Comments on: Are all Cancerians caring?

By: danglin' dude

danglin' dude — Fri, 13 Apr 2012 23:31:29 +0000

NOW
as for you, mr “mark”, i say this:
i found it hard to bother myself at being mad after reading your depressingly disturbing post. i’m sorry you feel the way about cancers that you do. i truly am. none of it applies to me or any of the fellow “cancers” ive known.
it seems that you have an exagerated horrified view of how this unified group of people carlessly hurt others while masking it under a clever veil of helping society on the grandest scale. are you saying that they do this to make it hard for you individually to confront them? about what??? what horrible things have these people actually done? why would “cancer” go through SOOOOO much trouble as “saving the world” just to cover up their shit with one person as you? have YOUVE been accused of troubling other people while pretending to “save the world” yourself?…sorry i had to use the caps since there’s no italicizing feature… again, i read your post and wasn’t swayed by anything you said. i think therapy and talking your feelings out with trust friends and family members would definitely help you sort out your personal problems. concluding, its in my deep prayers that you and your friends-for-life cancer pals can get along well in the future if you guys dont now. =)

also
“yada”, i too am a bit perturbed as “mark” is when reading your suicide sentiment. i think many of us hjave the tendency to see the worse in ourself, especially when we are depressed. hey, zodiac profile after zodiac profile have stated how powerful our personalities are in healing people and caring for them. i think you should take their word for it. =) and if that can’t cheer u up, i really don’t know what will.
my word of advice as one cancer to another is this. if you take your own life, ur only confirming the harshly negative perceptions of cancers as championed by people like “mark.” please don’t do it, if you haven’t yet. i’m asking you as a friend.

By: dangling

dangling — Fri, 13 Apr 2012 23:23:53 +0000

dang, what has these comments become? pisces and cancers fighting like little children over an issues that i seem to get doesn’t really exist. let me just say, i think everyone has personal shit that they have to deal with on their own. being prejudiced to a group of people under a silly ZODIAC SIGN aint gonna help no one, especially not yourself. i think we can all agree that SOME cancers are caring to SOME people and SOME cancers are not. SOME are out to “save the world”, others are not. i am a cancer, and i would LOVE to try to help people in any way i can, but i know that my efforts wont always be received in the way i’d like. still, i continue trying. i always give it my 100% best shot!!! no matter how much people hurt me, no matter if i like or dislike the person, i love lending an open hand in any way i can. i’m a firm believer that, being nice will pay off in a way that will gain you back the same kind of friends. no, i don’t do it to try get praised, like a few people seem to want to to say. i stay true to my word.

By: Rix

Rix — Sun, 01 Apr 2012 06:56:16 +0000

I’m a cancer.. Oh dear! nah LOL My sister is a cancer and my uncle is a cancer. I’m very different to both of them. Its hard to generalise, as anybody who knows about astrology knows that well, not every cancer, leo, aquarius etc on the planet is the same. There are murderers, rapists, saints, meanies and genuinely decent people in all signs. A lot has to do with upbringing and life influences, as well as ascendants, moon signs, good old pluto! etc etc. Eg. My cancer uncle is very stingy and bitches and moans about everyone, but for instance my ex who was a cancer was not like this at all and would do anything for most people.. but you’d have to prove yourself first, and he also had scorpio on his ascendant, which means he’d be very picky with who he’d give his extreme generosity and limitless heart to. My sister on the other hand.. is emotionally unstable and selfish.. but its because she is so damn sensitive and has no control over her emotions. If you’ve done something in the SLIGHTEST wrong in her books, she will ignore you for months. Where as, for example, I have sagittarius in moon, ascendant and lots of other places and I’m very forgiving and dont hold grudges… but then I put up with too much, when everyone else is telling me to get out of situations that are no good for me.. I tend to see both sides and think, Oh well they’re just having a bad day or whatever. And I’m way too generous, but I think that comes with the sagittarius not being good with money and being overly positive about everything! This sounds highly biased… but it is not. And I agree with the cheating thing, I have never and would never cheat on anyone, but my sister has (but it was for revenge purposes, which doesnt justify but she wouldn’t of prior to that). My ex cancer cheated on me (though I dont care). My uncle would never cheat on anyone.I know cheaters and non cheaters in every sign… I know cheaters and non cheaters in a lot of different signs. Also, an astrological chart doesnt say everything about a person.. its always best to go with that good old gut instinct

By: ARC

ARC — Thu, 23 Feb 2012 21:38:23 +0000

@ Steve -
“If you wronged a pisces, it’s never too late to apologize.”
What does this have to do with Yada’s point at hand?

By: Steve

Steve — Thu, 22 Dec 2011 00:12:15 +0000

@Yada
I’m glad you clarified it from “our” to “my.” Because you don’t speak for the group, and frankly, every cancer I ever met has been a friend for life. Pisces (me) are some of the most understanding group of people on this Earth. Even when I know I’m being wronged, I try to see the other side of it and understand. I ask myself, what is intentional? what is malicious? could it have been different? If the majority answer is yes, then I can not allow a cancer (or anyone) get away with it.

I’m not sure how suicide would help humanity, MAYHAPS you can explain.

Also, I’m not following this whole knife-stomach thing. And you keep referring to cancers as bullies..why would you assume that a pisces or scorpio or any other sign won’t/can’t return the favor? Speaking as a pisces (not on behalf of) I am very patient. And I know that you can only right the wrong with an individual. Trying to pander to a group of pisces, scorpios, etc.. won’t do anything for you.

But you seem verbal enough, try apologizing..

By: yada

yada — Tue, 20 Dec 2011 01:33:39 +0000

Sorry, I must clarify. When I say “stick a knife in OUR stomach”, I mean “stick a knife in MY stomach.”

By: Yada

Yada — Tue, 20 Dec 2011 00:05:20 +0000

@Steve
There are no pisces involved. I’m talking about observations and comparison. I see a cancer like myself as a petty floater who’s unproductive to humanity and society where pisces and scorpios have mastered the eternal humanity “saveship”. (For a lack of better terms, I make up my own lol) I feel I can always learn from them and learn a great deal, but the fact that saving the world is not in my DEFAULT nature is where my anxiety comes. Suicide is an answer to me because it brings me closer to a place where I can be productive in my work to help humanity.

But now, on your tangent, since you brought it up (and since you probably have had horrendous scars from cancers, which I don’t blame you for) I do believe that sometimes we cancers can be bullies to pisces without truly knowing it. In that case, to your favor, it would be best to stick a knife in our stomachs and let us live through it for as long as possible. I know for a fact that such would emotionally heal pisces of cancer’s abrasive, unforgiving nature, even if they don’t want to admit it verbally on the surface. I mean this unsarcastically. It really would be good therapy for the pisces. I’m not condoning self-destructive violence to anyone. Just for myself in favor of a pisces.

Aye, then again, my having spoken about it would probably lessen the favor. :S

By: Kari

Kari — Sun, 18 Dec 2011 23:40:30 +0000

Cancers are the caring ones…but there is nothing worse than a middle aged single Cancer woman with no kids. These people are wretched manipulative beings. Just buy these women a drink, let them “save” you and call it a day.

By: Steve

Steve — Sun, 18 Dec 2011 07:42:54 +0000

@yada

Why suicide? If you wronged a pisces, it’s never too late to apologize. A pisces never forgets but is probably the most forgiving sign in the entire zodiac. My advice is apology sincerely. Remember the key word being sincerely. If you come with anything less, the pisces will pick up on it, and that will make things worse.

By: Mark

Mark — Sun, 18 Dec 2011 04:37:36 +0000

Cancers act like their saving the world, yet it only applies to things in their own interest. The cancers that I have known seem too self-centered to be “caring.” It’s no surprise that cancer and leo are right next to each other. Cancers are jealous petty leaders, who try to manipulate every situation to their benefit and then position themselves to be the hero.

Cancers are too weak and tactless to be saving anyone. It’s just a front to promote themselves. Really they need people to constantly “protect” them from some unknown force. It sums up to this. Cancers are petty low-lives who act up, then need other people to protect them from their own deceitful actions. You’re fooling no one sweetheart;)

By: yada

yada — Fri, 11 Nov 2011 00:33:32 +0000

*sighs* I guess that’s all we can ever be…caring people. All the while, Scorpio and Pisces are PSYCHIC and SAVING THE UNIVERSE…

Perhaps I should have been born under one of those sunsigns. Maybe then, this pathetic human life can serve a more meaningful purpose.

I’m not disvowing care for other people’s feelings. That’s a great thing to have! But, I just wish we were more than JUST that.

Suicide is an answer mayhaps?

By: Response to Bull77

Response to Bull77 — Wed, 12 Oct 2011 18:07:04 +0000

Likewise, Bull77, I also happen to know that Cancer’s said-intuitiveness usually gets to Taurus, and Tuarus knows that he won’t win. Every time a Taurus like my little brother gets told off when my (Cancer’s) accurate predictions penetrate him/her, he/she would try to level the same kind of mind-penetrating ability back at me (Cancer). The problem with my little bro doing this, however, is that he takes LITERAL (not to mention GENERIC) information from the surface and throws it back into my face, thinking to himself that he’s making a psychic prediction. Unfortunately for him, his psychic Cancerian older brother (me) knows that literal information cannot accurately attack the actual feelings that maybe going on UNDERNEATH. Cancer knows this to be the typical frail attempt by Taurus to get back at Cancer. And WHY, one asks?

Answer: it is stated in my first statement.

What also gets to me is that he thinks that by adding a component of slap-head name-calling and then turning away with a conspicuous blink of an eye and a lift of snooty nose would piss me off. He thinks he got me back, but really, he just makes himself look even more like an idiot. Because litteral surface visual information do not affect me. See?

You are right, Bull77. Cancers ARE intuitive, including myself. Like all the other water sunsigns, we usually have things and conversations figured out before take place. (What we specifically figure out and how we go about figuring it out may vary by the sign). Having said that, if Cancer is “holding a grudge” or is behaving in a petty negative manner, I already know that

a) it’s your fault, or
b) you bear much responsibility to his feeling upset (even if you may not think or, rather, TRY to not think so)

I also happen to know that you yourself are involved every bit in the pettiness and is, in fact, are likely holding a petty grudge yourself against a Cancer or perhaps a bunch of Cancers. Maybe not in the same was Cancer is, but a grudge nevertheless.

MY advice to TAURUS is,
Unless you are a mean-ass Pisces or Scorpio, you will never defeat Cancer at the mental teardown game, so don’t even try.