Pisces Compatibility With Libra |
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Pisces and Libra
If this pair really wants this to go well then it stands every chance of doing so. Both the Pisces and Libra are both very affectionate and romantic, and they will adore finding someone who they can be themselves with. The attraction will be very strong especially when they are ‘alone’. The Pisces will love to show off his/her Libra mate to everyone and will enjoy going out a lot in public wanting everyone to see their beautiful, classy Libra lover.These two have a good chance of making a go of things with a family as well. They are both very loving as parents and fun to be around.
Once again the Pisces sensitivity comes into play. Although the Libra is quite an emotional person too, there aren’t many people who can cope with the trials and tribulations of the Pisces emotional state. Libra enjoys socialising and being around people, and can’t always understand why their Pisces mate has opted out from joining in. It is true, these two are different, and as a rule Air and Water doesn’t really mix that well due to the Air signs need for change and freedom. But I can see something in this pair that really could be quite sweet. OK, maybe not forever, but a nice interlude perhaps?
The trouble is that both signs are looking for their ideal soul mate to come along and rescue them from this cruel world, and I do doubt that they will find that in each other. The Pisces may feel that the Librans love is somewhat superficial at times and lacking in deep emotion. I do think though that with the Pisces and the Libra that if each other is committed to the other equally and especially if family is involved, then this has every chance of working. I just have a feeling. Good Luck!
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I am a Libra and most of a serious girlfriends have been Pisces. I don’t know why I am a glutton for punishment, but, I cant seem to get away from Pisces!
My current gf is a Pisces, I swear our relationship is an up and down roller coaster of emotion.
I TRY to show her over and over again that she can trust and believe in me, but, there is ALWAYS something wrong.
I don’t want to leave, but it’s getting to that point.
I see other men who stay in relationships and just put up with all the mess. Men aren’t perfect BY FAR but, I am really getting sick and tired of fighting all the time.
What in the world should I do? We are talking about moving into a house together and I’ve told her NUMEROUS TIMES that I HATE to fight.
WHAT THE F*$# WAT THAT GUY JUST POSTED IS SO MY FIANCE AND I
I m a libra female and my fiance is pisces. And i think we are the best couple in this world. I love him so much and so does he. I obey him on everything. Its always me who is fighting but he never fights back only because he cares alot for me he is a peace lover completely. He is very sensitive, emotional and romantic and i am always there for him. All he wants from me is my love and care for him and for that he can even get stars and moon for me.
I want to ask the libra guys a question. u say u fight with ur pisces woman cause she don’t trust u. do u think it may be the communication how do u show her u can be trusted.. I’ve dated a libra man oct 10 I was so drawn to him wanted to spoil him but he didn’t know how to receive affection even thou he wanted it. and he always seem to be lying when we talked he was afraid the truth would make me mad @ it didn’t we fuss moreso cause he wasn’t upfront or direct.. he was a coward he would say one thing and do another. so I ask u how do u communicate with ur woman.?
Personally, I am a Sun and Mercury Libra with Venus in Scorpio and a Cancer Moon; I also have Pluto in Scorpio and Jupiter in Pisces: I would like to say that some of us Libras with heavy water influences *do* have intense emotions and that while I do feel a lot of detachment being an air sign and all, just bc someone is an air sign doesn’t mean they have no depth. I’d also like to say that not all of us Libras are superficial, either. I really don’t know where the whole “Libras are untrustworthy” thing comes from. I’m sure some Libras cheat–maybe the “party girl” type Libras–but there *are* Libra women out there who manifest different traits of the sign. I for one would NEVER cheat on someone that I actually loved; to me if things are that bad you should leave and let the other person find happiness and not lead someone on. Maybe it’s the Libra indecision and our willingness to please others that gets us these negative reputations, but this Libra definitely doesn’t fit those stereotypes. While I do like freedom and change, I can’t betray people that I love: my conscience (or maybe my Sagittarius ascendant) just won’t let me. Plus, I’d like to say that not all Pisces are emotional; I know one who’s very detached–she has a lot of Aquarius in her chart that mutes her Pisces sun.
P.S. I would also like to disagree respectfully with the idea that air and water do not work together. I personally feel that any two signs can work with (a) compatibility in other areas of the chart; (b) love, understanding, patience, committment, and forgiveness; (c) that sometimes opposites really work well and learn from each other rather than hate each other and (d) I think personally air and water go better together than do air and fire or water and earth bc air and water are both more abstract thinkers while fire and earth are more practical and concrete people.
Hey Nadia,
Thank you very much for your comments. I always tell everyone that what I have written here are basic Sun sign descriptions..an outline if you will. If people have heavily opposing based charts they will of course feel differently than how I have described. If you want are serious about Astrology and wish to have a detailed look at how the stars influence you it is always wise to get a proper chart done.
My personal belief is that any sign/element combination can work, it is knowing what makes each of us tick that is the key.
Love & Light
Becky
I’m a Libra female and my boyfriend is a Pices.At first it was rocky because I had trust issues but my baby never gave up on me and for that I’m truly grateful.
Ive dated 2 pisces and i just broke up with my pisces a few months ago. I find them so annoying in their moods and i just dont see it working. EVER. Its sweet in the begininig because the pisces is attracted to u and wants u, but after that…its just a bore. And not worth it.
Plus i feel they are always looking for someone else even if they are with you. *wondering eye* it can get extremely annoying.
and they also are regretful, when they loose what they had they regret it, but aren’t man enough to know how to appoligize or show their feelings.
Never again.
it was a horrible rollercoaster. we would be soooo happy together then he would get in his depressed moods and we would break up almost every weekend because he would get jealous of me wanting to hang with friends. i thought maybe he didnt trust me, but i never gave him the reason to think that.
breakup/makeup - such a waste. I think maybe this sign could work if the guy is a libra and the girl is a pisces.
but the other way around??? not so much.
hey? im the pisces in dis relationship and my man is the libra.we been together almost four years off and on. but you know what. i think we will work out. we do have our ups and downs. but one thing a pisces and libra have to do is talk to one another for this to work out.if you willing to do that. your relationship will work.one thing i can say is. i know myself and my man very well and what they are saying about pisces and libra’s are true. so listen and do and you will be okay.
Im the pisces and my bf is the libra. we been together for 5 years and still i have not been in his house. Im single and he have three kids and two live with him. the baby mmother comes over when ever to take car of the kids. he tells me that he just want respect for his kids. I understand that but its been 5 years and still no BBQ, nothing. it was his ways and what he thought of me that kept me in question about him. it seemed like every thing i do or say was not the way he wanted. it made me feel like a fish out of water. it seemed to me that he wanted me to change my self to make him happy but what about me. nothing he do was wrong. he said because of the way i think and and my emotins that he couldn’t see a future wit me. Ive tried for 5 years to be the woman this man need, and i wish i could have been what he needed but i wasn’t. he wanted me to change me nature. How can i do that? my nature is who I am, and because i couldn’t do that he changed his numbers and told me Im a basekt case. He truly didn’t understand me and i feel like the brake up was because of me because i couldn’t change my nature.
Okay I am a Pisces woman and my ex was a Libra.
I dated him two years ago. What made us break up was this, we had been dating for a while and he decided to instead of going to the movies with me to go and get drunk with some friends. I was a little bothered by that, but I didn’t want to be the over controlling girlfriend so I was like that’s okay. Then a few days later his best friend called me and told me that the night he was drinking he made out with three three girls. So I broke up with him. It has been two years since the break up and I recently started to talk to him, and find myself falling for him again. He seems like he has changed a lot since the last time I saw him. He is just what I need right now. So what should I do?
well it just seems that pisces and librans just argue, fight and dont really ever trust each other. Reading all these things it makes it hard to want to continue in the relationship cause it is always a rollercoaster ride but i think alone is better than arguing and fighting so if your pisces or libran and are contemplating going for it i recommend you look elsewhere.
Wow!!! it’s crazy how much all of our experiences are the same LOL.
I’m am the pisces and my bf is a libra. It seems like it is a everlasting rollercoaster constant ups and downs. I love him sooo much but its beginning to be too much for me to handle. My new approach is to start to take control of the ride.
Libra can be an ideal mate for me becuz they need the love and affection that i (pisces) needs. The problem is that libra is a scale and needs perfect balance. Too much affection libra feels trapped, flees and cheats. Not enough affection libra flees and cheats. Its a catch 22.
I find TRUST is the number 1 problem in my relationship too. The problem is that LIbra lies a lot, Pisces is a sign which has GREAT intutuion and libras will always get caught in the lie. honest communication really is the key.
well goodluck to all of you!!
im a piscis and im so into a libra but he isz so bipolar one day he actsz so nice and sweet and the next so mean and it just agravatesz me but im into him i just cant stop liking him itsz kinda hard to stop and idk why,everytime im with him i never want it to end
I am a Libra and my mate was a Pisces. I think that really makes a difference. Pisces are the fish keep that in mind.Mine did always have a roaming eye. The men tend to be easily led. If they are insecure they will always find the damsel in distress.This way they appear to be the hero. Pisces woman seem to have their act together. Talk about very smart and successful.The Pisces I dated and was going to marry told me that the only reason he got with me was to have a child.Can anyone say selfish? He never could sit down and talk anything out.The man would run.Last but not least lady’s that can hide what the are doing(You will never know what it is until it much to late). Please remember these words they always have some sort of vice figure it out drugs,sex,gambling,drinking
What “Do these people really live” said made me think of a Pisces man I know who dated a Libra. They had an adorable Virgo girl together, but he bailed out on marrying her after some problems in his life arose (if Pisces has a problem, they tend to withdraw or swim away). Since water signs are naturally inclined to want a family, Pisces wants to have children. Libras, not always. So if someone’s looking for their Pisces/Libra relationship to last long, as in marriage-long, talk about children. Libra will give Pisces some sense and Pisces will show Libra that children can be wonderful. Otherwise, your child will be left like little Jolene who can only see her daddy a few times a month.
And “Do these people really live”: Personally, I think you should’ve been flattered that he wanted you to mother his children. He probably didn’t see it as selfish because to water signs, it’s far from selfish to want kids. (But then again, I don’t know you or him at all.) Best of luck!
I’m a Pisces and my guy is a Libra. Let me tell you, it’s the most amazing relationship I’ve ever been in my whole life. Everything is perfect, every time I see him it just keeps getting better and better. I think it really depends on the Pisces. I’ve had my share of ups and downs and thankfully I’ve learned from them. My ugly side comes out once in a blue moon but my Libra knows exactly how to deal with it and calm me down. We appreciate each other, in all our wonderful differences. There needs to be a certain balance for a Libra. If Pisces can keep there act together, its a beautiful thing. Perfection.
I am a libra girl dating a pices boy. So far our relationship has been amazing.
I think if both are equally commited , the relationship is bound to work out. There might be a few bumps along the road but other than that it`s excellent
omg i young but i am love(i think) i mean i am a libra and ma boyfriend is a Pisce… he was my frist at everything.. but i just dont wanna get hurt in the mix of all this
For a Libra the “apt” word will always be “I think” I am, can etc… Luckily when eventually that Dithering becomes a definate it stays a definate for indefinately. It is common to find young Libras to persue love at ealy a age as 12 even because first they like to be the boss and second feel its their right as a human being being ruled by venus just adds to this desire to love and be a couple of any sort. And finally they always see things from diffrent angles, but beware being brainwashed because of this indecisiveness. Librans are rated most intellectial amongst star signs followed by gemini, but, remember the opposite can also be true regarding any star signs attributes. hope this help those Librans still deciding who they are in life. I think Libra and Gemini are best siuted to each other. This of course being a general statement. These two signs seem to mind read each other. Go figure… it becomes magic when the two are in sync
Also regarding pisces and libra…I dont know but, it could be a recipe for disaster but then again stranger things in life has happened and actually found a way to work. You know what people!…. I have found that the full understanding of compatibility lies in combining chinese and western astrological attributes. That is probably why some supposed incompatible star signs actually end up being a solid foundation instead of the traditional compatibility couples, I have seen it so yes libra and pisces could possibly work but, I would make sure that both chinese and western astrological signs are at least complimentary to each other, example: It is a common fact that Taurus and gemini do not get along as a love match they are probably as compatable as “oil and water” in a relationship. simply for the fact, Taurus being sentual ( all about the sences) and gemini being intellectual ( all about the brain) yet I know of many people some clients and others close friends to be exact two of my close friends are gemini and taurus married couples. The compatibility does’nt end with just westen astrology I believe it is far more complex than that. Humans are One of Gods Greatest works we are not that easily read.
It takes combined info just to scratch the surface but, believe me! the surface must be scratched before jumping into life long commitments with another person. Dont be a coward or lazy take out the time to make sure… with both facts and gut intuition to guide you that you are making the best bet in love. Thats of course if it is long term or lifetime partnerships you hope for.
I am a Libra male, Oct 18. I’ve found a Pisces and I think there is something to it. The way water and air is described as being opposites interests me. There is definitely something I see in her that is not in other females, even though I have known her for 4 years. I guess you can say I was repulsed at first, I’m not sure why. Shes a very pretty girl and I’m just now starting to imagine us together. I believe she feels the same thing from me (and always has)… it’s just that special thing, you know?
Well anyway, being lonely is not for me. I feel like in isolation I’ve entered into the next state of awareness and that this Pisces is a spiritual gift. I will have patience to maintain balance, because I can imagine the things possible when water and air come together in equal love and faith instead of skepticism and fear.
Hasan,
I’d be a little cautious about such a relationship. You may think “tranquil waters” when you think pisces, but that is definitely not the case with the pisces female. If you rub her the wrong way, you’ll be in for a ride down some pretty rough rapids. I’m a pisces male, and have been in a relationship with a pisces female - it had extreme highs and extreme lows. Don’t rub her the wrong way, and she’s like any man’s “dream girl”. I’ve known cancer males and pisces females that are incredible together, for example. I think that a libra male and pisces female, may be a somewhat volatile pairing, but it would also obviously have to do with other aspects of your astrological influences. I agree with what Mikail said about it having possibilities, but I think it would take a lot of work. As far as libra and pisces “frienship” relationships - some of my very best friends, both male and female, are libra. I think pisces and libra get along extremely well as just friends.
Steevi!
I am also a Pisces female - my ex a Libra.
As I was reading your comment, I couldn’t help but notice how similar our stories are.
My Libra ex was very sensitive (maybe a little psychotic), but one day he approached me very upset. He had been off his medication and tried to explain that he wanted to feel something “real”. Anyway, he started to break down and cry right in front of me.
Minutes after he stopped crying, he told me that he felt like he needed to be alone, sit in his basement and gather his thoughts. So he left my house.
I later found out that he went up to his buddy’s cottage that night to get absolutely trashed (drunk), where there were apparently females there who were streaking - running around butt-naked. This did not really sit well with my stomach, but I didn’t question him with my uncertainty.
Our relationship ended pretty bad. I would come over during the afternoon, have sex, then he would simply say, “I’m gonna go smoke pot now with my buddy”, so I’d gather my shit and go home. Wasn’t really much of anything if you ask me, so I dumped his ass.
It’s been about 3 years now since we first started dating. Last summer we got together one night. He started apologizing; I was beginning to think I was finally getting some closure after 2 years… Until he tried making out with me. I’m embarrassed to say that I didn’t turn him down - we kissed… a few times. Nothing more. It felt a lot like the old days, but I came to the realization that nothing would come out of our relationship if we started to date each other again.
Relationships end for a reason!
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Am a Pisces and my boyfriend is Libra… I’ve been reading all the comments and made me really sad. I love my boyfriend so much, too much, but everything that was posted here its so true… We’ve been together for almost 4 years, and we broke up around 13 times… He lied to me a lot of times, and am always so insecure of him, and its true, Pisces, we do have a great intuition, and Libras are great liars. But I never lost my hopes and I worked with everything, trying to believe him, trying to stop been so jelous, trying not to show him that I care too much or that I love him a lot… But I always have this feeling that he is hiding something from me and makes me so paranoid. And its not that its me, cause I dated other signs, but its with him that I feel like this so jelous and so insecure…
besides my hopes and my love for him, I think this is not going to work out :’( He dosent want to move in with me even tho he sleeps over my place every single day, just dont wanna make it official I guess… he is afraid to commidments, dosent wanna get marry, or have kids… I dont know if its cause he is really scare to, or cause he dosent see a future with me. And am a pretty good woman, just dont freaking lie to me, I hate that, I’ll be the perfect girl, but ones you lie to me I change completelly, am jelous, insecure, and I dont know what to dooo. Am so scared not to be him. Last time we broke up, I was misserable, and I used to go out and hang out with friends and new guys almost everyday, but no guys was good enough for me like my stupid Libra.I dont kow what am I going to do 
And I am so sentive and I know that he dosent like that of me. So I tried to not be so sensitive… Right now,I ask him almost everyday if he is talking with this girl that he used to date when we got a 6 months period apart; she is Geminis, and they are just perfect for each other, and he promessed me that he is not talking to her for 3 months now, since we got back together. But ther is something really strong inside me that makes my stomage feel weird that I know he is lying to me, I dont know how to find out… And its driving me crazy. Other than that (trust) we have a great relationship… am alwyas planing things to do, wwe are always having fun, we like almost the same thing, music,food,activities,things,etc.
I’ve catch his lying a lot of times, and am pretty sure he is lying me again
Im dating libra guy atm. (for the first time in my life ) I usually fall for virgos:D
Yes. Libras are diferent from us pisces- that’s a fact. But that makes things more interesting -I guess…
My sun is rising in aries, and my 7th house is in libra. Also his moon is pisces, and we have some good aspects.
Comunication is the key in these situations.
We pisces can be very emotional and we change our moods a lot.If we learn how to control that we can have good relationship with libras.
Sometimes I get caught in my pisces moods and thinking but Im trying to avoid that as much as possible.
Im really trying to give him a space (which he needs) and he’s giving me the love and affection that I need.
You can’t judge only by sun signs. Ascendent and position of other planets, like venus and mars, are very important.
It’s me again… If you read my comment, well yeah I found out that he was lying to me.
but am so scare to get depress, I get so depress that I stop eating and even taking care of my son…Why is life so unfair
He still talking to this girl, he is been talking to her for a month now, well thats what he said.
Libras are freaking liars…. I dont know what to do anymore, I told him that I need some time to think things, but am I cant be without him…. but at the same time, I cant be like this any longer. He now tells me that he doesnt want to loose me and that he is willing to do anything even to go to couples counsuling… Can anybody give me a hand??? What should I do…. I love him, but this is not right anymore….
Any relationship can work (no matter what sign someone is) if they have Christ in the center of it. Phillipians 4:13
Both people are living to please God first and in pleasing God you can love your mate the way God loves them.
I am currently dating a pices male, adn so far I am amazed at how similar we that I often asked him, “where are our differences”? We have the same goals, we both want a lot of kids and we talk for hours about almost every thing, and I still get off the phone thinking we still have so much to talk about. It is still in the beginning phase so we all know that’s always good, but with me going off to boot camp, he has alreay asked me what can he do to put our relationship in a a place where I will still want us to date. I reviewed different sites on pisces and libras, I’m on the cusp, so I have scorpio traits. I also know that Libra men, from my experience, are different in a lot of ways from teh women.
Basically, I say all this because there are several variables why a relationship wouldn’t work. I always view astrology as a means of understanding personalities more so than determing whether you will work. If you love someone enough you make sacrifice and you compromise. Allowing yourself to get caught in the asthetics of astrology will only cause you to potentially limit yourself from something GREAT!!!
Fish and scales go together! Libra women are amazing!! There’s promise if both signs flow together!!!
Suzana , that guy does not deserve you.
and belive me you’ll find someone who would love you the way you deserve it!
Just try to get back on the track! You have a son and probably sooo many things in your life that could make you happy
Forget about that tosser! I know its hard but try to.
I you can-go somewhere out of town for a few days, change is always good .
Wish you the best!
xx
I am a pisces male in a relationship with a Libra woman. However, I’m not 100% this paragraph is an accurate description of what my relationship has been like. “Pisces will love to show off his/her Libra mate to everyone and will enjoy going out a lot in public wanting everyone to see their beautiful, classy Libra lover” That is very true! but the whole Pisces not wanting to be social — I don’t buy that at all.. Atleast I’m not that way. We love going out and doing things. Libra’s do have a big activity list and lots of friends and loves to hang out with them. So if you are getting in a relationship with a Libra just be sure you can handle all the new people you will meet.
Looks like there’s several johns (I’ve counted 3 pisces johns now) posting here. You’re not me and neither is the other John. That can make things kinda confusing.
I do agree with you about the social thing as I too am very social.
So I am a pisces women and my boyfriend is a Libra…alot of the previous entries are very similiar to our situation…it definitly is a rollar coaster ride of emotions..I am a pisces with a Libra moon and Aries venus..he is a Libra with a Cancer moon and a Scorpio Venus..so with the scorp in there it intesifys everything..his emotions are extreme! and then the moody cancer moon also comes into play..but I absolutly love everything about our relationship…the intesity..the passion..I hate boring relationships and this definitly isn’t one…I think the key is I am trying to figure him out..and so far it is really working…with him he treats you how you treat him…if you are upset and giving him attitude he will give it right back…but if you are being understanding and communicate to him and relax and treat him with respect he gives it right back. I think that goes for alot of libras. You push then they are just going to push back. So you have take a step back and just treat them how they want to be treated and you should end up happy…i love him more then i have loved anyone with so much passion and intensity..i wouldn’t have it any other way.
I am a pisces woman my fiancee is libra. We are very much in love. I fill as though he is the best lover and friend I have ever had. Make no mistake I love this man!He is so caring and loving,yet so secretive and deceptive. How do I know? Well being a pisces our special powers are intuition. We hold the secrets to all of the signs, WOW what a gift. Furtunately his secrets are not harmful to me but some insecurities on his part. I am one of those pisces if I sense any mayhem or harmful behavior I will simply just take my little fishy tale and just swim away. After all there are plenty of fish in the sea and I so do dislike troubled waters.
I’m a libra girl and i’m into a Pisces boy. But hes not as sensitive as mention!! or izzit i’m not getting to him..i feel like i’m the sensitive one!
How can i make this work? What are the base traits of Pisces..cos he definately isnt sensitive…affectionate and charming yes..but unbothered at the same time!! why?
Lily, Thank you for you comment, I actually decided to brake up with him, its been three weeks since we stop talking, he beg me and everything, and I almost did…. but I didnt,He told me that they kissed before when we were together… And like I said before pisce, we can be sensitive and sentimental, but we do have the stregh inside… Now I feel totally different towards him, I do care about him, but I dont see our self back together again, am too happy now with my son and friends… But it he did left a big scarf in me… cause I dont wanna be emotionally envolve anymore… I suffer so much with him that am sacared to fall in love again. And I will never, never date a Libra ever in my life again… thats for sure!!!
omg… me like a libra female, must say… yes is wonderfull when everything piscis see it right -YES when we are alone- but! i undestand who dificult it is to try to make same goals go fordware if piscis is allways getting her heart breake for external mater´s.
Sometimes i see him just like a new kind of profet, or a genius of man kind rules… and in other way i just see all this is going to roll like a ball and make us don´t go anywhere if we keep on trying to get through all he makes on his mind.
Piscis mens have dificulties to make a family, professional succesfull life?… i´m actually seen that ocurring. We are on a point of constructing a life together (house, steady work, maybe a company), but fooling around with all EMOTIONAL problem´s… is making me thing we don´t have any point cover on Mature life terms.
i really apreciate if you readers, can tell me how you go on on this kind of pressure moment´s…
maybe libra women´s need to have more balance to go and fight for the rights… is my piscis men really have good ideas is not giving me strange enough to fight in his side… if allways the principal matter is he being ok or not.
don´t get me wrong he was on my side in the worst moments and i really apreciate it… but anyways i fight for our love and that live me with only him in my life. No family, no steady friends, no people that i could be friend withouth being descriminated for some reason…
sorry i just go with my bad flow.
Dear Suzana, you wont belive, but few days ago I had a very similar situation with my libra (now ex ) boyf.
I discovered he was playing with me all the time, and all I did was being honest with him.
But Im very proud person- and during our last date - I stayed cold and smiled (even my heart was breaking when he said all those things to me). I didn’t let him to see that I was hurt.
I’ll cry later-thats my moto
And now Im trying to get over everything- cos I know-he do not deserve one tear of mine.
And belive me- we’ll find someone who deserve our love.
And who knows maybe that could be a libra
Wishing you all the best girl!
I’m a Pisces girl with a Libra boy and he is my first love, we’re both young and dumb and in love and we think it’s going to last forever but what I like to think is that just because most relationships don’t work out, doesn’t mean none of them do. We are both the kind of people to sort things out and keep trying hard, and I think maybe if we try we can have one of those magic fairytale romances you only hear about once in a blue moon. We both feel like we are each others soul mates and whatever emotions come into play we can both handle the others. I love him and I hope things stay bright for us
I am a libra girl sep 3o, with a Pisces guy March 2. We have been together just over a year. it has been a crazy ride. I absolutely love him!!! He is one of the deepest people i have ever known, being a libra skin deep people drive me crazy. It is hard at times because he does carry many other common Pisces attributes, very smart, intune, psycic at times, sensative, and VERY non confrentational! Problens arise because hes reserving someting becuase he wants avoid conflict, driving me crazy when there really was never an issue to begin with. When i first met him i never would have guessed he was so sensitive, he appeared to be this hard ass guy that would normally make me run in the other direction. He is very tough, but he also has a much deeper side that no one else ever gets to see. Which is very much a huge part of why i love him so much. The only way we have made it this far was becuase i cant keep what im feeling locked inside for long and have learned and am still learning how to communicate with him. I used to get upset and hope he would see that and address it. Be warned… they usually wont be the one to bring up confrentation. I have to be very careful cuz i can hurt him without knowing it and out of no where he shuts you out and you have to work your way back in.
The key with Pisces is communication, you have to find where they are with out upseting them its a hard line to walk. I have really had to get over my silently stubborn nature, cuz it doesn’t work with him. This has been very hard cuz thats my normal defense mechanism.
If you want it work with them you have to be gently but honest, they don’t respond to rudeness or silence. Silence can cause him to just retreat to himself, and rudeness hurts their feelings though they won’t share that with you easily.
Also key, in our relationship anyway, is that you have to understand that their withdrawn nature doesn’t implicate them loving you any less. he can be slightly antisocial at times, which can be hard ciz at any given time i would prefer to be with him than to be alone. Just becuase he likes alone time doesn’t mean he doesn’t like and love being with you, they just need some of both.
wow thats long, and still don’t feel like iv said all i want to. sorry i am definitely a more talkative type.
Peace, =)
i’m a Libra and my friend is a Pisces, we do almost everything alike, we act like sisters!
Hi,
I’ve been reading with much interest all of your comments. I was married to a Pices man for 18 years, and whilst we were inseparable, he had an addiction that ruined our marriage in the end. Here I am again absolutely in love with a Picean man, afraid to tell him so. (After 3 months) He’s told me he wants to take it slow for me for my benefit, because he knows I’ve been badly hurt in marriage twice. He also was very hurt a few years ago, and seems to keep me at arms reach, but I feel in my gut that he does love me. How do you pull these men out of themselves? It is very difficult not to want to tell him how I feel when we are together! I’m not the typical stereotypical libran woman either. I’m very deeply emotional, caring, affectionate, etc., and very very loyal. I love him to bits, but am also afraid of being hurt as well.
Any advice?
Thank you!
Laurie,
It would serve absolutely no purpose to tell a Pisces man how you feel about him - he would already know that. Pisces are very intuitive even though they may seem to be naive at times. What he would want, if he is interested in you, is for you to show him, and I don’t mean just in affectionate ways. One of the ways to do that is to find opportunities to do things together that indulge and inspire his sense of creativity and the arts. At least that’s always worked for me as a Pisces.
Something to remember, is that if he gives any indication that he needs some space, give him lots of it and he’ll admire you for it - perhaps more than you can imagine.
I hope it goes well for you.
Hello, my girlfriend is a pisces, and I am a libra. I never really believed in astrology and all that kind of stuff until I met my girl. I have to say that most of the stuff metioned on here are almost spot on. We are very indecisive, have the best intimacy connection I’ve EVERRR had. But my gf can be very emotional sometimes, and she gets her little mood swings sometimes, and I kind of can’t can’t stand it sometimes, I hate confrontation and conflict. What should I do about this?? Any advice? i don’t think I CAN change this though. :/ I would hate to not be with her, I cant imagine my world w/o her.. I would hate to see this good thing end. But in general, I think we can make it. We plan on moving in together in the future.
gheyyyyy:D,
You didn’t say if you were a male or female. These days, one never knows. Anyhow, something I should mention is that Pisces males and females are quite different so when trying to figure out your Pisces girl, make sure you do a little reading in the section here about Pisces women. I’m a Pisces man, yet I don’t interact with Pisces women very well. Their mood swings can be a little intense - at least the ones I’ve been with.
Hi John,
Thank you for your advice. Although my pisces guy isn’t really into “art”…music is another story, and we are well suited! We both love motown, and enjoy each other’s company so much. I also love the same outdoorsy activities that he enjoys, and we spend the weekends mountain biking and lots of walking in the Lake District in the UK. (I’m also a Calif girl, he’s a Brit). I am very close to calling it a day with him, because I just don’t feel like he’s ready for me…and it’s leaving me feeling a bit rejected. I’m a strong, but very sensitive woman, and have difficulty being patient, when I have no idea of where I stand with him. I think that we have great weekends together, but at the end of the day, I am good companionship and look good on his arm (he likes to show me off)…but as a Libra, I need more. I have no problem giving space, because I’m very independent too, but it’s the vagueness that drives me a bit bonkers…having to guess what I’m supposed to do.
Laurie
im a pisces woman and my bf is a libra and we are liek the perfect couple we understands each other and have patience thats deff what u need dealing with a pisces woman because we are so moody and can be very bitchy and mean and my boyfriend understands and he knows tomorrow i would be so sweet giving kisses and i have to understand when he needs his space love and affection i broke up with him because he was too perfect and im so glad were back together because i would of lost a wonderful man and i mean were still young but we do play imagination time and talk about our house kids and jobs so with determenation work and love this can deff work out and the sex is great because you both have that connection that reads the soul its so weird but usally libra woman and pisces men dont work out the the other way around deff!
I am a Pisces woman and my Ex-boyfriend is a Libra. We dated 10 years ago and I Just reunited with him a year ago. When we broke up we were teenagers and we lost contact with each other. So since we’ve reunited we hang out sometimes and have fun. Everytime we get around each other I am extremely happy and he’s so fun to be around and he’s easily to talk to. There are times he’s there for me when things go wrong and i’m going through hard times.I am deeply in love with him and he knows, but he’s not ready to be in a relationship right now. I really consider him good friend, but i love him and care about him so much.
i am a pisces girl, and i am secretly in love with a libra boy. any advice on how to make him confess? will libra boy feel scared and wait for the other party to say or he will sure say one?
they belong together!!!!!
they want the same things
they have almost the same feelings
it’s like 1+1=2
that simple!
Hi Marry…I liked your comment…very short, sweet, and true! When I first read all the comments, I panicked a bit, but in all I’ve read about Pisces, seems like we’re a good match. The issues brought up here are character based, as at the end of the day, people are people and some behave better than others. I love my Pisces guy..he’s the most loving and kind-hearted man I’ve ever met. And I’ve waited a long time for him! The differences between us just keep the mystery going, which we both love!
hais i nearly confessed to him but in the end brush it off as joking. when we are alone,feeling is strong. but dunno is one-sided anot, very scared
So Im a libra female and i just starting dating a pisces male. I feel like everytime he says something nice about me he wants me to say a million things about him, but it’s so soon i never know what to say so i dont. at first i thought i wanted this, that this would be great, but the deeper i get into i start missing my ex who was a leo and a total jerk. I dont want this to end being nothing and another mistake. Should i wait it out and it gets better? or cut it off before anyone gets hurt?
Hi Elizabeth,
I was in a very similar situation just a few months ago. It sounds like your heart needs a lot of healing before you can love another, so I would say just be honest with your pisces guy. You’ll be amazed at how tender and caring they are, some the junk you read about pisces is just that..junk. Look at it this way, if you decide you don’t want a romantic relationship with him, you’ll end up with one of the best friends you’d ever want to have. Even though we have differences (mostly in communication), we share a very real depth of connection that is based upon love and mutual respect. I tried to take it slow with my guy, but ended up falling in love with him! There is indeed a soothing connection between a libra woman and a pisces man.
Hi my name is Kairi ,I’m Pisces female and my boyfriend is a Libra. we have been dating for 4 months.i am very very emotional and sweet person. He thinks I’m a corn ball when I show my emotional side, and he explained to me that he doesn’t know how to be emotional or show that side .He’s also 25 yrs old & the longest relationship he has ever been in lasted 3 months, i asked him why and he told me that every girl he was with cheated on him, so i didn’t bother asking anymore questions.MY longest relationship was 7 years but it was a really bad break up with a Scorpio. At times i feel like he doesn’t like me b/c he doesn’t open up.
we only see each other twice a week b/c we have a long distance relationship. I live in the city and he lives in the suburbs. when we do hang out,he sometimes comes to the city or ill go upstate to visit him and we would have sex and i would go home the next day and we barely speak on the phone. >:0 (He doesn’t like being on the phone) it was love @ 1st site for me, -_-” but i dunno i kinda feel like this is going to be a dead end relationship. he’s a puzzle that i can’t even solve.i feel like he and I are drifting apart. He’s looking for me to be the leader and i can’t b/c i want him to lead , i also want us to make decision together. He ask me to be his Gf and he doesn’t know how to be in a relationship i’m lost, help
oh yeah, he is such a amazing and wonderful guy, funny,adorable, smart and very very very very very attractive. I’m very sensitive and at times i just feel like he doesn’t care. That’s my libra
he doesn’t know how to be romantic.
thanks, Laurie. first i was freaked because i read that this year the pisces male is looking for his soul mate. I did lie a lot to my leo but ive tried my best to be honest about everything this time and i think it’s going to last a while with my new bf.
Hi Elizabeth,
Where did you read that the pisces man is looking for his soul mate this year?
Laurie
im going out with a libra boy nd imma pisces girl nd it’s likee a rollercoastoerr deffinetly.. im very emotional nd sensitive an when we are alone we are happy and everything just seems perfect but he lied to me many times nd i caught him but he still tries to lie and never admitts the truth..everything is fine between us just that i have no trust for him it’s hard cause i know that at times he be lying..nd im always honest to him ..i love him so muchh nd i know he cares about me too..we both do alot to see nd to be with each other..i hope he changes..and most of the times he dont evn talk whenever we arugin nd i catch him lying and i be askinq him questions he just stays silent and doesnt know wuht to sey it hurts me reall badd..=[ but i love him and i wud only stay with him.
i am a female libra and i talk to a picses. i really didnt have a big attraction to him as a boyfriend at first, then one night we spent the night together and i liked what i felt. i could be so real with him about everything. i like how we started as friends and now we have a crazy thing going. its true that they enjoy showing us off, but thats not a problem, im a very wanted person and that drives him and me crazzy. i think the way things are going we are going to be great as time goes on, i just need the patients to put up with soe of the things he do. i feel as though i drive him crazy and he likes me alot, maybe more than i do, still not a problem
pisces ladies should keep away from libra guys. this is a serious advice. actually relationship between them must officially be banned to protect pisces women. i wish i was told this before. hey pisces ladies …. ruuuuuun