Aries Compatibility With Cancer |
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Aries and Cancer
This relationship will be a hard one. Cancerian people hide their own true selves underneath a tough external shell. It is hard to break down the walls and barriers the Cancer has built up, but once the Aries does get into this persons heart they will find someone who is easily hurt and very sensitive. For the Cancer loves his/her home, and family is the most important thing. They long to settle down, get married and have lots of little baby crabs, the Aries may not want the same thing for possibly years to come, and can find it hard to look to the future with such seriousness.
The sex life of this Water and Fire sign combination will no doubt suffer. Once the Cancerian has realised that their Arian lover isn’t looking for the ‘Walton’s’ type of lifestyle they can go off sex rather quickly, as Cancer people deep down believe that love making = baby making, otherwise, what’s the point???
If you were to ask who is the boss in such a relationship you simply pose yet another problem. The Cancerian wants to be the decision maker in the home and
has a tendency to sulk for days on end unless this requirement is met. This arrangement dosen’t sit too well with the fun loving Aries who will feel suffocated and tied down by this union. Which may eventually cause the Arian to flee or even worse fall into the arms of another.
These two really don’t have much going for them i’m afraid. For this relationship to work there must be total understanding of the other’s needs and a lot of patience, which the Cancer may manage, but I’m not too sure the Aries will want to work quite so hard and may opt just to find an easier relationship to fit into.
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Cancers are attracted to Aries like a moth to a flame. Cancers love the strengths of an Aries but they can’t handle it when that fire is turned up on them. I will never date another cancer. As much as I love the soft side of a Cancer I can’t deal with how they hide in there shell when things go wrong. Trust me I have dated so many Cancer men and will never do that again. I must say we make great lovers together but that only goes so far. A disagreement arise – Aries want to argue/discuss and move on to hot love making – Cancer want to go and stick there head in there shell and soak about it and then in a couple of days want to make love…and they never want to talk about it.….forget that ……..an Aries likes to deal with the problem and move on…….soaking is wasting time…life if to short.
Any way if you are an Aries and you are dating a CAncer…….I wish you the best of luck,,,,,,,you are going to need it….
PS your Cancer is not going to change (and if they do it will not last)……they are crabs and move very slow by the time they realize they need to change you will would have moved on to someone else.
Cancers are attracted to Aries like a moth to a flame. Cancers love the strengths of an Aries but they can’t handle it when that fire is turned up on them. I will never date another cancer. As much as I love the soft side of a Cancer I can’t deal with how they hide in their shell when things go wrong. Trust me I have dated so many Cancer men and will never do that again. (5 to say the least) I must say we make great lovers together but that only goes so far. A disagreement arise – Aries want to argue/discuss and move on to hot love making – Cancer want to go and stick their head in their shell and soak about it and then in a couple of days want to make love…and they never want to talk about it.….forget that ……..an Aries likes to deal with the problem and move on…….soaking is wasting time…life if to short
I have been dating an Aries man for 2 months exactly now. I’m cancer sun, scorpio moon and aquarius rising and its amazing how we just cannot get enough of each other. I love the way he just takes control, he’s a real manly man and it makes me crazy. We spend every weekend together and I dont have to beg him, he does it out of his own. He is 34 and never settled, i’m 28 and divorced with 2 kids, so my mind is way off kids right now. Just want to enjoy life. I would say that i’m a bit more adventurous than he is and maybe a bit more exciting. He’s kinda boring in that he just wants to stay in all the time. I do get moody but i let him have it, then its over and i can breathe again, instead of keeping it in and sulking. Tried that, but he’s way too stupid to notice that i’m being ugly with him…hehehe
I am 31 aries women and I’m in love with 26 Cancer Man.I always thought I will not settle down but he makes me think about the possibilities. I know that I am to much for him at times but that’s the only thing I can do is have faith and slow down with life. Yes, indeed they are great lovers and they know how to fill in all the gaps in you.In such a way that they leave an everlasting mark in your soul. Even though I may not be with him now but I know if the heavens allow me to have him back in my life he will come back. Cancer man are loving people but they need to know that if this is what they want then they should muster up and stand up to Aries women and say “Yes I want this too”. Aries women need to hear that from time to time. If you don’t then they will give up and move on even though there hearts are still with them. For all of you Cancer man tell an Aries women what is in your heart. That is all she needs to hear.
im an aries girl and im dating a cancer guy and things are not going well at all. he thinks they are but im getting to the point where i wanna break up but i dont wanna hurt his feelings i would feel horrible. i love him, but at the same time our relationship just isnt working. he is way too moody for me. he has mood swings constantly and we fight everyday it seems like. im more sweet, and he is sensitive he just likes to hide it all to himself and never tell me about it. and if he does tell me something he always makes me feel like im doing something wrong cause he yells at me and always is soo moody i cant really handle him.
im in love wih an aries guy. And i know he loves me back. Hes told me that I was the only girl he was ever happy with, and the only one he loved(and still does)and ive heard all the stuff that a cancer aries relationship is difficult, but i dont see why. If you love someone and they love you back, then it shouldnt matter what sign you are…as long as the 2 of you make each other happy.
im a cancer woman im just 19 years old im dating a aries guy he’s 21..our relationship is not so good bcuz he wants everything to be his way and no itsz not like dat…& he doesn’t even go out or nothing he’s kinda boring we have been dating for 1 year now..& he told me that im the only girl that settled him down that he loves me & that he wants to spend his whole life with me I love him a lot yes but ima kinda person that I don’t like 2 show what im feeling idk why…so yeah I let it be how ever god wants it 2 be…
my cancer husband is a dog! Very charming, will buy you the world, it s his way or the highway. Cheated with a girl for a long time. Moody and its true he is only happy when he has a pocket full of money. Really sweet and you can have some good times with cancers. but beware snoop through his stuff find out all you can about them. Because they have a lot to hide. They will truly be someone else when you discover who they really are. Proceed with caution!!! They will charm your socks off and make you feel you are the one. It will be no question that you are the one, but there will be others make no mistake about it..After four years….I’m finally trying to get out. P.S. If you can deal with a cheater, other than the mood swings he’ll treat you like a queen. Diamonds cash cars and furs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Is it worth it though ladies…I’ve decided to get out and get it for myself……Power to you ladies to get rid of these dogs….
im a typical Aries woman with a strong personality and being with a cancer was no doubt one of the worst relationship and experience in my entire life. they’re really selfish deep inside but act selfless to the world, it’s their way or the high way. Also they’re good at playing victims due to their so called sensitive nature, very controlling and insecure for no reason. Likes hiding their past and things until you find out on your own (which is not gonna be a pretty sight considering you ARE with an Aries) Never want to talk about things,when its time to talk( a rare occasion) ,they go back into their shell for a long time. Plus they’re really boring,always want to stay in and not have sex too. They love the Aries fire but really cannot handle it. Better stick to Leos,geminis or even virgos(at least they’re sane)
`i’M A Aries women and I met a cancer man and he is everything that i need, he is loving, caring and romantic and express how he feels all the time, i love that about him. I’ll just pray for our future to be healthy and strong.
P.S.
I don’t think it’s the sign who makes the person it’s the person who makes them, because not all cancer men are the same.
IM 16 AND A CANCER. IM DATING A 18 YEAR OLD ARIES GUY
I NEVER FELT THE SAME ABOUT ANY ONE IN MY LIFE
I LOOOOOVE HIM AND HE LOVES ME
MY PARENTS DONT LIKE HIM BECAUSE HE IS CONTROLLONG AND BOSSY
EVERYTHING HAS TO BE HIS WAY
HE ALSO THINKS THAT I DONT LOVE HIM AS MUCH AS HE LOVES ME
I CANT EXPRESS MY FEELINGS THAT WELL
ARIES AND CANCER IS VERY STESSFUL TOGETHER
WE FIGHT ALOT
ALMOST EVERY NITE
BUT I LOVE MICHAEL SO MUCH I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO
I am a 19 year old female Cancer dating a 26 year old male Aries. We have been together since I was 14 years old and it is still going great!! we have a Beautiful 2 year old daughter, and i fall in love with him more and more everyday!:) So see an Aries and Cancer relationship can work. We do have our ups and downs but we always work it out. After all no one is perfect.
i’ve been with a cancer man for the last 5 years. we have just had a little boy together 5 months ago. we do understand each other and we try to talk about everything when problems arise. although i do feel suffocated sometimes where i believe he runs the show and makes all the decisions i read up about cancer and aries compatibility a lot and there are something s in there that relate. he is sensitive and i see that about him all the time his feelings get hurt very easily but also he is very quick to get over things. it has been a very interesting relationship where in the beginning it took him 3 years to figure out whether he wanted to be with me or not and me being an aries wouldve walked away sooner but iwaited for him. i believe this relationship would work but theres so many things that can completely ruin it. i love him to death but everything is always his way and i know it gets under my skin, in a way kind of not being able to make my own decisions and think for my self. but i believe life is what you make it so thats why i have stuck with him for so long cause he makes me laugh, but i reckon in his case he’s got a very destructable personality in what way i mean with alcohol and drinking and not knowing when to stop and sayin nasty things he doesnt mean when he is drunk but as i said he gets over it quick, i think this could work but i reckon i’m going to need a lot of patience, we are with each other all the time and iit does get crowding, but we are both loyal to each other i guess the relationship will always work if you just give it a chance and step back a look at where it is going and where your life is going to take you in it……there are goingto be trates you like and dislike about your other half but the good things should always outweigh the bad!
i’m a cancer female 28 dating an aries male 26. i think that the reason our relationship works out so well is because the rest of our charts mesh well. for example my venus is in gemini, his is in aquarius. also he’s got a lot of water in his chart & i have a lot of air. he’s perfect! i just need to express my feelings more, i do tend to shell up because i’m afraid of his response, but everytime i do open up; it’s not been a bad experience. i guess i lucked out in this cancer & aries combo, thank goodness!
I am so so happy with my Aries man. Reading horoscopes made me a bit skeptical because every review I read on Aries and Cancer was absolutely awful. That affected me a little as a Cancerian girl, i take almost.. everything to heart, but I know what is real with him and that is that we work really really well together. I dont mind him being bossy and controlling, I love it when he takes charge. I do take charge in some ways. I was always looking for a man that could stand up to me and take control and I found him. I hate weak men that I can boss around, which I did in most of my relationships. Its such a huge turn off.
Let me tell you, reading some of these comments have assured me that it can work, which I already knew, but it just confirmed it.
In my case, my Peter Pan was still being a boy while I was settling down and when I came out of that when it didnt work, he was ready to settle down. I got him at the right time.
My guy is the one who doesn’t like sex and I being Cancer, am very sexual. My guy is the one who stays in all the time and never wants to go anywhere cos he’s quite an introvert and shy. But not at home, when he’s with me, he’s the funniest guy in town, I have so much fun with him, its laughter all the time. We’ve had 1 fight in 9 months, but made up in the same hour.
Its been 6 months since my last comment and still going strong. So, dont write off a Cancerian or an Arian, it just depends on the person. You could be missing out on the ride of your life…..
hi I’m a 21 year old Aries and I just started dating a cancer guy,. Well so far he is been great!, we talk a lot, he even talks more than I do (that’s incredible!). He always asks me what do I want and asks for my opinion…I just hope it stays this way because he is great….
I’m a Cancer woman and have no desire to have lots of baby crabs. I’ve actually never had a desire to be a mother. I knew early on in life that parenting takes “selflessness” (is that a word?) I’m 40 yrs old and embrace life and love children.. just don’t want one of my own.
I’m currently dating an Aries of 2 yrs and LOVE HIM! He’s so easy and far from demanding. Maybe he’s different because I don’t fit a mold.
To come to think of it, my closest female freind is an Aries too and I’ve made 4 Cancer friends through her. Is that odd or the norm?
I love cooking and love my home life but I feel like men get in the way unless they hire a house-keeper.
I have zero desire to clean after a grown man unless we created the mess together.
I’ve been told by many that they are very surprised and impressed with my home-making skills but state I’m nothing like a Cancer until I’m hurt…
Thats when I crawl into a shell.. but only around the person(s) that hurt me… The others will never see me sweat. LOL`
CANCER GUYS R GREAT.. BUT I DONT LIKE THE FACT THAT THEY WANT ALL THE ATTENTION
I am an aries(girl) and I have been with my cancer(boy)for almost 3 years. At first he was extremely romantic! But when he showed his real side I wished I had never even met him. Every time we have any stupid little argument he never knows how to let it go and he hates talking about anything. Now I know guys dont like talking about their feelings but NEVER have I met such a sensitive(in a bad way)guy! If he is mad about something i did he will keep all his anger inside, he wont say a word.. then when i ask him whats wrong? he wont reply, I usually try changing the subject and hope he will just get over it but eventually he always blows up and runs away from every single problem. Nothing ever gets resolved with him!!! real men face their problems not hide from them
Wow; I wished I had seen this website a few years back - it would have preempted sooo much futile fighting. ;p Aries women don’t do well with Cancer men because we need straightforward, confrontational results. We are impatient. Cancer people are sooo closed at times and will agree to stave off confrontation. That is maddening!
I am an aries women married to a cancer man.We have been togheter for 19 years!!!Yes we do fight (well I do).This is who they are let them deal with the problems without any confrontation and they will come out and say what is wrong. When they get moody just use our natural charm to change it.By the way the sex is amazing.
I’m an Aries woman 26 years old, seeing a cancer Man who is married and is 35 years old. when we met he was quite open and told me he was married but he said he is looking for a friend and he is not happy with his married life. we blend well but at times we had flights. i feel he only enjoy having sex & then disappears for days. not bothered about me but i should be.. i feel i love him because he was honest but now i feel he just wants to have a good time. i wait for him but sometimes there is no response. nothing around me cheers but its just him i want. i dont know what to do .. he did change my life but there is no hope that i can have him for long. if i leave i will surely miss him, i just cant get over him he makes me happy but at time he is rude and very moody. i feel these two stars cant blend or be together for long. im just happy atleast i can be somewhere in his life not for long but for a while.
wow i got on this page to look up some help for a friend but found my own sign crisis chat line while she was too busy for me to read this to her. i am aries female married to cancer male 18 years and it is stressful at times. we have two children, one almost as old as our relationship and one middle aged throught this roller-coaster ride.i am being kind of hazy on the exacts because my cancer is a self-taught computer whiz,as he is with anything that catches his attention.so he might peep out this chat page by mistake and say i know that blah-blah, you get me!!! so we are the long haul people, but all the comments i have read here are all correct every last entry. you all have some up my life, the good the bad and the ugly. i am not the typical arian but he’s the by the book cancer male and he admits its, he’s read up on his sign.not his characteristics not dealing with thing,extremly nice to be around,great friend,highly loyal,etc.not a bad deal actually but together with a aries female, life goes by real slow,import thing can go amiss while waiting for cancer males to make a decision,get out of a mood or just decide to let the best mate/parent,at that time to handle a situation. dont let anyone waste your life away!!! im doing ok, because i refuse to be a victim or even play one in a real life drama!!but when have children you give up alot he gives up alot too,but his is due to procrastination.but he’s one of the sweetest people i wish i had never met and if you think this is a typo, it is not. he’s such a good friend, will try to give materialistically,things he thinks or might have heard you admired. but will not listen to the important thing that you say straight out you need. that is more important to me. i am much softer version of an aries female lots of water in my charts, butstill, sun in aries,so i try to have patience.he makes me laugh and shows me he loves me and i do the same and willing to do more if only he would be more consistant in more ways,too many to count, im more lovey-dovey than realizes. loves his kids,but,only his kids, keep this in mind my hubby will feed his immediate family and watch another one starve unless i get involved.mind you cancer can be selfish but you’ve got to be on the inside to see it. he will tell you he does not care about others deeply besides his own.so occasionally i have to throw humanity across the road so he run over-it-back up and decide to join the human race and not just show a perfect face and deamenor and not give a care. and no i am not trying to make him save the ANJOLINA/BRAD PITT WORLD but it some we all have to remember teach to children and others and incorporate it sometimes into our lives. if you deal with someone who does care at all, dont say anything when you come home and their eating your neighbor or abusing you or yours because no one told them to play nice. the diffent faces he has is what keeps us still marching on,we see the potential in each other plus we both are strong protectors of kids.we are hard workers and family-first supporters but lots of give and take and ignore and make-up, oh i forgot!! he is highly energized in the bed room.as long as were not angry. keep cancer male positively motivated, more so,if your trying for the long haul. if going for a quicky or two throw a cap on it and enjoy the ride, then get off and run they’ll stick to you like glue if you stand still too long!!cancer males not bad but you’ll want to slap them after they slow you down pissed you off or not gotten self to the next mature place in life,the head must come out of the hole,tempt them to join us,but,proceed with caution,they bite,whine,B**CH i say pass on this one ARIES FEMALE,UNLESS YOU HAVE TO!! but i’ll take care of the one i have(I’M ALREADY IN MY BED,THAT I’VE MADE)PLUS,people give up too fast on families. so here’s to trying with a smile. good luck to all and this is just food for thought the last desion should be from your own exact situation.WHEW!!!
Hi there! I’m a Cancer female. I’m thinking about dating an Aries male. All these things I’m reading about their relationship together though is making me doubt my decision a little.
He’s really sweet, makes me laugh, I can relate to him about a lot of things, and he listens. Now, sometimes he may not have to best response, but… you know how that goes.
I haven’t known him for long, but I really like him. I may even be able to fall in love with him. (I’m still recovering from recently losing the love of my life; we were going to be engaged, but it didn’t work out.)
You’re right about us Cancers: we can be very moody and jealous. I’ve read that Aries men have a tendency to look at other women. That would definitely make me feel uncomfortable. But do I want to start an arguement by mentioning it to him?
I am a 26 year old Cancer woman married to a 31 year old Aries man and have known him for 3 years. I am so glad to say how wrong the astrology prediction of this relationship is. We love each other and are extremely happy together. We both had seen people of other sunsigns before we met each other. I dated a Pisces man for a while before I met my husband. Though Pisces and Cancer are supposed to be the best for each other, it was just the opposte for me. In fact Pisces & Cancer tend to be both demanding emotional satisfaction but neither being the doer or the one to take charge. But with my husbnd I feel that he is man enough to understand and listen and fulfill my emotional needs. I feel taken care of and satiated , emotionally, intellectally & sexually. His aggressive nature and determination to succeed and my caring nature and vulnerability only make us fall in love even more every morning we open our eyes next to each other.
It is said in the article that
” For this relationship to work there must be total understanding of the other’s needs and a lot of patience”
I would like to know which relationahip on earth doesn’t need understanding & patience???
And as far as finding another easier relationship is concerned, I guess we all have our options. Anyone can walk out of a perfect relationship & not just a specific sun sign.
I’m in love with a Aries man, he’s everything I ever wanted. After reading this I been trying to decide if I should let him go or keep working at it. On his side its so hard to tell.
sometimes I think he likes me, other times I think he off to find someone new. I’m very torn.
I’m glad some of you have made it work. I just don’t know if our relationship will work out.
I am a Cancer woman, and I just met an Aries man. I don’t know what to think of him. He is in a relationship, and says he has never cheated on her. I not trying to down play myself but out of all these years how come I am the first he want to cheat with? and I’ve read about the compatibility between us but I think it wrong. I don’t have a problem with telling how I feel. to me he does. We have been talking for only two month and he is already talking about love.I do dig him but I don’t know I feel like he is hiding something. But he supports me sooo much. I have had some mature young men in my life. But he seems like the manliest man I have ever known. If he would let me know where he is in his relationship may be I would be a little more comfortable. When I asked him how did he feel about her he answered with an incomplete answer. I am also in a relationship. I love my partner (cap) but its been a battle. It’s just hard for me to find my way back. But I had have a friend on the side(pis) I knew before the Aries. He never talks about my partner. But he always talks about my friend and the Aries act soo jealous of him. We argue but we do get along. I don’t know!!!
i am a 16 yr old cancer and i am dating a 17 yr old aries.reading some of this comments gave me hopes.ive know him for a year and some months.he does like to take control all the time tho,but i love this! he is the one that turns on the relationship.just like the crab i am i will not let him go.hes help me be more outgoing and craul out of my shell.at the beginnig i didnt have hopes for both of us.scince he would alway party and had a social life and im not that type a girl.i like for of a calm climate.but as much as hes taught me so have i.
I’m so in love with my Aries Man it is scary. He is so good to me. But I finally realized what makes him very angry with me. It’s when I get jealous (trait of the Crab) No I dont act out. But to me he is so amazing I know so many other females must see what I see. Yeah he is very friendly but I have to keep it in the perspective that it is just his charming personality.I have to remember to pull back because I can swallow him up whole because he is just that good to me. So when I back up that is when he is really at his best. To be honest when I ignore him, he wants to release more love but when I get so mushy he backs up. So i have to keep it in the middle. I know he likes mushy sometimes but I think he prides himself in that false cocky exterior that Aries really think they must maintain in order to be in control, I think our sweetness can possibly weaken them a trait they don’t want to acquire. Three years so far.
I just read through the post and comments. I don’t know what to think. I am a Aries woman (34) to the heart and I recently started dating a Cancer man (31). I have had a bad experience with a cancer man in my past that lead me NOT to date them anymore until now. He’s funny and sweet but I wonder how long is it going to last? How long will it be before he is ready to commit to a relationship? Am I patient enough to wait? He’s worth the wait but I’am not good at waiting. But they say anything that is good is worth waiting on. What to do? What to do?
Im a 17 year old -(CANCER]* I qo w. a 19 year old -(ARIES]* We been toqether since summer 08. So that makes about 10 months. He has a real big prooblem stayinq faithful . He still talks to his X from time to time . It bothers me alot but i really dont arque with him because i no he is qoinq to do what he wants reqardless. He is very bossy (&&] aqqessive bhut ; but at the same time sweet (&&] carinq . Tell you the truth his aqqressiveness turns me on. He is very sexual and always wants to make love/sex. Beinq that i lost my VIRGINITY to him ; he thinks he owns me. He is my very first love. Maybe since im a cancer i have a hard time describinq how i feel. I never told him i love him before. He ended up telling me first. I love him so much that it scares me . Im so afraid of qettinq my heart broken (&&] him leavinq me. I dont know what else to do i mean i tried everythinqq !