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Gemini Woman
I have entitled this post ‘Gemini Woman’ What is should really say is ‘Gemini Woman-Girl’ as that is far closer to the truth. Inside every Gemini Woman there is a little girl, no matter what their Earth age is. Yes, it is fair to say that these Women never age either physically or mentally in comparison with the other 11 signs. It is pretty easy to spot a typical Gemini girl too, she will often have a big smile and sparkly fast moving eyes and an elfin bone structure, her outfit co-ordination is always her own unique style, not quite like the Aquarius Woman, as the Gemini does have some care for the opinion of others, but they will always look themselves, these girls are not sheep.
Gemini girls know how to get what they want from a very early age and it is one of their greatest abilities actually. Turning on the little girl charm wins almost every time, and can turn even the hardest person into a soft hearted pile of goo. I am a Gemini girl and even at 30 I still know how to switch it on! In-fact I put my own children to shame when it comes to trying to get my own way! Gemini girls can tend to have a bit of the ’spoiled brat’ syndrome if our parents don’t keep us in check, we can become too good at it and then expect our own way all the time, not really a great quality!
Phone bills are usually astronomical as they do love to talk. Mobile phones of course are loved by all Gemini girls and they are always the fastest at texting! If they can be bothered to work out how to use one in the first place (patience with these girls is not their strong point). In-fact any form of communication is adored by these airy ladies. If you know a Gemini girl you will know what I mean. We all have a lot to say and do have trouble not butting in someone else’s turn at speaking to say our bit. But we are not rude, not one bit, we simply think so quickly that we need to get it all out before we forget what it was we wanted to say! Gemini’s are also very animated and will often look like a mad person waving their arms about when trying to get their point across, they make fabulous story tellers especially if they are making it up themselves. It is true that these Girls have a very vivid and in-depth imagination.
When you are a Gemini making your mind up can be difficult, it is so easy to see every side of everything and to not know which side to be on. This always becomes a problem when deciding what we wish to do with the rest of our lives. It appears to be something you have to be quite certain about, and for the Gemini girl being certain about anything is quite a challenge.
Gemini girls make great friends and parents as they have an adventurous fun side yet are still very sensitive and caring. It is said that Gemini’s don’t listen, but actually in my experience I find that we are usually the ‘Agony Aunts’ As we do make great listeners too. I can’t guarantee that we will take in every word as we may momentarily leave this world; but we truly care and will always help wherever we can. You see Gemini girls wish the world was a nicer place with no war in it where everyone could be happy and smiley. This attitude is why quite a few Gemini girls suffer with nervous disorders of some kind, having a child like outlook on life is all well and good but having to see the reality of the world we live in comes as a hard blow to these Women. In-fact my advice is to stay away from news programs and papers if you are a particularly highly strung Gemini (which I am).
Sexually there is no better! Even if I do say so myself! Anyone who has been in a relationship with a Gemini girl will no what I mean. You see, you don’t get one Woman, you get several, intelligent, sexy, girly, sophisticated, bubbly, and this can be in one night! They know exactly how to please, to be both submissive and dominant. I shall let you into a secret, don’t be fooled by a Gemini girl, we all know exactly what we are doing we just pretend that we don’t! This is why Aquarius men make such good partners for us as they can see through us almost instantly and although at first this is most annoying, in the long run it is so wonderful to be who we truly are. Gemini girls you see have the ability to connect with anyone from anywhere. It will seem like they are interested in everything that person does and has all the same things in common. The Gemini will always fit in with other people they are so agile in their ability to change it is quite scary. It is also a bit sad as what the Gemini truly needs is someone she can be her true self with.
Basically Gemini Women are very intelligent, bright and cheerful, caring, kind and funny people. They have the ability to light up even the dullest of rooms, and it is fair to say, the dullest of people too!
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The “we all know exactly what we are doing we just pretend that we don’t” nailed it… it was simply spot on. I really like the way you write as it makes it fun and interesting to read.
I was wondering though how compatible Gemini is with another Gemini..
Hi Sarah,
Thank you for your nice comment!! Well, Gemini with Gemini is a good match but will need a bit of work. I had a Gemini boyfriend when I was at college and we were very much in love and had a lot of laughs. But Gemini Men are different to us Gemini girls in that they are more vain and can be a bit more (even more) flirty!! Basically they can get themselves into trouble..but yes..it is a fun matching thats for sure!!
Love & Light
Becky
Hi, Many centuries ago, people considered astrology as both an art and a science. Those who practiced it were held in great respect. They gave advice to ancient kings and emperors on important matters like when to go into battle and when to marry.
hey! i love your description of us geminis! it’s so true. i was wonderin tho, who do you think is the best match for us.
Hi Jessa,
Good question! It all depends on what it is you want. If you want an exciting relationship but one that may not last too long, then perhaps go for an Aries or a Leo. If you want the very best then I would always recommend an Aquarius, but you have to work on the patience side! It also depends on the rest of your chart…But I’d definitely say Aquarius…they see through us and allow us to be truly our unique selves!
Love & Light
Becky
I am a pisces female and have been friends with a gemini girl for about 2 years. However, the friendship has ran it’s course. Over time, I found the gem girl to be VERY attention seeking and manipulative (especially with men). Of course being a fish, this did not sit well with me because I always feel bad for everyone lol. also, her methods for getting attention were so annoying becaus once again, as a fish, I saw right through them, and after a while I just ignored her, I’m not hear to feed anyone’s ego. all in all, I think gem girls are great and nice people but just not ment for close relationships with pisces. my question, is it typical of gem girls to be so manipulative and attention seeking? Oh, the gem girl and I never have had any open animosity towards each other, but I could “feel” the undercurrents of tension. sometimes I felt as though she was competing with me, or even threatened by me (who gets threatened by a pisces? lol).
Oh, and the reason the attention getting things was so annoying is because she would put on airs as if she wasn’t trying to get attention, which is just irritating. I’d rather someone just be upfront about it. But I don’t hate gems, I think you are cool people, just not for the fishies.
Your 100% right Lena, Gemini and Pisces just are not meant to be around each other. Two very different types of people, and not a good different either. Both wonderful of course! And yes, the Gemini girl can be terribly attention seeking, it really is something that needs to be sorted out when they are children or it can get really out of hand. A lot of actors etc are Gemini’s, Johnny Depp, Angelina Jolie, then you have Jordan, Kylie Minouge…All love attention. But some of us (me) aren’t like it to quite that extent, but we do like to be noticed!
As for being manipulative, thats not quite how I would put it as Geminis are not ‘nasty’, but as I have said we do like to get our own way..and it may come across badly. Pisces and Gems make good pen pals!
Thanks for all your comments Lena very interesting.
Love & Light
Becky
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Thanks Becky. I didn’t think the manipulative things was a gem trait anyway (I’ve been told my own sign can be a bit manipulative). I think she’s just a gem girl whose gotten out of hand. Most gem girls I know are pretty cool, I know one who bounces around when she eats anything with sugar in it, and it’s quite funny to watch. But all in all they are cool girls and hey, you seem nice!!!
hi becky,
I just wanted to know if a long term relationship(possibly a marriage) with a Pisces man would work…i am a Gemini woman.
we both like each other.
Hi Sangeetha,
Well I personally wouldn’t recommend the union of a Pisces and Gemini, especially not for the long term. There is always an initial attraction between them but it will fade and some quite nasty behaviour will most certainly set in. There are of course times when this can be different, for instance, if you have a lot of Water/Earth in your chart and/or he has some air…but as far as the basic Sun Sign goes then it’s prognosis isn’t too favourable I’m afraid.
Good Luck
Love & Light
Becky
Hey, Becky!:)The description about Genimi is so true!I am myself a Genimi girl and the thing I want to ask is what are Genimis good at?I mean what kind of profession can fit them right?:)
Hi Milena,
It all depends whether they are disciplined Gemini’s or not and it is usually not! I always think that outdoor work suits a Gemini girl better than being stuck in an office. Journalism is also a really good line of work for them (us!)As they get to write and be creative, catch up on the gossip and move all over the place. I studied media myself. Acting is something Gemini’s are best at…obviously, some of the best actors are Gemini’s. A happy Gemini has to be happy at work, so it must be something they enjoy doing as the normal working week monotony just isn’t for them. Lifeguards, Gardeners, Environmentalists, Zoo keepers, Computer technology/web design…
I hope this helps and thank you for your comment Gemini
Love & Light
Becky
hi..i am gemini(with a taurean cusp i think)..and an aquarian is giving me major trouble..i thot i was nearly immune to attraction..and then he comes in..he’s great..and believe me i have never been this smitten…but how do u no ur special to an aquarian?…i dont want to read meaning into anything he says and hurt myself…are they flirty?…coz hes cautious most of the time..and wen all of a sudden he says these things..his hints at how important he is to me..its frankly frustating..and he can tell wen i am lying..i’m not used to some1 being able to see thru me even if it is alitte…something about him stops me from asking him forthrite and lets him remain all closed…o and if it helps hes numeralogicaly 2…its become long distance now..and it just hurts…his quiet thotful take cares and how are u?…do they really observe the boundaries of friendship?i no he’s mysterious but frankly…if he’s just playing..i really need to get over him now…and i no i can and still be friends with him…some help plz..
Hey..i am a gemini(with a taurean cusp I think)…and an aquarian has been giving me major trouble..i really thot I was immune to attraction..and then he walked in..he’s not at all like I thot he’d be..he’s not tht funny..he duznt love arguments like I do…but still something bout him ..i no wat it is and u must no too…makes him all tht…but how do u no ur special to an aquarian?…his hints at how much he means to him..how I was probably waiting for him..and the way he can tell when I am lying..its all frustating..he’s cautious all the tym…and then all his hints..i really don’t want to read meaning into anything he says and hurt myself…is it that he just doesn’t no the boundaries of friendship?…something about him makes me stop from asking him forthright…if he’s just playing?…I need to stop falling now..and I no I can..and still be friends with him..
Some help plz…
I am 18 and a gemini girl, and i totally agree with all of this. I never realized how big of a role Zodiac signs played in everyones life, until i started reading about it. I have a question though…I am in a relationship with a pisces on the cusp of aries man, we do have many differences, but i really think it could work. My biggest problem with him is that i get extremely jealous, and attention seeking. Is jealousy a trait that “us” gemini girls also have?
Sincerely,
Bridget
hi becky!!i think your comments upon geminis character are very pertinent!i ve got some questions though.firstly i was born on the 21 of may 1989 and many people say that im not a gemini im a taurus and vice versa whats the truth and finally do i match with libras????ive heard that theyre liars especially men is this valid?thanks for reading this hope you reply soon!!!!
Gemini-girls. Do we ever grow out of daydreaming or making the world perfect? I totally agree with your summary of Gemini Women here.
Also, I agree with Gemini girls dating Gemini Men. Lots of fun and love, but the Gemini Men are definitely looking always.
Xo
Bella
i love ur description about us becky and i also love the fact that u r a gemini urself and there4 know what we re all about from experience. I would like to warn u G-Girls out there, stay clear of Scorpio men, they re not for u or virgos, ive had the most rotten experiences with them even the ones im not dating. E.g my scorpio friend’s boyfriend who is a virgo grates on my nerves by the way he keeps making snide comments and the way he undermines my intelligence. that is the worst thing that anyone can ever do to a Gemini in my opinion. Virgos & Scorpios. steer clear. trust me on this.
This is sooooooooo true… all about me..
WOW !! impressive stuff..
Damn I am married to a Virgo..and yes it is very trying relationship..
so are u married to an aquarian..or is aquarian like the best match for a gemini?
Hi Becky,
just to tell u as you stated, relationship with leo and gemini works! OH HELL IT DONT! WELL… it was perfect… only if he didnt cheated on me… oh well
nice website! im lookin for love…. as u stated im in sight of Aquarious now
I have to say that I am in a relationship with a wonderful Gemini woman who is younger than me but I have found our communication skills are second to none. I am a Libran male and we have the most wonderfully open discussions about our relationship. She has struggled with flattery from other guys, including a fellow Gemini and a Capricorn,and we have a long distance relationship which makes it difficult, but she is the best partner I have had in 20 years!
hi there, i’m a gemini and i know that gemini and taurus don’t make a good match. But is there anyway we can make things work?
Love,
B.
Dear B,
Do you really want to have to try to “make things work?”
Being a Gemini, I know my tolerance level for trying to make things work is very low. My fiance is Aquarian, and I have got to say that I so enjoy not having to try and “make things work: . . . things work very, very well all by themselves:) This is my second close, romantic relationship with an Aquarian, and in my opinion, the Gemini/Aquarius match is unrivaled!
If I were you, I’d do myself a favor and wave bye-bye to the Taurean and wait for someone with a more compatible sign to come along. . . and for me that’s Aquarius. I don’t believe you’ll be disappointed. We’re one on the only signs they don’t mind chasing . . . and that’s rare for the water bearer.
Yeah… I agree… The tolerance level for “making things work” is extremely low for me.
I don’t talk alot however, I remember a woman once telling me that I have a planet or something in pisces. I think I definitely have piscean traits.
In fact, there is nothing worse than a person who talks and talks and doesn’t shut up. I need peace and quiet everyday, otherwise I am likely to become insanely irritable and angry…lol
Hey Becky:
I have a friend who is a lovely Gem lady in her 20’s who has been together with a Taurus guy in his 30’s for about 5 years. They seem to have lots of issues going on. He is a serious homebody and she is always out and about. I know they argue a lot and she is very often not all that happy and this seems to manifest in other areas of her life.
Her and I, an Aries male, have been friends for some time and I was absolutely captivated by her from the first day. It seems the longer we remain friends, the stronger our friendship becomes.
I would like to be able to do something for her to help her out, but really do not know what or how nor is it my place to interfere in her present relationship. I just wish I could see her truly happy again despite the front she puts up for others.
I guess I would ask you for any advice to be a better friend to her. I have read how Aries and Gems can be great friends.
Thanks,
AriesDude
hey, im a gemini, wondering how things would work out with a saggitarius guy in the long run, he does play alot of mind games which frustrates me, but the attraction is very strong and intellectually stimulating.we have been just friends for a while but now im wondering is this just good for a bit of fun or can things develop into something more serious.dont know if its usefull but hes very secretive and doesnt like being asked too many questions, he also trys to not get to close or attatched to people and doesnt really get in to serious relationships.
Hi there Tess,
Well Sagittarius is Gemini’s opposite. So you will repel and attract each other. Ofcourse you can make it work long term..it’s all about effort and how willing you are to put some in! Sagittarius people tend to have a facade of being very strong and open but generally on the inside they are very sensitive and hurt easily. It can take them a while to settle down too as they do like to be on the move and are aware that their lifestyle isn’t always suited to family life.
Gemini and Sagittarius in my opinion is a good match, but to make it last you must learn to compromise and understand one another..but it will be a great friendship if nothing else!!
Good Luck
Love & Light
Becky
hey becky, thaks for the advice and the part about Sagittarius people having a facade of being very strong and open when they re actually very sensitive and hurt easily is so so true, esepcilay with the sagittarius im talking about, being a gemini i am naturaly curious and want to understand him, but the sagittarius in him makes me feel like im intruding on his privacy, is this character trait of being secretive and needing alot of privacy common in sagittarius people?
i’m alos wondering about how a frienship with a cancer female would work out, we have been friends on and off for about 6 years now, but there is friction between us, i think caused by her extreeme sensitivity and there are times wher we just drift apart. what are the best matches with a gemini like me when it comes to frienship?
Hi again Tess,
Sagittarius people are very independant and do like to keep parts of themselves private..although they like to know everything about everyone else. It is easy to be around a Sag for years but never really know much about them..so yes to a degree. Gemini and Cancer do make very good friends, but us Gemini girls can put our foot in it sometimes and Cancer people are very sensitive to anything!!We can also be a bit too energetic for them also, they prefer to stay home rather than go out exploring!
The best friendship matches for us Gemini girls is Aries, Leo, Libra, Sagittarius and Aquarius. Basically Air and Fire signs..Earth and Water signs tend to drift and move to slowly for us for long term friendship.
Love & Light
Becky
hi there! im getting really confused with this. its pretty weird. i have a gemini friend which is supposedly my other friends girlfriend who is a cancer. the thing is that i have been friends with them for years now. anyways i have always been playing a role of like an older brother or a psychologist. they have always been troubled with an unstable relationship until i was placed in the line of fire. she said to her mate that i tried to make out with her and this ended my friendship with this dude. i am a taurean, passionate trustworthy and lover of the arts. i am famous in my circle and i attract a lot of women of all ages. hehe! thats the truth! i am an artist and musician. anyways my gemini lady friend is also a singer and she loves dali which is one of my greatest influences. i have been getting in touch with with her eversince till last week when i saw her the last time. we talked… she told me again that she was attracted to me and talking about her traits and what she is. she even wanted to live with me and she even got the picture of my mom to show her mom when she gets back home to her country. i am trying to take my time because she is the one in a relationship and not me. i just think she had just precipitated in a way that doesnt go with for neither of us in this very moment. yes, we are friends and all of that. i already have learned a lot from women. i have been with most compatible signs and come to think of it. it was to perfect and it didnt last. or maybe its just ol crazy me. she is very captivating and she thinks that i dont like her at all. i am very keen with peoples psychological behavior and i maybe play say words which i dont really mean or just say it right on the chin. i think she is just as confused as i am but i think that the only reason is that she is in a more complicated situation and i am out free off the cage while she has half of her body off the bars. all my friends say that dude fuck it! forget that shit its not worth it! but i dont take things for granted. their just like my old pair of worn off jeans and boots. i really need a hand on this even though i can do it myself. but this really troubles my brain and maybe my heart. any ideas fellas?
Hey becky! i am a gemini,and im currently in a long-term relationship with a saggitarius.he’s the most amazing lover ever as he gives me space,understands me and is always forgiving..(as i am prone to being very easily irritated and jealous..something i have GOT to work on)..but the thing is,sometimes..he gives me too much space(seriously)..for example..i have close aries and gemini male friends whom i spend more time with as compared to him..and he’ll always say he doesnt mind..its starting to worry me..and whenever i confide in him about this matter..he’ll just change the subject..leaving this problem un-solved..i just need him to take this matter seriously and god it is so freakin hard to get a Saggitarius to get serious on matters like these..it is a small matter,i know..but i just can’t take it..im just so afraid that i’ll get bored of this relationship and just start to fade away(something i can’t help doing..urgh..)..and let go..something which i really don’t want to do..i really love this dude..every bit of him..no matter what he’s like..but can LOVE alone be the platform of our relationship?im in a huge DILEMA..please help…
Hey Nura,
I understand completley. It’s hard being a Gemini girl at times because we feel so much and when we like someone we want to be with them all the time..and suffer badly with jealousy (it’s not just you!!) Sagittarius are very independant and do find it hard to say what they actually mean most of the time. Try writing to him..that may work. But they do like a lot more space and social freedom than us Gemini. I have a Sag friend and they go on seperate holidays with their friends leaving their partner at home..Gemini girls can’t stand that!!
Anyway good luck1!! Love is great but there has to be the right stuff there to make it. Sometimes it just becomes a word we say because it is nice…Gemini girls tend to give 100% in a relationship and my advice to you and all other Gemini’s is to go for the guy who gives you the same ammount of love that you give to them!!!
Love & Light
Becky
Hello Becky:
What you wrote here in your last post I would like more insight if you would: “It’s hard being a Gemini girl at times because we feel so much and when we like someone we want to be with them all the time and suffer badly with jealousy.” Also: “I have a Sag friend and they go on separate holidays with their friends leaving their partner at home. Gemini girls can’t stand that!!”
Now the Gem lady I wrote about on September 10th seems quite opposite of all that. She never likes being at home with her Taurus husband and is always gone. She often leaves out on weekends to visit her family who live in another state without him because he never wants to go anywhere. So I guess I would ask do you think this is healthy for her to do then as it must affect her emotionally. Also, what you wrote about “feel so much”, she tells me she likes to keep her emotions in check and rarely does she seem to let them out except for a burst of anger from time to time. I thought Gem ladies like to analyze their emotions more than feel them, is this true?
Thanks you and best regards,
AriesDude
Hi Ariesdude,
I see your point and thank you for the comment.
Gemini girls are also independant and if they are the ones doing the going out then it’s all fine..but if they are the ones left at home then that is where the problems may start. Alsoin a Taurus and Gem relationship I would expect the Gemini girl to be out far more than the Taurus. We do have a lot of emotional energy and if it’s not looked after properly we can have a terrible short fuse indeed!
Geminis actually have the key to all emotion far more than the other signs childhood either teaches them how to deal with it or not they are very suseptable to their enviroment. Gemini girls almost always come with a grin plastered to their face this can be very deceptive..sometimes when she goes home and the dsoor is closed she can be very down indeed.
Ofcourse this is just one aspect of a persons chart there are many others that affect who we are.
Love & Light
Becky
Becky:
Thank you for the reply. The lady I have been writing about is a Gem with a Gem moon, Taurus Mercury, Leo Venus, Gem Mars and Gem Asc. So she is a very active person. Her husband (don’t know his stats) is a serious homebody never wanting to go anywhere, is all about job and home and I know this presents them with some serious difficulties as I am aware.
Although she is often smiling as you said and presenting a happy go lucky attitude, I definitely know she is awake late at night with her sorrows as she has made me aware of that. I have read web sites and forum posts that all describe how Gem ladies and Taurus males are a difficult match up. Any advice from you that I could offer my friend?
Thanks and Best,
AriesDude
Hi again,
A Gemini can NEVER just ‘make the most of it’ as some signs, such as Taurus can. She can never be the dutiful wife if their are problems. Taurus as I’m sure you know is a fixed sign..she is Mutable..if he was a fixed air sign it would be easier but a fixed Earth sign is different, especially with all the air in her chart..she really needs to breath. As an Aries I believe she probably enjoys your company rather a lot as well!!
It’s never nice to see a Gemini girl suffer inside because when happy they are truly magical people who inspire everyone around them. All you can do I think is tell her to follow what she knows is right for her..life is short with the right person..but eternally long with the wrong one. Your a good friend.
Love & Light
Becky
hey becky, sorry ive been writing so much i know it must be getting annoying but i just wanted to thank you for your amazing advice, it really has been very helpfull.
i also wanted to ask you about how to deal with a capricorn, my mother is a capricorn and we dont get along AT ALL!, there is just alot of friction between s, we irritate each other very easily and have very different opinions about most things, i just want to know how to avoid any more big fights or how we can stop annoying each other.
thanks for everything
tess
Hi Tess,
That is a very Geminian reply…but your being silly as I enjoy reading everyones comments, I esspecially like people who visit the site often as I feel that you can get to know the person ..I like that!!
Ooooh Capricorn Mum eh! I kind of understand as my Mum is a Virgo..both Earth Signs. Capricorn is very different to Gemini..more controlling..too serious at times..demanding, powerful. Theya re like the business people in the world, full of power and we are like the fairies full of fun and wit..so it will enver be easy…sometimes the best thing you can do is to smile to yourself. It is difficult to answer this fully, 1 because she is your mother so there is bound to be friction anyway and 2 because sometimes that is just the way it is. With my Mum I use humour..I try and just take it on the chin instead of letting it drive me insane!! Then take deep breaths!!
I wish you luck Tess
Love & Light
Becky
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hi becky i just wanna ask.a person who is born september 22 1987 is a virgo or a libra?thanks..
Hi there Dimitra,
Thank you for your comment
That date is known to be Virgo, however because it is so close to the cusp a person with this date of birth will have quite a few Libra traits..which isn’t a bad thing at all!!
Love & Light
Becky
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Becky,
You are so right on about the Gem woman. I’m one and it makes life tough but also so great.. all at the same time!
I’ve been in long term relationships with Pisces, Libra and another Gemini. The Libra was the best although he moved cross country, the Pisces was a complete failure although it took us years to figure that out and the other Gemini was simply exhausting. All the while (10 years) I’ve had a friend who is Aquarius and we have always got along fabulously but always were involved with other people. Most recently, we finally were able to get together and hang out and something has developed. I don’t know if that is because we always had something for each other or if it’s that Gem-Aquarius attraction but it’s so easy to be with him and be myself with him. It’s only been a couple of months but I hope it stays this great!
I love your insights, they are wonderful and pretty darn accurate! Thanks for sharing!!
Hi becky,
is gemini woman and gemini man good match?
hey becky, its me again,
some recent evens got me wondering about us gemini girls again. a friend was not feeling well and i found that i was extreemly worried,which was a bit irrational since the problem was not that big, and i was wondering if all us gemini worry and stress over all the small things like i do, i notice i have problems with anxiety sometimes and definetly with coping with stress, in some cases i can be a real worry-wart while at other times i can be extreemly realxed and find solutions to even the worst of problems, i guess it depends alot on my mood, i am a very moody person, hahaha.
Hey Tess,
Yes, us Gemini girls are highly sensitive. And we worry like there is no tommorow too, we actually have to be careful of are mental state as we can worry and stress ourselves into depression and other mental illnesses. Yoga is fabulous and you should try it, although it does involve a lot of sitting still and concentrating which we are not known for. However, it can be a great long term help with not only stress relief and managment but also patience. Go to a class rather than doing it at home though, that way you have some contact with others and also someone to MAKE you do it!! lol
Thank you for your comment.
Love & Light
Becky
P.S All Gem girls are moody, it starts to disapear once you hit 30!!
Hi Becky,
I’m a Gem born June 3 (23 years old), i married a Pisces male (Feb 24)(26 years old) this year. We been together 3 years & i just wanted to share how even though I am airy & he is watery, i feel he is my counterbalance in a sense that he emotionally secures me, and i mentally captivate him. it goes a lot deeper than that also. I have been told I am real dominating and NEED to learn how to be MORE submissive.
Question is, how can i be more submissive when a part of me is not a punk & will not submit to another’s request/demand. I suppose I would rather compromise than give in. Is there nothing wrong with giving in? I feel a part of me will be lost. Is it a trait of stubborness on my behalf?
P.S. I know Pisces are real sacrificial & i admire that & WANT to return that type of treatment. Help?
Becky your readings have been so insightful and probably the best I’ve come across, so thank you! I was wondering I’ve just come across an Aquarian male who could just very well become my soul mate. I don’t want to scare him off so I was wondering if I should just take it slow or be my natural Gemini self? I’m on the Gemini-Taurus cusp as well, will that effect the relationship at all aswell? I can’t wait to hear back from you, and if you have any other tidbits of wisdom or introspection on courting Aquarians I’d be ecstatic!
Live, Love, Laugh
MJ
hi!
I’M A GEMINI/CANCER CUSP WITH A VENUS IN GEMINI AND CAN RELATE TO BOTH SIGNS BUT FEEL MORE DRAWN TO THE GEMINI SIDE OF LIFE~!I DATED A TAURUS FOR TWO YEARS AND HE BROKE MY HEART.THEN I DATED AN AQUARIUS FOR A YEAR WHICH FOR ME CHANGED MY LIFE AND OUTLOOK ON LOVE!I ALWAYS THOUGHT THAT LOVE SHOULD BE FUN AND ADVENTEROUS BUT UNTILL I MET MY AQUARIAN I NEVER KNEW OTHERS FELT THE SAME WAY.WE BROKE UP IN APRIL BECAUSE IT BEGAN TO GET TOO SERIOUS FOR MY TASTE. I HAVE RECENTLY BEEN INTRODUCED TO A SAG WITHA VENUS IN CAPRICORN AND AM DRAWN TO HIM LIKE A KID TO A CANDY STORE! HELP! HES VERY DIFFERENT FROM MY PREVIOUS BOYFRIENDS OF THE PAST AND I HAVE NO IDEA HOW TO REAL HIM IN?!! ANY ADVICE?
hey becky,:)
im a gemini as well. loving your description about us…hehe….anyway this is d’ scene yehah…. i like this man who is a virgo-libra cusp…..lol…which is like a cusp of 2 opposite signs…i did quite a lot of reading n figured that virgo dont really get along with gemini women but libra men do….heheh but that confuses me becky….really!! could you help me out with this…..!! man this guy is very simple, honest n i really like him. i feel he is one guy i can really open up to. but again…as a tyical gemini woman….im quite nervous about d’ part where i DONT want to get hurt…..what do you suggest….???….:)
Hi just wanted to say that i am gemini with an aquarius we met a few months ago and we are now married he is my everything i am crazy in love and never felt this way about anyone i would have to say you are right on about geminis and aquarians its lie when we are together we are in our own world just me and him our friends make fun of us they always say how perfect we are for eachother and that we look good together but reading your website i have dicovered that i am a dragon and he is an ox and it says to stay away we are so perfect for eachother but so wrong in another way if you could give me some insight on this that would be great
P.S you are so right on the aquarius but actually turns out when we fight wich is very seldom i walk away and he comes after me its quite entertaining because as soon as he does i give in to his pouting lol
Hi’ I am a Gemini woman who loves an Aries man.
We have a very long history together & I adore
him very much,but my problem with him is that
he seems to think I will mess around on him & he is very jealous. I love his company,the sex
is great too,& his sense of humor is the best
I have ever found & I just love his company
over all,but he has a temper & he’s bossy.The
bossy part doesn’t bug me until it gets on the
side of controlling & then I lose it!
I’m so in love with him & he’s great for the
most part,& most of the time,& when we fight it
is usually over something very ignorant,I mean,
it just gets stupid to no return,yet he’s very
smart! What I hate is the fights & the times
when we stop talking! I hate it because it hurts not to hear that sexy,manly voice & his
ideas & what is going on with him.I miss him
terribly when we are apart & we had a fight.
When things go well,I don’t worry because I
love knowing we are together & the world can’t
stop us,but I love him & don’t want us to lose
what we have together.I love him,the passion,
the energy & the great happiness we share with
one another.Is there any way we can make it
better for us? I am deeply in love with my man,
my soul mate!!! Please help!
Can a gemini woman & am aries man make it
together for a long term relationship? He’s
my best friend plus the only man I have ever
loved!!!!
I am Gemini 6/20/78 and I it seems like the only guys that I can attract are pisces/cancers. It drives me crazy because I am not compatible with these guys. I like these guys and wish I could get serious but it never works. It sucks because these are the only guys who really go out of there way to pursue me.
Can anyone tell me why? Do I have something weird in my charts? 6/20/78 8:34 am.
To me it’s not weird at all because I attract
these signs too plus many others signs also,but
I think Cancer & Pisces like us because we are
different & we pay more attention to them than
most do in a way that makes them feel safer &
more secure. We are people friendly & to secure
oriented water signs,thats a comfy feeling.
I attract many aries guys to me,so when I read
that they can be compatible with me,I didn’t
run most of them off like I use to do,though I
have met the good,the bad & the down right ugly
in this sign,I just try to go with the flo &
try to meet the normal aries guys. I love an
aries man. I treat cancer & pisces like I treat
my girlfriends because they can be great for
friends,& I let them know how I feel when they
start getting that love thing started. I let
them know I just want to be their friend only!
Get around more new people,& make new friends.
Book stores are great! I meet all kinds of sun
signs when I try going to different places.
Libraries are good,& you’ll probably meet at
least one virgo there,but others go there too.
Don’t think it’s something you are doing wrong
cause if you are true to your Gemini nature,it
will all happen fine & good for you.
We attract all kinds of people from all walks
of life so therefore we attract many signs to
us. Just relax & don’t be too down about this
issue,a chance in your environment more often
should solve your issue!!! Don’t fret,just go
out to new & better places.
Thanks Dyannah
I HAVE NEVER BASED MY LIFE ON ASTROLOGY, BUT I DO READ MY HOROSCOPE EVERY SINGLE TIME I HAVE THE CHANCE AND IT SEEMS TO BE PRETTY RIGHT ON WITH MY LIFE. I AM BORN ON THE CUSP (JUNE 21ST) AND I RECENTLY MET A MAN ON A DATING WEBSITE WHO I HAVE MET AND EVERYTHING SEEMS TO BE GOING PERFECT. ALMOST TOO PERFECT! WE HAVE BOTH BEEN BURNED BY OUR RECENT EXES PRETTY BAD. WE BOTH HAVE 2 CHILDREN APIECE (HIS-BOYS, MINE-GIRLS) AND I WANT THIS TO WORK, BUT WITH ALL OF THE ONLINE RESEARCH I HAVE DONE, THIS IS JUST DOOMED FROM THE BEGINNING. WE HAVE MET AND HAVE GREAT TIMES WHEN WE ARE TOGETHER, BUT IT IS STILL IN OUR FIRST MONTH. SHOULD I BACK OUT NOW OR SHOULD I SAY IT’S FATE, REGARDLESS OF OUR SIGNS AND GO FOR IT 110%? I AM TORN!! I HAVE BEEN ON THIS COMPUTER FOR HOURS TRYING TO FIGURE OUT IF ANYONE THINKS THIS RELATIONSHIP COULD EVER WORK!?!? PLEASE HELP ME! AM I JUST WISHFUL THINKING OR SHOULD I DUMP HIM OVER OUR SIGNS NOT BEING COMPATIBLE? ISN’T THAT TOO MUCH? PLEASE ADVISE ME!
SINCERELY CONFUSED,
AYDEN
Hi there Ayden,
My advice to you is simple, enjoy it! When you go through life you learn a lot, especially when there are broken relationships and children involved, I know this as I have been through the same thing. During all this you learn a lot about how to cope with things in different ways, you become more understanding and reflective and know what is important in life. You therefore already have a higher chance of making a relationship work. Stop worrying, try and let go, if he is making you smile then jump for joy because as you know its not that easy to find someone like that. If you wish to discuss this further please contact me through my contact page.
Love & Light
Becky
Greetings to you, I’m a Sag male trying to find a solution to restore my relationship with my female Gemini. Our relationship has only been for a little under two years, and the past year has been real rocky, up and down! The first year was pure ectasy, I cheated on her after our first three months together, I was sincere in my apology and she took me back. This was the only hurdle we had during our first year together. However I have made a series of minor mistakes since then, and she dumped atleast three times but took me back everytime. We just had a baby and I need to make our love be restored so we can be a happy family. She was in a bad marriage before me and tells me that she cannot put up with any crap. She dumped me now saying that this time she’s done giving me chances and she’s moving on. I’m heart broken extremly, what can I do to win back her heart?
Hi Becky,
I have some ques with gemini man.. i myself is a gemini girl.. however i fall in luv with a gemini man.. he always give me those hot & cold attitude.. which make me wonder.. sometimes when i feel tat i should juz end it and there he goes with those surprises.. For me.. i think i am a typical gemini, that what most of my friends said so..
sometimes i dun understand what he is trying to do.. One moment he ask me to consider whether or not we should be together.. When i met him 2 weeks ago, his attitude towards me seems change.. I thought that day it will be a start for the both of us, however no ans was given. i tried probing yet he juz avoid answering.. What is he thinking??
do you think that we will work out?
OMG! i read this and almost lost my mind…this is me all day and nite…i think you are the best for writing this…
thx for expressing what i have been to say for so long…
Ok, I have read both about the Gemini men and women. I am Aquarius woman, who doesn’t get along with Geminis at all! Weither it be men or women. I know they say Aquarius and Geminis are great pair, but for me it is pair from hell. And reading about abouth sexs have shown me some light why I don’t get along with this sign.
I’ll start with the man. The Gemini man that I knew was over the internet. I wasn’t a friend or girlfriend or anything (thank god to that!) He own heavy metal message board. He seem cool at first, when you starting to get to know him and saw him for what he truly was he was egoitical, hyperical, cheeky bastard! That needed to be hit with a slanghammer. He suffer from “It’s ok if I do it, but it’s not ok for others to do it.” systemdorm. Which I find totally annoying.
Me being Aquarius, I am strong believer in being equal. And there’s nothing more that gets me pissed when people don’t treat others people fairly. He wouldn’t let anyone speak their mind, but it was ok for him to put people down and speak his mind. Well, no one stood up to him, well, oneday I stood up to him, (I might be 4′11, but I have a lot of warrior spirt. I am fearless and I am not afarid to stand up for the underdogs either.) I put him in his place more than once and told him what I REALLY thought. Well, naturally, he didn’t like that. We fought a lot, it was war between us and everyone knew we hated each other. One day I decied I had enough of his BS and left his messageboard. Then oneday he tells me he is sorry, and he wants me to come back. I gave him a big HELL NO. His charms did not work on me, I could see right through him.
His girlfriend was also a Gemini, I view her a little weak. I thought she should have stood up to her a-hole boyfriend, but she didn’t. I didn’t have a problem with her, since she was so passive it was almost scary. I would offer wondered what she saw in him. He was ugly inside and out.
As for the woman Gemini: My best friend, ex friend was a Gemini and I didn’t get along with her at all. Have you ever met someone for the first time, and at the first meeting there something about the person that you cannot explain, just that you know you don’t like them. It was like that. (My father who is also an Aquarius Jan 21. 1955 didn’t like her either.) To me she seem to be fauty, shading, back stabbing, stuck up, childish, impultive. Traits that make my skin crawl.
When I first met her, I would stay quiet and study her and take her measure, I just didn’t trust this woman. I don’t remember what we were talking about, but I just didn’t agree with her and it was an all out war. I told my best friend to watch out with her, that I didn’t trust her.
And all my gut feelings were right. She’d mistreated my best friend so badly that it would piss me off. She would not have no conceration for my friend and thought my friend she be at her beck and call. Drop everything to hang out with her, she thought the world moved around her. And would get upset if my friend couldn’t come. She would lie to my friend, con her into flying to other part of the USA so she could see Andrea’s baby Later my friend found out that she’d lie that Andrea never told my friend she never invited her to come and she didn’t know that bonnie (that the gemini) was planing to do that. My friend was mad. Bonnie, stories never stayed the same. She would tell my friend, we are going on this day, and day before the day they were suppose to meet my friend would call her up to clarfiy and Bonnie would say no, I never said that, and make my friend look like the bad guy.
She would put my friend down and call her a whore. And the reson why she called my best friend a whore, because she was no longer fit where my friend was still fit. This woman was also hypercricul just like the Gemini man I descripe from above.
Becky I know you said Gemini women are suppose to be sexy and sophicasted. There was NOTHING sexy and sophicasted about her. She was unattractive, she was over weight and she choice to wear tight clothing and she looked nothing, but a street whore. I thing I couldn’t understand how ANY man in their right mind find this woman attractive.
She comes across as being nice, and friendly, open minded, I am care free, but she is not.And she uses her falut kindess to get what she wanted. If she could use a person, she did!
It took me a long time to convice my best friend that Bonnie wasn’t a good friend.
I know not all Geminis are like this, but when I come across one it’s one moment meeting the nice twin, and the next moment meeting the evil twin. Like a Dr. Jacles and Mr. Hyade. I have never gotten along with this sign, and if I do, it is very rare. Dealing with men and women of this sign is like meeting a child, that hasn’t fully grown. Or constantly dealing with day or night.
My best friend is into Tarot and Astrology, and she found this surpising that I didn’t get along with Bonnie. She told me, you both have strong personalities, when two people with strong personalities meet they clash. Which I disgaree. I get along fine with people with strong personalities. I think the reason why Bonnie didn’t like me. I always thought she had a weak personality, I don’t get along with weak people and she couldn’t deceive me, because I saw right throught her. She tried to pull that crap on me once and it didn’t work. There were moments where she would look at me and she was scared of me.
I am starting to wonder, if Aquarius born the first portion just clash with Gemini. My father was also born first portion and he didn’t like her.
Hey LittleImpaler
It just sounds like you have had a bad experience with Gemini’s all out. Maybe one day you never know you might end up being he best of friends with a Gemini? lol
But I can understand where you are coming from..but remember all starsigns have a bad side to them…
So you have never met a Gemini that you have got on with…Gemini’s can be very nice people but they have the two faced side.. where going back to what you said they feel that they can act in a certain way but don’t like other people to do so.
LittleImpaler Sometimes its best to stay away from certain star signs..cause it is true you can not connect..sometimes there can be an exception to the rule..like for me I just don’t get on with Sagitarius girls..at all
To Haz91: That may be true for some signs to not be together. I go by logic and what makes sense and I take fun things like astrogoly, tarot with grain of salt. I mean their fun, but they are not always true. Look at all the wonderful relationships people here have with signs that Astrology say that don’t work.
If one takes it as the absoulte truth, they could be seriously be hurt and decive. Yes, I seem to clash with the sign Gemini, but I understand not all them act the same. I don’t always get along with Pieces, but I have many fish friends. My best friend is Turuas, and we been friends since the 9th grade. And they say the Bull and the Watercarrier don’t get alone.
Being two face, makes me mad. I do not like two face people. I like people who are honest, true to themselves, do not backstabe people in the back. Who are blunt, straight forward and take no crap from nobody.
I never jude a person by their star sign, I jude them for who they are inside. I get along with anyone that is nice.
To Haz91: I just made comment starting with “what you said they feel that they can act in a certain way but don’t like other people to do so.”
It seem when I pressed entered it got cut off.
Here’s the message:
“what you said they feel that they can act in a certain way but don’t like other people to do so.”
I suppose, you are right….when is your bday again?
To Becky,
I have a question..
I have read many of the comments put by Gemini females who are in relationships with Aquarius males..what has come to my attention is that they seem to express there real true love for the Aquarius men and state that they seem to have found a real true soul mate in their aqua men!
What I wanted to ask was if you were to ask an Aqua man about his relationship with the Gemini would it be the same.. would they be as in love with the Gemini woman as they are with them…
I am just wondering because it states that the Aqua men are scared of their emotions and especially when it comes to love..so what do you think their response would be to Gemini female love match?
Are Aquarians completely in love with the Gemini as Gemini is with Aquarius..because from experiecne sometimes it seems like the Gemini woman goes onto express her true love but the Aqua man does not really say much?
Or is it me being a Gemini woman being overbearingly emotional again? lol
xx
Thanks
To Becky,
I have a question..
I have read many of the comments put by Gemini females who are in relationships with Aquarius males..what has come to my attention is that they seem to express there real true love for the Aquarius men and state that they seem to have found a real true soul mate in their aqua men!
What I wanted to ask was if you were to ask an Aqua man about his relationship with the Gemini would it be the same.. would they be as in love with the Gemini woman as they are with them…
I am just wondering because it states that the Aqua men are scared of their emotions and especially when it comes to love..so what do you think their response would be to Gemini female love match?
Are Aquarians completely in love with the Gemini as Gemini is with Aquarius..because from experiecne sometimes it seems like the Gemini woman goes onto express her true love but the Aqua man does not really say much?
Or is it me being a Gemini woman being overbearingly emotional again? lol
xx
Thanks
I am Gem as my mate and we’re living in a Big Storm in every aspect : she needs all attention, she lives for her problems and sees life as a whole for happiness : job , love , family , sex , money - or she’ll fall into anxiety/depression .
Me : I wasn’t born to be dominated by a woman , and I feel stuck in my own emotions as if I doubt of my own qualities of getting my own life challenges .
This is indeed a stormy relationship and the Biggest CHALLENGE on a Lifetime .
This is to the girl that says that she was born on June 21 and she only attracts pisces and cancer men. You may have a cancer moon or cancer acscendent or pisces moon or pisces accendent. i am aries with gemini ascendent and a moon in aquarius and i am attracted to mainly air signs.
I am currently in a relationship with a Gemini female. We have been hanging out and talking for about 2 weeks now. I am wondering, what does it mean if I am the only one initiating text conversation. Is this normal? What should I do? Just wait for her to text me? I feel like I shouldn’t be the only one trying to talk. I know she likes me.
Me being a Pisces man, I realize that our signs do not match up well. However I have learned astrology and know exactly how she is and how to get along. Gemini girls are exciting and this relationship has a lot of potential. Any help would be appreciated.
I’m happily married to a gemini woman.
Odds are that you may not make a true connection until you are actually together. Pisces are often misinterpretated, and that becomes worse without interracting in person. The eyes communicate a lot between the pisces and gemini.
An important thing for a pisces and gemini relationship to work is to make sure you don’t “flood” the gemini with your thoughts and emotions. Although they will often be truly inspired by the depths of our thoughts and ability to feel things as they do, a little bit goes a long way.
The gemini woman is very unique in her childish ways as well as the honest and sincere way that she looks at and interracts with others. Be forewarned that she can be difficult at times. Think twice before reacting to such times in a way that may not be appropriate.
When you have a gemini, you have a real “Gem”, so be cautious in the way you approach and interract with her and you’ll most likely find the best relationship of your lifetime.
hey becky,
i think i love you already!
im a gemini girl &i love how you kno exactly how i am. most people say that gemins are fake &two-faced do you believe that??
love, i’ve beencrazy about this saggit boy for ever &we almost had something, but it was a weird sitch &i asked him what he wanted from me &he said , “i dont know. Its just everytime i see you i get feelings for you.” &since that day he’s been on my mind every single day!! but it sux ’cause after all that he was kinda ignoring me &i told him that he should just forget about it all but i just can’t get him outta my mind &this happend like 4months ago. we still flirt &i just act like it doesnt bother me at all but =/ …
what should i do??
Hi Becky!
I am a Gemini and a horse… and It has been quite a ride to say the least. I am now going on 31 and just got out of a relationship with an Aqurius-rat. We loved HARD but we fell HARD too.. and had to finally let it go because of my ability to always run away and play hide and seek…. if you will.. I just want to know, What sign would be best for me? And what are your thoughts on my last gem/aqu relationship not working.. I think we fell to hard and never bothered to ask enough questions. I wonder why Geminis take so long to be serious in a relationship.
Hello fellow Gemini-Horse,
Thank you for your comment! Well, you were never going to hit it off with a Rat I’m afraid, it never works, far too diferent to last. The best matches for you are Aquarius (in the long run) from the Chinese zodiac Iwould say Tiger (that’s anyone 4 years older than you!) I seriously advise against a relationship with an Aquarius from the Rat or Dog years, although Dogs are good for us Horses we simply don’t click with them when they are in the Dog years.
It’s not easy being in a relationship for either Gem or Aqua and it can take a lot of time and patience to work through the difficulties. There needs to be a real desire to be with one another, and a lot of arguemtns may occur. I could write a novel on the up’s and down’s I have experienced and what I have learned, in fact I am going to write a book about it! But the thing is out of all the signs I have been with it is the Aquarius that works in the end, they truly understand us, and allow us to be ourselves, and for us Gemini Girls that is special indeed!
Love & Light
Becky
Thanks Becky!
I just realized my comment was all over the place, but it seems you understood my questions. ha! I see, no wonder. He did see right through me, but also, as many other relationships in my past wanted me to be someone else. I don’t blame him, I am a bit flighty… I am noticing over time my personality quarks and am able to try to grow from them. It isn’t easy though. I have a STRONG desire to be in a relationship with someone who truly loves me. I also have a desire to be stable. However, my other ‘twin’ has other ideas! I also have a really strong pull to run or be ‘free’.. I feel plaqued by it. Has this gotten better for you over the years?
Also, I have a Best friend who i used to date in highschool. That didnt last, but we stayed connected and friends. We get along like so well! He is a Aquarius/Dragon. We have stayed friends for over 10 years.. He isn’t really my type physically anymore.. but he still loves me i can tell. He has been patient and kind and seems to just wait..Do you think he would be a good long term match for me?
One more thing… sorry I am scattered. I Just met a Gemini/Monkey. Are we to much alike to ahve a real relationship?
Hi again!! No, that could be very fun indeed, you may wear each other out in the end but I think that could be a very enjoyable relationship, although it will not fulfil your need for stability.
Love & Light
Becky
As for the Aqua dragon, it could be nice, however if you don’t him physically attractive any longer I wouldn’t go there, you may end up hurting his feelings in the end. Although physical attraction isn’t everything it is important..it depends how you feel about him, but if he loves you and you do not feel the same I would just stay friends for his sake.
Becky
x
Hi There,
I need some help with myself…. am very troubled…. my life is so full of shit that i cant breathe. Am a hard core gemini…. i think, 22nd May 1989 born. I was in a relationship with a gemini man 2 years older than me, exactly 2 years older; we have the same b’day. but then he was not like i am, all he did was to lie about things, and all i did was telling him every truth. And he still accuses me that i could not accept few things and that i deserve this depression. I am not depressed for the reason he cheated on me, nor for the reason that he lied coz now, I feel he didn’t deserve me. But am still depressed coz he found another girl, pretty soon after he cheated on me…. and he disappeared, and went to that girl coz i managed to find out about al his lies, accidently. The girl he is dating now is not half good as me…. she looks YUCK!! and my friends laugh on me that i dated a jerk. its and insult to me that he is dating a shit looking girl…. Coz am pretty gorgeous…. all my male pals say so. And they laugh on me…. say that i were a fool. They say that i can never grow up if i don’t control my split personality, and yes i change almost every minute…. is it because of frustation? I am a chinese Earth Snake as well…. and my ex is a stupid rabbit…. i find it stupid in front of a snake, more because he is dating a shit looking female and more because she is a Leo, but acts like a buffallow; lol. I mocked her in her face in front of my ex, for she looks so shit.. and i look like a fairy…. But all they did was to go away and get the assaults in their asses and not revolt…. i wanted to fight with them…. but i couldnt coz i was the only one who was shouting….. And so i am frustrated, I want a revenge…. he insulted me by dating a shit looking girl…. couldn’t he find a better face on earth? Its so humiliating….. tell me how to calm myself down and plot my revenge.
Hi Becky, i am a gemini girl..yay! i currently have a pisces friend and she annoys the heck out of me!! We don’t have open animosity but i feel the undercurrents of tension between us. If anything i think she’s jealous or insecure of me. She never wants me around esp with her boyfriend whom i do NOT firt with..it’s a moral code i have..and she only calls me to do stuff for her etc. I get so upset but i end up “being there” for her anyway. I haven’t even been able to be my true self around her because i don’t want to get in her way!!
what should i do??
Hi Becky,
Can you answer Haz’s question when you get a chance? I was thinking the same thing!!!
Haz91 on December 17th, 2008 at 2:37 pm
To Becky,
I have a question..
I have read many of the comments put by Gemini females who are in relationships with Aquarius males..what has come to my attention is that they seem to express there real true love for the Aquarius men and state that they seem to have found a real true soul mate in their aqua men!
What I wanted to ask was if you were to ask an Aqua man about his relationship with the Gemini would it be the same.. would they be as in love with the Gemini woman as they are with them…
I am just wondering because it states that the Aqua men are scared of their emotions and especially when it comes to love..so what do you think their response would be to Gemini female love match?
Are Aquarians completely in love with the Gemini as Gemini is with Aquarius..because from experiecne sometimes it seems like the Gemini woman goes onto express her true love but the Aqua man does not really say much?
Or is it me being a Gemini woman being overbearingly emotional again? lol
xx
Thanks
hi becky,
I’m an Aries(horse) guy and I am in love with this Gemini (horse) girl..but there are a few things about her that bother me..like she could be manipulative at times…and there are times when she sounds fake..
Do you think this Aries Gemini combination could work?
P.S. I’m madly in love with her.
thank you
TYPO… Sexually there is no better! Even if I do say so myself! Anyone who has been in a relationship with a Gemini girl will no what I mean. i think you meant to type ‘know’ instead of no.
im a gemini girl. is there a tendency for us to be perfectionists? i cant seen to control myself when it comes in correcting people.
I am a Mature (35) Gemini female with Scorpio rising (moon was full eclipse). I am married to a Capricorn male (not sure about rising sign or moon). How can I get him to flirt more and understand that Gemini need to be chased? I NEED attention!
Hi
I was seeing an Aquarius man end of last year, I’m gemini, but after two months I went on holiday and came back to discover he’d decided he was no longer wanting a relationship as he was with someone for a long time and didn’t feel ready, we continued to see each other before I ended things a few month later… we got back in touch about 8 weeks later and have been meeting up since, we have the most amazing chemistry and cannot stop it (he says this hasn’t been the case in all his relationships and he can take or leave the sex side of things if there’s no connection), there has been a slight issue with his ex, a leo who has come back on the scene… He says he wants to leave things as he’ll only hurt me, so I told him to leave me be for a while but then he gets back in touch… is he just using me or is this typical behaviour of his sign… sould we develop a relationship again or am I fighting a losing battle… The problem is we are so alike it’s unreal, and whereas I find him perfect for me I feel he just cannot see what is right in front of him. BTW I’m a Pig he’s a dragon if this helps, any advice will be great… PS your gemini woman article is SPOT ON, I love it!
Thanks
Georgia
Georgia,
Maybe you need to leave him for definate, if he was selfish enough to leave you on a cliffhanger when you came back from holiday, then you need to give him a taste of his own medicine. And it is normal for Aquarians to be on and off with people that they are in a relationship with, but the Gemini girl is onwe girl who the Aquarians CAN NOT stop chasing…. they love us.. trust me. But more to the point I think you need to tell him to give you a break and leave him for a while… until he has got his act together…
When are both you guys birthdays?
I am a Gemimi woman and I myself love an Aries guy. I see that people are asking about this combination, but i did not see any replies. Can Aries men and Gemini women work. (FOR A RELATIONSHIP) nit just friends.