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The Aries Woman
The first thing I am going to have to say about these women is this…I LOVE THEM!! They are fabulous people. I have known many and all of them I have become good friends with. Some of my funniest moments have been spent with an Aries Woman, laughing so hard I cried and then laughed some more, tears rolling down my face.They are naturally funny, even when they don't mean to be. Their accidental innocence just makes me fall for them every-time. They look at everything like it's the first time they have seen it, like a child, which, I supposed is essentially what they are., being an Aries, the first sign, and the baby of the zodiac. Don't let that fool you for one moment though!
These women are so far removed from being stupid it's funny.These women are very clever, and they don't miss a trick but they may let on sometimes that their brains are just full of air, it doesn't work…I know it's not! Like a child they appear to have a fear for trying new things, and then the next time you see them they are jumping out of a plane with a parachute attached to their back, or swimming with great whites, without the cage! They really are quite phenomenal people.When in a relationship these women must be treated with respect.
They would prefer it actually if they are wearing the trousers, and the boots!Independent they certainly are and can turn into something quite dreadful if they get trodden on by their partner. I have seen this happen to a friend of mine. Her partner just controlled her and suffocated her until all she was disintegrated, it was horrible, it was like watching jelly fall of a plate, you try to pick it up but it just runs through your fingers. so if anyone out there has an insight as to why, do let me know!
Overall though, these women do have a lot going for them. And anyone who takes up with one of these interesting and enthusiastic ladies is certainly in for an exciting time, they make enjoyable companions and a brilliant shoulder if you are in need. For me personally these girls get a 10/10!
If you are interested in finding out more about Aries, have a look at my Aries Men post.
Combined Astrology - The Aries Rat
Last 5 posts in Aries, Fire Signs, Women
- Fire & Fire or Fire & Air? - May 5th, 2010
- Life of the Aries Man - December 30th, 2009
- Who are the best lovers of the Zodiac?? - August 7th, 2009
- Aries Rat - August 5th, 2009
- Gemini Woman - June 23rd, 2008
September 6th, 2009 at 10:36 pm
Oh crap- Are we Aries women this “special”? Oh boy!
@ Tucker- I am glad you heard from her. I agree with Sasha 150%. With an Aries woman, You have to strike a good balance btn showing interest and dis-interest. We are rooting for you!
@ Sawyer- RUN! C’mon- You guys are both married. Is this really worth it??? I am asking you to honor your vows and quit playing with this FIRE. No woman { even an Aries woman} is worth your Marriage! I can tell, you are better than this.
@ Sasha- We do need a website dedicated to ARIES women- Oh my! Aren’t we something?
September 7th, 2009 at 5:38 am
Hi
I am a Gemini deeply and madly in love wid a Aries woman. Actually she’s my best friend…can’t even say that…For me I cannot live without her but I cannot understand her. Sometimes she is so innocent and completely dependent on me and sometimes she’s so indifferent towards me, watever I say it doesn’t even affect her.
Since a past few days I have stopped talking to her…because I think she’s started hiding things from me…I even tried to talk to her but she said there’s nothing wrong. She somehow makes me feel that I am thinking too much and I am thinking all bull shit….neways I got really angry and watever…But I tried to forget her a lot but m not able to forget can’t even stop loving her…can u please guide me as to what shud I do to make her love me also….
September 7th, 2009 at 5:54 am
Sasha and to all who helped me,
It appears that my Aries girl is officially done with me; although she did not say so, she showed her lack of interest.
1. My last call with her she answered the phone with an annoyed voice and she sounded disinterested in talking to me, even if she did ask me questions about my day, weekend, etc.
2. She didn’t give me a direct answer when I asked if I could see her next week. She replied, “Well, I’m not sure what I will have to do next week.”
3. I invited her to my friend’s party. She replied, “Ok, thanks, I’ll let you know.” She didn’t call or text the day of the party.
This all happened within the past 3 days. Based on this information, I would say she already lost interest. Am I right? Do you think she already lost interest in me?
September 7th, 2009 at 11:05 am
Hi,
I am a sagi man who start to date with aries women. We study about 9 years from when we are kids and I moved. After 27 years later we meet a grup meeting and next day she call me. We talk, and she start to tell me about marriage, and I say I am not ready and I might not be again, after my divorce. After this we dine 5-6 times and went to theater twice. I start to pick her from her house and I also meet her mother and her brother. I know them from my childhood, and I was good with her brother since. Latly I sent her kind of love msg to her mobile after theater, and first one she never turn anything but she send me few msg for coffe and she invite me to her home. Last night I send another msg to tell her that I am feeling love that she planted in my heart and I want to show her the flowers that growing. But after 2 days she never call or msg me? What did I wrong? Can’t understand!!! Am I decived or not? Need urgent help!!!
September 8th, 2009 at 5:09 am
NTM,
What can i say?
She told you about marriage, and you said you are not ready and I might not be again.. and now you ask if you are deceived?
You expect Aries to take you seriously for a casual thing that is more likely to end up nowhere?
Think twice.
September 8th, 2009 at 5:14 am
Tucker,
Yes, what you had listed are not looking good at all. I would like to share some idea but I’m not in a good balance now, so much work, tired, so much problem and my mind is not at peace. I will come back to give opinion later. But I would like to tell you to try not to worrying too much and you cant interpret her every acts like moment by moment. Ignore her for now for a few days.
September 8th, 2009 at 12:03 pm
Tucker:
Let her go for now. Give it some time and space. Even if she answered the phone sounding annoyed, it doesn’t mean that is how she was feeling toward you. It could be due to others things that were going on around her at the time.
As for not responding to your invitation, that was rude and unacceptable. Are you accepting of it? A simple, “I can’t” would have sufficed. I’m with Mischievious - ignore her for awhile.
September 8th, 2009 at 1:27 pm
@ Sasha,Tucker, Flowergirl…
Hey thx for your posts and i know that what you are saying is right. Believe me when i tell you how much i love my Libra soul mate…i know no-one could take care of me and love me as much as her. You obviously know tho’ how an attraction of a Pisces to an Aires can happen so easily. The very reason i came to this site was to try to help me figure out “why” this woman could have such a powerful hold over me. If you’ve read all my posts you know that i’ve tried to be careful and controlled in my actions toward her..(but it is still very difficult to resist)…some of her Aires ways has made me want to walk away and not say anything, and i have done that a few times only to see her reach out and pull me back.
In the end i’m smart enough and she is definitely smart enough to know the consequences of that path. I guess that’s what makes it so hard for me to know in the end we probably cannot even be friends because of this… now it is hard to walk/or run away from someone you’ve come to care about- i don’t care who you are!!!
And Tucker, brother-if i was only thinking w/ the lower head i would’nt be on here seeking help in this situation like you are now would I?? I’m not critizing you in any way, it’s just this is life and you have to find ways to deal with things that come your way…and i’ve been smart enough to this point to not make any foolish decisions….YET!!! LOL
September 9th, 2009 at 12:27 pm
@ Tucker-
I am with everyone-Just let her go. Let things cool out for a bit. The direction that the two of you are currently heading towards to appears to involve lots of friction. While in the end, this will ultimately have to be your call- You might also want to consider our opinion about letting her go. Speaking from experience, one thing you don’t want to do is to get an ARIES woman cold. We are fire people- and when we get cold… it’s really difficult to put the fire up again. Tucker, sometimes situations are more than a Zodiac- and yours appears to be so. Really, just let her go- easier said than done – I know! But you will have more chances with her this way or any other girl [if she does not come around.]
@ Sawyer
My first love was a Pieces- Yeah! So I do have a soft spot for your situation. I do understand that sometimes things happen without us planning them. I completely agree. But, What I don’t agree with is us acting on those situations, especially if they will cause harm to other people. In this case, your innocent significant others.
While your Aries woman looks so irresistible right now- This is truly not worth it. WALK! You can be a bigger person here and decide this is not even worth toying with. Don’t even play with it- Its too intense for you to control Just cut it off. She will always thank you and she will always remember you for that!
To determine a successful man- I really just look at one main thing. See, while I love the houses, and cars, and pools and all the toys he has collected for himself, I basically try to asses not where he stood in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stood at times of challenge and controversy. For what its worth- Please be that man who takes the right stand in the moment of controversy!
I know you CAN DO IT!
September 9th, 2009 at 12:38 pm
@ Sawyer
Have you considered talking to your Libra woman about this? I am really not that “experienced” in today’s dating world- So I dont know how this works. But I just think Coming clean about it to your significant other might make your situation appear less intense. Yes she will be hurt- but If she knew before hand she might decide to work with you.
While I am not so experienced in the dating world- i know that I would want to know if my significant other is going through a similar situation. I will be hurt , yes- But Still, I think the realationship stands a better chance if we were that open with one another.
maybe this is another Aries woman thing? or maybe it is just me?
September 9th, 2009 at 1:07 pm
@ NTM-
I am just going through a thing with a Sagi Man. And May I say- you guys fear comittemnt like a plague. And you are mighty scared of Aries women! We kinda have that spell on you that make you want to settle down- and It freaks you out. And before you know it you blubber all this stuff about how you are not ready to settle down.!
Now- when time passes and you start feeling the aries woman. You want her to quickly adjust and follow your que
so here is what I have to say, ARIES women dont do casual dating! We simply don’t. And let no one lie to you. We cannot juggle our feelings for two individuals at the same time. We do flirt yes- But no we dont double date!
Something else- If we do get out the way to epress our interest to you- BELIVE ME WHNE I SAY- it does take a whole lot of us! and You better respond. This is not a small matter to us. If you slap us on our face with the ” I am not ready for you stuff”- Be ready for what awaits. and NO do not complain we changed rules on you!
Sorry NTM- You sorta brought this upon yourslef. Its her turn now. So just let her be.See how it plays out. Maybe they is a chance for you after all.
September 9th, 2009 at 1:09 pm
Sorry guys for all the typos- I am rushing to work!
Later!
September 9th, 2009 at 6:16 pm
@ Roy - forget the fake and phony stuff. Be yourself with an Aries woman. We recognize bull a mile a way and we don’t respect that. Geminis do tend to over analyze things and are very sensitive and we are waaaay to laid back for that. If your Aries does not respond to you in the way you want, then you wonder what you have done to her. It’s not like that for us. If you did something to us then believe me, we will tell you or completely avoid you.
You say she is your best friend. Is that a romantic, intimate friend or are you platonic friends?
Accept her as she is and as what she says. Why do Gems all think that Aries have a second agenda? We really don’t like lies because its too much hard work to keep up with them. And we are lazy!!!! The chemistry between Geminis and Aries is and can be great. Just let it flow. Be your natural self and she will be crazy for you!
September 10th, 2009 at 1:59 am
@ Sawyer:
I understand how you are feeling. This website really helps me with my dating problems. I hope this is helping you as well. I’m sure you will figure out the best solution for your situation. The only other thing I would advise - some things are better left a secret. I wouldn’t tell your wife about your situation at work. She might take it in the wrong way. But only you know what’s best for you.
Good luck
September 10th, 2009 at 3:59 am
To mischievous, Sasha, Flowergirl:
Ugh! So I tried ignoring her and I couldn’t! Just today I dropped off some roses at her job - I left the flowers with the receptionist. I decided to give my Aries girl some flowers because I thought she was still upset over our argument. She also has something important coming up so I thought the flowers would motivate her and help take her mind off it. You would think whoever receives flowers would call the person they received it from… She did not call me - only a simple text, “Hi Tucker, just wanted to say thanks for the flowers… That was very sweet of u…” Just like that, word-for-word. It sounds really fake and automated to me but that’s because I know her use of words and style of texting.
Ok, I need to listen to all of you and ignore her. This time I will. I need to ignore her and stop thinking about her. If you never hear back from me then you will know she didn’t respond to me and she forgot all about me.
Oh, yeah, I met an Aquarius girl and we clicked from the start. So I’m curious to see where it goes with her. I’ll probably be on the Aquarius message board more often
Thanks for everything Aries girls…
September 10th, 2009 at 8:16 am
Tucker,
Incase you came back to check here (which I’m quite certain you will!)
“……You would think whoever receives flowers would call the person they received it from…”
Dont know about other girls, but at least I’m going to do exactly the same as your Aries girl did, and perhaps the same exact text! LOL. And I cant understand how is the message fake? To me that was a nice and simple text, right to the point and show appreciation to the sincere level. (you gave her flowers not jewelry…)
I think I can guess what’s wrong now.
There is no doubt how you’re a very sweet, gentle, and caring person. You remind me of some guys I know, who keep shower girls with romance, sweet all nice and caring treat. I got fed up with dating sometimes because almost all men want something out of the date, either relationship or sex (or both). There are many times I told a guy I date with that I’m not ready for relationship and I’m not going to have sex without feelings. That translate for them as…. ‘bye’ It’s like you guys are not going to hang out/date us for friendship first? Not that I dont want a boyfriend or a relationship, of course I do but it doesnt happen instantly. It’s not like action A will happen after you start action B which will be followed by action C so that she respond with action D and lead to the final action of E…….. You didn’t only form expectaion but also forjudge and misinterpret her reaction. You dont have that ‘calm and stable’ mode to stay and wait after your pursue, to let her feelings settle for you. You get frustrated and go round the bend to your conclusion that she is dating other guys or playing with you. And now your interest is moving a bit toward a new person already….
I think this is nobody false. In my opinion I just think you dont match.
Best of luck with her and the new girl!
September 10th, 2009 at 10:26 am
@ Tucker: Although I agree that she should have called you and said thanks for the flowers (texting can be so impersonal sometimes and flowers are a “I-think-you’re-special” type of gift) she may not have simply because of your expectations.
A telephone call would have required a conversation between the two of you and lately you haven’t been having good ones. Again, I think she fears your expectation of her and a relationship and is avoiding talking to you.
However, if you were truly interested in her, you wouldn’t be moving on to another relationship so soon. You two obviously are not on the same time frame - you want it NOW and she has to sit back and take stock first. When you try to rush or push an Aries, we will dig our heels in and take our time.
Good luck with your new interest. Perhaps she’s more your speed.
September 13th, 2009 at 1:11 pm
@ Mischievious - you know, I re-read your post and you so hit it right on the head. So many people rush into a relationship. They date once or twice, sleep together a day or so later and they are in a “relationship”. Most Aries women are not qwik on the draw like that. We have to stop and analyze the situation. You don’t get the cookies so fast. We have to know that on some level you meet our standards (whatever that means for that particular Aries). We tend to put a barrier up, no matter how miniscule it may be. Until we are completely relaxed and comfortable with you, you don’t get all of us.
Looking at Tucker’s situation, he didn’t allow her to relax and drop her barrier. The fact that she slept with him gave him the idea she was good in a relationship with him. However, some Aries women (myself included) can get release physically without giving of themselves metally/spiritually. She probably liked him but felt a lot of pressure from his questions to be in a relationship and she probably wasn’t ready.
September 14th, 2009 at 5:45 am
Thanx for ur reply…..ya I think u r right!I just analyse so much about her, sometimes i feel so over protective towards her dat it makes things worse….but watever the case I love her like crazy…I don want to loose her.
A couple of days back I msgd her n we started talking again. Its making me feel so happy dat i din say anything about our last arguments n all coz i don want to bring in any issues between us dis time. I hope I can maintain dis attitude in d future also. But sometimes she behaves so mysteriously dat i m left wid no other option but to ask her about watz going on in her life…sometimes she speaks up but there r cases wen she just ignores coz she knows dat i’ll get furious….Another thing is she just trusts anybody n everybody blindly without seeing d consequences, I always try to warn her but she won’t listen n a few days later wen my predictions come true she goes into major depression…now wat m i suppose to do
September 16th, 2009 at 7:08 am
To mischievous, Sasha,
I’m back!!! BUT this will be my last time here, seriously. I just wanted to let you all know what happened with my Aries lady friend.
We had a long talk. Mischievous was right - me and my Aries lady friend are not a good match. Her reasons below:
1. She mentioned that she is still ‘healing’ from her emotions and broken heart with her ex-boyfriend. She’s not over him but she will never get back with him. But she is not ready for a relationship.
2. She said she is attracted to men who ‘hit the gym’, guys with big muscles. I have a slender/toned physique.
3. Her and her friends said I’m quiet, not socially outgoing and not funny. I am very social and outgoing and very funny. When I first meet someone I’m not as social - I need to get to know them first - then I begin to open up.
4. She said we don’t have chemistry. She’s not feeling it with me. But I thought we did.
5. She mentioned she needs to be with someone who is her equal or more. I don’t have a solid ‘career’ and I don’t have much money or a nice home or nice car.
Well, I think that’s it. So there you have it. This is the official end between me and my former Aries lady friend. If I happen to meet another Aries girl then I might be back on here sharing my life stories and asking you all questions. But I don’t think I will be visiting here anytime soon, except to read you comments to my last post. Thank you everyone for your advice, guidance, support, etc.