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The Aries Woman
The first thing I am going to have to say about these women is this…I LOVE THEM!! They are fabulous people. I have known many and all of them I have become good friends with. Some of my funniest moments have been spent with an Aries Woman, laughing so hard I cried and then laughed some more, tears rolling down my face.
They are naturally funny, even when they don’t mean to be. Their accidental innocence just makes me fall for them every
-time. They look at everything like it’s the first time they have seen it, like a child, which, I supposed is essentially what they are. Being an Aries, the first sign, and the baby of the zodiac. Don’t let that fool you for one moment though!
These women are so far removed from being stupid it’s funny. These women are very clever, and t
hey don’t miss a trick but they may let on sometimes that their brains are just full of air, it doesn’t work…I know it’s not! Like a child they appear to have a fear for trying new things, and then the next time you see them they are jumping out of a plane with a parachute attached to their back, or swimming with great whites, without the cage! They really are quite phenomenal people.
When in a relationship these women must be treated with respect. They would prefer it actually if they are wearing the trousers, and the boots! Independent they certainly are and can turn into something quite dreadful if they get trodden on by their partner. I have seen this happen to a friend of mine. Her partner just controlled her and suffocated her until all she was disintegrated, it was horrible, it was like watching jelly fall of a plate, you try to pick it up but it just runs through your fingers.
They try and keep up a facade of ‘everything is OK’ and in doing so can lead to complete collapse. These women can be known to turn to alcohol or drugs when things get bad for them..as they can be induced into depression, this Isn’t good at all, and anyone who is around an Aries Woman in need should help them ASAP!
These Women are fiery and passionate, they enjoy being in a relationship and are normally very faithful, but can be a bit flirtatious! They can also become jealous and possessive and really do need to be reassured that everything is OK. Getting on the wrong side of her isn’t a wise move either. They may look like butter wouldn’t melt, but it would..very quickly! You’ve been warned. It can be a bit tricky at times to know how to take an Aries woman. They can come across a bit prickly and unapproachable, almost awkward, I haven’t got to the bottom of why yet, so if anyone out there has an insight as to why, do let me know!
Overall though, these women do have a lot going for them. And anyone who takes up with one of these interesting and enthusiastic ladies is certainly in for an exciting time, they make enjoyable companions and a brilliant shoulder if you are in need. For me personally these girls get a 10/10!
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Hi. Thanks for the post. Are they really naturally funny? I didn’t know, I thought I was just a bit klutzy, but I’m still young (seventeen).
But I honestly wonder how Arians, are childish, and still make themselves strong leaders. I am an Aries, I agree with most of what’s written. But then, I don’t get how they rely on alcohol and drugs if they are depressed. Can you interpret it please?
For aries everything is new and this includes relationships maybe this is why they come accross as prickly and awkward?
aries women are realy fun to be with, but you musnt mess with them hey! im an aries myself im very kind and i dont get irritated easly even if i am irritated i dont show it, but wait till i get agry trust me no one likes me when im angry. and i realy think that revenge is sweet.
Hi Susie,
I believe that due to the Aries way of looking at life and their young innocent suprise at the world;that when something bad happens it really does hit them hard. Which is why they have been known to turn to the bottle. It blots it all out. Knowing this is the key of course. Knowledge of ourselves can help prevent these things from happening. That is if you are willing to learn. It is one of the reasons that astrology is such a wonderful subject!
Love & Light
Becky
I am an Aries woman, and I think that they come across as awkward because we know that we are forceful and aggressive. And we know that it is still not as acceptable in society for woman to be like this as opposed to men. So, I think that we are awkward because, first, we have to trust someone before we let them know the real us, which makes for a bad first impression since we really don’t impress, and, second, I think that we are semi-afraid of what they’ll think of us. I know that I won’t show my true Aries, aggressive nature until I become their friend. So, I think that we are awkward because we are hesitant to trust them, and we don’t want to show our true selves yet. That makes us awkward because it goes against our very nature, which is to be extremely honest to ourselves and others at all times.
I am an Aries woman. I too am agressive,loving, kind, too giving, very trusting, and sometimes move too fast. Most men say that I am very nice, a good catch, a good woman, that I would be a great wife, a freak, and sexy. But I ask myself then why don’t I have a steady boyfriend? The problem comes in when they find out that I am kind, and it goes from dating to using.
Can someone email me some advice?
I agree with you 100%. I am a pisces girl whose is very close with my aries girl cousin. She is HILARIOUS and is not afraid to be silly. One of the best things about aries people is that they are the most honest personalities in the zodiac, meaning they are just so open, not underhanded in anyway (usually). Only thing is, our relationship can be a bit one-sided (me always listening to her, comforting her, it’s about her, even though she loves me and will stick up for me). Sometimes I just have to have a break from her in order to keep my sanity, she can be a bit draining. but for the most part I love her and we get along very well. I think I understand her better than most. I feel kinda bad for her bf sometimes though lol, being a man in a relationship with an aries woman can be a bit challenging, but as friends they are wonderful.
Aries do come across as “ditzy” and “shallow” when you don’t really know them, but I love that it’s just a mask, a small trick they pull on everyone, sometimes even on themselves as a joke. I’m not an Aries, though my Venus is in Aries and I do that often when describing the kind of man I prefer. (”Well, first of all, he has to have a ripped body and a nice butt…”)
I think Aries women come across as awkward because Aries is such a masculine sign and it is kind of awkward being a woman with masculine tendencies. However, Aries women are beautiful and make great fashion models if disciplined enough.
hahahaa i’m an aries girl and yeahhh i’m told that i’m hilarious, and veryyyy silly all the time, i’m constantly giggling. i think we get depressed so easily cause we get hurt so easily, atleast i do but only by the ones i care and trust in. other than that i couldn’t careless but i also think we’re awkward cause we don’t know what to say cause we don’t wanna come on too strong, that’s how i am. i don’t wanna offend anyone by saying or doing something inappropraite when i’m first meeting someone.. and poeple do think i’m so dumb but when it comes to advise, i give the best. i am a very honest person, can’t lie to save my life. hate lying. and i’m very faithful to my pisces boyfriend. he always tells me i’m a handful but he loves me haha.. but i would never purposely hurt the ones i love. i am very impulsive, i don’t think about anything before i do it.. it can be a very bad trait but i have fun! ha i agree that we’re a 10/10 ahhaaha
hell yeah to that..
Hi Becky!
My Best Friend is an Aries woman, and i honestly think she is the best compatibility friend wise for me. Im a Gemini and i noticed that Gemini’s and Aries naturally get along. My mother is an Aries, and her best friend is a Gemini. But i noticed that Geminis are quite flaky in friendships, because we are so all over the place . I still think that Aries and Gemini are very compatible, we agree on almost all situations, and yes she always makes me laugh, shes so bold and honest, she says the things i wish i had courage to say!! And yes i do agree, you definitely do not want to get on an Aries bad side. In an argument you will never win. They are very smart, and can put you in your place in 60 seconds, so beware!
Hiya Becky - First off - excellent job on the site. This looks like it has been a lot of work for you! Thank you for bringing it to us all
I am an Aries/Taurus Rising - Snake. After studying Astrology now for more than a few years, I have learned what qualities we Ariens have that I can’t really tolerate. The awkwardness that you speak of is, for me anyway, a mask for insecurity. A strong Aries woman believes that all eyes are on her, therefore, inner questioning can come off as awkwardness or rudeness.
I have often found myself saying something abrupt or rude, but the charming qualities of the Snake fortunately save me most of the time. I have overcome a lot of this by paying more attention to the interactions between others, and trying to hold that forked tongue of mine when I have to.
I also just read your post on the Aquarian man. It certainly has helped me to open my eyes to my Aquarian. He is amazing in every way, a genius, a free spirited fair lover that I am so blessed to have in my life. But, in many ways, I do feel like a child with him. I get impatient and feel rejected at no cause of his. It’s really quite frustrating. It doesn’t help matters that we both have Venus in Aries - which certainly doesn’t hurt in the bedroom. But I find myself wanting to be with him and struggling to not be possessive. Again, more insecurity and awkwardness.
I also find that with the particular combination that I have, plus a fair amount of education in various arts, I tend to have people who come to me for various kinds of advice. To the point of people will just spill out their life story without provocation or encouragement. The last time this happened (a couple of weeks ago) I didn’t even know the girl’s name until she had told me all about her rotten childhood. It never ceases to amaze me.
There’s so much more I could tell you about being an Aries woman - but I will leave out with this - I love it, I love being a leader, unafraid to try the things that others only talk about - ready for anything - taking every challenge that comes this way. Living life to the absolute fullest every moment. To all the other Arien women or the men who love them - embrace the ram, and let the energy of it burn within.
I’m an Aries and I have a couple of friends who are Aries. I think we come across as prickly and unapproachable because we are thinking “Please don’t come to me with some BS”. LOL
Seriously, we often set high expectations for others and find ourselves quite often disappointed, so after a while that culminates into stand-offishness at first. But once you really get to know an Aries, we draw you into our lives with our magnetic and bubbly personalities and make it hard for you to stay away. That’s a good thing because we make excellent, loyal friends.
Oh yeah, I definitely agree about don’t get on our bad side. If an Aries isn’t happy, no one is!
I am a aries with cancer rising.I know! I will get to the top, but I will not step on anybody on the way up. I have noticed all though I don’t drink I do soothe myself with a little marijuana from time to time.I was married to a cancer whic did not work out, but have a hard time letting go. The man is untrustworthy and cantankerous, yet can be charming and sensitive. I almost though he was a Gemini because he is so two faced . My boyfriend now is a Capricorn. He is a bit clingy and over emotional.He is the feeler and I am the thinker.I actually feel like that brings out my aggressive side.I love him dearly, but he makes me feel too masculine. I am tired of being the strong one in the relationship. I am now looking for a man who is as strong as he is kind.A sagitarius like my dad maybe?We both love to travel and be busy….
Even though I have masculine tendencies on the inside…on the outside I am all female. I wish my boobs were bigger though!Haha more honesty.Aries are great trustworthy fun people. We are not trying to be self-righteous or critical.We are just honest because we love and respect you. Please be honest with us as well. We are awkward because we know that you are judging us and lots of times intimidated by us.So..we try the sweet happy approach and then people think we are dumb. uh! It is so difficult and exasperating to be misunderstood. Plus as hard as we try … we always turn out in relationships to be the one screwed over. It is hard to find somebody as loyal and trustworthy as we are.Sometimes I feel like an outsider in this world and need my days off to just relax.But, if you give us a fair shake and some appreciation and understanding…we can be your own private light source. We never give up and we are a barrell of monkeys and we will always defend you and keep your secrets. Love us!
I was born on the 22nd of April but through my fourteen years of life it has become clear I’m actually an Aries. I don’t know how to handle these news … it’s just that my dad’s an aries and we argue all the time and we can never ever have a proper conversation and both of us never give up on our opinion even if it appears like the other party is really the correct one ,so if I can’t get along with my dad ,and we’re always annoyed at eachother ,how can I be like him and be expected to like it?
P.S. plz email me @ stela_taurus94@yahoo.com (see all this time I thought I was a taurus. )
I’m an Aries woman..As I’ve aged and grown into myself more I still find myself in those times that I feel prickly and unapproachable, almost awkward! I still can’t pin point just why… I have never ever thought of myself as unapproachable but I have been told I was a lot different that they thought I’d be??.Also I am quick to defend myself in any argument and quick with my answers. Also been told by other signs that makes me unapproachable.. at times…booo! I cant help that!Atleast Im not a bitch about it, being an asertive outspoken woman is not an easy thing while still holding your charm and girlish smile belive me, its a balancing act all the way. I am greatful that I have a taurus layed back man why loves my firey side, great for sex exspecially with a taurus belive me! Never boring.. as far as the awkwardness, that for me is when I’m bored with the same ol same ol or with a group of people I dont really think I have anything in common with or forced to play nice with some really stupid girl that makes woman look bad!
im an aries and i would agreee on everything u’ve said. i’d probably say the awkardness could be we can be secretly unsure of our selfs well thats me anyways bt i do know what ur sayin when u mentioned that.. i don’t undrstand why people can’t understand us.. i think it’s rather straight forward lol
I am an Aries and I can tell you why we come across as awkward and prickly.
We are very smart ladies. We instinctively know others around us may instantly hate us for being beautiful and intelligent so we hide it and try to calm their fears until they get to know us for the kind hearted people we really are. I generally want people to like me and to be comfortable around me. So I am cautious not to accidentally step on those who are so sensative.
Funny is an understatment. I can keep people laughing non stop …they love my whit and scence of humor. I love making then laugh. It’s all about sharing for me…When people feel good around me im my best.
Yes absolutely….. I am proud to be Aries… and I live an True Aries lifestyle…. hahahaha!!! Is fun being around people. I do Flirt a bit but i am loyal to the person i love very very much.
Flirting is just the fun and socializing fun that we receive. We love attention and making people smile all the time!
I am an Aries woman and we probably come across prickly and unapproachable because we only deal with partners who are up for the challenge. Dealing with an Aries woman is not for the faint of heart. We are adventurous, strong and opinionated. We have little time for whining and complaining about things that we may consider small problems, since we never see a mountain that we can’t conquer.
I am an Aries woman as well !What i’ve realized about me is that i’m sensitive and at the same time very strong to deal with difficulties. I am always determine to achieve the goals that i set and never give it up. I love good food and good sex! I hate lies…
Aries are noted for courage and leadership qualities, primarily because we are nearly always ready for action!!!
All the aries here tiping in stuff that you know you lie . You just say it to look good and you know it .Aries are liers and cheating woman .
Aries woman are liers and cheating woman .
Oh George you poor thing you have obviously been hurt by an Aries woman…….
But you can not tar all of us with the same brush!
I am an Aries and every thing that Becky has written is true, its like I just read a discription of myself!!
I believe we can be unapproachable, due to not being comfortable with our surroundings and the people whos company we are in!
I can assure you when I am round my friends I an quite the opposite…. I love nothing more than to have a good laugh, and more importantly make people laugh!
As I have got older I tend not to care what strangers think of me, and worry more about the people who matter. I have just split up with my Piseces boyfriend who I loved dearly, it was very hard as he just cut me off and said he could not talk about it and couldnt put up with the arguments we had! I didnt think they were that bad but then I wouldnt Im an Aries Im perfect ha ha!!!
I love this website its very eye opening, and when reading through the signs it is amazing, its as if you have written about my friends, family and ex boyfriends personally!!
Thank you
oh my god,its so true its actually quite freaky lol, I am an aries woman and as much as i ts nice to read how we are strong independant funny people, but lets face it girls, we can be pretty hard work. I personally have to know how far i can push my man, its as if i need to know that i’m the ’stronger one’ in the relationship as the thought of someone else having control over me freaks me out, which is possibly the reason why i have three marriages behind me
I don’t know, Aries women are hard to describe. Despite the fact that I’m a Pisces man (yes, I know we don’t work that well) but I have a sister who’s 6 years older than me and she’s an Aries. I have to admit, she’s my favorite disaster, a very important person in my life, I REALLY love her. As my parents were working all the time (both Capricorns, of course), she was, basically, the person who raised me, but, what I don’t understand is that, instead of growing up, to me, seems that my sister is going back in life. She left a guy (10 years older than her) who she was with for 8 or 9 years, I didn’t like him much, but he offered her a good life, at least financially. After that (6 or 7 years ago I’d say), she got married to another guy (7 years younger than her). When she first introduced me to him, I just had that huge bad feeling. I warned her about the things that people around were telling me, because I love her and as a brother it was the least I could do, but of course that the Aries wouldn’t listen to me. Now they have three kids, one of them going through medical treatment for leuchemia (probably as a result of having kids with a junkie), both are really bad with money, so my parents, who are in their seventies, instead of enjoying the earnings of the hard working years, have to help her financially and look after the kids sometimes.
I live in another country and when I talk to my parents about her, it sounds like they are talking about an irresponsible tenager.
The idiot who she is married with, is always doing stupid stuff (crashing cars, spending my parents money in bull****, getting high and of course, he cheats on her A LOT),she complains and I always telling her to just leave him, but she says that she needs help with the kids (nonsense).
I understand that probably she was bored with the guy she had before and I know Aries people like good sex, I really understand, but any Aries woman around could please tell me what’s wrong with her?
It seems that sometimes we need to hold our adventurous spirits, otherwise we put other people’s lives in the problems that we create.
What she is doing, is not right, is selfish and immature. I love her, she was sort of a guidance when I was a teenager but now she is killing my parents. Does good sex with a younger good looking men worth it?
All the best to all of you.
Enry
I’m an Aries and recently have gone on some sites to see what it says about me. Uhm not all true at least not about me. I’m acutally a very giving person (Aries trait) and have always put others before me (not a trait). Especially my family. I am extremly loyal even if a friend betrays me I will not reveal their darkest secrects (not an aries trait). I’m very warm but can be distant at times if I don’t know where I stand with somone. I am far from being a jealous person when I’m with someone( not an aries trait). I am very confident(aries trait) I acutally enjoy be chased and loved by a man. Not doing the chasing.When in a relationship I actually do enjoy staying in a lot with my man. I loath cheaters and man who treats women with lack of respect..Which is why my previous relationships didn’t last. I have had very few partners. To me good sex is when two people have an emotional and mental connection. One site claimed we like fast/quick sex. I do like great great crazy sex but I actually perfer to just make love more. The last relationship I was in was not healthy at all and had than met a man who I have adored from afar for nearly a year. I have only to find out he is a liar which I loath. I feel very hurt but I will move on to find a nice man not because I want to but because I was lied to and I will committ on the contrary to what everyone says about me. I feel bad for Enry’s sister hopefully someday she will find her path. I also feel people shouldn’t take this astrology stuff to heart, it can lead to misunderstandings.
NOLA, you sound more like a Pisces.
HL , Interesting a Pisces. I’ll have to think about that one. The only Pisces I have known have been Liars and CHEATERS which I am neither. But I’m sure you have had better experiences with them than me.
Another Aries trait I guess I have— I always learn the hard way.
I am an aries woman, and I too do not understand why I am “unapproachable.” I’ve asked people and they just say that I “have that look.” huh??? I actually for the first time had a man ask me out for dinner and he was the first one, so i went. I felt actually honored that he had the courage to do it. He said the same thing-that i was funny and he could naturally talk to me, that’s why he asked me. I’ve gotten lots of compliments on my looks from people and they look, but no one ever asks, cuz of the “unapproachable factor.” Funny-ur stuff was right on!
i dunno y d hell do aries n pisces get attracted wen dey cant handle d contrast natures. im an aries woman and my bf is a pisces. he always complains about my anger and possessivness and he finds my honest but critical nature to be way tooooooooo harsh. i really love him and i know dat he loves me toooooooo but we just cant cope up wid r misunderstandings.
Yes am an Aries and we are sexy and passionate. We seem unapproachable because some aries women have been badly hurt by men and have their guard up. You will receive an aries trust once it is earned because we’re very smart and spot bullshit from a mile away. And if you george think Aries women are liers and cheaters maybe you just was not that appealling to her no offence, it takes a lot to keep us interested and exciting.Aries are very commited and honest individual once they are in love.
Hi Manya,
I’m a Pisces man and I quite understand what you’re saying.
I was raised by an Aries woman (my sister) and the greatest love of my life was an Aries girl.
With the Aries girl, was kind of weird, because she didn’t even had the balls to break up with me, she just didn’t answer the phone anymore and my pride didn’t allowed me to chase after her and I really think was the right thing to do.
Incredibly, after 3 years, she called me saying that she saw me walking on the street one day and in that day she cried so much and sometimes she thinks about me in a way that she can even smell me (isn’t crazy?).
To be honest, I love her. I really don’t care anymore why she didn’t answer her phone at that time. I have to admit that our chemistry was really amazing but I’m not going back.
Doesn’t matter the reasons why she did that, but really, to me, it sounded like lack of character and cowardness, because, what’s the big deal of answering your phone and saying I don’t want it anymore? I think I love a coward but I’m sure this feelings will go away. I know she loves me, but I think both of us too stubborn and proud to give up and make it work.
I really think that this is crazy because she is an Aries Horse and I’m a Pisces Ox, couldn’t be odder. But I know what you’re going through with your Pisces guy, but you want an advice from the heart? Aries and Pisces are so, but so odd, that I will keep the relationship going, just to kind of playing with destiny, do you get it? In the bottom of my soul, I think that Aries and Pisces is a blessed union and I know that you love him and I’m sure that he loves you. He can’t get enough of your sensualty and the strong woman side of you, for Pisces man, Aries women smell like…forever…
All the best!!!
Enry
I have to agree with Angel , some of us Aries girls have been extremly hurt in the past. We may have a hard time opening up and trusting a man who is not there! Oh the games people play, maybe some Aries girls enjoy playing these games but speaking from experience I do not. George if you were cheated on I feel for you. Not cool, been there it hurts. But if you’re just assuming this woman you are upset with is a liar and a cheater that’s too bad. Maybe you’re just out for the game which in that case maybe she is not the girl for you. The game gets boring after a while, if nothing gives sometimes Aries needs to move on(Aries trait). My theory is if a man really wants a woman he’ll go after her. Some of us Aries do enjoy being on the otherside of receiving love and not always having to chase it. Plus what man really want’s a woman who is chasing,calling,texting, etc…. them all the time. You’ll only end up with a stalker in the long run. All the best to you George! Good Luck with making it work or moving on. Enry get some balls and call her. Manya next time you feel jealous take a deep breath and walk away. It will avoid a fight and you both will feel better in the long run.
HEY YEAH I AGREE WITH YOU SWEETIE IN EVERYTHING YA’VE SAID. I’M ARIES AND I’VE TURNED TOO ALCHOL AND DRUGS WHEN THINGS GOT ON TOP OF ME. MY INDEPENDENCE OR MAYBE ITS A FEAR OF REJECTION STOPS ME FROM ASKING PEOPLE FOR HELP. THE WAY I LOOK AT IT IF THEY WANT TOO HELP ME THEY’LL OFFER, AS FOR FUNNY YEAH IT COMES NATURAL BUT CAN BE A PAIN IN THE ASS WHEN PEOPLE DON’T TAKE YA SERIOUS AND LAUGH WHEN YOUR NOT JOKING. YOU ASKED TOO LET YA KNOW SOMETHING. WELL I LOVE BEING MYSTERIOUS, LOVE PEOPLE NOT BEING ABLE TOO FIGURE ME OUT. FUCK SOMETIMES I CAN’T FIGURE MESELF OUT THEIR DOES BE TAT MUCH SHIT GOING THROUGH ME HEAD. IF SOMEONE SHOWS ME THE LEAST BIT OF APPRECIATION OR LOVE I CONNECT INTO THEM STRAIGHT AWAY AND EITHER BECOME FRIENDS FOR LIFE OR LOVERS. I CAN TALK MORE EASIER WITH MEN THAN WOMEN CAS I DON’T LIKE BITCHNESS AND SHIT LIKE TAT.
i am a dyed in the wool aries..april 6th. for some reason everyone is able to TELL im an aries ” oh, are you an aries?”..thats what i hear alot..i suppose it’s becuase im kind of rough. i ride motorcyels, skydive, play drums, own my own table saw lol. Not to mention im a serious man magnet and charm that will melt anyones socks off. In fact if you DONT like me, i NEVER have to fight my own battles, becuase OTHER people will chastize you for not liking me lol. yep, its good to be aries.
I am an Aries Girl and I can–as you’ve said–fall into a depression quite easily. I believe I seem awkward at times because of my fear of rejection. My face features tend to be the reason for this. Aries people tend to have strong/vivid face features : high forehead, clear eyes(mine have scared some people into silence when i used them for glaring), strong jawline, prominent chin ,and hair that grows up and back (evil-villain-like). Many people also fear me and they seem to not know why. They are afraid of me reflexfully. I can also sometimes be VERY moody. I am faithful in relationships, but i can also be very flirtatious, as you’ve said.
yea that is true I’m also an teenage Aries. i act exactly the same. a lot of guys are attracted to me and everyone think I’m very beautiful but sometimes the guys try to lean away or sometimes i push them off cause i got my heart broken so many times and i don’t want to get my heart broken again. i like to do really crazy things that guys would do and not any girl will do and that’s what so sexy about Aries women. i was a complete tomboy when i was little still kinda am. and i don’t know i heard a lot of Aries play tennis and I’m a pro and i been playing all of my lie. I’m into any sport just put a challenge in my face. I will face it like a man. When people come over i keep everyone entertain is hard cause my twin brother also an Aries tries to as well. we are the most attractive sign i know mad Taurus that I’m more attractive than. and people do say i have a fashion model flavor in me and i should try cause i have a model face and a hot body that no girl has. i can be honest and truly faithful and loyal but if i see a cute guy pass by i don’t care i gotta do my thang. i don’t know why when i get really angry i can kill anyone in the whole world. i turn to a complete monster. if a guy is being disrespectful i hate that i knock them off and I’m like a protective shield to my friends.
when i grow up i realize all of my Aries traits. and my grandma is Aries also so there so many Aries living in the house so the house is explosive and were very loud when we talk and i don’t know for some reason i walk so confident. everyone is staring girls envy me and guys which they can have me. i get really jealous quickly don’t ever try to cheat on me or ill kill you. my Pisces sister sometimes think I’m crazy. We do have natural beauty and most Aries I know have gorgeous bodies and gorgeous irresistible faces like me. All Aries are truly beautiful they really must be joking when they say other signs like Taurus, Aquarius, and Scorpio. Aries is truly the one 10/10. Don’t you realize the shape of are heads i mean my head is kinda big and i have a nice shape face with cute ears to die for, a very cute nose, and the most beautiful eyebrows, my eyelashes are pretty long, everyone envy the shape of my lips, i don’t but i think i have nice eyes i think Aries have nice eyes beside Pisces. i have Egyptian shape eyes everyone says. i think Scorpio have cute eyes too. is it true that we are attract to Scorpio well I’m kinda and I’m totally attract to Leo. i don’t know i think Aries are the most beautiful zodiac sign. not only we have the looks and we are also fit and smart.
I have been married for 34 years , my husbend drinks alot ,I have been so depressed ,hE once would beet on me but one day after i became with his child he stoped that as soon as he knew i was having his child .Now he does it with his words . He is a buble sward and a monster but yet kind with beauty when he has better days like a butterfly .I have been very ill, i too wish i had drugs to excape , i can not drink because of my sugar . Please will you tell me will i drop or will we divorce . Imany times wish he would just up , and just leave . Will he? I really need your help . Yes i’am a Aries my DOB is 04-18-56 my other halfs is 10-23-46 .Please if you will e-mail to :fran19562006@yahoo.com Sincerly Mrs Fran
i’ve impreginated an aries girl, we weren’t 2gether when she got pregnant i hadn’t even seen here in the daytime. we decided we’d make a go of it (my idea)shes made my life a nightmare, she has me sitting thinking shes cheating she has msn friends in her phone shes never met but talks 4 hours, lies about petty things and said i act like a woman cos i choose 2 discuss problems and fears i have of her cheating on me… she never buys me anything never calls my phone and only txts me when we argue, in fact we argue all the time mostly me onesided. she’s selfcentred and selfish . as an aquarius libras have worked for me! this girls strong indipendant n fiesty but has a mysteriousness about her that leaves me loking 4 answers the more i look the more she hides. or maybe if i dont look i wont notice and b taken 4 a fool. this girl never cums either and i know how to make a girl cum what is this all about and y does she only show me attention when i’m letting go which i’m about to do before i get depressed (even more reply to me arians 6th april(especially SYENA BELLA n CHRISTY)
Believe it or not i’m actually on here looking for answers myself, to see if there’s any reason why i act the way i do. example: I’ve been seeing a guy for a few weeks and last nite was the first nite i stayed at his flat, he didn’t look too well when i got there and he was complaining that he’d felt ill all day. I suggested that i’d go home and see him another time but he was adament i stayed, anyway after alot of build up over the last few weeks off what he was going to do me (have me climbing the walls blah blah blah) the actual event lasted seconds and we hadn’t even reached intercourse!!! i could visibly see him wishing the ground would open up and swollow him, but i just could not let it rest, and contantly reminded him off his previous words. My last words before leaving him this morning was… U wanna get the pollyfiller out so you can fill in all the nail holes i’ve left up ur walls (how bitchy is that). Why?
I personally dnt think there’s anything wrong with Aries women(people)we just have way too much energy self-centered and view the earth’s flat as a play ground or some sort of magical place. I do feel the awkwardness but i dnt make identity of myself from it. I try to use my energy for possitive things i like,if u haven’t discovered Aries people are also very spiritual minded,i practise meditation tohelp relax my over active mind. Don’t be afraid to learn yourself you are what u are why not embrace it,look at the possitives like the adventerous qualities,the yerning to know about our planet.the mind is a powerful thing to waste,what u put your mind to is what u are or will become. Stay possitive my fellow Arians and watch the transformation.
Well, i’m an Aries and that sounds exactly like me! I think that we are “unapproachable” because we exert confidence and self assurance. Which sometimes we fake. lol. And I am like two people in one, on one hand, I am nice, goofy, giving, forgiving, etc., and on the other hand, I can be very selfish, jealous, malicious, and spiteful if you get on my bad side. It takes alot to get on my bad side but once you cross the line, I make sure to make your life a living hell. But luckily, there have been very few people to cross me. I usually get along with alot of people.
Yeah , I have to agree with the unapproachable factor. I can sometimes be like that. It’s usaully with people who are trying to trick or fake me out. LUKKY- if I were you I’d leave this girl , screw her. If she really loved you and cared about you she wouldn’t be doing those things. I know I wouldn’t.
I have a situation that I need to to move on from. NOT because I NEVER CARED , or wasn’t ATTRACTED to him, or wasn’t FOND of or didn’t LOVE everything about him ,including his ears(he has really cute ears!!). but because he plays games , thinks everything is a big joke. Then there’s the one big thing. I’m told he’s in A RELATIONSHIP with someone and LIVING with the person. So THAT IS WHY I HOLD BACK!!
I was told by a close friend of mine last night to just walk away he’ll only break my heart. She’s right, it is breaking my heart. I feel jealous and insecure because I don’t know where I stand, which I guess is no where. OH Did I mention my friends also think I’m going crazy! Which I’m starting to think so myself.
Lukky - you can try to make her jealous back but if her hearts not in it , I don’t think you’ll get a response. Sorry for your hurt , especially that a child is too now going to be involved.
We’re Prickly because most of the time we are just a damn open book - so its really a cover up so you dont know what we are thinking - plus you others out there make us nervous - especially since we are such babies and have our hearts broken over and over
Even though we appear tough on the inside —
I mean think about it - how often do you see an Aries Girl cry in front of you?
…so the prickles are just protection..
and as for aloof - well its just to make sure you are worthy of our company before we Fight and conquer the world for you…..:-)
This is true. I’m open with people I feel close to. When it comes to loving a man I can be closed especially when I feel I may get hurt. On the inside I’m very sweet and sensitive, I do believe my friends and family see that side to me. One of my ex’s — used to say all the time how sweet/beautiful I was. Yeah until he starting fck..nn with my head back and forth with the ex girlfriend. Then all the sudden I’m the bad guy because I’m going out with my friends to the bars. He broke things off with me broke my heart said that I had too many walls up!. Putting it back on me. Then his sleeze bag friend goes after me wouldn’t take “NO” for an answer so I give in tried for years to fall in love with him. Finally I ended it for good last year. We had been friends before, he breaks my heart by telling me I’m F….ked in the head and will never committ. What the hell , Ok soooooo now my sweet side .affectionate is fading. Meet a man, well a few but one in particular last year,Really like him (Cancer) and it was like breath of fresh air talking to him after dealing with the last “Nut job” I had been with. I don’t know I started to freeze , screwed it all up I wasn’t sure thinking am I ready??? Well guess what!!!glad I got the prickels because I’m inquiring about him and told “HE has a GIRLFRIEND”. Ok so fine he’s a cancer how can we get him to keep distance. I tried everything being rude, crude , acting like a slutty B. I even embarrased him and made him look stupid in front of his own employees(I apologized on that one, it was killing me not to) So what does he do -he tells me I couldn’t be nicer, “What No what’s going on here” The thing is I don’t know what else to do. If I’m me around him and start to feel comfortable , I’m afraid I’ll fall in love with him. So where will that leave me no where good because he has a “Girlfriend” . The thing it’s becoming to get inpossible for me. I’m running out of rude sarcastic lines. God it feels good to get that out!!
i start smoking and i get hurt by my loved ones so easily. i am always dominating in every relation..actually ppl let me dominate i dont know why.i have my own idea for everything. my ego hurts when someone comes and tell me something which is right for me.i can not change my opinion.if i am not happy i leave because i can create mess.
that so true as arise but i am a wonderful friend, lover sister and human.
i am leader of my own.
i must say arise are born leader. i get along with arise and Virgo.
Hi I’m a march 22 and I find nothing wrong with me lol I’m surprised so many of u aries are concentrating on the whole awkwardness thing..what the heck?.. shoo.. that’s another insecurity added on ur list koo koo. U are who u want to be in life not what astrologers believe.. I’ve heard i have my nose up in the air all the time.. It’s confidence. its fun and u may find some characteristics that u may feel fits, but really its just battle inside us.. the battle is between two ‘wolves’ inside us
One is Evil.
It is anger, envy, jealousy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego
The other is Good.
It is joy, peace , love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion and faith
The one u feed wins..
I’m an Aries , a pretty cute one too!!! I always have used my past as a crutch. I’ve promised myself I will no longer do that. I have too much to offer to someone special in my future.
Hello all!
I’ve been reading through the comments and following as best I can and I have to say I do recognise some of the traits described by my fellow Aries. I’m an Aries with a Scorpio rising(apparently though I’m still investigating) and from my investigations it seems that this combination is quite the intimidating one. However, I must say that I only ever hear friends and acquaintances describing me as an approachable person. However, I find myself feeling awkward in some company at times, due to my realisation of how much of an open book I am. I know I can be quite over bearing with my extrovert character and more often then not, I walk away going ‘Did I really just say that?’… though that moment passes, as any Aries will surely relate with. I am definitely the leader of my pack and I don’t see this as essentially a negative or overpowering thing as I find many need someone with the decisive/honest nature that an Arien offers to this world.
Under our bravado, we’re completely emotional. When I’m heart broken, I’m a bit of a mess and more often then not I’m loving those I can’t have or who are just plain wrong for me! I tend to shy away from those who chase me, I definitely chase which works against me, as it seems men like to chase. I’m a complete optimist and romantic and I would really give my all to someone, once I feel secure in how they feel for me.
I think I generally get on with most. The most attractive sign for me(so far) as got to be a Leo, I love those men. I’ve also had some great chemistry with Scorpios(very passionate), Saggitarians and Aquarius. Recently got my heart broken by a Libra, who I felt a real connection with, which is rare I think for an Aries.However, be careful not to mess with Aries, we are sharp as a button and protective of those we care most about and will make sure to use our sharp tongue to bring down anyone who tries to bring us down. Closest friends are Pisces, Aries, Cancers and Capricorns. I’ve been told I have great wit and fun about me and I must say I do love to make people laugh even if it’s at my own expense, as my childlike naivity and brashness does not make me too sensitive towards those kind of things.
I like to entertain and I like to be entertained, so I like to be challenged and to have debates etc, though I like to be heard alot in these debates.
Overall I quite like myself and those Ariens I know, though the male Aries can be really irritating at times. We could poosibly be one of the most difficult women to get close to because we either like you with our all or run a mile. I think we spend alot of our time making sure people feel comfortable around our aggressive/powerful nature and tend to forget ourselves and our need for security. Our minds are always on new things that it’s often difficult to focus our attention on something but when we do we just love it. I still have to learn to control my aggressiveness towards objects of affection.
Anyways thats some insight into my sun sign.
One more question;
Does any other Aries find themselve falling for men quite a number of years older than them??
hi im a 33 year old aries girl/cancer rising. i agree with everything thats been said!! im fiesty and wont take any crap from anyone, probably the reason why im single ha ha! thing is i have a very strong instinct for people and i tend to know when im having the wool pulled over my eyes, the only problem is that when i do realise that im already involved, so it makes it doubly hard to tell the guy where to go…but i do!
my best friends surprisingly are cancer, scorpio and virgo. the new guy im dating is scorpio and he drives me wild with his disappearing acts and then is so full on and im starting to get sick of it. my best friend the cancer (male) likes to make it all better for me every time (think he would like to get involved). does anybody know about the relationships between aries and cancer? i dont want ot ruin a god friendship.
heeelp! xxx
Wow! I just found this site and reading through all the comments made me happy to be an Aries. Yes - I can be awkward but I do believe it is because we are such strong women that we don’t want to come off as too aggressive.
I love being an Aries and have accepted my faults lovingly. I have a sharp wit and can use it to accidentally hurt people. I am just more aware of it. But I am super loyal, loving, fun, and have a great time in life. If you know yourself well enough (and for the teenage Aries, it will come with time), you can make your negatives work for you!
Wonderchic who loves being an Aries!
Looks like you have Aries women down pretty good there buddy! I can tell you must have been around quite a few of them to understand those characteristics, which I must add you have accurately explained! That’s funny you say that about jumping off a plane because that happened to me recently, and it was definitely spur of the moment! But what can I say? As an Aries we definitely are impulsive and we like to do what we feel is good.. specific to that moment of course.
Wow wow and wow big big wow i must say!!! I have all the laughing and gigling after reading thru most of the comments (cant wait to finish all the comments to make one!)
unapproachable factor!! hahaha even got told on face that I’m arrogant!!! do you girls believe that??? I was shocked because I always think of myself the nicest and kind heart person I ever met 555
- awkward! prickly! goofy! hahaha
- being smart but fake it! wow (even my dad has to tell me not to be too smartass as men hate that)
I totally agree with Becky (except the drug and alcohol part even I from time to time being tempted to try weed but still safe so far and I know I will never get addicted to those stuff as a Aries I’m way too smart for those shit hahaha!) and the most of the comments here totally agree!
I stumble across this site but very happy to find it. I always thought I was pisces (April 3rd) eventhough I know i’m supersensitive but many traits of Pisces are not really fit me.
I feel very good to know there are many people (girls) out there who share this same trait/personality with me.
I always feel like a black sheep in the family since as a woman I do think and act sometimes like men and am get so irritated and hardly stand stupid people or those with drama.
I feel too much musculine side in me but i know I’m very feminine in my way. I do make peple laugh way to much. My bestfriends said there is nobody can turn a personal tragic into completely amusing story like I did!!!!
Well….. some drawback though: hard to find men who can put up/keep up with me. But the older I get I start to learn how to be all by myself. I try to do things base on its reality. So if there is no nice guy who deserve me I wont settle for less. I tired but I just cant break or go against my Aries side for a guy who later I found not worthing it.
Well sorry for too long posting!
Hope to hear more from Aries girls!
Oh this just came across my mind! I can only think of the closet to drugs or alcohol for me sugar! (can that even be counted?)
I caught myself turning to sugar (and shopping) when I get depressed and yes I get depressed easy.
I put this in the Pisces men section but I’ll put it here as well. Btw… Becky, you seem to be on point about the Aries woman.
My situation and question…
I’ve recently met a Pisces male that I’m very much attracted to and came to this site to see if Pisces (male) and Aries (female) can work. I’ve found a lot of encouragement because I had read that we are not supposed to be compatible. I’m the slightly older of the two (by 1 year). He and I connect on an intellectual level and he is waiting for me to connect to him (stay connected really) in an emotional way. He came to visit me (which was a shock) as I met him over the internet. This is going to be long distance west coast / east coast thing. He and I are just starting out but he seems to mirror my views on life and loves family (both of us already have children and are not looking for anymore). He wants me to come out and see him (and I do plan to this summer). At first I thought he might be a player but he seems to be a genuine person. He keeps telling me that I need to let my hair down as he has done a LOT in life (not in a bad way) but has had his own business, travelled the world, etc. Although I was born in a different country, I have only travelled the U.S. and my life has just been a straight arrow in morals and how I’ve lived it. I’m at the point where I want to explore and really live and that is what he’s encouraging me to do.
I am learning a lot from him and he from me. Both he and I are divorced and he is currently working on his Ph.D and I will be working on my masters as my children age (his range from teens to toddlers… mine will be teens by the time he’s done with his Ph.D). We have time to explore our relationship and really are enjoying it. The journey has just started and we both respect and have high regards for the other.
Can any Pisces males tell me if they’ve been in a relationship with an Aries female and how that dynamic works for you? I would really appreciate any insight.
– ArianGem
hi!!im a 22 years old aries woman(ascendant in leo and moon in libra) soo u understand that i’m kind of a man inside!:p although i feel pretty feminine as well!!anyway! I agree with almost everything you said above and I m very very happy to hear that there actually ppl out there like me:)I do talk A LOT, I even suprise myself with my ability to find always a (stupid) thing to say!!I have what i called a “romantic way” to see the world which might be what you said being innocent and stuff..i hate to see injustice and corruption in the world! I was also been told that I have a genuine smile and just positive energy around me, which i cannot see it myself!!but my mother is aries and thats true for her so i guess it might be for me too!!But I live to make ppl laugh and happy and I hate when I hurt ppl with my very honest comments or due to my impulsive nature but c’est la vie, what can we do??I promise i dont do it in purpose!!
what is really bothering me right now, its the high expectations i have for myself!! I dont like to lose (aries trait) and i will fight till the end ( as long as i dont lose my interest)Actually, my friends say that i expect too much of myself and on the other hand, i never thing im good enough to do smth!!and the weird thing? i do feel confident and i do look confident as a woman! i dont understand myself sometimes!(thats why i like reading astrology stuff, it makes me see beyond the obvious) do you feel too in that way my fellow aries???cuz having high expectations its not bad in itself, if it push you to go further! but the thing about me is that i get disappointed and depressed easily and i dont go to alcohool but to comfort-eating which I HATE!
thank youu
you have to excuse me for any english mistakes, i m not a native speaker:p
To: nana, I’m same with you 100% your comment reflects just my feeling and attitude
I too have high expectation (from what I was told) both on myself and others. So I get depressed easy when I find myself fail to accomplish things and get easily irritated on people who fail to do things i regard as norm. I know I have less patient with stupid people even with myself sometimes when I feel I start to act stupid. As much as I can easily get down and depressed, it doesnt take long for me to pull me back and get ready to kick life again. I guess it has to be with being an Aries (?) because we are short in focus and move to the next subject so fast therefore we dont let ourselves get sink in a dull and wasteful moment too long. So I convince myself that my ‘depression’ problem is not that bad.
One thing I find it amazing in me (not sure it has to do with being Aries) is that: everything is all about the mind and attitude. I mean after any experience either good or bad one, best or worse; I can always find a things to learn about and get some good attitude for the future. And I feel its amazing how sometimes I can feel like and endless energy with a positive and vivid mind and that makes me just want to go go go and do something nice and different. Anyone like this?
Anyway I have a question for you Aries girls. What about your love life? What sign you find it work best with you? Any successful story? Please share.
The best to all!
My two cents - the aries woman I am with, for all the talk, assertiveness, independence, etc, etc - which certainly exists;
is the gentlest and most loving person i have ever been with. Admittedly i can stand up to her, am honest with her and all that, really what is all the fuss about? She is a person - just like me.
I am a sagittarius guy and i like this aries girl. She likes me too i think at the same level. I know that we are supposed to get along very well but for me it is getting kind of frustrating to get through to her. It seems like all she does is run away from me even though she likes me. And also most of the time she wants to make things about herself and kind of forgets or maybe does it on purpose not to consider me. Like for e.g. we’ll make plans together and the other day she will turn it around into something completely new where my opinion, idea and what has been said the day before has kind of been lost in translation and now its something about her and that only she’s organizing. also What does it take to make them say yes? Although i know i am a very high priority for her, wheather on purpose or naively, she makes it look like i am at the bottom of the list. Any kind of help would be greatly apretiated :))
I am an Aries girl and yes people always tell me when they firts meet me that they feared me and are very supirsed to see i am very kind and very funny. I do get hurt easily and I can be too giving emotionally. I think we are awkward because we are very masculine females and feel that people are judging us. Butone thing bout us is that if you are loyal and kind you will get that in return I have been hurt som many times in relationships and friendsshiop for being too loyal and forgiving and that is something that I am realizing about myself. Everyone doesnt deserve a second chance at all. I have also been told I am witty and clver and reckless. My birthday is April 7th. And they also say im a true aries. I have fallen into a depression lately because have my heart broken yet again and cant seem to get out of this funk. And yes we do turn to alchohol. But yes I am strong willed, confidant most of the time and willing to tka echances most people wont. My mom admires that about me. But on the inside im sweet at pie!
OMG! I love this web site. It’s so great to hear from my fellow arians. I read it and I now know why I act and feel the way I do. It’s the aries in me! I thought I was insecure for years. But really it’s just that I’m unsure, akward, and I want people to like me. I want people to like me but I don’t have a great first impression. Aw well, once I let people in they love me. I definatley see life as a play ground. So much to do so little time. I see beauty in just about everything, expecially other people. I love hiking, camping, dogs, adventure, comunity, peace, laughing, music… it goes on and on. Life is good expecially when your an aries!
Hey Jupiter,
I do the same thing. I know what I want out of life, I know what kind of guy I want, and I know what I want to do on a daily basis. I make my own plans. So with my friends it’s usually hey lets go do this, this weekend. Not what do you want to do… She’s probably too busy in her own little world to pay much attention to you. We’re like little kids some times. lol! I love adventure, I find it and I like to take people with me. I’ll wake my hung over friends up on a Sunday morning and insist they come hiking with me to this great spot I found, lol! And they always have a blast.And I don’t think we handle high priority men very well. If we like you, and get close to you, we will want to make you happy. And give you best love you’ll ever find. Sorry to say, it sounds like she’s not really into you. It depends on how long you’ve known her though. She might just have her guard put right now. Aries like to have fun and do things, they are not uptight at all. Do you think you can keep up?
I wish you the best man.
Jupiter, I speak for myself being an Aries female, We are quite a self center kind of person. (But not selfish) When we focus on something I lose focus on the others. Aries love it fast and got to be efficient!!! Even we have made a plan with you but if we figure out the other way is better, we change it. And we will just assume you dont mind (because we see no reason for you to go against us when we (think) we change it to the better?!) This can cause misunderstood for Aries being selfish and unstable.
Aries dont like being seen as being weak or submissive so until we feel totally comfortable with you (enough to let you see our weak side), even we like you very much we can pretend we dont really care that much. Since we are already straight forward and easily read, we dont like people to see us thru a trick. We get satisfaction when guys doubt why we are not interested, some give up (we love it if you do because it proves you cant handle us and we just dont care) some push harder (if too hard we lose interest and get annoyed)
If you are sure she likes you to the same level and want to win her, just stick around but dont be clingy. The way to the Aries heart is thru wisdom and intelligent. Be different and keep her interest challenged. Dont play by her game dont agree with her everything but provide different point of view in reasonable way. Oh, and show her you are a strong man since Aries is a musculine sign, we adore a strong man with a strong mind.
Hope this help a bit,
Jupiter:
I reside with an Aries woman. She is very gentle and kind. Does show me her sweet sensitive side. When she wakes up in the morning she gives me a big hug and kiss, I guess thats her way of showing u she’s into u. We are kind of opposites in the fact that I like to walk on the edge and she is a little more cautious. When she leaves and comes home she walks in the house and gives me a big hug and kiss, her way of showing she misses u. At first she was a little akward with me , she had a man like me run out on her. She couldn’ decide at first if she wanted me , I’ve now been with my lovely lady for 8 years. Good to see there are people here like her, she likes hiking too! Oh but she wouldn’t catogorize her friends as drungs/hungover? But as really great people that we both love alot! Love my Aries Lady!
Oh , 1 more thing. If I hadn’t of kept grabbing and holding on , I probably wouldn’t be with her today. Hope that helps.
I was soo surprised to find how many Aries women, find comfort in Pisces men. Even though Pisces are at the end of the cycle, and Aries are at the very beginning…..
I think that it might be because Aries are only babies, and they love to explore, and learn more about the world. They really do consider it to be their playground, and just want to get the most out of life as possible. But my Piceas man is very witty, charming, and intruiging. He is alot older than i am, and this is why i find him soo interesting. He has lived such an interesting life, that i can just never get enough of him. We have know each other for about 5 years now, but i still seem to learn something new about him everyday!!! At the moment, i am still not sure if we will ever work out, but i am just enjoying the time i get to spend with my adorable Pisces man!
It is very important to keep an aries woman interested because if you don’t……well you’re in big trouble! She loves excitment, and being goofy and spontaneous. If she gets bored with you, then she is going to try and find excitment somewhere else. But if you are interesting enough to keep her mind busy, she will be the most faithful lover in the world!
She is flirty, but that is because she is soo confident and attractive. And loves to show it off.
I don’t know why everyone is concentrating on this “awkward” trait we have? I think there is really only one answer. We can easily spot bullshit 5 miles away. So if you reak of it…..well that is that disgusted look on our face. LOL
The sad part about us it that ” we always learn the hard way” and sometimes just put ourselves in stick situations to test ourselves, and our ability to get out of it
But we always have a blast no matter what we are doing, we make sure we do it to the fullest, and enjoy every moment of our existence!
I completely agree with this! I have an Aries daughter and she is one the silliest people I know. She has a great sense of humour and isn’t afraid to be herself. I do find that she explores life with an innocent eye and though she is still quite young, repeated situations that wouldn’t typically bother other children so bother her but instead of telling anyone, she most often keeps it bottled up inside.
She is also unfailingly fair/just and I was wondering if this is a trait attributed to the Aries sign??
Lola,
What you just describe about your daughter is exactly ME! I got people telling me why those repeated situations that wouldn’t typically bother others bother me so much and guess what, yeah I did the same as your daughter>>> keep it bottle up inside! I dont know why and people keep telling me I need to relax and let go because its unhealthy since I already get depressed easily. May be its part of Aries trait I dont know for sure but I know we are very positive and lively people with a very good heart and imaginative mind. Oh one thing, if you truely understand her nature, just accept it and let her be the way she wants to be with your support, that is the greatest Aries would ever wanted! I always wish my family finally accept me and support me for the person I am. But they always think of me either as a rebel or eccentric and whatever idea or attitude from me they only think I want something out of it…
I’m an Aries woman, and a lot of what is said here about Aries women is very much like me. The social awkwardness… There’s several reasons why I’m like that. A lot of time I’m not interested in how I’m perceived. I need to get something done, and getting something done isn’t really dependent on what people think of me, so I’ll just get through it and spare the chit chat. Sometimes, I want to appear unlikable, because I don’t like the person I’m talking to. That way, they won’t like me and down the road I don’t need to hurt their feelings by saying I’d rather drink battery acid than spend one more hour with them. (I usually know in a short time whether or not I want to get to know a person, and every time I’ve convinced myself otherwise “to give them a chance” I’ve come to regret it.) Being unlikable is for their own good, that is.
Sometimes, I feel like if I let people see the true me, I’ll blind them, or outshine my friends. (This might have something to do with the fact I’m also a fiery dragon which enhances all of this.) A lot of times I am trying to protect other people from me, as I don’t think they can handle all of the things I am…
And if you didn’t pick it up, I’m very self-centered and a lot of times it is all about me. Even when I help people, and am really really nice to them, I’m secretly congratulating myself of being able to be so nice and exactly what the doctor ordered. I suppose I’m pretty narcissistic without the pathological aspect of it, and I think it may have to do with being an Aries/dragon.
One interesting thing is that I have always stayed away from alcohol and drugs by instinct. I am quite convinced that they would easily destroy me if I went anywhere near either. For years I refused to take as much as a head ache pill…
And naturally, nobody is as funny as I am… Right?
The question that persists is: How much are you allowed to love yourself exactly?
Sebastyne,
haha you’re soo funny.
you sound alot like a true aries.
One thing that i learned just a matter of hours ago, is that it is better to love yourself alot…..than not love yourself at all! I think that your self- centre-dness is the thing that has kept you away from drugs and alcohal all these years. You would hate to see yourself be destroyed, because you believe that you were a blessing, and should exist on this planet
But on the other hand, cockiness isn’t the most attractive vibe in the world either…..but since we Aries are such smart, and beutiful creatures, i am sure that you will eventually find a balance between both!
I’m an Aries/woman who is not that aggressive as most aries are but I do fit the characteristics. I have so much fun hanging around with other Aries as well.I’ve been told by many people even by an Aries that I looked arrogant who feels I’m the shiiiiit. And I have been told I need to loosen up at functions….First of all, I feel the awkwardness is due to a new surrounding that makes me feel a bit uncomfortable but I like to present myself to the public eyes as confidant, the bomb, etc…to get noticed and get approached especially by men. Or, I like to make an entrance as being highly powerful and brilliant to hide the discomfort and people may have taken it the wrong way….
I’m beginning to think Aries like to be alone most of the time and I feel Aries Woman are the only sign that can live with or without a man and be extremely happy because of our adventurous and independent personality.We can entertain ourselves mentally, spiritually, physically, and emotioanlly…….I’m not sure about other Aries, but I’m very good with one to one conversation but not too good in a group..
Overall, I have been very lucky with love…I believe 99% of women don’t know what they want. They say what they don’t mean, and they don’t mean what they say. Women play too many games and guess who they are hurting, themselves! If people just be real, it creates a deeper level of relationships. I have been told being REAL does not work in the REAL WORLD and that I should stop living in a fantasy world…..Guess what? I’ve been blessed with love, 3times…….
Sandy,
I agree. I love people that are straight forward and real. I can’t stand fake annoying girls. And people that lie, I hate being lied to. I’d rather you tell me the truth, whether it hurts or not. I don’t think we should be assamed to be ourselves. Society seems to make people that way. I think if you are real(not blunt) you will be respected for it in the long run.
I am a true Aries WOMAN and I love it! I don’t feel the awkwardness but I can be a bit standoffish at times because of the trust factor. I’ve met so many bull talkers that no one is allowed in my square until you’ve proven yourself. When I fall for someone, I tend to fall hard but they don’t get the full affect of my Aries woman until I’ve fallen. By then, they’ve fallen. Once you have me, I’m yours. I’m loyal and will treat you like my king until you mess up. I do have a wicked tongue when pissed off and can cut you like a pair of scissors with nary a curse word nor raising my voice. I love to laugh and enjoy making others laugh. My kids think I embarrass them when we go out with my silliness. I just tell them to buck up! This is what you get with an Aries mom!!! I know I tend to be the life of the party and I am fiercely protective of my friends and family and will don ninja wear at a moment’s notice for them. Am I arrogant - hecky yeah! I know that I have lots of sex appeal. I am constantly being told how attractive and sexy I am. I love the compliments. I like for a man to be a man. I know I can be very bossy, but if he is a strong enough man, he can conquer me and make me love it. Weakness is not a trait I deal with well and can be very impatient. When the chips are down, I can get depressed but normally not for very long because the world is always half full and the sun is shining. I don’t drink very much nor do I ever, ever do drugs. I prefer my own natural high. I don’t like not being in full control of myself as you are when you drink and get high. I don’t like boring repetitive things and crave adventure. I greatly love sex and can be very uninhibited between four walls. I’m even penning my first erotic novel. George, I truly feel sorry for your experience with the Aries woman. When we are done, we are done and can be rather ruthless at that time. But before we are, we give you lots of notice. It takes a lot to get us to the done point but once we are we don’t usually go back.
I do enjoy my alone time, my ME time but Sandy, even though we can go for a period without men, believe me, we cant do it for a lifetime. We need that audience, the compliments, the love. I went without for 5 years on my own personal sabbatical from men. Although I have emerged a stronger woman in my self of well-being, I relish the attention I get now from men. I sometimes wonder how did I go 5 years without??
I personally tend to be more attracted to Aries and Virgo men but I just reently met a Gemini man who has totally captured my attention. Anyone else had an experience with Aries woman/Gemini Man combo?
I would not trade my Aries nature (April 14) for the world because I love who I am. I am confident, loyal, a risk-taker, adventuresome, sexy, erotic, passionate, impatient, abrupt, loving, spiritual - an Aries!
I almost fell off my chair reading some of these comments. Do you all know how often I have asked myself, “Are other Aries women like me?” I have finally found my answer. Yes, we can spot BS a mile away and we send irrational, dramatic people off to fly away.I think it is our instinctual nature to see right through people. When I meet someone, the first thing I observe is what comes out of their mouth…is positive or negative? That will tell me all. It is all or nothing..I either like you or I don’t. I often feel it is my job to make wrong right especially with evil people. If I meet any of them, it’s war! (mental war, of course). I think we Aries do not see the middle of anything which makes us standoffish.We Aries do not beat around the bush like many. We make quick decisions. Yes, sometimes not the best but which often lead to great things. We are thinkers and analyze everything. I love to have fun and only enjoy being around people that see life as a joy ride.I love to laugh and love funny energetic positive people. Men are more fun to be around than women unless the women are like us Aries..confident, spontaneous, non-dramatic or melancholy and are true life fighters. I feel I am invincible and that God stears my energy to where it is needed. We Aries ladies are so needed in this world and we need to act on our given characterisitcs for the good of this world. Believe me.. a lot of good is needed! P.S Humor is the cure of all ill…laugh on y’all.