We knew each other about 7 years ago, our groups of friends used to party together, we kinda hooked up (the chemistry between us was INTENSE, and there’s just something going on when we catch each other’s eyes) and messed around (no sex, but close). Then our groups of friends grew apart and we lost contact. I’ve then been in my share of relationships but sometimes, my mind would randomly have flashbacks of memories of us together and I would wonder about him. Couldn’t seem to get him off my mind for some reason.

Current day, I just broke up (with another Arian), and contacted him to see how he was doing. Met up, had a nice dinner, a long stroll, and suddenly he held my hand and we strolled the rest of the way. We partied that night after the stroll, and ended up at his place, and with his initiative side of an Arian, he kissed me. The tension then exploded between us from there and we had a night of mind-blowing sex that seems like it has been waiting forever.

It felt so right and complete that I don’t feel that there’re good enough words to describe how perfect it was. The tension that has been there since 7 years ago, till now, has finally matured together with our age, and I notice it is true that when I read other people on this forums say, when Arians and Librans split and date other people, they eventually find their way back to one another after learning more about themselves and also about what they need in a relationship. It feels like both of us are finally able to settle down with one another. There seems to be an unspoken mutual feeling and understanding about what we both want from the other party. It also feels like 7 years of being apart was for both of us to grow up, and now we’re more able to finish the ‘unfinished business’ we brewed up before.

I notice there’re a number of people here who seem to have the same situation with me, where the Libran and the Arian hook up, split, and find their way back eventually, get married, and live happily ever after. I have this strong feeling about him as well, and it’s amazing because I never felt this way with my other partners. It’s so weird… But I’m happy.

Thank you for taking the time to read this!

Jenette

love him always!!

HANAKU..

I end up meeting and dating a Sagitarius for a stint that ends in July, so Im on FB and the Aries guy hits me up, and we start talking again, we see each other again for the first time since the poetry set, and I am amazed on how connected we are. I can talk to him about anything, the main thing we discussed, despite the obvious physical attraction, we are working on developing a friendship more than anything, so no we have not slept which each other …….yet we have shared a bed and he has spent the night, but there was no sex involved. I genuinely enjoy his presence around me. He makes me smile when we speak, and I have never felt that way around anyone in a very long tume. We are always having these profound discussions about life and relationships, and we can talk for hours, and when we are in person its so natural. We both are like we are not looking for a relationship but it seems like we are steadily developing it into one. Lets see how this goes.

I explained to him about hurts I experienced in major relationships, including my former marriage. One relationship in particular happened with my first love who was a Libra man that I dated all through high school, up til I turned 21. We broke up for a year when I was 19 and he was 22 because he lied to me about something so inconsequential it was ridiculous. We Aries cannot abide liars. He was insecure and felt telling me something that he thought would boost himself in my eyes would keep me from leaving him. Anyway after a year apart (and me missing him incredibly) we ran into each other and knew we still loved each other. We planned to marry that following year. But it was never to be. He lied about an ex-girlfriend who had become pregnant. That ended it totally for me. But I was devastated for a long time.

Fast forward to now. Because of the major loves that I had that all turned out badly, I protect my heart immensely. I found myself relaxing all my rules with the Libra man and it astounds me. It scares me! He wants to rush things because he says he is sure and get so impatient with me. He wants to me declare we will be together forever! Now here is the twist. His birthday is the exact same day of my first love!

I haven’t told him the birthday twist but he knows about the relationship, how it ended and how badly I was hurt. It tends to make me crazy when i don’t hear from him. I know I have trust issues. We have made plans for me to come out to visit him for a week next month. I have never, ever been one to worry when I don’t hear from a partner. I’m very laid back and what happens, happens but this man shakes me to my very core. In addition, as a typical Aries i am very impatient.

What I haven’t seen on here is can Libra men be faithful? Is it in their DNA to not be physically faithful to one person?