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Do all Librans' 'sit on the fence'? 2013

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Do all Librans’ ’sit on the fence’?

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I thought it would be nice if I put up a question every now and then for everyone to put down their opinion etc. I have done this just for fun and it is not meant to be taken seriously!!

I am a big fan of the air sign Libra and have a Libra Moon myself :) One of the characteristics of these wonderful people is their ability to stay in the middle when it comes to forming opinions. If their is a disputeyou will normally find the Libra’s to be the ones seeing both sides of the arguemen, taking ages (if ever) to form an opinion of there own. I happen to believe that this is a good quality but I know many people who find it quite frustrating!

Please leave comments of your own opinions on this, and any Librans’ out there or friends and family of a ’sit on the fence’ Libra, …let’s hear from you too. Also if you have any questions you would like me to ask here then please drop me a line and I will put the best ones up on the site. :)

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  1. 1
    Matthew Says:

    Bring a Libra kinda sucks.. I’m always day dreaming and have so many ideas that I can never finish one. I can never make up my mind on ANYTHING and that makes people so mad at me. But I’am good mediator.. ;-)

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    HL Says:

    My dad is a Libra, but he rarely sits on the fence. His mind is influenced way too much by those around him, or by the popular opinion. However, he’s still very indecisive and has my mom make all the decisions. So either they sit on the fence or go with what everyone else is thinking. (Unless they are highly influenced by extremist Scorpio, of course.)

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    donna Says:

    hi im a libra, and i tend to sit on the fence quite alot. there is always two sides to every story, and being a libra, you want to know. i hate taking sides, so im always in the middle, that way, you don’t lose any friends and you’ve already shown your opinion. okay this can annoy some people, but its always best to just keep out on anyones business for it can be a bit sticky and messy :P

    xx

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    Cynthe Brush Says:

    Libra-rising with Neptune in my 1st house. NOT indecisive. Aries Sun in the 7th, Sag ruling my 3rd house…perhaps too quick to opinions, which I’ll change later, if I’ve mis-judged.

    Pisces in my 6th house makes it tough to stay focused. Work with a go-with-the-flow / catch the wave momentum…and ebbing. Venus there, too. Love beauty & art & creativity.

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    Tina Says:

    I completely agree with donna

    i’m always seeing everyone’s point of view as if it were my own, i just like to be transparent so that i don’t offend anyone.

    I would call it being tactful and/or diplomatic…to look on the bright side.

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    Tina Says:

    but being a libra really does suck sometimes…i feel very lame sometimes :S especially in friendships and love relationships.sigh!

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    .glo Says:

    I’m a female Libra.

    The further back in time growing up, the more indecisive I was. I was fascinated with strong women who didn’t have this problem. Fascinated!

    Making a decision was not just about a Libra Sun working it out. All the other components in my Chart had to be in agreement too, and this is difficult when you have various demanding Aspects!!

    My respect for strong women was rarely reciprocated because my Cancer Moon was slow on the uptake. In reaction, I would try to be quicker, but then I’d come across moody & illogical.

    I would try to be the “supporter” but then I got stepped on, and never knew how to time my actions, so again, left in the dust.

    You would think a Scorpio Stellium (Mercury/Mars/Neptune) would help, but it sometimes exhasterbates the moodiness, and it’s not a likable characteristic.

    Finding my center was the key, through meditation and a martial arts-type focus. My Chart has always made me feel like I am driving several different cars at the same time, each with their own needs. Talk about balancing!

    I know it’s not popular to say one has a Rising on a Cusp, but it is in the very last degrees of Taurus. It has always made me feel even more obligated to bring my thoughts & emotions into a “body of action” - so more frustration, and many times, depression.

    There are issues with control I still struggle with because I would like to be more agreeable & flexible with people like a good Libra, but I cannot because I’d just give myself away completely.

    Focusing on my inner-warrior is key, but many times the bluntness of life shakes my Libra & Cancer parts and I suffer physically. So warrior, yes. But in moderation, which is a really weird thing to steer.

    Thank you for this platform & all the hard work.

    .glo

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    P.J. Says:

    HI, Im a Libra Female and I have no trouble with taking a side in an arguement, when something or someone is wrong theyre wrong. I find the comments that people make about Librans deeply insulting. I can make a real decision, if it matters Ill make it quick, but if its just some silly thing that doesnt have relevence then I may take my time, that common reason is that I hate taking the first pick at anything. As a Libra, you may find yourself letting the others go first or getting that first peice of cake. We dont like to be unfiar, that part is true. Also I am divorced from a Libra man. bad news!!!! Libra and Libra should never marry, youll spend all the time fighting about who chooses what, etc, and yes, we do fight and can leave just as nasty of a sting as our Scorpio sisters, we just do it with a smile :) I am currently engaged to an Aquarian man, who ironically proposed to me within days of our first chat. Everyone thinks Im crazy but it just feels right, he’s my soul mate, hows that for a quick decision all you Libra critics, I dont sit on the fence, I will lean on it though if its clean :) but my mind is made up and so is my heart….
    Thanks

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    Jenn Says:

    I’m definitely a Libra female, and boy, do I ever look at all angles before I make a decision. My SIL hates to shop with me because I’ll know the entire inventory of the shop before I make my purchase. But when I leave, I know that I made the best decision possible.

    I do tend to surround myself with strong people as well, and I listen to them often. The only real requirement is that they be intelligent (I was born in the Chinese Year of the Rat.)

    But this is NOT a negative, mediation is what we do best! Calming and keeping the peace in the family (or workplace) is where we excel, this is necessary, and a gift that I certainly cherish.

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    Samantha Says:

    Libras! I love them :D My aunt’s boyfriend is a Libra and he has the most wonderful eyes, but he does sit on the fence.
    Whenever the two want to go out to eat or something, he always tells her “I don’t know, it’s up to you.” She’s a Sagittarius, so she’s usually the one deciding, but she’d prefer for him to make the decisions!

    No matter, they are a very cute couple .

    Thanks for your website, I really like it!

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    Omar Says:

    I’m an Aquarius with my Ascendent under Libra and even though I naturally like seeing the multiple sides of an argument, I can still decide for myself what is wrong and what is right and form an individual opinion over something.

    From what I have seen, when it comes to morals and ethics Libras do have a good sense of what is ethically wrong and what is ethically good. My Libra friend is against the cruelty of animals; she knows who she is voting for in elections; she supports gay marriage and is against other social discriminations; she believes in equal rights for women and so on. But ask her where she wants to go eat on a date and she won’t be able to decide on her own. :)

    Libras do sit on the fence sometimes but it just takes a strong-willed, patient person to influence them and guide them towards a path. They’re smart and lovable people, all they need is that encouragement to form their own individual opinions.

    A question I have been asking myself lately is if “Square” relationships can work. Ex. Aquarius and Taurus, Leo and Scorpio, Cancer and Aries, Sagittarius and Virgo, Pisces and Gemini, etc. and what are people’s experiences on them.

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    Linda N. Says:

    I’m a libra lady,and, this is how it has always worked for me… If someone is telling me about an issue they need resolved with someone else, I have always found that I can put myself in both parties involved,positions. And give my honest opinion,my goal being to not side with anyone, but to just help them both see things from each others perspective, and, to hopefully find some middle ground, if not a solution. I am a true Libra, through & through. Thanx

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    .glo Says:

    Omar -

    In response to you wondering about Square relationship’s working, in romance & friendship, some people need a certain stress factor in their life, and maybe Square’s need that relationship to work something out.

    Hopefully it is a transitory relationship because it shouldn’t be that much work all the time.

    However, I do feel that some Square’s are much more difficult than others, and of course Moon, Mercury & Venus placements are important.

    I think for example, Aries/Cancer energies, between Sun’s or other planets, are horrible. Cancer is always trying to prove they can handle it, and Aries is never really going to compromise to Cancer’s satisfaction and a lot of resentment builds up over a short time. Even if it’s not between Sun’s, if it’s a Mercury/Venus or Sun/Moon, it can’t be ignored.

    I think Gemini/Pisces energies are a little easier because they are both Mutable, and especially if there are other energies to ground them in a common goal.

    Virgo/Sagittarius energies are not as bad because Sag’s are usually determined and Virgo’s are usually supportive of them. But if the Sag has no respect for details, it can be frustrating.

    Taurus/Aquarius energies are not bad at all. They usually find common ground very easily if they are not prone to stubborness.

    Leo/Scorpio is hit or miss. Personally, I don’t like the drama which occurs, but there are surprising relationships that are working long-term. Ex: Arnold Schwarzenegger & Maria Shriver work it out, but Shriver has a Scorpio Sun, Leo Moon, so she’s already experienced with that Square energy INTERNALLY.

    It’s interesting.

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    Dominant Libra Says:

    I too believe that some of these things said about Libras are insulting. I will “ride the fence” on things that frankly don’t need to be decided on or are insignificant. Its not that I am riding the fence so much as i just really don’t believe it deserves the effort. I feel that way about a lot of things so it could be perceived as indecisiveness but to me its more indifference and disinterest.

    I tend to be the decision-maker and leader in most relationships. My leadership style is not overbearing and people can have a hard time following what they see as rudderless, but there is always a method to the madness. Good leadership has nothing to do with brash and sheer force of will in my opinion.

    I am compassionate and always considering the effects on others for the most part but I tend to try to keep the bigger picture in mind and need to balance the get it done with the means. i do not let myself get mired in the means however which many seem to think Librans will do.

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    INTJ Libra Says:

    I have absolutely no problem making decisions regarding IMPORTANT matters. I let my better half decide what we’ll eat for lunch :o)

    I also have a very strongly developed sense of right and wrong and in no way fear confrontation. Here’s the kicker though…if I don’t care anything about you/want to have a relationship with you (friendship included)/don’t respect you I will NOT argue with you about ANYTHING! Conflict leads to understanding in my mind. You fight to come to a better understanding so that your relationship can flourish. There are only a chosen few that I desire to make that kind of investment in.

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    ruclvr Says:

    I totally agree with DOMINANT LIBRA. I think that sometimes indecisiveness gets a bad wrap. I’m a Libra Sun/Cancer Rising with a lot of fire in my chart. There are simply things in life that don’t hold my interest, so why bother forming an opinion? Why waste the energy when I could be daydreaming about something I like?

    My indecisiveness tends to lie more to the mundane. Life decisions come very easy to me, I trust my intuition totally. But a restaurant menu can be overwhelming!

    It’s funny that I stumbled upon your website today. The past few days I’ve taken note to how blessed I’ve been having many Libras friendships through out my life. Libras far outnumbers any other birth sign. I feel very fortunate! It’s fun being a Libra raising my Libra daughter!

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    cat Says:

    i am a libra and i am selfish but i hate it

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    cat Says:

    not that that has anything to do with anything. and i dont try or want to be selfish i just think i am. see. here i am sitting here talking about how selfish i am. i really am. oh well. my goal is to become selfless

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    cat Says:

    but i guess if you want to become selfless, you have to be selfish first. “if you want to become straight, you must allow yourself to be crooked. if you want to be whole, you must first allow yourself to be empty.”
    -tao te ching

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    Sai @ BloggerStop.Net Says:

    I am Libran…..I do not sit on fence…but I do always hold a balance in my hands :)

    I hate liars and betrayers…

    Definitely I would love to sit in the company of ‘thinking’ people !

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