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Pisces and Gemini
I think this could be a short post. Pisces and Gemini do not make a good match. The two most emotional signs in one room? That’s asking for trouble. They will undoubtedly fall for one another when they first meet and if they don’t they will have a very strong dislike for each other. It’s either all or nothing and no in-between with these two. There are a couple of things that may stop this union from ending when it probably should, and that is emotional blackmail on the Pisces part, the Gemini will fall for it, one look into the deep watery eyes of the Pisces and it’s back to square one again. The other thing holding them together will be attraction. The sex will be quite explosive which mainly stems from their frustration with one another. They can also get into each other’s minds very well, and although that may sound great, it isn’t. Sadly, this is a destructive relationship. The Gemini half can be quite thoughtless at times and may neglect the emotional needs of their Pisces partner. This will not go down well at all as the Pisces wants and expects to be adored all the time. The Gemini simply has to much else to do than to spend all day doting on somebody. Also the Gemini can disappear into other worlds at times, worlds of their own making, leaving the Pisces to feel left out in the cold. Although the Pisces can too be dreamy, they rarely actually seem to ‘leave’ altogether as the Gemini does. This leads to yet more frustration. I have been in one such relationship (me being the Gemini half) and I can’t tell you how utterly awful it was in so many ways. The love was there, but neither of us new what it was we loved about each other. Perhaps the mind games keep these two locked in with each other. I do not know. Sorry I haven’t much good to say, but at least this post is longer than I thought it would be. Also if their are any couples out there belonging to these signs and in the up-most happiness (for more than two hours) please let me know.
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August 19th, 2009 at 1:39 am
I can totally agree… I used to be in love with a Gemini and I’m a Pisces. But, shortly after 2 1/2 we fell out. She was a Non-forgiving person, and I found myself apologizing for minor mistakes. So i called it quits. I feel free so now I’m searching for someone
August 19th, 2009 at 7:29 pm
I am a Pisces female who is in a CONFUSING “relationship” with a Gemini male. he is 7 years older than me. We were both initially very physically attracted to each other. The spark is definitely still there. We tend to “break up” every few months as a result of him deciding that “things just aren’t working out.” He’s so hot and cold and eventually he ALWAYS ends up calling me back and initiating the relationship again. I am not a “needy” Pisces and always give him his freedom. I can not continue to cater to his hot and cold tendencies towards our relationship but it is so hard to sever all ties with him because of our STRONG attraction. He’s such a sweet, loving, caring person but he has no regard for the destruction he causes when he abruptly ends our relationship.
August 19th, 2009 at 8:07 pm
My new pices is definitely the jealous type. Yesterday at the mall there was friends that i know (males) that were walking up to me to say hello, just minor conversation. My pices would walk away for a second on the phone wiht his boss, but when he would see me talking to a male friend he would come over and interrupt, and the other males would walk away. It kind of bothered me i don’t want him to scare all of my friends off when he comes around.
August 21st, 2009 at 12:24 am
yes! Pisces and Gemini get along, but then again isnt that what the Gemini does? Longterm, the Pisces personality will not be spontaneous enough or sustain enough self-esteem to deal with the Geminis social buzzing and flirtatious attitute.
August 21st, 2009 at 6:32 am
Des, are you sure you’re not me??! Hahaha…what you have described about your relationship, from start to end, is me and my ex!!!
I am a gemini, he’s a pisces. Everything is oh sooo true! Sex is amazing, never ceased to amaze me how it keeps getting better and even after many breakups, we can’t seem to move on and keep going back to each other. The bond and attraction were so strong, we have that passion, that chemistry. It’s been nearly 8 years and we are now back in touch again, after our last big fight last May 2008, which we both stated rather heatedly we want each other out of our lives for good. I have no idea what he wants, he added me to his list on FB but he doesn’t make contact so I left it as it is since I can see he has started seeing someone few months after our big fight and have been for months now. She seems perfect, blonde tall…although I am told by everyone in my life I am hot,the sexiest and most gorgeous petite friend they have, highly intelligent with the biggest heart….but I just can’t seem to get this jealous thought out of my head that he has moved on despite our bond and passion and perhaps fallen in love with her. But why get back in touch with me and not make anymore contact? I am confused, I am still in love with him, he’s the love of my love, he’s the one since the day I laid my eyes on him…I know.
When we have great times, they are so amazing we thought it was scarily good…but when we fight, we really fight big time. He withdraws and don’t tell me anything, I am inquisitive, being a gemini, that really pisses me off. He would sometimes come out of his world and we would be honkey dorey again but sometimes, I find it hard when he doesn’t tell me things…I don’t know what he’s thinking, so mysterious, so I normally think the worse. Now, I don’t even have much hope seeing he’s seeing some leggy blonde who looks perfect!
I’m just a petite little asian who can’t compete. SIGH! :O(
August 21st, 2009 at 6:48 am
Hey Missy,
I wished I had read your comments before I did anything rush to ruin it big time with the love of my life. I am a gemini, my biggest problem is my impatience! I am known by everyone I want things done now or yesterday. I need to know now or else I don’t want to know. I push my pisces man and never given him space or time to get back to me. I will allow him a few hours and if I don’t hear from him, I say goodbye. He gets annoyed cos he said he was in the middle of writing down what he wants to say to me, he’s a thinker so it will take some time but for me, patience isnt one of my virtue.
My best friend has reprimanded me on many occasions when I do that to my ex but I still won’t listen and now…it’s too late.
I wished I could see that earlier and learn how to give him his space when he withdraws to think about how to get back to me instead of forcing him to express when he’s not ready.
August 25th, 2009 at 2:49 am
Hi anyone there to answer all our questions?
August 25th, 2009 at 9:34 am
ooo plzzz me nd my guy r still 2gether…im pisc nd my guy iz gemini… v r in2 healthy relationship 4m past 3 yrs… i guess itz nt necessary dat gemini nd pisc hav destructiv relationship. v both r vry happy in r relationship honestly speakin dan i
think v both understand eachoda so well dat v dnt rely on diz thing actually… wht i think iz dat diz rule dnt apply everywhr…me (pisc) nd my guy (gemini) r d best couple eva…
August 30th, 2009 at 6:14 pm
Could you tell me the compatibility between myself a ‘Pisces’ woman and a Gemini woman in a relationship, as i wondered if this changes with same sex couples.
Thankyou =]
x
September 3rd, 2009 at 6:03 pm
Becky,
I love your website. I am a gemini woman with a pisces man.. At first we made each other so happy, i felt so lucky to have found such a wonderful man. Now years later, we are married and with a baby and I am so unhappy… I can’t seem to walk away… This relationship has become so terrible. I very much related to your post..
September 4th, 2009 at 8:33 pm
I am a 36 year old Pisces - March 13, 1973 and he is a 33 year old Gemini - May 29, 1976. We met on a singles site after I initiated contact. Why I contacted someone 3,000 miles away is beyond me. I didn’t even realize how flirtatious I was in my email to him until he called me on it when we first began to talk.
The sparks flew immediately. We began to idealize, love, lust, pine, fantasize, question, doubt, internalize all in one breath. The man was and still is amazing to me.
Our relationship lasted 1.5 months with a few rocky situations that almost cause me to pull the trigger on the relationship and I think this never put us back on solid ground. He didn’t feel comfortable expressing his inner self to me towards the end and I began to feel like I couldn’t joke or be insightful with him as it was seen as a slight or my being judgmental. We are two emotionally charged people that are very sexually open and have a very deep desire to connect in a very unconventional way. Yet we couldn’t find the trust or the gumption to make it work.
I miss him dearly. Despite both our issues and the chaos that ensued in his life after many dramatic episodes, a major move, a fist fight that landed him in the hospital, beg bugs, two car accidents and a few more situations that took place within a 3 week time period, I am surprised we actually lasted for as long as we did.
I believe with all the stress that he tried to mask, I seem to have pushed him over the edge unintentionally and was ultimately seen as a “crazy ridiculous” girl. A term I still find endearing, but one I now question whether or not it has validity.
He broke it off with me after a very emotionally charged yet upbeat conversation. The conversation went off on many tangents and really didn’t have any coherency, but in the end he dumped me. I was left with a plane ticket I had purchased to come and see him in Cali in two more weeks. Needless to say, I was and am devistated….
All I can do is hope and pray we connect once again.
September 10th, 2009 at 2:07 am
I am a Gemini Woman who married a Pisces Man. The description above of the tendencies and weakness of each sign are in fact highly accurate. We fell in love immediately, got married six weeks later. I was with him for three years of absolute brutal hell before I finally left with our baby daughter. It was a very stifling relationship for me, and his depression was more than I could take. I was also constantly accused of flirting with every man I saw, even though I only had eyes for him. Picses Men with Gemini Women… If I had any advice for you, it’s that #1) Gemini Women don’t flirt because they’re wanting to cheat on you. They flirt because it’s FUN to feel good about yourself and make someone else feel good about themselves. They like their independence, yes. If you want a Gemini Woman to be constantly seeking you out… have a life of your own. Live that life, don’t take everything so personally (it’s rarely if ever really about you), support her in what she wants to do, and she’ll keep coming back to you over and over again.
Oh yeah… and we were in court for almost five years getting our divorce… mostly because he kept fighting my right to have my freedom.
We’ve been separated now for two years, and finally called a truce. We’re great friends now, we share time with our daughter together, and we’re much more respectful of one another. And in fact, we’ve even slept together several times. 1) because the sex is fantastic! 2) because when we were married, it was awful and we both wanted to heal that part of our relationship, too.
So it’s possible to get along… but I can honestly say… only if BOTH parties act like adults… which is sometimes extremely difficult for Gemini’s and Picses to do.
September 10th, 2009 at 5:22 pm
I, picses, have been dating a gemini for only about a month and a half. And I’m so glad I happened upon this page. It’s soo interesting!! Some of the negatives ppl are giving really sucks cause I’m so into my guy!! It’s soo strange, because its so not like me to move soo quickly. I have to remind myself to slow down emotionally..for fear of becoming hurt. I’m normally take things slower, especially after being burned before. But it’s like I’m completely taken with him!! I love it and hate it!! He is very two sided. I can totally relate to others on here in some ways. Most days, he’s soo into me. But if there are ever days when I can’t see him, he like, flips!! and he’ll txt things like, ‘well, since you’re not coming, me and the guys are going out’! It’s like he can be a bit of a game player when he doesn’t get his way. I find that kind of annoying. But, he gets over it pretty quick and we’re fine. I can see it will be challenging, but I soo want to see how far it can go!! I’m completely head over heels, though i don’t think he realizes it.
September 10th, 2009 at 11:49 pm
Hmmm,
I wonder if your own experience is playing into this. I was married to a Gemini for almost 9 years and if it were not for the fact that I am gay, we still would be. We are still great friends.
Just as in any relationship communication is key.
There is a real sweetness to the Gemini/Pisces union and in my experience one of the better relationships I have had in my life.
September 12th, 2009 at 1:14 am
It just is amazing to hear a few of the Gemini’s talk about Pisces… but then again it sums it up too at the same time… I’ve been married 8 yrs and dated 3 yrs before marriage… the sex is good yes… I will never say it wasn’t but thats only when we do that… sometimes it goes on for over 2 months before we do… have sex… and Gemini is famous for the I never did anything wrong it’s all your fault Pisces… and little by little Gemini has just about litterally killed this Pisces… I’m about emtionally dead now!!!
September 17th, 2009 at 1:16 am
Hey
well ive been looking around because i wanted to see compadibility with my on and off boyfrend. iam 20 a female gemini and my “boyfriend” is a male pices 22years old…well getting to my point reading on how the gemini is makes me laugh because my boyfriend has the gemini traits of being free and not that loving and i have the pices traits ts super weird cus i am a gemini female and i love the affection all that mushy stuff and its hard for him to show affection. we have been on and off for like about 2 to 3 years we have dated other people but we keep coming back to each other so its super exausting but i cant seem to sstop carinng and loving him. currently he says he wants to get married but hes like a really sexual person making me think that all he wants is sex. i dont know if i can agree with or disagree that geminis and pices are incompatable.
September 22nd, 2009 at 2:08 am
Wow…just wow!
I am a Pisces female.
Looking at your posts it says, and I quote, “But all is not lost, this is one combination that cannot go wrong. Pisces and Scorpio simply work!”
I was married to a Scorpio for near 10 years. It was a horrible, horrible match right from the start. We are so different! We were terrible together… even after 3 kids.
Let me say again, HORRIBLE! OIL AND WATER kind of horrible!
…again I quote, “Pisces and Gemini do not make a good match. The two most emotional signs in one room? That’s asking for trouble.”
I have now been married to a Gemini for 8 years. He is my everything…and I am his! We are best friends. I really can’t imagine a more perfect union. We have had so few arguments in 8 years that I can honestly count them on one hand! I love him more today than I did when we were younger, more fit, and in lust…
There is no doubt, in either of our minds, that we will be together until one of us stops breathing…. and for that I am incredibly grateful!
September 25th, 2009 at 6:18 pm
I think that signs have something to do with it, but not everything. I have been in my relationship with my boyfriends for 5 years and we are gemini and pisces and are very in love. I believe that gemini’s DO have very, deep emotion and they NEED a water sign to bring that out, otherwise they keep it all in and that, is what makes them have a bad wrap about not being emotional. I can say that for myself, becuase I find that being around people who are unsensitive leaves me feeling sad and empty, whereas being around people that I feel conforted with and naturally happy around I feel as though I can take down my gemini guard and be as deep as gemini hearts really are.
A note to pisces signs- gemini’s are duled identity signs, the opposite side to the in our own world seemingly emotionless selves, are our deep selves, craving love and emotional comfort. i think that infact gemini is the deepest sing, perhaps so deep you need to invest the time to search.
October 1st, 2009 at 4:17 am
I haven’t much to speak for since I have never had a boyfriend. But I am a Pisces girl and a Gemini guy likes me. I was afraid he would change his mind and that he was too busy for me. When I read this it was like I was exactly right. It saddens me because I thought I had a chance with this guy. I am a romantic and crave love and affection. And he seems like the person that once he says it, it doesnt need to be restated as that would be silly. It is just so frustrating because I want to be with him so bad. But I feel like I need someone affectionate like another Pisces or another water sign. I am still willing to try it with him though, since I have never had a relationship I figure you must start somewhere and I have already gone so far…..
October 2nd, 2009 at 8:28 pm
I was in a relationship with a Pisces for about a year and a quarter then it just ended but at least it lasted that long but now we hardly even talk to one another even though we see each other all the time.