Compatibility For Libra and Scorpio |
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Libra and Scorpio
There will be misunderstandings galore with the Libra/Scorpio relationship. These two just won’t be able to understand how the other works, no matter how hard they try and both of them will try. Libra is a free spirit, and although loves passionately, needs space and independence in their relationships. Scorpio loves very deeply, and is far more emotionally dependent than the Libra which of course will lead to quite a bit of conflict between them both. The Libra half of this union just won’t always ‘be there’ when their Scorpio partner wants them to be, Libra enjoys socializing and parties and will get angered if this part of their life is threatened.
Now, then a little bit of positivity is needed here. Indoors, when they are together and the world is shut away outside, Libra and Scorpio can be a beautiful partnership. And will enjoy hours of watching old films and snuggling by the fire drinking hot chocolate. In the bedroom they will both take on board the other persons needs as they are both very attentive to the desires of their partner. The Libra may not be quite as gushing as the Scorpio but then its swings and roundabouts with these two to be honest.
So it seems like this can work, just not on a daily basis, and certainly not in a serious relationship where the Libra is being relied upon to give the Scorpio full time attention and care. Understanding is the key to the well being of any relationship so knowing how your partner works and learning who they are is a great start, and that to me is what astrology is all about. Shining a light in the unknown and daunting places always helps us see things and people more clearly. Enjoy this union; it could be very sweet to give the Scorpio full time attention and care. Understanding is the key to the well being of any relationship so knowing how your partner works and learning who they are is a great start, and that to me is what astrology is all about. Shining a light in the unknown and daunting places always helps us see things and people more clearly. Enjoy this union, it could be very sweet.
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January 23rd, 2009 at 1:04 pm
i am a libra girl and dated a scorpio for 7 years, i feel in love with him that he become really jelouse and possesive of me not wanting me to be the social butterfly i normally was and keept me away from everybody, we where a cute couple, thats what brought us togeather in the 1st place, we did all thats written above it was gr8, i also found out alot about him after i read the compatibility Check , he comes from the house of sex libra’s come from the house of partnership, now ladys too keep him you have to be all his and no one elses, and really give him all you got when it comes to sex…
March 12th, 2009 at 1:29 pm
i’m a scorpio and i recently broke up with my libra man of 4 years .. it was the opposite im a social butterfly and he did the same thing .. keeping me away etc .. basically the same description given about your scorpio man .. wierd huh ?
April 16th, 2009 at 4:49 pm
will i’m a scorpio women and my boyfriend is a libra ,, it’s weird how we’ve been drown together the first time we chatted ..
but now after 6 months being together..i feel not close enough to him ..
he is a good guy ,, he has qualities that i couldn’t find in other guys ..
but the only problem we have that he is not showin me enough care and love!!
wich make me feel that he’s not that in to me!!
how can u till if libra really loves u ?
they just don’t know how to show it ,, and that is really confusing !!
April 16th, 2009 at 6:57 pm
I’m a libra girl with a ex scorpio bf. We broke up recently..after 7 years together. Its pretty accurate about our personalities coming together..i was a social butterfly but i tamed down just for him..it was blissful as long as we were at home (which was almost all the time cos scorpios love that WITH their lovers)
But me being a true libra couldnt really stand the constrictions..i broke free..hence all the misunderstandings and problems…didnt work out in the end…but it was the sweetest r/s ever and i wont trade it for the world
April 30th, 2009 at 2:13 pm
MERMAID-
for a libra to really love you back, you need to be trusted, give them some space and let them have the lime light whenever they need it
libras can be very loving and caring and enjoy there cuddles. you will know when a libra doesn’t show interest, they just blank you and show more interest in their friends. a libra wont be tied down in a relationship they don’t want to be in. but sometimes find it hard to confrontate you, so they may look for that little excuse to not be with you and make it look like it’s your fault. but also, you’ll have to see what his chinese zodiac is too 
May 3rd, 2009 at 12:22 pm
This is a fairly common combo like aries and libra because these both are together a relationship sign. Both complement each other characteristics which either of two do not possess and share which they have in all terms od sex ,romance and love .
June 3rd, 2009 at 1:03 am
im a libra and i dated a scorpio bf for two years and i think that as long as we were together all the time we were great ,perfect, the best .. but if we were in different place thats when trouble came.they are great lovers.
negative things: He was sweet in a weird way, they show their love with material things and they dont like to you to be bossy, they always want to control but they dont want to be controlled, if they do something wrong the dont like for you to bitch at them.they are very jealous.
June 12th, 2009 at 2:52 am
I am a scorpio woman and dating a Libra man for four months. It’s true what I’ve read here about being great together when indoors. I love spending time with him watching tv or eating dinner. He is so sweet and gentle. Very respectful. Listens very well if I need his full attention.I’m still getting to know him. It’s been a slow process. He doesn’t talk about deep issues. Doesn’t show his softer side. Sometimes he can be very errogant. Talks about himself a lot. Doesn’t ever really ask me anything personal. Doesn’t in order to know me better. I wish he were more passionate. He has a very difficult time showing me affection, especially in public. He can be slightly rude. Does’nt think before he speaks, kind of thing.
I am all that the say a scorpio is. I very loving and need to feel loved all the time. By just a simple smile, stare, touch, kiss. I still like my “me” time. I dont need to be with him all the time, but cherish when I am. I am falling inlove with this man, but I know he only likes me like a friend. He thinks I move to fast. I think he moves VERY slow. I’m also very sexual and he can take it or leave it. I think that this could likely be a problem later down the road.
In all I am enjoying him, but I feel hurt that he can’t be more loving.
July 15th, 2009 at 11:35 pm
I am a Scorpio girl in a relationship with a Scorpio boy, we’ve been dating for just 2 months.
He is very blunt and doesn’t like to talk about his deep feelings at all, just the same secrets he’s told everyone else he’s ever dated. There are a lot of misunderstandings, he never seems to get why or how I get hurt or mad by the “slightest” things. I’m not sure how this will work out. but for the most part that compatibility match was true.
July 25th, 2009 at 10:28 pm
Well I am a Libra/ Scorpio sign. I have always conflicted my self and find it hard for me to understand my self from time to time. I was born right on the cuff of the two signs so if you ask me what could be worse then a Libra and Scorpio dating it would be me… being both signs. Yeah. Really.
August 5th, 2009 at 8:02 pm
Well i am a libra dating an scorpio man, we click so well together, and since librians are into love making, and scorpians are sex addicts the bed is always in motion, if you know what i mean,lol, but if your a libra and your in love with a scorpio, make sure you give him as much attention he needs, hug him tight and warmly in public, play with him in public, kiss him……IN PUBLIC! I know that us librians can be private but you got to let him know your only his girl and you dont want nobody else but him. If your at home, school, or where ever, give him a gaze, a fliry gaze, and let out a giggle, then turn away smiling…..they LOVE that!!!!
August 7th, 2009 at 3:26 pm
I’m a scropio male, I feel in love with a girl back when I was 11 and yes we were together till i was 17, she was 16. I really loved her she was my true love she is a Libra. At 17 I broke up with her, I ended up getting married in 2000, well awhile back I ran into her and I realized I still have all these feelings for her for the past 17 years I have never been happy always trying to forget her but could not now I have seen her twice, nothing sexual, just wanted to see each other we both admitted that we both still love each other very much, my marriage is over as issues happend before I ran into her. I think Scorpio and Libra’s were ment for each other it is a very romantic love and fun times when they are together either as friends or lovers. She is and always will be my everything, my true love, my life, my hopes and my dreams. I will love her till the end of time always and forever. I also think Scorpio’s are very romantic as after I broke up with her I never stopped writting poetry about how I lost my true love and how much I wanted to die, until that one day when I laied my eyes upon her once agian, and now all I write about is how I found my true love and how happy I am. Just my 2cents worth though.
August 9th, 2009 at 11:11 am
I am a Scorpio female currently married to a Libra male. We were perfect in the beginning and as the years went on got even better (with the few fires in between). Until I found out about his affair, in the middle of an amazing year for us.
I believe the two can be together if they take the time to learn each other and don’t just jump because of the emotions. I think it needs to be thought out and always worked on. Just like any relationship. If both sides want it to work and MAKE it so, anything can happen. And no website, astrology book, friend (girlfriend) or anything can halter it if it is nurtured.
Give it your all and trust that the other side is doing the same. Don’t stop until it is over because if it really matters it will never be over. Just my 2 cents
August 10th, 2009 at 9:13 pm
here’s a libra male in love with a scorpio female. and if you are still in the courting phase, no doubt you be fighting a lot. wait until you move in together and your neighbours may not see you for days on end. these two zodiac signs are always better married than dating.
what should libran males like me do:
DONT EFFING FALL FOR A SCORPIO GAL.
scorpios always conjure things out of thin air. you can be sure its around you, all the time, until the time has come and swoosh, she brings it alive, whatever you want(i have run out of imagination about what my scorpio can bring to me). but trust me, it was always there, hovering around you, but invisible, so don’t doubt her if you see her empty handed. and never criticise scorpios, just leave them to them and if they get too controlling or abusive, tell them to wait till marriage and ignore the bitterness in your heart. she will just not feel that much yours while you are dating, and more worse if you are dating for a long time.
what should scorpio females like my lady do: DONT FALL IN LOVE WITH A LIBRAN. they make teddy bears and pillows out of love and kisses. touchable feelable ones. so far so good until they ask you to do the same and what you have is a poison loaded tail, not two artsy fartsy hands. so librans like EVERYTHING to be visible, touchable. keep that in mind. everything.
librans tally everything they have given or taken from someone. everything is to be accounted for and this in direct contrast with scorpio traits which brings things to a relationship when need be without accounting for. and this does raise humongous conflicts. atleast tell them you know what them librans have given you and that they will be paid back, and that’s enough.
August 16th, 2009 at 8:42 pm
Libras are nice to talk to, but they’re so insincere because they always try to be diplomatic. I wish they would be more upfront and tell people how they really feel. Being in a relationship with a Libra is like walking on eggshells all the time. You constantly have to please them. They please you in return, but that’s only out of their sense of fairness, not because of some deeply felt emotion. They’re not a good match for any water sign.
A Scorpio
August 29th, 2009 at 2:15 am
I am a libra woman and dated scorpio man for on/off 4 years and reached my limit. I do love him because honestly I don’t see a life with anyone else, but I also don’t see happiness together…..its a glass cage type feeling and the worst of it is I’ve known him a very long time before dating….even so I’m on the outside of his “shell” and he’s always been the prober. There can be no happy future for the two of us though, our life together would be too draining for me.
His possessive nature shined when we were not together. When in the house together and close to each other all was well and great, but we had to be together for everything to be well, no talking about anyone else, no taking calls from friends or socializing if he was not in a social mood to entertain OUR friends.
This scoprio man has to be in control and while he constantly hurts you (whether he knows it or not) he can never accept hearing about it and will instead put it off on what you do to hurt him…..and not sure if its all scorpios but this guy never forgot if you hurt him you’d hear about it repeatedly.
It was stifling for me and pretty infuriating… there just dodn’t seem to be an (in between) with him it always had to be 100% attention on him though I never cheated on him. I would have be able to believe we had a future if there could have been more trust and a bit more independence.
When you are in love you are in love and while my experience has come to a close….my scorpio man when he was good to me was great. You just have to be willing to give them you’re all, all the time…if you can’t you’ll know when to get off the ferris wheel but enjoy the ride if its a love that works.
September 15th, 2009 at 6:03 am
I am a Libra woman in love with a Scorpio man. We are great together, more friends than lovers at time though more lovers than friends at others. We both seem to motivate one another in extremely positive ways. Share the same interests and have learned much of each other. Scorpios love deeply and give it there everything, he is very loyal, but also very jealous. Libras are very social, and quit outgoing, perhaps too outgoing for Scorpios at times. We have an understanding that we will never control each other, we go to parties together, talk amoungst our friends and see each other from time to time talking and laughing, both intelligent individuals, who share the same views of life and love. Our friendship is very stonge as well and we both can share stories with each other and talk openly and freely. We also go on adventures together which build memories of fun and good times together as a team. Although he may be jealous and I can to at times, though very rarely because I trust him for what and who he is we will have a little fight or hard times when people start to interfier in our relationship. I also looked deeper into our lives together to get the full outside views and also inside views, via chinese zodiak signs as well. It really makes a difference. A Libra/Scorpio relationship is a wonderful thing if you have the right aspects. We, as a team can conquer anything we put our monds to together and help with the down points in our lives. Equally motivated, survival is nothing but a minor detail. You just have to know that we are two different yet, similar and we will never be controlled by one another.
Marina Tran.
September 19th, 2009 at 2:05 pm
I love my Libra so much. Idk I met him at his job. Love at first site if you believe in it. He so beautiful to be with until you anger him. WHAT EVER YOU DO AVOID HIS WRATH. He doesnt understand that he hurts me bad some times. He always claims I’m his wife he wants to be with me forever but when he gets mad he says the opposite. I’m a Scorpio so you all know that we are hot heads….yes he pisses me off greatly but I still love him the same and do for him as I would when we are not fighting. I think his perception of love is F**ked up. I told him its not all about kisses hugs and saying it. There’s more to it. He say that I don’t show my affection OUTSIDE for the world to see. How is the so? I walk next to him, hold his hand and kiss him in public. I thought I liked his jealousy until he took to far saying I was cheating….and flirting with other guys…He was enraged. He uncounciously flirts!!!!! But it doesnt anger me because I feel that if a girl fits his standards more than I, hes welcome to go…I wont stop him.
But I do Love him a lot. I’m five months pregnant with his child and we just got our first apartment (We move october 1st) We bought a car together. If things dont change when we move or when our child is born…I will be forced to let go.
It’s a beautiful relationship…but He reminds me of me except more angrier, louder, and destructive….he needs to find his balance.
September 22nd, 2009 at 8:06 pm
It’s been an interesting read. I’ve just started dating a scorpio guy and i’m a libran girl but with a scorpio moon, i think that makes me a little different that typical librans as i’m more passionate and not so diplomatic with my feelings. I think it was love at first sight for us when we bumped into each other in a bar, i was dating someone at the time so we couldn’t really talk, I never thought i’d see him again and then our paths crossed again recently…all our Christmas’ came at once. I think it really is going to be a beautiful relationship
October 15th, 2009 at 12:12 am
I’m a scorpio female in love with a libra male. We have had conflicts, but we always seem to help each other get over them. I don’t know who gets more jealous me or him, i’m jealous of everybody that even seems like they have a more than friend interest in him, they all seem threats to me. He, on the otherhand, gets jealous of everybody, and i mean everybody. Boys/girls, everybody is a threat to him. The thing is were both very jealous because were afraid to lose one-another, and i don’t ever want to lose him. It’s completely true what you hear, i mean around the outside world there’s usually conflict, but separated from all of that, we are just perfect, could not be more affectionate than we are. Most the time, we can’t keep or hands off eachother, no matter where we are. Our main problem is the jealousy and i know we can get through it all together, i lovehim.
October 22nd, 2009 at 1:48 am
I’ve loved this scorpio guy for about 4 years already , and i dont know if he notices or not. I guess my attraction to him was because of the result that I’m surrounded by scorpios ( my mom, little sister, grandpa, 3 cousins, 1 uncle). We unknowingly cross paths constantly. Some of my friends call it fate but i don’t know… we are so different. It’s true that scorpios can be quite emotional. I never know whats on his mind. Just recently I accidentally spilled my secret about liking him to one of his friends and i guess his friend told him because now he keeps talking to me and teasing me. I’m happy about this and all but still….its keeps coming back to the fact that we have such different lives.
December 10th, 2009 at 4:42 am
im a libra lady n i have a wonderful strong hearted scorpio man, its been almost perfect amazing passionate and wonderful, it always renews , you hav to put ur heart in it . Its not a fantasies or sign, or kiss is the one kind of thing . Its all that n more its the willingness, its the heart to heart, its the forgiving and loving, its the forget n move forward, its the one and only, Its the most amazing thing i can possbliy feel/ Its the greatest ability . Its true love
December 13th, 2009 at 12:10 am
I am a scorp boy who has been in a relationship with a libra girl for 7 years now and still loving her as deeply as i did for the first time. in fact, i fall in love with her more and we have grown extremly attached to each other. there have been many tumultous periods in our relationship, mainly due to my dominant and demanding nature. despite all this, this beautiful woman had been patient, gracious and extremely loving. she helped me realise my negative aspects and being a stupid stubborn scorp, i have tried to justify/argue my behaviour. this has devastated her soft heart on many occasions. when i isolate myself and slowly digest my behaviour i cry like a girl and realise, that this sincerely beautiful girl has been trying to help me all along and not take advantage of me. she could have dumped me and found another partner easily, but she stuck even closer to me, desiring to help me even more. i asked her why is she this loving, when i am such an asshole. she relied me simply. she said ” i have given my heart completely to you and what i feel for you, i wont with another man” . the only word i can find to descirbe our love for each other is spiritual. i would know exactly how she is feeling and vice versa. sometimes we would just feel something is not right and call each other to see if we are ok and true enough one of us would be having some issues. i personally feel, that a scorp guy and libra girl relationship is very special and magical, almost unreal. it takes a lots of changing for the better from both sides. (more on scorp side though). toning down on being over dominant/possesive/jealous for the scorpio and flirty/aloffness for the libran would work wonders. she and me have discussed and realised that we cant have this special connection with another even if we tried. for those who are hesistant to try this scorp guy and libran girl relationship, just remember that if both are willing to work out your negatives and bond really close, it would be something far greater than what you could ever imagine. both will surely find a passionate lover for life. inseperable.
December 29th, 2009 at 7:33 am
I fail to understand why all websites focus on Sun sign alone to determine compatibility? There are other planets especially Venus, Mars and Moon that play a major role in determining overall compatibility between two humans.
I’ve seen pairs like Scorpio-Libra, Capricorn-Gemini etc. getting along quite well. So please stop comparing humans on the basis of their sun signs. There are 9 other planets that make an individual. No two Scorpios or Geminis are alike. They can never be.
I do not follow such compatibility reports on the basis of sun signs. You guys (astrologers) should become more responsible and mature.
Thank you.
January 19th, 2010 at 8:25 am
I am a Libra woman and have been seeing a Scorpio man for a couple months now. The time that we spend together is full of unfathomable chemistry inside and outside of the bed. I have not seen any jealousy or possessiveness in him and to read all these posts about it kind of scares me. My Scorpio has been very busy with school and seemingly distant. I misread it and today told him that I feel I should back off. I also may have accused him of lying to me about something stupid. I caught him lying to me one other time. I guess I just don’t know how to talk to him. When I told him about some things that bothered me he became mad and just shut down. So, what should I do??? We definitely have something special and I really don’t want to lose that. Should I just give him his space and let him come to me or should I try to diffuse the situation (since that’s what Libras do)???? Any help on the matter would be greatly appreciated!
January 22nd, 2010 at 7:33 pm
Hello i am a scorpio women and i have been with a libra man for 1 year and 10 months. we met when i was 15 and he was 18. It was a very natural thing that came along. Through all this i have questioned whether or not we will make it but even after we yell and scream and say some pretty mean stuff to eachother we always end up hand in hand apologizing to eachother. I truly believe we will make it till death. and I don’t think it would have ever worked out if we didnt want it to work out. i spent a lot of time researching who he was, by taking one thing he told me then digging as deep as i can into it so i could understand him. And yes during the first year i was a very jealous person and took him away from all his friends and would call him every minute he actually did get to go out. but over the past 8 or 10 months i have realized he is a grown man and deserves to find himself with out me constantly judging and relying on him. Now we are so happy and know that no matter what fight we get in or obstacle that comes across us we will always be there for EACHOTHER. and its not just a one way thing anymore. If i could give any advice to scorpio women who are with Libra men, is realize they are human and still scared of things even if they are a man. allow them to have there own space and get over your jealousy : )
February 11th, 2010 at 7:37 am
this is weird because my bf is a scorpio and i am a libra, but he is the one that is outgoing and i’m the one that likes to stay at home.. i am the lovey-dovey one, and him.. not so much.. it’s like we’re complete opposites, like i should be the scorpio and he should be the libra, but maybe we’re just different..
February 16th, 2010 at 1:49 am
The scorpio i know is an ass. I will never mess with a scorpio again, They are wierdos and mean!
March 8th, 2010 at 6:22 pm
i was in love with a libra male. Some of our problems were not related to astrology, haha, but in some ways he really fit the libra bill. He was charming, charismatic, but he was also pretty fake. Also, I have my friends and acquaintances but he always assumed that I was less social than him, and was shocked when I pulled them out of the woodwork and started going out with other people once the relationship was over. Libras love being sociable, but most of all they love being more sociable than you because they are self-centered. and love to be in the limelight. They don’t understand how you could attract a circle of friends because scorpio charm is very subdued, and our humor is very cynical. Their humor is just one liners - like a puppy dog panting for attention.
My view: libras are great people to be friends with, they are loyal to their friends and acquaintances, but I personally do not find them to be good partnership material.
March 22nd, 2010 at 2:08 am
The relationship between a Libra and Scorpio is a roller coaster ride of uncertainty, and that of intense love, passion, sex, intimacy and…the list goes on
They both love each other deeply and a lot, but so afraid to get close to their feelings. They share many values, interests and ideals in love but both find it hard on how to give out their love to the other person in a way that will be accepted and reciprocated back. Deep down they both want the strong intimacy and connection but Libras tend to move and trust slower and only open up when it is earned from the other person. Yes we DO love a lot inside and feel but sometimes we do suffer in expressing it outwardly, but give us time because if we call/write/make days to see you, verbally express our love, we are HONEST in that intent and yes we love you. If you find your Libra does not do this or chooses to not see you, then to put it nicely we are probably not at that moment wanting a committed relationship with you for whatever the reasons. In my personal experience I’m a Libra who fell deeply in love with a Scorpio and we love much alike in many aspects but are perplexed on how to express this physically. We both are sexual lovers, however a Libra may flirt but NEVER cross the line to stray or cheat, a Scorpio WILL stray off to other lovers if he/she feels their Libra isn’t there for them sexually as (uninhibited sex). Scorpio wants it ALL in sex and if hurt, broken, lost, confused, rejected by a lover will seek sexual pleasure elsewhere to help recover and divert these feelings away, at the same time giving you the impression they are strictly ‘your’s’. Likewise, when they feel the love they so desire, they can and will be the most loyal of any zodiac sign. Libra will forgive any hurt done, but cannot forget the wrongdoing and eventually if Libra does not reach the level of the Scorpio, thus leading to Scorpio to stray off path again, Libra will reach a breaking point and quietly walk away from the hurt. Libras move slow, but will love so deeply and so affectionately when loved and when we have reached that level of trust…patience is a virtue when dating a Libra and giving your all to a Scorpio is also needed if you want this to work out. It’s a give and take…Scorpio needs to learn and trust a Libra’s intent and loyalty and stay grounded enough to allow their Libra to come around at full force. Libra’s with Venus in Scorpio tend to have a deep connection and understanding with Scorpio people. Libra needs to learn to NOT hold back in love and sex, at same time Scorpio needs to be more open minded and wiling to take Libra into their arms amidst the loving actions given/shown towards them
Goodluck! I do believe this is a wonderful match and can make a great partnership…just respect and agree to understand and learn with one another
May 3rd, 2010 at 5:31 pm
Well I am Libra girl who found fun in a Scorpio guy. I am such a giving person and he just takes more than i can give him. They say libra are faithful but I think i am in the wrong sign. I have been with my leo guy for 7 years. I met this scorpio guy about 2 months ago and ever since than i can’t get him out of my mind. I had done unfaithful things with him. I have never been that happy ever in the bedroom with this scorpio. He just gives me mixed messags, i dont know if i can take anymore and when i am ready to walk away form him he calls be right back to him. We always have fun we are together and no matter what we are doing. I feel bad for my leo guy but he doesnt have what this scorpio has to give me. We are keeping it a secret from other people what he do. I sneak and see him and he gives me the best time ever. He sayd he cares and than he acts like he doesn’t but he wont let me walk away from him. he has tryed a few times to and he keeps coming back to me when i am just about done thinking anout him all the time. I don’t know what to do anymore because they say libras are faithful and all this i was faithful till this scorpio and now i just want to be with him. I dont think i want to be with him for ever i just want to be in his bed and be his bestfriend. I don’t really know what i want anymore since i have had him in my life.
July 9th, 2010 at 5:40 pm
I’m a Libra woman with a Scorpio moon and although i’m very Scorpionic myself…and my best friendships are with scorpios it doesn’t work the same for love. I’m still a Libra sun,venus and mars so i still find myself attracted and attracting fire signs. It’s quite a weird combo i tell you. Being attracted to what a libra is attracted to but having a Scorpio personality. Remember the moon ruling our personality represents the people we feel most comfortable with in general but the sun and mars in a woman’s chart still and will always represent her ideal man or future husband. My best friends are always scorpios but my man will always be an Aries through and through.
August 30th, 2010 at 2:39 pm
Im a libra guy and my friend a scorpio girl just had a HUGE blowout.
All the descriptions of libras and scorpios friendships totally match what happened.
I dont desire to affiliate with scorpios if they all act like that girl
October 3rd, 2010 at 2:16 am
hello I’m Libra and I’m dating and Libra man and we are not getting along he not making me feeling like a woman feels and don’t showing me any kind of love or caring whatsoever, so he call my daughter yeah babe how can you call my daughter yeah babe you suppose calling me your babe not my child and I went off on him. and I don’t play that kind of mess whatsoever and my child just in her twenty he is forty-three year old and I would not do that to him so that let me know he will do anytning behind your back or right in your face and they will lie about anything so I don’t trust him at all so I have my doubt about any libra man
November 3rd, 2010 at 6:35 am
Im a libran female and Ive been dating a scorpio male now for two years. I think these two signs are wonderful together. He brings an enegy and passion to our relationship that I crave but am not good at creating myself. I tend to be very scholarly and serious and he brings me down to earth, pulls me out of my books and gives me a sense of life. In return, I am a very loving empathetic person, and I am able to give him the attention and understanding he craves. I think I know his moods better than he does sometimes and he always says he loves being with me because I make him a better person. We are able to talk very honestly about how we feel and our shortcomings and both of us have backgrounds in psychology so we have a good sense of how to deal with each other’s faults and help each other work past them. I am not the typical libra in the sense that I am not a social butterfly at all. I am more of a homebody and perhaps that is why we are both so compatable. Past relationships I had, it was always my boyfriend who wanted to have friends around all the time and party. But my guy now loves our alone time and we have our space to enjoy each other. He can be very intense sometimes but I like that about him. I tend to be a little masochistic and his dominent personality is comforting to me. Sometimes, I feel like I may be too timid or nuetral for him but he assures me Im not. I think that is just my typical libra-esqueness though always wondering if something might be bothering other people. We take good care of each other and I never give him reason to feel jealous and he gives me all the attention I could wish for. I can’t imagine a better match.
November 23rd, 2010 at 9:40 am
hi m libra and my partner is scorpio and what all u have written is to some extent is true my partner is very possessive and to which i might sometime feel uncomfortable but their deeply love makes me forget everything.
February 8th, 2011 at 2:13 am
I’m a Scorpio female and these comments were totally interesting. I just started dating a Libran. Our first date was awkward and cute. I never felt so attached to a guy so quickly. However, I already can tell I am going to be the dramatic and passionate one in the relationship, whilst he would just be aloof and laid back. Knowing this, I should be able to deal, but it does not erase the fact that I need to know that this is going somewhere fast and strong. It’s going to be a battle but I will risk it cause he is the most gentlemanly man I’ve met in a while and we seem to have this really strong connection already.
March 31st, 2011 at 11:35 pm
I am a Scorpio female and I am a true Scorpio in every aspect. I am bossy, jealous, overconfident, controlling, and very logical/organized. But I am also all of the good things, caring and loyal, sexual and romantic. I feel very deeply and am extremely intuitive. It is hard for someone like me to find a person who will accept how deeply I feel in a relationship and how surely and truly I love. At times it scared me to the brink of tears that I wouldn’t find anyone who would appreciate how dedicated and loving I can be. But the moment I laid eyes on my Libra man, I felt an instant connection, one I hadn’t felt for a very long time with anyone. I cautiously approached him at first, unsure of whether he even really was attracted to me, because he was extroverted and outgoing but not very verbal with his feelings. I came to find out later on that he had watched me just as much as I had watched him the night we met and had thought of nothing else but me since that moment. One of the things he loved about me was that I expressed to him exactly how I felt without hiding anything or playing it down. I poured my heart out to him, hoping that he would be the one to appreciate all I had to offer. And he accepted it. I hadn’t dated anyone for two and a half years for fear of getting to invested in someone who wasn’t as invested in me. But he was different, very different.
From the very beginning he never missed a chance to talk to me or see me. He even walked to my house in the blistering cold and snow when he didn’t have a car (we are still very young). I have been told that I have an old soul, and I feel like he does too. I feel like we are meant for each other, the balance that we both need in our lives. The first month we dated I pushed him away as much as I could. That’s just how I am, but he pushed back and just held on tighter until I let the walls come down. He still tries to figure me out, and I still try to pry into his mind to learn things about him. The important thing is that we are both taking our time both emotionally and intimately. We are both very sexual people, but instead of hopping in bed, we are enjoying every step of the way. He is the most tender, loving, devoted, and honest boy I have ever met and hope to ever meet. Perhaps I am young and falsely in love, but any Scorpio would understand that the love we feel is real as real can be no matter the age. He is my true love and my soul mate. I can feel it with every fiber of my being, and he feels exactly the same. We both make sure to show our love every second of the day and what keeps us together is our need to be connected always.
Libra is a perfect match for Scorpio in a relationship because they both feel a strong need to stay connected with the other. They, in any other relationship, would be considered too emotional or too clingy, but the dynamic here is great. Sure there are minor problems, but if you are an evolved enough Scorpio, you should have no problem adjusting and adapting to your partner. You will come to love them enough that you won’t even mind it, and I know change on anyone else’s terms can be hard. But enjoy this relationship for everything it is. Because so far, I know I will always cherish mine with my Libra, whether or not it lasts.
Take advantage of their obsession with the physical. It will help bring you together. I don’t often suggest using physical intimacy to help a relationship grow, but with this pair, especially with us Scorpios, the body, soul and mind are one. Showing your love through an intimate act is just as meaningful as saying the words to describe how you feel or using material objects. That bond is like no other for these two signs, and both of you will have fun learning how the other ticks. Love won’t just be a feeling. It will be an adventure. Even if you’re scared, take it. However Libras, be careful, because Scorpios often use sex and physical intimacy to gauge the dynamic of their relationship. It is one of their most dominant traits, their sexuality. You have a tendency to move slowly and hesitantly. But I promise you once you put your foot in the water, you will want to dive in. Scorpios, guide your Libra because they are not mind readers and are not as intuitive as you. They want you to tell them what you are thinking. Sometimes you forget, but try expressing things to them if you feel they aren’t getting it. They will most surely understand. To Scorpios, words are cheap. We will always appreciate your romantic sayings and promises, but with nothing to back it up with or no physical signs of love, we may stop believing what you say.
Never rush and never push. Let things happen naturally is the point. It takes an evolved Scorpio and a very patient Libra to make something like this work it seems. Neither of you can give up early on if you want this to work. Give it time. And don’t delay fixing problems or patching up communication because unresolved issues could be the death of this union. It is easy to shake this pair, but a good foundation will make sure you never fall. Enjoy it. Every relationship should be an adventure, a happiness you have never felt.
April 19th, 2011 at 1:12 pm
Im a Libran and the guy I like is a Scorpio, and all I have to say is CAN THEY GET ANY MORE CONFUSING/SECRETIVE/DISTANT?? He approached me, He wanted my number, He comments on my FB, he ran to me at the club and but then danced with his friends, including females, he made a point of blowing kisses to me as he was leaving, but he was holding another girls hands, I am so bloody cranky at him, is he testing me, playing games or just doing it cause he can?? I don’t want to be a doormat, but seriously, Im attracted to him, but Im soooooo sick of his non attempts, but his attempts when I least expect it, Im so ready to tell him to stick it, patience sucks and mind u, I just want to establish a friendship for now, not a relationship!! stupid scorpio males!!!
May 30th, 2011 at 5:04 pm
Omg this is so trueee ! i am a Libra and i just started talking to a Scorpio and he is everything i ever wanted but he is in a on/off relationship with a another Libra and the crazy thing about it is our birthday is a day apart and this horoscope explains their whole relationship without a doubt because he talks to me about their relationship and everything said here is everything he told me just in different words !
November 22nd, 2011 at 8:04 pm
I am a beautiful libra female dating a handsome Scorpio male. Yep Love at first site. to sum it all up they are both afraid to love hard especially the libra female cause the scorpio male rarely expresses his feelings unless he gets really upset or jealous or has some type of feeling you may leave him. they love eachother though. and both wanna be with eachother. its possible to work as long as the libra female has plenty of patience with him and allows him the space an opportunity to be himself and not harass him at all even if hes wrong. you have to say shit like i really mssed you today. i love you so much
November 24th, 2011 at 11:07 pm
Just got back in touch with am old flame last nite, who so happens to be Scorpio, and my my my what a time we had… This man has a way of dragging me (or at least attemts to) to the very depths of his Scorpion ocean, but it is right then that I draw back. Mainly due to suspecting what lies beneath, some of which includes a lack of trust, jealousy, & possessiveness… So sad to say that he may be in for yet another period of complete detachment. Though I’d be lying we’re I to say that I didn’t feel for him deeply, he’s given me the type of orgasms that some women wait there whole lives to experience, to the point where my very core vibrates at the mere thought… Hell maybe we’ll be greater later.
March 24th, 2012 at 4:14 am
I am a tuarus and I think a libra is okay sometime but my scorpio friends and leo friends think the same too but libra people like to steal stuff!!!!