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Aries Compatibility With Cancer |
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Aries and Cancer
This relationship will be a hard one. Cancerian people hide their own true selves underneath a tough external shell. It is hard to break down the walls and barriers the Cancer has built up, but once the Aries does get into this persons heart they will find someone who is easily hurt and very sensitive. For the Cancer loves his/her home, and family is the most important thing. They long to settle down, get married and have lots of little baby crabs, the Aries may not want the same thing for possibly years to come, and can find it hard to look to the future with such seriousness. The sex life of this Water and Fire sign combination will no doubt suffer. Once the Cancerian has realised that their Arian lover isn't looking for the 'Walton's' type of lifestyle they can go off sex rather quickly, as Cancer people deep down believe that love making = baby making, otherwise, what's the point??? If you were to ask who is the boss in such a relationship you simply pose yet another problem. The Cancerian wants to be the decision maker in the home and has a tendency to sulk for days on end unless this requirement is met. This arrangement dosen't sit too well with the fun loving Aries who will feel suffocated and tied down by this union. Which may eventually cause the Arian to flee or even worse fall into the arms of another. These two really don't have much going for them i'm afraid. For this relationship to work there must be total understanding of the other's needs and a lot of patience, which the Cancer may manage, but I'm not too sure the Aries will want to work quite so hard and may opt just to find an easier relationship to fit into.
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May 19th, 2008 at 2:40 pm
Cancers are attracted to Aries like a moth to a flame. Cancers love the strengths of an Aries but they can’t handle it when that fire is turned up on them. I will never date another cancer. As much as I love the soft side of a Cancer I can’t deal with how they hide in there shell when things go wrong. Trust me I have dated so many Cancer men and will never do that again. I must say we make great lovers together but that only goes so far. A disagreement arise – Aries want to argue/discuss and move on to hot love making – Cancer want to go and stick there head in there shell and soak about it and then in a couple of days want to make love…and they never want to talk about it.….forget that ……..an Aries likes to deal with the problem and move on…….soaking is wasting time…life if to short.
Any way if you are an Aries and you are dating a CAncer…….I wish you the best of luck,,,,,,,you are going to need it….
PS your Cancer is not going to change (and if they do it will not last)……they are crabs and move very slow by the time they realize they need to change you will would have moved on to someone else.
May 19th, 2008 at 2:43 pm
Cancers are attracted to Aries like a moth to a flame. Cancers love the strengths of an Aries but they can’t handle it when that fire is turned up on them. I will never date another cancer. As much as I love the soft side of a Cancer I can’t deal with how they hide in their shell when things go wrong. Trust me I have dated so many Cancer men and will never do that again. (5 to say the least) I must say we make great lovers together but that only goes so far. A disagreement arise – Aries want to argue/discuss and move on to hot love making – Cancer want to go and stick their head in their shell and soak about it and then in a couple of days want to make love…and they never want to talk about it.….forget that ……..an Aries likes to deal with the problem and move on…….soaking is wasting time…life if to short
June 11th, 2008 at 2:14 pm
I have been dating an Aries man for 2 months exactly now. I’m cancer sun, scorpio moon and aquarius rising and its amazing how we just cannot get enough of each other. I love the way he just takes control, he’s a real manly man and it makes me crazy. We spend every weekend together and I dont have to beg him, he does it out of his own. He is 34 and never settled, i’m 28 and divorced with 2 kids, so my mind is way off kids right now. Just want to enjoy life. I would say that i’m a bit more adventurous than he is and maybe a bit more exciting. He’s kinda boring in that he just wants to stay in all the time. I do get moody but i let him have it, then its over and i can breathe again, instead of keeping it in and sulking. Tried that, but he’s way too stupid to notice that i’m being ugly with him…hehehe
July 3rd, 2008 at 8:49 pm
I am 31 aries women and I’m in love with 26 Cancer Man.I always thought I will not settle down but he makes me think about the possibilities. I know that I am to much for him at times but that’s the only thing I can do is have faith and slow down with life. Yes, indeed they are great lovers and they know how to fill in all the gaps in you.In such a way that they leave an everlasting mark in your soul. Even though I may not be with him now but I know if the heavens allow me to have him back in my life he will come back. Cancer man are loving people but they need to know that if this is what they want then they should muster up and stand up to Aries women and say “Yes I want this too”. Aries women need to hear that from time to time. If you don’t then they will give up and move on even though there hearts are still with them. For all of you Cancer man tell an Aries women what is in your heart. That is all she needs to hear.
July 18th, 2008 at 4:22 am
im an aries girl and im dating a cancer guy and things are not going well at all. he thinks they are but im getting to the point where i wanna break up but i dont wanna hurt his feelings i would feel horrible. i love him, but at the same time our relationship just isnt working. he is way too moody for me. he has mood swings constantly and we fight everyday it seems like. im more sweet, and he is sensitive he just likes to hide it all to himself and never tell me about it. and if he does tell me something he always makes me feel like im doing something wrong cause he yells at me and always is soo moody i cant really handle him.
July 21st, 2008 at 6:27 am
im in love wih an aries guy. And i know he loves me back. Hes told me that I was the only girl he was ever happy with, and the only one he loved(and still does)and ive heard all the stuff that a cancer aries relationship is difficult, but i dont see why. If you love someone and they love you back, then it shouldnt matter what sign you are…as long as the 2 of you make each other happy.
September 5th, 2008 at 8:26 pm
im a cancer woman im just 19 years old im dating a aries guy he’s 21..our relationship is not so good bcuz he wants everything to be his way and no itsz not like dat…& he doesn’t even go out or nothing he’s kinda boring we have been dating for 1 year now..& he told me that im the only girl that settled him down that he loves me & that he wants to spend his whole life with me I love him a lot yes but ima kinda person that I don’t like 2 show what im feeling idk why…so yeah I let it be how ever god wants it 2 be…
September 5th, 2008 at 11:41 pm
my cancer husband is a dog! Very charming, will buy you the world, it s his way or the highway. Cheated with a girl for a long time. Moody and its true he is only happy when he has a pocket full of money. Really sweet and you can have some good times with cancers. but beware snoop through his stuff find out all you can about them. Because they have a lot to hide. They will truly be someone else when you discover who they really are. Proceed with caution!!! They will charm your socks off and make you feel you are the one. It will be no question that you are the one, but there will be others make no mistake about it..After four years….I’m finally trying to get out. P.S. If you can deal with a cheater, other than the mood swings he’ll treat you like a queen. Diamonds cash cars and furs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Is it worth it though ladies…I’ve decided to get out and get it for myself……Power to you ladies to get rid of these dogs….
September 9th, 2008 at 3:17 pm
im a typical Aries woman with a strong personality and being with a cancer was no doubt one of the worst relationship and experience in my entire life. they’re really selfish deep inside but act selfless to the world, it’s their way or the high way. Also they’re good at playing victims due to their so called sensitive nature, very controlling and insecure for no reason. Likes hiding their past and things until you find out on your own (which is not gonna be a pretty sight considering you ARE with an Aries) Never want to talk about things,when its time to talk( a rare occasion) ,they go back into their shell for a long time. Plus they’re really boring,always want to stay in and not have sex too. They love the Aries fire but really cannot handle it. Better stick to Leos,geminis or even virgos(at least they’re sane)
September 9th, 2008 at 7:53 pm
`i’M A Aries women and I met a cancer man and he is everything that i need, he is loving, caring and romantic and express how he feels all the time, i love that about him. I’ll just pray for our future to be healthy and strong.
P.S.
I don’t think it’s the sign who makes the person it’s the person who makes them, because not all cancer men are the same.
September 24th, 2008 at 6:07 pm
IM 16 AND A CANCER. IM DATING A 18 YEAR OLD ARIES GUY
I NEVER FELT THE SAME ABOUT ANY ONE IN MY LIFE
I LOOOOOVE HIM AND HE LOVES ME
MY PARENTS DONT LIKE HIM BECAUSE HE IS CONTROLLONG AND BOSSY
EVERYTHING HAS TO BE HIS WAY
HE ALSO THINKS THAT I DONT LOVE HIM AS MUCH AS HE LOVES ME
I CANT EXPRESS MY FEELINGS THAT WELL
ARIES AND CANCER IS VERY STESSFUL TOGETHER
WE FIGHT ALOT
ALMOST EVERY NITE
BUT I LOVE MICHAEL SO MUCH I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO
October 15th, 2008 at 4:43 am
I am a 19 year old female Cancer dating a 26 year old male Aries. We have been together since I was 14 years old and it is still going great!! we have a Beautiful 2 year old daughter, and i fall in love with him more and more everyday!:) So see an Aries and Cancer relationship can work. We do have our ups and downs but we always work it out. After all no one is perfect.
October 27th, 2008 at 12:13 pm
i’ve been with a cancer man for the last 5 years. we have just had a little boy together 5 months ago. we do understand each other and we try to talk about everything when problems arise. although i do feel suffocated sometimes where i believe he runs the show and makes all the decisions i read up about cancer and aries compatibility a lot and there are something s in there that relate. he is sensitive and i see that about him all the time his feelings get hurt very easily but also he is very quick to get over things. it has been a very interesting relationship where in the beginning it took him 3 years to figure out whether he wanted to be with me or not and me being an aries wouldve walked away sooner but iwaited for him. i believe this relationship would work but theres so many things that can completely ruin it. i love him to death but everything is always his way and i know it gets under my skin, in a way kind of not being able to make my own decisions and think for my self. but i believe life is what you make it so thats why i have stuck with him for so long cause he makes me laugh, but i reckon in his case he’s got a very destructable personality in what way i mean with alcohol and drinking and not knowing when to stop and sayin nasty things he doesnt mean when he is drunk but as i said he gets over it quick, i think this could work but i reckon i’m going to need a lot of patience, we are with each other all the time and iit does get crowding, but we are both loyal to each other i guess the relationship will always work if you just give it a chance and step back a look at where it is going and where your life is going to take you in it……there are goingto be trates you like and dislike about your other half but the good things should always outweigh the bad!
November 14th, 2008 at 8:33 am
i’m a cancer female 28 dating an aries male 26. i think that the reason our relationship works out so well is because the rest of our charts mesh well. for example my venus is in gemini, his is in aquarius. also he’s got a lot of water in his chart & i have a lot of air. he’s perfect! i just need to express my feelings more, i do tend to shell up because i’m afraid of his response, but everytime i do open up; it’s not been a bad experience. i guess i lucked out in this cancer & aries combo, thank goodness!
December 5th, 2008 at 9:00 am
I am so so happy with my Aries man. Reading horoscopes made me a bit skeptical because every review I read on Aries and Cancer was absolutely awful. That affected me a little as a Cancerian girl, i take almost.. everything to heart, but I know what is real with him and that is that we work really really well together. I dont mind him being bossy and controlling, I love it when he takes charge. I do take charge in some ways. I was always looking for a man that could stand up to me and take control and I found him. I hate weak men that I can boss around, which I did in most of my relationships. Its such a huge turn off.
Let me tell you, reading some of these comments have assured me that it can work, which I already knew, but it just confirmed it.
In my case, my Peter Pan was still being a boy while I was settling down and when I came out of that when it didnt work, he was ready to settle down. I got him at the right time.
My guy is the one who doesn’t like sex and I being Cancer, am very sexual. My guy is the one who stays in all the time and never wants to go anywhere cos he’s quite an introvert and shy. But not at home, when he’s with me, he’s the funniest guy in town, I have so much fun with him, its laughter all the time. We’ve had 1 fight in 9 months, but made up in the same hour.
Its been 6 months since my last comment and still going strong. So, dont write off a Cancerian or an Arian, it just depends on the person. You could be missing out on the ride of your life…..
December 31st, 2008 at 5:02 am
hi I’m a 21 year old Aries and I just started dating a cancer guy,. Well so far he is been great!, we talk a lot, he even talks more than I do (that’s incredible!). He always asks me what do I want and asks for my opinion…I just hope it stays this way because he is great….
January 6th, 2009 at 1:16 am
I’m a Cancer woman and have no desire to have lots of baby crabs. I’ve actually never had a desire to be a mother. I knew early on in life that parenting takes “selflessness” (is that a word?) I’m 40 yrs old and embrace life and love children.. just don’t want one of my own.
I’m currently dating an Aries of 2 yrs and LOVE HIM! He’s so easy and far from demanding. Maybe he’s different because I don’t fit a mold.
To come to think of it, my closest female freind is an Aries too and I’ve made 4 Cancer friends through her. Is that odd or the norm?
I love cooking and love my home life but I feel like men get in the way unless they hire a house-keeper.
I have zero desire to clean after a grown man unless we created the mess together.
I’ve been told by many that they are very surprised and impressed with my home-making skills but state I’m nothing like a Cancer until I’m hurt…
Thats when I crawl into a shell.. but only around the person(s) that hurt me… The others will never see me sweat. LOL`
January 10th, 2009 at 2:55 am
CANCER GUYS R GREAT.. BUT I DONT LIKE THE FACT THAT THEY WANT ALL THE ATTENTION
January 14th, 2009 at 5:07 am
I am an aries(girl) and I have been with my cancer(boy)for almost 3 years. At first he was extremely romantic! But when he showed his real side I wished I had never even met him. Every time we have any stupid little argument he never knows how to let it go and he hates talking about anything. Now I know guys dont like talking about their feelings but NEVER have I met such a sensitive(in a bad way)guy! If he is mad about something i did he will keep all his anger inside, he wont say a word.. then when i ask him whats wrong? he wont reply, I usually try changing the subject and hope he will just get over it but eventually he always blows up and runs away from every single problem. Nothing ever gets resolved with him!!! real men face their problems not hide from them
January 23rd, 2009 at 8:26 pm
Wow; I wished I had seen this website a few years back - it would have preempted sooo much futile fighting. ;p Aries women don’t do well with Cancer men because we need straightforward, confrontational results. We are impatient. Cancer people are sooo closed at times and will agree to stave off confrontation. That is maddening!