Compatibility for Gemini and Cancer |
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Gemini & Cancer
There will be a definite attraction between the Gemini and Cancer. Gemini will find the Cancers sensitive and peaceful qualities quite charming, and will find the Cancer quite a nice sanctuary to get away from their own far from tranquil world. While the Cancer will enjoy the Geminis quick wit and humor and zest for life. One things is for sure these two could both learn a lot from one another. The Cancer would be a great teacher for the Gemini on how to be more sensitive toward other people, whilst the Gemini can help the Cancer to let themselves go and be a bit more outrageous. Sadly though, very often the traits we find attractive when we first meet people can soon become the traits we least like about a person. And this happens with this couple. Frequently. The basic fact is that the Gemini and Cancer are very different. Not different good, different bad. Geminis are the faery's of the Zodiac. They flit about from dream to idea like a butterfly on a flower. They are restless and although they do need to be around people and be loved and wanted, they also have quite a rebellious independent streak as well. For the poor home loving Cancer the Geminis free living ways could lead to many nights of hair pulling. Quite simply the Cancer does not appreciate coming home to find the whole families bags packed and discover they are going on a spontaneous trip to Nepal. The reason? Just for fun. Fun for the Gemini perhaps but the Cancer needs to plan for such events and sees the Gemini as a bit irresponsible. And that isn't wrong, Geminis don't view responsibility the same as every other mortal on Earth. But the Cancer simply doesn't have the strength of will needed to put the Gemini in his/her place. To be fair, not many people do. Gemini and Cancer can enjoy a wonderful and long lived friendship though as they both enjoy each others company. A short affair will be enjoyed but personally I would stick with the friendship, there are lots of giggles to be had with these two.
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January 18th, 2009 at 3:53 am
I had a cancer girlfriend a couple of years ago. It was exciting, thrilling some times, and particularly peaceful most of the time. It was nice, lots of fight, but in the end we broke tired of eachother. I find her shorthminded.
February 4th, 2009 at 4:19 am
What a match….My first realization of true unselfish love was with a libra man. True they rationalize their lies and their defected point of reality but that chemisrty between is incredible. I just saw this posting and it made me think of him. He and i met, love at first sight, after the freshly painted sculpture in my mind he tells me he has a girlfriend. Even though after the damage was done i still had 2 years of unforgettable memories, passionate drives to mexico, passionate kisses, passion!, passion! I will always think of him as my great love. What the heck it’s better to have experienced it then to never had tasted it.
February 18th, 2009 at 5:43 pm
I’m a Gemini who’s together with a Cancer for a while now and I have never been happier in a relationship. Maybe it is because my moon is in Pisces (and Scorpio rising)? Or because his rising sign is Sagittarius (Scorpio moon…)? I don’t know. He has most of the typical cancer qualities, but he is also very social and adventurous.
I believe Cancer and Gemini can work, with some effort from both sides.
February 25th, 2009 at 12:00 pm
Who says Gemini with Cancer doesn’t work as anything more than friends?? Of course it can!! Star signs don’t mean anything anyway, it all depends on how the other person was brought up, their sibling/s, friends and etc. Honestly! So if you’re not sure how your relationship with a Cancer or Gemini is going or whatever, don’t look at this. It has nothing to do with it.
March 2nd, 2009 at 5:01 am
Hey, so I’m probably the first dude on here…
I’m a Cancer/Gemini rising she’s a Gemini/Leo rising. Both our Mercury and Venus are in Cancer.
What do you think?
We used to have a relationship that lasted maybe about 4 years, and now some years later I’m actually talking to her again. And the thing is, feel this strong magnetic attraction to her, like I haven’t felt with anybody else.. I think this girl is just perfect, her smile can just warm my day up, even though ultimately everything’s in her court.
On a side note, I’ve never been attracted to other water signs, it’s mostly only been Aquarius and Gemini girls, the bubbly outgoing ones. lol
Hope you can shed some light, Thanks.
March 20th, 2009 at 11:42 pm
who says cancer gemini relationship dont work :S i hv bin wid my guy,a gemini fr around 2 yrs n more now..n we still havent had a single fight! we have arguuments… we got diff perspectives on certain issues..bt we dnt let itlead 2 a fight bcz we bth know taht we bh r fully aware that we have 2 respect each oders opinion…cz dats d only way 2 avoid a fight ..ofcourse sometimes it gets upsetting because we(cancerians) are way too overreactive and we overthink somethings ALOT more den we shd do so basicaly its US hurting ourselves not the poor gemini…However at the same time we(cancerians)have the power of walloing by ourselves ..so if i do get hurt bcz of his unintentional behavior den i wallow on my own …n easily forget
and so whatif they’re different or bad opposites? every1s diff n every relationship has its ups n downs..wats up der is nt completely wrong..i feel dey r lenient n shiz cz everytym i talk abt future wid him..he jus laughs off crakin a silly joke…hes just that way.. he dsnt xpress or emote so openly liek me…bt that certainly dsnt mean dat he wud never want2 b wid me in teh latter.He definately mst b hinkin of how senti i am n stuff too and be complainin abt my extrafylingy sensitive nature…so wat we shd do in d end is …cancel out our differences ..aceept each oder fr who we are…COMPROMISE 
…n we are letf wid nuin but LOVE 
n NOT ALL CANCERIANS r totaally homely -.- …ofcourse i enjoy the comfort of my home..stayin in bed all day n watchin tv sometimes..bt i am as outgoing as a gemini can b too 
in my case im more of a parrttaaii animal dan my bf who usually prefers standin in a corner n watchin ppl dance until i PULL HIM N get him reeelin :P:P
i still hink we make a good pair n we shall last BECAUSE WE WANT TO ..and if something gets screwed up between us…den its Gods wil and destined nt this horrorscope personality. analysis.
April 23rd, 2009 at 1:34 pm
Gemini female here.
My great love was Cancer man… He was so attractive, inteligent, interesting, older, foreign… But we were too indipendent persons to be together… Actually, I always dreams about family with him but he was not ready for it.
P.S. My first love was a Libra man, my great love was a Cancer man (almost Leo) and my husband is a Leo.
May 22nd, 2009 at 1:50 am
if there are geminis or cancers out there into friends with benefits this sign is your best bet. especially if the cancer is on the gemini cusp and hes a guy and youre a girl! the cancer guy i know is a womanizer…well he doesnt play women but keeps all of them close knit. very gentleman like in a dangerous kinda way.. trust me with this FRIENDS WITH BENIFITS!
June 11th, 2009 at 6:15 am
I am a gemini woman married to a cancer man.. not in a cusp at all. You know astrology is astrology, you shouldn’t take it so seriously as to believe that you wont work with someone. BUT this analysis is so far pretty accurate with myself and my husband. We adored each other for the reasons mentioned above. And now that we are married I realize i hate those characteristics about him now. We fight used to fight like cats and dogs almost everyday. But we are still married. We still fight alot but less. I figure we just need to get over the things we dont like about each other. Because neither one of us is changing. Its about working hard to make it work.
June 17th, 2009 at 8:02 pm
Hi I am a cancer women,and I talk to this gemini man on the phone for 2 years now,off of myspace. I never met him but he wants me to move down to where he lives. I am married to another cancer but he lies and does drugs I don’t want to be with him cause of that,but we have a 17 yr old together..Well for not meating this man I really do like him but I need to know our cusps I don’t even know what it is but can someone tell me what are cusps are so I will know what to do? I don’t want to waste his time if were not going to make it.
C/bday 7/12/63
g/bday 6/1/68
please I need to know asap this is our life together,or not?
July 9th, 2009 at 5:58 am
i am a cancer girl and my boyfriend is a gemini… we have a baby ontha way & he or she will be a pisces…. he’s in the army & is on the list 2 move 2 italy. but he wants me 2 come & doesnt want 2 miss out on his childs life. soo only way i could go is if we married & thats a big step especially if our signs not compatible…wats the best thing i should do??… i need help asap
July 19th, 2009 at 6:06 am
Im with a Gemini man right now. We went out for a year then i dumped him. I felt like he couldnt understand me enough. He started to annoy me a lot, and everything we did started getting old. I thought it would be better to be friends. But he refused. A month later I texted him, and met up at this park to talk about it. I ended up crying and relised I still loved him. I think he does a good job at making me feel special. Thats something I didnt relise till we had that month to our selves. I think as long as the gemini gives the cancer space to their selves and time alone to think it would help the relationshhip as long as they trust eachother.
July 19th, 2009 at 6:09 am
Erika I think you should do it! Its a chance to be with him, and have the family life. Plus you get to travel. You only get to live once. But make sure the baby can have citizen ship here.
July 24th, 2009 at 10:15 am
I remember I used to say I HATED Geminis (being a water sign I pretty much found the fire and air signs in gerneral to be not to my liking)…that is until I met my boyfriend.
I met him and his birthday was a week later, May 21. I knew that was between Taurus and Gemini, but I wasn’t sure when Taurus ended and Gemini. I don’t believe in the whole cusp thing. You’re either one or other other. Your personality really can’t be mixed.
Yes, that man man is a Gem. Talk, talk talk and So freakin witty.
I put up a little red flag, just because I know our sign don’t always quite mesh, but it has to do with other factors too. Home life, experiance ect. Like any couple it’s constant work and commiment. You can’t always live life by the book.
July 30th, 2009 at 12:41 pm
I’m a Cancer male and had a Gemini best female friend, and the friendship ended so abruptly and horribly in anger and tears for both of us one night. It was such a shock to me and I didn’t see it coming! I thought I knew her moods but I obviously didn’t see the fire in her. Its being a year now and I’m still very depressed about it. I still miss the friendship and the person I remembered. Occasionally I’ve written to her and sometimes I’ve had short reply’s or none at all. I certainly don’t regret having her friendship. If I’d read about her sign sooner perhaps I would have understood her qualities better. We suffered numerous misunderstandings mainly on her part and I take responsibly on not explaining myself better. The whole experience has left me in tatters to this day!
September 7th, 2009 at 3:08 am
I here what u are saying about cancers & geminis trust me we are not that sweet I was married to a gemini his d-o-b May 21 75 and mine july 21 69.He got own my nerves everytime I moved he wanted to move he was very over protcetive and he smothered me so. I got mean to him and everything he did made me angry with him and I got meaner and a cancer woman you do not want to make her mad you don’t want to do. I dislike him so I devoiced him. OH but life has away of playing jokes on you and years later I meet another man years younger same brithday but different year May 21 83 and I do GET MAD AT HIM, BUT WITH him I don’t care as much and strangly enough HE IS THE MAN JUST FOR ME AND I CAN SAY I WANT TO SpEND ALL MY TIME WITH HIM!!!
September 25th, 2009 at 12:07 am
Funny It realy all boiles down to the same thing ! im a cancer woman Gemeni man, …love him to death !! you need to invest in some earplugs thats for sure ….and we don’t seam to connect in a emotional way , he’s to busy running and talking on the phone and making plannes and changing one plan from another ,
but when we are adventurest and corny ,silly together i could never get along and love some one else so passionatly , That i forgive him for any wrongs he might of done. Im crazy in love all over again ….then i want 2 KiLl him again …..OOHHHH how FRUSTRATING !!
September 27th, 2009 at 11:06 pm
VERY TRUE!!! i earned this just the other day. deat with this cancer for amost a year……but in the end, its a friendship that works best for us. i cried about it, but now its just funy. lol.
September 27th, 2009 at 11:07 pm
*learned
September 30th, 2009 at 3:01 pm
Hi cancer here !
he is a mover and always gone and i resent him for that (so cancer) and i don’t understand why he gets so upset with me when i tell him i want him home that im going crazy !!!!!!!!!!! and he gets all deffencive like im forcing him to come home …He doesn’t get me I just want some reasurence on what he’s feeling and he gets mad and thinks im trying to take his freedom away ..Which i woukd never do! but we simply have a hard time connecting emotionaly and i can’t HELP but need it ! missing you babe 
my gem is gone for a couple of days and its hard for me
October 13th, 2009 at 1:28 pm
Hi, Gemini woman here married to a Cancer man for 13 years. The first 7 were great, the last 6 have sucked. I am at my wits end. I can’t stand how he is so emotional, call me flighty I don’t care. He dwells on emotions entirely too much and sucks the fun out of life literally. We shall see what happens in the end.
Good luck to all!
October 13th, 2009 at 11:10 pm
Well I’m a Gemini girl and with a Cancer man for 17 years. I get along well with his family, feed him and communicate. That is key for Cancer men.
October 14th, 2009 at 12:53 am
I was in a lesbian relationship with a Gemini and I am a Cancer(cusp, so have some adventurous qualities that you usually don’t find in Cancers). The Cancer Gemini relationship definitely does begin with much passion and I felt I had NEVER been loved like that. But we were actually backwards in our signs: she wanted me to commit to staying in one place forever and I had been on the move for years and wanted to move again soon to find a good job. Also, she took things too seriously and I wanted to brush everything off like it was no big deal. So, this sign-thing for sure isn’t always accurate but it is true that we had a lot of fights, there was a lot of passion, and we were completely mis-matched. It ended in an explosion of emotion and I have never been hurt so badly….but it may have to do also with the fact that there’s two women involved so a lot of emotions.
October 29th, 2009 at 4:31 pm
I think horoscopes are fantastic, and astrology is fascinating! However, as people have said, it is not nessacarily always correct and definite. I am a Gemini women, and my partner, is a Cancer man.
We have been childhood sweethearts since the age of 12, and are still together. Yes we can find, we are different. But we value each others opinions. He is all i could ever ask for, so the difference is definitely not a bad thing! We share so many things in common too, humour, thoughts, we are both very ambitious. I just love him so much! We completely understand each other, it has been so many years now, and I wouldn’t want to change. Not only this, the majority of my closes friends are Cancers, and I have two sibling Cancers in my home family.I am literally surrounded by them! So I have no doubt in saying, I would know!
So I think people should not always take horoscopes to heart! Although they can be great things too
November 13th, 2009 at 4:26 pm
me and cancer man r still going out right now ummm we broke up 5 times already ahha 3 times wuz me 2 times wuz him idk we r just like always fighting but then at the end of the day or some time later we’ll just say sorry to each other and well be ok btu we have to fight everynight i dont know why sign i just hope i can keep it up
December 5th, 2009 at 6:17 am
i am a full blown cancer woman with a full gemini man and weve been together for 9 years now with no breaks. i am still as in love with him as i was when i fell, as is he. yes we have had our fights and they have been explosive ( more on my part having the more emotional trait) and the makeup was all the more intense but that was also in the begining of our relationship when we were trying to figure each other out. now we are in a place where weve accpeted our differences and have learned to love each other for them and our uniqueness. it took him awhile to understand the moods i go through but now he knows when to back off and when to comfort. ive learned that geminis especially need their independent time and its ok to let him go out with his guy friends without you because he is still going to come home to you and call you to let you know hes on his way home etc. it can work but it takes time and effort but only if you feel its worth it. from the moment we met we knew there was something different this time. he had had a lot of girlfriends thus because hes a gemini and ive had a few though not near as many as he but we both just knew. there is no doubt in our minds we are soulmates but the characteristics are most definitely true about both of our signs. you can make it work but dont think you are going to be able to understand how the other works right away. lol its taken me 9 years but we are the happiest we have ever been with each other and we keep falling in love over and over again.
December 8th, 2009 at 5:22 am
i really like my best friend hes a cancer and im a geminie and i don’t know if it’ll work after hearing these coments
January 5th, 2010 at 2:27 am
I’m a cancer, June 23rd, and im dating a Gemini June 2nd. we have a great connection and we can talk for hours. He loves that I challenge him mentally and I am passionate because he is too. he constantly tells me how much he misses me and thats great (reassurance for the cancer) but I do have my red flag up that he’s a gemini and flighty. I know that nothing is set in stone and some gemini men and cancer women can have a life together but it still doesnt take away my fear that he is not in it for the long run. He’s had many women around him and it doesnt bother me but I just worry about his commitment issues. We havent spoken about any of that yet although he is always making jokes about marrying me because I am what he is looking for but I am just not sure whether thats his wit, charm, smooth talk or he’s serious. I dont know what to do. How can I make this flighty gemini commit in the future or know if he will without scaring him away. For now I just play cool and try not to think about him but I think Im in love. We have been friends for 4 yrs now and i didnt think more because I was always in a relationship and saw all the women around him. He said he’s always wanted me. So now for the past month we have been dating. Any advice would be much appreciated.
February 3rd, 2010 at 6:56 am
I so get everything in this. My boyfriend and love of my life is a gemini. He does in fact have me pulling at my hair at times, but he quite amazing. Unlike most cancers I don’t like staying in one place, so his random spontaneity is a breath of fresh air. Sometimes he becomes an overly quiet person, hiding away in another mood, and me moody all the time like a cancer you would think I’d pull my hair out. And I think about it and I back off. He needs his space and I need mine. It’s all about communication with us, even if we may lack it in places. I honestly could picture myself with this person in the long run, forever. And from the hints he’s dropped he’s thinking about the future. I love him, we’ve been like this since June 2009.
February 22nd, 2010 at 6:45 pm
I’m a Cancer guy (24th June). The love of my life is a Gemini girl (7th June). We had knew each other for almost 10 years; since we were both in school. We hardly keep in contact after graduation (only through MSN). Until last year, fate brought us together and we quickly fell in love. Everything was smooth until I left for my work posting overseas. Long Distance r/p was hard, but i thought we could pull through. Until recently, i got jealous (typical Cancer) over her over-friendly lifestyle with her frenz. I did apologized, but the damaged was done. She said i’m giving her too much stress and hope to remain as friend until my return 2 yrs later. I do not plan to give her up. For these 2 years, I will start from square one, be her friend. I will learn to compromise, learn how to love a Gemini girl. I will forever be her protector (typical cancer), maybe more quietly this time round. I believe a male Cancer and female Gemini can work out. The male Cancer will just need to continue to be loyal and sincere. One day, she’ll just realize it.
March 17th, 2010 at 12:28 pm
I’m a cancer female and 2 male geminis have liked me in the past. I don’t know what makes them attracted to me to be honest. They seem charming and all, but how can you see past that? How do you tell when they genuinely like you?
March 18th, 2010 at 4:59 pm
actually im not gonna lie being a gemini woman i have alot of bois its hard to choose but ive recently met a cancer man and hes great hes funny and cutee we can be on the fone talking about nothing but its so fun….i like em alot but i dnt wanna rush anythinq we both like each other even though sometimes hes a lil 2 confident other than tht hes a great person gottah lie em!!:)
March 18th, 2010 at 5:35 pm
Wow astrology is amazeing,i mean the things the stars say about GEMINI and CANCERS compatibility hits right on the mark most of the time-mind u i said majority of the time. Ima full blown gemini to the T and my cancer boyfriend has all the traits of a typical cancer. On the poitive cancers are nurtureing,compassionate,dependable,sensual,very family orientated and boy do are they protective of there home and the ones thy love but on yhe flip side they are Moody with a capital M,naturually insecure which makes them clingy and need consatant reasurances,jealous,overly sensitive,possesive and if they dont get there way,which secrectly they always want,they can b down right SPITEFUL. Me im pretty easy going,im not a very EMOTIONAL person i tend to always think rational and keep level headed even in the worst situations i can remain cool,i know what i like and dont like,i enjoy a comfortable home and family life but im sociable and i need to b around diff people of all walks of life cuz i believe that no1 knows everything not even me MS.BRAINY GEMINI-smile, and i want to keep learning about life and what makes people tick and what better way to do that than by being friendly. Now lets get to compatability and my current relationship with my cancer FIANCE? Question mark at the end because i dont know how we got this far. In the beginning we were like two peas in a pod and 4 the 1st time in my life i thought to myself that there might actually b a such thing as a soul mate. Then just as i started to ge comfortable which took about 3mths the fights started and since cancers are emotional to the point they forget to rational and geminis cant stand an irrational person the fights got physical-which bordered abuse. Geminis are pleasant people but if we have to we will fight for whats right and i demand the respect i give others so it got quite violant but being an LOGICAL person i said to myself this sweet violant man is ANGRY and it seems to b at ALL women but i knew he loved me so i did some investigated because i must figure things out befoe i close the door on something and i found out my boyfriends mother ABANDONED him at 13 yrs old and CANCERS love there mothers even if the mothers a bad one they love her. She met a new man,married him and basically dropped him off at his fathers house as if he were just staying the week end and never returned leaveing him heart broken. Even worst now i was dealing with his abandonment issues which showed threw his violance and being that a man learns how to respect women by how his mother raises him my boyfriend also was male chauvenistic and under valued women,mind u if i knew all this i would of ran for the hills but ima gemini and even tho i knew we couldnt b together me knowing he was over all a good man but had trust and abandonment made me want to at least steer him in the right directions to get the treatment he needed.So i went to a book store and picked him up a few books on ABANDOMENT ISSUES,DOMESTIC VIOLANCE BOOKS AND A BIBLE and instantly i saw a change. Most cancers learn from there mistakes and they are very intelligent,usually if u run across a cancer who has problems its usually because some where down the road in there life some1 whom they really trusted nand loved deeply hurt them and it leaves a life long scar on them that they carry with them in there little crab shells but generally they are sweet,nurtuering souls that no matter how flirtatious they are they tend to search there entire lives for that one special person -there soul mate. Now that my fiance then byfriend got his abandonment and trust issues out the way he is ALMOST the perfect man. At times being we are opposites we still have a tiff or two we work them out pretty quick because we understand now that being differant is the spice of life and OPPOSITES attract. Basically i found that we are drawn to each other like bees to honey because we are so differant but a person would realize that actually your oppsite possesses qualities that you your self lack and vice versa and if used constructively it can be a most full filling relationship with much personal,financial and emotional growth. i read alot bof spiritual books and in 1 book i read, THE PERSON IN YOUR LIFE YOU ARGUE WITH THE MOST IS USUALLY THE PERSON GOD PUT INTO YOUR LIFE TO TEACH YOU THINGS ABOUT YOURSELF THAT YOU NEED TO CHANGE TO BECOME A BETTER PERSON; and i found this to be true with my boyfriend now FIANCE. I believe we were brought together because GOD knew if any1 could stand up for whats right and help some1 better them selves as a person and change 4 the better it was a GEMINI WOMEN and now me and my CANCER sweety are kinda liveing happy ever after. The moral of this true story is that astrology tends to be right that Cancer and Gemini are difficult matches,we are differant and at worst it can violant but in a strange way its like we are lost soul mates who were mistreated by society in another time and seperated and only until we meet and deal with past issues can we be free to live that fairy tale love in this life that no other being in the world could full fill. So if u are in a cancer,gemini relationsip it can be hard and it could be down right difficult but you are meant to be, u just need patience,understanding of each others differances and respect and love for each other and with that u can have the most rewarding most deepest loveing relationship you will ever have in this life time. Honestly any relationship can work with love and patiece. Be true to yourself and always stand for what u believe in and believe that GOD can does miracles and enjoy the life and blessings you have. Be good people and take it easy-and i mena that litterally- TAKE IT E,A,S,Y… Please feel free to comment i love makeing new friends and GOD SPEED SWEETIES.
April 22nd, 2010 at 5:42 am
im a gemini woman 6/15 who wants to b with a cancer man 7/22. we dont live in the same state but hes successful so he can travel here. the options look great and im the loving type that can handle a litte clingy but he just dont seem like the clingy type or the marrying type. i figure he must be one of those “in his prime” cancers. now that he knows me and has seen me in person i want to be his girlfriend but he wants to lay down the foundation agreement for us to start a relationship (whats that about we aint getting married lol) he wants to travel with me (i know its just to try and show me a good time) but he says all he really wants to do is finally relax and be with me at his home and watch movies and stuff. now this is a man who hasnt had a longer relationship then 3 months because the girls he gets with are kinda wierd liars–which even tho im a gemini i can truely say im not that– but he has a trust in me and i have a very big interest in him to where i am willing to be completely loyal to him because i like him so much. im just afraid i might have one of them sneaky cancer men who all they like to do is party and never settle down, im cautious but determained i hope that after i catch him the magic doesnt wear off because as a gemini that seems to be the story of my love. im just thinking too much but i am trying to understand what cancers want so i can help him have what he wants
—-so confused gemini—— u can email me on my myspace for some helpful insight!
April 24th, 2010 at 8:56 pm
After reading the above speech about the definition of a Gemini and a Cancer, i can completely say that i feel that it is FALSE. I am a Gemini and my boyfriend is a Cancer, he is definitely not the sensitive type nor does he lack the zest for life. We both compliament eachother very well, i do agree that a Gemini can get quite bored farely quickly but i have never been bored when it comes to this relationship. We do have our moments when we get into a slight argument BUT it is usually due to one of us misinterpriting what the other ment, which then works itself out. We have been together for over a year and have fought twice then resolved 2 minutes later. He does like things planned out, where as i dont really care what happens…but he can be soo spontanious sometimes, it even catches me off guard and i love it :)…i really couldnt be happier xox
June 3rd, 2010 at 11:04 am
Gemini Woman here,
I am currently dating a Cancer man and he is unlike anyone I’ve ever dated before. He is one of the most genuine, respectful, and down to earth people I have ever met. He has this way about him that I just feel safe, calm, and content. But some of our close mutual friends are worried because I, on the other hand, fit the gemini persona almost perfectly. I am loud, blunt, and outspoken, and tend to get bored very easily while my Cancer friend is quiet, reserved, and sensitive. My friends are so worried about our match up that I am starting to worry, and I can already see him beginning to cling to me by referring to me as “babe” and constantly wanting to see me. I feel like my best bet is to tell him that we need to take things slow and let him know that while I may be very interested in him now, my feelings tend to change as often as the wind changes direction, and I may feel completely different towards him. Does anyone have any advice for me, should I let him go like my friends want me to or just be honest with him about who I am and see how it goes?
July 31st, 2010 at 11:30 pm
I have a Gemini male friend and I felt a strong attraction towards him. Like a magnet pulling me to him. I never met anybody like him before and the other night I told him I like him more than a friend.
The funny thing is he is all into astrology and told me it wouldn’t work because of our signs.
I just laughed because I think its true but we shouldn’t throw away a chance at something just because of a horoscope. It would truly be foolish because I never felt this way before. I know he feels the same way I do.
August 12th, 2010 at 4:14 pm
Hello,
I am a Cancer and have been with my Gemini boyfriend for going on 3 years now. I wouldn’t ask for any better of a guy! Yes, like most guys, he has a hard time listening.. But the first day I met him I knew I loved him. It was kind of crazy. I am the one who likes to go and travel and he always is home and I love him for that. Anytime I need him, he’s there for me. I was curious if our signs matched, but truly it was just for curiosities sake. I’m not about to end anything with him because we aren’t fully compatible. Because actually we are compatible; our pesonalities, interests and I wouldn’t change a thing.
August 12th, 2010 at 7:44 pm
hey you guys im a gemini and im very young 15 to be exact but being the person who i am ive grown up fast i dont act my age. i like a cancer guys very much hes everything that i want in a relationship but he has a girlfriend and wants to be loyal to her which is understandable but he also likes me alot and i really want to be with him and i keep tellin him how i feel and he tells me how he feels and it seems like we should be goin out already but in the end he stays faithful to her. so since hes one of my best friends im proud of him for stayinq faithful but then again i also want him to be mine, what do i do?
September 12th, 2010 at 1:33 pm
Hi, i am a cancer woman here, and have been in relationship with a gemini man for 6 years!
All that is described here is true reflections of what we have been going through…it is all about
loving someone and when you know you love him, you wouldn’t mind anything. It is tough at the beginning, when he would just keep quiet and most of the time can’t be bothered to listen, or to even wipe tears off you. He doesn’t show care in a direct way, so a lot times the cancer girl will go into self wallowing, and thinking over and over again if he cares at all. I am not sure what is in the future for us, true enough, gemini, he doesn’t like to talk about future, and always avoiding the topic. All he would say is that he doesn’t know, it is heartbreaking most of the time…he will leave me to cry and cry all i can, and will cheer me up when my mood gets better. being moody, i hav to say it takes gemini great effort and patience to bear with the moon-like cancer…for the cancer women out there who are in relationship with gemini, got to have the confidence and trust that he loves you and the way he behaves is the way he is and to be understanding to each other’s needs. I think gemini cancer relationship if works out, will be the most perfect match than any other signs. Opposite attracts..
October 22nd, 2010 at 9:50 pm
I think that Cancer(7/15, Woman, ME) and Gemini (6/17, Male) are very compatible!!! I’m usually not attracted to Gemini’s, but with this guy, it was almost magnetic. We have an unspoken connection… I love his spontaneity, sense of responsibility, his wit and charm, and his positive energy. I admire this man and he inspires me to be a better person and woman. I guess I’m not your typical Cancer either because I’m not clingy but I do find comfort in stability, I also am not a homebody!!! Though I do feel I’ve learned to control my emotions and make decisions with my mind instead of my heart. I’ve been described by family and friends as free-spirited and flighty! My Gemini and I have been dating for a year now and I love everything about him. We both, at times need our own space but neither one of us take it personal!!! I feel like he’s the first man to ever really “get me” and simultaneously “accept” me… I’m a very eccentric creative person and him and I mesh just fine. We are compliments, as opposed to opposites!
January 14th, 2011 at 6:51 am
I am a Gemini man born in June 8 87 n i told a cancer woman once that i fall in love with her.but she refused to accept it though we have a good friendly relationship from the very start of 2008 in college.But I’m still loving her even if we live in two separated places.to end up with what what has been said above abt Gemini man has some truth in it so far as i know……..
and ME CANCER AM STILL MISSIN’ U………..
March 9th, 2011 at 12:44 am
im female cancer and with a male gemini, this is my third and his second attempt at a relatonship, yes he does like his independance and being around people keeping busy in some way or another, yet we have learnt alot about each other, amongst other things he has learnt to slow down think relax and take it all in, and i have enjoyed every single spur of the moment experience he has taken me on, we communicate well and have never had a word spoken in anger at each other, our sexual relationship is very passionate and diverse, we are halfway into our second year together and we simply enjoy and take on each day as it comes
March 26th, 2011 at 7:33 am
I am a cancer and have been with a gem for a year and a half and i did not expect it to last this long he persuede me and i fell and now he is some what like what is being said but not all the way.before we had sex i made a commit the people can be decitated to each other but not we “with” each other and then the first 6 mths went buy and he came at me like he wanted to be with me.i told him i would not have sex with another guy but slow down another 6 mths went by and i approached him and he said the same thing back i wondered if me puttin him down 1st messed with his head now i am thinkin he cant make up his mind but he is so attentive to me he is routine and he is still here we get throw the rough spots but my cancer instincts tell me he want to make sure and test the water before he committs something tells me he loves me but he will not say it and i really think he want to be with me but he girl before me cheated and hurt him bad so my cancer gem union is good but for what i am hearin i have to let him be him which i can but do i have to stop my cancer ways and put my foot down or what help
June 19th, 2011 at 3:26 pm
I’m a cancer female 7/18 and he is a gemini male. We met on plenty of fish a couple months ago. He is in Afghanistan right now due to return in like 20 days. Everything is great, emails are wonderful and phone conversations are even better. I’m really hoping since he is in the military and 33 (to my 23) maybe it’ll help with some of the flaws. Also, major bummer. Ky son (3) is a gemini and honestly from what I’ve read about them…the traits are not the best.
July 4th, 2011 at 10:22 am
Gemini Female here, currently I’m attracted to a Cancer male….I have no words to describe this guy….the moment I msg him…he doesn;t reply, when I don;t msg him he asks me what happened? why am I not msg-ing….I’m confused…and he calls me girl and stuff, hopefully he’s not trying to flirt with me, I had it enough with a Previous Leo, who made me laugh so much, and made me tear so much….heartless LEO’s, they can sweep u off ur feet and trash u into the bin if they have to…Sick and tired of him…i need someone who will take care of me and Love me for who I am….I really dun mind is he clings…I really like this Cancer guy…hope things will work out…:)
February 15th, 2012 at 2:56 am
I’m a Cancer woman who is madly, deeply in love with a crazy, passionate, heavy thinking, SEXY Gemini man. Our relationship has been the craziest roller-coaster ride ever. We have been trough SO much together. I’ve left him twice and I just can’t quit him. We are soul mates and we definitely butt heads at times but the emotional, physical and spiritual connection that I know I would NEVER EVER find with anyone else. I recommend this combo but only if both parties are strong enough to handle each other…for sure…lol!! Our sex life is amazing CRAZY and HOOOOT!! We’ve been together almost 5 years. What a ride… but still screaming and LOVING it!