Aries Compatibility With Aquarius |
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Aries and Aquarius
There is a lot of fun to be had here for both parties! The Aries will love the offbeat ways of the Aquarius and likewise the Air sign will enjoy watching the Fire sign race around like a child, always looking for new adventures. The Aquarius can, at times, be very unpredictable. These Air signs don't do anything by the book, and this may cause some impatience for the Aries. It's OK though, your Aquarius lover may seem to occasionally be on a different planet, but will always return to the one he loves best. Remember when you were at school? Those children who were always getting into mischief and laughing in all the wrong places? Well, it was these two. I can guarantee it! With the Aquarius being the "behind the scenes" genius of any master plan for trouble, the Aries will be able to play up and get into all-sorts of trouble. I don't mean nasty, bad, horrible trouble, of course. I mean the mischievous kind! Yes, these two are great fun to be around. Many couples suffer in their relationships due to the "green eyed monster" That is not so here. Neither one is the jealous kind, so they both have the freedom they so desire without having to worry about any wild accusations, and finger pointing when they get home. This is a couple who can definitely make it work, but I suggest that this maybe one of those times to just "stay friends" as you can last in that way forever.
Combined Astrology - The Aries Rat
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May 13th, 2008 at 3:24 pm
That is so true! I remember that i got moved in French for laughing too much with my friend in class! (he’s the aries). xx
July 19th, 2008 at 5:16 am
Can anyone give a little in site, I have been married to an aries for over 25years, We get along great, but HIS sense of HONESTY seems a little off to me “such as telling part truth and not the whole truth is not lieing” to an aqurius thats not HONEST!! , I Love him dearly SEX is Greay Because there are NO Boundries “Who said Aqurians are not very Physical” This man lets me feel WHAT ever I Want TO FEEL {{LOVE IT}. but back to the point what is up with the “as long as I tell part of the truth thats not lying”???????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????
July 29th, 2008 at 10:12 pm
Dora, I would venture to guess that when he tells “half truths” it is because you asked him a question? But when he “volunteers” information you hear what appears to be the “whole truth?” As an Aries woman, I understand why he feels that he is NOT lying - I just don’t think he has explained it well (shocking.LOL). As everyone knows, Aries patience is short, so when questioned we tend to get irritated and offer the minimum amount of information in order to move onto a new topic or get you to leave us alone. When we are UNprompted for information, we will tell you more than you ever wanted to know.25 years together, Aries man with a wonderful Aquarian wife, great sex - I don’t think you have anything to worry about. With an Aries, vagueness = lack of patience/irritation.
September 1st, 2008 at 9:40 am
My friend Matt (ARIES) and I get along perfectly. We were friends since the 4th grade (and still are). Most ARIES and AQUARIUS could make a real relationship, but it’s just a little arkward at first. I love in to death.
September 1st, 2008 at 3:31 pm
an aries man sqirmed his way into a bond and ensnared an aquarius woman who i was in love with. he controls her and sex controls her now she is marrying him after a short few months.. she wants to keep him under lock and key hoping he will commit to her while she pays all of his rent and bills..she is so beautufl yet so desperate..its digusting..i love and loved her..
September 13th, 2008 at 4:16 am
I would venture to guess that when he tells “half truths” it is because you asked him a question?
HONESTY LOVE HIM
AQURIAN WOWEN with a wonderful,
FOREVER ROMANCE COUPLE ARIEL MAN.
i was ANYMORE in love with ARIEL MAN .
IM FEELING FRONT CRUSH LOVE ARIEL MAN IS HANDSOME CUTE!
ARIEL MAN IS ACTOR FROM SOUTH KOREAN
GOOD FEEL LIKE ARIEL MAN IS HANDSOME!
IF WISH MY FUTURE Aries man WEDDING AND CHILD
September 25th, 2008 at 5:56 pm
im Aquarius women
Aquarius women love you aries man Me : Kiss my behind (He gets all goo goo eyed) Him : Awww! You love me too. this aries man is handsome! (0.0){ that so cute}
iFIND YOU CRUSH LOVE ARIES MAN IS KOREAN. OHHH THAT CUTE ARIEL MAN. MY DREAM OF CINDERLLA. CHAMING PRINCE ARIEL MAN IS KOREAN
iWANT WISH MY FUTURE ROMANCE AFTER HAPPILY WEDDING MY CHILDREN!!!!
September 25th, 2008 at 5:58 pm
ONE IN MY LIFE I LOOOOOVE ARIEL MAN
October 3rd, 2008 at 3:29 am
Who said that Aries men are not jealous is lying…I am an Aquarius woman and, this man tries to control me with mind games the accusations never end. But, when we are together it is beautiful. I can definitely admit that sexually we are very, very compatible and, we have fun when we are with one another even if we are just at home watching tv..He is bluntly honest and, tends to speak first and, think about it later. But, because of my outgoing nature and, maybe the unusual amount of attention I get he gets pretty jealous and, start accusing me of things that I am not even doing..LOL.
October 26th, 2008 at 10:50 pm
hey, i just met this Aries guy today. We have had conversations on msn even before but today we met for the first time. and i can honsetly tell, that i was thinking : “i’m not gonna fall in love today and if i am then not too much, and if i still fall in love and TOO much then it’s pretty sure that he won’t fall in love with me.” anyways, i met him and i was totally head over heels when i saw him. He had this absoloutley gorgeous and handsome look, just my type. he ain’t even much taller than me too, just a tiny bit. he kisses good, and i had SOOOO much fun this day. Even when everything went absolutley wrong this day XD it was windy, raining, my hair was messed up, makeup was lookin shit in the end of the day, the buses always left when we got to the busstop
even the streetlights went red 
but we didn’t care so much for it, we just laughed over it. we went to these strange places i’ve, nor him ,never been to. we were walking on railways and jumping over or in the mud puddles 
we had so much fun and we had so much to talk. even in the end of the day we talked on . Aries is curmudgeonly in a good way, atlest he is. And i’m also like that. We have much incommon also. But yeah… I kinda love him.. and i think he kinda likes me.. i hope he fell in love with me 
October 28th, 2008 at 12:59 pm
Hi Becky!
What are the prospects of any sort of relationship between an Aquarius Woman:
with a Venus in Aries and Ascendant in Libra
and a Pisces Man:
with Venus in Aquarius and Ascendant in Aries
***Both of them love their freedom to the core, are mostly detached, but at times enjoy the conversation. Venus in Aries likes the chasing bit (what astrology says) but Venus in Aquarius doesn’t want to chase and committ. A weird relationship, both like and respect each other but don’t really express their emotions.
Would really appreciate your casual response.
Ciao
Aly, The Water OX
October 30th, 2008 at 12:33 pm
I am an Aquraius woman. I am just curious, since I cannot find nothing on it. Would I get along with a guy who was an Aries/Pisces cusp? They say Aries and Aqurarius get along really well, and also good with Pisces.
November 1st, 2008 at 9:16 am
To huntinscorpio LOL I am sorry, I have to laugh. Women, cannot change men after they marry them. People are not going to change just because you want them too. People change, because THEY DECIED for themselves that they are going to change. I really wondering if she really loves him, NOT the sex that he gives. Because real love is unselfish. And if I had to keep an eye on a man, I would not date him at all! Sorry, I made a rule I am no ones babysitter.
November 6th, 2008 at 11:49 am
I’ve accused my Aries girlfriend because as someone mentioned above they leave out information leading to deceit, I asked her if she’d slept with anyone living local 2 me she said no! unfortunately for her the stars aligned and one of my friends told me she had a 6mth relations with this guy down the road with when confronted she casually said oh him, i didn’t mention him as it wasn’t serious…. SORRY!?? so how many other not so serious sexual partners have u missed out, from little lies come big secrets in my eyes and i wont rest untill shes opened her soul then allowed me to analyse her brain matter! sexy innit! don’t get it twisted i just want to make sure i havn’t put my eggs in this girls basket for her to leave them cracked on my doorstep 3mths later leaving a smelly mess 4 me to clean up, ya dig!
November 10th, 2008 at 2:32 pm
I’m an Aries (41) that has fallen in love with an Aquarius (50) ~ and omg what an amazing relationship we have… its both easy going and out right wild at times! This man knows his way around me and I swear he must have gotten my “manual” before he met me and studied up! I have never felt such a balance before… I help him as much as he helps me ~ I love him as much as he loves me ~ its not an easy relationship… we have to communicate (but who doesnt that wants it to last?) I read above that maybe we should just stay friends??? Why on earth would I want to do that? I can say that we both have our own homes and fairly separate lives… maybe thats why it works? I’m wondering if living together would ruin such a wonderful thing? Yikes… gonna have to ponder that one!
November 10th, 2008 at 2:37 pm
Calvin ~ wow ~ Sorry she was not truthful… I mean… lying by omission is still lying in my book (this is coming from an Aries~) deceit is one of the lowest forms of disrespect I can think of and if she wants something lasting with you she is cheating herself not being truthful!
When I love a man… really love him… I do let him see my soul… its a very scary place to let someone go and after all my years you would think I would be tainted and not let someone go there just out of being scared of getting hurt… but if she doesnt let you in… she will never find true love~
Just my opinion of course… good luck Calvin you sound like a wise man!
December 31st, 2008 at 4:48 am
I looked this up because I met this guy who is an Aries, and I was just curious about how compatible we are. I am, of course, an Aquarius…and for some reason, it seems like all the guys I like are Aries. I don’t know what will happen, but I do like him a whole lot, and it’s nice to see that it could possibly work. I guess it will work out or it won’t, but it’s reassuring to know that it COULD. And I bet it will be fun to find out….LOL!
January 14th, 2009 at 5:27 pm
Hi I am madly in love with my Aquarius boyfriend and i am an Aries, we have been together for 3 and a half years, he broke up with me this past october because he was “stressed” with school and work and then I found out that he had been talking to another girl via texting and a few phone calls, we had some pretty big fights and took a break for 2 weeks and got back together. I love him with all my heart and I want to marry him but I know he likes to live his own life and I am starting to see how things work in his life, it’s his way or no way. All I want to know is how to give him his space, he told me not to give him to much speace because he’ll “wonder” again but if I don’t give him enough space he wont be happy and that will make him “wonder” so I want to know how much space he needs? what are signs that Aquarius are bored or are stressed? I want to understand him and make thigns work but it’s so hard when he doesn’t help me out. we have been doing so amazing and everything is going great, we are having lots of fun again and going places together but in the back of my head I am always wondering what if he’s talking to some other chicks, what if he actually does it again.
January 14th, 2009 at 9:11 pm
To Jenny: Hey Girl, I am Aquarius woman here, I can’t tell you from astorlogy point of view, but I will tell you honestly from logical side.
You need to sit his Aquarius ass down, and lay it all out! I mean it, really! You can’t just let him do as he pleases all the time. When he doesn’t give a clear explation why. I don’t mean control him Just telling you to give him his space, but don’t give too much, I am sorry that sounds like BULLSHIT coming out of his mouth. I am sorry, but I am really heated here.
You need to sit him down and tell him to EXPLAIN himself clarly to you. What he means by “Give me my space, but don’t give me too much.” You can’t read his mind, and if he wants his god damn bleeding space he got to tell you, when “YOU” can come back. Because if he doesn’t clarfiy how much or how litte space he needs, that means he up to no good.
I got to get this off my chest, I really hate the whole cheating bit. Just be careful, always be on your guard, don’t fall for his traps. God, it much really suck always worry about if he is always with another girl.
If I were you, I would leave him, you don’t need all that stress and worry in your life. If he does cheat on you again. End it. Turn on your heels and never look back.
And don’t let guys uncontrol lifes give him a reason why he cheated. Just because one has a stress out life, one can keep their dick in their pants.
January 14th, 2009 at 9:15 pm
To Jenny:
Also, he needs to learn to give and take. Don’t let him have all the control, you got to be the master of your own life.
February 6th, 2009 at 7:56 pm
I have a Aquarius male in my life,and I love him like no other… and he does the same dang thing to me!!
… He’s all about me one minute then steps back, disappears and as a Aries I hate it… and then he comes back to being great…
It’s confusing and frustrating and so difficult sometimes, cause I want to be his number one all the time
.. but the difference between my situation and yours is that I trust him .. I have to trust him not to hurt me.. I have to trust that even if he flirts a little or backs away that he is doing just that and not doing anything to jeapordize us.. It’s the only thing that keeps me sane…
If you don’t trust him, or he seems like only his best interests are in mind, and not yours as well.. you may want to re-evaluate why your with him… or talking with him….
March 14th, 2009 at 2:07 pm
This is weird … I am an Aries woman and have fallen totally for an Aquarius man. It’s like we were school/college friends in the past. The only problem is that he is an a relationship (not married) with young kids. I am married, but am in the process of leaving because my husband is too clingy and doesn’t really understand my need for freedom.
Me and Aquarius man have acknowledged the attraction - yeah it’s pretty strong and we have work/ professional and hobby interests in common so we will keep meeting each other in the future. We have both said “lets be friends” and he really seems to want this, so I am thinking “this guy plays the field” and then runs back to his family. But he is not sleazy, we really are friends and I am happy with that as right now I don’t need a “relationship” in my life and need my own freedom, plus do not want to break up a family by my impulsiveness. It has been a lesson for me in restraining myself. I know that he is attracted to my ideas and adventurousness, I am helping him with his work and he is challenging me to communicate my ideas coherently. It is good to have a friend like this and I do not want to lose this friendship. Maybe when we are old people we will be together … but apart … as I think we each would like our own place.
April 4th, 2009 at 6:50 am
I am in a serious relationship right now with an aqurius man . He is amazing! We were friends at first for the first couple of months. We instantly connected and trusted eachother we were the best of friends! Then we realized that we were both crazy for eachother . Haha I remember once I went on a trip for about a week and he always called me and talked to me asking how I was and telling me how he missed me. Well we took a step further and I will never regret it. I never really believed in true love but I most definetly do now ! Aries and Aquarius are amazing together no doubt!
April 15th, 2009 at 2:30 am
All my good close friends are Aries and I hooked up with another Aries, but he was totally not like other Aries I know. He was quite the P.o.S. and well I couldn’t stand him.
I love my Aries friends!
June 8th, 2009 at 1:43 am
I met this aqarius man a month ago. And I can say it was instant attraction. I thought he would be like most man and think only of getting into the pants, but he was a breath of fresh air, easy to talk to and honest. I fell for this man very quickly since I was new to the dating game again. We make the best of friend I can tell because we cantalk about any and all things. Sometimes for hours we talk and laugh with one another. Now, the only thing I see (as many have stated)they do need their space. Now he do have many associates but not many are intimacy friends. He says he have not told everyone somethings about him because truth is a issue. So i feel if will take some time because he will let all the way in but for now we are doing pretty good just slow. I want to keep him always.
June 10th, 2009 at 5:39 am
xD haha that paragraph was so true. My best friend was an Aries, and we wound up dating for like, a year. And what’s funny was we were both so typical of our signs, her being very proud, opinionated, and full of action, where as I’m typically quiet, think of ideas and people think I’m insane or stupid or something. psh, lol.
And neither of us were really restricted by social norms, I mean we were both girls, so it’s not like people didn’t judge us haha.
But in the end, I would have to agree with the end of this little article- that sometimes it’s better to just stay friends and leave it at that. It was fun, but if I chose to cross her opinions, then she’d get pissed. And I guess I must have been too distant or preoccupied for her liking. We got serious really fast, but she was expecting more from me while I am just too laid back. She’s QUICK, I’m SLOOOWW.
At the time, the breakup was one sided. I felt misunderstood, and I was devastated, but now I am very glad we’re apart. I’m sure there are plenty of people out there who’ll fit the bill in what she’s looking for. She seems more down to earth in that sense, and I wonder if that’s the case with all Aries people. Me, I’d like to live a more uhh.. “abstract” lifestyle…xD
One word of advice. If you tell an Aries woman you want to stick a barbed wire fence on the living room wall, she’ll kick your ass.
June 13th, 2009 at 6:15 pm
I’m a 29 yr old Aries female, dating an Aquarius male. I too feel head-over heels with him instantly, for so many years I figured we(Aries) were more compatible with the Sagitarius… and glad to have read this, along with everyones quotes,
Aquarians are very unpredictable, but I love it! We get along great…the sex is “AMAZING”…we enjoy eachothers company, and when we are together, it’s like we are the only 2 people in the room!!! Ahhhh!!!
June 19th, 2009 at 2:55 am
I am an aries and he is an aquarius. Wow! I am hooked on this guy. I can’t wait to spend more time with him. No matter what he do I love it except for the time he spends away from me. We only have been dating for a short time but I find him most interesting. He has talked quite openly with me from the time we have met, some things he haven’t shared with many people so this makes me trust him alot. However, I feel at times he hold back on details for a time until he feel more trusting with me. He is alittle shy and will blush with the a sweet smile just to have me look at him. I can feel the man opening up more and more as we spend time with one another. I can tell he loves what I do around him because he looks at me with this smile and excitement in his eyes saying, “Girl you wild”. He says I make him tell things he can’t tell anyone else. I enjoy our conversations. I want to be with this man for the rest of my life. So far we get alone very well. Both of us were married before with grown children. Now we are older and starting a new chapter in our lives. I’m glad it’s with him. I pray it stay this good always.
June 19th, 2009 at 5:01 pm
I’m an Aries. I can honestly say dating an Aquarius man is truly a blessing because he allows you to be you without judegement or crowding you. Yes, Aquarius loves his space which at first I didn’t like it at all but as an independent Aries, trust me, you will learn to feel you must be one of the luckiest woman in the world to have freedom unconditionally and to know your man can be trusted as you can be trusted…It is one of the greatest feeling ever….I traveled the world and to know that my man is across the globe and still have trust, is amazing…With Aquarius men, I truly feel they are strong and manly for Aries women. It is the only sign that subdue my aggression and just calms me……Perhaps, knowing there’s trust and freedom…..Have fun!
June 26th, 2009 at 1:11 pm
I’m an Aries woman and have been dating an Aquarius man for about 2 years. I love our relationship but when it comes to doing things around the house he is the worst. Does anyone else have this problem out of their Aquarius man?
July 16th, 2009 at 5:43 am
Well not all aquarious are like that like me for instance. I am a very clean aquarion ,and I think its the person who doesn’t want to clean. Sometimes we do have are laziness thats only because we like to do are cleaning randomly.lol:] Say like today i dont want to wash the dishes maybe tomorrow i will lol. All them aries woman OUT THERE HALLA AT me ..I love yall..Strong Woman
July 22nd, 2009 at 5:11 pm
arians….are great! bravo!
July 26th, 2009 at 4:12 am
Im an Aries woman and have noticed lately that many Aquarius men are attracted to me. Seriously, at present there is 6 different Aquarias people in my life from which 5 of them are men and interested in having a relationship with me. Why is that?
I find it very weird because I usually have dated Taurus men and Leos. Last year a lot of Libras came around… I do not know what is going on!
I have no clue about Aquarius people and thats why Im here on this website so I can understand them.
We do seem to have a lot in common but there are times where they are very distant and seem to hold back they’re true thoughts while other times they’re very attached. While I do enjoy a chaallenge Im not sure its worth it.
Any other person has experience with this?
August 15th, 2009 at 1:06 pm
Okay I’m an Aquarius woman dating an Aries guy for just over a year now an it has been by far the best experience ever! We are both very ambitious people so we’ve accomplished a lot together the only thing i’d have to say is that our fights can get pretty intense although it’s rare…it just seems we are both so determined to have re other person understand our point of view as right…after the year though I feel a lack of something…it’s not as exciting as it once was I guess because we’re on the same page with everything but well I guess it’s because I keep things inside and slowly they are wearing away at my happiness…actually I have no clue what the hell the problem is…somebody help
August 20th, 2009 at 8:19 pm
i’m an aries and my husband is aquarius. we get along great. i mean we have our fights.. but what couple doesn’t. and we always work through them. we both have a temper and always say things we don’t mean. hes completely honest with everything in our relationship, but me on the other hand.. i tend to hold things back. i don’t always tell him the complete truth, to try to save an argument.. because like i said.. he does have a temper. we have fun together.. we laugh and act stupid. we have the same interests in almost everything. we’re best friends and lovers. the sex is amazing. hes very romantic. sends me flowers and writes me sweet letters and poems. outside from the fights aries and aquarius are perfect.
August 22nd, 2009 at 5:19 am
I’m really curious, do aries men cheat if given a chance? I hear that the aries is a very flirtatiuos sign and it likes the chace and challenege, which makes me feel very insecure and scared to get involved with one.
on the other hand someone told me that if an aries falls in love its defenite. is that true?!
waiting for possible answers.
Midnight
August 26th, 2009 at 6:39 pm
im an aquarius man and ive been going out with an aries woman 5 years now; she drives me crazy and im sure i drive her crazy as well
however - were till together.
i also have quite a few aries male friends, but they make me fucking crazy with their lack of patience, so usually my friendship with the arian males doesn’t last that long; i usually tell them to piss the fuck off
August 26th, 2009 at 6:40 pm
@ midnight - yes, they cheat like fuckers, but it’s only the sex, and they repent afterwards and still love the woman they have cheated on
August 27th, 2009 at 5:06 am
@ Midnight
i’m an Aries girl and i’ll tell you this
i will only cheat on my man if i get bored with him if he no longer interests me!
WE do love challenges like no tomorrow
however if i truly care for or love my guy and he’s the center of attention -meaning he keeps me interested
i will NOT cheat on him. i might flirt with other guys but i will never cheat!
Just keep your Aries interested we are very much like gemini’s once we get bored we are moving on!
hope i helped
blessings
September 10th, 2009 at 7:06 am
@aquarius the silver-tongued devil :
Hi there. I found ur remark about the aries girl driving u crazy quite interesting.In my case the situation is opposite. The aquarius guy drives me crazy in the sense that I really can’t tell what he is thinking most of the time & till now I thought it was one -sided.
But ur remark made me think that maybe itz the same for him too. It would really help me if u can tell me what qualities of ur aries girl drive u crazy.
it would also be appreciated if any aquarian guy can throw light on what qualities do u guys find attractive & unattractive about aries girl.
Another thing that itz quite nice to know u guys have lasted 5 years. My relship is just a few months old & some times whether itz going anywhere or not. It at times feel like we r stuck in the friendship mode only. was that the case with u guys also? Like was the starting cautious or fast?
I would also the viewpoint of any other aries-aquarius couple, specifically about how do u take the relationship to a more intimate level.
September 30th, 2009 at 6:39 pm
Oh dear…I’m Quiet confused, A sweet Aries man wants to marry me, he feels he’s ready, saying he truelly loves me, but i am scared becouse i know that arians always feel ready even if they arnt really..and they have a reputation for giving in for love too easily, so how can I know if he really wants to marry me and stay loyal or is it just an impulse he had so that he can keep me with him for a while? he had to travle to asia for studies, but he asked me if it was possible to take the big step and come with him there…
Its a decision that would cost me everything, as my background and culture doenst give second chances to married or divorced women….
simply asking for an eldery advice.
October 11th, 2009 at 1:32 am
oh my gosh. So true!
I’m an Aquarius girl and my boyfriend is an Aries. We started off as friends and then finally started dating. We get along really well and always have great times together being silly. We do have arguments but they are always cleared up quickly.
One weird thing i noticed is that my 2 closest friends, excluding my bf, are Aries and we’ve been good friends for about 9 years. =) Looks like Aries and Aquarius are meant to be, on every level! Haha =)
October 30th, 2009 at 9:19 am
to talia
aries loooves control right?
Yeah its true, My cousins are both aries and i get along with them! But i read that aquarius aries relationships are better left on friendship i dunno why, even though they are good mach, aquarius can get on arie’s nerves when they get too spontaneous
December 9th, 2009 at 5:14 am
I have a few close male friends who are Aquarius and my father is an Aquarius man (which makes me want to look for a hubby just like my father cause he’s seriously the best despite he’s my dad). I’ve never had one AQUA bf in my life but two Scorpios and one Leos.
So this Aquarius guy is trying to make me his girlfriend. Well he’s cute and handsome but his appearance, his profession (hairstylist) give me some insecure feelings and he is so much younger than me. How we met is sort of ironic. I tried to deny the fact that I find something in him that makes me think that we have something in common. Something that is unexplainable.
On the other hand, I’m a popular Aries and I attract attention (I don’t want that kind of attention but it just happens) Wherever I go/whoever I meet, they would give me compliments like you’re unique and you’re beautiful. I would like people to see what’s inside of me. I would like people to see who I am.
So he gave me hints that he wanted me to be his girl. I acted silly and took them as jokes. He tried to flirt with me through sms about giving me a peck but I never did. I barely know him and gosh, he’s really shy. I never expected him to be that shy, seriously. So I finally showed up on our first date with his friends. So after a couple of beers, he started acting like a little child, and trying to hold my left hand.. (sneaky - kind of cute) So I was a bit tipsy and he kept on hushing me to give him a kiss on his face. SO i gave in cause I wanted to shut him up. I gave him kisses on his face twice. Then, I gave him excuses that I might be a les, I might be a player and etc but he said he wouldn’t believe in what I said. I was like in a dilemma - whether I should be honest with him or I want him to leave. Then suddenly he just turned me around and hugged me so tight that made me feel so awkward. It gave me strange feelings at first but later on I gave in cause it made me feel good and safe? Or maybe it’s because of the beer which I had?
Then we went to his house because I didn’t want his friends to send me home (refused to let any other guys to know where my home is) for my own safety and I wanted him to send me home. :)He’s not a good drinker at all! He lied down on his bed and feeling dizzy (promised that he would send me home within 20 mins) so I covered him up with blanket as I was afraid he might get a cold or something but he was kind of cute in a way that made me want to adore him. Suddenly he got up and hugged me so tight and he french kissed me thrice. First two times, I was unprepared but the third time I did respond then pushed him away telling him that “I need to go home now and blalala..” Then he hugged me again so tight telling me to let him hug for a while - pretending to be his girlfriend so I did. I was overreacted because I was panicked with these mixed feelings. I tried to resist him. He asked me to trust him and etc but I gave him excuses because I was in fear that I could have fallen for him if I stayed longer. He said I broke his heart and he was upset. He said there might be a lot of reasons why I did not want to give in and he said he would be fine if I just want to be his friend. Then he piggyback me downstair and sent me home. I teased him whether he is afraid that I might be fooling around. He said he started to feel scared of my games.
As Aries, we tend to be naughty and playful in a way but in the end it causes backfire. By the time, I realized that I kind of like him, he left because I already gave him the impression that I rejected him and I can tell that he is unhappy with his feelings for me. Well I wanted to tell him how I feel about him and tried to explain but he didn’t want to give me a chance and he took it wrong way. Now he said, “let’s just be friends” (in a bitter way). Well it’s my fault after all and trying to move on. Lesson learned.
December 18th, 2009 at 5:08 pm
So here is a first…
I’m an Aqua male who is interested in an Aries gal. Tonight is our first date.
I don’t know what it is about her, but there is something that is a real pull for me… she’s smart, funny, attractive… the total package.
I’ve done a natal chart for both of us, but need some help with the compatibility aspect… can anyone help?
My chart is accurate, down to time of birth and lat/long.
Heres is approximate on time of birth.
My chart:
Rising sign 19* Taurus
Sun is 28* Aquarius
Moon 12* Libra
Mercury 23* Aquarius
Venus 26* Capricorn
Mars 00* Aries
Jupiter 0* Virgo
Saturn 9* Aries
Uranus 28* Virgo
Neptune 26* Scorpio
Pluto 22* Virgo
N. Node 19* Aries
Her chart:
Rising sign 9* Leo
Sun 28* Aries
Moon 1* Taurus
Mercury 14* Taurus
Venus 9* Aries
Mars 23* Pisces
Jupiter 3* Genini
Saturn 10* Leo
Uranus 10* Scorpio
Neptune 15* Sagittarius
Pluto 12* Libra
N. Node 24* Libra
Any help would be greatly appreciated.
December 19th, 2009 at 8:40 am
I’m not crazy about Arians and probably wouldn’t trust one again in a relationship. They want a CONSTANT fling- if they get bored, they’re out the door. ): I would want a more dependable partner- someone who would truly be my friend and be there through thick and thin. But I would also want a lot of space and understanding. My ex was impatient and bossy, always creating drama where there really was none. If you get on their bad side, they will sting you indefinitely and go behind your back. They also get very jeallous- again creating drama over nothing. ): I am not exaggerating in the slightest when I say that my ex was jeallous of my cats. My ex would bad-mouth them all the time, and would get hurt feelings all the time because they were afraid of h
I really resent my ex for blamming me for a lot of crap that was not even my fault. I hope other Arians aren’t this immature.
January 5th, 2010 at 6:56 am
I am an Aries girl and I dated an Aquarius for 2.5 years. The first 6 months were great! We had so much fun together and I was instantly attracted to him. I couldn’t get enough of him! But after the 6 months he turned into a totally different person. He would constantly play mind fuck you games and always say things to make me feel like a piece of shit (and he liked it and I feel for it every time). Another thing that pissed me off was that he didn’t trusted me from the start, always asking me twenty questions. It got to the point where I shut out everyone I cared about and loved just to keep him happy. I was miserable.
So I finally couldn’t take it any longer; we split up and as weird as it seems we left each other on very good terms. We went without a year of speaking and I ran into him recently. We talked for hours about the places we had been and things that we had done. It was like the same man I dated the first 6 months. He has called a few times and is planing to come visit me. This scares me but in the same sense I really want to see him. I have read the comments above and it seems in my relationship we played opposite roles (Aries being controlling). Has any other Aries women had this issue? Any insight? Aquarius men what do you think?
January 20th, 2010 at 5:43 pm
Marie,
Actually, I’ve found that we Aries may be controlling but we’re at least obvious about it.
ie/ domineering
The far more aggravating part is being controlled by manipulative people, not domineering ones, though both are obviously irritating.
I’ve found these signs to TYPICALLY be most frequently guilty of being manipulative:
- Scorpios
- Aquarius
- Libra
- Pisces
- Capricorn
- Leo/Virgo cusps
(they also tend to say outright lies when not cornered)
I’ve found these signs to TYPICALLY be most frequently guilty of being domineering:
- Aries
- Sagittarius
- Gemini
- Capricorn
- Pisces/Aries cusps
(we also tend to avoid sharing truth when cornered, otherwise we typically won’t shut up about truth;)
…note, I did NOT categorize based on POSITIVE/STRENGTH predispositions.
January 22nd, 2010 at 9:39 am
So im an aquarian male, i hate attachment but iv grown fond of an aries girl at my school over the winter term and we became a lil bit more then friends but not quite in the boyfriend girl friend range. sense my last relationship i guess iv just felt why waste the time shit i even gave up sex for the most of that time, but when this girl came around she brought my drive back and brought up some feelings that i have not seen from my self in years BUT she is matching alot of the discription you all have been talking about with aries and sex witch means idk if i really wanna put any effort it to letting it go any further then where its at…..lol you guys all scared me while ive been suching around the web all night lookin for some kinda sign or answer so some one please give me somthing to work with, i care for this girl but i dont wanna go thru the whole love and heart break shit again but i dont wanna miss out if it could be something real. im sick of being alone but iv been doing it so long its not like ill be any worse off if i stay that way…..HELP SOMEONE!!!!!
January 27th, 2010 at 10:25 pm
OMG MY BEST FRIEND IS A GUY AND HES AN ARIES AND I LIKE HIM BUT IDK IF HE LIKES ME IM AFRAID WEWLL JUST GO OUT FOR THE FUN AND THEN BREAK UP BUT WILL ALWAYS HAVE FEELING FOR EACHOTHER
January 28th, 2010 at 4:46 am
Hi Chadwick,
As an Aries girl I say go for it! If the girl you are liking was not interested in you she would have already hauled ass by now (what almost all Aries girls do). Even if you let her know you are interested and she is not, she will defiantly tell you. And as hard as it seems us Aries girls can be very loyal. Plus Aries and Aquarius are very compatible (I know from experience) and will have a tons of fun together. I loved the in depth conversations we used have or the spontaneous things we used to do. So get on with it already.
January 28th, 2010 at 5:37 pm
Thank you Taylor thats the kinda help iv been looking for. I will see her in class tonight so i guess thats talk time haha, we will see what happens ill get back to yall a bit later and let you know where things went.
February 28th, 2010 at 6:44 am
hi. i wanted to ask this to an aries married guy. me & my husbsnd married 7 months ago our sex was great before so hot. but now i can see that he really change. he always. come up with his excuses that hes tired and stressed. he dont wanna have anything with me i guess. we dont have sex almost 15 days. we never take this long. is it thru. when u guys are tired and stressed u cnat have sex???? im aqua woman
guys how is your realationship with aquarius???
March 13th, 2010 at 10:01 am
im an aries girl who has been quarted by an aquarian a time to many…i have recieved the cold shoulder and they always breakup w me….and yet another aquarian comes along wanting to be in a relationship. I don’t know if I can handle another rejection. Yet i am still drawn to them as well. I need help!
March 14th, 2010 at 8:22 am
I am an Aries as well. Wow this is creepy! It’s like your reading my mind. I am not currently with an Aquarius but my ex was, it seemed like he could see right into my soul. He knew everything I was thinking even before I could understand it. Then he suddenly turned cold broke down into tears. He said he loved me but couldn’t be with me because his parents thought I was more trouble than I was worth. Well they threatened to kick him out and he quit talking to me period! Even as a friend! It has been a little over a year now and I still can’t get him out of my mind. What’s worse is that Aquarius’s keep trying to date me. They all remind me to much of him and I can’t bear to know this could happen again. Plus! I’m w someone. It’s good but I still feel like a part of me is missing…These feelings are almost unbearable to ignore. The Aquarius and Aries relationship seems like a connection that is unmatched by any other. It’s un-escapable! What should I do?…Is it worth letting another Aquarius into my life? I need advice! I also want to know what about an Aries draws you in and makes u wanna stay there?….Advice from an Aquarius male please.
March 31st, 2010 at 6:28 am
I (the Aries) talked before about my relationship with my aquarian man. Then it was just a few months old but now it’s almost a year. And I must say even now I can’t get enough of my man. Since that time we are so much closer, love one another’s ways, communicate well and have had so much fun together. We do things together that both interest and excite one another. I find that when we are open and honest with what we want but careful in the ways to express it things work for us - even in disagreeing which is; not much. However, we always work it out without quarreling. Now, that refreshing! In the bed he is both loving and gentle but each time I am excited with his ways of making it interesting and different. I love him very much and he says he loves me as well. The aquarian man may start alittle slow (at first) but will soon open up and show you just what he’s made of if he consider you right for him. Who says they can’t show emotions - they were wrong. He’s very deep with them. Only he is cautious and safe. Just give it time.
No one has ever made me feel this way before. Like I’m special and that I matter. He listens to me and just wants to help me without being demanding or controlling. We Aries hate that! We love a challenge, so if you are too easy or too distant we lose interest. We can at times hold back some information we believe could bring trouble or stress (which we hate also). If you make us comfitable and safe as well as be patient - we will tell you anything you want to know. Both the Aquarians and Arians love time apart but it’s only to regroup, organize our throughts and pursue other interest (not other partners). Know this, it doesn’t mean we are interested in someone else or that we don’t love you when we’re away. Only give space to us when we want it and we shall return with far more love for you. Just be supportive. On the other hand, there must be equal time together. When you come together be very focus on each other and a private intimate time. Make plans and explain what you will do apart and together. These things make us stable. Be open and ready for anything and watch the sparks fly. Aries are quick to love because we are so passionate and emotional but very real, loyal and devoted. But remember, there are different levels to us all.
I hope all this information has been helpful to all those who are seek answers. This information has worked for me. I can’t say it was all easy but in time it will come to be comfitable. It’s a good match for me. The Best.
April 22nd, 2010 at 5:51 am
Aries male here: 47 All the learning about selfish tendencies, the aries male tendancy to seem (may I say seem instead of ‘be’) bossy they haven’t helped me feel utterly misunderstood with my beautiful Aquarian lady. You know, a man’s ego a fragile thing, and yes, needy in emotional connection. The Aquarian love, wonderfully cheerful, outgoing, humourous and generous to a fault. Oh did I mention idealist?. The big thing I have found is that your Areies man knows what he wants, and needs, and just can’t fathom telling that to the Aquarian and be ignored. She knows she adores him and loves him, and just fails to tell him what she is thinking. Even when asked (cause she doesn’t like to feel pressed upon for her privacy)…He should learn to know it’s all good cause he’s already on her pillow, she should learn to invite him and cajole him to that place - not take it for granted because it feels so safe and perfect to her…Sigh….however hard I try, I can’t get through the sense of needing to hear I am loved and wonderful, and I know that is ridiculous at my place in life. Hope it helps you in some small way. But only for the Highest Good.
May 4th, 2010 at 9:30 am
Hi, I’m a 16 year old Arian. (female) I’ve dated alot of guys and it seems like I have no romantic/love/excitement feelings towards a guy anymore like I used to when I was younger, no butterflies n such and it’s boring lol =S.. And I’ve been single for a year. So I like this 18 year old guy, he’s an Aquarian. I like him because he’s very handsome, stays in school, plays hockey, and is drug free. We started talking well texting haha.. And I asked him to go on a date which is to watch a movie and I’m stressing over it almost. I’m worried if he will think I’m boring or quiet.. Or not interesting.. I hate thinking negative, I can’t find ways to make myself thing positive.. It’s like I’m trying too hard to make people to like me.. I want this guy to see who I really am but it’s like I’m afraid to show. Oh I am a very attractive person though incase if ur wondering lol i’m actually really popular where I’m from and people say I’m beautiful and that I look like Rihanna, but i don’t have the confidence to believe em. People think I have alot of friends when I actually don’t have much. I’m jus.. I don’t know, I think too much!! I wanna be out going again and funny and weird like I used to be.. My mind is taking over
June 3rd, 2010 at 7:26 pm
Aries men wants to try a threesome with his wife whos married last year.
you think its normal?? Im kind of hurt. I dont know witch why should i understand.
1. he thinks naughty about me thats why he wants to try it.
2. hes not satisfied, hes bored???
Please help,
is any aries men try threesome with his wife or he will try in future?? i mean is it normal
for you guys???
August 13th, 2010 at 2:14 pm
Aquarian woman beware! i have an aries (boy) friend, he does nothing but lie to his girlfriend. he even goes around taking bets and tries to sleep around with other girls when she is not around! he has actually taken a girl to sleep with her while he was committed to the Aquarian girl!
he blackmails her emotionally and always tries to get physical with her in public places where she gets uncomfortable. he borrows money to buy her stuff and lies to her when asked where he gets money from? no only that there entire life is based on showing off! and that girl is very simple…i feel sorry for her!
this guy is the biggest player i have seen till date and his lines are so taken out from various movies!
plz, dont be a fool! check him out! he lies all the time!
August 23rd, 2010 at 8:41 am
Hi Im a 22 year old female aquarian. Not all Aries men are the same. I was with my guy (Aries) from 8th grade up until highschool. I moved we continued a long distance relationship however he admitted it kills him to not be able to see me. I love him dearly and sure we both have moved on but I can say that he has never disrespected me nor cheated while we were together. The jealousy part is true. He would see other guys in my personal space and instantly felt like I was seeking attention from them. Which later escalated to a minor dispute,nights of pillows filled with tears. I can honestly say this: He has a special place in my heart.
August 23rd, 2010 at 8:54 am
So after time moved on I happen to meet another Aries,make that 2. One guy happened to be attracted to me but everytime I felt like he was only worried about sex I would change the subject. He was into sexting and the minute I told him No, that was it. But something mysteriously about him keeps me thinking about him. I can’t stop even though it’s been like a month. Im a little infatuated but he is not even trying to look at me in that way. Like someone else mentioned: quick flings. I am not that type so I guess he thought I was wasting his time. My new guy found out who he was an threatened him. Boy was that the wrong thing to do. He gave him a location and told him he would pick him up anyway. How crazy right? Fast forward to the other Aries guy. He was into roleplaying alot and always wanted me to pretend Im a 14year old daughter. It creeped me out literally that I blocked all communication with him.
September 28th, 2010 at 5:36 pm
i am an aquarius fem ,been with my aries man a year & a half … omg any one who enters this be prepaired for tantrums mind games trying to be controlled do not ever speak inoccently about things with friends or that youve done in your past because it will never leave there mind . they wont wont you hanging around your best friends if it involves them … they are very jealous men at times mine didint want me talking to my male & female friends yet its ok for him to talk to his female friends.. yes i know not very fair at all .. at the start expect alot ov break ups over petty crap . hes very hot & cold at the start there will probally always be soe days when you cant figure out whats going on in that mind. i didnt think my relationship would last any longer than 3 months but here we are . and i have wanted to leave so many times but we have such a strong connection it still facinates me to know how it works but also i do love him regardless ov all our bad points but i guess thats what love is about as no one perfect. there is alot of good points he treats me with so much respect in other ways its really very sweet im not aloud to pay for anything needed for or wanted anything, as hes point of view is hes the man & thats how things should be . weve never had a nasty break up when we have and he will never give up on the relationship once you’ve caught him hes very passionate about trying to fix our problems instead of giving up unlike most men ive ever been with. hes very open with his feelings and still tells me he loves me every day . does pretty much anything i ask, and there is ways around those bad sides of him simpilly make it seem like its hes idea even if you agree at first “manipulate the manipulator” i dont like doing that i dont like not getting my own way either lol however they like games to an extent so i guess its harmless after all im just doing wat he likes .”yes sounds like im very twisted iknow its just thinking outsde the box” we get along great when where not arguing i enjoy being treated like a lady & being pampered he ejoys the compliments my dark side i turns him on i fuel his fire . ipprantley im crazy & need a few phsyciatrsts according to him. haha we do joke alot its all in good fun i enjoy his cheap shots also he says im very unpredictabul i like the fact he still cant work me out the whole mystery thing keeps him on his toes. as i mentioned earlier our connection “that being little things ” like hes called me up at two in the morning asking me why is my face wet amazing how he knew i was crying ? when i questioned him he jus said he could feel that “my face was wet” little things like that & ive done the same with him its really wierd witch makes it even harder when we want to walk away……….
OVER ALL I HIGHLY DOUBT ALL ARIES MEN THIS IS JUST MY EXPRIENCE AND LIKE ANYONE THEY HAVE GOOD & BAD SO TRY MAKE YOUR OWN JUDGEMENT AND IF THIS FITS YOUR ARIES MAN WELL THEN I HOPE IT HELPS XOXOX
November 9th, 2010 at 11:22 pm
I am an Aquarius woman dating an Aries man, and he’s completely altered my opinion of love. Last year I didn’t believe in it, I was so logical and capable of distancing myself from such emotion, I laughed at people who claimed they were “in love” but now?
He told me he loved me, had loved me for a long time, and when I said I loved it back, it felt like such a relief. Like a big pressure had been released from me.
Saying I love you to him brings one of the greatest feelings in the world. We argue yes, we annoy one another, but he’s so tender and loving,and the sex side is amazing. But of all the things he has a great personality, great intellect. He may be “self-absorbed” as they are commonly thought to be, whilst I’m the opposite and live in a dreamland, but it works.
But love, to this particular Aquarian, is the scariest thing, I don’t want my heart broken and often I feel like running away from all this emotion and ending it,so i won’t have to deal with it anymore, but I can’t. Silly Aquarian in love.
November 9th, 2010 at 11:25 pm
*loved him back
spelling mistake I promise! haha
February 7th, 2011 at 11:01 am
I must agree with Tanya completely. I’m Aquarius and the guy I’ve been dating almost a year is an Aries (also so many times I just wanted to “call a quit” and walk away from the relationship, but every time we just sat down and discussed with hours over the problems) He can be very mysterious,*self-absorbed and sometimes he loves talking and narrating stories from his past.
He hates questions when I find out something he tried to hide from me and needs like 15min to answer me… During those 15min or more, just be patient, cause in the end he will tell you everything you NEED to know, but not everything you WANT to know. Try not to get suspicious cause that annoys every man and I think excess of jealousy will destroy the relationship.
Another thing that annoys me is that sometimes I think that he wants to protect his privacy and keep it just for himself (ok,maybe i’m overreacting,that’s why is called privacy) but on other hand he becomes very jealous and in strange mood when i tell him that i wanna go out just with my friends or when he sees that i’m texting messages. Somewhere I read that Aries man wants to protect his privacy utmost,enjoying his army of lovers, but on the other hand controls his partner’s privacy.
In the end, he loves my surprises,my crazy moods,my adventurous soul (he also jokes sometimes that I need psychiatric) and I love that he pleases me every time, that he puts my wishes on the first place,love his sense of humor, the way he makes up nicknames for me…
I still am very much afraid that one day he will hurt me,that i will find out that all the time he cheated on me… But as they say “truth is, everybody is going to hurt you. You just gotta find the ones worth suffering for”
I haven’t told him yet how much I love him and I noticed that for so many things he waits for me to say/do them first… And when I say/do them he will just tell me: why didn’t you tell/do that till now
I wish to all the Aquarius women to just enjoy with their Aries partner and explore him from his highest north to his lowest south
February 7th, 2011 at 11:04 am
*psychiatrist* sorry
February 8th, 2011 at 1:56 pm
Ok, so im an Aquarian woman.
I find that i generally get bored of any guy when nothing happens right in the beginning. I tend not to waste my time on something that i know isnt going to happen. Its been the constent practice all through my life. ive never been in love, and i think its a bit of a fairy tale. Anyway, there is this guy, and he is Aries. Its been the most draining, exciting and anxious year and half ive ever had. Its like being on a rollercoaster. I cant seem to work him out, one day he’s hot one days he’s cold…he’s extremely flirty with me, but cant seem to find the courage to tell me how he feels, and i know he likes me, and he knows i like him. like i said previously, normally i’d throw my hands up in defeat and would of walked away at least a year ago. but he keeps me so intrigued. There is definitly something about the Aquarius-Aries dynamic. I just hope my intuition or whatever it is that is keeping me interested and reluctant to let him go is right. or im going to be seriously annoyed.
April 8th, 2011 at 3:32 am
anyone want to tell me what to do when it comes to a “shy” Aries man? I’m an Aquarius woman of course. I am so very into him. but i can’t seem to talk to him. But when I see him or think about him, my hormones are out of control. I think he wants to talk too, but I may be intimidating him since I’m sort of loud and stand out. we talked once at a gathering and i’m pretty sure i made him nervous. i am trying to get him to make eye contact so that I can say hello cuz that’s what I do, but he shies away and looks down or looks away. It’s getting ridiculous and I don’t want to just jump into his bubble. I used to be very shy and hated when someone approached me.
December 29th, 2011 at 8:03 pm
As an Aquarian lady I’ve been with my Aries lover for only 4 months now, but we have been best friends for over a year. (In fact, all my best friends are Aries now that I think of it. They all have this unorthodox sense of humour and are very dependable.) Anyway - my boyfriend is just wonderful. Very masculine in an old-fashioned way à la Rhett Butler haha. Protective, blunt, enthusiastic, dependable and great in bed. Yeah, I love him a lot.