she just absorbs it all keeps smiling at me I will walk past her in a crowded room she leans towards me ill give her a little pat on her backside or a little pinch then we crack up @ each other.And yes the sex is phenomenal we know our bodies truely inside & out.I give her multiple orgasms not all the time but most of the time.
She wont jump on my bike or come to the track & watch me take my WRX out for a spin.She’s a Psyche nurse & Im a Free fall camera man basically im the one with helmet cam shooting footage of people skydiving its an awesome thrill I love it to bits.Its only been like 6 yrs weve been together but theres NO signs of cracks or downhill spirals so far.Ive learnt to just go with the flow & not criticise anything she says or does,heaps of kisses & cuddles & tell her I love her frequently leave jokes & notes for her to find all over the house make her dinners & breakfast.Go to the movies she loves the theatre I must admit it took me a little while to get into it.I do like my own space as herself from time to time which helps greatly as when we see each other its all smiles & cuddles,kisses,hugs.I have plenty more to say but thats for another time got 2 go clean the house now nah sucker joking.
For all my Virgo brothers out there if you happen to meet a gorgeous Pisces woman The sparks will instantly fly & she is sexy go for it tell her shes beautifull all the time & plenty of physical contact & ease up on the crticism.Later.
September 8th, 2011 at 7:13 am
My boyfriend of 4 years is a pisces and I’m a virgo and it’s pretty much Heaven on Earth. He’s actually the one who tells ME to clean up (I’m a very messy virgo). But I am very anal about being on time and we have spats every once in a while but it’s nothing serious. It usually ends with a passionate makeup session.
Sometimes he does something very gross, like use the plunger in the kitchen sink, but I find it funny more than irritating. Oh well. It could also be that our Chinese zodiac signs are very compatible.
October 30th, 2011 at 2:03 am
Im Pisces and the guy Im in love with is a Virgo. We talked for two years online, and one day he had an accident and had to go to the hospital for a month. I was really worried, praying for him every day, and when he came back, he was a bit cold. Something really unexplainable happened, I decided to leave him cause I thought he doesnt like me anymore. I didnt have a problem with it first, but after I left, he started weeping, and sending me love songs, crying for me to come back, but if you are a Pisces and readin this, you know how its hard to go back to someone after we leave them. So its been a year since we last spoken, he has a girlfriend (a very ugly one), and idk, he never said anything, he never actually said he loved me, even though he showed it, but I always needed to hear that, and Im still waiting…
February 3rd, 2012 at 5:34 am
Well here are my two cents:
I, a pisces man, have dated Virgo women before.
In particular, in the mid-1990’s I dated a Virgo woman that I had quite a lot of karmic debris with. She and I had a past-life together in which I was in-love with her but she was in-love with another man. This other bloke was practicing black magic and this negative energy was killing people in our little village (I don’t recall where that was).
Well I got wind that this bloke was doing this black magic thing so I intended to report him to the authorities. Of course I did not know that the woman I was in-love with (the Virgo) was in-love with this shadowy character, so I divulged my intentions of reporting him to her first.
Upon learning this she then betrayed me by reporting me as the person doing the killings, to the authorities.
This was her way of protecting her lover (whatever sign he may have been).
I recalled this from a past-life recollection (rather like a day dream).
In this recollection I also recalled the image of me being hung.
And as I stared out at the crowd that had gathered to watch that day I saw the woman I thought I had loved standing beside the bloke that should have been in my place (both of them smiling).
Next scene: We’re back to the mid 1990’s and I am doing dishes in my home as my daydream fades and I realize that the Virgo woman I had dated a year or so before was the reincarnation of the woman who had betrayed me from the life in which I was hung.
Next scene: It’s Saturday January 28, 2012 and I’m waiting for a new woman to arrive to my home for an enjoyable evening of supper and a movie.
I hear her vehicle pull up and see her walk past my window toward the back door.
In that instant her appearance reminded me of the Virgo woman I had dated in the mid 1990’s.
It freaked me out a bit but I tried to brush it off and get on with the evening.
Still I recall that split-second resemblance and wonder what message was being offerred?
This new woman also happens to be a Virgo.
We have been communicating for about 10-days now (as of Feb. 2,2012.) as potential dating partners.
We’ve only hung out a couple times as a date, although we’ve known and enjoyed friendly communications for a couple years now.
During that time I’ve performed massage for her (I’m a professional therapist) and we have always enjoyed conversing as friends.
The one thing that this current interaction brings up for me is this:
I feel a large amount of detachment from her, which feels odd and awkward to me. We do not talk each day, which strikes me as rathr cut-off and odd. Thinking back to my relationship with the Virgo from the mid-1990’s: I always felt like I wanted more affection, warmth and depth of sharing from her and this made for some very lonely feelings for me. I felt like we were cut-off from each other frequently.
I need a lot of attention and if I compare the interaction with the current Virgo woman to my last relationship of two years (with a very affectionate, attentive and generous Taurus), the amount of attention does seem less than I’d desire.
Yes it may be unfair or prejudiced to compare but it’s what I have noticed.
Yes, the current Virgo has two children and is very immersed with her life.
I understand she has responsibilities.
Yet I do imagine that this type of detachment is what other Pisceans (male or female) may feel when interacting with a Virgo. For Virgoans, their detachment probably doesn’t reach their radar.
But for Pisces detachment is very detectable.
Also, as previously mentioned, I wonder about the new Virgo woman especially after seeing the similarity of appearance for a split-second to the Virgo woman who had betrayed me from the past-life and whom I’d dated in the mid-1990’s.
Who knows. Perhaps those tiny moments of imagination, glimpses of similarity and so forth, can be important messages to steer our course.
Thanks for listening readers and best wishes in your lives and relationships.
-Stephen