Life of the Aries Man |
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This article has been written by one of my readers, he is sharing his insight and experience with us which I am very grateful for. Thank you for sharing 
I hope you all enjoy it!
I am an aries male with Aquarius moon, i think. I am writing to give the ladies who are or were at some point involved with an aries guy, some insight about the aries men from the source- and to vent a bit. I have experienced romantic encounters with female aries, virgo and libra. I will briefly go through each one of them and then share my thoughts and theories about zodiacs and compatibilities.
In my early twenties I got attached to this aries girl who was a couple of years younger then me. At the time I paid no attention to astrology and didn’t realize she was aries and even that I too was aries. She was wild and out and I was attracted to her rebellious nature. If I had to use one term to describe the relationship i’d use "make out" I don’t know if it was the hormones or something else all that we did with each other was make out. There were hardly any time we sat together alone and not tried to each others tongue. lol The sexual tension was intense to say the least. Being with her made me realize, a few years later when i recognized that we were both aries, that aries is a difficult star sign to deal with- in matters of romantic relationships at least. The good thing about the aries-aries couple is that they both love to fight, so when there is an argument each gets off by igniting the fire in the other and yelling at the other and they grow together in their twisted way. Its like a very entertaining pay-per-view fight. Its hard for an aries to get bored of another aries which is real plus because getting easily tired of something is a problem inherent in us arians. She pushed me to out do myself and I enjoyed that. I was taking some time off college to save up some cash. She pushed me to work like an animal and I appreciated that. As I later learned a woman that backs up a man’s work ethic is essentially spoiling him because in my experience such understanding women are rare. She was very understanding when it came to me earning the doh. She went out of her way to prep me everyday like a warrior who is going out into the battleground. I excelled in life having such a strong woman and I didn’t even fully appreciate that fact about her. I have only secretly longed for a strong and passionate girl like her ever since me and her parted ways. You might be wondering so what could possibly have went wrong with this union? Attitude problem. We came to the point where we were in a constant battle to hurt each other’s ego. Somehow It became a love-hate thing where we both loved each other so much and yet couldn’t help but battle at every chance. One thing about us arians is that we are- both male and female- emotionally insecure and don’t like to recognize this fact so we fall into denial about it. Two arians can do a lot for each other but can’t provide to fill the voids that they both share.
Me and her still fight, having broken up in 2006. Until the beginning of this year (2009) we were facebook messaging each other and arguing about who was at fault. I wont lie, I fully enjoy seeing a message pop up every 6-8 months to which i respond with skillful speech. I love to hear I made her cry, many years after we parted ways.
My second and longest lasting encounter (2.5 years) was with a virgo girl. A very intriguing affair to be sure. She was so different in the way she thought, analyzed things, and expected things that it very quickly became a very fascinating challenge to understand this new specie that I had discovered. I could see in her eye that she too was fascinated to say the least to see a creature so different from her. Virgos tend to be slow paced and more enigmatic then the aries can tolerate. At first it was a very unique and magical thing- My rule for relationships is that any relationship even one between two totally incompatible signs will have a grace period of three months at minimum where things would be rather magical. I think you face reality of your relationship in the period following the first three months of the initial hook up. In all fairness this girl probably loved me a lot. She used the term "breaking-love" as in such deep love that can break a person’s spirit if the love fails. I never felt loved. Now here’s the point I’m making, despite all her efforts she failed to make me satisfied. She never boosted my ego- which is a must for an aries man. She pointed out my faults which the aries usually takes as constructive criticism and uses to improve himself. Once she pointed out that I finished my college degree but never pursued specialization in my field. Two months later, I found myself resigned from my job and working on my CPA exam and licenser. I finished it in 8 months and threw her criticism in her face. What I became tired of was the lack of compliments. She quietly acknowledged my positives, but gave no positive reinforcement. A healthy dose of criticism does wonders for the challenge-loving aries as long it is balanced with an ego boosting reward too. Basically to sum things up, to this day, I can’t be sure if she even loved me. Thats how different we were. I mean if I make all the logical deductions then yes of course why does someone stay in a relationship for 2.5 years, why does one cry and tell you they love you. They probably do, but in the words of my favorite band, Savage Garden, "if love was red then [I] was colorblind."
This one made me realize one thing about astrology. I often read people commenting on a supposedly good match, like one between Aries and Aquarius. Someone wrote, "I couldn’t run away fast enough, I don’t see how we are compatible at all" There are many aspects to people, astrology is one of them. So it may or may not dictate the compatibility. However, the non-compatibility analysis is far more accurate in my opinion. An example is the attraction that Cancer women and aries men have for each other. I have personally never had such an encounter. Two of my best friends are cancers so I have a fair understanding of how the cancers work. I have seen that cancer females attract aries male and aries male draw out the cancer females. There is a natural opposites attract kind of magnetism at play here but these two are so different in their needs and wants that this rarely works beyond the grace period of 3-months. If you enjoy a good heart ache then go for this kind of union. Its a natural disaster (volcano) waiting to erupt.
Now Aries are supposed to be best matched with sadge girls, aqua girls and leo. I happened to never find any of these girls appealing in that way. There is a Sagittarius girl who I knew from college. She is a ton of fun. I totally get her. So much so that there is no mystery or intrigue left there. So I didn’t go for her. She is a beauty, the girl who every guy in school wants but is too intimidated to even talk to. Aqua girls are too strange- i hate to use the term freaky but more like stand outs from the crowed. I just never met a leo girl who knows maybe she is the perfect match after all. Oh well.. too bad. lol
I am seeing a Libra girl now. My mum is a libra. This girl is nothing like the libra my mum is because me and my mum hardly ever agree on anything. She reads astrology a lot and says that aries and libra are legendary. I just love her optimistic view point. I neglect to tell her that mum is a libra too. lol. She has tremendous patience which I have never seen in a females- its something I always wanted. At this point in life I have to come to terms with the fact that Aries are hard to deal with. The rules of engagement are so complex and make it seem hardly worth a girls time and energy. I love that this girl is right up there with me. I’m talking about taking a road trip from new york to the east coast and she is enthusiastic and upbeat about it. Most women get exhausted from the aries energy and the need to jump from one adventure to the next back-to-back-to-back. She looks up to me and I love to take care of her. I’m happy to announce we’ve been a thing for four months now. Hopefully things will remain lovey-dovy even after the grace period of love magic. She is a small girl and I love love love that. I love being able to lift her with one arm. Historically I have been attracted to the larger breasted females; I never knew how sexy cup size B could be. I learned that aries men are attracted to the girly girl, whether she be curvy or not. As long is she has a very feminine figure, it work! She is the skinniest girl I have ever been with and I just can’t back to anything else.
One last thing, I want to add is that I recently found that my moon is Aquarius. Someone told me this leads to solitude in life. I have to agree, I often find myself very lonely and unable to hold small talk. Someone with Moon in the Aquarius please tell me more about how this occurance effects the individual. Thank you in advance.
Well this is the summary of my arian life. I tried to keep my rant short and to the point but think I might have failed here. lol. I hope someone will read this and be able to take something form it.
-ArieswithAquaMoon
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December 31st, 2009 at 7:52 pm
Typical aries male philosophy
dear author, i bet u don’t see anything wrong with what u did to ur aries girl. sigh. what are your thoughts on double standards in relationships, more specifically the aries justification of flirting with the entire female population and than throwing a temper tantrum when your partner does the same? i curious. please reply.
January 1st, 2010 at 1:23 pm
Hi, I really enjoyed this article! The writer is a very typical Aries male, all ego and passion and energy, but with flashes of true insight and sincere relevations: “I love to hear I made her cry, many years after we parted ways.” That made me laugh out loud!
It is such a childish yet very honest thing to say - let’s all admit it, any one of us would be totally flattered to know we still affected someone so much, years after the relationship is over.
I also thought the section on his relationship with the Virgo girl was full of valuable insight and constructive criticism for Virgos. I’m a Virgo sun/Capricorn moon/Virgo rising woman, and it is only because I’m older, more mature, and a mother that I finally recognize (and fulfill) other people’s need for compliments and positive reinforcement. Especially the fire signs who may seem all blustery and full of bravado, but inside they are actually a tad insecure and they just really need a gesture or some words from you that they’re doing great.
I also really liked reading that true love overcomes what a person THINKS is their physical preference - I liked how the writer realized his Libra lady didn’t fit his usual female physical mould, but because of her nature, he now finds her really hot! Good luck with your Libra love, ArieswithAquaMoon! You may be “opposite” on the wheel of the zodiac but maybe you’ve finally found the person who fills your voids, whose voids you fill, and may your whole be greater than the sum of your parts.
Anyway, again I really enjoyed reading this. The whole idea of “a day in the life” series is brilliant! I look forward to reading other signs’ essays.
January 1st, 2010 at 10:15 pm
dear cup of tea,
aries, leo and sags are fire signs. not to avoid blame but we tend to be aggressive in life, jealous, and moody. like i said earlier, ur sun sign is one of many many things that shapes u as a person, so not all aries throw temper tantrums when their females flirt with someone. and i think a little jealousy in men goes a long way for a girl. my male aries tell me that his women complain to him because he is always trying to turn her into a “slut” as in pushing her to be more friendly with other guys. now i acknowledge this is a very conservative girl we are talking about but the fact remains that my aries guy friend has not an ounce of jealousy in him.
i on the other hand would have to admit that i am a kind of possessive guy, but nothing extreme. simply put, it just hurts when another guy makes my woman laugh. not that i will go crazy just the fact that i feel a slight pinch on the inside every time. lol and about the question of aries men flirting themselves. i know u r right, we can’t keep our hands out of the cookie jar where flirting is concerned but most aries men are not cheaters, you’ll have to admit that. aries man will cheat only when he is ready to wrap up a relation or isn’t happy. We are no scorpios. no offense!
January 1st, 2010 at 10:30 pm
AnonyMiss,
thank you. I look forward to reading your essay one of these days = )
January 8th, 2010 at 5:23 pm
I’m not sure if there is such a thing as a “Moon sign cusp,” but if I had been born an hour and a half earlier I would have had Moon in Aquarius. I’m actually a Moon in Pisces but, either way, I still find myself alone most of the time, though this really doesn’t bother me as much as people would think. Yes, I do find it hard to hold a conversation with most people, mainly because I think they’re not “intelluctual” enough, which is crazy because I spend most of my time at university, where of course there are countless professors who specialize in various subjects. In fact, most of my conversations are solely with my professors. (In high school I was a complete teacher’s pet!)
Also, I find myself not speaking unless I have something important or smart to say. Another friend of mine, who really does have Moon in Aquarius, does the same and this habit tends to intimidate others, which is probably part of the reason why we find ourselves lonely.
January 10th, 2010 at 12:12 am
wow. thats exactly how i feel most of the time and yea the solitude really isn’t bad at all.. its like being alone I feel im in the best possible company (i think i might be showing the arian ego here.. lol) i can’t even carry a conversation with strangers even if they strike up something that i might even be interested in. “I’d rather you mind your own business sir” is how I feel. ofcourse thats not what i’ll say what i’ll say is something like “thats wonderful, I have to run” I think you might be on to something here HL about pple not being intellects, thats the appeal thats missing from the conversation.
thanks for talking about the Aquarius moon thing. really appreciate it = )
January 13th, 2010 at 8:30 pm
Hi, I’m Aquarius moon (sun sign Libra/rising sun-Sagittaurus) as well and I must say I am not like that at all. I talk a lot and I am quite social. Still, I do feel incredibly lonely often too. So lonely, it hurts inside. Although I have friends and I meet people every day, I feel like not in my place sometimes. Then I become queit and talk only with the people who first talk to me (which is unusual for me). Maybe I am so social, because I am afraid to be lonely so much. I guess everybody feels like that sometimes, though. I don’t know if I have helped much, but I am totally not agreeing with the fact Moon Aquariuses aren’t talkative. What I have discovered for myself is that they are very moody and quite unstable in emotional plan.
January 18th, 2010 at 1:50 am
my boyfriends an aries and im a gemini.we made it through 2 years and still going strong!! yay for us
February 7th, 2010 at 3:49 pm
i loved how u were able to explain to us how aries people think. Not only because aries is one thing i have tried to understand so many times, but because i met an aries, and we flirt like crazy, full of energy and active.
And i am hoping it will last, even though we’re still in the 3 months period. Lovy-Dovy indeed. Thank you again!
February 10th, 2010 at 6:55 pm
marina and tia.. good luck to you both with ur aries guy. thanks for leaving comments = )
March 9th, 2010 at 7:24 pm
Haha love u saved the best for last LIBRA (like me) how thoughtful of u to post ya life as a Aries!
I enjoyed it and thank you ahaha … wish u the best of luck wid ya libra woman…i dated a aries we last for almost about 2 years! && i regret nothing it was BLASTTTT
March 17th, 2010 at 1:05 pm
You made your agirl cry and you felt good about it?! That’s disgusting no wonder the relationship finished! You’re obviously the insensitive aries type.
March 18th, 2010 at 5:01 pm
yes..ur ryt..being an aries girl..i cn state dat u men jus nd ego tickling..i ws wid an arien but it did nt end totally..its an on and off relationshp
u guys luv fun bags..dat to huge…my man ws a die hard fan of my 38DD…u lyk 2 dominate…dats wt i lyk abt u guys… i luv 2 get sobmissive 2 my man..most of d tyms, but alwaz pretend dat im vain…it makes him go crazy
still unable 2 derive wts wrong btwn us…myt ab as u said a voids!!!!!
March 20th, 2010 at 4:40 am
stari and jhazy,
the libra relationship ended too
lol
im seeing a scorpio now. oh fun!!!
March 26th, 2010 at 10:23 pm
Well, reading this I had to take a step back and reflect. I met my Aries man at 19, he was indeed very shy himself. I have no idea what his moon sign or sun sign is. We’re only 20 days apart myself being the oldest. I can say after 7 1/2 years of being together, and 4yrs of marriage that I couldn’t see myself with any other partner. An Aries/Aries relationship can go two ways…there is no in between. You do or you don’t…lol Aries with Aqua moon, to be fully honest your Aries girl was probably crying because #1. She failed…Failure is the worst thing an Aries or Fire sign can go through and #2. She misses the great sex…lmao I relate to your comment about sex, because for a long time, that’s all we ever did and is still til this day a wonderful quality. I mean seriously a sign that not only thrives for sex but has to be the best at the same time?..who wouldn’t want that?
Now don’t get me wrong, our relationship hasn’t always been the greatest. we have both gone through our stages of boredom and being competitive towards each other, to the point of it almost breaking us apart. If you learn to have a 50/50 agreement then it’s the best way to last forever. From self experience I can say that yes, an Aries man does like to look, but so does an Aries female. Instead of getting jealous, which is also an Aries trait, look together.
The guy I was dating before I met my husband was a Libra as well, and he was just not on the same success level I was. I grew very impatient(imagine that..lol) and it ended very quickly. My opinion an Aries person should not date a Virgo, Capricorn, Cancer, Scorpio, and depending on the Aries a Libra as well….short term maybe, long term…sorry and good luck with that…lol Hope this helps a little.
April 9th, 2010 at 8:44 pm
I am in a relationship with an aries man going on 5 years. It is an affair and we are both married. He tells me he loves me and is crazy about me. We both work together in the same place and have separate tool boxes. Today i guess i walked up on him suddenly and he quickly covered whatever he was looking at in his toolbox. When i asked to see it he told me no. Im confused now. He said he was testing me to get a reaction. Aries man please tell me what you think about this. We both have been so in love and are still…so why this? By the way, i could tell he was nervous because his face muscles were twitching. Do aries men expect someone to blindly trust them when they are obviously trying to hide something? Im a libra girl.
April 9th, 2010 at 8:48 pm
And by the way aries man, he has an aries sun and aquarius moon…like you. I have a libra sun and aquarius moon. We are both the same age…38yr.
April 9th, 2010 at 8:55 pm
Aries man, can you give me some good advice please on how, and how not to treat my aries man? I want to love and respect him. Also please tell me when aries is bullshitting and when not to put up with it. I understand that aries like to spar and i as a libra do too! But then there are times like the day at the toolbox…im thinking he may have been lying. I dont want to be a doormat, but like your libra girl was, i am patient. I just desire straight-forward blunt honesty please. Thanks
April 18th, 2010 at 12:18 am
Libralass,
I know you wanted the writer of this article to answer your question, but maybe I can help. My husband has that same trait. When my hubby and I starting living together I went out to the garage and he saw me coming in and hid something. I proceeded to ask what he was hiding. He said “Nothing” well after he knew I was getting upset he uncovered the hidden item, the funny thing was it was only a Porn Magazine…lol But since he didn’t know how I was to react over that, to save my feelings from getting hurt(in his mind) he hid it. So maybe it’s something he feels will trigger an upset and or feelings hurt reaction from you. Just simply explain to him he can be fully honest with you…this may take a lot of time, and he may test it often, but don’t give up! Hope this helps!!
April 26th, 2010 at 1:28 am
libralass,
First off, sorry for the delay in response. I haven’t had the chance to check this website lately. I’d love to share what I know with you and hope it’ll help. AriesMarriedAries has pretty much summed it up, I’ll take it a little bit further. Its very likely that your aries man has nothing that important worth hiding but in his mind it was important that you not see it. He may have been trying to protect you in his own way. Maybe it was porn or a picture of his old love or something like that. In either case you need not worry about this. Know that he expects you to trust him a lot. If he is anything like the aries I am he probably imagines life and death scenarios in his wild fantasies and I bet in all of them he fancies you to be on his side in the most questionable situations. Its very important to us arians that our women stand by us no matter how the facts may LOOK. Like if he is at a trial or something and he seems very very guilty and the whole world thinks he did it, his silly but will be most concerned about what you think of him rather then what the jury thinks. Do you trust him? Its like the article on this website about aries men says, to him love is you making friends with his friends and more importantly be enemies with his enemy. To him, thats true love.
I hope this helps. Try acting like it doesn’t bother you at all and he will show you with his own style that you really had nothing to worry about. I wouldn’t try and push him that will only piss him off and push him away from you.
June 2nd, 2010 at 12:15 am
Thank you for both of your responses Aries Man and AriesMarriedAries. We have worked through the hiding crises…although he never did tell me what he was hiding. I love him very much. We are so similar and yet so different at the same time. It seems that we go from extreme to extreme. The hills are so high and the valleys are so low. It seems that we find something to fight or argue over every other day! Is this normal? We are both terribly selfish at times and neither one of us can seem to sympathize with how the other is feeling…for worrying about our own selfish feelings and needs. We are both becoming extremely jealous and possessive of each other…asking each other every single day if the other has had sex with our spouse. Its crazy. One thing i secretly love about him is how he loves me. Im sure ive never been more loved in my whole entire life! But the secret thing i love about him is how he can knock me off balance…when i know, AND HE KNOWS that i deserve it. It isnt fun to go through at the time, but probably neccessary. He puts me in my place and i just gotta respect that! When we have fun together…its REALLY FUN! We are both smart-asses who like to spar and go one better than the other! He loves me as much as i love him…of this I am sure. Even if I had to end this affair out of necessity, I dont know if I could. This is one good reason why never to allow affairs to begin in the first place.
June 2nd, 2010 at 12:26 am
Aries man…Out of curiosity, are you still seeing the scorpio? How is that working out?
June 14th, 2010 at 10:10 am
Hi author! I really loved reading all your articles. I hope the best for you. I just read the other article of “fire & fire or fire & air”, if the same signs are best or if the opposite signs are. I happen to be Libra female, 19. I only had 2 serious relationships and both with 2 Libra males. They both ended bad lol. Now I am interested in a guy who is a Leo! I see that maybe it’s different for everyone
June 29th, 2010 at 5:31 am
I have been reading alot of negitive comments about Aries all over the place. I know this isnt nessisarily relivent to the above post but it is relivent to Aries.
Loving an Aries man is like owning a pitbull. I know, cause I’ve done both. Pitbulls are loving, loyal, tenasious and all around wonderful dogs, for some people. If your not understanding, loyal, loving and strong you shouldnt own one. Same goes for an Aries man. They are loving, loyal, tenasious and strong but thats only when they love you. In the same token under the guidance of a weak, abusive or neglectful owner pitbulls can be “bad dogs”. Same goes for Aries. Note I’m not blaming aries for there bad behavior as much as I blame “impropper care” due to low compatability…
I know it’s a strange analogy but out of all the people i’ve known Aries are uniqe in a way that is hard to explain. They are by no means what you want if you’re looking for the “Labrador” kind of man… They make up there own rules to the game and you live by them or you dont live with them..
If you are looking for prince charming? Forget it… more like prince sarcastic arse… lol But some girls like “prince sarcastic arse” …I know I do… It’s fun, but I am strange…
Once they trust and love you there is no greater loyalty or love you can know. But in the mean time you worry if this one “has bad breeding” While all the while trying to over come your fear of “getting bit”.
Aries arnt bad dogs.. achem ..I mean, men. ..lol… They’re just a special breed. Not for the faint of heart.
July 21st, 2010 at 4:25 pm
Aboy here again
I’m a Leo moon. I envy your aquarius moon.
I love what you said: One thing about us arians is that we are- both male and female- emotionally insecure and don’t like to recognize this fact so we fall into denial about it. Two arians can do a lot for each other but can’t provide to fill the voids that they both share
I dated another aries, and it was almost magical.. but in the first argument we had, neither of us wanted to back down. And we never spoke again. very funny but very real and none of this wishy washy stuff which, lets face it, all the other signs bring
I feel like with another aries they would totally embrace whatever moon you have and lift up those deeper emotions. I’m so ready to find that person that I can lift up. I feel like as an aries that s all we are sometimes. Aries: the hero of the zodiac. I miss my Aries too because i always knew that they would expect the best out of me
Been dating a pisces lately and its proving difficult because they don’t like communicating (or argueing as they put it), and for me communicating is almost a turn on or something.
Being an Aries is hard. I also read yesterday that Aries has the lowest population while cancer has the highest. So feel confident, young ram. haha
August 11th, 2010 at 2:51 pm
I’m an aries female with aquarius moon, so same as the author! I’m dating an aries male with scorpio moon. He’s towards the beginning of the sign (4th April) and I’m towards the end. I feel like out of the two of us, I’m the ’softer’ aries at times. I also feel like I’m dating myself at times, and I feel it is very important to ‘play the game’ to keep him interested. I’m not sure how it will go for the future when we really get to know each other. It’s been 2 months since we started dating, and at first I played the dominant role, but after becoming aware than an aries female tends to do this, and an aries male doesn’t like this over time, I have tried to down play my ‘toughness’ and have tried to rely on him more to do the little things like order at a restaurant or lead the way a bit. From my viewpoint currently, I don’t see this as bothering me and I think I could get used to it so maybe that’s a good sign that things might work further on down the track! It’s funny how someone commented on the authors comment of how he loved to hear that he made her cry many years after they broke up. They said how it was very honest, and they loved the honesty. Quite frankly I often make little honest comments like that all the time, and I’ll tell my friends and they’ll laugh, and I don’t get why they laugh, everyone thinks it, I only say it cos its true. Is it a bad thing to be this honest? I dated a Leo guy a while back. Author, you say you’ve never dated a leo girl. and perhaps she is the one but you’ll never know, I dont mean to rock the boat with your current partner, BUT yes, with a leo it feels like you are complete, and as corny as that sounds, that’s the way I felt. The reason it didn’t work with the leo was because I was highly impatient and he wanted things to develop naturally over time. I pushed him away by being too full on. I was young and naive to understanding how relationships develop. I dated a taurus too. I always felt secure with him, but never felt like he was the one, I felt more in control. Not like it felt with the leo, he was definitely the one in control. The aries I’m dating now, well it feels like we’re on par. Not sure who will read this little rant, I’m just airing out my thoughts!! I have a feeling though that when they say,’ when you meet the right person you just “know” they are the one you will end up marrying’, it is true. Or at least I hope it’s true! I’m still quite young, I probably don’t need to look to get married for another 5 or 7 years, however it spooks me that I won’t know I’ve found the one. How do you know when to stop looking?
September 2nd, 2010 at 7:49 am
im dating an aries man for 7 years, always argue and fight. both of us have a bad temper, explosive and wanted to control each other. we recently talked about marriage early this year, but because of my explosive temper, he just drag the marriage. he told me to behave and follow and obey his orders. and by he doing this, it hurts me so bad. by him doing this, it makes me even explosive and angry all the time. Recently, my parents just got divorce and my relationship with him is going down as well. i was in a bad mood (my family problem) that when he called last week, i nag and said nasty hurtful mean stuff about him that i really didnt mean it. i didnt have a clear mind and it just happened that he called, and he become the victim. last week, he told me that he dont love me and doesnt want to do anything with me again. but i love him dealry, and looking forward in the future with him. for the past 7 years, altho we often fight, we never broke up. now, what should i do? how to win his heart back? coz i really have hurt him real bad. i apologize, but it seems, he is cold and really pissed off. helpp!!!!
October 20th, 2010 at 1:20 am
I love this site.. i am an Aries girl so i totally understand… except i have a Pisces moon.. i think i am a really sensitive Aries
January 14th, 2011 at 12:47 am
I am a CANCER woman who is dating an ARIES male, and truth be told, I don’t see me being with anyone else! That’s the guy I wish to marry!- and he said this first, not me!!! The opposite attraction you mentioned was on point but we have a few things in common (i.e. TRAVEL!!) LoL We’ve been together for a year- which took WORK at first! ARIES MEN ARE DIFFICULT AS HELL!!! and because cancers are at the opposite end of the spectrum, a lot of arguements arise… I couldn’t understand his asshole ways and he couldn’t understand my sensitive nature. (But personally, I’ve always been drawn to fire signs and their loud personalities, I hate getting bored as well). After awhile with all the arguing, I thought we were gonna break up- but the feelings we had for eachother when we met weren’t for nothing (I fell in love with him QUICK and so did he) so we both figured to stay and see where it went.
In the beginning, it was like damn where the hell you come from, and now that we understand and STILL LEARNING eachother its like damn, are you my soulmate?!?! it’s like we draw from eachother’s strength where we are flawed, I really can’t explain our relationship but being with him is the best thing that has ever happened to me and i can confidently say that its the same for him. I think the key to this pairing is patience, communication, and compromise the 2 signs are EXTREMELY differently with loud personalites (at least in my case). In my opinion, you don’t want someone easy to figure out, you want to take a life-time learning them while having fun on the way. He’s a smart ass (as am I), critical, pessimistic, vibrant and all of the above and I wouldn’t change a thing. There’s not a day where we don’t laugh, challenge, play around, talk, yell, compliment, treat,etc eachother. I love the fact we’re different, we both have things to bring to the table… which is why we both work so well. The pairing may not work for everyone, but it’s working for usand its great a great ride thus far…
January 14th, 2011 at 2:08 pm
Gemini or now according to new changes in Astrological calander a Taurus, married to Aries for 18 years , learned that trust on bothsides has to be one of the most important traits and needs for Aries man!
January 17th, 2011 at 2:55 am
Aries female here:
to the comments about how terrible the author is for his pleasure from his ex’s pain, you’ve obviously never been an aries. you’re ridiculous to think gender roles between a double aries couple means anything; female aries do the same exact thing, it’s part of the dance.
additionally, what you’re not reading in this article is the parts about the male was probably just as hurt during parts of the aries-aries joust because it would an admittance to tiny defeats, to himself, his ex, and the readers out there. the aries female telling the author about how she cried must have been part of some sort of strategy, maybe to evoke guilt to continue the fight or reveal something honest in effort to try the forgive-and-forget process.
February 11th, 2011 at 1:04 am
Aries dude, i thought this was pretty interesting prolly because i am an Aries and i agree 110% that we are difficult to deal with in relationships sometimes i feel bad for my b/f putting up with my hyperness sometimes im not like that all the time im learning im astill young.. but sometimes Capricorns must take their time with everything but we get each other because my moon is in cap. So ur best bet is a aqua girl trust me if you read ur correct moon sign aqua might even be ur soul mate but ur gf might be too im not trying to be god lol but im just saying my moon worked for me. Cancer is also correct they are too clingy and i end up snapping at my one bf it lasted about a month. i also was with Virgo and the guys are attractive but we just are on two different mind sets i totally get my vigo girlfriends but that one guy was just not my type at all. but anyway my moms a Libra too which is pretty weird but my advice to you is try looking at ur moon sign again in a book u think is trustworthy cus it might be in libra not in aqua. peace
ps dont down us in relationships that much just cus we arnt we blow up fast we get over things alot faster and we are mad faithful unless we think we dont want to be with you anymore and we are sexy people they say Virgo is sexy nah aries are except for men all the girls i know are mad pretty. vigo boys are pretty but Virgo girls look like men some of them alrighty bye
ps ps ps spelling errors cus im lazy even tho im in college i dont feel like going thru this im on the mac book!
February 25th, 2011 at 6:51 pm
To Arian with Aqua Moon:
You are the best, as I think Arian men are. Thank you for your confidence in how a Libra Woman should stay and be patient with her Aries Warrior. I am having a hard time understanding the Silent part of you all. I was challanging my Aries to come and take me. This is what I said; I am not satisfied with you at all. You are not handling your business when it comes to my sexual needs. I am thirsty and you are not quinching my thirst. Come and quinch my thirst Baby!” NOW, for the last 9 days, I have yet to hear from him. I am there for him, support him when he is down, I am at his beacon call. But I will not tolerate his silence. Being a Libra, Communication is key to us. He has done it to me twice ever since we have been together.
I have apologize if i had said anything to hurt him, but i also told him that I will not apologize for how I feel. I explainded to him that everything I had said was just to ignite his fire to come and get me. But he still had not called or texted. I have sent very exotic pics and videos to him. But he has still resisted.
I am always a ear, a heart, shoulder and financually there to assist.
I love this man with all my heart. NOT just as my Lover but as a friend. I look up to him and look to him for advice and comfort. His presence sooths me, his eyes make me go wild, and his touch sends into a everlasting porn mode. I caress him and stoke that ego. Like there is no way to stop how I love to see him smile. I will do anything to keep him smiling. I just know that I will always express how I feel to him. He does keep me on my toes, so I know to keep him interested is to keep him running after me and on his toes. He know my heart. I just dont understand the silence. He knows how I feel.
Please help me understand him and why the silence comes when I get assertive when it comes to how I feel.
February 25th, 2011 at 7:39 pm
By the Way Arieswith Aquamoon;
We Have Been together for 9 months and have been knowing each other as friends for 12 years. He is my Nephews uncle.
Also, he told me that he wants me as a best friend more than he needs me as his woman. What the hell does that mean? He explained it to me. But I couldn’t understand it. but he tells me that he wants me and needs me. He wants me as his friend first to make sure we will work as a full blown relationship. But we rarely see each other. The most is twice a week for the total of 6 hours max. I don’t know what to do. When we are together, we are unseperatable.
Help!
June 20th, 2011 at 11:04 pm
Im an aries guy and i have been in a relationship with an aqua girl for 2 years now, she has really made me feel secure and i really respect her a lot , and she is the sort of a girl who will hate ppl i hate and love ppl i love and one thing i have noticed is that she wants the same frm me , i have also dated an aries girl which was lyk the best couple of weeks that i had but she is a very difficult girl to talk to , she is extremely beautiful and sexy all the people in the dance floor like went crazy watching us dance and the kind of chemistry we had was brilliant ,she is really open and i saw her dancing with lot of other guys also, but whn i talked with her on this she didnt like it , one thing i will lyk to mention here is that as couples we wer like “soo hot” you can call it lyk the centre of attraction i found guys lyk stopping and staring at us but it didnt last much as my aqua girl is such a sweet heart i cannnot take the huge ego of the aries girl also viceversa
and about capricorn girls guys pls stay away they will never understand you even if you skip your lunch and see her she will be like without any feelings and an aries guy cant take that…one thing i forgot is abt gemini girls i had a good FF(fuck frnd) she was awesome…i still call her sometimes and she is like really really great just enjoy the company of gemini girls
August 18th, 2011 at 12:45 am
dear Bold And Sexy Libra, with a touch of October in your eyes.
As an aries, i love to get suprised, and you on the other side, love to please, weather is by cooking the best food, making the most awesome macchiatto or dropping your skirt when your man enters the door. I guess what I am saying is that you are doing good somehow.
I know my self and my heart, and i know that if someone is doing stuff like what you told, i would be grateful. But its kind of an “but” here, i think. Maybe you make it to easy for him to come back to your good graces?
Right now Im dating an scorpio and an Geminilady. The gemini make it to easy for me, and i get boring. The sex is good, if not perfect, but she is not kicking my, pordon my language, ASS enough. I guess thats why im “care” rather if she leave or stay. The scorpiolady on the other hand, kicks my ass to the curb, and i have to step up my game, as an worrior I am. I have been dating her over years. We are in our fifht year, i think, and i have not managed to completely come into her good graces. It is an “but” her to, and thats the destroying part. Fire have an tendency to burn our if it is not handled good.
Dont get me misunderstood, becouse what you said whas realy touching and beautiful, real and profound, just as it should be.
I guess my job is done here, huh?