Pisces Compatibility With Libra |
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Pisces and Libra
If this pair really wants this to go well then it stands every chance of doing so. Both the Pisces and Libra are both very affectionate and romantic, and they will adore finding someone who they can be themselves with. The attraction will be very strong especially when they are ‘alone’. The Pisces will love to show off his/her Libra mate to everyone and will enjoy going out a lot in public wanting everyone to see their beautiful, classy Libra lover.These two have a good chance of making a go of things with a family as well. They are both very loving as parents and fun to be around.
Once again the Pisces sensitivity comes into play. Although the Libra is quite an emotional person too, there aren’t many people who can cope with the trials and tribulations of the Pisces emotional state. Libra enjoys socialising and being around people, and can’t always understand why their Pisces mate has opted out from joining in. It is true, these two are different, and as a rule Air and Water doesn’t really mix that well due to the Air signs need for change and freedom. But I can see something in this pair that really could be quite sweet. OK, maybe not forever, but a nice interlude perhaps?
The trouble is that both signs are looking for their ideal soul mate to come along and rescue them from this cruel world, and I do doubt that they will find that in each other. The Pisces may feel that the Librans love is somewhat superficial at times and lacking in deep emotion. I do think though that with the Pisces and the Libra that if each other is committed to the other equally and especially if family is involved, then this has every chance of working. I just have a feeling. Good Luck!
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July 24th, 2008 at 3:35 pm
I am a Libra and most of a serious girlfriends have been Pisces. I don’t know why I am a glutton for punishment, but, I cant seem to get away from Pisces!
My current gf is a Pisces, I swear our relationship is an up and down roller coaster of emotion.
I TRY to show her over and over again that she can trust and believe in me, but, there is ALWAYS something wrong.
I don’t want to leave, but it’s getting to that point.
I see other men who stay in relationships and just put up with all the mess. Men aren’t perfect BY FAR but, I am really getting sick and tired of fighting all the time.
What in the world should I do? We are talking about moving into a house together and I’ve told her NUMEROUS TIMES that I HATE to fight.
July 25th, 2008 at 5:43 am
WHAT THE F*$# WAT THAT GUY JUST POSTED IS SO MY FIANCE AND I
August 19th, 2008 at 12:02 am
I m a libra female and my fiance is pisces. And i think we are the best couple in this world. I love him so much and so does he. I obey him on everything. Its always me who is fighting but he never fights back only because he cares alot for me he is a peace lover completely. He is very sensitive, emotional and romantic and i am always there for him. All he wants from me is my love and care for him and for that he can even get stars and moon for me.
September 6th, 2008 at 6:04 am
I want to ask the libra guys a question. u say u fight with ur pisces woman cause she don’t trust u. do u think it may be the communication how do u show her u can be trusted.. I’ve dated a libra man oct 10 I was so drawn to him wanted to spoil him but he didn’t know how to receive affection even thou he wanted it. and he always seem to be lying when we talked he was afraid the truth would make me mad @ it didn’t we fuss moreso cause he wasn’t upfront or direct.. he was a coward he would say one thing and do another. so I ask u how do u communicate with ur woman.?
September 6th, 2008 at 2:58 pm
Personally, I am a Sun and Mercury Libra with Venus in Scorpio and a Cancer Moon; I also have Pluto in Scorpio and Jupiter in Pisces: I would like to say that some of us Libras with heavy water influences *do* have intense emotions and that while I do feel a lot of detachment being an air sign and all, just bc someone is an air sign doesn’t mean they have no depth. I’d also like to say that not all of us Libras are superficial, either. I really don’t know where the whole “Libras are untrustworthy” thing comes from. I’m sure some Libras cheat–maybe the “party girl” type Libras–but there *are* Libra women out there who manifest different traits of the sign. I for one would NEVER cheat on someone that I actually loved; to me if things are that bad you should leave and let the other person find happiness and not lead someone on. Maybe it’s the Libra indecision and our willingness to please others that gets us these negative reputations, but this Libra definitely doesn’t fit those stereotypes. While I do like freedom and change, I can’t betray people that I love: my conscience (or maybe my Sagittarius ascendant) just won’t let me. Plus, I’d like to say that not all Pisces are emotional; I know one who’s very detached–she has a lot of Aquarius in her chart that mutes her Pisces sun.
September 6th, 2008 at 3:00 pm
P.S. I would also like to disagree respectfully with the idea that air and water do not work together. I personally feel that any two signs can work with (a) compatibility in other areas of the chart; (b) love, understanding, patience, committment, and forgiveness; (c) that sometimes opposites really work well and learn from each other rather than hate each other and (d) I think personally air and water go better together than do air and fire or water and earth bc air and water are both more abstract thinkers while fire and earth are more practical and concrete people.
September 6th, 2008 at 4:35 pm
Hey Nadia,
Thank you very much for your comments. I always tell everyone that what I have written here are basic Sun sign descriptions..an outline if you will. If people have heavily opposing based charts they will of course feel differently than how I have described. If you want are serious about Astrology and wish to have a detailed look at how the stars influence you it is always wise to get a proper chart done.
My personal belief is that any sign/element combination can work, it is knowing what makes each of us tick that is the key.
Love & Light
Becky
December 31st, 2008 at 4:49 pm
I’m a Libra female and my boyfriend is a Pices.At first it was rocky because I had trust issues but my baby never gave up on me and for that I’m truly grateful.
January 15th, 2009 at 10:08 am
Ive dated 2 pisces and i just broke up with my pisces a few months ago. I find them so annoying in their moods and i just dont see it working. EVER. Its sweet in the begininig because the pisces is attracted to u and wants u, but after that…its just a bore. And not worth it.
Plus i feel they are always looking for someone else even if they are with you. *wondering eye* it can get extremely annoying.
and they also are regretful, when they loose what they had they regret it, but aren’t man enough to know how to appoligize or show their feelings.
Never again.
January 15th, 2009 at 10:09 am
it was a horrible rollercoaster. we would be soooo happy together then he would get in his depressed moods and we would break up almost every weekend because he would get jealous of me wanting to hang with friends. i thought maybe he didnt trust me, but i never gave him the reason to think that.
breakup/makeup - such a waste. I think maybe this sign could work if the guy is a libra and the girl is a pisces.
but the other way around??? not so much.
January 21st, 2009 at 1:17 pm
hey? im the pisces in dis relationship and my man is the libra.we been together almost four years off and on. but you know what. i think we will work out. we do have our ups and downs. but one thing a pisces and libra have to do is talk to one another for this to work out.if you willing to do that. your relationship will work.one thing i can say is. i know myself and my man very well and what they are saying about pisces and libra’s are true. so listen and do and you will be okay.
January 22nd, 2009 at 7:54 pm
Im the pisces and my bf is the libra. we been together for 5 years and still i have not been in his house. Im single and he have three kids and two live with him. the baby mmother comes over when ever to take car of the kids. he tells me that he just want respect for his kids. I understand that but its been 5 years and still no BBQ, nothing. it was his ways and what he thought of me that kept me in question about him. it seemed like every thing i do or say was not the way he wanted. it made me feel like a fish out of water. it seemed to me that he wanted me to change my self to make him happy but what about me. nothing he do was wrong. he said because of the way i think and and my emotins that he couldn’t see a future wit me. Ive tried for 5 years to be the woman this man need, and i wish i could have been what he needed but i wasn’t. he wanted me to change me nature. How can i do that? my nature is who I am, and because i couldn’t do that he changed his numbers and told me Im a basekt case. He truly didn’t understand me and i feel like the brake up was because of me because i couldn’t change my nature.
February 8th, 2009 at 2:07 am
Okay I am a Pisces woman and my ex was a Libra.
I dated him two years ago. What made us break up was this, we had been dating for a while and he decided to instead of going to the movies with me to go and get drunk with some friends. I was a little bothered by that, but I didn’t want to be the over controlling girlfriend so I was like that’s okay. Then a few days later his best friend called me and told me that the night he was drinking he made out with three three girls. So I broke up with him. It has been two years since the break up and I recently started to talk to him, and find myself falling for him again. He seems like he has changed a lot since the last time I saw him. He is just what I need right now. So what should I do?
February 10th, 2009 at 8:31 pm
well it just seems that pisces and librans just argue, fight and dont really ever trust each other. Reading all these things it makes it hard to want to continue in the relationship cause it is always a rollercoaster ride but i think alone is better than arguing and fighting so if your pisces or libran and are contemplating going for it i recommend you look elsewhere.
February 12th, 2009 at 7:38 am
Wow!!! it’s crazy how much all of our experiences are the same LOL.
I’m am the pisces and my bf is a libra. It seems like it is a everlasting rollercoaster constant ups and downs. I love him sooo much but its beginning to be too much for me to handle. My new approach is to start to take control of the ride.
Libra can be an ideal mate for me becuz they need the love and affection that i (pisces) needs. The problem is that libra is a scale and needs perfect balance. Too much affection libra feels trapped, flees and cheats. Not enough affection libra flees and cheats. Its a catch 22.
I find TRUST is the number 1 problem in my relationship too. The problem is that LIbra lies a lot, Pisces is a sign which has GREAT intutuion and libras will always get caught in the lie. honest communication really is the key.
well goodluck to all of you!!
February 18th, 2009 at 11:46 pm
im a piscis and im so into a libra but he isz so bipolar one day he actsz so nice and sweet and the next so mean and it just agravatesz me but im into him i just cant stop liking him itsz kinda hard to stop and idk why,everytime im with him i never want it to end
February 21st, 2009 at 8:23 pm
I am a Libra and my mate was a Pisces. I think that really makes a difference. Pisces are the fish keep that in mind.Mine did always have a roaming eye. The men tend to be easily led. If they are insecure they will always find the damsel in distress.This way they appear to be the hero. Pisces woman seem to have their act together. Talk about very smart and successful.The Pisces I dated and was going to marry told me that the only reason he got with me was to have a child.Can anyone say selfish? He never could sit down and talk anything out.The man would run.Last but not least lady’s that can hide what the are doing(You will never know what it is until it much to late). Please remember these words they always have some sort of vice figure it out drugs,sex,gambling,drinking
February 22nd, 2009 at 7:04 pm
What “Do these people really live” said made me think of a Pisces man I know who dated a Libra. They had an adorable Virgo girl together, but he bailed out on marrying her after some problems in his life arose (if Pisces has a problem, they tend to withdraw or swim away). Since water signs are naturally inclined to want a family, Pisces wants to have children. Libras, not always. So if someone’s looking for their Pisces/Libra relationship to last long, as in marriage-long, talk about children. Libra will give Pisces some sense and Pisces will show Libra that children can be wonderful. Otherwise, your child will be left like little Jolene who can only see her daddy a few times a month.
And “Do these people really live”: Personally, I think you should’ve been flattered that he wanted you to mother his children. He probably didn’t see it as selfish because to water signs, it’s far from selfish to want kids. (But then again, I don’t know you or him at all.) Best of luck!
February 22nd, 2009 at 8:54 pm
I’m a Pisces and my guy is a Libra. Let me tell you, it’s the most amazing relationship I’ve ever been in my whole life. Everything is perfect, every time I see him it just keeps getting better and better. I think it really depends on the Pisces. I’ve had my share of ups and downs and thankfully I’ve learned from them. My ugly side comes out once in a blue moon but my Libra knows exactly how to deal with it and calm me down. We appreciate each other, in all our wonderful differences. There needs to be a certain balance for a Libra. If Pisces can keep there act together, its a beautiful thing. Perfection.
March 8th, 2009 at 9:31 pm
I am a libra girl dating a pices boy. So far our relationship has been amazing.
I think if both are equally commited , the relationship is bound to work out. There might be a few bumps along the road but other than that it`s excellent
March 10th, 2009 at 3:38 am
omg i young but i am love(i think) i mean i am a libra and ma boyfriend is a Pisce… he was my frist at everything.. but i just dont wanna get hurt in the mix of all this
March 10th, 2009 at 7:45 pm
For a Libra the “apt” word will always be “I think” I am, can etc… Luckily when eventually that Dithering becomes a definate it stays a definate for indefinately. It is common to find young Libras to persue love at ealy a age as 12 even because first they like to be the boss and second feel its their right as a human being being ruled by venus just adds to this desire to love and be a couple of any sort. And finally they always see things from diffrent angles, but beware being brainwashed because of this indecisiveness. Librans are rated most intellectial amongst star signs followed by gemini, but, remember the opposite can also be true regarding any star signs attributes. hope this help those Librans still deciding who they are in life. I think Libra and Gemini are best siuted to each other. This of course being a general statement. These two signs seem to mind read each other. Go figure… it becomes magic when the two are in sync
March 10th, 2009 at 8:07 pm
Also regarding pisces and libra…I dont know but, it could be a recipe for disaster but then again stranger things in life has happened and actually found a way to work. You know what people!…. I have found that the full understanding of compatibility lies in combining chinese and western astrological attributes. That is probably why some supposed incompatible star signs actually end up being a solid foundation instead of the traditional compatibility couples, I have seen it so yes libra and pisces could possibly work but, I would make sure that both chinese and western astrological signs are at least complimentary to each other, example: It is a common fact that Taurus and gemini do not get along as a love match they are probably as compatable as “oil and water” in a relationship. simply for the fact, Taurus being sentual ( all about the sences) and gemini being intellectual ( all about the brain) yet I know of many people some clients and others close friends to be exact two of my close friends are gemini and taurus married couples. The compatibility does’nt end with just westen astrology I believe it is far more complex than that. Humans are One of Gods Greatest works we are not that easily read.
It takes combined info just to scratch the surface but, believe me! the surface must be scratched before jumping into life long commitments with another person. Dont be a coward or lazy take out the time to make sure… with both facts and gut intuition to guide you that you are making the best bet in love. Thats of course if it is long term or lifetime partnerships you hope for.
March 12th, 2009 at 4:20 am
I am a Libra male, Oct 18. I’ve found a Pisces and I think there is something to it. The way water and air is described as being opposites interests me. There is definitely something I see in her that is not in other females, even though I have known her for 4 years. I guess you can say I was repulsed at first, I’m not sure why. Shes a very pretty girl and I’m just now starting to imagine us together. I believe she feels the same thing from me (and always has)… it’s just that special thing, you know?
Well anyway, being lonely is not for me. I feel like in isolation I’ve entered into the next state of awareness and that this Pisces is a spiritual gift. I will have patience to maintain balance, because I can imagine the things possible when water and air come together in equal love and faith instead of skepticism and fear.
March 12th, 2009 at 12:21 pm
Hasan,
I’d be a little cautious about such a relationship. You may think “tranquil waters” when you think pisces, but that is definitely not the case with the pisces female. If you rub her the wrong way, you’ll be in for a ride down some pretty rough rapids. I’m a pisces male, and have been in a relationship with a pisces female - it had extreme highs and extreme lows. Don’t rub her the wrong way, and she’s like any man’s “dream girl”. I’ve known cancer males and pisces females that are incredible together, for example. I think that a libra male and pisces female, may be a somewhat volatile pairing, but it would also obviously have to do with other aspects of your astrological influences. I agree with what Mikail said about it having possibilities, but I think it would take a lot of work. As far as libra and pisces “frienship” relationships - some of my very best friends, both male and female, are libra. I think pisces and libra get along extremely well as just friends.
March 18th, 2009 at 3:39 am
Steevi!
I am also a Pisces female - my ex a Libra.
As I was reading your comment, I couldn’t help but notice how similar our stories are.
My Libra ex was very sensitive (maybe a little psychotic), but one day he approached me very upset. He had been off his medication and tried to explain that he wanted to feel something “real”. Anyway, he started to break down and cry right in front of me.
Minutes after he stopped crying, he told me that he felt like he needed to be alone, sit in his basement and gather his thoughts. So he left my house.
I later found out that he went up to his buddy’s cottage that night to get absolutely trashed (drunk), where there were apparently females there who were streaking - running around butt-naked. This did not really sit well with my stomach, but I didn’t question him with my uncertainty.
Our relationship ended pretty bad. I would come over during the afternoon, have sex, then he would simply say, “I’m gonna go smoke pot now with my buddy”, so I’d gather my shit and go home. Wasn’t really much of anything if you ask me, so I dumped his ass.
It’s been about 3 years now since we first started dating. Last summer we got together one night. He started apologizing; I was beginning to think I was finally getting some closure after 2 years… Until he tried making out with me. I’m embarrassed to say that I didn’t turn him down - we kissed… a few times. Nothing more. It felt a lot like the old days, but I came to the realization that nothing would come out of our relationship if we started to date each other again.
Relationships end for a reason!
(mc.fearless@hotmail.com)
March 27th, 2009 at 6:35 pm
Am a Pisces and my boyfriend is Libra… I’ve been reading all the comments and made me really sad. I love my boyfriend so much, too much, but everything that was posted here its so true… We’ve been together for almost 4 years, and we broke up around 13 times… He lied to me a lot of times, and am always so insecure of him, and its true, Pisces, we do have a great intuition, and Libras are great liars. But I never lost my hopes and I worked with everything, trying to believe him, trying to stop been so jelous, trying not to show him that I care too much or that I love him a lot… But I always have this feeling that he is hiding something from me and makes me so paranoid. And its not that its me, cause I dated other signs, but its with him that I feel like this so jelous and so insecure…
besides my hopes and my love for him, I think this is not going to work out :’( He dosent want to move in with me even tho he sleeps over my place every single day, just dont wanna make it official I guess… he is afraid to commidments, dosent wanna get marry, or have kids… I dont know if its cause he is really scare to, or cause he dosent see a future with me. And am a pretty good woman, just dont freaking lie to me, I hate that, I’ll be the perfect girl, but ones you lie to me I change completelly, am jelous, insecure, and I dont know what to dooo. Am so scared not to be him. Last time we broke up, I was misserable, and I used to go out and hang out with friends and new guys almost everyday, but no guys was good enough for me like my stupid Libra.I dont kow what am I going to do 
And I am so sentive and I know that he dosent like that of me. So I tried to not be so sensitive… Right now,I ask him almost everyday if he is talking with this girl that he used to date when we got a 6 months period apart; she is Geminis, and they are just perfect for each other, and he promessed me that he is not talking to her for 3 months now, since we got back together. But ther is something really strong inside me that makes my stomage feel weird that I know he is lying to me, I dont know how to find out… And its driving me crazy. Other than that (trust) we have a great relationship… am alwyas planing things to do, wwe are always having fun, we like almost the same thing, music,food,activities,things,etc.
I’ve catch his lying a lot of times, and am pretty sure he is lying me again
March 28th, 2009 at 10:15 pm
Im dating libra guy atm. (for the first time in my life ) I usually fall for virgos:D
Yes. Libras are diferent from us pisces- that’s a fact. But that makes things more interesting -I guess…
My sun is rising in aries, and my 7th house is in libra. Also his moon is pisces, and we have some good aspects.
Comunication is the key in these situations.
We pisces can be very emotional and we change our moods a lot.If we learn how to control that we can have good relationship with libras.
Sometimes I get caught in my pisces moods and thinking but Im trying to avoid that as much as possible.
Im really trying to give him a space (which he needs) and he’s giving me the love and affection that I need.
You can’t judge only by sun signs. Ascendent and position of other planets, like venus and mars, are very important.
April 2nd, 2009 at 8:58 pm
It’s me again… If you read my comment, well yeah I found out that he was lying to me.
but am so scare to get depress, I get so depress that I stop eating and even taking care of my son…Why is life so unfair
He still talking to this girl, he is been talking to her for a month now, well thats what he said.
Libras are freaking liars…. I dont know what to do anymore, I told him that I need some time to think things, but am I cant be without him…. but at the same time, I cant be like this any longer. He now tells me that he doesnt want to loose me and that he is willing to do anything even to go to couples counsuling… Can anybody give me a hand??? What should I do…. I love him, but this is not right anymore….
April 2nd, 2009 at 9:08 pm
Any relationship can work (no matter what sign someone is) if they have Christ in the center of it. Phillipians 4:13
Both people are living to please God first and in pleasing God you can love your mate the way God loves them.
April 8th, 2009 at 7:05 pm
I am currently dating a pices male, adn so far I am amazed at how similar we that I often asked him, “where are our differences”? We have the same goals, we both want a lot of kids and we talk for hours about almost every thing, and I still get off the phone thinking we still have so much to talk about. It is still in the beginning phase so we all know that’s always good, but with me going off to boot camp, he has alreay asked me what can he do to put our relationship in a a place where I will still want us to date. I reviewed different sites on pisces and libras, I’m on the cusp, so I have scorpio traits. I also know that Libra men, from my experience, are different in a lot of ways from teh women.
Basically, I say all this because there are several variables why a relationship wouldn’t work. I always view astrology as a means of understanding personalities more so than determing whether you will work. If you love someone enough you make sacrifice and you compromise. Allowing yourself to get caught in the asthetics of astrology will only cause you to potentially limit yourself from something GREAT!!!
April 12th, 2009 at 10:50 pm
Fish and scales go together! Libra women are amazing!! There’s promise if both signs flow together!!!
April 13th, 2009 at 1:48 pm
Suzana , that guy does not deserve you.
and belive me you’ll find someone who would love you the way you deserve it!
Just try to get back on the track! You have a son and probably sooo many things in your life that could make you happy
Forget about that tosser! I know its hard but try to.
I you can-go somewhere out of town for a few days, change is always good .
Wish you the best!
xx
April 13th, 2009 at 7:02 pm
I am a pisces male in a relationship with a Libra woman. However, I’m not 100% this paragraph is an accurate description of what my relationship has been like. “Pisces will love to show off his/her Libra mate to everyone and will enjoy going out a lot in public wanting everyone to see their beautiful, classy Libra lover” That is very true! but the whole Pisces not wanting to be social — I don’t buy that at all.. Atleast I’m not that way. We love going out and doing things. Libra’s do have a big activity list and lots of friends and loves to hang out with them. So if you are getting in a relationship with a Libra just be sure you can handle all the new people you will meet.
April 14th, 2009 at 1:42 am
Looks like there’s several johns (I’ve counted 3 pisces johns now) posting here. You’re not me and neither is the other John. That can make things kinda confusing.
I do agree with you about the social thing as I too am very social.
April 14th, 2009 at 6:25 pm
So I am a pisces women and my boyfriend is a Libra…alot of the previous entries are very similiar to our situation…it definitly is a rollar coaster ride of emotions..I am a pisces with a Libra moon and Aries venus..he is a Libra with a Cancer moon and a Scorpio Venus..so with the scorp in there it intesifys everything..his emotions are extreme! and then the moody cancer moon also comes into play..but I absolutly love everything about our relationship…the intesity..the passion..I hate boring relationships and this definitly isn’t one…I think the key is I am trying to figure him out..and so far it is really working…with him he treats you how you treat him…if you are upset and giving him attitude he will give it right back…but if you are being understanding and communicate to him and relax and treat him with respect he gives it right back. I think that goes for alot of libras. You push then they are just going to push back. So you have take a step back and just treat them how they want to be treated and you should end up happy…i love him more then i have loved anyone with so much passion and intensity..i wouldn’t have it any other way.
April 15th, 2009 at 9:40 pm
I am a pisces woman my fiancee is libra. We are very much in love. I fill as though he is the best lover and friend I have ever had. Make no mistake I love this man!He is so caring and loving,yet so secretive and deceptive. How do I know? Well being a pisces our special powers are intuition. We hold the secrets to all of the signs, WOW what a gift. Furtunately his secrets are not harmful to me but some insecurities on his part. I am one of those pisces if I sense any mayhem or harmful behavior I will simply just take my little fishy tale and just swim away. After all there are plenty of fish in the sea and I so do dislike troubled waters.
April 16th, 2009 at 7:01 pm
I’m a libra girl and i’m into a Pisces boy. But hes not as sensitive as mention!! or izzit i’m not getting to him..i feel like i’m the sensitive one!
How can i make this work? What are the base traits of Pisces..cos he definately isnt sensitive…affectionate and charming yes..but unbothered at the same time!! why?
April 22nd, 2009 at 6:31 pm
Lily, Thank you for you comment, I actually decided to brake up with him, its been three weeks since we stop talking, he beg me and everything, and I almost did…. but I didnt,He told me that they kissed before when we were together… And like I said before pisce, we can be sensitive and sentimental, but we do have the stregh inside… Now I feel totally different towards him, I do care about him, but I dont see our self back together again, am too happy now with my son and friends… But it he did left a big scarf in me… cause I dont wanna be emotionally envolve anymore… I suffer so much with him that am sacared to fall in love again. And I will never, never date a Libra ever in my life again… thats for sure!!!
April 22nd, 2009 at 7:18 pm
omg… me like a libra female, must say… yes is wonderfull when everything piscis see it right -YES when we are alone- but! i undestand who dificult it is to try to make same goals go fordware if piscis is allways getting her heart breake for external mater´s.
Sometimes i see him just like a new kind of profet, or a genius of man kind rules… and in other way i just see all this is going to roll like a ball and make us don´t go anywhere if we keep on trying to get through all he makes on his mind.
Piscis mens have dificulties to make a family, professional succesfull life?… i´m actually seen that ocurring. We are on a point of constructing a life together (house, steady work, maybe a company), but fooling around with all EMOTIONAL problem´s… is making me thing we don´t have any point cover on Mature life terms.
April 22nd, 2009 at 7:22 pm
i really apreciate if you readers, can tell me how you go on on this kind of pressure moment´s…
maybe libra women´s need to have more balance to go and fight for the rights… is my piscis men really have good ideas is not giving me strange enough to fight in his side… if allways the principal matter is he being ok or not.
don´t get me wrong he was on my side in the worst moments and i really apreciate it… but anyways i fight for our love and that live me with only him in my life. No family, no steady friends, no people that i could be friend withouth being descriminated for some reason…
sorry i just go with my bad flow.
April 23rd, 2009 at 7:36 pm
Dear Suzana, you wont belive, but few days ago I had a very similar situation with my libra (now ex ) boyf.
I discovered he was playing with me all the time, and all I did was being honest with him.
But Im very proud person- and during our last date - I stayed cold and smiled (even my heart was breaking when he said all those things to me). I didn’t let him to see that I was hurt.
I’ll cry later-thats my moto
And now Im trying to get over everything- cos I know-he do not deserve one tear of mine.
And belive me- we’ll find someone who deserve our love.
And who knows maybe that could be a libra
Wishing you all the best girl!
April 26th, 2009 at 10:21 am
I’m a Pisces girl with a Libra boy and he is my first love, we’re both young and dumb and in love and we think it’s going to last forever but what I like to think is that just because most relationships don’t work out, doesn’t mean none of them do. We are both the kind of people to sort things out and keep trying hard, and I think maybe if we try we can have one of those magic fairytale romances you only hear about once in a blue moon. We both feel like we are each others soul mates and whatever emotions come into play we can both handle the others. I love him and I hope things stay bright for us
April 26th, 2009 at 7:08 pm
I am a libra girl sep 3o, with a Pisces guy March 2. We have been together just over a year. it has been a crazy ride. I absolutely love him!!! He is one of the deepest people i have ever known, being a libra skin deep people drive me crazy. It is hard at times because he does carry many other common Pisces attributes, very smart, intune, psycic at times, sensative, and VERY non confrentational! Problens arise because hes reserving someting becuase he wants avoid conflict, driving me crazy when there really was never an issue to begin with. When i first met him i never would have guessed he was so sensitive, he appeared to be this hard ass guy that would normally make me run in the other direction. He is very tough, but he also has a much deeper side that no one else ever gets to see. Which is very much a huge part of why i love him so much. The only way we have made it this far was becuase i cant keep what im feeling locked inside for long and have learned and am still learning how to communicate with him. I used to get upset and hope he would see that and address it. Be warned… they usually wont be the one to bring up confrentation. I have to be very careful cuz i can hurt him without knowing it and out of no where he shuts you out and you have to work your way back in.
The key with Pisces is communication, you have to find where they are with out upseting them its a hard line to walk. I have really had to get over my silently stubborn nature, cuz it doesn’t work with him. This has been very hard cuz thats my normal defense mechanism.
If you want it work with them you have to be gently but honest, they don’t respond to rudeness or silence. Silence can cause him to just retreat to himself, and rudeness hurts their feelings though they won’t share that with you easily.
Also key, in our relationship anyway, is that you have to understand that their withdrawn nature doesn’t implicate them loving you any less. he can be slightly antisocial at times, which can be hard ciz at any given time i would prefer to be with him than to be alone. Just becuase he likes alone time doesn’t mean he doesn’t like and love being with you, they just need some of both.
wow thats long, and still don’t feel like iv said all i want to. sorry i am definitely a more talkative type.
Peace, =)
May 4th, 2009 at 10:01 pm
i’m a Libra and my friend is a Pisces, we do almost everything alike, we act like sisters!
May 5th, 2009 at 4:18 pm
Hi,
I’ve been reading with much interest all of your comments. I was married to a Pices man for 18 years, and whilst we were inseparable, he had an addiction that ruined our marriage in the end. Here I am again absolutely in love with a Picean man, afraid to tell him so. (After 3 months) He’s told me he wants to take it slow for me for my benefit, because he knows I’ve been badly hurt in marriage twice. He also was very hurt a few years ago, and seems to keep me at arms reach, but I feel in my gut that he does love me. How do you pull these men out of themselves? It is very difficult not to want to tell him how I feel when we are together! I’m not the typical stereotypical libran woman either. I’m very deeply emotional, caring, affectionate, etc., and very very loyal. I love him to bits, but am also afraid of being hurt as well.
Any advice?
Thank you!
May 5th, 2009 at 9:21 pm
Laurie,
It would serve absolutely no purpose to tell a Pisces man how you feel about him - he would already know that. Pisces are very intuitive even though they may seem to be naive at times. What he would want, if he is interested in you, is for you to show him, and I don’t mean just in affectionate ways. One of the ways to do that is to find opportunities to do things together that indulge and inspire his sense of creativity and the arts. At least that’s always worked for me as a Pisces.
Something to remember, is that if he gives any indication that he needs some space, give him lots of it and he’ll admire you for it - perhaps more than you can imagine.
I hope it goes well for you.
May 6th, 2009 at 6:34 am
Hello, my girlfriend is a pisces, and I am a libra. I never really believed in astrology and all that kind of stuff until I met my girl. I have to say that most of the stuff metioned on here are almost spot on. We are very indecisive, have the best intimacy connection I’ve EVERRR had. But my gf can be very emotional sometimes, and she gets her little mood swings sometimes, and I kind of can’t can’t stand it sometimes, I hate confrontation and conflict. What should I do about this?? Any advice? i don’t think I CAN change this though. :/ I would hate to not be with her, I cant imagine my world w/o her.. I would hate to see this good thing end. But in general, I think we can make it. We plan on moving in together in the future.
May 6th, 2009 at 9:31 am
gheyyyyy:D,
You didn’t say if you were a male or female. These days, one never knows. Anyhow, something I should mention is that Pisces males and females are quite different so when trying to figure out your Pisces girl, make sure you do a little reading in the section here about Pisces women. I’m a Pisces man, yet I don’t interact with Pisces women very well. Their mood swings can be a little intense - at least the ones I’ve been with.
May 6th, 2009 at 11:58 am
Hi John,
Thank you for your advice. Although my pisces guy isn’t really into “art”…music is another story, and we are well suited! We both love motown, and enjoy each other’s company so much. I also love the same outdoorsy activities that he enjoys, and we spend the weekends mountain biking and lots of walking in the Lake District in the UK. (I’m also a Calif girl, he’s a Brit). I am very close to calling it a day with him, because I just don’t feel like he’s ready for me…and it’s leaving me feeling a bit rejected. I’m a strong, but very sensitive woman, and have difficulty being patient, when I have no idea of where I stand with him. I think that we have great weekends together, but at the end of the day, I am good companionship and look good on his arm (he likes to show me off)…but as a Libra, I need more. I have no problem giving space, because I’m very independent too, but it’s the vagueness that drives me a bit bonkers…having to guess what I’m supposed to do.
Laurie
May 15th, 2009 at 4:59 pm
im a pisces woman and my bf is a libra and we are liek the perfect couple we understands each other and have patience thats deff what u need dealing with a pisces woman because we are so moody and can be very bitchy and mean and my boyfriend understands and he knows tomorrow i would be so sweet giving kisses and i have to understand when he needs his space love and affection i broke up with him because he was too perfect and im so glad were back together because i would of lost a wonderful man and i mean were still young but we do play imagination time and talk about our house kids and jobs so with determenation work and love this can deff work out and the sex is great because you both have that connection that reads the soul its so weird but usally libra woman and pisces men dont work out the the other way around deff!
May 16th, 2009 at 6:41 pm
I am a Pisces woman and my Ex-boyfriend is a Libra. We dated 10 years ago and I Just reunited with him a year ago. When we broke up we were teenagers and we lost contact with each other. So since we’ve reunited we hang out sometimes and have fun. Everytime we get around each other I am extremely happy and he’s so fun to be around and he’s easily to talk to. There are times he’s there for me when things go wrong and i’m going through hard times.I am deeply in love with him and he knows, but he’s not ready to be in a relationship right now. I really consider him good friend, but i love him and care about him so much.
May 28th, 2009 at 2:36 pm
i am a pisces girl, and i am secretly in love with a libra boy. any advice on how to make him confess? will libra boy feel scared and wait for the other party to say or he will sure say one?
May 31st, 2009 at 7:46 pm
they belong together!!!!!
they want the same things
they have almost the same feelings
it’s like 1+1=2
that simple!
June 4th, 2009 at 3:55 pm
Hi Marry…I liked your comment…very short, sweet, and true! When I first read all the comments, I panicked a bit, but in all I’ve read about Pisces, seems like we’re a good match. The issues brought up here are character based, as at the end of the day, people are people and some behave better than others. I love my Pisces guy..he’s the most loving and kind-hearted man I’ve ever met. And I’ve waited a long time for him! The differences between us just keep the mystery going, which we both love!
June 4th, 2009 at 7:20 pm
hais i nearly confessed to him but in the end brush it off as joking. when we are alone,feeling is strong. but dunno is one-sided anot, very scared
June 10th, 2009 at 12:10 am
So Im a libra female and i just starting dating a pisces male. I feel like everytime he says something nice about me he wants me to say a million things about him, but it’s so soon i never know what to say so i dont. at first i thought i wanted this, that this would be great, but the deeper i get into i start missing my ex who was a leo and a total jerk. I dont want this to end being nothing and another mistake. Should i wait it out and it gets better? or cut it off before anyone gets hurt?
June 10th, 2009 at 8:24 am
Hi Elizabeth,
I was in a very similar situation just a few months ago. It sounds like your heart needs a lot of healing before you can love another, so I would say just be honest with your pisces guy. You’ll be amazed at how tender and caring they are, some the junk you read about pisces is just that..junk. Look at it this way, if you decide you don’t want a romantic relationship with him, you’ll end up with one of the best friends you’d ever want to have. Even though we have differences (mostly in communication), we share a very real depth of connection that is based upon love and mutual respect. I tried to take it slow with my guy, but ended up falling in love with him! There is indeed a soothing connection between a libra woman and a pisces man.
June 11th, 2009 at 4:45 pm
Hi my name is Kairi ,I’m Pisces female and my boyfriend is a Libra. we have been dating for 4 months.i am very very emotional and sweet person. He thinks I’m a corn ball when I show my emotional side, and he explained to me that he doesn’t know how to be emotional or show that side .He’s also 25 yrs old & the longest relationship he has ever been in lasted 3 months, i asked him why and he told me that every girl he was with cheated on him, so i didn’t bother asking anymore questions.MY longest relationship was 7 years but it was a really bad break up with a Scorpio. At times i feel like he doesn’t like me b/c he doesn’t open up.
we only see each other twice a week b/c we have a long distance relationship. I live in the city and he lives in the suburbs. when we do hang out,he sometimes comes to the city or ill go upstate to visit him and we would have sex and i would go home the next day and we barely speak on the phone. >:0 (He doesn’t like being on the phone) it was love @ 1st site for me, -_-” but i dunno i kinda feel like this is going to be a dead end relationship. he’s a puzzle that i can’t even solve.i feel like he and I are drifting apart. He’s looking for me to be the leader and i can’t b/c i want him to lead , i also want us to make decision together. He ask me to be his Gf and he doesn’t know how to be in a relationship i’m lost, help
June 11th, 2009 at 4:59 pm
oh yeah, he is such a amazing and wonderful guy, funny,adorable, smart and very very very very very attractive. I’m very sensitive and at times i just feel like he doesn’t care. That’s my libra
he doesn’t know how to be romantic.
June 16th, 2009 at 8:55 pm
thanks, Laurie. first i was freaked because i read that this year the pisces male is looking for his soul mate. I did lie a lot to my leo but ive tried my best to be honest about everything this time and i think it’s going to last a while with my new bf.
June 17th, 2009 at 8:19 am
Hi Elizabeth,
Where did you read that the pisces man is looking for his soul mate this year?
Laurie
June 17th, 2009 at 9:27 pm
im going out with a libra boy nd imma pisces girl nd it’s likee a rollercoastoerr deffinetly.. im very emotional nd sensitive an when we are alone we are happy and everything just seems perfect but he lied to me many times nd i caught him but he still tries to lie and never admitts the truth..everything is fine between us just that i have no trust for him it’s hard cause i know that at times he be lying..nd im always honest to him ..i love him so muchh nd i know he cares about me too..we both do alot to see nd to be with each other..i hope he changes..and most of the times he dont evn talk whenever we arugin nd i catch him lying and i be askinq him questions he just stays silent and doesnt know wuht to sey it hurts me reall badd..=[ but i love him and i wud only stay with him.
June 18th, 2009 at 1:57 am
i am a female libra and i talk to a picses. i really didnt have a big attraction to him as a boyfriend at first, then one night we spent the night together and i liked what i felt. i could be so real with him about everything. i like how we started as friends and now we have a crazy thing going. its true that they enjoy showing us off, but thats not a problem, im a very wanted person and that drives him and me crazzy. i think the way things are going we are going to be great as time goes on, i just need the patients to put up with soe of the things he do. i feel as though i drive him crazy and he likes me alot, maybe more than i do, still not a problem
June 22nd, 2009 at 12:09 pm
pisces ladies should keep away from libra guys. this is a serious advice. actually relationship between them must officially be banned to protect pisces women. i wish i was told this before. hey pisces ladies …. ruuuuuun
July 14th, 2009 at 6:50 pm
I don’t know why am I posting here, don’t know if someone cares, but after I read the posts from you people I decided to.
I’m a Libra guy. I knew this girl that was Pisces and I liked her very much. In fact, I never felt something like that to any girl. I never told her about how I feel about her, and I dont think she has suspected anything (Maybe, beacause I hidden my emotions before her). There was something magic about her, that I cannot explain. She was fun to be around, always done something crazy and that’s what I liked about her. And I never asked her out because I was affraid, affraid of rejection and maybe affraid of the unknown. To hell with me.
And it’s true that Libra guys lie. I’ve noticed, that whenever something does not go by plan, I start to lie, for example when I mess something up. By lying I try to hide my weaknesess. But as I read here, Pisces have a sense of sniffing out a lie, so this is my biggest minus and I have to work on it.
July 18th, 2009 at 9:00 am
hey i m uswa 14 years old i m interested in libra male.he is 20.i dont know he likes me or not but i like him very much.in the begining of the love story he was much romantic but i wasnt but i secretly love him so much that i could not explain but in the middle i also became enough romantic we were enjoying each others company but now he dont wants me as ithink it.he is liar he dont respect my emotions now becoz he thinks tat i dont trust him yeah its right i dont trust him becoz he is a liar but i still love him i am very diheart now my head will explode by thinking tat he loves me he loves me not.plz can u help to understand i should be enough thankful to you plz its my request to u.
July 18th, 2009 at 11:54 pm
I’m a 16 female Pisces and my bf is a Libra. We just started dating a few weeks ago, but I feel like I’ve known him all my life he’s so amazing to me. Sometimes he seems abit too good to be true and sometimes it seems like hes lying but he always proves me wrong. I love hhim already. Hopefully we’ll last.
July 22nd, 2009 at 9:15 pm
I AM A LIBRA AND MY BF IS THE PISCES. I LOVE HIM VERY MUCH….”AFTER” I LEARNED HOW TO DEAL WITH HIS EMOTIONS. ONE MINUTE HE IS HAPPY THEN SAD THEN MAD.BUT I KNOW HOW TO DEAL WITH THE MOOD SWINGS AS WELL AS HIM KNOWING HOW TO DEAL WITH MINE.
THE ONLY QUESTIONS I HAVE IS HOW DO I GET HIM TO TALK ABOUT HIS FEELINGS? HE TELLS AND ALSO SHOWS ME THAT HE LOVES ME BUT I CAN’T GET HIM TO ACTUALLY “TALK” ABOUT HOW HE FEELS ABOUT ME N DETAIL. AFTER 9MONTHS OF BEING FRIENDS AND 6 OF THOSE MONTHS IN A RELATIONSHIP I FEEL HE SHOULD HAVE NO PROBLEMS VERBALLY EXPRESSING ANYTHING WITH ME.
AM I TRIPPIN OR AM I RIGHT. IF IM RIGHT, HOW CAN I FIX IT? NOT THAT IT IS A PROBLEM BUT I WILL AND WANT TO DO ANYTHING THAT WILL HELP US GROW CLOSER.
IN GOOD LOVE
August 4th, 2009 at 10:14 pm
I am a pisces woman. I dated a libra man for about year and hlf. When we met it was good. We would go out and have soo much fun together. He told me about being hurt by his ex wife and that he didn’t want to be hurt again. As time went on he would say how one day I would be his wife. In th course of that year we stopped seeing each other twice due to the fact that I wanted commitment and he didn’t. I don’t believe in wasting time on loss cause. Well first time we got back together he came looking for me. Yes I was and still am in love with him. But can’t be with him because found out that whole time he was seeing me he was seeing another woman also. He moved this woman in with him she has met his family and friends. I never met them. One nite we went out just as friends. I thought relationship with othr woman was over cuz he invited me to his house. Well found out she works nite and he is still a liar. I am learning slowly to get over him but it hurts. To think that he told me he luvd me but how could he. I feel like he just used me for an extra sex partner because as she told me they are not intimate that often. I will never trust or date another libra man ever again
August 4th, 2009 at 10:18 pm
forgot to mention he moved the woman in while still seeing me. So for three months she was living with him and he and I were still dating. I was still going to his house but I guess her work shedule made it easy for him to deceive both of us.
August 11th, 2009 at 6:23 pm
Wow, I’ve gone through all of the comments here and was surprised by what most people had to say.
To me it seems that pisces women have more problems with Libran men that libran women with picean men.
I’m a Libra and have been dating a Pisces man for the last 3 years. When I met him we started out as friends and a year later it became love. Never in my life have I felt so save, understood and loved as when I’m with him.
We did have our ups and downs (who doesn’t) and it resulted in him wanting to break up because I had “cornered” him. I wanted to talk something out and he just wanted space. After I understood that, I gave him his space and found other ways to communicate with him.
Ever since we have been very very happy.
I’m not a party girl and love it most to stay at home with my love, cuddling on the couch and so does he.I’m also a very emotional girl. We are a perfect match and I often am the reasonable one who offers guidance without pressure.
In return I have the sweetest man I could have ever imagined. He is faithful, loving, caring , a great listener, very protective and always there for me.
For me the match is perfect.. I believe that the libra/pisces pairing can work when the personality matches as well.
So don’t discard someone just because you think your signs wouldn’t match.. you could miss out on the love of your life.
August 15th, 2009 at 6:45 am
Someone earlier quoted: “fishes and scales go together”… well, yeah, when you want to sell the fish off…lol
j/k…
I’m a pisces male and I have been married to my Libra for 19 years and I have been with her 20 plus years.
She looks a lot like Becky our host here. Very amazing.
August 21st, 2009 at 3:54 am
This is the second time I have gotten in a relationship with a Pisces male. Both times the magic was there but the denial was there from them also. The Pisces in both are afraid of commitment. So like first time I am giving lots of space. Just when I think it is over no more calls, he calls to go to the movies. I mostly feel alone and wonder … is this all there will be? Always alone waiting. We are great in bed. We both have Scorpio in mars. It is like he is waiting for someone else. Will he ever share his feelings with me or should I let go. I never knew how my first Pisces male felt until I let him go and he told me all the things I waited so long to hear just when I was getting on a bus. Why do they make you wait to hear the words when it is too late. How long do I hold on this time? I just want to cry with my frustration…Any advice?
August 22nd, 2009 at 1:57 pm
I am a 17 year old pisces female and have been dating a male libra for a couple of months, and looking through these comments i totally agree that we can be emotional rollercoasters. One minute i think that the relationship we have is the most amazing thing that has ever happened to me, and the next the worst. I always have a feeling that he talks to other girls. I dont know what to do because i have no proof and when i try to talk to him about it he turns it around on me because in past relationships i was known to talk to other guys. I have a fear of commitment, and i dont know if going through all the little fights and problems with his family our worth it at this point, but i really havent felt this attached to a guy before. I dont know if its our signs that our coming in to play with our problems or his how immature he is and his family.
August 24th, 2009 at 6:15 am
Run Forest Run from that Libra Man!!
I am a pisces woman and I will never date a Libra again…#1 Emotional Rollercoaster, #2 They either don’t want or take too long to commit. #3 You wont be the only woman he is with.
The sex is very passionate and romantic and that is what keeps you sucked in to their tornado! I found out my Libra man was seeing another woman and he never said a word. So I didn’t say anything either I just stopped talkin to him and he finally noticed the pattern and started calling me. He grew so curious about me that he finally asked if I was seeing someone else and I was happy to tell him, Yes I am. He was shocked and I told him, and so are you! Lady Pisces, just let his Pretty Wings Fly Away because he is a waste of your time. The Libra Man already knows in his head what he does not want to deal with and he will not tell you b/c sex with you is way to good. Peace and Love.
August 24th, 2009 at 6:30 am
Oh and might I add, the Libra Man and I dated about 9months. He was the first man I ever called my BF. He helped me like no other person has, ever in my life! When I was down he picked me up. Actually I feel like if I put too much info on this comment somebody may know him. He travels a lot and knows plenty of people in different states. But anyway I am done dealing with him, he hurt my heart bc I loved hard for him. But anyway I’m over it. Just be careful and guard your HEART from these Libra Men. Lady pisces you know how our love runs deep and this is not the man to give it too. Painful!
August 28th, 2009 at 4:04 pm
Hello,
I am a pisces female and my husband is a Libra. The explanation of the relationship is so true. I love my husband very much and we do have our rocky moments. However, when we get together just me and him with no commitments, responsibilities everything is perfect. I would say my libra husband grounds me alot, he balances our lives perfectly, sometimes annoyingly. My libra husband is my rock to all my dreams and helps me understand reality when I need it. I believe that I give my husband reassurance and the love that he needs to make sure everything will be okay. When we argue, we argue over stupid things and I can get really mean when I think he’s being very shallow and unemotional. After we argue, we talk it over, and I need to know that I am still loved and everything will be ok after the argument. The important thing in this relationship is, to let go of the stupid things and work on the important issues and not have them festure. We’ve been married for 6 years and still going strong
August 31st, 2009 at 7:33 am
People, people!
Everybody is different. If you are Pisces or Libra or even of any other sign, please remember that it all depends on when exactly you were born, on what date ant astrological time. I am Pisces myself. My brother is from the same sign. I was born on 27th of February, he on 14 of March. He is strong and has a will to fight for his rights, is open and tells what he wants. Sometimes very rude. I am calm, do not like to fight, have my world. I am totally different than him. If you are from February 23th and your love one was born on September the 30th you may not be compatible in 100% but in 76,3756 - THIS IS AN EXAMPLE ONLY, has no base in astrology. But this is what I mean…
Cheers!
September 1st, 2009 at 12:07 am
I agree w dis I am a pisces born feb d 29th my cousin was born d 23rd our viewpoints r d same but our personas r d opposite I’m the more vocal of the two n she is more laidback she seems to click w fresh scorpios meaning they barly made it I seem to vibe well w libras…I agree w u cuz I thnk its two extremes to a sign n dependn wat extreme u r that’s what decides who u vibe w n to their zodiac extreme
September 2nd, 2009 at 2:45 am
I am a libra woman and my lover is a pices man. When we first met it was pretty rocky. I didnt adore him in any way i just thought of him as another guy. i treated him like he was a nobody but for some odd reason he stuck around and never gave up on me. i finally took the time to get to know him and he was such a sweet guy. 6 months after knowing him we became sexual and i must say the best ive ever had. When were together i think about nothing else but one day being his wife. We been together for over a year and have had only one fight. we get along very well, yet we are very different and never agree on anything we enjoy eachothers difference.
October 7th, 2009 at 7:02 pm
I AM A LIBRAN AND IAM IN RELATION WITH A PISCES
IT WAS 8 YEARS WE DIDNT NOTICED EACH OTHER IN THE SAME SCHOOL. WE CAME INTO RELATION AFTER WE FINISHED OUR COLLEGE.
FIRST WE TURNED FRIENDS THEN GOOD FRIENDS THEN BF GF THE NOW WE CONFESSED OUR LOVE TO EACH OTHER.
I WANT TO MARRY HER AND HOPE THE SAME FROM HER.
BUT AS OUR RELATION IS GOOD. I’VE NOTICED SHE WAS SAYING THAT I LIED TO HER BUT I DONT THINK SO I LIED TO HER.
MAY BE I NEED TO CLARIFY.
I HAVE NEVER MEANT TO HURT OR LIE HER
October 7th, 2009 at 7:04 pm
I MEAN IAM A LIBRA BOY AND SHE IS A PISCES GIRL
I LOVE HER SO SO MUCH
I CANT LIVE WITHOUT HER
October 9th, 2009 at 4:56 pm
Well im a libra datin a pisces… yeah is been up n down but sometin always brought us together… the last time we broke up… we got back together a week after but I was not feelin good bout well I thought I didn’t.. But I guess God Himself was lettin me know he’s my other half the man I’ve been waitin for n didn’t pay no mind to it now he gettin deported n tryin to fight so they won’t deport him… I realized now how much I love him n need him he didn’t committ a crime he jus wanted to go to a gig in tx to make the money for me to please me he’s very sweet.. I jus wish I could of pay n taken God signs earlier n he would be here with me… any advice??? Don’t want to let him go cuz for the first time im in love n finally was send the man of my dreams but now taken away…. I need good advice please thnx..
October 14th, 2009 at 3:27 am
I am Pisces woman who loves a Libra man!
We met 18 years ago and had the biggest crush on each other, but both were in relationships with someone else. When I moved to this place there he was and we have been hanging out etc for over 8 yrs on & off! When I fell for him 8 yrs ago he wasn’t interested in a relationship, but when I ran into him he was living with a diff woman. 2 yrs ago I wanted to see if there is anything more beside the physical attraction and he ended the friendship with me so I didn’t think I will see him again…well few months later he came by, but I turned him down as he didn’t say anything or appologized!:S In the past 2 yrs he was in a relationship and ended up having a baby with that woman. Over 2 months ago I contacted him as I missed him & in the past 2 yrs I haven’t been with anyone as I wanted to wait for my perfect man!! lol
I fell deeply for him this time, and I don’t think he feels same and he stopped talking to me again cuz I wanted to go out on the weekend!!:S:(( In the past 8 yrs we only went out once and it makes me feel like he doesn’t care about me as much!!:( I miss him so much and don’t know what to do about him as I love him and don’t want to lose him this time! I chose to be there for him, offered him my love, my heart, my support as he is going through a diff custody battle and he doesn’t seem to appreciate it!!:S
He tells me to change and I never told him that even though he has lots of flaws like anyone as nobody is perfect! I accepted him for who he is and would like him to accept me for who I am and give us finally a chance to be a couple. I have been waiting for that for over 8 yrs and not sure if it ever will happen!:S
Any advices?
October 16th, 2009 at 6:17 am
Well after a week & a half of not seeing my Libra man he called and came by to talk. It was nice to talk about the issues we got etc., but I think I let him back in too quick again as it was late when he wanted to come by and since I haven’t seen him in over a week I said ok.:S I missed him so much and prayed he wouldn’t give up on me/us! Actually as the phone was ringing I was thinking of him!! hmmm As much as I love him and want him he confuses me so much like nobody ever before!!
Is anyone else going through drama and confussion with your Libra??
October 21st, 2009 at 7:24 pm
well i had datiin this guy his name is anthony well meeh n him was goin through alot buyt we kept runni bacck i think pisces n libras made for eachother ya diqqq ….
October 24th, 2009 at 9:29 pm
I am a libra ascendent Virgo and I am so in love with this Pisces man I met few months back. I feel like I have met my soulmate. I waited so long to feel that type of spiritual connection with someone. We have not been together for a longtime but when I met him, I felt closer to him than anyone else I have been, when he looks at me I feel like he is looking deep into my soul and I feel like he is a part of me. I am very spiritual and intuitive libra and I could feel his love all the time even when he is not around. We had some issues because I made a mistake and took him for granted and Pisces men are very sensitive and easily gets hurt. You have to very careful in the way you use your words when communicating with them. They don’t want to be criticize, always flatter their ago but do it in a most respectful and honest way, tell them how you feel and don’t lie, give them their space when they are going through something and they will appreciate even more and will come run right back at you once they are healed. He is the most sensitive and loving man I ever know and the sex is great, even the first time he knew exactly what to do as if he had known my body forever, I was actually shocked. I live him with all my heart and I could tell you that we are all different and instead of focusing on the astral sign of the person try to know your mate, communicate and be sensitive to his/her likes and dislikes, learn to embrace and be thankful for the love you have between you to and you will see that he/she will grace you with even more love. Do unto others what you wish to do unto you. That is my moto. Always give love from the heart and deep into the soul.
Peace to everyone and lots of luv!
October 25th, 2009 at 12:33 pm
i am a pisces and i like this boy libra we talk and all that but i wanna be his girl friend i even wrote hima letter and i think that was the wrong step to go by my best cousin and his birth day is a day apart and she can be very demanding sometimes i just dont know what to do evey time i see him i wanna ask him out but i just dont know i need help
November 27th, 2009 at 6:06 pm
i am a libra lady with alot of scorpio in my chart which does make me a very intense emotional person.
i am also drawn to pisces men. i am far from superficial and even though i do enjoy the company of others, i do not go out partying, getting drunk and i dont like shopping or enjoying the superficial material things in life- i am quite scruffy, a day dreamer, an artist and apart from my dancing and my occassional theatrical moments i do prefer to stay at home and read a good book with a hot chocolate.
i think air and water do mix, air and water make rain…how beautiful is that? rain represents washing away and clensing.
like all relationships they will have their ups and downs, they will have different opinions and personalities, but if they love each other surely both will work hard to make it work?
November 27th, 2009 at 7:40 pm
also, libra is ruled by aphrodite (venus) she was born from the sea in cyprus, she is the Goddess of love and beauty, did you know in mythology she was the queen of the sea?
pisces is ruled by Poseidon who was the God of the sea, so in mythological sence they match also
November 29th, 2009 at 4:54 am
I have a huge story. This is coming from a kid in junior high. I am a Libra, and years ago in elementary I had a crush in 4 & 5th grade. He was a Pisces, and he was really nice in 4th grade but changed in 5th. I had another best friend that was also a Libra, her b day was Oct 14, mine is Oct. 16. She’s a real Libra but nothing like one. She can be loyal and nice and be a true Libra but she was rude,backstabbing,slutty,annoying, and everything in between. Sure everyone is not perfect and we have our own side effects, I had mines: annoying,conceited,cold. But majority of my time I been the bigger person, I was the one who was ALWAYS there for her. I was ALWAYS faithful, when someone said something mean about her I WAS standing up for her. She was always the one who kept backstabbing me. We got back together as friends over and over, but until this event in 5th grade. Before I met my ex-BFF, I knew my Pisces crush. I remember the first day, it was so funny.He was very sociable then, and he kept bothering me on that exact day. I knew he liked me, our friendship continued until 5th grade, by then, I didn’t know who he was anymore. My ex bff became best friends with a girl that like the Pisces boy I liked. My ex BFF knew I liked him too, and she lied saying he used to like her and stuff. The girl who she became friends with didn’t like me one bit, and she knew Pisces boy didn’t like him either. Somehow, my ex BFF made me and my crush seperate. She would tell lies to him and should’ve known it was lies. He was being immature and naive that he believed what she said. i tried to talk to him but he always tuned me out. One day I tried talking to him and he laughed and embarassed me. he tried to be cool in front of his friends and he said I was too ugly for him. I know he didn’t say that when I look beyond better than him. I dont know what they said to him but it mustv’e been good. I don’t just blame the girls for lying to him, I blame him also for being stupid enough to believe it. Now I’m in middle school, I am still hurt in some spots, but I’ve moved on. I see him everyday, and I’m known as probably the most nicest, popular cutest kid in school, besides my my NEW best friend. He’s known as just a boy around a hallway. He even attempted to talk to me, I just rolled my eyes and walked away just like he did to me in 5th grade. My ex BFF, is known as the most hated person in school. People hate her and they call her 2 faced, a liar and a slut; which I agree, and is true. We have gym together and she tries to be nice, I say hi and bye and walk away. She is still ugly: short nappy kinky hair, tall skinny broad shoulder body like a man.She had a nasty sick voice I can’t stand. Her best friend that liked the Pisces boy BEEN moved at the beginning of the 3rd month of school. Nobody didn’t like her either. As far as NOW, I have no crush, when he comes around, he comes around. I’m trying to stay free, and not worry about boys.
Things about Pisces GUY and GIRLS
Guys:
all into fantasy and fairy tales,unrealistic, can be cranky,very emotional,weak, (usually its the woman that is the man in the relationship. Pisces can’t control the woman, especially a Scorpio or Libra. They are huge pushovers, a woman wants a REAL man) But the guys can have positive effects, if they show them.
(i know girls for sure ‘ckuz my other, other, other bff is one.)
Girls:
annoying, clingy( i swear its hard to let go of them), they say whatever to try to fit in most of the time they dont know what they are talking about,all into fantasy and fairy tales,unrealistic,very emotional,weak, misunderstood, always think they are the victim and that they’re life is horrible, wants sympethy.
SO they both have a lot in common, but women are a bit more advanced. In my advice, Libras, stay AWAY from Pisces, they are NOT the ones, they are the mistake. If you are dating a woman, they will cling on to you. If you are dating a guy, they will somehow break your heart. Now, Pisces, I’m not saying you’re horrible, but you see Libras are the one for you, absolutely not. Libras are not that huggy lovey touchy type of people. You strive for sympethy, Libras will give you some, but not too much. Libras are too independent for you and honestly they can’t fufill all your needs. But if that Libra is STILL with you, they must really love you to know you are not the one. Libras need social butterflies, and they are not that emotional like you. They don’t have time to listen to all you input on the world, very annoying. And you talk the hell out of them.Yes you know Libras are the ideal lovers, but you are not for them. Trust me I say I am nfinty and beyond right, ‘ckuz I studied them a lot, I met them, been known them for years. I know about guy Libras a lot, Capricorn guys. There are good and bad things about all signs. SO Pisces, don’t think I’m picking you, ‘ckuz some Pisces are different but half are how I said.
December 9th, 2009 at 2:36 am
So i recently met a Pisces i really really like i am a libra but he doesnt seem to open up to me. Well he does open up to me but just when its the two of us together. If we are at school he doesnt give me a kiss he just kind of high fives me? How do i exactly go about dealing with a pisces?
December 9th, 2009 at 5:29 pm
Hi,
I am an Libra girl, I like a Pisces guy. It was my instinct that at the first sight, I believed he is the one whom I am looking for. However, he said that he didn’t feel that I could be the match for him. Even after he telling that, infact I like him even more..I don’t know what to do…
December 13th, 2009 at 8:11 am
I’m a libra male, and my best and worst relationship was with a pisces female. Now, i’m single again and it seems like the only girls that come at me are ALL pisces. What’s the deal with that? The one sign that I can’t be in a long-term relationship with is the only sign attracted to me? Is there one married Libra & pisces couple out there to give me some hope?
December 15th, 2009 at 5:27 am
I am a pisces, and have been a sucker for Libra men, more so then any other sign (except aquarious…). I have found that Libras have this sort of deep-held emotion, that isn’t expressed on their sleeves like Pisces are, but more internal, and it instead comes out through they’re art. Whether it is music or painting, Libras have a talent for creating something beautiful, and Pisces have the heart to appreciate it. However, Pisces need to feel loved and mostly in a Physical realm, where Libras can feel smuthered by this sort of affection. The only thing that has gotten in the way of my Libra relations is that I, as a Pisces, take it to heart when the Libra needs freedom and space.
December 18th, 2009 at 4:15 am
LIL BRO - WELL IM A PISCES 20 YEAR OLD WOMAN SO THIS IS MY SECOND LIBRA RELATIONSHIP. WE PISCES CAN BE CRAZY LOL WELL THE THING THAT KEEPS US ATTRACTED IS THAT LIBRA LOVES BEAUTY AND WE PISCES CARY THAT LIKE WE LOVE THE CHARM OF A LIBRA… THE THING IS YOU ARE MORE OF YOU NEED SPACE DOESNT MEAN YOUR GOING TO DO ANYTHING BAD, BUT WE LIKE TO BE CUDDLED UP, ALWAYS FEEL WANTED NOT REALIZING U ALSO NEED A BREAK TO GO DO YOUR THING. SO WE TEND TO SMOOTHER A LIBRA AND A LIBRA DISSAPEARS FROM A PISCES SO THATS WHERE THE PROBLEM BEGINS… SEE I HAVE REALLY BEEN TRYING TO UNDERSTAND A LIBRA MAN WHICH IS DIFFICULT TO ME, BUT IVE BEEN DOING A BETTER JOB AT IT THEN AT THE START. I LEARNED LIBRA DOESNT LIE, JUST KEEPS THINGS FROM PEOPLE AND PISCES LIKE TO HEAR *EVERY DETAIL* OF EVERYTHING. DOESNT MEAN YOUR NOT TRUSTED, BUT WE JUST WANT TO FEEL LIKE WE ARE IMPORTANT. IMPORTANT ENOUGH TO HAVE A CONVERSATION ABOUT HOW YOUR DAY WENT ECT. I DONT KNOW IF WHAT IM SAYING HELPS, BUT AS IM WRITING IM THINKING OF MY RELATIONSHIP AND MY UNDERSTANDINGS….
December 28th, 2009 at 4:27 am
I am a Libra woman who has been trying to get closer to a Pisces man with little success. He seems to be almost void of emotion at times, like he can’t get out of his own world. He seems nice enough. Has helped me on several occasions with issues, but day to day keeps a wall up. It’s sad. I could love him.
January 4th, 2010 at 5:54 am
I am a Libra and my girlfriend/fiance is a Pisces so I had to look it up. And everything in here is really true. And no matter how much of a “roller-coaster” our relationship is, I could never stop loving her.
January 12th, 2010 at 6:10 pm
My Libra is my true love. Were going to be married this year and I have never experienced any relationship like it. We fit together very well! Being a Pisces I will swim away as soon as I feel someone is trying to put me on a hook. I married before and it took me a long time to get out of that fishy net!!!! Libra is different, I haven’t had to turn myself into a shark in order to escape, and I don’t know why, LOL!!! It’s seems to be no threats since I have decided to take the bait. My Libra has served some pretty tempting bait for me. I’m hooked unless the waters change and then I will have to swim away into the deep sea where all Pisces go to safety, and wait for another, and remember what not to repeat to avoid getting that hook in my mouth! LOL!!!
January 28th, 2010 at 7:26 pm
i’m a pisces woman and dating a libra man…at first i kept asking myself how this cud get any better. we clashed in the best ways possible and made each other feel better about our flaws. since many of them were one in the same. now at 5 months later my emotions are racked up so high its effecting my schooling. (not failing or nething)
he calls and says he wants to be with me that night and just hang out or do whatever we have planned but its usually a no call no show experience until i call him to get the story. i’m tired of it and i know i deserve better than that. his explanation was that hes always been terrible at showing up on time. I SMELL BS! i know alot of u wonder y i even bother enough to write this blog asking for help when it seems he’s a closed case.
but i sense that its because he doesn’t know how to balance his everyday life with someone else to worry about in it. how do i help him? or guide/talk to him about how to make this a healthy equal relationship!?!? i know he must be a willing contestant. i’m the first woman he’s dated since his ex 3 years ago. so i know for sure that he’s in this for me and him.
please advise!!!!
February 1st, 2010 at 6:35 am
Dear Danielle,
As you requested…
Pisces woman and Libra man
This is a magnetic attraction. The two of you may strongly feel that you have found your soul mate, but do not make that call too soon. While the two of you connect on so many levels that it is hard to imagine life with another hold on, because there are also many differences that could bring you back from your utopian world of total bliss. However I’m no killjoy so let’s explore the world of total bliss first.
This is often a love at first sight type of attraction and you both feel it very strongly. What you both feel is very real, and it could be the beginning of a truly magical relationship that could very well lead to a very happy marriage. You are both unbelievably creative and share a love of music, the arts, travel, food and the finer things in life. While you both love the finer things, the things do not define you.
On your own you are both highly creative and independent individuals, but when you come together you make quite power a team. The Pisces woman will shape the Libra man and draw out the best in him on every level. She will believe in all of his dreams and make him believe that nothing is impossible. She will be his greatest asset. She is also great for his ego. The Libra man can sometimes feel insecure, but the Pisces woman will calm all of his fears and help him see just how special he really is.
For her, the Libra man will provide security, love, friendship and marriage, if she plays her cards right. I will get to that in a bit. Not all, but Libra men can be quite romantic, which will melt the Pisces woman’s heart. He will make her feel sexy and wanted. This is a couple that shares a strong tie of friendship even when romance is not at its height. What I love about this couple is that they make love to each other without being sexually intimate. What I mean by that is when this combination is right, they are very loving towards one another. As for sex these two are very intimate, intense and passionate in the bed room. There is such a spiritual oneness about the two when they make love that both of them are sure to reach the height of sexual passion. They will bask in each other’s arms afterwards they are in no hurry to separate. But dear Pisces woman after you leave his arms give him his space. The Libra man likes to be left alone for a time. Do not take it personal. He, like Virgo, likes to spend time in his own head. So while it may seem like he is pulling away after such intense lovemaking, it has nothing to do with you. He just needs his space, and then he will come back to you because if there is one thing he loves, it is being with his Pisces girl!
Pisces woman you also need your space. You need alone time to dream to create and relax. The Libra man will give you that. He will never interfere with your dreams unless he is horrible insecure. This is rare. Otherwise he will be supported and offer his wisdom when you need it. He is smart, intelligent and usually has a great sense of humor. Some Libra men can be shy and others are extroverts, the life of the party even. They always speak their minds when they need to make a point. The two of you will share open and honest communication.
Okay, it can’t be all bliss, right? In the world of Pisces of course it can, but in reality we have to beware of the other end of the spectrum. Do not worry, it’s not too bad, but you have to acknowledge all aspects of this relationship. The Libra man can sometimes be impatient, irritable, cranky and have a sharp tong or rude. Rudeness is not typical, but there is the rare Libra man that can be uncouth and needs to be put in his place quickly. Sometimes he can be cold and distant. When you see this gently bring it to his attention. Pisces you are intuitive, so stay sharp and do not let him play mind games with you or manipulate you emotionally. If there is a disagreement you are most likely to be the one to make peace again. It will not be hard. Inwardly he will be so glad that you made the first step. He is not likely to hold things. He can also be a workaholic and prioritizing work over family. You can help him see that when all is said and done family is most important. Libra men are deeply sensitive, so always be honest but gentle with them. These aspects are almost never mentioned when you read about the Libra man, but they are fact.
Now, I mentioned earlier that you must play your cards right. This is not always the case, but if you want a Libra man to marry you do not move in with him. He is the sign of marriage and playing house may only result in him becoming a lifelong boyfriend. Libra men love to be married so do not feel like you have to audition for the role to get the part. If a Libra man loves you, he will marry you. If he suggests moving in together tell him you would love to when he marries you. Again, marriage is what he craves and if he truly loves you, he will propose and never look back. Also note if he is not taking actions towards marriage after you have been seriously dating for a good time, he is just not that in to you.
This guy is a great catch for the Pisces woman. The Pisces will add fun and adventure and he will love every minute of it and he will romance you stabilize and make you feel loved.
Side notes: All men are visual but Virgos and Libra are very visual. So always use you sex appeal through appearance to entice him. He loves a sexy, but classy woman. He loves affection, attention and sincere words of affirmation. During lovemaking his lower back and buttocks are his erogenous zones and for you it is the bottom of your feet.
February 5th, 2010 at 6:45 pm
Dear Sharlene,
THANK YOU SO MUCH! Your words of wisdom have helped me immensely as a true pisces girl the past 2 years have been a emotional rollercoaster for me. I was in a serious relationship with a virgo man (who will always have my heart)for a year and a half. I love him dearly and he loves me but honesty is very important to me and thats something he cant be.
So after many hurtful words and breakups I finally had taken all the pain i could handle and told him it was over. He is on the road and still calls everyday we just cant seem to completely let go of each other even though we know we cant be. I have never had this much trouble letting go of a man. I started dating a libra man shortly after ending the relationship with the virgo. The libra man and i actually work together so we already had established a friendship and there always was a strong attraction. So that is what led me to asking you for insight because everything you wrote about the virgo/pisces is so true. I know i jumped into the relationship with my libra man too soon because im still healing from my last relationship but my libra man (being the sign of partnership and marriage) made me fall in love with his honesty, sweetness, and need of partnership. Im going to be 33 on the 23rd and have no children and all he talked about from the beginning is how badly he wants children and to get married. So I fell for it hook, line, and sinker and as of today I am 1 month pregnant! He is ecstatic and so am I and I truly believe everything happens for a reason and found it amusing what u said about moving in together because he has been pushing for us to get a place together asap. I am definintely taking your advice on waiting on that and would love to hear any more words of wisdom you have to offer. I really want this relationship to work for us and our baby and although it has been hard for me to let go of the past I know the future will be much brighter. I want to become the evolved mature pisces woman and help my libra man be the best man he can be so we can be the best parents we can be together.
March 12th, 2010 at 4:54 am
i’m a pices women and been with a libra male for 4 years. my bday feb 28 & his oct 6. It’s really difficult and like i keep reading through these blogs def. a roller coaster relationship. I believe everyone is different on the outside from the things we all experience differently in life, reguardless what anyones sign is. Some ppl cheat, some don’t, same goes with lieing over stupid sh***. It’s just the way some ppl are. The sign of someone does not mean that’s how they are going to be. The sign of anyone has nothing to do with A BAD OR GOOD PERSON. The sign of each individual (and of course it depends the exact day your bday falls on…to really get the depth from each sign working as one in a relationship) is the inner depth of a person, but even so like i said some ppl are just sorry ppl while others are not.
But of course reguardless with any sign LOVE really does conquore all. If you want anything to work, IT CAN…only through God & patience of course. Or that’s just what i believe.
Me and my baby are great right now. OF course tomorrow could be different. The thing is I’m a good person, he’s a great person, (WHICH IS #1 WHEN FINDING ANY PARTNER) and we are extremely committed. (which is number 2 in all relationships.) Even with the emotional roller coaster rides, in the end it all plays out with GOD, LOVE,commitment, PATIENCE, communication, and trust. And in the end it’s always woth it to see how God works, when you know nothing else can make it work. That’s why i love being with a Libra because I KNOW if God did not exist my relationship would not exist, but even more i wouldn’t be so happy in my relationship. It’s kinda like witnessing a miracle i guess you would say. Everday… lol i’m such a loser.
Only persue a relationship if they are a good person, YOU’LL KNOW. If he/she is not i wouldn’t pursue it.
March 22nd, 2010 at 10:26 pm
I have got to admit, This might be the most interesting comment you’ve read.
I’m a pisces woman and he’s a libra man. It’s been rather rough trying to make things work out between us, even from the beginning. We’ve been friends for a long time since high school and here we are, married with kids, still talking to each other, and junk. We’re both kind emotional and f***ed up, not perfect, but great for one another. We share the same ideas, etc. Compromising with a choice is hard for libras. And since I have no problems making choices, I chose to do whatever.
And I found someone else… A scropio!
March 27th, 2010 at 7:12 am
Wow,
I am a P and she is a L. Life has been super rough the last 10 years. She trys but then doesn’t. So hot/cold all the time. Sex was amazing before marriage and our child. The last 6 years has been sex every other month and you know that makes it hard. Roaming eye? Well lets just put it like this:
If you keep a dog under the kitchen table and never feed him even when he begs, the dog will get fed.
Reading all of these actually makes me feel sad because most if all of the posts were so right on. I kind of wish I knew then what I know now, but I have this beautiful sweet daughter so I feel like regret is such a mistake.
I’m trying to hang and don’t want to do the big D thing but this is all so painful. So thank you all for your comments. It has been a great and theraputic read.
April 20th, 2010 at 5:13 am
Im a Libra and my husband is a Pisces and we have been going strong for 6 years now.We were high school sweethearts and we grew to know everything about eachother.We compliment eachother very well and though he does tend to bottle things up i ahve a way of taking those blow out moments just as they come!! we love eachother very much and honestly didnt have our first fight until 3 years into our relationship and have honestly never had ahuge fight where we are yelling at eachother at the top of our lungs and about to break up…its never even came close to that!! My kindness and understanding nature seems to fit perfectly in our marriage!! Hes a great father to our son and we feel that adding more kids into our realtionship will just bring us closer.My husband works all day everyday just so i can stay home with my son and raise him until he’s in school.He wants me to be happy and me to raise our son until he’s ready to go to school its awesome!! my husband would move heaven and earth to keep me happy and i would do the same for him!! i always read that our signs arent compatible but i feel those facts are the farthest from the truth that they ever could be!! He’s my soul mate and i cant wait to grow old with and have him sitting in the chair next to me while he’s watching sports and im knitting. I cant wait to spend eternity with you Dan I Love you and Brighton so much your my world!! and i hope you all find the same happiness i feel with my man!! Best of luck with the man hunt…there are still good ones out there its just you gotta look in the right spot:)
April 20th, 2010 at 4:58 pm
I’m a pisces woman and my bf is libra and reading trough the comments I see our relationship. I’m very emotional and my emotional state changes so often: one minute I’m the happiest person alive and the other I’m sad and depressed. He is very understanding and always tries to make me happy. The biggest problem in our relationship is that I need alot of time for myself and like one person said above I always keep my eyes open to other males although I love my bf very much. Pisces just fall in love very easily. Biggest problem with him is that he has very few interests and isnt very social as I am. Although we have our ups and downs I think this is bound to be last as it has lasted for the last 5 years.
May 3rd, 2010 at 4:40 pm
I’m a P and he’s L… All of this is sooo terribly true. I just find it hard to trust my Libra man. He seems to find a possiblity with everything/every women with his wandering eyes. and its hard for him to make a decision. If he sees any weakness in me he tries to exploit it only to be dumbfouned when it back-fires in his face!…quite immature We recently broke up(what he thought was joke was very disrespectful) and he’s begging me back. Everything started out really nice until he started talking to his ex! She cheated and she’s dating someone else. He says it bothers him that she’ll be everything he wanted her to be to someone else. My question is “How does he know?” She seems to know exactly how to push his buttons (Im learning damn her). I see possiblities too!! but i can be content with what I have. He’s soo cute though!!!! Sex is amazing…And he’s so sweet…I asked him what would be the first thing he’d do if he won the lottery he said marry me!!! AWWWWWWW I dont beleive him but i sure felt all warm and fuzzy!!!!If I could only get rid of that pest of an ex!
Seriously I think a mature Pisces woman can handle a Libra. Just stay focus when they stray off course a bit. They lie for no reason;just call them out on it gently…they bruise easliy.
May 22nd, 2010 at 10:39 am
I’m a Libran female, and my boyfriend was a Pisces. I thought it was great, although yeah, it was a bit of an emotional rollercoaster. He’d get depressed a fair bit, I’d do my best to cheer him up, but couldn’t. However, I was always there for him whenever I could be, and even though I was unable to cheer him up when he was so down, I still tried, and I made him as happy as I could every other time. I don’t understand why, maybe because I’m an aethist, but he left me, so he could become a priest. I put as much time and effort into him as I could, but he never really returned the favour… I put up with that, and he still left me. I was devestated. But I hope he’s happy. The scales don’t lie, I guess. One person can’t balance out a relationship.
May 26th, 2010 at 7:49 am
jori ! i so agree wid u on this one !!
i broke up with my libran bf las night finally !!
hez been xactly the way u describe in ur comment !
i wish we dint lack this communication gap he created !
June 28th, 2010 at 7:27 pm
HAHA Looking at it now, I am a pisces and my fiancee is a libra, and we fight entirely too much, but seem to forgive eachother quickly no matter how bad the fight is. My problem is theres no way i can trust him,and its never been like this with anyone else. We have known eachother for 5 years and have been dating for 2. He’s a really good guy,but a smooth one if you know what im saying? He can make a woman melt with his words it makes me sick.
July 10th, 2010 at 3:39 pm
I am a libra girl and I just broke up with my pisces boyfriend. It’s a long story, but I think it really depicts the true nature of our zodiac compatibility. I met him 8 months ago and he fell in love with me instantly. He wanted to be with me, but the problem was, I was really hurt by my x boyfriends, so I decided I wanted to be alone and just have fun instead of trusting again. So at first I made it clear to him that we are just fooling around. I also had something going on with another man, so I didn’t want to play with him, that’s why I didn’t want to get comitted. (of course I didn’t tell him about the other guy).
But he was insisting, he was telling me all these words of romance (typical pisces), that he wants to be my boyfriend, make me happy and protect me and be there for me bla bla bla. So eventually after 2 months, I stopped fooling around and I told him that I want to be with him and I made up my mind (typical libras can’t make up their minds immediately, it took me 2 months…)and we got together. Everything was perfect at first, we would be together all the time, kissing, cuddling, sleeping together, talking for hours (both signs are very romantic and emotional). Once I made up my mind I wanted to be with him, I was loyal to him and he was the only boy that existed in my life, my mind and my heart. (Libras do play around when they are not serious, but once they truly love someone they give their heart completely and they are loyal) We had some problems, a lot of fights, and I did have problems in trusting him completely, mostly because of my bad experience with x-boyfriends, but they were all overcome.
At some point I had a problem with my knee and I could not climb up the stairs to his house (he lived on the third floor). He was carrying me all the way up the stairs. (pisces are well known for their sensitivity to human pain and their efforts to help)
Finally, we went to my hometown to introduce him to my sister and her boyfriend. My sister wanted to keep track of her boyfriend, cause she thought he was cheating on her, so she had put sth on her pc that copied everything you typed, including your passwords etc. My boyfriend used the pc, so my sister got his codes by accident. (I did not know that she had this thing on her pc) She knows my bad experiences with men, so she searched his mails etc.
Words are inadequate to describe what she found.. First of all, the guy had a serious addiction for escorts (let’s say luxury whores). He was constantly booking meetings with escorts while we were together. He was asking for perversed stuff. (Pisces are infamous for addictions such as alcohol, drugs, escorts, perversed and selfdegrading sex etc). He also had blocked me from some stuff on his facebook. (pisces are well known for lying and hiding stuff). At some point she found a mail to one of his friends were he wrote how much more beautiful is my sister than me and that he would like to do something with her. (pisces are romantic at the beginning, but they are easily bored)
I told him the whole truth, he did not admit a thing (even though I saw all the mails with my own eyes cause my sister showd me right away) and we broke up. I did not fight with him (I was too sad to fight) I just told him he should have left me alone at the first place because he knew I was hurt when he met me (I had told him at the beginning that I don’t want to be with him because I am extremely hurt) and now he made it worse. I don’t think I will be able to trust men again. He did not give me an explanation, he just told me he loved me more than any other girl and that someday he will explain. We haven’t talked ever since because he is avoiding me.
Next week I will go get tested for std’s, who knows what quality of escorts he was sleeping with. My conclusion is, that he in deed loved me, but he was mentally fucked up. He had a second life all this time, he showed a different lovely face to me, so passionate loving and emotional, so romantic. But he had a split personality (remember pisces are symbolized by two fish swimming in opposite directions). I cannot be really mad at him, after all I still have feelings for him, it’s still fresh. And I am not the revenge type. But I wont trust again… And he is the reason why. He hurt me so bad when I loved him so much. And the worst thing of all, is that you would never expect that from such a sweet and loving boy like him. (pisces most of the times show you a sweet face).
So beware with pisces!! They may look innocent, sensitive and sweet, but they have so many secrets you can’t even imagine… They need overposessive bitches to wipe their asses everyday, so that they can balance their weak personalities. And unfortunately I am not a bitch. That’s all from me. Bye bye and good luck
July 22nd, 2010 at 12:49 pm
My Boyfriend Is A Pices & I’m A Libra We Began As Friends & Got Extremely Close & We Just Recently Made It Official After 2 Yrs So We Know How One Another Is , I Can Say We Disagree Often But When We Do We Start Talking Again After We Work The Situation Out Than We’re Good Again But Its Never Anything Serious We Disagree About ! Lol & As A Libra I Am Very Emotional !!
August 14th, 2010 at 1:21 pm
I am a scorpio, my man cheated on me with a libra. Though most of my research says scorpio and pisces are literally meant for each other and are the legendary love match and for that purpose I think that’s why me and my man are perfect for each other. Our relationship is just right, suits me in every aspect. His mistakes are perfect for me, and I think my mistakes are perfect for him. I don’t want to be apart from him. My only problem is that he cheated on me with a libra once and I don’t know whether she is a threat or not? !
September 18th, 2010 at 5:13 am
I am a picese girl my ex was a libra. we dated on and off for five years. The first time he laid eyes on me he was amazed and did all he could to get me. I played hard to get. anyways he was a player we went then were friends, we had commitment issues… the moments spend with each other were like with no other. it felt like we belong together. he understood me like no other guy i ever met b4. i fell so so so hard for him but slowly we started drifting apart with work n all and no communication he found someone else she got preganet he left me and got married to her without telling me i found out from my family and friends. Now when i see him we are like strangers this is the same person who once loved me with all his heart..when i was with him i never wanted to leave him he loved him so much… i still love him and i think i always will.. when i met him it felt like i met him b4 it was like a movie i used to believe he was the one… he had the most beautiful eyes when i looked into them i only saw me but i was wrong but i was so sure the first time we kissed the first time he told me he love me…. but im happy for him he is very happy he has straigten his life he is happy n successful with a lil baby boy n a beautiful wife good for him
he could of atleast told me we were bestfriends we used to talk about everything even when we were just friends he would tell me about his other girlfriend but not this time…. but anyways ya he was a libra october 7 im a picese march 6
October 6th, 2010 at 9:48 pm
I’m a piseces girl and my bf is a libra. I’m so fucking in love with him and everything about him is wonderful. yes we fight a lot but its sooo worth it. we balance eachother out and we can nevr leave each other no matter how bad it gets. He is my life my love and my best friend.
October 12th, 2010 at 1:04 am
Air+Water=Fog
In other words - it doesn’t work @ all..
October 27th, 2010 at 4:18 am
I am a Libra female and am beginning a romance with a very charming Pisces male. I am so overwhelmed with the intense sense of desire and passion between us–so I agree that when a couple is alone… I am trying to behave myself and keep him interested because I feel he becomes easily bored with women in the past. When we get together we always speak of such deep areas of the soul and life ingeneral. I find it funny that we recently discussed (while canoeing) how we like to “swim” away from past lovers instead of being so kind to tell them goodbye. After, I left I realized I have remained friends with my old flames…so what did this adorable pisces gentleman do? Just vanish from the lives of his old flames. I am afraid I would nearly be heartbroken if he vanished even this early on. We connect, we have chemistry, common ground, laughter, communication, shared dreams and goals…and we are both too chicken to become more serious is what I have pondered.
January 14th, 2011 at 6:46 pm
I am a pisces woman, for some reason I have dealt with two Libra males! I believe that there is some karmatic attraction between these two signs! I happen to be very spiritual and have that 6th sense that ppl always talk about…
For all you guyz that have troubles in your relationship with a Pisces, remember that Pisces will never give up on the one they LOVE!!
January 14th, 2011 at 6:54 pm
@ Libra girl.
I had a similar experience with a Libra man! I happen to be a Pisces woman!!!
maybe this was just a lesson you were suppose to learn….
Good luck!
Pisces girl
January 30th, 2011 at 12:01 pm
Okay so this is what I have to say, I am a Libra woman & love a Pisces man, a couple things I have noticed is Pisces will shut down if I talk about anything they don’t want to deal with, I love him dearly but I think he does lie or is not totally honest about some things, we talked about getting married and having kids but then he stopped talking to me and found out about 9 months later he had a baby with someone else, I kinda feel like maybe other girls get jelous of what we had & try to create the same relationship with him or he tries to with other girls but anyways he is single right now, I am only trying to be his friend because, I really think he needs time being single right now after everything thats happend in his life & a certain situation he is in, but damn I love him! I can’t picture myself with anyone else! EVER its a long distance relationship but I know for things to work out both people need to be commited & faithful, its like karma, karma isnt just puting good energy out to receive it back, it can be the energy put into work, home, gardens & relationships, if you keep the communication going with your partner and show love, you will have a good karma between eachother, I know no relationship is perfect & has its ups & downs that need to be worked through, you can’t always be in a utter state of bliss 24/7.
I just hope we can be together & he works out his problems, I do feel that the people he socializes with & drinking does play a role in how things work out, he is the best man I have ever met but I think he tries to be so manly & tough now, one time when we were together he asked me who I was seeing & said no one who you seeing lol I know that game! there are trust issues, I try to trust because why condem someone that has commited no crime? Really talking is the key, without communication there is nothing & sometimes Pisces wont say what is on there mind or fears, I know I am crazy but I forgive him & just hope he feels the same & satisfied like I do. He was my best friend & I want to be his wife & have his children, it made me cry!
February 18th, 2011 at 1:42 am
I suppose it is moreso the ages of the couple involved, were they good friends first, and the year they were born that all factor in to whether these two signs are a good match for love. Take me for example. I am a pisces born the year of the rabbit. Of my past relationships that have failed, the first one was with a gemini born the year of the snake (indecisive and sneaky), a pisces born the year of the horse (moody and anxious), a capricorn born the year of the dragon (controlling and aggressive), and finally a pisces born the year of the rooster (moody and a social perfectionist). A perfect match for me would be a cancer born the year of the sheep (moody yet easy going). However, when looking for my perfect match, the women I find who match this are either all married or are so unattractive that it makes me not bother looking. Don’t get me wrong; I am far from perfect myself (moody and on the go a lot) and only moderately good looking. However, what must be said is that it can work if two people are willing to compromise together and work on those negative aspects of who they are for the other person.
February 21st, 2011 at 8:07 am
I am a libra and my gf is a pisces. Its four months now and ive never felt so loved an I cant seem stop thinking of her. I thnk we make a perfect match and understand each other. I am never afraid to talk when she asks me too and that makes things so much easier because she always understands what im trying to say and makes me feel better.
March 2nd, 2011 at 11:13 pm
Hi^^ i am Pisces and my Man is Libra ^^
at the start my man didn’t love me bcoz he still in love with his Flirtest girl X in the world…
but as the time goes by…his starting to love my to… he told me that im so sweet and caring
person that he’d ever meet …We always give hugs and kisses when ever
we see each other,having good or bad things happen, having special moments
or just a ordinary day.. I want to fell him that I’m always at his side whatever happens..
i don’t want to fell him again what he felt before … his is the Idiot person when it comes to LOVE… and i want him to enjoy What love is^^
March 2nd, 2011 at 11:16 pm
If he want to go out w/ his friends, I let him go.. and if i Want, he will let me…
we give my 100% trust to each other… and after that night we will talk about what happen^^ if he or I meet a cute guy/gal will talk about it^^ w/ fun….. we are so open to each other… I am not afraid that he will damp me because I know that he loves me and I also told him that don’t ever ever think that I will damp him … as long as He love mo I will love him^^ hehehhe weird? Its me..
our relationship is not just boyfriend and girlfriend…
its like all in 1^^ *bf and gf,bestfriends,friends,tripers, mother/father,younger/older siblings ect.* Im So BLESS that I’ve found my Libra^^
March 7th, 2011 at 9:28 am
“well,im a libra and my bf pisces…we are doing quite well..he is perfect in the sense that he loves children…so sweet,romantic..wants to sacrifice his whole life for me.we just have to understand their whole being and i believe this relationship will create an amazing marriage….its just a matter of understanding and loving the person….
March 17th, 2011 at 8:11 pm
I’m a Pisces girl, who’s how do I put it lol “involved” with a Libra guy. Soo me and this Libra have known eachother since we were kids, before we even hit puberty lol,we spent alot of time together. Anyway, when we were growing up he would tell me how he liked me but I was just never really interested, I don’t why, I guess cuz i’m a little older than him by about a year in a half, which made me feel weird,I was just really young and closed minded like that lol. Alrite well moving on, I ended up having to move and I never told him, truth is it totally slipped my mind. Not too long after moving, he ended up finding my old website and since then feelings just grew. It was really cute and sweet, he would tell me how he liked me since the day we met and of memories we spent together, in detail lol, it was funny cuz I never realized how much time he invested on thinking about me and how much he really hurt when I left. For awhile I went along with these long distant conversations and I really liked the attention but sometimes it would make me feel a bit awkward, cuz I wasn’t sure if he was what I wanted, he even said “I love you” which honestly scared the hell out of me, therefore at times I became a bit distant, I probably really hurt him now that I think about it. Soo we were on and off for awhile and grew more mature of course, but we never stopped talking, we always kept in touch, but I have to say at one point I think I caught him lying, about not having a girlfriend, i’m not the type who condones a cheating BF and I made that pretty clear to him from the get go,I was certain that I wasn’t gonna continue with these talks anymore, I was ready to move on but he insisted it wasn’t true, I was amazed by his effort to keep me grounded, I think he was scared to completley lose me, soo I gave him the benefit of the doubt. Soo finally after years of not seeing him face to face, I was able to visit. It was just crazzy as soon as we saw eachother, things just moved soo fast, it was all fun but chaotic, it’s like I had no control, he was soo aggresive and I have to admit I was to weak to resist lol,him holding my hand everywhere was my favorite. He was no longer that little boy with a crush, he was a grown ass man lol!! As great as it was it came with consequences, cuz we’re are not an item, he didn’t wanna make things official since I had to leave again and cuz we’re both not stable in our lives right now, It seriously hurt to hear,sometimes I feel like he got what he wanted, like he fulfilled his curiousity over me. Pisses me off but we still talk, I’m confused, I find myself trying to move on and forget about it, I talk to other guys and not one has been enough to take my mind off him . I hate feeling like this, sometimes I feel like he owns me, like his grip is soo tight without him really even trying, it’s like the tables have turned. I don’t know what to do, soo complicated, I wonder if this whole thing is worth the stress…Anyway, I know this is soo long lol, I just needed somewhere to vent to. Soo if u read this whole thing thanx, I really appreciate it!!
March 29th, 2011 at 2:58 am
I am libra and my man is pices. we are living together 4 years. it was grate on beginning, he is so charming, helpful and understunding. he its the first man I meet who really know me (sometimes
like I know myself. we are both artists, encouraging and inspiring each othe. sometimes dreamy minds but we got ahead with this. and all was going quaiet good until I got pregnant 2 years ago, we got married and we had a child now, and all this life things you can just imagine to dill with. And its become so hard. we start arguing, fighting, I become so horrible, always tired. we try to cope with growing small kid, being artist and making some money for living, and believe me its become a hell. I had enough. I think our dream heads just leading us stright to destruction.I don’t know what to say more. I wish things can get better.
April 18th, 2011 at 6:16 am
I’m a Pisces and I’m totally in love with a friend of mine who is a Libra, hell, he knows it too.
How he knows, you wanna ask? (You didn’t ask, but I’ll tell you anyways,) Let’s just say I got a little too drunk with him one night and kinda… erm, blurted it out. He didn’t reject me though, but honestly, I don’t think he rejects any girl–he was taught to respect us/them/girls.
But. . . he told me a few nights ago (we were drinking again with some buddies) when we were alone, that he loved me too. Then crazy shit happens afterwards, and I’m not quite sure how to take it. :/
Oh yeah, I don’t know what the hell people mean we (Pieces and Libra) always argue, ’cause personally, I think we get along GREAT as friends.
But, yes, I belive Pisces and Libra can be great for each other, it just depends what kind of person they are (not everyone will be their Zodiac Sign’s personality)!! ;D
Hopefully I can get enough courage to ask him out, but I’m not sure. :/ He’s one of my (recent) best friends ex. :/ Even she said he likes me, but said not to go out with him ’cause I’ll just get hurt in the end. :/
What do you think I should do? D:
Sincerely,
Cassandra Promise Larson.
May 18th, 2011 at 11:38 pm
Did you all ever stop to think that every relationship has it’s ups and downs. As much as (maybe) the stars have their influence, please don’t let them rule you. You can only find answers within yourself. Unless there is a scientific test that proves bad star alignments (from people that do not know their signs otherwise their belief will affect the outcome, self-fulfilling prophecy) you cannot know what will work. This stuff is fun - when it supports what you want to hear or believe and when it doesn’t you just figure ok, it’s wrong there…but look at where it’s right. So, bottom line…please don’t use this for anything more than fun, and a good tool to actually have a healthy discussion about belief systems, family values, goals, how you both deal with stress, and if these are similar you both stand a much better chance of success long term, I think. Thoughts?
June 6th, 2011 at 6:40 pm
This is wild. Im a libra male who has just met a pisces female 2 monthes ago. I have really strong feelings for her and I know she has the same for me. Not to mention in the bedroom we make magic lol. After the 1st month of talking ive already seen her trust issues come up. She automatically assumes I have all the girls I talk to and that im not loyal. Now its been 2 months and we’re thinking about long distance thing and trust issues are once again coming up. I know this is a red flag but the connection we have is unreal!!
June 16th, 2011 at 5:59 pm
Alright I am a libra man. For all of you pisces women that are out there it should be more of we need to stay away from you. So mysterious and never getting to the point. I had a pisces girlfriend once and all she did was stayed upset. I tried to ask her what was going on she said nothing. Then I found out that she was still in love with her ex. I mean I thought that we were suppose to be the liars. But I was honest and she lied, and still loved this man after he lied and cheated on her. So my advice is if you are a libra man stay away from them fickled pisces females. They are no good, let other signs handle them because libras aren’t for them. And if you are in a relationship with a pisces woman please dump as quick as you can because everyday will not be consistant. You will keep asking her is everything okay and she will tell you yes with a frown on her face. Opposite attracts true but polar opposites needs to run for the hills. I will never get with a pisces woman ever again.
July 2nd, 2011 at 10:25 pm
Hi,
My man is a libra and I’m a Pisces and ever since we got together we’ve never been apart from each other. And not once have we thought of breaking up, we have awesome communication with each other. Instead, of fighting things out we talk about it and that should go for any relationship or astrological signs. It’s great that these places tell you good and bad points about the compatibilities of each sign but it’s up to you and your loved one to make it or break it. And not all Pisces live their day to day life in a dream, lazy, depressed or indecisive because those things are so not me. And as for libras not all are out going, or superficial showing their love, you just have to know you’re partner..if you know them well they don’t have to speak for you to know what they’re thinking it’s a deep understanding and love for one another. Anyway, good luck to you all!
July 5th, 2011 at 10:52 am
Im a pisces and I can say no one or anything in my life has ever damaged me even my health as my last libra ex girl did we went smoothly for about a year I was trusting loving gave her all the affection and praise attention loyalty every day she brought balance in my life and made me feel loved we shared interest ideas tastes little everyday gestures as if there was perfect harmony and never did i feel alone until for 3 months my intution was picking up slight distancing then the worst heartbreak ever I had vowed to love her unconditionally forever even after she admitted to having cheated and lying to me I would forgive her but her lying just would continue making me feel sicker each day I felt like i was suffering so badly when she just continued and left me as if nothing had ever happened between us many years after and still having problems sleeping or just feeling alive again I can just say right now I never even imagined anything as painful as what I went through could even be possible I really payed attention to astrology after this to find clues I cant stress this enought to everyone read the full charts of aspects so at least you wont be surprized so bad this ex stopped talking to me immidiately after she said she would be friends and shut me off she tried to contact me after some years of giving me the cold shoulder and for all that its worth for the sake of not being sick again for a pack of lies and deciet I put off confrontations once more If i feel that im at foult for anything it is that I avoided bringing up serious subjects for the sake of well the libra was able to twist words and discussion like a lawyer to her advantage and would lie to everyone friends anyone to cover herself even to the point of making some of her friends who i had no real conflict with come and harrass me as I tried to fix myself up emotionally truthfully I know she was hurt too by the degree of my withdrawal perhaps after she broke up with someone and thought of picking up on me again Ive not been with anyone since because healing takes time so far ive made 3 libra friends who have remained pretty good friends for years one of them has really helped me get through bad bad situations I feel like I can naturally devote limitless love even sacrifice my life for her I want to let go of everything but I feer like I somehow may be turning to intense depth of scorpio traits with desiring… how might this story end?
August 9th, 2011 at 12:48 pm
I’m a Libra girl who has been with a Picses for nearly seven months, and we are so in love and happy! I think part of the reason why we work so well together is that I’m not a typical Libra and he’s not a typical Pisces. We’re both social and outgoing in public, but we’re also content to stay in and watch movies all day. There is much passion and romance (which is typical), but there is also a very deep emotional connection. To an extent, I am rather closed off emotionally and I also have deep trust issues. He is patient and so intuitive, so he has slowly broken down my barriers and I feel like I can tell him anything. I’ve learned patience from him, and I’ve used it to do the same for him, and he has opened up to me more than he has with anyone. He makes me a better person, and I am wholly devoted to trying to do the same for him.
Our relationship thrives on passion, loyalty, understanding, and trust. I don’t know what more anyone could want from a relationship.
August 9th, 2011 at 1:29 pm
I agree with ntana. It really is fun to look up the traits of your significant other’s sign and see just how compatible it’s supposed to be with yours, but no one should use what is said on sites like this to decide how they feel about someone. No one matches up completely with the traits of their sign, and the difference between them and the qualities they’re “meant” to possess could be what makes them perfect for someone else who’s also just different enough from their sign. This could happen with any two people, and actually it does happen. Sites like this one could possibly be used by someone trying to get a deeper understanding of their relationship with someone, but it really should be used by someone with a harmless curiosity for what the stars have to say and how it matches up with reality.
Personally, this Libra chick and her Pisces man are very much in love, and nothing published on a website is going to change that.
November 5th, 2011 at 4:21 am
I have been married to my Libra for 20 years now. I really thought I would leave him after the kids where grown because he had so many hobbies and friends. I wanted someone home with me. He would get fustrated because I was so shy and lived in my own little world. I felt like I had to share him with the world. He is now my rock. I go out and do things with him and he stays home with me every now and then. It took some time to figure out a middle. Once we did you could not meet a more perfect couple
November 13th, 2011 at 6:45 am
As a Libran male myself, I can tell you women with pinpoint accuracy how to deal with us.
We’re heavy dreamers with an ideal relationship in our minds. If we’re still dating you, we’re already imagining 40 years down the line to picture the perfect marriage. But because we’re perfectionists, we’re analytical and constantly judging. It sucks, but we always do it. We can’t stand knowing we settled for anything less than perfect.
Its this same perfectionism that makes us so charming, because we constantly try to improve ourselves to perfection. What people see as indecisiveness in Librans, is actually us being overwhelmed by our wants and desires.
The key to a Libran man’s heart (for me anyway) is never ever smother us. Don’t probe our personal space. We like to come and go as we please, and the more room you give us, the more we desire you once we begin to miss you. In a way we’re very much like cats. Dogs want to be with you all the time, cats need time away alone. At times we want you so much we over indulge, and the more we over indulge, the longer the ‘cooldown period’ needs to be. So give us everything only once in a while, never all the time. And only make the first move once in a while. Don’t be passive, be independent and confident. Clingy girls are the worst to a Libran man.
In longer relationships, though we know whats good for us, we prefer to not be told what to do (even if you’re right). We might still take your advice, being logical as we are, but we’ll be less attracted to you. To us, the woman least like our mothers, is the most attractive.
In bed, we prefer to be the one doing the first move yet again, and we love when a woman resist but succumb to our charms, the ultimate turn-on. We never want you to make the first move, unless we hint to you that we do. If the sex isn’t great, he sees you more as a companion than a lover. We easily get bored after doing the same thing over and over again. We need variety in everything. Thats why the first few times with a Libran is always the hottest, most spiritual experiences (yes i’ve gotten many compliments). If you want to keep your Libran male happy, you have to be very creative in bed. Anticipation and suspense are the keys. We’re so used to getting what we want, it bores us. If we notice any personality flaws, it also makes us less attracted to you sexually.
When we sometimes appear cold and unemotional, dont take it personally. The thoughts rushing through our heads are so overwhelming that we cant handle anything else at times. Sometimes we’re cold simply because we feel we’ve spent too much time with you and need to back it off a little. Give us space. When we seem distant, leave us be. When we’re friendly, enjoy every moment of it, but leave early, just when we’re about to be fully satisfied. Never feed us 100%, give us 10% to hunger for you.
We’re very complex creatures and i admit we sometimes dont know whats best for ourselves. We might know a woman is good for us (i.e. gives good advice, pushy and motivating) but find ourselves attracted to the helpless beauty, with not a thought in her mind. Again, the less you are like our mothers, the more we’re attracted to you. We feel we’re awesome and dont want to admit that sometimes others’ advice is good. We’re not attracted to those people.
We don’t all cheat. For those with cheating Librans, don’t feel like your relationship was all a lie. When he makes love to you, or cares for you, its always genuine. Its just that his mind is easily swayed. He’s constantly unsure if he still has the charms he used to (we see ourselves as very attractive) and is doing constant tests.
The Libran is a flawed creature, seemingly calm and perfect on the outside but we have so much internal conflicts with ourselves and total chaos between our desires and whats good for us.
November 24th, 2011 at 8:53 pm
My sun is in Libra, moon in Taurus, with a Capricorn asc. My man Is a Pisces sun, Capricorn moon, with a Scorpio asc. I too have to attest to the roller coaster aspect of this pairing. Even after 5 yrs. together, it’s hard to tell whether the relationship is going or coming. We’ve been together going on 5 yrs. mainly due to his seeming helplessness, which brings out major motherly instincts within me, leading me to feel as though I should stay to protect him. But whose to protect me? I’m writing this as a precaution to other women out there… Do not fall for the Pisceans martyr spell, which will enevitably lead to various forms of entrapment/blackmail. Now don’t get me wrong, there is a sheer beauty to the Piscean persona, but one must discern whether it is worth the headaches and drama which are sure to follow… I personally dont think I’ll ever become involved with another Pisces man ( after the current ) or Pisces like persona, for my own well being… Looking to be a man’s lover and not his mother…
December 14th, 2011 at 8:10 am
Just a warning.
I’m a libra girl who was dating a pisces. Our relationship was the stuff of movies, romantic and intense. We were about to buy a house when I realised that he had been lying to me. He didn’t want to move in together. He said he “wasn’t ready”. Fortunately we were able to cancel the deal.
I never ssw it coming.
HL is totally right. When faced with a problem, Pisces swim away. They don’t stand up and face what they’ve done. They are also prone to change their minds and not tell you about it.
It breaks my heart that this happened, because I love him so very much. But I don’t know if I can truly trust him ever again.
Libra women, be warned.
December 17th, 2011 at 10:41 am
Aw,my crush is Libra and I’m Pisces…I kind of feel that this post is kinda true..
January 18th, 2012 at 1:21 pm
…..look everyone, weather your happy being together or not just realize that being lucky enough to be cherished by such a caring,artistic,dreamy,romantic who wants only to constantly better themselves is the most amazing luck that you could find.im a female libra, and iv been completely in love with the most wonderful person iv ever met.iv been non-stop in love for 5 years after i moved away.iv been waiting 5 years with nothing but pain in my chest and butterflies in my stomach.i havnt been able to feel anything for anyone since encountering this pices, and iv harbored these same feelings since i first caught his glance and peered into the most soft,kind,and surreal eyes id ever been lucky enough to view.he was charmingly adorable,goofey, thoughtful,intelligent,warm,sweet,artsy,brave,funny,romantic,and absolutely my first true love….but i lost him, and as a libra i know i have some downfalls and im willing to change everything about myself if i can itleast…if only be by his side. no one has ever loved or cared about me more than him.and i love him more than anything in this world.
so please,understand that complaining about a pices is worse than kicking a puppy.