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Pisces and Gemini
I think this could be a short post. Pisces and Gemini do not make a good match. The two most emotional signs in one room? That’s asking for trouble. They will undoubtedly fall for one another when they first meet and if they don’t they will have a very strong dislike for each other. It’s either all or nothing and no in-between with these two. There are a couple of things that may stop this union from ending when it probably should, and that is emotional blackmail on the Pisces part, the Gemini will fall for it, one look into the deep watery eyes of the Pisces and it’s back to square one again. The other thing holding them together will be attraction. The sex will be quite explosive which mainly stems from their frustration with one another. They can also get into each other’s minds very well, and although that may sound great, it isn’t. Sadly, this is a destructive relationship. The Gemini half can be quite thoughtless at times and may neglect the emotional needs of their Pisces partner. This will not go down well at all as the Pisces wants and expects to be adored all the time. The Gemini simply has to much else to do than to spend all day doting on somebody. Also the Gemini can disappear into other worlds at times, worlds of their own making, leaving the Pisces to feel left out in the cold. Although the Pisces can too be dreamy, they rarely actually seem to ‘leave’ altogether as the Gemini does. This leads to yet more frustration. I have been in one such relationship (me being the Gemini half) and I can’t tell you how utterly awful it was in so many ways. The love was there, but neither of us new what it was we loved about each other. Perhaps the mind games keep these two locked in with each other. I do not know. Sorry I haven’t much good to say, but at least this post is longer than I thought it would be. Also if their are any couples out there belonging to these signs and in the up-most happiness (for more than two hours) please let me know.
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March 12th, 2008 at 5:30 am
I have been in a relationships that happened fast. I’m the Gemini(tiger) male, she’s the Pisces(snake). the snake part seems to double the ellusive mysterious parts of her nature to the point that I din’t trust her. Yet I cannot figure out what I love so much about her. This post is insightful because it’s right on the mark. Total perfection seems so close yet so far as she is a major drama queen that refuses to see herself that way. She is a chaos creator too.
I’m still in this one, but strongly re-considering.
May 6th, 2008 at 12:52 am
yeh me (gemini) and my boyfriend (pisces) have been together for 2 years now. I found although we love each other 2 pieces. He could be very jealous and insecure and me very nangry and short tempered
May 24th, 2008 at 10:49 am
My best friend is Gemini and I’m Pisces(Goat) and Yes they get along together yes there are please believed me and the other comment that people who post comment
YES GEMINI AND PISCES GET ALONG!
May 25th, 2008 at 6:28 pm
I’m a pisces and have in the last year made a male gemini friend. We do get along and he said he can tell me a lot of personal stuff. But my god, it has been the most difficult friendship i have ever had! For reasons i’m gonna leave out i’ve kind of exploded at him (more than once)
Maybe the pisces IS the more difficult of the two?
May 26th, 2008 at 7:55 pm
I have strong Pices streak, and the bit about geminis and pices getting along is only ture sometimes.
May 28th, 2008 at 9:13 pm
Hi Every one!
I think that with the Pisces and Gemini it’s that they like the idea of each other and maybe even want to be like one another in some ways. But I still don’t think that long term this could ever work out unless your chart was Water based perhaps….
It’s great to know what you all think, thank you all so much for yoour input!
Love & Light
Becky
June 5th, 2008 at 2:30 pm
I am Pisces woman and my boyfriend a Gemini, we are both 23, been together for close to 8 years now. We can argue and we love to piss each other off but we love each other very much and we are best friends.
Also about charts being water based, not the case here. Both of us have a majority of fire in our charts. I really think it is going to depend on the people in the relationship, their personalities, the way they were raised.
June 6th, 2008 at 1:51 am
I’m A Gemini And I Have Been Dating My Boyfriend Who Is A Pisces For About A Year And Two Months.
Were Also Engaged.
June 21st, 2008 at 7:10 am
My girlfriend and I have been together for a much fun nine months - yes she’s a crazy pisces and I’m an annoying Gemini. There’s alot too what been said above, but does that make me love her less or not feel excited about our differences.. no, its just makes the relationship a lot more fun… plus the sex is awesome… and we’re so tender with each other… I miss her even when she just steps out of the room…
June 22nd, 2008 at 9:14 am
Hi everyone,
Gemini and Pisces certainly seem to attract each other in droves thats for sure. And of course it dosen’t mean that you can’t love each other etc I was madly in love with my ex Pisces! But it isnt an easy combination! One onlyt has to look at Jordan and Peter Andre to see that, however a lot is determined by the rest of your chart also.
Love & Light
Becky
June 22nd, 2008 at 10:17 pm
I (gemini) was together with a Pisces for a bit more than 2 years… and quite honestly I am happy that it is over.
When I read this post I just felt that it matched our situation almost perfectly. I have experienced the “emotional blackmail” part too many times… and he often felt that I did not give him enough attention.
Although, I think it was a good experience (the sex really was amazing!) and I have learned that Pisces men maybe just isn’t for me.
June 23rd, 2008 at 6:52 am
Hi Sarah,
It’s an emotionally draining experience, especially for us Gemini girls. And as we all know great sex is good and everything but when the rest of it isn’t going so well it really isn’t that important! Good luck for future realtionships!
Love & Light
Becky
July 9th, 2008 at 3:12 am
Pisces girls and Gemini Boys should stay away from each other. There is a really strong attraction but resist the temptation!! My ex bf was a Gemini and everyday was drama and chaos. But when we did get along which was like 5 days in a month, it was amazing. Is it worth it?
July 10th, 2008 at 4:11 am
Hi! Im a gemini girl, totally in love with my pisces man. We have been together for 3 years now, and we have made it work. Pisces are such romantics! and they listen, and they snuggle and hold hands and totally commit themselves to you if they love you. We have been through our ups and downs, but who hasnt? We alsways have something to talk about, and he would give me the world if he could.
Downfall..they like to dream in alchol (one which my pisces guy is working on to quit) and they usually dont have stable jobs. I married a cancer man, was married for 15 years, but he never showed so much romance as a pisces does, and I love the romance! They are very good with pets and children also, and love to explore. What a change!
They are moody, but I just let mine go be by himself, and when he emerges from his cave, he is th neatest guy. We both crave our space, so this also works, and when we want to be together, we are snuggling ,holding hands and just enjoy being together. We will probably never marry, I dont think that would work. Then again, I really dont want to remarry. Both of us have been married twice.
So can Gemini and pisces get along? Absolutly! YOu both have to make it work!
July 10th, 2008 at 6:15 am
Hi Lisa,
Thank you for your comment and your experience, I am also glad it has been a positive one. I would love to do your charts!! I imagine they must both be full of different aspects which compliment each other. I also think you are a very patient Gemini!
I wish you luck with your Pisces, but I do not believe this match can work for everyone, you two have MADE it work as you say, not everyone is willing to do so. Good for you!
Love & Light
Becky
July 11th, 2008 at 9:24 pm
the compatibility traits for pisces and gemini relationship has hit right on target for me. i am a pisces woman and my boyfriend and father of my children is a gemini. this is a thirteen year old relationship (we are both 26) and it has been nothing short of a rollercoaster ride. he is insensitive and uncaring and i am to emotional and craves romance and affection that he is not willing to give. he wants total freedom and i want to be included in his “busy” life. there is always conflict yet we have passionate sex and maybe get along with each other two or three days out of the week. this is just to aloof for me the sensitive pisces who only wants an occasional baby i love you or you look nice today and maybe a hug from the gemini who says this is the real world and people dont do that. is a hug or a kiss on the cheek so much to ask from the one you love? would i be wrong if i went elsewhere to seek this denied affection?
July 13th, 2008 at 2:08 am
odyssey..
After reading your post, you said you both are now 26, and have been together 13 years? That means you have been together since you were 13 yrs old? Maybe it is not the signs, but maybe you two have never really been with anyone but each other. That in itself can cause problems I feel. Maybe Im wronge. And what you said about your gemini husband never shows you affection, that just doesnt sound right! I being th Gemini love to give affection, sometimes too much affection. But you must understand, not that I am bashing marriages, but once you get married, the honeymoon is pretty much over.
This is why I will never marry my pisces guy. Not that I dont love him, but I know things would change as soon as we were to tie the knot. The romance would be gone. Everythig I have read about pisces, points to them yes, beng devoted to family, but also need long times alone. I already have this in a non married relationship, we do not live together,because sometimes I need my down time to think.
I must say, that this is so unlikely a gemini.May I suggest maybe counciling for both of you, sounds like with kids, maybe you both dont have the “us” time you both need (this is what happened to myself and my 2nd ex) we had four kids and no time for ourselves. It divided us, and by the time we finally figured it out, it was sadly to late (my ex was a cancer), he found someone else.
I do hope you and your husband work this out, it is so sad to hear this from such a young person like yourself. Your good at feeling our emotions, and he being the Gemini, will listen to you, if yo take the time to talk. Oh one hint,speaking with your husband, do not demand or yell, we Geminis dont care for that kinda thing!
Take care
July 20th, 2008 at 8:28 am
HI!!
Im a girl (pisces) and my best friend who is a girl too is Gemini. We always fight but still we confide and trust each other. I am very emotional. She is very mental.
I also have a crush now - a Gemini guy. He is the reason why I am on this page..I want to know how to win him. I really like him. We are friends. But he acts so aloof and very mental too. Despite everything I read about the compatibility between Pisces girls and Gemini guys, I still wanna try being with him.
July 27th, 2008 at 5:36 pm
Oh yes, Gemini and Pisces really do attract each other… I thought I’d learned, but noo… I still seem to fall for Pisces men, despite bad experiences. No matter, the irony in it all is interesting enough.
August 1st, 2008 at 8:50 pm
I have been in a relationship with a gemini man i’m pisces, he
s 30 and I’m 33. We have been together for 1.5 years. I love him very much but it is drama completely in this here. First of all we don’t trust each other, he has had women calling his phone and we live together. We break up at least once a month but we can’t stand to be apart more than 3 days, it makes me sick but I don’t want to end it and I don’t know why. Yes..the sex is wonderful but i am more OPEN to new and explorative sexual activities than he. He is very attentative and I am less he always says that I am not giving him enough attention, he’s clingy. Anytime i leave the room or the house he askes where are you going, how long are you going to be gone and should i go with you? Come on…give me a break, but I love him so much. Sometimes I can be clingy but I’m always concerned about him cheating because of these women that use to call his phone, but had that not happened I would not have any concern I am not a jealous person. I question this relationship all the time but I can’t leave..don’t want to. Our biggest problem is trust…I don’t cheat but I’m concerned about him. Other than that he tells me he loves me each night before we go to sleep, he massages me (not as much as I would like), he cooks, shops and is always concerned about what I want, need and if he can do anything to make me happy…he’s wonderful in that aspect of the relationship. I think this can work…but for now he’s proving to me that he’s faithful and wants only me, lets see how that works.
Don’t knock the picses and gemini relationship. I think it all depends on the two people and if they really want to work toward making it work.
August 3rd, 2008 at 12:08 am
I am a gemini and have been with my piscean for 5 years. He recently proposed, but I find myself suddenly caged and like it was mentioned above, emotionally blackmailed. He popped the question on a plane where there was no privacy and I felt in more ways than one, forced to say yes and not hurt his feelings. The worst part is that I have suddenly developed feelings for an Aquarian friend and can’t understand what is happening to me!
August 7th, 2008 at 11:12 pm
I’ve had an on-again, off-again relationship with a Pisces man. I’m a gemini woman. When we met, he wouldn’t stop calling me. He would call me 5,6,7 times a day. We were really attracted to one another and shared very intimate details with eachother. Then he withdrew from me emotionally. Said that he was not ready to date. I’m not usually very emotional, but I found myself pouring my heart out and he just ignored me or made jokes about it. After that, he said that I’d been such a good friend to him and he did’nt want that to stop.
I was so hurt and angry. I just wanted him to leave me alone. I tried to extricate myself from the relationship, but he kept emailing me, saying that he wasn’t going to give up on the friendship. We met up recently and my eyes are finally open. He was an emotional manipulator of the first order and I fell into the trap. But you live and learn. I’ll never make that mistake again.
August 9th, 2008 at 5:28 pm
This is more in response to the above comment from Liz. I may be biased since I am a pisces male, but pisces and gemini are on two different wave lengths. A pisces might try to joke about problems, simply because thats how they deal with theirs. A pisces feels entirely about even the smallest of concerns, but quite frankly is very unable to cope in healthy ways much of the time. Especially males. And to put it gently Gemini’s are most notably cerebral, so perhaps through miss communication a pisces might not grasp Gemini’s outpouring of feelings, simply because they don’t recognize them as such.
August 12th, 2008 at 1:46 pm
OH MY GOD! I AGREE WITH whomever said the comment about Gemini boys and Pisces Girls…They are NOT RIGHT FOR EACH OTHER but boy, what attraction exsists! I cannot think of a stronger pull then a Gemini’s stare…
I have had 2 exes that were Gemninis and they are LEGENDARY in their sexiness…to the point that my girlfriends to this day (years later) always say “ooh remember Tim or Ernesto?) These are some DANGEROUSLY Sexy men…..Holy Moly!
BUT BUT BUT they lack sensitivity when push comes to shove…oh my! That sexy stare you have been so attracted to will turn into a cold one, if there is every a problem…They have not developed in that area….
Pisces PLEASE WATCH OUT! You are not equipped for this…The Gemini will pull you in and sort of overwhelm you and want to lock you up for days and well “You know” and say its a relationship (without the depth of course)
but YOU NEED DEPTH….YOURE A FISH…YOU WILL DROWN without deep water….
August 12th, 2008 at 5:58 pm
I am a Gemini in love with a Pisces man. We do have communication issues but have great sex. We both give eachother a lot of space and have fun when we’re together. He doesn’t have a good paying job and he isn’t living on his own. I am more of a go-getter than he is, which bothers me. But all in all I don’t want to leave him because the emotions that we feel for eachother is strong and I haven’t felt this comfortable with a man before.
Perhaps you can look at our charts.
Gemini (me) May 27 1985
Pisces (my bf) Feb 21 1983
I’d love to know what you think. We have been considering being together for a long time… I am wondering how that will play out. Because we surely need to work on the communication.
-Mona
August 25th, 2008 at 4:23 am
simone..I know what your talking about girl, and my birthday is also 5-27-60 and my male pisces is 3-20-65. Mine happens to enjoy doing all kinds of things like I do, but we do require our down time and space, which we have both worked out. Maybe she can work our charts too. This should be verrryyy intresting!
August 27th, 2008 at 8:19 pm
Hmmm…I’m scratching my head as I read all the negative things about this match because I haven’t had any of these problems. I’m a 26 year old pisces girl (dog) and my boyfriend is a 30 year old gemini (horse). We met a couple months ago and quickly moved to bf/gf status within one. This isn’t a typical pattern for either one of us, but this case is different. We get along so well, that it’s almost scary. We have a ton in common and yet are different enough so that we don’t get bored. Communicating is effortless and it just feels natural to be around each other. Plus we joke around, share laughs, and have a great time in the bedroom. I have to admit I was skepitcal because supposedly my matches are scorpio, taurus, and cancer, but I’ve never had any luck with them. In fact they hardly ever come on to me. It’s just weird how we’ve come together…to be honest I don’t even get it, but it just works. Hopefully it’ll be smooth sailing for us in the future even though I’m sure we’ll have some problems like any couple, but this feels like the “real deal.”
August 31st, 2008 at 11:31 pm
Премного благодарна за пост, а ведь это действительно тема
В мемориз однозначно, пригодится! 
September 5th, 2008 at 9:37 pm
The above description of the Pisces man and Gemini woman seemed to hit right on the nose.
I’m a Gemini gal who was dating a Pisces guy and on our first meeting, the attraction was very obvious. The sex is amazing to say the least.
The emotional blackmail hit a button with me because I can indentify it but fall victim to it everytime. This Pisces man literally pouts when he doesn’t get his way.
I’ve tried to walk away and he has done a number on me and we end up back at square one.
I find him frustrating…as now he is wanting to walk away after he’s sucked me back in.
Is this a Pisces man trait? To back away if things are getting to intense?
September 6th, 2008 at 12:56 am
hey am gemmni girl in love with a pisces guy we are in luv 5since 5yrs ago
we had a lot of problems but who doesnt??
i think its not only about signs (i do belive in them )
but its about how deep is ur luv hw u wanna keep it and die for it
keep it up and if u want u can
September 15th, 2008 at 2:01 pm
i am in the boat with dianne….i am a pisces woman (dragon) in absolute love with my gemini (monkey) man…it was crazy how fast things developed, he is in every way everything i have ever needed from a man. i don’t understand why people say geminis don’t have the emotional depth, my man is just as emotional and deep as i am, and so deeply committed to me that others might see it as obsessive. i, on the other hand, love it, and have the same level of commitment to him. we have stood up to many of life’s challenges already, the biggest being the distance between us when we first became involved (he was from the uk, me the us), and have come out stronger and more in love than ever…i hope that others can feel the way i do about him for someone, the world would be a better place for it
September 29th, 2008 at 4:23 am
Hi! I am a gemini(girl) & was in love well still in love with my ex boyfriend(pisces). We were in love telling everyone how happy we we’re together. We fought all the time. I the gemini was very selfish & bitchy @ times. He on the other had alwayz wanted to hang out all the time. We two thought that we’d be together forever. & yes the sex was the bomb, so good, so fine. I loved it. But I guess it didn’t work. Still hoping someday it will. We were together for 3 years since high school. We were the boy & girl that lived next door. For real, we were. Anyway we argued all the time. He was a sweet heart, charming, everything. Well in the end it was bad, but hoping it will be someday & he’ll come around.
October 2nd, 2008 at 2:27 pm
HI ME AS A PISCES MALE AND MY GIRLFRIEND AS GEMINI FEMALE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 3 MONTHS AND YES IT IS VERY TRUE HOW WE CAN READ EACH OTHERS MINDS SHE IS VERY OUTGOING I WAS NEVER BUT NOW I AM. WE ARE HITTING IT OFF GREAT I AM VERY EMOTIONAL BUT I LET HER KNOW WHATS BOTHERING ME I THINK IF THE PISCES MALE DOESN’T TELL THE GEMINI WHATS ON HIS MIND THATS WHEN THE RELATIONSHIP GOES DOWNHILL IF THEY ARE BOTH OPEN TO EACH OTHER AND COMMUNICATE THEN I THINK THIS WILL BE A MATCH MADE IN HEAVEN…
October 5th, 2008 at 3:41 am
I’m a pisces, and went out with a Gemni, so it works out pretty well. The guy I like right now is also a Gemni, and he’s sooo sweet to me, treats me like a person.
October 5th, 2008 at 11:21 pm
i’m a pisces girl and i like a guy who’s a gemini. he is the most complicated guy i’ve ever met. he’ll flirt with me one day and want me then the next he’s flirting with my friend who he says he’d never like. most guys are extremely simple but this on the other hand is a whole other story.
October 6th, 2008 at 1:34 am
Gemini girl here… was involved with a younger pisces, can’t remember which year. I think he was 4 years older than I (approximately 34 now) and we fought all the time.
Now contemplating a pisces(tiger) and it’s just in the beginning stages but it is so much nicer. I think it’s possible that it could work out fine. I doubt we’ll have as many problems as I and the younger pisces guy did.
October 15th, 2008 at 5:29 am
Hi.
I dated a Gemini for almost 3 years and I have to tell you it was very intense. There seemed to be a soul tie that we had a very hard time cutting. He was very jealous and controlling (would monitor every thing I did). He would usually be the one to use “emotional blackmail” and played a countless number of mind games to ensure it worked. The only thing good about the whole thing was the sex. We were both very creative and open with each other in the bedroom, which was probably one of the reasons we had a hard time ending it. He had a very bad temper and was extremely insecure. People wondered why I wouldn’t leave the relationship–but, true to my sign, I guess I stayed to play the part of the martyr. So glad that’s over.
On the flip side, my best friend is a gemini. We’ve been inseperable for more that 20 years now. Sure, we’ve had our spells, but we truly believe we packed our bags and came to this world together.
October 17th, 2008 at 11:10 pm
Gemini male here. I have three questions. I was born on May 21 77. According to most horiscopes I’m a Gemini, however some say I’m a Taurus. Which am I? Does being on the cusp help or hurt having a relationship with a Pisces. Secondly, For some reason my last three relationships have been with Pisces women. In reading the comments here I better understand why things did not work out with either of them. I don’t know why but I have a strong attraction or luck for Pisces women. Is sarcasm a big negative for Pisces?
October 19th, 2008 at 3:16 am
Izzy,
I can understand your attraction to pisces–we are rather amazing people.
Ah, but seriously…I’m sure it’s possible to have a successful relationship with a Pisces, I just think each sun sign has certain tendencies that aren’t always complimentary to the other, and therefore, would require a lot of compromise (something not too many people are willing to dish out these days). But, anything IS possible. My ex-boyfriend and I had something magnetic, meaning it was very difficult to break away. But it wasn’t a healthy relationship at all.
As for the sarcasm. I, personally, am not crazy about it, but it definitely depends on the nature of it. And keep in mind, there’s a difference between “sarcasm” and “smart-ass” yet the line between them can be very faint for some. Just be wise with your words. Lucky for you, most pisces can forgive rather quickly (assuming an apology is sincere {and we know the difference}), but continue…and you’ll find we aren’t so easy to forget.
These are just my 2 cents.
Good luck on your journies!
Jen
October 21st, 2008 at 12:13 am
I am pisces and my boyfriend is gemini..
My relationship with him is so frustration because i never understood him and I don’t even know if he truly likes me. I’m 18 and he’s 19
One day he said he likes me and misses me and wants to be with me
next day he forget about me but talked to me like .. at night before he went to sleep.
then next day he doesn’t show his affection to me at all
but later he shows his affection to me.
AIYAH! HE HAS LIKE MULTIPERSONALITIES!
EVEN WORSE IS THAT HE HAS A WORSE ATTITUDE EVER!
“whatever” “idk” “okay” “so?” “cool”
so when i broke up with him.. and he got really upset and mad. and ignored me for days.
then asked me to go back together with him. and made the relationship officially again
so i set my facebook to in a relationship and send a request to him to accept it so that my status will says “in a rleationship with ___ but he didn’t confirm it even though he went on!!
HE CONFUSED ME!
October 22nd, 2008 at 8:06 pm
I am a gemini girl who’s seeing a pisces man for about 10 months now and so far things been great but weird. we got into two really bad fights because we were both intoxicated….lol but besides that he’s been so sweet, loving and really a caring person. He’s there when i need some one to talk to. He might get alittle jeoulous at times but doesn’t show it. He’s really easy on his feelings towards things. Reading everyone elses comments it’s funny cause some stuff are true and some are not , but i’m hoping things will work out between us cause i really love him and he loves me god bless our relationship.
October 25th, 2008 at 7:20 pm
me n dis gemini has been frens 4 a year now.he told me he liked me da first 3 months of our frenship but i sensed it was only 4 sex..so i passed.back again in june he came telling me he likes me..i passed again.he tells all his frens we have a love thing goig on..its carzy.i like him alot but hes da original gemini player with all his girlfrens. he has tons of girl frens but yet still is extremely jealous and possessive wen it comes 2 me.i can’t talk 2 any guy infront of him with out him glaring at me/distracting the guy from me.practically every girl he dated,dates or is planning 2 date..hates my ass.dey sey dat he always talks about me. he tells me he has everyone on stand by just 4 me but he doesn’t understand me.the passion is strong between us even though we r very on an off an we can’t do with out each other.there was a time we went without speaking to each other 4 a month an he just kept staring at me wen he saw me. we were at a fete an he was burnibg with jealousy wen i was dancing with a cute guy (scorpio) and he was about 2 cry.everyone says dat one day we’ll hook up but he really doesn’t understand me an tries 2 hide his true feelings.at times he cud treat me most cruely but i stay like a damsel in distress praying one day dis mess will be da best.
October 26th, 2008 at 7:22 am
I am a Gemini Girl and I have been with a Pisces man for a year. And yes the sex is explosive, but there is so much more. I think it depends on the people involved, because not every Gemini or pisces is the completely the same. I know I can be emotional distance and he knows he can be very sensitive so we try to met each other half way. Strangely I love spending whole days with my guy when I am not at work. Oh well these abnormalities is what can make a Gemini and Pisces work
October 26th, 2008 at 6:40 pm
Yup I knew my Pisces hubby for 5 yrs now & been together for 3 yrs, married for 7 months & boy oh boy its been a ride! He is very loving, soft, gentle, caring, intuitive & freaks me out cuz being a Gemini in all, i play as if i dont know what i’m doing just so i can get him to show me & or do it for me & he calls me out on front street, talk about seeing through a Jack of SOME trades! lol i love him to death & we have our ups and downs, i just hope this lasts even tho they say Gem’s dont last long in commitments, i’m most certainly trying in this one. Sex with Pisces is quite drown-ful (meaning extravagantly deep, sensual, spiritual, mind-captivating, hot, & relaxing)!
October 26th, 2008 at 7:44 pm
Message for Pisces…ladi that posted on Oct 26.
Incredible that your story sounds so similarly to mine. I am Pisces….he is gemini…but a player….we have been on/off for four years. Attraction is strong as well but we can’t seem to get it together. Can you please email me at
rxlm2007@yahoo.com. Maybe we can exchange some thoughts.
Thanks,
Rox
October 29th, 2008 at 11:11 pm
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October 31st, 2008 at 4:01 pm
i think that all you tha say pisces and gemini arent compatible never gave it a hard enough try im the pisces my best friend of 16 years and my boyfiend whom im going to marry sometime in the next year are both geminis are two of my favorite people in the whole world i was actually shocked to hear people say that these signs cant work we make the best teams EVER! pisces never give up on your gemini and they will always be there for you!!!!!!!
November 4th, 2008 at 9:04 pm
I am a Gemini woman. I take the challenge of being with him. We do face alot of problems. Love is stronger than you Zodiac though. We have been friends for 7 years and we have gone out for a year of that.
November 6th, 2008 at 7:11 am
I habe been with my Pisces for 1 year and we have been friends for 7. He is my better half, he tells me when I am being to overbearing or a brat and I let him know when he is going off in his little world. We have our problems but no real relationship is problem free. I have had alot of relationships as a Gemini and some of the matches asigned to Gemini have been my worst. Aquarius for instance, that was one of the worst relationships of my life. I love the zodiac but when it comes to this…not so much. Maybe I am different because I was born of the cusp of Gemini and Cancer, which is known as the Cusp of Magic. Maybe the cancer in me likes him.
November 16th, 2008 at 8:10 pm
hey my boyfriend is a pisces guy n really as u all told i really find him boring and moody sometimes n that makes me go mad!!!but i love him a lot n do not wanna lose him but i feel i will lose him…i wanna work out this relationship n make it a successful one…please help me out
November 16th, 2008 at 11:44 pm
To Meghana,
How long have you and your pisces guy been together? The only reason why I’m asking cause just when you think that you are in a relationship he will advise you that you are not and he would only like to be friends have you guys ever spoke about your status? I just don’t want you to get your feeling like I have 6 months into my BIG OLD MESS! Per my comment I have placed
November 18th, 2008 at 3:20 am
Hi there. I wanted to ask you all if any of you have tips on what Gemini men like/dislike as far as relationships goes. I too love a Gemini man but I’m struggling as far as understanding him. He seems to like to play games and can be quite hot and cold as well. Any of you Pisces girls who’ve had successful relationships with Gemini men please help. I heard they don’t like to be put on the spot or put under pressure emotionally. Is this the case? Thanks
November 25th, 2008 at 7:33 pm
all i have to say is that im a pisces/rooster…if you are a gemini/snake gemini/ox gemini/dragon or gemini/pig…then we can get along…the pisces side and gemini side still make us very incompatible but those chinese signs makes us very very very compatible….i know this pisces/ox and gemini/ rooster that has been together for 12 years now…..that wa so amazing to see….i never though that a pisces and gemini can last that long but when i found out their chinese signs, i was like, “oh i see why they lasted so long”….
December 12th, 2008 at 4:55 pm
I’m a pisces man married to a gemini woman for many years. Our relationship is very good, but then we also understand our differences. We both agree that if we had met earlier in life this would not have worked because our differences would have created a lot of confusion and frustration.
Any relationship takes work but that’s what makes for a good relationship which is very rewarding.
December 14th, 2008 at 8:11 am
I am a gemini woman going on a one year relationship with a pisces man. There was a definate attraction at first and although there still is I find it slowly fading as time goes on. I do find at times that I feel like my boyfriend holds me back as I fight to struggle for the freedom that I want. It’s funny because he’s not a controlling person and actually very laid back so I’m confused to why I feel so trapped. Maybe it’s because I always feel like i’m one step ahead of him or maybe because i’m wanting to go out and experience the world with new and different things while he wants to sit around at home and watch movies (snooooze!!!)
He’s very content with who he is (never strives to be a better person) and also naturally shy while i’m the complete opposite and this frustrates me. I love sitting around having meaningful deep conversations and he can’t even give me his insight on the way he feels, his opinions, etc..just always agrees with me for the sake of arguement. He’s a terrible communicator! Often I find myself feeling bad for him because I feel like he’s so “pathetic”. I hate to use that word because I do love him, but like the others that have posted their opinions I also can’t figure out the reasons why I feel so much love.
All in all, I have realized that our relationship is becoming more destructive then healthy, did I mention we live together?
I agree strongly with Becky that the two opposites enjoy the idea of eachother and maybe wish they were a bit like eachother in some ways as well…and maybe that’s what keeps them together for so long.
December 14th, 2008 at 3:52 pm
To John: I so agree with you there.
December 14th, 2008 at 4:19 pm
To Mandi: Very interesting relationship you have there. Does it bother you that you want your freedom? There’s nothing wrong in wanting your freedom.
If I were in your shoes, I would take how he’s acting has this relationship going down hill. Like he is not interested at all! I like someone whom I can disagree/agree and voice their opinons. I like being in relationship that is fun, were you two feel young together.
It sounds like you two are growing part from each other.
I had person silmiar to your boyfriend. For the life of me I could never make him happy. When he did smile it was so fake. I would dress sexy for him he just get mad, I try to talk to him when we were out, he wouldn’t talk to me, so I would talk to other people, he would get jealous. I touch him, he would tell me not to touch him. Then he would complain to me, that I never showed affection. It really hurt me inside. (Still does, telling you about it. Because he was my first love. It has been few years since I talked to him.)
It was like he didn’t care at all. You look at him and his eyes were compeletely empty, his soul was empty, there was no life. No desire to live. It seem I was with a brick wall. The relationship ended badly, so badly he left me outside in the cold.
Maybe it’s time for you to move on. You could try talking to him about how you truly feel, about your fredoms, why he won’t talk, to you.Lay it ALL out on the table and if he just sits there like a lump on log. I would just take a bow and move on.
I know all relationships have their ups and downs, but a relationship should never be boring.
December 14th, 2008 at 4:24 pm
To Becky: I don’t know, if it is just my computer. When I click on sections the page will load up, but it will be blank. Are you having that problem, is anyone else is?
How did you get your picture to show up by your name?
December 15th, 2008 at 2:59 am
Message for ‘tempest in a teapot’ posted on September 15th,
I gotta say, our stories are kinda alike. I’m a Gemini female, he’s a pisces male. He lives in the UK, I live in Holland. Yet I love him to bits. Our relationship is anything but ordinary, but then again, love without pain isn’t really romance
We’ve been together for about 2 years now, and I think I am safe to say that we had most of the crappy parts. We got to know eachother alot better, and to appreciate the way we both are. Even though we still shout at eachother at times.
The thing I was wondering about, how did you guys solved the distance problem?
Karlijn.
December 15th, 2008 at 10:15 pm
i have laughed at most of these posts as they are soooo spot on!! IMO pisces & gemini are not compatible at all!! only in a very few cases so it would seem. (of course becky i’m sure we’d get along fine…as we not married/
living together or blood related in anyway lol)
i divorced my gemini hubbie in 1991…after 3 yrs of passion/drama/sex/more drama & yet despite it all a great connection in some ways but totally totally unfathomable…lol
i haven’t set eyes on hubbie no.1 for 7 yrs…
but when i bump into him as i know i will soon enough (the gods are not that kind!! lol & i have just moved back to our hometown) it will be like we just saw each other yesterday…
depending on my gemini exes mood he will be either wickedly funny & i am sure make a rude comment for old times sake…such as so you fancy a quickie?? tbh he will say it in a far more colourful way than that!! or else he will just be wicked & bring up past hurts…either way as another poster said he will do so with a very very sexy stare too…god help me!!!
December 15th, 2008 at 10:19 pm
to john (march)..
Total perfection seems so close yet so far as she is a major drama queen that refuses to see herself that way. She is a chaos creator too.
oh dear i think you may well have your pisces lady well & truly sussed…& me too!!
though i am aware of my drama queen tendencies isn’t admitting it half the battle??? lol
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December 19th, 2008 at 6:19 am
I am a Pisces/girl and my ex was a Gemini/boy and what all these post were describing were basically on point. We are both virgins so there has been no sex, but the kissing and touching does get a little bit steamy. It is very easy to talk to him and it never gets boring, but I can not stand our arguments. We can stay cool with each other for about two days, then were are fighting over some old drama. And it seems we love to make up with kissing, touching, and basically just being all over each other. We have been in a relationship off and on for two years and now I am really trying to leave it along. I really do love him but some how I don’t feel it is what God wants for us. I mean I loved spending time with him, talking on the phone, kissing, going to the movies, just smelling him but the emotional roller-coaster is not worth it. And he is so sexy may I add. I once though it was just because we are 19 and college students but the posts I have read makes me feel like it’s something more. Like Pisces and Gemini’s really can’t work. This sucks but yeah I need to get over him.
December 23rd, 2008 at 12:43 am
Now I have something thats interesting. I am a 36 yr old Gemini male and was married to a Aquarius for 12 years, and one child. We were supposed to be a match, but the marriage went sour, tried to make it work but the last 3 years were the most horrible of my life. I have been with a 38 yr old Pisces for some time now, and it is heaven. I am not sure I trust the compatibility?
December 24th, 2008 at 1:33 am
I am a gemini woman, totally completely in love with a pices man. When we first met, he texted me and called me almost everyday. He even invited me on a trip less than a month into the relationship. We were both very into each other. Then after the trip it just slowly started to fade away. And we stopped seeing each other. He said it was because he got really busy and then he got sick and he felt he was always the one trying to call me. But then I told him that his distance wasn’t working for me. He suggested that we just start as friends again and then take it from there. We hardly talk any more and it is always me who initiates it. Whenever i suggest we hang out, he always agrees, then cancels right before. What do I do? How do I get him to come back??
December 26th, 2008 at 1:21 pm
Seems this Gemini/Piscean debate will go on for ever,. I think that we gemini males
should perhaps open up to our conterpart pisceans, a lot more often. although I could strangle the little bitch at times. I do love her bits, and yes we do try and make you pisceans jealous par for the course really.
flirtacious Gemini,s will always be the same
I,m also a Male Dominant and she a professonal
dominatrix so that really do,es add to the dynamics of the situation
December 29th, 2008 at 11:57 am
This Post has been so interesting to read. My gemini guy have just ended our joke of a relationship (me - pisces) ( he refused 2 call it a relationship) As soon as I showed any kind of interest of likeness toward him he would completely back off and become distant, not calling me for days - then calling me saying he missed me and he wanted 2 be with me…I would then get frustrated and ask him not too contact me and then he became more keen..He was very jelous when I spoke 2 other guys and was very hot headed… He made me feel insecure and not good enough…but on the other hand when it was just him and I we would curl up in bed , very affectionate to eachother and we would have passionate sex… but im now sick of playing games with him and feel I deserve more than him blowing me hot and cold.. Still feel a strong connection towards him and hoping I wont give in when he begins to call again (which he always does)…
Im still’In Lust’ With my gemini…
Any suggestions on how to move on from this..as feeling a bit hurt…
December 29th, 2008 at 7:34 pm
Shannon, a start might be to get ivolved in good times together. Invite him to go with you to some classy social events, or just fine dining. You pay, at least for now, he’ll likely insist that he pay later. Even a trip or hike near water, like a creek or the ocean might be a nice time together. Exposing him to anything creative like art museums, or anything else related to art or science, is something I think most pisces enjoy.
Don’t pressure the relationship - for now. Later, you may need to after you’re sure his feelings are growing for you.
December 29th, 2008 at 8:11 pm
Even though I’m pisces, I seem to fit the pisces descriptions only partially. I’m actually pisces with sagittarius rising.
Someone here mentioned about their pisces sitting around watching tv, while I’m so busy with projects and just having fun in general that I rarely if ever watch tv. I do like going to movies though. I really enjoy art. I love the outdoors, so I spend a lot of time hiking. I love to be mentally stimulated, but take a while to process new information, so I don’t do well in debates.
As far as romantic situations, I love just sitting with my wife by the ocean (with sound of waves), creeks, or just anyplace where there is the sound of water. I also like sitting in front of a fire, and romantic dinners.
I don’t like anyone trying to find out eveything about me, but am very open with even complete strangers - more so than most people are.
I seem to be a sponge for the emotions of everyone around me, so I do feel like I really need some time alone from time to time just to sort everything out and get back on track.
John
January 3rd, 2009 at 1:06 pm
Интеренсный блог, добавил в ридер
January 12th, 2009 at 9:41 am
I’m a gemini (June 19th/dragon) who is in “love” with a Pisces (March 20th/dragon)…
We have never been official but our relationship might as well be because he is very jealous. We remain friends through his choice not mine. Whenever we are together most of the time we are very passionate towards each other,when apart its like there is so many doubts. It’s impossible to cheat on him because we are definitely not together but because he says there’s something about me that makes him want to stay friends ( though the sex is great.)I feel this could be the famous “emotional blackmail” the Pisces man has put a hold on me. I am quite confused..I like our “friendship” but i need more. I hate this inbetween shit.
January 12th, 2009 at 4:19 pm
To Vanity_Gemini:
If you don’t like it, just end the relationship, if he wants nothing more than to be friends with you, and you find yourself getting tired of this “inbetween shit” Just end it.
That kind of distubs me that he wants you to be his friend, because he said so. If you don’t want to be his friend anymore, then don’t be. Don’t let people force you into situation that you don’t want to be in. People should be friends, because they want to be your friend, not because they force you into it. That isn’t a true friendship, and a real friend would never force you to do something you didn’t want to do. They would always respect your desecion, even when they don’t agree with it.
But I say, leave the man, you really don’t need this bullshit in your life. Be the master of your life, don’t be the sheep.
January 13th, 2009 at 9:38 pm
Hello,
I found your website to look for a better understanding with regards to my relationship with my adult Aquarius daughter. I am Pisces and my husband is Gemini. First I have to say that I am Christian and I do not look at Astrology as a religion and would be interested as to how it is viewed in that regard by others. Secondly, I did get insight to my Aquarian daughter’s traits that did make a lot of sense. She is amazing and I now have a better understanding of her intermittent communication as we live far away from each other. But lastly, I have been married to my husband for almost 26 years and together for 28. I have learned from this site that I am Pisces-Monkey and he is Gemini-Horse. I trust our longevity has to do with our faith as it has not been all smooth sailing. Whose marriage is that lasts this long. But our life together has been: interesting,compassionate,hard,adventurous,agrivating at times,comforting,passionate,and most importantly faithful! It is hard to be a Pisces sometimes but I even wonder what being a leap year day 29th Feb. Pisces, adds to the mix. Thanks for letting me share!
January 14th, 2009 at 2:06 am
I had a terrible relationship with a Pisces. I was only 18 at the begining and he was 43 and schizophrenic, so… maybe I shouldn’t blame it on the fact that he was a pisces. However, I definitely know what it feels like to be emotionally black-mailed. I only stayed in the relationship for 2 years because I felt sorry for him. It was a very strange relationship, however we shared many beautiful moments together. Although it really messed my head up and I’m still trying to get myself together after that… it was a very interesting experience. The attraction was very strong and I find piscians to be so amazing and have an almost magical charm to them. I’m currently interested in another Pisces (much younger this time however and not schizophrenic) and I really like him but have read so many negative opinions regarding our astrological compatibility. It’s very good to read actual accounts of people’s experiences. Thank you all for sharing!
January 14th, 2009 at 2:53 am
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January 14th, 2009 at 7:21 am
Hi there Lynn,
Thank you for your comment it is greatly appreciated. I really understand about your religious views. My Father is also Christian and when I first started doing this he was not overly impressed, although he himself has an interest in this. Astrology goes back further than the Bible, and I certainly do not view it as a Religion. My interest is purely based on the simple fact that it works as I am a sceptical little being!! I think both can be enjoyed together without guilt as they are both about the the greatness of the Universe and all it has to offer us.
So, you have an Aquarius daughter, me too! As a Pisces you will find that your understanding of one another is sometimes rather fuzzy. Aquarius girls are so wonderful and unique and well, strange in the loveliest of ways! Any talent MUST be encouraged or they can go a bit wild.
Gemini Horse (same as me), we can be a bit of a nightmare to live with so I commend you on sharing your life with one such creature for so long and enduring the tidal waves. Pisces and Gemini are not known for their great fondness of one another but like patience and understanding goes a long way and there will be ’something’ about each other that sticks you together. Of course, Monkeys and Horses are great pals and this will go along way to helping you get over hurdles in life.
Feel free to write to me via my contact form if you wish to find out anything else regarding astrology.
Love & Light
Becky
January 14th, 2009 at 3:24 pm
Well I am a Pisces and my fiance is a Gemini and I have never been happier in a relationship. We have been together for a number of years and just found out that we are having a baby together! We are both somewhat independent people who love alone time with each other. Yes, like everyone, we have our arguments but compared to my other relationships these are actually intellectual arguments and things that need to be discussed. I guess I am probably a more level headed Pisces than most because I do initially react using my emotions but before I say anything I make sure to put myself in the other person’s shoes, which may just be something that comes with age or experience. So for all of you who look at attempting a Pisces/Gemini relationship I say give it a shot at least, its the most romantic, inspiring, a loving relationship I have ever been in! Hope this helps!
January 15th, 2009 at 12:42 pm
To Gemini Gal and some others who misunderstand pisces.
Perhaps one of the most misunderstood things about pisces is their intuitiveness. Many people are intuitive, some aren’t and wish they were, and some really don’t care. The intuitiveness of some pisces goes beyond what some may realize, yet most pisces don’t give any clue to others that they possess such an ability. Some really don’t realize that they have such an ability - making them a completely emotional mess. That is where a big problem comes in. A pisces not reacting in the way that most people do, can drive people absolutely batty. Being dishonest about something to a pisces will often seem to go completely unnoticed, yet the pisces may often spend hours or even days pondering the dishonesty, trying to come to a reasonable explanation for it. It takes most pisces quite a while to sort through any kind of input (sometimes days) - and they do get a lot of it. The more mature pisces will then confront the offending party and attempt to work through it to determine if it was possibly a misunderstanding. The less mature, will just mark it up as a transgression and after there are very many, will simply leave the person rather than deal with the confrontation that may result by mentioning the actual or even sometimes perceived transgression, and trying to work through it. If the pisces does confront you with the issue, be completely honest, no matter if you were in the wrong. For examle, if you cheat on a pisces, and then are honest about it, you may find that you will be completely forgiven, yet dishonesty will drive him away. That’s a pretty ridiculous example but hopefully gets the point across.
Just as with the negative, there is also the positive. Some pisces don’t respond right away to positive feelings and emotions coming from their partners, yet they rarely go unnoticed. The best thing to do concerning such things, is just pay attention to their actions. If they seem to want to be alone, it could indicate they are sorting things out concerning something that has happened recently. That is not the time to try and interract with them about things. Wait until they seem to be “back” to their normal self, and then see if you can discuss things. If they consider you to be sincere, and their “distance” was concerning something of any importance, they will most likely discuss it with you.
I can’t emphasize the degree to which a pisces is like a sponge - soaking up the emotions of everybody around them. It really can be overwhelming at times, and if misunderstood by the pisces, can often lead to drug, alchohol, and other addictions.
One very unfortunate thing about the pisces intuitiveness, is the way they can use it against you, and it can often be with such a force that you’ll never forget. A mature pisces will never do such a thing, but one who is less mature, or one who unfortunately hasn’t a clue to such an ability, will. Such a thing can be quite devastating and my heart goes out to anyone who has been on the receiving end of such a thing.
With all that being said, be honest and open with your pisces, and you will most likely find yourself in a very rewarding relationship. If you have been the recipient of what I mentioned in the previous paragraph, the best thing to do is to just completely get out of the relationship - do not go back for more, and do not expect it to just fix itself in a short period of time. Allow that pisces to mature on his own, and if there are things you find desirable about a pisces - find another who is more mature.
January 15th, 2009 at 5:32 pm
FYI- Gemini fem here (28) completely enamored of a Pisces man (27), and have been for over a year and still going strong with very few problems and blowups besides typical couple spats…
….Just a couple thoughts… and mind you these two are linked together completely!
… the science of astrology has always interested me and I definitely feel as though it rings true… but on the other hand I just wanna remind people that information is priceless and can be used as an advantage… I say this because if you have a general knowledge of why a person is the way they are it can eliminate confusion and questions… and then you can react accordingly instead of assuming something incorrect… for example a major problem for Pisces seems to be the inability and sometimes unwillingness to express themselves verbally … and we all know Geminis crave intellectual stimulation and often pays close attention to words… since I know that hes like this I encourage him in a non pushy way to “try and find his words” and I also lead by example, so it makes the problem of communication between us two very limited …. I also am more willing to be more susceptible to his emotional currents… and although it was scary at first, now it’s a wonderful retreat that I savor… instead of feeling stifled and boxed-in I feel secure and complexly surrounded by love and adoration… which then makes it easier to develop and nurture those same feeling for him from me…
After reading every single one of these posts and other on various sites I it seems to me that these two sign interact best with each when they are little older and/or they have both experienced at least a few other relationships apiece…. In my case, being a Gemini, I loved dating around and definitely got bored easily in other relationships… but on the flip side I kinda feel like I got that out of my system a little bit since I was all over the place before I met him, and he came along at a time in my life where I was consciously ready for something “more”…
..in his case he was also involved in a few very bad relationships before he met me…(poor Pisces always picking bad partners lol)… I say this because after dealing with women who were manipulative and took advantage of his sensitive and selfless nature it kinda woke him up a little bit… and although I can be a little much sometimes he appreciates how upfront and direct I can be… after all how can a relationship issues be resolved if they are never identified?!….
….for those of you madly in love with your partner just remember a few things… knowledge is power use it!…we are both dual signs and we are both mutable… not necessarily a bad thing… sometimes he leads sometimes I do… neither of us hold grudges, its not in our nature… love can be the greatest motivator and teacher… also no matter what sign you are experience is the best teacher and really can change your outlook and behaviors… also personal growth is something that should be happening if you are in a relationship or not…I say this because personally I am very much aware of my individual personality strengths and weaknesses… I may always have a certain trait but should it be as destructive now as it was when I was 19 or 20?… hope you guys understand my rambling and much love and hope in all your relationships!
caroline
January 15th, 2009 at 10:44 pm
How can there be two people here with the same name - John? The first John that posted here is not me, and is a gemini while I’m a pisces. I do see the name spelled “John” (capital J) instead of “john”.
I’ve enjoyhed reading the various responses here. It’s helped me understand how other people perceive us pisces.
January 22nd, 2009 at 2:19 pm
Hello:
I have appreciated reading all these posts…and whoever said knowledge is power is right. I mean most of my friends are not in compatible relationships according to astrology but have somehow stayed together.
I am a Pisces and I have had a very difficult year with my Gemini. The first 6 months of our relationship were smooth sailing. I had an attraction to him at first sight. He never told me he loved me, but he told me he thought I was the one and that he had fallen in love with me. We finally moved in together in Aug of 07 and it kind of went down hill from there. We fought all the time over stupid stuff…i felt he was too critical mostly and that he was a hypocrite. And, he said I did not show him enough warmth and love. He said that I was too sensitive. Which i know i am. He broke up with me once and I ended up getting my own apt. But we still pretty much lived together and we stayed in the relationship. Finally this christmas he had to leave and go back to his home country of germany. I will add that this year has been extremely bad year for him career wise and it has made him really depressed and moody. We left it on bad terms. I had gotten to the point where i had shut off and he was just so angry at me…he told me i did not love him. He has called me twice since he left and I am miss him so much. I realize all the things i did wrong. But, he said that i broke up with him by how i treated him, but he admits he misses me. I still love him and i want us to be back together. He promised he would call me this past week and did not so I have decided to just give him his space and focus on me since he is all the way in germany and i cant talk to him. Has anyone got any advice on getting your gemini back….and how to show them that you really want to be with them and that you are willing to change to make the relationship work(especially from a distance)?? Any advice is helpful we have been together for over 2 years before he left.
Also,I would appreciate advice from gemini males especially. I will say that becuz we fought so much…all my friends think i should leave him alone…and i am sure his friends think the same. But, we have a bond that i believe can ignore what people on the outside say. Please give me some help or feedback. Thanks much.
January 22nd, 2009 at 2:21 pm
Also, he will be coming back in April or May.
January 24th, 2009 at 12:40 am
To Crena: Hiya, read your comment and I have mixed feelings about this relationship you have with him.
Part of me agrees with your friends, to find a new boy friend, it’s very hard to have a relationship with someone, if you can’t comucate and tell each other how you feel.
Question, has he told you he “wants you back?” Because this guy seem confuse on what he wants, and he also at the same time doesn’t seem interested. He doesn’t chase you, he said he would call you and he hasn’t. That’s part of me that says this relationship isn’t going no where, but always hitting a brick wall.
You could try having a long distant relationship, but it will be very DIFFERCULT to keep it together, because you two are never there. And for the both of you to keep a long distant relationship you got to find a way to keep commuacting with him. Also, you never know what he up too, since you can’t be with him.
Now, if I knew excately how he flet for you, I would say just go to Germany, but if he isn’t sure how he feels for you, or hasn’t told you, then don’t do it.
My suggesting is, to find out if he really LOVES YOU, and wants you to be with you. If you find out he doesn’t call you, doesn’t seem interested in you, doesn’t beg for you to come back into his life. Then, this relationship as ended, and you need to move on.
Seriously, he needs to mind up his mind what he wants, you need to find out. If he doesn’t want the same thing as you, then I would move on.
January 24th, 2009 at 9:26 pm
all these things above are true
ROLLERCOASTER
my pisces/rat try to play smart all da time but he doesnt know that i read him like an open book.
what pisses me off is he does too.
i cant do shit withough him not knowing!!
we are both pain in the asses but love saves us.it has been the most challenging but the most rewarding relashonship.
i can cry in front of him,he finds it sexy!!this guy is crazy.we hardly have the same point of view.but i never get boared(me gemini/goat/scorpio rising).
he made mi find the courrage to tell him i was scared of marriage and having kids…now iam ready,he said something i will never forget: what u are most scared of will make u the happyest”.its true! if hes sick i love him,if hes depressed i love him,i hate his dresscode but i love him,he doesnt have no money i love him.and yes sex is omg.
January 29th, 2009 at 4:55 pm
I’m a Pisces female involved with a Gemini male. We’ve been dating since New Years Day. He has from the beginning been the most caring person I’ve been with in 10 years. He opens the door for me, gets my chair, holds my hand, will take it upon himself to order us dinner. I find the dinner part cute since I’m trusting. He just seems to order what I like. At the end of the night he always tells me to call him when I finally get home because he can’t sleep until I do because he says he worries.
In the bedroom, he fullfills all my needs and I his. And he’s not afraid to show his reaction to having an orgasium like most men. He reacts whether it’s moaning or grunting or yelling. Too cute.
Oh and he’s so beautiful to look at. He says the same if me. That my inner beauty shines through and I both beautiful inside and out.
He tells me I bring peace to his chaotic world. That I’m his Zen.
Yeah he’s a bit outgoing and I see him about once a week but we both are so busy in our own lives.
Yeah I wish to see him more, but I know to give him his freedom.
I need mine too.
It’s working so far.
We’re not a couple but he dies call me his woman and knows that I’m all his.
So I think he shows me he cares and I must accept what he gives me and in turn I must give him his freedom. It just seems to work best like this.
BTW, I’m 35 and he’s 31. Maybe age and knowledge has helped in this relationship.
January 29th, 2009 at 8:03 pm
I feel like a lot of what you said is true - for instance, the sex between me and my gemini boyfriend is incredible, and we can’t help being attracted to each other.On the other hand, I am a bit quilty of emotional blackmail and I really do want to be adored and romanced and he doesn’t always feel the need to. However since I’m born on the cusp of Aquarius and Pisces [19th feb] our relationship is able to work, since Aquarius is very compatible with Gemini, so my Aquarius traits keep my Pisces side in check. So, nI would say it could work if one of you is born on the cusp
January 30th, 2009 at 10:13 am
To Madga:
WWWWWWOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOW!!!!!! Whatever you do, do not lose this one! He’s a keeper. More men need to be like him. I hope to find a guy like that, that just loves me for who I am. And more women should be like you.
I feel a lot of people in this world totally misunderstand what relationship is really all about. A lot think, it’s about controling, and ordering about someone telling them ‘their mine.’ like their a piece of meat.
Maybe this is the Aquarius in me, but I think relationship should be free, where the two can be together, but do what they like to do when their not together. And be open enough to talk and be their own person, you know.
So yeah, you have a great man.
February 1st, 2009 at 8:21 pm
Well, to all. I’m a taurus/gemini cusp, and my girlfriend is a beautiful pisces. Our relationship isn’t what everyone says it would be. Maybe it’s the taurus side of me, but our relationship, between us, is almost as if Perfect. Yeah, I know that’s quite hard to say for most. But there is a key to keeping a gemini and pisces relationship in good standing, or better(in a gemini guy’s view.)
The key is that both need to think for a moment, and know what exactly what the other really wants, work in that area the most, and all will fall into place, trust me. ( For example, my pisces always want me to be there for her, complete her, and love her no matter what. And I do all she wants me to do w/o no problems.) Geminis is can adapt to anything, trust me, I know, I cause I’m a gemini. But yeah, me and my pisces angel are always happy. We always spend as much time together as we can. People mostly think that gemini may cheat on their pisces, AANNNNNTTT wrong!!!, geminis talk to people with our first thought, and say things that may be charming, but charming is the normal for us. While everyone is amazed by us saying nice things, it’s not that great to us, well not to me.
I’ve been with my pisces for nearly a year and and half, and bearly had a dull moment. We just can’t help but love each other. Two hours of us talking isn’t enough. We need the whole day! The only problems we got, is that too many other girls like me. And I learned the hard way that pisces can be very jealous, that’s if they show it, cause mine’s do, and ya’ll can’t denie it. Hey, don’t catch my case, blame it on ya’ll’s emotion, but ya’ll emotion make the relationship interesting.
Last but not least, as far as advice on gemini’s part, of course we’ll get bored every now and then, but I tell what works for me. Be creative with your pisces in everything ya’ll do together. Be sponteneous, in all things; cooking, talking, dates, and etc., and especially in sex. My pisces adores me in that area. She’ll never know what to expect next, which could be later that day. But for gemini guys, tip stay away from most women, for your pisces benefit. Ya know it ain’t that hard. It’s basiscally how well the two react to each other and how well they work with each other.
February 2nd, 2009 at 8:08 pm
in my last comment, I didn’t make it clear how much I love my gemini boy - even though it can be a rollercoaster at times, he is so much more capitivating and lovely than any other boy I’ve met. And I adore him. and so even though he isn’t always as romantic as i’d like him to be, he is a really great guy.
February 4th, 2009 at 12:22 pm
Hey guys … I am a pisces and i have been with my Gemini guy since i was 16……we were high school sweethearts, he was my biggest crush in high school…this september 2009, will make 4 years together. Let me start off and say that he is the BEST boyfriend Ever….He Loves and adores me All the time… and i have never had any “cheating problems with him”
He is so faithfull, never caught him looking at other girls…Even tho i like to test him and be like ” See that girl over there, would you do her?” lolz but he never falls for the bait.
He is very very protective of me….He takes me everywhere, I have to call him everyday when i get home from college or else he goes nuts…lolz….Anything i want he gives it to me, if i want chinese at the mall he would take me there no matter how far it is…I feel so special.
The only thing that is lacking in our relationship is that “awsome sex” you guys are talking about. He just dont satisfy me in the bed room at all. But he makes up for it in other departments like taking care and loving me. And You cant have the perfect relationship so ….it dont bother me too much ..but it would b awsome if i had that, too.
I have alwys been attractive to gemini’s, almost all of my bfs have been geminis …and mines love me sooo soo much. The things he do for me is so out of this world. and you no how pisces love to be adored:)
So pisces and Geminis do get along, and can last..even have the perfect relationship.
And thats why i do agree that it all depends on the person and how much u realy care about each other.
February 11th, 2009 at 2:19 pm
I am a Gemini girl (dragon) and my ex was a Pisces (tiger) and at first it worked really well: the sex was amazing and I loved his thoughtful, loving nature. However, he became really clingy and SOOOO emotional and for a Gemini that’s a dangerous combination! He drove me insane. He would constantly call me/text me/be at my place and would demand my attention all the time. I need my space and independence and he totally failed to understand that. I also enjoy the chase a bit, so when he told me every day that he loved me, it got a bit irritating.
Oh, and he used to cry all the time, and if I’d done something (anything!) to upset him, he would not fail to let me know. Which at times was useful, but mostly it was a tiny thing (so over emotional) and REALLY grated.
In summary, not a good relationship - it ended after 3.5 months and I felt so free afterwards!
He however, according to mutual friends, cried for about a week after I broke up with him and then would randomly burst into tears about it at odd moments for about 6 months after. I feel kinda bad about that, but I’m so glad I’ve distanced myself from it. I am certainly going to be wary of Pisces from now on!!
February 11th, 2009 at 3:51 pm
To Daniella:
He cried, when his feelings got hurt all the time??????????????????????? Are you for real? I know, people cry, when their hurt, but that’s bit too much. I couldn’t take it, I would walk out on him in a heartbeat. He did everything too much. I would have been like you, getting annoyed. Once, while tell me you love me, but not every SINGLE day. And the whole thing about coming to your house, text messages, you calling you all the time, is going overboard.
That just scares, and annoy people. People need to have control over their emotions. One cannot go overboard. When you go overboard with anything, people just don’t want to be around you.
There’s got to be a balance of, not too little or too much.
February 11th, 2009 at 3:56 pm
To Daniella:
You may feel bad, but don’t feel too bad. You can’t control his emotions or how he is going to react. That’s just him Mr. Emo You are the only one that can control your emotions and your reactions to certain situations.
People are people, sometimes they change for the good or the worst, but one cannot worry too much on which they cannot control, or you stop living life.
February 11th, 2009 at 10:58 pm
I am a Pisces female and my EX bf is a Gemini. Your compatibility reading could NOT be more accurate! (For us, of course)I fell in love with this man despite of all the silly fights we had! We were inseperable, we became best friends and we had a stron connection. I am guilty of the “emotional blackmail” and he is guilty of being too distant. Us Pisces need reassurance and a constant demonstration of love, which might be hard for the Gemini man. There was always a lot of drama going on, however, there were a lot of times when we were just so perfect for each other. This relationship was so intense, yet, now that it is over, there is nothing left. I am trying to avoid Gemini men as it is very emotionally DRAINING for me. It was very good while it lasted…. time to move on to a different sign!!! =)
February 11th, 2009 at 11:11 pm
I’m not sure if crying for one’s self is really a pisces characteristic. I, unfortunately, cannot help but get teary-eyed during a sad movie, or when someone I care about is hurting, but that’s about it. And even then, I try very hard to be inconspicuous about it, which sometimes seems to make things even worse.
They say that us pisces are kind of a mixed lot, so who knows what you’ll get when you get one of us. Maybe some of it has to do with coming to grips with ourselves. I suppose my sagitarrius rising and wood/horse would make me different from another combination, just as it would with that same combination with another sun sign. I guess it’s all really pretty complicated, but it certainly does seem that just having pisces as one’s sun sign is a topic for quite a lot of discussion.
I must admit though, regardless of what the books say about other sign compatibility, gemini women are my favorite!
February 13th, 2009 at 9:04 pm
wow.
it’s funny that i did a little random googling to see about certain aspects of a strange relationship in my life… and i stumbled on THIS. at least i’m not alone.
i’m the gemini, and the pisces in my life is alternately maddening and adorable. i actually mark off days on my calendar that are good and try to figure out if having him in my life is worth it. we dated for three months and have been friends since breaking up–but seriously stretching the definition of ‘friends.’ it doesn’t seem like we can leave each other alone. the connection is too strong. recently things changed again–this past weekend, we started having sex again. (do i need to even say that the sex is great?)
the problems are not small… he gets mad at me for ‘going dark’ and pulling back into my own world. i tend to want more attention than i get, even after spending a lot of time together. we absolutely WRECK each other emotionally (most of my friends hate him), but then…
c’mon. you know, right?
… then there are those perfect days. where everything is so good it’s actually probably BETTER than it was with anyone else i’ve dated.
i wonder if hanging on for those days is worth it.
the things we do for the ones we love, right?
February 15th, 2009 at 5:21 pm
I am a Gemini/Pig man and have been seeing a lovely Pisces/Dragon woman for 4 months now. And despite the fact that a Gemini/Pig and Pisces/Dragon are supposed to be totally uncompatible, we seem to have formed an unbelievable connection. We are really good friends as well as boyfriend/girlfriend and can talk about anything and love spending time together. For some reason I have always found Pisces/Dragons irristible. On the surface you’re probably thinking it wont last but it honestly feels like she’s the one. And I have had worse relationships with more compatible signs - namely Aquarius.
But here’s the BASIC astro breakdown:
Asc Sun Moon
Me Pisces Gemini Virgo
Her Libra Pisces Taurus
I was born on June 2 1971 and she was born on March 5 1976.
As you can see their are already a number of positive apects in the above breakdown, (despite the fact that our sun signs are SQUARE which is supposed to be bad):
Her Moon trine My Moon
Her Sun opp My Moon
Her Asc trine My Sun
Her Sun conj My Asc (aspect is common in marriages)
In short I am more shy and sensitive, practical and patient than the average Gemini And she is more outgoing, bubbly and talkative than the average Pisces. Together we seem to MATCH!!!!
I would be interested to get some feedback from others on this relationship, particularly from budding astrologers who can say whether or not my relationsip will last with this girl.
February 15th, 2009 at 11:48 pm
I’m a Pisces girl and have been with my Gemini boy for about 7 months. He can be really vicious, and I can be unconsciously controlling. So, he watches his tongue and I lay back. I couldn’t be more happy with him, it’s crazy magic!
Maybe I’m just a Pisces who doesn’t need constant reassurance and understands why some people are distant. And he seems very shy, sensitive and emotional. Yeah, that probably helps, because, beyond that, we love the same things, understand each other, miss each other when they leave… I could go for a while.
Not to mention the amazing sex!
I wouldn’t say that over-all this is a good match, and I wouldn’t recommend it. But WE get along. Not ALL Pisces Gemini relationships do. I can think of several Geminian boys that are just terrible, and I clearly see why people say it can be bad.
February 28th, 2009 at 6:13 am
i thank Gemini and Pisces get along see if you notice Pisces and Gemini have the two II syllables and mine side of the storie they can get along Gemini can be like a Pisces two so what i am saying Pisces and Gemini are the two with the split personality thing i thank they are Compatibility in mine side of the storie
February 28th, 2009 at 6:35 am
And one more thing about Gemini and Pisces in the sign sides they are like brother and brother what i mean they understand each other i would say Gemini and Pisces are twins
March 3rd, 2009 at 10:20 am
I am a gemini female and I have been dating a pisces male for almost 5 years now. Honestly, it has been one crazy CRAZY roller coaster ride. Him and I fell for each other instantly. It was like love at first sight. Now normally, me being a Gemini, I don’t really get THAT jealous, but with him, I was insanely jealous. He just has this oh so charming way with women and I hated it. I want to be the center of his world. I must say though, he has shown me so much love over the years. We did meet when we were pretty young (18 and 19) but over time, we have gotten to know each other better and see who we really are. We have both had our fair share of scandelous back stabbing and we never trusted each other. But it’s crazy because no matter how much destruction we do to each other’s lives, it’s like we are two magnets with the strongest attraction. It seems impossible for us to not be around each other. When we are around each other, the love and passion between us is unreal. It’s as if no one else exists. He is so amazing. He has such a good heart and he doesnt mind letting me see that. I have seen him open up to me in ways that I never even thought a man was capable of. Don’t get me wrong, he is not some wimpy guy, he’s actually a very manley man but he has this soft side to him which I get to enjoy and I absolutly love it! I adore him. No matter how many fights we get into I don’t ever seeing us letting go. Neither of us want to. I do agree with the thing about Gemini’s hurting pisces feelings, because I know I have. I can be really mean sometimes and I know it hurts him but I don’t mean to do that, I just get mad. Sometimes it’s very frustraing because I feel like he’s not THERE, like he’s not listening, like there are so many things in his mind he’s not telling me (not like secrets just things I wanna know). Gemini’s NEED to know EVERYTHING! I ask so many questions and i’m always curious as to what is on his mind but he’s so mysterious. He lets me in from time to time and I love it but I wish it would happen more often. Maybe if I didn’t lash out at him so often then he would be more open with me. Honestly he is the sweetest guy in the world! I cannot see how any woman in this world would not fall in love with him. He is everything you could ask for in a man and so much MORE! Ahhh I love him!
March 3rd, 2009 at 1:37 pm
I am Pisces female (26 feb) dating Gemini guy (3rd june)… very rough relationship. Gemini guys pls give any advice. I am determined to try to make it work Thanx
March 3rd, 2009 at 6:36 pm
Des,
I’m a pisces man.
It’s great to hear that your relationship is going relatively well. In my opinion, one of the most damaging things in any relationship, is trying to get your partner to share what they are thinking or feeling, if and when they don’t want to.
As far as the fits of anger… well, I suppose that’s just a gemini “thing”, and something that your pisces will need to learn to deal with. My wife loves me very much and tries not to do that, and still manages to travel down that dark road occassionaly. Just make sure that he understands that you wish you didn’t do it, but sometimes it just happens - I’m sure he’ll continue to be understanding.
As far as jealousy, that can be tough for some I suppose. Unfortunately, pisces are “chick magnets” - pardon my phrasing. I’m not sure what it is, but I have attracted women all my life, even when I didn’t really even want to. I get a lot of comments about my eyes even though to me they look just like anybody else’s eyes.
March 12th, 2009 at 2:29 am
omg!!!
isn’t this insane or what haha don’t mind my spelling i am very french.
I (gemini) was going out with a pices for about 2 years and honestly i think we should of ended it like after the first 3 months but ther was something so attractive about him i just kept trying and tryin..
Soooooo drayning he would never express his feelings, he was so hard to understand we would argue about anything because he would allways have to be right.
I dont know if its just me but i find, I (gemini) have a hard time knowing what i want and making up my mind. and for once i though i knew what i wanted i guess that why i tryed so hard cuz usually i’d step back. I know it has to do about personalities to but please some1 explain to me why they are so closed with there feelings i mean love should just work you know!
méli-mélo xox
March 12th, 2009 at 11:47 am
mélodie
I think you should persue the relationship and try to work through some of the problems.
One of the problems - the pisces thinking he’s always right, is a relatively simple problem to deal with. The path of least resistance in a matter like this, is often the correct path to take. For example consider two sumo wrestlers pushing against each other. It’s quite obvious that if one stops pushing, the other will fall flat on his face. Perhaps a poor analogy, but maybe you can see where I’m going with this. Fortunately, gemini’s are actually quite bright, so in arguments you may be correct just as often as the pisces. To solve the little problem that you are having with disagreement, simply state what you think is the correctness, and then leave it at that. You could also just not state your case at all. Pisces, just like anyone else, don’t like to be wrong. If he says something (and you don’t counter it), and later finds out he was wrong, you may find him coming to you to make the correction. I think doing either of those things, may prevent the persuant argument. As suggested, if things are allowed to take their course and the pisces finds out that you are perhaps right at least 50% of the time, he’ll not only be less argumentive, but will also acquire a degree of respect for your input. Don’t let him know you’re doing this, because he certainly doesn’t want you to be playing some kind of head-game with him. If you think about it maturely, it really isn’t a head-game but rather the correct thing for anyone to do.
I think that you’ll both come to realize that there are topics of specialty for each of you. That’s the way it is with gemini and pisces. You will most likely be right about 90% of the time on certain topics, and the pisces will be right 90% of the time on other topics. You both just need to realize the topics where you are each strong or weak.
As far as expressing his feelings - that will most likely not work out the way you’d like it to. Pisces rarely express their feelings “on the spot”. They need to get away and actually sort through their feelings before expressing them. If you can’t learn to accept that, I’ll guarantee the relationship will not work. This is one of those things that can’t be changed. I, being a pisces am well aware of this issue in myself. Pisces are perhaps the most “delayed reaction” type of person, of any sign. After they do sort through their feelings, if they know that there is a willingness to be heard, they will then express their feelings. If not, they will at least have an understanding of their feelings but will not express them to you.
Love can definitely work between a gemini and a pisces, but you both really need to understand your differences and then work on them.
March 13th, 2009 at 3:57 pm
hmm… well me (gemini) (monkey) ana my pisces gf (dog) have been together for a little more than 3 months and we really expect this to last… I think and hope. Its strange because I think she acts more of an aquarius. oh-well. yeah we dont really have any problems between us… I think
March 13th, 2009 at 4:37 pm
lol ok I just read almost every post and I can give an almost full … whateveryoucallit about me & my gf…
Ok so I have been with her for a little more than 3 months now (me gemini monkey 6/18/92 and her pisces dog 2/24/94), and there have been no problems. Now I am almost born to the gemini-cancer cusp… I’m kinda happy with that.
I looked at one and said that a gemini-aquarius was terrible but a gemini-pisces was like heaven. I kinda hope its right.
Ok so I’m a gemini with a gemini rising and cancer as my moon sign. shes a pisces with sagittarius rising and leo as her moon sign. can anyone explain that to me?
Oh and I also saw “I was only 18 at the begining and he was 43 and schizophrenic” LMAO thats worse than me. I went out with a 12 year old for 2.5 months when I was 16 (I still am).
I also saw “Oh and he’s so beautiful to look at. He says the same if me. That my inner beauty shines through and I both beautiful inside and out.” Lol my gf thinks im handsome (and sometimes sexy) when sometimes I think I’m ugly. wel I do think sh is beautiful inside and out… ok maybe not inside sometimes. she has a dirty mind.
So yeah… and we really love each other. we say I love you to each other a lot.
oh and when I first showed her our song Never Say Goodbye by Bon Jovi, she promiosed me to never say goodbye. yay me!
March 17th, 2009 at 9:48 pm
So I am struggling in a karmic affair with a Gemini man. We are both married and have children and mates that have supported us for years. Along comes this rollercoaster. So sensative and wonderful, and then so amazing the dissapearance of the gemini, and the hypersentivity of the fish that must just blow him out of the water. A drowning match. Addictive for the piscean somehow. I wish it would bring the love it should but feel hopeless indeed. Amazed and confused and stubborn about seeing it end, despite the pain.
March 31st, 2009 at 8:00 am
I am a Gemini woman with a Pisces man.When we first met the chemistry was wonderful.Pisces are true romantics…my last relationship with a Virgo man had none of this.My pisces man listens …is so supportive if I’m going thru thingz.When he is going thru something…he likes to be left alone…I give him his space.If there is a problem…we talk it out!!Our conversations last forever and he makes me feel like gold.So far so good and I feel that if two ppl really love one another…they can get through anything and prove those that don’t believe it can work wrong.Different can be good…if u r willing to work together and learn from 1 another!
March 31st, 2009 at 11:32 am
Jasmine - a willingness to work together to work through just about anything is something that I too have found can make a pisces/gemini relationship very rewarding. You allowing your pisces the space he needs is perhaps one of the most important things to a pisces, yet many girls are unable to do that. As you have witnessed, the rewards for doing so can be great. It sounds as if you have a wonderful relationship and I am happy for you.
April 10th, 2009 at 5:42 pm
I’m the female Gemini and my husband the male pisces. We have been together for 15 years and I must say it’s been a roller coaster ride. I could not emagine being in a more rewarding relationship though. He (pisces) keeps me (gemini) grounded. Yes we clash sometimes but can’t resist each other at the same. The connection is electrifying. He really compliments me. Yes I must admit in the beginning of our relationship I thought this would never last but we have learned to appreciate those qualities each of us lack that the other has. Our relationship now is better than ever and it keeps getting better as the years go by. We have two young boys and I could not have asked for a better father to my children. I think you are right about our compatability but love concors all. If you truly love someone you need to learn to appreciate them for who they are. You could never change anyone, just accept them for who they are and you will find that you will receive the same in return. The results will be rewarding.
April 13th, 2009 at 6:14 pm
I’m a Gemini girl myself, in love with a Pisces. We’ve been going out for almost a year now, but now that I’ve done some googling on Gemini and Pisces, it makes me re-think if he’s satisfied with our communication skills.
Is it true that every Gemini will encounter emotional problems with Pisces? Because if it does…well, I hope the end doesn’t happen between him and me.
Of course, sometimes we do have arguments that are obviously unnecessary, but when I was in relationships with other men (i.e. Sagittarius, Aries, Taurus, Gemini) there are always arguments.
Women who are Pisces seem to get along really well with me. My best friend, a Pisces, and I have been inseparable since first grade. I did hurt her feelings once, sometime in elementary/middle school, but you know how mean and jealous girls could be.
Another best friend, also a Pisces, gets along with me and enjoys my sense of humor. But I just can’t stand it when she’s melodramatic, so I leave her alone sometimes.
I guess in the end, it’s all about how much you love them and are willing to change for them. Being a stubborn and jealous Gemini, I know how people don’t appreciate all of my actions. I hope there’s some way to make it work between a Gemini and a Pisces.
April 16th, 2009 at 5:11 pm
hi, i’m a pisces with an aries cusp and aquarius rising, born the year of a metal monkey, my friend who could be a potential lover is a gemini, born the year of an earth sheep. i’ve guessed him as capricorn or cancer by his reserved, stand in the backround behavior. he is a friendly, attentitive and sweet person who has a sense of humor that you’d like to keep triggering because he’s so reserved. he definitely has the “stare” and it captivates me because every, and i mean every time i look up at him he is already there to listen or be standing by my side. i often think to myself that he would be the type of person i’d like to have in my life because he is already in my world without even asking, unlike other men who pop in and out. so far just friends collaborating on a project, but i sense more in the future and will let you know where it goes…
April 23rd, 2009 at 3:11 pm
Ok. I have a few things I want to say. After reading the pro’s and con’s for this match I have come to the conclusion that we all have problems, no one is perfect, and their needs to be compromise.
I am a Gemini and I am in love with a Pisces.
One of the positive traits of a Gemini is seeing both sides of an issue then putting their two cents into it. It is whether the Pisces can understand things from their point of view as to whether a disagreement will occur.
And with this I will say that from john’s point of view, they are very understanding. As long as we know each other’s habits and pet peeves and deal with them with maturity.
You see… now this is just my opinion, be it as it may, but maturity is definitely a factor here. Whether anyone is 18 or 38. Being mature enough to handle problems and talk about them will be beneficial in the long run. And with Pisces the one thing I learned is “not to push”. When they feel they are ready to talk or express themselves with out feeling like they have to walk on eggshells, the more compatible I think it could be. Especially, being an open-minded and optimistic Gemini…
And being a Gemini, I’m not afraid to express myself. It’s not hard to keep a conversation going. But patience is definitely a virtue. Be patient. If or when a Pisces feels comfortable around you, things could be so much more than just intimacy. The worst that could happen I think is there only being a relationship inside the bedroom and that’s it.
Now, we are both mutable signs. Meaning… that we are flexible, spontaneous, and like to go with flow. We are open with each other and I find that he is very understanding. Again… compromise. Both signs have to bend a little bit.
Also, a negative trait for Gemini’s is being evasive and impatient. That unfortunately is true. To a certain extent. But again, I learned the hard way that if your patient, things will follow through the way it was meant to be.
I also want to mention that we are friends and have been for quite a while now, and it took sometime for him to feel comfortable around me. And to put things in perspective, I am glad for that; because now I feel I know him better because of it and him with me. At least now if something were to come out of it, we have a better chance of making it work.
Understanding and accepting are key words. Accept each other. Read each other. Feel each other. No one is perfect…
April 24th, 2009 at 3:24 am
I am a gemini (female) and my boy frend is a pisces (male). We have been together for over a month almost two. So far so good. i’m falling for him kind of fast supprising. Even though we do fusterate eachother sometimes, we always end up making it up in great ways.
with us its all or nothin and we are giving it our all!
April 26th, 2009 at 2:16 am
no complaints here-
at all. no fights, frustration, nothing-
he`s distant sometimes,
it bothers me, but- i get over it,
it`s not that serious because…
he`ll be back sooner or later.
me (pisces] && the Cancer-
that match was extra dangerous…
it was like gasoline && damn matches!
uhm… but it was fun. lolol
May 2nd, 2009 at 6:35 pm
WOW! Thank you to everyone for commenting on this site. It has been so good to read. I am a Gemini woman in a long distance love relationship with a Pisces man. It’s been 6 months so far and I thought I was going crazy.He reels me in and then keeps me on the hook by the shore while he goes off to do… whatever he does. I just feel like there is so much more he isn’t telling me about the things he is feeling. I want him to clue me in! He tells me he loves me but sometimes just drops off the face of the planet it seems. Where do these Pisces go?? It makes me so angry to be ignored and then just when I’m ready to scream, it’s over and you’ve broken my heart due to lack of attention, he’s back and I’m too grateful to question anything.I love him more than anything but I have never been in a more frustrating relationship.I should mention that I have never been possesive or even wanted someone to focus too much attention on me…but yet this relationship makes that come out in me.Just who does he think he is anyway?lol. Now, having vented a little, just wanted to say that I’m going to try to give him his space and be more understanding. Still not 100% sure what I’m going to try and understand, but I’ll give it a whirl. So, does anyone have any ideas on how I should do that?
Confused Gemini.
May 4th, 2009 at 2:07 pm
Actually Confused Gemini…. I do.
You see I am also a Gemini woman and from my previous comment…. Which was posted on April 23rd… patience is the key. You need to understand that they sometimes feel confined and need their personal space, and whether they go out the guys, or just sit by themselves at home watching TV, it has nothing to do with you. It’s just who they are. If he keeps coming back to you then you must be doing something right.
Understanding how he works and what his values are will also help. And being a fellow Gemini you can see where I am coming from when I say take a step back and really look at him. Look at his soul. Look at the big picture. Is he a good guy? Does he treat you with respect and care when he is around? Does he focus on you when it’s just you two?
Again I will say that I am in love with a Pisces myself. And although patience is a virtue, if he is worth your time and effort, then I say wait him out. See what happens next. You never know. One thing I learned from my Pisces is that he genuinely cares. He really does. It’s just that he sometimes needs time for himself to regroup and maybe when he is doing his own thing, you should do yours.
Enjoy yourself with your friends and family. Wait for him to call you or text you or whatever. When is ready he’ll come and then, it will be just you that exists in his world.
Patience. Patience. Patience.
May 5th, 2009 at 11:04 am
Missy - Well put! Thanks for helping others to understand us pisces men.
May 5th, 2009 at 1:27 pm
john - You are very welcome…
Anything I can do to help. I know first hand that being understand can be rather difficult depending on someone’s persona… I only hope that people reading this will look at the postive side of things instead of the negative.
There is so much out there and so much people have to offer. If only some of them look beyond the rose colored glasses, life would be so much full-filling…
May 5th, 2009 at 2:21 pm
Actually looking at my last comment I realize it sounds a bit insulting. That by no means is the case. I just throw in my opinions and some comments. I hope that no one gets offended by reading them.
I am 33 yrs old. In my early 20’s, yeah, I was a bit hot headed. My way or no way. And to tell you the truth, it got old. I really got sick of it. So I started following my own advice and I couldn’t be happier. It helps me with everyday issues with work, people in general, or friends and their problems.
If by chance some readers do feel offended, I sincerely apologize.
May 5th, 2009 at 9:11 pm
Missy, It’s nice of you to clarify your intentions. I’m not sure if others may have been offended but I certainly wasn’t.
So you’re in your 30’s. If you hang with your Pisces, my guess would be that he’ll offer you insight into your life that will make your continued years even more gratifying. Pisces seem to have a way of offering insight, and sometimes that insight can be interpreted as a very positive thing.
Sorry to ramble, but I like Geminis and consider myself very fortunate to be married to one. I hope your Pisces finds the same fortune in you.
May 8th, 2009 at 2:01 am
I am a Gemini woman and my boyfriend is Pisces. We’ve been together for about 3 years. Since last October he had to move to another country for 1,5 years. Now long distance relationships with him are becoming worse and worse: I simply don’t trust him.He has many “good female friends” who are sending him “missing u and thinking of u”kinds of messages… We have a lot of arguments. It seems to me that this fights will never be over. I tried to break with him couple of times, but he never let me go. He is saying that he loves me but I actually don’t see it.I don’t understand that: If you can’t keep your word hundred of times why I should believe that something will change on a hundred first??? I’m full of his promises. I don’t believe him!
I’m so lost…
I love him, but I’m afraid it wouldn’t work out. I can’t accept all his lie.
May 8th, 2009 at 1:30 pm
Angie,
No relationship can prosper without trust - at least that’s my opinion.
May 11th, 2009 at 2:49 pm
Angie,
Even though I have said be patient and that patience is a virtue; etc…. I also want to mention that trust is also a factor. And when one side doesn’t trust the other, then one needs to look at reasons why. I will be the first to say that a man and a woman can be friends with out cheating involved, as long as a line doesn’t get crossed.
Now do you know if he has known his “good friends” for long? The reason I am asking this is because there could be logical reasons behind it. And have you asked him who they are and where they stand? Being a Pisces, from my experience, is that are social butterflies. And yes, they get along fairly well with the opposite sex.
Now the comments that they left would leave cause for jealousy. It’s a proven fact that once someone or something treads on your territory, you feel threatened. This is quite normal, for man or beast. It’s what we do with that common knowledge and how we act on it.
Giving the benefit of the doubt could be rewarding in the long run, but, don’t get me wrong, think of yourself first. Never let someone guide you through life. It belongs to you. Also, don’t let anyone take your self worth either. If you let there be room for error, so be it. That’s ok too.
That’s how we learn from our mistakes. Hindsight can be a bit of a nuisance. But, if you stop and really think about the reasons you can’t trust him, and you can picture your life without him, ask yourself this… “How long before enough is enough?”
May 12th, 2009 at 7:52 pm
john - I want to thank you for your understanding and support. I really appreciate your thoughts. And from what I’ve read so far, I can tell that you are wonderful human being with heart.
—->> Gracefully Bows
THANK YOU
May 13th, 2009 at 12:23 am
Missy,
He has a new female friend almost every week! Moreover, he has more female friends than males, which seems weird to me. He is surrounded by women everywhere, he is like a magnet and I know he likes it. With some of his “friends” he had short relations ( he is saying it was before me)…
I don’t believe in a real friendship between male and female. There always will be some feelings from one of them. I know it myself, I had some male friends: I saw them as friends, but they were expecting from me more than friendship, although they knew I have a boyfriend.
I’ve never been so jealous before starting dating my pisces! Never! And there are reasons why I don’t trust him. I know, trusting is very important, thats why I’m so upset, I think I wouldn’t trust him anymore… But for me, it’s better truth than a sweet lie.
May 14th, 2009 at 7:25 am
I notice all of the people who disagree with this profile are the ones who have been in the relationship under a year.
Seriously, don’t walk, run!
May 14th, 2009 at 6:14 pm
Im a gemini.. to the max
and ive dated a pisces girl for 2 years..
i find pisces people to be very easy.
i can see through them and speak the exact words they want to hear. its a very easy game to play for me but i dont think my pisces half realises it.. shes always fantasizing.
i find them to be very mystical.. almost psychic. but yet very dull.
I think a gemini with creativity and a good story to tell can really move inside a pisces’ head
May 15th, 2009 at 4:47 pm
Angie,
I don’t want to seem niave’ in any way what so ever, so if I did, I do apologize.
If that is how you feel then next time he pops back in to your life, tell him how you feel. I would try to make the first move again, and hope he finally takes the hint. It might hurt because you love him, but, in the long run, by hanging on, you’d be the one getting hurt for letting it go on for as long as it did.
On the other hand, I do get along well with pretty much everybody, and the majority is guys to girls. Maybe it’s because I’ve known them for years too. I know it’s not the same scenerio in my case than yours, but if he has new “girl” friends each week, then yeah, I would seriously question his motives.
All in all, he should have more respect for you than that.
Sincerely, Missy
May 22nd, 2009 at 7:11 pm
OMG, I married a Gemini!
And needless to say, we are divorced. :o) This post could not have been more right on! We definitely were a nightmare to each other and kind of still are, since we have a daughter together. It was emotionally exhausting and mentally draining and I don’t think that we EVER should have been together. When we fought, he would run away and avoid to see me because he felt that if he’d looked at me he would come back and he did. He was irresponsible, emotional and got the worst side of me out! I mean, he tried to meet women through sex websites when we were married!!! Argh! I could’ve killed him! And still we lasted for 6 and half yrs of painful torture!!!
When the relationship was over, it was a total relief and I will never regret not giving him another chance no matter how much he cried and tried!
May 25th, 2009 at 12:33 am
I’m the Gemini and my boyfriend is the Pisces. It’s pretty crazy how some of these common problems seem so accurate. We’re pretty explosive and I think it could be true that the incredible sex is the result of frustrations with each other. I don’t doubt that we both love each other, and in all honesty I think sometimes I wish I had the self-discipline of my Pisces, but that nagging desire for freedom is always sabotaging things subconsciously in the back of my head. Even when I try to do everything right by Pisces, I still manage to say the wrong thing, or anger him, and then we’re just locked there with out any means to express ourselves or communicate. With others I wouldn’t care, if they didn’t like me, I probably wouldn’t like them. But I love my beautiful solemn Pisces. He’s amazing.
May 26th, 2009 at 8:38 pm
I am a gemini and my boyfriend of almost 2 years is a pisces. We have our arguments and our fights and they ended horribly. But we always worked it out and everything was good. We love each other too much to let this stuff keep us apart. I didnt even believe in love until i met him. And now he lives on the opposite side of the country but we are still in love ; and we see each other as often as possible.
May 27th, 2009 at 12:06 pm
Molly and Amber,
I’m a Pisces man married to a Gemini woman. We too have differences, but rather than get entangled in argument, we’ve just pretty much agreed that when one of us has a problem with the other’s point of view, we just concede to the other. Since our differences seem to be pretty much 50/50 it works out very well. If you and your Pisces partner try this for just a little while, you may find out it works out quite well.
If you really give it some thought, you may realize that about 50% of the arguments are because you disagree with something he has done or said and the other are because he disagrees with something you’ve done or said. If you just agree to go along with him when you disagree and he decides to go along with you when you disagree, then the result is no arguments, you’d both get your way about the same amount of the time in the long run, and you’d end up with a lot better relationship. 50/50 is the way a relationship should be anyhow.
Both Pisces and Gemini seek to be fair, so the overall result should also be fair. Kinda like the yin and yang of disagreement.
May 27th, 2009 at 11:12 pm
Molly, John…
You guys really helped me big time…THANK YOU!!!
Before this I was really confused and frustrated with my Piscean jerk of a boyfriend. Before even reading what Molly wrote, I was as patient as I could ever be to another human being because I love him…but obviously, being a Gemini, WAITING IS REALLY FRUSTRATING!!!
So after I read what Molly wrote…I felt as if a burden was lifted from inside of me (the frustration) and was replaced by a lighter burden (which I hope I can cope with). Really…I can’t even describe how grateful I am to know that I’m not the only one battling this inner war of insecurity. I’ll definitely try my best to be more patient (and I hope I won’t die trying).
John…honestly…you’re saying the things that he somehow couldn’t/wouldn’t (which is frustrating) explain to me himself. I get that he needs his space and will pop back in whenever he feels like it…but isn’t that just selfish? Okay, wouldn’t want to set off the Gemini-Pisces bomb here…but I would really appreciate it if you could just try explaining it to me because it would really help me to understand him better.
And I just want to share an experience I had with my Piscean jerk of a BF (but I love him, still). It really struck me this one time when he said that I was thoughtless when he shared his problems with me…definitely a huge blow for me. He said I wasn’t being “genuine” in showing that I care…and at that point I was pissed. I would understand, really I would, if he said that I wasn’t “correctly” showing that I cared…but “not genuine”? *sigh* Then he apologized and we got over it quick (thank God both signs don’t like to linger).
So yeah, I really do admit to the fact that Gemini-Pisces relationships are hard…REALLY HARD. Definitely 5 stars to those who made it happen…and I really hope that mine would last forever (now how many stars would that be…the whole universe? lol).
Geminis like things to make sense…so I hope all you Pisces out there who are also struggling with us…please make an effort to explain. It might still not make sense but honestly…we would still appreciate the effort.
My next step: Stop frustrating about him! Get a life! In the end he’ll come crawling back like he always do!
P/S: what do Pisces mean, when they start being unresponsive and words like “So?”, “Err”, “IDK”, “Cool”, “I guess” start to pop up?
June 4th, 2009 at 4:26 am
my husband is a gemini (dragon) i am the pisces(snake)
we have been married for little over half a year..
and we have drama,and then its so romantic and wonderful…
with the one week of calm..this is our month every month…
but god i love him..i don’t know what it is I’m drawn to him…
we’ve been together for three years and have had two children in the process.i hope this lasts…
our relationship takes a lot of compromises
June 4th, 2009 at 1:56 pm
Hi all. I’m a 21 y/o Gemini female, I’ve been with my Pisce for close to 3 years.
I would strongly agree that there are general nature between the two is almost opposite. We both are so different in our ways. Im very intellectual, him very intuitive. I think its pure luck that our personality’s mix so well. When we fight, it usually ends it with a cheeky joke from me and a cuddle from him. We dont purposely do or say harmful things to each other, we have learnt thru awareness exactly what the others needs are. Sure we disagree on alot of things, I just think the main component is compromise.
I do believe Gemini-Pisces can work,
the answer is Love. honest, freeing, uniting Love.
My only advice, to both Gem and Pisces is if it has become clear to both the relationship will not work, know when to leave.
If your love has become bitter and destructive.
Dont bask in it.
I Love You Jay
June 10th, 2009 at 1:03 am
I am a Pisces and for some reason I attract a lot of Gemini women. I think they are great though, don’t get me wrong. Some of the best conversations I’ve had have been with them, as well as other things haha.
The only sign in my chart that is really compatible with them is my Pluto in Libra… weird.
June 15th, 2009 at 5:10 am
I’m a gemini/monkey and my boyfriend is a pisces/goat. I met him just over four months ago and I liked him instantly. Over these past several months as I have gotten to know him, I’ve discovered that he is one of the best men I’ve ever met. He is so gentle and caring and he always seems to do the right thing. He makes me feel so safe and loved. I can definitely agree with most of you that as a pisces he is emotional and that I as the gemini am more of the rational thinker in the relationship. This has led us to not agree on a few matters but defiintely not to the point of us arguing etc. We simply calmly agree to disagree and then we move on. I think that a few of you hit the nail on the head when you said that patience will be the key to the relationship between these two signs working. There are so many times that I can tell he is thinking about something and being the gemini that I am, I ask him to share with me and he simply will not. It can be very frustrating for me but I realize that harassing him to tell me what’s on his mind will not make him tell me any faster, so I actually have to force myself to go against my nature to leave him alone to tell me if, and when, he is ready. He does things in his own time. It also means that sometimes 3 weeks after something has happened he out of the blue will say…’do you remember when…well I did not like that.’ and I am completely floored that he is still thinking about something that happend 3 weeks prior, and yet at the time he never even hinted that he had a problem with whatever it was that was bothering him! It can be difficult to say the least because as a gemini I tell you what’s on my mind right away and then move on quickly, you never have to guess what I’m thinking. Patience is certainly a necessity.
In general being the gemini I am the wild, adventurous one and he, being the pisces is the much calmer, more risk averse type of person. I find however that I’ve waited so long for a good guy that I don’t even mind his conservative, delayed response, hardly share his feelings nature. That only goes to prove another point one of you made before as well, which was that the more mature you are when you enter into a relationship with a pisces the better and more likely it will be to work. We are both 29 and had I met him 5-7 years ago it would never have worked because I would not have been able to calm myself enough to spend so much time with him (he likes a lot of attention, and he also gives a lot of attention). I think he definitely would have crowded and stifled me back then. There’s a lot to be said for growing up.
Every day I pray for our relationship to work because I’ve never met a better man and I hope that my inpatient, too talkative, slightly irrational at times, nature does not overcome me and destroy what could be the best thing that ever happened to me.
I am therefore going to say that I’m not going to let all of the negative comments about this sign union affect me, or my approach, to this relationship in anyway and I do believe in astrology etc. but I also believe in myself and the ability the mind has in influencing outcomes. We are truly what we think, so if you approach your relationships (despite the sign of your partner) with positive thoughts, and put your best foot forward to make it work, chances are you will be successful despite the odds. I was not always this optimistic but time and experiences have taught me a lot.
Good luck to all of you trying to make your gemini/pisces unions work! I know mine will work because I’ve already made that decision!
June 16th, 2009 at 12:13 pm
I am a pieces/male I have had an on going internet relationship with a beautiful gemini this has been going on for months now, after reading comments on this site about the match between these 2 star signs is not that good, I would like to say it can happen if you want it bad enough, after all the frustration of just talking on phone and the net (msn) we got together finally. I can honestly say it was a match that was meant to happen, from the moment I first saw her I knew it was meant to be it’s a moment that will forever fill my memories and made my love for her so much stronger. We spent all our time together barely out of each others sight just doing everything that you would expect from long term couples, it was all just so natural we had a lot of laughs about what we said in our chats and made a few new memories that I for one will never forget. I can say I have fallen deeply in love with this beautiful gemini and want to make this union between us a more permanent relationship
June 16th, 2009 at 12:14 pm
I am a gemini/monkey girl and my love is a Pisces/Rooster. We have been together for a few months but been friends for about 9months. Online he is the most patient person I have ever met ( me being a Gemini monkey patience isnt my strong point lol) so I love that quality in him..he is kind and caring and very un-selfish. I find I can talk to him about anything and know I am not being judged..hes very easy to talk to. He is also a sweet talker lol.. I think this was one of the things which made me fall in love with him.He sometimes goes off in his own little world which from what I have read this is a normal Pisces trait..so I just let him do whatever it is hes doing and he always comes back to earth sweeter than ever! We did the internet thing for some months and finally decided to meet..i was a bit scared/nervous but when I seen him walk out the airport I knew that all my worrying was for nothing..I was with him for 2 days and it was the most wonderful 2 days of my life..he was so sweet and kind and loving..I have never met a man like him before..we were inseperable..he was perfect! we together were perfect! I’m not sure whats happened with all these failed gemini/pisces relationships people have posted on here but we definately mix well together,,highly compatible. I think coz we communicate with eachother well. He wasn’t like that at first but he is good at it now and we can talk about anything..might be coz I can talk the ears off a donkey and he’s a good listener lol not sure but it works. I know that he is the only one for me and this is a match made in heaven.
So for all the people who are worried about these 2 signs being compatible I think it can work if you’re honest and open with eachother.. COMMUNICATION is the key in this one and if you can do that then you will have a relationship which is filled with love,happiness,affection and laughter.
ps Love you baby xoxoxox
June 16th, 2009 at 9:16 pm
Hi, my names Brianna and Im a pisces, and my best friend and now boyfriend are getting along great. Though at times I get VERY annoyed that hes not paying very much attention to me. I do tend to ignore it and move on but at times I feel unloved and not very happy. It does happen that he does “leave” to his own lil’areas, but he comes right back for me.
But we also are two signs that work perfectly together, the boar(me) and the dog(him)…Im wondering if those parts of us will keep us together…?
If anyone knows email me at suicidalteddy09@yahoo.com
(also I share this with another pisces, who is intetested!!)
June 19th, 2009 at 11:30 pm
Hi there,
I (A Pisces 3/18/63) I Broke up with My Girlfriend(A Gemini 6/5/63)of 4 years because of the way she lacks disipline in her Children(she has 4 kids) 3 of those years have been great but she had to send her troubled son to live with her sister because he was out of control & since that happened she is like in a depression and pushing away the people who care & love her.(she used to put me on a pedistal and hint about a ring being put on her finger as in marrage)so anyway after 3 weeks of Breaking up, it hit me that I really Missed her, so I asked her to reconsile to which she replied that she was really Confused and that I treated her Like a Child and we sat there embraced for awhile(she stopped short of saying no way)she is a single mom who gets little or no financial support from her exs so she told me she was poor and had nothing to offer me and puts me through allot with her drama(2 of the kids are adhd and the one has behavioral problems) I told her that I could have walked away because of that but I.m still there,I also appologized for breaking things off with her,I also told her she could move in with me since it will help her to a better life & her 5yo would both go to a better school & live in a nicer neighborhood. so I asked her to a go to a Concert and we went and had a great time,she really opened up & told me why she has a hard time Disiplining her kids,etc.she also told me she is angry about her life and she is taking her anger out on me but she held my hand at times & was a great evening, but we got home Late and she kissed me on the lips & thanked me & said she had a great time, I told her to call me and she said I will. a week has gone by and no call? my friends say to let her call me & I shouldnt call her? any advice would be helpful? p.s. she also said that I could see her 5yo child anytime since i was like his father as his birth father is not around and he has not seen him since he was less then a year.
June 22nd, 2009 at 8:58 pm
This is sooooo true! I am a gemini female who dated a crazy fish (pisces) male for 4 years. I feel like a new person every since I broke up with him and it feels great. I thought I was emontional but Yes the pisces was to emontional for me. We did love hard but fought even harder. He wanted ALL of my time and was very jealous. I knew from the moment I saw him it would be trouble but he ended up being the love of my life (which I had thought at the time). He would get so mad at any small thing and break up with me, than five mins. later ask me back out? lol. I always thought we would get married untill one day I had just about had it with the lying, crying, jealousy, and just annoying face, then I broke up with him! for good! Very true about the “no inbetween” we tryed to be friends because I really wanted to but the pisces just could not stop trying to tell me what to do. He always tryed to ask me back out, tell me so sorry he was, cry and cry untill he couldnt cry anymore, and the worst of it all, HE THOUGHT HE COULD CONTROL ME AS BEING MY FRIEND…ugh so even though he was my love I just can not ever talk to him again because we cant work in a relationship or friendship.
June 29th, 2009 at 8:34 am
I dont get whats everyone on about? Im a Pisces and my man a full on Gemini. Been in lotsa relationships and nothing has been SO much fun or stimulating like this one. Im NEVER bored and we are constantly going on a new adventure, exploring new horizons and everything is constantly changing which is just the way i like it. we both talk openly and freely about our emotions and our thoughts, but i geuss it works coz i might be the more rational pisces when it comes to controlling my emotions. When at times i get a typical Piscean mood swing or emotional outburst, he handles it by being very indifferent, straightforward or starts joking about with me while trying to look serious at the same time, haha. It calms me down, helps me rationalize and see things the way it is immediately. I love the fact that he is unpredictable, diverse and open minded. We both understand that sometimes both of us dissapear to our own worlds. No one ever understood that until i met the Gemini. We are both very very sociable people so when we go out both of us shoots in different directions and start working the room! Often we spend a whole night out without physically spending time together but there is always a knowing & subtle flirtatious eye contact between us right through coz we both know who’s gonna take who home at the end of the night ;-). We both love our freedom and understands that the one cant box the other in otherwise we are both looking for trouble. WE’re both playful, mischievious and our conversations are endless.I love the fact that he is the more logical and the way his mind works intrigues me immensely. He is flame sharp with his tongue and even though he may come over as insensitive at times to other people, strangely enough - it amuses me immensely that he takes the piss out of people or even me in such a subtle and playful way. Sometimes people confuses insensitivity with the naked truth, when all they are really stating is the obvious truth in just a really blunt way. I LOVE IT.
I’d love to hear what the creator of the forum’s opinion is about this? Is it because i am not a 100% pisces? I think that the way i grew up forced me to be more of a rational and logical thinker because ive learned from a young age that being dreamy and unrealistic wont make you survive in a tough world where you have to be super strong, cool headed, realistic and not take yourself so seriously otherwise you’ll never survive.IS this then a bases on which a pisces and gemini will work?
Life is all about balance so sometimes i think the only draw back is that we both struggle to find our limits sometimes. we just seem to keep going and sometimes not know where to draw the line! Strangely enough both of us senses this and there will always be one of the two that sometimes pulls the rope to get everything back in balance again.
Also if you find someone who shares the same values as you - never mind the starsign - then you got it working for you!
July 1st, 2009 at 6:17 pm
Hello, I am a female gemini who has known her pisces male for more than 5 years and have dated him for a year and almost 2 months. We get along great, we can talk about anything,and he is a great listener. He has a great sense of humor and so do I, we gemini’s are good for the laughs, we have a natural youth about us. He is a busy guy though, working at all hours of the night, but he is committed, and when he has made a committment he sticks with it. Honest, truthful, and sincere, he was brought up well.
July 7th, 2009 at 9:08 pm
I’m a Pisces male and I’ve been in a relationship for 2 1/2 years with a Gemini, until now. It was a crazy emotional ride. She made me so jealous and cheated on me twice. It seems to me that Geminis are compulsive lairs. We had a very deep connection, deeper on her part, controlling on mine. But it was one of the best educations that I got about a Gemini woman, that is give space , ignore them and be comfortable with what they do. Meaning look the other way. Also got to be super flexible and confident with oneself because Gemini’s start to develop lust for other men if they see a weakness in there man. Cant hold them, they are like the wind, always evasive but in the same time blow the roof of your house.
Gemini’s need little bit of Zen thinking or maybe nothinking or Life long vacation that would stop the mental processing. I love her very much and I decided that we are not meant to be romantic. We became friends in order to grow out of this crazy roller coaster. I definitely see us being friends for a long time as long as I stay detached from her. The only problem is that we are more attracted to each other now when we are friends then when we dated. it’s strange, I guess it’s like supply and demand, the more you have of someone the less you want them, the less you have them the more you want them.
Also I found out the hard way that Gemini’s are master manipulators, yes I know Pisces are manipulators too. To me it seems even though she loves me she tries to dominate me or a more positive way of thinking she challenges me all the time to be a superior man the best I can be. It’s not so bad if you want a training ground for relationships and superhuman emotions.
If you are going out with a Gemini number one thing you don’t do is be jealous and possessive. Give plenty of space, don’t make yourself to easily available. Always have a plan and know your next move of entertainment, they get bored easily.have a ton of charm. Be in charge and decisive. If things get bad in the relationship and your gut feeling says that something is not right, most likely she has her eye on someone else.
July 10th, 2009 at 2:30 pm
This description is dead on with my ex & I. I’m the Pisces & he’s the Gemini, although I don’t recall being the one with emotional blackmail, that is usually him, we can’t seem to get over each other.
He asked me to marry him in February of 2009, & then later I found out he sent another girl flowers & a teddy bear for Valentine’s day, WHEN I DIDN’T EVEN GET FLOWERS!
He told me I could quit my job & paid for my bills- I have a 2-year-old & go to college, live on my own, etc., & then hung money over my head & just like a lot of you said, “locked me away”.
Promises everything will be different & better when he comes home from a deployment, & I don’t know if I should give him a chance to try or just attempt to move on!
It seems this is the hardest relationship I’ve had to get over without him sucking me back in!
July 14th, 2009 at 6:51 pm
Interesting comments…I’ld like to add to all of you reading this and worrying that your relationship is doomed because you’re a pisces and your partner is a Gemini…don’t worry. There are so many factors you have to look at. Rule by the heart not the chart. I have been married twice before, my boyfriend also. I am 48, he is 45 and I find maturity and experience is so important. When I was younger, yes I was the wild Gemini girl that everything was about me and I’m ashamed to say treated relationships and boyfriends badly. It all came back to bite me. But I have grown since then. I love doting on my pisces man, and he in turn loves me to pieces. I’m sometimes moved by his depth..something we Gemini’s need to learn. We have just moved in together after two years of dating, and if I can give anyone advice here…to help your chances of survival and being the best relationship your friends are jelous of, make sure you have the same values (both of us have been cheated on and could never do that to each other) and play together. Golf, ski, snowmobile, take a ride on his motorbike, or go fishing with him…and take your partners feeling into consideration..always!..and don’t sweat the small stuff. Thanks reading and good luck.
July 23rd, 2009 at 11:23 am
oh youu Geminis, I love you guys so much, but you do keep me on my toes. I am a pisces metal horse female.
I can always pick a gemini out of the crowd, and the type of bond we establish is always immeditaley deep and unique. However, it is ALWAYS a friendship. If it is a male there is usually inital strong sexual attraction that eventually fades into a long last mutal repect for each other.
Gemini females are one exreme or the other for me. Love OR hate…My mother is a gemini and our relationship has always suffered quite a bit.
But some of my best friends are gemini females.
My moon sign is Taurus (thankfully some grounding!) and as it so happens my best gemini friends (either male or female) also have a moon in taurus.
Geminis are the most intersting signs to me, and I learn so so so much from you guys I’m always grateful to have you around, (when you’re around, cause you do dissapear just as fast and without warning as you appear ;))
Love
July 23rd, 2009 at 11:27 am
Also, remember my friends, The stars GUIDE they do NOT DICTATE
July 28th, 2009 at 7:23 pm
I didn’t believe in astrology until recently and I have to admit that this is spot on. A few years back I met a gemini woman and became attracted to her.I decided to go after her(rare of a pisces) and we instantly made a rare connection. The sex was very aggressive and she wasn’t afraid to try “new” things. After a few casual encounters I found out she was married. I decided to stop calling and changed my number.Never heard from her again. A short relationship indeed.
July 31st, 2009 at 2:57 am
I’m an aries female with a venus in pisces
and I find myself often somehow getting involved with taurus males with venus in gemini
my close freind and one of my longtime crushes are both taurus/ gemini’s
and i have to say this is so bang on!
i often feel left out in the cold and such
and this guy that has liked me for 4 yea rs or so even his family and freinds know me because he apparantly talks about me BOY DOES HE EVER CONFUSE ME!
one minute it seems like he deeply loves me the next its like he really doesnt care or even DISLIKES me. It is frustrating!
and I feel like my feelings are being played with too…he really just leaves me in the dark I can never tell whats going on with him and it gets to me , and i am so sensitive too.
August 5th, 2009 at 1:28 pm
Being a pisces male in a relationship with a gemini female, I can see a lot of our issues being brought up here. Pisces will typically be needy and moody, but thankfully I have outgrown that phase. In my youth it was pretty easy to screw with people and I would push buttons just for the sake of pushing buttons. In addition, the moodiness would come in swings and I would lash out at people, run off by myself, and then come crawling back a few days later. Yes, to some extent we truly are crazy, some more than others.
However, being in my early 30’s, I’d say I am at the point where I immediately recognize my moodiness and put a stop to it and no longer argue with people just for arguments sake. This moodiness will be a huge deal breaker, as my gemini and the ones I know are very emotional, often crying over the littlest things. Assuming the pisces can move beyond these pitfalls I think the pisces-gemini combination can work. Although the gemini also needs to get over their perception of the pisces as someone who doesn’t love them or that they somehow don’t deserve their love.
And as an FYI to all the gemini’s worried about their pisces man having a lot of female friends, don’t! I tend to fluctuate between female and male friends, they both complement my yin and yang as it were. However, female relationships are friendships and only that! You have nothing to worry about, even if sometimes our female friends start to get the wrong idea, which has happened a lot to me. If you have a little faith in us, it will be returned ten fold with love and affection.
August 9th, 2009 at 6:29 pm
Gemini here, pisces are emotional blackmailers.Gemini -Pisces match spells doom. Anyone who says it works is missing out on true compatibility for their own signs. (and great sex)
August 9th, 2009 at 7:34 pm
i recently met a pisces. i talk to him on the phone and he has all his clostest friends talk to me and see what im about. but we recently met about a week ago and its long distance yes…we met online. oh god you cannot begin to understand.hes so sexual. but we can talk about any and everything for hours. we have everything in common. he is extremely attractive. well see each other in a year its all we talk about.
some people says it doesnt work out. and some gemini pisces relationships have worked out i just would like to know what is that i can do or dont do to make it work…especially for long distance. i know its soon but i really love him and he loves me. i just think i might do something unfaithful that i would regret because it gets so bad sometimes and its only been a week.
August 11th, 2009 at 7:31 pm
I want to say I am a Gemini-taurus, and I am very much in love with a Pisces. We have been in heaven until 3 days ago. After being together for 8 months. He broke up with me, I had called him, scared of my work situation, Im a commissioned based branch owner, and have lived that way for 12 years, so my income is either feast or famine. I explained to him, that I was having money issues, and despite, my big house and many material possessions, at this time its famine. He completly turned his back on me, told me I lied to him , and he would not be involved with someone who lies. Then he started to question everything, I had ever said to him including the many times I told him I loved him. He also questioned me , If I had met someone else. I spent 3 days trying to explain, I only loved him, and because of the building pressure of my job, and of course being a single mom, I just exploded, and I expected him to be supportive and loving. He did just the opposite. And became very mean… He said he did not have any sympathy for me.. he spent to much money on me for nothing..my son has a disease,, and he said that my son needs to realize shit happens.. with no compassion at all. That hurst the most. because he did not make any effort to get to know my son. He has 3 children, that everyday told me they love me. and I spent alot of time with him and his kids. We had fights in the past, and some were my fault and some his, but we always made up. He broke up with me, and there wasnt even I love you but…..He was cold..So from what I have read on this site. I just need to leave him alone and If he loves me still, he will work through it and contact me. He wanted me to tell him I had lied to him about my finances, but I couldnt, then again If I had would he had been happy to forgive. I do believe in picking and choosing your fights, and maybe this was the one that I didnt want to win, Know we may have both lost something wonderful.
August 13th, 2009 at 2:46 am
Hey Lisa,
It is possible that your Pisces has given so much that he doesn’t feel appreciated. We will give and give a lot, but at some point if we are feeling under appreciated we will bite back. In this case it sounds like the moodiness I was discussing has come through. It will pass, but it is something he has to learn to control in the long run or you will be doomed to repeat these cycles. Just remember that those hurtful words are rarely ever genuine, and that he still loves you regardless of what he could ever say.
I think the best thing you can do is be honest and open with him. It sounds like you may not have been completely forthcoming with him on certain monetary issues. While it may not have been an outright lie, any non-disclosure can easily be seen as a betrayal, especially if he feels that he is sacrificing and you are not. And no offense, but it also sounds like you need to get your finances under control. A feast and famine budget should be balanced appropriately so stressful situations like these don’t continue. Stress can lead to conflict from both sides.
As for leaving him alone, I can’t say, as it depends how deep of a betrayal it is seen as. In my experience we will more often than not come running back, but if the wound is deep enough the resolve to cast you off completely is within reach. Giving him a couple of days to cool off can’t be a bad thing, but I think at some point you will need to reach out to him, be honest and forthcoming about the situation and let him know that he is genuinely appreciated and loved.
Good Luck!
August 13th, 2009 at 9:48 am
Hey everyone..
I wanna share my experience. I’m a Pisces and I’ve been in love with my Gemini girl for 3 years. I fell for her very quickly and it still surprises me how she made me depend on her (before meeting her, I couldn’t imagine I could be with someone day and night and not get sick of it.. I didn’t even consider myself the hand-holding type). Now I still miss her when we are apart and I feel incomplete.
I agree that there is sth to what they say.. We both wait for the other one to lead the way which can make us feel kind of lost and frustrated sometimes. But on the other hand, I never experienced sth like this.. I know I can completely trust her, rely on her.. we appreciate each other.. we have the same values in life. She’s a very caring, sensitive and generous Gemini.
So I hope the incompatibility of our signs is not completely true. I hope we stay together, and I’m ready to fight for this relationship, even agains astrology
August 15th, 2009 at 8:11 pm
Thank you for your reply, it means so much to me. I can see now that he does feel betrayed, and I should have fully disclosed, how my finances, do go up and down. I have been living this way for 12 years, and have made alot of money, but it is like playing the stock market, and I do take for granted, that I always am juggling these balls. I have waited a week , with no reply from him, so I did reach out last night , with a simple..I MISS YOU!. There was no response. I will again wait,, but how long? I want to talk to him, but I cant force him. I had our birth charts done, and it does say we are very compatiable. May 26, 1968, and march 16 1975, can you tell me if, the reading I had was acurate. Thank you
August 16th, 2009 at 8:33 am
I am a beautiful gemini woman and I actually just met me a pices.He’s wonderful and VERY attractive, but I can tell he’s sensitive and that worries me. After getting out of my 8 month relationsip with a careless capricorn I don’t really have a care for feelings and relationships anymore. He’s attracted to me and lets me know that he wants me to be his really soon, but I’m afraid to trust him. I don’t ever call him he’s always the first to call me, and when we are on the phone I get on cloud nine just listening to his sexy deep voice. I don’t know where this will lead but I hope it doesn’t end in disaster.
August 19th, 2009 at 1:39 am
I can totally agree… I used to be in love with a Gemini and I’m a Pisces. But, shortly after 2 1/2 we fell out. She was a Non-forgiving person, and I found myself apologizing for minor mistakes. So i called it quits. I feel free so now I’m searching for someone
August 19th, 2009 at 7:29 pm
I am a Pisces female who is in a CONFUSING “relationship” with a Gemini male. he is 7 years older than me. We were both initially very physically attracted to each other. The spark is definitely still there. We tend to “break up” every few months as a result of him deciding that “things just aren’t working out.” He’s so hot and cold and eventually he ALWAYS ends up calling me back and initiating the relationship again. I am not a “needy” Pisces and always give him his freedom. I can not continue to cater to his hot and cold tendencies towards our relationship but it is so hard to sever all ties with him because of our STRONG attraction. He’s such a sweet, loving, caring person but he has no regard for the destruction he causes when he abruptly ends our relationship.
August 19th, 2009 at 8:07 pm
My new pices is definitely the jealous type. Yesterday at the mall there was friends that i know (males) that were walking up to me to say hello, just minor conversation. My pices would walk away for a second on the phone wiht his boss, but when he would see me talking to a male friend he would come over and interrupt, and the other males would walk away. It kind of bothered me i don’t want him to scare all of my friends off when he comes around.
August 21st, 2009 at 12:24 am
yes! Pisces and Gemini get along, but then again isnt that what the Gemini does? Longterm, the Pisces personality will not be spontaneous enough or sustain enough self-esteem to deal with the Geminis social buzzing and flirtatious attitute.
August 21st, 2009 at 6:32 am
Des, are you sure you’re not me??! Hahaha…what you have described about your relationship, from start to end, is me and my ex!!!
I am a gemini, he’s a pisces. Everything is oh sooo true! Sex is amazing, never ceased to amaze me how it keeps getting better and even after many breakups, we can’t seem to move on and keep going back to each other. The bond and attraction were so strong, we have that passion, that chemistry. It’s been nearly 8 years and we are now back in touch again, after our last big fight last May 2008, which we both stated rather heatedly we want each other out of our lives for good. I have no idea what he wants, he added me to his list on FB but he doesn’t make contact so I left it as it is since I can see he has started seeing someone few months after our big fight and have been for months now. She seems perfect, blonde tall…although I am told by everyone in my life I am hot,the sexiest and most gorgeous petite friend they have, highly intelligent with the biggest heart….but I just can’t seem to get this jealous thought out of my head that he has moved on despite our bond and passion and perhaps fallen in love with her. But why get back in touch with me and not make anymore contact? I am confused, I am still in love with him, he’s the love of my love, he’s the one since the day I laid my eyes on him…I know.
When we have great times, they are so amazing we thought it was scarily good…but when we fight, we really fight big time. He withdraws and don’t tell me anything, I am inquisitive, being a gemini, that really pisses me off. He would sometimes come out of his world and we would be honkey dorey again but sometimes, I find it hard when he doesn’t tell me things…I don’t know what he’s thinking, so mysterious, so I normally think the worse. Now, I don’t even have much hope seeing he’s seeing some leggy blonde who looks perfect!
I’m just a petite little asian who can’t compete. SIGH! :O(
August 21st, 2009 at 6:48 am
Hey Missy,
I wished I had read your comments before I did anything rush to ruin it big time with the love of my life. I am a gemini, my biggest problem is my impatience! I am known by everyone I want things done now or yesterday. I need to know now or else I don’t want to know. I push my pisces man and never given him space or time to get back to me. I will allow him a few hours and if I don’t hear from him, I say goodbye. He gets annoyed cos he said he was in the middle of writing down what he wants to say to me, he’s a thinker so it will take some time but for me, patience isnt one of my virtue.
My best friend has reprimanded me on many occasions when I do that to my ex but I still won’t listen and now…it’s too late.
I wished I could see that earlier and learn how to give him his space when he withdraws to think about how to get back to me instead of forcing him to express when he’s not ready.
August 25th, 2009 at 2:49 am
Hi anyone there to answer all our questions?
August 25th, 2009 at 9:34 am
ooo plzzz me nd my guy r still 2gether…im pisc nd my guy iz gemini… v r in2 healthy relationship 4m past 3 yrs… i guess itz nt necessary dat gemini nd pisc hav destructiv relationship. v both r vry happy in r relationship honestly speakin dan i
think v both understand eachoda so well dat v dnt rely on diz thing actually… wht i think iz dat diz rule dnt apply everywhr…me (pisc) nd my guy (gemini) r d best couple eva…
August 30th, 2009 at 6:14 pm
Could you tell me the compatibility between myself a ‘Pisces’ woman and a Gemini woman in a relationship, as i wondered if this changes with same sex couples.
Thankyou =]
x
September 3rd, 2009 at 6:03 pm
Becky,
I love your website. I am a gemini woman with a pisces man.. At first we made each other so happy, i felt so lucky to have found such a wonderful man. Now years later, we are married and with a baby and I am so unhappy… I can’t seem to walk away… This relationship has become so terrible. I very much related to your post..
September 4th, 2009 at 8:33 pm
I am a 36 year old Pisces - March 13, 1973 and he is a 33 year old Gemini - May 29, 1976. We met on a singles site after I initiated contact. Why I contacted someone 3,000 miles away is beyond me. I didn’t even realize how flirtatious I was in my email to him until he called me on it when we first began to talk.
The sparks flew immediately. We began to idealize, love, lust, pine, fantasize, question, doubt, internalize all in one breath. The man was and still is amazing to me.
Our relationship lasted 1.5 months with a few rocky situations that almost cause me to pull the trigger on the relationship and I think this never put us back on solid ground. He didn’t feel comfortable expressing his inner self to me towards the end and I began to feel like I couldn’t joke or be insightful with him as it was seen as a slight or my being judgmental. We are two emotionally charged people that are very sexually open and have a very deep desire to connect in a very unconventional way. Yet we couldn’t find the trust or the gumption to make it work.
I miss him dearly. Despite both our issues and the chaos that ensued in his life after many dramatic episodes, a major move, a fist fight that landed him in the hospital, beg bugs, two car accidents and a few more situations that took place within a 3 week time period, I am surprised we actually lasted for as long as we did.
I believe with all the stress that he tried to mask, I seem to have pushed him over the edge unintentionally and was ultimately seen as a “crazy ridiculous” girl. A term I still find endearing, but one I now question whether or not it has validity.
He broke it off with me after a very emotionally charged yet upbeat conversation. The conversation went off on many tangents and really didn’t have any coherency, but in the end he dumped me. I was left with a plane ticket I had purchased to come and see him in Cali in two more weeks. Needless to say, I was and am devistated….
All I can do is hope and pray we connect once again.
September 10th, 2009 at 2:07 am
I am a Gemini Woman who married a Pisces Man. The description above of the tendencies and weakness of each sign are in fact highly accurate. We fell in love immediately, got married six weeks later. I was with him for three years of absolute brutal hell before I finally left with our baby daughter. It was a very stifling relationship for me, and his depression was more than I could take. I was also constantly accused of flirting with every man I saw, even though I only had eyes for him. Picses Men with Gemini Women… If I had any advice for you, it’s that #1) Gemini Women don’t flirt because they’re wanting to cheat on you. They flirt because it’s FUN to feel good about yourself and make someone else feel good about themselves. They like their independence, yes. If you want a Gemini Woman to be constantly seeking you out… have a life of your own. Live that life, don’t take everything so personally (it’s rarely if ever really about you), support her in what she wants to do, and she’ll keep coming back to you over and over again.
Oh yeah… and we were in court for almost five years getting our divorce… mostly because he kept fighting my right to have my freedom.
We’ve been separated now for two years, and finally called a truce. We’re great friends now, we share time with our daughter together, and we’re much more respectful of one another. And in fact, we’ve even slept together several times. 1) because the sex is fantastic! 2) because when we were married, it was awful and we both wanted to heal that part of our relationship, too.
So it’s possible to get along… but I can honestly say… only if BOTH parties act like adults… which is sometimes extremely difficult for Gemini’s and Picses to do.
September 10th, 2009 at 5:22 pm
I, picses, have been dating a gemini for only about a month and a half. And I’m so glad I happened upon this page. It’s soo interesting!! Some of the negatives ppl are giving really sucks cause I’m so into my guy!! It’s soo strange, because its so not like me to move soo quickly. I have to remind myself to slow down emotionally..for fear of becoming hurt. I’m normally take things slower, especially after being burned before. But it’s like I’m completely taken with him!! I love it and hate it!! He is very two sided. I can totally relate to others on here in some ways. Most days, he’s soo into me. But if there are ever days when I can’t see him, he like, flips!! and he’ll txt things like, ‘well, since you’re not coming, me and the guys are going out’! It’s like he can be a bit of a game player when he doesn’t get his way. I find that kind of annoying. But, he gets over it pretty quick and we’re fine. I can see it will be challenging, but I soo want to see how far it can go!! I’m completely head over heels, though i don’t think he realizes it.
September 10th, 2009 at 11:49 pm
Hmmm,
I wonder if your own experience is playing into this. I was married to a Gemini for almost 9 years and if it were not for the fact that I am gay, we still would be. We are still great friends.
Just as in any relationship communication is key.
There is a real sweetness to the Gemini/Pisces union and in my experience one of the better relationships I have had in my life.
September 12th, 2009 at 1:14 am
It just is amazing to hear a few of the Gemini’s talk about Pisces… but then again it sums it up too at the same time… I’ve been married 8 yrs and dated 3 yrs before marriage… the sex is good yes… I will never say it wasn’t but thats only when we do that… sometimes it goes on for over 2 months before we do… have sex… and Gemini is famous for the I never did anything wrong it’s all your fault Pisces… and little by little Gemini has just about litterally killed this Pisces… I’m about emtionally dead now!!!
September 17th, 2009 at 1:16 am
Hey
well ive been looking around because i wanted to see compadibility with my on and off boyfrend. iam 20 a female gemini and my “boyfriend” is a male pices 22years old…well getting to my point reading on how the gemini is makes me laugh because my boyfriend has the gemini traits of being free and not that loving and i have the pices traits ts super weird cus i am a gemini female and i love the affection all that mushy stuff and its hard for him to show affection. we have been on and off for like about 2 to 3 years we have dated other people but we keep coming back to each other so its super exausting but i cant seem to sstop carinng and loving him. currently he says he wants to get married but hes like a really sexual person making me think that all he wants is sex. i dont know if i can agree with or disagree that geminis and pices are incompatable.
September 22nd, 2009 at 2:08 am
Wow…just wow!
I am a Pisces female.
Looking at your posts it says, and I quote, “But all is not lost, this is one combination that cannot go wrong. Pisces and Scorpio simply work!”
I was married to a Scorpio for near 10 years. It was a horrible, horrible match right from the start. We are so different! We were terrible together… even after 3 kids.
Let me say again, HORRIBLE! OIL AND WATER kind of horrible!
…again I quote, “Pisces and Gemini do not make a good match. The two most emotional signs in one room? That’s asking for trouble.”
I have now been married to a Gemini for 8 years. He is my everything…and I am his! We are best friends. I really can’t imagine a more perfect union. We have had so few arguments in 8 years that I can honestly count them on one hand! I love him more today than I did when we were younger, more fit, and in lust…
There is no doubt, in either of our minds, that we will be together until one of us stops breathing…. and for that I am incredibly grateful!
September 25th, 2009 at 6:18 pm
I think that signs have something to do with it, but not everything. I have been in my relationship with my boyfriends for 5 years and we are gemini and pisces and are very in love. I believe that gemini’s DO have very, deep emotion and they NEED a water sign to bring that out, otherwise they keep it all in and that, is what makes them have a bad wrap about not being emotional. I can say that for myself, becuase I find that being around people who are unsensitive leaves me feeling sad and empty, whereas being around people that I feel conforted with and naturally happy around I feel as though I can take down my gemini guard and be as deep as gemini hearts really are.
A note to pisces signs- gemini’s are duled identity signs, the opposite side to the in our own world seemingly emotionless selves, are our deep selves, craving love and emotional comfort. i think that infact gemini is the deepest sing, perhaps so deep you need to invest the time to search.
October 1st, 2009 at 4:17 am
I haven’t much to speak for since I have never had a boyfriend. But I am a Pisces girl and a Gemini guy likes me. I was afraid he would change his mind and that he was too busy for me. When I read this it was like I was exactly right. It saddens me because I thought I had a chance with this guy. I am a romantic and crave love and affection. And he seems like the person that once he says it, it doesnt need to be restated as that would be silly. It is just so frustrating because I want to be with him so bad. But I feel like I need someone affectionate like another Pisces or another water sign. I am still willing to try it with him though, since I have never had a relationship I figure you must start somewhere and I have already gone so far…..
October 2nd, 2009 at 8:28 pm
I was in a relationship with a Pisces for about a year and a quarter then it just ended but at least it lasted that long but now we hardly even talk to one another even though we see each other all the time.
October 5th, 2009 at 8:14 am
Reading so much negative, I must say it is disappointing. I am a pisces/snake woman and I’m in love with a Gemini/snake man. We aren’t boyfriend and girlfriend or anything but he’s just amazing. My ex was also Gemini and he was wonderful and it’s actually very true, Geminis are actually very emotional and we piscens bring that out in them. I do agree though that it could work with patience on both parts. Geminis should be patient with their pisces companions because we dont like to be smoothered, we do love to be appriciated and loved though, and we do tend to space out and need time to sort through our feelings or we’d just go insane. I do agree that we are like sponges feeling everyone elses feelings and then our own, it takes a lot of time to sort though them. We do end up having addictions to keep our mind off all the adversity, mine is my Gemini, I am obsessed with him. He makes me smile all the time and has never hurt my feelings, he cares about me so much and I cherish him. We chat online all the time and he’s always there for me, I make sure he knows that I appreciate him and that he’s such a wonderful force in my life. I’ve learned so much from him and I’ve become a lot stronger. He is blunt but he always says the right things, I know it might be just me and I think its really weird how wonderful he is to me even though I’m sure I wouldnt have ever liked sarcasm or bluntness but I actually find that I do really find it amusing. He amuses me to no end and I sometimes think I am actually boring because he usually makes me do a lot of the talking. He makes me feel alive and happy and even strong because I somehow can think like him and it relaxes me, it can also confuse me though but it makes stuff interesting. I hope to be with him someday and I am planning on meeting him in person. I love that I can open up to him emotionally and trust him fully, I know he’d never hurt me intentionally. I also had to learn to be patient with him and let him have space and time alone by not logging in at times or asking him if he needed space when he seemed moody. I challenge him to be creative and I boast his creativity a lot, I want him to always feel adored and I want him to always adore me. The best thing about him is he cares deeply and I can tell from all the information I’ve gathered of him that it isnt something he normally does which makes me feel so special. I did get frustrated at times when he was distant but I was honest and told him that it bothered me and it turned out it was just me over reacting and he was just feeling lethargic and bored because nothing was happening and he had nothing to talk about. We enjoy eachother wit and humor, I know its odd but I have a good sense of humor and love to flirt like all pisces I may sometimes have guy friends but that’s it, they are merely friends, once a pisces loves you they never give up on you or cheat. They may have the urge to be with another guy if you give them a reason to feel that they arent loved. Honesty trust and patience is definately key to success. He is far too patient I’m surprised he didnt ditch me years ago for all my emotional whining and clingyness, I am a lot better now and less clingy, I do not whine about every problem or get too emotional anymore. I leanred to see from his eyes and think more like him. Geminis may seem cold but they are capable of deep affection and understanding, you just need to let them in and accept their nature of needing space freedom and lots of entertainment. I think me and my Gemini genuinly understand eachother and we both trust eachother. And still I am amazed at how different we are and how deeply I love this man who most would think was weird and cold. I pray he’ll someday be mine.
October 5th, 2009 at 11:56 am
Its weird, just read the thing about attraction. Im a pisces male and bi. The two guys ive been most attracted to have been gemini guys and i mean fiercly attracted! Shame about the rest of the stuff tho.
October 5th, 2009 at 12:17 pm
To all you pisces girls dating Gemini men: A successfull deeply stimulating bond is possible between these two, but at the same time - be very wary of Gemini men and make sure you understand the way they work and then decide if that is something YOU can live with
I am in a successfull relationship with a Gemini, but only because of a few reasons:
1. I dont let my emotions take over where ANYTHING is concerned in our relationship. If there is problems - communicate it to him RATIONALLY and LOGICALLY without letting your feelings get in the way.
2. DO not smother him.
3. Accept him as he is and DO NOT try to change him
4. Help building on his self confidence as a lot of Gemini’s are insecure.
5. They need action and stimulation 24 hours a day. So make sure you can keep up with them emotionally and physically otherwise they’ll tire you out in no time. Or they will get bored and search for it else where. That is fine, as long as else where is not other women.
If you just accept them and let them be who they are, you’ll be amazed how sensitive and loving they actually can be.
The only problem is that most Pisces tend to be obsessive and needy. Make sure you control that emotion. It will not only help you in your relationship but also in life in general.
When you communicate your feelings to him,do it in a logical way that makes sense without making a drama about them.
I have been in other relationships with Pisces men - and some of them had the emotional feeling of a doormat. Believe me Gemini is much more likely to understand you emotionally, because they probably feel exactly the same things, if not worse. They only struggle to communicate and verbalize emotion, and often (especially being a man), discard emotion because they do not know how to deal with something that does not make rational and logical sense to them.
That’s where you can help
Logic is where they can help you
Keeping the balance in this relationship is hard, but if you both understand each other, and know where you should work on what - then you’ll have one of the most stimulating , exciting relationships ever - you’ll constantly learn and grow together.
And if you look at the bigger picture - these arent neccesarily based on Gemini/Pisces specifically - this is the recipe for ALL relationships, doesnt matter what your star sign is. Other compatible signs have to work just as hard on other things - each just have to make the decision if they can live with and accept the other’s faults…
October 9th, 2009 at 7:40 pm
i am the pisces female and i have partner gemini. our relationships working better than any other we had before we meet eachother. i agree sometimes it does get hard but life is hard on us anyways. but i think we are a good or lets say best match!!! becouse we are together about 5 years and still killing to see and love eachother.
October 14th, 2009 at 8:56 am
I am a gemini, and I dont understand the many comments about gemini’s being selfish. My problem is that I care to much for others in my life, several of my friends have told me that I put to much of myself out there to people that truely do not appreciate it.
I dated a Taurus for 7years, and the relationship finally ended because he (the Taurus) was very abusive. He was emotionally, physically, and mentally abusive. We have been broken up for about 14months, and I had a brief relationship with a Pices. The relationship didnt work because I (Gemini) gave way to much to the relationship and he the Pices couldnt decide what it was he wanted.
I recently started to date another Pices which I didnt realize at the start. He is the polar opposite of any relationship I was in before. He brings out the best in me! He is sweet, thoughtful, he appreciates the side of me that so many others walked all over, and as many people have stated the sex is UNREAL! We are very passionate, but the sex is not the only love in our relationship, we have great conversations, he is able to calm me down when I am anxious, and he is great at re-assuring me that everything will be ok.
We do have a parttime long distant relationship which has seemed to be much harder for me because I love his attention. This may be a result of the 7year abusive relationship.
Either way I think if the Gemini is comfortable with herself and knows what is important in love then it can work Just fine!
*Any comments are appreciated*
October 18th, 2009 at 1:00 am
i (Gemini) have been with a Pisces on and off for three years.. (mostly on..)
and yes, things have been hectic, but the love and passion are absolutely unmistakable.
i think it’s funny how they all say Gemini is the thoughtless one.. my Pisces is always the kind of “i dont care how anyone else feels or thinks” guy… but he’s also usually the first to kiss me and apologize when there’s frustrations. we’re young, but our love definitely isnt. i’m his first love, so he wants to be married and have kids… we have had problems, and he is a dreamer while i’m a realist, but there’s nothing in the world that has or can keep us apart.
i’ll definitely post if anything happens between now and then.
October 22nd, 2009 at 10:54 pm
Well i am 14, almost 15, and i just started liking this guy who is a gemini. Since i am pretty into zodiac signs i thought i’d go find out how compatible we were. i must say that i am dissapointed with what i read. We started dating today and reading this makes me little nervous. I mean, i’m not going to end this just because of what this says,.. but it makes me think. should i still try and make it work? or get out of it quickly? i need advice please.
October 25th, 2009 at 6:23 pm
I(gemini female) has been in a relationship with a Piscean male for the last 2.5 years. As I am about to enter my 40’s, I finally had the relationship I’ve been waiting a lifetime for. He is gentle, kind, funny, intelligent, handsome, etc. We clicked from day one and it was always soooo easy. Fights were resolved relatively quickly. We settled into a routine very easily. He was my rock and provided tremendous emotional support whiie I completed professional school. Both of us also with no offspring. And yes, the sex was TREMENDOUS!!! Sounds like a match made in heaven, no?
The problem? No cheating; he was always adamant about not wanting to get married. Over the last few weeks I had come to realize that I probably couldn’t go on if there was no forward progress. We’ve talked quite a bit over the last couple of weeks and decided this weekend to end things. It really was/is heartbreaking. The break up was so sweet! We had a date night; he came over and left the next morning. I packed his things, we hugged said our good byes, and I guess that’s it.
I found this website a few weeks ago when some of these issues first arose. It has been very illuminative to see the variety of experiences. I think in our instance it was the reverse of what many described: if anything, I was the nurturing partner who wanted security (very atypical of a Gemini, but my rising sign is Scorpio and I have and have had a lot of water signs in my life over the years); he was/is very typical in being the Piscean dreamer and was reticent toward making our union more permanent.
Thank you for this forum; I needed to express my feelings without being judged or told what to do.
November 12th, 2009 at 1:14 pm
I don’t believe that you are completely right with that. Me being a Pisces(female) and him being a Gemini we have been extremely happy for the 2+ months we’ve been in a relationship.
November 15th, 2009 at 8:33 am
ive recently met a gemini male.. Im a pisces.. I wondering what the go is.. so many bad comments.. Its amazing we bounce ideas off each other all the time.. We act like best mates.. If there was a camera in the house when we are alone together.. It would be the funniest, yet loving video.. We constantly take the piss out of each other.. and love every minute of it.. he hates being videoed.. if i start videoing him with my fone he will run after me.. and tackle me, all in good fun.. having a barrel of laughs..
The only thing I have realised is when I ask him for advise on something, I dont get the answer im looking for..
But communication is amazing with us. Esspecially in the bedroom.. IM LIKE WOW WOW WOW WOW!!!! Sex i out of the world!!!!…. Every time… 8 hours of sex and foreplay.. come on what pisces would loveeeeeee that…
he is the most generous person Ive met.. I being a pisces tend to get shat on,.. I give give give and get nothing in return.. Where as he wants to give jus as much back…
But cutting the long story short.. This guy is someone ive had dreams about being with for the rest of my life.. We are like best mates.. Thats why Im hear. he is pretty full on about astrology and I wanted to know how we could possibly pan out.. a gemini and a pisces..
Because there is something in side saying.. dont get hurt if nothing comes of this.. because it seems too good to be true.. the connection we have is too good to be true..
I guess we will see..
November 18th, 2009 at 1:10 am
I was in a relationship for a year and a half with a gemini (i am a pisces) and I love him to this day. We both love each other but we definitely neglected my needs for attention at times but most of the time we were always together and he helped me out so much. I think he is a wonderful person and I admire him in so many ways, I even look up to him. I think one day we will end up together again (we still hang out with our mutual friends together and he always brings up our past relationship and how his dad wants him to have kids with me)… He is the best person I know I would have never thought our signs would be uncompatible
November 18th, 2009 at 2:19 am
Hello
First and foremots im a pisces woman and my friends that im dating is a gemini. Although i care for this gemini man he is very aloof at times and off in another world. Does he care for me undoubtly yes. For reasons unknown he has attitudes that come from out of the air. Seem unsensitive yes but yet he’s a good man. Sometimes i have to wonder if it’s me or him . I have my days i want to cling and he has his . However if im not available there’s an instant attitude. I really like him , i guess for now i have my work cut out for me.
November 19th, 2009 at 12:08 am
Im a Pisces/Sagitarrius woman, 24, and my ex, the Gemini/Virgo guy, 29.
Let me say that I have never been so intellectually turned on more by a guy, than a gemini. I have known many gemini men thru my life, some friends, a few turned into lovers. Before I really started reading into it, I thought pisces/gemini made a great great combination. They love excitement, they love intelligent conversation, and they’re great to flirt with. I became close to a few gemini men, right from the get go. Yes, the sexual attraction is HIGH. very HIGH. But honestly, I dont think gemini men are truly fulfilling for a pisces woman. Simply put, Gemini men cherish their freedom more than life itself. THis includes-not having someone to answer to, doing as they please, basically just caring for themselves.They basically just dont have time for love, sentimental things, cuddling, doting on a partner.
Now in a friendship, these qualities arent that bad. But once you put love into the equation, IT ALL CHANGES. Try being the sentimental Pisces girl who waits all night for her boyfriend to get off work, only for him to walk in, give a quick kiss, and jump on his playstation. It gets tiring, it gets lonely. I was constantly trying to get close to him, i never felt like i got close enough. We were together almost 9 months, i never met his mother, and met his brother “by accident”. He never emotionally opened up to me, saying that he had been hurt by many girls in the past, you know the bs story…
Then theres the twin theory of Gemini. Yeah, not only do they have 1 twin, they’re about 5 different ppl thrown into one. I never knew who i was dealing with. One min-he’d be sweet, making me dinner, downloading movies for us to watch, and cuddling in bed all night for movie date night. THe next min, he’d be so wrapped up, always texting someone, spending hours upon hours in complete silence with me sitting there watching him play playstation(he played for 5 hours STRAIGHT at a time), just basically in his other world, where he was the only important one.
NOt to mention, there was ALWAYS ALWAYS the suspiscion of him cheating. He is a bartender-a very attractive funny witty bartender. I was constantly finding girls numbers in his room, he adds at least 3-4 girls A DAY on facebook, and once, i found a condom IN MY CAR on the seat, right after he got out of it-he probably had it in his jean pocket. He denied it, got very very defensive, asked me “how do i know its not yours”.. I never cheated. I wasnt innocent, i did flirt alot with other guys, for the attention i wasnt getting. I loved him from the first time we hung out. I didnt want to be with anyone else.
So i got pregnant..
at that point in the relationship, we were fighting everyday, not having sex for weeks at a time, barely talking. I would text him at 4am when i know he got done work.. i wouldnt here back until 9 or 12 the NEXT DAY.
He basically told me he didnt want to fix things with him and make it work for our child that i was carrying. He told me he didnt love me, that us being together was a bad idea for the child.
Running away with his tail in between his legs.
I lost the baby due to stress.
I havent spoken to him, even after i told him i miscarried, he didnt care. He didnt call to check up on me, nothing.
IN a nut shell-if youre looking for a guy to have a light relationship with, a relationship with little or no substance, lots of sex, and no strings attached, choose a Gemini.
Just use protection.
November 20th, 2009 at 6:57 am
Thanks love struck i really appreciate your honesty because some hurt i just dont want to experience. In love sometimes it’s ok to take chances but on the other hand i think that some people are just not good for one another. Although there are some wonderful stories told of love withstanding the rollercoaster ride. The badd seems to out weight the good. An I agree with those ladies about the gemini stare that is definitely a characteristic true to them alone. Although i have feelings for him my deepest fear is that i will let go of another to allow this chaos into my life. I know that for the price of love u take chances but is this really worth it?
November 22nd, 2009 at 5:17 am
I am a pisces woman and I absolutelty LOVE and HATE my gemini man.We don’t think alike at all. He is very careless about most things where I always put myself in that persons situation… He gets very annoyed that I care so much and I get annoyed with him for being soselfish…We have mzing sex amazing fights ad amazing love.I feel every emotion we have with eachother is very passionate!I think this is probably the hottest sexiest of couples.Very very intense…Rush!
November 24th, 2009 at 6:44 am
WHO WANTS SOME ADVICE?? Cmon guys, I read through these posts and to be honest I think it’s a bit ridiculous and unrealistic.
Im with a Gemini guy and I know lots of people who are in awesome Gemini Pisces unions. Go read through Gemini Pisces traits. It’s a logical union. Who better to adapt to each other’s changing nature than Gemini and Pisces? Pisces girls – go explore with your Gemini man – they have got SO MUCH to offer. Do not stress the times that he is distant or not entirely emotionally with you – remember that you as Pisces does exactly THE SAME! Use those times to go do your own thing, go explore on your own – your life, YOURself. WHY in heaven’s name do you want to superglue yourself to your man 24 hours a day?? – I have met so many people who’s marriages failed because they become so wrapped up in each other that they forgot who they were themselves. And then 9 years down the line they wake up and don’t know where they are any more or who they are. Never expect from other people, including your partner to sort out your emotional storms inside of you – sometimes its only you yourself that can do that, all he can do is to let you know that he is there for support. And when both of you come back out of your own worlds – then its play time for your relationship!! C’mon girls – Gemini men have shown that they CAN be emotionally there – they have their loving, caring, cuddly, understanding, appreciative, emotionally supportive twin also. Appreciate and embrace this side of him - when its there, he makes an effort to give it his all. The times when his gone back to his own crazy Gemini world – go with him to where he is going and learn and experience with him and if you don’t feel like it that day, leave him to it and don’t smother him or force him or resent him, but go do your own thing.
All that you SHOULDN’T lack in this relationship is communication. Communicate all the time about where you are standing with each other. This relationship is all about flexibility, adaptability and communication. Which, by the way is three HUGE things that helps you GROW in life and become a more rounded person. Gemini’s love adrenalin, excitement, variety, and anything that stimulates their over active mind. Thus FIND things that you have in common, that both of you are passionate about that stimulates his mind and yours and build your relationship on that – adrenalin sports , go travel together, go LEARN together, life has got SO much to offer.
Remember that when Gemini’s become placid – like sitting in front of the tv or playstation for hours at a time…..i think there is a problem – it means they are bored. They need to be outside and everywhere – touch – feel – experience things. Something like TV & playstation is another alternative for them when they don’t get the stimulation they need from the outside world. Pisces girls – please also do not feel hurt when you are not your Gemini’s main form of stimulation for the day. Wait till tomorrow or tonight, then maybe its your turn, but for today find out what else you can do with him that will stimulate both of you guys – go hiking, skiing, swimming, fishing, or whatever floats your boat - go experience LIFE!! Tonight when you get home, he is going to hold you and kiss you and tell you how beautiful you are and talk about the day’s excitements and what you have learned.
Pisces girls need to learn to use a more rational approach to sorting out their emotional insides. Remember that nothing in life – no argument, no unpleasant situation, has been solved by uncontrolled emotions.
Help your Gemini know your needs. Any man on this planet wants to feel needed and important.
Men are not phsycics….. they cant smell what you are thinking or feeling or needing. They are also not good at assuming what you are thinking or feeling or needing. Thus to get what you want, make your needs known. It s the WAY in which you make your needs known that is the secret. Do not scream, shout, sulk, be sarcastic or do it in a nasty way. Let him know on a nice, non threathening and NON – “im so sorry for myself” way. NO. Let him know on a nice, but assertive way. Short and sweet and to the point. Leave him and give him a chance to prove himself. If he fails, help him right. Some men needs help and direction like a little kid when it comes to relationships and emotional bonds.
Remember that YOU and ONLY YOU are in control of your life.
November 27th, 2009 at 10:25 pm
Gemini woman dating a Pisces man for several months now. I suppose it could work if I just died to myself, and lived for him. It’s like living in a prison. Oh sure, we are attracted to one another alright. He is gentle, sensual, attentive and mannerly but all conversation is always about him. We Gems are very interested in others, we ask the pertinent questions that show our interest and listen during the answers. We are happy to set back and talk of other worlds but Pisces would rather we just listen to their concerns, their dreams, their thoughts, their feelngs… It is the strangest think to have someone interested “in” you but not at all “about” you. After 4 months, I have yet to hear him utter my name. (I slip it in every now and then just to be sure he actually knows it.)
Perhaps it was a mistake to let it go this long but I mistakenly thought I was dealing with an Aquarius! Wrong, I was so wrong. Pisces may call me 3 times a day but leave me hanging about any plans until the last minute. Gemini is, of course, very flexible but knows that practicability must come into play occasionally if any plans are ever to see fruition. Gemini loves spontaneity but does not want everything to be left to default.
Pisces may ask how I am but always EXPECTS me to be nothing less than FINE. Every day is wonderful and beautiful to them in their own little world, so little that Gemini feels like a speck on the edge of it. Pisces head is so far in the clouds that they can’t see themselves clearly. And it hurts. It hurts Gemini who has been supportive believing the favor would be returned. Does Pisces just want us on their arm? just someone to have their arm around? just someone to call or sit beside and pretend like everything in the world is just dreamy?
November 29th, 2009 at 12:03 pm
Im with my Gemini man for two years now its been on/off all the time ,with him nothing is sure.Im pisces and its amazing when we are together it couldnt be better ,theres magic in the air but the main problem is that I am very emotional and too honest person i love communicating and when it comes to serious conversations he just avoids it or accuses me that drives me crazy but despite all i love him and im sure he loves me too .So we had a bad talk a week ago ( because he just dont want to stop playing games )and ofcourse i was the bad one in the end so now he dont want to talk to me and he told me that i can move on but i dont want to i just want him to be open to me and quite dont know how to act now ? should i call him or just sit and wait him to get back when he is in mood ?
December 3rd, 2009 at 6:37 am
Some interesting article i thought id share. I think this one is spot on……
When Pisces and Gemini unite, they can be a very mutually satisfying couple. There are a few things this couple should know in order to be successful in a lasting relationship. The two signs are at right angles in the Zodiac, which means that this can be a challenging match. These challenges can be overcome with patience, and understanding, but you will both need to be committed in order for it to work between you.
Pisces processes things differently than Gemini does. While Gemini, an air sign, is more concerned with matters of the mind; Pisces, a water sign, is more concerned with emotional matters. This can lead to miscommunication between you. A Pisces/Gemini couple needs to understand how their partner communicates in order to have a smooth relationship. Though Pisces likes social settings and conversation, much of the way you see and understand the world is nonverbal. This is a direct reflection of the way Pisces is most comfortable communicating. Gemini needs to understand this, because they are naturally not as receptive to that kind of interaction.
Pisces needs to learn to allow Gemini a moment to gather their thoughts. Once they calm their continuously thinking mind, Gemini can be very insightful. If Pisces can allow them this time, they will see that Gemini is not as shallow as they might at first appear, and this will add fodder to relationship.
This couple can also be very emphatic, which allows this relationship to be as flexible as both signs like. While Pisces sees things in a dreamlike way, Gemini is open-minded. Gemini can bring humor and direction that helps focus dreamy Pisces. This relationship can have a very solid base, as these signs are great friends as well as lovers.
When the man in this relationship is a Pisces and the woman a Gemini, this can be a blissful match. Pisces men a very attractive with their dreamy looks and nature that is so passionate. They are naturally attractive to women, and Gemini is no exception. Be careful that Gemini isn’t too thoughtless, as Pisces feelings are easily hurt, even male Pisces. This match can also be a bit self-destructive, as Pisces longs for adoration from their mate, and Gemini loves freedom. Pisces needs to be careful to not be too constricting, or Gemini will be making a run for it.
When the women in the relationship are a Pisces and the man a Gemini, the combination can be a bit unstable. You are both looking for different things from a relationship. Pisces needs Gemini to be more grounded, which is hard for this air sign. Gemini is easily bored by something they used to like, and a Gemini man might love something about you one day, and be put off by it the next. Pisces feelings can be easily hurt in this situation, as she is more sensitive than he is, and feelings are not of the utmost importance to him. However, a Pisces woman has a lot of powers of persuasion over men, with Gemini not being an exception. Use this power wisely. You can teach him a lot about the heart, and he has much to show you about the mind. He also can teach you a better means of communication which can give this relationship a better chance at lasting.
Even when these two signs do have problems, they tend to forgive easily. Gemini doesn’t take the time to hold a grudge, and Pisces is able to see their partners true intentions, making it equally hard to stay upset. Their planets are also complimentary, Pisces’ Jupiter, who is all about learning and philosophy, makes Pisces eager to know new things. Gemini’s Mercury is focused on innovation and invention, which Pisces understands on a deep level.
Typically an Air and Water sign have a hard run in the relationship gamut. However, if they are able to build on their understanding of each other, the Pisces/Gemini couple can be a fairly complete whole. Gemini brings the intellectual part of the relationship, and Pisces the emotional. Put together, these two signs are a smart and compassionate couple.
Both signs are mutable, which means that neither feels the need to be the leader of the relationship, and they can both do what they need to make it work well without stifling one another. It also means that they are both flexible, and deal well with change, something that is very good in this couple.
One of the best things about this couple is that they are so companionable. They are friends, and lovers, and that makes this a great match. They both bring flexibility to the relationship, and are able to accept their differences because of that. This can be a wonderful match, one that runs deep and is long lasting.
December 5th, 2009 at 6:16 am
Can’t work when Pisces is too stubborn to see reality. Too much second-guessing going on with him plus he does all this talk about freedom and no commitment, love or emotions yet displays quite a bit of affection and calls to check up on me several times a day. After he made a mistake in a verbal communication which nixed my (Gemini’s) plans for the day, he couldn’t bear to hear it and did this terrible convoluted twisting thing with the facts. Not compatible, I know, yet it hurts, that affection and gentle touch from Pisces was the dearest stuff I ever experienced in all my life. But receiving it meant this Gemini had to sit in silence often, and/or be misinterpreted when I did speak. Again it was like dying to self. Those so-called dreamy intuitions of that particular fish could be so far off the mark. Such a shame, the mutual and companionable feelings were good and strong.
December 9th, 2009 at 3:39 pm
HEY IVE CARRIED AWAY SOME ADVICE FROM THIS SITE AND I HAVE HAD A CHANGE OF HEART. THE FIRST THING THAT PISCES FEMALES NEED TO REMMEMBER IS TO LOOK FOR KNOW ONE TO FILL YOU UP. I HAVE HAD MANY ,MEN THAT I HAVE HAD LOCKED TO ME AT THE HIP AND HONESTLY AFTER A WHILE OF SEEING THEM I GET AGITATED AND PICK ARGUMENTS. PISCES AND GEMINI DO HAVE SO MUCH IN COMMON THAT IT IS TRUE WE JUST HAVE TO LET GO, LET FLOW AND ENGAGE IN SOME SPONTANITY, GEMINI MEN LOVE IT. SOMETIMES I CAN BE SO EMNOTIONAL THAT I WANT TO TURN MYSELF OFF JUST REMEBER EVERYONE IT ISNT LIKE US WE LIKE PEACE AND QUIET. AN ALOT OF PEOPLE LIKE TO ENGAGE IN LOTS OF ACTIVITY. GO TO YOUR GEMINI AND SURPRISE HIM HE’S STILL A MAN AND WHAT MAN DONT LIKE SURPRISES, SURPRISE HIM. LET GTO LET FLOW AND SOMETIMES GUYS NO MATTER WHAT SIGN MAY JUST NOT BE AS INTERESTED IN YOU AS YOU ARE IN THEM SO ASK. NOBODY HAS A GLASS FOREHEAD. HE MAY INITIALLY AVOID THE QUESTION BUT WE PISCES ARE MASTERS OF SEDUCTION THIS IS THE TIME TO USE IT. AN GIVE HIM TIME SOME, TO ANSWER. ONE THING THAT I STARTED TO DO TO AVOID THE EMOTIONAL PITFALL IS WRITE A LETTER AND LEAVE OUT ALL THE PERSONAL DRAMA, LADIES YOU KNOW HOW WE GET SOMETIMES SND MAKE IT CLEAR WHAT YOU BUT THEN AGAIN SOME PEOPLE DONT MAKE DECISIONS IN THE MOMENT THEY NEED TIME TO THINK.AN AS THE GENTLEMEN STATED GO WITH YOUR MAN INTO HIS WORLD HE WONT MIND. MINES IS A BUSY BODY AND KEEPS ME ON MY TOES BUT I’VE LEARNED THAT EXTREME AND EXCITEMENT IS WHAT MY GEMINI LIKES. OKAY HE HASNT ASKED YOU ABOUT MAKING LOVE , TAKE IT TO HIM, MEET HIM IN HIS ELEMENT WHERE HE FEELS MOST COMFORTABLE AND PUT IT ON HIM. HE’LL LOVE IT SOMETIMES YOU HAVE TO GO THE EXTRA MILE TO GET WHAT U WANT. IF YOUR LOOKING FOR SAFE AND BORING LOO ELSE WHERE BUT IF YOUR LOOKING FOR A PARTNER THAT WILL TRULY LOVE YOU AND SOAR BEYOND LIMITS THEN GEMINI IS THE MAN. LADIES TO GET THIS ONE IS GOING TO TAKE A LITTLE MORE THAT BEING A SEXY SEDUCTRESS. BE PREPARED TO ENTER HIS WORLD AND YOU MIGHT BE SURPRISED WHAT DOORS WILL OPEN FOR YOUR RELATIONSHIP. IM TRYING ,JUST LEAVE ALL THE WORRIES BEHIND , GEMINI AND PISCES IS SO COMPATIBLE IT ISNT FUNNY.
December 10th, 2009 at 12:36 pm
I have something to say to This and To others out there. Im A Pisces Female with a Male Gemini,
And well he is one of the Most sweetest Guys i have ever known. I have never been so happy In my life, I was with a Cancer male for 2 and Half Yrs of my life. They say cancer and Pisces Are a Match Made in heaven thats funny. I think Me and My cancer friend, Were to much a like, and Our attitudes Clashed. I mean dont get me wrong Great guy Just not for me. then I was with A virgo Most of my life..Lets just say Never going there again. But when It boils Down to my Gemini Bf He is Wonderful He never Judges me for My mistakes He never Says bad things to me He is always thoughtful. He always Knows How to put a Smile on my face No matter What mood im in. He is My best friend But my Boyfriend at the same time. We were friends for 2 yrs Before we decided To be Partners. He was My best friend then too. He has Never changed He is still the same Sweet guy I have meant Two yrs Ago. We never Fight we get along To un real Point. We Can talk for None stop hrs. Its Like If we are apart I miss him Like crazy. He is A wonderful Person. I cant believe i got so lucky when Coming to have a really good Guy. Cause he is The best. He knows me Better then anyone has ever known me. I also Have never been so Honest with someone In my life The way I am with him. I tell him everything. Im sorry But I dont think ALl Geminis and Pisces could possibly Not work. I think If you really Love the person your with Then You will do whatever it takes to Make it work and Make it Last. I have been with Almost all the Zodiac Signs. And None of them Was Like My Gemini Man. He is A down to earth Sweetheart. and I will never stop Loving him. So Do i think Gemini and Pisces Could last and Work. Yes i do with all my heart. It just takes Patience and Hard work. Just like any Relationship Would ever be. And Plus i think it has also got to do with the way You were raised. But I believe without a Doubt That Gemini and Pisces Could Last forever.
December 11th, 2009 at 7:07 am
Im a Gemini, and my Boyfriend is a pisces, everything is good, but, the trust!
we are totally aware of each other when it comes to trusting someone else but,our self!
we have the best relationship i ever had in my life, but, is kinda hard 2 xpress how we feel for each other at times…. I dont think we are a bad match is just we have things that tend 2 get in the way, exp. our temper!
December 14th, 2009 at 6:13 pm
Me (P) and my Boyfriend (G) have been together for 10 months, and I totally dissagree with the love horoscope for us, true we argu and he can be a pain in my bum but Its a amazing relationship and it feels like were going to be together for a long time.
December 15th, 2009 at 4:55 pm
I am a Pisces and my husband is a Gemini. We have been married for 9 months and were together about 2 and a half years before that. Honestly, it is the best relationship I have ever been in. I dated a Leo, a Cancer, and a Capricorn seriously—all of whom are supposed to be great love matches for Pisces. Yet, I never felt that any of those guys tried to or could understand me the way my Gemini husband does. Yes, I see the differences that everyone is pointing out–I am really moody and sensitive and he tends to be more logical and analytical. But anytime he is confused about why I’m acting a certain way, he just goes, “Babe, tell me what you’re feeling” and that allows me to kind of break through the initial Gemini resistance to emotion. Also, both of us tend to be more flirtatious with members of the opposite sex than we even realize and so instead of being jealous we just kind of get that that is who each of us are and don’t feel threatened by it. I experience an incredible amount of freedom in this relationship and ability to be accepted for who I am. The intellectual connection is also definitely there and we have an intense attraction to one another. I’m also excited because I finally found someone who could match wits with me and is just as stubborn as I am!
December 16th, 2009 at 8:28 am
i’am the picses woman and my hubby is the gemini, i will say that we have been happily married for 38 yrs.
December 18th, 2009 at 4:39 am
HI! im a picses snake (im the female) and my fiance is a gemini tiger. i dont know why the charts say we arent meant for eachother.yes we are both very emotional but we are both very mature and dont displace the emotions we feel. if i had a bad day i dont get upset at my partner and if hes inside his head for the day i dont mind leaving him to think. same thing when i go off into space in my head he will find something else to do till i come back. i think the key here is acceptance. i love him for who he is not for what i think he needs to be to be with me.also he never trys to make me someone im not. i know he likes to be by himself and i know he likes to travel, i love his wonderlust. i dont get to see him very much but we tell eachother everything and keep no secrets from eachother. im more of a recluse so he knows im always at home waiting to see him
i dont put any pressure on him to show me affection because i know hes shyand so the affection he does show me he knows means alot to me.im very affectionate so im the one who initiates the cuddles n stuff but thats okay. i dont want to smother such a beautiful spirit. i just enjoy his company and our time together. im always here to listen and to give my feedback. and i let him knwo when hes over reacting to somethingand vice versa.that seems to help us think straight. he lets me express myself without punishing me for it. he never tells me to be normal and encourages me to be myself and only myself. we really support eachother through hard times. we’ve both been through family deaths since we’ve been together so we dont tell eachother not to cry. we have reason to cry and we can usually only get it out when we’re alone together.
we are both extremley sexual. we never tell eachother no, yes NEVER. i think thats important to. might sound dumb but if you deny and deny and deny then whether someone loves you or not they will start looking somewhere else for that need to be fufilled.
well what i think im trying to say is that you should love someone for how you met them. you shouldnt think “oh hes a great guy but he needs to change this” or “he should stop doing that” love your partner entirely and unconditionally.
everything should be great from there
December 18th, 2009 at 5:51 am
I AM A PISCES YOUNG LADY, AND HAVE A CHILD GEMINI MAN WHO NO MATTER HOW MUCH HE PISSED ME OFF I ADORE HIM GREATLY. 5 YEARS OF CRAZYNESS. WE HAD TOO MANY UPS AND DOWNS I CAN NEVER STAY MAD AT HIM LIKE HE ALWAYS FORGIVES ME FOR ALWAYS TRYING TO CONTROL EVERY THING. I CAN SAY THAT TO LAST LONG IS POSSIBLE BUT HOWEVER LONG YOU CAN LAST GEMINI & PISCES ARE REALLY NOT MEANT TO BE, BUT I CAN SAY THIS: THEY WILL BE YOUR BEST FRIEND IN MY OPINION OF COURSE. I CAN TELL HIM ANYTHING ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS OR WHEN IM DOWN AND SO WILL HE. I DO ANYTHING FOR HIM AND I TRULY CAN SAY IM NOT IN LOVE WITH HIM ANYMORE, BUT I CARE ABOUT HIM LIKE I WOULD A GOOD FRIEND. WE DO GET ON OUR ARGUEMENTS ALOT BUT FORGET ABOUT THEM 10 MINUTES LATER. ITS AN INTERESTING RELATIONSHIP IF YOU TAKE TIME AND SEE THE INSIDE OF EACH PERSON AND TRY TO UNDERSTAND THEM
December 18th, 2009 at 5:57 am
MEANT TO SAY I HAVE A CHILD WITH A GEMINI MAN
December 22nd, 2009 at 10:50 am
As a Gem Tiger I can say I have been “hopefully” at 1st and now just “hopelessly”….pseudo -dating a Pisces. He has been “going thru his divorce” for a year now. And “picking up the pieces….etc” And to be honest I have lost interest. They are just too much work, these boys. I sometimes just wanna say “MAN UP!” So instead of allowing myself to get reeled in again…I just think it is best we don’t see e/o. even though i have not told him this, i havent seen him since August so i think its best 2 leave it at that
I definately feel i need a STRONGER partner!
January 1st, 2010 at 9:59 am
I’m a Gemini and my boyfriend is a pisces, we’re both 17 and we know that our signs aren’t compatitble and there was one occasion where he apologized for this mishap, but in the end, we both love each other and it’s strong. We know why we love each other and we do have some disagreements, but we work around them with his sarcasm and my creativity.
We really want to be with each other and we trust each other completely. We have a long distance relationship, but he only lives an hour from me(I live in Orlando and he lives in Tampa). It’s really my issue with the trust due to past relationships, but other than that, I trust him completely. We are willing to go against the stastics of Gemini/Pisces relationship conflicts and we are willing to stay with each other. He doesn’t want to lose me and I don’t want to lose him. I am a huge fan of the stars and he looks into it too sometimes, but it all depends on the people. Im the emotional one in the relationship and he’s the one who can control his emotions. When im upset and my wind is violent, his waters know how i’m feeling and he feels my feelings himself, but he’s a calm lake and I don’t want to disturb him so I control myself for him. I do get restless and he finds humor in it and thinks its cute; im sure if we were to see each other and I want to go sightseeing or go walking, he would come along and enjoy it with me, he would do anything to make me happy and I would do anything to make him happy. We have only been going out for two months(2 month anni. was on Christmas eve ^_^) and I feel as if I have found my unfortunate match. I am willing to make this relationship work and go against the odds. It’s all about love and if the love is right, so will the mates within it.
January 2nd, 2010 at 10:51 pm
I’m a Pisces female, and I’m in the midst of dating a Gemini male. I’ve known him since June, and since then we hang out all the time. Hours and hours pass without notice when we are together. It’s so much fun, never a dull moment really. He is a total generous sweetheart and I appreciate how he treats me. Well things just started heating up between us and I’m quite excited to see where it leads. I’ve read most these replies and found some very helpful. I agree to all the conclusions about patience and communication, it’s the base of a properous relationship with any person. Well I want to make us official but I don’t know how to really ask without making him run off for a bit, if that was to happen. I might be overthinking how to talk to him about it but I just don’t want anything to mess up. I’m sure it will be brought up the next time we hang out but I want to be prepared and confident to tell him.
He is Gemini born June 5 1991 and I’m a Pisces born march 13 1990. I know his rising sign is a pisces and mine is a libra. I know the connection is strong between us but is the compatiblilty for more than a friendship there. All I know is that every moment with him is full of comfort and enjoyment.
January 7th, 2010 at 8:43 pm
Im a pisces woman and I’ve always clicked with the gemini. My boyfriend, brother, and bestfriend are all gemini. Yes we bump heads but we understand each other. I really think it just has to do with your maturity level; as long as you know what battles are and aren’t worth fighting, I think gemini and pisces get along just fine…at least from my experience.
January 16th, 2010 at 1:35 pm
Update: my Gemini and I are dating, he adores me so much and me to him as well. He said we can easily be together for 10 months +. He is always giving me compliments, were so perfect for each other. Worked out well. The chase was so much fun. I don’t even refer to astrology anymore seeing how I was on the right track all along. It did help me in the beginning but what I really did was listen to my heart and went for it. I couldn’t be happier in my life
January 22nd, 2010 at 7:15 pm
This relationship works out beautifully!!
Well at least for me. I am a 19 year old Pisces male, with a scorpio Moon,
And my Love is a 19 year old Gemini with a Pisces Moon. We are also both metal Horses.
I think this has to be considered a Match made in Heaven. We feel so much compassion, attraction, love, understanding, commitment and loyalty for each other. We can literally melt into each other and still be able to have our freedom by both being mutable. We see eye to eye about most things, the only thing she has a problem with is all my mystical attributes and intuition because she doesn’t believe it truly exists. But I think she will find it one day because she does have That Pisces moon. But I will tell you one thing… Pisces Moon Gemini Girls have to be the most all over emotional sign of the Zodiac. She is a tough soul trying to tackle that combination. And I love her for it! Well pretty much she saved my life and I will do everything in my power to make her dreams come true. Our Horse in us keeps us preserving and working toward our dream goals. I don’t think we could ever give up on each other. Not after the love we have experienced.
January 30th, 2010 at 7:06 am
I am a Gemini with a Pisces and we have been together for almost 9 years! We are getting married in August and I love him with all my heart. He is truly my soulmate. I think it is crazy that our signs don’t match well, especially since we are so in tune with one another…
January 31st, 2010 at 8:18 pm
Hey everyone!!!
I am a pisces woman and i am very attracted to this gemimi!! We connect with each other on so many different levels and we have such a good time with each other. He is a very charming man and is very romantic and sweet with me. He cares about my feelings and seems like he would do anything to make me happy. I must add also i find it funny that i read everyones posts on pisces and gemini relationships and almost everyone says that the sex is GREAT lol!!
The ironic thing is i am a pisces woman in a relationship with a cancer guy for 2 years and we are suppose to be a good match for each other but we argue and fight a lot in our relationship.I guess it all depends on the two people in the relationship, i am not quite sure.
February 1st, 2010 at 3:17 am
you are absolutely right! this is a terrible relationship and became extraordinarily emotionally abusive on his (pisces) behalf when he didn’t know how else to get out of it… i (the gemini) wasn’t blameless, but he had/has always had a remarkable inability to ever take responsibility for his own actions (whereas i am quite the opposite - always look to myself for to see where the fault in a situation is). are these latter traits pisces/gemini ones? if so, that is another good reason why this combination will never work…
February 3rd, 2010 at 4:06 am
I must say that I am in the best relationship I have ever had! My boyfriend (Gemini) and I (Pisces) have been together for almost 9 months and are definately happy! I have NEVER had anyone be so sensitive to my needs. He tells me all the time that he loves me and that I am sexy, beautiful, amazing, etc. He is caring, thoughtful, has the need to help ppl, is very smart, and attractive. Yes the sex is WONDERFUL but there is also more then just that. I can’t believe there are so many posts and zodiac websites knocking the gemini/pisces relationship. I definately think it depends on the two individuals!
February 4th, 2010 at 1:04 am
I used to be really into horoscopes, and then I met my husband who is a Gemini, but I’m a Pisces and I’ve never been happier. So honestly, I don’t think it matters which sign if you really love them.
We’ve been married four years.
February 4th, 2010 at 2:03 pm
yeah i totally agree with carly. Personality horoscopes might tell the right stuff, but horoscope compatibility are totally based on another human’s opinions and nothing else…! There are soooo many happily married couples who , according to their star signs, “arent compatible”, which is total bollocks. Im a Pisces, with a Gemini guy and its been the most extraodinary few years of my life. Sometimes im the one thats more the rational one and he the more sensitive one. So what is this then of Pisces and Gemini dont work because Pisces is emotional and Gemini thoughtless??? Yes he forgets things often because he has got an overactive mind? So what?! And sometimes he have a sense of humor which other people might find personally offensive, but i think its funny and never take it serious. I understand his ways and when he is joking and when not. and i dont ever take offense easily. I am good with accepting negative critiscm as well. So Im also pretty tired of people saying that Pisceans are emotional, clingy, easily hurt, very sensitive and never in touch with reality. Because that is the direct opposity of me!! How does that work then?! My Gemini guy is fun, entertaining, spontaneous, sweet, loving, open and SOOO diverse. We are 100% completely compatible,we are both smart,inquisitive,fun,resolve our conflicts easily,communicate openly and give each other the needed freedom (also keeping in mind that too much freedom is also not a good thing. So really whats this negativity about this relationship??
February 11th, 2010 at 12:34 am
Well I think it could I mean me nd my boyfriend[gemini] is still in high school we argue a lot and we fight but its just that we alike and that we are silly he is annoying and I’m crazy but we get emotional but he tends to sometimes not care but he cares but not in the way. I want him to. But other times he does. Its kinda like everyone’s problem mixed together to make mine. We haven’t had sex yet bt from what I see its sounds good butyeah. I just want to know what I should do I think I wanna make it last
February 13th, 2010 at 4:16 pm
helo,
i am a picses gal and my bf is a gemini guy,we both love each oda n trust,we share our emosnal feelings 2getda and all d time i see him,his alwys tellin how wonderful i am,my love and affectn alwys increase by d day and am alwys makin him fall inlove by d day.but my problem wit him is dat he likes doin things at his own time neva allow mi express my emostion expect his in d mooud of bin inlove.bt i tink i got a solution 4 it.i no d picses is an emostional type,bt u can handle d gemini guy throw over lookn watever he does n even wen his emostional drama comes on just look 4 sumtin doin i no d picses wil get temted,bt atlist over look 4 sumtyms cuz dt makes him falls more 4 u n neva boarded urself abt him alot,play his game n he wil tink u dnt love him n al his attension wil cum bck 2 u.i new dis bcuz am in a relastionshp wit a gemini guy nw 4 up to 2years nw n am stil tinkn of gettn his extra attention towards mi.
February 14th, 2010 at 4:47 pm
i know this one guy he is a picses male and i am a gemini women..he has a girlfriend and i have a boyfriend but we ars just so drawn togather..we try to hide our feelings toward each other but it keeps us falling more toward each other..
so i think they are compatible
love,
unknown
February 18th, 2010 at 5:48 pm
I am madly in love with my Pisces boyfriend (I’m the Gemini). We are incredibly similar, and both drama-phobic. We only really truly come out of our shells around each other, but when we’re together it’s like an incredible array of fireworks. He is definitely shy, except around me, and when we’re out in public I become his verbal protector and he becomes my physical knight in shining armor. Of course the sex is out of this world as well… We talk a lot and have many similar and different interests. As for the dreamy aspects of Pisces, he really doesn’t do that nearly as much as I do. I’m much more in my own world, though I invite him in all the time. I’m actually a writer so when he thinks I’m being too distant I write him something to share with him how much I love him (example: I leave sticky notes with poems as reminders and the grocery list is sometimes in shakespearean sonnet). It’s always an adventure when we’re out, and it’s very important to both of us we continue to be stimulated by new experiences. We both intensely love travel and neither of us are vain, so hiking through the bracken one weekend is just another absolutely fun experience. I think with this match, at least in my case, it’s the greatest joy I’ve ever experienced (and he feels the same). We just make sure we take time to talk about our feelings and thoughts every day and take an equal share in practical, necessary things like bills (I like math, so I do the taxes), cooking, cleaning, etc. We’re getting married in about 5 months, and we’re both committed to growing old together and keeping the love intensely alive. Good like to all Pisces/Gemini pairs out there!
~S
March 2nd, 2010 at 11:51 pm
Im a pisces girl and have a gemini boyfriend. We have been going out for six months and i have never been in a better relationship in my life, we are so compatable its crazy. We have never fought about anything once!
Gemini and Pisces do work!!
March 6th, 2010 at 6:34 pm
well wotever u all hv written here i just wanna say one thing , no matter how much da differnce pisces n gemini have , doesnt matter the basic thing which shoud reside in any relationship is just the compromising skills n how much u luv the gal or the guy , so i hv ma boy whoz gemini buh i still luv him so much n widout him im really incomplete
March 12th, 2010 at 3:50 pm
I am a pisces and have been married to my gemini partner for 12 years now and we are still in love and very happy together. Sex is still amazing
March 22nd, 2010 at 3:54 am
My grandparents were a pices(him) and gemini(her) match that were happily married for 35 years until he passed away.
March 24th, 2010 at 6:53 am
I don’t agree, Pisces and Gemini are a wonderful combination, at least in my relationship. We are both extremely quick to respond with sarcasm and wit, there are rare few times when either of us is left speechless by the other. Neither of us is emotional, far beit. I, the Gemini, am very detattched from feelings and a sense of belonging and he, Pisces obviously, is trying to bring me back to the world of romance. This is a beautiful relationship, neither gets jealous easily, in fact, we find it funny when someone of a third party tries to intrude, we have complete trust. We are both quick to make compromise for the other, making the other pleased that they will have so much done for them, and doting is consisten 100%. I am the complete definition of a Gemini, to the point where I think I have a split personality but he levels it out smoothly. But there is also a 16 year age difference between my significant other and myself, which I think plays a major role. We fell for each other within a week.
March 29th, 2010 at 6:06 am
Hello Becky,
I am a Gemini Girl 22 and my BF 20 Pisces we have been dating for 1 year and 4 months and I agree he is easily hurt by my actions. I love him very much and I have tried so hard to change for him and I don’t what to give up. I wonder if there is any possibility this union may work for long term. I realy love the fact that my BF is so emotional, caring and faith full and I dont what to lose him. IS there any way gemini can get along with pisces? what characteristics of gemini have to be changed?
April 2nd, 2010 at 8:37 pm
sorry I found this site so late to chip in. I am born under the Gemini sun sign my beloved Piscian is born 20/3 and just on the border to Aries. His sometimes attitude therefore incompass both signs I feel (the jealous streak of Aries). I adore, admire him and I am totoally devoted to him and let him know that as often as poss! He is gorgeous, genourous, sensible, sentimental, romantic and yes can stubborn and needs his cave from time to time; all of which is a contradiction in itself! The point is THERE is no point; if you love each other unconditionally why is it important what sun sign makes one is born under. Sending love and light
April 2nd, 2010 at 8:55 pm
and BTW yes the sex is incredibly as is the inner connection like sharing the same thoughts at the same time; having the same feelings the same time being ONE; He is just grand (irish expression) and its a plus that he looks better than George Clooney xxx
April 12th, 2010 at 7:31 am
Its great to read all these positive remarks about the Gem-pisces relationship. I, pisces woman, have been with Gemini guy for a while now, and still each day only gets better. Each day is a new adventure. For the first time I am not bored. And I get bored so easily. And yes, he is not one to show much emotion or dote on things. But for me, that brings a sweet and much wanted simplicity & structure to my complex Piscean thoughts and emotions. Gemini for me is a bird, one that, if you let him loose and let him fly, he will always come home. But keep him in a cage and he will get wild…let him fly then and he will never return. Funny enough, me, the pisces is a lot like that so i can understand it. From reading through most of these posts, it seems like the only time that Gem and Pisces don’t get along, is when one of the two, or both, are a bit immature. I think for this relationship to work, it takes a lot of mutual understanding for each other.In order to understand certain aspects of each other’s nature and accept and live with that, takes maturity. It is just so important not to try and change the other because they are different - accept each other for who they are and compromise where there’s differences - meet each other half way. When both of you are willing to do this - thats how you will have a happy and truely exciting and fullfilling partnership between these two. Gem and Pisces really have the ability to truely understand each other better than anyone else can. Yes, they are compatible.
April 16th, 2010 at 7:04 pm
Gemini him Pisces me was the most disturbing love experience I have ever tried , 2 yrs together countless fights and breakups Gemini is a cheater by nature, their temper changes in a second they are heartless and offensive , it was in fact a very intense relationship crazy wild sex but afterwards non sense actions by this Gemini I couldn’t take his jealosy and controling mind , I’m not an innocent person, nor perfect but I was affectionate caring and comitted 100% to us and he screw it up all the time, I won’t finish describing how much I experienced with this person one thing I’m sure of is I will never open my hearth to a Gemini ! They are egocentric, with a duo personality ! Too much drama !
April 21st, 2010 at 9:24 am
most of this is very good and indeed pin points the situation but honeslty with all astrology, its depends on both the people, if your willing to make it work and its the mutual on both sides of the spectrum, then i dont see it not working but if your doubting it, the doubt its whats gonna mess with the relation. its all about compromise or at least i feel that would be more logical. if both sides put the work in the i see it lasting, but if one puts more effort then the other then of course i can see it not working. eventhough yes the moods of both signs can effect the relationship, its just the matter of whos pride will get in the way and whos willing to just work with it and agree to so kind of compromise….
this is only an opinion obviously, not trying to take away maybe your experience, sometimes, hey it just doesnt work…
April 26th, 2010 at 3:59 am
i agree with pisces_gal! its alwys my gemini who uses the emotional blackmail!! Its so annoying, sometimes.. its true we pisceans are emotional fools, but i speak for myself when i say that i NEVER hold a grudge.. but my gemini!! its not like he doesnt forgive me for my mistakes, but everytime we have a fight, its alwys a “you alwys do this to me.. like that one time…” and i hate it!! i dislike bringing up the past because i love him and i accept him not despite of how he is, but BECAUSE of what he is.. and being the famed escapist, i let it go.. because i really really do love him.. i have never met anyone i loved so much.. it might be true that gemini and pisces are not the golden couple in the astrological sense, but which couple is?? ..i know i love my gemini.. And i also know i’l try really hard to make it work.. love.. makes you do the impossible.. no matter the consequences..
April 26th, 2010 at 7:03 pm
I had to respond to this post… was good friends with a Gemini male… I’m a pisces female and would have never imagine us hooking up although I could sense there was an attraction between us. Nonetheless, time passed and one day out of the blue we hooked up! It was amazing…he was and still is a complete gentleman. After the hook-up, we began seeing each other…he tried to call it off after he felt it was getting to serious but we missed each other (couldn’t get enough of each other) and we eventually got back together (was separated for maybe a week if that), we finally decided to move in together, that was an experience in itself. He’s not neat at all, whereas, I have OCD (not literally). Nonetheless, we managed to make it work with a lot of communication and compromise, he proposed a year later and this year we’ll be married for 4 years. So I’m testimony that Pisces Female and Gemini Male can work (although everyday is a work in progress). Can’t say it holds true to Gemini females and Pisces males but what the heck… you won’t know unless you try! Good Luck~
May 2nd, 2010 at 12:12 am
I am a pisces woman dating a gemini man (both 28) for the last two years. It has been a rollercoaster ride the entire time. One minute we love each other to death and cant imagine living without each other and the next (like right now) we cant get along and are threatening to end our relationship.
My main problem is he tells me he loves me so much but….. would not include me in all his life. I feel like i belong to a section of his life and that drives me crazy. When i do the same in retaliation and ‘cut’ him out of some of my life he gets upset and tries to use his high level reasoning to make me feel like I am the wrong person.
Yes I need to feel like I am the center of his life and no one else in the world matters but me. Is that so wrong? I do that for him which he accepts with no hesitation. Right now we are going through the worse argument ever and I think it may actually end and I cant understand why it hurts so much and I cant seem to just let him go……Oh my gosh!!!
May 3rd, 2010 at 2:13 am
Further to my post last night my gemini man just blew me out of the water. He came back to me and sincerely request that we give this another try. We were open and honest about our feelings and have hope that God will answer our prayers to help us to love each other as defined in 1 Corinthians 13. I will take away the advice from this site about practical ways to make this union strong and lasting.
Great site.
May 10th, 2010 at 7:48 pm
Can you really make such generalisations? I am a Piscean lady living with a Gemini man. We have our ups and downs, generally I find him to be a considerate, sensitive, amusing and interesting man who I love dearly.
I am a depressive person and I often find the pain of my mental and emotional anguish almost too much to bear, but my partner is just soothing to be around and never makes me feel bad about who I am. I was once engaged to a Scorpio who was quite frankly a hateful, vindictive and vile person, I find my Gemini partner a joy to be around in comparison.
May 10th, 2010 at 8:08 pm
hey everyone.. what a wonderful site! I’ve loved reading some of the posts on this site.. My story: Im a gemini female dragon and the dude is a Pisces snake and the relationship we have is the most weirdly wonderful thing in the world.. So we met around 3 months ago.. I was attracted to him like a magnet and could see it in his eyes that its reciprocal.. we have spent the last 3 months talking non stop - texting 30 times a day, emails, calls, long long meetings.. but nothing has happened..!!! No kissing, nothing! (and i know that if/when it happens, it will sizzle baby!!) We’ve shared the most intimate details and I also confessed that I am a bit of a predator by nature.. i love the chase and get bored soon after the prize has succumbed! (sounds awful, doesnt it??!) Anyway, we talk about me reforming my ways, and him doing the same with his own issues, but i get a strong sense that he is scared to make a move just in case he becomes a statistic in my books!! This man is looking for a wife so he wont be settling for anything less than proper committment. Of course, i am now completely and utterly in love with this wonderful man and I want him more than anything in the world. So im now going through this site looking for arsenal to prove that maybe we can make it work!! Of course, there’s a lot of stuff in here that points in the opposite direction but there are loads of happy stories too so I wont be giving up on this guy anytime soon!
May 12th, 2010 at 11:49 am
Hi, as a pisces guy I must say it all comes down to the pisces to make this relationship last. Yes it’ll be easier to date another sign but where’s the fun in that? Life is meant to be a bit challenging and when it comes to love why not? Pisces must get over their insecurities no matter what sign they’re dating and of all the signs Gems seem the best not to adapt to but to grow with. In the long run pisces will have someone to express their true feelings into words they once thought were ineffable. And gems will have a taste of that unconditional oneness love. The loyalty we’re looking for will come,in due time.
May 14th, 2010 at 7:22 am
I agree 100% with this last post from Drizzle.Yes pisces must overcome the insecurities. Gemini might add to insecurities in the beginning of the relationship, because of their “airyness” but i think a lot of the time we misunderstand Gem’s true intention, and it is never to hurt you. Understand that they need and crave and thrive on mental and emotional freedom. If you can give them that then automatically they turn around and give you the love, attention and loyalty you have been yearning for. UNDERSTAND Gemini’s true nature and intentions and you will find yourself with the most amazing person in the world. It is certainly true that Gemini is someone to grow with. My experience with the Gemini is that for the first time there is a man who have the intellect and inquisitiveness to WANT to understand exactly how my emotions and brain works. And somehow it is easier with him than with other people to put my nonverbal understanding/emotion of the world into words. Because he is open minded and always well-informed he understands the things you thought other people cant. Pisces in itself is a sign who you can’t really pinpoint, it is like they contain a little bit of all the different signs, thats why i think each pisces in itself seems to be completely different. So how can you really tell with what sign pisces will fit in with? I dont want to date a easy sign either, because where is the fun and challenge in that, then it becomes one of those routine relationships where you always know exactly what will happen next. You will never be stimulated and you will never grow because everything will always be the same. This relationship starts off as a piece of clay that gets moulded and moulded to turn into something potentially extraodinary….if both of you know the recipe and work and grow towards the same outcome (which Gem &Pisc seems to be naturally good at together) - then you got a winner of pair!!
May 20th, 2010 at 5:26 pm
i falled in love .. with Pisces Man
He Always angry .. I don’t like this personaltii
STUPIDSS I HATE PISCES FUCK THEM ..
May 28th, 2010 at 5:06 pm
I’m a (Pisces) guy, and been in love with this girl (Gemini) for the past 6years. what people say about “opposite attracts” is definitely true! When we met she sort of had someone already, it was a long distant relationship (for them). This was 7years ago, after they started dating he got drafted back to his country to serve in the military. They still kept in touch over the phone, tho she tried to break off the relationship several times and failed (he was a Pisces as well). She moved to where I was living, and we met through friends. Though I knew about “the guy”, I told her I don’t mind. We were bestest of best friends, talked about everything anything. Shared lots of laughs and up and downs. ofcourse the sex was great, but the emotional bonding and connection was even more amazing.
This went on for about a year, then we eventually moved in together. We felt so comfortable with each other, felt as we were married already even tho we didn’t even claim each other as “boyfriend or girlfriend” cause “he” was still in the picture. sometimes he would call in the middle of night, and I would man up and give her that supportive look and says to her “yeah go ahead” she steps out to talk to him and I would find something to do to keep myself busy and not to think of the situation.
Another 8months went by, one day while we were driving home from an outing. She looked at me in the eyes and told me that “HE” is coming back. I looked at her in the eyes and told her that I understand. I packed up and left everything we shared to her, our little Pomeranian puppy too. All those times I know this would happen one day (he will come back and she will leave me to get back with him) but I was in Love with this girl, I was in denial. She said she felt guilty for leading him on, and she needed closure. (I begged her to stay but I don’t think I’ve tried hard enough at the time, as I was angry, confused, and frustrated with myself). Shes a Gemini, I know I can’t stop her, I had to let her go and let her be free even though it was hard to accept.
She moved down south with him, started new and eventually they got married. We still kept in touch with each other, sometimes she would call or I would call to check up on how each other is doing (lots times she calls when she needed someone to talk to during rough times, or just someone to be there and listen). I listened, and I listened… I was crying inside, knowing that shes being hurt but I can not do anything about it. (inside of my head I knew shes a married woman, and I know shes a tough gal, she can get though it all) but I still wanted her back to love her and cherish her how she deserves to be.
I have dated others, and tried giving others a chance but it never worked out. There is just no one can compare her, her smile, her warmth, her caring, her gentleness, her hair, her goofiness, her angry tone when she bitches at me… just everything about her, no one can compare.
Her family and I kept close contact even after me and her parted our ways. (her family was not in the best situation either. Her father was in a nursing home after a stroke and also due to her mother was no long able to take care of father. Her mother was sick as well, needed a Liver and Kidney transplant. Her old brother couldn’t live up to be the man of the household, always got in trouble and got their family into a deeper financial hole. *but he is a lot better now, I’m proud of him - hes taking care of his mom) I helped her family in so many ways, financially, emotionally or just being there to put a smile on her mother’s face. (her family lived down south too but in a different state, I drove down there 6-7times within 3years) Her father past away last year, she told me that his wish was for her get a divorce and get back with me. (Her father and mother loved me, they loved me as I was already their son-in-law.) I drove 10hours down there to see her mother, to be there with them. I wanted to see her as well, wanted to comfort her. (I haven’t see her in over 3years, since we parted) We spoke on the phone and set a time to meet have dinner and catch up, but she canceled at the last minute. (told me that shes not ready, she felt awkward, she wouldn’t know what to tell her husband.) Of course I understood, and told her so, and left the situation as it is and drove back home with a sad feeling nothing can describe. couple months later I received an email from her, shes asked me will I ever love her again, will I still hold her like I used to, will I wait for her… she is getting a divorce, and they’re working hard to pay off their debt together and also waiting for the divorce to be finalized. (My emotions was all stirred up after I read it… I saw hope, god has finally answered my prayers)
The past Feb, on Valentines Day I drove down there and showed up at her work with 211 long stem red roses. (it has been 211 rainy days since she left. before when we were together, she didn’t like it when it rained. Her moodiness would always kick in so every time when it rained, I got her a rose (her favorite) and cheered her up. Though I didn’t really like the rain either, but I started to like it, because every time it rains it reminds me of her, I would reminisce on our memories.) She was surprised and shocked (this was our first time seeing each other in 4years since we parted) but she was very happy to see me. We went to dinner, talked shared our laughs, held hands at one point walking to the car after getting coffee at starbucks. She told me she didn’t expect to see me, tho shes happy to see me, but she was not ready for “us” yet. She is still in the process finalizing her divorce with him. The night of my departure to come home, we were having dinner (me, her and her mother) then he called. I sensed something, I was right, she was getting ready to leave. as I saw the situation, I looked at her and told her that I’m just going to go, and she should sit and finish dinner with her mom since I knew it’s been awhile since they ate together. I took off… angry and frustrated again took over my consciousness… I almost lost it… good friend of my got on the phone and calmed me down and made me realized that “I have to fight for what I believe in” and I believed that we really do love and care for each other, there are obstacles along our ways, but we been through it all, we can work things out, just have to get it a try. So I drove back, (I was already on the road for about 2hours, then turned around). Got to her mom’s place, she was already gone. I sat in the car for 10minutes thinking to myself “Am I doing the right thing? What Am I doing back here? I should give her time. What Am I going to say?” I knocked on the door, her mom answered - surprised that I was back but she took my hand and walked me in to sit down (when her mom grabbed my hand, I couldn’t help it anymore, tear drops started to fall.) I said to her mother that I really love her daughter, but this love hurts. her mother sat me down and with the eyes of a caring mother she said if she could give her daughter away, she would give her to me. that eased my pain a little, knowing I have her mothers support and understands me. I stayed for the night, and left for home in the morning.
So the past weekend I just came back from there again, this time it was her father’s one year memorial service. I’m very confused this time, I don’t know if we (as in our relationship) moved forward or took 3steps backwards. We spent a lot of time together this time, (I think it was the most time we spent since it was “us”), we talked more serious this time. She told me her divorce is finalized, he has already left and moved out. She is moving as well, she wanted to go somewhere noone knows her and start a new beginning. Her mother and brother are going to stay, (Her mother is waiting for her Kidney transplant) but she can not… too many memories there (she moved down there and started new with him, so things that she knew it was “theirs”.) I told her to slap me, and slap some sense into me and tell me that she doesn’t love me and want me to move on, and tell me that there will never be a “us”. I can see that she doesn’t want to hurt me, she hesitated a bit and said to me, that she doesn’t know if there ever will be a “us”, at least not right now, and she doesn’t know what the future will bring, only time will tell. She told me I will always have a place in her heart, I’ve made a big impact on her life, I’m not just a “chapter” in her life. Whenever she goes through ups & downs she will think of me and smile, she will never forget about me. We promised we will visit and see each other after she settles down in the west, and she promises to keep that promise.
I feel so dreadful and hurt. even though I know shes being a Gemini as she is, I have to let her be free. But my heart can’t handle this type of emotions anymore, feel as I’m about to explode. to a point that I can’t focus on my job or anything else. (I was kind of a loser back then we were together. I didn’t have a stable job back then but I took care most of our finances, and she was working 2jobs to send money back to her sick mother. I was a loser because I was not a successful guy. “you know - every girls dream was to meet this good looking successful guy, get married, have kids and live happily ever after” and I wanted to be that guy for her, but I didn’t) 4years ago after she left, I worked towards to ideas and tried to achieve those. “I bought a new car, new house, worked out to get in shape… to become a better person over all” I wanted to give her that sense of security. (and she sees that, and she knows I would give the world to her, but she says she feels guilty, I have done so much for her and her family, she doesn’t want to see me get hurt again. she also need time to find herself again, when shes ready she will come looking for me.)
Here I am at the turning point of my life, (I’m not giving up on her, I still believe she will come back to me one day *I just need to give her time*) I’m deciding to move out west (not the same state as shes moving) and start a new beginning as well. I would have to work hard to start new that means I’ll be very busy, don’t have time to think about all this(I need time as well to regain myself). If we’re meat to be, then we’ll find each other again.
Geminis are normally thought to be two faced, which they are, but they’re loyal and caring to the ones they truly love.
I believe Gemini and Pisces can work out, just need a lot of work and understanding. (rainbow comes after the storm)
They both very competitive and want only what they want in life, but if they can work out those things… the relationship last a lifetime.
May 30th, 2010 at 5:18 pm
I’m a pisces woman and I am dating a gemini man.
yes, it is difficult at times because i feel as if he doesnt care about my emotions on a level that i do his; but other than it, its a really great relationship. we’re always having fun and laughing. he understands me very well and gives me great advice when needed.
fighting is interesting; i almost like it. as pisces are known to be manipulative, fighting with him is a challenge. and its never just one person winning; its both taking turns.
its definetly an exciting, never dull relationship.
June 5th, 2010 at 6:58 pm
Oh yes,
Im a piscian,The gal Im ina relation of more than friendship n less than lover is a geminian.
I always felt bad,As i feel She is not into me,Even she loved a guy,but when i react,within 1 year their relation broke up!I thouught it cud b due to my strong liking to her!Also I talk to her evry day n night,She informs me abt almost evrything!But one day i told I love u directly,She was busy in a party,cant get time,Her family knows me very well & know about mu message!She got angry n told me to not talk to her,&she never think of me like a lover!Im astonishd Now!I need her seriously,All this happen today!I think she too can leave without me,But her igo kill me,For which she can do evrything!
God Help me!I feeling Lonely……………………………..!
June 22nd, 2010 at 3:58 am
I just broke up with a Pisces woman. It lasted about 3 years. I tried so hard to address her emotional, spiritual, economic, sexual needs. The only thing we had was good sex. Berfore we broke up she told me she is going to miss my private parts the most. That hurt me. I loved her. She told me she did all the time but rarely showed it. I am hurt. Still crying. I tried so hard and it was not worth it it seems. I am having such great difficulty getting her out of my system. We have have many very intense life experiences together and I’ve come to the conclusion that she is not willing to fight for what she wants out of life. being with her made me weaker in many respects. I will miss her but it is best that I leave her TOTALLY alone. I cannot expect her to attempt to change. If she just tried I would still be with her. She gives up way too much.
I called her out of curiosity the other day. She has a new man, about 20 years older than her. I felt so hurt. I provided everything she ever needed and part of the reason why I have to remake my career is because I trust what she said about moving to the South to be closer to her kids. When I think back on it, she was going to go anyway. I was stupid for staying.
I have a very soft and kind heart; not like the average Gemini. I know I will heal.
I think I just might start paying much more attention to astrology when looking for a mate. I must not go through this again. I still cry about it.
July 12th, 2010 at 2:57 pm
We are happily married Pisces/Gemini couple. 9 years and still going strong. It has been the best years of my life. We just work, there is no other way to explain it. So all you others - i dont think it is a star sign mis-match that is the problem here….it looks more like a personal opinion or preference… or inability to sort out relationship problems, whatever your sign is.
Grow up people, its really not that complicated.
July 24th, 2010 at 4:18 am
to all; but specially to Susy (post 225) who must be married by now congratulations
couldnt agree with you from that he (Pisces) is anything but shy!!! but that could be due to the fact that he is born 20/3 which is very close to have Aries influence and without knowing the time of birth i cant define it. But we are both vain as hell when it comes to public appearanceses. But he (pisces) can be very practical when doing domestic things like cleaning house and we are both very house proud! And I can only agree with that romance and wild sex life is the best I ever had and it gets better and better all the time if thats even poss and are totally comitted to each other (a first for both of us)
July 27th, 2010 at 9:34 pm
Every thing you said in your post is true about Pisces - Gemini. Me being the female Pisces. I actually just broke up with a Gemini male who simply went in left field. I pretended not to notice as long as I could and couldn’t take anymore. When I responded, he simply withdrew almost as if he has already secretly broken off with me without telling me. Once I figured it out, he was already gone. Sad to say that is exactly what connected us. We met in Jan 2010 and I remember him telling me that he knew I was the one and cut off all connection with everyone else. As soon as we had problems that could have been tackled and worked out, rather than work them out he just simply withdrew and didn’t say a work. Never tried to work anything out. In other words he was good at being pissed off about something that he wouldn’t talk about and I would have no clue and only notice that he was acting strange. I would basically have to kiss his you know what to get it out of him (cause I’m a caring attentive pisces). But if something was bothering me it was as if he didn’t notice or care to ask what’s wrong. Let them tell it, I was playing mind games.
I’ve vented enough as a recently broken up Pisces with Gemini. Never again !!
August 3rd, 2010 at 9:37 am
I thought I’d respond, even though I’m not in a relationship with a Gemini or Pisces. I’m a Gemini woman with mars and mercury and Jupiter also in Gemini, and with a Libra moon and Pisces rising. I find Pisces men fascinating, but never “went” there. Scorpio men find me fascinating - I’ve been married to one for 35 years, and when we took a break for a year, around year ten of our marriage, I ended up dating another Scorpio man. My two children are also Scorpios. I’m also a Snake in Chinese astrology.
I think whether Geminis and Pisces will get along depends on their patterning (what is the astrological sign of their opposite sex parent (Guy’s Moms, Women’s Fathers), and also on other astrological placements in their chart (their moons, their rising signs). Also, I think Chinese astrology really effects us, maybe even more than Western astrology. I love Dragons and they love me - a Pisces dragon would probably also be quite compatible with me, even though I am a Gemini.
As for all those who are suffering at the hands of their beloved Geminis, I am so sorry! Probably because I am an early Gemini (May 24), and a snake, and have Pisces rising, I am very aware of my loved ones emotional needs, and also very into hugs, etc.
So, not all Geminis are flighty, emotionally challenged, and Mental! Good luck to all of us in our romances!
August 21st, 2010 at 1:37 am
Fab website! Great posts, keep them coming!
I’m a Pisces (3rd March ‘72), have been good friends with a Gemini (1st June ‘76). Whatever has been posted about the caring Gemini is so true. The bond, the connection is really amazing. We’ve not gone beyond this. I would like for it to, as I’ve developed feelings for him. He sometimes states a preference for women with a minimum height of 5′ 7″ as he’s almost a foot higher. Should I be reading into this? Friends tell me if a man is into a women, his checklist is thrown out the window.
Thanks in advance for any help you can offer!
August 23rd, 2010 at 6:24 am
I think it is very great
August 23rd, 2010 at 3:31 pm
Hi,
I am a gemini female and my husband is a spicies male. He’s 18 years older than I am. We have been together for 6 years now but if you count the break ups, we’ll be left with half of that, lol. We will be fine one minute and the next we’ll argue all day, basically for no reason. He is extremly jealous minded while I am very care free. Sex is usually awesome but we actually do abuse it to make up for our fights. I honestly do not know what it is I love about my husband but there is a trill in argueing and having sex like crazy after. The high and the low can be addictive. However, when it comes to our career, family and obligations we are very focus.
Personally, I think spicies requires too much and cannot cope with a gemini’s character. Dispite this, I do believe that they have the ability to work with one another likes and dislikes.
September 2nd, 2010 at 12:12 am
Gemini and picses make very good friends but in a relationship…that does not go well. However if the two want to make it work it will work but gemini and pisces are very much alike in a way. In a pride train the two go. They are very attracted to eachother for sure but relationship for the two is not a good idea
September 4th, 2010 at 8:09 am
I’m a Pisces and the only man that I have ever loved was a Gemini. He broke up with me years ago, but I still think about him to this day and wish I could have a relationship like the one that we had. It was nothing like was described here. We hardly ever fought, and he was very emotional and caring. To me, this sounds like more of my relationship that I have with a Taurus now. It’s a disaster and I have to get out of it.
September 7th, 2010 at 11:55 pm
Totally agree!! Ive dated 3 pieces males now…Im a gemini and CLASH OR WHAT!
Its werid because my bestest friend in the whole world is a pieces but he is very depressing actually almost as depressing as me but we have that friendship to hold eachother up…never would be in a relationship though..my 1st pieces i was with for 2 yrs very romantic,irrational and angry.. He wanted all or nothing and he was very i want all the attention and for a gemini girl we want attention too..He seemed to of been JELOUS and wanted me to himself, i held a very trapped lonely life whilst with him..and that ended in a explosive break-up!! the next one lasted 3 weeks…controlling jelously wanted me to be the perfect person the 3rd one lasted two months same thing jelousy and controlling, very upset all the time…But as for me i am very upbeat,alive,adventurous,loves attention,emtional,angry,happy, a proper gemini i love to travel and see the day!! so thats enough of dating pieces for me…
Im actually into a leo at the moment and were hitting it off like fire
September 8th, 2010 at 6:37 am
I’ve recently been getting to know/seeing a 29 yo Gemini woman. She seems to have all the qualities I look for in someone i.e. intelligence, humour, ambition/career, down-to-earth etc etc.
I’m a pisces and I’m 24. The first date was great, we talked a lot and got to know each other some more. The attraction is definitely there and I can see that she has a sensitive side to her, one that just wants to be appreciated and loved. She held my hand under the table and basically could not wait to kiss me after we left the bar. The next night we went out for dinner again and we were having great deep and meaningfuls about various topics. Saturday night we saw each other again and ended up spending the night/day together. The sex was pretty amazing! I think we both felt some connection.. or something at least because it was hard to let go and go home to get ready for work the next day.
I think we both felt pretty close i.e. we were constantly hugging and kissing, more than half a day/night.
It’s only been a couple of weeks but even when I first started to get to know her, I was wary of her Gemini characteristics and I don’t want to get hurt. She said “i like you a lot” to which i replied “i like you too”. But just the other night on the phone (we speak rather regularly and for hours on the phone, we seem to have a really good connection) she said that we should stop talking so much so that we don’t become “co-dependent” on each other.
Once this was said, I realised that my waryness would now be put to the test and so I have decided to back off a little.
Do I just go with the flow (which I am happy to do) or do I slowly end something before it even starts? Any suggestions are welcome
September 20th, 2010 at 1:29 am
Just what I was thinking. Your text was on the spot. To get your ex back is not the hardest of the accomplishments But it for sure may take some effort
October 24th, 2010 at 8:11 am
i’m helplessly in love with a Pisces man for the past three years. i’m Gemini and i feel as if i am alone. astrology tells me that he is very emotional and needs constant adoration. this i do all the time but he just smirks. i love talking to him, i’m always thinking about him, even unconsciously. the sex between us is hot, deep, mind-blowing, passionate, a feeling of connecting yet after its over, he somehow becomes aloof. i on the other hand, long to cuddle and kiss him dearly. i respect his alone time; i never interfere.at times, for days he is locked away in himself where i cannot reach but i patiently wait for him. it can be overbearing at times and i find myself wondering if i should concede defeat and leave. i admit our downfall is miscommunication. i open up all of myself to him, he just nods. it kills me but i love him. heart, mind and soul. i’m easily hurt by his aloofness but i quickly whisk it away. the worst blow now is that we are not written in the stars as he is ‘5 stars’ compatible with Scorpio. i don’t want to lose my Pisces man. his quiet nature eases my restlessness as he steadies my nerves yet at the same time sets me on edge. sadly i admit in a Pisces/Gemini relationship, either of us can end up deeply heartbroken over the other
October 25th, 2010 at 9:48 am
Dear C (May, 28th 2010 5:06pm)
Gemini here and I was really touched by your story, the sacrifices you made reflects true faith and courage. You really did give me a sense on how the world looks like through the eyes of the Fishes and I’m grateful that I was given the chance. I’m in a relationship with my Pisces boyfriend and it has been going on for almost 6 years and the journey was never easy; we actually do help each other grow and we’ve only realized this just recently and things finally start settling down. I know that mere words of encouragement from a random stranger may not be of any help to you but I pray what’s going on between the two of you will fall into place, despite whatever outcome. You really did touch my heart with your story and I promise I would cherish it forever. Thank you.
October 31st, 2010 at 11:59 am
Hi I’m a picses girl and have been in a relationship on and off with a Gemini mail for the past three years. When I first saw him at a party he stood out among everyone. I had never taken a relationship as seriously as this one. We started off okay, but our first break-up was soon and unexpected. Considering we barely saw each other. As we grew up and became more fond of each other we always seemed to quickly come back to each other. I admit there were some problems like trust, but through it the love is always there. Have you ever felt like even when you try someone new you’re always thinking and missing your Gemini. We’ve actually expected a child together as well, but complications with pregnancy hampered that. Also till this day we are no longer together in a “relationship” but we remain the same as we’ve ever been since that first night we met and never slept until 9 am. Honestly we love each other no matter what anybody says, because at the end of the day everybody knows that no matter how far we stray we always come back. Picses and Gemini have their troubles but you have to be strong to reap the benifit from this union.
God bless..
November 12th, 2010 at 9:07 pm
I’m a piscean, I’ve completely sworn of Gemini’s for good. The last three relationships I’ve had were all with Geminis, and they all pretty much broke my heart. But it’s so hard, since I feel like I’m a magnet for geminis, and once the attraction is there, I find it really hard to pull away.
However, one of my best friends is a gemini. we’ve been great friends ever since grade 5. I’m not saying it was easy, we fought a lot during the years, but no matter what I could never stay mad at her too long.
November 18th, 2010 at 1:01 am
Absolute bullshit.
I am a male gemini 13th june, my partner a pisces 10 years my senoir. we have been together for 5 years now and love each other more now than we did when we met.
She has been an insperation to me as a gemini and I have helped her to come out of her self and speak up.
we trust each other implicitly and for me thats a first, most girlfriends I have had even the so claled sagitarius that are supiosed to be gemini compatibal have only lasted 2 years if that, because I had troble trusting anyone, the pisces lady I am with now I have not once EVER douted.
She is my as I am her gurdian angel and I dont think we will ever part company.
December 8th, 2010 at 9:32 am
I like two guys, capricorn and gemini. If I were to put them together and make one person, he would be right for me. I am pisces and I love fun adventurous people and having my own space,freedom and independence(Easy with my gemini). I also want to feel secure in a relationship and made queen(I get that from my capricorn). Isn’t there a sign that can give me all that in one? I have good relations with both, maybe cause what I don’t get here I get there. What surprises me, I don’t even feel guilty.
January 6th, 2011 at 8:06 pm
I can tell you I have spent 9 years w/ a Pisces and I never started to check on our compatabilty pertaining to the Zodiac until recently. This post and others really made me see that I was right when I told my Pisces “we are NOT COMPATABLE!”. But they can’t let go and because they can’t let go neither can you. They always know when to become emotional instead of just plain controlling. As you are about to walk out, the emotions start coming out for them. Because you do still care for them, it makes it hard to walk away all together and you end up doing a vicious vicious circle. I never really believed in any of this until I started to look up our compatability. Everything is so so acurate. I want freedom, he wants to take it away. By the way…in answer to your question I dont think I have ever spent 2 hours w/ my Pisces where at least for a portion of it I was not thinking about something he was doing to me that made me unhappy. Or something I was doing to him that made him unhappy. Something you always hear about from the Pisces. What you should or should not be doing to them.
January 7th, 2011 at 6:38 am
Hello,
I have been with my gemini guy for one year now.
and let me tell you, I have learned
more about myself than I have ever imagined being their.
And I being a picses have showed him how to be more sincere
and caring throughout this experience.
We have been in very little arguments,
and he is very willing to negotiate and understand my side,
and likewise.
we have a very passionate relationship and I am very attracted to him
without the sex (we are 15)
I have also learned the difference between reality and the “dream-like state”
so many of us picses let devour our minds.
and I have all picses signs.
he has all gemini signs.
but i can honestly say,
he is my best friend as well as my very wonderful boyfriend.
I can honestly say I have never even considered ending this relationship,
because it has simply been full of fun and adventure,
as well as a very pleasing, romantic relationship.
January 13th, 2011 at 9:40 pm
Hi: I’m Gemini 30 and my husband now of 9 years Pisces 28. Everything everyone says on here has been accurate to the T about pisces and gemini. The only things that go on with my relationship are I am too loving and cuddly, and talk to much according to him and he doesn’t want to cuddle all the time. Plus it has seemed that after being together for 9 years the passion and love is still there.He has had his moments of not being a romantic when I really felt I needed it, but then he would tunr around and blow my mind away by doing something that I wasn’t even expecting. He is my second marriage. My first was also to a Pisces who was 3 years older than me but it was short termed because he couldn’t seem to stay out of trouble and me being young wanting someone to devote their life to me. Pisces are definitly pets and children friendly. we have two children who absolutly adore their father and our pet even though he was gotten for me, seems to follow my husband around every wheres. i have even made comments that them too are identical in personality.
We compliment each other well in many factors. What I lack in he covers for me and vice versa for me. Like the romance. I believe that has alot to do with his bringing up though. he didn’t come from a family based background like me. My parents have been married for 35 years. his mom was married twice and never really gave the motherly love a child needed. My parents based their lives around me and my siblings. So I am the same way. All I do is for my husband and my family. He asks me alot of times for advice on how he should react when it comes to discipline, romance, or even just listening because he was showed in a NON loving and abusive way to do those. I never was. He always tells me he appreciates me especially that fact that I am a social butterfly. Since he doesn’t really talk all that much I take the pressure off by doing the talking and keeping the attention on me around new people but always involving him in the conversations so he doesn’t feel ignored.
I wouldn’t trade him for anything. He has become my best firend and my life long mate. We both let each other know that everyday we appreciate one another and wouldnt know what to do if we ahdn’t of found each other. I admit it was instant attraction from the start both physically and emotionally. Alot more emotion on his side because of his upbringing. He reveled in the fact that I grew up in a two parent household that devoted all there time and energy when not at work to their children. He often at times in the beginning did get jealous of that with our kids until he realized it wasn’t right and I told him he needed to understand that I totally understood why he felt that way. Anyone would when they never received it. But he needed to learn how to join in and give also in order to recieve and reep the same benefits I did form the kids with love. He did learn and he loves it everyday. There has even been times where he would ask if he would get all the attention from the kids for the day. I never mond because I love watching them with they are with each other and it reminds me everyday on why I fell in love with him.
So to all the Geminis and Pisces out there. The only thing I can say is except who you are. If your partner trully wants to be with you and loves you they will except everything about you and compensate for what you lack in even if it annoys them.But you also have to be willing to accept what they are offering you and not take it personally like they are putting you down. We both have faults dont get me wrong and get on each others nerves sometimes, but we also know we couldnt live trully happy with out the other in our lives. We have showed each other so much in the life we have had that the other person never experienced and that in itself is why we love and adore each other.
January 14th, 2011 at 1:04 am
im the female pices and he is gemini we have been together for 5 yrs not breakups……arguements of coarse like ALL couples but we are doing great! dont know why or how but it is…..
January 19th, 2011 at 2:18 pm
I am a gemini woman and have been dating a pisce man for 3 years now going for 4. I am madly in love with my man and vise versa. We have are also talking about marraige. We have had many problems but I think all couples experience them. I think the relationship truly and honestly depends on the way people were raised.
January 20th, 2011 at 9:05 am
hi! my name is sally and i am gemini girl i ven merried with a pisces man,now we ven togethr for 12-years we got a four kids so far we both love each other,but i think i am more patient than him, and yah!our relatioship are quiet moveing well as so far.
February 2nd, 2011 at 10:19 am
Hi i am a Gemini gal (dog) , and my Bf is a picses male (tiger) we were all good in the begining .. but dnt know what happen all of sudden he wanted 2 tk a break, needed space ? now we broke up !!
but when we were together it was the best experience he used confess and dint wanted to let go of me. so is it that gemini and picsen are good match ?
February 3rd, 2011 at 6:22 pm
I am part of a gemini/pisces relationship. We have been together for 8 years now. I’m still very much in love with him. Not to say that we don’t have problems or never have had. We had a rough few years but have learned to talk more and listen better to one another. I don’t think it matters so much about what your sign is when it comes to relationships. I was in relationships with people that were supposed to be compatible with my sign and just never added up.
February 9th, 2011 at 2:31 am
Hello! I am a Pisces and my girlfriend is a Gemini, we have been together for almost two years now. While I do agree the relationship can be negative at times there are also many ups for dating another emotional sign! Together we have shared many situations and have a deep understanding of each other. I trust no one more than I trust her.
She wants to be alone at times and I let her be. It can be discouraging but whenever I feel like she’s ignoring me I always just bring it up to her and she helps by explaining. She knows she needs to be there for more a bit more at times because I’m more dependent on her than she is on me.
Also, I’m waiting for marriage to have sex so this relationship isn’t based on it at all!
So as long as you have an understanding of each other, this relationship could indeed work wonderfully!
February 14th, 2011 at 8:32 pm
I’m pisces (dog) and my hubby gemini (horse). we’v been together 8 years and are stronger than ever with 1st baby on the way. we have a wonderful relationship and love and respect each other for who we are. we definatly compliment each other.
March 4th, 2011 at 9:29 pm
@ Lilith quote : “I am pisces and my boyfriend is gemini..
My relationship with him is so frustration because i never understood him and I don’t even know if he truly likes me…One day he said he likes me and misses me and wants to be with me, next day he forget about me but talked to me like .. at night before he went to sleep. Then next day he doesn’t show his affection to me at all” but later he shows his affection to me.
AIYAH! HE HAS LIKE MULTIPERSONALITIES!
EVEN WORSE IS THAT HE HAS A WORSE ATTITUDE EVER!
“whatever” “idk” “okay” “so?” “cool”
______
Im a Gemini girl my ex was a Pisces male. All that was said above was the complains i would hear from my ex. I wasnt like that at first, it happened after i realized hes been flirting with other girls. When i would forget about it i would be me and when id remember everything hes done it would automatically ruin my mood.
March 9th, 2011 at 6:22 am
I am a gemini girl and was with a pisces man for 20 years (married ro 16 years). we hit it off instantly and alot of what you say is true even though we stayed together a long time. We argued alot but still had some very happy times together. I’m quite laid back and free spirited where as he was set in his ways and very moody. I’ve now started dating another Pisces man so it clearly hasnt put me off.
March 12th, 2011 at 3:05 am
It depends on the people in the relation. I am a pisces girl and my husband is a gemini. We have known each other since 7 years and yes its been rocking!! We have kept it going and we will I guess till the end!! But, its hard and I suggest you keep out of this combo!! (Pisces girl and Gemini man). Thye dont match!!
March 27th, 2011 at 10:57 pm
I am a female Pisces, my husband is a male Gemini. Been together for 7 years and still counting. Married also. Also have three beautiful kids. We get along great like nothing else. Yeah we fight and argue but nothing much more than any other normal couple out there.
To post that we make an awful couple is just plain WRONG. It also puts ideas in peoples minds that they shouldn’t try a relationship with a certain sign because they are not compatible. Well My husband and I are so compatible that it seems wrong. Not to mention the three beautiful children we have produced. Just because it didn’t work out for some it does for others.
We are as crazy as each other always up to something.
May 10th, 2011 at 5:06 pm
OMG - Gemini woman here hit hard by a Pisces man 25 years ago and I still can’t forget him! Recently saw him online and it brought back all those memories/feelings. Very intense relationship that ended abruptly by him, caused by my insensitive behavior (at least this is what I think caused it - I still do no know to this day). Was left dazed and confused. Afterwards I tried contacting him several times to no avail (this was back in the day when there were no cell phones/e-mail). Problem is I never got over him - I never had any closure. Tried contacting him recently (just said hi and asked him how he’s been, no mention of past) - again, no response. Why does he torture me so??? Why do I still care? After reading all the posts here, I’m beginning to understand why. I’m thinking about sending him a letter apologizing for my behavior but also thanking him for being a part of my life (he taught me about unconditional love and the effects my words/actions can have on another). Is it worth the effort 25 years later?
May 20th, 2011 at 10:11 am
Comment on Kit’s comment: Wow, I am glad there is some happy stories out here and would love to hear more about how it works out! I am a Pisces woman living with a Gemini man. We have only been together for 2 years, but I have found my best friend for life. All the negative things Ive heard about this unison, is the opposite for us. He is definately fickle, dreams of adventure and travels. He thinks alot and is always bubbling about some new theory or idea he has got. It entertains me immensely and I love having someone who is always chatting away, as I grew up in a big chatty and lively family home. He shys away from emotional scenes only when it is public though, and looks uncomfortable around people who shows alot of love and affection. But, strangely enough, I think as uncomfortable as he looks around emotional displays, he does yearn for it, because when we are alone, he can be very needy for emotional and affectionate attention from my side. When we are at home I am constantly showered with hugs and kisses and he loves cuddling. I am not a typically emotionally needy Pisces, and i can feel smothered very quickly, but i feel the attention i get from my Gemini is just enough. We are insync when it comes to that. Being Pisces, the only thing that irritates him, is when i am not communicating with him, if i daydream or if some complicated matter is on my mind, he wants to know exactly what i think, and sometimes I just dont have an clear answer at that point as my thoughts are not always concrete enough to communicate.
When I was young, I dreamed about a man who would be more of a rock to me than a gemini can be. But i soon found out of experience, that those kind of relationships where the strong confident man takes the lead, made me a weaker person. I lost my sense of self, my individuality and my freedom in that relationship. With Gemini, it feels that for the first time I can hold on to my own identity. He is smart, open minded and grasps any concept under the sun easily, and i love having an intellectual person as a partner who can understand any thought or concept I am bringing to the conversation.
i guess what makes us work is that we challenge each other physically and intellectually. Emotionally, i think he could need some work, but it doesnt bother me much at all. He is a keen listener when i am having a bad day, and even though he won’t be good at any emotional advise in that sense, his arms are always open for a geniune understanding hug. He knows i am a smart enough woman and able to sort through my feelings quickly and effectively. What matters to me most is that he gives the support, regardless in what form that support is.
He definately has a natural charm with the ladies, and instead of getting jealous, we will be open and honest about it and it soon gets turned into a joke. I trust him and he definately knows where to draw the line though. For him it is just about the flair of the game and the conversation, and not about actually picking up other woman. Part of it is because he always loves making statements or comments which will trigger a wanted reaction with other people and prides himself if he gets the reaction he wants. That same game gets played on me more often than not too :-D. I am amused by him and he brings a sweet lightness and simplicity to my life which i wouldnt trade for anything. I just wished more pisces and gemini’s could understand each other better such as they way we do, because it truely is a binding and wonderful bond we have formed with each other.
May 29th, 2011 at 6:05 pm
Well Im gemini girl and Im kind of complicated in way because of my date of birth is in November, I meant to be scorpio its because Im hindu. But Im here to tell that on facebook I added this girl on my friends list and I just find out that she’s pieces and I don’t know if the friendship will go together? And please give me advices.
June 12th, 2011 at 3:41 pm
Im a pisces girl dating a gemini boy whom I have now been together with for about a year.It also started as a friendship.What I can say from my experience is that in gemini mans world, being in a relationship is pretty much the same as having a friendship(just sex added).He is the kind of man who will rarely put his girlfriend as his 1.priority.It gets frustrating when his hobbys and buddys seem to be more important than I am..And sometimes emotional blackmail is the only way I get him to notice how sad I am.
The pisces part will definetly make most of the sacrifices in this realtionship.But its really difficult to find a boy that is so charming,kind-hearted and somehow diffrent from all the other guys just like a gemini boy is.
If you love him than you will learn how to ignore the fact that he is not always “there for you”,because when he is,he is there 100%!!
June 16th, 2011 at 2:17 pm
I am 25 and a true gemini and I started dating a pisces male a few months ago. I am madly in love and I feel like nothing could break us. He is so caring, attentive, romantic and loving. He feels like my sould mate. I was a little worried that the pisces and gemini match would not work but I looked into it and saw my venus is in cancer and his is in aquarius. Maybe that has to do with the compatability. I have never been so happy with anyone!
August 6th, 2011 at 9:05 pm
I really appreciate the comments on this thread, especially the ones from those who keep an open mind about this relationship (pisces lady, missy, john, etc.). It really helped me understand myself and my partner. I’m a pisces man, and my ex girlfriend is a gemini. She ended the relationship a few months ago, but I still want to make it work!! It’s a very, very complicated situation with all kinds of outside influences, obstacles, and yet has a lot of hope and fate attached to it. I’ve looked into the coupling of gemini/pisces and I’ve come up with an analogy (I know, typical thing for a Pisces to do, huh lol).
Have you ever been to a movie that had an amazing opening scene, but then kind of lagged in the middle, but then really picked up and finished strong at the end? That’s kind of what this relationship is like. If you get too bored and walk out of the movie too early, you might miss out on an amazing film. But if the film takes too long to stimulate the audience, then it’ll lose it’s viewers.
To the Gemini’s out there, your Pisces can teach you patience and compassion (something you’re probably lacking in your life, but wish you had more of).
To the Pisces, your Gemini can keep you on your toes and get your head out of the clouds (something you probably need in your life, too)
To make this work, BOTH of you have to be open, patient, and willing to meet each other half-way. If neither of you are willing to do that, or if only one partner is willing, then it probably won’t work. If you work through the difficulties, I believe you’ll both be pleasantly surprised with what you’re able to bring out of each other, and how fulfilling this union can truly be.
Right now my ex is not willing to make it work, and that’s mostly due to her need to focus on herself right now. She’s spent much of her adult life in relationships, and has never had time to focus on herself. She knows how this relationship would be a serious commitment, but she’s not emotionally ready for that at this point in her life. She’s such an amazing person, and I see so much growth and potential inside of her. But as tough as it is to admit, I can’t be responsible for bringing that growth out of her; I can only inspire her to bring it out of herself. I’ve been put on “the back burner” many times before in my life, and normally I refuse to subject myself to that. But this time I refuse to give up early on a love this strong. So I will give her space, and continue to keep her in my heart and let this love transform me into a better person each day. I really don’t know if it’s going to work out between us, but I’ve learned that if I’m not willing to fight for someone, then I don’t really deserve that person in the first place.
The universe is definitely using her as a conduit to tell me something, and I believe the same holds true for her, too.
I wish all of you nothing but life, love, and happiness…
August 26th, 2011 at 9:34 am
I’m an aquarius-pisces and my boyfriend is a gemini. In the beginning of our relationship We had already gone through alot together in a short amount of time, and it brought us closer and gave us a stronger foundation to work from. He is the balance I need in practical everyday ways and I’m the soft spot he needs after a rough and adventurous day. Being a pisces, I can find the beauty in the “kid” side of his personality, and his imagination allows him to see the possiblity of my dreams that most people don’t understand. We work in partnership with each other with most things, and when a disagreement arises, being the natural communicator he is, he is able to get me out of my closed up shell to talk things out whereas most people wouldn’t be able to, and I’m able to clue in on when he just needs his space, or needs to shift to something less heavy on his mind. It works great.. and yes everyone is right- the sex is amazing! My birthday is Feb 20. His is May 29. We are both in our 30’s, and pretty much have a good idea of what we want, and work together to get it. All I know is, we love each other unconditionally- each side, each twin.
August 27th, 2011 at 2:21 am
I’ve been with my Gemini for 5 years, yes like any other couple we’ve had are ups and downs.
not what i was expecting.
When we i first sore him it was instant attraction, but that turned into dislike when working together. After 2 years of working together i fell hard for him, i am besotted with him and can’t shake him off AND I DONT WANT TO. i’m happy that he always wants Me, yes i can be up in the air and i love to be loved, and want to be cuddled. i know he doesn’t want to be tied at my hip and i’m ok with that, as long as i have my kiss good bye, and when saying hello and few in the middle and cuddle good night then i’m happy (its not a lot to ask) i love him because hes great fun always makes me laugh is there if i need somone to talk to, and he can make me feel like i’m on top of the world and that i can do anything, but he only make me unhappy when hes unhappy because i do feel that i’ve done somthing wrong but its not its work or hes tired yes i do like a lot of attension but 90% of the time he likes to give me that attension and i wouldn’t like to think i blackmail him into staying with me.
As long as hes happy and i’m happy thats all i care about but i think i need some luck after hearing some people responce
My parents are also gemini and pieces couple and have been together fo 32yrs and they work hard for there relationship. It about loving and being there for that person, your best friend… i do feel i found my soul mate and hope that will never change.
Sometimes life is hard people grow apart, but was gutted when reading that pieces and gemimi aren’t a good match i hope this isn’t the cause for us
August 31st, 2011 at 5:54 am
My uncle is a Gemini Ox and my his wife is a Pisces Dragon. They are such a good pairing, and have been together for well over 30 years. He is a stubborn little bull but she is a tough and doesn’t let him get away with anything! It’s such a lovely relationship to have witnessed there is such love and understanding there. I have never seen them fight or argue I would imagine it would be rather interesting.
September 17th, 2011 at 4:45 pm
After my year-long dating experience with a Pisces male as well and several contacts with other Pisces males, I would never give it another chance. For some unknown reason, not a one of them could see Gemini female for who she was. Every one of them was over-emotional and stuck inside their own heads. I haven’t dated the Pisces I mentioned above for a over a year and yet he still hovers from time to time at my place of employment. Does he have any intentions towards me? No! He is still full of himself. I’m not exactly sure why he keeps coming around but undoubtedly it’s not derived from anything honorable.
I don’t wish to sound entirely negative about Pisces males. I know they can be tender, affectionate and loyal but only so far as their minds are stable and they ignore tendencies to believe the emotional things they dream up.
October 3rd, 2011 at 7:49 am
1 year and counting. I am the pisces half and he is the gemini. We couldn’t be happier.
October 21st, 2011 at 7:04 pm
Im a gemini female and my ex is a picses man. He was very emotional, jealous and needy. We were madly in love and best friends. I didnt show him much affection and he ended up having an affair. Our relationship was destructive and unhealthy but we always ended up in each others arms.
October 26th, 2011 at 4:07 am
My best friend is a gemini and I have to say we’re strangely compatible.
Im 1 3rd Decan Pisces hes a 2nd Decan Gemini.
We really understand each other we do get angry at each other sometimes but I feel like gemini really helps pull pisces into reality.They feel like two of the same signs except ones a childish and sometimes insensitive guy and the other is a more mature and occasionally (like most women) emotional.
No body is perfect.
Ps:We aren’t together simply because he is seeing someone.
March 12th, 2012 at 2:09 pm
Hello,
I’m a Pisces male (21) dating a Gemini female (23). We started dating when I was 20 and have had
our shares of ups and downs. She’s a very sweet woman and I love her very much. Sometimes we collide heads on issue concerning politics or world issues we’d like to see be handled differently. We realized though, after a couple of times of having heated discussions, it really doesn’t matter. I’ve struggled to open up in our relationship but feel myself changing everyday.I feel that our personalities are being swapped. She’s becoming more sensative, while I’m becoming more distant. In previous relationships, I was always upfront and could express how I feel with whoever I was dating.When we first started dating, It was honestly love at first sight. I was sucked in by her intellect, looks and eyes. But, she was a little rough around the edges because of being hurt in past relationships. We are now in our 7th month of dating and I feel that we are changing for the better but at the same time I’m really wondering what’s going on with my personality and is it a good thing for me to change?
March 12th, 2012 at 2:12 pm
Also! My birthday is 2/21 and hers is 6/12
If there is anyone who can help by looking at our charts, it would be greatly appreciated. And if you need more info email me
wweshowcena@gmail.com
March 31st, 2012 at 5:07 pm
I have been with a pieces guy since 2007. Then we got married in July 2010. We have our disagreements. We split up for a month before we got married. He put flowers on my car about once a week. My pieces man can be difficult at times. We have a lot of fun together though and our happy together. It can be challenging, but I feel like any relationship can be. We have to work on those problems and communicate what is bothering us. We are almost on our two year aniversry this summer. I can’t wait for more great years with my husband. I am almost 30 am totally dedicated to my pieces.
March 31st, 2012 at 5:16 pm
I am sorry. We split up for 3 months in a two year period. That is when he put flowers on my car. Then were together for a year before we got married. He actually printed the wedding invitations and helped plan the wedding. Which a storm made some people leave early, but all our close relatives stayed. Its fun to dance in the rain.
April 1st, 2012 at 7:20 pm
I am a gemini woman eternally in love with the most wonderful pisces woman! There are many things to say about this particular gemeni-pisces relationship, nevertheless i won’t go into much details. We had and still have a tumultuous relationship, but geminis love a challenge and pisces are empathic ;)I felt madly in love, from the very beginning, with this very sharp, responsive, intriguing pisces woman… The odd thing is that i needed and wanted stability (gemeni) while she (pisces) wanted to be more independent. What’s well pointed out is that pisces dislike the flamboyant, superficial, amoral, indifferent ways of geminis and geminis dislike the pessimism, martyr-ism, confused, impractical bits of the pisces partner. At the end of it all, what i know for sure is that everybody has qualities and defects and you’ll always find something you love and something you hate in someone, no matter the zodiac sign. Zodiacs may give you a 10 out of 10 on a compatibility chart with someone and you’d still end up disliking the relationship and call it quits. So pay no attention to the statistics of this combination(’s durability).
Why am i here?! Im here because i love her! And as i am aware of the differences between us and as i want this match to be for the rest of my life, i thought about looking for ways to connect with her on an even deeper level…
For all of those looking for a bit of reassurance (this includes myself) that this is a a good match on the long run, look no more! IT IS! Remember to be open, honest, forgiving and to laugh!
I love you, my incredible condor…