Aries Compatibility With Pisces |
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Aries and Pisces
This is a tricky one. Fire and Water do not normally mix well as the Water signs tend to unintentionally ruin the Fire signs fun. However, this particular union may be the exception to the rule. The Aries needs the Pisces for emotional protection and care, and likewise the Pisces craves the strength of the Aries. The Pisces can be independent and free spirited, but only for short periods of time. Pisces are dreamers. And can, at times, go into themselves to think, or solve a problem. This can leave the Aries out in the cold as the Aries dosen't work in the same way. It needs to be explained to the Aries that the fact the Pisces does this isn't in anyway to hurt or upset, but simply something he/she needs to do. As Aries don't spend too much time thinking about how they can make the world a better place they, at first, don't understand. Once all is explained though the Aries will understand and no more will be said about it. In the bedroom this union is delicious! The Aries will be allowed to take the lead role in these matters, and as the Pisces is sexually adaptable it is inevitable that the two of them will enjoy themselves fully! This truly is an astonishing relationship and the Aries lover can fall so much in love with the Pisces that they may even change their ways, indeed anything, to follow their beautiful dreamy lover wherever they may go.
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February 26th, 2008 at 4:18 pm
[…] we have here in these two. Or at least, most of the time. Taurus brings strength to this union, the Pisces can relax and feel safe both physically and emotionally. In fact Taurus brings a lot of positives […]
March 10th, 2008 at 3:25 am
well right now I am a taurus and my boyfriend is an aries,I secretly adore his childish ways and his great strength to be able to capture lifes goals as it come by, I do wish to have these traits in mysef, I listen to alternative music and he listens to hip hop. I love beautiful things and he loves to destroy them for fun..uuuggghhh..but our passion is crazy. he is kind of hard to handle,..not only that he is a bit hetic for me and i try to have patience, sometimes i do fear he might be cheating on me but i dont know if an aries is as loyal as i am, well aries do lovee to compete and he does not like to be bored. Well all I have to say is our passion for eachother is crazy, you can tell once you look at eachother that a taurus and an aries has the greatest passion. No matter how hard i run he runs after me. Nomatter how hard I slap him push him he comes back for more…in love yes we are!!
June 25th, 2008 at 4:14 am
i am an aries girl…and my boyfriend is an pisces….i was very wild and crazy before i met him…i was very aggressive and less sensitive…but being wit him for 2 years taught me alot…n he taught me alot too.it was kinda like i was da pisces and he was da aries…our sex life is amazing…and we are both very romantic….we write letters and things like that and give romantic gifts…i love him so much and he loves me
July 19th, 2008 at 2:16 am
aww i’m an aries girl and my boyfriend is a pisces male.. i am very crazyy too, and my boyfriend often times gets upset with the things i think are ok to do, and he doesn’t, but i am very openminded and i understand that he isn’t ok with it, and i’ll stop, no questions asked. we’re both very good with that. and yes, he has definitely taught me alot. if it wasn’t for him, i’m know i’d get myself in a lot of trouble, he keeps me straight, and i keep him straight. i’ve also read on other sites that aries thinks they’re the “protector” when in all actuality the picses is, SO true.haha it’s very funny.but i love the boy! and our sex life, is absolutely amazing.. gets better and better everytime and we’ve been together for 3 years. we’ve learned alot from eachother. we’re in love.
November 4th, 2008 at 1:46 am
People say Aries and Pisces dont go but my-ex is one n we still talk n flirt.IM AN ARIES BABY#1
November 10th, 2008 at 2:38 pm
Me and my girlfriend India cant be more in love in my eyes. Im an Aries and she’s a Pisces. Things go smooth. We both can have silver tongues at times but other than that we’re great. She’s perfect.
November 13th, 2008 at 4:24 pm
I am an aries and my girfriend is a pisces. Sometimes astrology is wrong and sometimes it is right. Specifically with me and my girlfriends relationship we are perfect for eachother. Love is not reading astrology and seeing who your most compatible with. Love is letting love simply create itself. Let me explain, I was taking public transportation for about three months because I was not using my car. The last day I took the bus I met my Pisces girlfriend. The bond was instant and even though I just met her it felt wrong saying bye to her. Fate leads love , love does not lead fate. The more people understand this they will become patient and things will happen naturally. The same way the universe was created or a shooting star appears out of nowhere thats love.. Furthermore, I totally believe in signs. The day I met her it was pouring rain and she had even missed the first bus and me being the manager of my store I just kinda walked out of work early that day cause I felt like it… Hmmm quincidence or fate? In-conclusion, create your own astrology, your own love story and we will live in romantic bliss.
~ Adonis.
November 14th, 2008 at 3:13 pm
Pisces and Aries can be a fun combination, if Aries is the more responsible kind who doesn’t mind being depended on. Pisces finds not only a fun and energetic friend, but one whom she/he will know will take care of them. Aries will find a quirky spirit who has much of that same childishness and won’t feel so out of place in the world. They truly are like little kids and will even make their love look so serene and fresh, like they’ve fallen in love for the first time. However, Pisces can tire easily and Aries is eternally restless (even as grandparents, which I find ridiculous but amazing).
To Adonis: You’re completely right. The day I start using astrology to determine my relationships is the day I have to step back and look at both what I am using and my partner. Besides, it’s more interesting to let things work out on their own. I have to say, though, astrology can solve some problems in relationships that otherwise I wouldn’t have had any idea how to handle.
Astrology also explains why I’m attracted to certain kinds of people (like Virgos) and not others (most Air signs, some Fire). But that’s not going to stop this Taurus from taking a chance, say, a Gemini.
November 16th, 2008 at 3:27 am
I love my pisces
November 19th, 2008 at 6:02 am
I am an Aries, dominant, and my boyfriend is a Pisces, easy going. We were really good friends before we got together, and I had been going through alot of trouble with the loser guys I had before him. If it weren’t for him taking a notice in me, and believing we are actually a match, I would have never thought of being with him, But I’m so glad I took the risk, cause it was one of my best decisions I have ever made. I believe he is the love of my life, and I know there are times when we collide, but it’s too hard to stay mad at him for too long when he smiles at me. I believe our personalities balance eachother out. I have only been with him a little over a year, and I know my heart does not belong to anyone else… I have truely found my soulmate!!! So don’t listen to all of the negative things the astrologies say, I told him that we are not really supposed to be compatilbe and his respose was “I don’t care, I’m going to Love you anyway”
PRICELESS!!!! He has changed me, and I have changed him… for the better!!!!
November 20th, 2008 at 4:11 pm
Lovely e-mail Stephanie,
Despite the fact that I’m not with her (I made my mistakes in that relationship), I still in love with my Aries girl, and I’m a Pisces man. She is the best, to the point that I’m being silly to have her as comparisson factor to other girls who I’ve been dating. I know is not fair to the other girls and I’m probably missing some good ones in the process. The only one to blame is my heart, honestly. Aries and Pisces can work pretty well, like any other relationship, it takes a bit of patience and understanding. At the moment, we are just puting our pride as a priority, we are both very stubborn and strong minded but I have to admit that she left marks in my soul and it means something, and I know that for her, is not being easy to get rid of me in her thoughts. In some ways is good that we are not together, we both need to grow up, go through other relationships and situations in life. If I was supposed to follow astrology, I had to run away from her as far as I could, but the CHEMISTRY is just to hard to handle, I don’t think that any planet alignment or anything like that could explain that. By the way, I think that Aries and Pisces are SO different that in my own astrology, they should be together. They are both very inteligent and I know some Aries-Pisces couples and the kids they brought to this world are just beautiful phisically and mentally, because through their parents experience, they have the chance to learn a bit of everything. By the way, the 3 Aries-Pisces couples that I know are very succesful and love between them always seems fresh and recycled. I truly believe in this match!!!
All the best!!!
Enry
November 25th, 2008 at 7:19 pm
OMG THIS IS SOMETHING ELSE YOU ARIES ARE SO IN LOVE WITH YOUR PISCES….THAT IS SO GOOD TO HEAR…WELL I AM A PISCES..AND I`VE ONLY BEEN IN TWO RELATIONSHIPS WITH ARIES NOW THE FIRST ARIES WAS MY FIRST AND TRUE LOVE MY ONLY BABY FATHER AND MOST OF ALL MY LAST!!!!!!THAT MAN TOOK ME THRU A LOT!!!… HE REALLY TOOK ME THRU A LOT…AND I WILL NEVER BE IN ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP WITH ONE AGAIN…..IT HAS BEEN 8 YEARS I HAVE HAD 3 RELATIONSHIPS AND HE HAS HAD NONE….IM FOR SURE HE`S BEEN GETTING HIS FREAK ON BUT HE HAS NOT HAD A SREIOUS RELATIONSHIP SINCE ME….HE TELLS ME THAT HE WANTS ME TO COME BACK…….HELLLLLLLLLLL NNNOOOOOOOOO. I WILL NEVER GO BACK, NEVER…….HES A ARIES/TIGER BY THE WAY…I SEE WHY WE WAS SO INCOMPATIBLE…I AM A PISCES/ROOSTER SO THAT TELLS IT ALL….BUT I AM CHASING THIS ARIES/SNAKE…WE BEEN FREINDS FOR 5 1/2 YEARS AND I LOVE HER SO MUCHHHHH…….YES IM BISEXUAL BY THE WAY.. A WOMAN CHASING ANOTHER WOMAN…BUT ANYWAYS I HAVENT SEEN HER IN 3 YEARS CAUSE I BEEN IVING OUT OF TOWN..BUT WHEN I GO BACK TO MY HOME TOWN, IM GOING TO HUNT HER DOWNNNNNNN………
December 8th, 2008 at 5:15 am
I am an aries woman, and the guy that I am dating is a pisces. I am crazy about him because he just isn’t your average guy. Sex with him his always amazing, but sometimes I don’t understand him. The reason I was so attracted to him in the beginning was because he was so mysterious, but now it’s starting to bother me because I feel like he puts up a wall and he never says much. I try to get through to him by letting him know that I am here for him and he can always talk to me, but he is still in his own world. I am sticking around because I believe that he might eventually let me in his circle, but I don’t know how long I can stand it.
December 23rd, 2008 at 2:08 am
Well I am a Pisces female who was in arealtions hip with a pisces man, absoultely terrible. we were a horrendous match and according to astrology we are meant to get on great. He had a wall up, he was impractical and was a big dreamer. I always hadto kick him in to reality. Never again, pisces men like the idea of commitment however never follow it through. The truth is they always seem to be looking for better. Admittedly the ones I know physically are beautiful. My longest relationships ahve been with Leo and Saggitarians. Yes it was I that walk out on both of them ,but to this day they both proclaim love. So I say reconsider the astrology when thinking about a partner use it as a guide and gospel.
December 31st, 2008 at 12:49 am
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I haven’t seen any comments from Pisces girls…how they feel about dating an Aries man
January 7th, 2009 at 12:38 am
yes, i am a piscean girl and I would deffinately agree that an aries- pisces companionship is not good. aries are too self centered and selfish- they wont appreciate our soft gentle compassionate type at all. and i garantee that if you are in an aries-pisces couple, it will end badly in a verry short time- usualy leaving the piscean with hurt feelings.
January 7th, 2009 at 12:46 am
also.. to lily- sounds like a perfect match! you two fit eachother very well!
to a lot of people, the only thing pisceans have in common with aries is sex to broaden a relationship. be warned if youve not been with them for long! as for those who are in long term relationships with aries…. you two are probably not in your own sign the whole way. check out some sites to see if annother sign fits you better!
i know. im a pisces born in december!
January 8th, 2009 at 10:02 pm
Pisces girl speaking: =]
yea for the Aries probably everything feels right because they are too self-centered and can’t recognize errors. The aries dont know what goes on in our heads, what we think when they actually talk like they own the world. That annoys pisces because we care about other people and we are so not self centered. All the aries man I have met are funny, fun to be around with, but terrible at commitment, not loyal, criticize too much and are slutty lol just like the saggitarious(they are cool peeps though). I don’t say anything at the time but surely a relationship with them will eventually get me annoyed and ill leave..
I just dont like being around insensitive jerks
(Not all are like that…It depends on how u were raised..but i have lived with many aries guys and that’s basically my description of the ones I have met. My father is an aries and he is a lot like that…)
January 17th, 2009 at 8:47 am
“Aries” girl speaking: I am an Aries of course, and my boyfriend/ husband is a pisces, and yes our sex is amazing we satisfy each other well in all ways, BUT!!! he won’t let me be me mind! you I’m a wild and crazy Aries and i love having fun, and it seems like we are exactically what our signs specify, you know “water” and “fire” like I’m all rawwwww!!! and he’s all bluump blummp bubble. like at first it was great sort-of enchanting, like a real “sweet escape”. But now i guess sense i let him take the lead in the relationship as far as the “man women” thing goes I’m just not happy, probably because I’m a leader my self and not very comfortable being lead or told what to do, and we’ve been together for three years now, i just can’t take this board ism anymore i feel like my fire’s being drowned in water and i can’t loose myself but,at the same time i really really really love him and i without a doubt know he loves me, i just hope me being me isn’t going to be our relationships demise. And i don’t totally believe in astrology i believe that Fiat and Gods will is our only true destiny. And even so as astrology and compatibility goes aren’t i suppose to be the controlling one!?
February 3rd, 2009 at 1:59 pm
i am an aries girl totally in love with my aries boy..even though there are times when we don`t really get along cause he seems to have more practical in approach to life than the dreamy world of mine but rest of the times he is like a soulmate and my bestfreind..he is very honest in his approach towards life..and that wat matters most in a relationship..we make a great pair..and know that he is gonna b there for me no matter what..i can really feel aries and pisces are made for eachother..
February 11th, 2009 at 12:40 am
Hi,
My bf is an Aries and I am a Pisces. We are like a match made in heaven. I like his straight forward attitude and very masculine ways. He is an Aries to the t. He is the leader I’m the relationship and I just kinds swim along side, LOL. He doesn’t like when I go inside my head to think of day dream, when I do be feels like there is something wrong. Are sexual relationship is amazing! Our sex is phenominal. It’s weird when he is not around me his body temp is so hot. When we are together I cool him down LOL. I am affraid he will get bored of me oneday though. I read Aries get bored very quick. Anyone have any ideas to keep our relationship spark going? Cause it ha been a little boring lately.
Thanks.
February 11th, 2009 at 2:42 pm
ooops!!i had written as me being an aries but soory im an pieces girl and bf is an aries
March 1st, 2009 at 3:32 am
I have been seeing my pieces boyfriend for only a few months, but everything seems exactly as astrology states. The passion between us was instant, and I have been captivated by him ever since. I depend on open conversation in order to get the feel for where others are coming from, and I therefor feel like my blood wants to boil when he wont open up about his secret world. I can’t believe how much I want to be there fighting his battles with the things he goes through and protect him from all that puts him down. I am a very upbeat person who’s mood is not easily dampened, but it kinda drives me crazy how sulky he gets sometimes. I kinda just want to shout “BE HAPPY!” “THE GLASS IS HALF-FULL :)” But somehow I don’t think that would work too many times. Since we’ve only been together for about 5 months i’ve decided to remain patient and wait to see if he will open up once he realises he can trust me (without the aid of vodka). Everytime I begin to have doubts, he shocks me by saying/doing the most romantic/sweet things. Astrology aside, I also realise that my guy has a lot of things that may keep him from talking freely just as any other guy would- like his job working as a firefighter/paramedic 8 days a week (or so it seems). I feel like i’ve learned alot in such a short period of time- mostly how to be patient and understanding of others differences. Even if it doesn’t work out in the end (which I would love for it to work out) I know I wont regret this relationship. Hopefully he won’t put out the wrong fire. : P
March 3rd, 2009 at 7:42 am
i’m a pisces girl, and i have a huge crush on an aries guy. i am amazed at him every time i see/hang out with him. i hope it goes somewhere. . .
whoever said that their aries guy is really warm… i know how you feel! the guy i like pretty much radiates HEAT, and i’m always cold. at least it’s a good excuse to get closer to him.
March 9th, 2009 at 1:20 pm
I AM A PIECES WOMAN AND MY MEN IS AN ARIES. OUR RELATIONSHIP IS AMAZING,THE SEX IS JUST OUT OF THIS WORLD AND IT GETS BETTER WITH THE DAY. I HAVE FOUND MY SOUL MATE, I CANT SEE MY SELF WITH ANYONE ELSE, I AM COMPLETE. HE IS MY ROMEO AND I AM HIS JUILET.
WE ARE FRIENDS, LOVERS, AND SOUL MATE.
WE HAVE CHANGED EACH OTHER IN SO MANY WAYS, AND FOR THE GOOD. THANK YOU MY LOVE, TSHEPO MAKOKOE
March 22nd, 2009 at 7:19 am
I’m a Pisces in a relationship with an Aries guy. The chemistry is out of this world. I think a lot of the reason why we were so attracted to each other was our childish playfulness that made everything seem new and fun. I am a Pisces sun, but have a lot of Aries in my chart (moon, venus, and mars). This also makes for the flip side of the relationship, too much passion. Even though I am cool and calm on the surface, there is a lot of energy just beneath the surface, and when we get together, it is so easy for a little disagreement to turn into a huge fight. And we both have tempers, his comes at the drop of a hat, mine takes a little more time to show, but he ALWAYS brings it out of me. That is the thing that I hate about our union. He brings out the best and the worst in me. I hate to see that side of myself when I lose my temper and go out of control. The Aries man WILL bring this out of you, especially if you have a lot of fire in your chart. Every time we try to break up, we end up together again within a week or two, we are like magnets, as much as we know there are unhealthy things about being together, we just can’t be with anyone else. Once you realize you can’t be with anyone else, you will devote the time to truly understanding each other and working our your differences. Will take more work on Aries part, they have to realize their insensitivity..
March 23rd, 2009 at 3:17 pm
I’m a pisces girl and I’m currently dating an Aries man. My father is an Aries and I have to say, he reminds me a lot like him (damn Freud and his psychological approaches)
Anywho, he is amazing, believe it or not, very romantic, perhaps even more than me. Also, since he is older than me, he is very mature and he is someone I can rely on (which is perfect for a pisces, im not so sure about the aries because they like independent people)
I was born in March 12 so I do contain a lot of fire in my sign. I have no problem keeping up with him and we have so many things in common; it’s amazing.
According to astrology, pisces and aries don’t go together. Maybe it’s true….or maybe this just means they are going to have to work harder to get the same compatibility of a…let’s say Taurus and Pisces.
Never forget obstacles makes a relationship stronger.
Although we don’t match up in the western astrology, we match perfectly in the chinese astrology. He is a Tiger and I am a horse.
March 27th, 2009 at 3:15 am
I am a pisces female and I am in love with an aries male. I feel this relationship is one of great joy and pain. I feel the one thing that bothers me most is the fact that when an argument comes the pisces can let it go but the aries tends to hold grudges and to me the aries male also whine alot. I like to be happy and content. Pisces were born tired so constantly being on an emotional rollercoaster is not good for our soul.Pf course the sex is great but we have the ability to conform and transform so no matter who we are with it will be fun. However, he has my heart but alot of what they say about the aries being selfish is true i think aries men and pisces women are better at just being sexual partners than in relionships because the pisces woman needs someone who cares about things other than themselves and are cool with being themselves. We can read people so we know an a** when we see one even if they try to hide it. I love my aries male but i dont like him as a person .
March 31st, 2009 at 6:18 pm
I am a aries women and i have a pisces fiance’ and i love him with my soul and for the time we have been together we not argued but once. we have a complete understanding with each other. With everyday and experience that goes by we become stronger and better lovers. I LOVE MY PISCES!
April 4th, 2009 at 3:21 pm
I am a pisces girl and i am madly in love with my aries boyfriend, which is why it is very hard to say goodbye to him. He can be such a sweetie sometimes but other times I just feel like we don’t really understand each other. I have been with him for two and a half years and I was friends with him for a year before we started dating. Our relationship has been very hard. I honestly think that sometimes we bring out the worst in each other. The things that I like about him are his dependability, masculinity, sexiness, and the way he always takes care of me and protects me, not to mention the sex. He has told me on numerous occasions that he wants me to be his bride and to have his kids someday which is so romantic. So, he can be very selfish sometimes which usually i am the opposite of. I don’t know what to do i hope i’m making the right decision. I told him I needed space space, which I really do. His heart is broken and he is crushed. I feel terrible, the last thing I wanted to do was to hurt him. All in all, I think that this match is one of the hardest there is.
April 18th, 2009 at 11:03 am
We love hard and fight hard. Thats the easiest way of explaining the PISCES-ARIES relationship.
April 18th, 2009 at 4:19 pm
WOW!!! I guess I’ve just found my answer regarding the Aries / Pisces connection. I met this Pisces man who is AMAZING to me. He has done so much and to have had so much taken from him at such a young age (mother and father both died before he was 20). I am in AWE of him. I posted questions regarding the Aries (woman) / Pisces (man) thing in the Aries Woman and the Pisces Man section as this relationship is just starting. All I can say is that so far, he seems to be pretty awesome. I know with him that I would probably spoil him and get out of any selfishness that might be in me. I don’t want to drain him and really need to hear from the Pisces men if their Aries women drain them and how the relationship is from their point of view.
– ArianGem
April 22nd, 2009 at 3:14 pm
A Pisces woman and an Aries man:
Every time he walks into the room, masculine, tall, proud, my stomach drops and I fall in love all over again. And when he looks at me, walking in also, he says I glide, and I do the same to him.
My birthday is practically a cusp [March 18th], so even when he steps up, I’m not completely Pisces to the point where I float along or enjoy depending on him. We enjoy arguing and debating, we’re both pretty sarcastic and can hurt one another’s feelings, but to be honest, I don’t think I’ve ever been angry with him for more than ten minutes.
He is dependable. I try to be as loyal as I can, emotionally or otherwise, to people. He has some selfishness in him, but it never seems to be directed toward me.
My skin’s always cold, his is always warm. He thinks I’m a little weird because I’m quirky and loud, but he wouldn’t have it any other way. I think his “I’m not wrong, EVER” attitude is adorable, because I just tell him to get off his high horse. I can barely explain how we bounce off one another in so many ways. We’re both people who appear to be incredibly carefree, young, and perhaps even ditzy and unaware [me more ditzy, him more headstrong and illogical], but we love reading and rollercoasters, “softer” hobbies and sports.
The one thing that I dislike is he gets /very/ down on himself and guilty for things he really couldn’t control. I can’t hate him for it, because I do the exact same thing. When one sinks, the other rises and takes charge, telling it like it is. We’ve done that for one another several times. Family problems, overwork [working and college], we take it as it comes, and we pretty much take it together.
He’s just good for me. I worry about the future, and he tells me to take it one step at a time. Conversely, he tends to ignore long-term thinking, and I wake him up so he can quit ignoring what’s coming.
Both of us love being right, hate being wrong, but somehow that never cripples us. We fight hard.
Aries appreciate affection; they need it. The outside is hard and the core is soft; they hate admitting that the masculine, fearless leader needs a fall-back. Your affection isn’t wasted, Pisces girls
They don’t respond the same way one, being men, and two, being the way they are. Taking care of your little things, opening a door, moving something heavy, are their little ways of loving you without saying it. They may be a little selfish; but when they find someone they feel they couldn’t live without, they put everything they’ve got into it, no matter if it blossoms and lives or crashes and burns.
I love my Aries so much.
May 1st, 2009 at 5:08 pm
Im an ARIES girl and my ex (soon to be boyfriend) is a PISCES guy…We have ALWAYS went back and forth…Either he was in a relationship or I was…We are older now and I got in contact with him yet again just to see how he was doing…And we are back in love! Its nutts! And the bad thing is..Im married to a Libra..We dont get along very well…But Im not just going to leave him without being sure I can make it work with my Pisces…Im scared though…We love so hard and have since we were in high school It scares me…What to do? lol..
May 16th, 2009 at 2:41 am
As I began reading these comments, it’s true that one commenter mentioned that he did not see many pisces women mentioning Aries men.
I am an Aries and I was recently engaged to a Pisces woman I loved very much. I tried my best to meet her expectations and at times we were very much in love. She had a gentle side but her personality was very in line with a female pisces. She held me back considerably and my natural fire channeled through work eventually destroyed our relationship. When we first met, we were good friends and then I injured my back severely. This injury made me more complacent and sedentary as I could not exercise or sit for long periods of time. She did stick by me, but it was not easy. She got me back into competitive swimming and eventually my back healed a lot more, allowing me to engage in things I enjoyed, but also making me want to get back to hobbies that she did not approve of…camping etc.
The ending was bad for sure. I had done everything I could to keep her, but I could never live up to her expectations. Everything that I knew about pisces came up in our relationship so I think the only reason we lasted so long was that she did not surprise me with her issues or personality traits that bothered me. Sex was terrible to tell you the truth, and I tried everything to keep it interesting but it was always about her and I would not receive any reciprocation in the bedroom or even when requesting a massage.
I feel better writing this now. I do love her and miss her. I wish she wasn’t so judgemental of others and narrow minded. I am a free spirit and a hard worker but I also give people a chance. After we broke up, I thought to myself, stay away from Cancers, Capricorns and now Pisces, but someone mentioned here that you really have to just go with the flow of love. I will do this, but I will definitely stay away from Cancers and perhaps give another chance to a Pisces.
May 18th, 2009 at 6:11 pm
I have a sun in Aries I am in my late 30s and he is in his mid 30s so there is a a little bit of an age difference. It makes sense for us to be together considering our first mirrages did not work out and a significant amount of time has passed. This pisces drives me insane. When we are together it seems like he could love me but whenever I try to give him love, he swims away. He always comes back but each time he swims more and more time goes by. When he does come back, our short time together gets better and better. It drives me insane. I know pisces does not like to be pushed and draws conclusions slowly but by the time he makes up his mind and decides to call me I might be starting to grow a beard and need to be pushed in a wheel chair. That might sound a little far fetched but the world does not revolve around pisces. They need to realize that. The sad thing is that we had a wonderful time going to the football games and wine tastings. He looked at me with pure love in his eyes. I am starting to think that a lot of people get that look from pisces and it is nothing special. Do any other of you Aries know this look? When he is gone, it is like I never even existed. It is as if he is punishing me for loving him. I know he is taking time time to collect his thoughts but I am not sure he realizes how hurt lost and confused I feel at times. He acts like a Cancer sign. Can someone tell me what is going on here?
May 18th, 2009 at 6:39 pm
Stephanie,
I’m a Pisces man. Perhaps I can provide some insight. Perhaps not. I have been very much drawn to Aries women at one point in my life, but never really made the connection because our interests were so different.
If he looks at you with that “look” as you describe, it may very well be that he would like to get something substantial going with you, but there is just something that he sees as not being possible in a long-term relationship with you. Perhaps having to do with a difference in interests.
So… try this. Tell him to pretend he had a million dollars. Tell him if he had that million dollars he would have to spend it with you - not on you, just with you. Tell him to pretend that whatever he wanted to do with you with that million dollars that you would do it. Now have him write down on a piece of paper all of those things.
Doing this, you may discover that there is a whole lot of things that he may like to do with you, that certainly wouldn’t cost a million dollars, but may be hesitant in mentioning them because he feels your interests might be much different than his.
Good luck.
May 26th, 2009 at 12:08 am
I am a Pisces gal and very interested in an Aries male. After 2 relationships, 1st 8 yrs with Cancer and 2nd 6 mos with opposite sign Virgo I’ve spent the last 4 yrs behind a protective wall. Wondering about how it seems the Pisces/Aries matches here are mostly the women being Aries and the Pisces being men. Astrology doesn’t lead my heart but is very key on personality/character traits. Pisces men and Pisces women are very different and wonder about how this pairing with Aries might lead out. We are both building such a good friendship with each other before taking things any further. I’ve read here an opinion on how it could end bad for Pisces, such sensitive people we are. He’s very key to let me know how nothing’s ever worked out for him as far as relationships go. But after 4 years of not letting anyone close to my heart I wonder if I should take the risk cause risks have to be taken if any rewards are to be reaped. Not sure about him being the Aries though and the Fire/Water combo. Wish me luck if we proceed.
May 29th, 2009 at 9:20 pm
I am a Aries girl and one of of my first boyfriends was a Pisces and we got along great for a while because he was an exscape from the other jerks I was dating. He was sweet, kind, gentle and loyal. But he was also a little too laid back for me. I had to end things quickly before I hurt him. But that was 5 year ago and we still keep in contatc and something about that is weird. Even if we would go years without talking some how we would end up talking again only as friends and for a short period of time. Then in the recent tow years I met another pisces who has a girlfriend and we still talk its like I am very drawn to these men. I really do like them the best out of all the guys I have ever dated. So as of recent I ,met another Pisces and I fell head over hills almost instantly which is probably where we went wrong. But being an Aries girl I fall hard and fast which is something I am learning to control as I get older. But yes I do understand that look that the
Pisces man give its like he is looking right into your soul and know exactly what you are feeling and thinking which i like but i also feel tooo vukneralb around him and I dont like to get that open with people. The sex is amazing and I love the way he touches me I never feel like it just sex with us. But he is too detached and I feel like he is so analytical and intuitive and like im stupid around him sometimes. He never gets excited and drinks alot. He depend on me for emotional support and then ups and leaves when he is done draining me . But i keep goig back I dont know what it is about Pisces men that i love. i cant seem to get him off my mind. So my first pisces come back into my life once again but for some reason this time I gave him more and hung out with him and relized he changed he is way more agressive but still sweet but guess what now he has a girlfriend if 5 months but we have been talking everyday since. He just understands me and doesnt judge me as harshly as all the other guys I dated. Were just friends now and im just going with the flow. But we both have agreed that our feeling from high school came back and fore some reason he was the one who reached out to all those times i dont know what it is he like about me so much but i would love to know from a male Pisces why you guys are drawn to Aries girls.But I would like to end up with a Pisces because they are understanding and they can teach me alot about being more sensitive and giving.
June 17th, 2009 at 2:25 am
Well all i have to say is im an aries male and im falling in love with a pisces. I dont care what anyones opinion is, its gunna work out because im going to try my hardest to protect and take care of her. Theres nothing to it, if its love i say go for it and fight your hardest to take care of it and keep it.
June 17th, 2009 at 4:45 am
I am an Aries girl and fell in love with a Pisces man in high school. We became high school sweathearts. He played football and went away for college. He ended up coming back after only 8 months because he missed. We moved in together right away and I soon became pregnant. I was only 18. I had a boy and after only 2 years I asked him to leave. We were both very young and all he wanted to do was hang out with his friends. The more he hung out the angier I would become and the longer he would stay gone. I had a very tough pregancy because if him not being around. I was always chasing him around and asking him to come home.
When I wanted to break things off he cried and told me he would do whatever it takes to keep his family, but after I put him out, he moved in with his cousin and quickly became aquainted with this Virgo girl.
I would come by his cousins house to bring my son over to see him and just knew that he and this other woman were sleeping together. They were all basically living together. The cousin and his girlfriend, my x-husband and the Virgo woman.
Anyway, I later found out that they were sleeping together and when I confronted him he told me that he didn’t want to be with her, he wanted to be with me. I had him confront this girl in front of me and tell her he didn’t want her but that didn’t make her go away. Eventually I just gave up and told him I wasn’t going to try anymore.
Now 10 years later, we remain good friends. We are in each others lives because of our son but are still very close. I love him to death and care for him like I care for my son. I wouldn’t let anyone hurt him. He has tried for 8 years to get back with me even though he is still with the Virgo girl! He has cheated on the Virgo girl repeatedly with other women but she won’t leave him.
About 2 1/2 years ago I met this young Pisces man through friends. He is 10 years younger than me!!!! This man pursed me like crazy!!! He would show up to my house un announced and call and email until he got a response. He was very aggressive for a Pisces man. One day he came over un announced and I asked him to leave. When I walked him outside, he pushed me up against a car and kissed me! I saw fireworks!!
After that night, we gradually ended up in a sexual relationship. We both knew from the start that we could never be an item because of the people we knew and the vast age difference. The sex is great! He is very adventourus even though I’m the Aries. He is also very dominant and loves to tell me what to do in bed which I love!
We have had a very rocky sex relationship for 2 years now. Everytime I try to break things off, he comes back and pursues me till I give in. I love him and it’s very hard for me to share this man with the rest of the world.
Since he is young, he has a lot of women who want him because he is very good looking and has a lot going on for himself. So because it’s so hard for me to see all these women pursuing him and him being flirty, I always try to break things off to avoid heartache.
We tell each other we love each other every now and again, but we never do anything other than have sex. That’s all we do. But we can lay in bed and talk about our lives and cuddle after we have sex. It’s a very strange thing we have. I don’t know why I can’t leave this man alone. It’s just very hard when he comes back for me to resist him.
We definitely have a connection. I ask him why does he come back to me when he can have his pick of any woman he wants and he tells me that I’m the best lover he has ever had. Mind you, this doesn’t stop him from flirting and sleeping around with other girls.
He also acts very detached at times. Like he doesn’t have any feelings for me.. He is very hard to read and I never know what he’s feeling. I do think we are compatible and have what the other needs.
June 27th, 2009 at 10:07 am
I am an Aries girl who has definately fallen for a Piscean man….the way we met was quirky enough…I was on holidays and he worked over there and we met within 5 hours of me landing
So, me being a crazy Aries drew him in with my wild flirting and carefree attitude(thanks to many cocktails), he made me laugh and this mysterious confidence he exuded jst captivated me!! Needless to say nobody saw me for the rest of the holiday because I was with him constantly. I was fascinated by the person he was in public and the true man he was when we were alone. I think because he is sensitive and a deep thinker that he puts up this public persona and acts a different way around others. probably to protect himself but it is definately the person he is when we are alone that has me spellbound! Hes thoughtful, makes me laugh, we share very similar tastes in music, movies, television, sports etc. A little piece of me was truely heartbroken when I went home, hes not good at goodbyes and quite frankly I didnt want to leave so I told him that it wasnt goodbye, more like I’ll see you later….a month passed and I made contact with him through the net and for the last 8 months we’ve keep in contact constantly, video calling, phone calls, texts and I finally decided to take the plunge, after talking to him about it Im heading back over to him for a week…..whoever said in their comments above that despite whatever happens this is not a relationship they will regret is completely right…..He has taught me calm, much patience and perserverance and I think I bring out the laughter and fun side of him and opened him up a little….a part of me already knows Im going to come home heartbroken again leaving him but Ive decided to live for the moment and see where it takes me……….Nothing ventured, nothing gained right? Thats what you should take into consideration when entering into a Aries/Pisces relationship 
J xx
July 1st, 2009 at 4:52 am
I AM A piSCES W0men n MY BF Iz AN ARIES. WE R S0 MUCH N L0VE N YEz DA S3X IZ S00000 g00D. IM N0T G0IN 2 LIE WE MET AS SEX PARTNERz bUH WE STARTEd 2 fALL N L0VE INSTANTLy. HE TAKEz CARE 0F ME AND PR0TECTz ME AL0T. THERES N0T A DAY WHERE WE HVNT SEd WE L0VE EACH0THER. YEz WE ARGUE BUH WE KANT STAY MAD 4 30MiNz. We’ve gr0weD 2 UndERstand eaCH0THER. I HV NEVER FELT THiS way aB0uT ANY GUy. HE T0LD ME THE SAME THiNq. We’ve crieD teAR 2GETHER AND SHAREd lAUGHTER AND IN N0V WE WiLl b Sharing a bABy gurl 0UR FIRST CHiLD EVER. G0D TRUELY HAS BLESSEd ME BY Grantin me with such l0ve. My 0pini0n is Aries and piSces r madE F0R EACH0THER THE 0NLY REAS0N Y THEy ARGUE S0 MUCH iS BECAUSE WE F0RGET AT TiMES THAT WE R IN ThiS t0gether. PiSces w0men embraCe y0ur aries telL em u l0ve them. And ARIES MEN LiStEN T0 UR PiSCES SHE 0NLY WANTS THE BEST 4 U.
July 3rd, 2009 at 7:43 am
hii.. this is debss and im an aries girl my bf is a pieces i seriously belived everyhtign about astrologyy because is truee wht they say about aries is totally true because i haved read alot and is totally me energetic totally crazy girl my boyy is amazingg he is totally swet he haved chnage for mee (in a good way) and i think i haved made some chnages too for good i think when i do something inever think im always do what i wnat to do i love to do wild things while my bf is always in his dream world he is the seweedest romantic and sensitive perosn i ever meet i think sometimes i can get bored of him but noo.. i love him too much ii love to have extreeme fun (seriously) adrenaline in #1 well my bf pieces he is really coolled down.. and like just gone with the flow he likess to see me as a leader and he lets me be the one that is always talkingg i dont really like to lisen alot and i talk and talk and talk and he just lisens and he gives some coments but he is really careful in what he says because he knows i can be agrsive and wild. but he knows how to coltrol me and have me calmed donw im a really hyper girl and i cnat deny it and he is my soulmate he is perfect for me i really think we ar the match made in heaven he is amazing!!!!!my pieces boyy rockkss (he is extremellyy romantic and he knows how to burn me instantlyy while i become in a tiger because im seriously wild)…raawwwrrrr…
July 3rd, 2009 at 7:53 am
im an aries girl and my bf is an pieces baby boy!!!:D i love him so much and i truthly belived he is totally crazy for me i know he lovess that im a fun person and im really wildd.I think im super hyper an dreally esponthaneous, in our relationship theres alot of honey and romantisism.He is totally perfect and reallyyyy sweet and he know how to burn down houses…(LOL he is really knows how to melt mee to his feeth in a wink) he is super romaticc and really hornyy he is amazing in eveyr ways and more in the hot wayy.. u know wht i mean and because im a really wild and explosive things we ar amazing togetheer soo yeahh we match and we ar the match made in heaven he is really sensitive and i have too make sure i say the right thigns so i dont hurt him and he has to make sure i dont get bored because i loveee to have wild fun wiht him and i dont rest till i get it i think he lets me be the leader the one always talking and he being my lisener he lisens and lissens and he just say mmhmm or yeahh mee too he is a man wiht abit of words but sometimes just 3 words make me crazy for himm everysecn i spend wiht him he knows how to control me, but i cnat deny sometimes he cants he cnat stop the tiger i got inside or the the fire im but yeahh my love for him will never end and this flame keeps burning for more.. i love uu those 3 words ar the best!!!
July 26th, 2009 at 9:49 pm
I am an Aeries Male scheduled for marriage with an Pisces woman who I love deeply.. I feel what she has to offer me is a balance I am not able to find with alot of other people I have dated.. And i am sure to have dated every zodiac sign possible… I find myself opened up to her because she listens and tells me how much she cares and how much what I say means to her.. She is very respectful for my wishes and I give her the same respect back.. I have noticed that she goes along for the ride and lets me lead because she trusts me in making the major decisions. We have this bond like no other.. Saddest part about this all is the fact on how we met… well i dated her sister for about 2 years and our signs were Virgo and Aries. and holy cow… thats a battle not worth fighting.. but through it all.. we are all at peace.. she is happy for her sister and she is happy for us.. To anyone reading up on pisces and aries.. as long as there is maturity and your ready to settle down with each other.. this is a good combination because aries is the stronger of the two and pisces needs that protection for their own self gratification..
August 5th, 2009 at 3:20 pm
i can relate to some of the comments above… if aries-pisces combination is possible for others,i wish it could also be possible to me.
August 7th, 2009 at 4:06 pm
I am a aries woman, and I am falling for my longtermed malefriend PISCES…it aint easy, there’s big differneces and it is opening up some of my sensitivety for others which I normally miss….:(
I am a adult, 38 yeras old, and miss the vonurability pisces have an dI love to get in touch with that more…
August 13th, 2009 at 1:01 am
I’m a pisces female who once dated an Aries guy, alot of the astrology is true as said. We had a great relationship,out of this world, years later I still wish it never ended like it did and i’ll never experience anything like it again. Although things became difficult towards the end of the relationship, accusing me falsey of stupid things and being selfish, not considering my feelings at all with a hot temper.
This highly irratated me, as i doted and committed so much to him that he was blind to see it, denying me simple things. Becoming jealous/insecure of anything. I actually became slightly scared of him after a particular incident which is where I cut the line, as i shouldn’t have to be scared of someone i loved. Soon after it all fell apart, he became extremely aggressive and argumentative, so contact it little as i’m quite docile.
He doesn’t seem to care how much i’ve been hurt, thinking of himself only,again ’selfish’. For people who read this, the ride is good but the end is not, unless you’re willing to change to work it out.
August 23rd, 2009 at 11:19 am
im an aries and my friends brother is a pisces and i have a huge crush on him he seems really shy and gentle and im really wild around him and he likes my wildness
August 23rd, 2009 at 9:56 pm
WUSSUP YALL… I AM A PISCES MAN AND I IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH AN ARIES WOMAN… I LOVE HER WITH ALL MY HEART AND I WILL DO ANYTHING FOR HER… BUT SOMETIMES HER WAYS AND CAN BE VERY STR8 FORWARD AND SOME WORDS CAN SEEM HARD… BUT AS A MAN OF THE SIGN I AM, I LEARN TO SEE HOW SHE ALREADY IS AND ACCEPT IT… AND AS TIME GOES ON I WORK WITH MY LOVE TO LEVEL IT OUT… SAME FOR HER I AM OPEN TO CHANGE IF SHE FEELS I AM LESS OF SOMETHING… SHE IS MY ENERGY TO MOVE FORWARD AND DO MORE… AND I AM HER SUPPORT IN ANY WHICH WAY SHE NEEDS ME… AND TO MENTION I USED TO BE A TOURING DJ FOR FEW HIP HOP STARS… SHE GIVES ME THE COURAGE & WILL TO STEP UP TO THE PLATE AND WANNA BE A FAITHFUL MAN…
September 7th, 2009 at 2:04 am
I am a aries woman and just met a pisces man in April,This man blew me away with sex.I was married to an aries man before and he left me for another woman and I thought he was the best,but how wrong was I .This pisces man makes me fell so complete I hope it works because I only think of him .I had been going with a man with a lot of money before the pisces man and I gave it up for him,but come to find out he is loaded,but I would want him even if he did’t have anything.
September 11th, 2009 at 9:30 pm
Psh its more complicated than fire and water. pisces is a female sign and aries is a male sign. those are absolute opposites. so of course they would be compatible. I think the other water signs are male… Well i know i (aries) mix well with pisces. I tend to wear the pants in the relationship. He wants kids and i hate them and i give him flowers and he giggles lmao he wants to get married and i don’t believe in marriage… Like im no butch. Im very fem. I do small label modeling and a beautician. and he is a welder and does side jobs that men like to do. Im more like the energizer bunny and impulsive and outgoing and random and he is predictable and laidback and caring. so the balances work he reels me in when i get to carried away or close to being carried away and i bring him out of his shell when he needs to be. good relationship. pisces are very compassionate and wanna love u and take care of you. its great. and im just an opportunist and idk. just a good match
and whats even better is that him being so passive works for our culture. we are more traditional than most native americans and the woman are suppose to be the head of the household not the men.
September 15th, 2009 at 6:34 pm
i am a pisces male and i am fall in love with aries women.We r working in same company.everyday when i wakeup , i was thinking only to meet her in morning rather than the work.But definelty i am also doing my job well.
Most of the time , i will go and meet her and make some jokes with her.She like good jokes and if she is busy with the work, she is very aggressive & impatient and will be in bad mood untill she solved the problem.
she is very bossy and i like that attitude and always courage her to go ahead.
i love her smile soo much.and also her personilty (dynamic sometimes).I dont know how can i express my love to her.eventhough i am a male ,sometimes when she looks on me with aggressiveness, i feel like i almost dead on fire.
but still i love her so much.
sometimes she smiles on me and that moment i cannot control myself and i feel like i am in heaven.bcoz for me that smile is very precious.
i love her sooooooooooo much and if she also love me …i will die for her.
but i dont know whether she has any affair and i am very afraid to ask her.
i love u my aries baby girl.
September 17th, 2009 at 11:12 pm
Well, i’m a Pisces &* my boyfriend is an Aries
Yes that’s a sad face, but not because i’m sad. Right now i’m okayy, but im sure not for long . Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 and a half years, he was my first love &* also the first boy i’d ever had sex with . Yes im very sensitive, but not so much as easy going. He’s like… tough &* tries to be all hard, and sometimes mean . he’s just him. i love him &* respect him, &* i know for sure that he loves me too, that’s what secures me, when im secure 
he breaks my heart, &* makes me cry, &* sometimes he does things, the smallest things, i mean i dont even knw where the pain comes from, but it comes &* i feel like dying, when he hurts me . But when he’s with me, &* we’re happy, &* getting along, not arguing,fighting, or mad . it feels like HEAVEN. as yu knw, i’ve never been there but goodness, nothing’s ever felt better . i mean, i just want to cry right now from how much i love him , it’s that serious . i’ve known him for a verrry love time . but i feel he’s still holding back, secretive kinda, &* that hurts me . ’cause im like whyy cant yu open up more . but im patient with him &* even though i have a veryyy bad temper, i get mad soo quick &* soo easily, i still just wait on him to be able to do the things he needs to for our relationship to grow . we break up alot, i know that’s not healthy, but it’s reality . NEVER for long &* never for sure, but we always get back together . i really couldnt see my self with anyone else . i was pregnant, we lost it . i guess it wasnt meant to be . we’re still holding on . he lies alot, i have suspicions of him cheating but i’ll never accuse him of it . i;m verry romantic &* so is he . sex is goooood, greaaaat, wonderfulll, but crazy . lol .
You know , you can never think of everything at once, but when something dif. comes up, i’ll be sure to post it on here . i’d be surprised if anyone could relate to us but i hope i entertained &* helped someone (:
thanks for reading !
September 24th, 2009 at 8:28 am
I am an Aries woman who is still in love with a Pisces man who happens to be my best friend. I must agree.. An Aries woman and a Pisces man can truly have a complex but amazing relationship. It would just take your breath away. The problem is Pisces men will love to pursue you and then swim away once you try to catch them. I agree with Stephanie,Pisces men will look straight into your eyes as if he was looking into your soul and tell you the sweetest words that you’ll ever hear in this planet.. I have known my best friend for over 10 years already. We have seen each other in and out of relationships.. but our time seem to have not come. I really don’t know if it will ever come. I want to stop hoping but every time he comes around he would tell me how much he loves me and how much he longs for me and it would just sweep me off my feet. Honestly, sometimes i think our love story could sell many books, if only I could get to meet Nicholas Sparks (author of “The Notebook”) and tell our story. I bet you he would consider this title ” A Love Story that took a LIfetime to Begin” hahahaha how depressing! Pisces men give me your pieces of advice..thanx!
October 19th, 2009 at 7:37 pm
i hav a frnd born in 26th march.he is aries.im am a pisces.our frndsip too strong.my ex girlfrnd was also born in 26th march.but i tell you its like hell.all the im get mad when i listen to her.always she is talking im listening.she always want to do what she want doesnt matter wrong or right.she thinks what she thinks always right.she dnt even understand a singl word of me.besides everytime she is flirting with other boys.i feel really bad.now its over im single.i dnt know im glad or what but im happier than before.
October 28th, 2009 at 2:25 am
My Girlfriend is a Piscies, and god im in love.! Never had such a perfect relationship
November 1st, 2009 at 10:40 am
I’m in Love with a very special girl who is also a Aries. I love her with every inch of my heart. She too is very controlling, and makes all the rules. She doesnt always agree to my sexual fantasies of dressing up like a kinky cheerleader or what not. I hated this so much, but to make her happy I reluctently agree to her demands… Seeing her happy makes me happy… Still it sets me on kinky fire when I envision her in teeny tiny skirt (no pom poms needed)
Once when we were just friends, and I wanted to end it, she called me, and sobbed… Telling me she needed me. I was surprised because I never knew I meant so much to her. Which made me fall in love with her ever so much more.
I had a bad relationship several years back, and un-fortunatly, I put all my doubts and burdens onto her, but now were over that.
One thing I have is extreme jealousy! I hate it when she jokes about how “hot another guy is” She laughs, and smiles, but I swear to God it annoys me like hell.
Girls… No matter what sign your man is, DONT DO THAT!!!
November 1st, 2009 at 6:00 pm
I’m an Aries, and if i’ve learned anything about being with a man that a Pisces is
that they mean well but they can be very overprotective & jealous.
Which makes me feel insecure because he doesn’t trust me, like every girl/woman/female
i kinda admire robert pattinson (edward cullen) but it used to be daniel radcliffe (harry potter)
its not that i’d leave him for celebrities but he feels i will he himself is very insecure & hates it so much, and his anger sometimes does get the best of him…
sometimes he thinks (cuz i’m younger than he is) that i’ll leave for a younger guy or go to a
party & do something stupid=/
even though he’s a Pisces he does have a very loving,truthful,thoughtful,caring,sensitive,creative,
and not to mention funny side to him=)
i love it when we joke and tease each other lol
..when it comes to sexual stuff i’m starting to hate wat he likes
i’m the romantic type, he likes the hardcore/dressing up
& that for me is such a turn offff
i dont want it to be just about me, i want to make him happy too
but idk if i wanna do wat he likes
yea sometimes i do have 2nd thoughts about ‘us’, but i’m sure he does too
but hopefully we’ll make it work=)
November 9th, 2009 at 3:44 am
I’m aries, my wife is pisces. Fire can warm or boil water and wate can calm or douse fire. My wife and I have been married for 5 years and together for almost 10. We have been through a ton, but I can say that we love each other more now than we did in the past. Fire and water make steam if you have the right combo. My wife and I, just happened to have the right combo. Love. It makes sure the combo is right. So take the astrology out of it because love conquers all!
November 12th, 2009 at 8:12 am
Hey, I’m Jory. And I am an Aries, and I am dating a Pisces, and well, its freakin great! She is so emotional, and I love that about my baby! I feel like I am taking her under my wing, I am her protector, her caregiver, her everything! I love it! If anyone out there gets a Pisces and they are an Aries, if it works, IT WORKS! And oh ya, the bedroom? AMAZING.
3 years strong!
November 19th, 2009 at 9:45 pm
Helloo (: I’m a pisces girl. Im in a realtionship wiht an aries boy. yes its so nice being in a relationship with him. we have so many childish dreams together and love working on art projects together also. he is the guy that i have always wanted.. loyal, kind, caring, loves to communicate, strong, hilarious, etc. However, we do at times run into problems with our differences. At first he did seem to me to be very self centered. In a way it is attractive but it does get annoying after awhile. However, i have learned so much from him. After talking and trying to understand him i started seeing that maybe he isnt the image of the self centered guy i thought he was. together we learned different things. he says that he loves the way i think, that things i talk about he has never even thought about and i love the way he shows me that just because you do have a certain type of personality doesnt make it completely that. what attracts me now so much to him is that we are so different in certain ways. like how i do things for people and put myself last and how he does the opposite and thinks about how he wasnts his name out there and he wants success for riches in that way more than for greater world purposes. but he told me… “yes i do it for myself because when i die i want to be remembered and i want a part of me to stay behind but that is not all. i also hope that with my songs, poems, art, etc that i can help somebody. just one person would be enough.” so yes, they may come off to us pisces as selfish or whatnot but maybe there is more to it that we do not understand and vice versa. oh and wow.. i feel so bad sometimes because even when i do not mean to say hurtful things, to him they come off as hurtful and mean and that i do not understand him. my words are strong and powerful. it pains me to see my words do harm to him. most of the time that would be the case, we wouldnt understand eachother because to me the poeple in the world can be do the most horrible things and make the worst decisions. he taught me that there was more to that. one thing i love about us is that we respect eacher and i look up to him like no other. i love him so much and we make eachother better and change not only for eachother but for ourselfs and becoming that good person that we want to be.
November 28th, 2009 at 1:34 am
I am also an Aries girl dating a Pisces man. I have to admit that even though our elements are not compatible, WE truly are. I have dated guys who were suppose to be compatible with me, but I have come to the conclusion that opposites can really complete eachother. Piesces guys can be emotionally supportive, spontaneous, and loving companions. My pisces is my other half.
November 30th, 2009 at 9:26 am
I am pisces and my boyfriend is aries. I’ve read a lot on aries’ compatibility with pisces…. We had lots of arguments but he can control his anger although we know that aries is a fire sign. It’s all about love and understanding that makes us a happy couple!!
December 3rd, 2009 at 4:20 am
I’m an aries woman who’s in love with a pisces man and I have to say everything you said about the aries/pisces combination is so true!
December 11th, 2009 at 12:04 am
I am an Aries and my husband is a Pisces. Our relationship took alot of work in the beginning because were so different. But my husband is one of the sweetest, most compassionate person you would ever meet. On the other hand, I was not. I used to be selfish, arrogant and Very out-spoken! But being with my husband, especially when we married, I had to change in many ways in order to compromise with him. I even tried to leave him several times afterwards, because I refused to change, but numerous friends made me realized that I had a Good Man! The sex life is Wonderful! That’s the reason we hooked up in the beginning. HA! HA! Even after 3 years of marriage, he aims to please in the bedroom, it’s All About Me Baby!…… I love my Pisces, Army Man!
“Thank God 4 Him!!!”
December 12th, 2009 at 3:17 am
I am an aries woman and I am nine years older than my pisces male. We are amazing together. I am March 24 and He is February 22. I love his dreamy entertaining nature because I am aries and I enjoy adventure. I am a great starter - but I need my pisces for my next Great Idea. He and I both love art and music. I do think it’s odd that he gets teary eyed at sappy movies or when we listen to really beautiful music because I have never been a very “teary eyed girlie girl.” He has a deep intense side - it’s hard to tell when he is angry because he will keep his voice on the level - I will make him mad and he’ll just smile his way through it - it isn’t until I have made him really mad, when he tackles me to the ground or bed … and he excitingly ( forcefully) tells me he is upset. I actually like it when he becomes very passionate. I don’t intentionally make him mad or anything but I forgive his sensitive nature because I know he has a really sexy - “deep passionate artistic” side that only I see. I know that he loves that I love him. I am great at loving because being an aries I tend to put my all into whatever I am focused on and he is my focus. He is beautiful physically, he gets jealous easily - something else I like about him- but I like that I am the center of his attention and he is the center of mine. I Love Him - I never thought I would date someone so much younger than me, but there is something between us that I have not felt with others before - I will be his for as long as he would like for me to be his…. aries.
December 13th, 2009 at 6:56 am
I am a pisces man and my boyfriend is a aries and me and him love eachother!
December 16th, 2009 at 6:48 pm
im a pisces gurl dating an aries guy….i love it there’s never a dull moment….we had been friends for four years and finally weve grown to love each other ……..while we were friends we spent so much time dating other people to make each other jealous that we didnt realize we were perfect for each other …….now were more mature and more n love than ever
December 22nd, 2009 at 11:23 pm
Im a aries girl and my boyfriend is a pisces. I think that we go great together. We have a lot of fun together. I think we are made for each other. But some people think that pisces and aries don’t match. At some points we can bump heads, but i think we are in love♥
January 2nd, 2010 at 2:09 pm
Aries girl here.. just met a Pisces male online. He’s fun to talk with and extremely funny. We share the same interest! He said he is drawn to me when he saw my profile and .. I’m somehow drawn to him because of the way he presents himself and his beautiful green eyes make my heart skip a beat.
I hope there’s a good chemistry between us cause he makes me smile whenever we chat.
January 3rd, 2010 at 8:20 pm
hello, the guy i really care about is a piecies and we compliment eachother so well. his childish and shy ways always make me laugh and i take control making him feel more comfortable around me. The aries which is me always likes to take control but they can be childish at some points also. Being that he is a piecies he is sensative which is a quality that i love in a guy. It seems like me and him are a match made in heaven
January 5th, 2010 at 4:46 am
Iam picses women and I have a aries man to me he the best when we have sex but he is a handful he do acts like a kid but being the picses that IAM I deal with his stupid ass but so times I get fed up he is very romatic and sweet at times so thats why I deal with him because I know he can be a good person and we are expecting another aries watch out
January 6th, 2010 at 2:56 am
These signs i believe are perfect together!!!!!!!!!!!!!
im a pisces woman and ive been of an on with a aries man,we are definitly opposite and though he never thinks before he talks and it can sometimes hurt me im the stronger one in the relationship. sometimes it seems like im in the mind of an aries, i tend to get bored fast and ignore him when hes dieing for attention not knowing and it hurts him badly and makes him act jelous,and he is sometimes immature and does imbarrising things but i love it i feel that we both cancel each other out and hes always going to be my one and only, aries are unique and addictive, but i feel he is so in love with me its almost like an obsession but not in a bad way,we have fun and get in a lot of trouble together we have fun!
January 7th, 2010 at 3:33 pm
i’m a picses man and my gf is an aries were fairly young but have been going out for over a year im telling you now it is a lot of work, we were reaaaaaaaaalllyy good friends before i asked her out and she just got out of a bad relatonship. I enjoy listening which i guess made our friendship great but i rarely talked and i was very shy around women but in a mere months i was incredibly confident with everyone and became a much more outgoing person. we are very passionate and love eachother a lot but there are so man problems, she always wants to go out but i just wnt to stay at home and chill with her and i dnt like that i do that, she is overly jelous of female friends that i talk to, i used to let her walk over me and i lost respect for her, she would sook when i didnt do what she wanted and would display herself as if she didn’t care then later express how she was sorry and i always accepted it without a thought even though she would repeat. it is hard lol
January 8th, 2010 at 10:10 pm
I am pisces with a lot of aries and I am seeing an aries with a lot of pisces….match in heaven! Also, we are compatible with chinese astrology….he is very sweet and spicy!!!
January 23rd, 2010 at 12:08 am
Im An Aries and My Boyfriend is a Pisces We have our diffrences but i wouldn’t change him for the world(: Hes the best boyfriend i have ever had i loves him so much and i think this is right!
February 5th, 2010 at 6:14 am
I’m an Aries (Scorpio Moon) who is dealing with a Pisces (Gemini Moon). And boy is it interesting! We rarely see each other, but when we do, he somehow seems to put me at ease and that is a very hard thing to do. I can say that I’m highly independent and crave space/alone time, because the world just drives me nuts and sometimes I just need to clear my head from the insanity. And for some reason I get that with him. I’ve noticed Pisces have a tendency to just take a lot of time alone. They swim away for as long as they feel necessary and then come back at full speed. I’ve dated other Pisces in the past. On in particular had a Taurus moon. He was jealous, possesive, work-a-holic, flirty, and stubborn as heck! Then there are the other Pisces I’ve dealt with who have romantically pursued me in some way. It all comes down to the fact that my moon (scorpio) and my rising (pisces) seem to have this magnetic pull for the fish guys.
Anyway, back to my Pisces… as time goes on, the sex… WOW! It is the best I’ve ever had! I swear besides the sex, it’s like we can sort of read each others minds and what not. Which makes me wonder what he knows that I don’t and also if he knows what I know about him haha. So basically right now we have only seen each other once (last week) and before that it was on the 12th of last month. I’m not worried, cause I’m not in a rush, which I find with him, it just gets a amplified. But my point is, and there is one, is that when we first met, mind you we spent the night together, yet didn’t see each other till three weeks later (basically the week after thanksgiving).
So anyway, small back story for you romantics on here hehe… so basically we went to the same grade school together from 3rd-12th grade. Ironically we never hung out, never spoken a word to each other, never had a class together, never rode the bus together, BUT we somehow had a handful of friend in common. The night we ran into each other, he finally got up some courage, came over (5hrs later after consuming 6 drinks lol) he talked to me. He told me I was beautiful and that he ALWAYS noticed me back in high. He even apologized for how he was then, even though I finally told him a few weeks ago, that I vaguely remembered him back then, yet he was on a sports team and was what you call “popular”. Yet ironically I never viewed people in that way, mostly cause I drifted in every circle on campus, so practically everyone knew me by the time we all graduated. Anyway, we spent the whole night just getting to know each other, some of his and his brothers friends were there and his brother’s girlfriend, which by the way she spilled the beans about how much he LIKED me from afar. Apparently, he was so nervous, that every time he tried to go talk to me, cause I got up to the bar about 3-4 times that night for drinks, he felt as though his heart was going to beat out of his chest. Anyway, we spent time getting to know one another, I was pretty quiet, which happens when I first get to know someone. I gauge on what kind of person they are by standing back verbally, this is due to my Scorpio moon.
Since that night/day which was three months ago, things have gotten better and worse on some levels. Communication when we’re away from one another: lacking 70% of the time currently. But when we are together, it’s great! He rarely shows physically affection in public. And recently, my oh my, he not only kissed me on the cheek, but in front of his friends/co-worked and my friends too! Kind of sent my heart racing very quickly! But I love on New Year Eve, after midnight had struck, he came over after wishing everyone a happy new year and everyone else was practically done, but for 4-5 people out of the 20 there, he not only kissed me but that whole night he couldn’t keep his hands off me when he was next to me! haha it was crazy!
Anyway, I can say that, we’ve both got out of serious relationships last year; for me it would be august, for him october. I met him a few weeks after he got out of the relationship, so it’s one HUGE reason I know to give him space so much, but also because I don’t want to be that tied down yet. It’s like we’re on the same wavelength at times for emotional stuff. It’s refreshing!
All I can say is that, I love Pisces! Male and female alike! My favorite celebrity couple who is an Aries woman with a Pisces guy: Sarah M. Gellar (Prinze) and Freddie Prinze Jr.! They met in 1997, started dating in 2000 and we’re married in 2002! Now they have a child and are blissed out on happiness. I have to say that his Libra Moon and her Pisces Moon, add a little extra touch of good compatibility, because her moon, is emotionally on the same page as him and his moon is the polar opposite to aries, which means he has the good emotional balance for her sun sign.
So to anyone having doubt about your Pisces/Aries relationship? Just remember stay calm Aries girls, give him space, don’t CHASE (i.e - call/text/email/facebook him all time), support his zany creative ideas, give some unconditional love, remember tactful language (i.e. - think before you speak), be open-minded, and lastly surprise him!
And Pisces girls that have problems with Aries guys? Remember to be straight forward if you have a problem (i.e - don’t wait, he’ll get mad!), indulge him a little every now and then, step up to the plate verbally sometimes (he might give you more respect), be feminine when you can, if you are a romantic try and tell him that you are (most Aries are not, but look to his moon sign & mars sign to find out if he is), and lastly you can tell how he’ll treat you down the road by how he treats his mother/sisters/aunts/grandmother/ female friends.
February 6th, 2010 at 7:37 am
I am a pisces female. I fell in love with an aries man hard. He is 11 years older than me. This past year was a roller coaster ride. Everytime it was me who came back first after the fight, and apologize even if it was him who did something wrong. His manly way just made me to do that willingly, somehow. That’s weird, as I have never been like this ’spineless’ to any man I met before in my life. I never was able to hold my ground for more than 2 days after a fight, very soon, I would regret about my opinion without even understanding why I was wrong. As long as it’s what he believed, I would eventually take it, no matter how much it was against my life-long principles. That’s odd as I have been so firm in looking down on every males in my life who weren’t able to be up to my pisces principles. I have been holding my head high and rigid in front of every male, but repeatedly bent down my neck willingly (or confusingly) in front of him. It almost felt like after each fight, I lost a corner of my priciple, replaced by his, and I don’t even know what I still have left any more! With any other man, it wouldn’t have taken this many times, I would have already fled away without turning my head; but after so many fight, my heart is still glued to him, and I can’t ’see’ any other man in my eyes no matter how many of them in the world. This is so scary kind of feeling. Is it love or is it something else? If it’s love, then I have to say I have never LOVED before with all the men came before him in my life (because I have never had any feeling that was close to this to any man before), but if it’s love, why it hurts sooo much?!?? He is so self-centered, so much extra amount of ego, that in my eyes, sometimes that is calling for resentment from crowds and set himself up for hurts from other people or being taken advantage of. I tried to point that out to him and he hated me. I wanted to protect him from being hurt by bad-intentioned people (at least I felt I saw the dangers, but he never sees dangers, like he is blind, this really makes me hard to understand.), but he told me to get out of his way! I told him to cut down hours on many jobs he holds (he seemes not able to be satisfied with just one or two jobs, I was just thanking God that he quit one, and boom! Right away he set up a new one and it’s a even more demanding one! He makes me dizzy and more– wholeheartedly worrying about his health ALL THE TIME.) He’s tired of my advice on lessening works, he started to criticize me being not practical. He thinks life needs x amount of money to feel safe till the last second of life, but when I asked when can he enjoy the life (because he never had time to rest and enjoy), he totally didn’t agree with me. In fact, he even lectured me: he thinks I am living in an imagination world, a world that only needs love, nothing else, and asked if I would go out to make a living for him like that if we were together someday! I certainly couldn’t say I will be able to. I know life without enough money is hard, but I think the time together when still can is more important than that. Like the way I put it many times: when you get old and very sick, alone, your money won’t crawl to dial 911 for you, and the last second before you die, what can give you comfort– the money around you or the warm hands of a live human’s? I want him to have his health, I don’t want him to use up his health for making money; I want him to have more years alive to see me around, I don’t want him to exchange those years with money. Material life side, we have fundemental disagreement which shows up all the time. He has many cars, this alone is something I was never able to understand, I would have consolidated those into one or two cars, just to make my mind tidy and worry-free as those cars indeed are burdens! He has a customized racing car which he only has one or two times each year to have time to use it, and each time was such an effort to watch out from being scratched or damaged by other people or cars, how tiring that was! Couldn’t sit down to have a peaceful meal without worrying the car in the parking lot!(of course he was the one who worried, I had no idea beforehand always, only started to feel nervous when I saw him nervous.) I slipped out once that this car was a stress in life, he looked at me like I was alien. How much I secretly wanted him just to be like everyone else, without those stressful extra material stuff, I really don’t mind not having any of those! I just wanted to have devoted time with him. He makes my mind nervous, rarely could settle down without worrying something else. But I grew to try to accept all his ‘crazy’ hobbies, flying solo in a bad weather(gosh,each time I prayed to God to protect him), ‘flying’ on motorcycle in the midnight on the dark mountain road, working 3 days and nights straight without sleeping and eating (except chips and sodas)… — all these and more, didn’t he know anything bad could have happened to him?!! Given a reasonable mind?? I just want him to be safe and healthy and around for many many years to come, he just wants to jump out there and be a crazy metal! I adore him for this because I would never dare to do any, meanwhile I worry to death constantly about him. It’s like a mom to a little boy, but I am 11 years younger than him! At the same time he continues lecturing me. I was able to correct part of his unhealthy diet in past one year, he started to eat some vegetables, and started to have lunch on some days during the week, started to follow up with doctors, but now (couple of weeks ago), we went into a big fight, more like he went into a big fight with me, as he all of sudden throwing words at me from sky, and mean words, really mean words, and non-stoppingly, entire time I wasn’t able to catch up or say anything except listening to his white-hot temper and had no idea what made him like that. He said he wanted to ‘bye’, at that point, I went from shock to mad to stuffed inside and heart-broken and deeply deeply hurt, so I hung up phone. Then I called right back, his phone was off already. Since then, no phone calls, no emails, no contact at all, now is more than two weeks. I was able to do soul-searching for first a few days and remained in resentment for the first time that long. But then I fell back to the old pattern that I felt regreted and sorry without even knowing why! My brain is all tangled up by a ram. Always like that. Polarized difference between fish and ram, polarized attraction. Is fish so hated in ram’s eyes? Does the silence of ram’s mean the real end? Should I again go out of my way to be the one say sorry for everything? Is it the way of ram to wait there till fish comes back with a lowered head? I can see we won’t have a life together this way, so I am retreating to just be able to be a close friend of his if he wants to. That way we can both keep our own life path yet give each other passion for life as well as learn from each other. (He taught me to love life, I cared for him so that he won’t ‘kill’ himself.) It’s really not just about sex part, we gave each other more on other sides, — mind, views, knowledges, new horizons of the world… . Is it really the way of the world that to make each human not completed, to forever drift alone on one lonely path?
To those of you had prior successful experience here (fish with ram), I sincerely out of my heart congratulate you! You are the lucky one. And I believe you are the ones who helped humans from your successful relationship, — being two naiive souls (fish and ram), it’s a good deed you had done to help each other on this earth in this life path, to protect each other and allowed for caring for each other and not let one of you got ‘eaten’ by the vast ocean of the life. Fish and ram are two valuble kinds to contribute to the world, each in their irreplaceable way!
Thank you for listening.
February 10th, 2010 at 1:39 am
I am a Pisces female, who has been in a relationship with an Aries man for 6 years. We dated for 3 years and have been married for 3. Our love story is one of love-at-first-sight. From the minute we met, my Aries man aggressively pursued me and I felt really comfortable opening up to him right away. He has a wicked sense of humor and true to our signs, I am a total drama queen girly-girl, he is a fiery, stubborn manly man. Our beginning was very much characterized by his pursuit of my affections. I was just getting out of a relationship and not at all interested in finding another one when I met him. But soon, we were spending all of our time together (he seemed to ’show up’ wherever I was).
My Aries man is strong, ambitious, witty, determined, adventurous, is fiercely loyal his friends and family and is deeply committed to his love for me. Together, we have a lot of fun, we both enjoy new adventures and visiting new places. We both LOVE music and trying new foods and drink. He is my rock, he encourages and helps me bring shape to my dreams and goals. I am his soft place to land-the ear that will nod and listen intently to his ramblings-or never ending list of sport statistics-or yet another ‘of the moment’ idea, of someplace we could go visit one day, of some fun thing we could do some free weekend.(Lord, does he talk!). He is full of energy and life-vitality and fun, strong and surprisingly sensitive and understanding to my needs.
The only downfall is when I need my ‘alone time’, as all pisces do, he can turn into a bit of a grown child. Literally, throwing tantrums and whining. And when he is in the mood for talking (which is always), he’ll follow you around the house, like a puppy, even having conversations outside the bathroom door! I have to sometimes , in my own teasing way, remind him that I need my space. He usually appreciates my honesty though.
Also, sexually, he is a bit shy in the bedroom. Which is hard for me, because I prefer the more domineering type. But I know he has natural aggression, just lurking beneath the surface, and we are working on opening him up. Plus,he’s always ready up for some fun, it just takes a little coaxing. And he doesn’t mind trying the kinky stuff I’ve got goin’ on in my head. He gets more and more confident with each romp in the sack, our love is growing and growing.
I can be a bit lazy, he does a lot of the chores. Also, he handles the money, but that might change, he likes to spend it as soon as he get its. But when it comes to loving him. I give him lots of love of kisses, all of my affection. I rub his back and shoes and head. I rub him til he falls asleep in bed.
I push his buttons. I’m an emotional roller coaster and I know how to push, but he is strong enough to take it. He just lets me scream and pout.
So far, I LOVE, I LOVE my Aries man. We have our problems just like everybody does, but we are totally committed to each other, and our marriage is one that is never boring, full of love and sweetness, dreams and laughter.
February 10th, 2010 at 5:58 pm
I am a Pisces female, married to an Aries man. We’ve been together for 6 years, lived together for 3yrs and married for 3yrs. Our relationship works. My Aries man is strong, determined, dedicated, very manly, witty, adventurous, incredibly social, generous, fiercely loyal to his friends and family, encouraging and very protective. He is my knight in shining amour, I am his super girly princess, his damsel in distress. I shower him with much affection and tender loving care, he spoils me rotten.
Just like many Pisces/Aries pairings, we do have to work on being accepting of our differences, but we love each other very much and are dedicated to making our marriage the best it can be. My advice? Here are some things that work for us.
Advice for the Aries Man in Love with his Pisces Woman
1. Allow her some space! - Give her time to read, listen to music, do yoga, meditate or just “get lost” in own little world. At first, this was hard for my husband to understand, as he craves my constant attention and doesn’t understand the point of “sitting and doing nothing”. But now, he knows that I need this alone time for my sanity, and is happy to see me come back to him afterward, rested, peaceful and re-energized.
2. Try to think before you speak. - You Aries have a bad case of foot-in-mouth syndrome and can inadvertently hurt your sensitive Pisces with your brute words. Remember, she picks up on all-not just what you say, but HOW you say it.
3. Help her nourish and hone her creativity. - ALL Pisces, whether they know it or not, are creative, in some realm. I paint, and am now selling my artwork, developing a following. But I would have never even thought to pick up a paint brush if my Aries man hadn’t encouraged me to “stop talking” and “start doing” a few years back. I didn’t think I’d be any good at it, but that didn’t stop my Aries man from coming home one day with art supplies and a challenge to “fill up our empty walls.”
4. Don’t think you have her all figured out. - After six years, my husband knows me well. He can finish my sentences, he can typically predict my next move (or mood swing) and he likes to tell me what I’m thinking (this is where he has no clue). The Pisces mind is constantly running-and before we even have time to express a thought in our head, we are on to the next five thoughts…NEVER assume you already know everything about her. She will constantly surprise you.
5. Learn how to deal with her mood swings. - One minute we are happy, the next minute sad, the next hot-headed and angry. Yes, we Pisces are notorious for our mood swings, and we need a strong someone to help keep our mood swings in check. This probably will be seen as a challenge for the Ram. My ram knows exactly how to handle me. He lets me scream and shout, he lets me pout and pout, he’ll listen and let me get it all out of my system. And then he’ll calmly look me straight in the eye and say “okay, are you done now?”. That usually helps me snap out of it.
6. Make a decision. - Natural born leaders, this shouldn’t be a problem for the Aries. But what I have seen is that my Ram is so full of ideas and running so many options in his head, he sometimes feels the need to run all the options by me first (to see what is going to make me happiest). This drives me crazy as I myself am pretty indecisive. I’d rather the options be narrowed down to two-and then asked to pick. Or better yet, just make a definitive decision. I’m more content that way.
7. Don’t forget to give her some love and affection - My husband loves me, no doubt. He’ll show his love for me in sweet, romantic gestures: cards and flowers for no reason, he’ll let me sleep in late without complaining, he’ll do the laundry, send me loving texts during the day. He’ll do all of these things, but he sometimes forgets to actually TOUCH me. Sometimes, I have to remind him. More so than the other signs, we Pisces crave your touch-it connects us spiritually to you. Fingertips running across the small of the back as you walk by, a little kiss at the back of the neck, a kiss on the forehead, a squeeze of the hand- any subtle yet firm touch will do-plus it excites us like nobody’s business.
8. ASK before you invite. - You Aries LOVE to socialize and are all for having last-minute get-togethers, generously offering your place as hangout station. Fine, if you’re single. NOT fine, if you’re living with someone. Don’t forget that your Pisces girl works hard to make your home together a sanctuary and doesn’t like a) not being asked if it’s okay if people come over b) having her home being treated like a frat house.
9. Don’t regard her spirituality as hogwash - Aries are pretty conservative people with their feet firmly planted on the ground. Pisces are big time soul-searchers, open to all the realms of the unknown. Let her be your little hippie child, and she will open your eyes to a whole exciting, unseen world - where unicorns can exist and anything is possible. My Aries loves my dreamy, spiritual nature- it fascinates him.
10. Wanna drive her crazy? Rub her feet! - For some reason, Pisces’ feet are very sensitive and will respond well to stimulation and touch. Don’t worry, we’re pretty girly, chances are they are manicured and lovely.
Advice for a Pisces Woman in love with her Aries Man
1. DON’T chase him. - When I met my man, I had zero interest in jumping into a new relationship. Of course, this only made my Aries want me more. As crazy as I am about him, even today, I find that I still let him do the chasing.
2. Let him Babble. - The Aries-they sure do LOVE to talk. Jumping from one topic to the next, mine will ramble, and ramble, and ramble. I don’t mind, he’s like a little boy, full of energy and life, I think it’s adorable. Plus, he usually has something interesting or funny to say.
3. Be ready for anything! - Your Aries man will be so full of ideas for new adventures. To keep him, you will have to be willing to indulge them with him, no matter how ‘off the wall’ they may seem. Also, come up with your own- he’ll appreciate the initiative.
4. In all things, support him and tell him that he is #1 - My Aries is super competitive. Whether it’s his work, or building a bookcase, making love, or playing a mean game of cards against his dad, I try to remember to be his number one cheerleader.
5. If you REALLY want to melt his heart, rub his head. - …And don’t forget behind the ears! The body part that rules the Aries is the head. If I want my husband to be putty in my hands (literally), I’ll give him a head rub.
6. Communicate INSTANTLY - If your Ram is doing something that is bothering you, tell him right away, not later. Later, he will already be on to the next thing and annoyed that you’re bringing it up. Don’t be afraid to really speak your mind and forget about being subtle, he really is too “of the moment” to pick up on subtleties. Your Ram appreciates total honesty and the Pisces will know how to give it to him without being too offensive.
7. Don’t try to clip his wings.- Aries are social butterflies. They like going out, making new friends, meeting new people- men and women alike. Don’t be jealous of the time he will undoubtedly want to spend with his friends. Let him, and use the free time for your “alone time”. Be willing to go along when he asks (he’ll ask, he likes showing you off). Don’t feel the need to stick by his side in social settings, he will bounce around from person to person or more likely you’ll find him at the center of attention, being charming, cracking jokes and making people laugh. And try not to get too mad when you’re out together and friends “show up”. He can’t help himself, it’s in his very nature to be sociable and it’s just something you are going to have to accept as a part of your life together.
Of course, as with any relationship, ours also requires lots of love, understanding, compassion, patience, prayer, guidance, a good attitude and a genuine desire to work at it. We have our differences, but we embrace those differences as something that makes our relationship special and unique, not as ‘hardships’ that need to be faced.
With the right frame of mind and a real desire to understand where the other is coming from, an Aries and Pisces love match can definitely work out. Communicate, communicate, communicate. Don’t let little things turn into big things. Both these signs have plenty of love and passion to give one another. Together, they can do great things!
February 24th, 2010 at 10:51 pm
I’ve heard that this combination has potential especially if the female is Pisces and the male is Aries. I just met an Aries about 3 days ago on fb (I know I know.) and we’ve been talking everyday since then. I dont know if it’s because his sign is so close to being Taurus or what, but I think a relationship just might work for us. He’s so caring, hopeful, confident, and determined to make it work with us that I’m feeling like maybe this was a hidden gem of a relationship match. I’ve dated one Aries in the past and it was a complete and utter disaster (mostly because he had deep personal issues) but his mind was all over the place, he was selfish, and had too much energy for me. With this Aries I’ve met I feel like I’ve never felt before. I hate talking on the phone (I’m a shy Pisces) and the second night I talked to him we talked for over 2 hours. It’s like I’ve known him for so much longer. I really hope this match works.
February 26th, 2010 at 12:04 am
I am a pisces and my fiancee an aries.
We have clashed so many times,my insecurity and jealousy against her slippery words and self centered attitude.
We fought for seven months to understand each other even becoming violent(2 police visits)
I had always been reserved,very antisocial independent in bursts, a bit messy,selfish with myself keeping me all to me, i didnt trust that anyone could understand me …to most i was an asshole.
She came like a bolt of lighting into my life a broken person introducing the wonderment of a dysfunctional spirit and a traggic story too delicious to ignore …i loved it
Immediatly the sex stood out i can only compare it to pure energy, we wrapped around and through each others minds and body exploding and forever ripping a hole in each others understanding of sex.
We were and remain very hooked to the physical part of our relationship, to tell you the truth it is the sex that saved our relationship when we hadnt yet learnt to live with each others true selves…ok ok i jumped a head a bit.Well she is beautiful very beautiful, extremely shy in public,very misunderstood with a heart and sensitivity to life that the devil would be proud of,a business owner with leadership skills that leave me in awe,possesive and if i might add crazy lol but i wouldnt have her any other way.
She has ultimately taught me to grow up, focus on reality, yet indulge in my sweet nectar like torment and alternate reality that i so dearly love.
I have taught her to care and control her anger towards her fellow man,i have shown her the value of beauty, i wrap her in poetic and unrealistically true love.
We are happier than ever working as a team enjoying life
March 3rd, 2010 at 11:09 am
Hi im a picses male rooster and my ex is an aries sheep. The first thing i loved about her was her honesty. After being with a pisces/aires cusp who was an astonishing compulsive liar….you know the type they lie even when theres no need its like they are hard wired too. This girl was the most beutiful sexy fun and straight up girl ive ever been with. We hit off straight away. Physically i felt she was out of my leauge. Probably the pisces in me as i never usually seriously go for the drop dead gorgeous type cause they more trouble than they worth. But she seemed to go for me and she surprised me with her vunerability…she was alot younger im 24 she is 18. But id never meet a girl who could be so vunerable yet so straight about what she wants. Sexually….BANG! She wasnt afraid to tell me what she liked and believe it or not a pisces male loves that! We where great friends and fantastic lovers. I couldnt get enough of her physically! And i adored every inch of her. Despite my many lessons i couldnt help falling in love. And this is where it all went wrong. I have heard many pittfalls about the fish/ram mix and i guess they are true. Whilst aries tend to fall hard n fast they retain alot of their independance while a pisces is generally more cautios only because they know that once their there they are in over their heads. The danger was a pisces in love tends to put the object of desire on a pedastool and worship them (we are a very loving sign) and an aires loves the attention (they are a very ego orientated sign) which initially works like a dream. But. A pisces if not looked after well can be drained very quickly and an aires with a drained pisces even quicker. Pisces by nature like nothing more than to give for love aries by nature like nothing more to recieve it. But pisces are also in turn very needy….alot more so than an aires whislt we love to give we also need alot back in return. So this dynamic can have disasterious consaquences. It sets a dangerous precerdent for the aires that she is the queen and it can quickly go to their heads. Throw in my unfortuant mix of being a rooster which is not entirely known for its lack in ego as well and you start to get problems. Then there is the airies flightyness which can drive a pisces up the wall. We are very deep thinkers and are easily affected by whats around us. An aires not so much. The world is a very serious place full of layers that beg to be discovered and fully understood for us. Where an aires seems to not care what lies underneath and is far more happy to skip carelessly over the surface, as long as they are having fun they dont care for the whys hows and origins of a situation which can do a pisces head in fast especially if the pisces is allways seeing more than the headstrong and headfirst aries. Whislt we love there youthfull exzuberance and childlike demenor it can wear thin when they are constantly putting themselves in situations that require rescueing from to dangers unseen by them especially for the male pisces female airies mix. In the end we are just so different but i think thats where the attraction lyes. Things got bad. It got to a position that she was draining me constantly and didnt know why. Which in turn drained her. I didnt help by bein the shut down but protective man untill the anger spilled over because the fact she couldnt just understand things that where as plain as day for me without having to be told all the time. It was infuriating and sad as i noticed her slipping away and me bottling it all up but i loved her so much and still do. It caused us so much pain that i ended it but now im the one hurting still and she has moved on. Its hard to see what started out so automatic and right ended so unavoidably unhealthy for us both. She is the girl i love and i still thik of her all the time…..if anyone has any advice about how to make this dynamic work better desperatly like to know?!!! but as it stands we are no good for each other and even though i drove her away i know its only cause we loved each other so much that we hurt each other so much….heartbroken pisces….stubbon rooster…..help
March 5th, 2010 at 8:35 pm
I am an Aries lady currently talking to a Pisces man. I have been reading a lot about Aries/Pisces not getting along well or being a good match, but to be honest with you, this man has made me so happy so far. He is so sweet, and I am a sucker for a sweetheart. He constantly makes me smile, and it’s like he knows how to keep me happy. We talk for hours on the phone, have great conversations and like each other a lot. The chemistry is definitely there. Although we have not slept together as of yet, I can tell it will be amazing if the time ever comes. I am just not ready to rush into things. Put it this way… I already have feelings for him, and have not had sex with him, so I would rather wait on the sex thing in case things do not follow through.
I am tired of rushing into things, and now that I found a man that keeps me happy and knows how to, I want to take things easily and hope for the best… All I know is that even though a lot think Aries/Pisces aren’t a good match, that means nothing to me. I am a fire sign, so my best matches are sagittarius, gemini, and leo’s… but to me they are all cheaters and I want a real man in my life that will treat me like the real woman that I am.
March 6th, 2010 at 9:57 pm
I’m a Pisces girl and i was dating an Aries guy. i love him still but i feel that he does not open up to me. i know i have problems of my own but darn it, does it really kill him to tell me his feelings or problems once and awhile? how do i get him back?
March 16th, 2010 at 4:09 am
I AM A ARIES WOMAN THAT HAS BEEN “INVOLVED” W/ A PISCES MAN FOR 3 YRS.WHAT I AM READING FROM U ALL IS LIKE A MIRROR FACING MY LIFE. OUR CONNECTION..
INSTANT…THE INTIMACY..OUTRAGEOUS…THEN HE SHAKES OFF HIS “FIN” AND SWIMS AWAY, BUT IT’S NEVER TOO FAR CAUSE HE ALWAYS MAKES A U TURN AND COMES BACK LIKE HE’S NEVER BEEN GONE. THIS DRIVES THE LOYAL, LOVE GIVING, EMOTIONALLY NEEDY ARIES(ME) CRAZY!!! DAMN U SEXUALLY PHENOMINAL PISCES MEN! LOL
April 16th, 2010 at 5:13 pm
i am a pisces but i have a hard ass crush on this aries boy from round my way but its so hard for mev o see him with girls i no he really dont care about them cause no matter how i look or act he still make sure i notice him and his every move…
April 22nd, 2010 at 8:02 pm
For the last 5 years I have been madly in love with an Aries woman. Until I researched the astrology signs I never knew why I was always so drawn into her. The first time we met it was an instant connection to me. She is so beautiful, independent, strong, and so caring. As a pisces man I was involved with a leo (ouch) did not work out… but I always felt something for this other woman. Now, as I sit here single I think about her all of the time. She would be the savior to my life and would give me the love and affection that I so much want. I am so shy and want to tell her how I feel, so we can love each other and make each other happy. Never in my life have I seen a woman melt the way that she did right before my eyes, I fantasize about the love that we would make everyday because I desire her more than anyone else could. I am in love with her and want to tell her so bad.
May 13th, 2010 at 11:25 am
HEYYYYYYYY IAM A PICES GIRL AND BEEN GOING OUT WITH AN ARIES MALE FOR 2 YEAR. AT D BEGINING THINGS WHERE VERY HOT WE WAS SOOOOOOOOO INTO EACH OTHER AND HE WAS CRAZY ABOUT ME WE USED TO GO NIGHT CLUBBING BUT SOMTHING FISHEY IS ABOUT ARIES MAN IS THEY REALLY LIKE ATANSION AND THEY LIKE TO FLIRT SO WHEN WE USED TO BE AT THE CLUB DOUGH HE WAS CRAZY ABOUT ME HE USED TO HAVE A LOT OF CONFIDENCE WITH THE GIRL AND IF A HOT MAMMA WALK INFORNT OF OUS HIS EYES WOULD WALK WITH HER I THINK AN ARIES MAN IS A GREAT GUY AND FOR SURE IF UR SAD HE WILL CHANGE UR MOOD BUT I JUST DONT TRUS HIM ALOT . ONE THING I KNOW FOR SURE HE LEARNED ALOT FROM ME BUT HIS CHARACTER CHANGED ALOT LATLEY HES SO INTO HIM SELF HE ALWAYS WAS LIKE THAT IF HE HAVE A PROBLEM HE WOULDNT SAY SO KEEPS IT FOR HIM SELVE BUT HE IS VERY QUIET LATLEY BFOR HE USED TO JOKE ALWAYS LOGHUING , BUT NOW HE CHANGED HE STILL LOUGHS AND JOKES BUT NOT AS BFOR WHEN WE FIGHT WE FIGHT BAD AND D FUNNY THING IS THAT ARIES MAN DONT ADMIT IF ITS THERE FAULT ! INSTEAD THEY BLAME YOU (ALL MAN NEARLY DO THAT ) LOL AN ARIES MAN IS A STRONG MAN I THING VERY COLD AND KEEPS TO HIM SELF IAM A FISH I GET HURTED EASILY BUT IN SOME WAY WE FISH ARE ALL STRONG COZ WE GET UP ON OUR FEETS EASILY AGIAN WE TRAVEL THE OCEAN AND ADVENTURE THE OCEAN AS WELL WE HAVE UPS AND DOWNS BUT THE ONLY THING THAT IAM PROUD OF BEING A FISH IS WHENEVER IAM DOWN OR UP IN MY LIFE IAM ALWAYS HAPPY AND ECOURGING MY SELF TO THE BEST AND THE BEST ARIES MAN ARE EGO BUT THEY LEARN FROM OUS MY BOYFRIEND CHANGED ALOT HIS MANNERS AND HIS LIFE EVEN HIS MUM SAYS SO AND HIS ATTITUED CHANGED A LOT , OK OK HE DIDNT CHANGE IN EVREYTHING ITS IMPOSSIBLE BUT IN SOME WAY I BELIVE THAT PICES AND ARIES DO COMPATIBLE WITH EACH OTHER BCOZ ARIES FEEL SAFE WITH PICES BCOZ THEY ACCSEPT TO LEARN FROM OUS
June 14th, 2010 at 2:52 am
I am a Pisces women who dated an Aries male 10 years ago and he crushed me. He was a typical Aries. Smug ,arrogant, a flirt a cheat, he lied, but he was beautiful, kind, trusting, smart, articulate , confident, and the sex was out of this world. But my heart was broken by him
and then now 10 years later just the sound of his voice sets me on fire. If Aries men are anything They are powerful a Pisces & Aries chemistry is powerful. Everything tells me that Pisces& Aries are so incompatible but I’m so attracted to him . Everyone is talking about how Pisces extinguishes Aries fire , but no on has said anything about how an Aries burns up Pisces just as fire turn water to steam. Aries and Pisces are like magnets when right the pull is strong. We may be completely wrong for each other and burn each other up .
So for all Pisces women wanting Aries men take head he will change you for better or worse( depending the Aries } But what a lovely way to burn
June 17th, 2010 at 9:53 pm
I am Aries woman dating a pisces man. We started out as friends with benifents (the best sex I have ever had) and later after several months he conveniced me that we should try something more. We have been in a relationship for 4 months now and I have to say that we both have grown so much and learned a lot from each other, he makes me so happy and he says that I make him happy. When we first started dating he too was the type that liked to hang with his boys all the time, but after me telling him that is not the type of relationship I’m lookig for, he has learned how to balance his time better. I do see that at times he is very selfish and moody and will run completely over me if I would let him, so I have learned how to balance things with him so that he still feels independant,yet he has learned that he has bounders with me. I have never talked to a man so much in my life we talk for hours on the phone and in person, I think that is why we work after all of the hours talking he really knows me….Hope we last,so far it looks like he is the one for me!
June 29th, 2010 at 5:04 pm
Im an aries female, and have been with my partner who is pisces,for 15yrs..oh yes they say that pisces is gentle,dreamer,confusing,naive,never straight,never gives out,always there for other people,oh yes i so remember when we first met like it was fate.. u neva foget ur first luv.. then i got pregnant and he left me for a life in oz 4 a year.. then came back a year later and acted like he had done nothing.he really did crush me.. well he had me when he wanted me, he had a way of making me do things i should neva of done. the attraction was and still is fatal..he has put me through alot, oh by the way he doesnt want marraige eva,and still lives at home.. he stays at wkends then disappears on a sunday.. and yes i am the one who picks up the tab and is the solid one. and yes he adores me and our son and neva sees us without. its a sad story i know im goin on an on.. but i truly would not b without him..
July 13th, 2010 at 6:25 am
Im a pisces girl who’s going out with an aries guy. I know we’ve been together for only 7 months but I hope we grow together to be happily married one day
Yes, we have ups amd downs, as so they say fire can evaporate water (aries scares and frightens picses) and water can douse fire (pisces’ emotional side can be too much for aries)
Even tho this compatibility can be either way, good or bad, I know that our relationship will last
Tho sometimes it does feel like he’s cheating on me bcuz of the aries outgoingness, I have to believe that he wont do that and will only love me
Aries is hard-headed and doesnt really understand pisces emotional essensce
We get along pretty well
If both partners can understand each other equally then all is well :))))
July 30th, 2010 at 7:52 am
hi im a pisces boy hus very inlove a aries girl…. aries are very stuborn people and so naive… they are so selfcentered…but still… i love her very much even though she’s not seeing it,we are friends when we are together and still communicating but when i lost my phone and i lost her number she 4get’s about me..she is very rude…its been a year since a bought a new cell phone…but when i bought a new phone and got her new number….i texted her.. and she replied
“hu u?” i replied “and old friend that wants to be your friend again” she replied “oh so you want to renew ur contract?” i replied “yes its me clivez” then suddenly she did not reply for 3 days…
and there’s this one time i texted her “how are you? could you send my regards to ur mother? its me Clivez”(her mother knows me by the way) then and she replied
“have you ever heardthe word irritating? thats you “but still i love her very much until now”…
i know she loved me once when we are together i can feel it but now “i think not” “I love you Judy even though how much you hate me my love for is true …”i will sacrifise myself to you”…TT
August 1st, 2010 at 8:22 pm
Omg, thank you so much, Im hoping me and him will have a good relationship! Thank you, keep up the good work, and have a good day
August 22nd, 2010 at 3:47 am
plzz help me guys wat should i do…TT… comments plzzz…
i need help..
August 31st, 2010 at 8:51 am
Well I am a pisces female and I used to date an aries male. Although I read a lot of horoscope saying we aren’t fit for one another, I still believe it’ll work because difference is what makes us stronger. Over two years, our relationship went well.People were actually jealous of us being so in love. We are so in love with one another that nothing can break through. We were each other’s first true love. We truly loved each other that we felt so ready to get married and be together. But I guess as time went by, we went through so much in life that we don’t follow each other anymore. We are not on the same page like how we started. We always argued, it got worse and worse that he left me. After the break up, he got with another girl, a gemini. My heart shattered especially when I found out that that girl was a friend of mine. I was so in pain that I cried every night. To me, I really thought we had something special going on. But I guess not..
And still today, I think no one is better than him. Or say, I’ll never find an aries man who I love so much. I always think that he’ll come back to me, because here and there, we would always catch up on one another on the phone. It still feels the same as when we were still dating. I felt bad sometimes that he still missed me even when he’s has his new girlfriend. It makes me think, he’s not over me yet. But he still won’t asked me back. Oh well, I know I shouldn’t wait and just move on.. but we’ll see whatever happens later on.
September 11th, 2010 at 2:00 am
i Think the dude i like is an aries, his good points are he is funny most every day trying to make me laugh. Bad things are he is putting friends first, listening to friends instead of working on our relationship stuff. not that i mind his friends but to know i am included being a pisces girl that is important. I always have a connection with libra being a pisces because they are Romantic and have good communication skills and are classic in the way they dress and style and hold themselves. My true love aries man has not made a committment, just stringing me along, until i cut the string, Aries needs to think about this very hard, when a pisces say’s no, she means it, no coming back, no turning around. It’s not easy, but drawing the line is something that needs to be done, we pisces are not aries one night stand, were in it for the long haul if aries can swollow his pride and make a full committment in marriage.
September 19th, 2010 at 7:50 pm
I’m A Pisces girl and my boyfriend is an Aries. I have to say that even though some astrology websites advise against it; our relationship is perfect. Our differences keep our love exciting, and we’ve both grown to accept each other. Even though we’ve only been together almost a year, we are so in love, it’s indescribable. We’d do anything for each other. We understand and care about each other. It’s like we fit together somehow, like we were made for each other. I gotta say, opposites really DO attract. (:
October 10th, 2010 at 10:36 pm
Pisces woman do not get confused with settling for love. Aries men are selfish, they suck the emotion out of you. Pisces woman are constantly changing gears to make the relationship right while Aries men do what they want with no thought. Aries men dream like us Pisces but it is very short lived. They love the new toy and will protect it and make sure nothing happens to it. But say “No” to an Aries and watch him pout, ignore, walk out and make you say sorry because us Pisces can not deal with the type of rejection. So their we go Pisces woman picking up more emotional baggage and putting it in our backpack and carry it around. Meanwhile Aries men vented, and got an apology from us and we didn’t do anything wrong. Settling for good sex, and attention? Not worth it The attention you get from an Aries man in exchange for your soul is not worth it. Pisces woman, they are wrong for us. We get caught up on gifts, constant phone calls, them spoiling us. That isn’t love that is them taming us to be their puppets and personal clowns for their entertainment. Try an experiment say no to them one day. You will remember this post. They change and shut you out and make you feel horrible. Just be careful Pisces woman.
December 4th, 2010 at 7:34 am
Im an aries girl with a pisces guy, when we first met at the beach at night, it was crazy! We hugged each other next thing you I was all over him and then my pants fall off (you know the rest). I was really in love with him that night that I slipped off and said, “I love you” I think that was a mistake. My pisces guy is leaving for airforce on december and I know about it already, so I told him that just have me as a “friend with benefits” because I don’t want to get hurt when he leaves.
He replied, “I want you as a woman, you’re my girl.”
So as an aries, being stubborn and hard headed, I still pursue that “friends with benefits” situation because I know it wont work out. I told him that we have so many differences, and that we are not compatible.
Anyway, we got into many arguments about him not trying to open up with me because I wanna know how he feels about me and when situations come up. That’s when I broke up with him, I texted him the next day and said, “Sorry for many hurtful things I said.” he never replied.
So I made a persona on facebook and added him as a friend, I called her Jenny. I made Jenny as an instrument to know how he really felt about me. He flirted at first and then he opened up saying that “I do want to have relationship with her, but she just want to be friends with benefits…
That’s when I realized, “damn I really fucked up!”
So now, I’m scared more than ever, he got nude pictures of me on his email and phone. I kinda felt that maybe he might post it or something, so I made Jenny as tool to convince him to see me. And he did after so many difficult persuasion. I gave him a gift that I was been meaning to give him for a long time, and then I asked him for his phone and got him to log onto his email. So when I got done deleting everything, I looked at him straight and sat down on his lap I said, “Baby Im sorry for everything, up to you if you still wanna be my friend” and he said, “will you be my gf?” and I said, “yeah” but then he broke up with me that same night. He said he’s having second thoughts, because he cannot commit on a relationship because of his career. He just want to be friends. And I said, “its fine, don’t worry about it”.
But in my heart, I am very torn apart. I blocked him on facebook that same night, but I never have the guts to change my cell number. He texted me right away, “did you just blocked me on facebook” and I never replied.
But then after awhile we started flirting back and forth again on text message… I told him that I blocked him because I’m sick and tired of seeing girls hit on him on facebook all the time. So I said, text message is much more personal.
So now, I went on a date and this guy brought me to dinner and movies… but before that, I texted my pisces guy and asked him to help me out picked the right clothes to wear. And he replied, “No, I am not helping you look good for another guy” I mean the whole time I was on the date, he texted me mean words like, “f* you and your date!”. I mean from that scenario, I realized he still cares and he still loves me. He just don’t want to admit it.
So I told him, we can just be friends like what he told me before. I played it off a little bit, and then he said “I want you to commit” and I said, “to what” and he replied, “Us” and so I gave him the coldest meanest answer… I said, “Michael, is a great guy and I don’t wanna hurt him, I rather say yes to him than commit on something that I know wont work at all”
He said, “we can work it out” my heart just dropped.
I guess, I’m just a stubborn person, and I still don’t want to admit I’m in love with him…I’m too scared to that he might find a new girl one day and just leave me. I mean he got this nice body, always workin out, and all these girls were all over him on facebook and text. I’m an aries and I tend to think “what’s mine is mine, can’t touch him, look at him or anything” So I told him, “I can’t do this, I already said yes to my date, Im gonna be his girlfriend”
The truth is, I didn’t say “yes” to my date.
After that argument, we didn’t speak for three days. Then suddenly I have the urge to text him, and asked him to hang out with me. That next day, while I’m in my microbiology class, he texted me “I’m with my recruiter and Im getting off soon, where you at?”
He went to my school, waited for me and then when I saw I just jumped on him and kissed him for long time. He asked, “did you miss me?” and I said, “yeah” with my puppy face. And then we went to his house, ate some Chinese food, and yup…bedroom and the rest is amazing!
The next day, I went to his house again to actually play Xbox Call of Duty, next thing you know he was kissing me and yeah I end up on a handcuffs after that…
So what you think? Am I just being paranoid about him talking to all these girls on facebook, and checking them out? Any suggestion on how should I handle situation like my pisces guy not opening his secrets to me…
December 20th, 2010 at 2:14 am
Pisces girl here: Aries-Pisces relationship = most frustrating, yet fulfilling relationship.Ive known my Aries boy for a year and have only been dating him for the last month or so, a year ago, when we first met, it was just a “fwb” kind of relationship, which we both thought was great, i didn’t want to be in a serious relationship, he didn’t, perfect! well so i thought, every time we went out, he always tried to make me jealous, i hated it at first, but then eventually did it to him and no he didn’t like it, which was uncomfortable, yet he would make sure no guys would approach me, but we would always end up with each other at the end of the night,this went on for a quite a while, we also had quiet nights in together as well, and got along really well, but it all ended when he went overseas, i never understood why he left, until he came back, ( he even bought a “travel gf” back, to make me jealous!, i did get jealous of course, but i felt sorry for the poor girl, cause he eventually sent her home)you know how people seem to confess their true feelings when they know they re not gonna see someone for a long time, well at the time i didn’t want him to go, i told i didn’t want him to go, but i didn’t try hard enough,he wanted me to prove that i didn’t want him to leave..i hurt him a lot, but it was never intentional, because technically we weren’t even bf n gf. On the upside, he’s very sweet, caring and beautiful on the inside and definitely outside, he makes me feel like i’m the only girl who knows that side of him and yes hes very direct, but i absolutely love that about him now, he wasn’t completely honest with me from the start,he had every intention of making me his gf, but he did it passively, which i don’t blame him, cause i do tend to drift off to la la land a lot, but now we understand and love each other so much, we have a lot more respect for each other, i don’t regret all the bad stuff that happened, because i love the result ive been given
December 26th, 2010 at 4:01 pm
Hi There,
I am an aries in a ‘relationship’ of some sorts with a Pisces.
He is the most calming and sweet person I have met in a long-time. Out reltionship started off due to to fate (according to him). I like him alot and have feelings for him but I get frustrated sometimes due to his constantly changing moods. One minute we are really intense next minute he seems to pull back from me.
I know he ‘talks’ to other women but truly do not believe there is anything serious going on. I can contact him at minutes notice and he usually makes himself availbable (unless of course he is going to football!!) - he lives alone and i know i am always welcome. We do not see each other every day (he NEEDS space) but we speak regularly and he takes me to nice places to relax and enjoy eeach other company. He has took me to a few functions that his male and female friends have held as well. We are both separated. My separation is more recent than his and i feel that he wants to get closer but whenever we do, he kinda backs off for a while. This is driving me crazy, I can’t work him out sometimes!!
I am wondering why he does this? When we are together we get on so well and the relationship is very emotional. We have been ’seeing’ each other for about 6 months (although I blanked him for a month recently) and I would like to know where this is going, but i am afraid to ask as that might push him away. However, I cannot go on like this.
Although we have been seeing each other for a while we have not had sex!! Yes in 2010 it is possible to be seeing someone without bringing sex into the equation. I didnt think it was possible myself until I met my friend!!!! He says he doesnt want complicate things with sex and that i need to sort out my issues relating to my separation (which is very sensible of him - and i actually agree with him) but I want some!! from him!!
I cannot be just his friend as i like him too much for that but at the same time i do not want too much of commitment (I like the idea of thefriends with benefits thing at the moment!!) but he keeps putting up a brick wall!! He says he has been hurt bfore and doesnt want to get hurt again or hurt anybody else.
I really like him….How do i get him to open up and be more committed to me with out appearing too pushy!! Sometimes i wonder if he is playing me but our ‘vibe’ tells me that he isnt.
What to do???? Help!!!
April 15th, 2011 at 7:47 am
i am a aries girl hey hey hey!!!! i am so in love with a pisces man we dont really date we r friends with benfits but i like it that way because i can just tell that if we started a real thing h e would take all the fun out tof me and im a real party girl….
May 9th, 2011 at 3:05 pm
Pisces girl:I am completley and utterly in love with my aries guy. We have been together off and on for 4 years now. we have had our problems, but unfortunatley i was the one who ended it last October. I felt as thought he was an insensitive jerk and an ass to be honest. We have a 3 year old son together. The sex is amazing!! always has been ….he is with someone else right now, but he tells me he still loves me and always will. Its just some things i have to change…but here is the problem….My family hates him and thinks he is a total asshole and they have threatened to disown me if i go back to him, and that hurts…yes he can be a jerk at times but overall i think we were menat to be together. I dont see myself with anyone else but him. I have tried dating and i just dont feel the same way towards them as i feel for *him. So one of the things he has asked of me is to make my own decesions and think for myself and not worry about other people and focus on my happiness. Which i have yet to do. wish me luck.
June 13th, 2011 at 4:16 pm
A REPLY FOR CliveZ :
hello CliveZ, i’m an ARIES girl i have been in love with a pisces guy for more than one year and till now i don’t know what’s going on … anyway for your case there is something of the two happening :
She’s either not interested in you because we -aries girls- don’t play mind games or ” hard to get ” because once we want something …we GO for it . Or she was hurt by you in the past and she doesn’t want to be hurt again.
but in either cases you shouldn’t give up because getting an aries female’s attention is as easy as breathing …here are the tips :
*do NOT chase her , we like to chase ..not to be chased. We find things that are around us all the time extremly boring, at the same time, do NOT IGNORE HER . we have a high self esteem and we consider the people who are not interested in us DEAD! it might seem difficult and confusing ..but here is what you need to do : give her some affection and love and then leave her she will come back to you …and remember to show her that you are interested in her from time to time but don’t be clingy . SHOW HER LOVE WITH EXTREME INDEPENDENCE
* if she said you are irritating it’s because you appeared clingy to her or introvert so try to be sociable and show her that there are many people in your life and that you can stand for yourself .
* we love and respect the men who are independent and have faith in their selves .
* we get sexually aroused veryyyyy easily … and most of our love cases start from a sexual attraction …so try to work on your sexual appeal .
* be a man with manners and respect … we are drawn to men like these …BE A GENTLEMAN
at the end we aries girls can NEVERRR EVERRRR ignore a partner who once showed some care or affection to us … it’s hard for us to do that … because we are complete and we don’t need men in our life …but the only thing we will be craving for is AFFECTION and PASSION because we are romantic TO THE CORRRE
hope i helped you
July 16th, 2011 at 1:41 am
I’m a Pices Woman in
love with a Aries Man. my first husband was Aries but we weren’t soul mates. This Aries Man is my soulmate. We met when we were in Highschool and the second our eyes met it was GAME ON!!!..we had a connection that has lasted 30yrs. we went our sepperate ways, married other people, now divorcing and getting back together after 30yrs. Its like we were never apart. he is a true Aries Man and I am a true Pisces Woman. he loves all the sides to me and I love all of his. Yes, he is annoying at times but he’s had my heart for 30 yrs and nothing can top that. We know when not to push each others buttons, we support each other, we compliment each other, we make each other better people and OMG the sex is out of this world, never expeienced anything like it with anyone else…..all I know is we are meant to be whether it’s in the stars or not….
August 8th, 2011 at 6:02 pm
I’m a ram n my girl is a fish, and I must say, no other sign can truly make us arians feel so worshiped this unconditionally. The connection is sooo deep at such a powerful and celestial level, that so often the two of us are overwhelmed on how how destiny united us out of complete nowhere and so fortuitously.
August 23rd, 2011 at 5:55 pm
wow, I so needed to read the comments all above. I wud like to thank you all to take time out to write it..
I am a Pisces Female and my aries boyfriend are dating each other for 2 years and still counting..
Being the suspicious me, I have always doubted his intense fondness for.. Its strange you know for a guy I know who has never gotten into relationships with a meaning to it. I guess it really is possible.
When it comes to temperament, he is an angel. i hv never seen his temper per say. The only thing i miss is that I wish gets to know things I want or feel from instincts like I do. with me he never has to say it out loud. wherein I have to do just the opposite.
We want to get married. Its only his persistence that I feel positive about our marriage.
September 14th, 2011 at 4:40 pm
I am a female pisces and I am psychic and highsensitive person so that is true for me that a pisces can sense a lot and can feel someone else his pain or sorrow because my empatic sense is strong.I react because i am with a aries and he can understand me better then any other sign and for me a aries guy is maybe difficult to commit but when he does, it is really serieus then and he is faithfull and loyal for friends and family and there is respect allthough you as his partner has to be ambitious also and needs to be not that sensitive about him being selfish or ignorant,when they focus on their ambition then other things have to wait ,so when a pisceswoman can be gentle and caring with her aries man and also indepanded and not needy or clingy this partnership could really last ,communications about different interests and to learn from eachother is the best scenario but when you admire his talents and give him a nice compliment every now and then…and when he is patient with the impractical and dreamy pisces then this can be very serieus allthough he allways said that he does not want to commit if you let him free in his choices then he will be there all the time if you can let him loose avoid power struggle and verbal violence because his anger can be very stubborn when angry but is a trustworthy partner who is normally someone you can put a clock on it!So allthough they are not that easy as you expect they are worth it to change your ways into a more patient and oh yes he likes to be the hero that rescues a lady in distress ,the knight on the white horse ,yes he can play that role very well ,they like it when they are needed not that you are needy,that is what i have learned from the aries man the past 12 years hope it helps to see things in different way because for me frankly well every man can be selfish and selfcentered and that is what a pisces should learn if she is together with a aries or any man to not forget herself completely and to frankly speak your mind if you have some issues ,to be direct is the best way with them
November 24th, 2011 at 2:08 am
I am the fish and he is the ram. I honestly believe we are meant to be! Yes we have are big diffirences but we come together as one and eliminate the selfish parts of ourseleves. To me, it takes time, patience and understanding. Its is true about the refresh relationship because no matter how much we may argue, we tend to come back together as glue. We can talk to each other even if we have to beat it out of each other but we are always there for one another. The sex, is awsome, hands down. We have been kicking strong for 4yrs. And just today he was having a bad day at work and I set down and wrote him a loooong text message to him to cheer up and look on the bright side. He responded back and said you really are my soulmate and me being the march 2 sign, I cried because he has never said said this to me. So yes I believe thses two signs can work out and if and when it does, you will know and you will never forget because it will change your life…. word for the wise pisces, stay away from gemini’s!
January 16th, 2012 at 4:52 am
When I read this I couldn’t believe how right on it was. I am an Aries woman and let me tell you I am as fiery as they come, but I have known this Pisces man for years and always wondered why it was that I couldn’t get him out of my system. We recently reconnected and let me tell you it is like fireworks! It is amazing how much we trust each other and fufill one another in mental and physical ways. I am so in love with him and I couldn’t even think of living another day without him. I have looked on so many sites that tell me that we are not compatable and they couldn’t be more wrong. You hit it on the head. I will change everything for him and then some. The sex is amazing and just the sound of his voice sends me through the roof. His spirit completes mine and I am grateful for every minuet we are able to share with one another.
January 18th, 2012 at 6:13 pm
i had a crush for 4years with an aries,i expected them very brave but he wosent i gave hem hint and he didnt respont the way i woned hem,he was verry nice and friandly and helpfull,after my friand confront hem about my felings he still dint say nothing,he keept going the same way flirting and complimenting i am pisces and aries the drive me crazy you dont now if the like you or not
January 27th, 2012 at 7:49 pm
After all this time(lets see it’s been a LONG while since i last posted)…thinking all was lost between me “the pisces” and the woman of my dreams “the Aries” our saga goes on. What’s truly amazing is how she being the Aries she is can never ‘admit’ ANYTHING!!! The thing is i’ve definitely come to realize tho’ is she CAN’T let me go…lol. Even after telling her so many times to just tell me to walk away and i’ll be gone she can’t do it…I love her so much, think about her all the time and i’ve told her as much and deep down i think she feels the same. God forbid we ever let ourselves go with each other because it would be an explosion heard for miles around. I think Pisces/Aries while fire & water it can be such a emotional attachment w/ each other, a bond formed that is so unreal and unexplainable….but so undeniable.