Aries Compatibility With Gemini. |
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Aries and Gemini
These two will, from the outset, find each other highly attractive. Aries will find the Gemini's changing moods and thoughts very challenging and stops them from becoming bored quickly. In return the Gemini views the lively extroverted personality of the Aries subject as irresistible. Sexually this is a good match as the imagination of the Gemini is second to none and bringing their talent into the bedroom is a sure fire way of keeping the Aries partner very happy. The Aries with their boundless energy is one of the few people who can keep up with the quick silver Gemini.However, and there is inevitabley a however, the Gemini is a natural flirt, they can't help it. And this of course kick starts the Arians jealousy, causing them to not want to let their Gemini lover out of their sight. This in turn infuriates the Gemini as they cannot stand being told what to do by anyone, ever, no matter how much they may love them. This may (will) cause them to rebel and do it even more. Then when the Aries confronts the Gemini he is once again brought to anger when he realises they are no match for the verbal expertise of their Gemini partner who can niftily get out of any situation beautifully.The Gemini isn't as outwardly cuddly as the Aries. Although loving, they may not give the Aries quite what they need, and the jealousy which the Aries brings to the relationship may become too much for the flirty Gemini. This can be a great match if the Gemini learns to cool down quickly and be the first to say "sorry" when needed, and if the Aries learns to be more mentally aware. However, it's not all bad news, for this pair can make life long friends, and who knows perhaps even friends with added "benefits" too!!!!!!!
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April 27th, 2008 at 9:23 pm
This is verry true I have a friend who is a
Gem and we get a long fine.
October 11th, 2008 at 9:22 am
my boyfriend is an arien and we get along relly well we do have a lotof ruff patches but who does not hav them… it is normal
October 22nd, 2008 at 7:02 am
this is all so true my ex bf was an aries and i really fell in love with him but he was always gone so we broke up but we still had feelings 4 eachother and after 9 months we started talking again and now wer gonna hang i truly am in love with this aries and i dont want anything to go wrong this time
December 31st, 2008 at 2:57 am
I guess this is true. I’m a Gemini…and I have feelings for an Aries woman…mm..it’s a little complicated haha. Would you say that Aries and Gemini are better friends than lovers?
January 9th, 2009 at 8:20 pm
I’m an Aries woman and my boy friend is a Gemini. We’ve been together almost a year and this article is true. I learned early on in the relationship that by nature my man is a natural flirt, which personally burns me up to no end. However, I noticed that the flirting is very light and innocent, so I would never say anything about it, I just played his game. I would flirt with other men when he was around in the same manner he did and before you knew it his flirtation became much more subdued!! Gemini men love beauty in women, so if a beautiful woman walks by he is going to look, but discreetly. For you Aries out there with Gemini, just keep your jealous flare ups in check and this won’t be a major problem in the relationship. Believe me, if the Gemini didn’t want to be there with you he wouldn’t!
January 26th, 2009 at 6:22 pm
The sex is great! omg. lol! Gemini & Aries are the best lovers.
February 27th, 2009 at 11:25 pm
I was wondering just how bad does the Arian jealousy get?
In my group of friends there’s an Aries guy who it seemed suddenly and very intensely developed feelings for me. Well of course me being a Gemini things can’t go simply so I ended up snubbing him one night for a different guy and now he just doesn’t treat me normally anymore. Not even as if I’m just a friend, worse than that, as if I’ve offended him.
To make it worse I think I’m developing feelings for him. Do Arian guys ever get over their jealousy or feelings being hurt? I’m so confused by this..
Thanks.
x
March 27th, 2009 at 5:36 pm
To greeneyedgirl:
As an Aries woman I can tell you that our jealousy is very extreme when it’s somebody that we have feelings for. On a scale of 1-10 I would have to rate Aries jealousy at about a 12!!! We get better with age though (at least most of us do!) I noticed with a lot of Aries men that they seem to be a bit arrogant and their egos easily bruised. I believe this is the case with your male Aries friend. And Aries don’t take being snubbed too well. If he really likes you he will forgive you, BUT, you would really have to humble your self and ask for his forgiveness. Basically he’s going to make you kiss his butt before he forgives you. He will definitely make you work to get his affection now. If his feelings aren’t that deep for you then you can forget having a second chance with him because you’ve already snubbed him once. And that definitely bruised the Aries ego…don’t forget where the first sign of the Zodiac…we have to be first in most things!! And he obviously wasn’t first when you snubbed him for the other guy. Hope this helps some. Good luck
May 9th, 2009 at 2:56 pm
I love libra’z!!!!!!!!!!!!!! gemini’s and aries are the nosiest and dumbest signs of the zodiac 4 real. they belong 2gether.
May 28th, 2009 at 2:12 pm
feisty
Since I started showing interest in astrology and reading the zodiac star signs you are the first person to use dumb and Gemini in one sentence. It is highly unlikely to find a stupid Gemini not unless he/she wants you to see that in order for him/her to achieve something from you or that particular situation.Geminis don’t mind to change and mold for their benefit.
My girlfriend is an arian and i tell you now she is not stupid. Her mind is very quick, she’s the first girl I’ve dated that makes me to note what im saying to her.
She is 7 years younger than me and I’ve tried several times to leave her for this but there’s just something that always bring us together. The other thing is she does not want us to brake up. I’m working and i always buy her gifts because i want to, she is my girlfriend thats how i treat my girls.
To the point: A question to all Aries woman, Why doent she want to brake up with me is it becouse she loves me? si she just enjoying what i can do for her now? is it our sex? Will she see a better guy and leave me for him?
Asks a gemini who is tired of running around with woman, fun but ive learned that its just a waist of money and time.
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May 28th, 2009 at 10:45 pm
I wonder if the compatibility between star signs have any valid proof. I mean, each person is different from the next. Surely your upbringing, gender, class, race, religion etc etc has an effect. I think we should just go with the flow, I’m forever wondering if my sign matches with someone elses. It drives me insane. I’m yet to meet ‘mr perfect’ & I’ve met lots of so called perfect matches & they haven’t worked x x x
May 29th, 2009 at 7:09 am
Hi there Courtney,
Yes, is the answer to your wondering! All these things do have an effect on us and how our signs react to that. There are also numerous other signs within our birth chart which helps to make us who we are. You are of course right when you say ” we should just go with the flow” we should, especially when we are young. You can’t walk away from a person you like because they are not a suitable sign, although I wish I had done in the past!! We will never find the right person by seeking them out but I can guarantee that when the right person does come along you will feel it in your heart and soul and that within your birth charts will lie the answer.
Love, light & Luck
Becky
June 9th, 2009 at 1:27 pm
Lol! This website is so funny, as I’m an Arian woman who secretly fancies her male best friend whose a Gemini and we have been friends forever and have this mad instant bond that’s always been there. I’m enthralled by his erudite antics and literally hypnotised by his witticisms. I think the point to us Arian’s is we love the chase and Gemini’s love the dance, neatly stepping in and out of personas, leaving us feeling like we’ve never quite conquered them, and Gemini’s love our attention and action and potentially our youthful outlook (I know Gemini’s enjoy feeling like their teaching you something!) The funniest bit of it is that I can’t tell him how I feel cause he never shuts up long enough for me to get a word in! In true Aries fashion I’m thinking about just pinning him in a corner! Getting another Gemini’s opinion on that bold move would be useful…
June 16th, 2009 at 4:45 pm
I’m an arian woman and is dating a Gemini right now. I know he likes me alot but I have not seen his gemini personality.. though he loves to talk. I think I was born while the Gemini sun was rising. So imagine an Aries-Gemini personality. I can see myself so aries and gemini but my Gemini man, where is your personality baby?
June 17th, 2009 at 10:12 am
SARAH,’
YOU ARE HILARIOUS!!!!!!!!!!!! i FEEL YOUR PAIN BECAUSE MY GEMINI MAN CAN’T SHUT UP, SOMETIMES IT IS TOOOO MUCH FOR ME…HE CAN BE INTERESTING AND IRRITATING AT THE SAME TIME….I NEVER GET TO TALK, DAMN IT!!!!!!!!!!!
LOVE HIM TO DEATH, LITERALLY.
June 20th, 2009 at 9:19 pm
Thanks Sandy,
I know! It drives me wild too! Lol! Sometimes he’ll ask me 20 questions at once, then after I’ve answered the first one he’ll move on to the next 20! It’s crazy and fun and leads to mad conversations that loop in circles!
and how easy it’s been to make the step beyond being friends and how affectionate he can be -as I’ve always been used to us both just joking and laughing, and generally taking the p**** out of each other. Hope this gives others hope in the same situation.
I do have an update to my last post, well he was the one who pinned me in the corner instead of the other way round! Which was ultra suprising to say the least as usually he runs like mad re any emotional stuff. I can’t believe how amazing it’s been since
June 24th, 2009 at 12:43 am
FROM S: To the point: A question to all Aries woman, Why doent she want to brake up with me is it becouse she loves me? si she just enjoying what i can do for her now? is it our sex? Will she see a better guy and leave me for him?
Asks a gemini who is tired of running around with woman, fun but ive learned that its just a waist of money and time.
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S - I am an Aries woman and i can tell you when we get tired of someone, there is nothing they can do or will do to make us be bothered. if your girl is still with you, it is not because of the things you provide. Nothing can compensate for wassting our time.
Now great sex can always sway us but it won’t keep us. Nothing is more disgusting than having sex with someone we don’t want to be bothered with.
Enjoy your Aries lady and don’t sweat the small stuff. Believe me, she won’t either.
June 26th, 2009 at 3:10 am
Enjoy your Aries woman, trust me, Aries are the only sign that can keep up with you and drill your intellect….If you really want to break up with her all you have to do is to directly tell her(hard for Gemini to be blunt,but you must for Aries to understand clearly…….Gemini have tendency to be indirect which confused the hell out of people especially Aries….The moment you tell your
Aries you don’t want her, see how quickly she will move on…….
June 26th, 2009 at 1:00 pm
Ok, thanks for your input ladies, I’ll just love and enjoy her to the best I can. But tell me did you ladies know what kind/type of a guy you wanted when you were 20 years old?
June 27th, 2009 at 9:22 am
Hi S,
When I was 20 I was utterly devoted to an aquarius, who typically was into everything…and everyone! Which only fueled the challenge for me, So not the best! Early 20s are a massive time of change for anyone,us aries girls love new things and the ability to embrace our independence (hugely important to us!) So it could be that she simply wants to test that… I do believe that anyone you are with teaches you something about yourself. I think the best way to attract us is to draw from your natural abilities as a gemini, be entertaining, flirt, talk to us (I think we might be one of the only signs that will listen to you for hours, respond intellectly and ask you for more! LOL!) Best way to lose us is be a complete puppy- follow us about, pressurising us for time/demanding to know where we’ve been, if she’s anything like the aries women I know or me, she’ll have loads of male friends that actually are purely platonic, so that can be quite disconcerting, we just get on with blokes well!
Sarah
July 15th, 2009 at 8:58 pm
I truly believe Aries Women are the only sign that can have Males Friends, plutonic. Other women claims they can do it, but THEY CAN’T; sooner or later they will be sleeping with their so-call guy-friends….
July 15th, 2009 at 8:59 pm
I knew what type of a man I wanted at a very young age….Several relationshps in my 20’s prepared me for the dream man that I have now!
July 23rd, 2009 at 2:48 pm
im a gemini woman w an aries man. its been amazing.. i was married to an aries for 12 years and he was married same time span to a gemini woman. i believe as long as u dont take each other for granted ever it can last a long long time. we have so much fun together and i do talk more than he. we get along as best friends and lovers. the s.. is so intense its off the wall.
July 24th, 2009 at 2:11 am
I’m a male Gemini. In the past month I have gone on three dates with a female Aries and I can’t tell if she is interested in me as “just a friend” or a potential relationship. I took her out to dinner the first time. Then the last two dates she came over my place for dinner. We have not been intimate, not even a kiss on the lips. The next time I see her I want to be direct and ask her where this (our seeing each other) is going? But at the same time I want to be a challenge or a mystery to her. I don’t want to end up as only a friend or just another guy in her life - I want more… Eventually a relationship with her. She is coming over again this weekend. What should I do next and how can I win an Aries woman’s heart?
July 24th, 2009 at 3:10 pm
Hmmm this is a tricky one Tucker!
Two things you should know:
1. Aries woman love the chase like no other
2. As a sign we aren’t very good at picking up subtle hints, sometimes you actually have to be really blunt with us to get us to understand, we aren’t dumb, we’re just very genuine people who usually can’t help but say what we are thinking and if your a typical gemini then your hints will happen at lightening speed, which will bedazzle us!
So with that info what do you do? Do you tell her making it plain and ending the chase? Or do you keep it going without being sure that you might be wasting your time and falling into the “just friends” bracket?
Well my advice is always remember to respect yourself in this, Aries woman respond to confident men, don’t be too eager confess massive feelings and don’t fall over yourself to do everything she says.
This might not be the case for your aries lady and I don’t generally advocate it but a bit of distance actually does help push things forward for me (I’m an aries woman too), ie if the bloke has the next weekend fully booked doing things with friends- I respect him abit more and would usually ring him if I wanted a romantic conclusion. That’s the greatest thing about us aries girls in a relationship we actively go for what we want and work pretty practically about it.
Hope this helps, best of luck!
Sarah
July 26th, 2009 at 5:18 am
this is so true;
Quote: I think the point to us Arian’s is we love the chase and Gemini’s love the dance, neatly stepping in and out of personas, leaving us feeling like we’ve never quite conquered them, and Gemini’s love our attention and action and potentially our youthful outlook (I know Gemini’s enjoy feeling like their teaching you something!)
I cant even begin to explain how true the Gemini and Aries combo works. It is said that an Aries is (two people) themselves, and their ego. As for Gemini its practically the same; the good and evil twins that are Gemini.
My fiance’ and I have been happly head over heals in love longer then we have acually been together. lol. We have been together for 4 years now and it seems like everyday our relationship gets better and we fall more and more in love. This is THE ONE.
We were best friends for almost 4 years before we decided to take a chance and get together. It was absolutely the best thing that has ever happened to me, and of course for him (he has me doesn’t he). :p
Tucker- As for what to do, like Sarah said, we love the chase, but like things to be laid out planly in front of us too.
Perhaps playing a little hard to get while flirting with her would work. The hard to get would satify our ‘chase mechanism’ and the fliring would make it plain that you are into us.
It’s ok to go in for a kiss to show her that you dig her. We like everything sexual.
August 18th, 2009 at 10:15 pm
Hey there,
I’m a male Gemini and I met this aries woman at a party a couple weeks ago. We have been hanging out together quite a bit and every conversation we have had has been awesome! I cannot believe how many mutual interests we have!
The only problem that I have had was that I asked her out on a date. She said yes. I got everything together, even went as far as to pull my truck out of the shop before it was fixed. I call her the day of and she says that I’m too old for her! Its only a two year difference…
We had a long argument about it.
Even though she says that I’m too old we are still talking like we have been very close to each other for a long time. I have felt something with her that I have not with any other woman I have dated. Its almost a tingly sensation haha.
Are aries and gemini just destined to be friends? Or go through a chapter of chasing to get with one another?
August 20th, 2009 at 6:05 am
To Logan,
I’m a Gemini male and casually dating an Aries girl. This is the first Aries I have dated and I must say that I experienced the same feelings just as you described. She cancelled on me a couple times on the day of a date, she never initiates contact, I always call/text her but she does reply in a timely manner. Basically, I’ve been doing all the chasing and she is deserving of every minute of my time. I’m glad I didn’t give up the chase.
I say continue chasing her but try to give her space at the same time. Don’t be too pushy or aggressive. Take it slow.
Just read through the postings on this website about Aries. You will get some good information.
Good luck!
August 30th, 2009 at 10:09 am
This is true.. So true that it’s annoying. I’m a Gemini girl, and my bf is an Aries. We are both sexual, loves adventures, life’s exciting. But the “natural flirt” thing, wow.. I am not boasting, or showing off. I even hate it myself that somehow i can get along with possibly every guys i meet, and i tend to have more guy friends than girls. This, of course, drives my bf insane to the point where i have to lie everytime i go out to hang with my friends, or even be on phone with them. Just today he is furious and said he won’t ever forgive me because i was on the phone with a friend for 3 hours when i promised my whole weekend with him. I guess it’s my fault.. Point is, I’m scared of the jealousy that aries posess.. I value my bf but also my friends and he expects me to put everything else aside for him; why can’t i be flexible enough..
September 14th, 2009 at 8:20 pm
this gives me alot hope for me and my new gemini friend, we clicked instantly, and yur rite the love to talk, and thats kind of crazy cause aries love to conversate to but gemini got us, and who eva think an aries woman with a gemini mate, i think i really im going to enjoy getting to know him
September 14th, 2009 at 8:35 pm
fiesty, aries and gemini, are the least dumbest signs, and thats for sure, we belong together because we both the same interest, very smart, love to laugh, and most of all gemini doesnt try to control the aggresive aries, and aries loves the fun they have with gemini, i think this a great relationship even marriage, aries dont usually get along to well with other signs, for instance leos, are just to aggroant. anyways i am a proud aries woman and im currently talk to a loveing, caring, funny gemini
September 21st, 2009 at 8:45 am
I have a quick question re this combination.
From my posts above you’ll know I’m an Aries lady massively happy with a gemini whose been my best friend, prior to us taking things further, for almost five years. Over our past few dates we’ve discussed how the whole thing happened and whether we’ve always felt an attraction secretly, and we’ve come to this conclusion- we really didn’t! We both just got on really well, always had fun and just instantly trusted each other (which is strange for us both as we can be quite circumspect of people we don’t know), but we both didn’t realise there was anything more than that i.e. there wasn’t an immediate realisation of our feelings they just developed.We actaully laugh about a time, quite a few years ago, when we both told each other we didn’t fancy each other- and the funny part is we both really meant it then!
So my question is this- does an aries girl need to get older or give their gemini a chance to suddenly wake up to the fact that they could be what they’ve wanted all along?
September 27th, 2009 at 6:22 am
This website blog is sooo refreshing! I am so glad to read about other arians and geminis, and their personal interaction. I am an Aries woman and have a long time close female friend who is a gemini. We have always had the best of times since college. Only until recently did I find out that gemini men were great for Aries women.
I just met a guy, I thought to be very confident, it was something about his swagger that drew me to him like a magnet. I later saw him again at the same party and did not pass up the opportunity to approach him. I did the typical wait til the guy calls me, but something made me call him after the 3rd day. I found our first conversation to be sooo interesting, refreshing, and exhilerating. Once I found out he was a gemini, I just had to read more about our compatability. He is soo my type and I am thankful I have met him. Of course, taking things slow still, but I enjoy every time we talk. I used to date a Capricorn and it felt like I wanted to jump off a cliff(too clingy, like a pup).
This new Gemini guy is witty, confident, a great conversationalist, adventurous(and he’s handsome, an added plus). I feel so weird being this excited over someone I just met. I find myself thinking about him alot. However, he says the same thing about me. He just cannot believe all of our similarities. I’m sorry, but astrology does play a factor in our interactions with others. THANKS AGAIN for everyone’s input on this site!
September 27th, 2009 at 6:27 am
Quote: Sarah “So my question is this- does an aries girl need to get older or give their gemini a chance to suddenly wake up to the fact that they could be what they’ve wanted all along?”
That’s my same question I have about the guy I just met. He is 4 years my junior and I am not sure where this will lead our relationship to be just friends for now or to a more romantic situation. I think it just depends on the individual for that one. That’s great that you all were friends for that long though. That makes your bond even stronger now!
September 30th, 2009 at 11:01 am
Hi Rashall,
Your situation sounds very exciting! I know exactly what you mean about the magnetic nature and overall confidence and exuberance of geminis. It’s funny but my gemini is about 4 years my junior too! Maybe that’s another side to the gemini/aries compatiblity- the age difference works for us?? I.e the aries has stopped experimenting so much. I must admit as I’ve gotten older I’ve got alot less superfical and I’m sick of dumb good-looking blokes without any conversation or imagination, and I think he (my gem) has gotten sick girls sticking to him like glue, he does have a knack for developing instant intense relationships. I’m really independent and allow him space.
Have other geminis/ariens experienced a sizable age difference?
October 2nd, 2009 at 4:57 pm
Ugh,this rather irritates me because I’m an Aries girl,and my boyfriend’s a Gemini…and I have extreme jealous over him.It takes alot to reign it in so I DON’T smother him,and that in itself can be draining =3= My Gemini is about three years younger,but also very mature and a silver tongued person,and it’s one of the things I love about him..
Heck,if we can find soulmates in our zodiac matches, I’ve certainly found mine!
October 6th, 2009 at 6:56 pm
I am an aries man and i just love being different from everybody.i want to do the impossible and prove people wrong about what is and isnt possible. i love to be active and i love a person who has to be pushed alittle bit to do sumthing. most times i feel like a kid at christmas opening gifts when i get near a person i like. and ive been accused of falling in love too quickly. its just that i get smitten really easily and im so sure of myself that i just want to jump in with both feet. but i end up getting hurt. i dated a libra and i was really in love with her and i was willing to break a promise to myself for her. my promise was to stay a virgin until i was married. well it was soooo hard and many times i was close to breaking that promise with her. well she cheated on me and it broke me and i hidout for awhile to heal. well my best friend at the time was a gemini girl and she was really the erason i got over my libra. well im in love with my gemini and i really have been since i met her 5 years ago at a sports camp. and she loves me. the problem is that she lives in west virginia and i live in chicago. we’re about 500 miles away from each other. we talk almost everday and tell each other everything even the bad things. but i can see that she is perfect for me. she to is a virgin and i love that. but she dates other guys. i cant even talk to othr girls because i feel like im being dishonest to her. what should i do?
October 8th, 2009 at 10:48 am
Hi Ray,
Sorry I’m not really sure what your question is, are you jealous that your gemini lady is dating others? Or do you feel a bit lonely that you don’t get to see her or spend time with other women (even just as friends) because you feel guilty?
In a strange way I think a long distance relationship between a gemini and arien could work…however the arien would get lonely as they need to be round their lover physically alot more (even if that’s only for hugs!) whereas for a gemini alot of the attraction lies in intellectual stimulation (which I guess can be done at a distance.)Both signs love their independence so potentially it could work.
Sarah
October 8th, 2009 at 6:50 pm
My Gemini man isn’t a flirt at all! I’m the one who is constantly getting into hot water as a passionate Aries who attracts a lot of [male] attention. And of the two Gemini men I’ve been involved with, BOTH were jealous to an extreme. I have my moments, but nowhere near as bad as theirs. I don’t think you can make generalizations like this without knowing the whole chart: rising, moon, and venus play huge roles in relationships.
October 12th, 2009 at 7:59 pm
Hello!
I am a 23 yr old aries lady who married the love of my life last month, a 35 yr gemini male. We dated 1.5 yrs before marriage, lived together for the last 9 of those months. We met each other at work. I had a big crush on him for months before dated, although i tried to fight it because of hs age, but there I would be staring at him and he would catch me and smile back lol They are trully eternally youthful ! SOmetimes i am the one who needs to loosen up. He said he loves to watch how I interact with other people, which was pretty unique of someone to say to me. We have had some pretty big fights, I am not gonna lie, I am jelous and have a hot short-lived temper, which he says is mostly my age. but we always make up fast. I have learned to just let him be himself and not try to tell him what to do. he is a gem and i love love love him for who he is! He also forgets i can not read his mind, or take hints and it frustrates him sometimes, but i laugh about it.
October 13th, 2009 at 7:20 pm
HI Sarah,
Well i think you answered part of my question. I was (and am) feeling very lonely and i do love hugs.
. The thing is that she dates and i dont. i have lots of lady friends and hang out with them alot but none of them has what this other girl has. and i really want her to wait for me without dating other people. im torn inbetween accepting that she’ll do what she wants and trying to get her to do what i want.she tells me to date but i cant even meet a new girl without telling her about this girl.(her name is Krissy)and i dont want anyone else either. im feeling kinda hopeless. i have slim to nil chances of meeting Krissy again but im holding on to that chance as if my life depends on it. i guess i just want to know if im being stupid or crazy and if i should give up on the idea of me and her. i just feel really rebellious about it.
October 16th, 2009 at 7:36 am
Us Aries can tend to hold on, just the thought of giving up is like a defeat somehow. Well, I would honestly suggest that you date, because you may encounter more Geminis and other signs that live closer to you. Remember to never put your life on hold, when the other person is clearly not doing the same. If she has blatantly told/suggested to you to date, then by all means do so. You will begin to feel very lonely inside, yearning for what you cannot have. If one day you all meet again, go from there. Until then, life live! I can honestly give this advice because I have been there before. You will definitely feel much better.
October 16th, 2009 at 10:42 am
aries girl
So I dated a guy for a few months (not seriously) his brother has been talking to me and wanting to hang out but the problem is they have another brother who is an aries and I am totally attracted to. Anyone know how to handle that situation?
November 10th, 2009 at 9:58 pm
man arians are so awesome. i mean we go out and do what we want. we forge, we explore. and we grab life by the horn. in our own various ways. there’s like nothin better. ppl just wish they could be like us because we have the spark. thing is that our spark only last for so long. we need to keep it intresting and thats kinda hard to do. anyway bri go with the aries guy cause he already has your heart. he just doesnt know it yet. you wont be disappointed if hes on the good side of the sign. my brother is an aries and we’re almost exact opppisites.
November 29th, 2009 at 11:56 am
hey there to all ariens this is a harcore gemini !! only message to u people is that all the gemz ur commited to love u to the fullest !! as gettin us hooked is a big deal so congrats to all of u who got gemz as their partners !! as far as the chatter box thing is concerned ..u can always shut us up by saying that “excuse me !! will u let me speak it serious !!” trust me all the gemz will listen ..as its in our nature to speak that much !! but hey we reely dnt mind if someone makes us realise that even u guys needz to be listened too… thats all njoy !!
November 29th, 2009 at 7:47 pm
Hello there! I’m a gemini guy and I’ve been dating this aries girl for 7 months now. Things were going pretty well until she told me she was unfulfilled because I was pressing the wrong buttons as I read only now (being too predictable, clingy, etc.), and recently I think I made even a bigger mistake by telling her that I love her (now it’s making me laugh, ’cause I’m not the romantic type). We’re both fresh meat, and by that I mean virgins, as I only recently found out. Anyway, my question is: How can I keep her interested and erase that cling type personality she perceived I must have, considering we’re only seeing each other two or maybe three times a month. Thanks in advance!
December 1st, 2009 at 1:34 am
HELP! im an aries who is dating a gemini i love him so much but we get into arugments but in the end we come bk to each other is this meant to last? i can’t picture myself being happy with anybody else but him he makes me so happy i can’t remember the last time i was this happy
December 3rd, 2009 at 12:04 am
I am an Aries girl and like what Sarah said. Aries girls can have a lot of male friends but I only see them as my close friends or buddies. I tried to work it out with a Leo but to be honest, Leo/Aquarius and Aries click well but personally I think these two horoscopes can be boring. Sorry, no offense. I like excitement and I detest boredom. I like surprised, all Aries do, right? In my opinion, Scorpio is the best.. Unfortunately, it didn’t work out either.
I have two Gemini close friends, we click welled but there was no sparks.. on my side. One of them which I assumed that he had a crush on me as he gave me a hint before about considering to be a boyfriend but I gave him the idea that I prefer him to be a close friend, a buddy than a boyfriend.
So far, I haven’t dated any Gemini guy. But I found this Gemini boy attractive (first Gemini boy) - which is like a few years back but he’s my sister’s best friend and he told my sister off that it would be very awkward if he would go for me.
Then it’s kind of weird now. I can’t explain this strange feeling towards this guy whom I just met online. It’s kind of weird but it’s something new.. We have something in common, and he looks fun. Well he was the one who started messaging me but I wasn’t really into that kind of stuff.. So I replied his message when I felt like to.. The strangest thing is I’ve started to take notice of this attraction towards him. Ahem, he sounds flirtatious. I think this is somehow a dangerous combination as both Aries and Gemini are flirtatious and playful by nature. Just my thought.
December 5th, 2009 at 4:39 pm
HELLO there
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iam an Aries woman and been in love with a Gimini man for 3 years. we have disaster arguments for no reason he juss get upset and stop talking to me for no reason and this happen all the time. he stop talking to me for a month or more and then come back after me trying with him.when he comes back he doesn’t want to talk about what happened he acts like nothing happened. this drives me crazy and when i ask him if he really loves me or not he refuse saying i don’t like saying i love you this way. for these 3 years he said ” i love you” for 5 times max in unexpected times!!
is gemini that stubborn ? is he playing with my feelings? can anyone help ?
for me 3 years is not a short time and i love him like crazy, i think no one would put up with his mood changes like me that’s why we get together at the end. but what is breaking my heart that everytime we comeback i think we won’t be apart again for stupid reasons and it juss happen again.
any help?
thanks
December 6th, 2009 at 11:21 am
Hi Everyone,
Pure- it’s my experience re my Gem (and this is a huge generalisation!) that when it comes to fight or flight they are the flightiest! lol! It can be funny and hugely irritating, when out of nowhere he does his exit-stage left! What I’ve learnt re this is; Gems can argue or flirt their way out of anything, but when confronted with loud arguements that don’t allow for discussion they head for the hills, which in a way works for us ariens, cos I don’t know about you but I could probs argue for hours (it’s awful to admit but for me/and other aries I’ve found it’s abit of stress release) and if your with someone who doesn’t engage in that then you can’t end up saying huringful things you regret.
Also Gems are practical (and this is something I love about them) and can just let arguements pass without going over and over them or sulking.
I don’t know your specfic probs so maybe is not my place to advise but maybe talk about things with him when your calm and happy, tell him how much you care and give him some attention. Hope this helps.
Sarah
December 6th, 2009 at 10:11 pm
hello,
Sarah thank you for ur help
i put up with all his mood changes but his way of leaving drives me crazy. in a middle of an argument he juss says bye 
and guess waht comes after this ?? in the same moment i find myself deleted from messenger , facebook from bbm and everywhere 
will never answer my phonecalls or my msgs!!this makes me feel like i don’t mean anything to him and this hurts me. this can remain for month or two until he answer my msg like he did NOTHING!! and u know what ? he is the one who is wrong in the whole situation and i get to apologize :S this is hoe much i love him. i am going crazy lool 
December 7th, 2009 at 7:21 pm
Hi Pure,
Your not going to believe this, but I’ve experienced exactly the same thing, once in the middle of an blazing row my gem actually jumped out of a window to get away! It was on the first floor so at least he didn’t get hurt! Looking back it was abit comical!
He’s previously told me that sometimes when arguing with exes he would leave in the middle then go to his mums and not contact them for a week, sometimes two! And this is when they (him and his ex) lived together!
I think the point is geminis hav alot going on in their minds (and this i all the time!) and if they find they can’t charm their way out or complete some verbal acrobatics to prove their right, they simply leave and resolve it themselves, and completely cut all comms!! I think they just need that space and I also suspect they hope we’ll calm down of our accord! I hate that they know us that well! Lol!
However, saying all this it isn’t fair to not at least let you know he’s ok when he’s disappeared or to discuss valid problems constructively afterward.I don’t know how he would react, but maybe tell him abou this website and ask him if the things I’ve said ring true? It could be a good way to approach the subject?
Take care
Sarah
x
December 8th, 2009 at 10:15 pm
hello again
Sarah iam thinking of tellinh him about this website but i have to get him back first
guess waht ? i didn’t msg him since 6th of this month and trying to wait tell the new year. and if he down’t answer me i guess he juss don’t care. this is the only way i have right now is to wait. and u know us aries juss CAN NOT WAIT!!!! or do u think i have another way?
thanks
Pure
December 9th, 2009 at 5:21 am
Okay Update on the Gemini guy with Aries girl (me). So we have been talking for 3 days on MSN, he stays not far away from me. He’s pretty bubbly. OUT OF MY SURPRISE, he can read my thoughts and see right through my soul. Isn’t it scary? I feel intimidated and UNSAFE. Letting someone whom I just met online for 3 days totally see through my soul and thoughts. I am in unprotected position. However, he doesn’t threaten me in a way that I choose not to talk to him. He said he finally found ‘me’, and he thinks I am his soul mate. He said he really hope that we can always be friends and keep in touch and etc. He said the feelings are unexplainable and he is happy that he found me. That’s interesting and heart warming. I appreciate what is coming forth. : )
December 10th, 2009 at 12:57 pm
I am a Gemini and my boyfriend is an Aries. We get along together fantastically! There is never a dull moment between the two of us, and this is after spending every single day together for the past three months. We just cannot get enough of each other. He loves to talk and is a great listener. Myself being a Gemini, it’s hard to listen when there is always so much to say, but I give him his turn and he gives me mine (which is fantastic because not many men want to listen to a woman’s feelings). Although my sweet Aries is very intellectual, he acts very young spirited and silly most of the time - which I just love!
I get bored of people quickly when I realize they cannot keep up with me, but my Aries keeps in step with me!
December 10th, 2009 at 1:05 pm
Pure-
I am a Gemini woman, and I have to admit I am guilty for the same thing! If someone does me wrong or rubs me the wrong way, I delete them from all contacts and go on about my day. many weeks will pass before I even think twice about the person, and for the few that I am back in contact with, it is as if it never happened.
Gemini’s are pretty childish signs, being the 3rd of the Zodiac. Sure we are smart people, but we don’t spend to much time worrying about our feelings (or many others, for that matter)
December 12th, 2009 at 1:38 am
hello..
lastnight i saw my gemeni man having sex in car with another girl. in the same place we used to set together.can’t say more.
December 16th, 2009 at 10:55 pm
Hi Pure,
I’m sorry to hear that and can’t imagine how you’re feeling. Unfortunately there is good and bad in every sign and every person. This person is not worth of your time.
December 18th, 2009 at 11:44 am
LOL this is so funny
I’m friends with my ex-boyfriend who is an Aries and I love his company and we hang out. We still have feelings for each other and I don’t know whether to get back with him, but besides that he does get jealous like crazy If I start talking to some other guy, but we seem better as friends =] but wow i think this is so true in relation to my situation!
December 21st, 2009 at 6:02 pm
Wow…I don’t know what to think. I am an Aries woman who is on the brink of a personal relationship with a Gemini man. We have been friends for several months but it seems like years. We are able to talk about everything and anything. This man inspires me, encourages me and compliments me to no end. The chemistry is so strong between us but we have not yet crossed the friend threshold. Our conversations go on til no end. I am so comfortable with him and amazed at how much we are alike (both are bottom line, practical people). He makes me really think and reassess what I may have originally concluded.
And he scares the hell out of me. I am NOT one who usually is uncomfortable with people and am very confident in myself. Looking at these posts make me wary because I would not deal well with the disappearing act from someone who is more than a friend. I have a strong need to communicate if something is bothering me and we have not had the issue yet of being upset with each other and needing to work it out. Also, I’m not sure if he gets jealous but I know I am a huge flirt and he is a flirt. I can get jealous but I know how to keep it to myself. I know that I am on the verge of developing really deep feelings for him which is scary in itself as we have had not physical relationship.
I am now wondering if it is best just to maintain our friendship and wonder what might have been.
December 29th, 2009 at 11:43 pm
For anyone that questions the validity behind all you read here let me assure you, to listen to these Aries women, OMG! They are soooooo on me, the Gemini. I think, what was it I was told once? MY MOUTH FLAPS LIKE A DUCKS ASS! DONT doubt the astro. signs, they are right every time. Dont ask me how but they are.
January 2nd, 2010 at 5:16 am
Im a Gemini woman dating an Aries man and i must say wow am i in over my head or what? For christmas i hoped and hoped he would buy me a promise ring. or take the time to really pick out gift for me. To me it could have been a peice of paper he wrote i love you baby on and i would have been satisfied. but instead he bought me a digital camera which he gave to me christmas eve so that i could take pictures of my daughter unwrapping her presents at the family tree. While opening presents i opened a brand new digital camera. He laughed and said “good thing i kept the reciept.” we both giggled about it and i shrugged it off. until he started jokin about not bringing it back. Long story short he returned the camera but did not replace it with something else. Is it selfish for me to be a little sad about that? I get these crazy feelings when im around him and love him so much that his fast pace life style scares me sometimes. i feel like he is gonna just up and take off one day.
January 11th, 2010 at 9:48 pm
To LoganSara:
For an Aries man, that was saying a lot that he bought something for you to take pictures of your daughter opening her Christmas gifts. In general, the Aries male can be selfish (females too but more on the male side). They are very sensitive and require ALOT of attention (this from an Aries gal who dated an Aries guy for several years). They want to know they are your world. He may have taken the gift back with great intentions of getting you something else but hasn’t gotten around to it yet and may never still, especially if he is as busy as you say. I have been guilty of that. NEVER feel guilty because you wanted a Christmas gift. I am presuming you got him one. Let him know you expected a replacement for that gift and if your feeling were hurt that he didn’t let him know that too. We tend to get sidetracked and don’t realize when we’ve hurt someone’s feeling. You giggled about it so he assumed you were ok. NOT. He gets better if you let him know how you feel. Aries appreciate honesty. Good luck
January 13th, 2010 at 8:36 pm
omg this is so true i have been in a relationship with a gemini and hes a flirt,i get so jealous but we always work things out and he is the first one to tell me sorry!
March 6th, 2010 at 7:49 pm
really thats true aries and geminis share a perfect compatibility…their match are awesome…made for each other
March 22nd, 2010 at 5:55 am
I’m an aries woman who’s in love with a gemini man and I tell you he’s a very sweet guy when he wants to be. He courts me and the sex is amazing!!!
June 14th, 2010 at 5:15 pm
iim an aries and my boyfriend is a geminis we’ve been together about a year and 3 months its going great but sometimes me as an aries ii get so jeolous but we’re still together ♥
June 14th, 2010 at 5:16 pm
but i can tell u as an aries ur gonna fall deeply for a geminis..
i just know iim so deeply in love with him and iim blessed to have him by my side even though if theirs ups and downs in our relationship..
June 20th, 2010 at 1:25 pm
How Would An aries male Win A gemini female Hearth , i recently just met a Gem an I felt a strong spark since the First Time we talked . 2 days Later We Found out we live 2 blocks away from Each Other , we agree to meet up the next day , We got lost becuase none noticed were we where giong .
We had a great conversation.were Both Equality Weird people too…. I just have the tendency to rush thing an screw them up.
Also im not Much of a heroscope Person but after reading this page I feel like someone told me how i am without them knowing me ,so weird.
June 23rd, 2010 at 7:04 pm
David , dude i know just what you mean. Its like something supershocks you to life when your with that person and you never know whats gonna happen but you know it’ll be fun no matter what your doing. well im not a horoscope kinda guy either but i feel the same way you do. and to impress my gemini girl, i always surprise her by doing something different. I get her purple flowers (her fave color is purple) and other little things that only she and i would know about. BUt rushing in too soon is something im guilty of as well and screwing up is my middle name. but as i got older i’ve learned patience. alittle patience goes a long way even when it drives you crazy and goes against your entire being. Be who you are and dnt tone it down a bit, just wait for the right moment. thers a time and place for everything. Arians have the ability to do whatever they put they’re mind to, so try to find out where your relationship is going befroe you do anything. i always ask my female friend what ishould do before i do it. and that way i dont mess up. but almost every time i do it alone i mess up. good luck bro
July 7th, 2010 at 3:02 am
As an Aries woman I can tell you from my own personal experience My Jealousy can get VERY heated, I do a pretty good job at hiding it though. I’m in a developing relationship with a gemini guy, and even though it feels like things are developing at a snail’s pace, he does an extremely good job at keeping me interested. I wanted to learn to not leap without looking with my next relationship and although it feels like a HUGE test on my lack of patience, I am doing an ok job. Everything I read here seems pretty on the nose.
August 2nd, 2010 at 5:16 am
I think i’m in love with a gemini man. Being the Aries woman that I am, I LOVE all the excitement and wit he has to offer. I have lost interest in my Leo mate because even though things are great in the bedroom, everything else has fizzled. I love that Gemini and Aries can share the spotlight. It’s not a constant strain doting on him like the Leo male. Any fellow Aries girls share my pain? Anyway, wish me luck in my new adventure. By the way, he gave me that name… Lol
August 4th, 2010 at 6:56 pm
Well I’m an aries woman, and I’ve just started getting into the zodiac thing. Most of what it says is quite true.Jealousy is a bit of a problem for me as well. If you’re going to try and make me jealous, I tend to go right back at you with doing the same thing. I’ll challenge you with it, and then move on. Harsh I know, but it is what it is. I also have more male friends than I do females. Most of the guys I have dated, were fine with it. If not, I’m not gonna waste my time and kiss his ass just because I get along better with the males, and he doesn’t approve. I’m pretty blunt when it comes to negativity, I do not tolerate it at all. Then again I do have a lot of love and passion for my significant other, I’ll show you in many ways, Tell you how you’d like to hear it. etc etc. Now the sex, I really like a guy who can be dominant, but not too dominant where I have no control either. I like a guy who can balance me out in many ways. If he’s gonna bite I’m gonna bite back
. If I decide to bite , I expect him to do the same. ;]. mm-mm-mmm Lovely 
August 6th, 2010 at 3:24 am
Hi, I’m a 23 year old Aries woman. I think I am in love with a Gemini man, 25 years old. I have never been in a relationship before, but have always had crushes. Last guy I dated casually was a Capricorn, and although the kisses and physical intimacy with him were dreamy and amazing, the Gemini guy has captured my heart with no physical intimacy whatsoever. Since the first day I met him, I have been smitten with him. And honestly, I am not sure why! These men have a way with being so charming, polite, and refined. They make you feel so special when you talk to them. I also love the way Gemini men have a way of making Aries women feel like their independence is respected rather then frowned upon by other men.
First off, I don’t consider myself to possess all the Aries traits, and I think that’s due to my whole chart being in water and earth. My rising is in Scorpio, moon in Taurus, mercury and venus in Pisces, and Mars in Taurus. The Gemini guy has Rising in Capricorn, moon in Gemini, mercury in Cancer, venus in Taurus, and mars in Cancer. So in our charts, we do have a grand trine: His mars in Cancer is exactly degree of my Venus in Pisces (maybe 1 or 2 degrees off), which is supposed to signify a great comfort if we ever got together physically, but I have only hugged him a few times when we hung out.
We became friends very quickly. When we talked I always felt our mental chemistry to be alive, fun, playful. Over time, I started developing real feelings for him, very deep feelings. I think it’s because he just would listen to me, like really listen to me. He remembers little details about me, that no other guy remembers. He listens to me talk and talk, he laughs at my jokes genuinely. He always listens to me and never makes me feel like I’m annoying him. He was always just so sweet to me and just seemed caring that I couldn’t help but fall in love with him over time. He was exactly what I wanted in a man, especially because the men in my life like my brother and father I have no emotional relationship with. So all in all, I felt like I connected with him both mentally and emotionally. It was weird, although we only talked every few weeks on the phone and hung out once a month, I still felt connected with him. The only problems I had with him is his flightiness, he will talk to me for hours one night, then disappear for a few weeks, not answering texts right away. I find this baffling. I find that Gemini men seem to be afraid to get close to anybody. They value their independence highly. Some people call them selfish, and maybe they are in some ways, but Aries are also accused of being selfish. And we are, but not purposely to hurt people. We become self absorbed, as how Gemini men appear to be as well.
The problem? He was dating this Gemini girl on and off for 4 years at the time. However he would still hang out with me, in the middle of the night. We would often talk late hours on the phone, and he would pick me up and we would go to the beach and talk until the morning. He NEVER tried to disrespect me in any way by touching me or anything, but I just felt like he was a good friend, it was really nice. He often described his horrible relationship to me. And I would encourage him to talk about it and listen to him. He wasn’t in love with her but he cared about her. He didn’t want to let go because 4 years would have been a waste of time. I would try to encourage him to break up with her and he would tell me that he tried but she keeps threatening to commit suicide. He finally broke up for real after about a year of knowing him. I guess I thought deep down if he broke up with her, he would just suddenly fall for me. Crazy Aries wishful thinking right? Right. Turns out he never made a move on me whatsoever. But he confused me with his behavior of wanting to talk to me. But I guess it’s because I’m so damn nice and such a good listener that he felt comfortable with me. Later on, I was hearing from his best friend that he was having casual sex with some older woman (27) with two kids. I did get disgusted at the thought. But his best friend kept telling me, “It’s not serious, just for fun.” Eventually that relation ended, him breaking it off with her because she started to get emotional for him.
Then there was this whole big drama bc a guy we all knew made up stories to me that this Gemini man hated me and was using me to get close to my hot friends or what not. He also said other stuff, but that’s for another subject. I felt so hurt, until his best friend, an Aquarius, made us confront each other and work it out. Turns out that guy who told me all that stuff was lying and the Gemini guy and I are still friends. But the difference NOW is that he KNOWS I like or “liked” him, as I told him. Everything was out in the open. I even told him “I know you didn’t like me back, I jut couldn’t help my feelings.” You know what he told me? “No it’s not that I didn’t like you…actually any guy would be lucky to have you. But I just got out of a really difficult relationship of four years, and I’m just not ready.” Which makes sense actually, I saw all the drama he went through with his ex. It does make sense he wouldn’t want a relationship or would be even thinking of one. But also I felt like maybe he was telling me this so he wouldn’t hurt my feelings? I know Gemini men are not direct. And he, despite all that happened still makes an effort to IM me and such. So I guess we are just friends.
Is this guy perfect? No. By all means I don’t think he’s perfect, as I’m not either. But I just wish I could just have a chance with him, you know? I want to be the one who makes his heart go weak, and I want to be the one who understands him. I want to be his dream, his fantasy, his best friend, all into one. If he would just give me a damn chance! It’s hard to just be his friend and not fantasize about having more with him. It’s hard to hear his voice and see him when he is not passionate about me in the way of feelings. So right now I am just being friends with him, and I will let you know where this goes. Sometimes deep in my heart I tell myself to try to move on, but I just cannot. It’s so hard. Another part of me says, keep him around and date other people, he will be yours eventually. Please if anybody has input, please speak up! Thanks for listening to my story =)
Love,
An Aries Female
November 23rd, 2010 at 5:02 am
I never really was involved in zodiac signs until now.
Now that I have looked into it, what a Gemini is, describes me to a T.
I always have this ability to get myself out of situations. I avoid conflict. I’m smart..BUT I don’t know a lot about one thing, I know a little about everything, just enough knowledge to feed off then move on (this is good until someone starts digging a little deeper, then I am sprung dammit) and I definitely have 2 different personalities every day.
I just came out of a relationship with a very loyal Capricorn (how I lasted 6 years I have no idea)And he just wanted to plan a life together, ‘the white picket fence’ sort of life. I had to get out, I’m too young for that. I need fun, excitement and adventure. Then along came this Aries male and WOW is this different.
I haven’t come across the jealousy trait of him yet, although I have picked up subtle hints from a couple of things I have said. (way to early)
We sext each other all day but we only see each other about once or twice a month (10 hrs drive away). He is amazing and because I just came out of a relationship, I’m a little scared to start another so soon. BUT I do not want to loose this raging hottie. It is getting way to intense too quickly but I really like it.
A little help? I definitely don’t want to bruise his ego and I don’t know if my ability to talk my way out of things will help with this one. I just enjoy what we have and hoping it will last longer that way then a short lived relationship.
January 16th, 2011 at 6:13 pm
OMG! I AGREE IM INLOVE WITH MY BEST FRIEND. HE IS GEMINI AND IM ARIES. LOL! IDUNNO HOW TO TELL HIM COZ THAT CAN RUIN OUR FRIENDSHIP.TT HUHU
January 24th, 2011 at 8:55 pm
this is sum wut true…me and my boyfriend been knowing eachother for bout 2 years going out for 1 year and almost 2 monthz on febuary 1st yay! buttt we are hella much in lovee (: ima marry hym yes there are problems bt duuuhh evry1 gotss dem and if yu say its perfect like no fight ever ur lying cz sooner or later it comes..i messed up a few tyms and lost his trust but he took me bak the only problem with hym is he got a temper and has trust issues other then dat its amazing and he makes me the happiest girl in the world i never wana lose hym
January 28th, 2011 at 12:58 am
i couldn’t agree more with sarah. i recently was about to make the biggest mistake because i thought i was in love with this aquarius but i realize that my aries man is who i want
June 21st, 2011 at 1:57 pm
yeah i am an aries women and i love my gemini guuy a lot….we do fight a lot but nothing can make part us for more than 10 mins,,we are back to our normal ways and there is no end for loving each other…..bless our love god!
November 4th, 2011 at 1:50 pm
It definitely can work if you try because my Nana(Gemini) and my Grandad(Aries) have been married just over 50 years! its Amazing!
My Grandad(81) doesn’t stop moving, even now at his age climbs a tree to cut of a branch or you’d see him cutting wood hahaha you cannot stop him! bless his heart
then you got my Nana (76) who doesn’t shut up! lol you’d say ‘oh i must go’ and she’d start another conversation and shes the master at arguing, if shes wrong she’d somehow turn it around so shes right. Amazing she is, its safe to say shes like a best friend to me!
x
November 10th, 2011 at 3:59 pm
I am not really into zodiac comparability and such but I read it for fun! And also because I think I’m falling for this Aries guy ^^
From the post and the comments here, I am really amazed at how some of us are encountering the similar things! I’ve known this Aries guy for close to 3 months. Yeah, just 3 months but te thing is, it felt like years!! Recently we have started to texted one another and I’m not sure if he likes me. But my instinct tells me that he likes me. I really wanna tell him about my feelings but I got no courage. When we first met at work, I was neutral about him. And after some events and group-hanging out session, I got this weird attraction to him. Since he is only 2 months older than me, I feel like we can connect alot. Being a true Gemini, I talk alot. Hahaha! I’m talkative and always tells him all those weird random things about me. He genuinely laughed about it. I even those him some of my embarrassing childhood secrets when I didn’t even plan to! It just came out of my mouth. You see, I’m really comfortable around him. After unintentionally telling him my embarking moments, I’d be like “Why did I even tell you this?!?” and again, he just laughed. Our friends at work did tease us and one even hope that we will be a couple.
We both just ignore those remarks but deep down I do hope he’ll confess or something.
I’m waitingggg!
January 11th, 2012 at 8:08 pm
I am a Gemini girl and my boyfriend is an Aries. The moment we first spent alone time together he cried and confessed to me that he is falling in love with me…which at first made me feel weird because a) It was so sudden, and b) I had a long term boyfriend at the time (who was a Capricorn). But something that night turned my entire life around, and I told him I loved him back. And at that exact moment, I started to really feel it. I didn’t think such things were possible. We only hung out a few times before, and with groups of mutual friends, and we still barely knew anything about each other. And suddenly…this unbelievable feeling of feeling like you’ve known and loved this person for years, like we’ve separated and finally reunited, we both felt this. I broke up with my boyfriend the next day, like it was intuition that told me I just met my soulmate and had to take this chance (and I was meaning to break up with my Capricorn…I wasn’t too happy even though we dated for over a year). My Aries guy and I got together and officially announced it only 2 weeks later, so that it wouldn’t seem like I just went for a rebound relationship after I dumped my last boyfriend. Many people from both his and my sides were happy for us, and since then…I haven’t felt more happy in my life. I don’t think I’ve ever been this happy. We’re only a little over a year apart (He’s 20, I’m 19), the sex is so intense and passionate, he tells me he loves me every day at least 10 times and means it every time, he’s so romantic and sexy and good looking in general, and we share about a thousand interests, especially love of traveling, cultures, learning new things, adventures, random things, music, art, and many more (which I lacked in my previous relationship). We go to the same college and are in the same major, so we see each other a lot, and he lives 10 minutes away from me too. I really feel like I met the person I’m meant to be with, and he feels it too. I don’t need to change a thing about myself or about my Aries man to be fully happy. We fit perfectly. It feels like a fairy tale, and I think we will have our happy ever after.