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Pisces and Gemini
I think this could be a short post. Pisces and Gemini do not make a good match. The two most emotional signs in one room? That’s asking for trouble. They will undoubtedly fall for one another when they first meet and if they don’t they will have a very strong dislike for each other. It’s either all or nothing and no in-between with these two.
There are a couple of things that may stop this union from ending when it probably should, and that is emotional blackmail on the Pisces part, the Gemini will fall for it, one look into the deep watery eyes of the Pisces and it’s back to square one again. The other thing holding them together will be attraction. The sex will be quite explosive which mainly stems from their frustration with one another. They can also get into each other’s minds very well, and although that may sound great, it isn’t. Sadly, this is a destructive relationship.
The Gemini half can be quite thoughtless at times and may neglect the emotional needs of their Pisces partner. This will not go down well at all as the Pisces wants and expects to be adored all the time. The Gemini simply has to much else to do than to spend all day doting on somebody. Also the Gemini can disappear into other worlds at times, worlds of their own making, leaving the Pisces to feel left out in the cold. Although the Pisces can too be dreamy, they rarely actually seem to ‘leave’ altogether as the Gemini does. This leads to yet more frustration.
I have been in one such relationship (me being the Gemini half) and I can’t tell you how utterly awful it was in so many ways. The love was there, but neither of us new what it was we loved about each other. Perhaps the mind games keep these two locked in with each other. I do not know. Sorry I haven’t much good to say, but at least this post is longer than I thought it would be. Also if their are any couples out there belonging to these signs and in the up-most happiness (for more than two hours) please let me know.
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I have been in a relationships that happened fast. I’m the Gemini(tiger) male, she’s the Pisces(snake). the snake part seems to double the ellusive mysterious parts of her nature to the point that I din’t trust her. Yet I cannot figure out what I love so much about her. This post is insightful because it’s right on the mark. Total perfection seems so close yet so far as she is a major drama queen that refuses to see herself that way. She is a chaos creator too.
I’m still in this one, but strongly re-considering.
yeh me (gemini) and my boyfriend (pisces) have been together for 2 years now. I found although we love each other 2 pieces. He could be very jealous and insecure and me very nangry and short tempered
My best friend is Gemini and I’m Pisces(Goat) and Yes they get along together yes there are please believed me and the other comment that people who post comment
YES GEMINI AND PISCES GET ALONG!
I’m a pisces and have in the last year made a male gemini friend. We do get along and he said he can tell me a lot of personal stuff. But my god, it has been the most difficult friendship i have ever had! For reasons i’m gonna leave out i’ve kind of exploded at him (more than once)
Maybe the pisces IS the more difficult of the two?
I have strong Pices streak, and the bit about geminis and pices getting along is only ture sometimes.
Hi Every one!
I think that with the Pisces and Gemini it’s that they like the idea of each other and maybe even want to be like one another in some ways. But I still don’t think that long term this could ever work out unless your chart was Water based perhaps….
It’s great to know what you all think, thank you all so much for yoour input!
Love & Light
Becky
I am Pisces woman and my boyfriend a Gemini, we are both 23, been together for close to 8 years now. We can argue and we love to piss each other off but we love each other very much and we are best friends.
Also about charts being water based, not the case here. Both of us have a majority of fire in our charts. I really think it is going to depend on the people in the relationship, their personalities, the way they were raised.
I’m A Gemini And I Have Been Dating My Boyfriend Who Is A Pisces For About A Year And Two Months.
Were Also Engaged.
My girlfriend and I have been together for a much fun nine months - yes she’s a crazy pisces and I’m an annoying Gemini. There’s alot too what been said above, but does that make me love her less or not feel excited about our differences.. no, its just makes the relationship a lot more fun… plus the sex is awesome… and we’re so tender with each other… I miss her even when she just steps out of the room…
Hi everyone,
Gemini and Pisces certainly seem to attract each other in droves thats for sure. And of course it dosen’t mean that you can’t love each other etc I was madly in love with my ex Pisces! But it isnt an easy combination! One onlyt has to look at Jordan and Peter Andre to see that, however a lot is determined by the rest of your chart also.
Love & Light
Becky
I (gemini) was together with a Pisces for a bit more than 2 years… and quite honestly I am happy that it is over.
When I read this post I just felt that it matched our situation almost perfectly. I have experienced the “emotional blackmail” part too many times… and he often felt that I did not give him enough attention.
Although, I think it was a good experience (the sex really was amazing!) and I have learned that Pisces men maybe just isn’t for me.
Hi Sarah,
It’s an emotionally draining experience, especially for us Gemini girls. And as we all know great sex is good and everything but when the rest of it isn’t going so well it really isn’t that important! Good luck for future realtionships!
Love & Light
Becky
Pisces girls and Gemini Boys should stay away from each other. There is a really strong attraction but resist the temptation!! My ex bf was a Gemini and everyday was drama and chaos. But when we did get along which was like 5 days in a month, it was amazing. Is it worth it?
Hi! Im a gemini girl, totally in love with my pisces man. We have been together for 3 years now, and we have made it work. Pisces are such romantics! and they listen, and they snuggle and hold hands and totally commit themselves to you if they love you. We have been through our ups and downs, but who hasnt? We alsways have something to talk about, and he would give me the world if he could.
Downfall..they like to dream in alchol (one which my pisces guy is working on to quit) and they usually dont have stable jobs. I married a cancer man, was married for 15 years, but he never showed so much romance as a pisces does, and I love the romance! They are very good with pets and children also, and love to explore. What a change!
They are moody, but I just let mine go be by himself, and when he emerges from his cave, he is th neatest guy. We both crave our space, so this also works, and when we want to be together, we are snuggling ,holding hands and just enjoy being together. We will probably never marry, I dont think that would work. Then again, I really dont want to remarry. Both of us have been married twice.
So can Gemini and pisces get along? Absolutly! YOu both have to make it work!
Hi Lisa,
Thank you for your comment and your experience, I am also glad it has been a positive one. I would love to do your charts!! I imagine they must both be full of different aspects which compliment each other. I also think you are a very patient Gemini!
I wish you luck with your Pisces, but I do not believe this match can work for everyone, you two have MADE it work as you say, not everyone is willing to do so. Good for you!
Love & Light
Becky
the compatibility traits for pisces and gemini relationship has hit right on target for me. i am a pisces woman and my boyfriend and father of my children is a gemini. this is a thirteen year old relationship (we are both 26) and it has been nothing short of a rollercoaster ride. he is insensitive and uncaring and i am to emotional and craves romance and affection that he is not willing to give. he wants total freedom and i want to be included in his “busy” life. there is always conflict yet we have passionate sex and maybe get along with each other two or three days out of the week. this is just to aloof for me the sensitive pisces who only wants an occasional baby i love you or you look nice today and maybe a hug from the gemini who says this is the real world and people dont do that. is a hug or a kiss on the cheek so much to ask from the one you love? would i be wrong if i went elsewhere to seek this denied affection?
odyssey..
After reading your post, you said you both are now 26, and have been together 13 years? That means you have been together since you were 13 yrs old? Maybe it is not the signs, but maybe you two have never really been with anyone but each other. That in itself can cause problems I feel. Maybe Im wronge. And what you said about your gemini husband never shows you affection, that just doesnt sound right! I being th Gemini love to give affection, sometimes too much affection. But you must understand, not that I am bashing marriages, but once you get married, the honeymoon is pretty much over.
This is why I will never marry my pisces guy. Not that I dont love him, but I know things would change as soon as we were to tie the knot. The romance would be gone. Everythig I have read about pisces, points to them yes, beng devoted to family, but also need long times alone. I already have this in a non married relationship, we do not live together,because sometimes I need my down time to think.
I must say, that this is so unlikely a gemini.May I suggest maybe counciling for both of you, sounds like with kids, maybe you both dont have the “us” time you both need (this is what happened to myself and my 2nd ex) we had four kids and no time for ourselves. It divided us, and by the time we finally figured it out, it was sadly to late (my ex was a cancer), he found someone else.
I do hope you and your husband work this out, it is so sad to hear this from such a young person like yourself. Your good at feeling our emotions, and he being the Gemini, will listen to you, if yo take the time to talk. Oh one hint,speaking with your husband, do not demand or yell, we Geminis dont care for that kinda thing!
Take care
HI!!
Im a girl (pisces) and my best friend who is a girl too is Gemini. We always fight but still we confide and trust each other. I am very emotional. She is very mental.
I also have a crush now - a Gemini guy. He is the reason why I am on this page..I want to know how to win him. I really like him. We are friends. But he acts so aloof and very mental too. Despite everything I read about the compatibility between Pisces girls and Gemini guys, I still wanna try being with him.
Oh yes, Gemini and Pisces really do attract each other… I thought I’d learned, but noo… I still seem to fall for Pisces men, despite bad experiences. No matter, the irony in it all is interesting enough.
I have been in a relationship with a gemini man i’m pisces, he
s 30 and I’m 33. We have been together for 1.5 years. I love him very much but it is drama completely in this here. First of all we don’t trust each other, he has had women calling his phone and we live together. We break up at least once a month but we can’t stand to be apart more than 3 days, it makes me sick but I don’t want to end it and I don’t know why. Yes..the sex is wonderful but i am more OPEN to new and explorative sexual activities than he. He is very attentative and I am less he always says that I am not giving him enough attention, he’s clingy. Anytime i leave the room or the house he askes where are you going, how long are you going to be gone and should i go with you? Come on…give me a break, but I love him so much. Sometimes I can be clingy but I’m always concerned about him cheating because of these women that use to call his phone, but had that not happened I would not have any concern I am not a jealous person. I question this relationship all the time but I can’t leave..don’t want to. Our biggest problem is trust…I don’t cheat but I’m concerned about him. Other than that he tells me he loves me each night before we go to sleep, he massages me (not as much as I would like), he cooks, shops and is always concerned about what I want, need and if he can do anything to make me happy…he’s wonderful in that aspect of the relationship. I think this can work…but for now he’s proving to me that he’s faithful and wants only me, lets see how that works.
Don’t knock the picses and gemini relationship. I think it all depends on the two people and if they really want to work toward making it work.
I am a gemini and have been with my piscean for 5 years. He recently proposed, but I find myself suddenly caged and like it was mentioned above, emotionally blackmailed. He popped the question on a plane where there was no privacy and I felt in more ways than one, forced to say yes and not hurt his feelings. The worst part is that I have suddenly developed feelings for an Aquarian friend and can’t understand what is happening to me!
I’ve had an on-again, off-again relationship with a Pisces man. I’m a gemini woman. When we met, he wouldn’t stop calling me. He would call me 5,6,7 times a day. We were really attracted to one another and shared very intimate details with eachother. Then he withdrew from me emotionally. Said that he was not ready to date. I’m not usually very emotional, but I found myself pouring my heart out and he just ignored me or made jokes about it. After that, he said that I’d been such a good friend to him and he did’nt want that to stop.
I was so hurt and angry. I just wanted him to leave me alone. I tried to extricate myself from the relationship, but he kept emailing me, saying that he wasn’t going to give up on the friendship. We met up recently and my eyes are finally open. He was an emotional manipulator of the first order and I fell into the trap. But you live and learn. I’ll never make that mistake again.
This is more in response to the above comment from Liz. I may be biased since I am a pisces male, but pisces and gemini are on two different wave lengths. A pisces might try to joke about problems, simply because thats how they deal with theirs. A pisces feels entirely about even the smallest of concerns, but quite frankly is very unable to cope in healthy ways much of the time. Especially males. And to put it gently Gemini’s are most notably cerebral, so perhaps through miss communication a pisces might not grasp Gemini’s outpouring of feelings, simply because they don’t recognize them as such.
OH MY GOD! I AGREE WITH whomever said the comment about Gemini boys and Pisces Girls…They are NOT RIGHT FOR EACH OTHER but boy, what attraction exsists! I cannot think of a stronger pull then a Gemini’s stare…
I have had 2 exes that were Gemninis and they are LEGENDARY in their sexiness…to the point that my girlfriends to this day (years later) always say “ooh remember Tim or Ernesto?) These are some DANGEROUSLY Sexy men…..Holy Moly!
BUT BUT BUT they lack sensitivity when push comes to shove…oh my! That sexy stare you have been so attracted to will turn into a cold one, if there is every a problem…They have not developed in that area….
Pisces PLEASE WATCH OUT! You are not equipped for this…The Gemini will pull you in and sort of overwhelm you and want to lock you up for days and well “You know” and say its a relationship (without the depth of course)
but YOU NEED DEPTH….YOURE A FISH…YOU WILL DROWN without deep water….
I am a Gemini in love with a Pisces man. We do have communication issues but have great sex. We both give eachother a lot of space and have fun when we’re together. He doesn’t have a good paying job and he isn’t living on his own. I am more of a go-getter than he is, which bothers me. But all in all I don’t want to leave him because the emotions that we feel for eachother is strong and I haven’t felt this comfortable with a man before.
Perhaps you can look at our charts.
Gemini (me) May 27 1985
Pisces (my bf) Feb 21 1983
I’d love to know what you think. We have been considering being together for a long time… I am wondering how that will play out. Because we surely need to work on the communication.
-Mona
simone..I know what your talking about girl, and my birthday is also 5-27-60 and my male pisces is 3-20-65. Mine happens to enjoy doing all kinds of things like I do, but we do require our down time and space, which we have both worked out. Maybe she can work our charts too. This should be verrryyy intresting!
Hmmm…I’m scratching my head as I read all the negative things about this match because I haven’t had any of these problems. I’m a 26 year old pisces girl (dog) and my boyfriend is a 30 year old gemini (horse). We met a couple months ago and quickly moved to bf/gf status within one. This isn’t a typical pattern for either one of us, but this case is different. We get along so well, that it’s almost scary. We have a ton in common and yet are different enough so that we don’t get bored. Communicating is effortless and it just feels natural to be around each other. Plus we joke around, share laughs, and have a great time in the bedroom. I have to admit I was skepitcal because supposedly my matches are scorpio, taurus, and cancer, but I’ve never had any luck with them. In fact they hardly ever come on to me. It’s just weird how we’ve come together…to be honest I don’t even get it, but it just works. Hopefully it’ll be smooth sailing for us in the future even though I’m sure we’ll have some problems like any couple, but this feels like the “real deal.”
Премного благодарна за пост, а ведь это действительно тема
В мемориз однозначно, пригодится! 
The above description of the Pisces man and Gemini woman seemed to hit right on the nose.
I’m a Gemini gal who was dating a Pisces guy and on our first meeting, the attraction was very obvious. The sex is amazing to say the least.
The emotional blackmail hit a button with me because I can indentify it but fall victim to it everytime. This Pisces man literally pouts when he doesn’t get his way.
I’ve tried to walk away and he has done a number on me and we end up back at square one.
I find him frustrating…as now he is wanting to walk away after he’s sucked me back in.
Is this a Pisces man trait? To back away if things are getting to intense?
hey am gemmni girl in love with a pisces guy we are in luv 5since 5yrs ago
we had a lot of problems but who doesnt??
i think its not only about signs (i do belive in them )
but its about how deep is ur luv hw u wanna keep it and die for it
keep it up and if u want u can
i am in the boat with dianne….i am a pisces woman (dragon) in absolute love with my gemini (monkey) man…it was crazy how fast things developed, he is in every way everything i have ever needed from a man. i don’t understand why people say geminis don’t have the emotional depth, my man is just as emotional and deep as i am, and so deeply committed to me that others might see it as obsessive. i, on the other hand, love it, and have the same level of commitment to him. we have stood up to many of life’s challenges already, the biggest being the distance between us when we first became involved (he was from the uk, me the us), and have come out stronger and more in love than ever…i hope that others can feel the way i do about him for someone, the world would be a better place for it
Hi! I am a gemini(girl) & was in love well still in love with my ex boyfriend(pisces). We were in love telling everyone how happy we we’re together. We fought all the time. I the gemini was very selfish & bitchy @ times. He on the other had alwayz wanted to hang out all the time. We two thought that we’d be together forever. & yes the sex was the bomb, so good, so fine. I loved it. But I guess it didn’t work. Still hoping someday it will. We were together for 3 years since high school. We were the boy & girl that lived next door. For real, we were. Anyway we argued all the time. He was a sweet heart, charming, everything. Well in the end it was bad, but hoping it will be someday & he’ll come around.
HI ME AS A PISCES MALE AND MY GIRLFRIEND AS GEMINI FEMALE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 3 MONTHS AND YES IT IS VERY TRUE HOW WE CAN READ EACH OTHERS MINDS SHE IS VERY OUTGOING I WAS NEVER BUT NOW I AM. WE ARE HITTING IT OFF GREAT I AM VERY EMOTIONAL BUT I LET HER KNOW WHATS BOTHERING ME I THINK IF THE PISCES MALE DOESN’T TELL THE GEMINI WHATS ON HIS MIND THATS WHEN THE RELATIONSHIP GOES DOWNHILL IF THEY ARE BOTH OPEN TO EACH OTHER AND COMMUNICATE THEN I THINK THIS WILL BE A MATCH MADE IN HEAVEN…
I’m a pisces, and went out with a Gemni, so it works out pretty well. The guy I like right now is also a Gemni, and he’s sooo sweet to me, treats me like a person.
i’m a pisces girl and i like a guy who’s a gemini. he is the most complicated guy i’ve ever met. he’ll flirt with me one day and want me then the next he’s flirting with my friend who he says he’d never like. most guys are extremely simple but this on the other hand is a whole other story.
Gemini girl here… was involved with a younger pisces, can’t remember which year. I think he was 4 years older than I (approximately 34 now) and we fought all the time.
Now contemplating a pisces(tiger) and it’s just in the beginning stages but it is so much nicer. I think it’s possible that it could work out fine. I doubt we’ll have as many problems as I and the younger pisces guy did.
Hi.
I dated a Gemini for almost 3 years and I have to tell you it was very intense. There seemed to be a soul tie that we had a very hard time cutting. He was very jealous and controlling (would monitor every thing I did). He would usually be the one to use “emotional blackmail” and played a countless number of mind games to ensure it worked. The only thing good about the whole thing was the sex. We were both very creative and open with each other in the bedroom, which was probably one of the reasons we had a hard time ending it. He had a very bad temper and was extremely insecure. People wondered why I wouldn’t leave the relationship–but, true to my sign, I guess I stayed to play the part of the martyr. So glad that’s over.
On the flip side, my best friend is a gemini. We’ve been inseperable for more that 20 years now. Sure, we’ve had our spells, but we truly believe we packed our bags and came to this world together.
Gemini male here. I have three questions. I was born on May 21 77. According to most horiscopes I’m a Gemini, however some say I’m a Taurus. Which am I? Does being on the cusp help or hurt having a relationship with a Pisces. Secondly, For some reason my last three relationships have been with Pisces women. In reading the comments here I better understand why things did not work out with either of them. I don’t know why but I have a strong attraction or luck for Pisces women. Is sarcasm a big negative for Pisces?
Izzy,
I can understand your attraction to pisces–we are rather amazing people.
Ah, but seriously…I’m sure it’s possible to have a successful relationship with a Pisces, I just think each sun sign has certain tendencies that aren’t always complimentary to the other, and therefore, would require a lot of compromise (something not too many people are willing to dish out these days). But, anything IS possible. My ex-boyfriend and I had something magnetic, meaning it was very difficult to break away. But it wasn’t a healthy relationship at all.
As for the sarcasm. I, personally, am not crazy about it, but it definitely depends on the nature of it. And keep in mind, there’s a difference between “sarcasm” and “smart-ass” yet the line between them can be very faint for some. Just be wise with your words. Lucky for you, most pisces can forgive rather quickly (assuming an apology is sincere {and we know the difference}), but continue…and you’ll find we aren’t so easy to forget.
These are just my 2 cents.
Good luck on your journies!
Jen
I am pisces and my boyfriend is gemini..
My relationship with him is so frustration because i never understood him and I don’t even know if he truly likes me. I’m 18 and he’s 19
One day he said he likes me and misses me and wants to be with me
next day he forget about me but talked to me like .. at night before he went to sleep.
then next day he doesn’t show his affection to me at all
but later he shows his affection to me.
AIYAH! HE HAS LIKE MULTIPERSONALITIES!
EVEN WORSE IS THAT HE HAS A WORSE ATTITUDE EVER!
“whatever” “idk” “okay” “so?” “cool”
so when i broke up with him.. and he got really upset and mad. and ignored me for days.
then asked me to go back together with him. and made the relationship officially again
so i set my facebook to in a relationship and send a request to him to accept it so that my status will says “in a rleationship with ___ but he didn’t confirm it even though he went on!!
HE CONFUSED ME!
I am a gemini girl who’s seeing a pisces man for about 10 months now and so far things been great but weird. we got into two really bad fights because we were both intoxicated….lol but besides that he’s been so sweet, loving and really a caring person. He’s there when i need some one to talk to. He might get alittle jeoulous at times but doesn’t show it. He’s really easy on his feelings towards things. Reading everyone elses comments it’s funny cause some stuff are true and some are not , but i’m hoping things will work out between us cause i really love him and he loves me god bless our relationship.
me n dis gemini has been frens 4 a year now.he told me he liked me da first 3 months of our frenship but i sensed it was only 4 sex..so i passed.back again in june he came telling me he likes me..i passed again.he tells all his frens we have a love thing goig on..its carzy.i like him alot but hes da original gemini player with all his girlfrens. he has tons of girl frens but yet still is extremely jealous and possessive wen it comes 2 me.i can’t talk 2 any guy infront of him with out him glaring at me/distracting the guy from me.practically every girl he dated,dates or is planning 2 date..hates my ass.dey sey dat he always talks about me. he tells me he has everyone on stand by just 4 me but he doesn’t understand me.the passion is strong between us even though we r very on an off an we can’t do with out each other.there was a time we went without speaking to each other 4 a month an he just kept staring at me wen he saw me. we were at a fete an he was burnibg with jealousy wen i was dancing with a cute guy (scorpio) and he was about 2 cry.everyone says dat one day we’ll hook up but he really doesn’t understand me an tries 2 hide his true feelings.at times he cud treat me most cruely but i stay like a damsel in distress praying one day dis mess will be da best.
I am a Gemini Girl and I have been with a Pisces man for a year. And yes the sex is explosive, but there is so much more. I think it depends on the people involved, because not every Gemini or pisces is the completely the same. I know I can be emotional distance and he knows he can be very sensitive so we try to met each other half way. Strangely I love spending whole days with my guy when I am not at work. Oh well these abnormalities is what can make a Gemini and Pisces work
Yup I knew my Pisces hubby for 5 yrs now & been together for 3 yrs, married for 7 months & boy oh boy its been a ride! He is very loving, soft, gentle, caring, intuitive & freaks me out cuz being a Gemini in all, i play as if i dont know what i’m doing just so i can get him to show me & or do it for me & he calls me out on front street, talk about seeing through a Jack of SOME trades! lol i love him to death & we have our ups and downs, i just hope this lasts even tho they say Gem’s dont last long in commitments, i’m most certainly trying in this one. Sex with Pisces is quite drown-ful (meaning extravagantly deep, sensual, spiritual, mind-captivating, hot, & relaxing)!
Message for Pisces…ladi that posted on Oct 26.
Incredible that your story sounds so similarly to mine. I am Pisces….he is gemini…but a player….we have been on/off for four years. Attraction is strong as well but we can’t seem to get it together. Can you please email me at
rxlm2007@yahoo.com. Maybe we can exchange some thoughts.
Thanks,
Rox
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i think that all you tha say pisces and gemini arent compatible never gave it a hard enough try im the pisces my best friend of 16 years and my boyfiend whom im going to marry sometime in the next year are both geminis are two of my favorite people in the whole world i was actually shocked to hear people say that these signs cant work we make the best teams EVER! pisces never give up on your gemini and they will always be there for you!!!!!!!
I am a Gemini woman. I take the challenge of being with him. We do face alot of problems. Love is stronger than you Zodiac though. We have been friends for 7 years and we have gone out for a year of that.
I habe been with my Pisces for 1 year and we have been friends for 7. He is my better half, he tells me when I am being to overbearing or a brat and I let him know when he is going off in his little world. We have our problems but no real relationship is problem free. I have had alot of relationships as a Gemini and some of the matches asigned to Gemini have been my worst. Aquarius for instance, that was one of the worst relationships of my life. I love the zodiac but when it comes to this…not so much. Maybe I am different because I was born of the cusp of Gemini and Cancer, which is known as the Cusp of Magic. Maybe the cancer in me likes him.
hey my boyfriend is a pisces guy n really as u all told i really find him boring and moody sometimes n that makes me go mad!!!but i love him a lot n do not wanna lose him but i feel i will lose him…i wanna work out this relationship n make it a successful one…please help me out
To Meghana,
How long have you and your pisces guy been together? The only reason why I’m asking cause just when you think that you are in a relationship he will advise you that you are not and he would only like to be friends have you guys ever spoke about your status? I just don’t want you to get your feeling like I have 6 months into my BIG OLD MESS! Per my comment I have placed
Hi there. I wanted to ask you all if any of you have tips on what Gemini men like/dislike as far as relationships goes. I too love a Gemini man but I’m struggling as far as understanding him. He seems to like to play games and can be quite hot and cold as well. Any of you Pisces girls who’ve had successful relationships with Gemini men please help. I heard they don’t like to be put on the spot or put under pressure emotionally. Is this the case? Thanks
all i have to say is that im a pisces/rooster…if you are a gemini/snake gemini/ox gemini/dragon or gemini/pig…then we can get along…the pisces side and gemini side still make us very incompatible but those chinese signs makes us very very very compatible….i know this pisces/ox and gemini/ rooster that has been together for 12 years now…..that wa so amazing to see….i never though that a pisces and gemini can last that long but when i found out their chinese signs, i was like, “oh i see why they lasted so long”….
I’m a pisces man married to a gemini woman for many years. Our relationship is very good, but then we also understand our differences. We both agree that if we had met earlier in life this would not have worked because our differences would have created a lot of confusion and frustration.
Any relationship takes work but that’s what makes for a good relationship which is very rewarding.
I am a gemini woman going on a one year relationship with a pisces man. There was a definate attraction at first and although there still is I find it slowly fading as time goes on. I do find at times that I feel like my boyfriend holds me back as I fight to struggle for the freedom that I want. It’s funny because he’s not a controlling person and actually very laid back so I’m confused to why I feel so trapped. Maybe it’s because I always feel like i’m one step ahead of him or maybe because i’m wanting to go out and experience the world with new and different things while he wants to sit around at home and watch movies (snooooze!!!)
He’s very content with who he is (never strives to be a better person) and also naturally shy while i’m the complete opposite and this frustrates me. I love sitting around having meaningful deep conversations and he can’t even give me his insight on the way he feels, his opinions, etc..just always agrees with me for the sake of arguement. He’s a terrible communicator! Often I find myself feeling bad for him because I feel like he’s so “pathetic”. I hate to use that word because I do love him, but like the others that have posted their opinions I also can’t figure out the reasons why I feel so much love.
All in all, I have realized that our relationship is becoming more destructive then healthy, did I mention we live together?
I agree strongly with Becky that the two opposites enjoy the idea of eachother and maybe wish they were a bit like eachother in some ways as well…and maybe that’s what keeps them together for so long.
To John: I so agree with you there.
To Mandi: Very interesting relationship you have there. Does it bother you that you want your freedom? There’s nothing wrong in wanting your freedom.
If I were in your shoes, I would take how he’s acting has this relationship going down hill. Like he is not interested at all! I like someone whom I can disagree/agree and voice their opinons. I like being in relationship that is fun, were you two feel young together.
It sounds like you two are growing part from each other.
I had person silmiar to your boyfriend. For the life of me I could never make him happy. When he did smile it was so fake. I would dress sexy for him he just get mad, I try to talk to him when we were out, he wouldn’t talk to me, so I would talk to other people, he would get jealous. I touch him, he would tell me not to touch him. Then he would complain to me, that I never showed affection. It really hurt me inside. (Still does, telling you about it. Because he was my first love. It has been few years since I talked to him.)
It was like he didn’t care at all. You look at him and his eyes were compeletely empty, his soul was empty, there was no life. No desire to live. It seem I was with a brick wall. The relationship ended badly, so badly he left me outside in the cold.
Maybe it’s time for you to move on. You could try talking to him about how you truly feel, about your fredoms, why he won’t talk, to you.Lay it ALL out on the table and if he just sits there like a lump on log. I would just take a bow and move on.
I know all relationships have their ups and downs, but a relationship should never be boring.
To Becky: I don’t know, if it is just my computer. When I click on sections the page will load up, but it will be blank. Are you having that problem, is anyone else is?
How did you get your picture to show up by your name?
Message for ‘tempest in a teapot’ posted on September 15th,
I gotta say, our stories are kinda alike. I’m a Gemini female, he’s a pisces male. He lives in the UK, I live in Holland. Yet I love him to bits. Our relationship is anything but ordinary, but then again, love without pain isn’t really romance
We’ve been together for about 2 years now, and I think I am safe to say that we had most of the crappy parts. We got to know eachother alot better, and to appreciate the way we both are. Even though we still shout at eachother at times.
The thing I was wondering about, how did you guys solved the distance problem?
Karlijn.
i have laughed at most of these posts as they are soooo spot on!! IMO pisces & gemini are not compatible at all!! only in a very few cases so it would seem. (of course becky i’m sure we’d get along fine…as we not married/
living together or blood related in anyway lol)
i divorced my gemini hubbie in 1991…after 3 yrs of passion/drama/sex/more drama & yet despite it all a great connection in some ways but totally totally unfathomable…lol
i haven’t set eyes on hubbie no.1 for 7 yrs…
but when i bump into him as i know i will soon enough (the gods are not that kind!! lol & i have just moved back to our hometown) it will be like we just saw each other yesterday…
depending on my gemini exes mood he will be either wickedly funny & i am sure make a rude comment for old times sake…such as so you fancy a quickie?? tbh he will say it in a far more colourful way than that!! or else he will just be wicked & bring up past hurts…either way as another poster said he will do so with a very very sexy stare too…god help me!!!
to john (march)..
Total perfection seems so close yet so far as she is a major drama queen that refuses to see herself that way. She is a chaos creator too.
oh dear i think you may well have your pisces lady well & truly sussed…& me too!!
though i am aware of my drama queen tendencies isn’t admitting it half the battle??? lol
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I am a Pisces/girl and my ex was a Gemini/boy and what all these post were describing were basically on point. We are both virgins so there has been no sex, but the kissing and touching does get a little bit steamy. It is very easy to talk to him and it never gets boring, but I can not stand our arguments. We can stay cool with each other for about two days, then were are fighting over some old drama. And it seems we love to make up with kissing, touching, and basically just being all over each other. We have been in a relationship off and on for two years and now I am really trying to leave it along. I really do love him but some how I don’t feel it is what God wants for us. I mean I loved spending time with him, talking on the phone, kissing, going to the movies, just smelling him but the emotional roller-coaster is not worth it. And he is so sexy may I add. I once though it was just because we are 19 and college students but the posts I have read makes me feel like it’s something more. Like Pisces and Gemini’s really can’t work. This sucks but yeah I need to get over him.
Now I have something thats interesting. I am a 36 yr old Gemini male and was married to a Aquarius for 12 years, and one child. We were supposed to be a match, but the marriage went sour, tried to make it work but the last 3 years were the most horrible of my life. I have been with a 38 yr old Pisces for some time now, and it is heaven. I am not sure I trust the compatibility?
I am a gemini woman, totally completely in love with a pices man. When we first met, he texted me and called me almost everyday. He even invited me on a trip less than a month into the relationship. We were both very into each other. Then after the trip it just slowly started to fade away. And we stopped seeing each other. He said it was because he got really busy and then he got sick and he felt he was always the one trying to call me. But then I told him that his distance wasn’t working for me. He suggested that we just start as friends again and then take it from there. We hardly talk any more and it is always me who initiates it. Whenever i suggest we hang out, he always agrees, then cancels right before. What do I do? How do I get him to come back??
Seems this Gemini/Piscean debate will go on for ever,. I think that we gemini males
should perhaps open up to our conterpart pisceans, a lot more often. although I could strangle the little bitch at times. I do love her bits, and yes we do try and make you pisceans jealous par for the course really.
flirtacious Gemini,s will always be the same
I,m also a Male Dominant and she a professonal
dominatrix so that really do,es add to the dynamics of the situation
This Post has been so interesting to read. My gemini guy have just ended our joke of a relationship (me - pisces) ( he refused 2 call it a relationship) As soon as I showed any kind of interest of likeness toward him he would completely back off and become distant, not calling me for days - then calling me saying he missed me and he wanted 2 be with me…I would then get frustrated and ask him not too contact me and then he became more keen..He was very jelous when I spoke 2 other guys and was very hot headed… He made me feel insecure and not good enough…but on the other hand when it was just him and I we would curl up in bed , very affectionate to eachother and we would have passionate sex… but im now sick of playing games with him and feel I deserve more than him blowing me hot and cold.. Still feel a strong connection towards him and hoping I wont give in when he begins to call again (which he always does)…
Im still’In Lust’ With my gemini…
Any suggestions on how to move on from this..as feeling a bit hurt…
Shannon, a start might be to get ivolved in good times together. Invite him to go with you to some classy social events, or just fine dining. You pay, at least for now, he’ll likely insist that he pay later. Even a trip or hike near water, like a creek or the ocean might be a nice time together. Exposing him to anything creative like art museums, or anything else related to art or science, is something I think most pisces enjoy.
Don’t pressure the relationship - for now. Later, you may need to after you’re sure his feelings are growing for you.
Even though I’m pisces, I seem to fit the pisces descriptions only partially. I’m actually pisces with sagittarius rising.
Someone here mentioned about their pisces sitting around watching tv, while I’m so busy with projects and just having fun in general that I rarely if ever watch tv. I do like going to movies though. I really enjoy art. I love the outdoors, so I spend a lot of time hiking. I love to be mentally stimulated, but take a while to process new information, so I don’t do well in debates.
As far as romantic situations, I love just sitting with my wife by the ocean (with sound of waves), creeks, or just anyplace where there is the sound of water. I also like sitting in front of a fire, and romantic dinners.
I don’t like anyone trying to find out eveything about me, but am very open with even complete strangers - more so than most people are.
I seem to be a sponge for the emotions of everyone around me, so I do feel like I really need some time alone from time to time just to sort everything out and get back on track.
John
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I’m a gemini (June 19th/dragon) who is in “love” with a Pisces (March 20th/dragon)…
We have never been official but our relationship might as well be because he is very jealous. We remain friends through his choice not mine. Whenever we are together most of the time we are very passionate towards each other,when apart its like there is so many doubts. It’s impossible to cheat on him because we are definitely not together but because he says there’s something about me that makes him want to stay friends ( though the sex is great.)I feel this could be the famous “emotional blackmail” the Pisces man has put a hold on me. I am quite confused..I like our “friendship” but i need more. I hate this inbetween shit.
To Vanity_Gemini:
If you don’t like it, just end the relationship, if he wants nothing more than to be friends with you, and you find yourself getting tired of this “inbetween shit” Just end it.
That kind of distubs me that he wants you to be his friend, because he said so. If you don’t want to be his friend anymore, then don’t be. Don’t let people force you into situation that you don’t want to be in. People should be friends, because they want to be your friend, not because they force you into it. That isn’t a true friendship, and a real friend would never force you to do something you didn’t want to do. They would always respect your desecion, even when they don’t agree with it.
But I say, leave the man, you really don’t need this bullshit in your life. Be the master of your life, don’t be the sheep.
Hello,
I found your website to look for a better understanding with regards to my relationship with my adult Aquarius daughter. I am Pisces and my husband is Gemini. First I have to say that I am Christian and I do not look at Astrology as a religion and would be interested as to how it is viewed in that regard by others. Secondly, I did get insight to my Aquarian daughter’s traits that did make a lot of sense. She is amazing and I now have a better understanding of her intermittent communication as we live far away from each other. But lastly, I have been married to my husband for almost 26 years and together for 28. I have learned from this site that I am Pisces-Monkey and he is Gemini-Horse. I trust our longevity has to do with our faith as it has not been all smooth sailing. Whose marriage is that lasts this long. But our life together has been: interesting,compassionate,hard,adventurous,agrivating at times,comforting,passionate,and most importantly faithful! It is hard to be a Pisces sometimes but I even wonder what being a leap year day 29th Feb. Pisces, adds to the mix. Thanks for letting me share!
I had a terrible relationship with a Pisces. I was only 18 at the begining and he was 43 and schizophrenic, so… maybe I shouldn’t blame it on the fact that he was a pisces. However, I definitely know what it feels like to be emotionally black-mailed. I only stayed in the relationship for 2 years because I felt sorry for him. It was a very strange relationship, however we shared many beautiful moments together. Although it really messed my head up and I’m still trying to get myself together after that… it was a very interesting experience. The attraction was very strong and I find piscians to be so amazing and have an almost magical charm to them. I’m currently interested in another Pisces (much younger this time however and not schizophrenic) and I really like him but have read so many negative opinions regarding our astrological compatibility. It’s very good to read actual accounts of people’s experiences. Thank you all for sharing!
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Hi there Lynn,
Thank you for your comment it is greatly appreciated. I really understand about your religious views. My Father is also Christian and when I first started doing this he was not overly impressed, although he himself has an interest in this. Astrology goes back further than the Bible, and I certainly do not view it as a Religion. My interest is purely based on the simple fact that it works as I am a sceptical little being!! I think both can be enjoyed together without guilt as they are both about the the greatness of the Universe and all it has to offer us.
So, you have an Aquarius daughter, me too! As a Pisces you will find that your understanding of one another is sometimes rather fuzzy. Aquarius girls are so wonderful and unique and well, strange in the loveliest of ways! Any talent MUST be encouraged or they can go a bit wild.
Gemini Horse (same as me), we can be a bit of a nightmare to live with so I commend you on sharing your life with one such creature for so long and enduring the tidal waves. Pisces and Gemini are not known for their great fondness of one another but like patience and understanding goes a long way and there will be ’something’ about each other that sticks you together. Of course, Monkeys and Horses are great pals and this will go along way to helping you get over hurdles in life.
Feel free to write to me via my contact form if you wish to find out anything else regarding astrology.
Love & Light
Becky
Well I am a Pisces and my fiance is a Gemini and I have never been happier in a relationship. We have been together for a number of years and just found out that we are having a baby together! We are both somewhat independent people who love alone time with each other. Yes, like everyone, we have our arguments but compared to my other relationships these are actually intellectual arguments and things that need to be discussed. I guess I am probably a more level headed Pisces than most because I do initially react using my emotions but before I say anything I make sure to put myself in the other person’s shoes, which may just be something that comes with age or experience. So for all of you who look at attempting a Pisces/Gemini relationship I say give it a shot at least, its the most romantic, inspiring, a loving relationship I have ever been in! Hope this helps!
To Gemini Gal and some others who misunderstand pisces.
Perhaps one of the most misunderstood things about pisces is their intuitiveness. Many people are intuitive, some aren’t and wish they were, and some really don’t care. The intuitiveness of some pisces goes beyond what some may realize, yet most pisces don’t give any clue to others that they possess such an ability. Some really don’t realize that they have such an ability - making them a completely emotional mess. That is where a big problem comes in. A pisces not reacting in the way that most people do, can drive people absolutely batty. Being dishonest about something to a pisces will often seem to go completely unnoticed, yet the pisces may often spend hours or even days pondering the dishonesty, trying to come to a reasonable explanation for it. It takes most pisces quite a while to sort through any kind of input (sometimes days) - and they do get a lot of it. The more mature pisces will then confront the offending party and attempt to work through it to determine if it was possibly a misunderstanding. The less mature, will just mark it up as a transgression and after there are very many, will simply leave the person rather than deal with the confrontation that may result by mentioning the actual or even sometimes perceived transgression, and trying to work through it. If the pisces does confront you with the issue, be completely honest, no matter if you were in the wrong. For examle, if you cheat on a pisces, and then are honest about it, you may find that you will be completely forgiven, yet dishonesty will drive him away. That’s a pretty ridiculous example but hopefully gets the point across.
Just as with the negative, there is also the positive. Some pisces don’t respond right away to positive feelings and emotions coming from their partners, yet they rarely go unnoticed. The best thing to do concerning such things, is just pay attention to their actions. If they seem to want to be alone, it could indicate they are sorting things out concerning something that has happened recently. That is not the time to try and interract with them about things. Wait until they seem to be “back” to their normal self, and then see if you can discuss things. If they consider you to be sincere, and their “distance” was concerning something of any importance, they will most likely discuss it with you.
I can’t emphasize the degree to which a pisces is like a sponge - soaking up the emotions of everybody around them. It really can be overwhelming at times, and if misunderstood by the pisces, can often lead to drug, alchohol, and other addictions.
One very unfortunate thing about the pisces intuitiveness, is the way they can use it against you, and it can often be with such a force that you’ll never forget. A mature pisces will never do such a thing, but one who is less mature, or one who unfortunately hasn’t a clue to such an ability, will. Such a thing can be quite devastating and my heart goes out to anyone who has been on the receiving end of such a thing.
With all that being said, be honest and open with your pisces, and you will most likely find yourself in a very rewarding relationship. If you have been the recipient of what I mentioned in the previous paragraph, the best thing to do is to just completely get out of the relationship - do not go back for more, and do not expect it to just fix itself in a short period of time. Allow that pisces to mature on his own, and if there are things you find desirable about a pisces - find another who is more mature.
FYI- Gemini fem here (28) completely enamored of a Pisces man (27), and have been for over a year and still going strong with very few problems and blowups besides typical couple spats…
….Just a couple thoughts… and mind you these two are linked together completely!
… the science of astrology has always interested me and I definitely feel as though it rings true… but on the other hand I just wanna remind people that information is priceless and can be used as an advantage… I say this because if you have a general knowledge of why a person is the way they are it can eliminate confusion and questions… and then you can react accordingly instead of assuming something incorrect… for example a major problem for Pisces seems to be the inability and sometimes unwillingness to express themselves verbally … and we all know Geminis crave intellectual stimulation and often pays close attention to words… since I know that hes like this I encourage him in a non pushy way to “try and find his words” and I also lead by example, so it makes the problem of communication between us two very limited …. I also am more willing to be more susceptible to his emotional currents… and although it was scary at first, now it’s a wonderful retreat that I savor… instead of feeling stifled and boxed-in I feel secure and complexly surrounded by love and adoration… which then makes it easier to develop and nurture those same feeling for him from me…
After reading every single one of these posts and other on various sites I it seems to me that these two sign interact best with each when they are little older and/or they have both experienced at least a few other relationships apiece…. In my case, being a Gemini, I loved dating around and definitely got bored easily in other relationships… but on the flip side I kinda feel like I got that out of my system a little bit since I was all over the place before I met him, and he came along at a time in my life where I was consciously ready for something “more”…
..in his case he was also involved in a few very bad relationships before he met me…(poor Pisces always picking bad partners lol)… I say this because after dealing with women who were manipulative and took advantage of his sensitive and selfless nature it kinda woke him up a little bit… and although I can be a little much sometimes he appreciates how upfront and direct I can be… after all how can a relationship issues be resolved if they are never identified?!….
….for those of you madly in love with your partner just remember a few things… knowledge is power use it!…we are both dual signs and we are both mutable… not necessarily a bad thing… sometimes he leads sometimes I do… neither of us hold grudges, its not in our nature… love can be the greatest motivator and teacher… also no matter what sign you are experience is the best teacher and really can change your outlook and behaviors… also personal growth is something that should be happening if you are in a relationship or not…I say this because personally I am very much aware of my individual personality strengths and weaknesses… I may always have a certain trait but should it be as destructive now as it was when I was 19 or 20?… hope you guys understand my rambling and much love and hope in all your relationships!
caroline
How can there be two people here with the same name - John? The first John that posted here is not me, and is a gemini while I’m a pisces. I do see the name spelled “John” (capital J) instead of “john”.
I’ve enjoyhed reading the various responses here. It’s helped me understand how other people perceive us pisces.
Hello:
I have appreciated reading all these posts…and whoever said knowledge is power is right. I mean most of my friends are not in compatible relationships according to astrology but have somehow stayed together.
I am a Pisces and I have had a very difficult year with my Gemini. The first 6 months of our relationship were smooth sailing. I had an attraction to him at first sight. He never told me he loved me, but he told me he thought I was the one and that he had fallen in love with me. We finally moved in together in Aug of 07 and it kind of went down hill from there. We fought all the time over stupid stuff…i felt he was too critical mostly and that he was a hypocrite. And, he said I did not show him enough warmth and love. He said that I was too sensitive. Which i know i am. He broke up with me once and I ended up getting my own apt. But we still pretty much lived together and we stayed in the relationship. Finally this christmas he had to leave and go back to his home country of germany. I will add that this year has been extremely bad year for him career wise and it has made him really depressed and moody. We left it on bad terms. I had gotten to the point where i had shut off and he was just so angry at me…he told me i did not love him. He has called me twice since he left and I am miss him so much. I realize all the things i did wrong. But, he said that i broke up with him by how i treated him, but he admits he misses me. I still love him and i want us to be back together. He promised he would call me this past week and did not so I have decided to just give him his space and focus on me since he is all the way in germany and i cant talk to him. Has anyone got any advice on getting your gemini back….and how to show them that you really want to be with them and that you are willing to change to make the relationship work(especially from a distance)?? Any advice is helpful we have been together for over 2 years before he left.
Also,I would appreciate advice from gemini males especially. I will say that becuz we fought so much…all my friends think i should leave him alone…and i am sure his friends think the same. But, we have a bond that i believe can ignore what people on the outside say. Please give me some help or feedback. Thanks much.
Also, he will be coming back in April or May.
To Crena: Hiya, read your comment and I have mixed feelings about this relationship you have with him.
Part of me agrees with your friends, to find a new boy friend, it’s very hard to have a relationship with someone, if you can’t comucate and tell each other how you feel.
Question, has he told you he “wants you back?” Because this guy seem confuse on what he wants, and he also at the same time doesn’t seem interested. He doesn’t chase you, he said he would call you and he hasn’t. That’s part of me that says this relationship isn’t going no where, but always hitting a brick wall.
You could try having a long distant relationship, but it will be very DIFFERCULT to keep it together, because you two are never there. And for the both of you to keep a long distant relationship you got to find a way to keep commuacting with him. Also, you never know what he up too, since you can’t be with him.
Now, if I knew excately how he flet for you, I would say just go to Germany, but if he isn’t sure how he feels for you, or hasn’t told you, then don’t do it.
My suggesting is, to find out if he really LOVES YOU, and wants you to be with you. If you find out he doesn’t call you, doesn’t seem interested in you, doesn’t beg for you to come back into his life. Then, this relationship as ended, and you need to move on.
Seriously, he needs to mind up his mind what he wants, you need to find out. If he doesn’t want the same thing as you, then I would move on.
all these things above are true
ROLLERCOASTER
my pisces/rat try to play smart all da time but he doesnt know that i read him like an open book.
what pisses me off is he does too.
i cant do shit withough him not knowing!!
we are both pain in the asses but love saves us.it has been the most challenging but the most rewarding relashonship.
i can cry in front of him,he finds it sexy!!this guy is crazy.we hardly have the same point of view.but i never get boared(me gemini/goat/scorpio rising).
he made mi find the courrage to tell him i was scared of marriage and having kids…now iam ready,he said something i will never forget: what u are most scared of will make u the happyest”.its true! if hes sick i love him,if hes depressed i love him,i hate his dresscode but i love him,he doesnt have no money i love him.and yes sex is omg.
I’m a Pisces female involved with a Gemini male. We’ve been dating since New Years Day. He has from the beginning been the most caring person I’ve been with in 10 years. He opens the door for me, gets my chair, holds my hand, will take it upon himself to order us dinner. I find the dinner part cute since I’m trusting. He just seems to order what I like. At the end of the night he always tells me to call him when I finally get home because he can’t sleep until I do because he says he worries.
In the bedroom, he fullfills all my needs and I his. And he’s not afraid to show his reaction to having an orgasium like most men. He reacts whether it’s moaning or grunting or yelling. Too cute.
Oh and he’s so beautiful to look at. He says the same if me. That my inner beauty shines through and I both beautiful inside and out.
He tells me I bring peace to his chaotic world. That I’m his Zen.
Yeah he’s a bit outgoing and I see him about once a week but we both are so busy in our own lives.
Yeah I wish to see him more, but I know to give him his freedom.
I need mine too.
It’s working so far.
We’re not a couple but he dies call me his woman and knows that I’m all his.
So I think he shows me he cares and I must accept what he gives me and in turn I must give him his freedom. It just seems to work best like this.
BTW, I’m 35 and he’s 31. Maybe age and knowledge has helped in this relationship.
I feel like a lot of what you said is true - for instance, the sex between me and my gemini boyfriend is incredible, and we can’t help being attracted to each other.On the other hand, I am a bit quilty of emotional blackmail and I really do want to be adored and romanced and he doesn’t always feel the need to. However since I’m born on the cusp of Aquarius and Pisces [19th feb] our relationship is able to work, since Aquarius is very compatible with Gemini, so my Aquarius traits keep my Pisces side in check. So, nI would say it could work if one of you is born on the cusp
To Madga:
WWWWWWOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOW!!!!!! Whatever you do, do not lose this one! He’s a keeper. More men need to be like him. I hope to find a guy like that, that just loves me for who I am. And more women should be like you.
I feel a lot of people in this world totally misunderstand what relationship is really all about. A lot think, it’s about controling, and ordering about someone telling them ‘their mine.’ like their a piece of meat.
Maybe this is the Aquarius in me, but I think relationship should be free, where the two can be together, but do what they like to do when their not together. And be open enough to talk and be their own person, you know.
So yeah, you have a great man.
Well, to all. I’m a taurus/gemini cusp, and my girlfriend is a beautiful pisces. Our relationship isn’t what everyone says it would be. Maybe it’s the taurus side of me, but our relationship, between us, is almost as if Perfect. Yeah, I know that’s quite hard to say for most. But there is a key to keeping a gemini and pisces relationship in good standing, or better(in a gemini guy’s view.)
The key is that both need to think for a moment, and know what exactly what the other really wants, work in that area the most, and all will fall into place, trust me. ( For example, my pisces always want me to be there for her, complete her, and love her no matter what. And I do all she wants me to do w/o no problems.) Geminis is can adapt to anything, trust me, I know, I cause I’m a gemini. But yeah, me and my pisces angel are always happy. We always spend as much time together as we can. People mostly think that gemini may cheat on their pisces, AANNNNNTTT wrong!!!, geminis talk to people with our first thought, and say things that may be charming, but charming is the normal for us. While everyone is amazed by us saying nice things, it’s not that great to us, well not to me.
I’ve been with my pisces for nearly a year and and half, and bearly had a dull moment. We just can’t help but love each other. Two hours of us talking isn’t enough. We need the whole day! The only problems we got, is that too many other girls like me. And I learned the hard way that pisces can be very jealous, that’s if they show it, cause mine’s do, and ya’ll can’t denie it. Hey, don’t catch my case, blame it on ya’ll’s emotion, but ya’ll emotion make the relationship interesting.
Last but not least, as far as advice on gemini’s part, of course we’ll get bored every now and then, but I tell what works for me. Be creative with your pisces in everything ya’ll do together. Be sponteneous, in all things; cooking, talking, dates, and etc., and especially in sex. My pisces adores me in that area. She’ll never know what to expect next, which could be later that day. But for gemini guys, tip stay away from most women, for your pisces benefit. Ya know it ain’t that hard. It’s basiscally how well the two react to each other and how well they work with each other.
in my last comment, I didn’t make it clear how much I love my gemini boy - even though it can be a rollercoaster at times, he is so much more capitivating and lovely than any other boy I’ve met. And I adore him. and so even though he isn’t always as romantic as i’d like him to be, he is a really great guy.
Hey guys … I am a pisces and i have been with my Gemini guy since i was 16……we were high school sweethearts, he was my biggest crush in high school…this september 2009, will make 4 years together. Let me start off and say that he is the BEST boyfriend Ever….He Loves and adores me All the time… and i have never had any “cheating problems with him”
He is so faithfull, never caught him looking at other girls…Even tho i like to test him and be like ” See that girl over there, would you do her?” lolz but he never falls for the bait.
He is very very protective of me….He takes me everywhere, I have to call him everyday when i get home from college or else he goes nuts…lolz….Anything i want he gives it to me, if i want chinese at the mall he would take me there no matter how far it is…I feel so special.
The only thing that is lacking in our relationship is that “awsome sex” you guys are talking about. He just dont satisfy me in the bed room at all. But he makes up for it in other departments like taking care and loving me. And You cant have the perfect relationship so ….it dont bother me too much ..but it would b awsome if i had that, too.
I have alwys been attractive to gemini’s, almost all of my bfs have been geminis …and mines love me sooo soo much. The things he do for me is so out of this world. and you no how pisces love to be adored:)
So pisces and Geminis do get along, and can last..even have the perfect relationship.
And thats why i do agree that it all depends on the person and how much u realy care about each other.
I am a Gemini girl (dragon) and my ex was a Pisces (tiger) and at first it worked really well: the sex was amazing and I loved his thoughtful, loving nature. However, he became really clingy and SOOOO emotional and for a Gemini that’s a dangerous combination! He drove me insane. He would constantly call me/text me/be at my place and would demand my attention all the time. I need my space and independence and he totally failed to understand that. I also enjoy the chase a bit, so when he told me every day that he loved me, it got a bit irritating.
Oh, and he used to cry all the time, and if I’d done something (anything!) to upset him, he would not fail to let me know. Which at times was useful, but mostly it was a tiny thing (so over emotional) and REALLY grated.
In summary, not a good relationship - it ended after 3.5 months and I felt so free afterwards!
He however, according to mutual friends, cried for about a week after I broke up with him and then would randomly burst into tears about it at odd moments for about 6 months after. I feel kinda bad about that, but I’m so glad I’ve distanced myself from it. I am certainly going to be wary of Pisces from now on!!
To Daniella:
He cried, when his feelings got hurt all the time??????????????????????? Are you for real? I know, people cry, when their hurt, but that’s bit too much. I couldn’t take it, I would walk out on him in a heartbeat. He did everything too much. I would have been like you, getting annoyed. Once, while tell me you love me, but not every SINGLE day. And the whole thing about coming to your house, text messages, you calling you all the time, is going overboard.
That just scares, and annoy people. People need to have control over their emotions. One cannot go overboard. When you go overboard with anything, people just don’t want to be around you.
There’s got to be a balance of, not too little or too much.
To Daniella:
You may feel bad, but don’t feel too bad. You can’t control his emotions or how he is going to react. That’s just him Mr. Emo You are the only one that can control your emotions and your reactions to certain situations.
People are people, sometimes they change for the good or the worst, but one cannot worry too much on which they cannot control, or you stop living life.
I am a Pisces female and my EX bf is a Gemini. Your compatibility reading could NOT be more accurate! (For us, of course)I fell in love with this man despite of all the silly fights we had! We were inseperable, we became best friends and we had a stron connection. I am guilty of the “emotional blackmail” and he is guilty of being too distant. Us Pisces need reassurance and a constant demonstration of love, which might be hard for the Gemini man. There was always a lot of drama going on, however, there were a lot of times when we were just so perfect for each other. This relationship was so intense, yet, now that it is over, there is nothing left. I am trying to avoid Gemini men as it is very emotionally DRAINING for me. It was very good while it lasted…. time to move on to a different sign!!! =)
I’m not sure if crying for one’s self is really a pisces characteristic. I, unfortunately, cannot help but get teary-eyed during a sad movie, or when someone I care about is hurting, but that’s about it. And even then, I try very hard to be inconspicuous about it, which sometimes seems to make things even worse.
They say that us pisces are kind of a mixed lot, so who knows what you’ll get when you get one of us. Maybe some of it has to do with coming to grips with ourselves. I suppose my sagitarrius rising and wood/horse would make me different from another combination, just as it would with that same combination with another sun sign. I guess it’s all really pretty complicated, but it certainly does seem that just having pisces as one’s sun sign is a topic for quite a lot of discussion.
I must admit though, regardless of what the books say about other sign compatibility, gemini women are my favorite!
wow.
it’s funny that i did a little random googling to see about certain aspects of a strange relationship in my life… and i stumbled on THIS. at least i’m not alone.
i’m the gemini, and the pisces in my life is alternately maddening and adorable. i actually mark off days on my calendar that are good and try to figure out if having him in my life is worth it. we dated for three months and have been friends since breaking up–but seriously stretching the definition of ‘friends.’ it doesn’t seem like we can leave each other alone. the connection is too strong. recently things changed again–this past weekend, we started having sex again. (do i need to even say that the sex is great?)
the problems are not small… he gets mad at me for ‘going dark’ and pulling back into my own world. i tend to want more attention than i get, even after spending a lot of time together. we absolutely WRECK each other emotionally (most of my friends hate him), but then…
c’mon. you know, right?
… then there are those perfect days. where everything is so good it’s actually probably BETTER than it was with anyone else i’ve dated.
i wonder if hanging on for those days is worth it.
the things we do for the ones we love, right?
I am a Gemini/Pig man and have been seeing a lovely Pisces/Dragon woman for 4 months now. And despite the fact that a Gemini/Pig and Pisces/Dragon are supposed to be totally uncompatible, we seem to have formed an unbelievable connection. We are really good friends as well as boyfriend/girlfriend and can talk about anything and love spending time together. For some reason I have always found Pisces/Dragons irristible. On the surface you’re probably thinking it wont last but it honestly feels like she’s the one. And I have had worse relationships with more compatible signs - namely Aquarius.
But here’s the BASIC astro breakdown:
Asc Sun Moon
Me Pisces Gemini Virgo
Her Libra Pisces Taurus
I was born on June 2 1971 and she was born on March 5 1976.
As you can see their are already a number of positive apects in the above breakdown, (despite the fact that our sun signs are SQUARE which is supposed to be bad):
Her Moon trine My Moon
Her Sun opp My Moon
Her Asc trine My Sun
Her Sun conj My Asc (aspect is common in marriages)
In short I am more shy and sensitive, practical and patient than the average Gemini And she is more outgoing, bubbly and talkative than the average Pisces. Together we seem to MATCH!!!!
I would be interested to get some feedback from others on this relationship, particularly from budding astrologers who can say whether or not my relationsip will last with this girl.
I’m a Pisces girl and have been with my Gemini boy for about 7 months. He can be really vicious, and I can be unconsciously controlling. So, he watches his tongue and I lay back. I couldn’t be more happy with him, it’s crazy magic!
Maybe I’m just a Pisces who doesn’t need constant reassurance and understands why some people are distant. And he seems very shy, sensitive and emotional. Yeah, that probably helps, because, beyond that, we love the same things, understand each other, miss each other when they leave… I could go for a while.
Not to mention the amazing sex!
I wouldn’t say that over-all this is a good match, and I wouldn’t recommend it. But WE get along. Not ALL Pisces Gemini relationships do. I can think of several Geminian boys that are just terrible, and I clearly see why people say it can be bad.
i thank Gemini and Pisces get along see if you notice Pisces and Gemini have the two II syllables and mine side of the storie they can get along Gemini can be like a Pisces two so what i am saying Pisces and Gemini are the two with the split personality thing i thank they are Compatibility in mine side of the storie
And one more thing about Gemini and Pisces in the sign sides they are like brother and brother what i mean they understand each other i would say Gemini and Pisces are twins
I am a gemini female and I have been dating a pisces male for almost 5 years now. Honestly, it has been one crazy CRAZY roller coaster ride. Him and I fell for each other instantly. It was like love at first sight. Now normally, me being a Gemini, I don’t really get THAT jealous, but with him, I was insanely jealous. He just has this oh so charming way with women and I hated it. I want to be the center of his world. I must say though, he has shown me so much love over the years. We did meet when we were pretty young (18 and 19) but over time, we have gotten to know each other better and see who we really are. We have both had our fair share of scandelous back stabbing and we never trusted each other. But it’s crazy because no matter how much destruction we do to each other’s lives, it’s like we are two magnets with the strongest attraction. It seems impossible for us to not be around each other. When we are around each other, the love and passion between us is unreal. It’s as if no one else exists. He is so amazing. He has such a good heart and he doesnt mind letting me see that. I have seen him open up to me in ways that I never even thought a man was capable of. Don’t get me wrong, he is not some wimpy guy, he’s actually a very manley man but he has this soft side to him which I get to enjoy and I absolutly love it! I adore him. No matter how many fights we get into I don’t ever seeing us letting go. Neither of us want to. I do agree with the thing about Gemini’s hurting pisces feelings, because I know I have. I can be really mean sometimes and I know it hurts him but I don’t mean to do that, I just get mad. Sometimes it’s very frustraing because I feel like he’s not THERE, like he’s not listening, like there are so many things in his mind he’s not telling me (not like secrets just things I wanna know). Gemini’s NEED to know EVERYTHING! I ask so many questions and i’m always curious as to what is on his mind but he’s so mysterious. He lets me in from time to time and I love it but I wish it would happen more often. Maybe if I didn’t lash out at him so often then he would be more open with me. Honestly he is the sweetest guy in the world! I cannot see how any woman in this world would not fall in love with him. He is everything you could ask for in a man and so much MORE! Ahhh I love him!
I am Pisces female (26 feb) dating Gemini guy (3rd june)… very rough relationship. Gemini guys pls give any advice. I am determined to try to make it work Thanx
Des,
I’m a pisces man.
It’s great to hear that your relationship is going relatively well. In my opinion, one of the most damaging things in any relationship, is trying to get your partner to share what they are thinking or feeling, if and when they don’t want to.
As far as the fits of anger… well, I suppose that’s just a gemini “thing”, and something that your pisces will need to learn to deal with. My wife loves me very much and tries not to do that, and still manages to travel down that dark road occassionaly. Just make sure that he understands that you wish you didn’t do it, but sometimes it just happens - I’m sure he’ll continue to be understanding.
As far as jealousy, that can be tough for some I suppose. Unfortunately, pisces are “chick magnets” - pardon my phrasing. I’m not sure what it is, but I have attracted women all my life, even when I didn’t really even want to. I get a lot of comments about my eyes even though to me they look just like anybody else’s eyes.
omg!!!
isn’t this insane or what haha don’t mind my spelling i am very french.
I (gemini) was going out with a pices for about 2 years and honestly i think we should of ended it like after the first 3 months but ther was something so attractive about him i just kept trying and tryin..
Soooooo drayning he would never express his feelings, he was so hard to understand we would argue about anything because he would allways have to be right.
I dont know if its just me but i find, I (gemini) have a hard time knowing what i want and making up my mind. and for once i though i knew what i wanted i guess that why i tryed so hard cuz usually i’d step back. I know it has to do about personalities to but please some1 explain to me why they are so closed with there feelings i mean love should just work you know!
méli-mélo xox
mélodie
I think you should persue the relationship and try to work through some of the problems.
One of the problems - the pisces thinking he’s always right, is a relatively simple problem to deal with. The path of least resistance in a matter like this, is often the correct path to take. For example consider two sumo wrestlers pushing against each other. It’s quite obvious that if one stops pushing, the other will fall flat on his face. Perhaps a poor analogy, but maybe you can see where I’m going with this. Fortunately, gemini’s are actually quite bright, so in arguments you may be correct just as often as the pisces. To solve the little problem that you are having with disagreement, simply state what you think is the correctness, and then leave it at that. You could also just not state your case at all. Pisces, just like anyone else, don’t like to be wrong. If he says something (and you don’t counter it), and later finds out he was wrong, you may find him coming to you to make the correction. I think doing either of those things, may prevent the persuant argument. As suggested, if things are allowed to take their course and the pisces finds out that you are perhaps right at least 50% of the time, he’ll not only be less argumentive, but will also acquire a degree of respect for your input. Don’t let him know you’re doing this, because he certainly doesn’t want you to be playing some kind of head-game with him. If you think about it maturely, it really isn’t a head-game but rather the correct thing for anyone to do.
I think that you’ll both come to realize that there are topics of specialty for each of you. That’s the way it is with gemini and pisces. You will most likely be right about 90% of the time on certain topics, and the pisces will be right 90% of the time on other topics. You both just need to realize the topics where you are each strong or weak.
As far as expressing his feelings - that will most likely not work out the way you’d like it to. Pisces rarely express their feelings “on the spot”. They need to get away and actually sort through their feelings before expressing them. If you can’t learn to accept that, I’ll guarantee the relationship will not work. This is one of those things that can’t be changed. I, being a pisces am well aware of this issue in myself. Pisces are perhaps the most “delayed reaction” type of person, of any sign. After they do sort through their feelings, if they know that there is a willingness to be heard, they will then express their feelings. If not, they will at least have an understanding of their feelings but will not express them to you.
Love can definitely work between a gemini and a pisces, but you both really need to understand your differences and then work on them.
hmm… well me (gemini) (monkey) ana my pisces gf (dog) have been together for a little more than 3 months and we really expect this to last… I think and hope. Its strange because I think she acts more of an aquarius. oh-well. yeah we dont really have any problems between us… I think
lol ok I just read almost every post and I can give an almost full … whateveryoucallit about me & my gf…
Ok so I have been with her for a little more than 3 months now (me gemini monkey 6/18/92 and her pisces dog 2/24/94), and there have been no problems. Now I am almost born to the gemini-cancer cusp… I’m kinda happy with that.
I looked at one and said that a gemini-aquarius was terrible but a gemini-pisces was like heaven. I kinda hope its right.
Ok so I’m a gemini with a gemini rising and cancer as my moon sign. shes a pisces with sagittarius rising and leo as her moon sign. can anyone explain that to me?
Oh and I also saw “I was only 18 at the begining and he was 43 and schizophrenic” LMAO thats worse than me. I went out with a 12 year old for 2.5 months when I was 16 (I still am).
I also saw “Oh and he’s so beautiful to look at. He says the same if me. That my inner beauty shines through and I both beautiful inside and out.” Lol my gf thinks im handsome (and sometimes sexy) when sometimes I think I’m ugly. wel I do think sh is beautiful inside and out… ok maybe not inside sometimes. she has a dirty mind.
So yeah… and we really love each other. we say I love you to each other a lot.
oh and when I first showed her our song Never Say Goodbye by Bon Jovi, she promiosed me to never say goodbye. yay me!
So I am struggling in a karmic affair with a Gemini man. We are both married and have children and mates that have supported us for years. Along comes this rollercoaster. So sensative and wonderful, and then so amazing the dissapearance of the gemini, and the hypersentivity of the fish that must just blow him out of the water. A drowning match. Addictive for the piscean somehow. I wish it would bring the love it should but feel hopeless indeed. Amazed and confused and stubborn about seeing it end, despite the pain.
I am a Gemini woman with a Pisces man.When we first met the chemistry was wonderful.Pisces are true romantics…my last relationship with a Virgo man had none of this.My pisces man listens …is so supportive if I’m going thru thingz.When he is going thru something…he likes to be left alone…I give him his space.If there is a problem…we talk it out!!Our conversations last forever and he makes me feel like gold.So far so good and I feel that if two ppl really love one another…they can get through anything and prove those that don’t believe it can work wrong.Different can be good…if u r willing to work together and learn from 1 another!
Jasmine - a willingness to work together to work through just about anything is something that I too have found can make a pisces/gemini relationship very rewarding. You allowing your pisces the space he needs is perhaps one of the most important things to a pisces, yet many girls are unable to do that. As you have witnessed, the rewards for doing so can be great. It sounds as if you have a wonderful relationship and I am happy for you.
I’m the female Gemini and my husband the male pisces. We have been together for 15 years and I must say it’s been a roller coaster ride. I could not emagine being in a more rewarding relationship though. He (pisces) keeps me (gemini) grounded. Yes we clash sometimes but can’t resist each other at the same. The connection is electrifying. He really compliments me. Yes I must admit in the beginning of our relationship I thought this would never last but we have learned to appreciate those qualities each of us lack that the other has. Our relationship now is better than ever and it keeps getting better as the years go by. We have two young boys and I could not have asked for a better father to my children. I think you are right about our compatability but love concors all. If you truly love someone you need to learn to appreciate them for who they are. You could never change anyone, just accept them for who they are and you will find that you will receive the same in return. The results will be rewarding.
I’m a Gemini girl myself, in love with a Pisces. We’ve been going out for almost a year now, but now that I’ve done some googling on Gemini and Pisces, it makes me re-think if he’s satisfied with our communication skills.
Is it true that every Gemini will encounter emotional problems with Pisces? Because if it does…well, I hope the end doesn’t happen between him and me.
Of course, sometimes we do have arguments that are obviously unnecessary, but when I was in relationships with other men (i.e. Sagittarius, Aries, Taurus, Gemini) there are always arguments.
Women who are Pisces seem to get along really well with me. My best friend, a Pisces, and I have been inseparable since first grade. I did hurt her feelings once, sometime in elementary/middle school, but you know how mean and jealous girls could be.
Another best friend, also a Pisces, gets along with me and enjoys my sense of humor. But I just can’t stand it when she’s melodramatic, so I leave her alone sometimes.
I guess in the end, it’s all about how much you love them and are willing to change for them. Being a stubborn and jealous Gemini, I know how people don’t appreciate all of my actions. I hope there’s some way to make it work between a Gemini and a Pisces.
hi, i’m a pisces with an aries cusp and aquarius rising, born the year of a metal monkey, my friend who could be a potential lover is a gemini, born the year of an earth sheep. i’ve guessed him as capricorn or cancer by his reserved, stand in the backround behavior. he is a friendly, attentitive and sweet person who has a sense of humor that you’d like to keep triggering because he’s so reserved. he definitely has the “stare” and it captivates me because every, and i mean every time i look up at him he is already there to listen or be standing by my side. i often think to myself that he would be the type of person i’d like to have in my life because he is already in my world without even asking, unlike other men who pop in and out. so far just friends collaborating on a project, but i sense more in the future and will let you know where it goes…
Ok. I have a few things I want to say. After reading the pro’s and con’s for this match I have come to the conclusion that we all have problems, no one is perfect, and their needs to be compromise.
I am a Gemini and I am in love with a Pisces.
One of the positive traits of a Gemini is seeing both sides of an issue then putting their two cents into it. It is whether the Pisces can understand things from their point of view as to whether a disagreement will occur.
And with this I will say that from john’s point of view, they are very understanding. As long as we know each other’s habits and pet peeves and deal with them with maturity.
You see… now this is just my opinion, be it as it may, but maturity is definitely a factor here. Whether anyone is 18 or 38. Being mature enough to handle problems and talk about them will be beneficial in the long run. And with Pisces the one thing I learned is “not to push”. When they feel they are ready to talk or express themselves with out feeling like they have to walk on eggshells, the more compatible I think it could be. Especially, being an open-minded and optimistic Gemini…
And being a Gemini, I’m not afraid to express myself. It’s not hard to keep a conversation going. But patience is definitely a virtue. Be patient. If or when a Pisces feels comfortable around you, things could be so much more than just intimacy. The worst that could happen I think is there only being a relationship inside the bedroom and that’s it.
Now, we are both mutable signs. Meaning… that we are flexible, spontaneous, and like to go with flow. We are open with each other and I find that he is very understanding. Again… compromise. Both signs have to bend a little bit.
Also, a negative trait for Gemini’s is being evasive and impatient. That unfortunately is true. To a certain extent. But again, I learned the hard way that if your patient, things will follow through the way it was meant to be.
I also want to mention that we are friends and have been for quite a while now, and it took sometime for him to feel comfortable around me. And to put things in perspective, I am glad for that; because now I feel I know him better because of it and him with me. At least now if something were to come out of it, we have a better chance of making it work.
Understanding and accepting are key words. Accept each other. Read each other. Feel each other. No one is perfect…
I am a gemini (female) and my boy frend is a pisces (male). We have been together for over a month almost two. So far so good. i’m falling for him kind of fast supprising. Even though we do fusterate eachother sometimes, we always end up making it up in great ways.
with us its all or nothin and we are giving it our all!
no complaints here-
at all. no fights, frustration, nothing-
he`s distant sometimes,
it bothers me, but- i get over it,
it`s not that serious because…
he`ll be back sooner or later.
me (pisces] && the Cancer-
that match was extra dangerous…
it was like gasoline && damn matches!
uhm… but it was fun. lolol
WOW! Thank you to everyone for commenting on this site. It has been so good to read. I am a Gemini woman in a long distance love relationship with a Pisces man. It’s been 6 months so far and I thought I was going crazy.He reels me in and then keeps me on the hook by the shore while he goes off to do… whatever he does. I just feel like there is so much more he isn’t telling me about the things he is feeling. I want him to clue me in! He tells me he loves me but sometimes just drops off the face of the planet it seems. Where do these Pisces go?? It makes me so angry to be ignored and then just when I’m ready to scream, it’s over and you’ve broken my heart due to lack of attention, he’s back and I’m too grateful to question anything.I love him more than anything but I have never been in a more frustrating relationship.I should mention that I have never been possesive or even wanted someone to focus too much attention on me…but yet this relationship makes that come out in me.Just who does he think he is anyway?lol. Now, having vented a little, just wanted to say that I’m going to try to give him his space and be more understanding. Still not 100% sure what I’m going to try and understand, but I’ll give it a whirl. So, does anyone have any ideas on how I should do that?
Confused Gemini.
Actually Confused Gemini…. I do.
You see I am also a Gemini woman and from my previous comment…. Which was posted on April 23rd… patience is the key. You need to understand that they sometimes feel confined and need their personal space, and whether they go out the guys, or just sit by themselves at home watching TV, it has nothing to do with you. It’s just who they are. If he keeps coming back to you then you must be doing something right.
Understanding how he works and what his values are will also help. And being a fellow Gemini you can see where I am coming from when I say take a step back and really look at him. Look at his soul. Look at the big picture. Is he a good guy? Does he treat you with respect and care when he is around? Does he focus on you when it’s just you two?
Again I will say that I am in love with a Pisces myself. And although patience is a virtue, if he is worth your time and effort, then I say wait him out. See what happens next. You never know. One thing I learned from my Pisces is that he genuinely cares. He really does. It’s just that he sometimes needs time for himself to regroup and maybe when he is doing his own thing, you should do yours.
Enjoy yourself with your friends and family. Wait for him to call you or text you or whatever. When is ready he’ll come and then, it will be just you that exists in his world.
Patience. Patience. Patience.
Missy - Well put! Thanks for helping others to understand us pisces men.
john - You are very welcome…
Anything I can do to help. I know first hand that being understand can be rather difficult depending on someone’s persona… I only hope that people reading this will look at the postive side of things instead of the negative.
There is so much out there and so much people have to offer. If only some of them look beyond the rose colored glasses, life would be so much full-filling…
Actually looking at my last comment I realize it sounds a bit insulting. That by no means is the case. I just throw in my opinions and some comments. I hope that no one gets offended by reading them.
I am 33 yrs old. In my early 20’s, yeah, I was a bit hot headed. My way or no way. And to tell you the truth, it got old. I really got sick of it. So I started following my own advice and I couldn’t be happier. It helps me with everyday issues with work, people in general, or friends and their problems.
If by chance some readers do feel offended, I sincerely apologize.
Missy, It’s nice of you to clarify your intentions. I’m not sure if others may have been offended but I certainly wasn’t.
So you’re in your 30’s. If you hang with your Pisces, my guess would be that he’ll offer you insight into your life that will make your continued years even more gratifying. Pisces seem to have a way of offering insight, and sometimes that insight can be interpreted as a very positive thing.
Sorry to ramble, but I like Geminis and consider myself very fortunate to be married to one. I hope your Pisces finds the same fortune in you.
I am a Gemini woman and my boyfriend is Pisces. We’ve been together for about 3 years. Since last October he had to move to another country for 1,5 years. Now long distance relationships with him are becoming worse and worse: I simply don’t trust him.He has many “good female friends” who are sending him “missing u and thinking of u”kinds of messages… We have a lot of arguments. It seems to me that this fights will never be over. I tried to break with him couple of times, but he never let me go. He is saying that he loves me but I actually don’t see it.I don’t understand that: If you can’t keep your word hundred of times why I should believe that something will change on a hundred first??? I’m full of his promises. I don’t believe him!
I’m so lost…
I love him, but I’m afraid it wouldn’t work out. I can’t accept all his lie.
Angie,
No relationship can prosper without trust - at least that’s my opinion.
Angie,
Even though I have said be patient and that patience is a virtue; etc…. I also want to mention that trust is also a factor. And when one side doesn’t trust the other, then one needs to look at reasons why. I will be the first to say that a man and a woman can be friends with out cheating involved, as long as a line doesn’t get crossed.
Now do you know if he has known his “good friends” for long? The reason I am asking this is because there could be logical reasons behind it. And have you asked him who they are and where they stand? Being a Pisces, from my experience, is that are social butterflies. And yes, they get along fairly well with the opposite sex.
Now the comments that they left would leave cause for jealousy. It’s a proven fact that once someone or something treads on your territory, you feel threatened. This is quite normal, for man or beast. It’s what we do with that common knowledge and how we act on it.
Giving the benefit of the doubt could be rewarding in the long run, but, don’t get me wrong, think of yourself first. Never let someone guide you through life. It belongs to you. Also, don’t let anyone take your self worth either. If you let there be room for error, so be it. That’s ok too.
That’s how we learn from our mistakes. Hindsight can be a bit of a nuisance. But, if you stop and really think about the reasons you can’t trust him, and you can picture your life without him, ask yourself this… “How long before enough is enough?”
john - I want to thank you for your understanding and support. I really appreciate your thoughts. And from what I’ve read so far, I can tell that you are wonderful human being with heart.
—->> Gracefully Bows
THANK YOU
Missy,
He has a new female friend almost every week! Moreover, he has more female friends than males, which seems weird to me. He is surrounded by women everywhere, he is like a magnet and I know he likes it. With some of his “friends” he had short relations ( he is saying it was before me)…
I don’t believe in a real friendship between male and female. There always will be some feelings from one of them. I know it myself, I had some male friends: I saw them as friends, but they were expecting from me more than friendship, although they knew I have a boyfriend.
I’ve never been so jealous before starting dating my pisces! Never! And there are reasons why I don’t trust him. I know, trusting is very important, thats why I’m so upset, I think I wouldn’t trust him anymore… But for me, it’s better truth than a sweet lie.
I notice all of the people who disagree with this profile are the ones who have been in the relationship under a year.
Seriously, don’t walk, run!
Im a gemini.. to the max
and ive dated a pisces girl for 2 years..
i find pisces people to be very easy.
i can see through them and speak the exact words they want to hear. its a very easy game to play for me but i dont think my pisces half realises it.. shes always fantasizing.
i find them to be very mystical.. almost psychic. but yet very dull.
I think a gemini with creativity and a good story to tell can really move inside a pisces’ head
Angie,
I don’t want to seem niave’ in any way what so ever, so if I did, I do apologize.
If that is how you feel then next time he pops back in to your life, tell him how you feel. I would try to make the first move again, and hope he finally takes the hint. It might hurt because you love him, but, in the long run, by hanging on, you’d be the one getting hurt for letting it go on for as long as it did.
On the other hand, I do get along well with pretty much everybody, and the majority is guys to girls. Maybe it’s because I’ve known them for years too. I know it’s not the same scenerio in my case than yours, but if he has new “girl” friends each week, then yeah, I would seriously question his motives.
All in all, he should have more respect for you than that.
Sincerely, Missy
OMG, I married a Gemini!
And needless to say, we are divorced. :o) This post could not have been more right on! We definitely were a nightmare to each other and kind of still are, since we have a daughter together. It was emotionally exhausting and mentally draining and I don’t think that we EVER should have been together. When we fought, he would run away and avoid to see me because he felt that if he’d looked at me he would come back and he did. He was irresponsible, emotional and got the worst side of me out! I mean, he tried to meet women through sex websites when we were married!!! Argh! I could’ve killed him! And still we lasted for 6 and half yrs of painful torture!!!
When the relationship was over, it was a total relief and I will never regret not giving him another chance no matter how much he cried and tried!
I’m the Gemini and my boyfriend is the Pisces. It’s pretty crazy how some of these common problems seem so accurate. We’re pretty explosive and I think it could be true that the incredible sex is the result of frustrations with each other. I don’t doubt that we both love each other, and in all honesty I think sometimes I wish I had the self-discipline of my Pisces, but that nagging desire for freedom is always sabotaging things subconsciously in the back of my head. Even when I try to do everything right by Pisces, I still manage to say the wrong thing, or anger him, and then we’re just locked there with out any means to express ourselves or communicate. With others I wouldn’t care, if they didn’t like me, I probably wouldn’t like them. But I love my beautiful solemn Pisces. He’s amazing.
I am a gemini and my boyfriend of almost 2 years is a pisces. We have our arguments and our fights and they ended horribly. But we always worked it out and everything was good. We love each other too much to let this stuff keep us apart. I didnt even believe in love until i met him. And now he lives on the opposite side of the country but we are still in love ; and we see each other as often as possible.
Molly and Amber,
I’m a Pisces man married to a Gemini woman. We too have differences, but rather than get entangled in argument, we’ve just pretty much agreed that when one of us has a problem with the other’s point of view, we just concede to the other. Since our differences seem to be pretty much 50/50 it works out very well. If you and your Pisces partner try this for just a little while, you may find out it works out quite well.
If you really give it some thought, you may realize that about 50% of the arguments are because you disagree with something he has done or said and the other are because he disagrees with something you’ve done or said. If you just agree to go along with him when you disagree and he decides to go along with you when you disagree, then the result is no arguments, you’d both get your way about the same amount of the time in the long run, and you’d end up with a lot better relationship. 50/50 is the way a relationship should be anyhow.
Both Pisces and Gemini seek to be fair, so the overall result should also be fair. Kinda like the yin and yang of disagreement.
Molly, John…
You guys really helped me big time…THANK YOU!!!
Before this I was really confused and frustrated with my Piscean jerk of a boyfriend. Before even reading what Molly wrote, I was as patient as I could ever be to another human being because I love him…but obviously, being a Gemini, WAITING IS REALLY FRUSTRATING!!!
So after I read what Molly wrote…I felt as if a burden was lifted from inside of me (the frustration) and was replaced by a lighter burden (which I hope I can cope with). Really…I can’t even describe how grateful I am to know that I’m not the only one battling this inner war of insecurity. I’ll definitely try my best to be more patient (and I hope I won’t die trying).
John…honestly…you’re saying the things that he somehow couldn’t/wouldn’t (which is frustrating) explain to me himself. I get that he needs his space and will pop back in whenever he feels like it…but isn’t that just selfish? Okay, wouldn’t want to set off the Gemini-Pisces bomb here…but I would really appreciate it if you could just try explaining it to me because it would really help me to understand him better.
And I just want to share an experience I had with my Piscean jerk of a BF (but I love him, still). It really struck me this one time when he said that I was thoughtless when he shared his problems with me…definitely a huge blow for me. He said I wasn’t being “genuine” in showing that I care…and at that point I was pissed. I would understand, really I would, if he said that I wasn’t “correctly” showing that I cared…but “not genuine”? *sigh* Then he apologized and we got over it quick (thank God both signs don’t like to linger).
So yeah, I really do admit to the fact that Gemini-Pisces relationships are hard…REALLY HARD. Definitely 5 stars to those who made it happen…and I really hope that mine would last forever (now how many stars would that be…the whole universe? lol).
Geminis like things to make sense…so I hope all you Pisces out there who are also struggling with us…please make an effort to explain. It might still not make sense but honestly…we would still appreciate the effort.
My next step: Stop frustrating about him! Get a life! In the end he’ll come crawling back like he always do!
P/S: what do Pisces mean, when they start being unresponsive and words like “So?”, “Err”, “IDK”, “Cool”, “I guess” start to pop up?
my husband is a gemini (dragon) i am the pisces(snake)
we have been married for little over half a year..
and we have drama,and then its so romantic and wonderful…
with the one week of calm..this is our month every month…
but god i love him..i don’t know what it is I’m drawn to him…
we’ve been together for three years and have had two children in the process.i hope this lasts…
our relationship takes a lot of compromises
Hi all. I’m a 21 y/o Gemini female, I’ve been with my Pisce for close to 3 years.
I would strongly agree that there are general nature between the two is almost opposite. We both are so different in our ways. Im very intellectual, him very intuitive. I think its pure luck that our personality’s mix so well. When we fight, it usually ends it with a cheeky joke from me and a cuddle from him. We dont purposely do or say harmful things to each other, we have learnt thru awareness exactly what the others needs are. Sure we disagree on alot of things, I just think the main component is compromise.
I do believe Gemini-Pisces can work,
the answer is Love. honest, freeing, uniting Love.
My only advice, to both Gem and Pisces is if it has become clear to both the relationship will not work, know when to leave.
If your love has become bitter and destructive.
Dont bask in it.
I Love You Jay
I am a Pisces and for some reason I attract a lot of Gemini women. I think they are great though, don’t get me wrong. Some of the best conversations I’ve had have been with them, as well as other things haha.
The only sign in my chart that is really compatible with them is my Pluto in Libra… weird.
I’m a gemini/monkey and my boyfriend is a pisces/goat. I met him just over four months ago and I liked him instantly. Over these past several months as I have gotten to know him, I’ve discovered that he is one of the best men I’ve ever met. He is so gentle and caring and he always seems to do the right thing. He makes me feel so safe and loved. I can definitely agree with most of you that as a pisces he is emotional and that I as the gemini am more of the rational thinker in the relationship. This has led us to not agree on a few matters but defiintely not to the point of us arguing etc. We simply calmly agree to disagree and then we move on. I think that a few of you hit the nail on the head when you said that patience will be the key to the relationship between these two signs working. There are so many times that I can tell he is thinking about something and being the gemini that I am, I ask him to share with me and he simply will not. It can be very frustrating for me but I realize that harassing him to tell me what’s on his mind will not make him tell me any faster, so I actually have to force myself to go against my nature to leave him alone to tell me if, and when, he is ready. He does things in his own time. It also means that sometimes 3 weeks after something has happened he out of the blue will say…’do you remember when…well I did not like that.’ and I am completely floored that he is still thinking about something that happend 3 weeks prior, and yet at the time he never even hinted that he had a problem with whatever it was that was bothering him! It can be difficult to say the least because as a gemini I tell you what’s on my mind right away and then move on quickly, you never have to guess what I’m thinking. Patience is certainly a necessity.
In general being the gemini I am the wild, adventurous one and he, being the pisces is the much calmer, more risk averse type of person. I find however that I’ve waited so long for a good guy that I don’t even mind his conservative, delayed response, hardly share his feelings nature. That only goes to prove another point one of you made before as well, which was that the more mature you are when you enter into a relationship with a pisces the better and more likely it will be to work. We are both 29 and had I met him 5-7 years ago it would never have worked because I would not have been able to calm myself enough to spend so much time with him (he likes a lot of attention, and he also gives a lot of attention). I think he definitely would have crowded and stifled me back then. There’s a lot to be said for growing up.
Every day I pray for our relationship to work because I’ve never met a better man and I hope that my inpatient, too talkative, slightly irrational at times, nature does not overcome me and destroy what could be the best thing that ever happened to me.
I am therefore going to say that I’m not going to let all of the negative comments about this sign union affect me, or my approach, to this relationship in anyway and I do believe in astrology etc. but I also believe in myself and the ability the mind has in influencing outcomes. We are truly what we think, so if you approach your relationships (despite the sign of your partner) with positive thoughts, and put your best foot forward to make it work, chances are you will be successful despite the odds. I was not always this optimistic but time and experiences have taught me a lot.
Good luck to all of you trying to make your gemini/pisces unions work! I know mine will work because I’ve already made that decision!
I am a pieces/male I have had an on going internet relationship with a beautiful gemini this has been going on for months now, after reading comments on this site about the match between these 2 star signs is not that good, I would like to say it can happen if you want it bad enough, after all the frustration of just talking on phone and the net (msn) we got together finally. I can honestly say it was a match that was meant to happen, from the moment I first saw her I knew it was meant to be it’s a moment that will forever fill my memories and made my love for her so much stronger. We spent all our time together barely out of each others sight just doing everything that you would expect from long term couples, it was all just so natural we had a lot of laughs about what we said in our chats and made a few new memories that I for one will never forget. I can say I have fallen deeply in love with this beautiful gemini and want to make this union between us a more permanent relationship
I am a gemini/monkey girl and my love is a Pisces/Rooster. We have been together for a few months but been friends for about 9months. Online he is the most patient person I have ever met ( me being a Gemini monkey patience isnt my strong point lol) so I love that quality in him..he is kind and caring and very un-selfish. I find I can talk to him about anything and know I am not being judged..hes very easy to talk to. He is also a sweet talker lol.. I think this was one of the things which made me fall in love with him.He sometimes goes off in his own little world which from what I have read this is a normal Pisces trait..so I just let him do whatever it is hes doing and he always comes back to earth sweeter than ever! We did the internet thing for some months and finally decided to meet..i was a bit scared/nervous but when I seen him walk out the airport I knew that all my worrying was for nothing..I was with him for 2 days and it was the most wonderful 2 days of my life..he was so sweet and kind and loving..I have never met a man like him before..we were inseperable..he was perfect! we together were perfect! I’m not sure whats happened with all these failed gemini/pisces relationships people have posted on here but we definately mix well together,,highly compatible. I think coz we communicate with eachother well. He wasn’t like that at first but he is good at it now and we can talk about anything..might be coz I can talk the ears off a donkey and he’s a good listener lol not sure but it works. I know that he is the only one for me and this is a match made in heaven.
So for all the people who are worried about these 2 signs being compatible I think it can work if you’re honest and open with eachother.. COMMUNICATION is the key in this one and if you can do that then you will have a relationship which is filled with love,happiness,affection and laughter.
ps Love you baby xoxoxox
Hi, my names Brianna and Im a pisces, and my best friend and now boyfriend are getting along great. Though at times I get VERY annoyed that hes not paying very much attention to me. I do tend to ignore it and move on but at times I feel unloved and not very happy. It does happen that he does “leave” to his own lil’areas, but he comes right back for me.
But we also are two signs that work perfectly together, the boar(me) and the dog(him)…Im wondering if those parts of us will keep us together…?
If anyone knows email me at suicidalteddy09@yahoo.com
(also I share this with another pisces, who is intetested!!)
Hi there,
I (A Pisces 3/18/63) I Broke up with My Girlfriend(A Gemini 6/5/63)of 4 years because of the way she lacks disipline in her Children(she has 4 kids) 3 of those years have been great but she had to send her troubled son to live with her sister because he was out of control & since that happened she is like in a depression and pushing away the people who care & love her.(she used to put me on a pedistal and hint about a ring being put on her finger as in marrage)so anyway after 3 weeks of Breaking up, it hit me that I really Missed her, so I asked her to reconsile to which she replied that she was really Confused and that I treated her Like a Child and we sat there embraced for awhile(she stopped short of saying no way)she is a single mom who gets little or no financial support from her exs so she told me she was poor and had nothing to offer me and puts me through allot with her drama(2 of the kids are adhd and the one has behavioral problems) I told her that I could have walked away because of that but I.m still there,I also appologized for breaking things off with her,I also told her she could move in with me since it will help her to a better life & her 5yo would both go to a better school & live in a nicer neighborhood. so I asked her to a go to a Concert and we went and had a great time,she really opened up & told me why she has a hard time Disiplining her kids,etc.she also told me she is angry about her life and she is taking her anger out on me but she held my hand at times & was a great evening, but we got home Late and she kissed me on the lips & thanked me & said she had a great time, I told her to call me and she said I will. a week has gone by and no call? my friends say to let her call me & I shouldnt call her? any advice would be helpful? p.s. she also said that I could see her 5yo child anytime since i was like his father as his birth father is not around and he has not seen him since he was less then a year.
This is sooooo true! I am a gemini female who dated a crazy fish (pisces) male for 4 years. I feel like a new person every since I broke up with him and it feels great. I thought I was emontional but Yes the pisces was to emontional for me. We did love hard but fought even harder. He wanted ALL of my time and was very jealous. I knew from the moment I saw him it would be trouble but he ended up being the love of my life (which I had thought at the time). He would get so mad at any small thing and break up with me, than five mins. later ask me back out? lol. I always thought we would get married untill one day I had just about had it with the lying, crying, jealousy, and just annoying face, then I broke up with him! for good! Very true about the “no inbetween” we tryed to be friends because I really wanted to but the pisces just could not stop trying to tell me what to do. He always tryed to ask me back out, tell me so sorry he was, cry and cry untill he couldnt cry anymore, and the worst of it all, HE THOUGHT HE COULD CONTROL ME AS BEING MY FRIEND…ugh so even though he was my love I just can not ever talk to him again because we cant work in a relationship or friendship.
I dont get whats everyone on about? Im a Pisces and my man a full on Gemini. Been in lotsa relationships and nothing has been SO much fun or stimulating like this one. Im NEVER bored and we are constantly going on a new adventure, exploring new horizons and everything is constantly changing which is just the way i like it. we both talk openly and freely about our emotions and our thoughts, but i geuss it works coz i might be the more rational pisces when it comes to controlling my emotions. When at times i get a typical Piscean mood swing or emotional outburst, he handles it by being very indifferent, straightforward or starts joking about with me while trying to look serious at the same time, haha. It calms me down, helps me rationalize and see things the way it is immediately. I love the fact that he is unpredictable, diverse and open minded. We both understand that sometimes both of us dissapear to our own worlds. No one ever understood that until i met the Gemini. We are both very very sociable people so when we go out both of us shoots in different directions and start working the room! Often we spend a whole night out without physically spending time together but there is always a knowing & subtle flirtatious eye contact between us right through coz we both know who’s gonna take who home at the end of the night ;-). We both love our freedom and understands that the one cant box the other in otherwise we are both looking for trouble. WE’re both playful, mischievious and our conversations are endless.I love the fact that he is the more logical and the way his mind works intrigues me immensely. He is flame sharp with his tongue and even though he may come over as insensitive at times to other people, strangely enough - it amuses me immensely that he takes the piss out of people or even me in such a subtle and playful way. Sometimes people confuses insensitivity with the naked truth, when all they are really stating is the obvious truth in just a really blunt way. I LOVE IT.
I’d love to hear what the creator of the forum’s opinion is about this? Is it because i am not a 100% pisces? I think that the way i grew up forced me to be more of a rational and logical thinker because ive learned from a young age that being dreamy and unrealistic wont make you survive in a tough world where you have to be super strong, cool headed, realistic and not take yourself so seriously otherwise you’ll never survive.IS this then a bases on which a pisces and gemini will work?
Life is all about balance so sometimes i think the only draw back is that we both struggle to find our limits sometimes. we just seem to keep going and sometimes not know where to draw the line! Strangely enough both of us senses this and there will always be one of the two that sometimes pulls the rope to get everything back in balance again.
Also if you find someone who shares the same values as you - never mind the starsign - then you got it working for you!
Hello, I am a female gemini who has known her pisces male for more than 5 years and have dated him for a year and almost 2 months. We get along great, we can talk about anything,and he is a great listener. He has a great sense of humor and so do I, we gemini’s are good for the laughs, we have a natural youth about us. He is a busy guy though, working at all hours of the night, but he is committed, and when he has made a committment he sticks with it. Honest, truthful, and sincere, he was brought up well.