This article has been written by one of my readers, he is sharing his insight and experience with us which I am very grateful for. Thank you for sharing I hope you all enjoy it!
I wrote an article for this website a while back called “Life of the Aries man” I am very happy to see the feedback from the readers over the last few months and so I’m inspired to write more. Today I am writing about a girl I am talking to who is a Sagittarius, while I am an Aries of course. I’m hoping that this article will serve to show you something about same element couples and why they are so good- not just fire-fire (like, Aries and Sag) but I think the same principles apply to earth-earth, water-water and air-air pairings. In my opinion where there is will, there is a way and so I think all possible astrological pairings are compatible. Some are just more alike and easier to get along with each other than other ones. I have been with a libra girl, who I miss dearly. Aries and Libra are one of the six “opposites” pairings. Let’s see if we can compare and contrast.
I saw this sag girl on campus a long time ago and instantly felt a very strong connection. I knew there was something unexplainable there because she looked at me and I looked at her and it was as if I’d known her for years. We both couldn’t wipe that smile off of our faces. It was sheer happiness to see her and I could tell she was feeling the same. I was with my lovely libra girl at the moment and as I learned the sag girl was in a relationship as well.
Now things are like this, Libra girl and I broke up. Sag girl and I are talking and I miss my libra dearly L I am afraid to take things ahead at full speed with sag for two reasons. One, we are of different cultures and I have only been involved with something like this once and it wasn’t even that serious, so I don’t know how things will go. Second thing is, even though I am aries, a fire sign myself, I am intimidated by fiery girls. The only other fire girl I had a serious long term thing with was too strong and we fought all the time. I’m talking fiery, passionate, heated discussions, and she often times put me in my place. I can’t say I miss being emasculated like that.
Every time I come across this sag girl, I feel very attracted to her. She has these eyes that just draw you in.. Like a moth to a flame. My friends all say they don’t see what I see in her. My friends are mostly typical extroverted male jerks. They are very eager to point out that this girl has no body and by that they mean the lack of curves. It’s hard to explain to people that that’s what I am attracted to. It’s very interesting how all her habits and things she does, the way she walks talks and interacts with people is all very familiar to me. I can read her like a book from a distance. I know what she’s going to say before she says it. I can see she is insecure as much as I am on the inside and I can read how she puts up a really brave and strong face for show. We met at the gym. There you go, another stereotype confirmed. Fire signs are athletic and love spending time at the gym. haha. It’s hard to properly describe it but I swear she could be my twin. I don’t know what we would ever fight about. Granted, I haven’t spent much time close to her but I like to think that I and she would agree on philosophical things. The important things. That’s how it was with another sag friend of mine. We had a lot to talk about with each other and mostly agreed and had fun, making fun of, respecting, criticizing, reviewing and praising various things like celebrities, politicians, places to visit, things to buy etc. I felt very much at home and comfortable. There was no stress to go out of your way to impress the girl. She got me and I got her. It was lovely. I wonder if two people who are so much alike would make a good couple though.
And then there is the libra ex. I miss this girl so much. I made a mistake with her and let her go. I guess I hurt her rather deeply. I didn’t mean to. She was so good to me. She spoke her mind and really made me feel loved. She was a little needy and clingy when it came to the relationship. But, otherwise she was a very giving and forgiving girl. I got away with so much of my bs. I don’t know what I did to make her so needy though. She seemed like a free spirit when we met. She started complaining if I didn’t call and this is how we started fighting. I loved her dearly and the last thing I wanted was to lose her but that’s exactly what happened. When we first met and were sort of dating, she was sort of upset at me for leaving my ex before her when we were technically “just friends.” Her exact words were, “how can you just walk away from 3 years of history?” I always thought of her as independent and carefree. With her, I had a real sense of my identity because we were a lot different. I knew the things I wanted and the things she wanted and they weren’t always the same. But we loved each other and were eager to learn what each other’s interests were and to learn to love each other’s likes. For example, I always thought astrology was a pseudo science and that there was nothing behind it. She made me want to learn about astrology and now I’m hooked. In her mind, I cheated on her because I took an interest in the sag girl. She was always uncomfortable of the sag girl. She told me to stay away from “the gym girl.” I’ll be honest, part of the reason I wrote her that break up letter was because I kept thinking; kept doubting that since we are so different maybe we aren’t meant to be together. The sag girl seemed so easy to read. I thought that’s how a perfect relationship would be.
Today, I am not sure about what are better, same element couples or opposites? All I know is that I feel attracted to the sag girl and I really miss my libra girl. Libra girl doesn’t even answer my calls now. I can’t even blame her. If she did the same to me, I know I would have moved on and never looked back. I keep sending an email to her once in every two weeks, hoping that she isn’t much like me and has it in her to forgive me.
What is your opinion of same element couples and opposite? I am eager to see what you guys have to say.
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