Comments on: Life of the Aries Man

By: AriesmanWithLibraAsc

AriesmanWithLibraAsc — Thu, 18 Aug 2011 00:45:23 +0000

dear Bold And Sexy Libra, with a touch of October in your eyes.

As an aries, i love to get suprised, and you on the other side, love to please, weather is by cooking the best food, making the most awesome macchiatto or dropping your skirt when your man enters the door. I guess what I am saying is that you are doing good somehow.

I know my self and my heart, and i know that if someone is doing stuff like what you told, i would be grateful. But its kind of an “but” here, i think. Maybe you make it to easy for him to come back to your good graces?

Right now Im dating an scorpio and an Geminilady. The gemini make it to easy for me, and i get boring. The sex is good, if not perfect, but she is not kicking my, pordon my language, ASS enough. I guess thats why im “care” rather if she leave or stay. The scorpiolady on the other hand, kicks my ass to the curb, and i have to step up my game, as an worrior I am. I have been dating her over years. We are in our fifht year, i think, and i have not managed to completely come into her good graces. It is an “but” her to, and thats the destroying part. Fire have an tendency to burn our if it is not handled good.

Dont get me misunderstood, becouse what you said whas realy touching and beautiful, real and profound, just as it should be.

I guess my job is done here, huh?

By: pure aries

pure aries — Mon, 20 Jun 2011 23:04:25 +0000

Im an aries guy and i have been in a relationship with an aqua girl for 2 years now, she has really made me feel secure and i really respect her a lot , and she is the sort of a girl who will hate ppl i hate and love ppl i love and one thing i have noticed is that she wants the same frm me , i have also dated an aries girl which was lyk the best couple of weeks that i had but she is a very difficult girl to talk to , she is extremely beautiful and sexy all the people in the dance floor like went crazy watching us dance and the kind of chemistry we had was brilliant ,she is really open and i saw her dancing with lot of other guys also, but whn i talked with her on this she didnt like it , one thing i will lyk to mention here is that as couples we wer like “soo hot” you can call it lyk the centre of attraction i found guys lyk stopping and staring at us but it didnt last much as my aqua girl is such a sweet heart i cannnot take the huge ego of the aries girl also viceversa and about capricorn girls guys pls stay away they will never understand you even if you skip your lunch and see her she will be like without any feelings and an aries guy cant take that…one thing i forgot is abt gemini girls i had a good FF(fuck frnd) she was awesome…i still call her sometimes and she is like really really great just enjoy the company of gemini girls

By: Bold and Sexxy Libra Woman

Bold and Sexxy Libra Woman — Fri, 25 Feb 2011 19:39:39 +0000

By the Way Arieswith Aquamoon;

We Have Been together for 9 months and have been knowing each other as friends for 12 years. He is my Nephews uncle.

Also, he told me that he wants me as a best friend more than he needs me as his woman. What the hell does that mean? He explained it to me. But I couldn’t understand it. but he tells me that he wants me and needs me. He wants me as his friend first to make sure we will work as a full blown relationship. But we rarely see each other. The most is twice a week for the total of 6 hours max. I don’t know what to do. When we are together, we are unseperatable.

Help!

By: Bold and Sexxy Libra Woman

Bold and Sexxy Libra Woman — Fri, 25 Feb 2011 18:51:50 +0000

To Arian with Aqua Moon:

You are the best, as I think Arian men are. Thank you for your confidence in how a Libra Woman should stay and be patient with her Aries Warrior. I am having a hard time understanding the Silent part of you all. I was challanging my Aries to come and take me. This is what I said; I am not satisfied with you at all. You are not handling your business when it comes to my sexual needs. I am thirsty and you are not quinching my thirst. Come and quinch my thirst Baby!” NOW, for the last 9 days, I have yet to hear from him. I am there for him, support him when he is down, I am at his beacon call. But I will not tolerate his silence. Being a Libra, Communication is key to us. He has done it to me twice ever since we have been together.

I have apologize if i had said anything to hurt him, but i also told him that I will not apologize for how I feel. I explainded to him that everything I had said was just to ignite his fire to come and get me. But he still had not called or texted. I have sent very exotic pics and videos to him. But he has still resisted.

I am always a ear, a heart, shoulder and financually there to assist.

I love this man with all my heart. NOT just as my Lover but as a friend. I look up to him and look to him for advice and comfort. His presence sooths me, his eyes make me go wild, and his touch sends into a everlasting porn mode. I caress him and stoke that ego. Like there is no way to stop how I love to see him smile. I will do anything to keep him smiling. I just know that I will always express how I feel to him. He does keep me on my toes, so I know to keep him interested is to keep him running after me and on his toes. He know my heart. I just dont understand the silence. He knows how I feel.

Please help me understand him and why the silence comes when I get assertive when it comes to how I feel.

By: melis

melis — Fri, 11 Feb 2011 01:04:59 +0000

Aries dude, i thought this was pretty interesting prolly because i am an Aries and i agree 110% that we are difficult to deal with in relationships sometimes i feel bad for my b/f putting up with my hyperness sometimes im not like that all the time im learning im astill young.. but sometimes Capricorns must take their time with everything but we get each other because my moon is in cap. So ur best bet is a aqua girl trust me if you read ur correct moon sign aqua might even be ur soul mate but ur gf might be too im not trying to be god lol but im just saying my moon worked for me. Cancer is also correct they are too clingy and i end up snapping at my one bf it lasted about a month. i also was with Virgo and the guys are attractive but we just are on two different mind sets i totally get my vigo girlfriends but that one guy was just not my type at all. but anyway my moms a Libra too which is pretty weird but my advice to you is try looking at ur moon sign again in a book u think is trustworthy cus it might be in libra not in aqua. peace

ps dont down us in relationships that much just cus we arnt we blow up fast we get over things alot faster and we are mad faithful unless we think we dont want to be with you anymore and we are sexy people they say Virgo is sexy nah aries are except for men all the girls i know are mad pretty. vigo boys are pretty but Virgo girls look like men some of them alrighty bye

ps ps ps spelling errors cus im lazy even tho im in college i dont feel like going thru this im on the mac book!

By: kai

kai — Mon, 17 Jan 2011 02:55:50 +0000

Aries female here:
to the comments about how terrible the author is for his pleasure from his ex’s pain, you’ve obviously never been an aries. you’re ridiculous to think gender roles between a double aries couple means anything; female aries do the same exact thing, it’s part of the dance.
additionally, what you’re not reading in this article is the parts about the male was probably just as hurt during parts of the aries-aries joust because it would an admittance to tiny defeats, to himself, his ex, and the readers out there. the aries female telling the author about how she cried must have been part of some sort of strategy, maybe to evoke guilt to continue the fight or reveal something honest in effort to try the forgive-and-forget process.

By: Ana

Ana — Fri, 14 Jan 2011 14:08:28 +0000

Gemini or now according to new changes in Astrological calander a Taurus, married to Aries for 18 years , learned that trust on bothsides has to be one of the most important traits and needs for Aries man!

By: Cancer/Aries

Cancer/Aries — Fri, 14 Jan 2011 00:47:24 +0000

I am a CANCER woman who is dating an ARIES male, and truth be told, I don’t see me being with anyone else! That’s the guy I wish to marry!- and he said this first, not me!!! The opposite attraction you mentioned was on point but we have a few things in common (i.e. TRAVEL!!) LoL We’ve been together for a year- which took WORK at first! ARIES MEN ARE DIFFICULT AS HELL!!! and because cancers are at the opposite end of the spectrum, a lot of arguements arise… I couldn’t understand his asshole ways and he couldn’t understand my sensitive nature. (But personally, I’ve always been drawn to fire signs and their loud personalities, I hate getting bored as well). After awhile with all the arguing, I thought we were gonna break up- but the feelings we had for eachother when we met weren’t for nothing (I fell in love with him QUICK and so did he) so we both figured to stay and see where it went.

In the beginning, it was like damn where the hell you come from, and now that we understand and STILL LEARNING eachother its like damn, are you my soulmate?!?! it’s like we draw from eachother’s strength where we are flawed, I really can’t explain our relationship but being with him is the best thing that has ever happened to me and i can confidently say that its the same for him. I think the key to this pairing is patience, communication, and compromise the 2 signs are EXTREMELY differently with loud personalites (at least in my case). In my opinion, you don’t want someone easy to figure out, you want to take a life-time learning them while having fun on the way. He’s a smart ass (as am I), critical, pessimistic, vibrant and all of the above and I wouldn’t change a thing. There’s not a day where we don’t laugh, challenge, play around, talk, yell, compliment, treat,etc eachother. I love the fact we’re different, we both have things to bring to the table… which is why we both work so well. The pairing may not work for everyone, but it’s working for usand its great a great ride thus far…

By: angela

angela — Wed, 20 Oct 2010 01:20:51 +0000

I love this site.. i am an Aries girl so i totally understand… except i have a Pisces moon.. i think i am a really sensitive Aries

By: scorpiowoman

scorpiowoman — Thu, 02 Sep 2010 07:49:06 +0000

im dating an aries man for 7 years, always argue and fight. both of us have a bad temper, explosive and wanted to control each other. we recently talked about marriage early this year, but because of my explosive temper, he just drag the marriage. he told me to behave and follow and obey his orders. and by he doing this, it hurts me so bad. by him doing this, it makes me even explosive and angry all the time. Recently, my parents just got divorce and my relationship with him is going down as well. i was in a bad mood (my family problem) that when he called last week, i nag and said nasty hurtful mean stuff about him that i really didnt mean it. i didnt have a clear mind and it just happened that he called, and he become the victim. last week, he told me that he dont love me and doesnt want to do anything with me again. but i love him dealry, and looking forward in the future with him. for the past 7 years, altho we often fight, we never broke up. now, what should i do? how to win his heart back? coz i really have hurt him real bad. i apologize, but it seems, he is cold and really pissed off. helpp!!!!

By: Aries female Aquarious rising

Aries female Aquarious rising — Wed, 11 Aug 2010 14:51:25 +0000

I’m an aries female with aquarius moon, so same as the author! I’m dating an aries male with scorpio moon. He’s towards the beginning of the sign (4th April) and I’m towards the end. I feel like out of the two of us, I’m the ’softer’ aries at times. I also feel like I’m dating myself at times, and I feel it is very important to ‘play the game’ to keep him interested. I’m not sure how it will go for the future when we really get to know each other. It’s been 2 months since we started dating, and at first I played the dominant role, but after becoming aware than an aries female tends to do this, and an aries male doesn’t like this over time, I have tried to down play my ‘toughness’ and have tried to rely on him more to do the little things like order at a restaurant or lead the way a bit. From my viewpoint currently, I don’t see this as bothering me and I think I could get used to it so maybe that’s a good sign that things might work further on down the track! It’s funny how someone commented on the authors comment of how he loved to hear that he made her cry many years after they broke up. They said how it was very honest, and they loved the honesty. Quite frankly I often make little honest comments like that all the time, and I’ll tell my friends and they’ll laugh, and I don’t get why they laugh, everyone thinks it, I only say it cos its true. Is it a bad thing to be this honest? I dated a Leo guy a while back. Author, you say you’ve never dated a leo girl. and perhaps she is the one but you’ll never know, I dont mean to rock the boat with your current partner, BUT yes, with a leo it feels like you are complete, and as corny as that sounds, that’s the way I felt. The reason it didn’t work with the leo was because I was highly impatient and he wanted things to develop naturally over time. I pushed him away by being too full on. I was young and naive to understanding how relationships develop. I dated a taurus too. I always felt secure with him, but never felt like he was the one, I felt more in control. Not like it felt with the leo, he was definitely the one in control. The aries I’m dating now, well it feels like we’re on par. Not sure who will read this little rant, I’m just airing out my thoughts!! I have a feeling though that when they say,’ when you meet the right person you just “know” they are the one you will end up marrying’, it is true. Or at least I hope it’s true! I’m still quite young, I probably don’t need to look to get married for another 5 or 7 years, however it spooks me that I won’t know I’ve found the one. How do you know when to stop looking?

By: Aboy83

Aboy83 — Wed, 21 Jul 2010 16:25:03 +0000

Aboy here again

I’m a Leo moon. I envy your aquarius moon.

I love what you said: One thing about us arians is that we are- both male and female- emotionally insecure and don’t like to recognize this fact so we fall into denial about it. Two arians can do a lot for each other but can’t provide to fill the voids that they both share

I dated another aries, and it was almost magical.. but in the first argument we had, neither of us wanted to back down. And we never spoke again. very funny but very real and none of this wishy washy stuff which, lets face it, all the other signs bring

I feel like with another aries they would totally embrace whatever moon you have and lift up those deeper emotions. I’m so ready to find that person that I can lift up. I feel like as an aries that s all we are sometimes. Aries: the hero of the zodiac. I miss my Aries too because i always knew that they would expect the best out of me

Been dating a pisces lately and its proving difficult because they don’t like communicating (or argueing as they put it), and for me communicating is almost a turn on or something.

Being an Aries is hard. I also read yesterday that Aries has the lowest population while cancer has the highest. So feel confident, young ram. haha