Honestly, bubba, I don’t think “the world” cares so much about this as much as you do. But, within your frail futile attempt to trash-talk and mis-represent me at a grand stage, I only found one re-affirming thing that I’ve brought up time and again: that you are the one with the baggage.

I was kind enough to talk to you (calmly, mannerly and kindly, mind you) at the beginning, of course. But, you had to take my response to yours (which, again, were not even coherent on the topic that I was original speaking about in the other forum) as personal attacks. You keep giving me the power to affect you where power wasn’t even due me. What can I say? Should I be chuckling at you or crying for you? I have yet to decide on this…

Now, why don’t you be a good little fish and quit trying to stir trouble. You’ve already tried it two or three times, and it didn’t deliver.

Johanna

I’m taking this opportunity to shed some light on this evil person. Soon enough this person will be brought in front of a global audience to face her repercussions.

You still haven’t revealed your true identity. Your heroic and humble servitude to humanity surely deserves some recognition. Allow me the honor to convey it to the world.

Kindly and Salaciously,
Steve

You’re just not going to “win,” Steve, please just accept it. Concluding, I know that you have personal anger issues with cancers that YOU need to work out with yourself. No matter what you say and how much you try to convince other readers that I have trouble with Pisces, we already know that you’re the one with the problems with Cancer.

Warmly (AND saliciously *tsk*),
Johanna

I do see and I do understand. I have had a bad experience with a Cancer, but that’s in the past. I harbor no bad feelings towards you or any other Cancer. My statements are based on my observations in real life. And your original post further validates my point. The behavior that I have witnessed in real life and on here mirror exactly what Cancer’s do. That doesn’t mean all of them. Just from my experience. Again, you keep saying that no Pisces is involved, but I think differently. And since I’m PHYSIC, I would know. If a Pisces left you, don’t take it personal. Think of it as a self preservation mechanism.

Also, I can see how depression would warrant your “Cancers are caring” post, but fail to see how that applies in this thread. I hear and read anger. You need to admit there is some bitterness, sadness, anger in your post before I continue this any further.

Come forth silent rogue and reveal your true identity.

If you do, I’ll promise to help you see the brighter side of things;)

Warmly,
Steve

I had kindly and most respectfully advised that there seems to be some petty prejudices (not pre-conceived notions) against the sign of Cancer coming from you (your messages, being enamored with Cancers “trying to promote their own image,” “Cancers think they are saving the world but they’re not” (Are we Cancers really? I didn’t know it. Honest! lol), “Cancers need to know that they have bullies against them too,” etc., are my evidences) that perhaps you would like to have self-observed. I see, though, that you aren’t going to do this.

I’m not mad at you, Steve, nor do I bare any grudge; that is a promise. Irritated is more appropriate, but nothing more. I understand that you, like me and everyone else, have at least some baggage perhaps from YOUR own bad experiences with Cancers. Trying to point fingers back at me is not going to help you. Trying to manipulate my posts to make them negative and yours positive is not going to help you. Trying to manipulate the content of two unrelated topics (the first being that I feel depressed with what I believe is my dull Cancerian life of ONLY caring for people personally and the second being that Cancers should be careful to not be too overwhelming to Pisces) and then putting it together to create some pixelated image will not help you. But, most importantly, trying to turn the tables on me and tell me that I’m the one with these problems (Sour grapes? Changing aliases to promote an image?) is not going to help you. You should have these things worked out with yourself. But, in order for you to do this, you’re gonna HAVE to acknowledge that you have at least some bad prejudice against Cancer; that is the first step.

I should hope that you can take these things to heart if you don’t already. Concluding, I never said Cancers and Pisces were not a good match.

Sincere Regards,
Johanna

p. s. The only reason I used the name “Yada” in the other forum was because I forgot that I used my other nickname Johanna here. Quite simply.

I have no preconceived notions about Cancer. As I mentioned early, every Cancer that I have met has been a friend for life. The two share a bond right off the bat, either romantically or in friendship. My bad experiences with Cancer are isolated and a result of poor up-bringing, possible abuse and a case of damaged goods. I was not the first person to come here and bash the pair. In fact, I’m on here to reassure myself that the pair is a favorable match.

You’re first post to is to warn Cancer’s about the Pisces. A great service you’re doing. Warn them of what? It sounds like a Pisces didn’t bite your bait and now you’re a little bitter…perhaps? Then you change aliases and post how Cancer’s are “caring.” If this isn’t a classic case of bitterness and a desperate attempt for sympathy, apathy, attention, then I’m not sure where you’re going with this.

“Interesting to note that the majority of repliers here are Cancers speaking about the most romantic experiences with a Pisces.” These are your own words. The majority of posters are saying pretty much the same thing. Then you go and post your hate speech/propaganda for no reason what so ever. Again, this seems a little like sour grapes to me. I think you believe you’re doing some great service for people, when in fact, you’re not. I believe the same trend will be found in your real life also.

Please leave the comments positive or based on your personal experiences only, or say nothing at all.

I think instead of the word “magnanimous”, a more appropriate term that would better imply my point would simply be “overwhelming”. (Or, perhaps another term that denotes “intimidatingly ‘larger’ in behaviour” or “bigger in which is hard to counter-attack”, etc. etc.). “Magnanimous,” as I learned, has a forgiveness and nobility component in it, which has nothing to do with my point at hand. (Not saying that Cancers aren’t forgiving, simply that it’s not what I was speaking upon).

Your first post warns Cancers about the pisces, but even in your own words the majority of the comments are of good relations between cancer/pisces. Then you deceptively, create another alias and comment how Cancers are “caring.” If sympathy, apathy, attention..etc is not what you are seeking, then I’m not sure to what your motives are. It sounds like to me, a pisces left you high and dry. Now in hindsight, you wish that were not the case.

As far as coming on too “strong,” it is impossible with a pisces/cancer connection. There is instantly a connection between the two. Your pisces may have “swam away” because he see’s something he doesn’t like. My guess is your pisces never really allowed himself to get too close in the first place.

It sounds like, the type of relationships that you are familiar with involve constant struggle, fights, general incompatibility. You then tried to create that same hostile environment with your pisces. This would probably send your pisces swimming, because you would come off as bi-poloar.

Again I say, every Cancer that I have ever met has been a friend for life. Do I have/had a bad experience with Cancer? Yes, of course. But rather an isolated incident, that I have tallied to damaged goods. But still, I wasn’t the first person to take a stance against the pair, in fact, I was on here to reassure myself that all is good with the pisces/cancer pair.

Sweetie do u know what your chart is? You may be more Gemini than cancer. Or all gemini.

I do understand what you are saying. However, we don’t seem to be talking about the same things. I have only implied (or, been meaning to imply) so far that sometimes, the Cancer juxtaposed to a Pisces may sometimes come off as being a bit too magnanimous in behaviour. (In arbitrary ways) This can often times irritate and/or scare the pisces, because he/she feel that Cancer’s natural personality is coming onto him/her a tad bit too strong. (In this way, I referred to Cancer as “bullies”, again, simply for a lack of better terms)

As I have a parallel discussion with you in the “Are All Cancers caring?” thread (where my secondary screen name is “Yada”), before I continue to discuss anything any further, I would like to kindly and most respectfully ask you to take a deep breath and then reflect on why you seem to have such a prejudicial view of Cancer as a sign and seem so un-apologetically ready to akin Cancers as potential bullies before any thing has truly been said in that light. Because, I never said that cancers as a sign WERE bullies. (meaning, people who purposely belittle and/or pick on poor innocent victims to gain power, respect, friendship, etc.)

(Surely, though, for my own information, the very fact that you already think negatively of Cancers in the previously-mentioned light without any influence from me would help support my very point in regards to how Cancers may come off to pisces, even if this is perhaps a more extreme example? Surely, this post here might make certain pisces “swim away”?)