Pisces Compatibility With Cancer |
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Pisces and Cancer
This Water combination certainly hits the spot for both the Pisces and the Cancer. As they are both very emotional they have a great understanding of each other’s needs which they will revel in, as a lot of people can’t seem to get their heads around this pair’s emotional roller-coaster ride! There is also no shortage of affection between these two Water signs also and they care for one another greatly. This is definitely a match made in heaven.
The Pisces is a dreamer and the Cancer is too but is also hard working, bringing these two traits together will ensure that this couple do not just talk about their dreams they actually turn them into reality also. Cancer is very protective and this is exactly what the Pisces needs. One trouble this otherwise wonderful couple may come across though is that Cancer may want to get into the Pisces head, and find out what really goes on in there. This will only cause the Pisces to retreat into his/her mind even further. The solution is to just accept each other the way you both are, after all that is what attracted you in the first place right?
As a couple they will adore art galleries and the Cinema will play an important role as well. And as long as they don’t stop doing things together, this relationship could well endure the tests of time. It is wise to really understand each other as both the Cancer and the Pisces alike can go through bouts of depression and even self pity. Having to put up with each other may become too much, but I feel in the long run it will be worth it. A wonderful, long lasting connection is assured.
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March 6th, 2008 at 3:10 am
My partner is a Pisces and and I am a Cancer.
I just wanted to say how this is very dead on and We both feel completely accurate.
Were it says Cancer will try to get in to Pisces head, For us it’s the other way around but We do understand that we should accept eachother the way they are and I believe we have done that.
Anyway. Kudos to those involve in the research for this.
May 26th, 2008 at 4:44 am
The woman that touched my life for the first ever was a cancer and my piscean ways fully matched hers, vice versa. I never communicated better. I never was as open with a person and never felt as close and calm with a woman. All can say is wow.
June 24th, 2008 at 8:29 pm
i m a CANCER girl and my boyfriend is a PISCIEN.earlier i had a CAPRICON boyfrnd.and our relationshp last for only 20 days..but relationship wid my PISCIEN BF is still goin and growing healthier.recently we celebrated our 1st Anniversery.we really have gr8 understanding and he love and care me very very much.he is so good human being that i cant describe …i m madly in love wid him.. really we share a gr8 COMPATIBILITY
July 1st, 2008 at 5:39 am
My boyfriend is a pisces and I am a cancer woman. I can honestly say we are made for each other. I have never had this connection with any other sign. I love him and I know he loves me:)
August 28th, 2008 at 11:50 am
…mah bhoi ryt now is a cancerian…i can say that he luvs me ryt now…im a piscean woman and i sometimes fil dat he isn’t over abt his X girlfriend w/c kips me worrying…i wonder now if he truly luvs me or is just satisfying me ryt now…but i luv him…
September 17th, 2008 at 2:33 am
that’s exactly true ..me the cancer woman and my husband the pisces guy
December 16th, 2008 at 10:28 am
I also have to agree with combination!! I am a cancer gil who is crazy abot her fish man!LOL
Which is scary at times cause it just seems too good to be true!!(Coming from an explosive relationship with a leo) Dont get me wrong,it isnt without its faults but we really understand each other and are truly very tolerant people! Very passionate about each other!! From the moment we met there has always been “ELECTRIC” energy between us! We are both vey affectionate which with somebody else may be seen as “clingy”(hate that word)but it work for us!This is a perfect union on all levels! Emotional,physical and spiritually!
January 21st, 2009 at 10:19 pm
I am a Cancer women and my sweetheart is a Pisces man. He makes me feel more special then I felt in many years.. And the sex…oh my god, the sex that we have is outta this world. It’s like when it comes to me, he knows EXACTLY what to do, with out me saying a word. The connection is unbelievable. And i do agree that trying to get into his head is damn near impossible, the more i dig the more he holds back… He is the sweetest-toughest man i’ve met in such a long time…Even if this doesn’t work . i will be able to say I am glad I met him… and i am willing to be friends.. This is the first time I’ve ever been able to say that…
January 28th, 2009 at 12:53 am
I’ve been reading all your comments and the pisces/cancer description above, and I feel very inspired. I’m a pisces girl. In high school, I like this cancer guy. Whenever we pass in the hallway, we tend to look into eachother’s eyes, and I feel it’s like telepathy, I swear. I feel that he may like me too.
I wanted to make my move and start a conversation, but I’ve stalled with it in fear of rejection. But then a Sagitarius made her move first, and ended up being his girlfriend. I feel really disappoited. But I’m still feel a connection whenever we see eachother. And we still make eye contact whenever we pass eachother wherever…
January 29th, 2009 at 8:32 pm
Ive been reading all the comments…
and i can honestly say i relate to prcaticall all of them.. im a cancer woman who got out of a really bad relationship with a sagitarius man who treated me really bad…i eventually got sick of all the B.S and decided to leave him, let me tell you, best choice i made in my whole life…about a month later i met a man who is a pisces and beautiful in and out, we started talking and getting closer to eachother and openned up to eachother since.
we have so much fun together, we value eachother like nothing else in this world.
we love eachother like crazy.
and the sex is incredible. i really believe this is the best match i have ever found.
there is noone else out there like him. he adores me very much.
February 2nd, 2009 at 4:33 am
hi wow some of all of this is true , i mean i am a cancer and he is pisces but sometimes he gets mad and i try 2 bring him back and it works but than sometimes i just want 2 end it but than somehow he brings me back to him than i know i really do love him and i guess its ture love makes u crazy as hell
February 6th, 2009 at 7:55 pm
WOW ….I am a picses woman , so I’m very indecisive , I was scared to jump into the relationship with him so I dated ….alot…and when the cancer and I werent ecxclusive I still felt this deep connection with him , and so I came running back !! Were together today and still going strong , everything said has deeply given us an understanding and we completely agree I love him and he loves me A MATCH MADE IN HEAVEN
March 11th, 2009 at 1:12 am
I am a cancerian that most definitely connects with pisceans, both in friendship and in love. I just met the man of my dreams. I’ve liked him for a while and discovered he liked me, too. Although I am sooo timid, I asked him out and he accepted. He’s quite a bit younger, albeit very mature, lefty, super hunky, and so pisces. I actually guessed that he was and was astounded that I was right! I’ve been with a pisces before (4 years) and only distance parted us, but it was the most understanding, calm, enjoyable, and fulfilling relationship I’ve ever been in. We always seemed to use humor to get through life and relationship difficulties, so we never fought. Anyway, I’m hopeful this works out, because he appears to be everything I could want in a relationship, let alone a friendship.
March 14th, 2009 at 8:08 am
I am a pisces male and I met my cancer female at work. We have been talking for some time and recently mutually decided to bring it to the next level. I feel very connected to this person in a very short period of time. We haven’t even touched each other yet but I know when we do it will be very special. I haven’t been this open with anybody and I look forward to see what happens with this beautiful person. I know only time can tell but I have my fingers crossed!
March 14th, 2009 at 5:00 pm
I have recently met a pisces man. Previously, i have never dated a pisces before. And after meeting this man, I feel stupid for never having done so. We haven’t been talking for very long but already I can tell we are going somewhere. Everything I (we) have read about our connection has been dead on. He hasn’t touched me yet, but by the sounds of it it is going to be amazing. I’ve never had this connection before and just like “J” I am keeping my fingers crossed.
March 26th, 2009 at 8:28 pm
okay,its a confession…..first of all,i’m into a libra guy.but he seems to be interested with other girl as the hors said,popular amongs peole especially girls.but now i’m over him,i’m into this piscean guy right now.i found connection somewhere but he lives far away
April 1st, 2009 at 2:14 pm
This relationship between a Cancer and Pisces is truly amazing.
I (a cancerian) had a relationship lasting one year and four months (which is a long time for a seventeen year old) and it was the most amazing relationship ever!
However i was a fool and I let him go…
To all you people that have commneted before and are planning to go into this highly emotional relationship don’t make the same mistake i did!!! Hold onto them with everything you got becasue otherwise you’ll end up regretting it…
April 4th, 2009 at 12:54 am
Yes, I would have to say that of all the signs this is the definitely most compatible. The day I met my Pisces man I told myself I met the man I was going to marry, and we are now engaged. He is my best friend, my lover, my soul mate, my true love, my husband, my King!!! Never have I felt a connection like this, and I have a feeling it is going to last forever!!!
April 9th, 2009 at 12:44 am
let me just say that not all of us fish are the same even though we may swim in the same school…just as not all cancers scuttle in the same direction…
when i met my sweetheart i had no intentions on getting to know her…because a couple of my knuckle head friends were fighting over her like they usually do when they have an attractive member of the opposite sex between them….but something was different about her…even though i had just met her…i felt something drawing me near her…something about her presence no matter how hard i tried to resist just pulled my energy towards her…and even though she was already in a relationship at the time when we did start talking i knew she wasn’t happy…so i made my intentions known..and even though complications arose and i had to stop talking to her for two months…i let time take its course and it brought us back together…and i can honestly say…this is the happiest i’ve ever been…and i really do see a future for us…
now i’ve dated a cancer before..and i can say not all cancers are alike…but even if you do find one or vice versa just know that how ever long you are with them you’ll never forget them..and they’ll never forget you
April 16th, 2009 at 3:28 am
Im a cancer girl! &nd my boyfriend is a pisces..I absolutely love him and he loves me but sometimes it jus seems like he cant open up to me,..then when i tell him my feelings his reactions seem to not care but he says he does..if he does why doesnt he show it? it really irritates me sometimes i just wanna give up then we click again nd i love him all over again…but ima jus let it flow and see where it takes us cuz we been 2gether too long for me 2 just give up
April 26th, 2009 at 6:15 pm
i am a pisces male and let me say that what they say about pisces being sensitive, dreamers, looks at situations in broad perspectives, and are caring is all so true. Also, the compatility of caner and pisces is dead on. the way the cancers show their emotions spark piscians’ nature of sympathy and caring that they enjoy doing so much. in return, cancers seem to have it all, they dream but they also have groundation. this groundation helps them both, since cancer can make things happen and pisces are like mechians spitting out cleaver ideas, there’s no wrong with this match.
April 29th, 2009 at 10:31 pm
i met a pisces guy but we dnt talk anymre coz he is just a ass hole but i cnt stop thinkin about him…wen we us to talk its like i have know him for a long time….i even felt like he was my soulmate…i really miss him and we dnt even talk anymre but i hope we start talkin again so that i can tell him hw i really feel.
April 30th, 2009 at 12:25 pm
Cancer babii*,
You mention that your pisces doesn’t respond as you think he should when you open up to him. The reason is that he most likely already knows you better than you know yourself - even though he may never really let you know. It may seem a little weird, but that’s the way of the pisces.
If he says he cares, but your relationship seems kinda dull, maybe you should work together to find ways to add excitement to it. For example, take turns going out and doing whatever the other one wants to do. Maybe an art museum or festival, or maybe just a night out to dinner. If you put excitement back into your relationship, you’ll both most likely have a lot more to talk about, and part of that talk
will then become some talk about how much you both can enjoy each other’s company, and of course how much you appreciate each other.
Good luck.
April 30th, 2009 at 12:28 pm
tami,
As I just mentioned to the other person here, you don’t need to tell a pisces how you feel as he will already know. Make sure your feelings are sincere, and your pisces will likely return.
May 12th, 2009 at 1:22 am
Me and my bf are cancer and pisces and and we both find this very accurate.
May 13th, 2009 at 6:32 am
I am a pisces girl and I am interested in a cancer guy. From the moment I saw him, I was drawn to him. We have a class together and Idk if he is in to me, but I sure would like to find out. I have caught him staring at me a couple of times, but I still don’t know… His eyes are so great! What I would do to be able to stare into his eyes everyday.
May 18th, 2009 at 8:19 pm
I have been friends with a pisces guy now for a couple months. There is never a awkward silence between us and I like that. One of my friends had always thought he was interested in me. We have talked more and more and I think I’m starting to like him more and more. I have been in a relationship of 6yrs with a virgo and that didn’t work at all. I was also in a relationship of 3yrs with a scorpio and he put me through hell. Out of my compatabilites…..I’m hoping that this pisces will be my perfect match.
May 20th, 2009 at 4:35 pm
IM A PISCES GIRL AND MY BF IS A CANCER. I’M IN HIGH SCHOOL AND I GOTTA SAY THIS DEFF ISNT PUPPY LOVE. THIS IS ACTUALLY PISCES LOVE. I HAVE NEVER BEEN IN LOVE LIKE THIS B4 OR THIS FAST. EVERYTHING THEY SAY ABOUT OUR COMPATIBILITY IS SO TRUE. HE IS SO OVER PROTECTIVE
June 10th, 2009 at 2:24 am
I want to repeat the words - it`s so true. I`m Pisces woman, and I`m in love with a Cancer man. Sometimes I have doubts, I think it won`t last, I feel it just because I`m lonely, but the moment I see his deep dark eyes, his smile, hear his voice I change. It`s so hard neither of us is going to make the first move. But I love him, like I never loved anybody before.
June 13th, 2009 at 9:17 pm
and how do we get this realationship started if we both fear rejection and box send out mixed signals? he still calls me dude, and this bums me out…
June 21st, 2009 at 12:52 am
well im actually a gemini,but my personality is more that of a cancer,and my boy friend is a pisces,out of all the boy friends i have ever had,i love this one the most.hes like a dream come true and exactly what i always dreamed of.i love a guy whos so sensative understanding and such a thinker,and i like having to kind of work at a relationship to keep it strong,trusting,and loving.hes the best thing that has ever happend to me.
congrads,this was a perfect discription of our relationship. -Amanda
June 24th, 2009 at 9:52 pm
I don’t agree fully, to me Cancers are really wonderful people, but I have been with them and found them way too clingy and cold. They have big heart, very sensitive, hyper emotional quite similar to me being a Pisces female but after being with them I have realized that they are too good to be true.
Passion for them is just being together, they wont take extra efforts to show you that yes they love and they worship you. Once they have to got a heck of you, they ll start taking things for granted thinking oh he or she would understand. But things doesn’t move around like this. May be I am being too harsh on every Cancer but as we all know Astrology gives us the base. It is not all.
Take care people..keep loving..
June 25th, 2009 at 4:10 pm
Previously, I have often wondered why it is that I keep attracting Pisces males throughout my life, even now I am engaged to a great guy who happens to be one. Astrologically, we are not compatible, as I am a June 20th gemini.
After doing some reading, I have come to find out that the whole idea of a cusp really can have influence in ones chart. So, I find that I agree with many of the posts here because I do see a few of these traits in myself.
In trying to combat my seemingly fate of being with pisces males, I have tried to not date guys that I am attracted to. It didn’t work, so instead I have tried learning how to work with these guys and understand them better. So far, my approach has worked and I am currently engaged to a pisces male. It’s definitely the best relationship that I have ever had. But….
As one who is cancer-like when it comes to relationships, I still can’t seemed to shake the general frustration with the pisces because of basic stereotype of their “living inside their head.” This may be my gemini side coming out.
They are great and accomodating, loving people but lack of communication is boring. Also, a lack of enthusiasm for adventures. Same as cancers, whom I really can’t stand to date. Just like the cancer-cancer article said, we are not compatible, not because I found they were too much like me but because they are secretive, boring, clingy, and I can’t handle their depressed mood swings. The pisces, I tend to be able to draw them out more because they more malleable and the cancer is stubborn as h e l l. (Sorry cancers… I know this doesn’t mean all of you, it’s just the ones I have had dealings with.)
Still, unfortunately, it always falls on me to create things for us as a couple, or I find someone else to do them with. I have a great social life but love to do things with my signifcant other. It’s a problem that I have learned, and am still learning, to deal with. He is happy just being together, but I am happy when we are doing things together. Or, at the least, have something to talk about.
July 4th, 2009 at 11:32 pm
I’ve recently started an emotional relationship with a cancer man and I can truly say that my spirit and sould have never been so connected with anyone else’s. We are experiencing the same feelings at the same time and know how we feel before we even verbalize it… Very excited about the future, how ever long it last.
July 7th, 2009 at 6:31 pm
i am a cancer women and i have been talking to a cancer male for 2 and a half years I love him with all my heart i really want to take him serious but i cant he act like he dont know what he wants out of our relationship he says he doesnt trust me because of the things I have done in the pass but i want him to know that i have change i really want to show him that i care about him alot and i want him to take me serious and trust me this time if he could do that then we will be a match made in heaven i know sometimes i can be clingy and very quick tempered with him and thats all because i let my emotions take control of me i want to learn how to control that and make things work with me and him i hope and pray that he is the one and that he will learn how to trust me
July 17th, 2009 at 11:24 am
So thats a “YES” for Pisces and Cancer?
July 18th, 2009 at 1:52 pm
So I met this piscean man 4 years ago when he was still in a relationship with another and I was off men for life. We were attracted from the beginning but I just couldnt let my defences down. He split with this woman a while ago and, since then, we have talked more and more. The problem is that we end up arguing. I hate his views, he is the complete antithesis of all I look for in a man and he says the same about me. Here is an example. My car broke down today and he was the first person I called. Although I live in Spain I dont speak enough spanish yet to deal with this kind of situation.He arrived and organised everything for me phoning around etc. In the car on the way home we had yet another argument. He is a handsome, tall intelligent swiss/italian and I am a small round pale red haired english girl. Why do we argue like this? It always ends up with one or other of us apologising. We havent even touched each other yet but I cant seem to get him out of my head and he will not leave me alone even if its just to argue. How can we be compatible? his birthday is 8th March and mine is 23rd june. HELP HELP
July 19th, 2009 at 10:51 pm
I’m a cancer, and the person I am in love with is a pisces. Never have I met someone so strong willed and inverted. He refuses to open up, and the more I try to understand him the farther he pulls away. This article is insanely true. Recently I tried meeting his needs without asking HIM too many questions. Finding out answers from his brother or his room mate. Now he is paying more attention to me, and is much happier when I am around. He is a bitter person who has much difficulty trusting anyone, but he has a reason. Is there any way I can help him to trust me, anyway I can get him to open up. We’re not dating but i LOVE his company. He makes me feel so much better than any other man ever has been able to. Being with him puts me in a blissful state. I look forward to him and I progressing and growing but I feel like it is impossible to do when he cannot confide in me or trust me in ANY way. What do I do?
July 20th, 2009 at 2:27 pm
So… i didn’t believe all this astrology stuff until i actually started researching it, and comparing it to my personal life. this is DEAD on. btw… i’m a cancer, and i JUST went on a date…YESTERDAY with a pisces guy.
let’s just say that’s the strongest connection i’ve EVER had with a guy so quickly. i came back from the date, and i’ve been sitting here since, in a daze. he totally stunned me. i hope something comes out of it, cause not only is his sign compatible with mine, he’s as close to a perfect guy as i can muster up in my mind! 
July 24th, 2009 at 6:15 am
I’m a pisces male who met a cancer woman three months ago…I can honestly say that this describes us fairly well.
I’ve never known love in my 21 years of life, and I think what I’m feeling for her is the first i’ve ever felt of it. She’s so utterly beautiful and amazing…it’s…it’s indescribable…I hope it never ends. I honestly do.
July 28th, 2009 at 5:32 pm
I’ve been involved with a Pisces man for close to four years and have managed to build a very special relationship with him that is still getting better and stronger. A lot of it came naturally and just fell into place because of that incredible Cancer-Pisces compatibility level. When we first met, there was definitely the “wow” factor there, and the list of things we have in common is quite long.
But, it has not been completely effortless. I have had to learn some important lessons along the way too. I have had to learn the difference between attentive and clingy and to make myself stop being clingy when he needs some space. For a long time, I would get so upset when he pulled away, fearing that the relationship was ending. It made me cling even harder and get overly emotional and he would wind up totally bewildered as to why I was so upset. I learned that while he may pull away now and then he always “comes back” to me. I’ve finally been able to accept that’s it’s just the way he is, and I try and bide my time as best as I can because when he does come back, it’s like falling in love all over again.
July 30th, 2009 at 7:51 am
I AM A PISCES AND I MET THIS CANCER GUY WHO IS SOO DREAMY. IT WAS A INSTANT ATTRACTION. WE ARE IN THE PROCESS OF TALKING RIGHT NOW.. N I JUS FEEL AND KNOW IN THE HEART THAT WE WILL GO FURTHER. ITS LIKE WE RELATE AND FEEL THE SAME THINGS.. yes AND I LOVE IT.
hope things go as a see them in my dreams
July 30th, 2009 at 2:57 pm
I am a Cancer girl; I love my Pisces man…sometimes i also hate him. I dated his close friend for almost 2yrs (effin Leo). We would see each other and just stare at each other for minutes at a time. (even tho my Leo x was right there, too cocky to notice). About six months after Mr. Lyin’(lion) Leo broke up and I “needed someone”. Mr. Pisces got up the nerve to call me. He came over and we talked until the sun came up. When it did we were having sex. That was 1 year and 2 months ago. Well come to find out he had a baby on the way with one of his 8 kids mothers. (who he lived with) She had the baby around our 6th month of dating. (he didnt think it was important enough to mention) Then about three months after that I got pregnant (i couldnt keep it cuz i have one and he has EIGHT) :(. So after cursing me out for getting prego he took me to do it and paid and tried to talk me out of it. Then he disappears for days or weeks at a time. Hes done with me or im done with him or ima cheater or hes a cheater. But if I dont call him for about 4 days he always calls and gets his way to my house…
Cancers its nothing except THOSE SAD EYES! As soon as he bats those pretty things im putty in his hands. He tells me he loves me and that im his girlfriend (despite allllll the other women) and that he will marry me. He also told me one time that he had a ring that he put money down on but when i left him he took it off.
The point is that if this were anyone else in the world i would have told him to hit the road. (not a passive crab; more the snap and run kind) I think about him every moment and when i do he calls and says the sweetest things(im even happy when he yelling; lol) I have been with other men and even have a baby with one. But this guy I can’t get away from. I wish he would just commit or leave me alone. Really just commit…
I REALLY WANT TO HEAR WHAT A FISH MAN THINKS ABOUT ALL THIS AND HIS TRUE FEELINGS AND INTENIONS.
Not broken just a (69)!!
July 30th, 2009 at 7:07 pm
The part about “Cancer may want to get into the Pisces head, and find out what really goes on in there. This will only cause the Pisces to retreat into his/her mind even further” is really true. I’m a Pisces girl and I’ve been dating a Cancer guy for a little while. When ever I get into my really sad moods (as Pisces are known for) he’ll want to know so badly what’s wrong! Sort of cute! Sort of makes me want to hide though! But I know he cares about me. So sweet
July 31st, 2009 at 6:37 pm
I am a Fish, who has swam most my adult life in the opposite direction, looking for a true connection.
I finally found the WOW at 44 years old in the most amazing Cancer man.
I’m in awe and speechless how in such a short time our chemistry is beyond what i have ever experienced with anyone.
August 1st, 2009 at 9:34 pm
I couldnt agree more with all of this. I have met the most wonderful woman in the world, her being a Pisces and me a Cancer. I am glad that you spoke on the topic of trying to get into her head because I have been trying very hard, which I think is just in my nature. I will stop doing this now.
August 4th, 2009 at 3:40 pm
i am a cancer male and the one i love i a pisces female
we had started talkin from like the start of May we got on like a house on fire…we would fall asleep on the phone to each other joke….and all tht other milarky the bottom line is that we was made for each other! 
but i messed it all up with a stupid lie about being a virgin till i was 20 
i was ashamed to tell her untill last night and she got all evil on me acting like she dont care……but when i asked if she loved me she said she always would….and i would always love her….with my mind body and soul…..and all she has seemed to have done it rub things in my face and it hurts so bad i dont know wether to to fight for her or just let her go please help??? 
i cat get her out of my head 
it hurts so bad helppppppp 
August 10th, 2009 at 8:06 am
I am a Pisces girl and recently met a Cancer guy. All my relationships beforehand left me in tears, but we’ve only been together a month, and I know that when he says “I love you”, it’s not a lie.
When I read this I was amzed of how accurate it was. No doubt Cancer and Pisces are a good match
August 10th, 2009 at 8:07 am
I am a Pisces girl and recently met a Cancer guy. All my relationships beforehand left me in tears, but we’ve only been together a month, and I know that when he says “I love you”, it’s not a lie.
When I read this I was amazed of how accurate it was. No doubt Cancer and Pisces are a good match
August 11th, 2009 at 4:25 am
to babii just leave him . he has 8 kids that should tell you something and he wanted you to have an abortion he is usung you. if you like pisces men fine but find a different one HE IS A LOSER GET A BACKBONE DUMP HIM.
August 19th, 2009 at 5:22 pm
THanks jen! I actually was the one who went for the abortion. I do have a backbone but I can’t leave him alone that easily. Even tho most things he says are probably lies, when we are together it doesn’t feel that way. I’ve tried not talking to him and all my cancer/pisces understand; but when he calls its as if nothing ever happened. I have not just sat around i constantly talk to other guys and date as much as possible but the thought of him always clouds any good feelings about someone new. I told him i want to b platonic then he took me to RI on some damn boat trip and got me all over again. I dont know what ur sign is; but i think most cancer/pisces understand this. It like relationship with no benefits or friends with benefits. He is the only man i’ve ever been able to talk to. I love him so much i’d want him to be at my wedding nd approve watever guy im with! Its weird but we have some weird connection that has been there since day one! I def kno that i need to leave but it seems impossible. After a date with another man i get home lay in my bed and think of my FISH! no matter the sign age attractiveness of the guy. Weird i kno because im def the “stand up for myself type”! Thanks for the advice and ill update soon! Probably be updating for 30 years with all his crap but i love him!
August 22nd, 2009 at 8:07 am
Hey every1 I’m a Pisces guy..been always thinking about this Cancer girl alot..have that feelings in my chest thinking bout her. I kn0w we both shy in natural..I see her in my dreams many times. I feel she thinking bout me too. We used to work together but I got laid off and haven’t seen her or talk to her in months..I always used to love to go to work just to see her. I been hiding this feelings from her..since I’m a guy..should I just tell her before its to late? Its gonna be hard for me. Thanks.
August 30th, 2009 at 6:31 am
Hi all, I read the threads on here and they are pretty good. Although there are a couple on here that stand out for me. I won’t highlight them. I just have a strong feeling that some of these postings are similar to a situation in which I am going through with a piscean male. I feel this pisces male loves me and is finding it very hard to come forward. We used to work together and I am working in another area now. Whilst I respect his feelings, I know deep down he does feel for me and all I want for you to do is ‘come forward’. I am also aware that he has recently broken up in another relationship which wasn’t meeting his needs. If you want to know, I do love you and I have ended it with my other relationship as I know that we will be very happy together. I know it’s on the tip of your tongue…I will be here and will see you at the usual place.
August 31st, 2009 at 2:48 am
Hi all, I read the threads on here and they are pretty good. Although there are a couple on here that stand out for me. I won’t highlight them. I just have a strong feeling that some of these postings are similar to a situation in which I am going through with a piscean male. I feel this pisces male cares for me and is finding it very hard to come forward as he’s confused. I also sense he is no longer in this relationship with this other person. We used to work together and I am working in another area now. Whilst I respect his feelings, I know deep down he does love me. I also feel the same way and I have ended it with my other relationship as I know that we will be very happy together b’coz we’re soulmates. I know it’s on the tip of your tongue and…I will be here waiting for you when you are ready. I will see you at the usual place.In knowing this now, it might be easier for you to come forward. Yours.
September 1st, 2009 at 4:44 pm
I am a pisces girl and i’ve been with a cancer guy for 2 years now. It was great in the beggining but i am getting so tired of his clingyness and not understanding that i need some space sometimes. Im thinking about leaving him but Im not sure since he is so sweet and caring when he’s not busy with his family or job and he has time for me. But yeah they’re great if they have time for YOU..lol.
September 5th, 2009 at 8:11 pm
I am pisces (feb 27th) dated a pisces guy (feb 25th) thought he was my soul mates,,…but he was only into flirting..not ready at all for commitment…on the other hands thinks that i was very guillble…but i beat him to his games and the rest is history
September 12th, 2009 at 6:04 am
I’m a Pisces and my girlfriend is a Cancer. We’ve been through so much and I can’t see life wifout her!! She completes me… although were not together at this moment due to an odd situation our love for eachother is there and forever will! I love u patriciaa, FOREVER!!!! 11-21-08 is our date(:
September 16th, 2009 at 1:30 am
I am a cancer female who dated a Pisces male for almost 2 yrs, we were torn apart by some very unexpected events in both our lives. We were apart for 6 yrs. We ran into each other recently and it was like we never parted. We talked for hours and hours and stared into each others eyes like we always used to, we are together again and more in love than we ever were. The connection with is so so strong, almost super natural strong, its amazing. I have dated Scorpios and there was a connection but always felt there was something I just could not trust about them..dated an Aries and that was a disaster, same with the Sag I dated.. disaster. I dated a virgo and the sex was amazing but the rest of the relationship was just ok. Nope my Pisces is THE ONE…THE ABSOLUTE CONNECTION…IT IS AMAZING AND I FEEL SO LUCKY!!
September 19th, 2009 at 5:06 pm
I’m a pisces girl and I met my first ever cancer in late may. We are total opposites in cultural backgrounds. He’s 8 years my junior and he has no kids but I have three, and he’s hot to boot! OMG when we are together we just drive each other crazy in bed, even if he is in control! He’s feeling and open about everything and I hold back when we are together. When we are apart it’s the other way around. I can’t get him outta my head!!! I feel he’s made just for me …. I hope he feels the same way.
September 21st, 2009 at 11:58 am
Haha …. I must be dreaming to think anything could happen between me and my cancer man! Dreams are free … Lol
September 22nd, 2009 at 9:55 am
I met my cancer guy on a trip to italy. i lived in canada and he in italy, but we re both of the same background..it was so instant, so fast, so deep, that in few months here we are living a great love story both giving up our past and moving together to our home country…he is the most caring, sweet and honest man i ever met, and im so used with head games that i need a total reeducation on how to treat such an honest person…im learning from him how to be myself again, pure and honest…it’s wonderful to be vulnerable and to realize nothing bad will happen to you…we both feel we can let ourselves fall free knowing the other will catch…it’s wonderful and it’s the only thing thar is really worth it…this love…only thing money can’t buy, only thing worth living for…
September 27th, 2009 at 1:40 pm
Update time … I stopped dreaming and put my feelings into action I told my cancer I liked him and left him to decide what he wants. I did it because of what my stars said which was I would get him if I acted in a particular way, and it would be long lasting and intense. I acted in my own way, the only way that’s best as far as I’m concerned. Let’s see if it’s true!
September 29th, 2009 at 9:55 am
Actually I dunno if my reading was for my cancer guy .. It could be for my Gemini guy who seems more into me since he texts me everyday and spends hundreds on cab fare and telephone calls to me lol. The reading described my cancer and so that is why I opened up to him. I’ll let you all know if anything comes of it.
September 30th, 2009 at 2:35 am
Me cancer male, she pisces female…
Why do i always keep comming back to them? I just cannot understand it. But I always do. You are so warm and cuddly… I do tend to take you for granted sometime.
October 1st, 2009 at 3:43 pm
REALLY……….this match of the stars is unlike any ive ever felt and i know even in his guarded cancer heart feels the exact same.
in relationships past i was always looking for the next best thing he is the only man that has ever kept my attention long enough to truely fall in love! … the caring nature of a cancer gives my wild piscean nature a sense of calm. i say to my beau’ on a regular basis how safe i feel with him and how much i appreciate the fact that he is always trying to help me evolve into a better person and from my end i give him the most passion and excitement he has ever seen! learn to trust your heart and let each others personality thrive with the help form the other!
October 8th, 2009 at 5:17 am
i have just meet my first pisces girl with me being cancer. Instantly we had a connection and although we are not in the same country we both feel the same way about this relationship. What you said about an emotional rollacoster ride is correct with both of us experiencing a crazy passion for each other and an ability to understand the needs of each other without knowing each other for very long.This is possibly the best relationship i have got involved in and look forward to a perfect match .
October 8th, 2009 at 11:50 pm
I was laughing reading this & the comments because they’re all so true! I’m a Cancerian & he’s a Piscean & it’s everything I could ever have dreamed of wanting. He’s like no one I’ve known before & because he is so romantically expressive, it’s allowing me to get over my Cancerian fear of opening up & I can just be honest about how I feel with him
Damn, isn’t love great?! 
Wishing you all happiness 
October 10th, 2009 at 11:41 pm
To Jon’s Post , my story is a strange coincidence matching yours.
I also met my first Cancer Man And I’m a Pisces girl, And we Live In different countries , Oh and his name Is Jon . It was Instant Chemistry , It felt like home when I was with him .. 6 months later I’m still in love with my soul mate.
October 22nd, 2009 at 3:09 pm
Ha, this is all true! I came out of a roller coaster relationship with a Leo - he just broke my heart. I’m a Pisces girl, very emotional and was very distraught. I meet my hunky Cancer man and our connection is amazing. Whether sexually, emotionally, or intellectually there is a lot of respect with one another. Of course we have our arguments, but who doesn’t? After a year and half we can still talk for hours about anything and everything. I never had that with my Leo. I have a strong feeling this is the one. Good luck and don’t wate your time
October 27th, 2009 at 3:59 am
I don’t expect any responses I guess I just really need to let these emotions out .
I’m a cancer, and the guy I care deeply about is a pisces . He and I have been friends for about 4 years now and he is my absolute best guy friend. We’ve always had awkward sexual tension, but we ignored it . Finally we admitted it, and we’re begining to get a little bit more serious . He is an amazing guy and I know him better than any other guy I’ve ever known . He means the world to me on so many levels and I want him in my life no matter what role he may play. The only thing I fear is that he and I are both VERY emotional people .. and usually when I’m dealing with guy problems I tell him about it.. and he does the same with me when it comes to girl issues. Now who can we both run to when the issues are too complex to speak to eachother about . I love him so much and I don’t want him to know that until I’m sure we’e both ready .. What to do when the person who once understood you the best (because of your emotional and intuitive zodiac signs) becomes the person who your intuition and emotions urge you to be with . And even worse.. what will happen when we argue .
-cancerchik !
November 6th, 2009 at 7:02 pm
hahaha.. I couldn’t help it! I was smiling all through out from the blog to the comment. It’s just amazing to know that there’s really this compatability that is going on.
I don’t really believe compatibility of signs. It just came to my mind and searched for it. And there I confirmed that there really is! This is so true!
I’m a cancer lady with a piscean boyfriend. All I can say is that he is the best guy ever! He makes me feel so loved! Sooo special! Sooo beautiful… Sooo complete!..
November 7th, 2009 at 4:55 pm
ok …im a cancer girl.
i’ve read this article when i met a pisces guy. I was really into him and now after 3 weeks it became deeper. I thought he would never like me so i was kinda keepin my feelings to myself
But one day he told me everything.. so suddenly. I have never ever imagined that it would happen!! He told me that he likes me too and now we’re kinda dating. I still cant believe that its all true, but it seems he’s really shy..or like written above, Cancer wants to get into the Pisces head LOL :p
So i really hope that we will be together for a looong time
btw tnx for great article!
November 8th, 2009 at 9:35 pm
Wow you guys have nooo idea how weird it is to read about all the ways pisces and cancer are compatible.
I’m a pisces and almost 8 months ago I got together with my cancer guy and we have fallen hard for each other in no time. It’s been the most amazing time of my life and I can’t wait to see what the future holds for us. We had a couple of downs in the relationship but for the most part it’s been all pure joy. I hope others can find such a great connection as I have!
November 25th, 2009 at 12:58 pm
Hi everyone! Well my plan backfired I left it with him to make contact first, but then I ended up contacting my cancer first. I can’t stop thinking about him and it does my head in. He still wants to see me, we talk, not about ourselves as much, just on topics that arise out of nowhere? He keeps his distance on an emotional level, doing that pushes me back, however, when we are physically close, yes in the bedroom, he melts and his emotions show, in action and words. It saddens me when he withdraws, because I have to take two steps back, and actually listen to what he says. I don’t how to react to him right now. I’m having to pull away because right now it’s one sided. I hope he realizes that I can be his friend as well as his lover.
December 1st, 2009 at 6:57 am
Well, this is very true especially the bit about how Pices and Cancer can go through bouts of Depression and self-pity:It may be because both of these signs are extremely senstive and neither has the consisteny to “sit out” the other’s mood spells. Cancer can react sensitively to any mis-understandings or withdrawal from Pisces even though they withdraw themselves.
I am comparing this compatibility to respective moon-signs of myself and someone I know: I had a very good friend with a Pisces moon and I relaized that it is not possible for us to be together the whole time as when he is down, I can follow suit and at times I could be moody for no apparent reason and he would not understand and feel hurt.
It takes a more consistant Pisces and Cancer to make this one work. We are friends still and the connection is still there but we just cant be together the whole time becausen we influence each other badly.
December 6th, 2009 at 9:10 am
My story is so similar with so many others on this page. I am a very typical cancer girl. I just met my fish 2 month ago. He is someone I would never imagin myself dating-very very different. Howerver I felt this very strong connection, emontionaly,spiritually and pysically. We are so similar in so many other ways. In the month we spend together I have learned so much about myself because of him. I think he is the only one can make me let my guards down and love without any fear. Like all cancers, this makes me really scared. Deep down in my heart I know this is something special and I should open my heart. The other side of me just want to retreat because I know the greater the love the stronger the pain. I think for cancers to be happy, we have to learn how to let it go, to trust and believe.
December 9th, 2009 at 12:51 am
I am a cancer and my boyfriend is a Pisces an i love him to death he my first my last my everything we been dating for a while now an it just seem tooooo good to be true he tell me he loves me every day he talk to me on the phone all the way up to 5 in the morning sometimes an when we go out we enjoy each other presences. A MATCH MADE IN HEAVEN1
December 10th, 2009 at 8:47 pm
well i am a Pisces girl and yeah I am bisexual so there is this cancer girl in my school I really really like she is like very beautiful and everytime we are together there is something magical going on in the air, i can’t really explain but it feels like heaven and we look into each others eyes but don’t say anything and we both smile.I really enjoy being with her and i can feel that she feels the same way too, we understand each other without saying any words and it is so great.I’ve never been more happier with anybody else and I’ve been dating few guys but she is actually my type and i hope we will stay friends if she is completely straight but i told her how i feel and she just said OK but i still love too be near her, she makes me feel so happy.I can’t explain this feeling but all you people out there who are cancers or Pisces I am sure you do understand how magical feeling this is.I just wanted to say that I am in heaven when I am with this girl no matter what we are doing, watching TV or just in class in the school.
December 20th, 2009 at 4:28 am
my boyfriend is a cancer and im a pisces and we are like 2 fish in the same pond.everything that was said about the cancer gettin into the pisces head is so true… he is always trying to know me and it actually works out….the worst compatibility sign is the pisces and the taurus….i for warned you
January 14th, 2010 at 11:53 am
I am a pisces male and finally found my first cancer female, and she’s so beautiful, I cannot stop thinking about her. I see here on this site how the female cannot get into the male piscean mind. But, I tell you, I am afraid to tell her things. She’s so beautiful, and so perfect, that I may scare her off.
The other instance I see is an age difference. But, I can get her stability that it appears she craves. I am so damn worried she will not give us a chance, I cannot breathe. How can I tell her after only just meeting her, I get choked up and my eyes get blurry thinking of how great of a love we could share if she would give me only one chance? That I am so afraid of losing her, knowing I cannot tell her because we just met and it would sound too crazy?
I have the option now of not working, and so neither would she. I want to tell her just how much I would love to spend that time just … just … loving her with every ounce of me, every single breath, every muscle, every thought … just focused on her. To make her happy.
How can you tell a girl such as she I fell in love with her from across the room and yet I don’t even know her? I know that a Cancer is hard to get to know given their tough shell, and if I mess up even once, I can and will most likely most definitely lose her. I cannot afford that misstep.
I meet this girl one night, and am just head over heels. I ask her what her sign is just on the off chance (normally a pretty girl is a Saggitarius or Gemini or something else disastrous) and she tells me a Cancer! I started to laugh at how perfect all this is!
Even her name is perfect! Every little thing … cute toes! That’s so amazing on top of all that. Some girls are pretty and then really messed up feet. But not her. She’s Helen of Troy reincarnate. So perfect … I just want to … I … She’s just … so… pretty …
I can’t even put it into words what I want to say and so hopefully for those cancerean women not able to figure out their piscean man, then I hope this helps you.
I loved the comments I’ve read, and it makes me all teary-eyed when I think about the relationship I could have with this girl I’ve met. It just sounds so perfect!
January 14th, 2010 at 12:31 pm
I might also add in the end I know she will never choose me simply because I just cannot ever measure up to her. She’s incredible. It saddens me to think this. I never really wished so much I wanted to look perfect until now. I wish I was some big muscle guy all tanned and looked like Brad Pitt or something, because that’s who I could see this beautiful, beautiful girl with. It would make sense. You would see her and some guy like that, and you would think, “yup. Makes sense.”
Then there is me, and if she and I were to happen, you’d think, “huh?”
Ah ha ha!
Yeah God’s cruel joke.
So I guess this is a good way to get off my chest how I feel about her, even though this is only a little bit because it’s so hard to put into words. I doubt people will read it anyway, so who cares, right? I know she’ll never see it, or then would not think it was me. I don’t care. I just know it’s harder and harder to not see her each time I see her.
I’m in big touble here, because I’d do a lot of stupid things for her. I’d know better, and I care, but … I don’t care. She feels and smells so wonderful. I love her voice. Everything about her. I feel stupid sometimes for feeling this way, but I can’t help it. I try. What the hell am I going to do? What the hell? It’s actually 4:22 AM (the site’s clock is wrong) when writing this, because I cannot stop thinking how lucky I am she asked for a hug tonight, and I gave her one. I hope not too hard or anything. I didn’t mean to. It felt so damned great I never wanted to let go.
I’d be so lucky to hold her all night. That’s all I want to do really. I know sex would be amazing. OMG would it be. But just to hold her all night in my arms would be … well I used to make fun of people who spoke of this because it seemed mushy and silly … and now I know.
I was married before and it was not the same. I mean before getting married and all that. The courting. The time we were in love. All that. Forget it. It was nothing like this.
Maybe I’m hoping people will read this and pray for me. I’ve never wanted anything so much in my life ever. I asked her tonight what she wanted. She said she did not know, and then asked me what I wanted. I pondered, and there is really nothing I wanted except her. I even told her, I said “you.” She said, “really?” and questioned my wanting material things. I do not. I’ve never wanted something in all my life as much as this.
Yup. I, a pisces male, am falling in love with a cancer female whom I just met and really know nothing about. I’d marry her without hesitation. Everything I want to do involves getting her to fall in love with me. That’s my goal. I cannot help that. Before I met her, I had different goals.
Things change.
January 27th, 2010 at 4:09 am
Hey peeps .. I love reading all your comments .. Good luck to you Jon the female species of us love to communicate, here’s a hint don’t come across as needy, or insecure, she’ll sense it and you’ll create the eeew factor that I just had the unpleasant experience of having to ignore him in the end.. Take it nice n slow
anyway, I am still crazy bout my cancer. We started off as fk buddies .. His proposal and that was fine. We’ve known each other now for 8 months. During this time I’ve grown to care deeply about him and I know I want more. The problem is that I’ve associated myself with him as just being a booty call, bcos everytime I text him sex is all we talk about. When we are together though our talks radiate around each other, what we’ve been doing and I like that. We have a lot in common, and are similar in nature. What frustrates me is that if I were really his booty call, why is the sex not regular? Why does he f.I.g.j.a.m himself up and tell me all his good points, his highs and lows, his family etc.. If not for anything but trying to find someone to love? I know now that I need for him to call/text me first instead of me initiating it bcos I always get the brush off when I try. I think I’ve fed his mind long enough to make him appreciate me more when I’m not around, and now instead of texting him, I’ll write it down in a diary, more healthier for me! If he sees me as more than a booty call I’ll know I’ll hear from him again .. Much love to everyone and happy journeys xx
January 28th, 2010 at 8:00 pm
Thanks Mel, but it may vary a bit since she’s a cancer female. They’re suppose to want to feel needed?
Well, anyway, I’m screwed no matter what. I am certain she’s using me and does not see the potential here. Then again it’s the stupid age factor. Wisdom and youth seldom go hand in hand. Then again, maybe I just don’t do it for her.
Either way, I’m about ready to jump off a bridge. I keep hoping she’ll just leave me alone because then I can get over it sooner. But she prolongs it and kills me slowly. I’m on the verge of some sort of breakdown ha ha ha ha! I’m going nuts here and it’s the old addage that I feel as though nobody understands what I’m going through. Especially not her, because if she did, certainly she would see I want to love every fiber of her body with every fiber of mine. Or if she is “the one” then she would have compassion (typical anyway of cancers) to not put me through all this.
No, I wouldn’t really jump off a bridge, but feel that way. I’m sure you can relate. She’s afraid of commitment and wants to take it slow and I fully understand, but she can be a flake and I may misinterpret that as she has no interest when really it’s just that she can be a flake. So then again, it’s this confusing thing going on here that drives me nuts! Literally nuts!
I need to wake up and move on. Find someone closer to my age. Or maybe I just need to be patient and not “swim away” so fast as I’m told Pisces are likely to do if Cancer doesn’t behave. Still, knowing both sides does not help. I’m a train wreck here.
January 31st, 2010 at 8:45 am
Be more specific on how she’s “using” you. It may be all in your head, as you the Pisces like to overthink things, no matter your age. Definitely take things slow however, and don’t make it too obvious about how you feel. Definitely show that you’re attracted, but you’ll put her off if you lay it on too thick.
Every time you interact with her, stop obsessing over how perfect she is (or by now, how she’s “using” you) and instead think about how to respond to her. The wittier the response, the better.
February 1st, 2010 at 7:21 pm
Jon,
Good luck, Cancer and Pisces are the most amazing, increadible connection.
I am a Cancer girl and I was once deeply in love with a Pisces man. It felt like drowning in the ocean of deepest emotions, it was so overwhelming, almost unbearable ly felt unreal, like in some dream. We split because the timing wasn’t right but I will never forget the experience, ever.
My advice to you with your Cancer would be: don’t scare her off, we Cancerians get scared of too much intensity and can easily withdraw, even dissapear. Give her some time (to miss you) and be a bit misterious, the Cancerian will get courious and will look for you herself. Good luck!
February 11th, 2010 at 7:01 pm
I was in arelationship with a young man at the time he was 17 (pisces0 I was 20(cancer) WE were together happily for about 10 months Then I foolishly went back to my ex (Leo) and father of my then 2 children. THis pisces man took me back after I cheated on him WHich was not my usual self. but I was guilty . I ended up breaking his heart and I never really understood why. Ive known that I loved him from the time we hooked up that was over 20 years ago and we recently talked on the phone as fate would have it and its like we have picked up where we left off minus - the ex. We are trying to get together for this weekend which conveniently is Valentines weekend How romantic is that Ipray that all goes according to Gods will for us I carry this man in my heart and I always will
February 22nd, 2010 at 3:30 am
I have so much love for my Cancer. He just can’t seem to get it together. Ilove him in a way that I couldn’t even begin to explain. I have pretty much lost hope for us. He is seeing a capricorn right now but it wasn’t what he thought it would be. He tries to keep me around thinking he can hold onto me until he’s ready to settle down. It’s too hard to let him back in. This is a tough match @ times. I know wholeheartedly the love is there though. And it’s so strong and so real. He’ll always be in my heart!
February 22nd, 2010 at 5:02 am
Oh yes I forgot to say I’m a pisces.
thanks!
I’d really like to hear from a cancer male what he thinks about the situation. It’s funny I run away from him and push him away now because of the things he’s done. I read a post from a cancer here that said he loved pisces women but he takes them for granted - so true, It’s like I don’t really care what he does as long as he doesn’t love anyone else more or as much as he loves me. That he doesn’t replace me. At first it was because I believed that one day we would be together again. I don’t really know if I still believe that. I just still love him very much, even though I don’t show it as much as I used to. I figure if he can’t be what I need him to be for me then I shouldn’t waste my time right now. Or that maybe he will be encouraged to try if he doesn’t want to lose me. I want to hear from a male cancer what HE thinks. Should I cut all ties because he’s moved on but can’t admit it? So far I’ve tried that a few times and he doesn’t let go. He still calls me several times everyday to see what I’m doing and tells me he loves me.He even does litlle things (to see what I’ll do) so he knows I still love him.I want 2 remain friends I can’t imagine life without him. Its hard when I still get jealous sometimes though. Thoughts anyway cancer female thoughts welcome too
February 24th, 2010 at 8:55 am
in ce limba scrieti fratilor?:O nu am inteles mai nimic:(
March 20th, 2010 at 5:02 pm
im a cancer girl and ive been with my pisces man for about 4-5 years now. i am 23. when i first met him i totally felt an instant connection and some people say love at first site isnt real but that is what i felt , like the search was over and i finally found him! and he loved me too ! he asked me to move out with him, i was thrilled and as happy as i had ever been to this day. all his friends said he was really happy too.. he just makes me feel like the luckiest person sometimes. it is hard to get him to open up… pointless to even try sometimes if hes in his stubborn mindset but frustrating nonetheless. i think being open and honest with each other is the most important part.. but dont try to force the Pisces to do anything they dont want to that will make them mad. and to try to stay away from drugs and alcohol (which we hadnt always done) but it sometimes makes things a little crazier. we are fighting today but i hope things can get better between us because i miss him a lot and we arnt staying together anymore so we dont do as many things together anymore that i really enjoyed. sometimes i am worried that this is the end:(
April 20th, 2010 at 11:09 pm
I think I’m starting to fall for a cancer guy….hhmmm. I don’t quite know what to do. I’ve read up on the cancer man, and the the guy I like seems to fit very well into the frame of what a cancer man should be. He is very manly and many people, even my friends say he is extremely hot, he is (very) tall, blond, and muscular….ugh…why me??? I’m a Pisces girl…obviously, I’d say I’m quite short and rather normal looking. Lately, and I’m not sure when, but it seems that he gives me quite a few glances (more than the usual) during a class that we have together. I’ve observed him a bit and I’ve seen that he can be very cold and harsh towards people, but somehow, I feel like underneath the hard surface, there’s someone who’s very nice and caring, (or maybe that’s too much of a cliche). I don’t know if he likes me or if he’s just randomly staring without any feelings. I hope someone can help me understand…thank you.
May 6th, 2010 at 9:13 pm
I’m a Cancer woman who’s recently fallen for a Pisces man after a very long and drawn out relationship with an Aries (I love him but I felt like he always wanted to stray away from me and never genuinely cared).
I cannot tell you how quickly I’ve fallen for my Pisces. I’ve always been cautious about whom I date and have set rules to avoid getting hurt again but he broke those rules. The feelings have flooded me so rapidly, it’s astounding. We can talk about anything and have a lot of similar interests and goals.
For the first time ever, I’ve felt like I found ‘the one’ and the mere thought terrifies me, I feel so vulnerable but I trust him completely after such a short amount of time. After relationships with aries’ I was left so broken, I have known my Pisces three weeks and it feels like a lifetime already. I try to be practical and say that three weeks is absurd but I can’t.
He is the man of my dreams. I hope this lasts a long time and remains as beautiful as it has been. I’ve finally found a person that can make my heart flutter and my passion go wild.
May 17th, 2010 at 5:12 pm
Im a Pisces girl(23) dating a cancer man(29) .. and i can honestly say that i haven’t felt this good about a relationship in years . We havent known each other for very long but have really fallen hard .hes very tall( 6′2).. very manly( got some muscle on him)(he was in the marines) ..he has this hard exterior but in the inside hes all mushy …he genuinly cares for me ..wants to provide and be perfect for me and all he ask in return is that im there each and everyday when he comes home from work … and he takes care of the rest. we are taking a trip together in July and depending on that we are going to decide to move in together ..Iv always been very independent and always provided for myself so having someone thats WANTS to provide for me is amazing . Its going to be a bit hard to let go of my independent nature and completly depend on someone else but something tells me it wont be too hard with my cancer man..lol hes deffenetly the white picket fence type of guy .
June 4th, 2010 at 4:20 pm
I am a cancerian and met the picean (husband) on-line. I felt instant connection and i was very happy.
The biggest problem with the piscean is they never open up and never ever tell thr truth.
I am straight forward and i like people who speak their mind. My husband never does. He is also very lazy at home, i wonder if all pisceans are? He is a big spendthrift too and i am not.
I love being fit he doesn’t.
I love going out he too does but not as much and loves his tv.
He pretend a lot , pretends love care etc.
I think pisceans are slfish and just love them selves.
The relationship is great for first few yeras and then it just falls apart…atleast in our case.
I was completely blinfolded with the sweet talk.
He doesnt walk the talk
June 15th, 2010 at 7:18 pm
I never really believed in Zodiac compatibility because my last boyfriend was a cancer and it said that cancer was an ideal match for cancer women. That was one of the worst relationships of my life. I just recently met a pisces guy. He the MOST amazing guy I have ever met. I read all of these comments and it made my heart leap because I have only been talking to this guy for a little over a month, but I feel like I have known him forever. The connection we share is amazing. He finishes my sentences, he knows what I like. I couldn’t imagine dating anyone else. I’m 21 and I’ve had my share of bad relationships and good ones, but by far this one IS THE BEST!!! I hope things turn out for the best because he is special. I feel it deep down inside.
July 12th, 2010 at 8:04 pm
I am a Cancer, and my boyfriend of 7 months is a pisces. I had been with a Taurus for almost 2 years, and it was not a good relationship. I was friends with this pisces, and something kept drawing us closer and closer, even though i was still in a relationship. After a nasty fight with the taurus, i told him that that was that and fled to my pisces friend. No words needed to be spoken, he just held me while i cried, and kissed me. It felt like forever. The next day we were dating.
He is truely my best friend, as well as my lover. He means the world to me, and im not going to let him go. Our relationship is beautiful, and we know eachother so well. We are young, but this is the boy i will marry, i can feel it. And if not, I am glad and proud to say how well i knew him.
I love you T.R.W.S
July 13th, 2010 at 5:10 am
Hey guys I am a pisces woman and I have been recently dating a Cancer man. Let me tell you it definately took him a while to convince me to a date, but once i finally gave in, I realized why he tried so hard. The energy between us in a room is amazing, almost too good to be true. I am definately falling for him, but im still all for going slow to get to know the other person. I think he excels in things I lack and vice versa. I really see myself with this person, but its the first cancer I have ever been with, usually i dated Geminis and complete opposites of me! hopefully things work out the way I’d like them too.
July 28th, 2010 at 9:55 pm
Okay for starters I am A Pisces, For all the Cancer women and Cancer Men..One Big thing about a Pisces That you may not reaiize and I dont know if its all for Pisces But Me being a Pisces..Its very hard for me to open up and express my feelings…And the reason for that is, Im super Super shy I can say i love you But when it comes down to Expressing myself On a More Romantic Level its very hard for me to do that. So If you Pisces Girls and Pisces guy and to all the cancers haveing trouble with your Pisces lover to open up More. The best advise i can give you the best thing for me to do when it comes to Telling someone how i feel I write it down. Oh Im with a Cancer man..and I love Him very much But He knows how shy i am. And yes he tries to Get into my head sometimes, But It takes me about 10 minutes to finally Open up to him. Im just very shy and Its very hard for me to express myself I dont kno if its Like that with Most Pisces, But its like that with me I write Peoms Telling My Love how i feel Or I try my best to Get over my shyness and open up. and I do love my cancer very very much. And I know He is gonna be my husband I know that….Knew it from day one…So I hope this helps…
August 14th, 2010 at 1:41 am
Wow, I’m a cancer and I’ve been talking to this woman for 5 months, although it’s a long distance relationship, she’s a pisces, and let me tell you she is absolutly stunning, our emotional connection is like nothing I’ve ever been apart of, I love her with everything I am and she loves me, and you guys are spot on, cancers and pisces are kindred spirits, we haven’t made love yet but emotionally we have and she is coming to be with me in a few months and I can tell you right now that it’s going to be explosive, she is my true soul mate, my last relationship which I been out of for 5 months now, she was a libra, not a good match, we was together for a long time, it was good at first but I didn’t feel that connection, I’m very moody and she couldn’t handle it, so we stopped having any physical contact so we just seperated and that’s when I met my pisces soul mate and we had an instant emotional and love connection right away, the more we talked, via email and on the phone we grow closer and closer, more closer then my libra relationship which lasted for almost 20 years, so you guys are right, these two signs are a match made in astological heaven, to all you cancers and pisces men and women find each because these two signs are meant to be together, trust me I’m proof.
August 22nd, 2010 at 1:09 pm
@ Pisces Girl: I am aLs0 a pisces girL and f0r me, its n0t hard t0 0pen up ab0ut my feeLings t0 0thers whether i trust them 0r n0t cause when I L0ve a pers0n, I am n0t afraid t0 sh0w my feeLings t0 0thers cause aLL 0f us have L0ved bef0re and wiLL L0ve in the future…s0 i think that y0u have t0 0pen up y0ur feeLings atLeast t0 y0ur partner…trust in him…i kn0w it is hard f0r y0u but i aLs0 kn0w that y0u can d0 it. D0nt be afraid…just 0pen up, n0 0ne wiLL harm y0u f0r y0ur feeLings. Each 0ne 0f us has feeLings..:)
August 22nd, 2010 at 1:12 pm
I mean t0 say, d0nt be ashame…just 0pen up…when y0u 0pen up y0ur feeLings f0r him, the L0ve the b0th 0f y0u have wiLL gr0w str0nger…y0u can d0 that!…:)
September 5th, 2010 at 8:24 pm
I agree with most of this I been dating my pisces girl 4 9months now the love gets stronger and the sex blush blush lol gets better n better though their are many trials with here current divorce n baby dady drama dam gud thing im stuborn she has 4 kids from a previous marriage but its all gud marriage is a definate possibility
September 17th, 2010 at 9:51 pm
I Am a Girl, CANCER; My Boyfriend Is A Pices. I Am Very Controlin He Says But He Is In A Way Too. I Do Try Too Get Inside His Head, But Uts Like He Wont Let Me. But Anyways, We Have Been Going Out For 5months Going On 6 We Start Too Get Tierd Of Eachother But Then We Remember What We Been Through. We Have Had ALOTT Of Ups And Downs But We Still Love Each Other And People Hate Us Together And Try And Brake Us Up But Its Okay, Because It Wont Happen He Is My Everything And I Am His !!!
September 22nd, 2010 at 6:21 pm
yea yea, im a cancer male. ive nvr been with a pieces but its funny because this girl tht ive known for a few yrs nvr struck me once to be someone whom i would have such a great connection with and it turns out we have this amazing chemistry. just tonight i asked her her birthday and i checked out signs. and lo and behold we were meant to be together even to the stars. im rlly anxious for this to take off!
October 5th, 2010 at 7:46 pm
Hey guys, help me out here. I am a Cancer and after getting my heartbroken about 6 months ago by a Virgo, I have been surrounded by Pisces. The last 3 guys I have met all turned out to be Pisces, but the first one was a total player who used me and never called me back. The 2nd was someone I just didn’t feel any chemistry with. The third, who I just met two weeks ago has cast a spell over me but I just can’t figure him out…
We only just met, but he invited me on a weekend trip with some of his friends and I was so excited…Except when we were on the trip he was very cold to me. He didn’t hold my hand or cuddle up with me the way some other couples on the trip would. When we were alone at night he became very affectionate, amazingly gentle and a great kisser, but during the day around people he is distant, completely unexpressive and lost in his own little world. At the end of the weekend he gave me a big hug and kissed me on the cheeck, (I was epecting a little more!) and said we should difinitely try to see each other again soon..
For all you cancer girls out there, did you have this trouble with your Pisces man in the beginning? I have serious doubts about whether or not he actually cares about me and I hate feeling so insecure. Should I wait around until he calls me or should I try to make the next move? I have been reading all about Pisces the last few days, and I definitely think most of the characteristics apply to him, except that he does not seem to be a very affectionate or loving except when we are in bed together. Is this piscean shyness at work, or is he jus a man who is interested only in sex?
November 30th, 2010 at 7:49 am
I am a Pisces boy and have dated several Cancer girls. They are never exactly alike, but the relationship is sure to be a wild ride. A few words of advice I can give about dating a Pisces guy are:
1-Don’t get discouraged if you can’t “get into his head”. It’s a bizarre place in there and he will be very cautious about letting ANYONE in. Show him that he can trust you and that you are interested in sharing and not changing what’s in there and you will slowly get to see the picture.
2- don’t be needlessly cruel. Every couple has fights, but with a Pisces boy think before you speak and don’t say something hurtful unless you really mean it. Words carry weight with a fish boy and though he will be quick to forgive you may damage the trust between you for years to come.
3- probably the most fun part about dating a Pisces guy, when it comes to sex, let him pamper you. Everyone loves a quickie but for us sex is an adventure and we want to explore. We love to please and will spends HOURS doing so if you let us.
December 29th, 2010 at 3:45 am
this is sooooooooo true my boyfriend is a pisces i’m a cancer
we is so in love. n i have a best friend he is a pisces we click to i had a crush on him and i think he like me to. but he waited to long, so i met another he was my bf.
but back to boyfriend omg i love him so much .. i think we going to get married
he is 18 im 17.. we click when we first met.. he understand me n everything and i’m so sensitive.
but i know in my heart we going to be together ang get marriend i just know
because we cant be apart and we dont argue.. he always say he love me n i do too
o yeah he fix to be a NBA player and i want to be a lawyer .. we both work hard !
February 16th, 2011 at 8:10 am
Ok so i’ve know a cancer guy for about 3 months now and i think im falling for him!! i got out of a relationship with a virgo guy who hurt me bad about 5 months ago and i’ve been so scared to open up to the cancer guy!!! the thing is the cancer guy is soo sweet, caring and such a gentleman!!! I feel respected by him and i love how he treats me like a lady!!! pisces girls you should go for cancer guys!!!! and AVOID virgo guys!!!
March 2nd, 2011 at 2:30 pm
I’m a pisces girl born feb 21st 1993. Shes a cancer born june 20 1990. Ive been head over heels, or crushing really bad on her since august . We talk but nothing serious, I wish she were interested in me.
March 2nd, 2011 at 2:31 pm
Gr. I meant born june 26 1990
March 2nd, 2011 at 2:33 pm
I meant june 26th 1990
March 25th, 2011 at 6:36 am
WELL IN ALL MY YRS THIS IS THE FIRST TIME IV MET A PISCES GUY AND HE SEEMS REALLY NICE SO FINGERS CROSS IT HAPPENS FOR US BOTH…. IF IT DOES ILL GET BK TO U!
April 13th, 2011 at 8:55 pm
$weetP…Dump that loser cancer. Sounds like he is very insecure and uses girls to make him feel like a man. If he really liked you he’d be with you. He’s very immature and isn’t worth your time. I know, I was him until I got older. I’m 43 now and dating a 35 year old Pisces “Lady”. I will do anything for her. I have no kids, she has 3. There are many things about her that use to be a warning sign for me. But I love her unconditionally. We don’t fit with some of the negative items above, but so far fit was the positive. She is open with her feelings, I try to restrain in order to not smother her. I read up on the signs to avoid the pitfalls. It is important for a cancer man to respect the women he is with, once that is lost, it is over. So, we took it very slow. Over a month before getting biblical. That is unheard of in this day and age, but we both knew it was important. I don’t care the sign, no one should put up with someone seeing multiple people. Maybe I’m old fashion, but when it comes to sensitive people they can’t handle someone they love seeing someone else, it will eventually manifest into throwing it into each others face in the future if they aren’t strong enough. Respect for each other comes first. And everyone needs to show restraint, especially early on in a relationship. Take it slow for the long haul. Be kind and honest to your partner, no matter how long you think it will last. Yes, cancers can ramble on forever…watch that cancerians.
April 29th, 2011 at 11:51 pm
I’m a cancer woman who met a guy (pisces duh) a few months ago. When we first met it was dinner with friends. I caught him staring at me while I looked at the menu posted on the restaurant wall outside. His reaction was very cute. I didn’t know he was a ‘fish’ back then I didn’t even know his birthday but I felt butterflies and a connection with him. I just want to take care of him and I’m never like that with any dude. I’m not a typical Cancer moon chick. I’m really a loner, I don’t stay in one place long. I love to travel. I don’t fit the Cancer mold at all save the humor and cooking. This suucks because we get along great and annoy our other friends because we always wind up sitting by each other and being chatty monsters and isolate everyone out of our own world. He doesn’t have a car because where we live we don’t need one really and I take him home sometimes and we just talk about anything and he just laughs at my answers to his questions. It’s so lame. I am too old to be crushing on a guy who probably is only interested in a friendship. I’ve asked him to do things on the weekend and he’ll turn me down. So obviously he doesn’t want me. Or he doesn’t want to be alone with me. Who am I kidding? Typing this out bums me out even more. I hate astrology.
May 12th, 2011 at 1:49 pm
i’m pices male who met a cancer women four month ago.. i can honestly say that this describes us fairy well.
i have never known love in my 28 year of life. and i think what i m feeling for her is the first i have ever felt of it. she is so sweet utterly beautiful and amazing …. its inesribable… i hope it never ends. i honestly do but sometimes we got angry with each other when i feel unsecure in love i dont know why its happen with me sometimes..but after sometime we again talk each other and solve the matter..start living happy life
May 14th, 2011 at 7:59 pm
omg. i read all the comment and the one i get really closly is the one with high school. im in middle school and im a picese and this dudue i like is a cancer.we both really like ecah. we walk with each other we talk lauh ALOT. smail have that eye contion and we have EVERTHING THE SAME. one day i ask him but i was too late. but every time we see each other we still have that conntion and he get super jealions when i talk to my guy friends. my cancer cursh and his new girl that all his friend dont like are figthing all the time and he plan on bearking up with her on tusday or thrusday or whatever she get him mad. i gave me wishes if he those because he tell my friend that he care about me and think about me ALOT. and when every we togeter he smiles more and he alwas happy and forget about his promlde when we are togeter until he leave. so there u have it cancaer are gerat careing people us picese need on other themn a cancer and if u think so then u are not are not picese they are are SOULMATE and they THINK ABOUT US ALL THE TIME EVEN IF U DONT THINK SO. :3
May 14th, 2011 at 8:04 pm
im so sorry about my spelling i forgot to check but i was so into tell some one about my cancer cush and p.s im a girl not a boy. :3
May 14th, 2011 at 8:26 pm
im a picese girl who have a big cursh on this cancer guy in middle school.we both like each other every much. we walk to togeter we talk togeter and smile and laugh ALOT TOGETER.he even walk me home and his huge are like hugeing your baby sister it so cute.one day i ask but i was too late, but every time we past each other we still have that conntions and he smiles when i make eye with him. and whenevery he see me talk to my guy friend he get super jealious and he get super mad at them. now i hearding from my leo friend ( which is true :3)that his frist girlfriend and my cancer cursh are figthing alot and he plain on bearking up with here on tesday or thrusday or whatever she get him mad. hey gave me wishes ok. and i also heard from my friend that he tells here to tell me that he still think about me and care about all the time and he can never keep his eye off me. and there you have it. cancer guys and teen are really a better macth for picese and if you think that other zodic signs are beeter than cancer for picese than you are worng. they are the ones for us and belive or not they are are SOULMATE it kinda funny that i find my alreaded in middle school but it cute :3 so i hope i help with anything. (SMILE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!)
June 20th, 2011 at 10:28 pm
Have you ever considered writing an ebook or guest authoring on other websites? I have a blog based on the same ideas you discuss and would love to have you share some stories/information. I know my visitors would enjoy your work. If you’re even remotely interested, feel free to shoot me an email.
August 30th, 2011 at 5:59 am
I’m a gay Pisces male, and I’ve found that I fit the best with Cancer’s. I’m currently with a Cancer male, and he is strong, and yet sensitive… We’re both into art, theater, and music. It’s a match made in heaven, and he’s very erotic and sexually driven like me, so we make the best of that
It really is an amazing relationship, I couldn’t be happier. 
September 23rd, 2011 at 10:19 pm
Yes I have had my Cancer man for 4 years now! I am a Pisces woman & I love the match we have two kids together & have been Married for 2 yrs. So It definitly can work just back off when the cancer is upset because there will be no other way to get him back unless you back off for awhile then he’ll be moe then happy to come back running. The problem is dont drown in eachothers emotions because it can happen. Weve almost drown alot & pisces has to learn homeskills otherwise it wont work. You cant just swim away when things get tough regardless if youre thinkin youre protecting eachother,sometimes its good to leave DONT make a habit of it though then the Cancr will feel like you dont love him nor need him. It is alot of work but after its all worth it good luck
November 6th, 2011 at 9:10 pm
I really dislike Cancer women. I have had several bad experiences with them and prefer not to have any further bad experiences. They have been in my life manipulative, insincere, and promiscuous. Three things that I can and will not abide. Sorry, but Pisces and Cancer is not a match made in heaven. I’ll take Capricorns, Virgos or Scorpios any day of the week over these emotional leeches…
November 21st, 2011 at 4:34 am
I’ve been seeing a cancer man for 3 months now, and I’m in love with him. He says he’s in love with me and really makes me feel like he is. Only problems he’s in a bad relationship with a sag girl. He say it’s over between them but he don’t know how to end it after 6 years. He tells me that all him and her do is fight. He gets mad when I say I should leave him alone, until he figure things out with her. That’s when expresses all his love for me. He’s on the phone with me day and night, if she’s around him, he’s texting me the whole time. He Calls or text me as soon as he wake every morning and tells me good night every night before he goes to sleep. We MAKE LOVE, like every 3 days. I’m in love with him, I want him, I need him and he makes me believe he feel the same way. I just think we met each other at the wrong time. I just broke up with a capricorn after 5 years. I left him 4 months ago. I’m trying to take it slow and not jump right back in so quick but he’s my first cancer and I don’t wanna let him go “ever”, what he I do.
November 21st, 2011 at 4:36 am
I meant watch should I do???
November 27th, 2011 at 7:57 pm
Interesting to note that the majority of repliers here are Cancers speaking about the most romantic experiences with a Pisces.
Remember though, fellow cancers, Pisces may not feel the same way about you. In fact, a good many of them find us to be a bit of a bully, even if we’re bullies that they may love to love. Be careful about hurting the smaller or more innocent Pisces, or they might swim away and never truly forgive you, even if it appears that way on the surface. Always apologize and try to intuitively observe how you can make the situation better. (Don’t ever ask of it directly, because the pisces will never completely admit it. Some maybe exception to that rule, but most of them do tend to nurse their internalized pain in silence, the same way we do!).
December 15th, 2011 at 12:39 am
@Johanna
It’s always important to remember that while your pisces guy may seem weak and helpless, it’s really just on the outside. A pisces guy is never the first to initiate a fight, but when he is wronged, he will become vengeful. If you think you’re a bully, then a pisces guy knows it too. Chances are he has other “bullys” who care enough to see him succeed in his corner.
Bottom line, never pick on anyone, and never underestimate a pisces.
December 16th, 2011 at 7:12 pm
@Johanna
If a pisces likes you, then you know it. If you start to feel your pisces is distancing himself away from you, it’s for a reason. It’s always important to never pick on anyone, let alone a pisces. If a pisces perceives a “bully” rest assured he’s figured it out way before the thought crossed your mind. Also it’s important to note, if in fact you are a bully, a pisces guy will probably have other “bullys” to back him up.
It is true, a pisces will swim away, but he’ll never forget. Pisces a sweet, caring, considerate people, to everyone. Some people realize the importance of having someone like that in their life and go over and above to protect that.
December 18th, 2011 at 4:09 am
Johanna, why hurt a pisces in the first place? Seems counter-intuitive. If a pisces likes you, you know it. Pisces can’t be fake, they don’t do things with out reason. A pisces will stick with a genuine person until the very end and stick up for anyone he feels is being wronged..except himself. Bu a pisces has many friends who value the friendship only a pisces can bring, so he will always be protected. Some cancers act as if they are “saving” people, when in fact, they are truly saving no one.
Cancer needs to learn that people prey on cancer just as much as they do pisces.
December 21st, 2011 at 10:07 am
Well, I love the fact that most articles that I’ve been reading says that cancer and pisces make great combination because my crush is a cancer guy and I’m a pisces girl. We only see each other very some times for meetings which is quite frustrating. He always seems a bit ‘closed up’ but when you actually talk to him he’s a very nice guy. Because I’m so shy and I tend not to be talkative in front of a person that I like, it’s really hard for me talk to him! But I feel like we are going to end up dating or marrying even though there’s NOTHING going on between us at the moment. I don’t know what to do!
December 28th, 2011 at 8:51 am
@ “Bobby” aka “Mark” aka “Steve”
I do understand what you are saying. However, we don’t seem to be talking about the same things. I have only implied (or, been meaning to imply) so far that sometimes, the Cancer juxtaposed to a Pisces may sometimes come off as being a bit too magnanimous in behaviour. (In arbitrary ways) This can often times irritate and/or scare the pisces, because he/she feel that Cancer’s natural personality is coming onto him/her a tad bit too strong. (In this way, I referred to Cancer as “bullies”, again, simply for a lack of better terms)
As I have a parallel discussion with you in the “Are All Cancers caring?” thread (where my secondary screen name is “Yada”), before I continue to discuss anything any further, I would like to kindly and most respectfully ask you to take a deep breath and then reflect on why you seem to have such a prejudicial view of Cancer as a sign and seem so un-apologetically ready to akin Cancers as potential bullies before any thing has truly been said in that light. Because, I never said that cancers as a sign WERE bullies. (meaning, people who purposely belittle and/or pick on poor innocent victims to gain power, respect, friendship, etc.)
(Surely, though, for my own information, the very fact that you already think negatively of Cancers in the previously-mentioned light without any influence from me would help support my very point in regards to how Cancers may come off to pisces, even if this is perhaps a more extreme example? Surely, this post here might make certain pisces “swim away”?)
January 1st, 2012 at 6:34 pm
Johanna (yada)
Sweetie do u know what your chart is? You may be more Gemini than cancer. Or all gemini.
January 2nd, 2012 at 7:01 am
@”Johanna”
Your first post warns Cancers about the pisces, but even in your own words the majority of the comments are of good relations between cancer/pisces. Then you deceptively, create another alias and comment how Cancers are “caring.” If sympathy, apathy, attention..etc is not what you are seeking, then I’m not sure to what your motives are. It sounds like to me, a pisces left you high and dry. Now in hindsight, you wish that were not the case.
As far as coming on too “strong,” it is impossible with a pisces/cancer connection. There is instantly a connection between the two. Your pisces may have “swam away” because he see’s something he doesn’t like. My guess is your pisces never really allowed himself to get too close in the first place.
It sounds like, the type of relationships that you are familiar with involve constant struggle, fights, general incompatibility. You then tried to create that same hostile environment with your pisces. This would probably send your pisces swimming, because you would come off as bi-poloar.
Again I say, every Cancer that I have ever met has been a friend for life. Do I have/had a bad experience with Cancer? Yes, of course. But rather an isolated incident, that I have tallied to damaged goods. But still, I wasn’t the first person to take a stance against the pair, in fact, I was on here to reassure myself that all is good with the pisces/cancer pair.
January 2nd, 2012 at 11:10 pm
ugh, I always have to come back to correct myself because I learn that I haven’t gotten my message across very well (either because of a wrongly used term or a mis-phrase).
I think instead of the word “magnanimous”, a more appropriate term that would better imply my point would simply be “overwhelming”. (Or, perhaps another term that denotes “intimidatingly ‘larger’ in behaviour” or “bigger in which is hard to counter-attack”, etc. etc.). “Magnanimous,” as I learned, has a forgiveness and nobility component in it, which has nothing to do with my point at hand. (Not saying that Cancers aren’t forgiving, simply that it’s not what I was speaking upon).
January 9th, 2012 at 5:51 am
Johanna aka yada
I have no preconceived notions about Cancer. As I mentioned early, every Cancer that I have met has been a friend for life. The two share a bond right off the bat, either romantically or in friendship. My bad experiences with Cancer are isolated and a result of poor up-bringing, possible abuse and a case of damaged goods. I was not the first person to come here and bash the pair. In fact, I’m on here to reassure myself that the pair is a favorable match.
You’re first post to is to warn Cancer’s about the Pisces. A great service you’re doing. Warn them of what? It sounds like a Pisces didn’t bite your bait and now you’re a little bitter…perhaps? Then you change aliases and post how Cancer’s are “caring.” If this isn’t a classic case of bitterness and a desperate attempt for sympathy, apathy, attention, then I’m not sure where you’re going with this.
“Interesting to note that the majority of repliers here are Cancers speaking about the most romantic experiences with a Pisces.” These are your own words. The majority of posters are saying pretty much the same thing. Then you go and post your hate speech/propaganda for no reason what so ever. Again, this seems a little like sour grapes to me. I think you believe you’re doing some great service for people, when in fact, you’re not. I believe the same trend will be found in your real life also.
Please leave the comments positive or based on your personal experiences only, or say nothing at all.
January 12th, 2012 at 12:41 am
As I have stated time and again, Steve, there have been no “bad experiences” within the domain of my message. I’ve only spoken from opinions made from observation. Do you understand that or not?
I had kindly and most respectfully advised that there seems to be some petty prejudices (not pre-conceived notions) against the sign of Cancer coming from you (your messages, being enamored with Cancers “trying to promote their own image,” “Cancers think they are saving the world but they’re not” (Are we Cancers really? I didn’t know it. Honest! lol), “Cancers need to know that they have bullies against them too,” etc., are my evidences) that perhaps you would like to have self-observed. I see, though, that you aren’t going to do this.
I’m not mad at you, Steve, nor do I bare any grudge; that is a promise. Irritated is more appropriate, but nothing more. I understand that you, like me and everyone else, have at least some baggage perhaps from YOUR own bad experiences with Cancers. Trying to point fingers back at me is not going to help you. Trying to manipulate my posts to make them negative and yours positive is not going to help you. Trying to manipulate the content of two unrelated topics (the first being that I feel depressed with what I believe is my dull Cancerian life of ONLY caring for people personally and the second being that Cancers should be careful to not be too overwhelming to Pisces) and then putting it together to create some pixelated image will not help you. But, most importantly, trying to turn the tables on me and tell me that I’m the one with these problems (Sour grapes? Changing aliases to promote an image?) is not going to help you. You should have these things worked out with yourself. But, in order for you to do this, you’re gonna HAVE to acknowledge that you have at least some bad prejudice against Cancer; that is the first step.
I should hope that you can take these things to heart if you don’t already. Concluding, I never said Cancers and Pisces were not a good match.
Sincere Regards,
Johanna
p. s. The only reason I used the name “Yada” in the other forum was because I forgot that I used my other nickname Johanna here. Quite simply.
January 13th, 2012 at 4:27 am
Johanna,
I do see and I do understand. I have had a bad experience with a Cancer, but that’s in the past. I harbor no bad feelings towards you or any other Cancer. My statements are based on my observations in real life. And your original post further validates my point. The behavior that I have witnessed in real life and on here mirror exactly what Cancer’s do. That doesn’t mean all of them. Just from my experience. Again, you keep saying that no Pisces is involved, but I think differently. And since I’m PHYSIC, I would know. If a Pisces left you, don’t take it personal. Think of it as a self preservation mechanism.
Also, I can see how depression would warrant your “Cancers are caring” post, but fail to see how that applies in this thread. I hear and read anger. You need to admit there is some bitterness, sadness, anger in your post before I continue this any further.
Come forth silent rogue and reveal your true identity.
If you do, I’ll promise to help you see the brighter side of things;)
Warmly,
Steve
January 16th, 2012 at 1:43 am
Psychic as I am, I already know that I have gotten to you. It is especially apparent in your frail attempt at a mirror comeback. I wasn’t the one who brought up any problems with the relationship between Cancer and Pisces, and you know it too. I can now understand better, though, why you would have some problems with Cancers and why you would complain about them here: they obviously had responded to you in much the same way I am doing so here.
You’re just not going to “win,” Steve, please just accept it. Concluding, I know that you have personal anger issues with cancers that YOU need to work out with yourself. No matter what you say and how much you try to convince other readers that I have trouble with Pisces, we already know that you’re the one with the problems with Cancer.
Warmly (AND saliciously *tsk*),
Johanna
January 22nd, 2012 at 3:16 am
I have already said that I do have issues. No one needs to figure it out. I’m not trying to win anything, but I think we both know how this will end. Pisces are very clever and you’ll never see our “cards” until the last moment. So, I know that I have already won.
You still haven’t revealed your true identity. Your heroic and humble servitude to humanity surely deserves some recognition. Allow me the honor to convey it to the world.
Kindly and Salaciously,
Steve
March 13th, 2012 at 3:40 am
Ladies and Gentleman of the internet world. I would like to pinpoint and highlight “Johanna” a.k.a. “Yada” who is posting on this site to spread her hate and ideology. Please keep in mind, these are not her real identity, but rather names she is using to cowardly hide behind a veil of secrecy. Unfortunately this tactic was ineffective. This is a middle aged woman who is slept her way into her current position of insignificance. She is trying to reach out to the world via internet as well as in her daily life to “try” and paint a different image of herself. She is posting in other topics such as scorpio and pisces also. While popular with the 20something crowd, she is a pariah among her peers. Her closest ally being a man she worked for and also had an intimate relationship with. She trying to “steer” her underlings with life lessons and advice, but sadly is she unaware that her influence serves her no good.
I’m taking this opportunity to shed some light on this evil person. Soon enough this person will be brought in front of a global audience to face her repercussions.
March 27th, 2012 at 8:41 am
Oh, lookie here. “Steve” aka “Bobby” aka “Mark” aka “Betty” aka “MONICA” (as in his/her latest alias) apparently is at it again. He/She just wouldn’t let this conversation go now, would he/she?
Honestly, bubba, I don’t think “the world” cares so much about this as much as you do. But, within your frail futile attempt to trash-talk and mis-represent me at a grand stage, I only found one re-affirming thing that I’ve brought up time and again: that you are the one with the baggage.
I was kind enough to talk to you (calmly, mannerly and kindly, mind you) at the beginning, of course. But, you had to take my response to yours (which, again, were not even coherent on the topic that I was original speaking about in the other forum) as personal attacks. You keep giving me the power to affect you where power wasn’t even due me. What can I say? Should I be chuckling at you or crying for you? I have yet to decide on this…
Now, why don’t you be a good little fish and quit trying to stir trouble. You’ve already tried it two or three times, and it didn’t deliver.
Johanna