Comments on: Do all Librans’ ’sit on the fence’?

By: alice

alice — Wed, 24 Aug 2011 03:43:16 +0000

hii im a libra, nd i tend to do tht too :p because i dont like fights and i dont like to pick a side. because it leads to fights and when ur in the middel u dnt loose friends.
can u please write again to tell me what u dont like about libras if theres anything, because i dnt like annoying my aries friend because i like him. so tell me my flause so i could fix them thank u !!

By: HillaryZee

HillaryZee — Wed, 10 Aug 2011 19:28:54 +0000

I’m a 14, almost 15 year old Libra. I am in love with debating, yet I hate arguing. I’ve always been so interested in questions that can’t be answered so I can debate on them. It’s as if I ask people questions so they can give me a debate. There’s been times where I say something and then say “wait no, nevermind, because yada yada”. And I leave the other person so confused. So many things go on in my mind, it’s like I can’t keep up.
I’m inspired so easily and appreciate every single beautiful person in this world.
For some reason, every time I see a beautiful girl, I see how they are, it’s like a piece of art to me. I love the beautiful things in life and I’m an artist. I play violin, guitar and I sing.
And sometimes after watching a movie, that movie inspires me to want to change the world or be an acrobat or a soccer player or a ballerina.
What I am not, I want to see how it would be to be.
Figuring things out is the most important thing in the world for me.
I need to figure a person out because that’s what I’m best at. I’m amazing at sensing what other people want, and I give it to them.
But when I can’t, I become interested. I’m so in love with the human brain and the way it works.
I need to know every person or else I find it weird and I try my hardest too get to know this person.
I also can’t stand being ignored, I hate people who ignore you for a couple of days. My Virgo best friend used to ignore me and I would become so sad because I wanted to reason it out, knowing I could.
I don’t fight, and due to that reason, I can’t. Everytime someone begins to say something disrespectful I just come back with a witty saying or a “you’re pathetic”.
I feel as if I wouldn’t waste my time with someone who’s not willing to be respectful and settle this in a professional manner.
Many people say I’m very understanding and a good person at conversation.
Yet, I’m horrible at making decision.
I love being a libra

By: room2roam

room2roam — Tue, 09 Aug 2011 03:56:27 +0000

im a libra woman and at this point in my life im all over the place. im in a relationship (im gay) but im “on the fence” about whether or not i should end it. there’s so many variables spinning in my head about the situation that i have no idea what to do. the post on here that really hit home for me was Ads. privately i want to be alone BUT unlike most libras im socially inept and lack the ability to make friends so my circle is not small, its tiny and i have such a fear of being alone. not only that i have this desire to be social and within a crowd yet lack that “something” to make it happen. i get uncomfortable a lately ive started to have anxiety on those types of environments. maybe this is bigger than the libra, idk. i related to what many of you are saying. im am the worst type of libra imo. indecisive, non-confrontational, soft, dreamer not a doer, and deceitful in some ways. and i ramble. this started about my relationship and has turned into a self-absorbed post about myself. the hardest part about the relationship is she has a 5yr old daughter. we’ve been together since she was probably 2 and she loves me so. its hurts my libra heart to walk away from her bc she expects to see me. one weird thing about me is i would be ok with us cutting off the relationship but remaining friends. i would actually love it bc it would allow me to maintain a relationship to meet my social needs and allow me to open spaces i desperately desire. but no way she goes for that. she seems to love me so much. i dont undertsand that type of love. my thought process is more of just live life, enjoy it, and go with the flow. if it doesnt work oh well we tried. move on. its nt that i dont care, i do this is just how my mind works. i dont get all worked up about it. BUT on the flip side i get hurt easily and will cut you off as soon as you hurt me. i dont understand why other ppl arent this way but im grateful they’re not. i did not accomplish my goal with this post…. my life story in a nutshell… a bunch of rambling. i need a mentor. is that bad? im 32

By: Libra (Sco moon)

Libra (Sco moon) — Sat, 16 Apr 2011 18:49:54 +0000

Well, I believe that librans do “sit on the fence” if it is somewhat of a petty matter. Librans love to please others so they will go along with popular decision to make others happy, but if it is something important, they can decide. I often find that I immediately have a decision/opinion when asked about something, but then I wish to “check” it with others’ opinions. We like to weigh the pros and cons of each, but this only gets us further confused!!! Usually our first instinct or gut feeling is in tune with our emotions, but we hate not exploring other options. To us our indecisevness is not frustating, but more of intellectual and judicial ‘training’.

By: libraladysunshine

libraladysunshine — Sat, 29 Jan 2011 01:39:42 +0000

hello. I tend to weigh the pros and cons a lot. mostly when i am shopping. I want my moneys worth.

By: ben

ben — Sun, 29 Aug 2010 10:19:39 +0000

im a libra and almost every arguement ive had ive seen both points of view and dont usually end up arguing which is a ‘decision’ in my eyes

By: Xian

Xian — Sat, 28 Aug 2010 19:23:42 +0000

I’m a Libran female. I find myself more fiery than most, I think this may be due to the fact I’m only a few days off being a scorpio. I’m look at both sides of everything but once i decide it is final. I don’t sit on the fence, when asked for an oppinion, I form one and stick by it.

By: Staci

Staci — Mon, 12 Jul 2010 07:28:59 +0000

In addition… I’m a natural leader, which I believe is completely seperate of my ability to make a decision. And like others have said, I’d rather spend my efforts on bigger things than the small trival things. And I’m very idealistic in my thinking.
I analyze and do endless amounts of research, and find myself endlessly passionate about millions of things.

By: Staci

Staci — Mon, 12 Jul 2010 05:36:34 +0000

I’m a Libra and definitely sit on the fence. My closest friends always say I’m the most non committal person they know. I’m not good at making decisions and tend to let someone else take the lead on the bigger ones, but I have to have my influence as well. (My independent side.)
I can never pick favorites. When asked what my favorite color is, I can never clearly pick one. Same with food, wine, TV shows, movies, songs, bands, etc…. My mind just doesn’t work that way….

By: linda

linda — Tue, 11 May 2010 17:01:27 +0000

Libra woman here…yes and no. I sit on the fence and observe. I gather information from several sources and then proceed cautiously. I have found that once I make a decision, it feels solid and I act swiftly on it. Unfortunately, I miss plenty of romantic opportunities because of this “sit back and watch” mentality. I believe that I am often viewed as aloof or uninterested when I am actually so deeply interested that I forget to tell you I am interested. Seeking balance is critical to me in friendships, yoga, work and play. My advice to people trying to get me to commit to a decision is to give me solid intelligent information to pull me toward your ideas.

By: John

John — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 14:26:06 +0000

I’m a Libra.
I was a closed minded fool for 30 + years, so my sign only had minor effects at first.
I was very skeptical about everything - I couldn’t believe without knowing!
Eventual I found out what I needed and ever since, I’ve been having alot of difficulty making descisions, cause I really do see 2 extreme sides to everything, and a ton of comfort between the extremes! I respect the extremes, but I love the confort zones the extremes make possible.

The only strong stance I have that is unchangeable are my 4 tools to survival: Free Love, Free Respect, Compassion, and Self Forgiveness.

I think a lady of the water - a Cancarian lady, is my one for now, but I hope she can find security in me free love!

peace

By: RICHARD T. SYKE ONCE AGAIN IN THE FLESHHH

RICHARD T. SYKE ONCE AGAIN IN THE FLESHHH — Mon, 25 Jan 2010 22:10:56 +0000

AND VIRGOS LIBRAS SCORPIOS AND SAGS ARE CREATIVE THATS WHAT MAKES SU VERY ALIKE