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The Pisces Man
The Pisces man is the dreamiest man alive! These men are highly spiritual in one way or another and can also be quite eccentric. I think that most women find it rather easy to fall for a Pisces male as they are highly perceptive, intuitive and even psychic, and let’s face it us girls love all that. Especially as we have a natural intuition that seem’s to have bypassed most men. So finding such a man is quite refreshing, and a little spooky too it has to be said! In a relationship you couldn’t find a more gentle lover. The Pisces man will know how to touch you and make you feel like your floating on a cloud. Sex plays an important role in this man’s relationship too. They are always bonded spiritually to their partner and every time he makes love the bond get’s stronger. Eroticism is a part of the Pisces mans personality and therefore fantasies and love making is a way for him to express himself fully. I have had one relationship with a Pisces male. And for me (being a Gemini girl), it wasn’t too great. I think it was the mood swings. The over sensitivity, and random depression that I couldn’t cope with. Obviously someone more compatible would be able to deal with these things and possibly love him for them. But they drove me insane! Mainly as I didn’t quite know what was going on in his head most of the time. It was quite nice that we both cried at sad bits in films though!! Don’t get me wrong, I know having a sensitive man is what a lot of women dream of, and for the Scorpio’s and Capricorn’s out there he will be fantastic. Just not perhaps the Gemini girls. (Or indeed boy’s). And it is nice to be able to have someone who you can sit with and talk with for hours about your inner most feelings. A lot of men you can’t, this one you can and for that reason alone he is great. Being a very feminine sign can cause some issues with these men. They are feminine in the way that they can express emotion and their power to feel and be intuitive, but a lot of them are quite masculine as well, on the outside. But I feel you can tell a Pisces man because of this feminine streak. You certainly won’t find many, if any of them, at a football match with a can of lager in one hand and a clenched fist in the other waiting for a fight to start. Or on a builders site wearing a hard hat and covered in dirt. No, these men are a not at all like that. In fact a lot of Pisces don’t really like being a Pisces. I don’t think it is easy being a man who is so very sensitive and emotional. Perhaps it is a little easier nowadays than it would have been in the past, but still men are supposed to act like ‘men’. Whatever that means. This is where the depression can come from and angst. They are trying to run away from themselves. Due to this weaker side in say half the Pisces men, they tend to go for women who are much stronger than themselves. And this will only lead to disappointment in the end. What this man needs is a soul mate, someone who he can become united with both physically and mentally. I don’t think it is always so easy for the Pisces man, this world can be cruel and full of people that will lead you on only to drown you in dissapointment. For anyone out their who is with one of these dreamy men, let me know what your experience has been like, I’d be very interested to know!
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August 14th, 2008 at 9:52 am
Hi,
It’s true that Pisces are very caring and loving. But only with good people he find. Otherwise, they become very rude and can do anything to get rid of dislikes. Don’t even bother to sacrifice anything.
Tanveer
August 15th, 2008 at 1:51 pm
can anyone help me!
August 15th, 2008 at 5:54 pm
Hey.
Im very confused.
Ive met a pisces male (26), and I think im falling in love. Its very unlike me to fall so quickly, weve been dating just shy of 3 months.
Before we dated we chatted extensively for hours phone calls, msn etc.. to say there was always a connection frm the beg, sounds cheesy but its true. On our first date something just clicked, there were so many little conincidences, he could finish my sentence, or wed say the same thing at the same time. He held my hand, we kissed for the whole date, this date was 13 hours, it was like we knew each other all our lives..
He texts me every day, we talk every day, sometimes twice 3 times a day. The dates have got better and better, in the first two months alone, we spent long weeekends together, round each others houses, which i guess was quite heavy but he wanted it and so did i.
We talked about the future, going on holiday together, he took me to meet his friends, his brother, and his father. I never asked where we were, i just wanted to go with it. I guess we resumed a sort of boyfriend girlfriend relationship, but i didnt want to appear needy or ask where we were going, i wanted to leave it up to him.
Then at the 3 month mark i spent last friday-sunday with him at his house. it was lovely. something changed, he held my hand in the car and looked at me, and i saw in his eyes this look of pure adoration.
Anyway this week, somethng changed. He text me and said sweetheart i cant go on holiday with you, wed arranged a few days away.. then he said something wasnt right and we needed to talk.
So i asked him was he ok, and he sounded pankcy anxious, said what was happening with us, we were acting like boyfriend and girlfriend, and he thinks im perfect, never met anyone like me before he wants a good lady like me in his life, but somethings niggling at him, he feels sad, but he doesnt know why.
I kept asking what it was, was it me? He said it wasnt me, im the best thing in his life, but he said he wants to be friends first. He says he wants to see me as often, spend weekends together, sleep together, just see each other, basically the same as we were, but he seems so scared abou t a label! I said i didnt care about a label, i never pressured him in to a bf/gf type relationship, he said he knew that, id been cool, it was just him.
He said hed never been away on holiday with a girl before, and he hinted in the past that when he has something good, he has the tendency to f*** it up. I reminded him of that, he was quiet. we spoke for two three hours, i got upset, i was frustrated and confused, i hated the label he was putting on us. I cried on the phone, he felt bad, i said i couldnt help that there was something wrong with me, i was taking it personally.. he kept saying it wasnt me..
Anyway, since then hes been caling me, texting me, he wants to spend next weekend together, but i feel anxious. I dont know why that call had to happen. I still feel like there are unanswered questions, i spoke to him today and said im too anxious now, and up and down, and perhaps we should just leave things, so i wont be hurt. He replied and said “no no, i miss you, i really like you, i just dont know how. Plse dont do this, and stop overthinking things”
So we are back to this friends thing, whatever that is.
P.s im a libra girl, (28) I think hes going to break my heart. I feel more for him than ive ever felt for anyone.
I just dont know what to do or how to act anymore.
any advice would be appreciated.
August 16th, 2008 at 11:26 pm
what’s the deal with libra women falling for pisces man??? They mess up our head!!!
August 18th, 2008 at 2:40 pm
Hi,
I have been with a Pisces man for over 13 months and he has become very distant with me.
Another point is that I’m 10 years older than him. He’s 20 and I’m 30 years old.
I met him when he was 19 and I was completely shocked to learn his age because he was probably one of the most maturest men I have ever met. He was deep, intuitive, and reflective along with communicative and funny.
But when I learned his age, I immediately said that we could only be friends.
I’ve dated only older men in my past, usually 10 years older and the thought of dating a younger guy was unheard of. I guess that’s why I was quick to reject him, just because of the age difference.
But he kept on persisting to meet with me as friends and I reciprocated. Each time I saw him, I grew more fond of him. I liked him for he was and the age difference started not to make a difference to me.
Finally after five months of becoming friends and hanging out, we got intimate with kissing.
And he wasn’t after sex, I wanted it and he didn’t want to because his reasons were that “he didn’t want thing to change with us.”
Was this really possible to meet a younger guy whose main objective wasn’t to have sex right away?
But I respected it and we continued to date each other regularly.
But like what the statement says that you wrote, “they are emotional, sensitive, and imaginative.”
He is the purest Pisces man…and I also read what another woman wrote about how her pisces husband rather go out with his friends and drink beer. My pisces man is like this, his friends are more important then being with me.
He lives in his own world and I told him before that I read about pisces man online and how they live in their own worlds, and he confirmed that it was true.
He is unmotivated, running from the world, and is sensitive to anyone’s comments towards him.
I’ve tried my best to excude my confidence on him and it’s worked alright.
I’m a Cancer woman and apparently Pisces is my match..we’re both dreamy, imaginative, intuitive, emotional, sensitive….
But lately, when real life situations comes into play: getting a job, finding work, helping me move to a new flat…he seems to disappear.
On August 1, 2008 I moved to a new flat and he agreed to help me but we got into a small argument before my move because I was a little stressed and he was saying he was sick with a pain in my back, I got angry at him for breaking his obligations with me.
I started to feel the imbalance and distance when I moved to my new flat because now he was no longer wanting to visit me, I had to initiate everything.
Then on August 10, 2008 I met him at the Red Bull Airplane show and when we were talking about our relationship, he blurted out that “he wasn’t my boyfriend.” I got really mad at that and was angry for the rest of the day.
Then last week on Friday, August 15, 2008 he got a temporary job cleaning houses and public places and he was tired. I met him for a beer and invited him to my place for dinner, he said “no” because he had another job assignment to go to. So I opted for Saturday evening and he said “yes.”
On Saturday, August 16, 2008 afternoon, I had a feeling I should’ve called him to confirm our dinner plans before I went out to the market to buy the food. And when I called him he was moody and said “I don’t feel like eating.”
That upset me even more. I just freaked out on him. I told him that “yesterday you agreed you would come to my apartment for dinner, and now you’re saying no because you don’t want to eat?”
And he kept patronizing me saying “Why are you forcing me to eat, when I don’t want to eat?”
And I started crying and said “You’re missing the point, it’s not about the food, it’s about the obligtion. You agreed with me and now you’re saying “No?”
And he said “I said that yesterday because I was tired from work.”
Then his story went to “We’re only friends.”
And I said, “So if you are my friend, why would you hurt me like this?” And he just couldn’t get why I was hurt and crying.
I was upset and yelling things at him saying that I’ve felt this imbalance between us and I’ve felt like he has been pushing me away.
He then just said “it’s the 10 years.”
And I asked him “What?” and he said “It’s the 10 years between us.”
That made me angrier and all my trust was thrown out the window?
Why now would he bring up the age difference? After 13 months of dating each other. He introduced me to his family and I even went out with them a second time to meet his Grandfather.
I think he’s using the 10 year age difference to run away from his responsibilities with having a relationship. He’s just too young to commit and like what it states here, he is running away from himself. He suffers from lack of motivation, depression, and anger.
I am just really hurt that he would say that to me, after I’ve learned to not care about his age by giving him a chance.
We haven’t spoken since this conversation and I assume that it is over.
What should I do?
Thanks for reading this long passage.
Hazel L
August 18th, 2008 at 2:47 pm
To Carolina,
I read what you wrote, I had the same deal happen this past weekend to me with my pisces man. The label thing….It caught my eye, b/c my pisces boyfriend is afraid of the same thing. And like you, I never put pressure on him about it. I’m 30 years old, I have been through 3 major relationships in my life, one that was almost 7 years on and off and one that I was going to marry but didn’t, because I didn’t love him anymore, and the third a serious relationship that lasted 2 years.
So now, i’m totally over labels. It’s what you have with each other that is important to me.
So this label thing..I think these men are just afraid of committment and totally letting themselves go.
I’m sorry you feel this way, I too was upset and crying on the phone when this happened on Saturday, August 16, 2008 and he said the same thing too “I like you, I really do.”
And for the past few days, we haven’t spoken.
And I too don’t know what to do anymore as well.
Hope you read this, just hang in there. I’m trying too as well.
August 18th, 2008 at 5:41 pm
hey Hazel i read your post, and just wanted to say i empathise.. although your relationship has been longer, so it must be much much harder..
I related to the points of depression, short temper, and lack of motivation.
he gets like this, but more with situations not me, he says i make him feel better, and comes to me for a hug when hes stressed with the weather, or on the road with other drivers lol
as quick is he gets in a strop hes out of it, but sometimes i wonder when we wake up if hell be happy, or in a mood..
He has these ideas, and i love his story telling, i could listen for hours, but every day its another idea or dream and although its wonderful he has these dreams, its all quite fickle really but he accepts that and oh how we laugh!
my pisces has slowed down with contact since “we are friends comment 6 days ago.. but hes still in contact every day, and he calls me every other day. this morning he woke up and called me very early which suggests he is constantly thinking about me.
We are seeing each other this weekend, which im so looking fwd to, but i invisage the same.. perhaps in the future, ill see he will let me down with dates etc.. im very intuitive. I dont want it to get to that stage.
Im riding it through because i think he needs time, and wants to grow and get to know me more, but i know i could be in for a big dissapointment. I dont think this man wants to let go, even when ive given him the oppurtunity he freaks out and says he must keep seeing me.. I think they can carry on for ages with no label, and they are content this way.
I will disagree on one point. He has friends, but hes bored of them. They dont go out, they sit round each others houses play computer games, go down the river etc.. he says hes bored of all that, and wants to spend time with a lady. I know that the choice came between spending time with his friends and me at the weekend, hed always choose me..
But i identify with so much, the freaking out bit etc..
i dont know what to say, the only thing ive brought from this, is when i chill out and accept it, hes must more forthcoming. Also sounds silly, but speaking to these guys in a softly spoken reassuring way seems to really help them- kind of like mothering them.
Ive never shouted at my pisces man, was too upset, but i was rational and very soft with him and he seemed to respond very well to this..
I cannot give any advice, coz im stuck and baffled too. But all i would say is talk it over, try not to ask too many questions and be calm and reassuring and pull back a bit, and i think he will come back.. I dont think these men ever dissapear for good, i think they swim a way for while..
Good luck.
August 18th, 2008 at 10:35 pm
I am a gemini woman and I have dated 2 pisces men.
The first pisces most obvious trait was his arrogance. He was so arrogant, that it came off as plain egotistical and rude to my friends and most people who had random run ins with him. I suspect he was over compensating for his insecurities but man was he good at pissing people off!
The second pisces male was the sensitive, quiet, gentle type. At first, this man was SO into me and than he just started to retreat. Not sure why, especially as we didn’t date that long(6 weeks) and everytime we were together, it was a wonderful time. Now, when I say retreat, I don’t mean he specifically tried to avoid me but he stopped taking initiatives, and replying to my emails.
What I mean is, he seemed more than anxious, excited and pleased to see me but I had to initiate everything. He never “stood me up”, for example but just never took any steps, like dropping notes to say “hi” or “will I see you soon?” etc..
Anyway, I decided that I didn’t have the energy to be with him and, as you can imagine, it has been and easy end to bring about. All I had to do was never call/email again! Lol…
I hope that doesn’t sound mean but there’s no point in an actual confrontation with someone who just isn’t there.
August 19th, 2008 at 2:14 pm
Hello Everyone
I found each commet so interesting I had to write something too.
Being an Aquarius always mysteriously drawn to Pisces men,I found that Pisces tend to retreat when they are in a fight or something that might shatter their fantasy world. They either choose to dissapear for a while and then come back as they were, or choose to stay and tell You the meanest things You will ever hear. And by mean I meant really really “MEAN”, since they are so intuitive and intune with their parterns feelings they can use Your weaknesses and flaws to hurt You right in the spot. But I don’t understand why When they realize they’ve hurt You and broken You they come back saying they are sorry and its their fault, that They didn’t mean a word they said at all,and saying “please don’t cry I hate hearing You cry You know that”
Is It What all pisces do? throw mean words at Your face and expect to get a loving smile for it?
My Pisces man “childish man” asked me something I couldnt accept, He wanted Me to change for Him,He wanted to “edit My personality”.As an Idealist Aquarian I would NEVER allow that I need to preserve My freedom and My individuality. We talked for 2 hours and He was ever so mean to Me I cried Like a heartbroken teenager. As soon as I shed a tear all of a sudden He started being sweet again and said sorry and that He loved me for what I am. Then he confessed something “I only wish You could be more tollerant of me…that You could be on My side whatever I do to You” I mean how can I take it if He Intentionally hurts Me!? and expects Me to be more in love with Him even if He does act like a jerk.
Is it an implus they have to be mean at times even a little cruel to Their loved ones becouse of their arrogance? I am guessing the reason they act so “secure” is that some poeple “like me” make the mistake of showing them that We Only and TRUELLY care about them and would never give them up.Maybe this knowledge makes them feel so secure and arrogant that they think “I know whatever I do to Her She’ll always com back to Me, she loves Me”
But isnt it obvious if they keep thinking this “illusion” of us never leaving them even if they stab us right in the heart, eventually we will leave for real!??
P.S: another thing Aly You said that Pisces are superficial is it Always the case? I mena do You fall in love for Personality and caring or Looks and charms?
August 19th, 2008 at 9:19 pm
I am dating a man with a Pisces Moon, Libra Sun, and Scorpio Venus. It’s a very weird combo. Sometimes he’s funny and present; other times, distracted, sarcastic, and very moody. I am a Cancer sun, Taurus moon, Leo Venus with Pluto in first house (strong scorpionic tendencies). I just feel I don’t know where I’m at with him alot and then when he gets sarcastic, watch out!!! Between the Libra sun (arguing) and the scorpio stinger, it’s strange and not very good for me. I wish things could work but I am afraid I am on my way out, as he’s disrespected me many times (I don’t care what you have to say, be quiet, etc.) I can’t live with that. Good luck everyone else…hope this helps someone.
August 20th, 2008 at 4:47 pm
Hey Carolina
Thank you so much for your reply.
I really appreciate you taking the time to tell me abour your experiences.
And the last part of communicating in a calm manner, I will try to apply. Nobody’s perfect, but I’ve battled with bouts of anger in relationships.
So you’re right, when I yelled at him because I was angry and frustrated, he shyed away.
We still haven’t spoken, and reading your post I think I will try to apply what you wrote with speaking softly and reassuring, I agree with that. I’ve spoken to him that way before and it helped. So i’ll chill out for now and really consider what you have wrote to me.
Good luck to you too, I hope your next meeting with him, you can start over and be back on the road again of friendship and love.
August 22nd, 2008 at 9:19 pm
Hope this helps provide some additional insight to all you lady’s trying to understand male Pisces. I can only speak for myself. Like most male Pisces, I tend to respond better when spoken to in a softer tone of voice, then again most people do. Rarely loose my temper. Being extremely intuitive they could use your “weakness” against you verbally, then apologize for doing so. A lot of times this maybe out of frustration. Understand, until they have matured or decide enough and change, this tendency can continue.
Being extremely intuitive, we tend to connect very quickly with others. Far beyond what most other signs have encountered. You have all mentioned how you have felt, reacted etc both personally,emotionally and physically. What you seem to be describing is “chemistry”. If they have become withdrawn, means they need space. If this has happened after you have been together for more than 3 months, they want out.
Most are aware, yet personally, I have no clue as to impact I have personally to others when first seeing or meeting someone. All my friends (female and male) mention and comment to me about this. Perhaps that is what occured and your pisces just do not know how to handle this once they realize just how much you care for them, as they by that time are fighting with themselves to leave, accept and/or work through there emotions to stay. We do not just date, we prefer a relationship.
We tend to live in a dream state, but not all. Never asked anyone to change for me. Not good in any “relationship” regardless of sign. A lot just has to do with how each can accept each other, including each others faults.
August 23rd, 2008 at 12:34 pm
I am currently pursuing a relationship with a Pisces man. I have known him for over four years now… and ever since I met him the feeling I get when I’m with him has been electric.
He is exactly as is described above. Very passionate and caring… very sweet and loving. I took him for granted once and I refuse to do that again.
I’ve been reading on other websites that relationships between Virgos and Pisces aren’t likely to last… but I’m going to be the one to change that. I am determined to make him mine, forever. And I will do whatever it takes to keep him. I love him. And I’m sure he knows this, I don’t have to say it.
Right now we are over 300 miles apart… I’m supposed to (possibly) see him this weekend… I can’t wait.
August 27th, 2008 at 2:59 pm
Ok…
I heard from the Pisces guy that I recently dated. After a week and a half of not calling/email, he writes to find out if I am ok and where I am and all that stuff.
After giving me a cold shoulder, he decides he wants me around. Anyway, I am taking the text book advice and accepting that this isn’t going anywhere… man, pisces dude are weird.
August 27th, 2008 at 11:16 pm
I’m a cancer women with a pisces man…dating a year this week….everything was going ok or so I thought when he suddenly gave me this wake up call…saying that I put my kids (from my previous marriage) first and not him…that he wants to be my first but understands that my kids have to be my 1st…he gets jealous and selfish and isn’t afraid to show it…he said he is gonna start living his life like I do mine with no regard to his….no matter how I tried to defend myself and tell him I never intentionally tried to hurt him, he didn’t believe me…ever since then, he has backed off on our regular daily communications but when we are together he seems fine…something in him has changed and I’m not sure what it is but I don’t want to lose him…
August 28th, 2008 at 10:54 pm
can anyone tell if a pisces man will go well with a cancer woman than with a pisces woman?
September 1st, 2008 at 2:23 am
bucky…..i’m a cancer woman too been with a pisces man for a year and 8 months…3 months a we dated ,i did see a change in him too,but then with time i realised why he was being distant…but you know what time will tell…you will get the answers very soon…
September 1st, 2008 at 5:28 am
I’m a CANCER MONKEY woman who has a LEO MONKEY man as my current boyfriend, is this a good combo? We already started talking about starting a family together, even though it’s too early for that but is there any hope for a good relationship between us? Also, being a monkey I am sneaky, hyper and loves being such a pain but there’s one thing I read about Monkeys on your site that is not really true about me - I DON’T like going out much, I DON’T have great social skills and I don’t like getting much attention, unless I have something important to say. Are these traits just blended qualities from both my Monkey and my Cancer side? I’m a water monkey if it helps you further to solving my question, so is my boyfriend.
September 1st, 2008 at 10:07 pm
I am a scorpio women who was married to a pisces man. We were married until he died from Cancer. I dated for several year but I was not happy with anyone except for my cancer who was married. I finaly let my cancer go and started dating again. I met another pisces and I am in love all over again. I agree a scorpio women and pisces man is a perfect match!!!!
We are getting married soon
September 2nd, 2008 at 7:22 pm
Over the last few weeks, I have done some research on the detailed natal charts of my friends and siblings. Finally, I have come to the conclusion that merely the sun sign of an individual does not reflect the true personality and basing a person on it is simply incorrect.
We as individuals have lot of varied influences of other signs depend on the planetary positions of these signs in our chart e.g. I found that me being a pisces male (mercury in pisces) with venus and jupiter in aquarius and moon and mars in capricorn is not a typical pisces as described by astrology in general to be emotional, sensitive, impulsive, and blah blah blah. Although, the sun sign does affect the personality but in cases it has been observed that other influences over come the traits of the sun sign (Becky may explain it better???). One of my aquarian friend with with venus in pisces resembles more of piscean personality in relationships than me. e.g. In matters of heart, I am not interested in women with emotional, melodramatic tones and conventional types which I should being a pisces. why i give more preference to communication and intellect in a woman than merely here physical charm and beauty. While thisfriend of mine being an aquarian likes typical docile women with not much intellect but good looks (nothing wrong with that). Why is this difference? my guess is that detailed charts are essential.
I am talking ‘venus’ here in particular because this planet mostly tells you about your behaviour towards relationships and personal interactions and about love than any other planet. I have seen a sagittarius with venus in scorpio to be different than a typical sag. More so, planets in houses are also important in explaining the personality types.
Therefore in my own personal opinion, saying that all pisceans, aquas, caps, and sags, are alike in their zodiac indicates little knowledge of us which I also expressed earlier in this blog.
Have a nice day.
Aly, the Water OX