Aries Compatibility With Libra |
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Aries and Libra
This combination has a good success rate! The Libra brings romance and warmth to the union and the Aries will find this irresistible. It also gives the fiery Aries somewhere to relax, for Libra has a wonderful welcoming and calming touch that the Aries could really benefit from. If these two find they are on the same cultural and intellectual level then there is nothing else really that can stand in their way. These two will be out a lot, enjoying each others company and seeing the sights together. When they are in they will enjoy cooking and eating with one another. This Air and Fire sign combo are defiantly good for one another. All I will say is this. Sometimes this relationship may seem perfect, and when an argument arises it may seem doomed. Don't despair, just try and cool off and remember that everyone, no matter how perfect they are, has bad days and this is not a sign that you are not made for each other. It's the fact that you two connect so well that will keep you going. Good Luck and Enjoy!!
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Combined Astrology - The Aries Rat
Last 5 posts in Aries, Compatibility, Libra
- Fire & Fire or Fire & Air? - May 5th, 2010
- Life of the Aries Man - December 30th, 2009
- A day in the life of a Libra girl - December 14th, 2009
- Aries Rat - August 5th, 2009
- Do all Librans' 'sit on the fence'? - May 28th, 2009

















March 10th, 2008 at 2:46 pm
I found my true love and he’s a aries and when i read this that matched me and him so well. that is us and i am glad that our love match says that now i am way more confident about our relationship.. thank you so much
March 13th, 2008 at 1:45 am
Im an Aries girl and i found the perfect libra guy and we are exactly as it says. reading this made me more confident that he is the one and when there is an argument between us that we shouldnt give up on eachother and always try to make things right.. I love him with all my heart and knowin that we were made for eachother makes me love him more then i could ever love anyone else…. Thank u so much for boosting my confidence…. xoxo
May 19th, 2008 at 2:19 pm
I have just started dating a male Libra and it is so perfect.(4Weeks) I am female Aries…OMG it scares the hell out of both of us, that we enjoy each other so much. This reading is us together. I enjoy this man so much we can’t get enough of each other. He has already told me that he loves me and I think I am falling in love him. Everything is happening so fast, but when I read our compatiblity charts it explains it all. I keep thinking it is a dream and at any moment we are going to wake up and it will be over. I hope not because that would be so cruel.
June 3rd, 2008 at 6:35 am
I’m a Libra woman married to an Aries Man after having known him for 1 month (12 years younger than me, I might also add). This article describes many many aspects of our relationship. We have been married now going on 6 years and still can not seem to get enough of each other.We do not like to be seperated from each other for very long. Aside from our beautiful son we have together… My Aries Man is the light of my life and there is not a day that goes by he does not remind me that I am also his… Your article sums it up.
July 15th, 2008 at 2:16 am
thanks now that i read this boosted my confidence to stay with my libra guy, were perfect for eachother, he’s my fist love and we live in diffrent cites, and it boosted my confidence to stick with my long distance relationship,, thanks love, an aries girl
lorretta!
July 27th, 2008 at 5:52 am
When I read this I definately agreed it described my boyfriend and I. when it is good it is good but when things are bad between us it so crazy. I think we compliment each other well and I can say he is my best friend. I just wish I knew how to keep the intensity of the fighting to minimum.
September 12th, 2008 at 6:55 pm
I’m an Aries male, and the light of my life has always been my first love(libra)..
We met, and dated for over two years, never having any arguments, always able to know the others thoughts & feelings without having to ask.. it was intence feelings of passion, always.. we moved apart, it had to end, but the love and warmth we shared was forever in my heart..
23 years later, she found me.. all the feelings we shared for eachother came back like they never left, and both of us were so overwelmed.. WE are very happy, and made a promise to never lose the other again…
not the end, but a new begining to our Love…
September 25th, 2008 at 5:18 pm
i am an aries girl who has been freinds with this libra guy for over 8 years. what started out as a mutual freindship quickly turned into much more, yet for many years neither of us said anything, primarily afraid to loose the other. we both had our share of failed relationships during the years, and would retreat to the background when we felt like we were falling for eachother, neither of us said anything till 2 months ago, when he couldn’t keep it inside anymore, it is true what the compatibility states, we do complete eachother in more ways than one. i have this feeling that we will last a lifetime together.
September 26th, 2008 at 2:21 am
i am a libra woman and i am married to an aries
woman and we are so perfect for each other.. she completes me in every way and this article says everything that is so true about us.. we fight but we talk things out and i have never done that with anyone in my life. she is my soul mate in every way.. thank u cuz now i believe in us more then ever…
j
October 17th, 2008 at 5:10 am
I am an Aries girl who fall in love with her Best Friend Libra guy.
I did not realize our zodiac sign match completely and When i know this is a bit too late cause Libra guy has fallen in love in Capricorn Girl.
I don’t know where this take me. I know him back in Three years. For me is love at first side but i dare not admit it cause then he has a girlfriend.
We were best of friend and After breaking up with the second girl…. I finally confessed. I don’t want to make the same mistake again.
But with the overall summary i have read i think i will learn to wait patiently and be there for him.
Aries have to learn to be patient…….
I was in bad relationship then we share our stories and encourage one another. Which is true He have what Libran Takes and I have What an Ariens are……. hot tempered and he is the one who always calm me down,……. Is so true…… Miss him Each day!
October 22nd, 2008 at 5:00 am
i’m aries girl and been friends with a libra which is weird. cuz at first i didnt really wanted anything to do with him seem my friend was in love with him.after 2 years my friend invited me to hang out with him and her she was over him and just friends. me and the libra guy hooked up after a year we saw each other and hoooked up the heat between us is GREAT! but he is hard to defind though he like me and so do i but its hard to say what we really want to say but the tention is there and everytime we see each other we cant resist to make out
January 10th, 2009 at 10:34 am
I’m a Libra man and I’m currently interested in an Aries woman. I’m really attracted to her and I’m just not sure whats the best way to show her I’m into her. We’re friends right now and I feel some tension between us like… she might be into me too but I’m not completely sure enough to just go for it and risk my friendship. Any help from successful Aries and Libra couples would be much appreciated
January 15th, 2009 at 9:40 am
I am a Aries women and I have the love of my life and he is a libra we do have world war 3 fights but it all
comes back to how we can’t spend more then a couple days seeing eachother or even talking and it keeps the passion in are realationship
January 18th, 2009 at 3:15 am
My aries boyfriend ruins my life. He is so fucking demanding and up and down. And he is such a hypocrit.
January 24th, 2009 at 11:50 pm
i wasnt going to post anything but after reading that comment from biaaaa. dude my boyfriend is demanding and has his ups and downs and is a hypocrite too. I call him the “drama queen” of our relationship some days, and im called the bitch. lets just say you get more then you bargain for with an aries boyfriend….but sadly you can’t walk away. its an werdi addiction. when its good its great but whens it bad its a bitch.
January 26th, 2009 at 7:21 pm
I found that weird. My Man is Aries and know matter how piss he gets he never calls me out my name.I’m a Libra i can be very up and down with making up my mind but needless to say My baby walks me through. He actually spoils me and I return the love just the same. I am quiet a bit of a brat but he loves me regardless as I the same. Sorry to hear you fell on bad terms with your Aries lover.
January 27th, 2009 at 7:03 pm
I am married to a Scorpion male and I am a libra woman in last 2 years i have been feeling trapped not happy in the marriage. i have never cheated but i have been talking to a aries male over the phone he knows i am married but unhappy and says all the right things to me only been talking for a two months. He lives in another state and i have seen pic of him and he has seen pics of me as well. He just seems as if he has fell in love with me already and we have never met. He makes me feel things that I have not felt in a long time. That scares me because the reading is right on the money we have mad chemistry over the phone and if we meet i may fall head over hills. I have been thinking about leaving my marriage for several years because we have been together since I was 18 and i believe we have out grown each other in 13 years. i want to be free but i feel guilty for leaving because we have two kids. i have discussed this with my husband he thinks that it can be fixed but i dont think so. i feel he has not given me what i need in the marriage, but i gave him everything he needed even my soul. Help
January 27th, 2009 at 9:19 pm
Confused in lust, I at one point stayed in a marriarge because of my child at the time. I was to with my ex-husband from 17 years of age. I myself grew as a woman and had to look at the bigger picture to make a happy home, it starts with self. Sometimes a person give until they can’t no more and it sounds like that in your case. By no means i’m telling you to leave your husband. All i’m saying is take the time out a find whats more impotant. Lust can always be here but love is forever. Weight your thoughts ( take time for yourself). Me time is always good!!!!!!
Wish You Luck!!!!!!!
January 28th, 2009 at 9:34 am
omg thank u so much i saw this and i screamed i jus recentlly met this amazing guy were dating i always believed he was my other half and now i kno its true.
hes a aries and im a libra. i was reading on other website that we werent compatible ppl were saying “oh thats a lie” and now i kno it is! =DDD im so happy!
January 28th, 2009 at 1:27 pm
Hi Autumn, I know what you mean I’m so in love with My Man and when I say My Man he is just that. He is so wonderful. Yes I read other compatibilty charts and I do beleive in the stars but at the end of the day it is also the individuals. Just yesterday I received an amazing “valentine Day card” To us “Valentine Day” is everyday in our eyes.I’m extermely happy and I hope the best for you.
P.S.
The enegry is increditable, It only gets better!!!!!!!!!!
January 29th, 2009 at 2:13 pm
HELP!!!!!
Some one please tell me if Aries men always have to have control?
January 29th, 2009 at 7:06 pm
Libra and Scorpio don’t mix! Libra just can’t stand the silence of the Scorpio. Scorpio can’t stand the emotions of the Libra.
Libra laughs while Scorpio broods! I have said enough he he, guess which one I am? Yes the Libra ofcourse. Oh another thing, Libra wants love and lust. Scorpio just wants the lust!
January 29th, 2009 at 11:23 pm
Thanks for your comments everyone. I am still talking to aries and i cant stop. Not only that he cant either i tried he tried. He started telling me that he is actually thinking about me constantly and i have been doin the same thing. Is this possible to find someone so exciting over the phone. someone please comment? I am a big girl i know that this situation may not workout, but at this point i dont care. I can already see myself leaving without my husband.
January 31st, 2009 at 3:47 pm
thanks frank that is the way i feel. He does not see me and understand that i need to know i am loved. He will be happy as long as i put out. I have been trying to get him to talk to me for years and i am just tired. He wants to be taken care of but he gets lazy with me. i just need some excitement in my life. If i cant get it from my husband he has forced me to get from someone else. Believe me i have tried for 13 years.
January 31st, 2009 at 6:56 pm
Yes Aries males tend to be controling. it’s part of their leadership, take charge, gotta be the man in control to protect all i care about & all I love and want to keep safe. Sadly Most aries men go overboard with this ability..
Discussion with your mate, and an agreement with what each of you can and will control or be in charge of in the relationship will Help.
READERS: this is a place to post the positives of the Aries & libra signs, Not a bashing board to vent.
Thank you.
February 1st, 2009 at 8:16 am
What is important for any loving couple is to be honest with each other, and that includes being honest with yourself! Happiness is the result of being honest.
February 1st, 2009 at 3:25 pm
Frank, if you “honestly” believe a Scorpio simply wants lust, it shows just shallow even your mind works. They want deeper connections. Not just meaningless conversation that gets them nowhere. In other words, they want the love, lust, knowledge that they emotionally own you, and that you’ll never betray them, all wrapped up in one little package.
But this is a post about Aries and Libras, so I don’t know why that went here anyway.
As for Aries and Libra, I’m surprised at some of the first people who wrote about their harmonious relationships because I’ve never seen it work out. I know a pair of Aries/Libra and they’re friends, but they’re always talking crap behind eachother’s backs (but a few of those people up there have already shown that).
February 2nd, 2009 at 10:41 am
confused in lust on January 27th, 2009 at 7:03 pm
I am married to a Scorpion male and I am a libra woman in last 2 years i have been feeling trapped not happy in the marriage. i have never cheated but i have been talking to a aries male over the phone he knows i am married but unhappy and says all the right things to me only been talking for a two months. He lives in another state and i have seen pic of him and he has seen pics of me as well. He just seems as if he has fell in love with me already and we have never met. He makes me feel things that I have not felt in a long time. That scares me because the reading is right on the money we have mad chemistry over the phone and if we meet i may fall head over hills. I have been thinking about leaving my marriage for several years because we have been together since I was 18 and i believe we have out grown each other in 13 years. i want to be free but i feel guilty for leaving because we have two kids. i have discussed this with my husband he thinks that it can be fixed but i dont think so. i feel he has not given me what i need in the marriage, but i gave him everything he needed even my soul. Help
February 3rd, 2009 at 3:27 pm
Hi Travis thanks for the tip.Can you please throw somemore helpful tips my way?
February 3rd, 2009 at 5:24 pm
I use to date a scorpio now i’m with my loveable Aries Man. Now out of the blue the scorpio calls I tell him i’m in a happy relationship but he makes it clear he don’t care. He let me know he still loves me( he is on the phone with me while he is in his woman house)!!!! Told him that was disrespectful. He still made the comment he wants to come see me.I told him Hell No!!! I will not disrespect myself of my Man in no form of fashion.
I need him off my back!!!!
HELP!!!!
ASAP!!!!!
Somebody tell me what to do?
I don’t want to set a Fire off by telling my Man that will be world war 4,5 and 6!!!!
February 3rd, 2009 at 6:25 pm
Roni,
Alot of questions come to mind, how long were you dating this scorpio?
When did you break it off?
How offten is this scorpio contacting you?
Etc… bottom line, if your feeling threatened, and the scorpio isn’t respecting the boundrys you’ve set, break off all contact,if you have, or if it continues, presue a restraining order..
Now as to your current Aries male, let him know what your dealing with, i’m sure he’s had a obcessive girl friend at some point in his life, and knows just what your dealing with, seek a peaceful solution. also make clear, you don’t want him to resolve it for you, rather be supportive of you, and resolve it together.
peace.
Travis out
February 13th, 2009 at 12:23 am
Hello all!
I’ve been reading through your comments about the Aries/Libra connection and I have to say, it’s making me feel sad to think back on my experience with a Libra man.
I’m an Aries woman who worked with/fell for a Libra man. From the moment I met him I felt some attraction to him but really didn’t pay much attention to his charms etc. He had a longterm girlfriend so it was no go. Anyway we became good friends as we seemed so in tune with one another and had such similar tastes etc. In the end his relationship ended, to my elation(which is awful I know) BUT unfortunately the flirtation and conversation continued between us but nothing else. Eventually I got frustrated by the situation, put my cards on the table and he bolted the other direction by sleeping with my good friend. SO I think Libra and Aries are very compatible in many ways but in the right context. It’s crazy, I would never touch him with a barge pole now but I do miss what we had in terms of our connection. I’ll be wary yet optimistic in my next encounter with a Libra man.
February 15th, 2009 at 2:44 am
One of the strongest physical/emotional connections EVER…..an Aries Man and I’m a Libra Woman. The following might seem long but truely insightful. Despite what everyone says about the stars saying this would not be a good match…I was always told and read this sign would be a hot match. NOW I see what they meant.
Just the thought of him makes my knees weak and heart pound. Its the energy between us thats so unique. Aries makes the air crackle for Libra and the endless childishness brings a smile to my face. Never a dull moment and he’s always landing himself in quicksand with his brash abruptness and impatience. Once again…it simply makes me laugh. They’re really harmless souls that don’t like to get bored. We literally can’t get enough of each other. The passion just too hot for words.
His last girlfriend, a scorpio was terribly jealous. Always worried that he was cheating even going as far as calling his clients to see his wereabouts. Aries enjoys drama…but not the stalking sweltering manipulation scorpio gives. He’s found a freedom and haven in me and I’ve found my other half living vicariously through his antics…..I think this is the one.
February 18th, 2009 at 8:09 pm
This scared seriously me, I dare admit, but it truely explains (in lack of better words) of a relationship I have with an Aries guy!
We met somewhere around last year, and suddenly just clicked- sadly we got in a fight and just went our ways.
Now he and I are talking again, which it makes sense with what this post said that it might be hard for the both of us to just walk away! We might not be in a romantic relationship but its a good friendship at the moment hehe, even if we do call each other names at some point of the day, and have our ups and downs, I rather wait than loose this Aries again.
February 20th, 2009 at 8:38 pm
I have the most wonderful news ever. My Aries Man asked me to Marry Him!!!!!! I was lose for words. He gives me everything that I dream for and more. I even hit it off with this parents. He already stated we are getting married in 2010b which is next year. We are having a very private and intimate ceremony!!!!!
This is my new beinging!!!!!
March 17th, 2009 at 2:18 am
I am another living breathing example of the deep lasting bond of love between Aries and Libra. i am a pure Libra woman involved once again with an Aries man…(it’s always an Aries ram)hahaha and we are in the process of moving in together after only 5 months of courtship, he is also about 12 years younger than myself. These polarity attractions even bypass age boundaries i see. i love him to death and he adores me…not a day goes by without telling each other we love each other and how were eachother’s sunshine. We can’t stand being apart. He’s do anything for me, and the passion between the two of us when were making love and he smiles at me, his loving grin, makes my heart want to sing. I believe the aries man is the ONLY man that will make us Libra women truly happy. We need a very manly masculine kind of man and the aries man fits that image perfectly. We ARE just like the original mars and venus. LONG LIVE ARIES AND LIBRA LOVE
March 18th, 2009 at 11:50 pm
So wierd about that libra/aries thing…I’m a libra and this aries i met haphazardly at work. I thought he was a jerk because he came off to be a skirt chaser by some of the comments he made. So i dismissed him and he still kept coming around. Would not leave me alone! I told him straight that he was not getting me on a silver platter. I’m not just something you can order off a menu and…what do you know?? Still keeps coming around. He said I was nuts. So I let him know if I’m nuts, he’s downright bonkers because HE is the one that keeps coming back…so obviously it says more about him… and not me.
I couldn’t stand him.
Now…he wants me to be his girl.
And amazingly, I don’t mind. Because he was the first man I ever met to be so straight forward to let me know that even though i couldn’t tolerate him, he liked me.
And also, to prove it, he wanted to go slow so that i can get to know him…
He was persistent. And it wore me down. In a good way of course. I just don’t like feeling that i have no say…and he fights his impulsiveness and need to dominate to let me have my way. And now I can’t help but give him my undivided attention.
April 8th, 2009 at 10:49 pm
Im an Aries male and I am with a Libra.. Our relationship started off pretty fun and now the pace is slowing down. My demand of a lot of attention seems to be too much for her now, she is caught up in her work and I’m caught up in the nightlife!! Either way Libras can be too indesicive and that drives us aries males crazy!!! Its like thinking for two people!! Anyway we are a great match and have tremendous fun when we go out> hopefully we can keep the momentum up b4 we loose it!!
April 13th, 2009 at 5:46 pm
To Lost in Lust,
I was married to a Taurus the bull for 28 years, before I finally left. Our 25th wedding anniversary he could not even buy me a card. I new then It had been over for a long time, it is amazing what we mothers will do for our children,and family. I married him for security,(I had 2 Children from a 2 year marriage to a Scorpio) I fell in love with his family and figured this was the way my life was going to be.My children are grown and I have five wonderful grand children. In 2000 I became the Union president and have been ever since I love doing what I do and I am very involved. I became friends with a Libra male, he moved here from another state to work with the Union I belong to, we had a very strong attraction for each other but didn’t make a move because we were both married, his wife decided not to make the move, thats when he knew it was over.we can talk about every thing and anything under the sun, we were both in unhappy marriages we even commented on how our spouses would get along because they were very much alike, and guess what! they are friends and talk all the time to feed off each other. needless to say we are both divorced and very much in love, he spoils me and I spoil him,
April 13th, 2009 at 5:52 pm
the above post was for confused in lust. Trust me I thought this only happen in the movies. What a wonderful life I have now, when you are in a give give realationship some day the give is going to be gone, you need to receive in order to keep giving!
April 16th, 2009 at 7:39 pm
I always thought this combination could never work. I’ve recently met an Aries online, and I (the Libra) can’t stop thinking about him and he says he feels the same. We live 200miles apart but i’ve asked him to come visit me, I can’t wait to see if its as fun, exciting and loving in person as it is online. I know for sure this guy could change everything for me, and I hope I can do the same for him.
May 5th, 2009 at 9:50 pm
I agree with Kim I have met a Aries man online back in 2007 and ever since we have been thinking about each other like crazy! I live in Fl, he lives in CA which sucks a whole lot. He makes me feel ways I have never felt ever!!! I never thought it was possible to love someone so much and to have never seen them in person considering that he lives so far away. The thought of it makes me weaker than I already am not being able to be with him because of our distance. We had some rough times… me being a Libra I hate being alone and the distance was to much for me to handle so I took a break from our relationship to find sometime to see if this was really true love in front of me. I finally realized this he is the ONE! So we decided to try again..only for him to decide he wanted a break… Then he realized what I realized during our first break. Now that we have taken out the time to realize and sort out our feelings… we want to spend the rest of our lives with each other. So we our waiting patiently for that day to meet each other face to face this summer! I can’t wait I will keep you all posted.
June 2nd, 2009 at 11:45 pm
Hi Im An Aries Male, ive been reading through these posts and thought id drop a comment :)im 18.I was in a relationship with my ex for a year and a half with a cancer woman. I fell for her immediately. it worry’s me because she was so indecisive which got to me, understanding her feelings were very difficult. In the end it didnt work out.i had far to much doubt in my mind and things started going wrong she cheated on me twice. Since then i havent had a girlfriend.Then last friday i met this girl at a pub, on my parents wedding anniversary. The same thing happened immediate attraction. We started talking and it was surprisingly easy once we got into it. I asked her for her number, she gave it to me. I found out she was a Libra and that its ment to be very compatiable with Aries.Then i read more,found that they tend to be indecisive and can find us standofish. i dont want a repeat of last time. is this something i should worry about, while im getting to know her? Any ideas to what i should do?
June 3rd, 2009 at 10:01 am
hey travis,
I’m a libra female and i recently got back with my aries (ex) boyfriend after we found each other again. =DDD lol
I would suggest that you give her enough time to think through her emotions, the more you try to rush her the more she will pull away. Just be patient and continue to show her signs that you love/like her, sometimes you can even pull away so she has to miss you. It really is kind of a game in the initial stages, but once she decides that she wants you and feels secure about the union (i.e. that you will love her unconditionally), then there’s no turning back for her.
June 3rd, 2009 at 10:03 am
Sorry i meant Paul not travis :S
June 12th, 2009 at 9:13 am
Hi! I was really amuse after reading all this stuff here. I’m a libra woman and my boyfriend is an aries. Well i love him so much, i always make him feel loved at anyways. The only problem is I’m the only one whose making moves for us to see each other, its kinda tiring sometimes. Its either i visit to his house so we can spend some quality which i find hard to do often because I’m working. I just really don’t know when will he do the move for us. I’m trying to understand him cause as much as possible i don’t wanna fight. Maybe.. Just maybe he’ll change.. I’m just confused.. But i can’t bear to lose him.
June 23rd, 2009 at 2:32 pm
Ok, I am a Aries girl and I just started dating a libra male recently and everything is going good so far. I started datign him and then he went to toronto for a week and it felt liek the longest week EVER ! honestly i have gaurded myself from libras because i used to date this one libra and he totally PLAYED me! i dated him for 2 weeks and then he just up and leaves to a different city. He said he was comming back but he just never did . I had a weird feeling the hole time i was with him that i shouldnt get too close now i no why. a few months later i talked to him over faceboook and he is all sorrys and told me that he didnt want to tell me cus he didnt want me to get mad at him or hurt my feelings. BULL. now he is comming back to my city for a couple days and wants to hang out with me . i no if i seen him i would wanna punch him in the teeth but at the same time i dunno what i would do . so anyways this libra guy i am dating right now is closer to my age than the other one and i really want it to last, i am scared shitless that one day he will wake up and not wanna be with me anymore
i am a astrology fanatic so i read everything i can about aries and libra and they say equally good and bad things. im not really sure if i should put my whole heart into this and then get hurt. With the last libra i KNEW in my heart-but with this one i WANT to be close to him, i him to no that without a doubt i am his and he is mine. i guess its way too early to feel these feelings and stuff but i cant help it, i am a sucker for love.
July 10th, 2009 at 9:38 am
Im a libra female, and i can say i have been with my fair share of relationships, all long ones, with a leo, aquarious, libra like myself. I have been in love but they all ended very bitter as i am always suching for a love that is magical the kind that makes your heart want to pop out in your hands, but i also wanted my other half to feel the same. I can assure you i have been with this Aries male for 7 months, and my GOD, he is a miricle, he has this way of showing me his love to extreams, he will look at me in a way that sends shivers down my spine, and the words he say are just to sexy and sweet, like eg where have you been all my life? lol and then do a tsk tsk sound
but most off all he is so protective, he is like a war lord for his family and me, he is a tall man and walks infront of me in clubs holding my hand making sure im safe, but at the same time he gives me my space, Im a libra so i need a balnce of everything and he is so perfect in doing that. I can never seem to make up my mind, but i can swear i know that i want to marry him and have his children. He even bought me a new house:) what a dream come true we are so in love i cant explaine this extacy:D
July 10th, 2009 at 9:50 am
This is for Paul Adams, i have just read you concerns about a libra women, beleive me they dont come more libra then me, my Aries bf wanted to go out with me and i didnt at first, as usual i was indecisive. But we all know libras like being chased and are attention seekers:) My aries just kept surprizing me like leaving his friends to sit next to me in break coz he works with me. but he wouldnt brag that he was doing it, he did it as if it was just coz he enjoyed my company more then others. If i would say oh i dont know what to wear tonight, he would just calmley say well i dont think you should worry im sure you look amazing in just about anything and then he would just look into my eyes with confidence and smile. And that took my breath away he would always amaze me with little things like this. Its all about being confident we like that in a man. Being sweet but not clingy. We also like a man we can rely on its all about security with us libra. I was unsure of him in the begining but now after 5 months or so. I know i want to be with him for life. A love between libra and Aries….. Well there is no other love like it.:D
July 10th, 2009 at 9:59 am
libra males are slightly differant to libra felmales, as a female libran myself i think females are more sensitive then males when it come to relationships. We are of a flirty nature, all we think about is how good we look, and if ppl like us, we love to be loved, we love attention. And with male especially good looking ones unfortunatly they can be players, i know coz i dated one myself they do tend to think only about themselves, do what they want to do with no consideration. But that cant cloud your judgment on this relationship with the new libra. Coz it might be hard work becouse we are so indecisve, but once a libra falls in love male or female you have there undivided love for life. And there is no great love then a libras. Venus is our god:) that makes us a symble of love by nature:P
July 11th, 2009 at 2:28 am
As a Libra Woman I have found myself attracted to A few different zodiac signs,but those who have lasted the longest in my life have been Aries Men My first love was an Aries my husband was an Aries and Now the new man in my life is an Aries. So I guess the fates are telling me that Aries men are where my heart belongs and where I can shine in love.
July 14th, 2009 at 4:00 pm
Hi,
I am a typical aries, strong, attractive (so Im told) and assertive. I have recently split with my Libran Fiancee of two and a half years, and Im finding it difficult to carry on without him. We moved in with eachother after four weeks, and I have had the best time of my life, I love this man so much that I find it hard to eat/sleep without him. We split due to the arguments, the stress of buying our new house and living with his parents had caused us to row everyday. But, I dont know how to get him back, we are bonny & clyde (aries/libran) and I cannot imagine a life without him. I cannot begin to explain how well we got on, how we couldnt stop touching eachother, how we stopped seeing a lot of our friends and family as we just wanted to be together all of the time. I need some help, as I am distraught, we are drawn together, and now we have been apart for 6 weeks, and everytime we talk we argue, he is angry and I cannot do anything but cry and say things to bring him back.
I would love some advice regarding how to get the love of my life back
Thanks
A hot headed arian gal xxx
July 14th, 2009 at 7:51 pm
I am a Libra - a highly romantic who requires balance. I live my sign - and it scares me some days. But about 12 years ago, I met this guy - an aries. We had a child together - but we went our seperate ways. We have found eachother again after 10 years. I tell myself that I should be mad at him but I can’t. When I see him, I get butterflies. When he kisses me, I am on cloud 9. He says that he can’t get mad at me because I’m such a caring person who is so honest with him. We are taking things slowly but after reading everyone’s comments - I do believe that we belong together….he is the easily tempered one who calls me to calm him down….to make reason. I know I have fallen in love - now just waiting for him to admit the same.
July 16th, 2009 at 8:43 am
to belle lee
as a libra girl talking to an aries guy i would say stop(!) and let him come to you. 1. because you should not be the one initiating everything and 2. because they innately like to do the chasing!! don’t be easy prey..i know it’s hard esp if you like him a lot but he really has to do the directing. hope it helps..good luck!
July 19th, 2009 at 1:06 pm
Yeah I totally agree,as I have been dating my Aries bf for 8 months, I am his first love, he has had many relationships in the past more girls then you can imagine Aries’s have a lot of confidence an ego, so if you make it easy for them the lose interest quite easily. When he fist asked me to kiss him I said No, and that shocked him, he was never refused a kiss before, so that made it a challenge for him. Til this day Aries love Libra because we give them what the need love and affection but at the same time they want something to work for, keep things exciting. I’m not saying give him the cold shoulder coz that might drive him away. Be concerned be nice and cheery and happy go lucky and most of all be yourself but let him come to you, don’t make it look as if your waiting on him desperately, be cool the libran way
and you will get your prize guaranteed just keep being the person he would want to spend time with be exciting.
July 19th, 2009 at 1:14 pm
As for NatashaD Libra are great lovers but you have to be very careful with Libra as the are very sensitive and they might forgive but they never forget so everything you do if you are hot headed WILL effect your future with him. We have i high tolerance and take it all in but if we come to a decision there is no turning back. If the love leaves us its gone. So if you want to win him back don’t beg for it just act as a friend take it slowly it wont be as easy as you think we are very stubborn and cautious when hurt badly it will take some hard work to get a Libra back. But here is a trick that might work tell him to meet up for a drink or party and trick him into remembering what made you two fall in love in the first place but without making it obvious of what your trying to do.
July 19th, 2009 at 1:22 pm
And never begggggg ever. no i want you back so badly bla bla as a libra myself that is a turn off big time just be really fun and happy go lucky go back to the begining i he argues with you change subject just tell him really dont you think that’s so past tense and then slip a charming comment like I know Aries know how to do best to melt a libra heart lol like as if i could ever stay mad at you .Full stop
I really do wish you all the best xxxx Dont forget aries almost always get what they want
not to much its a bit like being cheeky but charming at the same time and you know how we love our balance
July 20th, 2009 at 10:51 am
Thank you so much for the comments, Im finding it ridiculously hard to cope, but I am just focused on winning him back, he said he never wanted any of this to happen as he loved me so much, he got my name tattooed on his chest and we had just bought a new house, but he couldnt take the argueing etc, and I had let the stres get to me, and I didnt addrress the issues we had, being a typical aries, I just went all guns blazing in the end, it flitted from full blown rows everyday to passionate love, and we lost touch of how in love we were, and got bogged down by the thinsg that were going on around us. I am so worried that theres nothing I can do to win him back, I just know that were meant to be together, I could go on forever explaining why, but Im praying for a miracle.
Hes jealous and angry, Im thinking I should be cool and happy go lucky like youve said, and perhaps show him that theres other guys interested in me??
I do not know the best approach, as I did cry a lot on the phone and I initially begged him to give me another chance, which probably pushed him futher away.
July 21st, 2009 at 8:57 pm
I am a pure Libra woman….. sun, venus and mars in Libra. All my boyfriends have been Aries including my current flame. coincidence….I think not LOL. They seem to be the only men i can really love……even Leo didn’t do it for me in the same way and they are a fire sign as well. I do usually only like fire sign males because i’m all air myself…..and yes leo and Sag i find insanely attractive as well, but not with the same INTENSITY level as with the Rams. I guess the opposition really is all consuming. People who don’t believe in synastric astrology and compatibility among the elements should come to my house that i share with my ram. They will leave believers.
July 21st, 2009 at 9:31 pm
Oh by the way i know this is a bit off topic concerning our hot libra-aries discussion but do any of you librans and rams have the same problem with cancer as i do? my Bf’s father is a pure cancer and it’s very difficult to feel comfortable around him, it just doesn’t gel well. I really have a hard time getting along with cancers of both sexes.Do any of my fellow libra gals and even aries gents feel the same way??
July 29th, 2009 at 5:06 am
to Carolyn,
Yes! I am a libra and I have a few cancer ‘friends’ that don’t like me at all. I think they are instantly turned off by my presence =( …too bad.
July 30th, 2009 at 10:23 pm
ya it’s like this invisible barrier between us and cancer..i don’t know it’s mutual i guess cuz i never really enjoyed cancers…..too different from me…we have nothing in common and nothing to say to eachother.
July 30th, 2009 at 11:30 pm
This was very accurate & it describes my previous relationship so well. I was in love with a Libra man & yes, I’m an Aries woman. WE spent so much time together & things seemed perfect & endless yet, once I made a mistake, I put all we had at risk forever. Now I spend each day looking for more positive solutions, & wishing things could go back to the way they were. This is in fact a perfect match even though it did not work because at the end of the day, he still has some love for me & I love him more than the definition. I honestly don’t want to be with anyone else, & I won’t go looking for love. I know he’s the only man for me.
Nas I Love You 143
August 19th, 2009 at 4:01 am
This is true about me and the man who just broke up with me =( I thought we were perfect but something influenced him to end it - we are of different religions. At first I wasn’t comfortable with it but all that matters in the end is love, right?
He has been thinking about the future too much but I live in the present. I wish he would slow down and think about the present because that’s where I am.
I’ve learned to be patient with him. If that’s what it takes to be with him again I will give him all the time he needs. I miss him so much!
=(
August 27th, 2009 at 8:21 pm
OMG! I AM A ARIES WOMAN AND I AM IN LOVE WITH A LIBRA. ITS TRUE , WE WERE INSTANTLY ATTRACTED AND IT SEEMED AS THOUGH I HAD FOUND LOVE FROM THE MOMENT WE LOOKED INTO EACH OTHERS EYES. ITS LIKE OUR HEARTS KNEW WHAT OUR MINDS COULD NOT QUITE COMPREHEND… AND THAT IS THE FACT THAT WE WERE MADE FOR EACH OTHER. NOW, I WON’T SIT HERE AND TRY TO PAINT TH PERFECT PICTURE AND SAY WE DONT ARGUE IN FACT WE ARGUE A LOT BUT AFTER EVERY ARGUMENT I FEEL AS THOUGH IVE GAINED SO MUCH BECAUSE EACH TIME I SEEM TO LEARN SO MUCH FROM HIM. AND EVERYBODY KNOWS IF YOU MAKE AN ARIES WOMAN GET BORED THE RELATIONSHIP IS PROBABLY NOT GOING TO LAST THAT LONG…. WELL GUESS WHAT IM NOT BORED YET!!! I LOVE MY LIBRA!!!
September 1st, 2009 at 4:05 pm
Sugarpuff - I miss my libra too, so much infact I cannot think of anything else, and patience is what you need to give him, Ive learnt that the hard way and although the pain is great I have hope that no one compared to the love we shared, a libra and aries love is something of an enigma, and its that bonny & clyde love which is what Im so desperate to get back.
I cry everyday as I just miss him so much but making him realise the decision he made is wrong only pushes him further away, he left me because of the arguments, we were moving house and struggling for money and things got too much.
I hope you dont give up hope as have faith that it will take your libra a long time to find anything half as life changing as what you probably had.
I pray everyday
And Im not even a follower of religion.
Love wins at the end of the day doesnt it?
x
September 4th, 2009 at 8:27 pm
omg kim!!!!
i feel the same way the same happened to me….he is so hot and i really like him …..he is an aries and i am a libra….this is so true…i dont let us get into fights cuz i dont want him to stop talking to me….we talk on aim and i have never met him….but i really like him…i would love to meet him someday….he is so perfect and makes me smile whenever we talk…i really want to find someone like that…he makes me feel so special…i cant stop smiling whenever we talk…he is too perfect……i wish i could see him….kim please let me know how everything works out with your online man
xoxoxox hope it all works out
love to all
thank you guys
September 10th, 2009 at 9:33 am
So I am your very typical Aries female. Hot tempered, opinionated, passionate, and a straight up “go girl”. I was dating a Sagittarius male for about two years, had a child together, but his insecurity levels drove me insane and I had to get out. I’ve only been single about 9 months now so I’m going thru my “pimpin since been pimpin” stage I guess. But recently, about two months ago, me and a couple girlfriends went to a lil “get together” and I met a Libra male. Instantly, he was right next to me wanting to know everything there was to know about me. I payed it no mind at first being as though I was currently dating a Capricorn [big mistake].. Libra and I didn’t talk much at first, BECAUSE WE WERE TOO BUSY KISSING! wowzers, we could kiss for soooo long. I hate PDA, but he would simply make me forget about anyone else even being in the room. Well, just last night we had our first “official” date…drunk bowling
haha…..once we got back to the house it was no more talking and straight to ripping each others clothes off for the very first time. the sex was simply amazing..out of this world. he makes me feel sooo special. he says the sweetest things to make me smile and i can tell he practically adores me. I didn’t think i really liked him that much at first but for the past couple of weeks i feel myself growing closer and closer to him, getting excited when i see him calling or receive one of his text messages. he says he wants to “wife me up” and i think its so cute how he picked an exact date [nov 17]…i told myself i wasn’t gonna fall for any guy any time soon but i can’t help myself. no matter how many other guys i talk to i think about him..sigh..i hope my story ends up as good as some of yours.
September 16th, 2009 at 5:39 pm
Im an Aries woman and I recently started talking again to a Libra man. I’ve talked to him for about a year now on and off. He seemed so shy in the beginning and it was hard to get him to open up so being the Aries woman i am i said forget it and moved on but i still had these feelings for him. Now we started talking again and he says he doesnt want to have that thought in his head that he hasnt tried enough and just let me get away because he see’s something real in “US”. Im so excited to see whats going to happen because i just got out of an 2 year relationship with a Cancer…it was so bad…but the Libra man makes me smile all the time and i prey that this finally works out because i love being in serious relationships and having someone thats just mines and someone to love me and enjoy my self with.
September 25th, 2009 at 1:01 am
I’m an Aries woman & was once dating a Libra man.
I did find that we had a really strong connection (which was so hard to escape from when i wanted out)
The entire relationship had plenty of up’s and down’s. Again when we were good it was awesome but when we were bad it was awful.
Maybe it was the Libra i was with but a lot of trust issues were there. For some reason there was constant jealousy .. Not sure if that’s a bad trait of Liberians?
As for eternal love. From wanting a break, two weeks later he had “Found the one”.
I say a match made in hell. I would rather prefer a stable relationship than crazy up’s and down’s.
September 26th, 2009 at 3:05 pm
I am a Libra & my bf is an Aries. I have to totally agree w/everything they say about the attraction to each other. We met over 20 yrs ago in high school and dated for about 6mos. It was the most intense feeling I ever had for a man - but it died down & we both went our separate ways. We both married someone else & then divorced. But, never forgetting the brief moment we spent together.
Flash forward - We met 20 years later online about 10mos ago. We hooked up & have been inseparable. We compliment each other so well. It took us going thru other relationships & seeing what else was out there to KNOW what we shared was special. Now we are older and realize every relationship has ups & downs. But, we love each other & are very committed & most of all willing to work thru our differences. Once you get past the libras indecisiveness and the Rams impulsiveness — the love is so rewarding.
So dont let 20yrs past b4 you realize what you have. Its a great combination!
October 5th, 2009 at 12:09 pm
I am a female libra who recently started spending time with a male aries. We actually meet nine years ago in high school, dated for a very brief period of time and lost contact after graduating. We have found each other again online and coincidentally happened to attend the same party where we saw each other and talked for a good portion of the night. We have started spending time with each other again and I have to agree with most of the comments in saying, that we have an attraction to each other that is unlike anything I have ever experienced. As soon as we get in the same room with one another we immediately start touching and it’s something that can’t be helped. We enjoy each others company and most importantly we make each other laugh. He is good for my soul and I hope that we can continue to grow together, because I am really happy. Seeing all of the positive comments help alot, it gives me hope for our future.
October 7th, 2009 at 4:11 am
ok. so here’s the deal.
i’m crazy about this guy i just met.
well. i think we just met, although, i feel i’ve known him my entire life.
like other women that have posted, i too am in a marriage that “just isn’t right”. i’m on a path to take some time off. to sort it out and figure out what “right” is for me.
so…timing could not be worse to meet who, i think, could be someone that is “just right”.
can’t get over the chemistry. connection. immediate sense of comfort. ease. match.
it doesn’t make sense. and definitely doesn’t make sense given i’m a libra and he’s an aries. rumor has it, we aren’t good mates.
but, like so many others that have shared here - i don’t buy it. i’ve never wanted someone more. never felt this connected. never longed for someone i only just met in this way.
i think…i think libras and aries are meant to be. i think those that say otherwise have it all wrong. any couple can make it work if you promise to be honest, open and committed to doing so. and, i can’t think of someone i could do that with more easily than with my aries mate.
at the end of the day - we choose how we see the world. and, i’m choosing to see it the way i feel it. i’m choosing him, aries or not.
just need a little time. here’s hoping he’ll be there on the other side of my “sorting out what right is”.
much love to you aries/libra pairs. there really are no boundaries for you - work together and celebrate your beautiful match.
October 11th, 2009 at 9:25 pm
I’m in love with a controlling, over confident, very flirty Aries man…but i cant get enough of him:)
For a quick description about us:
we are both 17 i just graduated high school and am in art school but he is still in high school.
Lately we have been going through some trust issues and Ive been feeling like this is the end since we are no longer together but i cant help but to have hope because even tho he says that we cant be together right now, he still wears the chain i gave him till this day. When i do come visit him he trys to hide his feelings like a strong Aries man would but i know he cant help but look at this goddess (lol) while reading this it sounded just like us and i love reading everyone’s comments cause it puts a smile on my face. i love him and I’m sure he still loves me… hope everything goes well for us in the future.
October 19th, 2009 at 6:38 am
oh my god, ive read pretty much everyone’s post on here, and found myself SQUEALING with joy at the fact that so many people have had success with the libra/aries pair! i typically do not necessarily believe in astrology…but there’s something about this guy that i just cannot explain, nor have i ever experienced it before!
ive dated all sorts of guys, but never an aries for some reason. then recently, i met one, just briefly, and we ended up basically hooking up after only a couple days. since then, i cant stop thinking about him, and it’s driving me nuts!
BUT! there’s complications, such as long distance and the fact that he is bad at communication. we both have our own lives, and i want to make things work/dont want to lose him, but im worried that if i seem too eager, he’ll lose interest.
HELP!!!!!
October 22nd, 2009 at 5:10 pm
my name is haider abbas m an aires, i love a girl whoz name is irene john she is libra ,we havnt met this year i want to know when i’ll be able too meet her ,,
October 25th, 2009 at 5:40 am
ladyjustice, i hear you. i can’t stand how much i think about this new aries in my life. it is crazy. seriously, i feel like a stalker. can’t get enough of him. want to talk to him every second of every day. think of him nonstop. i know he is feeling the same. i asked him outright. but, regardless of his words, i still feel like i’m more head over heels. so, here is my advice. just be honest. do what you want. make sure you never leave doubt. loving someone is an amazing experience. embrace it. no matter what form it comes in. good luck.
November 18th, 2009 at 8:47 am
God… Reading these comments made my heart flutter and remember how truly wonderful I felt.
I am an Aries woman and I fell in love with the shyest Libra male… It was long-distance, but gosh, a month went by and we were truly absolutely sure we were for each other. And it was true love. He is my soulmate for life; my guardian angel. He made me feel so secure, loved, cared for, and like I am truly special. To him. Really, he made my world, and it brings me to tears every time I think deeply about it…
…He ended it about 8 months back. The relationship, although it was truly the most beautiful thing in the world, was suffering. We couldn’t hold each other. We couldn’t touch. We couldn’t “show” our affection physically. We only knew what we looked like, how our lifestyles are, what our interests are, and how much we love to be silly, romantic, and very sweet together. I always was for him to give him advice in his greatest time of need. He truly loved me so much… But in the end, he felt like “a moron”… For standing my depressed mood for 6 months, even when there were great moments during those 6 months. I cherished every single one of his words, spoken or written. And he cherished every single one of mine, too, as he did with the gifts I made him myself, and the gifts that he gave me, I cherish truly so much. I was his first love and his first relationship, and I made him so truly happy… I remember how he smiled and how he always wanted to be with me and never leave his side…
I’ve tried “moving on” with my life. I am, and it’s “ok,” but deep inside, it’s not…
And it’s killing me inside. My heart really can’t help but truly love such a wonderful man. I know he is not perfect… But him, as a whole, as a person, good or bad, I truly love him… I just wish I could tell him I truly love him in person… But I can’t. And I can’t contact him any other way either because he told me to not do so.
I can’t help it a few times, because he was the only one I would go to when things were troubling me, when I felt sad, or when I felt alone. He was the light of my life, as I was his… It’s just horrible how this all happened within a year and a half of the most extraordinary feelings in the world, that I will never feel again. He was unique and he will always remain in my heart, forever. And I hope that his life goes well for him and he meets somebody who’ll care and love him deeply as I did, even if I’ll always hope and wish that he come back or talk to me again.
November 21st, 2009 at 11:19 am
I am Libra/Monkey, and fell in love instantly with an Aries/Dragon male. We have both shown signs of liking the other, and he was really flirting until I wrote a letter and told him how I felt. He claimed not to be interested, but did so many cute things that confirmed his interest, but also his inability to say it. He is a very sophisticated and handsome man, with creative ability and equal love for music and singing. However, I think I blow it by making the first move…double Aries personality must be the one to lead…oops! I still love him heaps though, and am tempted to demand he take me home and stop dithering. I know there isn’t anyone else, and he watches every move I make if we are out at the same place. My entire body goes into orgasmic mode at the mere mention of his name, let alone physical presence. I think it is about time he stopped denying himself the greatest happiness and loving he will ever get(:
November 22nd, 2009 at 1:23 am
I am a libra woman insanely in love with an aries man, but feel after reading these posts that I ahave pushed him away as get frustrated with waiting for him to make a move and told him how I feel. As for the Cancer element with Libra…they are the only people I have had to take to Court…they just refuse to accept responsibility for their actions. My daughter’s father is a good example(:How he can be so cold and not want to know his beautiful, talented daughter is beyond me. I prefer Aries any day!! My first Aries man is deceased, but we shared the best quality time together for the week of physical relationship in Oz, then he wrote beautiful letters and we called each other on his birthday every year until he died…he says the birthday we shared on a nudist beach was definitely the best day of his life. He tried to come to Oz but mail got delayed. I ended up with a child to he selfish Cancer, and he found a wife and had twin girls…but we always rang and his wife would talk too (he lived in Charlston and I in Aus.)
November 22nd, 2009 at 5:51 am
To BARB,
the aries/ libra is exactly how u defined it. there was a libra girl i saw in the library (i didn’t know she was libra yet) eventhough we both didn’t talk for a good month or so, we exchanged glances and totally just wanted to jump on her and i could see in her eyes she wanted to do the same. after i finally got the courage to talk to her.. personalities just turned each other off
but we are good friends now (with occassional benefits, which for libra/ aries is a +++)
November 22nd, 2009 at 5:56 am
aries man here.. i just can’t seem to be able to keep my hands out of the cookie jar (my libra) this relationship is based on amazing sex. i’ve dated all the wrong women in the past. i must admit i never realized IT could be so good.
in the past i dated aries, virgo, cancer.. and now with a libra, the best i had!!
November 26th, 2009 at 6:58 pm
I am a libra woman,and my boyfriend is an aries hes sooo intelligent!
Never demanding. Ever since i saw him i knew that there was something about
him that i couldn’t resist. He knows how to be a gentleman and never
disrespects me. Hes unlike any other male, he cares to make me happy
and doesn’t ask for any sexual action. So i found my aries love(: i love what
this website says.
December 14th, 2009 at 2:44 am
Me and my man woke up this morning and read this in bed. I am a libra and hes an arie it made us smile cuz we found it to be very accurate….
thank you,
heather & zulu
December 15th, 2009 at 9:56 pm
Im a Libra and the love of my life is an Aries.We are so perfect together,that sometimes Im affraid is just a dream!He is demanding but just when I cant decide.He’s supporting me in everything, but hates when I dont finish my job!Anyway I know he is the ONE and until today I read a lot on the internet that we dont have a chance, but we almost have 2 years,and we are living together!Its just amazing!I hope we will be like this forever!PS:We are the double D.Danny and Denny!:)
December 19th, 2009 at 5:48 pm
I’m an Aries girl (age 17) and this Libra boy (age 17) has been pestering me non-stop since we were both 12. He’s always trying to impress me in some type of way but I don’t like him that much because he seems kinda…..loose? like, he seems like an air-head at times and us Aries don’t like ligh-hearted people who seem to be carefree and upbeat all the time. they seem fake and we need depth.
anyways , this Libra boy always comes to me whenever he has a problem for some reason and i’m always listening to his crying and bailing him out of trouble. i dunno why i do it. probably because i have a soft spot for him. he’s so impressionable and vulnerable and i feel like somebody needs to protect him or something…but that doesn’t mean i like him (in a romantic way) because i don’t.
and what’s even more bizarre, he has jokingly asked me to marry him when we turn 18…..
which of course will not happen.
December 20th, 2009 at 4:02 pm
My bf for 3 years is a libra im a aries i love him too the moon i would do anything
for him me n his brother have] the same b-day…. i love u uno….my babyboy..
December 23rd, 2009 at 2:03 am
I’M A LIBRA WOMEN AND I’M CURRENTLY DATING AN ARIES WOMEN…THIS IS TRUE BUT AT THE SAME TIME IT SEEMS WE CLASH SO MUCH THAT THINGS WILL NEVER BE RIGHT. WE HAVE GREAT TIMES. SHE’S HERSELF AROUND ME AND I AM MINE AROUND HER BUT IT’S THOSE TIMES THAT SHE GETS IRRITATED AND WANT TO PUT HER BUTT ON HER SHOULDERS OR GET DEMANDING. SOMETIMES I FEEL I’M THE ONLY ONE TRYING. THEN AGAIN IT’S THOSE DAYS THAT SHE DOES TRY. I DON’T KNOW WE’RE UP AND DOWN…I DO ADMIT LIBRA LESBIANS DO HAVE THERE FLAWS BECAUSE I DO BUT I FEEL WHEN T ALL BOILS DOWN LIBRA MAN OR WOMEN WILL ALWAYS BE WILLING TO FIGHT FOR THEIR RELATIONSHIP OR ANYTHING THEY LOVE FOR THAT MATTER… EVEN THOUGH ARIES WOMEN CAN BE A HANDFUL THEY’RE JUST SO HARD TO WALK AWAY FROM. I LOVE MY BABES THOUGH LOL
January 12th, 2010 at 9:05 am
Dear friends,. I am an Aries woman and been involved with Libra men twice. Libras r unforgettable as Aries r too.
I really enjoy the company of a Libra as they tend to comfort an Aries at all times,. Making the Aries feel relaxed and comforted by the Libra man. U can’t get enough and when there gone, u definately think of them on a daily basis,
probably till u crack and the Aries will give in. I’ve been on and off with this Libra man, and were currently seperated, as
I feel, for our own well being, since Aries woman will not let a Libra man bark at them. I’m really sure one day we will
connect again,. Since we live so damn close/ neighbors,. It’s hard to move on people!!! As I have always said: I Love Libras so he won’t be the last Libra In my life:) 2010
February 5th, 2010 at 6:49 am
I have to say that my love and I are an amazing pair. I’m an aries male and she is an amazingly sexy libra. We “met” at a party where we both had a bunch of mutual “friends” in attendance. By met I mean I asked her if she was alright to which she replied yea, why? with an attitude, to which I said well I haven’t seen you smile all night, to which she replied yea I’m just tired. So that was one of the most awkward moment I’ve ever had with a woman. By “friends” I mean people who are now talking a bunch of sh*t to my girl about me and how she is crazy for being with me. Anyways…fast forward to the night before new years in Miami at a house party where a bunch of us were partying after checking out the band Phish. We instantly hit it off after the awkward meeting a couple weeks before and couldn’t run out of things to talk about. I decided to kiss her neck to which she didn’t mind and then i kissed her cheek and before I knew it we were having the most wild and passionate sex I think we’ve both ever had! Needless to say we weren’t done with eachother and we got a room for new years eve and went at it till the sun came up! She recently came and visited me in North FL and we had a blast and decided we didn’t want to see anyone else. We have confessed our love for eachother and I can’t think of any other woman but her. She is just so hot and natural and loves things that really matter in life like good music, food and nature. We can’t help but turn eachother on everytime we speek or see eachother and I can’t stop touching her! I feel like I want to marry her and we’ve only known eachother for a month! I don’t what astrology has to do with all this but we are perfect for eachother and I’m excited to see where our relationship takes us.
February 11th, 2010 at 4:31 am
I saw this one girl at school…. shes realllllllllllly attractive not gonna lie. I’m a libra guy and shes an aries.. I barely know her but there’s something about her I want sooo bad. I think its a physical lust type of thingie but it’s really intense… Weird thing is I for the past 2 years I had a little thing with 3 aries girls. I like them at one point and then it’s like I forget about them the next week. We texted like non-stop 24/7 for a week straight and I just began to text them 1 word stuff cause I don’t want to text anymore it’s really weird…
February 15th, 2010 at 2:56 pm
I am in love with my aries boyfriend im a libra and it’s funny cuz we started out as friends and when we were friends he was dating my best friend and some how we got closer and then he left in may and i didn’t reslly feel sad cuz u know we weren’t that close but there was this glimmer of something .when i met him for the first time i immediately felt so comfortable and usually i’m naturally very shy . any ways some how he got my number last summer and he called me like every day and i was like so excited everytime he called we would be on the phone till my fully charged phone battery died and then he came back in september and he called me and he was like i’ll be there in 30 minutes and when he came back i literally jumped on him . i love him so much it isnt even funny we might have our little disputes and what not but he is my life i’ve never been this happy . but i did not understand these feelings back then so when he told me that he was leaving in october i threw this big emotional scene and he was like woman why are you cying!? and i was like cuz i love you!and then i went home and locked myself in my room and i cryed myself to sleep. i did this like 3 times for the rest of the day. i didn’t understand why i was feeling this way about my best friend it wasn’t natural friends don’t react that way i have had frends that left before but i never reacted the way i did with him. well he stuck around and we used to share our personal journals together and he gave his to me and i was reading it to myself on the bus and on the page of his random thoughts it said i’m in love with my best friendand he was saying how he loved me more than friends and the reason why he denied it before was becuz he was afraid that he would lose me. he didn’t want to fuk up our bond together . if you are in love with these men or anybody else it doesnt have to be an aries man just give into it fighting it is stupid
March 13th, 2010 at 7:07 pm
I’m 100% Libra and I found my love in an Aries. However, her impulsiveness caused her to prematurely end the relationship. We hardly ever fought and one day, she came home and told me it was over. Like this says, the good times are great and the bad times seem like the end. There will not be another Aries in my life!
March 24th, 2010 at 5:34 pm
I just recently started dating a Libra man and I am an aires women Valentines day is when he asked for my phone number in fact. I have never felt more natural with any of my dates more then I have him. It should be said that I am 40 the end of this month and I have had a fair share of dates Everything we do seems to be so harmonious and natural I am truly enamoured with him. I never felt so comfortable with a man so fast.
April 20th, 2010 at 1:51 pm
I am an aries girl and I love a Libra man. He knows I like him. He is totally the love of my life.
April 25th, 2010 at 2:52 am
Ok…do all Libra men rush things? Its weird becuz I (Aries woman) have such a connection with this (Libra) man. We met online over a year ago. Our conversations were a little intense, especially since neither one of us ventured beyond texting and email at first. Then about three months ago we began phone conversations…WOW. He immediately began talking about being together forever…but we live 1500 miles apart. My feelings are strong for him but I am scared to venture forth and say I love him, mainly becuz I don’t want to get hurt. He is in the process of a divorce after having been separated for several years. I know there is a lot of emotion still attached to that relationship. I just want to make sure that the anger he feels isn’t masking love. He assures me that it isn’t but I frustrate him with my reluctance to just fall in (even though emotionally I already have).
I explained to him about hurts I experienced in major relationships, including my former marriage. One relationship in particular happened with my first love who was a Libra man that I dated all through high school, up til I turned 21. We broke up for a year when I was 19 and he was 22 because he lied to me about something so inconsequential it was ridiculous. We Aries cannot abide liars. He was insecure and felt telling me something that he thought would boost himself in my eyes would keep me from leaving him. Anyway after a year apart (and me missing him incredibly) we ran into each other and knew we still loved each other. We planned to marry that following year. But it was never to be. He lied about an ex-girlfriend who had become pregnant. That ended it totally for me. But I was devastated for a long time.
Fast forward to now. Because of the major loves that I had that all turned out badly, I protect my heart immensely. I found myself relaxing all my rules with the Libra man and it astounds me. It scares me! He wants to rush things because he says he is sure and get so impatient with me. He wants to me declare we will be together forever! Now here is the twist. His birthday is the exact same day of my first love!
I haven’t told him the birthday twist but he knows about the relationship, how it ended and how badly I was hurt. It tends to make me crazy when i don’t hear from him. I know I have trust issues. We have made plans for me to come out to visit him for a week next month. I have never, ever been one to worry when I don’t hear from a partner. I’m very laid back and what happens, happens but this man shakes me to my very core. In addition, as a typical Aries i am very impatient.
What I haven’t seen on here is can Libra men be faithful? Is it in their DNA to not be physically faithful to one person?
May 7th, 2010 at 9:13 pm
im a libra and when i first met my aries guy there was a really strong connection between us. we never really talk that much because we hang around in different circles but when we do talk its really nice and we can talk for hours without even knowing. but were just friends.
August 10th, 2010 at 4:10 pm
I am Libra female and 9 years older than my Aries man. Been knowing him for years, but just started dating in November, 2009. He is so precious and our relationship is so wonderful it is really scary because it just came out of nowhere. He was coming out of a bad marriage and has since been legally separated and now waiting for the final divorce in a few days. Been trying to take it slow, but our love for each other just escalated every day and continues. Our intimacy is so perfect. I’ve been divorced for 12 years. At first I was hesitant because he was so much younger than I am. I’m 61, he is 53, but it didn’t bother him, so after a while I got used to it. This description of the Aries male and Libra Female is right on point with us. I still can’t believe we have come this far. We share, we talk every day and late at night. He keeps me on the phone while he’s shopping, puts me on three-way just to listen to other conversations. I can hardly believe this man is real. Wow, I feel so blessed, I try to do all I can to make him happy. And yes, not bragging but I am glamerous and curvacious, and someone he wants to show off just like the description says, so it’s right on point.
August 17th, 2010 at 4:01 pm
Wow I read through all 5 pages of this. All I have to say is wow. Im a Libra woman who has recently allowed a Aries male to enter into my life. All I can say is its interesting. I have casually dated other Aries, but they always tend to do something to turn me off, (i.e. their egos being to overpowering)over the past 5-6 years I have been entralled with Leos. But anywho, I initially met this guy 8 months ago at an poetry slam, and he caught my eye immediately, I don’t know what it was but I was like, wow he is too damn cute for words, so of coursse Im staring at him most of the night, then eventually I get up and leave and he cuts off my brother to walk me to my car. So he walks me to my car, and we chit chat for a bit, but my senses tell me, he is peoccupied with alot but I still take his number but It doesn’t go anywhere past an occasional text message or two.
I end up meeting and dating a Sagitarius for a stint that ends in July, so Im on FB and the Aries guy hits me up, and we start talking again, we see each other again for the first time since the poetry set, and I am amazed on how connected we are. I can talk to him about anything, the main thing we discussed, despite the obvious physical attraction, we are working on developing a friendship more than anything, so no we have not slept which each other …….yet we have shared a bed and he has spent the night, but there was no sex involved. I genuinely enjoy his presence around me. He makes me smile when we speak, and I have never felt that way around anyone in a very long tume. We are always having these profound discussions about life and relationships, and we can talk for hours, and when we are in person its so natural. We both are like we are not looking for a relationship but it seems like we are steadily developing it into one. Lets see how this goes.
October 21st, 2010 at 2:49 pm
I dated a libra male for 4yrs n then we g0t married we been married for b0ut a yr now n we a so happily in love. we have our bad fights like every couple I would say but when we ar 0k n happy everythin seems to be perfect. he’s so patient w me otherwise we probly wouldn’t be 2gether I just can’t keep myself away from him n he says I want sex too much but hes just amazin n I love him so very much I hope this lasts forever
January 18th, 2011 at 12:08 am
I’m a 29 year old aries woman that’s falling hard for a 22 year old libra man,when i’m with him it’s a beautiful feeling i have been seeing him for 5 months now i know some people would say how could you fall so fast for a person with in only 5 months,It’s like this when we are together we become one we can not stay away from each other that long i feel like a teenager again when i’m with him, i love everything about him and when we are up under another i feel like he is my soulmate it’s a beautiful feeling. We had our first kiss and we made love and OMG????? that kiss was off the charts our souls connected as one it was so good, and we can’t stay apart he gets jealous but in a cute way when he think another man is flirting with me, he don’t want to share me with no one else and i feel the same way about him he’s all mine and i’m all he’s. I love the talks we have the laughs we share and the fun we have is pretty good,we have so much in common and i love every minute of it i love the way he make me feel, I love the fact that we are both smart beautiful people that no what we want and that’s each other?????
January 19th, 2011 at 3:40 am
HURRAY! I read all the aries/libras relationship and I’m excited it that it can actually work. I’ve mostly read we are bad for each other because we are opposite signs and it’ll never work in the end blah blah blah. I’ve recently dated this Aries man, and the end of this month it’ll make our 3rd month that we’ve been dating. And ooohweee, do we have our ups and downs. You guys are right that when its good its amazing, but when its bad it’s horrible and you feel like giving up. But I’m glad I didn’t, it is true that theyre short-tempered and controlling but atleast theyre romantic and loyal. Me and my aries man are long distance and we are gonna meet over the summer which I just can’t wait to do! I know he hasn’t cheated on me and I never cheated on him either thats what I absouluty value in him, sometimes its hard to find a man who won’t cheat on you yanno? But anyways, yeah this site and peoples comments gave me great confidence in my relationship I’m now so excited/happy that there is hope in opposite signs living a happily ever after. Wahoooo!
February 5th, 2011 at 6:52 am
OMG! this is so true,. i knew that nobody in this world is perfect so i understand everytime we fight with my boyfriend, i’m an arian woman and my man is librian sometimes i wanna give up because he is so jealous but i dont know why i can’t cause im so fuckin inlove with him and understand him, i think i spoil him a lot cause i almost give my all if i love the person and i am so thankful that i found him. Anyways thanks a lot for boosting me..!
love him always!!
HANAKU..
April 1st, 2011 at 7:37 pm
I am a female aries and unconciously fell in love with a male libra. I honestly didnt even want to talk to him at all in the beginning. When i finally decided to give him a chance, our first date was honestly the best date i ever had. from then i became sprung. Just as everyone else said it was simply perfect in the beginning. So perfect it scared me. I just wanted it to last forever. Not that its completely over but we havnt had a serious argument yet and its been six months now, but we do debate a lot and still have a lot of laughs at the same time. He’s the one always talking about how much he likes me, very affectionate, and relationships. So last week i asked him a question in a humerous way, although i was serious, “R u ever gonna ask me to be your lady?” and he responded “jusu take it slow and feel the vibe.” and i reponded “ok.” the problem is he hasnt called me in a week. whereas we usually see each other three times a week. i miss him so much knowing that i must be in love. Im afraid i pushed him away with my question. Any advice on my situation?
August 18th, 2011 at 8:20 am
I am an aries male. So, where are you Libras hiding? Catch me if you can. Prr prr.
September 5th, 2011 at 3:59 pm
Libra love Here. Ok Aries Males. You guys are so freaking Hot! Competitive! And Irresitable to me. I am in Love with may Aries man of 13 years. I found out/caught him with another girl. He coward up and haven’t spoke to me about it. 13 yrs and no respect to talk to me and say hi or even sorry. I loved that man effortlessly. Aries! Why did he do this to me? By the way he is still with her. But, I love his still. I support him in all of his decissions. But now. I have another Aries man. Yummy to the teeth and my heart. He adores me and cant keep his hands off of me. I love it. I give it back to him. However, the cheater is now alone and I am in a relationship that i will not let go for him. But, I miss him still. He saw me with him and I seen it in his face that he was hurt that I was with another guy. Where he uses to be all talk he is now all action. But I miss him still. He hurt me like no other. Even his friend try to holla at me. But I will not disrespect him like that. Never. I moved on with my life but not my Heart! Damn I love Aries men. This man “The Cheater” i will never stop loving.
December 12th, 2011 at 7:43 pm
Libra female here that just got involved with an Aries male a few weeks ago. He’s 7 years older than me.
We knew each other about 7 years ago, our groups of friends used to party together, we kinda hooked up (the chemistry between us was INTENSE, and there’s just something going on when we catch each other’s eyes) and messed around (no sex, but close). Then our groups of friends grew apart and we lost contact. I’ve then been in my share of relationships but sometimes, my mind would randomly have flashbacks of memories of us together and I would wonder about him. Couldn’t seem to get him off my mind for some reason.
Current day, I just broke up (with another Arian), and contacted him to see how he was doing. Met up, had a nice dinner, a long stroll, and suddenly he held my hand and we strolled the rest of the way. We partied that night after the stroll, and ended up at his place, and with his initiative side of an Arian, he kissed me. The tension then exploded between us from there and we had a night of mind-blowing sex that seems like it has been waiting forever.
It felt so right and complete that I don’t feel that there’re good enough words to describe how perfect it was. The tension that has been there since 7 years ago, till now, has finally matured together with our age, and I notice it is true that when I read other people on this forums say, when Arians and Librans split and date other people, they eventually find their way back to one another after learning more about themselves and also about what they need in a relationship. It feels like both of us are finally able to settle down with one another. There seems to be an unspoken mutual feeling and understanding about what we both want from the other party. It also feels like 7 years of being apart was for both of us to grow up, and now we’re more able to finish the ‘unfinished business’ we brewed up before.
I notice there’re a number of people here who seem to have the same situation with me, where the Libran and the Arian hook up, split, and find their way back eventually, get married, and live happily ever after. I have this strong feeling about him as well, and it’s amazing because I never felt this way with my other partners. It’s so weird… But I’m happy.
Thank you for taking the time to read this!
Jenette