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The Aquarius Woman
Aquarius women are in a way even stranger than their male counterpart (if that is possible). You can tell an Aquarius woman, I feel, rather easily just by the way in which they are dressed. Anyway, yes, Aquarius women do not dress according to society’s whims of fashion. They often dress according to how they feel, or even what they happen to find in their wardrobe that day. Bohemian, I suppose would be a good way to describe these Women, a bit offbeat and unusual. But they always look out of this w
orld. And the annoying thing for the rest of us girls is that the Aquarius Woman doesn’t even go out of her way to do so, they just naturally look good. When I think of an Aqua Woman I actually think of a guitar and beads, bare feet and a tent.
They are wonderfully creative and artistic and can normally do more than one thing very well. I have known several Aquarius women and all of them played the guitar, sang and were very good at craft. And they were really good too, not just a little bit (like me). Lest not forget the late and amazing Eva Cassidy who had both guitar and voice and talent. The Aquarius woman has the ability to make it big time if they so choose. Some of them do, and some of them are just content to spend out their day’s living the boho lifestyle, being wonderful in other ways.
I often feel quite sorry for this woman also. Not because they are needy and not able to cope with the big bad world, no, quite the opposite in-fact. They are highly capable people and demand a great deal of independence in every-way possible. They do not like being a dependent or to be made to feel they are being looked after. Aquarius women often work best in a relationship taking on the male role. And just like many men, these women will certainly NOT want a joint bank account! They will not always be there when you want them to be. And may also forget to tell you where they are at all. However, if you need them then you’re OK, they will look after you.
They can also be arrogant, and can easily cut you like a knife with their words if they so chose. And if you get in their way or do something that displeases them then you will learn quickly that these women mean business. It’s best to do things her way, as it is quite obviously the best way….in her eyes. Quite a number of these girls will also be heavily into the environment and nature in general. Vegans and vegetarians are often of this sign also.
As parents these women will not be conventional. They believe their children should be educated of-course, but not perhaps in the same dull way that most of us have to put up with. The Aquarius woman makes things happen you see. She never sits there moaning how awful the world is, she gets up and does something about it, and you can only look on and respect her for it. I shall describe the fascinating women like typhoons I think. Strong, assertive, able, but with the ability to be destructive and cause a bit of angst to those around her.
I like the Aquarius Woman. They certainly make great friends and one thing’s for sure; there will never be a dull moment!
These characteristics are based fully on a persons sun sign. Therefore may not be 100% accurate for everyone as there are lots of different aspects of one’s chart to take into consideration.
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lol wow…I’m an Aquarius female and all i can say is that everything described as an Aquarius female is true about me!! =P
I’m also an Aquarius female, i must say that most of the stuff i read about Aquarius woman are true at least in my case. I kill myself laughing cause its really true.AQUARIUS PEOPLE ALL THE WAYYYYYYY!!!!!!!! LOL
I say EVERYTHING is true, being an aquarian myself! I just wish to know though more about aquarian fire rabbits like me. tehee!;)
I’m an Aquarian female and this is soooooo on point!!! It definitely describes me!!!! Holla Aquarian Diva’s all around the world!!!
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Hi, I’m born February ninth and I just happen to be an Aquarius.
(THE BEEEEESSSSSTTTTT YYYYAAAAAALLLLL!)
This is, in general a good article. But I must say, my dear, that your punctuation is quite grievous.
I DO NOT approve an agree with everything that you wrote–like the part where you said :
“…I often feel quite sorry for this woman also. Not because they are needy and not able to cope with the big bad world, no, quite the opposite in-fact. They are highly capable people and demand a great deal of independence in every-way possible….”
The way it was written sound QUITE sexist. It is offesive. And this was also offensive:
“…They can also be arrogant, and can easily cut you like a knife with their words if they so chose. And if you get in their way or do something that displeases them then you will learn quickly that these women mean business…”
We are NOT arrogant–just simply confident, my friend. And as you, should know from your “16 years of knowing people”, that is highly intimidating to the every day person.
I dont mean to be imprudent, but I’m just telling you my dear.
And finnally VERY NICE COLOR CHOICE for the website…Absolutely marvelous! I love pink and green. This yellow is not to bad either…
Have a nice day!
Hello Grace, I must thank you for making me laugh. I am aware that my punctuation isn’t that great. I simply write what I want to say..I am not here to write about English Grammar. Nothing I have written is sexist..and as for arrogance you seem to be quite full of it MY DEAR!!! I am fully aware of the confidence in Aquarius people, but as you have shown, they can have a nasty bite with a whiff of arrogance. Thank you for demonstrating this so beautifully!
By the way, I think you should consider checking your punctuation and spelling yourself MY DEAR.
I take it you are an Aquarius woman having a bad day perhaps. Still, your opinion is approved and as appreciated as everyone else’s.
Love & Light
Becky
Becky…
Cool article. But you’re wrong about the arrogance thing. I agree with Grace, what we have is confidence that’s kind of strong. But I bet you’re not an Aquarius so you tried to describe the undescribable.
Good job.
And I get the punctuation thing that she was talking about too.
Hi Julie,
Thank you for your comment. I understand what you mean about the confidence, and yes you do have a lot of it. I know this as I have an Aquarius daughter. But I feel that when things go a bit wrong the Aquarius female can become a little arrogant. Not all the time. I will spend more time on the punctuation, I just didn’t feel it was the most important thing, but apparently it annoys the Aquarius women!! lol
Love & light
Becky
Mysterious and powerful, as bi-product of flight necessity even as our obvious qualities shine so brightly that we often are blind to them. Arrogance is a word and all written things are subjective so bear the Grace in mind… As an air sign in my vista, being one as well, the capability to be many places instantaneously and straight to heart of them also (because of their fixed nature) is the objective combo (duality) that is oft interpreted as arrogance. Simply travels about picking essence from essence and combining the whole meaning in the pursuit of truth, their greatest quest/gift/blind spot- thus the rest if one can interpret objectively enough. What an ironic handful though as air cannot be captured, so the scent it leaves is the whiff we perceive. beautiful women. perfect strangers. whirlwinders.
Very good observations, being an Aqua woman…I have to agree that you’re very correct all around. As for the arrogance, I will agree with you on that too
However, I don’t think its “arrogance” in the traditional sense? When we think of people being full of themselves, we tend to think of that as a negative, however, I don’t believe that this is necessarily the Aquarian’s goal? I believe its a combination of their own understanding of their uniqueness? You mix the fact that these women “know” they are unlike most and add in some self confidence…its easily confused with true, full of themselves, arrogance–I really believe the Aquarian revels in their own uniqueness a little too much 
Sometimes the air sign needs to get a little grounded 
After a few days, this webite popped into my head again. And I had wondered if you had written back. Most of the people behind such websites as these invite their veiwers to send an e-mail and never reply. But surprisingly, Becky dear, you did. Good job!
But after reading the comment I was dissappointed. For shame… IT HAS HAPPENED AGAIN–another common misunderstanding of another person from another sign. I see during my absence, that other Aquarians have somewhat reitterated what I attempted to explain to you: That aquarians are not arrogant.
Thanks Julie and Movewsith. And quick question for Krssy:
What sign are you?
Grace,
Are you bored? Your spelling is not great either and what’s with the “My Dear”? Suggestion for you, could you do better? if so then do it otherwise, try not to be too critical…fellow Aquarian.
Hi Kimberley,
Good, it’s not just me then! I thought I was going mad!
I would also like to say to Grace and whoever else has read me wrong that I didn’t say that Aquarius Women “ARE” arrogant; I said “THEY CAN BE”, which isn’t the same thing at all. Krssy got it right when she said that the Aquarius needs to get a little grounded sometimes that is true.
Love & Light
Becky
Dear Becky, I felt the article was a damn good article this describe me to a tee thanks for your article.
Even I am born on Feb 9th..I felt some of them are true facts in my life too. I dont like joint account..also the words that describe they cope up with bad world..its 100% true…Through out my life my childhood till now I have come across people who have cheated me..in one way or other..I shd say its absouletly right ..And the way they dress not for others and are bit odd..its true in my case.. its so true the way you described..
Hey becky,
You are amazing, I’m not sure how I came across your site but I’m glad I did! EVERYTHING you said about us Aquarian women is sooooooooooo true!! we are overly confident and it can come across slighty arrogant to some, I honesty DO NOT understand this whole punctuation thing Grace is talking about, you are an extreemly talented person and you know us very well, I couldnt help smiling the entire time i was reading about us aqua women! I felt like you knew me personally….lol
Keep doing what you do best!!! Aquarian’s Rule!
Love and Blessings to you and your family,
Love Ana xxxx
I agree with everything you wrote. My friends have told me many times,”You know you are the man in the relationship”.
lol Grace demonstrated PERFECTLY any negative aspects of the aquarian woman. She didn’t realize she was a prime example of the arrogance. Go Beckky! you set her straight and remained a lady in the process. What would this site be without the positives AND negatives of the signs? most of it was positive anyway, she needs to get a grip. lol.
Hi Lena!
Lol,yes I found it all rather amusing myself! Still, what can you do! You can’t please all the people all the time. I know I write some negatives about signs but I find that people tend to empathise more with the negative for some strange human reason. I just have the guts to write it down! I have never been good at sugar coating life lol I guess some people just don’t like facing the fact they are not as perfect as they would like!
Thank you so much for your comment Lena
Love & Light
Becky
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Some of my assessment of aqua women.
There is something uniquely charming about this woman. She is unconventional, don’t try to understand her mind, you will be clueless for the rest of your life.
Usually an honest person but keeps her privacy (curious about others). Doesn’t open up easily. Mostly thinks about marriage and stability in relationships. When in love, she is excited to the extent of being ridiculous (particularly marriage). Relatively unfortunate in love might be due to her independent streak, detachment or unconventional behaviours. Can be prone to excessive depression in turbulent love matters or when rejected. She also has the ability to live without a man but not for long.
Likes to have lot of men around in various roles as supporters/friends/helpers/lovers possessing special curiosity to know them from inside. Always have intentions to use these men for some work. But faithful to those only closed to her. Appears emotionally detached but is very sensitive to minor comments/satire (doesn’t show it). Composed but lack a bit of sophistication and refinement.
Unique dress sense often very unconventional. Likes to travel, explore, go to places, party, and social gatherings. Fun loving, easy to talk to, good in conversation.
Family is very important to her which is also a source of turbulence. Often may appear confused, scatter-brained, and lacking confidence but has a firm stickness and determination towards her goals and ambitions. She doesn’t want to be tied down and domesticated.
Surely, they are not really my type but when they are not depressed as well as thinking about humanity, I do enjoy having their company and conversation.
Aly
Hi again Aly,
I have to say that I don’t really understand the depression bit. I think all Aquarius people can come across like they are depressed due to their ability to go into themselves and they also have a deep thought process which takes them away from this world. But I wouldn’t say they suffered more than normal with depression…they do sulk…
Thanks for the comments…they are almost longer than my posts! I had better write longer ones from now on… I’ll get there eventually
Love & Light
Becky
I think this is realy good being an aquarian girl myself i agree with everything you said, i am everything you discribed and well i just want to say great job!
Thank you Patricia! It is always nice to know that I am getting it right
Glad you enjoyed it.
Love & Light
Becky
Hi Becky,
The depression bit in aqua women? These are so cheerful women, PROVIDED, they are in the right mood but when they are down, they can put the whole atmosphere down.
I had an aqua friend who usually has been unlucky in love matters (always have break-ups). And Oh God, does she get depressed about it that you feel like running away from her. As a pisces (said to be good listeners), she always used to tell me her ordeals in love and family matters until realised that I don’t have to absorb other’s depression. So I distanced myself.
Aly
Hey Becky.
i must say ur this article is 200% true about me being an Aquariun but obviously not to all those aquariuns out there as becky said it depends on ur whole birth chart. its just an information posted about aquariuns it dont have to be applied on evry single aqauriun women. You pick the bit applied to u and just talk about that and just mention what didn’t apply to u instead of arguing about it.
when it comes to punctuation and spelling im actuly worser then any1 else but hey let me tel u when i say smthing people get what im tryin to say and thats all i want im not here to give English test is it? ;-).
The reson i made that point is because every1 talking about Becky’s punctuation.when i was reading the artical all i was pointing at was whats right and wrong about me not the spelling and punctuation. we dont need that do we? nobody perfect plus i bet wen Becky was writing this she was more into telling people what is an Aqua women not how good she is in speling etc.
well anyway what surprise me is that u not even a aqua women and u know us so well must say you are really good observer. Good Job!
i didn’t read all of the comments here to know more about whats going on but i just read last comment which said “pisces (said to be good listeners)” i so not belive on that honstly who will know better then me lol. i got one friend pisces female. we been togather maybe 2 years or something the reson we was togather that long only because i let her talk about her problems all the time and dont talk alot about me because all she’l do is node her head lol. its the other way around on what u said dear Aly.
Pisces like more talking about thierself and sometime want all the attention on them and oh my god u dont wana know when pisces women especially break up from thier partners gosh they’l forget they had any friends aswel and just get down that thy break up lol.
Unfortunatly My man is Pisces aswel lol. We havn’t been togather for that long nearly 1 month so i wont say anything about him even tho he stil kinda get on ma nervous. i’l be really greatfull to you Becky if u can do Aquarius and Pisces compatibility plz.
Cheers 4 the article and if my comment is a bit confusing plz dont mind. i wasn’t gona leave any comment here i was just gona read the article and go but i had to say smthing when i seen those hateing.
=*Peace out*=
Hi there Sashki,
Thank you for your lovely comment. I really appreciate it. And I totally agree with you about your thoughts on Pisces. You are right..well done!!
Aquarius/Pisces compatibility is there
http://www.love-astrology.com/astrology/love/aquarius-compatibility-with-pisces/
I hope you enjoy it.
Love & Light
Becky
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I disagree with ALY that aquarian women uses her supporters/helpers/lovers/…etc for getting her work done.. This is absoultely false.
Also one needn’t hear to or listen to someone’s break-ups it was thier choice to hear her.
Aquarian women by nature are humanitarians..
one have no right to put that quality down in her. Obviously if she loves some one deeply it doesn’t mean the other person take advantage of her.. one wouldnt get the same type of person (one or 2 dislikes) even if it is arranged marriage..you wouldnt get all qualities you like or how you want your wife to be. Each human being in that sense is different..
Spaidi,
Thanks for your comments. I know a couple of aquarius women but sorry to say that I have found them disbalanced.
I had a really good friend once, we started very well, but as our relationship grew, I found out that she has started to tell me every sad thing happening in her life: her problems in dealing with people, her issues with law, issues with her mother being very controlling (gemini), her break-ups with bfs, blah blah blah. Just to develop the relationship, I had to listen with empathy but realised that I was becoming her emotional dump.
We started great with lots of interesting conversation but as time passed I realised that from a cheerful women whose company I thoroughly enjoyed once has been turning into just a sympathy receipient. She had nothing to offer but just her worries about relationships and her not-being married problems. When I realised it, I had to distance myself.
One of my aunts (aqua) also appears disbalanced saying one thing and then turn away from what she said. In this email, I can’t write her insanities (larger than Lord of the Rings trilogy).
I agree that aquarius women are humanitarians and they have other good qualities as well (that’s in every zodiac) but their detachment, lack of expression at times, sulkiness, attempts to dominate the situation, attention seeking behaviour, are big turn-offs.
Aly, The pisces-ox
HOLA Beky!
With all due respect (as a fellow aquarian) I actually agree with the “arrogance” thing. As it says in the dictionary, the word arrogance is another word for proud. Which many aquarian people have, they have pride and they are a fixed zodiac. It’s nothing to be ashamed of, everybody has their flaws. I say that your article, is absolutely correct, I am what you described of an Aquarian woman.
So…
Kudos to you! Awesome website and I enjoyed reading your info about the zodiac.
Mikayla ^_^
HOLA Becky!
With all due respect (as a fellow aquarian), I just so happen to agree with the whole “arrogance” thing. Cause according to Webster arrogant is another word for pride. Many, of not all Aquarians do have pride, and are a fixed sign in the zodiac. So for all of you who disagree there’s your answer right there *points up*.
So…
Kudos to you my friend. Awesome website and it’s really taught me alot.
Mikayla ^_^
Hey everyone.. First please excuse my ignorant gramer I am an awful writer. Okay I fell so deeply in love with the most intense erotic everything Aqua chic. I just feel so used and hurt by her I know I should not believe in this horoscope stuff but wow I adored or still adore her. Okay well I was heart to heart with her for over 2yrs I did the whole platonic thing i never held her down or even pushed the issue but she dropped me so quick for a guy who totally bamboozled and got in her pants ASAP. She just could not tell me the truth she would hold the deepest lies and secrets and i basically cuaght or knew she was involved with someone.
Well she gave into this guy and not is obsessed and being sex controlled by him. She tried so hard i think to gain my trust back.. I truly thought she loved me as a deep friend or she does and i pushed her away. She would say just be cool with me.,.Well one day im on the phone and he walks in and whamo she shut off the phone in my face. OFF for 12 hrs . She is in lust and bondage..anyway.. for the past2 months she tried calling me a number of times and we talked briefly..the friendship basically is different. Yes i was in a romance with her.. and yes i fell in love with her.. I am not sure what i should do with this.. walk away??? or be tormented hurt in a wierd way. Did I want her YES .. I want to say that the right Aqua woman is a total package but!!!! if she is active SEX with many guys be safe..I learned one thing about the intensity of her sex it’S all or nuttin.. haaa..Love you guys..and I Seriously love her.. PS we probably spoke for 100 hrs on the phone.. I miss her and want to badly tell her off.. help!!! scorpsss
Hello Becky!
I wanted to ask you about influence of person’s rising sign to their overall chart.
I am Aries/Taurus cusp with Aquarius rising, Horse and i keep falling for Aquarians only.
in fact, all my significant relationships have been with an Aquarians.
could you tell me why there is such a strong attraction?i think i just met another one yet again - he is born year in 1975, i guess that makes him Aquarian rabbit.
Thanks for the arrogant comments, reminds me to tone down and take inventory. I don’t think that we are arrogant as much as we see the picture from a different perspective and get frustrated that people don’t see the same thing that we do. So, in spite of the thunderstorm, I am retreating to the backyard where I set up a large white tent for the summer.
Aquarius Grey Owl
Thank’s for the arrogant remarks, I thought I was just being a Bitch lol
Well, I’m not too sure about the arrogant part..cause if there’s one thing I know, it’s that I don’t look down on people, or think I’m better.
btw, I didn’t even notice anything about yr punctuation…
There are some things I disagree with in the article, but overall- from an Aquarius female- I find it pretty interesting and spot.
This site contains many interesting articles. The easy access to different sections on the side is great.
@Aly: I think the turn-offs you mention have more to do with the individual than their star sign. You seem to generalize the bad traits of aquarius folk on the two aquarius people you knew (or more?). The woman who dumped her trouble on you was just a bad friend; that had nothing to do with her sign and to misplace that on aquarius women is unfair. All signs, just like all people, have their negative side. You have turn-offs as well, but that doesn’t mean pisces should be avoided. Those of aquarius do have negative traits, but- this is only my view- but, like with every sign, the good far outweighs the bad. It is when we get to timing of birth and individual traits that things become tricky. I hope you find a good aquarius friend in the future who can, perhaps, change the stigma you hold toward the aquarius sign.
Oh! I also do not mean to speak ill of your friend; it was uncalled for to claim her bad. I just do not believe that being unbalanced or balanced has anything to do with the sign, and that is more of the individual females you have met as opposed to the “typical” aquarius traits. To claim aquarius females are attention-seeking and always have to dominate the situation and such-isn’t that more of the person as opposed to the trait? For, yes, there are aquarians who have those traits but also ones who don’t want anything to do with the spotlight and would rather support a situation, not dominate it. Whether someone gives and takes in a relationship is not solely based on their sign, just like the good and bad of someone doesn’t depend solely on their sign. (I may be reading your post wrong, however; due apologies if that is not what you are saying).
Then again, this may be a ramble. Either way I truly hope you can find a good aquarius friend who emphasizes more of these “general good astrology” traits of the aquarius sign with geat individual traits to back it up.
Becky,
When i read the article, i laughed after hoe true it was. When i read the comments there they made me laugh more (but not as much as romantic comedy make-up “i love you” movie scenes, though). I happen to agree with everysingle thing (You and this person who comented Mikayla).
Another thing about Aquarius is that some Aquarius are either hyper, active and confident or shy, and a little (i said a little) reserved. Believe it or not I’m more of the shy kind.
Sorry about the long message, i just don’t know what to do. I’m kinda bored (not of your website, if thats what you think i mean, cause it’s nice).
– Uhh, Jaime
I agree with jamie, I know more than 4 aquarian girls, they are all the hyper active ones…although I am the shy and reserved one
Aquarius rocks! there different an you will never find two the same.Cool headed, independant,like anything different, think out of the square. i know aquarians an we can addmit they can come accross selfish on occasions but that is not there intentions at all!.Once they find a partner they will always want them around but if the aquarius does not get sometime to he/she’s self, others mite find them short tempered an stressy. with an aquarian there will never be a dull moment.If your friends with aqua,you can go for months without hearing from them but dont think they have forgoten about you, Once you finally hear from them its like you was talking to them yesterday..
Hi,
I’m an over-40 Aquarian woman and I loved the article.
Thanks Becky.
I think the arrogance bit may be our detached streak.
We can be a bit aloof at times while we’re dreaming
up ways to save humanity.
I’d be interested in your assessment of Sarah Palin,
McCain’s new VP pick, who is an Aquarian.
She demonstrates our “powerful” nature very well, imo.
She reminds me of myself - a working mother of three
with lots of ambition and drive. I only have three kids,
but Palin has 5 and yet, she’s still SuperWoman!
Unfortunately, I’m a Democrat, so I won’t be voting for the Republicans this year.
What do you make of how religious she is? I’m spiritual but not religious.
I thought Aquarians were the types that were not particularily religious.
So I find that odd about Palin.
Maybe there’s Pisces in her chart somewhere
(most Pisces like Mitt Romney are religious)
Famous Aquarian women:
Alicia Keys
Sheryl Crow
Jennifer Aniston
Oprah
… and many more.
Hi there Joni,
Thank you very much for your comment. It is funny you should mention her as I will be doing a section about all the candidates very soon!! I am English and live in the U.K so I find it quite interesting. Yes she is an Aquarius and many U.S Presidents have been in the past. Aquarius people in my opinion have exactly what is needed for the job, however, their individual opinions will obviously differ and I have to say that I in no way agree with anything she stands for at all!!
Interesting comment Joni thanks!
Love & Light
Becky
I want to appologize for some of the Aquarius comments…sometimes we can read way too much into what people are saying and have our own interpretation and there is no changing our way of seeing things…something we all have to work on to truly grow as a person. Sometimes we alienate ourselves on purpose because we are labeled “weird” or “eccentric” but in a bad way by other signs that are narrow minded in there thinking so we tend to always be on guard. You say you are Gemini so you understand us better than most so I take what you say as constructive critism or just merely your observation.
I am interested in a Gemini guy who I have know for a long time and just recently got back in touch with. Are we compatible?
Hi Lisa,
Thank you for your comment. I love Aquarius people and in no way mean to offend anyone, we all have are own unique quirky way’s..me more than many! Gemini men and Aquarius girls does work,it usually does work better the other way around just because the Aquarius is a masculine sign and like to control more but I truly believe that Gemini men need Aquarius women. My brother is a Gemini man married to a wonderful Aqua lady and would be really lost without her. Of course the quick answer is a simple ‘yes’!
I wish you all the luck in the world.
Love & Light
Becky
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I am an Aquarian/pisces cusp with a virgo rising…also I am a monkey. What sign would you suggest is right for me. I always seem to surround myself with other aquarians or pisces but now I notice I am getting a ton of Gemini’s in my life and becoming fast friends and extremely close like we have been friends forever. Why is this?
Lisa what sthe meaning of an aquarius/pisces cusp! I always read aboutit and never figure it out
Hi Midnight,
Basically if your birthday falls on for example, Feburary 19,20 or 21st then it is on the cusp. This means that you will have traits of both signs and it may also feel like you never really know which sign you are. As a Pisces you will feel as though you have more Aquarius characteristics than what you read of the Pisces person.
Love & Light
Becky
Hi again Becky!
I’ll keep checking back on your website
and look for your astrological assessment of Sarah Palin.
I did a Google search after I left my comment
on your site and found the following websites
about Aquarian Sarah Palin’s chart.
Apparently, she has a Capricorn moon (thus all the ambition and power-driven career) with Leo Rising (giving her that charisma she seems to project)
Site #1
http://planetwaves.net/pagetwo/2008/09/02/neptune-on-the-rise-sarah-palins-astrology/
Site #2
http://nancyfenn.blogspot.com/2008/09/sarah-palin.html
Be sure to read the comments section! Whoa!!!
Site #3
http://blog.beliefnet.com/astrologicalmusings/2008/09/sarah-palins-astrological-char.html
Read the comments section here too.
I’ll be voting for Leo Obama this year too!
I like Palin on a personal level, but I think
her religious views are way too conservative
for politics. Keep that stuff in the churches!
Obama has a Gemini moon like me.
Both of us are also ENFPs (MBTI personality type)
Smiles,
Joni (Sun in Aquarius, Gemini Moon, Libra Rising)
By the way, Palin’s husband is a Virgo.
McCain is a Virgo.
I’m married to a Virgo.
*laughs*
What’s up with the attraction between Virgo and Aquarius. I’ve read that both signs are intellectual and enjoy discussions in the mental realm. I have to tell you, my marriage to my Virgo husband (28 years) has been no bed of roses. It’s been very up and down because Virgo is nitpicky and critical, and Aquarius hates to be criticized!! So, I don’t see how McCain and Palin will get along that well at all, if they make it to the White House.
My husband does have an Aquarius moon, so that compliments my Gemini moon well. If he didn’t have that moon, we’d be doomed!
Oh well. Leo Obama and Scorpio Biden aren’t that well matched either. And neither is Cancer Bush and Aquarian Dick Cheney.
Yes, lots of Aquarians have been presidents, five of them in fact (Lincoln, Reagan, FDR, McKinney and Harrison) and all of them started wars.
Wow. Not something to brag about.
I think women should rule the world!
Smiles,
Joni
p.s. I know lots of Libras and I as attracted to them as they are to me. Libra is a good match for Aquarius. I have a Libra brother and we get along wonderfully. They seem to have a very balancing and harmonizing effect on Aquarius.
Hi there Joni,
Yep I must get round to writing that or there won’t be any point!! Aquarius and Libra are a beautiful match all my Fiance’s closest friends are Libran’s as are mine. Let’s face it both Aquarius and Gemini both need a bit of harmonising from time to time!
Thank you for your comments again Joni always a pleasure to have you on my site
Love & Light
Becky
P.S As for the Aquarius presidents starting wars..absolutley! When given control the Aquarius really can do some damage! That is why, like you pointed out, they need us girls!!
Feb 16th..i’m an aqua all the way. I think this article is right on! Why is everyone getting flustered about the “arrogant” comment..? Everyone can be arrogant at some point or another. I know i can be arrogant just to piss people off sometimes! Let’s take this as what it is… an article giving a brief overview of how aquarian woman “can be” or what their known for. Mucho props Becky!
Hi,
First I am aqua with aqua rising Feb 2 I thought your observation was pretty accurate! for the most part.
I guess I’m a little surprised with the coment about punctuations …big deal if you forget a coma,period etc.Please don’t worry about it it certainly didn’t distract me one bit.
The one thing,regarding depression Aqua’s get very heavy in thought and appear to be on another planet sometimes when ppl are talking,or they go off on there own to figure things out,I don’t see that as depression..we deal with all that stuff like any sighn or person would.
If you look at some things that have been written about Aquas its kinda annoying like we are so aloof-detatched and unemotional—geeze you wonder why anyone would want us? I find all that NOT true for me almost the opposite I have scorpio friends and I am more emotional then them,so its not always correct what the write.
As usual me being Aqua-has a hard time ending conversations..lol
Thanks I’ll check back..xo hugs!
Hey I am also an aqua feb 2!
I also agree with the emotinal part, I am an aqua and I am extremely emotional and sensitive as hell, and I never seem to know why! I’ve given up the idea of being detached and unemotional, it seems impossible. Myabe becouse I’ve been affected by the emotional peopel around me.
Even if aquarius has been known for being detached and aloof at times, this doesnt necessarily mean we are all alike.Some people Though prefer someone who is like that , Its more (practical) for them.
No matter how annoying and “know it all” aquarius is there is always someone out there who appreciates the genious streak and unpredictable nature that they posess.
Hi guys,
What you will find is that the closer your birthday is to the beginning of Pisces 21st Feb the more emotional you will become. Aquarius is a very emotional sign but if there not encouraged at an early age to show how they feel then they will simply just bottle it up causinga lot of pent up torture.
Love & Light
Becky
kool, you’re the first feb 2 I’ve met,we are emotional,you’re right Midnight, we are sensitve to other people-sometimes a curse, I pick up their energy.
I am pretty intuitive as well.
xo
I’m an Aquarian woman (2-14) and I LOVED the write up. I think that sometimes, the Aquarian woman can be a bit “judgemental” and can have very little tolerance for other people who try to “invade” their zone, so to speak. They are NATURAL warriors. They know they are unique and have often been ridiculed for being this way. I think the “detached” quality is viewed as being “arrogant.” The Aquarian is simply trying to protect themselves.
I also think that they can be overly confident at times. They take GREAT pride in their work and are very proud of themselves because they do something “well” (relative). This is particularly pronounced amongst those that have suffered (and still suffer!) with low self esteem.
Regarding the arrogance…..I was told just the other day (by my student) that someone best described me as being very “confident.” I was a bit confused–as I didn’t know how to take this. Am I not to be confident in the subject area of which I instruct? It seems that I have come across as arrogant (I think they use the wrong adjective at times!) to people, but I will be the first to say that I am: very helpful (to the point of exhausting myself!), HONEST, caring and believe in fairness. This is how I have been described by people, as well.
One of the things that I despise is to see someone treated UNFAIRLY. It hurts to the core. And believe me: If I feel that I have been disrespected, I will address the issue in a tactful (VERY hard for Aquarians to do!) manner.
I choose not to “judge” someone OR their work unless I am adept at doing so. Let’s not be so shallow; look beneath the surface, judgemental, still “developing”, fellow Aquarians! Unless you’re writing/editing for the New York Post or some other periodical, try having a “softer approach” when it comes to critiquing one’s work.
–mish mish
Mish Mish
I totally agree with you about people being treated badly-I too always go for the under-dog I can’t handle anyone being treated poorly I get very angry and will go to battle with anyone who this happens too.
I also agree with the Judgemental point-I can be and work very hard not to do this its my first reaction sometimes-and yet I detest this kind of attitude and I catch myself doing it sometimes..
My confidence depends on my mood, days I feel I know everything, other days I question everything…
Aquas are hard on themselves especially when it comes to doing the right thing I always battle that.
Becky I would be an Aquarius if I were to follow the charts with the “13th sign.” I just don’t understand it really. My birthday is Feb 28th… Which chart do you go by? I defiantly feel I fit a Pisces better then an Aquarius… but it is just confusing me.
hey!
how would one find out what one’s moons and rising suns are? I’m an Aqua, born 1st Feb. Thanks! 
HI Grace,
Im a Leo man dating an Aquarius women:) It is a new and early relationship but we seem to be so different. Our needs are so different???
any advice on how to make this work???? CAN IT WORK????
Thanks!
Hey Becky first let me say im obsessed with your page great job. I love it. okay well this is my first bloggy thing but anyway im an aquarius tiger female with an aries rising and moon in gemint boy is my life dramatic and sooooooo ridiculously all over the place at times. Well i need your advice and i know your the best person for this because your a gemini horse and in a romantic relationship we’d be perfectly compatible and i know this is different but you gotta be able to feel me on this one.
well im dating an aquarius cat and this sh@#$$t is wierd forreal. i just cant grasp our relationship somedays we are so lovey and somedays its like we havent seen each other all day but been in the same room were just like inour own worlds is that weird and then u know i was wondering is this weird well his mom is and his brother are aqua’s and did i mentin were 11 yrs apart yea just a lil age gap. im 22 hes 33 okay i know weord any oh yea and we lived together i told you im a lil out there but any ay right me back and tell me what you think cause i feel like im might be wasting my time i just think hes cool but not cool enough for me! oh was that arrogance? LoL any way and i feel like im going through the aqua gurl depression thing but only when im around him whats good with that? Energy vampire i believe. But hes so nice when hes nice and when hes not hes a JERK.i ve been with him 6 months now and want to wait it out and give it a chance but im not sure. what do u think let me know becky and any otha aqua chicks with advice.:)
ps Aquarians are taking over the World!!!!
Hi Bubblz
doesn’t sound like anything but an age difference to me.
I’m not sure about rising signs ,it just seems like that’s the issue not the astrology.
Take Care! from Aqua-Girl,we are taking over..!
ps(hope it was okay to add my 2cents..:)
TO MY FELLOW AQUARIANS; ALL COMMENTS MADE ARE GOOD AND TRUE, WE ARE SENSITIVE CREATURES WHO ONLY DESERVE AND DESIRE RESPECT BECAUSE WE WILLFULLY AND GRACIOUSLY GIVE IT. WE LOVE ALL AND HOPE FOR IT IN RETURN, IN FACT WE APPRECIATE ALL THAT IS GOOD AND POSITIVE, WE ARE NOT DIFFICULT AND DON’T ASK FOR MUCH. IF YOU LOVE US (AQUARIANS) WE WILL LOVE YOU EVERMORE IN RETURN.
Hi Becky and any Aquarian female,
I have been dating an Aquarian women and Iam a Leo man. Well, i guess you could say that we are very different and our needs are very different. I think i see love as a magical thing that can conquer all. However, i get the feelign that she does not see it that way. She is very scared to give into the relationship and there is always a game of pushing me away-like a tug of war. On some day we are all close and into one another and then the next i dont even get a kiss hello-WHAT THE HELL!!!!!!
I know our signs are on the oppposite of each other, but can this work!!! I need affection and shjust cannot seem to give it to me!!!!
HELP!!!!!!!!! Is this gonna work or will i be putting my needs aside the entire relationship and having none of mine met??????
WHY ARE AQUA WOMEN SO SCARED OF BEING ATTACHED TO PEOPLE. WHY ARE THEY SCARED TO FEEL THIER EMOTIONS!!!! SO DETACHED FROM ANYONE. HOW WOULD AN AQUA WOMEN WANT TO BETREATED SO AS TO BREAK THAT DEFENCE DOWN. IS IT A TRUST THING???
Hi Floyd
I am aqua girl,I’m a bit like that too,I must admit-honestly its a trust thing,for me anyway also being hurt before you always take a step back when you feel like you’re getting to attatched,eventually you learn to let go,don’t push her but assure her you love her and always will…w take awhile to ‘Let go” but have faith and you’ll see that she will break down the walls-That’s why Aqua females NEED a patient partner.
Good-Luck!
(hope this helps)
Hey Gen,
Thank you very much that does help ALOT!!!!
Its very interesting, going slow is the complete opposite of how I normally go into relationships, but I always end up getting hurt…So, I guess we learn from each other!!!! I learn Patience and to go slow and she learns to “let go”!!
opposites attract:)
Hi Becky,
It was really great “Becky” reading your thoughts regarding Aquarian Women.Underlining those points that your readers have commented on, I would like to add my opinion to that.
First, I would directly comment on Mr. Aly, “Sir, it is a pleasure that you have analyzed the nature of aqua-women but let me tell you that living a person or a friend at bad times is not a true friend. You are talking about a friend and you are criticizing the person or back stabbing the person. Do you think you are a genuine person yourself? Every person has ups and downs in life, do not you feel like discussing your bad incidents or moments of life with your friends. If in case, they ignored your emotions and departed from your life, then would you be in a gay mood or you would be in grief. Answer me….??????????
No body has such free time to listen and solve others problems in life, but still we are human beings we need companions to look vibrant and alive. We need to enjoy life and for that purpose we need friends, isn’t dear. You cannot live anybody during their bad times in life. In case, you are doing that you are self-centered individual.
Undoubtedly, aquarians are often quite depressed but ignoring them in this way must be a work of a disloyal friend. I hope what I am portraying is quite clear to everybody who is reading this comments.
So, next time respect your friends if you want respect in return because aquarians are quite dangerous at times, so beware!!!!!!!!!!!!!
hey becky its me bubblez u know the age gapped aquarius relationship well first thanks for your reply i know u might be right about the age thing i just want a normal understanding suppotive relationship and it seems like i keep getting either dull or too crazy. im an aquarius tiger with an aries rising and gemini moon i dont know his rising or moon but both our venuses are in pisces and hes an aquarius cat. i hope u have some advice for us because i just get the feeling we are shutting each other out but i do agree with the age thing pretty much and whats your take on the aquarius/leo relatinship aspect.
thank you ssoooooooo much
Oh wow Becky! You are sooooooooooooooo awsome. This fits me almost like T. That is so true, I dress how I feel. Like when I am feeling kinky, dark, goth, I dress like that. Though, I must disagree. I proud to say I like my meat!!! And there was nothing sexist about that one section you wrote, how capable and strong we are. That right there is a compliment. There’s nothing wrong with being, strong, powerful, firery woman. And I got to say, it hard to find a man that likes this in woman. I meet so many men that want to resuce me, and I don’t need a knight, all I want is warrior man, that matches with my warrior woman, that understands, I am indepent, I am who I am. I just looking for a friend.
And that is so true. I am not afarid to speak my mind, and some do not like that, nor do I really care. Because, if someone got something to say, they should just say it. How could people know where one stands if you don’t speak up! I wouldn’t say I am aggrogant, but I would say I am trueful, which could come across as aggrogant, because I say it how I see it, you know? Say might view it as also being tactless, but it’s not. I just don’t care if their feelings get her. Espeically, when they are being stupid.
I am into the acts, I love acting.
I have to disagree, when I say I’ll be there, I’ll be there. It’s in my warrior code. Yeah, I agree, I am not afarid to kick some ass when it deserve it.
For me, I am tomboy, who isn’t afarid to be feminity. I workout, I am really fit. And I am very competative, I am go getter, and yeah I do not sit around and mob. I love my freedom, I am always lively. Even though I am woman, I use my common sense, which some annoying typically women would view “As thinking like man” Which is really just common sense LOL
And yeah, when it comes to dating I perfer in face direct appoarch. (But if just a test, if he can handel my fire)
So is this why I feel like an Aries sometimes, cause we share some of the same traits of Aries men?
Got to say the defeintion of the Aries man really gets my interest. Sound like a man that could handel me.
To Floyed. That’s how we are. I know I am. I am not the one who always going to say, ” ok”, hold your hand and tell you how I feel. I am going to show by actions. In relationship, I always get the bad end of the stick. I get men who are interested in me, once they have me they get scared for insure reasons, because they cannot handel how capable I am. I had man dump me because he thought I was too beautiful. And he got jealous everyone wanted to be around me. Or get the men, that can’t wait for me to return when I decied to have little adventure.
I been hurt in relationship involing men, and I learn quickly from my mistakes and I take things slow. We have to get to trust you, once we trust you, we’ll let you in.
I am so glad I am not the only woman who had these problems.
To Fyold And don’t rush us into something we are not sure of. Don’t be quick to stick us to your side. If you do, we will run and you’ll never see us again. We Aquarius girls love our freedom. You have to let us be us. Don’t try to change us, don’t question us why we act like this or that, we just do.
To Fyold DON’T BE SO NEEDY. You’re not my boyfriend and you saying you expect her to give you kiss everyday annoys me. LOL When men expect me to do this and this for them. It annoys the hell out of me. It should be because I want too. Not because you need it to make yourself feel better. Advice, have strong sense of self, be confident in her.
To Gen, we need a parnter we feel we don’t need to answer too, or explain ourself too! Like the Aries man, wouldn’t have problem with this, because they like their freedown, they understand our need for SPACE. We need man that just apperacte us when we feel like doing it. Like dress sexy for them, giving them baths, taking you out to resturants. The moment they start depammanding it. For me, it’s not speical, it seem like a route. Cause we love to please our men, just don’t tell us how we should do it.
I don’t know about the rest of you Aquarius girls. But it really bothers me. When a man won’t let you have fun in the bedroom. When a man just tell me to just lay there and do nothing. I am as cold as ice. I am very upset because I can’t play, and be the playful kitty.
To Scorpio. My advice, is to forget the bitch. She obvenisly doesn’t love you. Because if she did, she wouldn’t do the things to hurt you. Real love, isn’t about controling someone, or playing stupid mind games, or hurting them. She sounds like a whore as well. I wouldn’t sleep around with someone who spread their legs to other men.
You deserve better. Why do you put up with her bullshit? Why would you let someone hurt you???? You need to end this relattionship that is going nowhere. There’s more fish in the sea. She’s not the only Aqaurius girl out there.
So you need to put your foot down and tell her no more and END IT and never see her again. If you don’t she’ll just keep playing you for the fool you are.
Aly, I have to really disagree with you. I am 25, and I been single all my life. Marriage is the last thing on my mind. I could live MY WHOLE LIFE without a man, I don’t need a man to make me happy. Because I am sure within myself and very capable person. And when there comes a problem I fit it right away. The whole detact bit, for me is I am not all touchy feeling. If I don’t know a person, I won’t even open up to the person, until I get to know them and have their trust.
What I don’t understand is, if this woman annoy you so much with all her emotionally garbage why did you sit there and listen to her? You could have spoken with your feet and just left.
I know a lot people who know how to handel their problems and I know a lot of people that don’t. Anyone can fall into that catagory of sitting on their ass all day in dark place.
To LittleImpaler,
I appreciate your comments! However, it sounds very much to me that Aquarian women or maybe just you and the one i know, want things on their terms and that the men in there lives must just understand there needs and not question it- I guess thats why they have such trouble keeping guys!!! Its not being needy that compels me, its just a simple matter of if you like someone show it! If you with me your with me mind body and soul! I expect nothing, and if you dont WANT to kiss me and love me than WHY the hell are u with me!!! i should not have to ask. however, If i must except and resepect your NEED for space then it works both ways dont you think! Cause that is a need either way you look at it!
I dont mind if she not want to give me those needs but then she must not expect me to fifull her needs. Relationships are Reciprocal!Its about compromise, and understanding of why people have certain needs! If i give you yours and you give me mine then we have both grown by going beyond ourselves!
The fact of the matter is that, Aquairan women get hurt in relationships because of this trait and then this just further reinforces that if they remain distant they will not get hurt! Basic psychology. However, they end up getting hurt anyway, by pushing people away!!!
I dont have time for games, nor do i need to suffer to make things work-hence i broke up with my aquairan girl-to much effort and to many issues! this really broke her and now we are trying to sort things out between us, where both of us come to the party not just one expecting from the other! there are things I will tolerate and there are things I will not! Im very caring, very affectionte, sensitive, understanding and never ever hurt intentionally. This can be mistaken for a weakness, but at the end of the day Im a leo and we all know that Leo’s have a cold, dark side to. If those characteristics of mine are taken for granted and taken advantage of, I will not stand for it in any way shape or form.
All in all you gals are high maintanence!, but im learning to enjoy maintaining you!
Be good
Floyd.
To Fylod That isn’t being high maintanence. And don’t group all Aquruarius women being like this.
Question, Did you ever sit her down and tell her how you felt? Did you ask her if she loved you? For realationship to work there has to be commuation and learning to give and take.
Question, are you the type a guy that needs a woman to always tell you, that they love you? Do you need a woman who ALWAYS shows their affection? By kissing, hugginig, and ect? So you are sure that they love you?
Because, my family and friends are NOT touching feeling, and I am not that way. Nor do they tell me all the time that they love me. I know they love me, because of their actions. Such as they are always there when I need help, they listen to me when I have a problem. And I am confident in myself so I do not all this touchy feeling sentiments to be scure with myself.
Because, it seem to me you are not confident in yourself to be around a woman who doesn’t say or give you the affection that says “I love you.”
Question, was she there for you, when you needed her? Did she put up with you, when you were being stupid? Did she toloranct the things about you that annoy her? Did she take you out? Did she do things with you?
If a woman does all the things I just mediton, that tells me she cares.
I will tell you, I was with a man who was very screw up, I didn’t know he had Schoperhia. He was very depress man. He would have a problem that was soooooooooo small and blow it up very big. I loved him so much I would keep giving him the same advice over and over no matter how annoyed I was with him.
I would dress sexy for him, and he got mad. I would try to kiss him, he just sit there not happy.
I would go to him when he wanted to meet up with me and he never came, he stood me up many times, and still I waited for him. I put up with his abuse, because I loved him so much.
I didn’t always tell him I loved him, and when I did, he just didn’t care. I would try to talk to him see what was the matter with him, and he wouldn’t talk. Finally, he dumps me for being too beauifully, and that he hated that men and women were talked to me think I was attractive.
I will agree with you, that she needs to show in same way that says I love you. If she doesn’t and just sit there like lump on the log, you just need to move on and forget her.
Now, it seemed like she cared for you, because she is hurt by it. But I am saying, you do seem like your needy. And maybe you need a woman who always to be glued to your side and smutter you in kisses.
If you have any interest in being with her again. I suggest that you tell each other your rules. And you need for each other. To be clear.
Because I would tell a man who wanted to be with me. I am not the touchy feeling type. I don’t always say I love you. But don’t worry, doesn’t mean I don’t love you. I say I love you by my actions. I am not going to cheat you, or hurt you.
To Fyold
In relationship you cannot demand love, or affections. Love should be free-spirted. If someone demands me to hug them and kiss them in return for my space. Then that isn’t love. It becomes a chord, an expectation. But if I kiss you, or hug you, or do something for you, out of the blue then my actions mean something, they are speical.
So maybe, and we Aquariuars, she feels you demand love and affection from her. And that to me is like telling me what I should and shouldn’t do. Aquariuars need to feel free to do what they want in relationship. Because, if I was with you and you demanded from me love and affection that I had to do it when you give me space. I am going to give you the finger, open a window and throw you out the window and enjoy the sight wondering if you could really fly.
To Little Impaler-who are you addressing in terms of scorpio?
Hello Leo floyd
Yes I agree that We aquarius grils should Learn how to Express More what we really Feel,But Its just against our nature! We have to keep it to our selves if we reveal it we would feel as if we lost all Power over You!It might sound stupid as a philosophy But Thats how we see it.
Personally..I have come to learn How to show My feelings more Lately, It was hard Becouse I didnt wanna lose My self In the confusion, and I didnt wanna feel ashamed for showing what I feel. I don’t think we are HIGH maintanence! actually we re quiet felxible In any occasion we get along as long as u dont FORCE us to do so! if You do we will shut the door and just close Our minds! be stubborn as ever.
Really if You want to let an aquarius woman show her feelings to You leave her in her misery for a while..she will eventually realize she is missing something and comes around, how they say it ” The more You want me The less You’ll see me, The less You’ll want me The more You’ll see me!” thats How You can Put an aquarius girl in My opinion! she needs alot of Space! to feel the mystery of it and feel she is wanted. the excitement is what we crave along with intellect knowledge and playfullness.
Midnight aquarius
And really Once the aquarius girl realizes How opposite You are! being a leo and her an aquarius, it actually makes it really really irresistable for her, as she is after unique and odd things! this will be really odd and unusual thus making it desired!
Not to mention the sexual attraction is unmistakeably Passionate if she is into You :p
To gen
Its defenetly a trust thing too! if I get hurt or betrayd in anyway It just does it! BOOM the begining of the end. even if he tries to approach me gently and be sweet I will just shrug in disgust if he kisses me. and I imagine what he did or said.
practically if we feel we are loved totally for who and what we are.. no matter how many flaws we have phisycally and emotionally we will just Love You back more and more feeding on that complete love You show us that u accept us as we are. with time..very very SLOOOWLY we will change into something more flexible. Like rocks that change over the passing of years from The ocean waves
I agree with all that is written here,if I’m not affectionate in the beginning,maybe I am just not into you,or you have done or said something that is holding me back.
That’s what I’m like…especially if I haven’t addressed the issue-and if its really bad,no affection no phone calls no nothing,you’re gone.
Don’t ever cheat on an Aqua woman you are a definite Goner! I won’t or will not forgive anyone for that unforgivable sin.Its happened to me and when I found out I was gone bags packed moved and never spoke to the person again……been 12 yrs and will never speak to him again…soooo done.
To Gen I was adderess my opinon by a user named Scorpio
To Gen and Midnight. I totally agree with you. If I am in a realationship and that person cheats on me. That is the end of it. I don’t put up with that silliness. Once you betray your trust you’ll never see me again. I wipe you away from my life compeletely.
That is so true. For me, it seem when I give myself compeletely too soon in a relationship, the person dumps me, because they want nothing to do with me. So now, I become detact until that person shows me that they want me in their life, that I can trust them. That the moment I show affection that says I love you, they don’t runaway because their scared. They must prove to me, that their loyal and such.
In my opinon it is always good to go slow in a realationship and get to know the other person. Because if you rush, it usually doesn’t work out, because you don’t know one another as well as you could. For me if someone is too fast, it scared me and I walk away.
It’s really hard finding a real man that likes a strong capable woman and apperacties her indepentance, and her strong sense of self, and will.
This is for anyone who knows why? I am female/lesbian,I would like to know why I am always attracted to Scorpio women,I haven’t figured it out yet why.
I know their sign is not compatable with us but I am always drawen to them-I do get along really well and yes the physical attraction is totally there.
Any comments? I am total aqua woman
There is something weird I cant read what You posted even if i click on it,might be my mistake but it still tells me that My comments will be reviewd and accepted! but u all responded so mean su read them hmmm anyways! I also wanna point out that when an aquarius Gilr really loves someone its just great for the person she is inlove with, As its known that aquarians in general are very surprising and spontanious people! we will surprise u everyday and be creative in every way we want so long as we are into you
Hi…
Totally Loved your Aquarius overview and I agree with it 100%. I was born on the 19th of Feb, so I am on the cusp of Aquarius and Pisces.. although I definately have more of the aqua traits.
This whole arrogance / confidence debate thats going on, I think both opinions are correct, but it depends on what kind of person you are as to what you take from it. I have been known to be very cutting at times in my remarks, but NEVER on purpose. I hate hurting anyones feelings so I don’t like to think of it as arrogance, but I guess the person on the receiving end could.
I love your site, and have now added it to my favourites.. thanks for your wisdom!
And to all aquarians… My motto kinda sum us up I think…
‘Be a trend setter, not a follower’..
(You’ll never find any two the same)
We are not weird… we are just different from everybody else!
Good Job Becky xx
Dear Becky,
I am a teenage girl of almost fifteen, and when i look for horoscopes for my own age, I find almost nothing. It is terrible, because i realy like this scorpio guy, and he is so deep, and shy, and funny, but stangelyr outging , that I feel like I cannot find a correct reading for my age, when all horoscopes are for adults. I love astrology, and I wish that they had a young teen version. We have our own problems, and it feels like they are not addressed in horoscopes.
do you know what i can do to address this problem? you seem like you have a full understanding of astrology and people, and how to help them
love,
tokiohotel
Hi there Tokiohotel,
Thank you for your comment and you make a good point. I got into astrology when I was 14 so I understand how you feel. Astrology is for everyone ofcourse but the thing is that when you are young you are still finding out who you are, still developing into the person you will turn out to be and there can be a lot of confusion.
I think for an astrologer to write horoscopes for young people would not be a great idea as you need to have a very open mind to understand astrology and the minds of young people are, although highly developed, can be quite easily influenced. Although I believe fully in this subject I also believe that it should not be taken lightly. I have known quite a few younger people who have been given advice by lesser astrologers and forgot to live there lives how they wanted, they followed everything that was said and ended up in quite a bit of trouble. Astrology is like a guide it can help you imrove your lot in life, find out who you are and get to know the people around you much better. But I fully believe that when you are young you really need to grow and find your path yourself.
If you wish to discuss this more please write to me using my contact page.
Take care, love & Light
Becky
hiii dear
i almost fifteen years young gril….i love astrology. and deeply beieve in it..but i didnt find any one who can guide me..everything written here is for adults…i m also an aquarius and whatever written here is not correct according to me….help me out please…
Well, I am into this Aquarius Astro thing! I am a vegetarian and of course you were right Becky. As for me I always seem to make up new fashions and sometimes they can make people laugh! Love this sight too!
P.S- I luv singing so I am interested in music and I want to become a actress!
bub- bye- yikki-yi lol jk
hey love your sight n alot of things u say makes sence im a 12 year old aqua n i am kinda shy. my moms a leo n she hates that about me she says i need to speak up more n stuff but its all good. love the color on ur page nice chioce.hmm well dont know wat else to say:)lol k bye.
WOW! lol
I agree with this completely.
I am a sun sign aquarius and have aquqrius in 3 other places in my chart,lol.
( with a gemini moon )YIKES!
Well….as much as I hate to admit it….I can be a little arrogant,not on purpose….it is confidence….but too much of anything is bad. I can come across as arrogant without meaning to.
Also….I am clever with words….and if I am angry….i have said cutting remarks I regret for sure.
The funniest part was how we like to be the ” men ” in relationships….lolol. I AGREE.
Because i like freedom,I dont like having to answer to anybody and I like doing things on my own. I usually am the leader in a relationship,so I guess that could be seen as man-ish…haha.
But I think it takes a real man to be with a strong minded aquarius like myself.
; )
I like how when people argued about being arrogant on the message board, you said they demonstrated aquarius arrogance,lol.
I thought that was clever,and correct.
Im glad you stood up to one of my fellow aquarians….it’s good for us.
=-D
Sigh… there are some things that I wish I don’t want to be associated by the Aquarian sign like putting priority on work over friendship. Nice article by the way, pretty accurate on my personality and nice to hear some of the negative things that most of the time I took it for granted.
i just dont see a detached trait in a aqaurius bone…..???!!!! i am a pisces/rooster woman, and every aqaurius that i have had a relationship with has always became attached to me……..they smother me with their jealousy and insecurness to the point it makes me want to run away!!!!!but dont get me wrong…i love it!!!!but the aqaurius that i am currently in a relationship with now, is the only one i feel deeply in love with…she gives me so much water that i just cant get enough and yes i have so much room to swim!!…..she has taught me everything i know…she helped me thru college,she puts me up on so many ideas! she even kicked some ones a$$ over me!!((the situation with her kicking somes a$$ over me was unexpected, some one was flirting with me but was left alone 2 weeks later i didnt know what was going on until one of my friends ran to me and told me she had confronted some one and all of a sudden she smashed there head into wall…very sad but shes something serious, all aqaurians are))i was hurt about that cause i wouldnt want my aqaurius to hurt herself…anyways……every where we go she appear to be a leader!!! and shes a very wise person, a philosopher i say….oh and by the way, remind you ppl…..shes a aqaurius/snake what i just descibed here in this message about her is wayyyyyy different from other aqaurians and i see a lot of difference…the first real and most loyal-loving relationship i have ever had…oh my goodness and her sex is the best!!!!!!!soorry, the rooster side of me is making me brag so much about her……..i love my aqaurius/snake………….and will do almost any and everything for her….
and no aqaurian ppl are NOT arrogant at all…they appear to be but they are not…they are way far from thinking or being superior to others….they will never think that way…..they are highly confident of theirselves and very happy with their inner-self..thats all…by the way i am their next door neighbor…i know a lil more about them than any one else…lol…..i am being silly, but seriously they are just very confident ppl………
Becky i love the way you respond back to ppl with intelligence! you prove your point and off you go!!”gallop gallop gallop” then you come back with that lovely smile and give us highly respectable comments again!! “”gallop gallop gallop”"” i love that horse in you!!! lololololololololol……..them gemini horses!!!! lololol
that made me laugh cause i am also an aquarius/snake..
hey,
I kind of have a guy problem, a REALLY weird one. You see there is this guy that goes to the same university as me, and we both hangout with the same huge group. I am really good friends with most of his friends, and when we all go out for some fun, usually we are both in the same group. Usually, when this kind of thing happens, the guy and I will become good friends, and start dating. But with this Scorpio, it’s almost like we are playing a game with each other. We come really close to talking to each other, and then chicken out. I have never had this happen, it seems so adolescent. I am almost POSITIVE that he likes me, because my best friend (born may 21, guy) says that he stares at me when I’m not looking, and will come up close behind me, and talk to his friends. This whole “Mental Relationship” was possibly the most fun I have had in a long time. It’s a thrill. But now I’m ready for us to quit the game and start talking and being friends, maybe more. I really like this guy, his friends say that he is shy, and most of his female friends know that I like him. He is goodlooking (but not in a way you would expect) and ultra funny, and nice. Playing this game for 4 months. I’m bored and there are other guys. can you give me some advice??
To Oxfordcomma:
Just tell the guy how you feel. When this guy is truly this shy, the more confident one has to make the first move. If you wait for him to say something it will never happen.
to pisces/rooster:
have you ever considered the idea that people of all signs flock to you to discuss their jealousies and insecurities? i feel like aquarians aren’t affected by jealousy nearly as much as other signs, however, i do realize that one of my best friends in high school was pretty much one of my best friends because he was an intuitive listener. i felt comfortable talking to him about ANY problems 1 on 1, like i wasn’t being judged, as did many other people. even if i was just being jealous. his sign was pisces.
i’ve met many other pisceans and they all seem to possess the thing aquas lack: empathy for individuals.
Maybe we’re just too oblivious to the feelings of others, often to our own selves! It is very hard to find good listeners because most signs are very self absorbed until the final stages of the zodiac, hence Pisces
Also, I’ve noticed Pisceans are stacked with other people’s problems, which causes them to want to flake out and live inside a fantasy world where bad feelings don’t exist. Basically too many people drain their ability to use their gift of compassion, so they retreat into a sanctuary and avoid contact with people.
As for tokio and the other teens, I agree with Becky that you are still in the process of maturing. As a 20 year old college student, I know for a fact a huge chunk of my peers are still searching for themselves. I believe you can recognize astrology in kids easier than adults, however, it is very important to realize that kids have not yet gone through the conditioning of finding out what they’re capable of doing (good or bad, often due to less experience with emotions).
the thing that separates adults from kids is that smart adults eventually learn “it isn’t what to say, but when to say it.” you can think your horoscope is wrong right now, but give yourself some time to grow and when you reflect on your experience in as little as 5 years you’ll start to realize not only recurring themes, but the timing of them.
For example, being described as possessive doesn’t really include the time when you were 8 and just got a new puppy or the time when you were 12 and your first girlfriend started talking to other boys. Who wouldn’t be at first?
However, I’ve met guys who are 27 that continue to fall to that same emotion of possessiveness, and it might as well be their first time feeling that way, to the point where you can describe their CHARACTER as being possessive. And I’m sure there are 80 year olds and above that are possessive too.
And the funny part? Some girls like it, and some don’t. Some don’t need to be possessed, some need to be, but the fact of the matter is, you won’t know what you’re really like until you have experience.
Hey Becky i like how you put Aqua ladies Hate feeling like there being looked after. That is so very true, even in a relationship the aquarius lady still likes to pay for things so she dont feel like she needs a man to take care of her. I am an aquarius girl an when we come across as bossy its an accident!!! an one more thing i dont think that we cant handle the big bad world its that we dont understand why people do what they do to one another we aqua’s treat people how we want to be treated.
hi Lyndsay i think what you said about aqua is very very true indeed…
To Kara:
That is so true, and I am also a Aquarius women. Being indenpent and knowing what you want in life is not bossy. We just have strong sense of self, and we don’t need a knight on a white horse. I know I always treat people how I like to be treated.
Okay, so where do I start!!! I have read nearly every body’s comments thus far &I’m not sure what to make out of it!! I just love the fact that people are people no matter what star sign we are, we all have plenty in comman when it comes to “been a PERSON”!! I’m an aqua gal, who agrees &disagrees with our/my traits as an aqua, but like it’s said we aren’t all alike &can you just imagine if we were??!! I’m shy, anti-social, lack confidence, an introvert, quiet, narrow-minded &adore my own company!!!! Yet, I’m complete, happy, comfortable, open-up, open-minded, social &enjoy the feeling of been complete when with friends!! I treasure my friendships &have only less than a hand full of true &best friends. I’m emotional, take things seriously, I’m a perfectionist (which drives me insane), I’m a deep thinker, a good listener &adviser, love observing the people &things around me!! I love the smell &feel of fresh, cool, open air, I love my own company &free space, I look at things from a psycological/mental point of view most of the time!!
Yes, PRIDE is the best way to describe it!! I never knew I had pride within me, until a counceller once told me…I have pride &I need to deal with it!! I could never understand that, coz I feel I’m non-judgemental &care for &listen to &…&…. I always thought less of myself rather than others!! Still not sure whether it fits in with us as an aqua gal star trait or if it’s within us due to personal issues of an aqua gal???(does this make sense??)
Reading about other aquas or any other sign, makes me see alot of myself &I promise you,I really did not know there are others who share similar traits like me!! Just reading what others say. I learnt so much about myself &I’m satisfied with the fact that I am (in some way) normal!! There are others like me!! :))
We indeed have a strong sense of self &feel very STRONG about certain things &will stand firm at our beliefs!! I’m very accepting &understanding, yet I find myself been judgemental at times!! People can’t help WHO they are, but they can help WHAT they become because of that WHO!! I used to hate critizism, or hearing the truth, now I think It’s prob one of the best healings of one’s emotions &motivation for one’s own life!!! Better yet there are ways in dishing that out, but it always ends up with…. ..saying, “THE TRUTH HURTS” and/or “THE TRUTH WILL SET YOU FREE”
To add, I’ve been in almost a 3year relationship with a LEO GUY, we share a BEAUTIFUL 1yr 2mnth old son (named Boaz) together!!! I DO NOT KNOW IF WE ARE GOOD TOGETHER!! Wait, I do know, I just don’t want to admit it…maby??? Our relationship is based on hurt, unhappiness, brokeness, tears!! I frimly belief &keep saying we are not suited for one another!! We are both stubborn, non-understanding, we are both the “leader” want
“our” way, we both want to control &hate been controlled!! We argue, we fight, we love, smile, we sex, we fight, we hate, we friends, we happy, we love, we… ……It’s crazy!! Neither of us give in &it’s extremely difficult to accept &relate to each other!! I think he is to controlling, &he himself doesn’t!! He thinks i’m to controlling, &I myself doesn’t!! We have ended our relationship three times(to be exact) (not only because of our complete differences) yet we are still drawn to one another, we love one another, we have fun together, he says there is something about me that keeps him sane, keeps him drawn to me, though I have& still do hurt his emotions, puts up with all my KRAP, he still loves me ….but….once the ball starts to roll, it’ll be days till we are back to peace &love with each other!! We a Leo &a Aquariun battle to relate, understand each other, but yet we understand to love one another because thats what we do best!!
He as a Leo is extremely sexual, wants it all the time, wants to be loved, shown affection to (etc..), I give my all to him, then one day I don’t, I show him daily in many detailed ways how much he means to me, yet he still feels at times unloved, secong best, yet he is very withdrawn, emotionless, expressionless, closed book, blocks off/out easily himself!! He is an amazing listener, has extreme patience with me, where as I don’t with him.
Suppose I can write an essay, maby a book if you’d like ;)) which I most prob have been close to doing!! I can say much more to our differences we face in our relationship, infact most can relate with theirs, not only towards their partners, but friends &families too!! Suppose we just accept each &everyone for who they are, as we are all a first born from God, who are we to jugde or hate, but rather love &care for!!!
Lovely site, thank you!!
TAKE CARE
I’m an Aquarius sun and moon scorpio rising. Whatch out! I’m the loud mouth Aquarius Type. Only shy and resevered if you don’t know me. Then I’ll come up with something outrages to say and make you look. I’ll tell you what I’m thinking in a minute. And laugh. I agree with the arrogant thing. I dont walk into the room with arrogance around me like I’m better than anyone. Just,confidence in knowing what I want and what I’m doing. I found myself quit humbling actually. I fight for the under dog too. First fight I got into was in 2nd grade when this kid was throughing things at a mental challenged kids . And theres many more times I have fought for the under dog and always will. I’m described by my friends as the crazy, silly one who will do anything once and I mean anything. Dont knock it if you havnt tried it. I never got why people say gemini and aquarius are good for each other friendship wise or romanticlly. I never liked a gemini. friends or lover. I always thought they were two faced. Maybe, i just met the asshole ones.um or is it me? sorry becky i know were gemini. never really talk to you though. The thing you said about be artsy fartsy. I’m not at all. I have no talent. And there is some far wacked out aquarius out there in the way they dress. But, I got best dressed in high school. And I still think I dress nice. And you are right about you can tell how we feel by the way we dress. pretty much everything I feel on the inside shows on the out. which,sucks when you are hung over. but thats a whole complete different story. You said Aquarius Woman doesn’t even go out of her way to do so, they just naturally look good. Thats quit funny because somebody told me that the other day. Aquarius,besides libra are the prettest out of the signs. Don’t know how true that is. Maybe, not the prettest. But aqaurius women we sure are interesting looking.
To JMk:
Wow, in same ways you are like me. I am also an Aquarius woman, who just don’t get along with Geminis. I find, many are two face. It’s so nice to meet Aquariarus who is also like that.
A lot of people think I am very mean, because I am straight forward, blut, and I’ll tell someone how I see it. It’s not because I am mean, I am actually very nice, but I am very truthful person. A lot people just can’t handel straight forward people, unless they come from Europe, where the people there are straight forward with everyone.
Someone told me I was quit aggerogant, I told them. “I am never aggerogant, I am just being very truthful.”
Any ways, nice to read someone who doesn’t get along with the twins.
Ok, I totally disagree with my fellow Aqua girls who don’t like Geminis. I think they are extremely funny. And I was a big fan of Gemini cutie John Edwards when he was running for Prez last fall. Then, he did what most Geminis will do - he cheated on his wife Elizabeth. Now, that might be where Aqua can’t get along with Gem. Aquarians are not the type to cheat on. We are very loyal friends, lovers and partners and a cheating partner would do us in and break our hearts. Some people can forgive that, but Aqua sees it as lying and betraying. One thing an Aquarian can’t stand is a liar or a fake.
Don’t lie to Aquarius!!!
So in that regard, I can see why Gemini isn’t a good romantic partner for us, but they make good friends. Aquarians are unconventional so in a friend, we would be very supportive of an unconventional, non-traditional lifestyle. But I don’t think we’d support a cheating romantic partner because we see it as lying.
If Aqua and his/her partner agree up front that this is not a committed relationship, it might work. Therefore, Aqua and Gem can’t get married because Gem will stray. But they can make good lovers.
I like Gemini Becky very much and if she lived near me, I’d want to be her friend. Gem/Aqua make good friends.
Romantically, I think another Aquarian or Libra is best for Aqua. Fire signs are also a good match as long as the Fire sign (Leo, Aries or Sag) isn’t too dramatic. I hate too much drama - it’s such a turn-off to me.
Check out this video for a laugh:
http://www.videojug.com/film/aquarius-a-day-in-the-life
The other signs are on the right side of the page.
All the best,
Joni (aquarian born on the same day as hottie “batman” Christian Bale and *shudder* Dick Cheney LOL!)
By the way, here’s one of my favorite Gemini
hotties, Lenny Kravitz. You can literally SEE
his duality/”the twins” in this video!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QbBwAnVeGcs
I think he did that intentionally.
And, Geminis are full of Love Love Love!
They love everyone!
That’s what makes Gemini so much fun!!
I think it’s best if they stay single though.
LOL It also depends on their moon sign
and other planets in their charts.
http://www.videojug.com/film/gemini-a-day-in-the-life
I have an aquarius friend and she seems never to have a good relationship with her mom (gemini). Gemini appears to be too controlling for Aquarius, it seems!!!
To Joni:
I have to disgree with you. I am also an Aquarius born January 25th. Saying Aquarius don’t cheat in a realtionship is BS. Everyone is capble of cheating. Just because Astrogologry says, this sign doesn’t cheat, doesn’t mean that person of that sign can’t cheat. Everyone can cheat, cheating is a choice.
I am Aquaruius that doesn’t get along with the sign Genmini, weither it be a friend or a romantic relationship. I find many Genminis to be back stabbing, immature, selfish, two-face, cheeky, aggranont, hypericality, annoying, childish people.
Little Impaler
..And I find Aquarius arrogant, egotistical, bull talking, full of their own crap, know it all who need to get a life and stop harping on about the same thing.. I have read most of your posts and all you seem to be doing is going on and on about how much you hate gemini’s and can’t stand them…get a life..move on and stop GOING ON !
Becky give this girl some of your light man….she needs it.
Im an aqua and i accualy get along really well with gemini’s, iv never been in a relationship with one but most my male friends are gemini an im always having a good laugh with them. I think female geminis can get 2 faced,Stuborn, an can carry on like a crazy person when told No. iv had a few gemini girl friends an when things wasn’t going there way you would think they was on medication!! but i find male gemini’s very easy going. The mane sign i would say i dont get along with would be male cancer’s. Some how i manage to say somthing to up set them (they dont find my sence of humer very funny) And female Scorpians, to me they come across nice (of course) but they will sting you the first chance they get. I have been brought up by my mother to NEVER TRUST A SCORPIAN
Hi all, i’m a fellow aqua girl that is born on the 26 of january. I use to be best friends with a gemini girl and i think that me and her were amazing together. I think that Gemini and Aquarius are the two most down to earth signs. Geminis are full of life just like the aquarian, they just don’t get as emotional as we do. (to me) I would get into one of my many mood swings while she remained her fun loving self. That part of me would be very annoying to her, and at times i couldn’t understand myself why i would get so angry at the stupidest things. i just can’t help it.
I wouldn’t say that i’m arrogant, but i have been told that i need to humble myself at times. WHATEVER!!! its true that we do go on and on about things though, but only if it really bothered me deeply, like deeply, i can’t let it go… but for the most part i think aquarians are sooo cool, just a lil moody and misunderstood. Sometimes i make valid points but people just love to prove an aquarian wrong… *sigh* oh well!! can’t wait to see idol next week.. lol
oh yeah!! did i mention that i am not best friends with a virgo… virgo men and aquarian women.. no no no no!!! not good!! virgo men can’t handle my independence.
But me and virgo women have a very deep connection… i can talk to them for hooooouuuurrrsssss… about anything and everything.
i meant to say “now best friends with a virgo”
i am NOW best friends with a virgo…
To Kara: I agree with you with the Gemini female, I also find the Gemini male can be same way as the Gemini female. But again I disgree too. I recently, found out that my Aunt Sheerie is a Gemini, her and I act like best friends. When she told me, I was shock, because I usually clash with this sign.
Because she is very down earth, honesty, who always know where she stands, she doesn’t lie to you, she doesn’t do that two-face thing, that the Geminis in the past that I have met do, that really annoys me. Her husband (my uncle is also an Aquarius) Her and him get along really great. I mean they both act childishly, but in a good way, where it doesn’t get annoying.
So, I have to say Becky is rigt. It works, or it doesn’t.
Hi Little Impaler
When is their bday’s your uncle and aunty? See Gemini and Aquarius can get on..but I must say that I do see it from your perspective to and you have made me see that it does depend on the person and sometimes the astrology…thanks for that!
Hiya Haz91: I haven’t seen you around for awhile, how’s it going?
My Auntie is June,15 And my uncle is January 22.
These two are two peas in pod. They get alone so well. They dated each other for 7 years, she fitted right into our family really quick. And we’re tight knit family. Like I said, she is very down to earth, nice, and she has a sense of humor, and she’s the motherly type. She is kinda like Paula Deen without the southern accent. Her and my uncle aren’t afarid to joke with each other, they pull each other legs all the time. They have that John and Yoko thing. You can see they really love each other. I hope to find someone like that for me. I want that Yoko and John love. That kind of love is hard to find, and when people that have that kind of love, it just makes me smile.
As I said, I was shocked when she told me she was a Twin. Because she doesn’t act like the Geminis I have met. But this makes me happy, that their are some Geminis I get along with. And you told me that too. LOL
Also very happy to know there’s another Aquarius on here that don’t get along with the Twins either. Now I tell myself, I didn’t somewhere take a wrong turn at Albacurtie. How ever you spell that word.
And you’re welcome.
Have a nice day.
i think aqua’s an gemini’s get along, its when the gem go’s from a really happy mood to a soar puss in an instant! is when aquarians get anoyed.
i think the best match for aqua would probbebly be libra i find that me with libras we think so much alike, like somethings i say most people dont understand but libras are always on the same page. but some libras can get sooky an i cant stand sooky. Some aquas rite near the end of aquarius i notice get teary eye’d very easy (must be the pisces coming through) but im in the midle an most of my friends say im cold harted, so yeah as far as im conserned no aqua girls wants a sooky man. so cancer would be out of the question Lol
To Kara:
I find that interested, because I get along well with cancer, and so with libera. I think what is hard for most Aquarius and this incules me. Is trying to find someone who likes you the way you are. I find it hard for me, to find a man who likes me the way I am, doesn’t ask the question “why” or where I feel they are trying to change me, because maybe the feel I change too match, or they don’t understand me, because I am “seen as being strange.”
I had friends, and the oppsite sex always question me why I did this and that, because it just drove them crazy. I would tell them. “Why, don’t you accept me for who I am. You are not going to change me. I have accpted you for who you are.” After I told them that, they keep asking me why? Or I had this man, who kept asking me why I chose to stay as virgin, unit I was married and after I told him all my reasons, he STILL asked me why.
Another good Aquarius that had a hard time having people accept who she was, would be Yoko Ono. A lot of people misunderstand that woman. But John accepted her for who she was, and understood she was creative, and was an artist, and he never question why she did anything she did. He just let her be Yoko. Where as everyone thought she was strange.
And something, and I think other Aquarius feel that way too sometimes, that world just views them as strange. We are very complex as they say we are ruled by two planets, instead of one.
as an aqua woman, born jan. 30th i have to say everything you wrote described me as if my own mother were writing it! and i have to say that us aquarian women CAN BE arrogant at times, NOT ALL OF US ALL THE TIME!!! but can be. hate how you got so much crap for that!!! but leave it to an aquarian to prove your “punctuation” right lol. i would like to add that aquarians can be some of the greates ppl you’ll ever meet and the most loyal friends, but do them wrong and they will never forget, forgive yes but not forget. aquarians are amazing in every way.. one is lucky to ever have had a relationship with such incredible individuals..
That forgive but not forget is so true, my best mate has done some things that were real slap in the mouth meterial an i always forgave her but i will never forget!.An i can never get people back for doing meen things,i plan too but somehow i cant go as low as some people do i dont know weather thats an aquarius thing or not.We aquarians are very loyal friends an we wouldn’t talk about people behind there back unless we wanted that person to know what we think..
Nisha:
What you said about aqua girls an virgo men is so bloody true my last serious relation ship was with a virgo an he defenantly cauld not handle my inderpendece. When i started doing things for my self an working more he started carryin on stupid thats why i left him. He wanted someone he cauld cantrol an trying that on an aquarius woman is not the way to go…
I’m 24yrs old aquarius guy and I believe that its true what’s said about aquarius men and women. Aquarius men tend not to show much feelings but they have a lot of it deep in their heart.
Its my 3rd time that I’ve been in relationship with aquarius lady after 4 years, this time both of us being 16th of feb. Anyway i had lots feelings for her, she did like me too but I guess she didn’t have strong feelings for me as much as I had for her… anyway we lasted only 28 days cause she said she’s not yet over her x-boyfriend she was in relationship with 4 months ago. I was truly hurt but I guess its life we have to move on…..
Not all aquarius men move on to next relationship easily, it does take time….
Aly:
Your comment up the top, i felt like you was talking about me!! you are very right not one comment i cauld disagree with….
to LittleImpaler
Well you have expressed your opinion to the scorpion fellow. How do you know the person himself was not a fraud. I have been with a scorpion guy who cheated on me from the very starting of the relationship. Hey he on bugging me for two years after my break up. He used me from every angle. I want to ask this scorpion fellow how much he had been true to himself. Was he loyal with his girl. I am not a emotional fool
that i would be with a guy who is womanizer. Please never.
If i had to be with somebody better than him obviously I will be. I am not a fool wasting my precious time on such bastards. After leaving and getting departed from his company, I am doing well enough I am journalist working for times of India and rising in my career. I think Aqua women can be independent and no men is required for their help because they can help themselves.
Yes if I have to sleep with somebody i will definitely need to fall in love with that person. No men can touch me or touch my soul without being my close mate. Sleeping with aguy is not bad but with the right person. So, please donot criticize in this way.
You can fall in love so many times. Yes again and again. Every man needs a company. No man on this earth can stay alone. Trust and loyalty will only happen with time and bonding
She was not a whore at all. If a man is not giving his 100 per cent to the relationship definitely to the woman she will start looking elsewhere thats a human tendency.
got it!!!!!!!!!! am i clear now to everybody
Hello all, interesting reading here, and to all the aquarian ladies here my best wishes to you. My girlfriend is aquarian, she is the most gorgeous woman I have known, personality & her looks, the eyes are to die for anyway where was I…ah yes!!. Some of the statements made here do not apply to her charector. I would not say she was arrogant far from it in fact, she can have moments of mood change but dont we all. Her bright charector is like a ray of sunshine, and although she is independant, which I strongly support, so am I. I see nothing but positive about her, and can only agree with part of the description, I can only guess not all Aquarians are the same. I am a Leo but not a typical one, I dont seek attaention in fact when I read the Leo description, I would not like him! My aquarian lady and I get on like a house on fire, and I love her to bit so there!! Have fun all in life…….
Hi Becky
Would firstly like to start of by saying this is really a great Site!!
I am however curious. I cant find any posts regarding Aquarius women and Pisces male relationships.
Does this mean it is a really bad combination and never works??
I used to date aquarius women. And I agree they do detach themselves easily. She did appear very needy. Is this commom for Aqaurius females??
She has however made contact with me now and seems to regret her decision. But am I confusing this with friendship or do I stand a chance to re-concile as she left me. I know that it is easy for Aquarius to remain friends.
I am willing to compromise alot as I realise that this is probably the only chance I have to make it work. Is there a chance for this signs to love each other and be together? I really love her.
To Pisces Guy:
You shouldn’t believe everything about what astrologys says. If you like the girl, give it a chance. How do you know if the relationship isn’t going to work, if you don’t go for it. Not all Aquarius women act the same, nor does Pisces men, or anyone of any star sign.
If it works, it will work, if it doesn’t, well, it doesn’t. What do you have to lose, in all and all it will be a learning experices.
If you want a relationship to work, you need to find out if the person wants the same thing as you.
2. Can you handel each other differences?
3. Do you commucate well?
4. Do you work well together. There so many things in making relationship work. Having ANY kind of relationship, there must be time and effort. You must love them enough, where you love them when they are stupid, love their falses and so on.
I say go for it, and don’t worry if these two signs are capatiable or not. If you worry about things that don’t need to be worried about, it stops you from living life.
Hi LittleImpaler
Thanks for your comment!
I really puts things in a new perpective and I will give it a try.
Thanks I have nothing to lose and the only way to find out is by giving it a shot and opens communication.
Thank you!!
Later
To Pisces Guy:
You’re welcome, and best of luck.
Hi!
Well…To me, Pisces Male and Aquarius Female is one of the most interesting relationship of the zodiac. It is full of ups and downs yet interestingly the mutual attraction (in any relationship) never fades with time. Taking previous posts, I agree with LittleImpaler on these (i) never, never, and never believe what the astrology says will be true always, and (ii) Don’t worry about the compatibility and don’t get too worried about it, otherwise, the fun of your life will be over.
In my opinion, if both Pisces Male and Aquarius Female have shared goals (not all of them), they accept each other’s differences of personalities and idiosyncrasies, learn to communicate well, and compromise to a certain extent (not too stuborn always) giving space to each other, there is a likely chance that this relationship can work even for a life (Not always as lovers but as good friends who respect each other for what they are).
My experience with aqua woman, the relationship of friendship at least never ends unless you want to put an end to it. The communication never stops and so is regards/respect for each other as friends even once you had a liking for each other.
Aquarius women though appear hard and detached from outside (they are strong willed) but from inside they are sensitive as well and get easily hurt. Never judge a book by its cover.
Peace
Aly, the water-OX
To Aly:
I agree with you 110%, everything you said, is true for any relationship to work out. Not just between two certain signs. Relationships are work and effort, balance, learning to give and take, and so on.
By the way, how did you manage to get your picture to show up? I did everything it told me to do, and my picture hadn’t shown up.
The fish need water-bearer, the water-bearer needs fish. Hehehe….Its mutual. Provided the fish doesn’t want to live in confined waters and go for the seas and oceans and the water-bearer prefer to live without fish.
Its not my picture though….LOL. It’s the OX that is within me (stubborn, strong, quiet and ruthless yet eloquent, kind, caring and loving. I can only say badluck with gravatar. Try again.
Lol I dont think we are arrogant more stubborn Know-it alls, But I like it =D, I am full of pointless (but interesting facts) That I love telling people. (Poor them) I really do try not to drone on!!
I have a lot of Pisces Influence though so I`m not 100 percent Aqaurius But hey!! Who is?!!
I can deffo. Upset peole with what I say as I`m too honest (I dont do it on purpose) But then I feel so very bad for it after. I dont dress really wiered Like youre page describes though, On the outside I look quite normal-ish.
One thing i will agree with is that I`m wiered, Aquariuses are wiered with very dry (sarcastic) Funny sense of humours!
I have; Influence of Saturn and Pluto
my moon is in Pisces
Mecury in Aqaurius
Venus in Pisces
Its a tough Life *sighs* Really hard mix to be honest but life is never dull!
OOOOh and before I forget
HAPPY BIRTHDAY AQUARIUS`S!! =D
Hi all,
I am capricorn, and i just read through your comments, and decided to write something based on my own experience, i have met aqua women many years ago, and we seemed to really like each other a lot, after sometime the relationship ended………and the nightmare started, i felt guilty for my part of hurting her,and tried to reconsile, when she moved to london as i was devastated, she never replied - and yet over the years i receive silent calls from her. At first i thought it was geniune calls, that she missed me……
I am also from another country, and wrote to her that after our break up, want to create new memories, and thats why i stayed in the town. No reply, and yet the calls continued……to stop it all i wrote the last letter , where i for the last time explained that i loved her, and if she is just playing my head she should stop, or other wise meet me up( she was coming back now and then because of work) she never replied, but month after the letter , i heard she moved back into the town,…..and those calls( check up..or whatever) continued.
Even though she moved, i haven’t met her, and decided enough is enough..and started relationship with someone else.on one party got very drunk, and txt her - instead of my g/f, the next thing within a week she rang me being totally furious with me, and than someone rang and said if ill ever contact her , she will contact the police…………time passed by…..and again those silent calls, wrong numbers and so on……and i know it is her……..is this typical aqua womem……..and why is she doing this, u might think, it is someone else, but i know it is her…i have moved on, and yet find those calls so strange……
Hi all, i forgot to say i am capri woman, and totally fed up with aqua tirany…….
Dear Becky, evrything you wrote about aqua, is so true, but why is she doing all this to me, yes i rejected her in the past….and was truly sorry, but her silent tirany is another face of aqua woman. Control over other persons feelings, life - when they want to get NASTY - they are NASTY. I know she is dating someone….and living in this town now too. I don’t know wether i will see her or not…but everything she put me through made me sick. what do u think??? Hope to hear from you
Rainbow..
I am aqua too. And i think u have some misunderstanding with those calls. I think when an aqua is done with someone, he or she is REALLY done with them. They wouldnt go this sick rout of giving silent calls to someone just to trouble them. WHY…? Because its not worth our time. And like you said she is dating someone else, it shows that she has moved on. So why u think she would do that? And what makes you so sure that those calls came from her and not someone else. Why dont you ask her straightway about those calls?
I dont mean to annoy you but that isn’t normal aqua behaviour.
Becky;
I thought the article was dead on and amazingly accurate…an aquarius woman has a certain style and flair that is just natural for her. I have often been told that I am a “different” type of woman, and I have felt it even as a small girl. As an aquarius woman I can definately agree with your point that when I feel unappreciated or doubted by those around me I can indeed become extremely arrogant! It is not in my nature to be arrogant always, but just when I feel it neccesary to assert myself. So you were right! Lol. Wonderful description, and have fun raising your unconventional aquarian princess in training! We are a handful, just be sure to answer all of her questions and devote time to nuturing the young intellectual.
As if I were reading my own bio…LOL.
ok, i didn’t get very far into these comments, because been an aquarian girl, i get offended by people that are misdirected and assualt others for no reason, if i have missed something, in those other 130 messages then i apologise, i was just going to comment on your quite spot on explanation of an aquarian woman, keeping in mind (as you said down the bottom of the article) that people have different ascendants, moon signs, north node signs, etc. so it can’t be 100% accurate, but it can be damn close! and i think you did it marvelously Becky =) so some people, for example, Grace, your views on sexism, are quite hostile, and arrogance my friend is definately part of an aquarian trait, whether you put it into confidence or no, what confident girl isn’t arrogant? I myself, am not too confident, but i am arrogant ,but then again i can also be shy and conservative, so dependance on mood, time and place, it can all be very all over the place. especially for a woman.
I just read up a couple more,
Rainbow, don’t be hurt by your aquarius woman, she only does it (from my own experience also) because she misses you, but she is too arrogant to admit that she does. The silent calls are because she wants to talk, but she can’t pucker up the courage or she feels embarassed. With the letters, sometimes we can get influenced easily, so it might not be her that was making the decisions about the police. We may be annoying, but we never intend to hurt people.. unless we REALLY don’t like them =)
Elizabeth.
wow this is true i am a leo and my fiance is an aquarius what are some things i can do to understand her the best i love her alot.
i am only 12 but it describes me perfectly and im awesomely arrogant (in a good way) GO AQUARIUS WOMEN ROCK ON!!!
thanks 4 the article Becky
Just want to say I love all you ladies. I am an acquarian man I recenctly realized how compatible I am with Aquarian women. I’m never dissatisfies and always well. Here’s to you all.
DL
i was totally the man in my relationship and i wouldn’t take any of his crap either haha
a lot of this is true. i know i have it in me to do great things, i just need to push myself to do it.
AND i do dress oddly, but not bohemian. i don’t like that look really, only on occasion like when it;s really HOT. i hate heat.
oh and Capricorn and Aquarius aren’t the best match from what I’ve read
best for Aquarius is Libra, Gemini, Sagittarius and i think Aries.
Becky
I love you both.
You’re article was right on!!!! I LMAO the whole time, it was great!! I understand the deal between you and Grace, ( ehh hmmm, I’m objective
You were right about the way I dress,( you were right about everything) LAMO I look like a rainbow threw up on me and I love it!!
I love, love ,love. I have studied my “negitive” traits and I am so grateful to say I have worked through them ( most of them anyway, like watching “how” I say something,I know I am too blunt lol, not at all tactfull, but I am working on it and all my bff’s ( all Sags) help me out because I asked them too )
My unsoliceted advise to my Aquarius sisters is BE YOU, you do love deeply but try to let alittle love in for your own sweet heart, receive it and yu will be amazed, it’s hard , I know, but give yourself that gift!! You are beautiful, unquine and have a loyal , loving heart that encompasses the whole Universe Aquarius!!! Rejoice and shine sisters, BE YOU, BE FREE and change the world with me, we can do it, it is our job. Find your passion and run with it Aquarius!!!
A quick note on what Aly ( I beleive that was his/her name)…. Yes .I have plenty of men, friends/lovers/workers etc.
but I don’t use them, I love them all, they know their relationship with me. It is rewarding for both parties.
Namaste’ Becky and Aquarius
PEACE
I’m an Aquarian guy and I must say that the Aquarian women look hot and good and they do tend to be quite funny even to my own sign nature their hilarious though I like the fact that they have independence and don’t need a guy for everything.
WOOOOOOOO!! Aquarian women!!
I’m an Aquarius and I agree with most of the article. The author DID say that this was a general deliberation of an Aquarius so no one should be angered by anything that she said that didn’t apply to them. It makes no sense to argue about it after she said that it’s a general description. In the end everyone shapes their own personalities not Astrology. It’s just something interesting to read about. Becky I think that you did a great job with this article. In reality I am bluntly honest and I know that it can seem tactless but I just see it as humans liking for people to sugar coat things instead of telling the full truth. I can also appear arrogant too because I hate losing arguments and I will say that I’m right even though I know that I’m wrong. I’ve worked alot on this though. It’s not really arrogance. I just don’t like to lose…at ANYTHING. I do however have a soft side when it comes to my friends and animals. I am extremely social and nice overall and I tend to draw positive attention towards myself.
Im an aquarius girl and I do find that most of these characteristics apply to me. I dont really find it hard to make friends but I have the hardest time making friends with other females. I just cant for some reason. For the most part I have mainly male friends. I do have two female friends that I consider bffs that I’ve know since junior high and high school. One is an aquarius and the other leo. And after I took a look at what majority of my friends are they mostly are aquarius with a scattering of leos and Sagittarius. I cant seem to keep friends for long if they are not of those 3 zodiacs. I either forget about them or they get mad at me for some strange reason and becomes silent around me(Tarus).
I try my best to act normal but it never works out. Either I come off as aloof when I try to appear normal or like a crazy person when I open my mouth. People always makes comments that Im weird, odd and different even when I try to act normal. I even hear this from fellow aquarians.
My boy friend is an aquarian. He is one of my best friends. He doesn’t always fit the mold of the aquarius person. I find that he is sometimes clingy and a little jealous at times. I’ve been with him going 3 years and he still complains that Im not emotional enough and that Im too secretive. I dont understand how I come across as that to him at times, but oh well.
For the person who complained that her aquarius friend used her as a dumping ground dont take it so negatively. I think she felt that you were a friend that she could actually open up to. I know that I would never go on and on about my complaints to someone I knew if I didn’t consider them a really good friend. Now I might tell a stranger because who cares what that person thinks.
I never really wanted to believe the zodiac stuff but as I get older I find it to be so true.
i agree with Dany above me. Becky if it’s possible for you to answer this question. is it common for aqurian woman to make majority of freinds with males rather than females?
i find it so difficult to make freinds with girls. girls think i way too, too much of everything i guess.
i understand the friend situation. i had trouble with female friends for all my life. they came and went because i just picked the wrong ones. from them backstabbing me to misunderstandings to the kind of friends that really don’t give a damn.
so i’ve had an insane amount of male friends but those didn’t last either. mostly because i wanted more than a friendship with a few of them but anywho. i lost most of those friends because of my last relationship. i felt that i was being judged for having male friends by my ex. i know, stupid. in the end though i’ve enjoyed most friendships with males only because they understood me for some reason and i can be somewhat of a guy sometimes. i have 2 close female friends and the others are just whatever to me. i have one close male friend and another that i think is too strange for me.
overall, for me as a female aquarius, i have a huge difficulty in finding true friends. i’m struggling most with it right now and it’s quite heartbreaking. i don’t know if i’ll ever have the kind of friends that i’ve been searching for.
i appolagise to anyone born on the 16-17-18 jan as my comment did look a bit wrong to say, Grace your feb the ninth, i actually don’t get on with Feb Aquarius’, they do tend to get on my nurves, I have an aunt who drives me mad, and everytime she leaves my company, i always question if she really is a fellow Aquariun…lol
Becky
What sign are you, I would love to have a Jan born aquar daughter, we’de be best palls, but instead i’m going to have a virgo daughter instead, but I’m hoping if i can keep my legs crossed (for once) till september I’ll give birth to a libran girl, coz I can’t stand virgo, how will me an my virgo daughter get on can you pls tell me……Xx
Sorry for the 3rd time i meant 16-17-18 Feb. I’m having one ov those dayz…… :-0(
This is for Becky, I have just recently read the information on your sight. I enjoy it fully! Upon reading the comments on the Aquarian Women post, I was moved to respond. I enjoyed the post and found that it describes me, an Aquarian women, very well. Regarding the arrogance in us, I will say that it does exist and also that it is misconstrude by many. When I am arrogant it is because I do not see how another person cannot “get” the situation in the manner that I can see so clearly. This is when I need grounding and most of all I need to call on the gret love that I have for my fellow human beings.I have found peace and love to be more important than being right. This is a a true aquarian at work!!
Hi! Just wanted to say - about the arrogant thing - It’s true! Im an Aquarian and I’ve heard from most of my friends that I am arrogant!! LOL! I am, and I know it, but it doesn’t bother me as much as it bothers my friends hehe!! But they love me anyway!! Tanx Becky!! Loooove your site!
I just found out Paris Hilton is an aquarius. And shes the most arrogant thing I’ve ever seen. SO enough said about the arrogant thing. That wraps it up
woah! that’s is so true.! My friends really like to spend time with me! they say Im really really fun to be with.. I make a LOT of friends :D.. WELL about how I dress, I can say I dress differently!really..:) I’m not into “what’s new, hot fashion that’s in now”. I tend to dress my own way. hihi. and yeah, I love the environment and animals! I promised myself once if I’d have plenty of nomey, I’d donate some of it to the animal carers
I thought the article was funny! And all of the people getting mad about us Aquarian women being arrogant was just hysterical! I am an Aquarius female, and I will admit I’m arrogant sometimes but most of the time I am not. It is funny when I brag about winning something because I am really just trying to protect my ego. When I lose I try not to act like a sore loser.
I’ve always wanted to play guitar but I suck! Instead my creativeness goes towards writing and I’m actually a psychology major.
I don’t consider myself “bohemian” as much as I do a “whatever” dresser. I wear what’s clean and generally I have a nice wardrobe with off brand labels that look good on me. Although, I have a thing for designer sunglasses! Even though I only own one pair.
The one thing that I would like to point out, is that I am extremely involved in my relationships. I am very loving and thoughtful. The only times I become aloof really is when I am bored or the passion has faded. If someone can keep me on my toes and have meaningful discussions with me, I will be less likely to be “cold” and more likely to treat you like a king or queen!
Hahahaa oh maan this article was bang on. Everything you said- it is exact. As for the way I dress, yeah it’s bohemian or whatever because I only go to thrift stores. Malls and trends and fashion really piss me off. I do dress very weird but I wouldn’t buy clothes from a store that intentionally markets weird clothing, because that defeats the whole purpose and it annoys me.
Aquarians are one of the most vain signs in the entire zodiac. I know this as a FACT. We just don’t let people know this, or don’t want to admit it, but it’s there. Deep, hidden. Then once in a while it’ll reveal itself, but I think most Aquarians are full on aware of the way they present themselves, and are careful about it.
I am personally always preoccupied with ideas and creating stuff, whether it’s art, music, or satires. That means I’m too busy to look after people, and a relationship would feel too smothering because I know I’d let the person down. Oh, how I’ve learned that. xD
Aquarius women can LOVE, yeah- sure, they are capable, totally. The question is, will you feel their love? I ‘unno, maybe. Or maybe you need to find yourself a freaking Scorpio. Aquarians can get obsessive with lots of ideas and subjects and fantasies, but rarely other physical humans. They got too much on the mind. A Scorpio would make a nice obsessive partner. (No harm intended to Scorpios here, I think they’re great lmao)
I question my sexuality because I am so feminine yet so masculin personality-wise. xD On the bright side, one of my cats is attracted to me. I think we’d be compatible because all she does is sleep.
Also, people find my humor a little dry, so I don’t often use it unless I know the person will get that I’m joking and not think I’m a sick, horrible person who hates children. So consequently, I appear very well-mannered and soft-hearted to the world. Isn’t that scary?
“They can also be arrogant, and can easily cut you like a knife with their words if they so chose.”
I don’t know why you people wanna make a big deal out of this whole arrogance thing because it is so true. So what if we’re arrogant…i’m proud to be an Aquarian and no one is perfect
We can’t expect people to say nice things about us all the time.
But Becky i think you missed out one important thing…Most Aquarians are very sensitive…i think that’s why you’ve been ‘attacked’ by us LOL…but I love whatever you’ve written about Aquarians. Thank you for taking your time observing our characteristics =)
CatNotForSale
LMAO that too me just defined aquarius women hahaha
“On the bright side, one of my cats is attracted to me. I think we’d be compatible because all she does is sleep”
Catnotforsale do you know what your sign in Moon, Venus or rising sign?
it also has a big influence on your personality and such
To Kara, I disagree with the Aquas don’t want sooky. I was born 2-2-74 and I am a woman who is madly in luv with EMINEM. I just feel soo sorry for him because he has been sooo mistreated by his mom and ex-wife Kim. I plan on moving to Detroit,befriending him and slowly being his new ladylove. I have great plans from my Aqua mind for him. He’s not crazy. He just needs love. Love heals all wounds. To LitttleImpaler, KUDOS about Yoko Ono. I admire her. She was the perfect definition of an Aquawife. I want to be just like her when I get EMINEM or any other LIBRA for that matter.
Isaac
Haha thanks, xD glad to be a blundering archetype for the true aquarian woman, which everyone should avoid. lmao
Maaan I looked it up, my rising sign is Gemini, Venus in Aquarius and Moon sign is Taurus… I guess that’s pretty self-explanatory? lol
I really enjoyed reading your article; it had a lot of very accurate points. As to the subject of a few comments… I really don’t mind admitting that I can be quite arrogant, maybe not outwardly but inside I’m usually gloating ^_^. As for depression? I agree that it depends on the other aspects of a person’s chart. I personally don’t put up with it. If I’m feeling down, I do something about it. Moping gets you no where. I really like to think I’m pretty quirky too, and I’m proud of it.
You’re daughter will most definitely keep you life bright and exciting. Good luck!
WOW!! You are soo right on about Aquarius women! I’am an aquarius women and you hit all the right spots about me! Truly Amazing!
Hey Becky
I am an aquarian women and I am dating an Pisces man…We have just started dating and Im wondering what should I expect?…Im noticing that everyone is saying the Pisces are the clingy ones but I almost feel like Im the one taking on that role. I dont feel like he pays me enough attention.. We have great sex we have great conversation when he has time ….I just want to know if Im just going to keep walking into this same wall!…lol Im not great with expressing my feelings without saying something I probably should have kept to myself…(sucks) Or my problem is not saying anything and it continues to rise..
Signed CONFUSED,WORRIED and IN LOVE…lol
Erika,
I was in a relationship with a pisces. I don’t really know what to tell you. All i can say is don’t play little stupid games us aquarians tend to play. They are very sensitive, I made a joke that i was goin to get married and did just to see what his reaction would be. Omg since then the guy was deeply hurt, according to him I made him cry and honestly i had no idea how much he liked me. Well since then, he just did not trust me and did not see me the same. I don’t know if you will get the freedom to be the free spirited person you are. You should send me your bday info and his and probably i can help with the little i know. either way Good Luck you will need it! I wish I could tell you everything that i went thru with this guy so you would have a better idea of what you’re getting yourself into.