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The Pisces Man
The Pisces man is the dreamiest man alive! These men are highly spiritual in one way or another and can also be quite eccentric. I think that most women find it rather easy to fall for a Pisces male as they are highly perceptive, intuitive and even psychic, and let’s face it us girls love all that. Especially as we have a natural intuition that seem’s to have bypassed most men. So finding such a man is quite refreshing, and a little spooky too it has to be said! In a relationship you couldn’t find a more gentle lover. The Pisces man will know how to touch you and make you feel like your floating on a cloud. Sex plays an important role in this man’s relationship too. They are always bonded spiritually to their partner and every time he makes love the bond get’s stronger. Eroticism is a part of the Pisces mans personality and therefore fantasies and love making is a way for him to express himself fully. I have had one relationship with a Pisces male. And for me (being a Gemini girl), it wasn’t too great. I think it was the mood swings. The over sensitivity, and random depression that I couldn’t cope with. Obviously someone more compatible would be able to deal with these things and possibly love him for them. But they drove me insane! Mainly as I didn’t quite know what was going on in his head most of the time. It was quite nice that we both cried at sad bits in films though!! Don’t get me wrong, I know having a sensitive man is what a lot of women dream of, and for the Scorpio’s and Capricorn’s out there he will be fantastic. Just not perhaps the Gemini girls. (Or indeed boy’s). And it is nice to be able to have someone who you can sit with and talk with for hours about your inner most feelings. A lot of men you can’t, this one you can and for that reason alone he is great. Being a very feminine sign can cause some issues with these men. They are feminine in the way that they can express emotion and their power to feel and be intuitive, but a lot of them are quite masculine as well, on the outside. But I feel you can tell a Pisces man because of this feminine streak. You certainly won’t find many, if any of them, at a football match with a can of lager in one hand and a clenched fist in the other waiting for a fight to start. Or on a builders site wearing a hard hat and covered in dirt. No, these men are a not at all like that. In fact a lot of Pisces don’t really like being a Pisces. I don’t think it is easy being a man who is so very sensitive and emotional. Perhaps it is a little easier nowadays than it would have been in the past, but still men are supposed to act like ‘men’. Whatever that means. This is where the depression can come from and angst. They are trying to run away from themselves. Due to this weaker side in say half the Pisces men, they tend to go for women who are much stronger than themselves. And this will only lead to disappointment in the end. What this man needs is a soul mate, someone who he can become united with both physically and mentally. I don’t think it is always so easy for the Pisces man, this world can be cruel and full of people that will lead you on only to drown you in dissapointment. For anyone out their who is with one of these dreamy men, let me know what your experience has been like, I’d be very interested to know!
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December 10th, 2008 at 11:15 pm
My pisces e-love left me for someone else who is near him. I am afraid and a bit embarrased to ask this but, will he come back? He says I have not been affectionate with him for a while. I told him I never mean to neglect him and I apologized. Told him that I loved him, he says he still loves me and that’s why we should not talk for a while, coz it would not be fair to me or to ‘her’. It breaks my heart coz I was here before her, and now he wants to be fair to her?? Told him I love him and he needs to go live what he needs to live, and that he can contact me if he wants to but I will not be contacting him again. Do you think he will come back or am I way too naive? Just hurts to lose someone you loved for a year so unexpectedly to another…
…a montha after he e-mailed me two pictures, no wording on the e-mail. I did not respond. Today I see he deleted my name in his MSN messenger personal message box.
can someone please tell me anything about this? I feel lost and heartbroken. Thank you.
December 12th, 2008 at 4:17 pm
brooke dear,never show ur emotions to ur pisces,as for as u will go behind him,he will get away from u,as i m a pisces too,and that moment was too come in my life when someone behind me and i was,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
when u will stop behind him,he will look back and if it was found by him that u r behind him,he will far from u,and if he found that instead of picking him u r getting far from him,then he will behind u with crazy
i think i should,t tell u this deep thing abt pisces as thats the scret of pisces,anyway do the thing which i tell u,then lets see,whats happen,
why this stranger type of confusion is found in pisces,i dont know myself,,,,,,,,,,
December 13th, 2008 at 8:05 am
Who say Pisces Men are Chasers??? I don’t think so. I’m one fish.
December 13th, 2008 at 4:31 pm
jeck, thank you. thanks very much for taking the time to explain.
aly, do you have any advice for me since you seem to differ from jeck?
any help is much appreciated…
he did email me twice last weekend, probably tofigure out if i’m online or not. I did not reply and I saw that this week he deleted my name from his personal message part of MSN.
any advice? anything? thank you much!
December 13th, 2008 at 6:09 pm
Hi brooke,
I kinda agree wif jeck. When I gave up on my Pisces he chased me like mad.
Now that I know another Pisces whom I have feelings for.. whenever he showed appreciation for me he can but when I showed mine his responses are very quiet and no reply at all.
Guess this is just their way of rejection. I’m kinda hurt too.. I know God forbid but I can’t control my feelings for him as I couldn’t get comfort from my current Pisces.
Worst thing is, this Pisces has a family too it’s kinda messy.
I really know how you feel as I’m hurting by 2 Pisces now.
Think need to move on to save our own soul. If he really miss you, he will prove himself but we can’t wait forever so I suggest trying to divert your attention to other matters for the moment.
After the cool down, you may even feel that he’s not worth your wait at all … I have faith you can do this to help yourself.
Best of Luck to us!
December 13th, 2008 at 10:12 pm
Hi All
I have dated 2 pisces men in my past:
The first one was very femine, took great care in himself and spent more time in the mirror than me.I struggled with his femine side as Leo women tend to prefer more masculine men. Nevertheless he was the absolute love of my life and as a leo my loyalty and love for him was never questioned. However, he on the other hand was very much a lone ranger; opportunistic, never really there for me, never let his guard down, did what he wanted…when he wanted: A law unto himself. And Yes from a leo’s perspective VERY self centred. He ended it because he couldn’t “give me what I wanted”.
The second pisces was very recent. An Army man: VERY masculine, macho but yet incredibly sweet and gentle at the same time (tho that didnt last long). I was slightly worried when I fist met him, having gone through the experience with the first, but I thought this one was different. After a few short and intensive weeks of full on love an attention (from his side!)as soon as I let my guard down and recipricated he pulled back within a blink of an eye.
Both my pisces men had very few girlfriends in their past. There’s so much I love about pisces men, but also so much I hate.
I realise pisces men can be loner rangers and need to have time to themself for their own mental sanity… but how do you keep a pisces man? Is it being less available? the thrill of the chase? why do they struggle to keep a girlfriend?
Any advice?
December 13th, 2008 at 10:29 pm
p.s I don’t know if it helps but the first pisces (the very feminine one) was born year of the Sheep and the second (army boy)year of the Horse.
December 13th, 2008 at 11:39 pm
Hi brooke:) I hope that you are ok.
I am sorry to say this:( in my opinion:
when a man left you for someone else,he just walked over you and treated you like no body, where is the love in that? How could you love him after that? how could he claim that he loves you now?
If this happened to me, I would not think about that person for even a second.
once, a poison was given to a blind man.He was told that it is his medicine.The blind man, day by day, drank full of the poison.All along, he assumed that it is, his medicine. it will heal me,said to himself.his condition,day by day, got worst,Until, his death. this story is all about, one sided “love” .when a man or a girl, falls in love with the wrong person, they become blind. when they are blind, they can not make right decision for themselves.their is no point to waste our time and life, thinking about people that we should not think about.I would say move on, look for the right person. In my opinion, he does not love you.Sorry, I might be wrong, again, this is my opinion. Take care and good luck
December 14th, 2008 at 4:16 am
Hey Brooke!
You don’t have to feel heartbroken since there are millions of single men out there searching for the right woman. Sorry, I fail to understand why people get attached so quickly and feel heartbroken in the end. There are lots of choices in the world and it seems absurd to make yourself vulnerable to the whims and wishes of only one man/woman.
Yeah, I’m a fish but because of my venus effect, I take relationships more like an aquarian (friendly but emotionally detached). Therefore, I won’t be able to help you much in this regard.
However, I must say that if this man is acting childish, then it seems better to move on since you can’t waste your time and life thinking about it and getting hurt. Don’t think from your heart (alone) and use your mind. Put the question to yourself: Whether this person really likes you? and Why? Reasons? Also put a same question to yourself, why you like him? What are the commonalities you both have which you enjoy together. What are the underlying reasons for compatibility as well as differences? Make kind of a checklist and see the pros and cons of the relationship and know which one outweighs the other. Take your time in preparing the checklist. I know its sounds a bit scientific on paper but it’s interesting to analyse the personalities and assessing the need for each other. Some psychologists use it to understand compatibility. Just don’t go on infatuation but analyse long term possibilities that could assist sticking both of you together. When you make up your mind (that you want to continue), then be direct. If nothing happens, look ahead, see for other guys (if you want to), don’t make yourself heartbroken and vulnerable. Enjoy life.
Have a nice day.
Peace, Aly The water-OX
December 14th, 2008 at 7:44 pm
Thank you for all your advice
While I understand the need to be rational as well as being emotional, I just cannot muster that up now. I would probably tell someone else the same thing “why want or miss anyone who’s left you? move on, life is beautiful, live!” yet when I am in the situation all I can think of is how I miss my friend, how I miss his voic, his attention to me, how I miss the object of my affection. and how cold and cruel the world is all of a sudden after he left my life…and for another. I cant help thinking he is with someone else now. SOmeone he’s met when I think he was with me. Then he emails me 2 pics last weekend..expecting what? just checking out if I’m alive? I’ve talked to him, chatted, emailed him for a year straight, and now its all loneliness and emptiness. Not that I do not have my own life going on, I am busy with thinsg but without him everything happens without ‘life’… my legs walk, my eyes see, my mouth talks..but its like I’m not there…my life energy is not there.
He brought me back to life, and then he went away to another woman, just becoz she is there and I am at the other side of the world…
maybe I’m a fool.. maybe, its not a maybe…I’m a fool…
December 15th, 2008 at 5:26 am
Pisces men have all the misfortunes which life has to offer. They often tend to go through utter financial ruin. Hardly are they financially successful. Really. This is because they are the most impractical sign of the zodiac. Dreaminess? What the hell? In the practical, sinister world, why the hell escape?! PATHETIC LOSERS are the Pisces men. If you would like a life of ease, never marry a Pisces Man! Take my word for it! A Pisces Man will just bring you misery and poverty. He is penniless. He’s got the love, the sex, the gentleness, yes! But YOU CANNOT LIVE WITH JUST THOSE! This world is just so ALL ABOUT THE MONEY, my dear.
December 15th, 2008 at 9:28 am
lol that is sooo funny!!! its kinda true about pisces men being poor. i duno if its true for all of them but the few i have met have been pretty poor! my pisces takes care of me :). we dont live a lavish lifestule or anything but we are also very young!
December 15th, 2008 at 9:34 am
brooke i know wut u mean when u say its hard to live with out ur love. when my pisces isnt around i feel the same way. almost lifeless. like you hang out with people and ur just doing things that have no point or sumthing? i duno .. i feel that way when mine leaves too.. he didnt leave for another girl, but for other reasons.
December 15th, 2008 at 11:33 am
Hey Pisces Woman rejecting Pisces Man!
Your post is simply hilarious. Bravo!!! 2 Thumbs up for writing in a such a humourous manner.
Mind it exceptions are there, Rupert Murdoch is one. Well he interited it and multiplied it later.
Bravo, Aly
December 15th, 2008 at 12:21 pm
Hi Brooke,
You can do it because I can too. and I really wish you can cause I noe how it feels like listless having to do the daily things but just without the heart to some parts of you seemed to be missing and it’s aching somewhere you dun noe how and where it is.This can go on for a long time until you start somewhere.
BUT.. U R AS WORTHY AS HIM. and you must be fair to your soul as he is to himself now..only when u start doing it for yourself he’ll realise you r worthy enough to be respected or he may not be bothered and then you’ll know he’s not worth it.
and not doing it waiting for him to come back because if he’s meant to be he’ll be back.
Keep your Soul Alive first! It’s good for you!
Actually, my Pisces is starting to give me a kind of ‘attention’ the kind of surprise and interest that I’m enjoying my time equally good without his attention and he keeps appearing in front of me to ‘tell’ me that he actually exist *grin*
December 15th, 2008 at 1:19 pm
hi,pisces women rejecting pisces men
i regert it which u has said all abt pisces,dear v all know that the description and trait abt a zodiac is not alwayas 100% certified,then how u can say that.
every fish with i met ,i found them independent,havng a little ego too,as i m a fish i find a lot ego in myself though it is said that v fish hav no like this,anyways
i regert on ur wording ,
December 15th, 2008 at 7:24 pm
haven’t had time to read all these posts yet but tony (back in may) you sound like the male equivalent of me except you seem gentler! i am a very opinionated feisty female fish.i would encourage ppl to do voluntary/charity work for the same reasons you give for helping others with their problems as it helps to take the focus off your own problems aswell as helping others less fortunuate than yourself…are there any truly charitable acts?? even mother theresa liked the media attention her charity work garnered her apparently…lol
for ally who is managing to do what i have meant to get around to doing…using rational to reign in the more neg points to my piscean character…i will one day…no really i will!
astra inclinant, neque tamant necissitant -
the stars incline they do not compel…
ptolemy (so we have freewill…apparently!)
i have met a few pisces men in my time & without exception i have got along with then famously…one in particular was the brother of my first ex hubbie (you’ve had too many when you have to number them! lol) we got so well & would talk & debate (heatedly at times) that the running joke in the family was that i had married the wrong brother (the gemini!!) but tbh i thought we were too similar. if we’d both been feeling down we’d have stayed in & hid from the world…& sex wise…we’d have wanted to stay in for other reasons lol. funny enough he did marry a pisces woman yrs later.
anyway not sure if this has been said as haven’t read all the posts yet but the pisces men i have known so far…atleast 5/6 have all been quite unfaithful even when married. i have twice got into r/ships with pisces men before knowing they were married. the first time (no not with my brother-in-law…though he has cheated on his wife several times…) was with a detective…i was married myself at the time (harlot lol) but going through a divorce so i wanted us to keep it quiet. which of course i realised later fitted in with his deception! we only went to out of the way places etc. he was my one affair i think as tbh it was just about sex more than anything. two cold fishes together can be very hot btw!!
me typical pisces…living my life like in a movie as my friend has always said…used to open the door to him in very sexy lingerie & then well….lol…i think it messed up his mind a little though…as i’m sure he started to think i always dressed like that!! about a mth after out little tryst began found out he was married & i ended it. he was quite beside himself crying on my step..!!?? he admitted he thought he’d get away with it but had now decided to leave his wife as he’d realised that he didn’t connect with his wife like we did?? it was a nightmare. i would never break up a marriage & how could you trust him not to cheat on you too anyway?? i told him i didn’t want to see him again so i have no idea if he went back to ‘play’ the dutiful husband or not.
quite recently i got to know someone via a forum & we hit it off immediately. he told me he was an aries which kind of threw me as we would have all these indepth chats about the cosmos/after life/why are here etc. we were so alike but my son is aries & we are from it! it turned out he thought he was aries as he was born on the cusp on the 20th march?? to me thats pisces though isn’t it?? just as i was about to meet up with him he admitted he was married but more like it was no big deal. to me it was & have since refused to meet him. we still chat on the phone occasionally & true to form like the dectective he says that hes never been able to talk to anybody so easily as he has with me…i do know what he means…
December 15th, 2008 at 8:07 pm
pisces women rejecting pisces men,
Malcolm x said,” A persons judgment is the most outstanding sign of his or her character, the value that you give to people, is the value which they give to themselves.”
so I say to you, The value that you have, is the value that you give to yourself based up on what you have posted about Pisces Men.It was really disrespectful,inhumane and ignorant of you to speak about Pisces in such manner.You are a Pisces yourself, don’t forget that and I believe you own a apology to all of us for your disrespectful comment.
Ohhhhhh, I almost forgot, Malcolm X is a PISCES
Malcolm X - Who are YOU ??
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=63OHMLf9wUc
December 15th, 2008 at 9:37 pm
Thank you Roxy and Pisces’ Wife. I will try. I’ve been trying to move on, seriously. But I guess this thing comes in fluctuatuin cycles. SOmetimes when you think its all gone there it is dwelling in your heart. Some days are better than others. Guess its like addiction and I have to go through thr purification proces.. some sort of purgatory from my pisces.
I guess its like going through withdrawals like addicts, its just not fair to be cut off of my lover and friend and life energy that came with him. I miss him.
I am actually planning to mail him that gift pack I promised to. In return to something he’d sent me before but also coz I had wanted to send him some stuff. I dunno I may be doing the wrong thing here.. Its so funny that I;ve been holding on to the gifts I am meaning to send him. He broke up with me andI guess not sending the gifts was my way of hanging on to him. I guess I’ll need to let go. After I send him the gift package, I will have no more way of contacting him. I guess that’ll be the farewell to my pisces…
December 16th, 2008 at 3:36 pm
Ehsan,
Just a Correction!!! Malcom X was Taurus not Pisces (DOB: May 19, 1925). He was assassinated on February 21, 1965 aged 39.