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Pisces and Gemini
I think this could be a short post. Pisces and Gemini do not make a good match. The two most emotional signs in one room? That’s asking for trouble. They will undoubtedly fall for one another when they first meet and if they don’t they will have a very strong dislike for each other. It’s either all or nothing and no in-between with these two. There are a couple of things that may stop this union from ending when it probably should, and that is emotional blackmail on the Pisces part, the Gemini will fall for it, one look into the deep watery eyes of the Pisces and it’s back to square one again. The other thing holding them together will be attraction. The sex will be quite explosive which mainly stems from their frustration with one another. They can also get into each other’s minds very well, and although that may sound great, it isn’t. Sadly, this is a destructive relationship. The Gemini half can be quite thoughtless at times and may neglect the emotional needs of their Pisces partner. This will not go down well at all as the Pisces wants and expects to be adored all the time. The Gemini simply has to much else to do than to spend all day doting on somebody. Also the Gemini can disappear into other worlds at times, worlds of their own making, leaving the Pisces to feel left out in the cold. Although the Pisces can too be dreamy, they rarely actually seem to ‘leave’ altogether as the Gemini does. This leads to yet more frustration. I have been in one such relationship (me being the Gemini half) and I can’t tell you how utterly awful it was in so many ways. The love was there, but neither of us new what it was we loved about each other. Perhaps the mind games keep these two locked in with each other. I do not know. Sorry I haven’t much good to say, but at least this post is longer than I thought it would be. Also if their are any couples out there belonging to these signs and in the up-most happiness (for more than two hours) please let me know.
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March 27th, 2011 at 10:57 pm
I am a female Pisces, my husband is a male Gemini. Been together for 7 years and still counting. Married also. Also have three beautiful kids. We get along great like nothing else. Yeah we fight and argue but nothing much more than any other normal couple out there.
To post that we make an awful couple is just plain WRONG. It also puts ideas in peoples minds that they shouldn’t try a relationship with a certain sign because they are not compatible. Well My husband and I are so compatible that it seems wrong. Not to mention the three beautiful children we have produced. Just because it didn’t work out for some it does for others.
We are as crazy as each other always up to something.
May 10th, 2011 at 5:06 pm
OMG - Gemini woman here hit hard by a Pisces man 25 years ago and I still can’t forget him! Recently saw him online and it brought back all those memories/feelings. Very intense relationship that ended abruptly by him, caused by my insensitive behavior (at least this is what I think caused it - I still do no know to this day). Was left dazed and confused. Afterwards I tried contacting him several times to no avail (this was back in the day when there were no cell phones/e-mail). Problem is I never got over him - I never had any closure. Tried contacting him recently (just said hi and asked him how he’s been, no mention of past) - again, no response. Why does he torture me so??? Why do I still care? After reading all the posts here, I’m beginning to understand why. I’m thinking about sending him a letter apologizing for my behavior but also thanking him for being a part of my life (he taught me about unconditional love and the effects my words/actions can have on another). Is it worth the effort 25 years later?
May 20th, 2011 at 10:11 am
Comment on Kit’s comment: Wow, I am glad there is some happy stories out here and would love to hear more about how it works out! I am a Pisces woman living with a Gemini man. We have only been together for 2 years, but I have found my best friend for life. All the negative things Ive heard about this unison, is the opposite for us. He is definately fickle, dreams of adventure and travels. He thinks alot and is always bubbling about some new theory or idea he has got. It entertains me immensely and I love having someone who is always chatting away, as I grew up in a big chatty and lively family home. He shys away from emotional scenes only when it is public though, and looks uncomfortable around people who shows alot of love and affection. But, strangely enough, I think as uncomfortable as he looks around emotional displays, he does yearn for it, because when we are alone, he can be very needy for emotional and affectionate attention from my side. When we are at home I am constantly showered with hugs and kisses and he loves cuddling. I am not a typically emotionally needy Pisces, and i can feel smothered very quickly, but i feel the attention i get from my Gemini is just enough. We are insync when it comes to that. Being Pisces, the only thing that irritates him, is when i am not communicating with him, if i daydream or if some complicated matter is on my mind, he wants to know exactly what i think, and sometimes I just dont have an clear answer at that point as my thoughts are not always concrete enough to communicate.
When I was young, I dreamed about a man who would be more of a rock to me than a gemini can be. But i soon found out of experience, that those kind of relationships where the strong confident man takes the lead, made me a weaker person. I lost my sense of self, my individuality and my freedom in that relationship. With Gemini, it feels that for the first time I can hold on to my own identity. He is smart, open minded and grasps any concept under the sun easily, and i love having an intellectual person as a partner who can understand any thought or concept I am bringing to the conversation.
i guess what makes us work is that we challenge each other physically and intellectually. Emotionally, i think he could need some work, but it doesnt bother me much at all. He is a keen listener when i am having a bad day, and even though he won’t be good at any emotional advise in that sense, his arms are always open for a geniune understanding hug. He knows i am a smart enough woman and able to sort through my feelings quickly and effectively. What matters to me most is that he gives the support, regardless in what form that support is.
He definately has a natural charm with the ladies, and instead of getting jealous, we will be open and honest about it and it soon gets turned into a joke. I trust him and he definately knows where to draw the line though. For him it is just about the flair of the game and the conversation, and not about actually picking up other woman. Part of it is because he always loves making statements or comments which will trigger a wanted reaction with other people and prides himself if he gets the reaction he wants. That same game gets played on me more often than not too :-D. I am amused by him and he brings a sweet lightness and simplicity to my life which i wouldnt trade for anything. I just wished more pisces and gemini’s could understand each other better such as they way we do, because it truely is a binding and wonderful bond we have formed with each other.
May 29th, 2011 at 6:05 pm
Well Im gemini girl and Im kind of complicated in way because of my date of birth is in November, I meant to be scorpio its because Im hindu. But Im here to tell that on facebook I added this girl on my friends list and I just find out that she’s pieces and I don’t know if the friendship will go together? And please give me advices.
June 12th, 2011 at 3:41 pm
Im a pisces girl dating a gemini boy whom I have now been together with for about a year.It also started as a friendship.What I can say from my experience is that in gemini mans world, being in a relationship is pretty much the same as having a friendship(just sex added).He is the kind of man who will rarely put his girlfriend as his 1.priority.It gets frustrating when his hobbys and buddys seem to be more important than I am..And sometimes emotional blackmail is the only way I get him to notice how sad I am.
The pisces part will definetly make most of the sacrifices in this realtionship.But its really difficult to find a boy that is so charming,kind-hearted and somehow diffrent from all the other guys just like a gemini boy is.
If you love him than you will learn how to ignore the fact that he is not always “there for you”,because when he is,he is there 100%!!
June 16th, 2011 at 2:17 pm
I am 25 and a true gemini and I started dating a pisces male a few months ago. I am madly in love and I feel like nothing could break us. He is so caring, attentive, romantic and loving. He feels like my sould mate. I was a little worried that the pisces and gemini match would not work but I looked into it and saw my venus is in cancer and his is in aquarius. Maybe that has to do with the compatability. I have never been so happy with anyone!
August 6th, 2011 at 9:05 pm
I really appreciate the comments on this thread, especially the ones from those who keep an open mind about this relationship (pisces lady, missy, john, etc.). It really helped me understand myself and my partner. I’m a pisces man, and my ex girlfriend is a gemini. She ended the relationship a few months ago, but I still want to make it work!! It’s a very, very complicated situation with all kinds of outside influences, obstacles, and yet has a lot of hope and fate attached to it. I’ve looked into the coupling of gemini/pisces and I’ve come up with an analogy (I know, typical thing for a Pisces to do, huh lol).
Have you ever been to a movie that had an amazing opening scene, but then kind of lagged in the middle, but then really picked up and finished strong at the end? That’s kind of what this relationship is like. If you get too bored and walk out of the movie too early, you might miss out on an amazing film. But if the film takes too long to stimulate the audience, then it’ll lose it’s viewers.
To the Gemini’s out there, your Pisces can teach you patience and compassion (something you’re probably lacking in your life, but wish you had more of).
To the Pisces, your Gemini can keep you on your toes and get your head out of the clouds (something you probably need in your life, too)
To make this work, BOTH of you have to be open, patient, and willing to meet each other half-way. If neither of you are willing to do that, or if only one partner is willing, then it probably won’t work. If you work through the difficulties, I believe you’ll both be pleasantly surprised with what you’re able to bring out of each other, and how fulfilling this union can truly be.
Right now my ex is not willing to make it work, and that’s mostly due to her need to focus on herself right now. She’s spent much of her adult life in relationships, and has never had time to focus on herself. She knows how this relationship would be a serious commitment, but she’s not emotionally ready for that at this point in her life. She’s such an amazing person, and I see so much growth and potential inside of her. But as tough as it is to admit, I can’t be responsible for bringing that growth out of her; I can only inspire her to bring it out of herself. I’ve been put on “the back burner” many times before in my life, and normally I refuse to subject myself to that. But this time I refuse to give up early on a love this strong. So I will give her space, and continue to keep her in my heart and let this love transform me into a better person each day. I really don’t know if it’s going to work out between us, but I’ve learned that if I’m not willing to fight for someone, then I don’t really deserve that person in the first place.
The universe is definitely using her as a conduit to tell me something, and I believe the same holds true for her, too.
I wish all of you nothing but life, love, and happiness…
August 26th, 2011 at 9:34 am
I’m an aquarius-pisces and my boyfriend is a gemini. In the beginning of our relationship We had already gone through alot together in a short amount of time, and it brought us closer and gave us a stronger foundation to work from. He is the balance I need in practical everyday ways and I’m the soft spot he needs after a rough and adventurous day. Being a pisces, I can find the beauty in the “kid” side of his personality, and his imagination allows him to see the possiblity of my dreams that most people don’t understand. We work in partnership with each other with most things, and when a disagreement arises, being the natural communicator he is, he is able to get me out of my closed up shell to talk things out whereas most people wouldn’t be able to, and I’m able to clue in on when he just needs his space, or needs to shift to something less heavy on his mind. It works great.. and yes everyone is right- the sex is amazing! My birthday is Feb 20. His is May 29. We are both in our 30’s, and pretty much have a good idea of what we want, and work together to get it. All I know is, we love each other unconditionally- each side, each twin.
August 27th, 2011 at 2:21 am
I’ve been with my Gemini for 5 years, yes like any other couple we’ve had are ups and downs.
not what i was expecting.
When we i first sore him it was instant attraction, but that turned into dislike when working together. After 2 years of working together i fell hard for him, i am besotted with him and can’t shake him off AND I DONT WANT TO. i’m happy that he always wants Me, yes i can be up in the air and i love to be loved, and want to be cuddled. i know he doesn’t want to be tied at my hip and i’m ok with that, as long as i have my kiss good bye, and when saying hello and few in the middle and cuddle good night then i’m happy (its not a lot to ask) i love him because hes great fun always makes me laugh is there if i need somone to talk to, and he can make me feel like i’m on top of the world and that i can do anything, but he only make me unhappy when hes unhappy because i do feel that i’ve done somthing wrong but its not its work or hes tired yes i do like a lot of attension but 90% of the time he likes to give me that attension and i wouldn’t like to think i blackmail him into staying with me.
As long as hes happy and i’m happy thats all i care about but i think i need some luck after hearing some people responce
My parents are also gemini and pieces couple and have been together fo 32yrs and they work hard for there relationship. It about loving and being there for that person, your best friend… i do feel i found my soul mate and hope that will never change.
Sometimes life is hard people grow apart, but was gutted when reading that pieces and gemimi aren’t a good match i hope this isn’t the cause for us
August 31st, 2011 at 5:54 am
My uncle is a Gemini Ox and my his wife is a Pisces Dragon. They are such a good pairing, and have been together for well over 30 years. He is a stubborn little bull but she is a tough and doesn’t let him get away with anything! It’s such a lovely relationship to have witnessed there is such love and understanding there. I have never seen them fight or argue I would imagine it would be rather interesting.
September 17th, 2011 at 4:45 pm
After my year-long dating experience with a Pisces male as well and several contacts with other Pisces males, I would never give it another chance. For some unknown reason, not a one of them could see Gemini female for who she was. Every one of them was over-emotional and stuck inside their own heads. I haven’t dated the Pisces I mentioned above for a over a year and yet he still hovers from time to time at my place of employment. Does he have any intentions towards me? No! He is still full of himself. I’m not exactly sure why he keeps coming around but undoubtedly it’s not derived from anything honorable.
I don’t wish to sound entirely negative about Pisces males. I know they can be tender, affectionate and loyal but only so far as their minds are stable and they ignore tendencies to believe the emotional things they dream up.
October 3rd, 2011 at 7:49 am
1 year and counting. I am the pisces half and he is the gemini. We couldn’t be happier.
October 21st, 2011 at 7:04 pm
Im a gemini female and my ex is a picses man. He was very emotional, jealous and needy. We were madly in love and best friends. I didnt show him much affection and he ended up having an affair. Our relationship was destructive and unhealthy but we always ended up in each others arms.
October 26th, 2011 at 4:07 am
My best friend is a gemini and I have to say we’re strangely compatible.
Im 1 3rd Decan Pisces hes a 2nd Decan Gemini.
We really understand each other we do get angry at each other sometimes but I feel like gemini really helps pull pisces into reality.They feel like two of the same signs except ones a childish and sometimes insensitive guy and the other is a more mature and occasionally (like most women) emotional.
No body is perfect.
Ps:We aren’t together simply because he is seeing someone.
March 12th, 2012 at 2:09 pm
Hello,
I’m a Pisces male (21) dating a Gemini female (23). We started dating when I was 20 and have had
our shares of ups and downs. She’s a very sweet woman and I love her very much. Sometimes we collide heads on issue concerning politics or world issues we’d like to see be handled differently. We realized though, after a couple of times of having heated discussions, it really doesn’t matter. I’ve struggled to open up in our relationship but feel myself changing everyday.I feel that our personalities are being swapped. She’s becoming more sensative, while I’m becoming more distant. In previous relationships, I was always upfront and could express how I feel with whoever I was dating.When we first started dating, It was honestly love at first sight. I was sucked in by her intellect, looks and eyes. But, she was a little rough around the edges because of being hurt in past relationships. We are now in our 7th month of dating and I feel that we are changing for the better but at the same time I’m really wondering what’s going on with my personality and is it a good thing for me to change?
March 12th, 2012 at 2:12 pm
Also! My birthday is 2/21 and hers is 6/12
If there is anyone who can help by looking at our charts, it would be greatly appreciated. And if you need more info email me
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March 31st, 2012 at 5:07 pm
I have been with a pieces guy since 2007. Then we got married in July 2010. We have our disagreements. We split up for a month before we got married. He put flowers on my car about once a week. My pieces man can be difficult at times. We have a lot of fun together though and our happy together. It can be challenging, but I feel like any relationship can be. We have to work on those problems and communicate what is bothering us. We are almost on our two year aniversry this summer. I can’t wait for more great years with my husband. I am almost 30 am totally dedicated to my pieces.
March 31st, 2012 at 5:16 pm
I am sorry. We split up for 3 months in a two year period. That is when he put flowers on my car. Then were together for a year before we got married. He actually printed the wedding invitations and helped plan the wedding. Which a storm made some people leave early, but all our close relatives stayed. Its fun to dance in the rain.
April 1st, 2012 at 7:20 pm
I am a gemini woman eternally in love with the most wonderful pisces woman! There are many things to say about this particular gemeni-pisces relationship, nevertheless i won’t go into much details. We had and still have a tumultuous relationship, but geminis love a challenge and pisces are empathic ;)I felt madly in love, from the very beginning, with this very sharp, responsive, intriguing pisces woman… The odd thing is that i needed and wanted stability (gemeni) while she (pisces) wanted to be more independent. What’s well pointed out is that pisces dislike the flamboyant, superficial, amoral, indifferent ways of geminis and geminis dislike the pessimism, martyr-ism, confused, impractical bits of the pisces partner. At the end of it all, what i know for sure is that everybody has qualities and defects and you’ll always find something you love and something you hate in someone, no matter the zodiac sign. Zodiacs may give you a 10 out of 10 on a compatibility chart with someone and you’d still end up disliking the relationship and call it quits. So pay no attention to the statistics of this combination(’s durability).
Why am i here?! Im here because i love her! And as i am aware of the differences between us and as i want this match to be for the rest of my life, i thought about looking for ways to connect with her on an even deeper level…
For all of those looking for a bit of reassurance (this includes myself) that this is a a good match on the long run, look no more! IT IS! Remember to be open, honest, forgiving and to laugh!
I love you, my incredible condor…