Aries Compatibility With Capricorn |
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Aries and Capricorn
The Aries and Capricorn are very different people. They can be looking at the same thing yet see something totally different. However, they are both cardinal signs so there will be a lots of ideas jumping around between them. Aries and Capricorn will be full of ambition together, having lots of things they plan on doing and schemes they want to get going, and if the Capricorn is able to look after the purse strings then that side of things could be not so bad. Of course, that is really where anything positive ends i'm afraid. They are separately very competitive people, bring them together and their love life may become a battle ground. The Capricorn likes everything in order. Likes to know how much money is in the bank and lives life by the book. Aries on the other hand, dosen't. Maybe this union could be saved if the time spent in the bedroom becomes dramatically longer!! Both the Aries and the Capricorn are very sexy signs and may be able to ignite one another to such a temperature that maybe all the other things may not matter. Still, I don't think this could ever be more than a nice affair, but don't bother rushing out to buy any wedding presents!!
Combined Astrology - The Aries Rat
Last 5 posts in Aries, Capricorn, Compatibility
- Fire & Fire or Fire & Air? - May 5th, 2010
- Life of the Aries Man - December 30th, 2009
- Aries Rat - August 5th, 2009
- Do all Capricorns play practical jokes? - May 25th, 2009
- Compatibility For Capricorn and Capricorn - March 9th, 2009
August 29th, 2008 at 1:48 pm
I KNOW A VERY PRETTY AND SMART ARIAN WHO IS REALLY VERY HOTHEADED.. HOW CAN I MAKE HER LIKE ME? IM A CAPRICORN….
September 20th, 2008 at 10:06 am
My boyfriend (Aries) and I (Capricorn) have been together for almost 4 years and haven’t had a problem. Luck that we get along?
September 30th, 2008 at 6:52 pm
I’m a Capricorn girl who’s in love w/Aries male. I like him very much, cause he is warm, generous w/his time and everything, but we fight over small things and can’t seem get anywhere. He is hard to control and it’s driving me crazy. He said that he loves me and he wanted me to be his girlfriend. The next day it’s a different story. Please can someone explain to me if therelationship between Aries and Caps work at all. Do they change their meind daily? As for Caps if I know this is the person I love and trust that will be final. No turning feelings on & off when it comes to love.
September 30th, 2008 at 11:32 pm
Aries are impulsive and they lie a lot
November 9th, 2008 at 5:21 am
There’s no post on compatibility of Scorpio with Capricorn.
November 9th, 2008 at 9:46 am
Hi there Keneke,
I am working on it I promise!! Haven’t finished the site yet. Stick with me though!!
Love & Light
Becky
November 14th, 2008 at 2:07 am
I’m a Capricorn girl currently dating Arien male.I’m not sure if I want to continue this relationship with him. He has done so many nasty things to me. He hurt me so bad.
As a Cap girl I just want to know if anyone had such an unpleasant experience with Ariens.
If so,why? I never dated Arien before.
December 14th, 2008 at 1:49 am
I’m currently dating an aries man but I’m a little catious of our relationship. When I read the compatibility match on the aries man && capricorn woman it doesn’t look too good. Should I let my guard down && give it a shot at love? [In need of some advice!]
December 24th, 2008 at 7:16 pm
I am a cappy girl currently dating an aries male.
He drives me mad sometimes because he is acting like a baby, but he is the one who melt my icy exterior, being so patient and warm to me.
I really try to understand him because it is a crazy passion between us.
It is the only relationship in which Aries gives up its egoism and give his best to his Capricorn.
See Holly and Hugh Hefner or Natty and Jean Paul Belmondo. Wonderful love affairs!
I am cautious about this relationship, but I try to enjoy it as much as possible.
January 11th, 2009 at 2:12 am
Lovely astrology merged concept and website. I am a lesbian Aries woman who recently had a brief HOT affair with a Capricorn woman. Her initial interest and attention to me was so spot on and touched me deeply, and she verbalized a similar feeling. i thought we had a lot in common, a love of Shakespeare’s sonnets for example. She has stopped returning my calls. Seems to like to keep me at arms length. I may hav frightened her? the last few times i spoke with her she assured me we were still friends, but she has been deeply depressed and not connecting with anybody. But I found out that she has actually been dating casually during the time in question. VERY CONFUSING THAT SHE JUST DOESNT TELL ME SHE IS NOT INTERESTED. Guess I should give up. But it is so opposite what she said when we were going out!
January 17th, 2009 at 8:19 pm
Hi,
I’m a cappy woman with gemini rising and I really like this aries guy. I read a lot on the web that two signs are not good match for each other, but I really dont feel like whats written on the web about the incompatibility. I am willing to give him the lead etc..he is definitely worth it. I wouldnt do it for anybody but he .. he is so superior. And I find him very handsome, too.
Becky, could youe please advise me? I would love to make this work. I want him to want me as much as I want him. Can you teach me?
Also, readers please do let me know of your opinions.
Thank you all. Love…
January 23rd, 2009 at 9:30 pm
As a Capricorn woman, I thought I knew all about myself. I didn’t. And I didn’t learn. I have dated several Aries men (I am obviously a slow learner) and it has never worked out. I married an Aries man. It didn’t work out. {Reading others’ comments on this page takes me back in time for sure!}
Now, I am engaged to an Aries man. What is wrong with me?!?! Why are they attracted to me and me to them? They are sweet-talking, heart-breaking lying dogs. (bad liars to boot-not even good at it!)
The problem is, I love him more than anyone ever. When he’s good he’s very very good and when he’s bad he’s even better.
Please help!! Any advice would be appreciated.
January 27th, 2009 at 6:11 am
Im an Capricorn girl and was dating with Aries guy.I love him and want to be with him.But, i really cant understand and predict his mood. He told me he had feeling for me, wanted to know me further and on the same day,he did say sorry that he still had feeling for his exgirl friend and he would prefer to stay as friends for now. Is it true that there are no future for Cap and Aries?
February 9th, 2009 at 5:13 pm
Firey Aries female here…… One thing about Aries, male and female, is that you have to have their respect. We are fiercly loyal people, mostly to our own detriment, and it becomes our undoing. But one of the most beautiful thing about us is that we bounce right back up from our downfall and head straight into our next brick wall with all the passion, heart, soul, and what makes us us.
Yes, we are impulsive. Yes, we are hotheaded. Yes, we are stubborn, opinionated, argumentive, and everything else underneath the sun, but when times are tough, or if you are having a bad time in your life, you have to look no further than right next to you. We are warriors who probably would have an easier life if we just listen every now and then, but who is anyone else to TELL us that. Now, showing us is something else………
Caps are very stubborn people too, who I like to consider the sibling to Aries. Very similar in many ways, except caps aren’t as intense and are more in control. The two signs can learn alot from each other if they allow it.
With Aries, what you see is what you get. When we are angry, happy, sad, rowdy, horny, loving…. you’ll see it. What you will never see are tears. If you see Arian tears, you are seeing something very out of the ordinary. Don’t make the mistake of taking it as a sign of weakness, because the very opposite is true. Our emotions run high, but just like a scorpio, our true emotions run still and deep.
March 17th, 2009 at 12:55 am
in my point of view aries women and capricorn are compromising realrionship,cause capricorn men always wants to earn money.he is not so sexy,he always thinks other stuff while having sex.he always condems a women for having sex with her.this is ridiculous
April 11th, 2009 at 4:08 pm
Hi, Becky! Great stuff yours! And please advise if possible regarding Chinese astrology. A person born January of the year 1964 is actually a hare not a dragon because of the Feb date of Chinese New Year. Correct? or not? Or is it a cusp situation where the qualities of both hare and dragon will be found in that person?
April 11th, 2009 at 8:20 pm
Okay. I am an Aries woman. I admit that I am hot headed but I am a passionate lover. Currently, I’m considering a Capricorn guy to be a new date. Unfortunately, I don’t trust guys easily. I’m debating with myself whether I should accept him. I have a Capricorn and a Pisces sister. I do get along with my Capri sister.. She’s like you said, always in schedule and etc.. I do learn a lot of things from her.. but I’m not sure about this Capri guy.. Even though we went to the same highschool and he was really in love with me back then.. And after 10 years of separation, we met again. From what I know, Capri girls and boys can be.. very flirtatious.
Am I wrong?
April 14th, 2009 at 6:14 pm
Capricorn girl here with Aries guy. Been together almost two years and I love him dearly! Not gonna lie he is hard headed, lied about some things in the very first couple months, but its working now. Everything in the description is true. He’s clueless about our money and is a big dreamer. I love him for it. He keeps me more spontaneous. It can work I swear, I’ve never been happier.
April 15th, 2009 at 11:24 pm
capricorn lady her; my aries and i fight alll the time and every time i try and end our relationship he says no i love you i wann be with you but the next day its a diffrent story,i love him so much he said im gonna be his wife.his words never add up with his actions;;;he did lie to me when we first got together but i ended up lowering him in to telling me the truth [he says it took so long because he dint know how to tell me]?
-he also tends to tell me rude things -on the slick
April 25th, 2009 at 8:38 am
I am a Capricorn man with an interesting Aries lady in my mind. First of all, I feel that I am the man in the relationship. This is also about making a woman feel like one in terms of gentle conduct. Capricorn’s feel in a way like they are part of the foundation of everything and as such they need to provide foundations also for the others close to them, so everything is built to last. This is not just material stuff I can tell you that right away. I think that people often make the mistake of defining Capricorn (men) as frigid and distant and work oriented, but this is just an “investigation” or internal dialog stage where a Capricorn puts a lot of effort in order to figure out weather he and the partner are going to be part of the “foundations”. In a way it is a kind of a paradox, because Capricorn can easily provide the material security, but he is very very careful on opening his heart and the deep passion that can move worlds and universes. Since Capricorn is down to earth person, it is the simple and genuine things in terms of behavior and loyalty that gives him the security to show the other side…
I am definitely looking for the collision of passions between Capricorn and Aries.
May 13th, 2009 at 11:55 pm
im a cap girl n to tell u the truth im cheating on my boyfriend(sagitarius) with an aries guy who is like amazing..
like the feelings i have are so intense and deep for him.
i don’t love him though…
we are friends, i actually care about him and the sex is legendary LOL. he’s told me he cares about me too and i love the way he expresses his feelings even if they may not always be the ones that deep inside i want to hear. im so attracted to him and he always leaves me wanting MORE. its like a drug… i jus cant get enough of him. this is probably the first time as a cap i jus let go of control and im jus riding on something which i have no idea where it’ll end up. and i am loving the feeling - yes it scares me because i know i have no control over this relationship or the feelings that may try sink their way into me.. but i am so happy wen we’re together and i can accept that this may not last long.
Deep inside i feel that this can work but it will be a very DRAMATIC and LONG time b4 tht ever happens. i feel like i need to build some (like proximus said)-foundations… for example having this go on for a long time or.. remaining friends for ages.. until we feel and finally accept that me and him together feels SO RIGHT! even if what we are doing…is totally wrong…
well.. this is my first expeirience with an aries guy. its deff one of a kind
May 15th, 2009 at 5:02 am
Aries Man here dating Capp Woman…. This is my first Cappy and I’ve been reading a lot of negitive stuff but I beg to differ! I’ve never clicked with someone so quick and soo good! It’s new and I know things can change but when we spend time together it feels so right and she makes me feel the way I want to feel! Aries men CAN be hard to deal with. Upfront we want a girl who is aggressive in the bedroom, it doesn’t have to be aggressive but instigate things/take a little dominate role… this alone will light his fire. As for relationships…. I like a woman who can’t keep her hands off me… though I play it off as it don’t mean much to me it REALLY does! We need attention/love… Unfortunaltly we want our cake and eat it too! What would be fair for me wouldn’t be fair to you! It sucks I know and we know that but for some of us allowing signs of this will IGNITE a aries man to do practially all the things you need in the relationship. I’ve cheated before and I only did that because like the “reading” says…. if the fire goes out… he’ll ignite it somewhere else. Sorry ladies but sex once every two weeks or once a month or worse wont cut it for an aries man! I like to express love through sex more than what you would expect. But we are WAY more loving also… we can make you feel soo good about the relationship and it will ALL be real! Its because when we’re happy you’ll see it. Thats why the “next day he changes his mind” comments you all made come into play. A fight prolly sparked it and he got annoyed because he wants love/caring more than an avg. couple would have. I hope that helps you ladies understand a little where at least one aries man is coming from… lol.
May 21st, 2009 at 12:47 am
I’m falling for an older aries man. We’ve been dating for 7 mos. now and we get along great. Have not had one argument. We have a strong physical connection that’s just truly amazing. When we 1st met I thought he was pushy but charming so I decided to go out on a few dates with him to get to know him better and he was such a gentleman & very sweet. Then once we discovered we had undeniable hot chemistry, it’s been on and poppin’ ever since! But the thing that concerns me about him is the fact that he lied in the beginning…he says he told me half truths about himself, he said he was divorced in the beginning but 4 mos. later admitted to me that he’s still married but says they filed for divorce. We still are not in a committed relationship yet, we’ve decided to take it slow. He’s expressed that he does care about me a lot & that I’m special to him. Says he does’t want the friendship to end & is interested in allowing to grow. He seems sincere… When we are together he’s so sweet to me and he doesn’t mind helping me with stuff around the house like, hanging pictures, curtains and even fixed my computer for me. But the compatibility horoscopes do not favor our union. So I’m a little apprehensive… don’t know much about Aries men…. someone help!
July 7th, 2009 at 5:02 pm
I met a 29 year old Aries male, and I swear it was love at first sight. I’m Capricorn, and within hours of meeting we were sitting watchin films together. He is so sexy, strong and atheletic. He has beautiful features and oozes man. So masculine, physically strong and male. It’s hot.
He offered the most sensual sexual massage, he knew exactly how to hit the right spots. I didn’t have to say a word.
He opened up a little, and he chooses his partners carefully. With that I felt special.
Incredibly, he switched off quite suddenly, allowing me to breath because I had come out of a relationship with a 3 year partner. 4 weeks on, now knowing i’m not on some rebound, we have had the most passionate explosive sex of my entire life. I’ve never felt like this with any man, he takes charge and it rocks.
I love it when he penetrates my mouth, he thrusts hard and i’ve never wanted to do that with men because it’s rank, but because i’m so horny - I want him all… and I don’t gag… it’s hot.. so hot. I think about it wayyy too much it’s consumed me at times these last few weeks…
He isn’t afraid to try new things, and while he is aggressive and rough in the bedroom, it’s so so hot, he then can also be soft, caring and sensual. Touching parts of my body, my neck and back no other man ever has, grabbing my hair. Tugging my hair, but later stroking and brushing me sweetly.. and it turns me on so much, i’m left wanting more and more.
I’ve never felt like a nympho before… and we joked about it, I just can’t stop thinking about him it drives me wild.
Other than the sex, we get on great too. We laugh… we enjoy the same ideals in life, I love to cook for him and he loves food. He expects a woman to be a woman and a man to be a man, and I love it. I feel feminine.
I’ve had to deal with a cold shoulder and stroppyness - espicially when i’ve challenged him, he loves a good debate but he hates having his opinion put down… but give him his space after it, and he see’s im indepandant and he likes that. I can tell he doesn’t want some clingy soppy relationship. He is strong, and expects me to be strong too. He also expects me to shush and bite my lip and probably for the first time in my life for a man, I want to, because I respect him.
He has spoken about past relationships, and I know when it’s not hot in the bedroom for him, he has wandered, so I imagine this man express’s love and affection through sex.
I didn’t really understand that or like it at first, it’s a bit confusing being traditional capricorn, but thats the way his mind works so be it…
He is also competitive. I love it.
He also loves to take charge, and he loves me submitting to him. I would bow down to this man for the rest of my life, because I know there won’t be another one like him ever.
I just know I need to keep him on his toes. Play games (not head games) and keep his attention… also give him his space. I can imagine otherwise he will get bored or feel claustrophobic.
Capricorns and Aries don’t work? Hell i’m going to try to please this guy for the rest of my life, and i’ve never wanted to do that before - why? Because he makes me feel amazing…..
Truely amazing.
July 23rd, 2009 at 3:56 pm
I know aries guy for over a year and feel very confused what it comes to our friendship ,he was very attentive to me ,hot and very tactfull,I feel we have lots in common,but I found out one day that he was lying to me brutally and i want to bin him ,but i still like him lots,he invited me to go out and when i said i was busy that day , i saw him with another girl in the evening that was shocking ,i guess he is a phoney!!!
after some days i met him in the street and did not talk to him walked by ,so there was silence between us for 2 months ,yeasterday he appeared again looking for me .I dont believe in him ,why is he still looking for me? i did not reply to him ,want to keep him tense and really feel angry .Why to lie??? if he dates somebody else go away and disappear from my life and he comes back again!! confused.What does he need from me??? please explain i feel lost
July 24th, 2009 at 11:43 am
I know aries guy for 2 years but cannot understand him totally as he is so unpredictable , I can only say that aries men like to be independent and free they are so hhard to tie up ,god knows what he wants as the relationship is so rocky and unstable ,
I cannot trust him now as aries are great liars!!!!I am sagitarius and weget on ok but still I feel big mystery in our relationship ,
who can tell me who the hell they are really???
July 26th, 2009 at 1:11 pm
I’m a Capricorn female dating an Aries Male. We’ve been going out for nearly 8 months and we’ve never had a fight (sure we argue when it comes to anime and such but that doesn’t really count because it’s a discussion, not a fight). For some reason I can read his thoughts and moods easily but he has a hard time reading me. But then again, This relationship might work because according to most sights, Capricorns don’t really love adventure, while I; on the other hand, and an adventure maniac!! This might help give me leway to an Aries’ sparatic nature (and i will admit, my boyfriend tends to splurge when it comes to spending money which kind of annoys me, but I’m okay with it…as long as he doesn’t touch any of my own money that is, which i’m pretty sure he would never do that) X3
August 4th, 2009 at 11:52 pm
i love my aries and thats that!!!!!! he’s the most honest, loving, silly, awesome, koolest cat in the world~! i’d do anything for him! hehe!!
September 1st, 2009 at 11:02 pm
Aries girl falling for a capricorn guy, crazy thing is, i dont open my heart or world easily, i turn off emotions so i dont have to deal with the vulnerability of it all, but i can say, ive only recently met him and hes the first guy to have me thrown off my usual routine, hes veryyyy business orientated which i love cause i believe i need freedom to achieve my goals and all i have to do is mention the lack of attention or feeling neglected and he runs to make it better, or other times hes so consumed it tells me hell make it up to me, its fairly new but we will see, opposite or not, hes breath of fresh air and i intend on staying here until its time to move…
September 13th, 2009 at 10:00 am
i just met this capricorn guy that i never want to leave my life like…i feel like everything i’ve been thru in the past with guys has lead me to him and its the down to earthness about him that makes me feel comfortable and i know he’s busy with his bizness and we just met but i want to talk to him or text him all the time and he just makes me feel like he cud be the one…so to read and find out that aries and capricorn don’t last or don’t really fit with each other makes me wonder…and ive never dated a capricorn b4 so i don’t know what they’re like but i hear a capricorn man is a good man to hold onto…im trying to not jump the gun cuz i don’t wanna be hurt but i still wanna give my heart. he touches me so tenderly but more than just on a physical level. im willin to give it a try and put in the work for this one cuz i think he’s God’s gift to me…
September 27th, 2009 at 4:54 am
Well I am an Aries girl and I have to say we are really impulsive and have so many ideas and things we wanna do. But we are loyal to those who we love, like puppies. I think Aries guys are different than girls a little, they’re a little more like Sagittarius guys but way more faithful. We also can get really selfish and even after you say “it’s over” we can’t let got for a long time because we still have feelings and want you to feel the same way. If you want to grab any kind of Aries, be a bit of a challenge. Don’t try to control us because we want to explore. Trust us and do some exploring yourself. We’ll be the ones looking for you, you don’t have to come chasing after us.
I like this guy who is a Capricorn but I’m not sure how to approach the whole thing. I want him to be the dominate one but I’m also impatient. I want to know if he thinks of me as more than a friend or if I need to give up on him. I think our personalities can be great together because I can understand his way of thinking but I’m scared that he’ll think I’m too overwhelming. He’s really hard to figure out and I don’t know how to be conservative yet attractive to him.
October 10th, 2009 at 3:11 pm
My grand father, late father, and me are arieans. Both my grand Pa and Dad are great leaders serving our country. I’m not so proud of being an Ariean male.. I don’t even like alcohol, sex, and being a leader. (I’m a proud virgin). I’m dating with a Capricorn and fear to lost her just because I am an Ariean. But the problem is I made a promise to a Cancerian that I will never leave her alone( she’s my very own first bestfriend who shows the real me). But because of being so serious to the Cancer she completely close her shell and she ended into a Libra boyfriend. I begin to realize that this four sings are the cardinals. I’m aware of the secretive side of this Cancerians…but they said that the Arieans most learn a selfless sacrifice. I wonder how?
October 13th, 2009 at 2:59 am
I am an Aries and I am now dating a capricorn. I am in love. Yes I read these sites but no I don’t let them determine my relationship. This is a good man that I am with. He treats me like gold. Yes, he is a very hard worker but to keep me interested he teaches me stuff or ask for my help. It is worth being in love. I didn’t think I would love anyone as I do him.
According to a few sites me and him aren’t suppose to be compatable but I are, so far and I plan to keep it that way. I agree 100% with Aries.Girl it’s like he was sent here just for me. I don’t even get along with capricorns our personalities just clash but for some reason not with him. I’m rambling. I just wanted to say that love works if you want it to. I love my capricorn man and I hope we have years together to look forward to.
October 18th, 2009 at 1:49 pm
I am a cap male and seriously I do get along with aries pretty well on a superficial level. Though when its close to home such as my lil bro…that guy tries really hard to compete with what ever is in his sights. On top of that you can tell he’s always biting peoples heads off or wanting to while being busy trying to correct things to fit his own conveniences. Aries are good strategists but when they are using that the wrong way….they can always be very manipulative which is pretty much a LAIR on a whole other level!
I dated an Aries female for 3 years.I swear they wont ever give up throwing charcoal into the steam engine…in other words they wont ever give it a rest.Its like they like a challenge every day…weather it be emotional,intellectual,financial….etc!The bottom line is that they really don’t relax and ease up any where they go.
Yeah caps have a bad side but really the capps are more steady and practical along with making sure they climb that mountain instead of RUSHING,FORCING,and/or MAKING THINGS HAPPEN! Its so frustrating for us capps to be with Aries who kill the moment as well…they may look like a knight and act like one…they may look like a independent woman who can handle her own but seriously its just a facade and pretty soon when that gets old you’ll see it as that…an act!Capps are more about testing waters weather it be in a relationship,LIFE,work…and seeing how practical it can be..in other words we tend to be a bit too realistic yet for a person who seeks that out in a capp…you wont have any problems.We really dont like lying to ourselves and a fully evolved cap will notice the grim side of life only to understand thats how real it gets!
Still how ever that just means capps need to mature first then they can go out and find themselves a mate because capps weakness is of being worthless and no good to any one.
I for one have learned that if I met my aries GF a few years later we could gotton along better off as freinds isntead.
I guess what im trying to say is that even though aries are capable they lack knowledge..the old goat can provide that…but thats the only way the relationship will ever work out if it turns out you and the other person are aries and a capp.
The capp will have to be OLDER or MORE EXPERIENCED.The aries are like young students who are only wanting to live life to the fullest and are willing to get what they can get their hands on so if your a capp that has a lot goin on for you then your in luck.
November 27th, 2009 at 3:40 am
so i am a teenage cap girl ..with a teenage aries male. and almost everything that i have read about the behaviors of an aries male is true. he is kinda hot headed and stubborn.we lways seem to be fighting. but right now we are goin through some problemmmms, am we are takin a “break”. but when we are together everything seems to go right. but when we are apart.no so good.could this realtionship work? [[everything seems to say no !]]
November 28th, 2009 at 1:01 am
Hey! What do they know? My capricorn hubby and I have been married for 33 years! He’s a loving father and has always been a wonderful mate in every possible way. We’re so thankful for the many years we’ve had together and can’t imagine how difficult life may have been if we hadn’t chosen each other.
December 7th, 2009 at 10:45 pm
Aries girl here. Seeing as how I’m an Aries, I must, of course, share my opinion. My husband is a Capricorn and our marriage is a beautiful thing, we have spent years compromising, learning and growing. It has been worth every ounce of effort, not to mention the sex is simply mind altering. I HAVE to let him lead us finacially, but I do all the leg work, it works great. I respect him and he appreciates my fiery spirit, we used to clash A LOT, but somewhere along the path we learned to admire and appreciate our differences rather than try to change one another. Obviously, both of us are strong willed and opinionated and there have been debates over who’s in command. The upside? I believe with compromise, this pairing will last forever! That fierce loyalty is ever-present.
All that being said, I don’t know how on earth an Aries male and a Capricorn female could ever make a go of it…I believe in miracles, but that would be one turbulant ride. I think the Capricorn male/Aries female works well because the Capricorn inherently provides structure, and works hard to achieve in a career and having an Aries female attached to that creates a warmth and excitement to an otherwise dull existence (and I say that with love).
Bottom line….be ready for a long learning process, but if you reamin steadfast and offer up compassion and understanding to one another, it can be a joyous union.
December 7th, 2009 at 11:00 pm
Sorry, had to say one more thing. A lot of people on here make the comment “Aries are liars”, some people lie, yes, but to say all Aries are liars, is so off base. Please understand that Aries in general rarely take the time to know or understand themselves or a situation fully. So if they tell you something, for the most part, it is geniune…IN THAT MOMENT. Chances are, they may not feel the same way or see the subject from the same perspective 24 hours later, but that doesn’t make them liars. We just don’t think things through in the slow, methodical way that a Cap does, keep that in mind. We rush in and we blurt, please forgive us, we mean no harm, we just have so much passion inside and we sometimes don’t understand that harnessing it can give us power.
I have not lied to my husband. BUT I have definitely had a change of heart and mind several times to his dismay, but he gets that about me and he appreaciates the fact that I bring an element of unpredictability to his otherwise planned out life. So if you can’t appreciate the spontaneous behavior of the Aries then move along and let them be, because there is someone out there for them who will find that spirit to be inspiring.
December 10th, 2009 at 1:09 am
Hey I’m an Aries and I went out with a Capricorn and I absoltley LOVED IT he was sooo sweet and ya I got a little impatient with him but we got along, but he broke up with me and I’m still crazy about him…how can I win him back??????
December 12th, 2009 at 9:22 pm
I am an Aries girl…i am in love with this Capri male…we have known each other since high school but lost touch right after. We reconnected again and i really don’t know what happened…he said that he was scared because his feelings for me wete too deep and he didnt want to hurt me bcuz he wasnt ready for a relationship. i said that was ok ….but really i wasnt. YES i did forgive him but we went our separate ways. Then…..here we go again…..we both got married and somehow we found each other on one of the socialable websites :)…we communicate almost everyday and the feelings are there again. He’s loving, caring, everything i desire…but i know it wasnt meant to be or was it? I know i am wrong for loving another man while i am married but thats the way i feel i feel that this capri is the one. As far as getting along by conversation all is well but bcuz of our situation we dont know how we would get along as a couple again. he says he misses me and believed i should have been the one yeah right!!! thats just him being flirtatious…..bcuz he knows i will fall for it but life goes on I think we can be compatible it is all what you make of it
December 15th, 2009 at 7:22 am
I am a aries man and having a relationship with cap girl.The relationship is working fine for 4 months. but after she said directly to me that this relationship is not working.i feel very hurt coz my moon sign is virgo.i try to convience her from the past 8 months in the form of messages and letter but all in vain.till now i am not able to unerstand her wheather she likes me or not.i think finally to move on after trying on her birthday in jan.At this time i feel very bad coz i try almost everthing to reunite our relationship but now i feel that i have to take my final step towards her.My first ever
December 16th, 2009 at 11:23 am
Im a cap girl and my bestfriend is a aries guy, we spend like allmost every minute of every day together, over the past year iv started to like him and it grows every day, everything he dose irrates me but at the same time i find it makes him more irrasistable, were not and have never gone out before, but people allways seem to ask if we are, or if were related. the signals he sends are confusing at times, he said he didnt like me that way when i told him people though we were dating, but alot of the time he acts like it. Im a rater depressed person i often feel like id rather die, but that all goes away when im with him, hes really the only reason im living, i find that i depend on him alot, and he seems to depend on me too. Lately things have been distant, and im worried. I dont know what i should be doing or saying anymore, and i find situations become akward more easy. I want to be comfortable around him and not get so tensed up worring i might do or say the wrong thing and mess everything up. dose anyone have any advise on what i should be doing at this point regarding the relationship.. if i should take it furter and how, and what do you think is going on his head.. im so lost.
December 21st, 2009 at 10:37 am
After reading your letter i feel that please give him some space. In between no calls nor messages and after some time if he really love u and care for u. He definateley return back to u. bcoz i am going through the same situation with cap girl. i try my best to reunite our friendship. after wards it depends pourley on you destiny.
January 8th, 2010 at 11:17 am
“So if you can’t appreciate the spontaneous behavior of the Aries then move along and let them be, because there is someone out there for them who will find that spirit to be inspiring.” SO TRUE!!!
I am an Aries woman and have dated two Caps in the past. The first relationship was truly puppy love, it lasted for 2 years. The second relationship I can honestly say this a my first longterm love(on and off for 7 years). I still love the Cap. However, his venus is in Cap and we would viewed relationships very differently. He was very needy at times, but very hard working. He’s a great, loyal friend. However, I FINALLY realized it had to be put to rest.
So, imagine my surprise when I ended year 2009, meeting a new Cap. He is different, his venus is in Aquarius. He seems to be more compatible. I am extremely intrigued by him. He is also a dedicated worker but does have his share of fun too. I am very curious about him. He says likewise. I guess only time will tell if our bond grows into a friendship or more.
January 15th, 2010 at 1:27 am
Oh people I need your help! Im a Cap girl(Jan. 8, 1990) &theres an Aries male (March 21, 1990) who has my attention. Thats the thing; I USUALLY DONT LIKE ANYBODY! haha He’s the exception- he’s the gentleman I Expect, and there is this Chemistry there… just makes me shiver. (My grandfather was an Aries, and I Love and Befriended him dearly.) Here’s the thing: 1.) He’s a young Aries- so he’s sexually VERY *ahem*!
2.) Im a vigin, and waiting untill marriage. So I told him we should start as friends (either way, this is the only way it’d Amount to anything. But especially since he loves sex, and I don’t even do “it”. Why light the fuse, you know?)So LSS, he treats me like the lady I am, but has lately been ignoring me. Is this just him being young and finding the easy girls, and he’s doing the friend thing with me, or has he moved along? And I heard they tend to come back if they leave. Aries Men feel Free to reply, too!
January 16th, 2010 at 12:46 am
to cappyK..
sounds like he’s moved on.. i wouldnt hold my breath for him to come back. aries men dont come back.. wherever u heard this it just not how the aries is wired. sorry.
do u know that when a tree pipet’s eggs hatch, in the time they are sitting on their eggs and if someone touches them or so much as even come close to their nest during that time, the bird throws away its egg in the middle of the process.. they are known for throwing away new born too if someone sees them.. the aries man is sort of the same way. once he’s decided in his mind that he wants out and move on.. he wont look back.
read my article on the main page.
January 21st, 2010 at 12:30 pm
I am a teen Capricorn female (Venus sign: Capricorn… Mars sign: Taurus) who has fallen for an older Aries man (Venus sign: pieces… Mars sign: Scorpio). We are 9 years apart in age. He is sexy, romantic, confident, funny and CHARMING. Men usually call me the heartbreaker, as I get bored easily, but this Aries man has got my FULL attention (lol for now). The sexual chemistry is explosive. But when we are apart, it can be hard to hold a conversation with him at times. He loves to be in control and wouldn’t have it any other way.. Being a Capricorn I would usually find that unusual, but bizarrely enough I don’t mind when he does (most times). I find that when I am with him I am slightly more submissive than I am usually… And being a cappy girl who has grown up around aries men - I have already spotted his lies, but I just let him get on with it…
I love the fact that he likes his freedom, cause I like mine too. I wouldn’t have to worry about him suffocating me as he has his own interests, but he keeps me on my toes. When I am mad with him he has a way of twisting the situation (eg. I will start of mad with him… And by the end of the argument he is mad at me for something I have done) or charming his way out of it.
I definately don’t wanna lose him though…. Lol tell me how I can keep him!!!
January 29th, 2010 at 1:23 am
I’m an Aries guy (born March 22) married to a Capricorn lady (January 14) for nearly 10 years and our love for eachother hasn’t faded (not even slightly). We don’t even fight. It’s so weird because astrologically speaking, we’re not even supposed to be a good match. lol
Also contrary to popular belief that Aries guys are big cheaters, I have never cheated on my wife and I don’t plan to because I know that no other woman besides her will put up with my crazy ass so if she leaves me, I’ll have noone lol
February 11th, 2010 at 2:16 am
Well i’m a capi girl and i just met a aries man and he is good with the word play, but me being the typical capi have a hard time swallowint it. but lets see what will come off out of this here. i use to love a aries man once, he is actually the only man that i have trully loved, i mean he was a liar and a cheater but i was young and playing the field anyways.
February 23rd, 2010 at 6:56 pm
I am an Aries woman that has dealt with two Capricorn men. Like many others, I don’t know the attraction - but it’s strong - very.
First off Capricorn women are different from Capricorn men. Capricorn women are SUBMISSIVE, soft spoken, ugh and depressively moody and that’s about it. They follow suite so that’s why their relationships work better with Aries men. My best friend is a Capricorn female, we get along GREAT because i’m dominant and she’s not, if i’m bored i’ll drag her out, otherwise she’s a loner. Then like Capricorn men, she gets into her moods of depression for days on ened, very annoying. but she’s my best friend and we work.
Aries women are DOMINANT, we are agressive, extemely passionate about everything lol, we’re too nice (please don’t mistake kindness for weakness, if you do, we’ll remind you how mean and VINDICTIVE we truly can be); and we are fiercely loyal to a fault. If we don not get that loyalty in the beginning or if we don’t get the passion, time and energy we put it, we loose respect and check out QUICKLY; but we give many-a-warning signs. And the beauty of ALL arians?? When we’re done = We are DONE. begging is cute and flattering… then we think “you had me once, you jacked up, poof - be gone” and we’re on to the next.
Capricorn men are stubborn, MOODY, argumentative (aka must show his power),too slow (cautious - Aries don’t like caution), don’t listen, too involved with work (you’ll always be second to his job, TRUST); the issue with both is we are a lot alike, and someone has to lead. I always tell my friends only Caps approach me because I feel they see the strentgh in Aries. They don’t like weakness, like Arians don’t and that’s why I fell for my last Capricorn, never again. it’s wayyy too much work. I refuse to always be the bigger person in mending relationships; as I always said to him, there’s only one b***ch in this relationship so why are you acting like one AGAIN.
An aries man will leave a Capricorn woman because she can be weak, too subbmissive and not enough spark to hold the relationship - they don’t always want to have to ask or be the motivators: both Arian men and women GET TIRED of always being the spontatnous ones, the movers… we get bored, shoot.
I was with my Capricron for exactly 3 months, he lied, was too flirty, and I got bored; I demand attention and RESPECT. lol it’s been 2 months since I left him, he is still stalking me. The last Capricorn I was with for 6 months stalked me for a year. I truly hate Capricorn men now. truly.
And for the record, everything was in our favor, my moon is in vigro, his was in pisces; my mars in Taurus, his in Cancer; my mercury in gemini, his in aries… we had all the stars alligned but it just didn’t work.
February 25th, 2010 at 8:22 pm
Hi all
i read all the replies here ,
well , i am an aries man currently in deep love with capricorn woman …she is my life and i can’t live without her… meantime… i dont do lies as aries are not liers , from my point of view a man who do lies is a weak man…. What is important …. the signs are not true…perhaps they are true… but GOD has his word at the end in any relation chip … MY CAPRICORN is the best woman i ever met in my life and again i cant live without her and she is the reason i am alive…. CAPRICORN when its real love they are faithfull truly … they help the person they love and so the same for aries , i am crazy for her and i say again i cant live without her….
Finally its god plan
VIVA ARIES MAN WITH CAPRICORN WOMAN … if everything is well
March 5th, 2010 at 1:06 am
Im a cappy myself and i am dating an arian and things seem to be great, we get into small fights but he doesnt like to stay with a grudge so he always apologizes. Though its always my fault since my last relationship with a pieces led me to have trust issues….
May 27th, 2010 at 11:25 am
Capricorn-Aries very hot!!!
can someone help me with this dliema I am a Aries woman he a cappy we met 15 years ago he was married, but pursued me until we developed a relationship for about a year and a half we had
such fun,it’s as if we were soul mates he made me feel good he told me he could really fall for
me he never felt like with anyone else, he said i made him feel special, it was not just about
you know what, we were like minded I made him laugh we never argued would spend time just conversing about all things.Eventually he moved away for a new job in a different town I also
moved away, and we lost contact until one day 3,4 years later we met just by coincidence I could not believe it, instantly the attraction just overtook us we spent somtine together. We parted
once again never to see each other until 15 years later we made contact again chance we decided to
meet up, I went to see him after he tried to meet with me but I was busy. Anyway we met it was if
we were never apart the passion was still there he’ divorced now which surprised me has a very good job had a child with a woman he says was a mistake as he remembers everything about me and I him.
After we met we kept in contact for a while now it seems he is off the radar again after saying
he would like us to meet again soon, Iheard nothing so I told him I will not be chasing him I pointed out us living in different towns plus he has not really spoken of his life if he is with
someone , since then I have not heard from him and shall not contact him what do you all think as
i think im done.
June 18th, 2010 at 5:56 am
Capricorn female here… I was engaged to two different aries men… Worse mistakes I ever did!! We always fought,they are hard headed, they lied about everything, controlling, possesive & we could never agree on anything !! I will never date an aries man again!
July 18th, 2010 at 4:14 pm
Hi i am a aries women and i am now after 9yrs married to a capricorn man true enough us aries want everything now now and caps are more slow and orderly, but in this case i am glade we dated so long before we got married because it has built trust between us and we r always all over eachother he is so faithful and is also a home body so my mind is worry free with him and us arieses need that espcially since can be so jelous at times so if u have a cap man jus b patcient with him and earn his trust he will eventully open up to u and eveyday with him will be filled with both happiness and love hold on to him.
August 5th, 2010 at 6:47 pm
I am a female with a Capricorn sun/Taurus moon. My fiance is an Aries sun/Aquarius moon. Do not ask me how in the world we get along but we MAKE IT WORK!! In the beginning we didn’t like each other very much. His complaint was that I was waaaay too strong (I’m an aggressive woman), sharp tongued, can be blunt and potty mouthed, etc. HOWEVER, once we started to get to know one another he discovered that I in fact DO have a heart of gold. He also treats me like I am. (Gold that is!) He has me on such a high pedestal it’s truly insane. He loves that I enjoy cooking for him (and has actually put on several pounds because of it. lol) He refers to me as his “rock” and “best friend.” He tells me EVERY DAY, atleast 4 times a day how much he loves me. He makes grand gestures of affection. He would buy me the world if could. I’ve gotten diamond watches, a beautiful wedding set, flowers for absolutely no reason, etc. I treat the man like he is King and in return, he refers to me as “the Queen.” He would rather be at home on the couch with me smothering him then out and about being social. We do give each other quite a bit of space and discovered early on in the relationship that arguing with each other was in fact…uh…NOT attractive. I have 2 sets of horns with a horrible temper and he has one set of rather strong ones with an equally crappy temper. If anything, we both wound up cowering away like 2 submissive pitbulls scared to death of one another. That was the first and last time that has happened in well over a year. We refuse to argue ever again after the first horrific round. LOL.. We both admire the qualities in each other that one another lack. As far as the boudoir is concerned…one word…H-O-T!!!! My most recent surprise was a text message from him as I was sitting in class. It said, “Just got done seeing the absolutely GORGEOUS townhome you wanted. Putting in a bid with the Realtor right now.” You see, you get what you give. Be loving, generous, and considerate and this man is 100% yours.
Since I am a Cappy madly in love with my Aries man, I will give the hopeless a word of advice. Be flexible with one another. If you are a Cappy, we tend to be dull. Let the Aries give you a good nudge every once in awhile and get yourself moving to do something spontaneous. If you are an Aries, realize that even though we might be dull, we would NEVER do anything to hurt you purposefully. You WILL have a stable lover and best friend for LIFE! Be patient and grow with one another. I have lived be those words and I am now with the best man any woman could have EVER asked for….
August 18th, 2010 at 5:53 pm
Im a CAPRICORN-12/24 male with an ARIES-04/17 woman, when I first met her it was love at first sight..we really clicked and have so much in common ..we established a relationship and we’ve been together for 3 1/2 months..for like the first 3 months we were spending time together texting/talking on the phone allday not going to sleep til 3 and 4 in the morning while still goin on with our daily routines such as work and what not..we’ve talked about really considering a future together…i didnt have a job when she met me and still dont as im pursuing a career in music production; she also sings as well…im also in the process of still trying to find a job…i know actions speak louder than words but i really love her and i try to show her that ill be there for her.. she recently just got a new car which she didn’t have one when we got together and since then it seems like she’s been pushing me away for the last month….we haven’t been been spending as much time together lately and she hasn’t been texting or calling me at all unless i text/call her first then its just a short conversation and it makes me feel clingee so i go a couple of days with out texting/calling her.. i just tell her goodmorning/goodnight/have a great day/i love you/i miss you and other nice things …i have been feeling depressed and have major mood swings…she hasn’t told me if she wants to break up or anything but im kinda feelin insecure that she doesn’t want to be with me anymore….i really feel that she’s the one and i want to be with her …i dont want to break up as i am committed and faithful to her;never even thought about cheating….but if she really doesn’t want to be with me i feel she just needs to make her move and end it so i can move on….we can still friends as i still have to work with her on the music side of the relationship….
August 25th, 2010 at 9:47 pm
I’m a female Cappy with Pisces rising, who has been involved now with two ares men. The first one tried to kill me in a drug induced rage and was physically abusive. The second one also has a drug problem but is a gentle loving man. I think you need to look at more than the sun signs to determine compatibility. Both of the men in my life were almost complete opposites, I’m sure their charts were. Sex between Aries and Cappy is fantastic, but beyond that it gets complicated. Aries seems to have commitment issues. I’m currently involved with the second Aries, and he just wants to be friends with benefits, but then he acts like we’re in a relationship, and it drives me nuts. All I know is from talking to my friends several who have done the Cappy/Aries Match, it’s never worked out long term. Maybe if u can find one who’s sun is balanced by some compatible planets and aspects, but it’ll be hard. Fasten ur seat belt and prepare for a bumpy ride.
September 24th, 2010 at 6:05 pm
I am a capricorn female and I had dated an aries male. I must say it was the best time of my life. We had our share of ups and downs but in the end regardless of what happens he was still right there with me. It takes alot of maturity to make the relationship work, especially long distanced. Yes there were times we both wanted to set one another on fire but all in all we loved each other. We had a lot in common intellectually, spiritually and in any other way. I miss him. His in-your-face attitude was perfect bc he knew how to handle me when I would be in one of my typical capricorn sour moods. And when he was feeling down my caring capricorn self would provide him with the friend/love he needed. Capricorns and aries are very dedicated passionate independent people, with the right balance right time and place the relationship can most definitely work.
October 22nd, 2010 at 4:46 am
I agree with most here. I’m a cappy girl (capricorn sun & moon, pisces venus, aries mars). I’ve had 2 Arian boyfriends whom I really clicked with. To this day they still contact me & confess they still have strong feelings for me. I do for them too; however, do to work, school, moving all over the country, it didn’t work out. Arian guys don’t handle long distance relationships well. Neither do I so we parted ways but keep finding each other. I always got along great with them. According to all the advice online, it’s supposed to be a toxic relationship. Not even close. If anything it made me quite happy to be with them. I wish it would have worked out long term. One even told me twice now (he’s on his second marriage) he again married the wrong girl, he wished he wouldn’t have been so impulsive marrying his new wife (a scorpio). I just say out of it after hearing that. I wish the best for them. I’m now dating another Aries man. It’s very new but again, it clicks & he will do anything for me at the snap of my fingers. I appreciate it and tell him all the time. I don’t take him for granted and I let him know. I’m a very touchy/feely person. Aries men love being touched… especially their muscles, while you compliment them. If you’re with an immature Aries, or a hurt Aries, then I can see where there would be problems. When they don’t get their way, I think they can be real bratty bastards… very spontantious & unhappy, they can cause a lot of damage to anyone in their path of distruction. After they heal, I think they are the best guys out there.
I read a lot about Scorpios injecting in almost every thread about how much they LOVE sex. You’d think they invented it or something. Almost everyone loves sex. I’ve been with 2 Scorpio men… they’re nothing special or different in bed. Get over it already. Just goes to show how crazy & self involved Scorpios are. Just because you like sex doesn’t mean the other person thinks you are the greatest thing. I’ll take a fire sign or an earth sign anyday over a clingy/moody water sign or a selfish air sign. TOO EMOTIONAL!!!
My experience = Aries men have no fear & that creates some security for Capricorn that’s needed to open up in the beginning. Even if there was no interest, Aries men are so pushy, Cappy learns to adore them for being so driven and motivated. It’s something we can respect. My Scorpio ex’s were creepy and stalker-ish. I’d rather have someone look me in the eye and be straight up rather than follow my every move behind my back. Yuk.
October 22nd, 2010 at 5:02 am
^typo^ I’m a Capricorn sun & rising, Aquarius moon, Pisces venus, Aries mars. Like some of the others on here who have Aquarius moon. I always feel lonely too. I’m a total loner. It took me awhile to accept it. It helps me give all of my attention to an Aries (which they love), my energy isn’t split & there’s not much competition for them (in my personal life, not in the outside life they see when we first meet). Also, I’m pretty artistic/creative & independent, thus making me successful, wealthy and driven. That’s another quality they love to latch onto. Another sign who flocks to me is Leo. I love Leos & Aries men!!! Best playmates in the zodiac a girl could have.
January 14th, 2011 at 2:37 am
When there’s an attraction between Capri & Aries, it is very intense, even compulsive, but usually one-sided, at least in my experience. I am an aires female with scorpio ascendant and taurus moon. My highschool sweetheart was a capricorn with capri moon and aries ascendant. We were married for over 35 years. It was a solid relationship and he was a great father and provider. He was obsessed with me and made me feel safe and loved and protected. Even now that we are divorced, I know that he is there for me always…yet I always knew that he was more “in love” with me, than I with him. I have had three other capricorn men profess great love for me. I seem to have this fatal attraction for capricorns, even tho I don’t return their passion. In fact, the more I push away they more they pursue. I know this sounds egotistical and cold but I am considered by most people as very warm and loving. Everything I’ve read about astrology says that the capri-aries combination is not a good one, or that it doesn’t usually work. My marriage is proof that it can be made to work; but I just wonder about the strange “pull” between capri signs and me.
January 20th, 2011 at 4:56 pm
Hi
I agree with the above the pull between Cap and aries is so weird its intense and it as if
we cannot conytol oursleves Im a Aries woman my guilty pleasure was a cap the only cap man
i ever met and yet we have known each other 17 years now never quite getting together, but one
thing that was laways there was this intense attraction to each other it could be 5 minutes or
17years its always there. I dont know what it is but I know in some way he regrets me and him
not ending up together.
January 27th, 2011 at 10:16 am
I’m a capricorn woman currently in a relationship with an aries man. First time we met we clicked immediately, we took about 5months to finally make our relationship official. We have been together for 7months & we are still working on a few things we don’t like about each other. He is very hard-headed & hard to read but then again so am I. Capricorns & Aries actually have many similarties…..mainly we are both strong & very intense in romance. But like certain websites said, we can learn from each other & still be happy. I love my aries man, he’s proven to be the best & loyal in our relationship, I have faith we will last a very long time. Hopefully this can help some of you
February 22nd, 2011 at 4:12 am
I am a Capicorn woman married to an Aries man. We have been together for going on 10 years (married 3). It is great! He helps me to have fun and brings the wild side out of me while I help him stay more grounded. It was hard work in the beginning but it was all worth it.
March 2nd, 2011 at 7:49 pm
Hello All, I’m a sun cap/(water)cancer moon/(fire)sagittarius venus/(fire)sagittarius mars) and have met a wonderful sun aries/(water)scorpio moon/(fire) sagittarius venus/(fire) aries mars. We clicked immediately and have many levels of connection. We’re both adventurous, seems to be both loyal, open-minded, honest, choice in music, spirituality, artistic: he’s an independent film maker and I’m a writer. We have high chemistry and it seems that this is going to be a wonderful journey. We’ve only been together for 1 month. I’m looking forward to everything with this wonderful Arian man.
May 14th, 2011 at 11:26 am
Believe me, guys, Capricorn and Aries ARE compatible
November 28th, 2011 at 3:31 pm
I am Aries female married and my husband is Capricon…… i am happy with our relationship now but he is very workholic and he harldy shows his affection towards me until i make him say…. but deep down i know he loves me. He could somethimes be control freak and likes to critisize a lot. We do argue a lot with each other but still we understand each other a lot as well. He hates me being unorganised….. As long as i know he is fine with our life going this way…. but i dont know i sometimes feels that something is missing from my life ??????