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The Aries Woman
The first thing I am going to have to say about these women is this…I LOVE THEM!! They are fabulous people. I have known many and all of them I have become good friends with. Some of my funniest moments have been spent with an Aries Woman, laughing so hard I cried and then laughed some more, tears rolling down my face.They are naturally funny, even when they don't mean to be. Their accidental innocence just makes me fall for them every-time. They look at everything like it's the first time they have seen it, like a child, which, I supposed is essentially what they are., being an Aries, the first sign, and the baby of the zodiac. Don't let that fool you for one moment though!
These women are so far removed from being stupid it's funny.These women are very clever, and they don't miss a trick but they may let on sometimes that their brains are just full of air, it doesn't work…I know it's not! Like a child they appear to have a fear for trying new things, and then the next time you see them they are jumping out of a plane with a parachute attached to their back, or swimming with great whites, without the cage! They really are quite phenomenal people.When in a relationship these women must be treated with respect.
They would prefer it actually if they are wearing the trousers, and the boots!Independent they certainly are and can turn into something quite dreadful if they get trodden on by their partner. I have seen this happen to a friend of mine. Her partner just controlled her and suffocated her until all she was disintegrated, it was horrible, it was like watching jelly fall of a plate, you try to pick it up but it just runs through your fingers. so if anyone out there has an insight as to why, do let me know!
Overall though, these women do have a lot going for them. And anyone who takes up with one of these interesting and enthusiastic ladies is certainly in for an exciting time, they make enjoyable companions and a brilliant shoulder if you are in need. For me personally these girls get a 10/10!
If you are interested in finding out more about Aries, have a look at my Aries Men post.
Combined Astrology - The Aries Rat
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- Aries Rat - August 5th, 2009
- Gemini Woman - June 23rd, 2008
May 11th, 2008 at 1:53 am
Hi. Thanks for the post. Are they really naturally funny? I didn’t know, I thought I was just a bit klutzy, but I’m still young (seventeen).
But I honestly wonder how Arians, are childish, and still make themselves strong leaders. I am an Aries, I agree with most of what’s written. But then, I don’t get how they rely on alcohol and drugs if they are depressed. Can you interpret it please?
May 13th, 2008 at 5:43 am
For aries everything is new and this includes relationships maybe this is why they come accross as prickly and awkward?
May 13th, 2008 at 12:01 pm
aries women are realy fun to be with, but you musnt mess with them hey! im an aries myself im very kind and i dont get irritated easly even if i am irritated i dont show it, but wait till i get agry trust me no one likes me when im angry. and i realy think that revenge is sweet.
May 16th, 2008 at 7:09 am
Hi Susie,
I believe that due to the Aries way of looking at life and their young innocent suprise at the world;that when something bad happens it really does hit them hard. Which is why they have been known to turn to the bottle. It blots it all out. Knowing this is the key of course. Knowledge of ourselves can help prevent these things from happening. That is if you are willing to learn. It is one of the reasons that astrology is such a wonderful subject!
Love & Light
Becky
June 21st, 2008 at 4:10 am
I am an Aries woman, and I think that they come across as awkward because we know that we are forceful and aggressive. And we know that it is still not as acceptable in society for woman to be like this as opposed to men. So, I think that we are awkward because, first, we have to trust someone before we let them know the real us, which makes for a bad first impression since we really don’t impress, and, second, I think that we are semi-afraid of what they’ll think of us. I know that I won’t show my true Aries, aggressive nature until I become their friend. So, I think that we are awkward because we are hesitant to trust them, and we don’t want to show our true selves yet. That makes us awkward because it goes against our very nature, which is to be extremely honest to ourselves and others at all times.
June 25th, 2008 at 4:45 pm
I am an Aries woman. I too am agressive,loving, kind, too giving, very trusting, and sometimes move too fast. Most men say that I am very nice, a good catch, a good woman, that I would be a great wife, a freak, and sexy. But I ask myself then why don’t I have a steady boyfriend? The problem comes in when they find out that I am kind, and it goes from dating to using.
Can someone email me some advice?
June 27th, 2008 at 7:21 am
I agree with you 100%. I am a pisces girl whose is very close with my aries girl cousin. She is HILARIOUS and is not afraid to be silly. One of the best things about aries people is that they are the most honest personalities in the zodiac, meaning they are just so open, not underhanded in anyway (usually). Only thing is, our relationship can be a bit one-sided (me always listening to her, comforting her, it’s about her, even though she loves me and will stick up for me). Sometimes I just have to have a break from her in order to keep my sanity, she can be a bit draining. but for the most part I love her and we get along very well. I think I understand her better than most. I feel kinda bad for her bf sometimes though lol, being a man in a relationship with an aries woman can be a bit challenging, but as friends they are wonderful.
June 29th, 2008 at 2:13 am
Aries do come across as “ditzy” and “shallow” when you don’t really know them, but I love that it’s just a mask, a small trick they pull on everyone, sometimes even on themselves as a joke. I’m not an Aries, though my Venus is in Aries and I do that often when describing the kind of man I prefer. (”Well, first of all, he has to have a ripped body and a nice butt…”)
I think Aries women come across as awkward because Aries is such a masculine sign and it is kind of awkward being a woman with masculine tendencies. However, Aries women are beautiful and make great fashion models if disciplined enough.
July 19th, 2008 at 2:30 am
hahahaa i’m an aries girl and yeahhh i’m told that i’m hilarious, and veryyyy silly all the time, i’m constantly giggling. i think we get depressed so easily cause we get hurt so easily, atleast i do but only by the ones i care and trust in. other than that i couldn’t careless but i also think we’re awkward cause we don’t know what to say cause we don’t wanna come on too strong, that’s how i am. i don’t wanna offend anyone by saying or doing something inappropraite when i’m first meeting someone.. and poeple do think i’m so dumb but when it comes to advise, i give the best. i am a very honest person, can’t lie to save my life. hate lying. and i’m very faithful to my pisces boyfriend. he always tells me i’m a handful but he loves me haha.. but i would never purposely hurt the ones i love. i am very impulsive, i don’t think about anything before i do it.. it can be a very bad trait but i have fun! ha i agree that we’re a 10/10 ahhaaha
hell yeah to that..
July 21st, 2008 at 5:13 am
Hi Becky!
My Best Friend is an Aries woman, and i honestly think she is the best compatibility friend wise for me. Im a Gemini and i noticed that Gemini’s and Aries naturally get along. My mother is an Aries, and her best friend is a Gemini. But i noticed that Geminis are quite flaky in friendships, because we are so all over the place . I still think that Aries and Gemini are very compatible, we agree on almost all situations, and yes she always makes me laugh, shes so bold and honest, she says the things i wish i had courage to say!! And yes i do agree, you definitely do not want to get on an Aries bad side. In an argument you will never win. They are very smart, and can put you in your place in 60 seconds, so beware!
July 30th, 2008 at 6:39 am
Hiya Becky - First off - excellent job on the site. This looks like it has been a lot of work for you! Thank you for bringing it to us all
I am an Aries/Taurus Rising - Snake. After studying Astrology now for more than a few years, I have learned what qualities we Ariens have that I can’t really tolerate. The awkwardness that you speak of is, for me anyway, a mask for insecurity. A strong Aries woman believes that all eyes are on her, therefore, inner questioning can come off as awkwardness or rudeness.
I have often found myself saying something abrupt or rude, but the charming qualities of the Snake fortunately save me most of the time. I have overcome a lot of this by paying more attention to the interactions between others, and trying to hold that forked tongue of mine when I have to.
I also just read your post on the Aquarian man. It certainly has helped me to open my eyes to my Aquarian. He is amazing in every way, a genius, a free spirited fair lover that I am so blessed to have in my life. But, in many ways, I do feel like a child with him. I get impatient and feel rejected at no cause of his. It’s really quite frustrating. It doesn’t help matters that we both have Venus in Aries - which certainly doesn’t hurt in the bedroom. But I find myself wanting to be with him and struggling to not be possessive. Again, more insecurity and awkwardness.
I also find that with the particular combination that I have, plus a fair amount of education in various arts, I tend to have people who come to me for various kinds of advice. To the point of people will just spill out their life story without provocation or encouragement. The last time this happened (a couple of weeks ago) I didn’t even know the girl’s name until she had told me all about her rotten childhood. It never ceases to amaze me.
There’s so much more I could tell you about being an Aries woman - but I will leave out with this - I love it, I love being a leader, unafraid to try the things that others only talk about - ready for anything - taking every challenge that comes this way. Living life to the absolute fullest every moment. To all the other Arien women or the men who love them - embrace the ram, and let the energy of it burn within.
August 3rd, 2008 at 3:38 pm
I’m an Aries and I have a couple of friends who are Aries. I think we come across as prickly and unapproachable because we are thinking “Please don’t come to me with some BS”. LOL
Seriously, we often set high expectations for others and find ourselves quite often disappointed, so after a while that culminates into stand-offishness at first. But once you really get to know an Aries, we draw you into our lives with our magnetic and bubbly personalities and make it hard for you to stay away. That’s a good thing because we make excellent, loyal friends.
Oh yeah, I definitely agree about don’t get on our bad side. If an Aries isn’t happy, no one is!
August 6th, 2008 at 1:28 am
I am a aries with cancer rising.I know! I will get to the top, but I will not step on anybody on the way up. I have noticed all though I don’t drink I do soothe myself with a little marijuana from time to time.I was married to a cancer whic did not work out, but have a hard time letting go. The man is untrustworthy and cantankerous, yet can be charming and sensitive. I almost though he was a Gemini because he is so two faced . My boyfriend now is a Capricorn. He is a bit clingy and over emotional.He is the feeler and I am the thinker.I actually feel like that brings out my aggressive side.I love him dearly, but he makes me feel too masculine. I am tired of being the strong one in the relationship. I am now looking for a man who is as strong as he is kind.A sagitarius like my dad maybe?We both love to travel and be busy….
Even though I have masculine tendencies on the inside…on the outside I am all female. I wish my boobs were bigger though!Haha more honesty.Aries are great trustworthy fun people. We are not trying to be self-righteous or critical.We are just honest because we love and respect you. Please be honest with us as well. We are awkward because we know that you are judging us and lots of times intimidated by us.So..we try the sweet happy approach and then people think we are dumb. uh! It is so difficult and exasperating to be misunderstood. Plus as hard as we try … we always turn out in relationships to be the one screwed over. It is hard to find somebody as loyal and trustworthy as we are.Sometimes I feel like an outsider in this world and need my days off to just relax.But, if you give us a fair shake and some appreciation and understanding…we can be your own private light source. We never give up and we are a barrell of monkeys and we will always defend you and keep your secrets. Love us!
August 18th, 2008 at 12:07 pm
I was born on the 22nd of April but through my fourteen years of life it has become clear I’m actually an Aries. I don’t know how to handle these news … it’s just that my dad’s an aries and we argue all the time and we can never ever have a proper conversation and both of us never give up on our opinion even if it appears like the other party is really the correct one ,so if I can’t get along with my dad ,and we’re always annoyed at eachother ,how can I be like him and be expected to like it?
P.S. plz email me @ stela_taurus94@yahoo.com (see all this time I thought I was a taurus. )
October 5th, 2008 at 2:32 am
I’m an Aries woman..As I’ve aged and grown into myself more I still find myself in those times that I feel prickly and unapproachable, almost awkward! I still can’t pin point just why… I have never ever thought of myself as unapproachable but I have been told I was a lot different that they thought I’d be??.Also I am quick to defend myself in any argument and quick with my answers. Also been told by other signs that makes me unapproachable.. at times…booo! I cant help that!Atleast Im not a bitch about it, being an asertive outspoken woman is not an easy thing while still holding your charm and girlish smile belive me, its a balancing act all the way. I am greatful that I have a taurus layed back man why loves my firey side, great for sex exspecially with a taurus belive me! Never boring.. as far as the awkwardness, that for me is when I’m bored with the same ol same ol or with a group of people I dont really think I have anything in common with or forced to play nice with some really stupid girl that makes woman look bad!
October 12th, 2008 at 10:16 am
im an aries and i would agreee on everything u’ve said. i’d probably say the awkardness could be we can be secretly unsure of our selfs well thats me anyways bt i do know what ur sayin when u mentioned that.. i don’t undrstand why people can’t understand us.. i think it’s rather straight forward lol
October 12th, 2008 at 4:59 pm
I am an Aries and I can tell you why we come across as awkward and prickly.
We are very smart ladies. We instinctively know others around us may instantly hate us for being beautiful and intelligent so we hide it and try to calm their fears until they get to know us for the kind hearted people we really are. I generally want people to like me and to be comfortable around me. So I am cautious not to accidentally step on those who are so sensative.
Funny is an understatment. I can keep people laughing non stop …they love my whit and scence of humor. I love making then laugh. It’s all about sharing for me…When people feel good around me im my best.
October 17th, 2008 at 5:25 am
Yes absolutely….. I am proud to be Aries… and I live an True Aries lifestyle…. hahahaha!!! Is fun being around people. I do Flirt a bit but i am loyal to the person i love very very much.
Flirting is just the fun and socializing fun that we receive. We love attention and making people smile all the time!
October 25th, 2008 at 4:44 am
I am an Aries woman and we probably come across prickly and unapproachable because we only deal with partners who are up for the challenge. Dealing with an Aries woman is not for the faint of heart. We are adventurous, strong and opinionated. We have little time for whining and complaining about things that we may consider small problems, since we never see a mountain that we can’t conquer.
October 25th, 2008 at 9:05 pm
I am an Aries woman as well !What i’ve realized about me is that i’m sensitive and at the same time very strong to deal with difficulties. I am always determine to achieve the goals that i set and never give it up. I love good food and good sex! I hate lies…
Aries are noted for courage and leadership qualities, primarily because we are nearly always ready for action!!!
October 27th, 2008 at 10:09 pm
All the aries here tiping in stuff that you know you lie . You just say it to look good and you know it .Aries are liers and cheating woman .
October 27th, 2008 at 10:10 pm
Aries woman are liers and cheating woman .
November 7th, 2008 at 12:17 pm
Oh George you poor thing you have obviously been hurt by an Aries woman…….
But you can not tar all of us with the same brush!
I am an Aries and every thing that Becky has written is true, its like I just read a discription of myself!!
I believe we can be unapproachable, due to not being comfortable with our surroundings and the people whos company we are in!
I can assure you when I am round my friends I an quite the opposite…. I love nothing more than to have a good laugh, and more importantly make people laugh!
As I have got older I tend not to care what strangers think of me, and worry more about the people who matter. I have just split up with my Piseces boyfriend who I loved dearly, it was very hard as he just cut me off and said he could not talk about it and couldnt put up with the arguments we had! I didnt think they were that bad but then I wouldnt Im an Aries Im perfect ha ha!!!
I love this website its very eye opening, and when reading through the signs it is amazing, its as if you have written about my friends, family and ex boyfriends personally!!
Thank you
November 8th, 2008 at 3:47 pm
oh my god,its so true its actually quite freaky lol, I am an aries woman and as much as i ts nice to read how we are strong independant funny people, but lets face it girls, we can be pretty hard work. I personally have to know how far i can push my man, its as if i need to know that i’m the ’stronger one’ in the relationship as the thought of someone else having control over me freaks me out, which is possibly the reason why i have three marriages behind me
November 13th, 2008 at 5:08 pm
I don’t know, Aries women are hard to describe. Despite the fact that I’m a Pisces man (yes, I know we don’t work that well) but I have a sister who’s 6 years older than me and she’s an Aries. I have to admit, she’s my favorite disaster, a very important person in my life, I REALLY love her. As my parents were working all the time (both Capricorns, of course), she was, basically, the person who raised me, but, what I don’t understand is that, instead of growing up, to me, seems that my sister is going back in life. She left a guy (10 years older than her) who she was with for 8 or 9 years, I didn’t like him much, but he offered her a good life, at least financially. After that (6 or 7 years ago I’d say), she got married to another guy (7 years younger than her). When she first introduced me to him, I just had that huge bad feeling. I warned her about the things that people around were telling me, because I love her and as a brother it was the least I could do, but of course that the Aries wouldn’t listen to me. Now they have three kids, one of them going through medical treatment for leuchemia (probably as a result of having kids with a junkie), both are really bad with money, so my parents, who are in their seventies, instead of enjoying the earnings of the hard working years, have to help her financially and look after the kids sometimes.
I live in another country and when I talk to my parents about her, it sounds like they are talking about an irresponsible tenager.
The idiot who she is married with, is always doing stupid stuff (crashing cars, spending my parents money in bull****, getting high and of course, he cheats on her A LOT),she complains and I always telling her to just leave him, but she says that she needs help with the kids (nonsense).
I understand that probably she was bored with the guy she had before and I know Aries people like good sex, I really understand, but any Aries woman around could please tell me what’s wrong with her?
It seems that sometimes we need to hold our adventurous spirits, otherwise we put other people’s lives in the problems that we create.
What she is doing, is not right, is selfish and immature. I love her, she was sort of a guidance when I was a teenager but now she is killing my parents. Does good sex with a younger good looking men worth it?
All the best to all of you.
Enry
November 20th, 2008 at 6:23 pm
I’m an Aries and recently have gone on some sites to see what it says about me. Uhm not all true at least not about me. I’m acutally a very giving person (Aries trait) and have always put others before me (not a trait). Especially my family. I am extremly loyal even if a friend betrays me I will not reveal their darkest secrects (not an aries trait). I’m very warm but can be distant at times if I don’t know where I stand with somone. I am far from being a jealous person when I’m with someone( not an aries trait). I am very confident(aries trait) I acutally enjoy be chased and loved by a man. Not doing the chasing.When in a relationship I actually do enjoy staying in a lot with my man. I loath cheaters and man who treats women with lack of respect..Which is why my previous relationships didn’t last. I have had very few partners. To me good sex is when two people have an emotional and mental connection. One site claimed we like fast/quick sex. I do like great great crazy sex but I actually perfer to just make love more. The last relationship I was in was not healthy at all and had than met a man who I have adored from afar for nearly a year. I have only to find out he is a liar which I loath. I feel very hurt but I will move on to find a nice man not because I want to but because I was lied to and I will committ on the contrary to what everyone says about me. I feel bad for Enry’s sister hopefully someday she will find her path. I also feel people shouldn’t take this astrology stuff to heart, it can lead to misunderstandings.
November 20th, 2008 at 8:50 pm
NOLA, you sound more like a Pisces.
November 21st, 2008 at 8:08 pm
HL , Interesting a Pisces. I’ll have to think about that one. The only Pisces I have known have been Liars and CHEATERS which I am neither. But I’m sure you have had better experiences with them than me.
Another Aries trait I guess I have— I always learn the hard way.
November 26th, 2008 at 11:22 pm
I am an aries woman, and I too do not understand why I am “unapproachable.” I’ve asked people and they just say that I “have that look.” huh??? I actually for the first time had a man ask me out for dinner and he was the first one, so i went. I felt actually honored that he had the courage to do it. He said the same thing-that i was funny and he could naturally talk to me, that’s why he asked me. I’ve gotten lots of compliments on my looks from people and they look, but no one ever asks, cuz of the “unapproachable factor.” Funny-ur stuff was right on!
December 13th, 2008 at 10:37 pm
i dunno y d hell do aries n pisces get attracted wen dey cant handle d contrast natures. im an aries woman and my bf is a pisces. he always complains about my anger and possessivness and he finds my honest but critical nature to be way tooooooooo harsh. i really love him and i know dat he loves me toooooooo but we just cant cope up wid r misunderstandings.
December 14th, 2008 at 2:27 am
Yes am an Aries and we are sexy and passionate. We seem unapproachable because some aries women have been badly hurt by men and have their guard up. You will receive an aries trust once it is earned because we’re very smart and spot bullshit from a mile away. And if you george think Aries women are liers and cheaters maybe you just was not that appealling to her no offence, it takes a lot to keep us interested and exciting.Aries are very commited and honest individual once they are in love.
December 15th, 2008 at 6:54 am
Hi Manya,
I’m a Pisces man and I quite understand what you’re saying.
I was raised by an Aries woman (my sister) and the greatest love of my life was an Aries girl.
With the Aries girl, was kind of weird, because she didn’t even had the balls to break up with me, she just didn’t answer the phone anymore and my pride didn’t allowed me to chase after her and I really think was the right thing to do.
Incredibly, after 3 years, she called me saying that she saw me walking on the street one day and in that day she cried so much and sometimes she thinks about me in a way that she can even smell me (isn’t crazy?).
To be honest, I love her. I really don’t care anymore why she didn’t answer her phone at that time. I have to admit that our chemistry was really amazing but I’m not going back.
Doesn’t matter the reasons why she did that, but really, to me, it sounded like lack of character and cowardness, because, what’s the big deal of answering your phone and saying I don’t want it anymore? I think I love a coward but I’m sure this feelings will go away. I know she loves me, but I think both of us too stubborn and proud to give up and make it work.
I really think that this is crazy because she is an Aries Horse and I’m a Pisces Ox, couldn’t be odder. But I know what you’re going through with your Pisces guy, but you want an advice from the heart? Aries and Pisces are so, but so odd, that I will keep the relationship going, just to kind of playing with destiny, do you get it? In the bottom of my soul, I think that Aries and Pisces is a blessed union and I know that you love him and I’m sure that he loves you. He can’t get enough of your sensualty and the strong woman side of you, for Pisces man, Aries women smell like…forever…
All the best!!!
Enry
December 15th, 2008 at 8:57 pm
I have to agree with Angel , some of us Aries girls have been extremly hurt in the past. We may have a hard time opening up and trusting a man who is not there! Oh the games people play, maybe some Aries girls enjoy playing these games but speaking from experience I do not. George if you were cheated on I feel for you. Not cool, been there it hurts. But if you’re just assuming this woman you are upset with is a liar and a cheater that’s too bad. Maybe you’re just out for the game which in that case maybe she is not the girl for you. The game gets boring after a while, if nothing gives sometimes Aries needs to move on(Aries trait). My theory is if a man really wants a woman he’ll go after her. Some of us Aries do enjoy being on the otherside of receiving love and not always having to chase it. Plus what man really want’s a woman who is chasing,calling,texting, etc…. them all the time. You’ll only end up with a stalker in the long run. All the best to you George! Good Luck with making it work or moving on. Enry get some balls and call her. Manya next time you feel jealous take a deep breath and walk away. It will avoid a fight and you both will feel better in the long run.
December 16th, 2008 at 2:58 am
HEY YEAH I AGREE WITH YOU SWEETIE IN EVERYTHING YA’VE SAID. I’M ARIES AND I’VE TURNED TOO ALCHOL AND DRUGS WHEN THINGS GOT ON TOP OF ME. MY INDEPENDENCE OR MAYBE ITS A FEAR OF REJECTION STOPS ME FROM ASKING PEOPLE FOR HELP. THE WAY I LOOK AT IT IF THEY WANT TOO HELP ME THEY’LL OFFER, AS FOR FUNNY YEAH IT COMES NATURAL BUT CAN BE A PAIN IN THE ASS WHEN PEOPLE DON’T TAKE YA SERIOUS AND LAUGH WHEN YOUR NOT JOKING. YOU ASKED TOO LET YA KNOW SOMETHING. WELL I LOVE BEING MYSTERIOUS, LOVE PEOPLE NOT BEING ABLE TOO FIGURE ME OUT. FUCK SOMETIMES I CAN’T FIGURE MESELF OUT THEIR DOES BE TAT MUCH SHIT GOING THROUGH ME HEAD. IF SOMEONE SHOWS ME THE LEAST BIT OF APPRECIATION OR LOVE I CONNECT INTO THEM STRAIGHT AWAY AND EITHER BECOME FRIENDS FOR LIFE OR LOVERS. I CAN TALK MORE EASIER WITH MEN THAN WOMEN CAS I DON’T LIKE BITCHNESS AND SHIT LIKE TAT.
December 16th, 2008 at 10:29 am
i am a dyed in the wool aries..april 6th. for some reason everyone is able to TELL im an aries ” oh, are you an aries?”..thats what i hear alot..i suppose it’s becuase im kind of rough. i ride motorcyels, skydive, play drums, own my own table saw lol. Not to mention im a serious man magnet and charm that will melt anyones socks off. In fact if you DONT like me, i NEVER have to fight my own battles, becuase OTHER people will chastize you for not liking me lol. yep, its good to be aries.
December 30th, 2008 at 8:39 pm
I am an Aries Girl and I can–as you’ve said–fall into a depression quite easily. I believe I seem awkward at times because of my fear of rejection. My face features tend to be the reason for this. Aries people tend to have strong/vivid face features : high forehead, clear eyes(mine have scared some people into silence when i used them for glaring), strong jawline, prominent chin ,and hair that grows up and back (evil-villain-like). Many people also fear me and they seem to not know why. They are afraid of me reflexfully. I can also sometimes be VERY moody. I am faithful in relationships, but i can also be very flirtatious, as you’ve said.
December 30th, 2008 at 8:56 pm
yea that is true I’m also an teenage Aries. i act exactly the same. a lot of guys are attracted to me and everyone think I’m very beautiful but sometimes the guys try to lean away or sometimes i push them off cause i got my heart broken so many times and i don’t want to get my heart broken again. i like to do really crazy things that guys would do and not any girl will do and that’s what so sexy about Aries women. i was a complete tomboy when i was little still kinda am. and i don’t know i heard a lot of Aries play tennis and I’m a pro and i been playing all of my lie. I’m into any sport just put a challenge in my face. I will face it like a man. When people come over i keep everyone entertain is hard cause my twin brother also an Aries tries to as well. we are the most attractive sign i know mad Taurus that I’m more attractive than. and people do say i have a fashion model flavor in me and i should try cause i have a model face and a hot body that no girl has. i can be honest and truly faithful and loyal but if i see a cute guy pass by i don’t care i gotta do my thang. i don’t know why when i get really angry i can kill anyone in the whole world. i turn to a complete monster. if a guy is being disrespectful i hate that i knock them off and I’m like a protective shield to my friends.
when i grow up i realize all of my Aries traits. and my grandma is Aries also so there so many Aries living in the house so the house is explosive and were very loud when we talk and i don’t know for some reason i walk so confident. everyone is staring girls envy me and guys which they can have me. i get really jealous quickly don’t ever try to cheat on me or ill kill you. my Pisces sister sometimes think I’m crazy. We do have natural beauty and most Aries I know have gorgeous bodies and gorgeous irresistible faces like me. All Aries are truly beautiful they really must be joking when they say other signs like Taurus, Aquarius, and Scorpio. Aries is truly the one 10/10. Don’t you realize the shape of are heads i mean my head is kinda big and i have a nice shape face with cute ears to die for, a very cute nose, and the most beautiful eyebrows, my eyelashes are pretty long, everyone envy the shape of my lips, i don’t but i think i have nice eyes i think Aries have nice eyes beside Pisces. i have Egyptian shape eyes everyone says. i think Scorpio have cute eyes too. is it true that we are attract to Scorpio well I’m kinda and I’m totally attract to Leo. i don’t know i think Aries are the most beautiful zodiac sign. not only we have the looks and we are also fit and smart.
January 1st, 2009 at 4:22 pm
I have been married for 34 years , my husbend drinks alot ,I have been so depressed ,hE once would beet on me but one day after i became with his child he stoped that as soon as he knew i was having his child .Now he does it with his words . He is a buble sward and a monster but yet kind with beauty when he has better days like a butterfly .I have been very ill, i too wish i had drugs to excape , i can not drink because of my sugar . Please will you tell me will i drop or will we divorce . Imany times wish he would just up , and just leave . Will he? I really need your help . Yes i’am a Aries my DOB is 04-18-56 my other halfs is 10-23-46 .Please if you will e-mail to :fran19562006@yahoo.com Sincerly Mrs Fran
January 2nd, 2009 at 11:06 pm
i’ve impreginated an aries girl, we weren’t 2gether when she got pregnant i hadn’t even seen here in the daytime. we decided we’d make a go of it (my idea)shes made my life a nightmare, she has me sitting thinking shes cheating she has msn friends in her phone shes never met but talks 4 hours, lies about petty things and said i act like a woman cos i choose 2 discuss problems and fears i have of her cheating on me… she never buys me anything never calls my phone and only txts me when we argue, in fact we argue all the time mostly me onesided. she’s selfcentred and selfish . as an aquarius libras have worked for me! this girls strong indipendant n fiesty but has a mysteriousness about her that leaves me loking 4 answers the more i look the more she hides. or maybe if i dont look i wont notice and b taken 4 a fool. this girl never cums either and i know how to make a girl cum what is this all about and y does she only show me attention when i’m letting go which i’m about to do before i get depressed (even more reply to me arians 6th april(especially SYENA BELLA n CHRISTY)
January 3rd, 2009 at 1:16 pm
Believe it or not i’m actually on here looking for answers myself, to see if there’s any reason why i act the way i do. example: I’ve been seeing a guy for a few weeks and last nite was the first nite i stayed at his flat, he didn’t look too well when i got there and he was complaining that he’d felt ill all day. I suggested that i’d go home and see him another time but he was adament i stayed, anyway after alot of build up over the last few weeks off what he was going to do me (have me climbing the walls blah blah blah) the actual event lasted seconds and we hadn’t even reached intercourse!!! i could visibly see him wishing the ground would open up and swollow him, but i just could not let it rest, and contantly reminded him off his previous words. My last words before leaving him this morning was… U wanna get the pollyfiller out so you can fill in all the nail holes i’ve left up ur walls (how bitchy is that). Why?
January 9th, 2009 at 6:08 am
I personally dnt think there’s anything wrong with Aries women(people)we just have way too much energy self-centered and view the earth’s flat as a play ground or some sort of magical place. I do feel the awkwardness but i dnt make identity of myself from it. I try to use my energy for possitive things i like,if u haven’t discovered Aries people are also very spiritual minded,i practise meditation tohelp relax my over active mind. Don’t be afraid to learn yourself you are what u are why not embrace it,look at the possitives like the adventerous qualities,the yerning to know about our planet.the mind is a powerful thing to waste,what u put your mind to is what u are or will become. Stay possitive my fellow Arians and watch the transformation.
January 10th, 2009 at 8:12 am
Well, i’m an Aries and that sounds exactly like me! I think that we are “unapproachable” because we exert confidence and self assurance. Which sometimes we fake. lol. And I am like two people in one, on one hand, I am nice, goofy, giving, forgiving, etc., and on the other hand, I can be very selfish, jealous, malicious, and spiteful if you get on my bad side. It takes alot to get on my bad side but once you cross the line, I make sure to make your life a living hell. But luckily, there have been very few people to cross me. I usually get along with alot of people.
January 12th, 2009 at 5:31 pm
Yeah , I have to agree with the unapproachable factor. I can sometimes be like that. It’s usaully with people who are trying to trick or fake me out. LUKKY- if I were you I’d leave this girl , screw her. If she really loved you and cared about you she wouldn’t be doing those things. I know I wouldn’t.
I have a situation that I need to to move on from. NOT because I NEVER CARED , or wasn’t ATTRACTED to him, or wasn’t FOND of or didn’t LOVE everything about him ,including his ears(he has really cute ears!!). but because he plays games , thinks everything is a big joke. Then there’s the one big thing. I’m told he’s in A RELATIONSHIP with someone and LIVING with the person. So THAT IS WHY I HOLD BACK!!
I was told by a close friend of mine last night to just walk away he’ll only break my heart. She’s right, it is breaking my heart. I feel jealous and insecure because I don’t know where I stand, which I guess is no where. OH Did I mention my friends also think I’m going crazy! Which I’m starting to think so myself.
Lukky - you can try to make her jealous back but if her hearts not in it , I don’t think you’ll get a response. Sorry for your hurt , especially that a child is too now going to be involved.
January 19th, 2009 at 12:33 pm
We’re Prickly because most of the time we are just a damn open book - so its really a cover up so you dont know what we are thinking - plus you others out there make us nervous - especially since we are such babies and have our hearts broken over and over
Even though we appear tough on the inside —
I mean think about it - how often do you see an Aries Girl cry in front of you?
…so the prickles are just protection..
and as for aloof - well its just to make sure you are worthy of our company before we Fight and conquer the world for you…..:-)
January 20th, 2009 at 7:51 pm
This is true. I’m open with people I feel close to. When it comes to loving a man I can be closed especially when I feel I may get hurt. On the inside I’m very sweet and sensitive, I do believe my friends and family see that side to me. One of my ex’s — used to say all the time how sweet/beautiful I was. Yeah until he starting fck..nn with my head back and forth with the ex girlfriend. Then all the sudden I’m the bad guy because I’m going out with my friends to the bars. He broke things off with me broke my heart said that I had too many walls up!. Putting it back on me. Then his sleeze bag friend goes after me wouldn’t take “NO” for an answer so I give in tried for years to fall in love with him. Finally I ended it for good last year. We had been friends before, he breaks my heart by telling me I’m F….ked in the head and will never committ. What the hell , Ok soooooo now my sweet side .affectionate is fading. Meet a man, well a few but one in particular last year,Really like him (Cancer) and it was like breath of fresh air talking to him after dealing with the last “Nut job” I had been with. I don’t know I started to freeze , screwed it all up I wasn’t sure thinking am I ready??? Well guess what!!!glad I got the prickels because I’m inquiring about him and told “HE has a GIRLFRIEND”. Ok so fine he’s a cancer how can we get him to keep distance. I tried everything being rude, crude , acting like a slutty B. I even embarrased him and made him look stupid in front of his own employees(I apologized on that one, it was killing me not to) So what does he do -he tells me I couldn’t be nicer, “What No what’s going on here” The thing is I don’t know what else to do. If I’m me around him and start to feel comfortable , I’m afraid I’ll fall in love with him. So where will that leave me no where good because he has a “Girlfriend” . The thing it’s becoming to get inpossible for me. I’m running out of rude sarcastic lines. God it feels good to get that out!!
January 26th, 2009 at 10:33 pm
i start smoking and i get hurt by my loved ones so easily. i am always dominating in every relation..actually ppl let me dominate i dont know why.i have my own idea for everything. my ego hurts when someone comes and tell me something which is right for me.i can not change my opinion.if i am not happy i leave because i can create mess.
that so true as arise but i am a wonderful friend, lover sister and human.
i am leader of my own.
i must say arise are born leader. i get along with arise and Virgo.
January 28th, 2009 at 5:10 am
Hi I’m a march 22 and I find nothing wrong with me lol I’m surprised so many of u aries are concentrating on the whole awkwardness thing..what the heck?.. shoo.. that’s another insecurity added on ur list koo koo. U are who u want to be in life not what astrologers believe.. I’ve heard i have my nose up in the air all the time.. It’s confidence. its fun and u may find some characteristics that u may feel fits, but really its just battle inside us.. the battle is between two ‘wolves’ inside us
One is Evil.
It is anger, envy, jealousy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego
The other is Good.
It is joy, peace , love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion and faith
The one u feed wins..
February 6th, 2009 at 5:22 pm
I’m an Aries , a pretty cute one too!!! I always have used my past as a crutch. I’ve promised myself I will no longer do that. I have too much to offer to someone special in my future.
February 11th, 2009 at 7:07 pm
Hello all!
I’ve been reading through the comments and following as best I can and I have to say I do recognise some of the traits described by my fellow Aries. I’m an Aries with a Scorpio rising(apparently though I’m still investigating) and from my investigations it seems that this combination is quite the intimidating one. However, I must say that I only ever hear friends and acquaintances describing me as an approachable person. However, I find myself feeling awkward in some company at times, due to my realisation of how much of an open book I am. I know I can be quite over bearing with my extrovert character and more often then not, I walk away going ‘Did I really just say that?’… though that moment passes, as any Aries will surely relate with. I am definitely the leader of my pack and I don’t see this as essentially a negative or overpowering thing as I find many need someone with the decisive/honest nature that an Arien offers to this world.
Under our bravado, we’re completely emotional. When I’m heart broken, I’m a bit of a mess and more often then not I’m loving those I can’t have or who are just plain wrong for me! I tend to shy away from those who chase me, I definitely chase which works against me, as it seems men like to chase. I’m a complete optimist and romantic and I would really give my all to someone, once I feel secure in how they feel for me.
I think I generally get on with most. The most attractive sign for me(so far) as got to be a Leo, I love those men. I’ve also had some great chemistry with Scorpios(very passionate), Saggitarians and Aquarius. Recently got my heart broken by a Libra, who I felt a real connection with, which is rare I think for an Aries.However, be careful not to mess with Aries, we are sharp as a button and protective of those we care most about and will make sure to use our sharp tongue to bring down anyone who tries to bring us down. Closest friends are Pisces, Aries, Cancers and Capricorns. I’ve been told I have great wit and fun about me and I must say I do love to make people laugh even if it’s at my own expense, as my childlike naivity and brashness does not make me too sensitive towards those kind of things.
I like to entertain and I like to be entertained, so I like to be challenged and to have debates etc, though I like to be heard alot in these debates.
Overall I quite like myself and those Ariens I know, though the male Aries can be really irritating at times. We could poosibly be one of the most difficult women to get close to because we either like you with our all or run a mile. I think we spend alot of our time making sure people feel comfortable around our aggressive/powerful nature and tend to forget ourselves and our need for security. Our minds are always on new things that it’s often difficult to focus our attention on something but when we do we just love it. I still have to learn to control my aggressiveness towards objects of affection.
Anyways thats some insight into my sun sign.
One more question;
Does any other Aries find themselve falling for men quite a number of years older than them??
February 17th, 2009 at 12:27 pm
hi im a 33 year old aries girl/cancer rising. i agree with everything thats been said!! im fiesty and wont take any crap from anyone, probably the reason why im single ha ha! thing is i have a very strong instinct for people and i tend to know when im having the wool pulled over my eyes, the only problem is that when i do realise that im already involved, so it makes it doubly hard to tell the guy where to go…but i do!
my best friends surprisingly are cancer, scorpio and virgo. the new guy im dating is scorpio and he drives me wild with his disappearing acts and then is so full on and im starting to get sick of it. my best friend the cancer (male) likes to make it all better for me every time (think he would like to get involved). does anybody know about the relationships between aries and cancer? i dont want ot ruin a god friendship.
heeelp! xxx
March 3rd, 2009 at 8:16 pm
Wow! I just found this site and reading through all the comments made me happy to be an Aries. Yes - I can be awkward but I do believe it is because we are such strong women that we don’t want to come off as too aggressive.
I love being an Aries and have accepted my faults lovingly. I have a sharp wit and can use it to accidentally hurt people. I am just more aware of it. But I am super loyal, loving, fun, and have a great time in life. If you know yourself well enough (and for the teenage Aries, it will come with time), you can make your negatives work for you!
Wonderchic who loves being an Aries!
March 13th, 2009 at 10:24 pm
Looks like you have Aries women down pretty good there buddy! I can tell you must have been around quite a few of them to understand those characteristics, which I must add you have accurately explained! That’s funny you say that about jumping off a plane because that happened to me recently, and it was definitely spur of the moment! But what can I say? As an Aries we definitely are impulsive and we like to do what we feel is good.. specific to that moment of course.
April 12th, 2009 at 1:57 pm
Wow wow and wow big big wow i must say!!! I have all the laughing and gigling after reading thru most of the comments (cant wait to finish all the comments to make one!)
unapproachable factor!! hahaha even got told on face that I’m arrogant!!! do you girls believe that??? I was shocked because I always think of myself the nicest and kind heart person I ever met 555
- awkward! prickly! goofy! hahaha
- being smart but fake it! wow (even my dad has to tell me not to be too smartass as men hate that)
I totally agree with Becky (except the drug and alcohol part even I from time to time being tempted to try weed but still safe so far and I know I will never get addicted to those stuff as a Aries I’m way too smart for those shit hahaha!) and the most of the comments here totally agree!
I stumble across this site but very happy to find it. I always thought I was pisces (April 3rd) eventhough I know i’m supersensitive but many traits of Pisces are not really fit me.
I feel very good to know there are many people (girls) out there who share this same trait/personality with me.
I always feel like a black sheep in the family since as a woman I do think and act sometimes like men and am get so irritated and hardly stand stupid people or those with drama.
I feel too much musculine side in me but i know I’m very feminine in my way. I do make peple laugh way to much. My bestfriends said there is nobody can turn a personal tragic into completely amusing story like I did!!!!
Well….. some drawback though: hard to find men who can put up/keep up with me. But the older I get I start to learn how to be all by myself. I try to do things base on its reality. So if there is no nice guy who deserve me I wont settle for less. I tired but I just cant break or go against my Aries side for a guy who later I found not worthing it.
Well sorry for too long posting!
Hope to hear more from Aries girls!
April 12th, 2009 at 3:43 pm
Oh this just came across my mind! I can only think of the closet to drugs or alcohol for me sugar! (can that even be counted?)
I caught myself turning to sugar (and shopping) when I get depressed and yes I get depressed easy.
April 18th, 2009 at 3:50 pm
I put this in the Pisces men section but I’ll put it here as well. Btw… Becky, you seem to be on point about the Aries woman.
My situation and question…
I’ve recently met a Pisces male that I’m very much attracted to and came to this site to see if Pisces (male) and Aries (female) can work. I’ve found a lot of encouragement because I had read that we are not supposed to be compatible. I’m the slightly older of the two (by 1 year). He and I connect on an intellectual level and he is waiting for me to connect to him (stay connected really) in an emotional way. He came to visit me (which was a shock) as I met him over the internet. This is going to be long distance west coast / east coast thing. He and I are just starting out but he seems to mirror my views on life and loves family (both of us already have children and are not looking for anymore). He wants me to come out and see him (and I do plan to this summer). At first I thought he might be a player but he seems to be a genuine person. He keeps telling me that I need to let my hair down as he has done a LOT in life (not in a bad way) but has had his own business, travelled the world, etc. Although I was born in a different country, I have only travelled the U.S. and my life has just been a straight arrow in morals and how I’ve lived it. I’m at the point where I want to explore and really live and that is what he’s encouraging me to do.
I am learning a lot from him and he from me. Both he and I are divorced and he is currently working on his Ph.D and I will be working on my masters as my children age (his range from teens to toddlers… mine will be teens by the time he’s done with his Ph.D). We have time to explore our relationship and really are enjoying it. The journey has just started and we both respect and have high regards for the other.
Can any Pisces males tell me if they’ve been in a relationship with an Aries female and how that dynamic works for you? I would really appreciate any insight.
– ArianGem
April 27th, 2009 at 11:46 am
hi!!im a 22 years old aries woman(ascendant in leo and moon in libra) soo u understand that i’m kind of a man inside!:p although i feel pretty feminine as well!!anyway! I agree with almost everything you said above and I m very very happy to hear that there actually ppl out there like me:)I do talk A LOT, I even suprise myself with my ability to find always a (stupid) thing to say!!I have what i called a “romantic way” to see the world which might be what you said being innocent and stuff..i hate to see injustice and corruption in the world! I was also been told that I have a genuine smile and just positive energy around me, which i cannot see it myself!!but my mother is aries and thats true for her so i guess it might be for me too!!But I live to make ppl laugh and happy and I hate when I hurt ppl with my very honest comments or due to my impulsive nature but c’est la vie, what can we do??I promise i dont do it in purpose!!
what is really bothering me right now, its the high expectations i have for myself!! I dont like to lose (aries trait) and i will fight till the end ( as long as i dont lose my interest)Actually, my friends say that i expect too much of myself and on the other hand, i never thing im good enough to do smth!!and the weird thing? i do feel confident and i do look confident as a woman! i dont understand myself sometimes!(thats why i like reading astrology stuff, it makes me see beyond the obvious) do you feel too in that way my fellow aries???cuz having high expectations its not bad in itself, if it push you to go further! but the thing about me is that i get disappointed and depressed easily and i dont go to alcohool but to comfort-eating which I HATE!
thank youu
you have to excuse me for any english mistakes, i m not a native speaker:p
April 29th, 2009 at 12:37 pm
To: nana, I’m same with you 100% your comment reflects just my feeling and attitude
I too have high expectation (from what I was told) both on myself and others. So I get depressed easy when I find myself fail to accomplish things and get easily irritated on people who fail to do things i regard as norm. I know I have less patient with stupid people even with myself sometimes when I feel I start to act stupid. As much as I can easily get down and depressed, it doesnt take long for me to pull me back and get ready to kick life again. I guess it has to be with being an Aries (?) because we are short in focus and move to the next subject so fast therefore we dont let ourselves get sink in a dull and wasteful moment too long. So I convince myself that my ‘depression’ problem is not that bad.
One thing I find it amazing in me (not sure it has to do with being Aries) is that: everything is all about the mind and attitude. I mean after any experience either good or bad one, best or worse; I can always find a things to learn about and get some good attitude for the future. And I feel its amazing how sometimes I can feel like and endless energy with a positive and vivid mind and that makes me just want to go go go and do something nice and different. Anyone like this?
Anyway I have a question for you Aries girls. What about your love life? What sign you find it work best with you? Any successful story? Please share.
The best to all!
May 13th, 2009 at 7:35 am
My two cents - the aries woman I am with, for all the talk, assertiveness, independence, etc, etc - which certainly exists;
is the gentlest and most loving person i have ever been with. Admittedly i can stand up to her, am honest with her and all that, really what is all the fuss about? She is a person - just like me.
May 28th, 2009 at 9:06 am
I am a sagittarius guy and i like this aries girl. She likes me too i think at the same level. I know that we are supposed to get along very well but for me it is getting kind of frustrating to get through to her. It seems like all she does is run away from me even though she likes me. And also most of the time she wants to make things about herself and kind of forgets or maybe does it on purpose not to consider me. Like for e.g. we’ll make plans together and the other day she will turn it around into something completely new where my opinion, idea and what has been said the day before has kind of been lost in translation and now its something about her and that only she’s organizing. also What does it take to make them say yes? Although i know i am a very high priority for her, wheather on purpose or naively, she makes it look like i am at the bottom of the list. Any kind of help would be greatly apretiated :))
May 29th, 2009 at 10:02 pm
I am an Aries girl and yes people always tell me when they firts meet me that they feared me and are very supirsed to see i am very kind and very funny. I do get hurt easily and I can be too giving emotionally. I think we are awkward because we are very masculine females and feel that people are judging us. Butone thing bout us is that if you are loyal and kind you will get that in return I have been hurt som many times in relationships and friendsshiop for being too loyal and forgiving and that is something that I am realizing about myself. Everyone doesnt deserve a second chance at all. I have also been told I am witty and clver and reckless. My birthday is April 7th. And they also say im a true aries. I have fallen into a depression lately because have my heart broken yet again and cant seem to get out of this funk. And yes we do turn to alchohol. But yes I am strong willed, confidant most of the time and willing to tka echances most people wont. My mom admires that about me. But on the inside im sweet at pie!
May 29th, 2009 at 10:45 pm
OMG! I love this web site. It’s so great to hear from my fellow arians. I read it and I now know why I act and feel the way I do. It’s the aries in me! I thought I was insecure for years. But really it’s just that I’m unsure, akward, and I want people to like me. I want people to like me but I don’t have a great first impression. Aw well, once I let people in they love me. I definatley see life as a play ground. So much to do so little time. I see beauty in just about everything, expecially other people. I love hiking, camping, dogs, adventure, comunity, peace, laughing, music… it goes on and on. Life is good expecially when your an aries!
May 29th, 2009 at 11:20 pm
Hey Jupiter,
I do the same thing. I know what I want out of life, I know what kind of guy I want, and I know what I want to do on a daily basis. I make my own plans. So with my friends it’s usually hey lets go do this, this weekend. Not what do you want to do… She’s probably too busy in her own little world to pay much attention to you. We’re like little kids some times. lol! I love adventure, I find it and I like to take people with me. I’ll wake my hung over friends up on a Sunday morning and insist they come hiking with me to this great spot I found, lol! And they always have a blast.And I don’t think we handle high priority men very well. If we like you, and get close to you, we will want to make you happy. And give you best love you’ll ever find. Sorry to say, it sounds like she’s not really into you. It depends on how long you’ve known her though. She might just have her guard put right now. Aries like to have fun and do things, they are not uptight at all. Do you think you can keep up?
I wish you the best man.
June 1st, 2009 at 6:13 am
Jupiter, I speak for myself being an Aries female, We are quite a self center kind of person. (But not selfish) When we focus on something I lose focus on the others. Aries love it fast and got to be efficient!!! Even we have made a plan with you but if we figure out the other way is better, we change it. And we will just assume you dont mind (because we see no reason for you to go against us when we (think) we change it to the better?!) This can cause misunderstood for Aries being selfish and unstable.
Aries dont like being seen as being weak or submissive so until we feel totally comfortable with you (enough to let you see our weak side), even we like you very much we can pretend we dont really care that much. Since we are already straight forward and easily read, we dont like people to see us thru a trick. We get satisfaction when guys doubt why we are not interested, some give up (we love it if you do because it proves you cant handle us and we just dont care) some push harder (if too hard we lose interest and get annoyed)
If you are sure she likes you to the same level and want to win her, just stick around but dont be clingy. The way to the Aries heart is thru wisdom and intelligent. Be different and keep her interest challenged. Dont play by her game dont agree with her everything but provide different point of view in reasonable way. Oh, and show her you are a strong man since Aries is a musculine sign, we adore a strong man with a strong mind.
Hope this help a bit,
June 5th, 2009 at 8:16 pm
Jupiter:
I reside with an Aries woman. She is very gentle and kind. Does show me her sweet sensitive side. When she wakes up in the morning she gives me a big hug and kiss, I guess thats her way of showing u she’s into u. We are kind of opposites in the fact that I like to walk on the edge and she is a little more cautious. When she leaves and comes home she walks in the house and gives me a big hug and kiss, her way of showing she misses u. At first she was a little akward with me , she had a man like me run out on her. She couldn’ decide at first if she wanted me , I’ve now been with my lovely lady for 8 years. Good to see there are people here like her, she likes hiking too! Oh but she wouldn’t catogorize her friends as drungs/hungover? But as really great people that we both love alot! Love my Aries Lady!
June 5th, 2009 at 9:09 pm
Oh , 1 more thing. If I hadn’t of kept grabbing and holding on , I probably wouldn’t be with her today. Hope that helps.
June 7th, 2009 at 5:26 pm
I was soo surprised to find how many Aries women, find comfort in Pisces men. Even though Pisces are at the end of the cycle, and Aries are at the very beginning…..
I think that it might be because Aries are only babies, and they love to explore, and learn more about the world. They really do consider it to be their playground, and just want to get the most out of life as possible. But my Piceas man is very witty, charming, and intruiging. He is alot older than i am, and this is why i find him soo interesting. He has lived such an interesting life, that i can just never get enough of him. We have know each other for about 5 years now, but i still seem to learn something new about him everyday!!! At the moment, i am still not sure if we will ever work out, but i am just enjoying the time i get to spend with my adorable Pisces man!
June 7th, 2009 at 5:27 pm
It is very important to keep an aries woman interested because if you don’t……well you’re in big trouble! She loves excitment, and being goofy and spontaneous. If she gets bored with you, then she is going to try and find excitment somewhere else. But if you are interesting enough to keep her mind busy, she will be the most faithful lover in the world!
She is flirty, but that is because she is soo confident and attractive. And loves to show it off.
I don’t know why everyone is concentrating on this “awkward” trait we have? I think there is really only one answer. We can easily spot bullshit 5 miles away. So if you reak of it…..well that is that disgusted look on our face. LOL
The sad part about us it that ” we always learn the hard way” and sometimes just put ourselves in stick situations to test ourselves, and our ability to get out of it
But we always have a blast no matter what we are doing, we make sure we do it to the fullest, and enjoy every moment of our existence!
June 8th, 2009 at 3:48 am
I completely agree with this! I have an Aries daughter and she is one the silliest people I know. She has a great sense of humour and isn’t afraid to be herself. I do find that she explores life with an innocent eye and though she is still quite young, repeated situations that wouldn’t typically bother other children so bother her but instead of telling anyone, she most often keeps it bottled up inside.
She is also unfailingly fair/just and I was wondering if this is a trait attributed to the Aries sign??
June 8th, 2009 at 12:46 pm
Lola,
What you just describe about your daughter is exactly ME! I got people telling me why those repeated situations that wouldn’t typically bother others bother me so much and guess what, yeah I did the same as your daughter>>> keep it bottle up inside! I dont know why and people keep telling me I need to relax and let go because its unhealthy since I already get depressed easily. May be its part of Aries trait I dont know for sure but I know we are very positive and lively people with a very good heart and imaginative mind. Oh one thing, if you truely understand her nature, just accept it and let her be the way she wants to be with your support, that is the greatest Aries would ever wanted! I always wish my family finally accept me and support me for the person I am. But they always think of me either as a rebel or eccentric and whatever idea or attitude from me they only think I want something out of it…
June 9th, 2009 at 8:45 am
I’m an Aries woman, and a lot of what is said here about Aries women is very much like me. The social awkwardness… There’s several reasons why I’m like that. A lot of time I’m not interested in how I’m perceived. I need to get something done, and getting something done isn’t really dependent on what people think of me, so I’ll just get through it and spare the chit chat. Sometimes, I want to appear unlikable, because I don’t like the person I’m talking to. That way, they won’t like me and down the road I don’t need to hurt their feelings by saying I’d rather drink battery acid than spend one more hour with them. (I usually know in a short time whether or not I want to get to know a person, and every time I’ve convinced myself otherwise “to give them a chance” I’ve come to regret it.) Being unlikable is for their own good, that is.
Sometimes, I feel like if I let people see the true me, I’ll blind them, or outshine my friends. (This might have something to do with the fact I’m also a fiery dragon which enhances all of this.) A lot of times I am trying to protect other people from me, as I don’t think they can handle all of the things I am…
And if you didn’t pick it up, I’m very self-centered and a lot of times it is all about me. Even when I help people, and am really really nice to them, I’m secretly congratulating myself of being able to be so nice and exactly what the doctor ordered. I suppose I’m pretty narcissistic without the pathological aspect of it, and I think it may have to do with being an Aries/dragon.
One interesting thing is that I have always stayed away from alcohol and drugs by instinct. I am quite convinced that they would easily destroy me if I went anywhere near either. For years I refused to take as much as a head ache pill…
And naturally, nobody is as funny as I am… Right?
The question that persists is: How much are you allowed to love yourself exactly?
June 9th, 2009 at 3:25 pm
Sebastyne,
haha you’re soo funny.
you sound alot like a true aries.
One thing that i learned just a matter of hours ago, is that it is better to love yourself alot…..than not love yourself at all! I think that your self- centre-dness is the thing that has kept you away from drugs and alcohal all these years. You would hate to see yourself be destroyed, because you believe that you were a blessing, and should exist on this planet
But on the other hand, cockiness isn’t the most attractive vibe in the world either…..but since we Aries are such smart, and beutiful creatures, i am sure that you will eventually find a balance between both!
June 18th, 2009 at 5:50 am
I’m an Aries/woman who is not that aggressive as most aries are but I do fit the characteristics. I have so much fun hanging around with other Aries as well.I’ve been told by many people even by an Aries that I looked arrogant who feels I’m the shiiiiit. And I have been told I need to loosen up at functions….First of all, I feel the awkwardness is due to a new surrounding that makes me feel a bit uncomfortable but I like to present myself to the public eyes as confidant, the bomb, etc…to get noticed and get approached especially by men. Or, I like to make an entrance as being highly powerful and brilliant to hide the discomfort and people may have taken it the wrong way….
I’m beginning to think Aries like to be alone most of the time and I feel Aries Woman are the only sign that can live with or without a man and be extremely happy because of our adventurous and independent personality.We can entertain ourselves mentally, spiritually, physically, and emotioanlly…….I’m not sure about other Aries, but I’m very good with one to one conversation but not too good in a group..
Overall, I have been very lucky with love…I believe 99% of women don’t know what they want. They say what they don’t mean, and they don’t mean what they say. Women play too many games and guess who they are hurting, themselves! If people just be real, it creates a deeper level of relationships. I have been told being REAL does not work in the REAL WORLD and that I should stop living in a fantasy world…..Guess what? I’ve been blessed with love, 3times…….
June 18th, 2009 at 8:34 pm
Sandy,
I agree. I love people that are straight forward and real. I can’t stand fake annoying girls. And people that lie, I hate being lied to. I’d rather you tell me the truth, whether it hurts or not. I don’t think we should be assamed to be ourselves. Society seems to make people that way. I think if you are real(not blunt) you will be respected for it in the long run.
June 19th, 2009 at 4:00 pm
I am a true Aries WOMAN and I love it! I don’t feel the awkwardness but I can be a bit standoffish at times because of the trust factor. I’ve met so many bull talkers that no one is allowed in my square until you’ve proven yourself. When I fall for someone, I tend to fall hard but they don’t get the full affect of my Aries woman until I’ve fallen. By then, they’ve fallen. Once you have me, I’m yours. I’m loyal and will treat you like my king until you mess up. I do have a wicked tongue when pissed off and can cut you like a pair of scissors with nary a curse word nor raising my voice. I love to laugh and enjoy making others laugh. My kids think I embarrass them when we go out with my silliness. I just tell them to buck up! This is what you get with an Aries mom!!! I know I tend to be the life of the party and I am fiercely protective of my friends and family and will don ninja wear at a moment’s notice for them. Am I arrogant - hecky yeah! I know that I have lots of sex appeal. I am constantly being told how attractive and sexy I am. I love the compliments. I like for a man to be a man. I know I can be very bossy, but if he is a strong enough man, he can conquer me and make me love it. Weakness is not a trait I deal with well and can be very impatient. When the chips are down, I can get depressed but normally not for very long because the world is always half full and the sun is shining. I don’t drink very much nor do I ever, ever do drugs. I prefer my own natural high. I don’t like not being in full control of myself as you are when you drink and get high. I don’t like boring repetitive things and crave adventure. I greatly love sex and can be very uninhibited between four walls. I’m even penning my first erotic novel. George, I truly feel sorry for your experience with the Aries woman. When we are done, we are done and can be rather ruthless at that time. But before we are, we give you lots of notice. It takes a lot to get us to the done point but once we are we don’t usually go back.
I do enjoy my alone time, my ME time but Sandy, even though we can go for a period without men, believe me, we cant do it for a lifetime. We need that audience, the compliments, the love. I went without for 5 years on my own personal sabbatical from men. Although I have emerged a stronger woman in my self of well-being, I relish the attention I get now from men. I sometimes wonder how did I go 5 years without??
I personally tend to be more attracted to Aries and Virgo men but I just reently met a Gemini man who has totally captured my attention. Anyone else had an experience with Aries woman/Gemini Man combo?
I would not trade my Aries nature (April 14) for the world because I love who I am. I am confident, loyal, a risk-taker, adventuresome, sexy, erotic, passionate, impatient, abrupt, loving, spiritual - an Aries!
June 21st, 2009 at 3:51 am
I almost fell off my chair reading some of these comments. Do you all know how often I have asked myself, “Are other Aries women like me?” I have finally found my answer. Yes, we can spot BS a mile away and we send irrational, dramatic people off to fly away.I think it is our instinctual nature to see right through people. When I meet someone, the first thing I observe is what comes out of their mouth…is positive or negative? That will tell me all. It is all or nothing..I either like you or I don’t. I often feel it is my job to make wrong right especially with evil people. If I meet any of them, it’s war! (mental war, of course). I think we Aries do not see the middle of anything which makes us standoffish.We Aries do not beat around the bush like many. We make quick decisions. Yes, sometimes not the best but which often lead to great things. We are thinkers and analyze everything. I love to have fun and only enjoy being around people that see life as a joy ride.I love to laugh and love funny energetic positive people. Men are more fun to be around than women unless the women are like us Aries..confident, spontaneous, non-dramatic or melancholy and are true life fighters. I feel I am invincible and that God stears my energy to where it is needed. We Aries ladies are so needed in this world and we need to act on our given characterisitcs for the good of this world. Believe me.. a lot of good is needed! P.S Humor is the cure of all ill…laugh on y’all.
July 4th, 2009 at 7:27 pm
you know you’re right. we’re very unapproachable. i mean, sometimes i give so much effort to reach out to others yet i felt that they’re not so into me. you know what? i’m telling you i am pretty. but not even one guy had the courage to approach me and ask me out. i know some guys have a crush on me but none of them tried their luck (although i don’t like them either) i am not desperate or what but you know us aries are insecure people. my 2 best friends have lots of suitors to talk about when we’re together, but me? it hurts my ego.
what i keep on telling myself is that, someday there will come a man who will have that courage and will give effort to reach me, and it was all worth it.
July 6th, 2009 at 4:29 pm
Okay, is it an aires thing to blurt out things you probably should’nt tell people? Or is it just me? I think it has to do with me being honest.
I’m not trying to be rude or mean, I just tell it like it is, and usually it’s taken the wrong way, and I’m like, what? what did I say? I don’t even realize I’m doing it. I recently split with my husband and he kept calling me, asking me how I was doing. Did’nt think anything of it… I told him how great I was doing with out him, how I felt like me again and I was loving the freedom! I was’nt trying to hurt him I just told the truth! Why!!! Why would I do that? And then the other day my room mate showed me a picture of this “hot” girl he was going on a date with. And I told him she looked like a transvestite! Why!!! Why would I say that! I had to apologize over and over. Anyone else have this problem?
July 9th, 2009 at 1:32 am
I love this website.
I study astrology from time to time and have figured out that i am pretty much an aries to the “t” ! Im loving, super impulsive, depise lying, adventurous,easily amused and trust pretty much anyone :/….I love being in a relationship and the leader but i think i need to learn to balance my man with my friends,i have a hard time with this. I also feel like I can really have OCD at times and can NEVER finish anything ! I hate this. I have been told that im pretty funny and i truly dont mean to be most of the time and yes very clumsy.I do have a lot of energy that i dont know what to do with ! I love life in general and im always up for an adventure and travelling anywhere. Im just hoping that i will make a good wife/mom someday since its hard for me to stay on track! plus im dating a cancer whom i love with all of my heart so i hope it works out!!!!
July 9th, 2009 at 8:53 pm
Tara
You are so right on the money girlfriend. I say things and think later wow did I really say that? I also need to temper my bossiness. As an Aries we think everyone else is asking for our advice and they really aren’t. Or we are so focused on us that we don’t seem to see how others perceive what we say. I mean if I don’t feel well and you ask me how I am doing, I’m gonna say I don’t feel well and tell you whats wrong. Duh, you asked. Then later we’ll think it over and wonder…LOL
And we hate for you to tell your life history to get to the punch line. Tell us the bottom line and let us go from there (guess that’s the impatience?).
July 17th, 2009 at 11:04 pm
This artical is very true. I’m an Aries female (16) years and i have gotten drunk because my boyfriend ( A 19 year old Sag), Hasnt spoken to me in weeks. I felt wild and i got drunk. I had lots of fun.Id do it again too. thnx for posting.
July 18th, 2009 at 9:30 pm
I love this site!Everything written here fitted my personality. As a kid, I was a tomboy. I loved exploring new things that always got me into trouble. I am very funny to friends that are close to me. People often describe me as feisty, independent, warfreak, blunt, and passionate. They also say Im very intimidating. It is probably the strength we exude even without saying a word. Men likes the fact that Im carefree, opinionated, honest, fun to be with, strong, independent, and never takes shit from anybody. If you want to be liked by an Aries woman, you shouldn’t chase after them. Being masculine, they like challenges.. try playing hard to get.
July 20th, 2009 at 12:09 am
aries with aquarius rising so doubly cautious and am a contradiction in terms as I Love my independence and privacy yet yearn for a man who is honest, funny, intellegent and above all faithful but having had a bad experience with a selfish ex i’ve promised myself that if a man wants my heart he will need a jackhammer to break down the wall.A few have tried but superman still hasn’t appeared! Yes I become irritated with shallow people as they are easily discernable by this aries.Many people are surprised at my sense of humour and how easily approachable I am once they are allowed into my space.Often get comments on the cool way that I wear my clothes which are mostly from 2nd hand shops or hand me downs, guess that’s the aquarian manifestation.Trying really hard not to use too many “I’s” and “Me’s” but what the hell…I AM aries and proud of it. GO ARIES!!!
July 20th, 2009 at 5:57 pm
Ann,
I know what you mean about the wall. I just got out of a seven year marrage. This guy had me beat down to nothing. I never did things I enjoyed, I lost my self, and I did’nt realize it at the time, but I was depressed for years.
Once I got out I started feeling like me again, I hang with my friends and do things I love again. I’m now with a Sag, this guy is perfect for me. Perfect for an aries for sure. He’s honest,adventurous,funny, kind, romantic, passionate, and he’s crazy about me. Not only that we share all the same intrests. He still has’nt completely broken down my wall though.
I know that I am in love with him, but I just CAN NOT bring myself to tell him. He has told me he loves me. And I have expained my screwed up fear I guess you’d call it… my wall, to him and he understands. I’m trying not to rush anything or push myself into something I don’t feel like I can do right now. It just makes me wonder if it’ll ever go away. If I just let my guard down will it be better, am I missing out on being truley happy because I’m so afraid of getting hurt again? I also wonder if some day he’ll give up on me.
It sucks. People have one bad relationship and it can change them for the rest of thier lives.
July 21st, 2009 at 4:51 am
I’m an Aries woman and I’m gonna have to agree with everything you just said. We are very sensitive to those around us even if people can’t see it. We hide it very well… whether we hide it in our alcohol, weed, or meth. I used to be addicted to meth when i was 17 til I was 20. I did it so I could be numb to the world. Aries women get very depressed. I think more so then any other sign. It’s our innocence. We are so nice to people but people will walk all over us and it hurts us but we are very good at hiding it. I have 3 Aries friends that are females. Kayla just killed herself a few days after her 21st bday. May she RIP. She was the type of girl that was extremely nice to everyone but most people would talk behind her back and say she was annoying. And that truly hurt her feelings. She knew. Aries women are very smart and can see past people’s fakeness very easily. It’s usually written all over the person’s face or tone of voice or even their body language. It doesn’t take a genius to read people. And that’s very hurtful b/c she really was nice to everyone. Okay my other Aries female friend Chelsea… she was the same way. Very cheerful and extremely nice but people would talk behind her back and say how annoying she was. She would disappear for weeks during high school. I later found out that it was b/c she was getting help b/c she had tried to kill herself so many times.
So messed up. Now my friend Stef who is an Aries also. We used to live together also and she had a major problem with depression also. And she was addicted to meth (so was kayla at one point) anyway stef took lithium to help her with her problems. It’s so weird b/c I didnt realize that all 3 of these women were Aries until this year and it truly freaked me out. Me being an Aries myself… I was of course always nice to Stef, Kayla and Chelsea. I never said a bad thing about them. I think that’s why all 3 of them felt like they could talk to me. I guess I could relate. I have too had problems with depression and drug addiction… its just too sad that people are so cold to the people that are truly the nicest people you will ever meet. Aries women cannot be fooled. We are actually the foolers. We know more than people think.
July 23rd, 2009 at 7:40 pm
I am a true arian and proud. There have been times in my life when I didn’t know who I was or where my life was going but there has always been laughter in my life and this is wh always what has got me through the bad times whether it be with family or friends. They would never know what I am feeling deep down, I would always carry on in the true arian way strong, dependable and funny.I do snap but I am conscious when I am doing it. I am sensitive to people and their feelings but if I don’t like you then I can be evil to the point of making you squirm just to shut you up, but on the whole I am always sweet to people and always up beat. I don’t like people who moan or who are negative. I am 44 now with two beautiful girls (taurus and pisces) and have a wonderful saggitarian husband. Life is a blast we have soooo much fun. We are a loud and sociable family. Right now I put my trust in the universe that things are going to be right and not worry anymore, I don’t complain and I give thanks everyday for what I have.
July 23rd, 2009 at 8:38 pm
I’m a true arien,full of fun, ambitious, detached sometimes, need sleep and to be alone when I’m feeling troubled.
July 24th, 2009 at 3:29 am
I’m a male Gemini. In the past month I have gone on three dates with a female Aries and I can’t tell if she is interested in me as “just a friend” or a potential relationship. I don’t want to end up as only a friend or just another guy in her life - I want more… Eventually a relationship with her. I took her out to dinner the first date. Then the last two dates she came over my place for dinner. We have not been intimate, not even a kiss on the lips. The next time I see her I want to be direct and ask her where this (our seeing each other) is going? But at the same time I want to be a challenge and a mystery to her. Oh, I never call her, only to schedule the next date - I give her space and freedom. But I don\’t want to appear to be too distant - I don\’t want her to think I\’m not interested. I\’m not trying to be egotistical (and I\’m not egotistic) but I have the qualities an Aries woman wants: stimulating, social, intelligent, spontaneous, exciting, an independent man, confident and in the bedroom I\’m unselfish, creative and I have stamina!
She is coming over again this weekend. I know what I want to do, and should do, but I want to know what you think… What should I do next and how can I win an Aries woman’s heart?
July 24th, 2009 at 6:32 pm
Tucker,
You definatley seem like you know what your doing. Giving her space was a good idea. At least in the begining. And you sound like a good guy. I think you should go for it. If she’s gone on three dates with you than she’s interested. Otherwise she would’nt make plans to see you. Does she flirt with you at all? We aries girls are pretty big flirts. We also like honesty. No bull sh– here. I say tell her how you feel, be real, just don’t come off too strong or needy.
Let us know how it goes
July 25th, 2009 at 1:22 pm
Tucker
Being a little distant at first is good but don’t keep it going too long. If she has agreed to see you after the second date, she’s interested for sure. Definitely kiss her (or more) this time. She was probably looking for a kiss by the second date. We are very sexual people however, don’t be discouraged if she doesn’t allow you to make a home run. We like assertiveness not too much agressiveness. We DEFINITELY DO NOT like stalkers or stalker types. By now she’s wondering does he really like me or are we just good to hang together? She’s going to test the waters. You may notice a difference in her behavior. Maybe a little more flirtier, a little more sexier in dress. She has definitely thought about where is this going too. Will he or won’t he? You say you are confident…show her. The majority of us are very confident women so we like confident men. You’ve shown her that your immediate interest was not just to get her into bed but to know her so she’s come back. What do you want to do now? The ball is in your court. You can make or break the relationship at this point. I’m not trying to scare you. JUST BE YOU! It’s gotten you this far.
July 26th, 2009 at 3:50 am
Wooow.. I just stumbled on this website and its been amazing to see so many people with the same characteristic as I.
Im definetly an Aries lady (April 2). Very independent,funny, sociable, center of attention, extrovert, leader of the pack and amazingly positive all the time. I do drink occasionally but am not an alcoholic or use drugs.
I do agree with some here that we are awkward at times because we can spot BS-ers miles away and we neither have time or want to get to know them. This makes us appear standoffish but we do mean well
After all, why waste the time when you already know its going nowhere.
I do not know why lately though I have noticed that many aquarian mens have been attracted to me. This particular one, is so into me he calls me and texts me frequently and wants to get to know me badly. Unfortunately, he’s many attempts irritate me but I keep em around cause we both love the arts and can get along pretty well. I do not see a relationship in the future though. Have any of you Aries women dated any Aquariases?
Well take care ladies and just be your true positive amazing self.
July 29th, 2009 at 9:50 am
Thank god for the Aries woman, being a Gemini man, they totally get me, l love em, l love em!
August 1st, 2009 at 12:54 pm
Hey Tara,
Are you Me? Am I You????We seem to have experienced the same thing in losing ourselves in our ex partners.We are too trusting or innocent and should be called Lambs not Rams. Good luck with your Sag Man. You are so lucky that he understands your fear of being hurt again and yes…once bitten…forever in doubt.
How many Aries out there have experienced situations where they have had to ’suck up’ to the powers that be in order to promote themselves or a business?, or endured watching someone do so? How have you felt about this?
Personally I have found it offensive,so much so, that I promised myself at an early age that I would never do that and have strived to find jobs where I am my own boss and have succeeded every time. Oh I’ve just realised that what I have written is sooo Aries!
Give me honesty instead of flattery.Don’t waste good oxygen on empty niceties…it’s such a turn off!!! ( my acid Aries tongue) I’m gettin off here before I get too carried away.
August 4th, 2009 at 5:18 am
In response to Tara and Sasha’s comments:
So my Aries (lady) friend came over last weekend - our 4th date. [Cut to the chase] After small talk and dinner, I eventually massaged her feet for the longest time… While I was massaging she offered me gum. I placed my hand out but she put the gum in my mouth with her own hand. My interpretation of that - I think she was preparing for a kiss. But we didn’t make out or kiss… I know it’s up to me to make a move but a few dates ago she mentioned that she “takes it slow.” So I’m going to respect that about her. Keep in mind, I’m not the shy type at all. At the end of the night I walked her to her car and we only kissed on the cheek. I could sense that she was expecting (or wanting) a kiss but I didn’t want her to think that’s what I wanted in return for a foot massage. I took a chance and thought I should play hard to get by not kissing her. So I didn’t.
I hate to say this but I’m growing very anxious about where our seeing each other is going. Because she is by far the HOTTEST girl I have ever dated! I can honestly say that I do not know what to do next… Someone, anyone, help me!
August 4th, 2009 at 4:20 pm
Tucker,
That’s awesome! I’m glad it went well!
I think you got her. I think you should deffinatley make your move next time. Does she like the outdoors or anything? We love adventure! You should take her out somewhere.
August 5th, 2009 at 1:30 pm
Good for you, Tucker. By now she is either curious or perturbed that you haven’t kissed her. If you still want to play the hard to get angle, then you need to coordinate a knock-your-socks off date. I’m not saying you have to spend a lot of money either because that doesn’t necessarily impress us. The old adage “It’s the thought that counts” works really well for us. If you’ve put a lot of thought into something she’s told you that she likes, that will really impress her.
August 8th, 2009 at 10:22 am
Tara and Sasha,
So my Aries girl came over my place for dinner - our 5th date. [Cut to the chase] After dinner I massaged her feet, again. Then, minutes later, she placed her head on my lap. I asked her, “Do you like your hair to be touched?” She replied, “Like a cat.” So I began to play with and run my fingers through her hair. I gently slid my fingers behind her ears and down behind her neck. I continued this until she fell asleep. Later she awoke and said she should go soon… But she just sat there for a few minutes. I knew why she waited so I slowly placed my hand behind her back and leaned in to give her a gentle kiss - it was a slightly quick kiss exchange. I walked her to her car… Then I placed my hands around her waist and slowly pulled her in for a passionate, slightly moist, kiss exchange - it was obviously pleasurable for the both of us… But then, as we were kissing, I slid my hand down from her waist to her butt [My apologies, I’m no pervert, honest]. Before I could place my full hand on her butt, she stopped me by grabbing my hand. Then I stopped kissing and said, “Sorry, it’s just my reflexes.” She laughed and replied, “That’s good reflexes.” Then we said goodnight.
Ok, so what do you think? Any comments are greatly appreciated…
My only concern now is her interest level in me? I know it seems obvious but she NEVER initiates contact or suggests dates or asks about me, except once she texted me to say “she was thinking about me.” I know Aries girls like to be chased, and I’m the guy, so I should be chasing her. But some advancements on her part would be nice. I feel like if I don’t contact her, from this day forth, she will completely forget about me. I also have a gut feeling that I’m not the only guy she is dating. I might be just another guy to her…
Thanks again Tara and Sasha =)
August 10th, 2009 at 7:51 am
Tucker,
Wow, you remind me so much when I had this Gemini guy running me head over heel (and right to the hell at the end…lol.)
You might be right about not being the only guy she is dating with because Aries hardly run out of guys attention&attraction… but dont worry, although Aries are outgoing and enjoy meeting interesting people but being out to ‘meeting’ for us could mean nothing, as we dont see it as ‘dating’.
- ” but she NEVER initiates contact or suggests dates or asks about me, except once she texted me to say “she was thinking about me.”
August 10th, 2009 at 11:53 pm
Tucker,
Okay ummm… I’m beginning to think I can’t really give you advice. I’m just as confused as you! I know we do make sure we like the person before we let it go too far. But… I think you might be right, I think she’s probably playing the field. I think she likes you, but you need to show her your the guy for her. It’s really sweet that you rub her feet. And her head… I love that too. But what the hell! She’s falling asleep!! A good sign that your a great head massager, but borrring! I’m not sure how old she is, I’m only 25 so this is coming from a young active aries. I say take my advice from the last comment. Otherwise, I hate to say this, but she might be using you.
August 11th, 2009 at 12:03 am
Tucker,
You know what? You should read your last paragraph again… and go from there. Maybe you should out right ask her what her intentions are. Cuz I’d hate for you to try so hard for nothing. Sorry, fifth date… you should know by now. You sound like a great guy, so don’t let it get you down… but… yeah… If I were you I’d be asking some questions.
August 11th, 2009 at 11:29 am
Hi Tara and also Tucker
I agree with Tara, although things sound quite promising (Aries ladies are extremely tactile when they like someone), we usually aren’t so backward in coming forward if you know what I mean i.e. if we like you, you definitely know about it!!! It might be best to be up-front now, yet don’t put it in a needy way, just be your erudite gemini self, there is no-one better placed to handle this tricky social situ than you.
Best of luck
Sarah
August 11th, 2009 at 2:30 pm
Tucker:
I am a slightly more mature Aries (44). First let me say that what I am now going to tell you is based on my own personal experiences (this does not necessarily hold true to all Aries women). Putting myself in her position, I am not letting go of any other people in my life because I like a guy. Now, will I go out on dates with others - probably. Do I kiss or even sleep with them - not. You haven’t distinguished yourself separate from the other guys. Yes I have a nice time with you. Yes I enjoyed our kiss and our conversations. However, I don’t lean toward the nice. I like electricity. You say there are sparks. THROW SOME WATER ON THEM. Make an electric storm!!! Remember when I said you needed to pique her interest if you are going to play hard to get? That you needed a knock your socks off kind of date. That is seriously needed because I (remember I am speaking in her place) want to know we are going to be exciting together if I am to consider you for the long haul. We Aries women tend to get bored easily. Once we are bored, it is hard to get our attention again. However, don’t go out of your comfort element to make that storm because it won’t be something you can (or are willing to) keep up with. Our motto can be, If you started it, you need to keep it up”.
Tara is right when she says you need to ask her intentions but I think a serious approach to that question is not good right now. You could do a scenario such as “Do you see us dating in two years, five years?” But pushing her to state an intent now just doesn’t seem to be a good move when you haven’t progressed beyond a single kiss. That would seem kind of pushy. We don’t go for pushy.
As for contact from her, I am guilty of the same. A guy has to keep at me (calling, emailing, texting, seeing) for me to realize one day, hmmmm I didn’t get my call and to realize that I actully look forward to talking with him. Then I begin to return phone calls, etc. You may have piqued my interest to get my number but I normally don’t initiate the calls (at first). If someone gives me their number to call them, I almost always never call. I know this sounds selfish but I’m not trying to be. He has to get my attention. I do tend to be really busy and sometimes just forget. Its not as though I never think about a certain someone, I just let other things get in the way. You have to stop her other things from getting in the way (if this is what you really want).
I’m not trying to discourage you from being with her, just trying to offer some insight in to what she may be thinking (based on my personal view).
Good Luck!
August 12th, 2009 at 2:39 am
Hello…
Quite a mix of emotions, thoughts, and experiences from so many; it is comforting, to observe, that the alienation I often feel(am Aries,born 3 April 1964), is also felt by others. Most of the character traits that have been cited as being typical for Aries, do apply to myself. Years ago, I, too, was turning into what I had always despised in a woman:a whimpering, whining, self-effacing moron.
I was desperately, out of profound insecurities, trying to convince myself (despite all evidence to the contrary),that the man I was with, was the ONE for me:I was not capable of admitting, I had made an error in judgement;afraid of admitting being wrong.I chose the lie:and just about died, in every sense of the word.
Anyway, in the death throes, I took my two kids,”as you do”, and left him: on 19th February 2003.One of the kindest, and most loving acts I have ever done for my kids; and myself.
Since then, I have been growing into my “skin”: Have been, out of choice, celibate;
Healing in seclusion; becoming friends with this multifaceted being, myself; and can, honestly admit, with gratitude, that I am liking myself, more and more; and, growing in inner strength and self-confidence,am able
stand tall, even when not a soul approves of my course of actions(flippin difficult for a once compulsive approval seeker).
But boy oh boy!I do slurp up the praise like a sponge, when it does drip my way!;I store those “Praises” away like a miser:examine them in fine detail, in those times of self-doubt;and am secretly pleased, that I have them at all.Now that’s what I call, bearing the soul:albeit, easier done, when there is a modicum of anonimity, like on this website.
And I too, gravitate towards the older man. At the moment, am besotted with an Aquarian who is 14 years older than myself:but ,as is true to his nature, he remains aloof. And that is o.k., because I find it good soul training, not to get everythig you desire.
This just may be one of those things, where it is love unrequited.It has been good to discover, that I can still feel so passionately about a man, to utter distraction.
One of the most excruciating life lessons I have learned throughout my healing:is that my way of seeing, doing, being, is mine; and no law exists, allowing me to expect, or try to force others to conform to my ideas, thoughts;
Continually learning, that I have the limitless power/energy to change myself-but not another; and that, I have no responsibility for the choices of othersonly responsiblity, and liability, for the choices I make.
Writing these thoughts down, has been extraordinarily healing.
Thank you for listening.
andrea.
August 12th, 2009 at 6:29 am
Hmmm… I dont know why my super long post was cut to that short one…
Anyway, I was saying to Tucker I think you really got her. I was trying to pick out some of your sentences to show you that they tell a lot. I NEVER let any guy touch my feet! only the special one. Being Aries, I never have problem saying things but when it comes to a guy I had a crush with, I become opposite to all ARies traits… For a guy I really am into, I find it so hard even to say a word ‘i miss you’. I avoid it by saying something else like ‘I think of you’.
I say she is into you if she keeps going out with you and even let you take the lead (suggest the next date, plan the night).
Good luck!
August 12th, 2009 at 3:29 pm
The best description of an aries woman (or the arian I am) I ever read was a direct comparison to Scarlet O’Hara (hope that’s the right spelling lol!) in Gone with the Wind, we are fiercely protective of our friends and family, can act in a tough masculine way whilst also remaining very feminine, we like to hang out with men because we love to flirt and have male attention and also some of the time (no offence to the ladies present) we just find them more fun. I would suggest anyone thinking of having a relationship with an Aries lady go and watch that film for major insight!
(Although don’t let her catch you watching it!
Sarah
P.S I’d love to know if other Arian ladies agree with this comparison
August 16th, 2009 at 10:48 am
To Tara, Sasha and mischievous:
Before I get to the point I just want to say something about myself. When I’m REALLY into a girl, I over analyze and question everything about the girl and what happens between us. Even when I have the clues and know the answers I get anxious about the girl but not necessarily nervous. That’s just how I am with a girl I’m really attracted to.
Now back to the chase. So my Aries lady friend came over, again. But this time I made a bold move and shared my feelings with her. I was direct but subtle and definitely not emotionally strong or needy. My words must be what did it because we went ALL THE WAY!!! I was in control, I lead her into my bedroom, and she let me with no hesitation. I made sure she left satisfied;) We both enjoyed it.
Now we talk a bit more over the phone. She always replies to messages and answers my calls but still she never texts or calls me. Every girl I have dated or had interest in me would call or text just to ask me how I’m doing, to say hello or something. But this Aries girl is the first girl I dated who NEVER initiates contact. I guess that’s just how you Aries ladies are.
But now my question is, does she want to keep it casual or does she want a serious relationship? I’m a relationship kind of guy but I’m also open for casual dating if I like the girl. If I know things will progress into a relationship then that’s when my faith/loyalty steps in and I never chase after other girls. But it would be pointless to be faithful/loyal if it’s going to be casual. So my next question to ask her will be if she prefers to be casual or a serious relationship?
Thanks again all =)
August 19th, 2009 at 4:38 am
Hi Tucker,
Serious of course, if not it got to be exclusive! Never do casual with Aries girls, unless she mentioned about it herself! (which is rare since Aries is serious) You need to treat ARies girls with respect, you will learn in time under the strongest surface lie the most sensitive woman inside!
Cheers.
August 19th, 2009 at 2:00 pm
It is rare for an Aries girl to play the field (although we may have several players lined up) but at this point Tucker take it day by day. You are analyzing far too much in wondering why she doesn’t initiate calls. Stop worrying about whether she is serious or not. We really don’t casually sleep with people and if on the chance that does happen, we certainly will let you know. We would rather you be aware of how casual we are feeling (as opposed to being serious) and to not take this as more than what it is than for you to point fingers at us later. Remember, we like to be up front.
August 20th, 2009 at 1:35 pm
First let me say>Rebecca,you are an amazing person and thank you for this unbeleivable insightful website.
I’ve never been one for zodiac signs and horoscopes and i still do not read a daily horoscope to plan my life but there is absolutely something to the date at which a person is born and their traits/characteristics.
I’ve really had some jaw dropping moments reading some of these posts about Pisces men/Aries women which is why i came to this sight in the 1st place. I am a pisces male born on the Aries cusp and i can only describe myself as easily approachable outwardly but strong and solid as a rock inside.If i could say it like this ‘a psices outwardly and an Aries inwardly…so yeah i’m all mixed up..lol.
Here is the amazing thing, i found my soul mate in a Libra of course, she mothers me and cares for me so completely she is unbelievable in every way, I love her so much…but this is about Aries women right. So here is why i posted. There is a girl i work with who is an Aries born on the Pisces cusp, so get this my B’day is March 20, hers is March 21…and for me to describe her it would be the opposite of me…a TRUE Aries female outside but she’s got some Pisces inside…and God help i love her. She is so difficult to deal with tho’ as a friend…and understand we are both married but we are of course attracted to each other but we both only want to be friends..lol. I told her one day i was attracted to her and she immediatley said..”i’m not leaving my husband for you”..LOL..that was so funny to me.
I guess what i’m asking from you guys would be this..’can a pisces man and an Aries woman be friends without killing each other in the process’…lol..and is it too dangerous with us bieng married to try to even be close friends. I want to be her close friend but i think she is scared to. I’ll say more but would like to hear from some of you. Thx, Sawyer
August 20th, 2009 at 3:25 pm
LOL - Sawyer,
During the last year of my marriage, I got extremely close to a man who befriended me and listened to my woes. He is a Pisces. This man was a bit of a player (he was married also) but whew, he knew exactly what to say to me. He complimented me all the time. When I met him I was expecting my youngest child. I didn’t want to be pregnant and my husband didn’t want me to be pregnant either so in essence we hated each other. This Pisces man told me how gorgeous I was, how smart I was. He would call and ask my opinion regarding his business and to see how I was feeling everyday. He was very attractive (definitely my type) BUT he was married and so was I, no matter how difficult it was. One day, about two months after I had my baby, I met him for lunch. Basically it was to discuss if our relationship should proceed to the next level (Physical intimacy). He knew how unhappy I was. I was excited that I was meeting him and simayed that I was actually considering doing this. However, once I got there, it hit me that I was about to embark on something I couldn’t go back from once it happened. I finished my meal, gave him a hug and drove home to my family repeating to myself over and over again “I love my husband…I love my husband”.
I’m telling you this because commitment means a lot to an Aries woman. We flirt and go dangerously close to the edge, but it takes a lot for us to jump over. We (most of us) pretty much have to be done with one (serious) relationship to go into another one (serious or casual).
There may be a lot of flirting and even edgy conversation, but she is most likely not going to indulge. You can be friends, good friends, but if she slips and does something with you, she will hate herself later and may stop her friendship with you, at which case you both lose.
I have TONS of male friends. And I am a HUGE flirt. However, there is one that I go dangerously close to the edge with because that attraction is there between both of us but past ties won’t let me jump over no matter how attractive it may seem at the time.
Keep your Aries friend as a friend. We have a tendency not to like being in 2nd place.
August 20th, 2009 at 6:11 pm
Sasha thx for your post.
You know i’ve read all these descriptions of Aires women on here and it’s unreal how they fit her. Some of our other friends will tell her how mean she can be, and she’ll say stuff like “yeah i’m really a mean B*” ..but i’m like shaking my head smiling about to laugh because i KNOW that she is really not that at all…she tries to act all tough and that nothing fases her and she acts that way toward me sometimes and i’ll just back away and give her a few days and guess what …she’s calling me, needing something..asking me “why are you hiding out”…she acts like she doesn’t need anyone but i KNOW she does…hey i think she needs me as a friend but i don’t want to press her and make her feel uncomfortable. One day she really blasted me on some things and i just walked out without saying a word…3 days later she calls me and is saying..like ‘what’s wrong?”…she kills me with that..lol…obviously you know i like her,and seemingly in some strange way she has this control over me…that i would have cut other friends off long ago for doing the way she does but (having the Pisces mind reading abilities i have..hehe) i know how she really is in her heart and i could not be mean to her for anything in this world….LOL, more later.
August 23rd, 2009 at 1:22 pm
Hi Sawyer,
Your post made me smile, as I’m the same I act very tough, for the most part I can handle alot, but I think it would surprise alot of my close friends to know just how sensitive I can be and the gemini I’m with understands this completely and cares for me without being asked and without embarrassing me (which is really important to me. I think alot of Arians hate other people to know when their upset and only show that side of their personalities to people they really trust.)
I think that if you really care about your Arian lady then you should truly be her friend and try not to pursue a romantic relationship-however hard that may be
I experienced a similar situation (I wasn’t married but in a long-term relationship) I know that when it comes to decisions about leaving one person for another if the other person had pressured me and pushed me into a corner then I wouldn’t have left my ex, as ultimately the decision had to be mine. Sorry if this isn’t what you wanted to hear, hope it’s helpful none the less.
Sarah
August 24th, 2009 at 5:48 pm
Thx Sarah for your comments.
This Aries Female is driving me crazy!!!You know the part of “it’s all about me”…omg she has it BigTime!! LOL…so right now she is all closed up in her own world(which is more like a psces if you ask me) not speaking & being very standoff-ish. I’m just planning on letting her go till she’s ready to talk. What gets me is she is the type of Aries that does’nt appear to be afraid to tell whatever is on her mind yet she acts like she is afraid to tell me what she is really thinking..I’m totally shocked about that..to think she could’nt really tell me…and know this ladies…i’ve told her at least 3 times if she thinks i’m too much just tell me to walk away and i will…SHE won’t do it!!!…now she won’t say anything…so i really don’t know what she is thinking…but i “sense” she is depressed..but i don’t know what to say to her.
Also,…i love her but i’m not looking to go to bed w/ her(even tho’ she is extremely sexy and beautiful) and ruin her life and mine of what we both already have…i just fear that we are both about to lose all and that is hard to take.
Let’s see… a qoute that goes here i’ve read somewhere on this site ..if she can’t come around…”the fish is about to swim away”
August 25th, 2009 at 1:17 am
Thanks for your advice Mischievous and Sasha:
Well, I had a talk with my Aries lady friend about us being serious or casual. Her response was, “At this point in my life casual dating would be best…” I replied, “So you just see me as a friend?” She replied, “Obviously we are more than friends.” I asked her if she is cool with me dating other girls and she said, “Yeah.” I told her, “Although we are casually dating I’m not going to be dating any other girls. I prefer to be with one girl. I’m a relationship kind of guy.” She replied, “Casual dating doesn’t have to mean you date other people… It just means you don’t get serious.” Based on my past relationship experiences I would say we are heading in the serious relationship route.
I think she is testing me to see where I truly stand and see if I can be in a serious relationship. Because she continues to accept my invitations for dates. Every time she comes over my place we become more intimate and affection with each other. We even have long conversations over the phone.
Is she testing me?
August 25th, 2009 at 11:22 pm
Tucker…
Your in a hurry. And she’s not.
Stop thinking so much! lol! It’s all good, you got this!
August 26th, 2009 at 3:31 am
Tucker,
You shouldnt have asked her that question whether she wanted it serious or casual. How long have you been dating? From what I read its too early to talk about this after you only get physically intimate couple times. I know if I was her I would give you the same answer she did.
Aries is quick at jumping in a passion but not the relationship especially the mature Aries won’t. Eventhough we really like you, we hate to accept we actually want a ’serious’ or ‘commit’ kind of relationship because we think we are too proud to be tamed fast just after a few match of sex, we tend to think its hard to find a guy who can handle us and we are better of being alone but still we need romance and dating scence.
I can’t say if she is testing you but she sounds like typical Aries to me. Her respond sounds sensible and understandable. I cant find a logic to agree for serious relationship to a guy i only dated for a few months. But I will keep dating ONLY to him until things are more stable and I’m sure its not only the passion but more.
Dont bring up the question of commitment until you completely got her, but show it in the act. Just remember our ‘casual’ thing is not your ‘dating around’ thing. It means we are not officially bf/gf but we are still on the ‘dating’ basis. For us Aries, it is all about action which always speak louder than any words. Keep treating her well and pull the ignoring trick sometimes to test her reaction. You seem to be smart you will figure it out in her action.
All the best.
August 26th, 2009 at 2:53 pm
@ Mischievious - OMG you are so right. We want to commit but are big on the time issue.
@ Tucker - continue to take it day-by-day. Mischievious is so right about the ignore thing too. As long as you don’t pressure her, you have her. Make her chase you and not the other way around. Someone chasing us is flattering AT FIRST, then it becomes tedious and irritating. Give her lots of attention and then back off a little. She’ll notice (and miss). Keep it casual (in her eyes) and you’ll find that she’s really not dating or seeing anyone else but you.
August 26th, 2009 at 7:24 pm
@Tucker
Yes- She is testing you. Its as simple as that.
I am an Aries girl- And there is this one thing we try to figure out once we meet someone- “Not that are they going to leave us” Its whether “they are going to stay”
Once she feels confident that you are going to stay- She is yours. So ignore her! She likes you and you are doing everything right. From one Aries girl rooting for another- I am asking you to stick around.She is worth the wait!
August 27th, 2009 at 4:42 am
This is a awesome profile of an Aries girl!
im an textbook Aries April 2ned to be exact
and i totally agree with everything you wrote about us Aries girls bravo bravo bravo! lol
August 27th, 2009 at 8:35 am
Tara, Mischievous, Sasha, Flowergirl:
At this point with my Aries lady I know I got her but it’s on a sexual level. I don’t think I will ever get her heart; although I am “the guy that will stay.” I’m in it for the long run… not for a fling.
I like to trust my instincts and my instincts are telling me that I’m just another guy in her life.
I’m beginning to get confused with all this astrology stuff. I read about how Aries women “don’t date around” or “don’t shop around” but I also read that they can be “promiscuous.” Read this book, “Sex Signs” by Judith Bennett.
Ugh! I’ll try to ignore her. That’s hard for me to do when I’m really into a girl.
Thanks all=)
August 27th, 2009 at 2:34 pm
Tucker:
When we say ignore,we’re not saying cut off all contact with her. Just don’t be as available to her. If you normally answer every call or text, then let a few pass without answering and then answer later…a lot later. We;re saying dont be as eager. We can be really bad about taking something or someone for granted because they’ve always been there. We don’t even realize we’ve been doing that most times.
Don’t worry about her heart because that will come in time, especially if you are taking care of business intimately. Intimacy is HUGE for an Aries (male or female). For a woman, noone gets the goodies unless we are totally comfortable and you certainly don’t get a second helping if you didn’t take care of business the first time.
However, if you are scared you will get hurt, then step back a little and reassess what you have.
Good luck - Sasha
August 27th, 2009 at 2:41 pm
PS Tucker
As for being promiscuous, I have more Aries friends than any other sign and none of them are promiscuous. When they are in a relationship, they usually don’t stray. Of course there are always exceptions to the rule but for an Aries to stray they’ve been made to feel like its time to move on. Now, we can have multiple people that we date, if we are single but each person most likely knows where they stand. We’re the take-me-as-I-am-or-leave me type of person. She may have other guys that she communicates with but doesn’t mean that she is sleeping with any other ones. Everything depends on her past history too and how she’s been hurt. Look into that and it should give you serious clues to her intent.
August 27th, 2009 at 4:02 pm
Tucker..LOL…welcome brother to the world of the glorious Aries female!! Just when you think you’ve read all this stuff and just about figured them out… “blink”…they instantly change directions on you..lol. But hey, sounds like your having alot better time than me.
One lil’ bit of advice i can give is that women in general(Aries or not) are ALWAYS testing you…they just don’t want you to know it!! Later brother…and love all you Aries girls
August 28th, 2009 at 6:33 am
Tucker,
Astrologically speaking, Aries girls wont keep you wait that long on whatever level. If you are there only to serve her sexually, once she realize it she will let you know for sure and it wont take us long to realize thing. Trust me and stop worry for nothing.
Oh and dont get confused, sex and love for mature Aries can be different (same with guys in general…) we can have sex with you just because we want to but again, dont worry we will let you know because we dont like taking advantage on people. We always play it fair.
Speaking by instinct, you dont need astrology to read a woman. As a man, you just do it right and well with respect even it didnt work out at the end you will never feel bad to yourself!
Cheers!
August 29th, 2009 at 1:39 am
am an Aries girl; in a relationship with a scorpio male we have our ups and down. and trust me we both are head strong our relationship is like playing tug of war. aries can be loving,sexual,funny,and crazy, but there’s another side don’t get it twisted we can be hell on wheels.
August 29th, 2009 at 8:16 am
@ Tucker
I couldn’t help but noticed your questions about Aries women and so on.
But honestly if you want your Aries girls heart not just sexually but emotionally, you have to entice her! Give her a challenge!
We Aries women do not like easy guys we hate guys who are “easy” to get with. What does easy mean? Well guys who go after us! not that we don’t like it but like Sasha said “Someone chasing us is flattering AT FIRST, then it becomes tedious and irritating”! And that is so true! So let her go after YOU:
For example: suppose you guys are at a party talk to everyone else but her! Smile and look at her from across the room, try to show her how much of a good time you are having WITHOUT her, that will really get her! Things like that drive us wild.It makes us wonder why you aren’t all over us? Therefore she will seek you out instead of the other way around!
another example; if she asks you to call her say “no…you call me i won’t remember”. She will most likely call you after that line!This may be hard to do, but if she really likes you she will call you!
Those are just examples of playing hard to get a game we love to play, but the catch is once you do get us, don’t be to available to her, that will bore her ( we get bored with people easily) . Once you bore her, she will stray. Also once you do have her, make sure you let her know that you only have eyes for her, be very affectionate-we love that!
You said you read about how Aries women “don’t date around” or “don’t shop around” but you also read that they can be “promiscuous. Well I’ll tell you this it depends on the girl. From what i know from my Aries friends we are not promiscuous-we do however like sex, and a lot of it especially if our partner is good in bed! ;), and it’s true we don’t date around.
Give a little then draw back that’s the key! Also let it be known that she is not the only girl your talking to! If she is.
Good luck
PS: what is your sign if you don’t mind me asking?
August 29th, 2009 at 10:28 am
Ms. Fidel,
I dont know about you but Aries like myself, if a guy ever treat me like your 2 examples, I would just drop him. Not that I cant handle not getting attention but i cant handle not being treated with respect especially if i been dating this guy for a while and we both go to the party and he will be talking to everyone but me? why bother?. Sorry I’m one of those arrogant Aries who happen to smell and spot the bullshit too good. I can differientiate who is for real and who try to play the trick to get my attention. I need to like you to fall in your trip, otherwise even you employ the whole tricks, wouldnt budge me.
Yes, Aries like the chase and the play but not being played. The kind of boring submissive guy would definitely bore us to death! for sure! But the kind of guy who is not confident enough, that he need to pull the-play hard-to-get trick, is not going to match up with ARies in long term. Anyway that kind of trick most of the time catch/challenge Aries’s interest and of course would likely to work than not, but it is merely to serve the purpose of wining the game. Unless you are both looking on the having fun basis.
Good luck.
August 29th, 2009 at 10:18 pm
@ ms.fidel,
Thanks for your feedback. I am a Gemini male.
Everything you, and everyones’ postings, described is sooo like my Aries lady. The Aries ladies on here are telling me that I got her and by now I think I do. But I don’t have her heart, yet. So I’m learning new ways of bringing her closer and increasing her interest level with me.
But I’m confused again…? You wrote, “Also once you do have her, make sure you let her know that you only have eyes for her…” I made it very clear that she is the ONLY girl I want and there are no other girls. But then you said, “Also let it be known that she is not the only girl your talking to! If she is.” But she is the ONLY girl I’m talking to - I mean I have my female friends but there are no other girls I’m ‘interested’ in. Is that really a good idea to tell her I’m ‘talking to’ or ‘interested’ in other girls?
@Mischievous, Sasha, Flowergirl:
So I took your advice and ignored her last call. Then the next day she texts me to invite me on a date. I was sooo surprised by her invitation - it was the first on her part! On our date (it was actually a double-date with her best friend) my Aries girl was the most cuddly and affectionate I have experienced from her thus far. Wow! Ignoring really works. Thanks!
@Sasha:
As for intimacy, I definitely ‘took care of business’ the first time. Because there was a second time for intimacy and it was better than last and very steamy (literally, my bedroom windows were fogged up. we both laughed about it. lol).
In response to, “Everything depends on her past history too and how she’s been hurt. Look into that and it should give you serious clues to her intent.” Well, I know my Aries lady has been betrayed, played and fooled by guys in her past. She tends to keep a guard up by not believing everything I tell her about me (i.e. how faithful and trusting I can be). I made it very clear to her that I am the most trustworthy guy she will ever know. So based on that bit of information about her, what do you think her intent could be?
Thanks again Aries girls=)
August 30th, 2009 at 3:32 pm
Tucker,
You’re in a good position. She invited you out for her best friend to check you out. Good sign!
A word of caution. You ignored her once. Do not make a habit of doing this all the time. This is an every once in a while thing, especially if she has been hurt and betrayed by men in her past. You just want her to understand that you can’t always be available to her every beck and call, but you don’t want to make her distrustful of you. We tend to be a little distrusting when hurt. It’s nothing to do with you, its just when we relax and give someone our heart and they break it, we can be a little bit harder on the next person to come along. You just have to prove yourself. Know that telling her how trustworthy you are over and over really means nothing. Our motto is money talks, bullsh*t walks. We believe in what you do, not what you say. You’ll just have to show her you mean everything you say. Communicate with her always.
As Ms. Fidel said, we love sex and lots of it. Make her feel like she is irresistable to you (but only if she is). Build up to your next date. Sext her (sexy text messages). Nothing thrills me more when my man sends me a text during the middle of the day telling me what he wants to do to me the next time he sees me, and then proceeds to do it when I see him. This lets me know that I am on his mind when he is supposed to be concentrating on his 9-5. I mean you don’t have to get real technical or long. A few qwik sentences will do the trick. The next time you see her, show her just how irresistable she is to you.
I dated a guy once some time ago. I went by his house and he had a few friends there. As he stood talking to them, he kept looking at me. After about 20 minutes or so he walked the company to the door. When he came back into the room, he grabbed me, pushed me up against the wall and kissed me. The rest of the evening was well spent. Without words, he told me how much he missed me, desired me and wanted to be with me. Remember, $$ talks? He would always tell me how much he wanted and desired me but that one time made me realize that he was telling me the truth. It helped me to trust him and I will remember that day for the rest of my life.
Tucker - we are telling to you be you because that is ultimately what she is attracted to. All else are just tips to see into the general persona of an Aries.
August 31st, 2009 at 4:02 am
Sasha,
Everything on your last post is absolutely right! especially the money talks bullshit walks! We are not buying words but action. Spot on!
August 31st, 2009 at 4:34 am
Tucker
I’m sorry I got you confused, I wasn’t sure how many dates you guys have been on. It seems to be way past ” just talking”, so no need to mention you talking to any other women. What I think? She’s into you! If she wasn’t she would be long gone by now!You have her intimacy wise, which is very important.
But as far as getting her heart just be you. Your a Gemini which is a huge plus!
( i love Gemini’s by the way!) there is already an attraction. We never know exactly what we are going to get with you! Which is great for us, keeps us interested.
As I said make it clear that you only have eyes for her! Gemini’s are known to be natural flirts with everyone, as are Aries (or maybe that’s just me?) anyhow if this Gemini trait applies to you-just crank it down a notch! lol Jealousy is an Aries trait, I’m not sure how much it applies to your lady though, so be aware of that. Just let her know that she can trust you, how? Like Sasha said by letting her know how much you want and desire her.
You said “I made it very clear to her that I am the most trustworthy guy she will ever know.” Some Aries girls are very skeptical and disbelieving about what people say and do. If you only told her this show her. Actions speak louder than words! A guy could be telling me the exact same thing , all I would be thinking is “bullshit, show me” This may be the only reason why she hasn’t let you into her heart yet. She doesn’t want to get hurt and has not yet fully trust you therefore she is keeping her guard up.
I’m rooting for you! 
Good Luck!
mischievous
I guess not every Aries girl is the same!
It worked for me! I did not elaborate on how those events really happened, the guy was not disrespectful in any way I assure you. I personally, do not like when a guy is just to “easy” to get. I love the chase! When a guy doesn’t give me the attention that I want, it get’s me excited, makes me want him even more!
August 31st, 2009 at 7:09 pm
LOL @ my Aries sisters! We need to have a conference/convention somewhere lots of fun!!!!
August 31st, 2009 at 11:34 pm
wow you guys are giving me really great tips as well!
Tucker
it’s very true though if you show an Aries girl how trustworthy you are rather than tell her you will definitely impress her!
September 1st, 2009 at 4:20 am
ms. Fidel
you are right about that! I’m an Aries as well.
Aries guy or girl always know what other peoples intentions are before they even know what they’re own intentions are! So i guard myself sometimes.
September 1st, 2009 at 7:45 am
To all Aries girls who have been schooling me:
Hello, my name is Tucker and I’m a recovering Aries-aholic. This website is like an AA (Aries-aholics Anonymous) meeting to me.
Let me tell you about my last date with my Aries lady. I thought it went well but after absorbing what happened that night and the past day, I was wrong. She invited me on a date with her best friend and her friend’s boyfriend because she “didn’t want to be the 3rd wheel.” So she asked me to go. I was getting bad vibes that night… As soon as I met her best friend she had a “look” on her face - my first impression was she ‘didn’t understand why her hot friend was dating me’ and ‘her hot friend can do better than me.’ That’s how I took it. Then later that night I was talking to her best friend’s boyfriend - he asked how me and my Aries lady met and how long we been dating. I told him and he also had a ‘look’ on his face. My first impression was ‘he knows that my Aries lady is/was dating other guys while she was dating me.’ After the date I called and texted her and she didn’t reply for 3 days. Then she canceled our next date today, she was supposed to come over again. I have a feeling her best friend had an influence on her decision making.
Just today things between me and my Aries girl went sour… We were text arguing over what happened our last date. I mentioned how she was so affectionate with me and how it made me feel special. Her response was, “Someone can only show affection when the other person is in front of them… I’m very affectionate with my friends so please don’t get things twisted.” I reminded her how she said, “We are more than just friends.” She replied, “It’s obvious that we are more than just friends. I never said we weren’t. Just know that when I have time to see you I will.”
I don’t believe her. I think she invited me just so she could have a free date, not because she really wanted me there or to show me off to her best friend. My Aries girl made me feel like I was her ’spare tire’ and ‘just another guy with money.’ I have a feeling her first choice date canceled so she turned to her back up plan, ME.
I have made my mistakes with women in my past and I have learned from those experiences. As for my experiences with this Aries girl I can honestly say that I treated her the best, better than any girl I dated. I have been the most affectionate and passionate with this Aries girl. I don’t care about the sex we had. But she is just not into me. Why would she waste her time with me if she’s not into me???
At this point, I’m sorry to say, I give up. I’m done with this girl. She doesn’t deserve a guy like me.
September 1st, 2009 at 8:55 am
Tucker,
Sorry to hear how things went wrong for you. It’s hard to believe she turns out to be so bad like that but really it’s not typical Aries trait for introducing just any guy to join her inner circle, and its not so common for a true Aries to let people’s opinion even of bestfriends to influence our decision to that extent.
I was shocked for it seems too easy how things flip over in a few days, however PLEASE dont ever let any woman of any sign take away the best in you!
Cheer up.
September 1st, 2009 at 6:34 pm
I’m sorry Tucker
You definatley gave it your all. It’s not you, it’s her. I always wondered if she was up to something. Better to find out sooner than later. We all like you though! You seem like a good guy! You’ll find someone that appreciates you for that.
September 1st, 2009 at 6:40 pm
Here’s one Pisces Male veiwpoint of dealing w/ an Aries Female.What you will need alot of:
1.PATIENCE….as in the patience of Job.Wait her out but still be there for her.
2.CONFIDENT…always be confident around her….don’t show any weakness or that she is really frustrating you…believe in yourself. You don’t need anyone else’s approval in front of her. You are ‘you’ all the time.I’m not talking about arrogance here…but ‘bold’ and ’secure’.
3.AFFECTION…pour it on…touch her in the slightest of ways and then when the oppurtunity presents itself wrap her up.Be forward in physical approach…knowing this if she does’nt want you touching her she WILL let you know it!!
4.Did i mention Patience..LOL…you’ll need it to start with and finish with!!
This is my opinion in dealing with one “true” Aries Female…you can’t help but love them no matter how frustrating they can be at times. If you let yourself get attached to one…you WILL have a VERY hard time trying to pull yourself away…she can be addictive!! LOL
Now tell me Aries Ladies am i wrong??
September 1st, 2009 at 11:47 pm
Tucker
Wow, I’m sorry things didn’t work out for you. She doesn’t deserve a guy like you, you’ll find someone who is better for you and who is worth your time.
Good luck with your future relationships!
September 2nd, 2009 at 1:54 pm
Hey Tucker- I was just checking in to see how your story continued. I am so Sorry to hear that happened.I was so rooting for you. Very few men can keep up with Aries gals, So I was excited to see that you were trying your hardest! Kudos to you!
As other Aries girls here- I am shocked things turned around for the worst so fast. I guess people are right when they say dealing with people takes more than astrology! Aries Female though tend to migrate very closely to their Astrological traits- So I am shocked!
Now having said that- I agree with @Sawyer that now you have dated one Aries woman- It will be very difficult to date other Zodiac signs. We are truly addictive. And Yes! Lots of patience is needed to handle us!
One thing I can say about your Aries Gal- She must had a lot of other issues going on. And they had nothing to do with you.She must have been hurt and TRUST was probably HUGE for her this time around. We do LOVE Fully, and with our all- So when we do get hurt [ And we do many times], We take out on the next person. We do not mean to, but thats how it is.We also do whatever it takes to try to make them go away- And when they do, We curl in our lil corners and confirm our worst fears that NO ONE STAYS! I can guarantee you that when you call it off- She will be thinking the doing the same thing. And No- I am not asking you stay. Some things should be left to be worked out by individuals themselves!
BTW, Your looks and her friends had nothing to do with it. Aries gals “CHOOSE” their mates. And when they do - No one can stop them from having them. Even the person themselves!{LOL!}. So next time you have another encounter with an Aries gal who shows interest- Walk with you head high and Know- it aint your money, nor your looks, nor you charms, but JUST because it is YOU- and We want YOU! And if you step up to the game [ refer to all the advice given to you from aries gals here], then it will work out!
Take heart- and I hope you find a gal worth your time! Good luck.
September 2nd, 2009 at 1:59 pm
BTW kudos to Aries sisters for keeping it Real on this board! We just Rock!
September 2nd, 2009 at 2:09 pm
On a Side Note: Aries ladies- has any of you dated a Sagittariun guy? Any insights?
Just met one- The Chemistry is insane after only two encounters. I can tell he is confused by it [ You know how we Aries gals exude this unexplainable magnetic force]. I can sense him pulling back.[Yeah- You know our gift of telling people’s intentions miles away] I know my guard is 550% high - so that means I like him. Should I just RUN now? It has been 3 weeks. He still has not acted on it. I am thinking should I just call it QUITS now! Dont want to get hurt.
September 2nd, 2009 at 2:14 pm
Ok…reading this brings several things to mind.
1. Never try to interpret a person’s thoughts or looks. The odds are stacked too much against you.
2.Rarely do we allow other’s opinions of what we do or who we like influence us. In fact, most of us will get down right hornery if you dare to voice your opinion and it doesn’t jibe with ours (part of our argumentative nature).
3. I stand behind what I said, we don’t bring just anyone around our friends.
4. Her statement of …”when I have time I will try to see you” makes me believe that she is stalling for something. Maybe she finds herself falling faster than she wants and is scared. Or, you are moving too fast in wanting a commitment from her and she is scared. I don’t believe, however, that it is just because she is dating other guys.
Did she outright tell you that you were the fallback boy or is that an assumption you are making. Remember the phrase…”When you assume, you make an ass…”
You haven’t been in a relationship long enough with her to anticipate her next move or how she thinks or anything. Hell, I was married for 14 years and he still couldn’t figure me out.
I think, Tucker, you have feelings for this person and you want her to feel like you right now because that’s how you feel, but if we feel the slightest pressure from someone, we will get like a stubborn mule and put a barrier up. It is extremely rare for us to be downright hurtful (knowingly) - it’s not our nature but its not beyond the realm of possibility.
None of us were there during the date nor during your conversations so its all one-sided. However, take a moment to re-think everything through neutrally. Is there a possibility that you came off strong with her? Believe me, I am not taking her side because I think you are a really nice person, but I have had guys that were really aggressive with me and eventually I left them alone because I don’t deal well with aggression if it is trying to get me into bed or make me be a certain way that I am not ready yet. We will shut down and shut you out.
One final note: If she was and did all things you think she did, then it’s definitely good she showed herself now. Sawyer was right when he said you don’t need anyone’s approval of who you are and if she needs someone else’s ok, then she is not the one for you and she is not a true Aries. We tell other people what is good for them, not the other way around! (LOL)
September 2nd, 2009 at 3:01 pm
Ugh!!! So after me and my Aries girl were text arguing this past Monday she calls me Tuesday night. WTF!? I was upset with her and didn’t answer. She left a message… I don’t plan on calling her back. Everyone is telling me to let her chase me.
Based on my past experiences with dating women I realized that this Aries girl is not that into me. Not like my past girls were into me.
What the hell is going on in her head. Why is she calling me after all that happened between us???
Thank you all for your support
September 2nd, 2009 at 6:38 pm
Totally agree with everyone!
@flowergirl,
I cant help giggling reading about you and Sagitarian guy. You told Tucker that Aries tend to do whatever it takes to try to make guys go away because of getting hurt before, but you are doing the opposite by not doing anything to make him run but you wanna run first so not to get hurt…LOL!
I dated one saggi in the past for 7 years. He was my first bf and it was all out of every logic because i see how a person he is, his family, even his business LOL! So I set my mind to marry him but it didnt work out. They are sensitive and caring guys but are too weak for me, at least my ex was. All the years we had, he rarely stand up for me and I had to take charge and push thing to be done most of the time. It came to the point where I feel I even had to claim my own rights and freedom of speech from his family…so we broke up.
A few of my best friends are also saggi. They are all girly and sensitive people (oh and drama…haha). Same thing i notice in my ex too and that they count so much on me and seek for my protection and advice… However even they can’t lead you but they allow you to take the lead with no problem no jealous or giving you hard time for being you (we all know how Aries girls can appear arrogant and focus too much on ourselves sometimes)
@ Tucker,
If Aries girls date many guys at a time, we wont come up with that line as she said ‘It’s obvious that we are more than just friends. I never said we weren’t. Just know that when I have time to see you I will’
We do it smoother and smarter than that. I agree with everyone she must got an issue. If she didn’t happen to misunderstand you someway somehow, then it’s her own issue and it could be from the past.
However, we are not here to convince you to stay or give her chance but we are giving you guide and some insight to Aries girls and so far all of us are saying the same thing.
September 3rd, 2009 at 4:25 am
@Sawyer: Patience can be hard for me when I’m into a girl. I thought I could hang in there with her but I let myself down.
@Flowergirl: In response to, “She must had a lot of other issues going on.” Yes, there are things in her life right now that require a lot of her time. I don’t want to go into details as to not give away personal info.
Next, “She must have been hurt and TRUST was probably HUGE for her this time around.” Yes, she was hurt in her past. She also mentioned how in her last relationship she wanted more from her partner but he didn’t give her what she wanted (meaning emotions) so she let him go - she told me how she was still getting over that. When she told me that I felt like her ‘rebound’ or ‘in-between’ guy.
Next, “We do LOVE Fully, and with our all- So when we do get hurt [And we do many times], We take out on the next person.” Well, I’m the next person and I haven’t experienced any LOVE from her. I never hurt her. But I don’t see anything she did, intentionally, to hurt me.
Next, “We also do whatever it takes to try to make them go away.” If she really is trying to make me go away then I’m not sure what she is trying to do. All I can think of is that she rarely returns my calls/texts and she ‘used’ me for a date (but that’s an assumption on my part). Oh, and we haven’t officially called it quits with each other.
@Sasha: I am guilty of making assumptions and jumping to conclusions. That’s just me with my fear of the unknown. In response to, “Her statement of …’when I have time I will try to see you’ makes me believe that she is stalling for something.” Your response to this is right on. I have the feeling that she is pulling back but mostly because I’m moving too fast - honestly I took it as slow as I could, I mean I waited as long as I did for a kiss and intimacy - but my Aries girl said she’s too busy and does not have time for a relationship.
She did not outright tell me that I was her ‘fallback boy.’ I made an ‘ass of myself’ by thinking I was.
You are also right about my feelings for her and how I want the same in return from her. “Is there a possibility that you came off strong with her?” Absolutely not. On our last date I was playing off of her affection, she initiated the affection that night. So I went with it. I interpreted it as her willingness to take it to the next level. So I returned the affection. But during our text argument I think I, indirectly, pressured her - I didn’t intend to put any pressure on her, I was simply expressing my feelings in a subtle way. I was never aggressive, physically or emotionally.
About my last posting: I ended up texting her the next day with, “Sorry I missed your call. I was busy.” No reply from her.
I haven’t officially called it quits with her and neither of us said we’re done with each other. So it feels like the playing field is still open between us. But right now it feels like a time-out for us. What should I do with her now??? Back off? Should I wait it out in hopes she will want a relationship one day?
Ugh! I continue to think about her and over-analyze everything!!!
September 3rd, 2009 at 11:51 am
@ Tucker-
So the story continues? Oh boy, you are in for a ride. You have been smitten by the Aries woman spell!LOL.
In all seriouseness, Tucker- Sometimes as hard as it seems, we need to let things happen. I am a firm believer of it is meant to be, it will be. BTW Sometimes people need to cool it off on their own and evaluate why they need to be together, and if they still find reasons to be together , they will reconnect. What you dont want to do is burn the bridges too bad btn the two of you that nothing could come out of it eventually.
Let her chase you. But don’t stay too far for her to think you are no longer interested. make sure you maintain a good balance, otherwise she will really become dis-interested. Call her back only after she has called you. Text her only after she txt you. And go on dates if she initiates first. Play passive role for a lil while until things settle between the two of you. And I know- You have been playing it all well- We are not saying you are doing anything wrong, We are just trying to help you understand the very “special” brain of the Aries gal!
I really feel for you Tucker- Hang in there.
September 3rd, 2009 at 11:57 am
@ mischievous- Thank-YOU. My Sag interest is currently acting like a WIMP and really I am loosing patience by the day. Apparently, He is hesitating to pursue me [ Even if we are crazily attracted to each other] because he once dated a friend of mine. This gal is currently engaged to be married. uh????? Where’s the logic to that.
I never even knew him with my friend. I was never close to them like that - I just Knew that He was the guy who dated someone I knew.
Anyhu!
September 3rd, 2009 at 2:33 pm
@Sasha- Hey girl,…
… what is it about that ‘argumentative nature’ you commented about previously…because that is so much my Aries girls’ nature..i told her the other day “why do you ALWAYS take the opposite side of me?” …LOL…what is up w/ that?
September 3rd, 2009 at 2:51 pm
@ mischievous
I’m not sure what you mean by this:
“If Aries girls date many guys at a time, we wont come up with that line as she said ‘It’s obvious that we are more than just friends. I never said we weren’t. Just know that when I have time to see you I will’… We do it smoother and smarter than that.”
I’m sorry, can you elaborate on your comment? Are you saying, based on what she said, she is NOT dating many guys? Do you think my Aries girl’s words are genuine?
Thanks
September 4th, 2009 at 8:35 am
To all Aries girls:
So most of you are aware of my current dating situation with my Aries girl. If not, here’s my situation: I’m a Gemini guy who is ‘casually dating’ (meaning we don’t get serious but we don’t see other people; that’s her definition) an Aries girl for 2 months now and we were intimate 2 times. We only see each other once a week. She mentioned we are “more than friends” but she “doesn’t want a boyfriend” or “serious relationship” and she “Is cool with me dating other girls.” Although, I was told she was testing me by saying she is cool with me dating.
So my question to all you Aries women is… If you were in this situation with a Gemini guy how would you feel if you knew he was on sexual terms with another girl? What would you say or do?
September 4th, 2009 at 10:46 am
Hi Tucker,
Ok, please bear with me for the long explaination. When i dated many guys at a time, dont even mention about sex, I would not get so intimate with any unless I really fall for a person and I would definitely never going to introduce to bestfreinds. That way they can’t claim their importance or status with me eventhough I show my sweetness/ passionate during our time. Its a self defense and how we handle these guys so we dont feel guilty for dating around and not to be blamed when stop with any(because when we stop we completely lose interest) So everybody is kept at the ‘friend zone’. You would not hear obvious words from me that shows emotion.
So if a guy ask about status or feelings, my answer would still be in a ‘friendly tone’. If you are not too bad or too annoying, we normally won’t throw a direct mean word to chase you away because we like getting attention and having a guy to take us out for a well treated, BUT you will only keep getting this feel of how its just friendly nice but never specially nice then you figure out and drop it. It will be so clear in our action! We are either attentive or indifferent.
We definitely wouldn’t be bother to set up that kind of scence (her invite you to join the bestfriends) and text you such a cold/provoking/jaded message because it’s sure going to be followed by emotional text back and forth…
If I want to show you that you are just one of many guys i date with,… meaning to dumb you… (which actually i shouldnt have come this far with you, but ok may be i made mistake and realize now that I’m not into you),again my message to you would be the act not in the words (which i will become distant, give you no interest,talk to you like you are one of my freinds, etc.)
Her reaction remind me of when I found out something bad about a guy, that is what I will do. I will appear to be cold and reply you with a cold shoulder and withdraw all activities/appointment we planned.
Do you think it’s possible she happend to find out something or hear some news about you? (If she is really interested in you, she perhaps check on you like google you a bit…. sorry but i did that)
By the way, Aries dont need a guy as a third wheel aid. Oh and bestfriends of Aries would not give a ’surprise loook’ to a guy she brings along because they get so used to how Aries get attracted to unordinary kind of stuff/people/place/idea…
September 4th, 2009 at 11:08 am
Tucker,
After I submitted my last comment, I saw your last post. If I’m dating you and find out you have sex with aother girl eventhough we are not commited for anything yet, I think you just got your explanation to why she behave like that…
Even I told you I dont mind you dating other girls, it was not put as a test to trap you. How on earth can I lay any rule?! Its more like an eye and a mind opener. You are on your own will to do whatever you feel to serve us well. Especially Aries who gone thru hurtful we know if a guy want to sleep with others, you dont need our consent to do it. But if you are into us and want a commited relationship, as a guy of course you know which path to take.
My Gemini ex did this to me, I was being very fair in all respect and I never checked so he took advantage of my trust and being open-minded, he thought his love for me is real and as long as I never find out its never going to be a problem. He is right but once I did, its over for good.
September 4th, 2009 at 12:13 pm
@ Tucker
DONT DO IT-
Forget all about the Zodiac nightmare for a sec and remember this- you cannot and should not compromise who you are because someone you are dating says so..
Testing or no testing-This is clearly not working for you. I suggest you tell her one more time what you expect from a relationship and if she does not want to come on board- WALK!
While she is allowed to not be on a place for serious commitement, you are also allowed to be in a place were you want a serious commitement. Timing is everything in a relationship! You people seem to be at a different places in your lives right now.
Every minute you are wasting on someone you are not meant to be with- is time lost for you to meet other viable candidates.Life is too short Tucker!
September 4th, 2009 at 5:59 pm
I agree with Flowergirl. All astrology crap out the door. Bottom line is if she is turning you upside down and you don’t get clear answers, tell her specifically what you want. If she is not onboard with that, then adios chica. You are better off in the long run. No matter that she is an Aries sister to us, bullsh*t be damned. We won’t take up for someone intentionally hurting someone else. That is not a normal Aries trait. And we generally abhor those that do.
You have only been dating 2 mos. For those Aries that have been really hurt in the past, two months is not nearly enough time to think we can know our feelings correctly. We will second guess ourselves and even try to do things to push someone away, even if we really like that person but we don’t consciously “test” a person. Do not compromise your principals, even for an Aries princess who has her own issues.
@ Sawyer - arguing leads to increased emotion which leads to increased libido which leads to great sex! LMAO Seriously though, we know our facts and will usually verify our information before we venture to argue with someone. We know we are right!!! How dare you argue with us??!! LOL I literally have to let an argument go just so I don’t seem to be such a know it all (even though I know I am right and you are wrong!) However, if on the VERY off chance you are right, we will concede, grudgingly. Remember, we are princesses!
September 4th, 2009 at 7:24 pm
@Sasha…LOL, ..girl you are a ‘true’ Aries…i know i would love being around you!!
So…hmm…i ‘wish’ i knew that her being contrary to me was her wanting some serious passion..LOL…
I’ll tell you this-I know for sure(you know how we pisces ‘know’ things LOL) One day i was in her office after i told her how i was so attracted to her, and i’m sitting in her desk and she comes over me and stands really close getting something she said to ’show’ me…and she’s searching like and i get this ‘real’ feeling she wants me to kiss her!!!…i wanted to but i just was’nt wanting to ‘cross’ that line w/ her and ruin our friendship. She would deny that she wanted me too i’m sure…but i talked to her on the phone like the next day and she says “you need to quit being so conservative”..i’m like what???..then it hit me what she was really saying..LOL. She’s really testing me right now and i’m just trying to stay w/ her.
I’ve seen her w/ soooo much confidence(which is what really attracted me too her) and then i’ve seen her get sooo nervous around me, like she does’nt know what to do or say. She is really hard to figure even for me and my Pisces intuitiveness!!!LOL
You need to know i have been w/ my Libra soul mate for many yrs and i’m no player. But this one Aires female…she has had my head spinning…and she knows it.
September 5th, 2009 at 8:56 am
Hi Tucker,
Lol! It seems as though we have some sort of Arian girls advice tag team going on here, good advice ladies
Tucker I loved the bit where you put AA! Inspired! As some might know I’m an Arian with a gorgeous gemini gent, whilst I know he has a bit of a roving eye and is an outrageous flirt, I trust him absolutely. Sex for me is the final decision maker, I would never sleep with someone if I only wanted to be friends (otherwise I wouldn’t have any male friends! And I have alot of male friends!) Having sex with someone finalises my decision to be with them, after that I don’t date other people.
If someone I was with did sleep with someone esle, then I would simply move on-we Arian’s can definitely find someone new fairly quickly and geniunely just get on with having fun. You’ve never seen anyone get over a relationship like an Aries girl, even if we’ve been hurt you could never tell, as we’ll have lined up 500 distractions and 50 dates an hour after it’s over, we aren’t heart-less just understand how to get back on track quickly and without being overly emotional.
September 5th, 2009 at 1:56 pm
@ Sarah:
Wow that is so on the $$. The key words here are “We don’t sleep with someone we only want to be friends with”. That is soooo complicated (for the other person). We put alot of us into our sex and just a friend is not deserving of what we give. Again you are right when you say we can move on from someone with the quickness and the world will never know how much we are hurting, which is why we are so hard on the next person to come along after.
@ Sawyer:
Oh, this one is sooooo easy. It’s not difficult to see that she is very, very attracted to you but conflicted. She has her relationship to consider and you have yours but that animal magnetism that exists between the two of you is hard to resist. You’ve indicated to her that you are attracted. Knowing the Aries girl, she neither said nay or yea to being the same, right? (Always keep ‘em guessing). She obviously feels the same way but she would never say it out loud because anything between the two of you is taboo. Instead, she has to “show” you something that requires her standing awfully close to you. The attraction is so strong between you that when you were standing close, she appeared nervous - nah. That was RAW SEXUAL TENSION. Remember when I told the story earlier about my ex-boyfriend and the company he had over and what happened after they left? Well, all Aries want to be swept off their feet in some form or fashion. An illicit affair (in our minds) is soooooo exciting and that is how we envision it…being swept off our feet. Whether we indulge though is another thing.
She must be feeling some type of discontent in her marriage to allow the flirtation to go this far (remember the term “dangerously close to the edge”?). However, remember we are TREMENDOUS flirts - HUGE. It doesn’t matter if we are married or even shackled together when we actually flirt. Its so ingrained, most of us don’t even realize we are doing it. We don’t consider it being unfaithful because it’s just flirting. What’s the harm in that?
She won’t initiate anything between you two because of your ties and fear of rejection. However, if you initiate, she can be swept up if only for a minute. Just to get a taste of what it could be like (for the both of you) before she puts the brakes on. A big turn on for an Aries girl (at least for me LOL) is knowing someone else is thinking about them, a lot! Knowing that there is this big attraction between the two of you, if she lets you get a little taste of her and then says its something you two can’t indulge in because of….well then she has achieved two objectives. One, she’s gotten a taste of what things would be like between the two of you and two, you’ve gotten a taste of what things will be like and you’re not likely to forget. That is worth any discomfort she may feel at not assuaging her sexual frustrations. Sadistic? Yes. But satisfying - more so!
Aries sisters - am I giving away too many of our secrets? LOL
September 5th, 2009 at 7:29 pm
@ Sasha,
“Aries sisters - am I giving away too many of our secrets? LOL”
You did! but hey who cares? like anyone can stop you Aries?
LOL! Go ahead give out more, we all knew we still have endless more secrets to give 
hehehe!
September 6th, 2009 at 2:47 am
@mischievous: “Do you think it’s possible she happend to find out something or hear some news about you?”
The only thing I can think of is I kinda stressed her, she said I was, “Kinda making her feel exactly the way a boyfriend would try and make her feel.” That was in no way what I intended. I told her I’m not trying to be her boyfriend. She took it as me wanting more time with her but that’s not what I was getting at. I wanted to know if she is withdrawing her feelings for me and if she is losing interest in me, which I think she is…
@Flowergirl and Mischievous: So I called her but only after she called me. When I last spoke to her she sounded very annoyed when she answered and disinterested but she was asking me questions about my day, weekend, etc. We didn’t even talk about our argument or our last date. I said to her, “I hope we can see each other next week.” She replied, “Well, I’m not sure what I will have to do then.” She ended our short, 10 min, conversation first. Mischievous, you are right. She sounded cold and distant, even if she did show a little interest in my day and plans…
@ Sarah: In response to your comment: “Sex for me is the final decision maker, I would never sleep with someone if I only wanted to be friends… Having sex with someone finalises my decision to be with them, after that I don’t date other people.” Well, my Aries girl did say once, “I’m not dating anyone else… You’re the only one I’m seeing.” I hope she means what she says; even now that it feels like she is slowly letting me go.
@ Sawyer: Hey, man. You are both married! I would just back off. That’s bad karma to mess around with married women and when you are married. Sounds like you are happy in your marriage… Why would you throw that away just for a fling? It’s tempting but you have to think about the consequences. Think with the head on your shoulders, not the head in your pants…
To All Aries girls: Although me and my Aries girl are just ‘casually dating’ and have not officially called it off I will never have sexual relations with another girl, even if I do sense that she is intimately involved with other men. It is against my moral standards to sleep with other women when I’m already intimately involved with one girl. Well, back in my young days and indulged with girls but the older me, the now me, will never do that again.
Thank you all for your support. All of your comments and feedback helps me understand my current dating situation.
September 6th, 2009 at 5:19 pm
@ Tucker:
You said - The only thing I can think of is I kinda stressed her, she said I was, “Kinda making her feel exactly the way a boyfriend would try and make her feel.” That was in no way what I intended. I told her I’m not trying to be her boyfriend. She took it as me wanting more time with her but that’s not what I was getting at. I wanted to know if she is withdrawing her feelings for me and if she is losing interest in me, which I think she is…
Sounds like she is feeling pressured. When I asked you before whether you could have made her feel that way and you said no you followed her lead, I actually meant your argument afterward. It sounds like to me, although we don’t know verbatim what was said, that your intent was to find out where you stand but by your own admission you felt like you were the fallback guy for that date. It hurt you and I think unconciously you may have been a bit more aggressive in either word or tone to her and she felt like you wanted more than what she was willing to give. Hence, the pull back. The withdrawal that you are now experiencing. Sounds like she is still interested because you have talked to her since but should you continue to behave in what she may perceive as aggressive she will begin avoiding you.
How are you being aggressive? Keep in mind that any advice we give you is basically based on our own personal experiences. When I read about your experiences with your Aries girl, your enthusiam for her comes through loud and clear. How much you like her. How much you want to be with her. How you want to be exclusive. Is she dating anyone else? Is she seeing anyone else? Does she really like me? Is she testing me? Is she using me? Believe me, what you convey to us on here, she can sense when she is with you. She can sense that you want to be exclusive and she has all but told you “I like you but I want to take it slow”. Remember the statement, “just know that when I have time to see you I will”? That is so typical Aries. Regardless of how much time I spend on my hectic work schedule, when I want to see my man, I will make a way - dog tired or not. Some weeks I may work 7 days,18-20 hour days but some cuddling time can be squeezed in. She’s giving herself an out, in case you become more than what she can handle. Your eagerness to be in a “relationship” is scaring the heck outta her. In some way, you are conveying that to her. The upside is that she is still calling you. That means SHE LIKES YOU!!! It doesn’t mean that you are the fallback guy. It doesn’t mean that she is testing you. She simply likes you. Accept that and stop over analyzing. If she didn’t like you, you wouldn’t hear from her at all. See how it has changed when you said she NEVER initiated any contact and now she has called/text you first several times? Now ask yourself, what do you want from her? If it is ultimately to be a couple, what do you need to do to achieve that goal? Like Sawyer said, it takes a lot of patience to deal with the Aries girl. Do you have it? Can you endure it? The ball is in your court Tucker.
September 6th, 2009 at 10:36 pm
Oh crap- Are we Aries women this “special”? Oh boy!
@ Tucker- I am glad you heard from her. I agree with Sasha 150%. With an Aries woman, You have to strike a good balance btn showing interest and dis-interest. We are rooting for you!
@ Sawyer- RUN! C’mon- You guys are both married. Is this really worth it??? I am asking you to honor your vows and quit playing with this FIRE. No woman { even an Aries woman} is worth your Marriage! I can tell, you are better than this.
@ Sasha- We do need a website dedicated to ARIES women- Oh my! Aren’t we something?
September 7th, 2009 at 5:38 am
Hi
I am a Gemini deeply and madly in love wid a Aries woman. Actually she’s my best friend…can’t even say that…For me I cannot live without her but I cannot understand her. Sometimes she is so innocent and completely dependent on me and sometimes she’s so indifferent towards me, watever I say it doesn’t even affect her.
Since a past few days I have stopped talking to her…because I think she’s started hiding things from me…I even tried to talk to her but she said there’s nothing wrong. She somehow makes me feel that I am thinking too much and I am thinking all bull shit….neways I got really angry and watever…But I tried to forget her a lot but m not able to forget can’t even stop loving her…can u please guide me as to what shud I do to make her love me also….
September 7th, 2009 at 5:54 am
Sasha and to all who helped me,
It appears that my Aries girl is officially done with me; although she did not say so, she showed her lack of interest.
1. My last call with her she answered the phone with an annoyed voice and she sounded disinterested in talking to me, even if she did ask me questions about my day, weekend, etc.
2. She didn’t give me a direct answer when I asked if I could see her next week. She replied, “Well, I’m not sure what I will have to do next week.”
3. I invited her to my friend’s party. She replied, “Ok, thanks, I’ll let you know.” She didn’t call or text the day of the party.
This all happened within the past 3 days. Based on this information, I would say she already lost interest. Am I right? Do you think she already lost interest in me?
September 7th, 2009 at 11:05 am
Hi,
I am a sagi man who start to date with aries women. We study about 9 years from when we are kids and I moved. After 27 years later we meet a grup meeting and next day she call me. We talk, and she start to tell me about marriage, and I say I am not ready and I might not be again, after my divorce. After this we dine 5-6 times and went to theater twice. I start to pick her from her house and I also meet her mother and her brother. I know them from my childhood, and I was good with her brother since. Latly I sent her kind of love msg to her mobile after theater, and first one she never turn anything but she send me few msg for coffe and she invite me to her home. Last night I send another msg to tell her that I am feeling love that she planted in my heart and I want to show her the flowers that growing. But after 2 days she never call or msg me? What did I wrong? Can’t understand!!! Am I decived or not? Need urgent help!!!
September 8th, 2009 at 5:09 am
NTM,
What can i say?
She told you about marriage, and you said you are not ready and I might not be again.. and now you ask if you are deceived?
You expect Aries to take you seriously for a casual thing that is more likely to end up nowhere?
Think twice.
September 8th, 2009 at 5:14 am
Tucker,
Yes, what you had listed are not looking good at all. I would like to share some idea but I’m not in a good balance now, so much work, tired, so much problem and my mind is not at peace. I will come back to give opinion later. But I would like to tell you to try not to worrying too much and you cant interpret her every acts like moment by moment. Ignore her for now for a few days.
September 8th, 2009 at 12:03 pm
Tucker:
Let her go for now. Give it some time and space. Even if she answered the phone sounding annoyed, it doesn’t mean that is how she was feeling toward you. It could be due to others things that were going on around her at the time.
As for not responding to your invitation, that was rude and unacceptable. Are you accepting of it? A simple, “I can’t” would have sufficed. I’m with Mischievious - ignore her for awhile.
September 8th, 2009 at 1:27 pm
@ Sasha,Tucker, Flowergirl…
Hey thx for your posts and i know that what you are saying is right. Believe me when i tell you how much i love my Libra soul mate…i know no-one could take care of me and love me as much as her. You obviously know tho’ how an attraction of a Pisces to an Aires can happen so easily. The very reason i came to this site was to try to help me figure out “why” this woman could have such a powerful hold over me. If you’ve read all my posts you know that i’ve tried to be careful and controlled in my actions toward her..(but it is still very difficult to resist)…some of her Aires ways has made me want to walk away and not say anything, and i have done that a few times only to see her reach out and pull me back.
In the end i’m smart enough and she is definitely smart enough to know the consequences of that path. I guess that’s what makes it so hard for me to know in the end we probably cannot even be friends because of this… now it is hard to walk/or run away from someone you’ve come to care about- i don’t care who you are!!!
And Tucker, brother-if i was only thinking w/ the lower head i would’nt be on here seeking help in this situation like you are now would I?? I’m not critizing you in any way, it’s just this is life and you have to find ways to deal with things that come your way…and i’ve been smart enough to this point to not make any foolish decisions….YET!!! LOL
September 9th, 2009 at 12:27 pm
@ Tucker-
I am with everyone-Just let her go. Let things cool out for a bit. The direction that the two of you are currently heading towards to appears to involve lots of friction. While in the end, this will ultimately have to be your call- You might also want to consider our opinion about letting her go. Speaking from experience, one thing you don’t want to do is to get an ARIES woman cold. We are fire people- and when we get cold… it’s really difficult to put the fire up again. Tucker, sometimes situations are more than a Zodiac- and yours appears to be so. Really, just let her go- easier said than done – I know! But you will have more chances with her this way or any other girl [if she does not come around.]
@ Sawyer
My first love was a Pieces- Yeah! So I do have a soft spot for your situation. I do understand that sometimes things happen without us planning them. I completely agree. But, What I don’t agree with is us acting on those situations, especially if they will cause harm to other people. In this case, your innocent significant others.
While your Aries woman looks so irresistible right now- This is truly not worth it. WALK! You can be a bigger person here and decide this is not even worth toying with. Don’t even play with it- Its too intense for you to control Just cut it off. She will always thank you and she will always remember you for that!
To determine a successful man- I really just look at one main thing. See, while I love the houses, and cars, and pools and all the toys he has collected for himself, I basically try to asses not where he stood in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stood at times of challenge and controversy. For what its worth- Please be that man who takes the right stand in the moment of controversy!
I know you CAN DO IT!
September 9th, 2009 at 12:38 pm
@ Sawyer
Have you considered talking to your Libra woman about this? I am really not that “experienced” in today’s dating world- So I dont know how this works. But I just think Coming clean about it to your significant other might make your situation appear less intense. Yes she will be hurt- but If she knew before hand she might decide to work with you.
While I am not so experienced in the dating world- i know that I would want to know if my significant other is going through a similar situation. I will be hurt , yes- But Still, I think the realationship stands a better chance if we were that open with one another.
maybe this is another Aries woman thing? or maybe it is just me?
September 9th, 2009 at 1:07 pm
@ NTM-
I am just going through a thing with a Sagi Man. And May I say- you guys fear comittemnt like a plague. And you are mighty scared of Aries women! We kinda have that spell on you that make you want to settle down- and It freaks you out. And before you know it you blubber all this stuff about how you are not ready to settle down.!
Now- when time passes and you start feeling the aries woman. You want her to quickly adjust and follow your que
so here is what I have to say, ARIES women dont do casual dating! We simply don’t. And let no one lie to you. We cannot juggle our feelings for two individuals at the same time. We do flirt yes- But no we dont double date!
Something else- If we do get out the way to epress our interest to you- BELIVE ME WHNE I SAY- it does take a whole lot of us! and You better respond. This is not a small matter to us. If you slap us on our face with the ” I am not ready for you stuff”- Be ready for what awaits. and NO do not complain we changed rules on you!
Sorry NTM- You sorta brought this upon yourslef. Its her turn now. So just let her be.See how it plays out. Maybe they is a chance for you after all.
September 9th, 2009 at 1:09 pm
Sorry guys for all the typos- I am rushing to work!
Later!
September 9th, 2009 at 6:16 pm
@ Roy - forget the fake and phony stuff. Be yourself with an Aries woman. We recognize bull a mile a way and we don’t respect that. Geminis do tend to over analyze things and are very sensitive and we are waaaay to laid back for that. If your Aries does not respond to you in the way you want, then you wonder what you have done to her. It’s not like that for us. If you did something to us then believe me, we will tell you or completely avoid you.
You say she is your best friend. Is that a romantic, intimate friend or are you platonic friends?
Accept her as she is and as what she says. Why do Gems all think that Aries have a second agenda? We really don’t like lies because its too much hard work to keep up with them. And we are lazy!!!! The chemistry between Geminis and Aries is and can be great. Just let it flow. Be your natural self and she will be crazy for you!
September 10th, 2009 at 1:59 am
@ Sawyer:
I understand how you are feeling. This website really helps me with my dating problems. I hope this is helping you as well. I’m sure you will figure out the best solution for your situation. The only other thing I would advise - some things are better left a secret. I wouldn’t tell your wife about your situation at work. She might take it in the wrong way. But only you know what’s best for you.
Good luck
September 10th, 2009 at 3:59 am
To mischievous, Sasha, Flowergirl:
Ugh! So I tried ignoring her and I couldn’t! Just today I dropped off some roses at her job - I left the flowers with the receptionist. I decided to give my Aries girl some flowers because I thought she was still upset over our argument. She also has something important coming up so I thought the flowers would motivate her and help take her mind off it. You would think whoever receives flowers would call the person they received it from… She did not call me - only a simple text, “Hi Tucker, just wanted to say thanks for the flowers… That was very sweet of u…” Just like that, word-for-word. It sounds really fake and automated to me but that’s because I know her use of words and style of texting.
Ok, I need to listen to all of you and ignore her. This time I will. I need to ignore her and stop thinking about her. If you never hear back from me then you will know she didn’t respond to me and she forgot all about me.
Oh, yeah, I met an Aquarius girl and we clicked from the start. So I’m curious to see where it goes with her. I’ll probably be on the Aquarius message board more often
Thanks for everything Aries girls…
September 10th, 2009 at 8:16 am
Tucker,
Incase you came back to check here (which I’m quite certain you will!)
“……You would think whoever receives flowers would call the person they received it from…”
Dont know about other girls, but at least I’m going to do exactly the same as your Aries girl did, and perhaps the same exact text! LOL. And I cant understand how is the message fake? To me that was a nice and simple text, right to the point and show appreciation to the sincere level. (you gave her flowers not jewelry…)
I think I can guess what’s wrong now.
There is no doubt how you’re a very sweet, gentle, and caring person. You remind me of some guys I know, who keep shower girls with romance, sweet all nice and caring treat. I got fed up with dating sometimes because almost all men want something out of the date, either relationship or sex (or both). There are many times I told a guy I date with that I’m not ready for relationship and I’m not going to have sex without feelings. That translate for them as…. ‘bye’ It’s like you guys are not going to hang out/date us for friendship first? Not that I dont want a boyfriend or a relationship, of course I do but it doesnt happen instantly. It’s not like action A will happen after you start action B which will be followed by action C so that she respond with action D and lead to the final action of E…….. You didn’t only form expectaion but also forjudge and misinterpret her reaction. You dont have that ‘calm and stable’ mode to stay and wait after your pursue, to let her feelings settle for you. You get frustrated and go round the bend to your conclusion that she is dating other guys or playing with you. And now your interest is moving a bit toward a new person already….
I think this is nobody false. In my opinion I just think you dont match.
Best of luck with her and the new girl!
September 10th, 2009 at 10:26 am
@ Tucker: Although I agree that she should have called you and said thanks for the flowers (texting can be so impersonal sometimes and flowers are a “I-think-you’re-special” type of gift) she may not have simply because of your expectations.
A telephone call would have required a conversation between the two of you and lately you haven’t been having good ones. Again, I think she fears your expectation of her and a relationship and is avoiding talking to you.
However, if you were truly interested in her, you wouldn’t be moving on to another relationship so soon. You two obviously are not on the same time frame - you want it NOW and she has to sit back and take stock first. When you try to rush or push an Aries, we will dig our heels in and take our time.
Good luck with your new interest. Perhaps she’s more your speed.
September 13th, 2009 at 1:11 pm
@ Mischievious - you know, I re-read your post and you so hit it right on the head. So many people rush into a relationship. They date once or twice, sleep together a day or so later and they are in a “relationship”. Most Aries women are not qwik on the draw like that. We have to stop and analyze the situation. You don’t get the cookies so fast. We have to know that on some level you meet our standards (whatever that means for that particular Aries). We tend to put a barrier up, no matter how miniscule it may be. Until we are completely relaxed and comfortable with you, you don’t get all of us.
Looking at Tucker’s situation, he didn’t allow her to relax and drop her barrier. The fact that she slept with him gave him the idea she was good in a relationship with him. However, some Aries women (myself included) can get release physically without giving of themselves metally/spiritually. She probably liked him but felt a lot of pressure from his questions to be in a relationship and she probably wasn’t ready.
September 14th, 2009 at 5:45 am
Thanx for ur reply…..ya I think u r right!I just analyse so much about her, sometimes i feel so over protective towards her dat it makes things worse….but watever the case I love her like crazy…I don want to loose her.
A couple of days back I msgd her n we started talking again. Its making me feel so happy dat i din say anything about our last arguments n all coz i don want to bring in any issues between us dis time. I hope I can maintain dis attitude in d future also. But sometimes she behaves so mysteriously dat i m left wid no other option but to ask her about watz going on in her life…sometimes she speaks up but there r cases wen she just ignores coz she knows dat i’ll get furious….Another thing is she just trusts anybody n everybody blindly without seeing d consequences, I always try to warn her but she won’t listen n a few days later wen my predictions come true she goes into major depression…now wat m i suppose to do
September 16th, 2009 at 7:08 am
To mischievous, Sasha,
I’m back!!! BUT this will be my last time here, seriously. I just wanted to let you all know what happened with my Aries lady friend.
We had a long talk. Mischievous was right - me and my Aries lady friend are not a good match. Her reasons below:
1. She mentioned that she is still ‘healing’ from her emotions and broken heart with her ex-boyfriend. She’s not over him but she will never get back with him. But she is not ready for a relationship.
2. She said she is attracted to men who ‘hit the gym’, guys with big muscles. I have a slender/toned physique.
3. Her and her friends said I’m quiet, not socially outgoing and not funny. I am very social and outgoing and very funny. When I first meet someone I’m not as social - I need to get to know them first - then I begin to open up.
4. She said we don’t have chemistry. She’s not feeling it with me. But I thought we did.
5. She mentioned she needs to be with someone who is her equal or more. I don’t have a solid ‘career’ and I don’t have much money or a nice home or nice car.
Well, I think that’s it. So there you have it. This is the official end between me and my former Aries lady friend. If I happen to meet another Aries girl then I might be back on here sharing my life stories and asking you all questions. But I don’t think I will be visiting here anytime soon, except to read you comments to my last post. Thank you everyone for your advice, guidance, support, etc.
September 16th, 2009 at 12:18 pm
Good luck Tucker. Stop in to say hi sometime.
September 18th, 2009 at 9:43 am
Tucker,
Thank you for keeping us posted, really appreciate! Good luck with all the best!
September 26th, 2009 at 12:59 pm
well most of its true…like..d accidental nature..prone to injuries both of physical and emotional sorts..though i luv being an aries..as m so much loved by all…but my habit of blind faith in people..not ready to learn frm my mistakes..really sucks at times..i guess v aries r jus kids forever..v jus cant grow up…relationships for all aries including me doesnt work well at all..guess they r jus too god for da world…
good luck to all aries…..
September 27th, 2009 at 4:42 pm
I enjoyed reading all of the posts. It only got a little tiresome to read about what Tucker was/is going through after a while. I feel he may have been reading too much into the situation. We can all tend to do that when it comes to matters of the heart. I personally think the situation will probably work out, he just needs to let the Aries woman come around. I, as an Aries woman, can honestly say we can sometimes just want our space, to think things out clearly.
I have hurt men by doing that, but I had to do what was best for me. As we mature, we often become more self-centered(nt selfish) because we have experienced giving our all to others and only at times getting no reciprocity. SO, now as we age, we take more time for ourselves and make sure situations are for us before jumping in. I just started dating a Gemini male that complimented me on all the great Aries qualities that I have, mentioned how attractive I was, etc. Then he asked why I wasn’t in a relationship, when he can tell I’m great catch. I simply told him that I don’t settle. I’d rather be single and enjoy life, than to be with someone who doesn’t mesh with my personality.
GOOOO ARIES!!! I love this sight. People get tired of all the Aries talk, I know. We’re just a proud group of people. My dad is an Aries too, and when he introduces me to people he always mentions that we’re both Aries. I am lucky/blessed to have an Aries parent who fully understands me. It helped secure my confidence at an early age.
October 2nd, 2009 at 5:15 pm
I am curious, I hear a lot that Aries women and Sagittarius men can be an excellent relationship, but what exactly do Aries women like about the male Sag?
October 9th, 2009 at 7:48 am
Hi Ladies and Amazing Becky..
Sure I am so glad i found this site. Every thinng on it is perfectly true i mean all. As if i out my thoughts on the screen!! i am so glad i am not alone, i am reconfirmed i am strong and unique. Ladies we are not unsure we are rather so true we think so deep of every action every thought or feeling and that is why we touch areas that no one else imagines and start acting as if everyone else can see our exposed side! No one does relax no one is as intuitive.. It is very strange how almost ALL the sites mention general traits that are inaccurate about aries women! we’re very caring and loving, when in a relation its very important to have mental and spiritual sides connected (Of course physical too :)) one of the comments was asking about relations with Libra I know we love Libra men cause they adore us and like to spoil us but we dont like feeling stronger than them. I guess as we mature and grow up this combination gets better!
What concerns me is i have a magnet like attraction to Scorpio men, they are the only ones who are as honest and strong and aggressive as us yet passionate loving and caring. Also they are v strong they kinda tame our powers:) but i have never been in a relation with a scorpio it seems that am always too anxious to take it forward as i am afraid of losing thier respect and i dont even give them space to move forward i dont know why. although i am very desicive wth weaker signs i think i panic when it comes to the amazing Scorpio help becky and ladies scorpio men driving me crazy how can i get myself one Now! :))
October 9th, 2009 at 5:01 pm
Hi there Shireen,
thank you for your comment and for saying I’m amazing..very nice of you!! Although I have a virus right now and feel far from amazing!
So, you fancy a Scorpio guy do you? You have (as is usual for Aries ladies) already answered your question. Ignore your doubts and go for it..how could an Aries Woman lose anyone’s respect? You will blow his mind away..next time you meet one don’t be a shy Aries
Good luck
Love & Light
A rather poorly Becky!
October 12th, 2009 at 5:46 am
Hey poor amazing Becky
Am so sorry you have a virus! I really hope its nothing serious and you are feeling better.. Well hoping its a simple cold its a good chance to try doing your Gemini power juice inventions! my bestfriend -gemini- loves the kitchen we rarely understand what she gives us but we swallow it happily:)
ok Becky problem is he has been a friend for some years he just got out of a serious relation. Knowing scorpios flirty nature specialy after a breakup i wasnt v welcoming, you know Aries likes to be exclusive we re not impressed when a guy is a flirt (though cool & elegant style!)with everyone.. so i passed a couple of strong messages the Aries way oopss:) Now am worried i pushed him away as we dont talk as much. I think scorpio doesnt forget easily and are Very proud. Although he seems cool i know his head is doin some thinking. Do i have any chance with this hard charming scorpio?
Silly Aries..
Re.BlueAnthro
I think Aries likes Sagittarious people in general as both are so similar, energetic passionate exploring with lots of common interests. we instantly get along.. when am with my sag friends its so hard to stop talking its like an energy contest with no losers
sag are kind and they dont bother about our ego unlike leo. Dont know sag in a relation tho..
October 17th, 2009 at 8:15 am
Sher,
You are not alone. I was in a similar situation once with a Scorpio man. I think it is best to take a chance and enjoy every minute of it. It feels very liberating believe me. As Aries women we can be aggressive, are naturally protective of ourselves, and never want to be taken advantage of. However, there has to be a line drawn. At a certain point in your interaction with him, you have to realize he may truly be genuine. Just be a little more forward. It worked for me. Our relationship evolved after I decided to take a chance. It was a very rewarding experience, mentally, physically(oh, what passionate men) emotionally and spiritually.
October 26th, 2009 at 9:55 pm
Hey Becky,
When will your e-book be available? And can we just order it off this site?
Thank you
November 5th, 2009 at 8:47 pm
I am a Aries, Any job I have been in has to be a free range type of job Ive got to have free range to go anywhere I want, and Im happy to say all my jobs have been that way, I can be difficult to get on with,especially if you have lied to me,Im easy to forgive but its hard for me to forget,Im very spontanious and I am true to my friends but dont tick me of hahaha, I am curently involved with a sagitarius man and its true they are honest and damn too gorgious for my liking so look out girls hes mine, we do get rather jealous quickly and you certainly dont want a aries woman on your ass about her man…(smile)Aries are very competitive too and have alot of energy to burn,I have been in a lot of lead positions and I do not have a prob giving orders out,the trouble is we have a hard time taking it,,,,,hahaha
November 10th, 2009 at 2:07 pm
Response to Shireen “What concerns me is i have a magnet like attraction to Scorpio men, they are the only ones who are as honest and strong and aggressive as us yet passionate loving and caring. Also they are v strong they kinda tame our powers:) but i have never been in a relation with a scorpio it seems that am always too anxious to take it forward as i am afraid of losing thier respect and i dont even give them space to move forward i dont know why. although i am very desicive wth weaker signs i think i panic when it comes to the amazing Scorpio help becky and ladies scorpio men driving me crazy how can i get myself one Now! ”
I feel the exact same way!!! I can be shy especially if a man is coming on strong and I feel like I need time to figure him out. I have a Scorpio man in my life right now and he is so sugary sweet, passionate, but aggressive, very smart, dominant, has a good heart, too much to name. He loves to compliment me, hug and kiss me, and is just very affectionate.I find myself being guarded with him, but finally let my guard down recently. Now, I’m fearing that our interactions may change now but I hope it just brings us closer. I have been skeptical and I just don’t want to push him away with my skepticism. You just have to take the chance, and there’s nothing wrong with taking your time. We Aries women know when the time is right. I say go for it! I did, and enjoyed every minute. This is my first Scorpio man but boy what a great representation of the sign. It’s funny I tell him he is so aggressive and he initially asked how other men were with me. Then he retracted his question, saying it doesn’t matter. I like his aggressiveness because it’s not overbearing, it’s more passionate, honest and open. I can’t stand a man that is trying to get over and I guess that’s why I had to figure out that he was actually sincere.
Now, I’m planning time to spend with him and just want to show him more of my softer qualities and stop being so darn shy.
November 14th, 2009 at 2:42 am
aires women,
hmm…can’t say I get along with them all that well….they are almost too cerebral and can be very competative about their knowledge and being the best…or at least better than you at something. It is very strange that I feel this way cuz I don’t want to believe in horoscope personality this much! However, I swear that they are extremely scared when it comes to who is in control and this goes for aires men too. I have worked with both and they will never want to let on that there is equal power, they have to or really want to, be on top…..however, I am a scorpio and maybe this is where the fire and water dont mix so good. I honestly wish I could not be so judgmental but it is the only sign that I have never been able to connect with well.
November 15th, 2009 at 10:22 pm
I FOUND THIS INFORMATION SO ACCURATE ON ARIES WOMEN ITS AMAZING.
What appears simple at first is indeed very complicated as you dig in deeper within the personality of an Aries woman. Born between March 21st and April 21st she is strong, level headed and focused about her goals. She might appear rude to you at first but try not judging her in the initial encounters. Try not making the first impression the last one when you are dealing with females who are of the sun sign Aries. They are very sentimental and sensitive. Try understanding their complicated emotions that are tied and mixed up in their minds. They are not cold if that is what you think about them, it is just that they take time to accept changes.
Trust is something that they do not put in other people naturally. An Aries woman is close and shy. In other terms you could say that she is an introvert. If right approaches are made she can be very friendly and helpful. And at some point of time she might be the only person you would go to in all situations. She is someone whom you could totally depend on and rely on even in the worst possible times of your life. She would be the only person you might think of in such situations. She would also be the first person with whom you would like to share your happiness.
The most important thing that you must remember is that do not under estimate an Aries woman. She is made up of strong substance. She will not give up easily and relax only when she has achieved what she had set her mind on. Do not take away her liberty and freedom from her and she will respect your trust and faith in her and will do no such thing that might harm the confidence you have in her. Never take this woman for granted. She will not like it. Even though her ego levels are low that does not mean that she has a low self esteem. She must get the respect she deserves. Make her feel special. Aries woman love surprises. They like gifts, perfumes, flowers, good food and long drives. Make her fell the importance she has in your life. Cook her favorite meals if you can and if you are good in the kitchen. Sing her songs or write romantic love letters. Cute and short poems are also not a bad idea. Just try and make her feel special.
She will appreciate everything that you have done for her and will do anything to maintain the love and trust in the relation she decides to get in to. An Aries woman is a woman of her words. She sticks to what she says and does not change irrespective of time or season. She might exhibit small bouts of anger caused may be due to her professional life but extend your love and support at this time and help her sought out her problems by being a friend.
November 17th, 2009 at 9:00 pm
Just wanted to extend a Happy Holidays to all my Arien sisters! You rock!!!
November 21st, 2009 at 6:31 am
I love love love your interpretation of the aries woman! I know that I am being both biased and a tad bit arrogant in saying this however, as I am a woman born under the aries sign. I see my humor as one of my finest qualities and my true friendships (mostly all with women) as my finest assets. My sisters and I read all of our horoscopes on your website and we are delighted to say that we think that you are spot on! I think you have some real insight. Thanks for keying all of us less informed indivuals in on what makes us each unique!
November 21st, 2009 at 6:36 pm
I’ve noticed two things, 1) all Aries people are different 2) Aries men and women don’t ever act similar to each other. My female cousin is an Aries and she’s really funny and she’s very deep she can go into these really dark moods. On the other hand I’ve met another Aries female who is very self involved and hurts other people for the fun of it. I’m really not sure how to feel about Aries people because I’ve only met a few and one was a man I didn’t get along with and the other was a female I really didn’t get along with. I get along with 1 out of 3.
November 22nd, 2009 at 1:44 am
wow. i think this website is awesome. i always thought it was just me, being awkward. it feels good now to learn that its an aries trait lol. im not like that around people i know though. ive worked at my job for almost four years, and thats where im most comfortable. i goof around and im always making everyone laugh, even my boss who is always serious. ive been with the same guy for almost 2 years and i cant tell you how many times ive been hurt by him. for some reason i always believe him when he says “this time” im gonna change. and doesnt. i trust wayyyy too easily and stay getting hurt because of it. if anyone has any advice on how to deal with being an aries, please let me know ASAP… i cant stand the awkwardness or heart breaks anymore.
November 30th, 2009 at 7:43 am
I’m an aries and although I’m only seventeen, I totally agree with everything you’ve said
Thanks for the 10/10!
December 8th, 2009 at 6:45 am
Just wondering. . .
I am a Pisces man, 34 years old, divorced, I have one daughter who is 9 (and very dear to me). I met a younger woman, 20, Aries, at a friend’s get-together last Saturday. After she saw the video I had made for my daughter, she and I were chatting and watching videos on youtube all night together, till 2 am. She said that one day she wanted 6 children. She kept her hand on my leg, I put my jacket on her because her brother took his jacket from her, she held my hand, kept looking into my eyes, smiling at me, even stroked my hair a couple of times while we were sitting at the computer together. As I was leaving, she whistled to call me over to her car, gave me her number when I asked. I gave her a kiss on the cheek and then left.
I have zero experience with Aries women, basically. I have known none. I was married to a Sag and that was the pits (too mean, harsh, insensitive, disloyal, lying/manipulative). I also dated another fire sign, Leo - which again was filled with a streak of harshness, insensitivity, and even a nice serving of unnecessary drama.
Now another fire sign! I have some hopes after reading much more about Aries, a sign I’ve never studied because I haven’t met any yet, or rather, gotten to know any. What do you all make of the above events? We did have some drinks but neither of us were inebriated. (my friends were lit! lol)
I have a TON of my chart in Pisces, including my sun, but I also have a ton in Aries as well.
Could I get some good comments about the above events and any advice you may have for me? She is a gorgeous girl who appears loyal, loving and fun. I realize that we are also a few years apart, but I want to know what I can do in order to spend more time with her (not for sex, just to get to know who she really is and decide about a relationship from there).
Any advice is appreciated very, very much!
-Piscean in Louisiana
January 3rd, 2010 at 1:50 am
I am an Aries female (31) and I hate the relationship side of myself. I wish I had some Cancer, Virgo, or maybe even Taurus relationship characteristics because I hate running men away with all this frickin dominance (I’m being soooo sincere). I do LOVE what was said above about it being awkward to be a woman who possesses so many male characteristics by nature. I had never thought of it that way, and after reading that, it seemed to all become clearer. I have always been a loner because of my awkwardness and my fear of opening my trap and having something spill out that would hurt someone’s feelings. I REALLY can’t lie and I usually only know one way to say what I’m thinking…
January 8th, 2010 at 10:42 am
Rashall said “I feel the exact same way!!! I can be shy especially if a man is coming on strong and I feel like I need time to figure him out.”
HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!
It’s funny how I always come back to this site once I find myself interested, curious or intrigued by a guy. So, I met a guy during the holidays, well I already knew of him since he is one of my closest friend’s relative. I always kinda had a crush on him but I would never really approach him. I like for a guy to show interest first, then I start to show my aggression. So, the guy, a Capricorn Sun Sign and Venus in Aquarius, has been known to have more female friends than male friends. Which this is ironic cause my ex-boyfriend is a Cap, and this was the same case. He came up to me at a house gathering, trying to strike up a conversation. I was very apprehensive, cause I noticed one of my friends seemed like she liked him. Also, his BFF(an Aries female, who is also a former coworker of mine, yes small world!), was at the party with him, whom I know had relations with him. For all I know, they may still be. Once they were leaving, I gave the guy’s BFF a hug. Then he reached in for a hig himself. I felt like I was being put on the spot! I was super shy, but I couldn’t let me Aries dominant side be hidden for long. When he was walkng out, I said something smart, and he ran back in the house and picked me up and hugged me. WOW! I thought this guy is aggressive, I like! So, two days later I bugged my friend to call her cousin and we all went to eat. He said he was shocked that I was interested, that he found me to be very attractive but that I acted as if he was a turnoff. I explained that I try to figure people out before I readily open myself up to them. Plus, I’m a natural smart ass, so I can’t help it. He also said he liked my aggression, that it is cute. Well, I’m glad he does, cause that comes naturally.
Now, I find myself wondering what I’ve gotten myself into. It’s funny how as an Aries woman, I never have trouble with men wanting to get to know me. The problem is that I don’t know what the color gray looks like. Everything is black and white to me. I am either really shy or once I get to know you I can be really aggressive/persistent. I am learning to let the man be a man though. We shall see what happens, because the guy’s BFF seems to like him for more than just friends. Honestly, I can’t blame her! However, he tells me he’s single. He knows his cousin is ine of my BFFs, so any lies he tells, I’ll find out. My BFF says her cousin brutally honest to a fault, so that works for me. As an Aries woman, we always want it straight, not shaken, stirred, no b.s. at all!
January 8th, 2010 at 10:50 am
@ Daniele and Loo Loo,
Don’t feel bad about the awkwardness. I have always and may always feel that same way. We are just different. I am finding a way to balance all of my masculine traits with feminine traits though. I find Tauruses to be a sign that really understands us. Every Taurus that I know, I get along with famously. Just try surrounding yourself around people that “get” you. Ignore the people that you are uncomfortable with, or who has an incompatible personality. Aries women are not known for hanging in large groups, we tend to have a tight ship. As far as men go, just be yourself. As the years go by, I am more and more comfortable being who I am. I make no apologies for being blunt and frank. I don’t care if a guy says he’s shocked that I don’t listen to love ballads all day or that I like to play sports and be spontaneous. The guy that is lucky gets to see the softer side of me. The others don’t need to know that initially, because they haven’t earned that opportunity yet. Just be the best version of YOURSELF! It will work out for the best!!!
January 8th, 2010 at 5:34 pm
i am an aries male. my wife is an aries also. we have been together since school (over ten years)and we still love each other dearly. we also have a baby girl who’s an aries…lol. a family of rams! my wife is all the things you say she should be. loyal, funny, firery and sometime’s a bit too honest. however i love everyting about her and would have it no other way. we have extreamly intense arguments but as soon as we calm down we are friends again, which suprises anyone who witnessed it. we are also fiercely loyal to each other when it come’s to confrontation with others. my friends and family call us the most dangerous couple in the world. thats because they know to fight with one, is to fight with both. we would kill for each other without a moments thought….lol. i love my aries women but i have to admit that im not looking forwards to living with 2 aries females. they might just get the better of this old ram….lol
January 11th, 2010 at 5:50 am
@ Akira, that’s funny living in a house full of Aries. That reminds me of my childhood growing up with my father. It’s good to see an Aries relationship last that long.
February 12th, 2010 at 11:51 pm
well im aries and ppl love me and say all the that im to funny and sweetheart to i can be outgoing sometimes and really shy wit ppl sometimes to but if they get to know me than i opening up … much to all aries and im a curious person to and a little crazy lol
February 26th, 2010 at 5:54 am
I’m an Aries woman. And I am not a fan of anyone who lies to me. That gets the flames going. But I’ve always wondered why people seem drawn to me, even in school, people I never talked to would just start talking to me. Then poof we’re friends. My best friend in the world is an Aries and wow, we are like two twins from different parents.
My mom was a Pisces and dad a Cancer, I always wondered how they raised a Leo and an Aries. Mom said I sort raised myself, lol.
Aries women equal smart women
March 3rd, 2010 at 2:56 am
Hi Aries girls,
I’m a Pisces male and I have an Aries sister (older than me). As my parents were always too busy working (both capricorns, of course), I was raised by my two sisters (one is a Pisces and the other as I mentioned before, an aries). Im love my sisters in the same way but let’s talk about my Aries sister:
She has a very strong personality and I love it, but I have a question for you Aries females:
- Why are you so bad with money?
Me and my sisters are all adults now (over 35), but, I can’t understand how she lost everything she had, she left a good guy to get married to a rubbish bag and financially, she just can’t put her life together.
To me, seems that when she was a teenager she was an adult and with time, she is just becoming a child again. Do aries struggle with maturity?
Thanks.
March 5th, 2010 at 3:02 am
That is so true i am funny sometimes when i dont try to be but when i try i usally am not lol
I love 2 make people happy 2
March 14th, 2010 at 5:41 pm
Hi Enrique!!
I’m a Aries woman, and I’m not going to sugar coat anything but I think we can be bad with money because we really don’t care about the price of things… and at the end of the day, month, or year it usually catches up to us. It’s not that we buy lavish things or burn money, it’s that we pay now think later. Kind of like how we are with love, we jump head first then think about it later. I’m not saying that this is a good thing, but it’s sort of that ‘live in the moment’ idea …. it’s all about the stories and good times we can get rather then the cost. We live and love fully even if it makes us broke =(
Eventually she will have something come into her life that will require more responsibily and dicipline and hopefully that will roll into her life financially (example kids, or being a caretaker)
March 18th, 2010 at 4:28 pm
well..im an aries girl…and as stated here, im cn b witty and wise. but the main drawback with me wud b i try 2 b humble n arrogant at same tym wch produces sarcasm and often misinterpreted as fun…hahhhh, its nt indeed. and..bein wid an arien woman, rocks..i assure u all men out der. dis is the fact..who wud resist a girl who cn b a cute lioness n horny kitten as well????
March 18th, 2010 at 4:40 pm
and..as per my knowledge..i wud suggest arien guy as perfect match in case one is reday to forgo ego
. on a cynical note…both do have voids in der lyf n cnt hold fr long
well…arien women cnt hold nybdy fr long tym. smetym scorpions make grt partners..so r saggitarians. being an arien women whose lukin fr commitment..i found a cancer guy, whom i refer as most insecure fellow on d earth..but he does pamper my ego…dats wt v ariens need na????
March 26th, 2010 at 11:18 pm
Oh my, I’m lovin the Aries love on this page!!!! I relate to so many of these posts, it’s almost scary..lol I love to laugh, and make others laugh. I can’t stand to see someone in a gloomy mood, it makes me gloomy, so I’ve learned to use my charm to help lift others. I’m also very sensitive, and if someone says the wrong thing, I will get easily offended until they clarify themselves or apologize. I’m a Nymphomaniac, I love good food, and travel. I think other cultures are fascinating and I love to learn all about them. I’m quick tempered, and very stubborn at times. I’ve also noticed that some Aries Woman like to read and can be lazy…but not in my case, I want to experience things rather than read them in a book, and if I don’t have all my cups in a row I get crabby..lol To answer the original question however, Why the Aries sign is a Ram and not a Bird, is still a mystery to me, because we are free spirits inside. You take away our free spirit and we don’t recover very well or easily. Hope she is doing better.
March 28th, 2010 at 5:09 am
aries women ARE naturally funnny even when they dont try to be, but be careful cuz im an aries girl and if u laugh when we do somethin and we dont know, we will go all over u. we also tend to be EXTREMELY generous, its too hard for us to say no. we too are airheads but very clever. we make good plans but in school subjects…well lets just say bleha!
April 20th, 2010 at 3:24 am
I couldnt agree more on this page!!!! I have such pride in being an aries
i feel the love on here!!! i can always use this as a tool to remind me who i am 
We’re naturally funny & love to entertain & make people laugh. We’re naturally silly and airheaded lol we dont think before we open our mouths -impulsiveness. I hate to see someone in the dumps sooo I do what I can to put a smile on their face. We’re great motivators and uplighting people. I put my strong beleifs and personality to good use. I AM SOOOO impatient, grrrr..it nearly kills me haha..its almost unbearable for me to wait. I get bored easily. I want constantly be on the go go go. We’re all just innocent peeps looking to explore the world and feel appreciated 
April 22nd, 2010 at 9:42 am
I am an Aries and have just started seeing a Scorpio man. I am a real Aries, can also be very sensitive. My Scorpio man drives me crazy though, only been seeing each other for a month. He sometimes phones up to 3 times a day and will talk on average about 10 min . at a time but lately, the calls have become fewer although still daily, and shorter. He can also never make up his mind about what he wants to do. Our dates are always last minute but wonderful when we do get together. What do I do with him? I know that he’s keen on me but you can never pin him down until the last minute. I doubt if he’s seeing someone else as he’s a busy guy but I get the feeling that he’s using me to an extent. This is the last weekend that I’m letting him get away with it. I’ve decided if he carries on with last minute arrangements, he’s getting the boot but perhaps I should be more patient? What do you guys think?
April 25th, 2010 at 1:56 am
Janice
That is soooo funny. You like this man but the minute it appears to you he is taking you for granted you need to show him who’s really in control! ALL NON-ARIES TAKE NOTE. Even though you may stop him from the last minute dating by not seeing him, eventually (and it will happen) you will let him back into the fold - AT YOUR TERMS!!!
I laugh because that is so me and many of my close female Aries friends. You ROCK!
April 25th, 2010 at 1:57 am
BTW - HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY ARIES GIRLS!!!!!!!
May 1st, 2010 at 7:26 pm
im an aquarius male and ive been dating an aries girl for 6 years now (1st year living separately, in different cities and then different countries throughoiut the year); i have dated, actually, because we broke up a couple of months ago (i had the idea but after a couple of struggling months it was her who put it into practice); but i wanted to break up with her for good (but she wanted us to stay friends), but, as i was surprised to discover, i still had/have (?) feelings for her (but now shes turning ever cold much to my dismay, i call her a couple of times a day and she barley takes one call - in which she puts heart and warmth tho)yet every now and then we even get to flirt with each other. is it routine? is it she’ afraid to move on yet? feel sorry for me? takes pity on me? why hasnt she moved on to another guy yet (i think theres one in her life, she speaks highly of him - and from admiration and bed arent so far from each other). hmmmmmm, am going crazy.
May 6th, 2010 at 9:43 pm
I’m a Sagittarius with Aries Moon and Rising.. so I’m very Aries. I do see certain things as being true–being with a really controlling partner made me into a bitter, constantly irrationally angry person until I realized what it was coming from (that Sagittarius part that was too oblivious to see manipulation, I guess?) Anyway, I think Aries will either conquer or break when it comes to controlling behavior… life’s little obstacles can end up being life/death battles. At least one starsign Aries I know has panic attacks.
May 27th, 2010 at 10:01 am
I’m a Aries Woman from London and I am loving this aries site, I from the comments
I can see so much of myself, it’s scary!! I sooooooo being an Aries (no disrespect ladies)
but men love us and women generally hate us!! I am in a long term relationship with a Tauraus man
and have decided after careful consideration that I need to break the cycle with him. I will come back later and discuss with you guys. All I gotta say is keep Rocking Aries woman.
June 24th, 2010 at 6:15 pm
I’m a 16 year old aries. I’m glad to find that so many people have the same problems of being awkward I dont fell so out of place now. I have to be sure I can trust the people around me before I show my carefree bubbly side. This can be a problem because people start to think im a snob and im overshadowed by the more quick to trust people. I’m very sensitive to what other people say and I cant always tell them what they said hurt me. And my inability to explain myself makes me angry and them confused when I become stand offish towards them. Ah, what fun to be a aries teenager.
August 13th, 2010 at 11:49 am
I am an Aries and proud of it! And every characteristic that describes us I have or used to I guess? My partner is Cancer and every characteristic that u would never want in any person he has. I used to have tons of friends, was outgoing, I loved to laugh, and actin’ silly dumb was fun until being called dumb continuously. I used to pride myself on my confidence and how it would make others jealous because I would talk to complete strangers like I had known them for years. Now I hate leaving my house. I dont see or go around my family hardly ever and havent gone to a Thanksgiving or Christmas dinner in 2 yrs. I hate myself. I have let someone else control me to the point that I have no self anything. Im actually thinkin to myself rite now how pathetic I sound and im too much of a crybaby. I dont have an alcohol prob but the other stuff, yep. I dont c it as a prob tho when thats how I make myself feel normal just to get thru the day. I did have my soul mate, a Libra. Theres not even a word deep or strong enough to describe wat I feel for him. My happiness with him along with everything else got ruined. I dont kno how to be “me” again? Iv been praying that God will help me to find my way, but wat do I do about the rite nows?
September 17th, 2010 at 5:53 am
Hi,
Very nice article indeed! I enjoy reading on my own astrological from time to time when am free…keeps my spirits high especially when I perfectly know that Im of a very special nature. Yeah, am an aries and am proud to be so at least am independent in my thoughts and actions….no one to rule or boss over me. Am always out for new and innovative things, changes, challenges, exciting relationships and remote, adventurous places…and oh my God! What a spendthrift….love shopping till i drop…but the most precious person I have in my life in my son Yohan whom I love like a crazy….He is lucky to have such a caring and affectionate mum like me….and am lucky to be always called sexy and “wow” by “any-age” male! Cheers!
October 25th, 2010 at 9:42 am
I was married to one, as scorp. male they sucked. never meet anyone more selfish and materialistic not mention delusional at timse
November 7th, 2010 at 10:33 pm
We are smoking hot, the sexiest, the BEST, and the most independent, whilst simultaneously garnering the lion’s share of male attention without really having to try. (I haven’t tried AT ALL this year, yet have had at least half a dozen people ask me out!) Whilst I’m not obsessive about it, I have a fit body, like dressing well and looking good. I think that the taking care of myself and being comfortable in my own skin, as well as being honest, chatty and friendly, comes across in my aura and that people must be attracted to that. I prefer my hobbies over a partner any day. This has been the main complaint from all my partners, that I was more interested in my pursuits than them - which I have to say is unfortunately true! After a few experiences where I had to be very tough, I’ve had all I want of relationships and am perfectly happy being single. I am currently in a phase where I can let my confidence shine and enjoy a good social life contributing to the community. I am currently challenged by the need to balance my tough side and gentle sides, but I think Saturn’s transit of Libra is helping with this one!
November 30th, 2010 at 10:51 pm
It’s been a LONG time since I posted last but I’ve came back here many times and love to read these posts. My saga w/ an Aries female has almost pretty much came to the sad end i thought it would. She is in one word…”IMPOSSIBLE”…at least to bend or break(forget about it).So to catch some you up, let me say this for starts: 1st>settle this in your mind now..we are both married w/ kids…
I don’t need anyone lecturing me on being faithful and all…i’ve been thru that and listen sometimes things happen, you don’t intend to happen…so if you even think about lecturing me on an age old sin…to hell with you. I say that with a slight grin
It’s been just over 2 yrs we started to become friends at work. I would go by her office and we would go eat lunch w/ others and she gave me her cell # but wasn’t cool when i would call her, oh but she would call me w’out hesitation. Trying to figure this Aries Female (God, she’s so gorgeous)out has been like trying to interpret some unknown culture’s language….but the adventure was what i lived for.So…one day I point blank told her how attracted i was to her in her office…she blew it off, saying how “awkward” and shit..but as i started to leave she was about to “cry”…i swear, i even told her “are you fixing to cry?”…and she denied it and said she only cried when she was mad..yeah right! After a few ups and downs (so goes Pisces/Aries relationship)…i went into her office one day talked for a minute and leaned down to her… put my arm around her and (yes i did)BAM…”kissed” her…on her cheek hehe. God, she turned blush red and at the same moment her phone rang and she didn’t say a word..i left and she sent me an e-mail saying i may have crossed her line. So she didn’t speak to me for about 2 weeks and then one day sends me another e-mail and wants me to come back again and visit. I waited about a day or so(of course to torment her a lil ;))..then go in her office (she shares w/ 3 other ladies)…i go in and she is standing at another ladies desk and when i walked in, she has this smile on her face for like at least 5 min.’s…I kept trying to get closer but she became more and more distant. One thing was her husband was ALWAYS out of town, but now he changed jobs and is home more, i think that had a big impact on us. I told her all these things i felt and that i did not want to take her away from her husband…I just wanted to be close to her. She’s put this wall up now, so last week i went to her and told her i would not be coming back…”I’m gone” i said and left her office…went down the hall and something (my pisces intuitiveness)told me to go back, that she was crying. DAMN, i went right back in and sure enough tears in her eyes…and she looked up at me and her eye quivered as if she were shaking!!! WTH….but she won’t ADMIT anything, she will not even admit that I’m special to her(i asked)…DAMN,DAMN Aries (are you Aries women that prideful?!). Now I’ve told her I’m sick over this and she tells me…”I’m sorry…i don’t know what to say…or how to help!”My last correspondence was this…”don’t let me just walk away”…2 days ago…and she has said nothing.
Anyone have any words of comfort,advice without any damn judgemental comments.Some of you Aries women tell me what is she THINKING?!!!
December 1st, 2010 at 9:05 pm
my birthday is on the 21st of march, however i feel like i belong in both pisces and aries. is this possible? can you be two star signs?
December 6th, 2010 at 10:52 pm
I guess you Live and Learn…why does it seem I always learn the HARD WAY?!…hehe…Sometimes you want something you can’t have, that you know you don’t even deserve to have. Now this is some deep pisces talk here…I know there are so many ppl out there that just want to love and be loved but life makes that so hard for that to just HAPPEN…it’s even harder when you feel you’ve put so much into something and then get NOTHING!….but life goes on and you pick yourself up and go for another day wishing, hoping, waiting…thx to the Aires side of me I’m alot tougher edged than most pisces. I’m a good guy who’s gone bad and not sure if i can go back. But gotta move on down the stream now…swim for another day.This one (just one) Aires girl turned my world upside down…and now she’s gone…now i have to straiten what’s left up. Swimming Away…
January 20th, 2011 at 3:04 pm
It’s so true I’m ARIES and i’ve always been like this, i even look like im 17 when im 26 I love all signs but ARIES takes the cake..hehe
February 1st, 2011 at 12:16 am
I am an Aries Woman. I have had this happen and know the cure. so that you may help your fallen Aries.
February 1st, 2011 at 4:35 pm
>>Sable…tell me please who and what you are speaking of…what have you had happen and to what do you have the cure??
>>Beth..I too was born on a cusp of 2 signs…born March 20th..but I have only few Aires qualities in me.I’m pretty well a true Pisces. But you neing born on a cusp can have varying qualities from both Aries/Pisces
February 23rd, 2011 at 5:19 pm
I’m an Aries woman or girl you can say lol. I am very shy and don’t really like to party, my friends or so called friends think I’m dumb because I don’t understand certain stuff but I know I’m really smart and it upsets me when they see that I have a high grade. I’m In love with a Leo and he is growing distant, I’m going to a new school soon and we are In separate classes, I fear that the girls he is close with will take him away. I text him call him and I make sure he’s okay and the only time he checks up on me is If he heard I was crying. I am very romantic lol and I say lots of things that either I don’t mean to be funny but it is, or I say things that aren’t funny. I know that Aries and Leo are supposed to be firey but we don’t really hang out with that mood anymore. When we were In the same classes last year and the year before he use to sit next to me and laugh with me and really cared, but now since he knows I like him and we are I’n different classes he is awkward around me.
Please help this Aries unlucky I’n love! Tips please!
Thanks! - Brianna
March 4th, 2011 at 11:02 pm
Im an Aries woman to the fullest and love it. In love with life, full of optimism and very energetic and passionate about the things I love. I understand the awkwardness feeling Im usually like that when I first meet people I don’t know or trust but I’ve been told by people that Im charismatic and warm and that ussually draws them in. I’ve also been told Im funny but I don’t do it on purpose I simply say whats on my mind about something and am curious about every little thing so the things I say just come out funny or humors others. Some people think Im ditsy and silly but I think thats just a mask I wear don’t know why but my close friends know me well Im intelligent and witty and quite the oposite of what I portray at times.
I don’t know why but sometimes I feel like Im wearing a sign on my head that reads ‘Im a counselor I can help’. I find people are always willing to open their hearts and just tell me everything about their life without me asking or knowing their name and I will usually advise or just listen. I don’t know why people feel compelled to do so. Im always willing to help people especially the ones I love and care about its my personality.
In relationships I’ve been told by lovers that I appear to be a lady and sincere but I also am assertive and aggressive and know exactly what I want which is intimadating at first but admirable in the long run. I’ve been proposed to 3 different times and said no not out of fear but I believe it takes a very special man to love an aries woman and put up with us. I can’t stand weakness in my man or clingyness it drives me out the door. I just like a balance be manly and be sensitive and understanding at the same time don’t let me walk all over you but stand up to me..its hard to explain!! Im sure when I find him I’ll most likely be the one doing the proposing. Im definitely a physical person great sex is essential as air in my lungs, if I don’t get it Im usually cranky or I find someone who can please me!! Im honest, and sometimes very blunt but I do it because I love you not because Im trying to hurt the person Im being honest with and I also expect honesty from others. Im easily hurt when Im lied thats when my sensitive side comes out. Im also very loyal to a fault but if you’re flaky, dishonest or detached you definitely won’t see me around too long.
March 5th, 2011 at 1:22 pm
Dear Brianna! I am an aries lady, soon turning 34. Just like you, I am very shy, to the point where I don`t even come across as an aries. I am also very respectful of other people`s feelings and I never like to force my way into anything ( group of people, someone`s personal space, …) unless I am invited in with red carpet and everything. I admit that is not an asset, but a mill stone holding me back. Also, in a group of people, I never jump in with an answer immediately, only to see myself heard and listened to by the others. Instead, I sit back for a second or two, to correctly process the information, to look at the situation from its many angles, to think if and how my answer could hurt anyone`s feelings and pride. In the meantime, someone else, less considerate than me comes up with a spontaneous answer and that is how although I do have an opinion of my own, I lose the opportunity to say it out loud. In today`s superficial world, many seem to think that if someone does not express an opinion, that`s because they don`t have one, because they don`t have enough IQ to produce one. In thinking that, they overlook a very important aspect: it`s not the quantity of ideas per second produced by a brain and shared to the world that really matters, but the quality of every single idea that makes someone wise. Even someone with an IQ of let`s say 60 has opinions : “I like this or that!” , “I will do this or that!”, but what about the quality of their opinions? The medicine still considers them to be intellectually challenged! I understand that you are in school or high school. At this age most of your colleagues have a lot of misplaced enthusiasm, a lot of insecurities and an over sized urge to affirm and assert themselves as miss or mister popularity or alfa individuals in their group. One way to prove to themselves how great they are compared to anyone else around them is by demonstrating to the rest of the group how little in terms of qualities anyone else in the group is compared to themselves. Such a strategy of behavior is, in my personal opinion, a proof of immaturity and personal insecurities and lack of respect for those around them. The downside of such a strategy is that it only works for a limited amount of time and only in a restricted environment( such as their close group of friends and acquaintances). Once they get out there, in the big and self caring world, none of the mature grownups they encounter in their way cares a frozen onion about their bluffing anymore. All that matters out there is their real qualities - personal and/or professional, but not the degree of popularity they once had in their close group of acquaintances. Ever noticed how in some cases, the most popular guys or girls in teenage groups didn`t do that great in the big, non caring world out there, in professional or personal areas of their lives? An how some of those with less than mediocre degree or popularity in high school did really well later in life? As for your leo bf, you say that he seems to grow distant towards you as his attention might be drawn towards other girls in his immediately close new group of friends, and that in spite of how great times you two used to have when circumstances were putting the two of you next to each other, independently of your or his wish. Astrologically speaking, you should never underestimate a leo`s personal pride and need of personal affirmation, no matter what kind of leo he is - loud/quiet, good/nasty, … Realistically speaking, you should never underestimate a young man`s need of affirmation in terms of popularity between his friends and between the girls around him. The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. The man will always suffer from two complexes: Oedipus`s(in a larger or smaller degree) and the hunter`s - in the largest degree. That does not necessarily mean that during all his life he will chase other girls, no matter who he is with at time; it only means that during his teenage years and the first years of his young adult life, it will be more important to him how many girls he can convince to like him that how happy he can make a certain girl. He will have to grow up as a person, to convince himself of his own worth, he will have to reach a certain level of maturity of feelings in order to be able to care about a girl enough to make him think of her happiness. Every young man, just like every young woman, has his own rhythm of growing up and finding how much he is worth, and where exactly he stands, and what exactly is he made of. It all depends on how soon he can consider himself satisfied with his own achievements in terms of popularity among friends, colleagues, girls. Only after he will achieve a satisfying degree of personal worth in thees areas of his life will he be able to concentrate him self on making ONE girl happy. Maybe what I am saying here is not what you hoped to hear, but the truth is it takes maturity to be able to concentrate on ONE certain relationship and it takes time to reach that maturity. Until then, it`s not the best idea to hold on to a relationship while the other one in the relationship is drifting away from you and from the two of you. If he is drifting away, that is because Ulysses is not ready yet to come back home.And because, in this particular case, due to his age, maybe he doesn`t consider you to be his home. He is still looking for a home. I do believe, and I am not the only one, that a man should not settle down before his 30s. Until then he must travel trough the world, get to know him self, the people and the world, have the fun of the youth age and only after that is he ready to be steadfast in a relationship. You, my dear Brianna, should do the same: travel the world and find your own place in the world and concentrate on recognizing, among the men that will come to you, the one who is mature enough to steadfastly stay by your side. In terms of astrology, aries women do want to be with a MAN, not with a wimp, leo men think of themselves as THE MAN and need to be recognized and worshiped as THE MAN; the downside of this is that such personality of a man can become tiring in a long term relationship. In other words: be careful what you wish for, because not everything that glows is gold and you might bite into more than you can chew.
March 6th, 2011 at 6:27 pm
Hey I’m an Aries women too . And after reading the above article it just felt like someone has just written it for me it is so so true and yeah we can be funny because of our stupiditiies.
April 21st, 2011 at 6:17 am
OMG!!! IM LOVE YALL SO MUCH U SPEAK EVERYTHING I SAY & FEEL. M B-DAY JUST PASSED APRIL 15!!! YAAAY ME…LOL. IM 22 YRS OLD I LOVE HAVING FUN, VERY FLIRTATIOUS, HATE PPL LYING TO 2 ME & ITS HARD FOR ME 2 FORGET SOMEONE HURTING ME EVEN THOUGH I TRY 2 IGNORE WHAT I FEEL IM NOT CAPABLE OF LETTING THE FACT THEY BETRAYED ME GO. I WANT 2 DO WHAT I WANT & I DONT LIKE WHEN IM IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE I CAN RUN OVER, PLS SOME1 TAME ME! LOL. I BELIEVE IN FRIENDSHIP VERY MUCH SO BUT BECAUSE IM A FREE SPIRITED, OPEN-MINED PERSON PPL TEND 2 GET UNCOMFORTABLE & VANISH. I THINK THATS Y WE HAVE THAT DOMINANCE OVER OTHER SIGNS CUZ WE ARE VERY MUCH OPEN-MINDED & FREE SPIRITED GIRLS HATE ME & I NEVER UNDERSTOOD Y & I BE SO NICE, NO MATTER WHAT I DO AT THE END IM AN OUTCAST…
May 18th, 2011 at 4:59 am
I’m an aries woman. I read many informations regarding Aries, and I can say,I agree to some interesting facts about them.Definitely,Arians want to be the leader at all the time.So beware with them,haha.Adventurous and always updated with the happenings around the world,Yes!they are very enjoyable companions.But we have also negative side, We are short tempered but NO NO NO…it will disappear in just a second.haha.lol.
We love freedom and Independence..haha
June 30th, 2011 at 8:53 am
“it was like watching jelly fall of a plate, you try to pick it up but it just runs through your fingers. so if anyone out there has an insight as to why, do let me know!”
I can tell you why. Because we will put up with it, keep putting up with it, we will try and tell you what’s not working for us, you can choose not to listen … we will put up with it for as long as our limited patience can allow us (depending on how much you mean to us) … but there will come a time when we just reach that point of no return, we make the decision that it’s time to move on and so we do … and never look back …
June 30th, 2011 at 11:40 pm
hey all. Thanks for the post. i liked it very much. First i have to say that i am Aries, and have to admit that i enjoy the mask of innocent girl, though it is not like that. not at all. We Aries open heart for everybody but the number of the rooms to stay in our heart are very small. we let everybody come and visit our heart but only special ones have access to the permanent rooms. If we let somebody show our real Arias me, this means that person means a lot for us. As seeing real Aries is very rare. we enjoy exploring world and we always try to make new bike, though it already exists. me personally don’t like already explored paths, i prefer to create my own path. I have strong surly horns
don’t forget that. Aries are very energetic, though they need somebody who’ll motivate them and always ready to listen to their complains, as they complain lot. They always need to be in the center of attention, they are the most egoistic , selfish personalities that can exist in the world. But beside all this they are most generous, they are generators of the company and always have a sticker best friend as they can jump for real friend in fire forgetting there personal me, which is most important for them. They can love as nobody, when they love with their whole body and brain and heart, and can do everything for the loved one , but this is only if they feel that it is clear and understandable for the loved ones what a big thing they are doing. I am Aries and proud of it, all my Aries friends are proud of being who we are and we always joke that we are the first signs and the rulers, wont let anybody go before us , wont give up unless we loose interest. ha ha ha was going to post just a sentence and how much have i written 
and I see that scorpion and Aries can be together only for short term relationship, but with Sagittarius Aries feels perfect. And as from my experience for friendship Aries is best with Gemini, Leo ,Aries for sure. 
they can hate as much as can love the same person.
August 2nd, 2011 at 12:01 pm
I’m probably the first non-aries to post here haha. I’m actually a taurus (female) with moon in aries, so I can relate to aries a lot, particularly the aries females, as the aries males I know are more laid back and “cool”; not as upbeat and aggressive/assertive as the females. I know aries can have their down moments, but they usually bounce back pretty quickly. They live in the moment, so if any aries stays in depression longer than a normal aries would, you can probably attribute it to their moon sign or other personal planets. But since the moon rules the emotions, that would be the biggest indicator of how an aries (or any sign) responds through emotions.
August 8th, 2011 at 3:45 pm
Everything here, that was said above is oh, so TRUE!!! I am an Aries woman and feel as though we have a very clear idea about what we want and what we NEED to stay true to us and others. The “ME” time only swings in when we feel as though we crave something different and new. We are extremely bright, but yes, we can show the innocent sides as well. We love ‘LEARNING’ heck who doesn’t? Maybe it’s easy for us to move through life with ease because we see and set goals for ourselves. It takes just the determination an Aries woman has to complete what we start, but never think we ever believed we couldn’t move mountains. We are not selfish - BIG MISUNDERSTANDING - we are self sufficient and know what we want. We EXERCISE THE FREEDOM OF CHOICE and that chaps some people who have made choices of their own and somewhere regret them. We DO NOT put people under a microscope to dissect. The dissection comes when you want something we have. We trust we no reservations and isn’t that they way it should go? Everyone is unique and beautiful and when you really take time to know us we can really give you a healthier way of looking at the world.
December 18th, 2011 at 10:33 pm
I am an aries teenager. Everything said in here is exactly right. The one thing that I like about almost every aries girl I meet is that they are smart including me. I get into an arguement….I always leave winning and some folks can’t stand it but they got to deal with it. I honestly believe aries girls are just simple. I, personally, am all the time. As for the guy we’re meant to be with….I don’t know I’m just an anti-social geek teenager butta I suggest the other fire signs or an aquarius because the air signs might seem like they have a great compatibility with us but hell no….after they stay with us for a long time…they’ll literally become boring or something else like that. As for the earth and water signs…I don’t think I need to answer this lol! Anyways We Rock!! We are great people who appreciate the world