Aquarius Compatibility With Taurus |
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Aquarius And Taurus
This pair will go quite well, for a short amount of time. The compatibility between these two is limited due to their totally different ways of approaching life. The Taurus can suffer from jealousy, to be fair a lot of us can suffer with the green eyed monster, but you see, not the Aquarius. They don’t do jealousy or confinement. An Aquarius lover will happily let their Taurus partner go out for the night without any questioning on their return other than “did you have a good time?” This can lead to frustration on the part of the Taurus as they may feel their Aquarius doesn’t care.
It’s the fact that these two are both unconventional types of people that may hold them together a bit longer than if they were not. However, to make this work, their need’s to be a lot of understanding. Both Taurus and Aquarius are set in their ways. Well, actually the Aquarius just believes that he/she is right in every situation and also has no faults, (that is their opinion may I add), whereas the Taurus DOES have the capacity to change a little, but probably won’t. What’s the word I’m looking for? oh that’s it, they are both annoyingly STUBBORN!!!
I have known a lot of couples in my time, but actually never one that combines both of these signs. I’m sure it does happen but the prognosis isn’t good. They will probably meet and recognise almost instantly that they are not suited in love. Friendship, though, is always a good place to be with either of these two. Plus, if you are a Taurus who has some strong feeling for an Aquarius, I may add that Aquarius’s make ideal friends, who will ALWAYS be there if you need them. Perhaps the better choice for you my lovely Taurus.
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January 20th, 2008 at 9:34 am
Hi
Considering this purely from a Sun sign perspective you are probably correct. However, I know from personal experience that some Sun Aquarians and some Sun Taureans can be a good match. I lived happily for 33 years with a Sun Taurus, until he died. (I am Sun Aquarian). We had disagreements and a few serious ones - but so do all couples.
Such a lot depends on the rest of the chart - Mercury, Venus, Moon, ascendant.
Many Sun Taureans have planets in Gemini which help compatibility with Aquarius. An Aquarius, Gemini, or Libra Moon too would help, as would Moon or ascendant in a Fire sign. There are so many possibilities.
I think it’s a shame to discount a potentially loving relationship on Sun sign alone.
It’s true that not all Sun Taureans would get along with all Aquarians. In my own case the ruler of my Sun, Uranus is in Taurus, which may have been very significant, and I suspect he had Aries ascending which matched my own Aries Moon.
January 21st, 2008 at 2:04 am
Yes I agree! The rest of the chart is of the upmost importance. And of course any sign has the capacity to have a good relationship..it’s just that the chances of it being an “easier than average” one is different I think. However, you obviously formed a huge bond with your partner and you both made it work. I will be writing about the other planets and their affect’s but I had to start somewhere
I’m glad you wrote your opinion, after all that is what it is all about.
Very sorry for your loss.
Love & Light
Becky
April 22nd, 2008 at 6:31 am
I don’t even know if I will get a response to this but I am a sun taurus woman and just got out of a unexpectedly “short” relationship with a sun aquarius man. I think u hit home on them. My story is somewhat long but to make it short…the aqua knew I wasn’t interested in him (mostly because of past relationship issues), I didn’t want anything to do with him especially since he planned on moving out of state, I said we can be friends to him cuz distance won’t work…but oh no…he was so convinced he’d prove me wrong and it would work…somehow with his constant pursuing, reassurance with actions that matched his words, and intelligence…I opened up and let him in and my guard dropped. He was soooo infatuated so in love and even said he loved me just to become a coldhearted distant short with words baffoon…he is VERY STUBBORN, is ALWAYS right even when he KNOWS for a fact he’s wrong, and me as a taurus can be just as stubborn so talkin to him and he to I was like 2 bricks facing each other. I’m willing to compromise but mr.aqua wouldn’t compromise if it saved his life. If I mention anything emotional even now, NO RESPONSE..DEAD SILENCE..NADA! I now know it was all MIND GAMES… 2 bad for me I now have to try to get over this otherwise perfect gentleman that entered n2 my life….in summation TAURUS+AQUARIUS= NOOOO DON’T DO IT! MAYDAY! HOUSTON WE HAVE A PROBLEM…u get my drift…good!
April 22nd, 2008 at 9:11 am
Hi there Solost!
Thanks for your comment. Yes, people have a lot of problems with the Aquarius males..have you read my post about them? I agree with everything you say, except the mind games bit. I don’t believe they play mind games they just seem like they do, but they really don’t. It takes a lot of patience and compromise to be with one of these guys..(I have one myself) The “ALWAYS RIGHT” part is bang on the money..it’s very frustrating I agree. And no they hate to show how they feel, or rather, can’t. And find it most confusing when people ask them to explain themselves. Bless. Go get yourself another Earth sign or perhaps try a Water sign, far more suited to you Miss Taurus.
Love & Light
Becky
May 16th, 2008 at 12:56 am
hi,
I am an aquawoman and I just got out of a relationship with a taurus and I have to say that our relationship was actually very solid. He was stubborn but at the same time incredibly understanding: He knew that some days I liked to be by myself and in general he gave me a lot of leeway which was perfect because I do not like to feel like I’m tied down. The only thing I found particularly challenging was that he was very passive and did not like change while i on the other hand thrive on debate. So I felt like a very important, argumentative, intellectual aspect of me was constantly being suppressed. The relationship can be very fun and if both people are somewhat reasonable it is actually a good match. It might have helped that we are both year of the horse but yeah, just thought I’d share for anybody who’s looking at an aqua/taurus match.
September 3rd, 2008 at 9:04 am
hi,
I jus got engaged to a taurean man, and being an aquarian this page has increased my apprehensions about the whole thing. i know that i love my freedom and yes, i do want to be alone at times. But do you think that a relationship will depend so much on the zodiac that u are born under? i am a muslim, and we dont believe in astrology as such. its an arranged marriage scenario, so now we are getting to know each other. you have scared me about his possessiveness! so far hes been giving me all the space i need, and in a lot of ways he is giving me more freedom than what my parents gave me. sometimes i feel that he is a bit disinterested, although it should have been the other way round. i am shy by nature and he understands that and gives me time to open up to him. i hope its not as bad as you say.
September 3rd, 2008 at 7:52 pm
Hey
Mehreen, I am muslim and an aqua girl as yourself, and its true that we dont believe in such things as natal charts, predictions, and zodiac compatibilities, But personalities and trats are totaly different. It only helps You understand the person before You, in a way You’d never think of. For instance if he does anything unusual in your relationship You can find the answer by looking up his taurus persona. Arranged marriages are a littel risky since You dont completley know each other, reading about his and your personality might help You when no one else can.
Isn’t it why professionals write these detailed personality pages, to help understand and not judge?. Personally I am grateful that there are so many websites such as this one, its like a guidebook to understanding people in a general level. It helped me for sure with My own relationship with my pisces.
You cant deny that the resemblence between people’s behaviours that are born under the same month are becouse of the shared zodiac sign, thus the same principles and same aspirations and moodswings,not to mention the moments where You think they are acting weird not knowing its their zodiac influences. As aly pointed out its not only the sun sign or the natal chart. There are other infulences such as enviournment and cultural differences that might give a twist in people’s personalities, so Your aqua-taurus relationship might work out fine since he’s understanding with You about ur freedom.
Wish You all the best.
November 1st, 2008 at 10:53 am
I get along very well with my best friend Valerie. She’s a bull. And I was surpise when they say Taurus and Aquarius is a hard one. My friend and I been friends since 9th grade and we are in our mid twenties. We understand that we are different and that is ok with us. She understands me, and I understand her. And what great about our relationship is our differences. Even though we are day and night on some subjects, personality. For exsmaple: I can come across really cold and detach. And she can be all wrapped up with her feelings. Which annoys me sometimes, because problems that were not her problems to begin with, are her problems, because she gets invovled. And that worries me and she knows that. We are also the same in many ways.
I will admit, I wish she take the lead sometimes. In our relationship she follows my lead all the time. Or it hard for her to make desicon, where it takes me no time at all. I’ll ask her “What do you want to do?” and she’ll answer “I don’t care. Whatever you want to do.” I like to do some of the things that she would like to do sometimes, but she nevers knows what she wants to do.
November 1st, 2008 at 11:13 am
To Mehreen YOU CANNOT basic your relationship on star signs. The important things in a relationship of any kind. You need to understand each other and their differences. If you have hard time understanding or comping with their differences the relationship will not work. One must accpet each other’s makeup. And you need to COMMUCATE well with them, if you can’t do that, there cannot be a relationship.
So even though it says for exsmaple “Aries and Aquarius get along” Doesn’t mean their going to get along. Everyone, of every sign acts differently. For me I get along with people who are level-headed, forcus, know who they are, down to earth, are mature, strong willed, intense. I rarely get along with losers, people who are immature, weak. Drive me away.
It depends on do they share the same makeup as you, live by the same rules as you do, can both of you handel each other differences.
I have friend who lives in Germany, we get along. But what he hates about me. Is that I am so unperidiable, he over analzies trying to understand me, and that drives me mad, but we can still be friends. Because I tolorate his over anazying, because I have accepted that he is the way he is, and I can’t change him. As he cannot change me. (Even though he tries really hard to mole me into his version what I should be) But it doesn’t work, for I will stand my ground and put him in his place. (Which is kinda funny, because he is 50 years old and I am in my twenties.:p )
It depends if you can give and take with one another.
November 29th, 2008 at 10:27 pm
Hey Becky,
Aqua male here!
I frimly agree with all of your thoughts.
I beleive in astro stuff as well.
Inspite of all the differences I really want to work out with taurean on long run.
Today I went for it; Started with a bull girl.
Yes i agree, i am stubborn;
Yes i agree, i am detached;
Yes i agree, i am a freak;
Yes i agree, i am superficial and things much more;
But, has anyone looked closely through my heart?
I have my part of imperfections just as you do.
Yes I do, I am just a human!
Just like you!
I am willing to sacrifice some of the things not liked by taurean for me being aqua.
How to make this work?
Suggestions please?
Regards,
Sam
November 29th, 2008 at 11:03 pm
To Sam: You just met this girl right, and you want something more?
If you just met each other. Take things slow, if you go to her, take a step back and have her come to you. Don’t let your emotions overwelm you, or you might just scared her off. Have your emotions in check and don’t let them blind you either. As with you, you are just learning about each other.
How to make this works, depends on the girl and well you can handel the parts of her that really annoy you. And the same will be with her. If you can accept each other for your differences, it will work out.
December 13th, 2008 at 5:40 am
Yes i agree, i am feeling soul heart miss him
Yes i agree, i am romantic
Yes i agree, i am in love with him
Yes i agree, Iam “married” sure …..
yes I agree, Iwant wish my wedding last happily .. I hope me … please help me
December 13th, 2008 at 5:49 am
Aqua women here!
Yes i agree, i am feeling soul heart miss him
Yes i agree, i am romantic
Yes i agree, i am in love with him
Yes i agree, Iam “married” sure …..
yes I agree, Iwant wish my wedding last happily .. I hope me … pls ask me … Iwant date with him actor ….crush love taurean man …. pls giving me love ..Aqua women crush love taurean man actor this year 2009??
please
December 13th, 2008 at 5:50 am
if I’m glad you
December 13th, 2008 at 5:51 am
Aqua women
I wish she take the lead sometimes. In our relationship him follows
December 13th, 2008 at 5:53 am
yes agree like him
December 19th, 2008 at 11:00 pm
Hi Taurus male with great Aqua female! Works great has been for years, and more to come, we’re getting married. The long and short, we are from different cultures and we are both exceptional in our educations, professional, and creative lives. I am extremely stubborn and pragmatic-she comes from a communist country, seems to work because of that. Big Plus is the LOVE and the LOVE MAKING (Wild). We are very happy but have conflicts often. However with each conflict we get closer and better off. We are both very flexible so that helps. We are also competitive fighters so we spar often that probably helps-by the way she’s a good fighter and catches me off guard pretty often (ie. she can kick my ass).
December 20th, 2008 at 1:53 am
It makes me sad that Taurus women and Aquarius men do get along in matters of the heart. Some of my most memorable loves have been Aquarius. That being said it is true. We are not a good pair. For instance the Aquarius man that I was dating was very infatuated with me in the beginning of our relationship. However, as time passed he became disenchanted. According to him I was nice but not very fun or talkative. Go figure lol. I’ve never felt so judged or unsure of myself in my life. We are still friendly, because as everyone knows Aquarius men value friendship. But it is still awkward. At least on my part. Aquarius individuals are awesome. They posses every trait I wish I could have but……they are not good partners for me
December 20th, 2008 at 1:55 am
I apologize for that avi. That was done a long time ago and I’m not quite sure how to get rid of it.
January 21st, 2009 at 5:47 am
yes. im aquarius women inl ove with taurus man . great good romantic
January 21st, 2009 at 5:49 am
but so do all couples.
January 21st, 2009 at 5:06 pm
Yes i agree, i am feeling soul heart miss him
Yes i agree, i am romantic
Yes i agree, i am in love with him
Yes i agree, Iam “married” sure …..
yes I agree, Iwant wish my wedding last happily .. I hope me … please help me
January 21st, 2009 at 5:11 pm
yes agree like him. im really like much love him
January 21st, 2009 at 5:23 pm
I am an aquawoman and I just got out of a relationship with a taurus and I have to say that our relationship was actually very solid.
yes agree
forever lover Taurus.
February 4th, 2009 at 9:56 am
I’m an aquarian and I have always been in love with a taurean female, its the little things she does that made me notice her, we used to date back in college but unfortunately things didn’t work out because I must admit I was crazy and confused back then, I was unsure of how she felt towards me because it was very hard for me to read her mind and then one day I just gave up and walked away just so I won’t hurt her and I felt like I didn’t deserve her at all. Last week after a year of not hearing from her, we saw each other again at a reunion and there she was, i smiled across the table and made eye contact to acknowledge that she’s there, deep inside I wanted to hug and kiss her and tell her that I fixed my life for her, she smiled back and we kept looking at each other, I could feel that she wanted to talk to me too, by the time my friends and I went to another place she sat beside me and initiated a conversation, my friends were teasing us that we belong together but I came off as distant. I couldn’t show or tell her how I felt. Anyway, i’m going to have my birthday celebration next week. I invited her, Any advice on what I should say or do? I want her real bad.
March 8th, 2009 at 10:44 am
I’m aquarian (unsure of sunsign or not) and met briefly with a Taurean (unsure of sunsign etc)
I have to say, that the outline given is PRECISE … He fits to a T the taurean aspects and be it friendship…whatever… it did not end well. The pure stubbornness and refusal to budge is why I say disillusioned. Scary thought… that the description ‘for a short time’ was spot on !
May 1st, 2009 at 2:58 am
I cant believe what im reading, my stomach is churning an my heads hurting… its frightful reading all this… People come together specially in love because of a bigger scheme, not that stars don’t play a role! but its you the person who navigates the stars, with your own ENERGY and faith! Nothing in the world except you can change your fate.Why do we humans doubt ourselves,our ability and worth so much for the people around or the universe! If you want something its a matter of getting out there and grabbing it! your will your determination your sacrifice your love and commitment for anything and anyone! that you want to make part of your life!
I am a young taurean female who thinks she likes an aqua male. And the more i read about aquas the more i feel iam actually an aqua! Even my aqua figured i was actually an aqaurius so have many people…
In the beginning it was hard we had an absolute HATE realationship he covered himself in a shell an didnt know who he actually was but he tried intimidating me, bullying me when i wouldnt give into his ways when he saw he couldnt handle get me that way and until he ddint come with a more plausible pseudo personality he came in his real gear!he became soft and friendly,interested! Observant.
He’s dark/deep and intense! Exactly what iam!
But thats a side i dont show to many people except in my own peculiar ways…
we have the most amazing out of this world conversations…
He is the better communicator! the better talker and the better consoler! and yes Iam oh so emotional but iam more free lance then he is … He is sooooo possessive and has a quick temper an jealousy that over powers him an he is definately erratic…. but amazing bf/husband material… though i dont know if we ever will date or marry or admit to each other that we like each other! We try to walk away from each other, but we keep coming back an none of us is ever sure about the other persons true feelings and yet we know the true feelings…:(
And can i just tell all of you that it has somewhat to do with those stars that shine but we both like each other for the people that we are,the people we have become and who we want to be tommorow the respect gratitude and affection through all the tough times has kept us together an if God willing we will be …or maybe we wont…
And i for one think we balance each outher amazingly …please just have a little more faith in the person infront rather then the extensions of there creations! People are a product of their environment and surroundings more then there star sign!
May 1st, 2009 at 5:49 am
Hi there Twilight_eyes,
Thank you for your comment. I don’t believe that astrology can map out a persons fate, and that is why I stay well clear of predictions as I think it can ruin peoples lives. My interest in astrology is purely because the planets do affect us, who we are and how we come across to others. What I have written on this site thus far is purely and simply based upon a persons Sun sign. Obviously there is always a lot more going on in one’s chart, and sometimes other influences can over ride the Sun’s influence almost completely.
Yes, of course the enviroment we live in has a huge effect on who we are as people, for instance, different signs react differently to different way’s of life etc. If you took two people with the exact same birth charts and placed each of them in contrasting enviroments they would both react differently to that. I hope this makes sense, I’ve only just woken up !!!
All the best for the future!
Love & Light
Becky
September 5th, 2009 at 6:01 am
I’m an Aquarius girl and I always find myself bumping into a Taurus and getting on with them so well! I haven’t been in a relationship with one but I find Taurus’ to be AWESOME friends. Yes we are polar opposites but we are both offbeat in our ways and we can appreciate it.
Basically, I love Taurus’. I get excited when I meet one because I’m likely to get along with them and have funny/random conversations and I can always have fun with them. Can always have a good intellectual conversation
My best friend is a Taurus. Granted, there have been lots of ups and downs but, I think with space and understanding, it works out quite well.
I just wanted to break the mentality that Taurus and Aquarius cannot get along, from my experience we get along just fine and dandy (given that we have our own space to be who we are)
September 7th, 2009 at 9:13 pm
readn all these comments.. hmmm. has givn me morte hopes than doubts but my taurus bf & i {aquarius female} are willn to prove the signs wrong.. we have been talkn for 3 weeks and are startn a relationship although the beginning of it has been quite rocky.. we are arguin alreadi but made a promise to each other last night that we will not argue anymore because we are not evn that serious yet.. he’s very caring, concerned, loveable, funny & intelligent guy, i guess he has things that i look 4 in a man i havnt found in any of my past relationships. ive been realli avoidn gettn to kno any males to avoid catchn feelns but its jus sumthing about him other than physical that attracts me. at times ive been like eff it but i will not find myself to let him go. i want this to work well we both do. he wants to know me, hes trying to be patient we are takn advice from most of these sites because their sayn in order for ths relationship to work we have to be willing to compromise, bend, understand each other, teach each other and avoid arguin as much as possible. we are really feeln each ither and i hope this tuns out as we wish to expect. the perfect relationship. we are planning oyr future together alreadi we have alot in common. i pray 2 god this works because i really really like him ;p
November 2nd, 2009 at 2:50 pm
Aqua girl and I love them we mate great matches. I know how to keep him pleased with togetherness while at the same time getting the space that I need.
November 17th, 2009 at 9:52 am
Very intersesting reading all the comments and concerns… and they are indeed true in many ways.
I am an Aquarian male involved with a Taurean woman, she has all the qualaties I could ever want in a partner, she’s grounded, strong, intelligent, loving, kind, beautiful and passionate. She grounds me, gives me strength, and in our case we changed one anothers lives for the better… however beautiful all that is there are definatley qualities that cause us to clash just as the blog states…
The best advice I can offer myself and you the reader is to sort your own emotions out, know what you both want, know what you and your partner are not prepared to deal with as both signs are strong and especially in this case - it can go sour very quickly!! Taurus can push Aquarius away very quickly and Aquarius can easily find reason to make an exit - it’s vital to understand the downfalls as they have strong influence in the relationship but can be dealt with IF YOU WANT IT TO WORK!!
In our scenario we have other pressures causing us to make a decision on our future - both signs need to compromise and can, this match up may just require more work initially but I believe that the reward is well worth it!! If you’re willing to fight the fight to stay together… you’ll both be singing praises in the end!
I LOVE MY TAUREAN, I KNOW SHE LOVES ME TOO!!
December 7th, 2009 at 8:35 pm
I used to be with a guy that was an Aqaurius and i am a Taurus, and he was so perfect, he still is! i still love him deeply the same way i have for the past 3 years. It’s crazy to me that i can’t seem to get over him but it’s a complicated situation. When i met him i met him on the internet through a friend and at first i didn’t think much of him. Then we started talking for hours at a time sometimes till morning! I started to like him very much but i thought it was weird since he lived in Nebraska and I live in Kansas and we had practically no way of seeing eachother. I’m 16 now and when i met him I was 13 and he was 14 so it was hard. We only lasted 8 months but those months were the best for me now that i look back on it. I’ve tried moving on to other guys here in my town but nobody compares! He’s amazing even though he can be a little jealous at times and we’d have our differences but none of that mattered because of the love i felt. I know what love is with him and i just can’t be able to have it with anyone else. It’s really crazy but i love it. I broke up with him when i was 14, a little later after he came to visit me for the first time. When he came down to see me it was like a dream.. I wish it didn’t go by so fast. Now we still talk the same to eachother as if i have never left him but the only thing is things have changed drastically. He has a drinking problem now and i have a sex addiction/smoking problem (marijuana). The day that i told him i have been very sexually active, he didn’t even want to speak to me again, he couldn’t take it. He saw me as disgusting in his eyes. Now that we’re past it and i’m changing my ways, he’s forgiven me and i know we well get our love going again sometime. Hopefully soon although it’s comming slowly. I want to start over with him when we do get back together and this time we will be together in person. He’s going to be 18 now so we will get to see each other more hopefully. Anyways what i’m trying to say is don’t just go with what zodiac your suppose to be with because if you really feel the love there than you better take that chance and don’t lose it because one day you’ll look back on it and realize you fucked up bad. i know he loves me because he would never accept me into his life again after the things i’ve done if he didn’t. He understands now why i did those things and all that matters is that he still accepts me. I still accept him too after the things he’s done. Love is all about accepting the person you love no matter what they’ve done. So be careful with who you choose to be with and make sure you recognize the signs of whether they love you or they don’t care.
December 9th, 2009 at 3:24 am
Hi,
I’m an Aquarius female in love with an Taurus male. In yeah we have had some ups and downs. I loved him since 7th grade. And now were in freshmen. Is just that we got in a fight and we been in fights before but nothing as bad as this we. He said things that broke my heart. He said that he doesn’t care if were friends and that he doesn’t care about me. My friends say that he does likes me but maybe he said that because he’s trying to forget me. And I think I made him feel bad because I told him that I tried so hard to be his friend and that it’s fine I will try to act like I don’t know him and that he doesn’t exist I also told him good bye as saying that I give up and I don’t want to know nothing about him again. It’s just that it’s hard. I always see him. Is just that he has attitude sometimes and is in a bad mood. I guess Aquarius and Taurus aren’t meant to be. Maybe me and him will never be together. PLEASE HELP ME!!! WHAT SHOULD I DO!!?? I love him!!! =(
December 13th, 2009 at 6:04 am
Writing on the BEHALF of an Aquarian father, he married my mother (Taurus). It was love at first sight, her beauty captured his eyes. So they got married. My dad ‘likes’ my mom to be dependent, he does everything for her and he loves her deeply even UNTIL today. My Aquarian father is a sociable person, he’s very kind and everyone likes him. On the other hand, my mother is somehow a moody person, she doesn’t smile a lot. People are somehow afraid of her because of her ’stern’ look. Sometimes I really wonder how do both combination can last? Well, these elements do the wonder = compromise and patience. My father knows my mother’s temper so well, and of course he has to give in (most of the times) unless my mother ..is too much.
Their love inspire me. And I hope I can find an Aqua man myself!
They can be good father and good listener, and good friend!
So one advice for those Taurus women who have found the right Aquarius men, never let them go. Trust me.
December 19th, 2009 at 2:43 pm
As a Taurus woman who has dated or been involved with a few aqua men, we are like a new mystery or experiment to them once the mystery is solved or the experiment has lost it’s excitement it’s over!
January 2nd, 2010 at 12:26 am
I’m a taurus and just got out of a 3 1/2 year relationship with an aquarius. It was very evident that we were polar opposites from the very beginning (fights 24/7). My moon sign is aquarius and my ascendant is gemini so you can also see how this could get a little complicated.. on one hand I’m really stubborn and possessive and on the other I’m incredibly carefree and a little detached. When it was good it was really good, and when it was bad it was really, really bad (like physical, throwing things at each other, breaking windows, punching walls-fighting! Really, super intense). On the other end of the spectrum, really fun to be around him and he has an incredible ability to befriend just about anyone that crosses his path and I really loved that he was so personable.
After countless attempts to leave him, mainly because of all the arguing between us, I finally threw in the towel once and for all because there is just no way I can live my life forever with someone sooo different from me. He loves me, yes, and I love him, maybe too much but sometimes it’s just not enough. It comes down to the simple fact, too, that both of us were both too stubborn to really leave one another, and being hardheaded with stubborn determination to make something work time and time again that’s been doomed form the beginning isn’t a very good reason to stay. Anyway, lots of ups and lots of downs with this combination, that’s for sure, haha.
April 25th, 2010 at 7:17 am
Hi, In some parts what you’re saying is right,
but me being a Taurus woman and my boyfriend being an Aquarius,
we’ve been together for a while and we have had no problems what-so-ever.
All our plans are exactly the same, and I would choose no-one else to be with ever.
May 16th, 2010 at 9:42 pm
I am an Aquarius female, I find the Taurus male very romantic, however they tend to change their minds A LOT. Especially about their careers and who they date. He didn’t know what he wanted. He didn’t want me. We’ve remained as friends, distant friends. He’s emotionless, he left so effortlessly. I’m the one whose still mopping, he in my eyes was the closet to my ideal partner.
July 18th, 2010 at 5:33 am
I was in love with an aloof aquarius man. Sadly, it didn’t work out - I feel like a cliche, too emotional, possesive and prone to huge rants that sent him into complete detachment. Birthdays, holidays were not important. No cards, no flowers. But I loved his heart. He was a deep thinker and kind person. We had great conversations and intense passion. I just couldn’t wrap my mind around his cool detachment about the relationship. I wish I had read this and other sites about Aquarius men sooner. He ended the relationship after I got upset about him pulling away (again) and not being available for me when I was going through a tough time. What it all comes down to is that most of those things are not as important as having a wonderful and caring person in your life. I would give the frivilous for true love with a warm-hearted person.
January 18th, 2011 at 8:30 am
I’m so a Taurus in so many ways I like stability and comfort and definitely designer labels. However I’m also totally opposite I’m not a jealous person, I’m pretty passive, adore my independence and on a daily basis have to calm down the craziness! Apparently I’m crazy and unpredictable and satisfy my own ego. Would these traits imply to that an aqua would be perfect? Bearing in mind there is one on the scene.
January 26th, 2011 at 10:42 am
Well, i met an Aquarius Man about 4 months ago..and to be honest we get on better than any of the signs Im actually supposed to be compatible with. He dosn’t annoy me, always makes me laugh and shows that he genualy cares when Im feeling down (unlike most men out there)!!. I do see the traits in him regarding - he cant park his backside down for to long (always on the move), but to be honest i don’t mind that, there is nothing worse than having a Man that wont let you breath for 5 mins!
I have had relations with Virgo and Capricorn who are supposed to be my most compatible..and they was nothing but a nightmare! So my point is simply don’t go by compatibility, study their characteristics and try to balance it out if there are certain things you dont like.
February 3rd, 2011 at 5:00 am
Hi!
So…I always find the Taurus/Aquarius compatibility readings quite disappointing. I do like an Aquarius very very much. Unfortunately we can’t be together because he lives far away, but (when he’s in a spontaneously gushy mood of course) we talk about things possibly working out in the future. He tells me “the winds have yet to stop blowing” and well…he’s right. We’re young and anything could happen.
I think it really depends on more than your sun sign. Because I feel like I’m not the typical Taurus they talk about in the posts. I’m not as fixed as most are, I love changes in the routine, I get bored if they don’t happen. I do get jealous, but I’ve learned to control it when it’s unnecessary. As much as I love love, I’m more turned on by a guy who can teach me something new; intelligence fascinates me.
I really disliked him at first because he was SO different and soo very interested in me. I considered it creepy that he would always SOMEHOW find me wherever I was and then go into extreme depth about strange topics. But once we parted I realized I had found someone so rare and so new to me, I couldn’t just let him go and never contact him again. Now, my Aquarius and I have a good time making each other laugh, talking about music (we’re quite musically compatible! I’ve got the Taurus talent, he’s got the philosophical and historical insight :P), and getting to know each other more every day. I respect his tastes, he respects mine. And thankfully I’m pretty adaptable compared to other Tauruses so his need for space doesn’t bother me much.
I’m really happy. Even though we’re not in a real relationship…being friends and just knowing him and learning from him is an adventure. I love his quirky ways of letting me know he’s thinking of me, how he can help me with any amount of confusion I’m in (he’s the smartest guy in the world, I swear!) and his love of everything different. I’ve changed so much in the 7 months I’ve known him; my mind is so much more open to the world. I’ve also learned to be more independent because he doesn’t allow me to give myself up for him as you could imagine
I sort of learned that the hard way. He gets mad at me if I text him instead of hang out with my friends if they’re over at my house, hahaha. But I realized after a while he wasn’t saying that to rudely push me away, but simply because he didn’t want to keep me tied down as he doesn’t want to be either.
It was just a weird transition since I had just gotten over a guy who gushed over me every day, telling me everything a girl wished for. Until of course I realized he was kind of a jerk and didn’t mean a word he said…so falling for an honest, intellectual Aquarian was a shock at first.
But I regret none of it. I’ve learned so much and I hope I can learn more unless he decides I’m too much of a typical Taurean girl some day in the future. Don’t get me wrong by the way, I’m so proud to be a Taurus
I’m just saying everyone is different and I believe it can work if there is the determination and patience to do so from each person.
And on a final note (because I dislike critics when it comes to personal things like this), I feel what I feel, I know what I feel, I know what I feel may not be what I think, and I’m NOT certain this will last forever. However neither you or me can predict life, no one can. Things happen, people come and go, and I’m so glad my Aquarius gets to be one of those people at least for now.
I’m happy. Shouldn’t that be the only thing that matters?
February 3rd, 2011 at 8:53 am
Hi Tori
Yes, ofcourse that is all that matters! You must also remember that a persons chart is made up of so much more than just a sun sign alone and that all makes such a difference. I have been in relatinships in the past with all sorts of different signs and have certainly learnt a lot! And youre absolutley right any relationship can work as long as you both put in the work required, all relationships need work its just that some require more than others, but it dosent make them any less satisfying or rewarding. I know people who have the most uncompatable charts you could imagine but are so determined to be together they have learnt to compromise and work things out. I have always said the key is in understanding…once you gain understanding you can achieve great things
Love & Light and all the best for the future,
Becky