Aries Compatibility With Cancer |
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Aries and Cancer
This relationship will be a hard one. Cancerian people hide their own true selves underneath a tough external shell. It is hard to break down the walls and barriers the Cancer has built up, but once the Aries does get into this persons heart they will find someone who is easily hurt and very sensitive. For the Cancer loves his/her home, and family is the most important thing. They long to settle down, get married and have lots of little baby crabs, the Aries may not want the same thing for possibly years to come, and can find it hard to look to the future with such seriousness. The sex life of this Water and Fire sign combination will no doubt suffer. Once the Cancerian has realised that their Arian lover isn't looking for the 'Walton's' type of lifestyle they can go off sex rather quickly, as Cancer people deep down believe that love making = baby making, otherwise, what's the point??? If you were to ask who is the boss in such a relationship you simply pose yet another problem. The Cancerian wants to be the decision maker in the home and has a tendency to sulk for days on end unless this requirement is met. This arrangement dosen't sit too well with the fun loving Aries who will feel suffocated and tied down by this union. Which may eventually cause the Arian to flee or even worse fall into the arms of another. These two really don't have much going for them i'm afraid. For this relationship to work there must be total understanding of the other's needs and a lot of patience, which the Cancer may manage, but I'm not too sure the Aries will want to work quite so hard and may opt just to find an easier relationship to fit into.
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May 19th, 2008 at 2:40 pm
Cancers are attracted to Aries like a moth to a flame. Cancers love the strengths of an Aries but they can’t handle it when that fire is turned up on them. I will never date another cancer. As much as I love the soft side of a Cancer I can’t deal with how they hide in there shell when things go wrong. Trust me I have dated so many Cancer men and will never do that again. I must say we make great lovers together but that only goes so far. A disagreement arise – Aries want to argue/discuss and move on to hot love making – Cancer want to go and stick there head in there shell and soak about it and then in a couple of days want to make love…and they never want to talk about it.….forget that ……..an Aries likes to deal with the problem and move on…….soaking is wasting time…life if to short.
Any way if you are an Aries and you are dating a CAncer…….I wish you the best of luck,,,,,,,you are going to need it….
PS your Cancer is not going to change (and if they do it will not last)……they are crabs and move very slow by the time they realize they need to change you will would have moved on to someone else.
May 19th, 2008 at 2:43 pm
Cancers are attracted to Aries like a moth to a flame. Cancers love the strengths of an Aries but they can’t handle it when that fire is turned up on them. I will never date another cancer. As much as I love the soft side of a Cancer I can’t deal with how they hide in their shell when things go wrong. Trust me I have dated so many Cancer men and will never do that again. (5 to say the least) I must say we make great lovers together but that only goes so far. A disagreement arise – Aries want to argue/discuss and move on to hot love making – Cancer want to go and stick their head in their shell and soak about it and then in a couple of days want to make love…and they never want to talk about it.….forget that ……..an Aries likes to deal with the problem and move on…….soaking is wasting time…life if to short
June 11th, 2008 at 2:14 pm
I have been dating an Aries man for 2 months exactly now. I’m cancer sun, scorpio moon and aquarius rising and its amazing how we just cannot get enough of each other. I love the way he just takes control, he’s a real manly man and it makes me crazy. We spend every weekend together and I dont have to beg him, he does it out of his own. He is 34 and never settled, i’m 28 and divorced with 2 kids, so my mind is way off kids right now. Just want to enjoy life. I would say that i’m a bit more adventurous than he is and maybe a bit more exciting. He’s kinda boring in that he just wants to stay in all the time. I do get moody but i let him have it, then its over and i can breathe again, instead of keeping it in and sulking. Tried that, but he’s way too stupid to notice that i’m being ugly with him…hehehe
July 3rd, 2008 at 8:49 pm
I am 31 aries women and I’m in love with 26 Cancer Man.I always thought I will not settle down but he makes me think about the possibilities. I know that I am to much for him at times but that’s the only thing I can do is have faith and slow down with life. Yes, indeed they are great lovers and they know how to fill in all the gaps in you.In such a way that they leave an everlasting mark in your soul. Even though I may not be with him now but I know if the heavens allow me to have him back in my life he will come back. Cancer man are loving people but they need to know that if this is what they want then they should muster up and stand up to Aries women and say “Yes I want this too”. Aries women need to hear that from time to time. If you don’t then they will give up and move on even though there hearts are still with them. For all of you Cancer man tell an Aries women what is in your heart. That is all she needs to hear.
July 18th, 2008 at 4:22 am
im an aries girl and im dating a cancer guy and things are not going well at all. he thinks they are but im getting to the point where i wanna break up but i dont wanna hurt his feelings i would feel horrible. i love him, but at the same time our relationship just isnt working. he is way too moody for me. he has mood swings constantly and we fight everyday it seems like. im more sweet, and he is sensitive he just likes to hide it all to himself and never tell me about it. and if he does tell me something he always makes me feel like im doing something wrong cause he yells at me and always is soo moody i cant really handle him.
July 21st, 2008 at 6:27 am
im in love wih an aries guy. And i know he loves me back. Hes told me that I was the only girl he was ever happy with, and the only one he loved(and still does)and ive heard all the stuff that a cancer aries relationship is difficult, but i dont see why. If you love someone and they love you back, then it shouldnt matter what sign you are…as long as the 2 of you make each other happy.
September 5th, 2008 at 8:26 pm
im a cancer woman im just 19 years old im dating a aries guy he’s 21..our relationship is not so good bcuz he wants everything to be his way and no itsz not like dat…& he doesn’t even go out or nothing he’s kinda boring we have been dating for 1 year now..& he told me that im the only girl that settled him down that he loves me & that he wants to spend his whole life with me I love him a lot yes but ima kinda person that I don’t like 2 show what im feeling idk why…so yeah I let it be how ever god wants it 2 be…
September 5th, 2008 at 11:41 pm
my cancer husband is a dog! Very charming, will buy you the world, it s his way or the highway. Cheated with a girl for a long time. Moody and its true he is only happy when he has a pocket full of money. Really sweet and you can have some good times with cancers. but beware snoop through his stuff find out all you can about them. Because they have a lot to hide. They will truly be someone else when you discover who they really are. Proceed with caution!!! They will charm your socks off and make you feel you are the one. It will be no question that you are the one, but there will be others make no mistake about it..After four years….I’m finally trying to get out. P.S. If you can deal with a cheater, other than the mood swings he’ll treat you like a queen. Diamonds cash cars and furs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Is it worth it though ladies…I’ve decided to get out and get it for myself……Power to you ladies to get rid of these dogs….
September 9th, 2008 at 3:17 pm
im a typical Aries woman with a strong personality and being with a cancer was no doubt one of the worst relationship and experience in my entire life. they’re really selfish deep inside but act selfless to the world, it’s their way or the high way. Also they’re good at playing victims due to their so called sensitive nature, very controlling and insecure for no reason. Likes hiding their past and things until you find out on your own (which is not gonna be a pretty sight considering you ARE with an Aries) Never want to talk about things,when its time to talk( a rare occasion) ,they go back into their shell for a long time. Plus they’re really boring,always want to stay in and not have sex too. They love the Aries fire but really cannot handle it. Better stick to Leos,geminis or even virgos(at least they’re sane)
September 9th, 2008 at 7:53 pm
`i’M A Aries women and I met a cancer man and he is everything that i need, he is loving, caring and romantic and express how he feels all the time, i love that about him. I’ll just pray for our future to be healthy and strong.
P.S.
I don’t think it’s the sign who makes the person it’s the person who makes them, because not all cancer men are the same.
September 24th, 2008 at 6:07 pm
IM 16 AND A CANCER. IM DATING A 18 YEAR OLD ARIES GUY
I NEVER FELT THE SAME ABOUT ANY ONE IN MY LIFE
I LOOOOOVE HIM AND HE LOVES ME
MY PARENTS DONT LIKE HIM BECAUSE HE IS CONTROLLONG AND BOSSY
EVERYTHING HAS TO BE HIS WAY
HE ALSO THINKS THAT I DONT LOVE HIM AS MUCH AS HE LOVES ME
I CANT EXPRESS MY FEELINGS THAT WELL
ARIES AND CANCER IS VERY STESSFUL TOGETHER
WE FIGHT ALOT
ALMOST EVERY NITE
BUT I LOVE MICHAEL SO MUCH I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO
October 15th, 2008 at 4:43 am
I am a 19 year old female Cancer dating a 26 year old male Aries. We have been together since I was 14 years old and it is still going great!! we have a Beautiful 2 year old daughter, and i fall in love with him more and more everyday!:) So see an Aries and Cancer relationship can work. We do have our ups and downs but we always work it out. After all no one is perfect.
October 27th, 2008 at 12:13 pm
i’ve been with a cancer man for the last 5 years. we have just had a little boy together 5 months ago. we do understand each other and we try to talk about everything when problems arise. although i do feel suffocated sometimes where i believe he runs the show and makes all the decisions i read up about cancer and aries compatibility a lot and there are something s in there that relate. he is sensitive and i see that about him all the time his feelings get hurt very easily but also he is very quick to get over things. it has been a very interesting relationship where in the beginning it took him 3 years to figure out whether he wanted to be with me or not and me being an aries wouldve walked away sooner but iwaited for him. i believe this relationship would work but theres so many things that can completely ruin it. i love him to death but everything is always his way and i know it gets under my skin, in a way kind of not being able to make my own decisions and think for my self. but i believe life is what you make it so thats why i have stuck with him for so long cause he makes me laugh, but i reckon in his case he’s got a very destructable personality in what way i mean with alcohol and drinking and not knowing when to stop and sayin nasty things he doesnt mean when he is drunk but as i said he gets over it quick, i think this could work but i reckon i’m going to need a lot of patience, we are with each other all the time and iit does get crowding, but we are both loyal to each other i guess the relationship will always work if you just give it a chance and step back a look at where it is going and where your life is going to take you in it……there are goingto be trates you like and dislike about your other half but the good things should always outweigh the bad!
November 14th, 2008 at 8:33 am
i’m a cancer female 28 dating an aries male 26. i think that the reason our relationship works out so well is because the rest of our charts mesh well. for example my venus is in gemini, his is in aquarius. also he’s got a lot of water in his chart & i have a lot of air. he’s perfect! i just need to express my feelings more, i do tend to shell up because i’m afraid of his response, but everytime i do open up; it’s not been a bad experience. i guess i lucked out in this cancer & aries combo, thank goodness!
December 5th, 2008 at 9:00 am
I am so so happy with my Aries man. Reading horoscopes made me a bit skeptical because every review I read on Aries and Cancer was absolutely awful. That affected me a little as a Cancerian girl, i take almost.. everything to heart, but I know what is real with him and that is that we work really really well together. I dont mind him being bossy and controlling, I love it when he takes charge. I do take charge in some ways. I was always looking for a man that could stand up to me and take control and I found him. I hate weak men that I can boss around, which I did in most of my relationships. Its such a huge turn off.
Let me tell you, reading some of these comments have assured me that it can work, which I already knew, but it just confirmed it.
In my case, my Peter Pan was still being a boy while I was settling down and when I came out of that when it didnt work, he was ready to settle down. I got him at the right time.
My guy is the one who doesn’t like sex and I being Cancer, am very sexual. My guy is the one who stays in all the time and never wants to go anywhere cos he’s quite an introvert and shy. But not at home, when he’s with me, he’s the funniest guy in town, I have so much fun with him, its laughter all the time. We’ve had 1 fight in 9 months, but made up in the same hour.
Its been 6 months since my last comment and still going strong. So, dont write off a Cancerian or an Arian, it just depends on the person. You could be missing out on the ride of your life…..
December 31st, 2008 at 5:02 am
hi I’m a 21 year old Aries and I just started dating a cancer guy,. Well so far he is been great!, we talk a lot, he even talks more than I do (that’s incredible!). He always asks me what do I want and asks for my opinion…I just hope it stays this way because he is great….
January 6th, 2009 at 1:16 am
I’m a Cancer woman and have no desire to have lots of baby crabs. I’ve actually never had a desire to be a mother. I knew early on in life that parenting takes “selflessness” (is that a word?) I’m 40 yrs old and embrace life and love children.. just don’t want one of my own.
I’m currently dating an Aries of 2 yrs and LOVE HIM! He’s so easy and far from demanding. Maybe he’s different because I don’t fit a mold.
To come to think of it, my closest female freind is an Aries too and I’ve made 4 Cancer friends through her. Is that odd or the norm?
I love cooking and love my home life but I feel like men get in the way unless they hire a house-keeper.
I have zero desire to clean after a grown man unless we created the mess together.
I’ve been told by many that they are very surprised and impressed with my home-making skills but state I’m nothing like a Cancer until I’m hurt…
Thats when I crawl into a shell.. but only around the person(s) that hurt me… The others will never see me sweat. LOL`
January 10th, 2009 at 2:55 am
CANCER GUYS R GREAT.. BUT I DONT LIKE THE FACT THAT THEY WANT ALL THE ATTENTION
January 14th, 2009 at 5:07 am
I am an aries(girl) and I have been with my cancer(boy)for almost 3 years. At first he was extremely romantic! But when he showed his real side I wished I had never even met him. Every time we have any stupid little argument he never knows how to let it go and he hates talking about anything. Now I know guys dont like talking about their feelings but NEVER have I met such a sensitive(in a bad way)guy! If he is mad about something i did he will keep all his anger inside, he wont say a word.. then when i ask him whats wrong? he wont reply, I usually try changing the subject and hope he will just get over it but eventually he always blows up and runs away from every single problem. Nothing ever gets resolved with him!!! real men face their problems not hide from them
January 23rd, 2009 at 8:26 pm
Wow; I wished I had seen this website a few years back - it would have preempted sooo much futile fighting. ;p Aries women don’t do well with Cancer men because we need straightforward, confrontational results. We are impatient. Cancer people are sooo closed at times and will agree to stave off confrontation. That is maddening!
February 14th, 2009 at 4:21 am
I am an aries women married to a cancer man.We have been togheter for 19 years!!!Yes we do fight (well I do).This is who they are let them deal with the problems without any confrontation and they will come out and say what is wrong. When they get moody just use our natural charm to change it.By the way the sex is amazing.
March 5th, 2009 at 7:02 am
I’m an Aries woman 26 years old, seeing a cancer Man who is married and is 35 years old. when we met he was quite open and told me he was married but he said he is looking for a friend and he is not happy with his married life. we blend well but at times we had flights. i feel he only enjoy having sex & then disappears for days. not bothered about me but i should be.. i feel i love him because he was honest but now i feel he just wants to have a good time. i wait for him but sometimes there is no response. nothing around me cheers but its just him i want. i dont know what to do .. he did change my life but there is no hope that i can have him for long. if i leave i will surely miss him, i just cant get over him he makes me happy but at time he is rude and very moody. i feel these two stars cant blend or be together for long. im just happy atleast i can be somewhere in his life not for long but for a while.
March 10th, 2009 at 10:46 pm
wow i got on this page to look up some help for a friend but found my own sign crisis chat line while she was too busy for me to read this to her. i am aries female married to cancer male 18 years and it is stressful at times. we have two children, one almost as old as our relationship and one middle aged throught this roller-coaster ride.i am being kind of hazy on the exacts because my cancer is a self-taught computer whiz,as he is with anything that catches his attention.so he might peep out this chat page by mistake and say i know that blah-blah, you get me!!! so we are the long haul people, but all the comments i have read here are all correct every last entry. you all have some up my life, the good the bad and the ugly. i am not the typical arian but he’s the by the book cancer male and he admits its, he’s read up on his sign.not his characteristics not dealing with thing,extremly nice to be around,great friend,highly loyal,etc.not a bad deal actually but together with a aries female, life goes by real slow,import thing can go amiss while waiting for cancer males to make a decision,get out of a mood or just decide to let the best mate/parent,at that time to handle a situation. dont let anyone waste your life away!!! im doing ok, because i refuse to be a victim or even play one in a real life drama!!but when have children you give up alot he gives up alot too,but his is due to procrastination.but he’s one of the sweetest people i wish i had never met and if you think this is a typo, it is not. he’s such a good friend, will try to give materialistically,things he thinks or might have heard you admired. but will not listen to the important thing that you say straight out you need. that is more important to me. i am much softer version of an aries female lots of water in my charts, butstill, sun in aries,so i try to have patience.he makes me laugh and shows me he loves me and i do the same and willing to do more if only he would be more consistant in more ways,too many to count, im more lovey-dovey than realizes. loves his kids,but,only his kids, keep this in mind my hubby will feed his immediate family and watch another one starve unless i get involved.mind you cancer can be selfish but you’ve got to be on the inside to see it. he will tell you he does not care about others deeply besides his own.so occasionally i have to throw humanity across the road so he run over-it-back up and decide to join the human race and not just show a perfect face and deamenor and not give a care. and no i am not trying to make him save the ANJOLINA/BRAD PITT WORLD but it some we all have to remember teach to children and others and incorporate it sometimes into our lives. if you deal with someone who does care at all, dont say anything when you come home and their eating your neighbor or abusing you or yours because no one told them to play nice. the diffent faces he has is what keeps us still marching on,we see the potential in each other plus we both are strong protectors of kids.we are hard workers and family-first supporters but lots of give and take and ignore and make-up, oh i forgot!! he is highly energized in the bed room.as long as were not angry. keep cancer male positively motivated, more so,if your trying for the long haul. if going for a quicky or two throw a cap on it and enjoy the ride, then get off and run they’ll stick to you like glue if you stand still too long!!cancer males not bad but you’ll want to slap them after they slow you down pissed you off or not gotten self to the next mature place in life,the head must come out of the hole,tempt them to join us,but,proceed with caution,they bite,whine,B**CH i say pass on this one ARIES FEMALE,UNLESS YOU HAVE TO!! but i’ll take care of the one i have(I’M ALREADY IN MY BED,THAT I’VE MADE)PLUS,people give up too fast on families. so here’s to trying with a smile. good luck to all and this is just food for thought the last desion should be from your own exact situation.WHEW!!!
March 18th, 2009 at 9:20 pm
Hi there! I’m a Cancer female. I’m thinking about dating an Aries male. All these things I’m reading about their relationship together though is making me doubt my decision a little.
He’s really sweet, makes me laugh, I can relate to him about a lot of things, and he listens. Now, sometimes he may not have to best response, but… you know how that goes.
I haven’t known him for long, but I really like him. I may even be able to fall in love with him. (I’m still recovering from recently losing the love of my life; we were going to be engaged, but it didn’t work out.)
You’re right about us Cancers: we can be very moody and jealous. I’ve read that Aries men have a tendency to look at other women. That would definitely make me feel uncomfortable. But do I want to start an arguement by mentioning it to him?
March 29th, 2009 at 10:08 pm
I am a 26 year old Cancer woman married to a 31 year old Aries man and have known him for 3 years. I am so glad to say how wrong the astrology prediction of this relationship is. We love each other and are extremely happy together. We both had seen people of other sunsigns before we met each other. I dated a Pisces man for a while before I met my husband. Though Pisces and Cancer are supposed to be the best for each other, it was just the opposte for me. In fact Pisces & Cancer tend to be both demanding emotional satisfaction but neither being the doer or the one to take charge. But with my husbnd I feel that he is man enough to understand and listen and fulfill my emotional needs. I feel taken care of and satiated , emotionally, intellectally & sexually. His aggressive nature and determination to succeed and my caring nature and vulnerability only make us fall in love even more every morning we open our eyes next to each other.
It is said in the article that
” For this relationship to work there must be total understanding of the other’s needs and a lot of patience”
I would like to know which relationahip on earth doesn’t need understanding & patience???
And as far as finding another easier relationship is concerned, I guess we all have our options. Anyone can walk out of a perfect relationship & not just a specific sun sign.
March 31st, 2009 at 4:57 am
I’m in love with a Aries man, he’s everything I ever wanted. After reading this I been trying to decide if I should let him go or keep working at it. On his side its so hard to tell.
sometimes I think he likes me, other times I think he off to find someone new. I’m very torn.
I’m glad some of you have made it work. I just don’t know if our relationship will work out.
April 4th, 2009 at 12:26 am
I am a Cancer woman, and I just met an Aries man. I don’t know what to think of him. He is in a relationship, and says he has never cheated on her. I not trying to down play myself but out of all these years how come I am the first he want to cheat with? and I’ve read about the compatibility between us but I think it wrong. I don’t have a problem with telling how I feel. to me he does. We have been talking for only two month and he is already talking about love.I do dig him but I don’t know I feel like he is hiding something. But he supports me sooo much. I have had some mature young men in my life. But he seems like the manliest man I have ever known. If he would let me know where he is in his relationship may be I would be a little more comfortable. When I asked him how did he feel about her he answered with an incomplete answer. I am also in a relationship. I love my partner (cap) but its been a battle. It’s just hard for me to find my way back. But I had have a friend on the side(pis) I knew before the Aries. He never talks about my partner. But he always talks about my friend and the Aries act soo jealous of him. We argue but we do get along. I don’t know!!!
April 4th, 2009 at 9:33 pm
i am a 16 yr old cancer and i am dating a 17 yr old aries.reading some of this comments gave me hopes.ive know him for a year and some months.he does like to take control all the time tho,but i love this! he is the one that turns on the relationship.just like the crab i am i will not let him go.hes help me be more outgoing and craul out of my shell.at the beginnig i didnt have hopes for both of us.scince he would alway party and had a social life and im not that type a girl.i like for of a calm climate.but as much as hes taught me so have i.
April 20th, 2009 at 8:31 pm
I’m so in love with my Aries Man it is scary. He is so good to me. But I finally realized what makes him very angry with me. It’s when I get jealous (trait of the Crab) No I dont act out. But to me he is so amazing I know so many other females must see what I see. Yeah he is very friendly but I have to keep it in the perspective that it is just his charming personality.I have to remember to pull back because I can swallow him up whole because he is just that good to me. So when I back up that is when he is really at his best. To be honest when I ignore him, he wants to release more love but when I get so mushy he backs up. So i have to keep it in the middle. I know he likes mushy sometimes but I think he prides himself in that false cocky exterior that Aries really think they must maintain in order to be in control, I think our sweetness can possibly weaken them a trait they don’t want to acquire. Three years so far.
April 28th, 2009 at 1:41 am
I just read through the post and comments. I don’t know what to think. I am a Aries woman (34) to the heart and I recently started dating a Cancer man (31). I have had a bad experience with a cancer man in my past that lead me NOT to date them anymore until now. He’s funny and sweet but I wonder how long is it going to last? How long will it be before he is ready to commit to a relationship? Am I patient enough to wait? He’s worth the wait but I’am not good at waiting. But they say anything that is good is worth waiting on. What to do? What to do?
May 17th, 2009 at 1:11 am
Im a 17 year old -(CANCER]* I qo w. a 19 year old -(ARIES]* We been toqether since summer 08. So that makes about 10 months. He has a real big prooblem stayinq faithful . He still talks to his X from time to time . It bothers me alot but i really dont arque with him because i no he is qoinq to do what he wants reqardless. He is very bossy (&&] aqqessive bhut ; but at the same time sweet (&&] carinq . Tell you the truth his aqqressiveness turns me on. He is very sexual and always wants to make love/sex. Beinq that i lost my VIRGINITY to him ; he thinks he owns me. He is my very first love. Maybe since im a cancer i have a hard time describinq how i feel. I never told him i love him before. He ended up telling me first. I love him so much that it scares me . Im so afraid of qettinq my heart broken (&&] him leavinq me. I dont know what else to do i mean i tried everythinqq !
July 6th, 2009 at 2:07 pm
Im a Aries and HOPELESSLY in love with my cancer bf, but he does tend to block me out n not tell me whats wrong, like now….and i cant get a word out of him, i hope we can get passed this.
hes soo loving, sexual, caring (sometimes) lol ^ as above Beinq that i lost my virginity to him too, we been together 3 years now, im 20 hes 22 ths year. im never ever unfaithfull to him as i cant and never will be able to i love him too much, when we are together its magic but when we are not its a disaster. we took everything slow at the start as i was a virgin and because i dont trust easy and he waited till i was ready..yeah was a while shocked me. but i think he is gonna be the one to leave and leave me heartbroken. and i will be. i have been veryyy patient for him
July 6th, 2009 at 2:17 pm
sex is defo amazing, wouldnt have it anyother way, that cancer of mine rocks my sheets *winks*
July 9th, 2009 at 1:47 am
I totally agree with Julie. Just let your cancer man be, if something is really wrong in the relationship he will tell you. Patience is the key for sure. Im head over heels in love with my cancer. He is honest, loving, sweet ,passionate and caring. and sex is literally AMAZING. We balance eachother quite well. and frankly, i need him to calm me down and help me make smarter decisions, especially with money !
July 14th, 2009 at 12:28 am
yeah i waited n waited but nothing!
n i thought it was the aries that was bad..ha! yeah he broke my heart just as i thought he would..how stupid am i…good luck with them cancers girls if this is all true …your need it
July 15th, 2009 at 4:46 pm
Yup,Bry’Naee Marshall . Im going thorugh the same thing. Im a cancer ( 14 ] && my Bf is an aries ( 16 ]. I love the Aries Confidence and cockiness,Its a true turn-on to me.The aries takes me out of my shell,appreciates me,Loves me, Protects me, stands up for me && is always supporting me.But its hard for me to open up to him at times because he gets loud,mad && defensive. But hes trying to get to me because i worry about the same stuff and repaet it over and over and over again.Im very moody . I thought it was only PMS but its honestly the true cancer ways . I cant help it . I just dont want him to get swept off his feet by another girl or leave me . So to get attention , i become a Drama-queen . Im working on it though . I changed alot of my Cancerian ways to make the Aries satisfied . But hes not doing the same for me . He tells me all his secrets but he never really gets deep into it. Like everythings going to be alright . I bet if he read this he’d get mad like why you posting our business on the web . Thats just how he is . But im madly inlove with him && we just have our problems like every other relationship. But at the end of the day, Stars cant determine your love business or Friendship life . Its you that makes your decesions and assumptions on what you want in ANY relationship. Kinda like saying go jump-off a bridge beacuse alot of people are doing it. Would you do it ? Hopefully thats a NO.
But thanks for reading .
God bless everybody
July 18th, 2009 at 3:07 pm
Hi. I am an Aries Bloke (Man dating a Cancer Woman. I can tell you that this is the most amazing union I have ever had. We are so compatible in many ways. I know she can get moody but I love her so much. I know you need to have patience and eventually she will come around when he have altercations. The thing is with Aries is though we are always looking for greener pasteres our true core belief is to find someone who is totally committed to the relationship and I can tell you you will never find anybody that is more committed than a cancer girl especally when it comes to family. She will show you love in many ways and you just have to be carful not to take it for granted. She does have the tendancy to be jelouse at times because I can be very friendly yet in a secret kind of way all Aries men kind of like it because they know at least she notices you and that she cares about you…. I am so attracted to her motherly ways and how she is so sweet and tender in her intimate mments. It makes the aries man want to get stronger and very protective because the aries man knows a good thing when he has it. The aries man can be very fierce when it comes to protecting thier love.
Love between a Aries man and Cancer woman can be one full of passion and excitment coupled with caring and nuturing…
July 22nd, 2009 at 2:49 pm
I am a 31 yr old Aries women that has been married to a 35 yr Cancer man for 4 yrs now and I have never felt so low in my life than i have with this man. Although I love him to death, his mood swings, over-sensative nature, run away from my problems attitude, can’t have sex but every 2 to 3 months has driven me to end of my rope. I wish i would have read up on zodiac signs prior to dating and then marrying this cancer man, i would have definently stayed away. So many of you Aries women feel my pain. I can see why an Aries man and Cancer women work, because it is expected for a women to be sensative, but a man - as an Aries women I cannot accept it. I like a take charge guy-which I thought that what i was getting. My cancer man runs from his problems and blames me and the world for why he can’t get it right. EVERYTHING IS ABOUT HIM!!!!EVERYTHING!!!! We can’t watch a movie without it being about him. He will hold on to anything that i say or do and remind me about it later. But i dare not do the same to him…Don’t get me wrong, my cancer man is very loving and has showed me how to slow down a bit and enjoy life instead of rushing through it. I love his soft side. But can i be the women in the relationship, sometimes. Feels like i am in a lesbian relationship - but i take out the trash and bring home the bacaon. It sucks being with a cancer man!!!
July 24th, 2009 at 12:44 pm
I’m a cancer female dating an airies guy, and i think we are the perfect example of a couple in love.. I want my way alot, and he challenges me.. there is nothing i hate more than a man that won’t stand up to me, and he does.. He is very confident and fiery.. But to be honest.. I find that extremely sexy… I don’t think I am the typical cancerian… As i like to let my feeling known… But, saying that, I can get clingy sometimes
August 18th, 2009 at 9:53 am
I Am A 18 Year Old Female, Also An Aries, And Im Engaged To My Girlfriend A 18 Year Old Cancer. The Relationship Is Amazing, It Started Off Rocky Because Of My Inconsideration For Her Feelings. My Strong Personality Caused A Few Disagreements But With Patience And Understanding It Worked Out. My Girlfriend Tends To Want My Attention All The Time But I Don’t Mind, I Actually Enjoy It. Both Of Us Can Be Equally COntrolling But Its Never A Problem. We Have The Same Goals An Dreams We Want To Accomplish Together, And We Respect Each Other, As Well As, Tend To Each Others Needs. The Sex Is Amazing And Wild, So Im Always On My Toes With What To Expect Next
So Not All Cancerians Are Dogs, Cheaters, Clingy, Argumentative, Or Selfish. Its Just How You Go About Solving Problems.
August 26th, 2009 at 5:43 pm
im an aries. seeing a cancer. but i dont really agree with the whole aries cant settle down thing, not have the patience, feel suffocated and all that jazz. i like the protection. and i like the home life. and i dont agree with “fleeing to another” guy. maybe i changed with age, but i dont like to go out all the time, and im not always wanting to take charge or be the leader. i do love attention, but not in the sense of getting it wherever i can. i like it when he takes charge. it does however, bother me that cancers hide their true feelings. i do like to talk about the problem, but if he doesnt then we move on. trust me, ive got a whole lot patience than he does. lol oh and the whole sex part? he’s awesome. and niether of us want kids right now.
September 1st, 2009 at 8:21 pm
im an aries male dating a cancer female.. and almost everything is exactly how it is presented at the top. she has her walls and after 10 months (patience) it has slightly started to come down.. but not all together. there is a bit of an age difference (9 years younger she is) and that has something to do with it but the frustrating thing about her (and maybe its just her and not the zodiac talking) is that she will not talk. she will not open up. i can say that ive about had it since i cant go on another 10 months wondering what she thinks.. we are the epitome of the bad aries/cancer relationship and when things are good they are really good.. but its usually her that retreats and im very outgoing… so we’ll see.
October 28th, 2009 at 5:16 pm
hey, i am an aries going around with a cancer guy and boy is he moody or what.Just tellme how to get around the moods,if i try to cheer him then i am selfish, becoz i am happy when he is unhappy.if i am quiet then he says i am being unsupportive.if i leave him alone then he blames me for not caring abt him.anyway so i am totally at loss, any suggestions would be welcomw
October 28th, 2009 at 10:51 pm
Well my latest relationship was with a Cancer male. I’m an Aries Female and it didn’t last very long. Although, he was a very sensitive and loving guy, he was hard to deal with at times. I loved him allot, but it was difficult. I once dated 2 Sagittarius men and they were awesome. THere was only 1 Sag i really loved but he broke me. I will however try again with a sag. THey are really the best ones to be with. They are very funny and you spend allot of your time together laughing your ass off! Together, you will dance. I have a best friend whose a sag, and i love to be around him. He’s just awesome. But, Cancer men are very serious and its hard to loosen them up. Believe me…i know.
November 5th, 2009 at 7:50 pm
Hello love doubts,
Take it from a another Aries lady to another whose is currently MARRIED to a Cancer male - GET OUT and GET OUT fast. Everything that you are going through I have and currently still am going through. Trust me when I say nothing that you do will be good enough. Cancer men are moody, will hold on to any hurt that you have put them through and remind you about it anytime they feel it is necessary too. They make EVERYTHING about them! GOOD or BAD! They will bring your spirits down. They sulk in pitty too much for our signs. We are the forget about sign - Not a cancer man… Don’t get me wrong, Cancer men are very caring and loveable guys - but truly are not a match for an ARIES woman at all. I wish I was into the Zodiac sign before I met and married my husband. I would probably not be going through the hell I am going through now. In the words of USHER - I am ready to sign them PAPERS!!!!
November 14th, 2009 at 11:04 pm
I am a 40 yr old Cancer woman who is dating a 35 yr old Aries man. I dated an Aries 10 years ago and it was Disastrous! I didn’t understand their controling personalities AT ALL. And we CLASHED! He was the first guy I was with who wanted to be the man in the relationship. And it wasn’t because of who I was. It didn’t matter if I was passive or agressive. It was totally because of who HE was in any relationship he encountered. He was a leader. And he was ALL man. He was so open with me that I didn’t mind his flirtation with other women. He made it clear who he belonged and that was-me. He did truly love me.
But my Cancer walls was up and my crabbiness was out which made us argue ALL THE TIME. He was good to me and my 7 and 8 yr old daughters. And might I add he was Very Handsome. Women propositioned him all the time. We were together for about three years before one day he just didn’t come home.
I said all that to say now at 40 years old I met another Aries. It was total attraction the moment we met. I enjoy being with him but he’s not the usual Aries. When I learned he was an Aries I was all ready to accept his personality trait. But this guy is like a lamb! He doesn’t talk much and he will take no for an answer immediately.
I believe, the reason that some Aries/Cancer relationships work out and some don’t is because of the timing when the two meet. This Aries that I’m with is not in his true form because he has issues. The other Aries didn’t. I had issues. This new Aries is a broken man. I could knock him over with a feather at this time in his life. He had a family and now he is divorced. For a man who likes to be a leader and in control of his situation the loss of his family life is very damaging to his psychy. The family life he believes he as singlehandedly nurtured and evolved fell apart. Even though he divorced her he totally blames himself. He doesn’t realise it takes two.
But I’m in his life right now to show him that it does take two people to make a relationship flourish. And believe me he test me on this all the time. He’s a great guy. He doesn’t know it but I’m in love with this broken creature and I have conscienciously decided not to walk away. He’s starting to open up more, let his guards down and love again. And he’s worth it to me. He’s very smart, polite, he’s educated, very giving (in bed), protective and he shows he cares about me.
It’s all about meeting the right one at the right time.
December 6th, 2009 at 7:13 am
I am an Aries woman. A good guy friend that I like is a Cancer. We knew each other for like 8 months. It was not till recently that we started to talking everyday. He told me he is very attracted to me and I am to him. We think a like and I am so happy. That I am finally getting to really know someone at that level….even though we don’t end up together….He has been the greatest that has happened to mee….he gives me the best advice. He did tell me that he did experience a really bad relationship and he is learning how to deal, he is opening up slowly and I like that. I am in no rush for him to want to be with me.
December 6th, 2009 at 10:37 pm
just to summ up, it seems from reading all the above posts that cancer-female works well with an aries male.. the other way around seems to be a disaster.
if u read all the comments here, the pattern is quite obvious.
December 27th, 2009 at 9:30 pm
omg itotally agree with most of you i just broke up with my guy who was a cancer the first few months was great he was always up for me always wanted to hang ! he was amazing i finally had thought he was the guy of my dreams then months later he started holding his feelings in getting jealous very easy and also he was controlling and got mad easy he seemed to not have much time for me anymore icould never get in contact with him. sadly he was so busy he didnt even call or wish me a merry christmas. maybe it wasnt all apart of his sign and part of it was him but i do believe some of it had to do with his sign.
January 2nd, 2010 at 10:20 pm
I am an aries female (18) dating a cancer male (23) and after reading all of the above posts I can only remember ONE that was positive. I love my boyfriend but we have already had major problems and the discussions afterwards are still….pending. Based on the ONE positive post I think I’ve handled it the right way. I discussed it while he listened and I gave him a question that I wanted answered…one day. Not now. And I actually think its hilarious reading about my mans flaws in so many other cancer men.I can point out exactly what he does. I want our relationship to last and Im in it for the long haul if he is. I’ve never been the type to go out all the time and party. I’m actually a rather boring Aries woman.And sitting up under him watching a movie is where I prefer to be. He’s the head and I’ll be the neck to support him. He encourages me in my college education and right now this is exactly what I need. The sex is different from any other man that I’ve encountered and actually gives the Scorpio men a run for their money but they are so different I don’t know if I compare them. Although I pay attention to what horoscopes say I don’t take them to heart due to the fact that everyone is different. Maybe its the optimism I have or maybe the fact that I believe and always will believe if it’s meant to be then it will be, but I will disregard all these warnings I see here. Cause at the end of the day: People are going to do what they want regardless of what others say. And I will go out on a limb. Maybe it will hold me and I’ll live happily ever after. Or maybe it will snap and I’ll fall, get hurt and bruised. But I’ll heal then move on. Who knows?
((P.S. I’ll weather all his bad moods as long as I know there is a good one coming somewhere))
January 13th, 2010 at 5:15 pm
i am so happy with my cancer guy
January 14th, 2010 at 2:24 am
i am a gurl in love with an aires man. i have to be honest i cannot see our relationship long. 2morrow i will ask him out. wish me luck.
January 15th, 2010 at 12:43 pm
I am a 19 year old Cancer female, my boyfriend is a 18 year old Aries. We have been dating for two years now and things are great. When I first met him I was amazed at how macho he was with out being so in your face. A direct turn on. He had me wrapped around his little finger. Once we started dating and he began opening up to me I was the one with the hold on him. In public me being a cancer and shy he takes charge. He reminds me of a dark knight always making me feel safe and secure. But when we get home, he knows that my domain and I rule, and I am more than happy to pamper my knight. We are happy together and have just as much fun as when we first met. Its clear we want the same things but we have different approaches. We learned that when we work together as a team we are unstoppable. Knowing what we know now, we have lots of plans for the future.
P.S I wish all Cancer and Aries the best of luck, however in the end you make the relationship not the sign.
January 19th, 2010 at 6:19 pm
I am a 17 yr old cancer, and my best friend is an Aries. She is the greatest person i have ever met and i don’t think this is nescerily true. Yes.. i tend to get my feelings hurt with her bluntness at times, but she never stops amazing me at how protective she is over me, and how well we get along. If your a cancer with an aries friend or mate, no worries, your need to be secure can be fufilled in your aries companion.
January 19th, 2010 at 9:22 pm
My best friend is an aries, and yes we have our problems, but cancer’s desire security, and aries is very protective, which proves well for cancers. I love my best friend with my whole heart, so for all of you cancers in relationships or friendships with aries not to worry… it works. Im proof of that.
January 23rd, 2010 at 6:23 am
I am a 25 year old Cancer female who reallllly likes a 23 year old Aries male. He is so hard to figure out sometimes. A month or more ago he said he was not into the whole relationship thing, however now he talks to his friends in front of me about “how do you know when you are getting to that point of dating someone?” and I think it’s mostly because we have been spending so much time together and he is rather inexperienced at the whole dating game. I have had several boyfriends, but I am only sure that he has dated two women in retrospect, but I always seem to like the kind of guys that are genuinely good-natured and haven’t entirely closed their hearts to the opposite sex because of ill-fated relationships. The only problem that is occurring is the fact that I am not sure how to act with him out in a public situation among his friends or mutual acquaintances. Being the lovey-dovey, sensual Cancer I want to be all over him sometimes, but I hold back for fear of embarrassing him or doing something that he may not want me to do. He has said in the past I should not feel this way, and has given be in a ’round about’ way permission, but I still do not feel confident enough. He is also very busy with school and studying, and other side-projects like art and music, so I do not want to be a bother and interrupt anything important. However, when should I be distant and when should I let loose? I really want to share with him my feelings of ‘I don’t want anyone else, I want only you, and I am willing to wait till you are ready.’ since he thinks he cannot make a good boyfriend at this point in his life with too many other things preoccupying his mind, however I believe he is starting to come around. If I am mushy he sort of laughs nervously at me, but I know he is actually sensitive behind everything. He is hardly controlling, but I love it when he bosses me around. We have a lot in common and I can totally see this working out. We even have the same goals for the future, I just do not know how to make him see it. I AM patient, but should I be even more so or just give up?
February 4th, 2010 at 3:51 pm
I am a 28yr old cancer women I was born under the gemini-cancer cusp and I am married to a scorpio man I have been with for 11yrs.Now evry1 knws tht cancers & Scorpio’s r supposed to b soul mates NOT!!My husband is the nastiest mofo u cn run into! He is very vendicitive & spitefull,he is a liar & a cheater.He is nt loving or caring its a mess.Well Recently Ive meet a 36yrold Aries man who makes me weak he is so yummy! We both knw we cant “be”together but it wld b so easy to wake up nxt to him evrydy.He is smrt,good looking! (Good lord is he evry!) He is sexy,good n bed. He is dominate but I love it!He says the word love,he believes n fallen n love & he shows love.I can see myself falling n lust & love with him proably to much.Considering wht I’ve been thru wit my scorpion! This Aries man is heaven sent!
February 6th, 2010 at 3:26 pm
Hey, I’m a cancer guy, 28, been dating an aries girl, 23, for 8 months. It’s awesome. I can really agree with alot of the posts here between aries girls and cancer guys that say it doesn’t work, but I know that it will work with us because I don’t take life so seriously, I like to party and I think her endless competitiveness is really funny and attractive. She is a leader and a fiery woman, but that’s great because the other girlfriends I had really needed to be led (capricorn and leo). What is really great is the ambitions we have together. I am a secretive person on one hand, but then again we share our future plans openly. And the past is just the past, better to move on and enjoy today.
February 13th, 2010 at 7:58 am
I am a 23 year old Aries woman and has been with my cancer boy friend for three years and we have a 1 year old baby girl. When we first met each other everything was great we went out all the time, we had sex all the time, we did everything together. Now it’s a different story we argue all the time when I want to go out to the club or just out to eat or to the movies with my girls he totally blows up. All he wants me to do is stay at home with him sit on the couch and watch movies and I’m a Aries so I’m very adventurous and I love to go out get all dressed up and have a good time, I like to be the center of attention and have things my way. We argue every day it seems like over nothing he is so quick to play the victim like I’m the one who’s in the wrong. He says I act like I don’t care and I don’t love him but in actuality I do love him and he’s very caring and will give me the world if I asked him for it but I’m just so over all the arguing and the bickering I just want it to stop. We are just total opposites and as much I want it to work out for our child I will have to do a lot of compromising and I’m just getting to really know myself and know what I like and don’t like I can’t deal with all the suffocation. I’m the type of female that is always on the move and I have really big plans for my future that don’t include sitting in one spot for too long and all the arguing is getting on my nerves which makes me act like I don’t care about the relationship sometimes because I’m not happy and I don’t think I can do this anymore. But I will always love him because of how caring he is but he is way too sensitive and controlling for me.
February 17th, 2010 at 4:30 am
I always find myself going for aries; im 15,Ive never had a boyfriend before–but i like to talk about my problems, because when im in the phase of hiding in my shell its a really deppresng time–But ussually i wont be the one to start them. the aries ussually is a little outspoken to my feelings–but then again i am a cancer–so everything is too much for me ^^; But other than that im fine ^^
February 18th, 2010 at 4:01 pm
To Krmla09
I too am an Aries woman and have been married to a Cancer man for 5 yrs. Everything that you mention that you and your Cancer boyfriend go through are most if not all the things he and I go through. I am currently in the process of trying to rid myself of this man. Don’t get me wrong Cancer men are some of the sweetest men you will find, very loyal to family - but they do tend to want to stay at home - never wanting to go out much. They are WAAYY to sensative for the Aries Woman. We need a Manly-Man that can take the punches of life and keep it moving. Cancer men tend to hide in there shells or put their heads in the sand instead of working on the problem. Regardless of what it maybe. Cancer men tend to hold on to past hurts. In a argument he probably brings up everything you have done to hurt him. Bring up the past is what they do and we as Aries just like to move on. It’s in the past, can’t do change it, so why bother. Take it from me KRMla09 - NOTHING that you do is going to ever be good enough - NOTHING!!
You are so young and I know you guys have a child together - but I think the best thing for you is to get out. You will end up a very miserable person that will miss your calling in life. We Aries women are born leaders who like to venture out and experience life and all that it is has to offer. He will remain a great father to your child, just be careful as to how you make your exit. Cancer men are VERY persuasive. Good luck to you!!!
March 2nd, 2010 at 7:25 pm
This is so true. I’m an aries female, and hes a cancer, and I can tell you the relationship was a complete disaster. Only god knows what attracted me to him in the first place, it seriously was a fluke. He was moody, and loved to drag on arguments and issues when I just wanted to move on. He was a crazy cheater before he was with me, and he claims it was because he was young, but to cheat so much? I don’t know if he’s cheated on me, but I wouldn’t put it past him. The whole relationship was horrible, he would jump moods in seconds, it took literally nothing to set him off and when he did, lord knows you had to stay out his way. He was abusive, demeaned me a lot, very disrespectful, and so self absorbed. It wasn’t we, it was he. We just recently, few days ago, parted ways, and my mom has thanked God everyday since then. All I know, is ill NEVER talk to another Cancer as more than a friend.
March 3rd, 2010 at 6:55 pm
im a cancer male 21 and the love of my life 19 Aries women. she is t he best thing that eve happen to my life.even tho she might be alittle hard headed that cuase alittle fireworks its nuffin i cant handle simple cuz i know i can be the same way.if we do argue we make up really quick we can good days with out argueing we get along so well its crazy she truely is my other half
March 10th, 2010 at 12:14 pm
Wow, So dont I wish id seen this website before lol..Ive been on a couple of dates with a cancer guy they went pretty well.. he charmed my pants off lol He is such a gent..he told me he liked me …Everything was going great then i started to notice this moody withdrawn side…He used to text me like all the time a million times a day…Then one day it just stopped And I was lucky to get a couple of texts every few days and then he is back to the old pattern of textin all the time …His going travlin at the end of this month and he will be away for a month he said he would like to come and see me when he gets back…But im well confused with this guy lol I cant make my mind up if i think he is a bit of a ladys man! Im finding it really hard to not scream and shout at him like a mad women and ask what the hell is going on…But b4 when ive confronted him he just didn’t speak to me for a few days ..which really got on my goat lol i hate being ignored!! these cancer guys are head fu*ks…get a back bone and let us aries know where we stand!!
April 10th, 2010 at 6:56 am
I’m the typical 22 y.o. Aries girl in a relationship with a 26 y.o. Cancer boy. We’ve been together almost 3 years now and its been an great journey full of highs/lows & ups/downs like any other relationship. Much of the time we’re in an LDR which means all the common oversensitivity/moodiness of his Cancer sign have to be dealt with and he’s been great with facing his own insecurities and working through it with me. I think every relationship is based on a different set of factors/circumstances so its hard to generalize about things as wide as personality traits. It comes down to the two within a relationship working on self-development so there relationship can be stronger together.
One thing that I’ve noticed with all the posts about Aries female/Cancer male is that those who dated and then were married stayed with their partner for at least 2-4 years or even more than a decade. Aries females in general are very stubborn and utterly relentless in pursuing what they want and don’t give up so easily when faced with a challenge. Like the typical Aries Female…Scarlett O’Hara said ” I’ll think of some way to get him back! After all, tomorrow is another day!”
Good luck to all my Aries ladies and their Cancer loves.
April 11th, 2010 at 8:32 am
My husbands brother has a girlfriend who is a cancer and at first i liked her and when i got to know her she just became annoying…. I try sooo hard to like her but i don’t know what it is just everything about her gets to me.. everytime me and my husband go visit his mom she always stares at me and i think everyone can just feel the tension we have against each other….
April 13th, 2010 at 9:24 pm
Okay I am a 17 year old cancer and I have been with my aries man for almost 3 mounths, yes were but perfectly meant to be together and its horable because no bady like him and nobaody wants me to date him but resently people are changing their minds, and you now what I dont belive in this sign crap because me and my boyfriend are better then ever we are 2 people who get along amazingly amazing were both extremely quiet yet we are very understanding about it. I have never had so much in commom with a guy in my life. I can truly say that I am in LOVE with him. He says to his friends hes not ready to get married and have kids but his body language and everything about him tell me he’s ready. Body LANGUAGE is 10 time more reliable then words. Its not like i exspect those things right now just in my mear future. Its funny we have so much in common but people say it like paris hilton going out with a hobo. thats just plain stupid but i dont listen because me and my man are meant to be and forever will be hopefully..
May 3rd, 2010 at 2:34 am
I am a 31 Aries woman and have been having a crazy up and down relationship with a Cancer man. I can honestly say he is the first man that I have ever loved this deep. However it is so difficult for him to just open up. He is sweet yet I feel at times he is holding back!!! This drives me crazy and I have left him twice and he pops up at my home like we never broke up and I have taken him back. The sexual intensity is madness. As far are a bunch of baby crabs this crab has no desire for children which I am cool with. But I feel that he is hiding something all the time it’s his private thoughts that drive me crazy. This last time we have gotten back together he is showing a more sensitive and affectionate side of himself that has my brow raised in disbelief. I have trust issues with him I just feel that he is hiding something I don’t quite know what but I know that it’s something. Maybe another woman I don’t know yet he won’t let me go when I try to leave he comes back. What am I to do. Most Aries born don’t do well with confusion. Let’s talk it over and let it go. But he say’s I am brash when speaking to him. I don’t feel that I am. yet I do get frustrated with his continuous silence. What’s an Aries Girl to do in this complex attraction?
June 6th, 2010 at 12:53 pm
I’m an Aries girl (19) with a Cancer guy (21) a little over 2 and a half years now. Everybody’s talking about Cancer’s mood swings and I have never notices any in fact, if anyone, I’m the one with the mood swings to be totally truthful. I’ve read a lot of these posts and realized that horoscope signs are just a rough guideline, every individual is different, every relationship unique. I can also see that most of the Aries(girl)-Cancer(guy) combinations that are together for a short period of time are a lot happier than those that are longer esp.married. but i guess marriage kind of kicks the fun out every combination.
anyway, regarding my own case, he’s great, doesn’t mind doing all kinds of stuff for me like when I can’t go out because I’m too busy studying for an exam he’ll come to my neighborhood (he lives on the other side of town) just to give me chocolate and wish me good luck. and that’s greatly appreciated. but I’m not perfectly happy. I can’t cope with his weird method of arguing. It’s like I can never EVER get my point across. I point out something that bothers me he blows it back in my face like everything I said to him is actually me. so in the end some way or another HE IS ALWAYS THE VICTIM. sometimes when I am so frustrated and don’t know how to deal with him I slap him or something. It makes me feel awful like I’m some kind of Rambo or other smack-a-lot-ask-questions-later guy (or even worse his mother) when in fact I’m a girlie girl. I tried to break up. no if i have to be honest I haven’t really tried that hard. I guess I still love him, but he manages to diminish the love from time to time. I find myself looking at other guys thinking maybe I’m missing something but then after meeting them better I realize I’m waaay better off with my Cancer. In these almost 3 years he has gotten me flowers once. He never gives me a present unless it’s my birthday or some other cliche time to give me something and I don’t anything over a couple of bucks, just the gesture that he thought of me and that he cares. I have to nag about something for half a year or more so that he’d do it. sometimes I feel I’m at my wits end. I got sick earlier and everyone thinks it’s from the stress of my faculty which is pretty stressful but I know it’s because of him and all these bottled up emotions I’m feeling because of him. Like the typical Aries girl I like things out in the open, discuss matters to the fullest and then like that bam! we’re over them. he never faces a single problem. I turned to horoscope because I need to find a reason for my staying with him, for my loving him. I’m still sexually inactive because I’m still not ready and he’s waited so far, but he’s losing his patience. We’ve gone to third base instead and that has been pretty incredible, and sometimes that helps me forget how and why he irritates me. maybe that’s why I scared of sex with him…will I still stay in control? Outwardly it seems like I’m in control of things, his friends make fun of him sometimes but on the inside i have no control whatsoever. he doesn’t like little kids and somehow I find that bothers me a lot. he bitches like a girl. I like what someone earlier wrote: can i be the girl sometimes? I know people can’t change much but I hope he might…for me. I can’t deal with a broken heart right now seriously, I’m too fragile.
I hope this might be useful to someone or at least fun to read:Y
August 2nd, 2010 at 1:52 pm
im a cancer girl (16) dating an aries guy in my class..
all the comments about cancer and aries being a bad combination really scared me.. cuz i really love this guy and want things to work out! finally this website has shown me that it is possible!
its been 4 months of our relationship and we have never got in a fight. im also much more outgoing then my bf!
and i dont know why it says that cancerians are really negative cuz in my relationship im the optimistic one……always motivating my bf.
it really has been amazing till now.. though he might be stubborn at times and want things his way,sometimes he is also understanding and thinks about things from my point of view.
anyways…… whoever thinks cancer and aries relationship can not work out is wrong!!
August 6th, 2010 at 3:53 am
im a 16 year old girl cancer dating a 21 year guy aries im a shy girl always been i put up a big wall to not get hurt my boyfriend hates the fact im so emotonial & cant stand the fact im afraid to open up to him he tell me all the time he loves me yes i say it back but im scared all the guys i been with hurt me ive been trew some rough shit in life but i dont wanna tell him cus im afraid to scare him away with my problems should i tell him how i fell or let this one go ??
August 19th, 2010 at 8:40 pm
I am an Aries (with Cancer rising) female and have been dating a Cancer (with Capricorn rising) guy for about a month now.
Everything I have read about the Aries/Cancer combo has me waiting for the relationship to destruct… but so far things have been good. I am 39 and he is 34, perhaps we are both mature enough to curb our annoying tendencies (I know better than to throw a temper tantrum from impatience, he has yet to be moody around me).
We are WELL MATCHED sexually, whenever I ask for it (which is often) he is instantly ready to go! My need to be desired is strong so I can’t function if I am getting rejected for sex or affection from my guy… it will be interesting to see if his moodiness gets in the way in the future or not.
He is more reserved than I normally like… but the “likes a challenge” part of me is intrigued by it. I find myself mauling him with nonstop affection all night, which he quietly accepts… then BAM! later on he will lay some intensely passionate kiss on me (completely with the low dip to the ground) and I will come up for air with my head spinning and grin knowing that apparently he does like me after all!
September 29th, 2010 at 9:11 pm
i am an airies woman, i just met a cancer guy 2 weeks ago, he is way too emotional and sensitive, he wants to date me n when i said no, he felt like the whole world has fallen down on him, very clinging n complains all the time, very MOODY, trust me, this turned me off n i will never even talk to any cancer, bcz if u refuse to date them n decider to be just friends , they will play the victim, this is the 3rd cancerian i have met but not actually dated any, the first when i refused, talked so bad about me to the world, the 2nd that i knew only for week, when i also refused his request did the same thing, try to spoil my reputation which they r good at , they never let go , will always be pathetic and emotional, pls airies date real men, leos, airies, aquaries, gemini and sagitt, airies don’t like emotional and moody people , let go n move on.
October 3rd, 2010 at 2:23 am
I am an aries female dating a cancer female. We have been together for almost a year, and we have known each other for four years. Our relationship is sometimes rocky, but effort and patience go a long way. It’s true, cancers hide their emotions, and yes they can be VERY moody. My tactic is to just back off and let them have it. I am very temperamental, and i “leap before i look.” somehow we make it work. i guess to every rule there is one exception, right?
October 22nd, 2010 at 6:14 pm
I am a Cancer woman, and I recently decided to start dating an Aries man. He’s actually someone from my pass. I remember back then he would try to talk to me but I was not interested. Now that we are both in our 50’s here he is again. When we first started talking everything was find, but then he seemed to me to talk to much about he’s ex-wife and that was a turn off, I let him know that I was not interested in hearing about his ex but it seemed not to matter to him, so I cut the relationship off. Well he would not take no for an answer and continued to call me, I would not talk to him or go out for three months or so. Then finally one day I decided to give the relationship a try, because I did like him in the beginning, you see he has a young son and a daughter and usually when he would talk about the ex it had something to do with the kids. So I thought maybe I was to hard on him and decided to try. The relationship has still not been easy, we both have strong personalities so we bump heads. I’ve been single longer then he has maybe that has something to do with how we get along. So now I am trying to compromise more and be fair with him. It’s to early to tell weather we will make it or not, but time will tell, everything I have read about the two signs are not good, but I’m hopful…. he’s not a bad person.
November 18th, 2010 at 7:01 am
Okay im a cancer male 20 yrs old talking to a aries girl shes 23
Okay all this crap about cancer and aries not matching is bs!
Im funny outgoing and down to earth.. I love joking around and everybody tells me im the clown of the group.. Shes awesome she really funny and down to earth also.. we cant get enought of eachother..
We always crack eachother up shes open with her feelings im open with my feelings.. Her parents loves me and my parents loves her.. Mu bday is july 8 and hers march 30.. I checked online and it says that we are a good match cuz her bday is in march and mines is in july shes a march aries and im a july cancer.. I could be moody but the good thing about me is that i talk about it.. I know we gonna last.. This crap about aries and cancer is a lie.. Is not the sign is the PERSON!!!! thanks
By the way i hate being stuck home i love GOING OUT..
November 29th, 2010 at 2:58 am
I am a 28 y/o Cancer female and my boyfriend is a 30 y/o Aries. We have been dating for a year and a half. When we first met, I felt very calm and relaxed by his presence. He noticed my mood swings that I show when I’m around my family. So far, I haven’t really been too moody around him. I do talk about my emotions and sometimes it’s stuff that doesn’t worry about. So he’ll listen or just change the subject. It kind of helps me to worry less b/c he doesn’t make a big deal about the situation I’m worried about. Then I can forget about it faster. He’s very giving and caring but bottom line…He is first in line. He’s basically the decision maker for most stuff. But takes my opinion into consideration for things as well. We’ve talked about marriage and moving in together but he would rather live together first. I’m more old fashioned and would like to be married first but they say, just go with the flow with an Aries. We basically hang out every day. It’s really his idea to do that. We really have a good “giving space” system. The longer I know him, the more I see he does have sharp comments at times. Being a cancer, I can be sensitive about it or I’ll just put him in his place. I am insecure when he talks to other girls but I’m working on that. Really, what girl isn’t insecure. I do trust him and I know that he is not capable of cheating. I just have to step back and remember that he’s just a social butterfly. Plus, we work mon-fri so when we go out. He wants to make it well worth it for himself. I think he has more good than bad so all in all it so far works. I agree with everyone, it’s not the stars that make the relationship work. It’s how you two work together. If you have similar interests, understanding of each other, and communication. It can work!
December 5th, 2010 at 7:06 am
I am an aries woman who dated a cancer boy four years of highschool and a couple of years in college. It was the most romantic relationship in my entire life! He swept me off my feet. Think of Adrienne and Rocky, Romeo and Juliet, Billie Dee and Diana etc.. Red roses, cards, flowers, cologne scented love letters, love poems, my goodness he was my Prince Charming, then he turned into a frog! There was always some other girl on the side. He would disappear for months without any communication wihout any warning that anything was wrong. We argued constantly. They chase and nag the hell out of you until they ware you down. They only want you if you are with someone else and they keep tabs on you. The pain I endured from that relationship cost me my sanity and my current marriage. Before I got married, me amd Mr. Cancer were an item for several years. Everytime we split up I thought it was for good, so I saw other people and one day I found someone who was very much like him (a Scorpio). He would write me letters send messages from family members that he still loved me and wanted me to divorce my husband and get back with him! This went on for ten years. When he realized I wouldn’t leave my husband he got a girl pregenant married her. He started having problems in his marraige and I was having problems in mine so we sepaerated. Well, you know what they say, “You never get over your first true love.” Being a naive aries and up for a challege, I left my husband and had a one night stand with Mr Cancer. It was the biggest mistake of my life! When he asked me who was better in bed him or my husband, I told him my husband. After he had sex with me he set my down and told me that he was going to go back to his wife who was also cheating on him with her ex. The only person who was faithful was my Scorpio husband (We’ve been together for 20 years). Dump him and get you a Scorpio, he will wrap himself in your love. It isn’t as tense as a Cancer but at least you know where he stands and if you can walk away at anytime without regrets and you won’t need therapy afterwards. Scorpios are very controlling and jealous but very faithful. You have to be the one to end it completely with a Cancer or you will never get rid of him. They find little clever ways to get you back, but ultimately you call the shots and it is better to accept the heartache and find someone who will treat you better. It took me many years to deal with the pain he caused me from that relationship. If I become a widow I will NEVER DATE ANOTHER CANCER MAN AGAIN IN MY LIFE OR ANY OTHER LIFETIME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
January 19th, 2011 at 1:59 am
Im 21 yr Cancer, engaged to a 26 yr Aries. We adore each other, and we were holpelessly in love from day one. We have a few small issues, but we work through them quit smoothly. As long as he compliments me every now and then, helps me around the house and with our infant, and I remind him how much I truly love him, that I would never do anything to purposely hurt him, and let him make decisions and take control from time to time, then we pretty much don’t have any problems. Every relatoinship takes work, it’s just a matter of how much work your both willing to put into it.
As a Cancer women though, this is vital advice for any relationship: You have to let down your wall, let your needs and feelings be known. If not whats the point in dateing in the first place, really?!
February 13th, 2011 at 9:02 pm
I am an Aries Woman and I just started seeing a Cancer Man…Its been a whirlwind. I have never been the commitment type or the touchy feely type but with him I find myself being that person and wondering “what if”. I never want to talk about anything, he is the one that is always trying to get me to open up and share and talk about how I feel about things. He talks ALOT! Right now however he has become somewhat quiet because hes going to some major personal issues. I miss him being as opened as he was but I don’t want to push him either. From what I read from all of your post is either they’re great or walk away. But I’m going to put my all in it. Even if it doesn’t work in the end it will be one hell of a journey! I’m taking a chance to find the perfect love for me. Here’s hoping!
July 21st, 2011 at 12:28 pm
I’m a 25 year old cancer man and was once in love with an aries woman. At least I thought I was. We started off almost perfect for the first year but things soon turned for the worst. She being a selfish whore didn’t care about my feelings at all. Most of the time she would put everything on me and with my moody personality I would lose my head. When we fought it usually ended in sex, which can be good but also bad. She never seemed to fit my needs as far as feeling loved and respected. I admit to my own faults and always tried to stick around and make things work. Big mistake I wish I never met this heartless selfish sl*t. I finally left her be and gave her what she wanted which was for me to be gone. I’m happy things didn’t work out cause I’m in love with a sexy Leo. I’ll never go back and no I wasn’t hiding anything by leaving I face any problem head to head and prefer solving issues in a mature manner. I think I’ll always have some kind of love for her even though she crushed my heart and I’ll never go back!
September 20th, 2011 at 9:52 pm
I am a cancer woman married to pices man after 10 years i decided to get divorced bcz of his other marriges i have daughter she is 5.After beeing saperetd i decide to give some els a chance and i recently met an aries man i am 35y and he is 30 he prposed me to get with him together i talked with him a lot and find him so loving and carring he is full of love and passion crazy about love so do i.I had a bad experince behind bt i decided to give him a chance so i am going to start my new love life, dont know how it will go further bt we have the same imotions for each other he realy gets me atracted and i m dying to be him soon.
October 12th, 2011 at 2:52 am
I am an Aries woman and I am completly in love with a Cancer man, we have alot of hard times and break up often but we keep coming back to eachother, I think sometimes we have more hard times then good times but our goodtimes are super wonderful but even when we break up he is all I think of and I cant explain it I just love him very much and I cant leave him alone.
October 29th, 2011 at 5:33 am
I AM AN ARIES WOMAN AND I HAVE BEEN WITH 3 CANCER MEN. I CANNOT STAND THEM! THEY ARE BIG LIARS, SNEAKY AND CHEAP!!! THEY ARE EXCELLENT LOVERS BUT THAT IS ALL THEY ARE GOOD FOR.
April 4th, 2012 at 10:30 pm
I’m a Cancer woman dating an Aries man. And so far, our relationship has been wonderful. About the only thing we’ve “argued” about was me trying to help him build something in minecraft when we play together xD He wanted to do it all on his own, but would always help me with my project. I don’t like to control, though. It’s just not my style. We’ve been close since the beginning of December 2011, and about the only difficult part of our relationship is the fact that I live in Michigan, USA and he’s in Wales, UK.