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The Pisces Man
The Pisces man is the dreamiest man alive! These men are highly spiritual in one way or another and can also be quite eccentric. I think that most women find it rather easy to fall for a Pisces male as they are highly perceptive, intuitive and even psychic, and let’s face it us girls love all that. Especially as we have a natural intuition that seem’s to have bypassed most men. So finding such a man is quite refreshing, and a little spooky too it has to be said! In a relationship you couldn’t find a more gentle lover. The Pisces man will know how to touch you and make you feel like your floating on a cloud. Sex plays an important role in this man’s relationship too. They are always bonded spiritually to their partner and every time he makes love the bond get’s stronger. Eroticism is a part of the Pisces mans personality and therefore fantasies and love making is a way for him to express himself fully. I have had one relationship with a Pisces male. And for me (being a Gemini girl), it wasn’t too great. I think it was the mood swings. The over sensitivity, and random depression that I couldn’t cope with. Obviously someone more compatible would be able to deal with these things and possibly love him for them. But they drove me insane! Mainly as I didn’t quite know what was going on in his head most of the time. It was quite nice that we both cried at sad bits in films though!! Don’t get me wrong, I know having a sensitive man is what a lot of women dream of, and for the Scorpio’s and Capricorn’s out there he will be fantastic. Just not perhaps the Gemini girls. (Or indeed boy’s). And it is nice to be able to have someone who you can sit with and talk with for hours about your inner most feelings. A lot of men you can’t, this one you can and for that reason alone he is great. Being a very feminine sign can cause some issues with these men. They are feminine in the way that they can express emotion and their power to feel and be intuitive, but a lot of them are quite masculine as well, on the outside. But I feel you can tell a Pisces man because of this feminine streak. You certainly won’t find many, if any of them, at a football match with a can of lager in one hand and a clenched fist in the other waiting for a fight to start. Or on a builders site wearing a hard hat and covered in dirt. No, these men are a not at all like that. In fact a lot of Pisces don’t really like being a Pisces. I don’t think it is easy being a man who is so very sensitive and emotional. Perhaps it is a little easier nowadays than it would have been in the past, but still men are supposed to act like ‘men’. Whatever that means. This is where the depression can come from and angst. They are trying to run away from themselves. Due to this weaker side in say half the Pisces men, they tend to go for women who are much stronger than themselves. And this will only lead to disappointment in the end. What this man needs is a soul mate, someone who he can become united with both physically and mentally. I don’t think it is always so easy for the Pisces man, this world can be cruel and full of people that will lead you on only to drown you in dissapointment. For anyone out their who is with one of these dreamy men, let me know what your experience has been like, I’d be very interested to know!
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March 22nd, 2008 at 8:22 pm
I am married to a Pisces(man) for 8 years.He is not spiritual at all unless you count Nascar as a religion.He doesn’t do anything for my Birthday actually he starts fights for every holiday I think to get out of giving gifst not just to me but our children too.Most of the time he is very womanish.He is more what did you do for me.He doesn’t have a loyal bone in his body.I am a Leo and to me RESPECT is very important not to mention a man needs to be a man.This doesn’t work with a Pisces man I am not basing this just on him I have known plenty soulless,unimaginative,disrespectful,perverted,and totally unromantic Pisces men.I thought eventually he would come around but after 8 years I’m done.I am fed up with this girly man and am off to just be happy with my sons that will grow up to be REAL men.If there are any Pisces men that aren’t like this then good for you and I am sorry that I have run into these type over an over again.They really don’t give justice to this sign.
March 22nd, 2008 at 8:29 pm
Sorry i must also add he like to spend more time with the guys then with his wife and kids.Working on cars,watching football,and drinking beer.Then he wants to know why I am not longer interested in him in the bedroom.That seems to be the only thing he is concern with when he is home.I have been overly giving in this relationship I even went as far as opening a Cabinet business for him after he was repeatedly let go from jobs.Maybe he did bite off more then he could chew by being with a Leo we are very loving but when crossed or left alone too long that is gone and all that is left is bitter discontent.
March 29th, 2008 at 9:27 am
see,Pisces is only compatible wid one and only one sign, and thts scorpio,coz they r both extremely emotional and since scorpio is erotic,pisces tends to be the part of her desires!and since pisces is vry short tempered,scorpio can only cool him down
May 26th, 2008 at 6:35 pm
I am a Pisces male. I feel sorry for the first commenter because the Pisces you married is not very Pisces at all. Like the post says I hate football, basketball even more, and I don’t very often drink. Most of my relationships have ended because I was either too attentive, too insecure not realizing when everything was alright and I should just back off, or because I got lost in a reality that my own head formed.
It’s very true that I am psychic but more so I’m empathic, meaning I draw on and share my own emotions with everyone around me. As a result it’s often difficult for me to go out in public because I become easily overwhelmed by the people’s emotions around me. I unfortunately have yet to come up with a successful for of shielding for the onslaught.
It’s also true that I am somewhat feminine. I am also partially ambidexterious so share both sides of the mind pretty equally. It’s very often difficult for me to know if a descision is made from logic (the more male aspect) of simply out of emotion. I have many times chosen the latter and really made my life more difficult for it.
Sometimes I think the overly attentive appearance of the Pisces comes (at least for me) the desire to help everyone around me solve their problems mostly because it can help me forget my own. It’s not a healthy approach but in many situations it’s an easy way for me to move past something. It’s sometimes why the Pisces will appear insecure, and most of the time when you’re lying to them saying “Every thing’s fine,” they know it, hence the bit about Psychics. We are the fish, we swim through everyone and everything, mind and soul alike.
June 8th, 2008 at 9:00 pm
I being a Gemini girl, dated a pisces man for three years. It just ended 3 weeks ago. I have not seen him for 8 months now because he moved to montana to find work, when it wasnt there, he moved to maryland where there are still few jobs. I just cant figure these guys out! untiul 3 weeks ago, he would call me 2-3 x a day, in the snow, freezing rain everything, claimimg he loves me and noone else. The problem started when he moved to Maryland, not much work there, and he was getting depressed. He doesnthave the money to move back here, so he started being very cruel, saying very hateful and hurtful things to me. He started cussing and flat out being rude. His drinking picked up, he is living with his best friend (who is a male) and has been for 7 months now. He hasnt saved any money, blames his mom for all of his problems and then breaks up with me because he thinks I am cheating on him! Which I am not! I have been totally faithful to this man for 3 years, turned down dates (and what comes along with the dates!) everything for this man. He told me its time to move on… Its been very difficult for me. I loved him with my heart and soul. I dont believe he has another girlfriend, his best friend told me he didnt, he just has alot of emotional problems going on right now, and his friend said he has started drinking more and more. Its like hes in a totally diffrent world. I still love him to this day, and honestly I think he does love me still. We never had any problems. I think it may be us being 1000 mies apart. That does put a blotch on things. The love, romance, and so much things we had in common, I miss so much. The drinking on the other hand I can live without, he is not mean when he is drunk, just annoying! I must add he did cut down to almost nothing on his drinking when he was with me. I belive I was his safe place, or should I say happy place. If he gets his life i order, do these guys go back to where they were happy? or is all hope lost. I havent been the same since we dont talk anymore. If anyone here has a similar situation, please comment.
June 8th, 2008 at 9:05 pm
Oh one more thing, you are right Tony you do absorb everyones feelings. Its amazing! But alot of times you will take things in internally and will literaly take what people say in the wronge way. I wouldnt mind dating another pisces man, but he must not be angry at his mother!
June 15th, 2008 at 3:08 am
I am also a Gemini girl who dated a pisces a while back. He was sensitive, but tried to hide it by being logical and intellectual. He claimed to be sympathetic, but was really selfish since he cared way more about his own feelings than he did about mine. Also he was holier than thou, an criticised me a lot. I think with a lot of Pisces, they really do absorb other people’s emotions and reflect them back, so it is hard to tell if their feelings are their own or just what they think you want to see. I don’t even think they know! This can be very frustrating to someone who is more direct. It is true that is really hard to pin them down and they can break your heart because they seem like they care, but dont.
June 19th, 2008 at 9:53 pm
i’ve been with a pisces for tha last 5 years its been good and real i think that capricorns are good with this sign at all times…
June 27th, 2008 at 8:04 am
geez lemme defend the fishies here!!! I’m a pisces girl and my older brother is a pisces. It’s amazing what a hurting the fish men can put on women. The truth is, most pisces men are NOT mean, selfish, or anything of the sort. HOWEVER, pisces are mysterious and live on earth and on neptune simultainiously. meaning, you will NEVER fully have a pisces, sorry to say, because a part of him will always belong to neptune, hence the “drawing within oneself” syndrome. to simpler signs, this may come off as selfish or mean, but it is a survival tatic the fish need because other signs tend to take take take from us (believe me you do). My older brother, once he hit a certain age, became very secretive and it was like living with a ghost. This is his nature. However, he is loving and nice. The loner mysterious things is more so in the pisces men then in the women. Basically, a pisces man needs a special kind of lover, one who can understand and appreciate this mystical, mysterious, and secretive yet very lovable and kind man.
June 28th, 2008 at 4:41 am
Im a pisces male. I am aware very intiative of others, sincere and yes sensitive (hard to overcome, but try), along with other “traits”. Last relationship (5 yrs) with F Aries. Started fine, in middle communication just broke down. Do not tend to have mood swings. Yes do like some time to myself. Who doesn’t. Not generally insecure, but have been made to feel that way (lots of zings over a number of subjects).
Very romantic, etc. but do not live in dream world. Have been told great lover. So who is compatible with a male fish? Would be nice to actually know since not having find.
June 29th, 2008 at 12:47 am
True, Pisces men tend to go for stronger women (that is, the straight ones), but they need one who is both strong and sensitive, like a Cancer or Scorpio. They need a woman who can “mother” them, if you will. They also have a tendency to not take good care of themselves, so they really need someone with the patience for all their needs, and it return they’ll get the most romantic and generous lover anybody could ever wish for. If you need a shoulder to rest your head on, they’ll be there, sharing that misery with you so it won’t be quite as bad.
I should know. My life’s full of Pisces, both men and women, and I have a good amount of Pisces in my natal chart as well so I have sympathy for them.
June 29th, 2008 at 4:09 pm
I am a pisces n a lot of my male friends r pisces. I dated a few pisces guys. They scare me bc they can finish my sentence even when I’m talking gibberish. As a pisces woman I am attracted to every sign.I try 2 stay away from leos bc they lie about everything. I know aries agree with me. The key 2 a pisces man is to always b in his corner even if he’s wrong. They r sensitive, secretive, mysterious and loners. One of the hardest thing 4 a pisces is to open up 2 a person. We will stay in the house all day even if the birds are chirping n its 80 degrees outside. We need time by ourself n the ppl around us has to accept that or it will never work. I live in my day dream and a lot of pisces guys do too.
June 30th, 2008 at 5:08 am
I’m a Pisces man too. I doubt Vanessa will check back here to see if anyone has responded to her posts, but I feel for her. I was married to a Leo woman for three years. We just got divorced this year. Some of her complaints about her guy sound just like my wife’s complaints about me.
I think that the complaints about not being spiritual are the Leo woman’s perception not reality. Also, she complains about her husband being a girly man, which I encountered too. Being the people pleasing Pisces that I am I tried to adjust and be more manly. Reading through the lines I think her Fish did the same thing. NASCAR? Buddies? He seems like he is trying to be the stereotypical man for her.
I did the same thing, but forget NASCAR. I joined the US ARMY. I got into great shape and spent time with whatever Sagittarius or Aries guys I could, because I felt like maybe I could learn a thing or two from them and please my wife. While this plan makes sense in a sense… it was inherently flawed, because I’d be acting my whole life with this woman. Fish are supposed to be great actors, but ultimately I wouldn’t have been able to fake the funk through an entire marriage.
While I was doing my Army training my Lioness decided to have an affair and waited a little over ten months to tell me. A month later we were divorced. The funny thing is… Fish are psychic. When my Basic Training was over, my Leo came to my graduation and everything. When we were away on our own I got my first kiss after 10 weeks of separation. After that kiss I asked her if she had kissed someone else while I was gone. I knew she had, but she wasn’t ready to tell me yet. So, she lied to me then and for the next seven months… until she was finally ready to set everything straight. After living with all those lies for so long, she is a true believer that some Pisces are psychic, because I would always innocently ask the right questions at the right. I have enough self doubt that I believed her over my gut, but she knew all along that I was tuned into the truth.
I always hear that Scorpio is the best sign for me. I know so few Scorpio women it is sad, and I know the sign of just about everyone I know. The few Scorpio women I do know are either already taken or not very attractive to me.
Yes, if you are a Gemini you will not be happy with a Fish for long. Keep the guy fish as a friend and you’ll be OK. Maybe sleep with a fish sometime if you’re really curious about it. Other than that, just stay out of love with these guys.
June 30th, 2008 at 5:14 am
Oh, Sheenz is right when she says that “the key to a Pisces man is to always be in his corner even when he is wrong.” I can’t tell you how true that is for me. I’ve taken notice of women or even fallen for some that I wouldn’t have normally simply because they were in my corner one too many times.
I think this is one of the reasons I like my Leo so much too. She was super loyal and it played out just like this. She was also gorgeous and brilliant though, and I am as superficial as Pisces come.
June 30th, 2008 at 6:38 am
Hello everyone,
Thank you all for your comments on this post. It is all very interesting indeed. Pisces men really do need to be with the ‘right’ person for them to be able to be fully themselves. And yes, many of them live a lie in some hope that they will please others and be more ‘acceptable’, sad but true. I only know 1 Pisces man who is happy with his lot, and that is because he has fought to live his strange dream and is very succesful in his field (with his Scorpio wife behind him). My ex Pisces, like you David, joined the Army and now lives in Germany. He hates it, I know he does, but was pressured into it really. I love hearing from Pisces as I think many people find it hard to understand them, so it’s great to see Pisces men here having there say!
Power to the Fish!!
Love & Light
Becky
xx
June 30th, 2008 at 1:48 pm
Met this gentle Pisces guy last September and we’ve now been going out for 7months. Always wondered whether he would be there for me because his happiness seemed dependant on how I treat him. I am a cancer and I miss my fellow cancer who used to be there 100%.Anyway, I like the way this Pisces treats me, it reminds me of the cancer I used to have. He is very gentle and I love it but an unsettling feeling is that it all seems on the surface. Also he seems so easily influenced and a strange thing is that when he comes under pressure he crushes and I get scared because life is difficult enough, can I rely on such a person through thick and thin. What happens when I grow old or fall ill or get involved in an accident. The last Valentine was the first Valentine I didn’t enjoy - we argued - I couldn’t believe it. We went on holiday and he was very argumentative. Now I find out that he gets depressed. How do I deal with a depressed boyfriend. My birthday was last week and he is away recovering from depression. I tell him I understand but for the first time in a relationship, I am looking at finding someone else because I don’t think I can do a relationship on my own. I don’t think I can make him happy and I am scared of ending up as depressed and insecure and wrapped up in the past and wishing for what is not in the now like he does. The alternative is stick it out and hope he finds that I am enough, always as I am???
June 30th, 2008 at 2:00 pm
Hi Lilly,
Pisces will always need you and rely on your for support. They can suffer with depression, this is due to their over sensitive and intuitive characteristics. He will need a lot of support as Pisces can suffer from never feeling adequate.I am sure that he finds you enough but it may be that he worries that his ways are leading you to walk away from him, and he would be right!! Remeber these people are very intune and if he feels that your backing off then he may act a bit odd. On the other hand I never think anyone sould stay where they don’t feel it is working. But if you are going to end things make sure you tell him sooner rather than later as he will know something is wrong and will be waiting for you to tell him so. You two could be happy it may be that you just need to find yourselves, take some time out perhaps and talk.
Good luck
Love & Light
Becky
July 1st, 2008 at 1:12 pm
Appreciate all the feedback. Seems have been not with proper sign all these years. Cant recall anyone either Scorpio, Cancer etc. Agree we fish know when something not right. On flip side, thought everyone needed support from their other half. Do know my shortcomings and work on them to improve me, for me.
SC….FYI have always been there 100% plus for any woman in all manner. And never ever had a problem opening up. No way will it be different the in next relationship.
July 1st, 2008 at 9:38 pm
Hi Becky,
Thanks for feedback. My dear Pisces boyfriend tells me today that he misses me and cannot wait to see me and hug me. I say I miss him too but part of me is secretly holding back because I am not sure of what he has in store. Is he acting up, I wonder because when I am the happiest he always finds a way to overturn my mood. So still love him but watching out. He says he is dealing with the way he is and is working on changing and finding a fundament as he finds it hard to make decisions. So is he with me because he cannot make a decision to leave? How flattering! I know he loves me but sometimes I can vow that he doesn’t realise my value. Contrary to what I wrote yesterday, I have decided to try and stick out this relationship while protecting my feelings for a while. If things become very unstable and I feel my character is changing negatively, I will walk with a clear conscience. Before that I will tell him why I am leaving- I pray it doesn’t get to that because without me he will suffer and I might (for a while) too.
July 1st, 2008 at 9:57 pm
Hi,
Well Im another pisces male (Feb 28). I can say is all pisces men are not similar yet we have some common characteristics. Sensitive, Reformers, Non-decisive, Passionate, Intellectual, Sexual, Loners, Knowledgeable, Emphathic to those who we care about, Eccentric, Good-talkers, Calm, Mostly passive, Mysterious, Secretive, Comical, Satirical, and Others.
In my experiences, I usually draw attention of women because of my cheerful, energetic, sensitive, mysterious, psychic, and easy to talk to attitude. However, my love and passion for independence has always kept me distant from both men and women. I never had any serious romantic relationships with women(although I adore them in general and when I like someone I forget their flaws- which is wrong) because I need space and time for myself for for my creative endeavours and dreams. I love my privacy. For me, women are first friends and later lovers.I prefer honestly and originality in women with no pretensions (phony type). We pisces seek the truth.
I totally believe in self-reliance in all its dimensions (a loner, one can say)and don’t make expectations from people. I don’t borrow money; don’t ask professional favours; don’t want people to emotionally massage me or don’t massage others(straight forward in dealings. for such behaviour, I have paid a price). However, I have noticed that people (some other signs i am/was aquainted with like aquarius, cancer) have a high tendency to depend on us (taking, taking and taking) which makes you feel sick at times because of disbalance in the relationship. We don’t hate to give but excess of everything is too bad for us pisces.
When we are tired of relationships, we have the habit of slipping away. Exciting things draw our attention and consistent change is a must. Monotony kills us. We become lazy if we are not interested in something. We do not obey any rules and regulations, have a mind of our own.
If someone is truly interested in us (soulmates), we can go a long way for them. Lastly, not all pisces males are feminine. Its their passive behaviour and sensitivity that makes them look feminine. They can be very strong from inside even more than fire signs due to their practical nature of life besides their dreaming.
July 3rd, 2008 at 8:15 am
Hello there,
I just thought I would share with you my observation. Pisces people write the longest comments! I love it!
Also, Aly, I have to say that for a sign which you say the people of which are not all similar that is rather a long list of similar character traits! lol
Some people find that they are not exactly like their Sun sign, this is due to their chart having influences in other areas.
Becky
x
July 4th, 2008 at 12:35 am
Hi there im a pises male ,, Well there are different types of pisces , once calm other is biting . But i agree on most is how each of us have been brought up . Me hell is all ive lived for a long time .. So i got married at 20 wife is 15 and a cancer .. everythign went fine but moodiness and ignorance led us apart . After a years i got involved with a aries it lasted like 6 weeks .she hate to talle me anything and does what she thijnks best and when i ask her where did you go ,, she says thats not your buissness ,, so that went overboard . Yeah true i always have 1 hand in my pocket and i sense lorts of vibes around ,, and think pretty fast what the other party are thinking . Now im single but am having a Leo on a internet dating realtionship ,, but we are doing okay and its been only 4 days but we went through hard times ,, so maybe it will work ,, I dont know .. Yeah im very very emotiional and just too caring,, true i sometimes dont want to be a pisces cause tears roll down faster then any sign and you should undertand we are the last sign that consists of all signs ,, and thats quite a lot to coope with . So Gl getting a pises male or a female cause its perfect.
July 4th, 2008 at 12:45 am
Hi there im a pisces male (09),, Well there are different types of pisces , once calm other is biting . But i agree on most is how each of us have been brought up . Hell is all ive lived for a long time .. So i got married at 20 wife is 15 and a cancer .. everything went fine but moodiness and ignorance led us apart . After years i got involved with a aries it lasted like 6 weeks .she hate to tell me anything and does what she thinks best and when i ask her where did you go ,, she says thats not your buissness ,, so that went overboard . Yeah true i always have 1 hand in my pocket and i sense lots of vibes around me,, and think pretty fast what the other party are thinking . Now im single but am having a Leo on a internet dating realtionship ,, but we are doing okay and its been only 4 days but we went through hard times and talk like 4 hours and more ,, so maybe it will work ,, I dont know .. Yeah im very very emotiional and just too caring,, true i sometimes dont want to be a pisces cause tears roll down faster then any sign and you should undertand we are the last sign that consists of all signs ,, and thats quite a lot to cope with . I do agree we just need the right soul mate , and when we really have felt dropped we most of the pisces tend to drink and make there illusionary world to escape .. That sometime can be a belly smacker . And another thing about Pisces you should know , were very strong the body can decay but the soul wont.
July 5th, 2008 at 1:18 am
Becky,
There are zillion characteristics in pisces males that are different from each other. I wrote a few common. Let me tell you, I have an aquarius friend (male), considered to be cool,
such an emotional wreck when it comes to love that makes me feel sick.
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I think, we can’t judge people based on astrology. I think it only tells you few things about personality type but not the whole person. As a pisces male, I had lot of characteristics of the sign as other guys have mentioned but as Im growing older (30 plus), I no longer have those signs. It all started when I identified my negatives (emotionalism, sensitivity, emphatic behaviour to everyone) and learnt to use my mind and heart. If one can use the mind more (rational thinking), there is a good probability to change your personality type. As a Piscean, I think from the mind than heart; am logical, like facts, statistics, and reasoning; although, I have great interest in poetry, music, movies, arts and cultures for relaxation of mind.
By using mind, I have noticed that you can’t be deceived, easily led, fooled in love, dominated, being made a fun bag, being lied to, intimidated, and blah blah blah. Being a so-called sensitive pisces, I can kick any one’s ass (sorry for using the word) not for the sake of it but to tell people “don’t try to tread on me” even with my friends and family.
Not confused as a pisces, I like it because it has given me originality, creativity, imagination, exploration, details, multiple-interests, knowledge, to examine things which others can’t.
Too long. We can enhance the use of your minds. It REALLY has GREAT POWERS beyond emotionalism and sensitivity.
Bye
Aly
July 5th, 2008 at 7:54 am
Aly, I really like your comments! It is encouraging to know that someone thinks that way! In addition to what you wrote, I think emotionalism and sensitivity in itself is not bad - human beings need it. It becomes a problem when it gets in the way or in other words, it begins to work against you and be destructive towards you and others.When it distorts your vision and you loose sight of reality.
July 5th, 2008 at 9:05 am
Hi Aly,
I have to say that I agree with you. I believe firmly though that by using astrology to get to know certain characteristic traits that this can help you to control the way you are. I had a real hard time when I was younger (I am a Gemini) I was so sensitive and rebellious etc. Once I discovered that it was who I was then I could move onward and grow further as a person. Life experiences alter us and help to make us who we are for better or worse, but my belief is that astrology is our basic personality that we can use to guide us throughout our life.
Love & Light
Becky
Thank you for your interesting comments!
July 5th, 2008 at 11:11 am
Thank You Lilly and Becky
Love and all the best to all Pisces including Dear Albert (Einstein) for using his mind.
Ciao
Aly
July 7th, 2008 at 2:27 am
I’m a 16 year old aquarius girl, this time last year I dated a 15 year old Pisces guy, but he had no life (loved sex, women, drugs, and anything bad you can think of!)
As a idealist I looked over his flaws!
I broke it off, then got back together, then broke it off for good!
I liked spending time with him, he was sensitive, gentle, and affectionate, but again he was a loser, and was using me for sure!
July 10th, 2008 at 11:16 am
I have been with my Pisces man now for over two years, and I love him heart and soul.Becky hit us right on the head in her post on Taurus and Pisces-we do have a magical romance so much in fact that my Pisces proposed ring and all(which he had been saving up for for a LONG time) after being together for a year (but I was only 17 and he 19)!!!! We have agreed to wait until we are both done with college( where he claims he would like to propose again) at which point we can truly be “engaged” and set a date.
Becky was also right about it being easier in this match if the Taurus is male. My Pisces’ feminine side does drive me crazy at times, especially having grown up with a father who is the ultimate “man’s man”. It mostly bothers me because I feel that as the female I should be the more sensitive one,and I hate hurting him because of my lack of sensitivity. The longer we are together the better we understand each other, but still, my Taurus nature makes me jealous and I want to be the perfect match for my Pisces and care for him as well as any Capricorn or Scorpio.Becky, can we make it work as well as one of those matches?
In answer to those who have a bad experience with Pisces-something else must have affected his personality. The one I call my own is indeed nearly psychic to my needs and thoughts which is almost scary (my mother can’t even read me that well!) He is sweet and kind to everyone,and he has an adorable quirky nature that he tries not to let anyone see. He will help anyone who really needs it.. Kids cling to him. He is always patient and understanding, and he must be really bullied before saying something negative or demeaning to his partner.In my experience no man is more respectful and nurturing of his lady than a Pisces man. This is the guy who will encourage you to follow your dreams, and then support you all the way through with a shoulder to cry on whenever you need it.
July 13th, 2008 at 1:53 pm
Want to thank Aly for comments. Reminded myself of a number of things I had forgotten and I needed and need to overcome. These either created, contributed or perhaps caused relationship issues in past which cost me. Spent a lot of time figuring out which and have been using my intellect to work on to overcome. So far all working, but take it day by day.
Angela’s comments also rang true, in that have experienced something that had altered my pisces personality. As we get older events occur that impact negatively. Not a good thing when your a pisces since tend to hide within ourselves, rather than deal and work thru them.
So at this point, working on overcoming parts of my persona that should have been doing all along.
Do have one question to all. Anyone have input between either female scorpio/male pisces or female cancer/male pisces? Pro’s/cons etc?
July 15th, 2008 at 6:06 pm
Thanks Vern. I have to add a few things about pisces men. They are the most misunderstood creatures on this earth due to their sensitivity, passiveness, non-confrontationist and emotional behaviours.
In fact, we are liked by other zodiacs ‘mainly’ because of our non-confontational, kind and sympathetic behaviour (when we act as Dolphins using our hearts). That’s why we also tend to be taken for granted.
However, when we use logic, rationale, and eloquence (which we pisceans are very good at provided we use it), we can floor any one to the ground when the most stubborn ones (act as Sharks). This is where the problem starts. People, generally, don’t want us to be Sharks since they mostly want to see pisces as funny, jovial, kind, playful and condsiderate people (like Dolphins). I have witnessed this with a lot of my friends (ex-friends) including aquas, libras, cancers, and scorpios.
Pisces have exceptional minds unlike others provided they use them appropriately and don’t waste them on just day-dreaming.
Aly, Piscean-OX
July 19th, 2008 at 5:08 am
becky, do you have any advise for a pisces male and aries female?? we do fight alot but its because either i say something that pisses him off (and sometimes i say things just to see his reaction, kind of a reassurance thing, just so i know he cares :/),or because he overreacts about something, or just anything in that nature. he is very, very protective and also thinks he’s the one in charge, i think its funny so i don’t give him much grief about it because i do what i want, but not to the point where it’d upset him or anything, but we do bicker alot. trust is a big thing, guess that stems from my insecurities but i’m working on it by not overthinking things, i often times listen to the tricks of the mind so i guess alot of our problems come from that, but he’s insecure. he tells me i can’t have guy friends, or a guy friend he doesn’t know anyways, but i’m ok with that (even though it probably shouldn’t be like that), because i don’t wanna do anything that makes him uncomfortable and i try to keep him happy, but only if he’s doing the same for me. we’ ve been on and off for three years but i love him with all my heart and soul. i’d do anything for him, but i want the fighting to stop. i want to keep our relationship ON.. no more off. that’s all i could ever ask for, ya know?
THANK YOU!
July 20th, 2008 at 7:22 am
Hello ppl or whoevrs reading this…but i a cancer female and i have been with a pisces male for 2.4yrs now and began as bestfriends im not surprised we got together we were always drawn to each other…altho i must say i didnt notice him in the eginning his freinds..but not him..o well.. .to late now…but yea just abt evrything i have been reading sounds abt accurate a pisces male DOES NEED a motherly girlfirend good things cancers are in the fourth house of family etc. etc. cause they need to be takjen care of altho the pisces man does do half of what he needs to on his own he also tends to go towards wht he wants and leaves the business behind.. which is fine as long as its done later which is where the motherly part comes in with the reminding and helping…and the thing is altho he may never fully say it he really and truly appreciates what you do for him or at least my pisces does..his told me he loved a girl before me she was a pisces…but i am his true love and he said it out of nowhere…just like this one day…he was so mad because he parenst kept baggering him with “reality”…and i dont like to see him upset but anyways i gave him a long hug and long kiss and he outta know whre jus said u kno i love you rite…lol i dunno its like u kno he loves you but his randomness makes you really kno…he says im random too i pop up with long love notes and stuf n hes all shocked…i dunno im just the right cancer and woman for him as hes the right pisces and man for me…im extra patient for that is what he NEEDS.. as he is in return becuase hello imma crab i close my feelings…but no more…n i dunno we have a very nspiritual realtionship…lol i dunno i suppose hes found his soulmate, as i believe ive found mine…….and u kno really what i came on here for was to comment on how someone on here said ONLY scorpios are compatible…uuuhhh no i mean scorpios are pretty good but they have the shortest patience i know becuase of my mom and friend and they need the same amount of attention the pisces will be lookin for so in a realtionship i really dnt think they needa be fightin each other ovr attention…but anyways cancers are good…we might throw reality at ‘em sometimes but hey there needs to be balance n thts whut i do at least throw in a little business n a lot of pleasure n fantasy ..thats just how i am anyways…hey imma cancer the most adaptable so ive read…um capricorns are good i remember one of my pisces friends went out with this capricorn and it was pretty good but capricorns arent abt fantsy at all really they have all the fun in the world once their chores are down…i say the most responsible or at least my friend was ….but none-the-less…id like to think of it as water goes with water creating an extra large wave of love lol or at least for me…not sooo much with fire..( could work tho but id think itd be hard….um water with earth ( like the globe itself or like planting a seed u need earth and water to help it gro) besides the arguing id say pretty good…water and air i dnt thnk so ( dont believe theyd evr really meet eye to eye.)
*~his gurl~*
July 21st, 2008 at 3:27 am
Hi Becky,
I am a gemini women, dating a picses man, but he is on the cusp of aries, he totally disagrees and doesnt think he has any of the picses qualitys, although i see so many. I think he is trying to hide the fact that he is so sensitive. He is very Romantic, very intune with my emotions and my needs. I have never met a guy that knew my emotions better then myself! but he has some really bad quality’s as well, for instance he always thinks he’s right, and always feels the need to correct my mistakes. Which i do not like at all. He treats me like a child at times, telling me that i need to learn patience or how to listen. Me being a gemini, patience is one thing i have always lacked. Are those bad traits also pisces traits?
Thanks,
Bridget
July 26th, 2008 at 6:48 pm
i am a scorpio currently dating a pisces guy and we get along great. Its like he knows me and how i feel without me saying a word and me vice versa. He does have a short temper and one of the previous posts stated that only a scorpio can calm him down - thats true with him. as soon as he gets heated up whatever i say is just “yeah ur right” and he’s good again. i like my pisces guy!
July 31st, 2008 at 5:39 am
well i’ve think i met my dream man who is so caring and loving it just thrills me .. though i try to smile only when i turn away from him now.. he knows my feelings for him. but anyways i’m a capricorn. and i love my pisces babe. we had recently seperated and now talking again because i think we are so into each other. its addictive!
umm but during the time away from him, i realized how much i loved making him laugh and how he’d brighten my day with a few words. its hard to express my feelings verbally to him which is a good thing because he could feel pressured. i know his flaws and he knows mine as well.
in summary, capricorn loves pisces and pisces loves capricorn, deeply and so sweetly.
August 4th, 2008 at 7:36 pm
Hi Becky,
I seem to like your blog. Therefore, I am here again. Astrology is so interesting and great fun. Anyways, I got a detailed natal chart of mine with various influences on my Pisces (Sun Sign), one being Aquarius in Venus. Searched on it and found our really awful things about people with Venus in Aqua particularly in terms of love matters (detached, lacking emotions, take centuries to propose, non-expressive, friendship over love etc.). A lot of them infact appear to hold relatively true.
Can I change my Venus from Aquarius to some other sign, Hehehe. Sorry, I would appreciate your good explanation about people with Venus in Aqua.
***As far as your dimpled chin question, a know a few Aqua men, I tried very hard to see it but sorry they are all bearded.
Ciao
Aly, The Water OX
August 9th, 2008 at 10:55 pm
Hi all,
I have read interesting comments about the pisces man. I am pisces too (19th mar). I found myself extremely imaginative and sensitive as well. But one thing need to mention that I can control my emotion and act with any type of person while required to convince. I always try to learn the personality from the best person I meet and push myself to be like that. Last few months I was very depressed for some reason. I get over it very quickly and not feeling depressed anymone when the same situation arise. Rather I take them very positively and go beyond to find out the best solution.
I have dated with girls from both Aries and Sagitarius. Both of them I found very agressive, confident and determined which I quite liked and try to follow the attitude that I dont usually have personally.
At this moment I am still not sure who could be the perfect woman for me. Any suggestion about other sings would be great.
Tanveer
August 11th, 2008 at 1:54 am
Hi i’m a female libra.
First forget any typing error, because my first language is not english.
I have read that libra/pisces is not a good match for a long time relationship. At the moment i’m head over heals for a pisces man. There are a few stones in my way with this pisces. First it’s the age difference (i’m 25 he’s 40), he is kind of my mentor and boss, he have divorced twice (with 3 sons as a result); in the other side i’m not very experience (something that frightened him).
I find him so stimulating, soo sexy (mostly for his brain), intelligent, well spoken, mysterious. He’s constanly describing he’s ideal woman and he describe me!!!. I’m a typical libra, talkative, love the glamour, see both sides of everything,indecisive and all the other stuff they say. He is totally attracted to me as i am to him. But i don’t know what to do. I feel this connection, actually everybody feels the connection and the sexual tension at work. When we look into each others eyes we lose ourself and left this world no matter where we are and who is with us. He drives me everyday to my home (is a 5 min car ride) and he goes around the city just so we can talk a bit more (and what conversations we have!!!). Right now we’re friends no more than that. But the attraction it’s both ways, i guess me being the typical libra who have to weight everything in and him being indecisive as well is hard to give the first step. And there’s the divorce and age thing to.
Anybody have a suggestion? I’m so confuse.!!!
August 13th, 2008 at 8:20 pm
Hey everyone…. I am a 26 yr old scorpio woman and i’ve had an experience with a pisces man that has literally shaken me to my core.
We met, he pursued, I avoided, but something had me going….we kept bumping into each other. fate? dont believe it in. he kept pursuing, so i gave him the time of day….he starts calling me ALL the time…learning to TEXT cuz i love it…wanted to see me ALL the time…we started to connect like theres was no tomorrow….the kissing was insane…everything was there…we were on the same page no matter what book we were reading..he felt it…and so did i…then there was intimacy, once…it was like nothing id ever experienced…everything was good……then a few weeks later …he told me he was going thru financial strife…literally, big $$ problems in is business…he started gettin distant…and i started running after him. long story short…he totally changed on me..he would call every ‘now and then’ no more msgs…and I even sensed hostility sometimes when i probed why he was acting evasive…we were never in a solid relationship..more like dating…so then i thought maybe its cuz he decided he didnt want ’seriousness’…but the things he would say to me before…like he was ‘laying out the boyfried platform’…and he was totally into me…and now its all gone…matter of fact i hardly even hear from him..thats it all of a sudden…i still dont hate him even tho my friends do…i was tooo connected to him and miss it..esp after the longest relationsip of my life was with a unexpressive, self-centred unappreciative, impossible to please Virgo man. Any advice folks? what about you picsean men out there? what is UP with him!!!!! how do i know if he didnt he lose interest? (IN A SCORPIO??)
pls help….cuz i CAN NOT STOP thinkin about him!
August 14th, 2008 at 9:52 am
Hi,
It’s true that Pisces are very caring and loving. But only with good people he find. Otherwise, they become very rude and can do anything to get rid of dislikes. Don’t even bother to sacrifice anything.
Tanveer
August 15th, 2008 at 1:51 pm
can anyone help me!
August 15th, 2008 at 5:54 pm
Hey.
Im very confused.
Ive met a pisces male (26), and I think im falling in love. Its very unlike me to fall so quickly, weve been dating just shy of 3 months.
Before we dated we chatted extensively for hours phone calls, msn etc.. to say there was always a connection frm the beg, sounds cheesy but its true. On our first date something just clicked, there were so many little conincidences, he could finish my sentence, or wed say the same thing at the same time. He held my hand, we kissed for the whole date, this date was 13 hours, it was like we knew each other all our lives..
He texts me every day, we talk every day, sometimes twice 3 times a day. The dates have got better and better, in the first two months alone, we spent long weeekends together, round each others houses, which i guess was quite heavy but he wanted it and so did i.
We talked about the future, going on holiday together, he took me to meet his friends, his brother, and his father. I never asked where we were, i just wanted to go with it. I guess we resumed a sort of boyfriend girlfriend relationship, but i didnt want to appear needy or ask where we were going, i wanted to leave it up to him.
Then at the 3 month mark i spent last friday-sunday with him at his house. it was lovely. something changed, he held my hand in the car and looked at me, and i saw in his eyes this look of pure adoration.
Anyway this week, somethng changed. He text me and said sweetheart i cant go on holiday with you, wed arranged a few days away.. then he said something wasnt right and we needed to talk.
So i asked him was he ok, and he sounded pankcy anxious, said what was happening with us, we were acting like boyfriend and girlfriend, and he thinks im perfect, never met anyone like me before he wants a good lady like me in his life, but somethings niggling at him, he feels sad, but he doesnt know why.
I kept asking what it was, was it me? He said it wasnt me, im the best thing in his life, but he said he wants to be friends first. He says he wants to see me as often, spend weekends together, sleep together, just see each other, basically the same as we were, but he seems so scared abou t a label! I said i didnt care about a label, i never pressured him in to a bf/gf type relationship, he said he knew that, id been cool, it was just him.
He said hed never been away on holiday with a girl before, and he hinted in the past that when he has something good, he has the tendency to f*** it up. I reminded him of that, he was quiet. we spoke for two three hours, i got upset, i was frustrated and confused, i hated the label he was putting on us. I cried on the phone, he felt bad, i said i couldnt help that there was something wrong with me, i was taking it personally.. he kept saying it wasnt me..
Anyway, since then hes been caling me, texting me, he wants to spend next weekend together, but i feel anxious. I dont know why that call had to happen. I still feel like there are unanswered questions, i spoke to him today and said im too anxious now, and up and down, and perhaps we should just leave things, so i wont be hurt. He replied and said “no no, i miss you, i really like you, i just dont know how. Plse dont do this, and stop overthinking things”
So we are back to this friends thing, whatever that is.
P.s im a libra girl, (28) I think hes going to break my heart. I feel more for him than ive ever felt for anyone.
I just dont know what to do or how to act anymore.
any advice would be appreciated.
August 16th, 2008 at 11:26 pm
what’s the deal with libra women falling for pisces man??? They mess up our head!!!
August 18th, 2008 at 2:40 pm
Hi,
I have been with a Pisces man for over 13 months and he has become very distant with me.
Another point is that I’m 10 years older than him. He’s 20 and I’m 30 years old.
I met him when he was 19 and I was completely shocked to learn his age because he was probably one of the most maturest men I have ever met. He was deep, intuitive, and reflective along with communicative and funny.
But when I learned his age, I immediately said that we could only be friends.
I’ve dated only older men in my past, usually 10 years older and the thought of dating a younger guy was unheard of. I guess that’s why I was quick to reject him, just because of the age difference.
But he kept on persisting to meet with me as friends and I reciprocated. Each time I saw him, I grew more fond of him. I liked him for he was and the age difference started not to make a difference to me.
Finally after five months of becoming friends and hanging out, we got intimate with kissing.
And he wasn’t after sex, I wanted it and he didn’t want to because his reasons were that “he didn’t want thing to change with us.”
Was this really possible to meet a younger guy whose main objective wasn’t to have sex right away?
But I respected it and we continued to date each other regularly.
But like what the statement says that you wrote, “they are emotional, sensitive, and imaginative.”
He is the purest Pisces man…and I also read what another woman wrote about how her pisces husband rather go out with his friends and drink beer. My pisces man is like this, his friends are more important then being with me.
He lives in his own world and I told him before that I read about pisces man online and how they live in their own worlds, and he confirmed that it was true.
He is unmotivated, running from the world, and is sensitive to anyone’s comments towards him.
I’ve tried my best to excude my confidence on him and it’s worked alright.
I’m a Cancer woman and apparently Pisces is my match..we’re both dreamy, imaginative, intuitive, emotional, sensitive….
But lately, when real life situations comes into play: getting a job, finding work, helping me move to a new flat…he seems to disappear.
On August 1, 2008 I moved to a new flat and he agreed to help me but we got into a small argument before my move because I was a little stressed and he was saying he was sick with a pain in my back, I got angry at him for breaking his obligations with me.
I started to feel the imbalance and distance when I moved to my new flat because now he was no longer wanting to visit me, I had to initiate everything.
Then on August 10, 2008 I met him at the Red Bull Airplane show and when we were talking about our relationship, he blurted out that “he wasn’t my boyfriend.” I got really mad at that and was angry for the rest of the day.
Then last week on Friday, August 15, 2008 he got a temporary job cleaning houses and public places and he was tired. I met him for a beer and invited him to my place for dinner, he said “no” because he had another job assignment to go to. So I opted for Saturday evening and he said “yes.”
On Saturday, August 16, 2008 afternoon, I had a feeling I should’ve called him to confirm our dinner plans before I went out to the market to buy the food. And when I called him he was moody and said “I don’t feel like eating.”
That upset me even more. I just freaked out on him. I told him that “yesterday you agreed you would come to my apartment for dinner, and now you’re saying no because you don’t want to eat?”
And he kept patronizing me saying “Why are you forcing me to eat, when I don’t want to eat?”
And I started crying and said “You’re missing the point, it’s not about the food, it’s about the obligtion. You agreed with me and now you’re saying “No?”
And he said “I said that yesterday because I was tired from work.”
Then his story went to “We’re only friends.”
And I said, “So if you are my friend, why would you hurt me like this?” And he just couldn’t get why I was hurt and crying.
I was upset and yelling things at him saying that I’ve felt this imbalance between us and I’ve felt like he has been pushing me away.
He then just said “it’s the 10 years.”
And I asked him “What?” and he said “It’s the 10 years between us.”
That made me angrier and all my trust was thrown out the window?
Why now would he bring up the age difference? After 13 months of dating each other. He introduced me to his family and I even went out with them a second time to meet his Grandfather.
I think he’s using the 10 year age difference to run away from his responsibilities with having a relationship. He’s just too young to commit and like what it states here, he is running away from himself. He suffers from lack of motivation, depression, and anger.
I am just really hurt that he would say that to me, after I’ve learned to not care about his age by giving him a chance.
We haven’t spoken since this conversation and I assume that it is over.
What should I do?
Thanks for reading this long passage.
Hazel L
August 18th, 2008 at 2:47 pm
To Carolina,
I read what you wrote, I had the same deal happen this past weekend to me with my pisces man. The label thing….It caught my eye, b/c my pisces boyfriend is afraid of the same thing. And like you, I never put pressure on him about it. I’m 30 years old, I have been through 3 major relationships in my life, one that was almost 7 years on and off and one that I was going to marry but didn’t, because I didn’t love him anymore, and the third a serious relationship that lasted 2 years.
So now, i’m totally over labels. It’s what you have with each other that is important to me.
So this label thing..I think these men are just afraid of committment and totally letting themselves go.
I’m sorry you feel this way, I too was upset and crying on the phone when this happened on Saturday, August 16, 2008 and he said the same thing too “I like you, I really do.”
And for the past few days, we haven’t spoken.
And I too don’t know what to do anymore as well.
Hope you read this, just hang in there. I’m trying too as well.
August 18th, 2008 at 5:41 pm
hey Hazel i read your post, and just wanted to say i empathise.. although your relationship has been longer, so it must be much much harder..
I related to the points of depression, short temper, and lack of motivation.
he gets like this, but more with situations not me, he says i make him feel better, and comes to me for a hug when hes stressed with the weather, or on the road with other drivers lol
as quick is he gets in a strop hes out of it, but sometimes i wonder when we wake up if hell be happy, or in a mood..
He has these ideas, and i love his story telling, i could listen for hours, but every day its another idea or dream and although its wonderful he has these dreams, its all quite fickle really but he accepts that and oh how we laugh!
my pisces has slowed down with contact since “we are friends comment 6 days ago.. but hes still in contact every day, and he calls me every other day. this morning he woke up and called me very early which suggests he is constantly thinking about me.
We are seeing each other this weekend, which im so looking fwd to, but i invisage the same.. perhaps in the future, ill see he will let me down with dates etc.. im very intuitive. I dont want it to get to that stage.
Im riding it through because i think he needs time, and wants to grow and get to know me more, but i know i could be in for a big dissapointment. I dont think this man wants to let go, even when ive given him the oppurtunity he freaks out and says he must keep seeing me.. I think they can carry on for ages with no label, and they are content this way.
I will disagree on one point. He has friends, but hes bored of them. They dont go out, they sit round each others houses play computer games, go down the river etc.. he says hes bored of all that, and wants to spend time with a lady. I know that the choice came between spending time with his friends and me at the weekend, hed always choose me..
But i identify with so much, the freaking out bit etc..
i dont know what to say, the only thing ive brought from this, is when i chill out and accept it, hes must more forthcoming. Also sounds silly, but speaking to these guys in a softly spoken reassuring way seems to really help them- kind of like mothering them.
Ive never shouted at my pisces man, was too upset, but i was rational and very soft with him and he seemed to respond very well to this..
I cannot give any advice, coz im stuck and baffled too. But all i would say is talk it over, try not to ask too many questions and be calm and reassuring and pull back a bit, and i think he will come back.. I dont think these men ever dissapear for good, i think they swim a way for while..
Good luck.
August 18th, 2008 at 10:35 pm
I am a gemini woman and I have dated 2 pisces men.
The first pisces most obvious trait was his arrogance. He was so arrogant, that it came off as plain egotistical and rude to my friends and most people who had random run ins with him. I suspect he was over compensating for his insecurities but man was he good at pissing people off!
The second pisces male was the sensitive, quiet, gentle type. At first, this man was SO into me and than he just started to retreat. Not sure why, especially as we didn’t date that long(6 weeks) and everytime we were together, it was a wonderful time. Now, when I say retreat, I don’t mean he specifically tried to avoid me but he stopped taking initiatives, and replying to my emails.
What I mean is, he seemed more than anxious, excited and pleased to see me but I had to initiate everything. He never “stood me up”, for example but just never took any steps, like dropping notes to say “hi” or “will I see you soon?” etc..
Anyway, I decided that I didn’t have the energy to be with him and, as you can imagine, it has been and easy end to bring about. All I had to do was never call/email again! Lol…
I hope that doesn’t sound mean but there’s no point in an actual confrontation with someone who just isn’t there.
August 19th, 2008 at 2:14 pm
Hello Everyone
I found each commet so interesting I had to write something too.
Being an Aquarius always mysteriously drawn to Pisces men,I found that Pisces tend to retreat when they are in a fight or something that might shatter their fantasy world. They either choose to dissapear for a while and then come back as they were, or choose to stay and tell You the meanest things You will ever hear. And by mean I meant really really “MEAN”, since they are so intuitive and intune with their parterns feelings they can use Your weaknesses and flaws to hurt You right in the spot. But I don’t understand why When they realize they’ve hurt You and broken You they come back saying they are sorry and its their fault, that They didn’t mean a word they said at all,and saying “please don’t cry I hate hearing You cry You know that”
Is It What all pisces do? throw mean words at Your face and expect to get a loving smile for it?
My Pisces man “childish man” asked me something I couldnt accept, He wanted Me to change for Him,He wanted to “edit My personality”.As an Idealist Aquarian I would NEVER allow that I need to preserve My freedom and My individuality. We talked for 2 hours and He was ever so mean to Me I cried Like a heartbroken teenager. As soon as I shed a tear all of a sudden He started being sweet again and said sorry and that He loved me for what I am. Then he confessed something “I only wish You could be more tollerant of me…that You could be on My side whatever I do to You” I mean how can I take it if He Intentionally hurts Me!? and expects Me to be more in love with Him even if He does act like a jerk.
Is it an implus they have to be mean at times even a little cruel to Their loved ones becouse of their arrogance? I am guessing the reason they act so “secure” is that some poeple “like me” make the mistake of showing them that We Only and TRUELLY care about them and would never give them up.Maybe this knowledge makes them feel so secure and arrogant that they think “I know whatever I do to Her She’ll always com back to Me, she loves Me”
But isnt it obvious if they keep thinking this “illusion” of us never leaving them even if they stab us right in the heart, eventually we will leave for real!??
P.S: another thing Aly You said that Pisces are superficial is it Always the case? I mena do You fall in love for Personality and caring or Looks and charms?
August 19th, 2008 at 9:19 pm
I am dating a man with a Pisces Moon, Libra Sun, and Scorpio Venus. It’s a very weird combo. Sometimes he’s funny and present; other times, distracted, sarcastic, and very moody. I am a Cancer sun, Taurus moon, Leo Venus with Pluto in first house (strong scorpionic tendencies). I just feel I don’t know where I’m at with him alot and then when he gets sarcastic, watch out!!! Between the Libra sun (arguing) and the scorpio stinger, it’s strange and not very good for me. I wish things could work but I am afraid I am on my way out, as he’s disrespected me many times (I don’t care what you have to say, be quiet, etc.) I can’t live with that. Good luck everyone else…hope this helps someone.
August 20th, 2008 at 4:47 pm
Hey Carolina
Thank you so much for your reply.
I really appreciate you taking the time to tell me abour your experiences.
And the last part of communicating in a calm manner, I will try to apply. Nobody’s perfect, but I’ve battled with bouts of anger in relationships.
So you’re right, when I yelled at him because I was angry and frustrated, he shyed away.
We still haven’t spoken, and reading your post I think I will try to apply what you wrote with speaking softly and reassuring, I agree with that. I’ve spoken to him that way before and it helped. So i’ll chill out for now and really consider what you have wrote to me.
Good luck to you too, I hope your next meeting with him, you can start over and be back on the road again of friendship and love.
August 22nd, 2008 at 9:19 pm
Hope this helps provide some additional insight to all you lady’s trying to understand male Pisces. I can only speak for myself. Like most male Pisces, I tend to respond better when spoken to in a softer tone of voice, then again most people do. Rarely loose my temper. Being extremely intuitive they could use your “weakness” against you verbally, then apologize for doing so. A lot of times this maybe out of frustration. Understand, until they have matured or decide enough and change, this tendency can continue.
Being extremely intuitive, we tend to connect very quickly with others. Far beyond what most other signs have encountered. You have all mentioned how you have felt, reacted etc both personally,emotionally and physically. What you seem to be describing is “chemistry”. If they have become withdrawn, means they need space. If this has happened after you have been together for more than 3 months, they want out.
Most are aware, yet personally, I have no clue as to impact I have personally to others when first seeing or meeting someone. All my friends (female and male) mention and comment to me about this. Perhaps that is what occured and your pisces just do not know how to handle this once they realize just how much you care for them, as they by that time are fighting with themselves to leave, accept and/or work through there emotions to stay. We do not just date, we prefer a relationship.
We tend to live in a dream state, but not all. Never asked anyone to change for me. Not good in any “relationship” regardless of sign. A lot just has to do with how each can accept each other, including each others faults.
August 23rd, 2008 at 12:34 pm
I am currently pursuing a relationship with a Pisces man. I have known him for over four years now… and ever since I met him the feeling I get when I’m with him has been electric.
He is exactly as is described above. Very passionate and caring… very sweet and loving. I took him for granted once and I refuse to do that again.
I’ve been reading on other websites that relationships between Virgos and Pisces aren’t likely to last… but I’m going to be the one to change that. I am determined to make him mine, forever. And I will do whatever it takes to keep him. I love him. And I’m sure he knows this, I don’t have to say it.
Right now we are over 300 miles apart… I’m supposed to (possibly) see him this weekend… I can’t wait.
August 27th, 2008 at 2:59 pm
Ok…
I heard from the Pisces guy that I recently dated. After a week and a half of not calling/email, he writes to find out if I am ok and where I am and all that stuff.
After giving me a cold shoulder, he decides he wants me around. Anyway, I am taking the text book advice and accepting that this isn’t going anywhere… man, pisces dude are weird.
August 27th, 2008 at 11:16 pm
I’m a cancer women with a pisces man…dating a year this week….everything was going ok or so I thought when he suddenly gave me this wake up call…saying that I put my kids (from my previous marriage) first and not him…that he wants to be my first but understands that my kids have to be my 1st…he gets jealous and selfish and isn’t afraid to show it…he said he is gonna start living his life like I do mine with no regard to his….no matter how I tried to defend myself and tell him I never intentionally tried to hurt him, he didn’t believe me…ever since then, he has backed off on our regular daily communications but when we are together he seems fine…something in him has changed and I’m not sure what it is but I don’t want to lose him…
August 28th, 2008 at 10:54 pm
can anyone tell if a pisces man will go well with a cancer woman than with a pisces woman?
September 1st, 2008 at 2:23 am
bucky…..i’m a cancer woman too been with a pisces man for a year and 8 months…3 months a we dated ,i did see a change in him too,but then with time i realised why he was being distant…but you know what time will tell…you will get the answers very soon…
September 1st, 2008 at 5:28 am
I’m a CANCER MONKEY woman who has a LEO MONKEY man as my current boyfriend, is this a good combo? We already started talking about starting a family together, even though it’s too early for that but is there any hope for a good relationship between us? Also, being a monkey I am sneaky, hyper and loves being such a pain but there’s one thing I read about Monkeys on your site that is not really true about me - I DON’T like going out much, I DON’T have great social skills and I don’t like getting much attention, unless I have something important to say. Are these traits just blended qualities from both my Monkey and my Cancer side? I’m a water monkey if it helps you further to solving my question, so is my boyfriend.
September 1st, 2008 at 10:07 pm
I am a scorpio women who was married to a pisces man. We were married until he died from Cancer. I dated for several year but I was not happy with anyone except for my cancer who was married. I finaly let my cancer go and started dating again. I met another pisces and I am in love all over again. I agree a scorpio women and pisces man is a perfect match!!!!
We are getting married soon
September 2nd, 2008 at 7:22 pm
Over the last few weeks, I have done some research on the detailed natal charts of my friends and siblings. Finally, I have come to the conclusion that merely the sun sign of an individual does not reflect the true personality and basing a person on it is simply incorrect.
We as individuals have lot of varied influences of other signs depend on the planetary positions of these signs in our chart e.g. I found that me being a pisces male (mercury in pisces) with venus and jupiter in aquarius and moon and mars in capricorn is not a typical pisces as described by astrology in general to be emotional, sensitive, impulsive, and blah blah blah. Although, the sun sign does affect the personality but in cases it has been observed that other influences over come the traits of the sun sign (Becky may explain it better???). One of my aquarian friend with with venus in pisces resembles more of piscean personality in relationships than me. e.g. In matters of heart, I am not interested in women with emotional, melodramatic tones and conventional types which I should being a pisces. why i give more preference to communication and intellect in a woman than merely here physical charm and beauty. While thisfriend of mine being an aquarian likes typical docile women with not much intellect but good looks (nothing wrong with that). Why is this difference? my guess is that detailed charts are essential.
I am talking ‘venus’ here in particular because this planet mostly tells you about your behaviour towards relationships and personal interactions and about love than any other planet. I have seen a sagittarius with venus in scorpio to be different than a typical sag. More so, planets in houses are also important in explaining the personality types.
Therefore in my own personal opinion, saying that all pisceans, aquas, caps, and sags, are alike in their zodiac indicates little knowledge of us which I also expressed earlier in this blog.
Have a nice day.
Aly, the Water OX
September 5th, 2008 at 4:19 pm
I am a Libra sun, Libra ascendant with a Sag moon who is dating a Pisces/Aries cusp, Taurus moon guy who is driving me bonkers! He plays push me, pull me all the time. I never know from one day to the next if I’m in his life, being pushed out of his life, or pulled back in again. He is the moodiest person I’ve ever gone out with. When he is in his good moods, things are absolutely wonderful. We have a lot in common and he’s talented, witty and has tons of personality. However, when he is in one of his dark moods, OMG, I can’t do or say anything right! We’ve been dating several months now, and, frankly, I’m almost at the end of my rope.
He’ll spend 3-4 great days with me and then I don’t see him for two weeks (we do talk though). He’ll talk about doing things in the future, yet trying to pin him down during the week is impossible. He’s also very secretive, but he wants to know everything that I do. Yes, he’s controlling also. We only do what he wants to do - compromise is not a word in his vocabulary. Also, he has a lot of female friends, which is fine, but due to things I know for a fact about his past, I believe some of these friends may be more than just friends, but I’m not sure, and he certainly won’t tell me anything. Any advice?? I am madly in love with him, but I’m beginning to wonder if it’s really worth it….
September 6th, 2008 at 5:28 am
Wow.. to reply I was dating a libra oct 10th @ is like how u said the pisces u talk about I don’t understand him at all he is so sneaky @ dishonest. I’m a pisces cusp too march 20. I will tell u this though watch out for the cusp man ur are dating I’ve dated one his dob match 19 he also had lots of friends and it was more then friends they love women @ sex. the key to getting him to act right is make him chase u . when he gets in his good moods don’t respond to him.. and be direct @ blunt demand he compromise with u or else.. I know cause I can be the same. I love a chase that is the only me that gets my attention the ones I want but can’t have.
September 8th, 2008 at 1:22 am
Hello everyone, im a scorpio girl n just came out off a relationship with a pisces male. My god am i happy i am out of that. Don’t get me wrong i love pisces bcoz my little sister is one, bt he was so hard to be with.
At the beginning it was fine, like the first month. He was loving, really sensitive and made me feel real good, plus he was a great lover. But i dont no what happened he jus changed! He became distant and started to lie alot He said he just had alot on but he wouldnt tell me anything and being a scorpio i need to no everything lol. he never let me no where we went wrong just brushes everything off like its nothing. He was the first pisces man i have been with but from what i experienced their nothing but bulls**tters and lack communication skills
September 8th, 2008 at 9:24 pm
I am aries female dating a pisces male and have been dating over 4 months. He told me he loved me after two and a half months and we have been like loves young dream since then. We see lots of each other and have spent weekends away. His tactile nature and romantic words have swept me away and Im loving the connection and chemisty we have. Are our signs compatible as I have read many blogs saying things could start well and go badly wrong? I am quite a loving tactile aries though and have not ever been in a relationship where someone is so open with their loving emotions!
September 9th, 2008 at 1:43 am
Hi i’m a female libra.
First forget any typing error, because my first language is not english.
I have read that libra/pisces is not a good match for a long time relationship. At the moment i’m head over heals for a pisces man. There are a few stones in my way with this pisces. First it’s the age difference (i’m 25 he’s 40), he is kind of my mentor and boss, he have divorced twice (with 3 sons as a result); in the other side i’m not very experience (something that frightened him).
I find him so stimulating, soo sexy (mostly for his brain), intelligent, well spoken, mysterious. He’s constanly describing he’s ideal woman and he describe me!!!. I’m a typical libra, talkative, love the glamour, see both sides of everything,indecisive and all the other stuff they say. He is totally attracted to me as i am to him. But i don’t know what to do. I feel this connection, actually everybody feels the connection and the sexual tension at work. When we look into each others eyes we lose ourself and left this world no matter where we are and who is with us. He drives me everyday to my home (is a 5 min car ride) and he goes around the city just so we can talk a bit more (and what conversations we have!!!). Right now we’re friends no more than that. But the attraction it’s both ways, i guess me being the typical libra who have to weight everything in and him being indecisive as well is hard to give the first step. And there’s the divorce and age thing to.
Anybody have a suggestion? I’m so confuse.!!!
September 16th, 2008 at 12:54 pm
Hi,
I met a Pisces man once in my life, when I was 15 or so (he was my first love).I knew he was interested in me and I was so much in love with him but we were both very shy to admit our feelings.We just kept sending letters to each other every single week. Result? The time passed by and we finally got lost….After 12 years the same guy found me and he sent me like thousands of e-mails, he added me to msn, gtalk, everywhere and he even called me…! We were never friends (as there was always something more than that, between the two of us) and therefore I do not believe that the whole thing was a friend’s approach from the very beginning. I was shocked obviously and I was quite kind but I did not know what to say, or how to react and suddenly he stopped talking to me!!! Whenever I talk to him, he is busy …and some times he talks to me out of the blue. What is happening? No idea…I was just wondering if anyone else went through a similar situation with a Pisces male so that he could give some advice on how to behave.I am so confused
Thanks!!
September 17th, 2008 at 1:00 am
Pisces = rabbit( chinese astrology)
you could be born under Pisces sign and at the same time be born under different chinese yearly astrology sign such as tiger,dragon,snake,rat,goat,,,,,,
i am born under year of a rabbit(Pisces), month of a Pisces(rabbit),and day of a rabbit(Pisces) and my chinese astrology element is FIRE and I love martial arts,admire Che Guevara …….?i don’t get depressed?i dont shy away from conflict?i stand up for what is right?i dont let others to boss me around? Plato said “Human behavior flows from three main sources: desire, emotion, and knowledge.” peace
September 19th, 2008 at 4:57 pm
In all honesty we are the most hurtful of all the signs but its not our fault! The attraction to us comes quickly. I’m being serious I’ve had many girls tell me they have never fallen for someone so fast and i’m not putting out game im being myself. this leads to them wanting to cage me and of course we run from commitment. If you give us space when we need it we will start to want you more. I don’t like being trapped early but its hard for me to hurt the feelings of those i talk to which in retrospect hurts them more because they think i was leading them on.
remember we are the perfect listeners, and i am often the one that everyone comes to to vent their life stories too as well. I apologizes for those who have ruined our name but in all honesty i’m the most faithful guy out there cuz i only need one but we have alot on our minds because we have everyone’s weight on our shoulders. we know how crappy the world is thats why we are dreamers.
those other fishes suck i love football but i love my women more, they jus gotta find me..
September 20th, 2008 at 4:16 am
Pisces Male 88,
Are you 88 years old??? I indeed liked your comment a lot. What little you have written about the pisces guy really fits the criteria for some although there are various pisces-types. Me being one have noticed that committment is the big ‘turn-off’ for us mostly. I have been with different women over the years but I have always kept my distance which is usually not taken in good stead. Nobody wants to be caged or cage anyone. I guess, life for us is like a “free flowing water and we just like to swim in it without any nets”.
I quite agree that people often try to not just load but over-load us with their emotional baggages because we are good listeners and can do it for hours (but I’ve overcome that).
I also agree that (not the crappy world as an optimist) the world is becoming is becoming so self-centred, materialistic, and blah, blah, blah, that we tend to live in our own world of dreams as well as reality that I must say brings the best out of us in terms of solace, peace of mind, creativity, and comfort. Due to this generally cruel world of ours, we have the best of sense of humours.
Ciao
September 20th, 2008 at 9:58 am
o yeah! i just recently met a pisces guy. its tru! its so easy to fall for them. they are really really funny. it makes the whole convo a lot more interesting. but the thing with pisces guys are, you are not sure if you have really fallen for them or its because they are so entertaining and well informed..
but its hard to get them to open up about themselves more. how do you get a pisces guy to talk about himself?
September 20th, 2008 at 6:30 pm
A few things include, Be honest, friendly, confident, and express your originality as a person; they will open bit by bit. I know its very frustrating but it works in certain ways.
September 22nd, 2008 at 12:01 am
I have been dating a pisces man for a few months and he is a great person. However, he is extremely insecure and needy and needs much too much attention. That is exactly what I don’t want in a relationship. I want someone who is independent and secure. I do not like jealous people and someone who seems extremely moody and easily depressed. He doesn’t seem to have too many hobbies and he seems a little girly boy to me. Way too sensitive for me. I’m not saying that he isn’t a good guy, but perhaps not for me. I am a Libra, so I guess we are not a good match.
September 24th, 2008 at 10:42 am
JJ, yeah. they are really sensitive. and ur right bout the not many hobbies…
how do you apologise to a pisces? i think i might have hurt one tonight.. hehe
October 2nd, 2008 at 10:30 pm
I am a Sag with a pisces man. who i just meet in july, here we are Sept, he asked me to be his girl friend. which i was in heaven when he did. I love him as a matter afact. iam in love with him. by now lots of feelings and emotions have opend up in my heart. this is crazy but i really feel good about him, but I am afraid of getting hurt, he knows this. i have told him i am not willing to share any part of him. he has told me that I will not share him. with anyone. and I dont want to get hurt in any way. I told him Iam in love with him,his answere was should i belive this i said “yes” why should u not believe me. I have had the most wonderful times with him and he is a lover of lvers in bed and out of bed his is funny cute loveing affectionate,warm,handsome,beautiful smile,dancer oh my goddness. losts of energy he is a loving uncle,brother,friend,and if he lazy so am i who cares he is a pisces Iam a Sag. i will go with what i have of him and my own Intuition of his love and his friendship to me. Iam a Sag.
October 3rd, 2008 at 12:24 am
The Pisces guy wants to see me again. He even sent me a cute message about giving me his heart… Weird… haven’t heard from him in weeks. He has never implied anything romantic with me before. Yes, he indicated his attraction to me but that’s all.
I am seeing someone else now but am definitely curious to see what phase the pisces guy is in now. Even if he is for real, he is eventually gonna pull away again. Or, at least that’s the impression I get from all these posts.
I think that I am gonna go ahead and see the pisces guy. Just one date and see what’s going through his mind. Yes, I am sincerely attracted to him but I am more curious about him. It feels almost like a puzzle that I want to figure out.
If there really is something there still, than I will break up with the cancer guy that I am dating. Btw, I am a gemini. I always end up with cancers/geminis for some reason. A few pisces along the way.
I wonder if my disapearing act is what worked? I just dropped off the face of the planet. Maybe he enjoys the chase?
Feel free to comment anyone…lol
October 7th, 2008 at 6:26 pm
I am a pisces female… dating a pisces male for the first time… talk about attraction and sexual compatability. We are so much alike in a lot of ways…
Mysterious… yes… romantic.. yes…
And in the bedroom… fabulous.
October 8th, 2008 at 9:29 pm
is there any one out there that will give me some kind of an answere to my pisces man. and a Sag. it will be two months an we still see each other and have good times with one another
i really like him alot he now says to me after chatting on the phone hell say ” I love u” an I will at times ask him for a kiss and hell give one out to me on the phone this is odd not to many me like doing this right? hell say to me I really like u lot love u. this makes me fell good. and this is the first time any one has said this to me. an its been sometime since any man has told me he loves me. Oh an mind u he is very affectinate with me. What is any one out there, A man of couse ( Pisces Man ) your out look to all this that i have posted . be onest and sincere Please thnks
cc rider
October 10th, 2008 at 8:59 pm
im an 23 year old aries and i was with a pieces guy for 4 years it was a horrible relationship he didnt care at all and beat me up alot! the relationship ended badly as he cheated on me then completely ripped me off in all he is a sly selfish person. I am once again in a relationship with a pieces guy who is also 23 and he loves nothing more than a drink and is always talking about fighting the only sensative side ive seen to him so far is he likes having a cuddle in bed he has a lot of charictaristics of my 1st pieces guy scary eh but he hasnt done any wrong 2 me but early days and he is a big flirt which i hate!! but i am ur typical aries ha x
October 12th, 2008 at 4:16 pm
Hi guys,
I’m an 35 yo Ox Pisces man (like you Aly). The girly thing about pisces doesn’t work with me, but, I think this is because of my ox side. In my very personal opinion, pisces people are being always negatively criticised about the same traits (highly emotional, depressed, etc, etc, etc) and it makes me tired. I think that we are very, but very strong. The fact that we don’t express our emotions is due to our way of thinking that is “I can deal with that, so why bother other people?”. Of course we are emotional, and that’s why the best art ever made is always created by pisces people, don’t get me wrong thinking that I’m over estimating my sign, but analise this people:
- Chopin (does anyone know any better pianist ever?).
- Michelangelo (such bad painter!!!)
- Villa Lobos (brazilian composer, listening to his music is just like feeling the nature getting form after the big bang)
- Bobby Womack (the “feeling: itself)
- George Harrison (for me, the best Beatle)
- Sly Stone (took black music to other level)
- Jack Kerouac (gave the society at that time a wake-up call)
- Liza Minelli (the finesse itself)
- Michael Caine (such bad actor!!!)
- Jerry Lewis (made money playing the idiot)
- Nat King Cole (my father is a non-speaking english person, a stubborn capricorn and he cries listening to this man’s voice)
- Glenn Close (yes, pisces people steam rabbits)
- Spike Lee (too good to be alive)
And not just in art, there’s Graham Bell, the man who invented the telephone, Copernicus, Einstein, etc…
The thing is, pisces people look beyond and don’t give importance to the formated requests of life, they are boring and don’t suit us. We are very good actors, but we leave this quality to the stage.
Other thing, there’s a lot of bad comments about our lack of confidence (????). In my opinion, confidence sometimes is just acting, and I could tell some star signs that think themselves very confident and when things don’t happen in their way, they go home, with the tail in between their legs and they cry like babies. Pisces men don’t do it. People say we don’t like competition (like Aries, or Taurus), but why to compete when you know that you are good at what you are doing?
Pisces can recognize an a**hole from miles away, that’s why we get a bit arrogant sometimes, pisces guys love to pay back with the same coin (sometimes even with a higher coin, and we don’t ask for the change). Yes, we are quiet, but that’s because we spend a bit of time analysing the enviroment and the people, so we can use the right words at the right moment, we can’t stand pedantry.
Poor are the people who will start an argument with a pisces, take a good lawyer with you, pisces guys will have a good reply for every word exposed by the other part. We are sensitive and easyly hurt, but sometimes we hurt with words that will stay in the other person’s life for the rest of her/his life.
Sometimes women with pisces men tend to think that they are too good for them and on reality, pisces men are just seeing them digging their own hole. As I said before, pisces people see beyond and when relationships come to these terms (like: “I’m too good for you”), pisces men think: “No problem, “too good” doesn’t exist, thank God I’m getting rid of you”.
Yes, our bitter side is as profound as the way I wrote above and, I believe, causes really deep wounds.
Becky, your web page is really nice, my daughter is 1 year and 4 months. She’s a gemini (like you) and is already the Queen of Communication, I think she will turn me to a fishbone !!! She knocks me out!!! But beautifully!!!
All the best!!!
Enry
October 12th, 2008 at 6:04 pm
http://www.cafeastrology.com/articles/venuspiscescompatibility.html
I’d go there to see if you and your pisces mate are good for eachother or if not; why youre not.
& for JAMIE = pisces will swim away if your playing games. to try & avoid getting hurt.
pisces need stability & emotonal security
if you wont give that to them then its probably better you dont ger back into contact w/ them. it’ll probably just hurt them more than help them.
October 13th, 2008 at 8:19 am
My husband is a Pisces and he is the sweetest guy I have ever met in the whole world. We have been together about 6 years, and somehow we still manage to love each other! He doesn’t like sports, but loves beer. He’s very manly on the outside (being in the marine corp) but on the inside he is as sweet as sugar. I have never met anyone as humble, and whole hearted in my life. He has never cheated on me, maybe told some white lies but that’s it (and I found out later)… I always wonder what it would be like to be with a Scorpio or cancer because astrology always says those are the best signs a female Pisces should be with. I don’t know why they don’t say Pisces should be with other Pisces because we get along really well. I mean we are social when we want to be, but I love living in our own little world together. I have friends and school and he has work so that is enough reality for me! Pisces men love to kick back and relax, but also love to go out and party. We are both Pisces/rabbits and easy natured. He is not very emotional, but I think he tries to be strong for me. I have enough emotions to last 2 life times. I love being with a Pisces because he doesn’t hurt my self esteem like some signs would, listens and understand my problems, and has a beautiful sole. I honestly could say I love Pisces guys!!
I also want to add when we were together before he joined the marine corp he couldn’t hold a steady job and we were both floating through life, but now the govt. makes him to go work everyday because he is in the marine corp. So we aren’t just floating along anymore and we both have responsibilities. I do understand when people say that Pisces couples need an accountant because it is hard for us to get things done as a team… I don’t care though because other then that our relationship is perfect!
October 13th, 2008 at 2:56 pm
Im going to have to agree with Vanessa on this one,
the father of my son is a pisces…and I had some of the WORST years of my life with him.(Im a gemini)
He was soooo lazy ,cried ALL the time.was never dependable. When I was pregnant I was feeling a little nausiated and sent him out to get me a 7-up and he didnt come back untill 7am the next morning …and he didnt even get the soda.
We both started off as high school dropouts with no jobs or drivers licences.Within about 4 months I had my G.E.D., drivers licence and a jog.Now 3 years later he still has non of those.
The only positive thing I have to say about him is that he is a wonderful father and is very very involved in our sons life.
October 14th, 2008 at 3:38 pm
Hi Enry,
I couldn’t disagree a word of what you have expressed about pisces men. I may add that pisces have very sharp minds and quick thinking for any type of work/activity which attracts them and they can easily shock and flatten people with their logical argumentation and eloquence.
Being an OX in chinese zodiac, I must say that it brings out a strong personality and the ability to control the emotional side of pisces. Ox people don’t cry, keeps issues to themselves, think rational and practical, love their freedom, dependable, self reliant, and work hard and much more.
You post was interesting and informative. keep on writing if you find time.
Aly, the water-OX
October 16th, 2008 at 7:03 pm
Thanks Ali,
On reality I’ve wrote because I had a look on your posts before, and I thought them pretty good and real. The other reason that made me expose my opinions in an astrology website is that I think justice is not being made to our star sign as I said in my first post. I know we are far from perfect, but I feel sorry for some of the posts above when people mentioned that they had a miserable life with a pisces man. Those ones that say “my pisces man didn’t have a hobby”, honestly, there’s something really wrong with this fellow piscean, because pisceans just can’t live without some creative extra activity in their lives and in my case I take my hobby as serious as my regular job (sometimes even more), so I’d say to the ladies that if your pisces guy doesn’t have a hobby, dump him, because something is really wrong (probably he grew up in a really hard environment or he was raised by uneducated people). I have piscean friends and ALL of them have hobbies.
Other thing that you will agree with me Aly:
“Pisces guys know what a woman likes”. Doesn’t matter her star sign, as soon as we know her, we are able to write her instructions manual.
This is for the women: “Ageing beside a pisces man is honorable”. I’ve read that we are considered naive in love matters and I disagree. I think we are passive, and maybe the other part thinks that we can’t see, when on reality, we are feeling sorry for others stupidity.
I don’t know, I just don’t see us like the “crying and depressed people” that I read everywhere, it must be the other pisces combinations with the chinese astrology or the planets in the chart.
I think we are hard workers as you mentioned in your last post and also perfeccionists.
I think our bad goes like:
- Stubborness,
- I think we get enchanted with anything that “LOOKS” good and this is not good sometimes,
- We should sell ourselves better, we are too humble (there’s a lot of fake propaganda in other star signs),
- We should know how to say “no” earlier in life,
- We should learn how to explain that “time to ourselves” doesn’t mean “I don’t want to be with you”,
- We should write shorter posts,
That’s all for today Aly, the Ox has to go to work.
Want to hear from you,
All the best!!!
Enry
October 16th, 2008 at 7:41 pm
Ok WOW! I’ve been reading this on and off trying to get some insight to my 3 year on and off with my Pisces male. I wish I could figure it out!! I’m not sure if maybe I just haven’t gotten to the point of seeing his all sensitivity and what not but it comes soooo sporadically.
In our past he’s pursued me every single time. We have a casual thing for a few months and I get tired of him not wanting to commit to a little more, so we go separate ways. In a few months he comes back, always him initiating the contact and we repeat the same cycle.
This most recent time we’ve actually been in contact steadily for about 10 months but I can’t ever peg him down. When its great, its great. Feel connected to him on a level that I don’t with anyone else. But then he’s gone. I don’t feel I can depend on him for anything.
We both share the same thought that if we’ve been doing this on and off for 3 years, through other partners and a child on my side, then there must be something here that is too wonderful to let go. But I’m not sure how much more of this I can take. I feel like I’m wasting my life waiting for him and he’ll never come around but I also know that I can’t get over him nor do I want to. I know what I feel for him but I’ve never been able to actually tell him. I always try to make sure that he knows that he’s the one I want and that there is no one else for me, but I’ve never actually told him that I love him. Is telling him that going to push him further away or bring him to me??
October 17th, 2008 at 10:12 pm
well i have tryed to tell u my story but there is not feed back frm any one so i gues its not important to any one .
I have a pisces and its killing me he says there is no one else but i hurt wen he leaves an only i have to call him an he does not but has never told me not to call him back . but has given me home # to call there .
it been i a while no sex and yes i have gone to his home to find that he is sleepting alone and let me in we taked and no i did not stay i went home and we were going to mee the next day but he has to wk and he surprizenly calle and stated that he has an option an took it wkd on a wed thursday nite football field and we would go out friday well its friday and i fear the wait if he hell call or not I love him though but this is it if he does not call i will not call him at all this will kill me but will see what will happen right right! cc
October 18th, 2008 at 6:02 am
Hi Enry
Must say that I found humour in your post. If the Ox finds time from work, toil, labour, and ploughing, read the post.
It’s true that all these frustrated women (sorry ladies) have been with the wrong Pisces if they don’t have any hobbies or are too laidback. Mostly, Piscean males have too many interests and diverse hobbies which is bad as we tend to lack focus on certain elements of our life at times. I suppose we are interested in almost anything concerning life such as arts, philosophy, technology, architecture, geography, cultures, books, sports, adventure, travelling, tourism, current affairs, the unknown, mystery, relationships, family, and last but not the least…..women. I agree dump my Piscean brothers who are boring, without any hobby, and are too laidback. You deserve it guys.
Being a Fish, I should say that I really don’t have much preference for women with respect to their colour, ethnicity, nationality, and age. I always try to find something best in a woman not just as a woman but as a person. One can admire the innocence, beauty, and energy of a young woman but also the intellect, grace, and communication of an older woman. The only issue is that we keep our emotions to ourselves (which at times is frustrating for others) as we rationally know that every woman can’t be your love so why waste your emotions on everyone and go search for the right one. We surely are taken as being passive in matters of the heart as we don’t wear our heart on the sleeve…but we also know that sans women, this world would have been a barren desert. Pisceans also have this bad habit at times that the woman we love, we believe that she’s flawless which is terribly wrong with us. No-one is perfect, neither me nor she.
In various capacities, I have been with women of most zodiacs and have tried best to avoid arguments and even if they do happen, I am the one who mostly tries to approach keeping intact my self-respect. There is something that we understand about women but I am not sure what it is as we often get along with them better than men. Help??? I suppose Pisces people also know well that every person in the world can’t be made happy and relationships are surely way complicated so it’s better to avoid useless and mundane confrontations and stresses. By the way, it is also good for mental health and protects one from Alzheimer’s disease later in life (every cell organ can redevelop gradually but not the brain cells).
Enry, I also agree that boring and depressed people to us are a big turn off. It feels like that you have been suffocated or put in a coffin. Unfortunately, I have seen many zodiacs considered as the most lively to be quite dull and boring at times, therefore, why this misconception and general judgement that Pisceans have the tendency for depression. Probably the emotional ones are. Can’t say. I know I will live for only once and there will be no reincarnation at least for me (can’t say of others) so try to have some good time if life is available to you.
Sorry, being a Pisces, can’t write any shorter even if I try too. Becky, Thanks for tolerating these long posts.
Have a nice day. Keep on posting. Peace.
Aly, The Water-OX
October 18th, 2008 at 9:30 am
OMG ok im a pisces and i always want to help others and then when i need help its as if no one can help me or atleast when i use to need help you know with my emotions and stuff but i found my sister as of late and she totally understands everything i talk about. Neways, I seem to always attract women who care nothing about love and think im crazy for being open with my emotion and caring about things others feel are not important….when i ask them whats wrong the freakout because my thought of what is going on is correct. I’m not sure what im getting at but basicly why is it so hard for me to find love? i’ve read everyones responce and i can relate to someof em but really none at all because i’ve dated a gemi and the only reason it didnt last was because i moved away and with aquas i seem to be more of the friend and i just dont try to be with them….so why is it so hard i want love so bad i dont expect much i mean is it that hard to be funny and caring and most of all want love? gggeeezzz. i dunno.
October 20th, 2008 at 4:13 pm
Hi Aly!
Good to hear from you! Just before coming to work I was in the shower and in a sudden all this posting thing came to my mind and I got myself thinking: “What would I be if I didn’t have any hobby ?”, I just thought about what JJ and O__O have been through with a piscean with no hobbies. You know Aly, I think we are ok, but we desperately need to, somehow, release all the energy (good and bad) that we absorb from people and enviroments because at the same time that we are peaceful and bla,bla,bla, in the other hand, if we acumulate too many things inside, we turn to a bomb that will explode and cause a lot of damage around.
The thing is that we are good with words and if we use them in the bad way it hurts. Is like, if we get nasty, we know which words to use and hurt someone. I hope that JJ and O__O also had the chance to read this, because I thought about myself, being someone with no extra activity rather than my regular job, and honestly, I think I would be the saddest person on earth and if you feel in this way, how to be with someone else ? Would be hard enough being you with yourself.
Fortunately, I had the chance to be with woman of every star sign available during the course of my life, and when I evaluate the pros and cons, I ended up smiling and thinking that everyone of them were great, beautiful women (because we like the beauty) and even if something went really wrong, I just think that I was needing that at that moment and took the lesson to myself.
Aly, the only thing I don’t believe in astrology is the love matching part, because you know, when we are in relationships, both parts blend to each other and both change. Don’t tell me that this is a pisces thing (that we are like water and we change forms to fit the container), any person from any star sign changes to fit better in the relationship. For example, they say pisces and aries don’t match, but personally, I just can’t resist an aries woman, even before asking their names, I know them, and they are attracted to me too, somehow. I had a virgo girlfriend before, virgos are supposed to be our opposite sign, and she is one of the best women I ever met in any aspect.
Aly, I think that life actually is too busy and people are loosing the ability to talk, comprehend and open themselves. Is like, your ability to play games in a relantionship worths more than your quality of being spontaneous, because, in my opinion, games are full of acting and you play, play, play and your “yourself” is always in there asking you : “Let me out! Let me out!” Oh man! That’s painful.
I’m not saying that you don’t need to play, but depending on how the relationship develops, it has to stop, because is energy taking thinking how your next strategy will be.
Sorry Aly, I’m just helping you with your reading exercise…
Always a pleasure talking to you. Peace!
Enry
October 22nd, 2008 at 1:09 pm
I am a 25 yr old Scorpio lady who is currently courting a 24 yr old pisces male. I remember the first time I saw him, 4 years ago, when he came to my 21st with a good (male) friend of mine.I saw him from a distance and it was like watching the Archangel Gabriel appear on the horizon ~ I was mesmerized by this vision of gorgeausness!Who IS this heavenly creature that has fallen to earth?! Indeed I remained star-struck most of the evening, and indeed to this day. But over the last 4 years I never imagined that he might be interested in me, as perhaps I misread his shyness for disinterest. However I recently started working in an office very close to his, so we started meeting up for lunch. Those went very well and I was amazed at how much he could remember about the little things in my life, places I had been to school, pictures I had painted, etc. No man has ever known so much about me! I was transfixed! Indeed in an attempt to get to know each other even better we bonded further by going for ‘Historical Walks’ (sounds nerdy perhaps but we both really enjoy these walks) and even discovered we both have a strange love of strolling through misty cemetaries! We then included visits to the pub as part of our walks, which then turned into a 6 hour long chat-fest, lots of flirtation and tactile affection, and yet we only seem to have one or 2 drinks. I feel absorbed into his very being and under his spell, enchanted, hypnotised, such feelings of warmth and contentment when we are togethor.As yet there has been no kiss, which I am attributing to his shyness, but we have another ‘date’ on Friday so maybe I can try and take the lead a little bit….:-)
As others have said, this Pisces guy is a wonderful mystery to behold. He has a depth to him that I can appreciate as I myself can’t stand the overly material and superficial aspects of our modern world. He is reserved and calm, a deep thinker and a kind and gentleman. In fact he is a true gentleman. He tells me that some people mistake him for being ‘grumpy’ but that he’s not at all, its just he prefers to be a quiet observer. This I can fully understand as I myself prefer to be one too, and neither of us can stand people who create unneccessary noise/commotion/drama.
Some women might be driven crazy by his need to ‘disappear’ into his own space and time, but I can sympethise with his need for personal space because I too enjoy my own space sometimes. As an independant spirit I believe the key to happiness in a relationship is giving each other that space and understanding, and that you both know that everyday is a choice to be togethor and not a ‘given’.
I really hope that things will blossom between me and my beautiful pisces man. He has stuck a chord within my soul that no other man ever has. I can understand that he might be afraid of being ‘tied down’ but I want him to know that I don’t wish to ‘tie him down’ but rather ‘ride the currents of the river’ togethor and see where they take us.
October 23rd, 2008 at 3:31 pm
To Scorpio Lady:
I love the way you are seeing your pisces guy and I can say that you are an intelligent woman. You already know lots about him, and let me tell you something, you’ll love, love and love each other. Pisces and Scorpio is such a strong union and things will go to the point that you won’t need words to comunicate, you’ll see. If for some reason, he acts in a way that makes you insecure, for sure, he is not meaning it, as he probably has some difficulties to make himself clear (maybe because of shyness), but I can make you sure, if things go well in your relationship this man won’t get enough of you, as pisces guys see scorpio women as something new everyday (because you’re hard to pin down as well). By your words I know what sort of warmth you feel being with this guy. Sorry for taking the freedom to reply your post, but for some reason I felt a truly thing going on between you and the lucky one. I love the part of “no kisses yet”. Oh God!!! That’s the way we love!!! Enjoying and tasting every chew!!! Scorpio Lady, it will be HOT!!! You’ll see your fallen angel at his best, because you are exactly, perfectly, accuratelly, precisely doing things to get into this fish’s heart and stay there forever. I don’t know, your post just seemed very meaninful for me. Be ready to a happy life!!! All the best!!!
Enry
October 30th, 2008 at 11:04 pm
males pisces speakin get out of the way hehe
ok ive read a majority cause yes its the pisces in me
ive seen alot of gemini women hook up with pisces males
and ive noticed that gemini women love our way of just ignoring everyone else and just only showing them attention
what they dont know is that we show attention to everyone
i might as well have “vent here” printed on my forehead
the thing with us is we are only half listening until theres a question involved
we are natural listeners but half assed if we have too much of it
i think pisces men are not portrayed correctly
yes we are dreamers lost in our world but we dont need a dominate force
pisces need to be left alone when needed and there is just too many people that need affection when we dont
just leave us alone when we need it we are easily overwhelmed
if anything i want another to delve in with me
thats where the romantic connection lies
they say we are best with scorpio
i strongly disagree
scorpios are demanding, headstrong, and easily pissed off
i can deal with em though cause i grew up with a scorpio and leo in my immediate family
hehe poor me
but anyways funny enough the one person i found to love is a gemini
hoping i dont regret it
November 2nd, 2008 at 4:13 am
I have dated a Pisces man most of my life and i do mean most of my life my love affair with this man started 17 yrs ago and each time i have tried to leave him he has come to find me. It’s like he plays a game of pull and push with me. He was the first guy i was ever intimate with and I had his kids 10 yrs later, after being away from him for at least 6 yrs and involved with someone else. I’ve tried to get with other people many times and each time he has chased them away and then disappears. The reason i am reading this site is because after 4 yrs of staying away from him this time and learning to live my own life while raising his children he has now stepped back into my life, even though he knew i was with someone else, i told him that i thought that maybe we should just leave things as they are and not go on an intimate level but he pursued until i gave in. Then said some very hurtful things to push me away and when i would not respond to any of his text messages or calls, he text and said that he was sorry and that he didn’t mean it the way that it came out, but in my heart i think he did mean what he said and just doesn’t want me to disappear on him again. Unfortunately most of the men that i have dated when i’m not with him have been Pisces men and they all seem to play the same games, maybe it is the chase and maybe they do look for strong women that they can break down because that has been my experience with the Pisces man. I think that Pisces men and women are some of the most manipulative, game playing individuals on the planet and that they only care about themselves and i have known plenty ,my mother and my sister and all of the Pisces that i have come in contact with are controlling, manipulating people. They know what hurts you because you tell them when you have that wonderful beginning and you are doing all of the talking and they are being the great listener’s that they feel they are and then they use what you have told them against you in a very clam, cool and cold way. Yes they do hate confrontation and if you yell or get loud with them they can’t handle that and it throws them off of their game which is to hurt you because in their own little twisted world that is how they control. they let you know that they have the ability and know how to hurt you and thus you are kind and gentle with them.
Who doesn’t want to know where their love one is or if they are OK that is part of love and who doesn’t want to spend as much time as they can with the one they love. Pisces do all of these things in the beginning and then tell you that you are to needy when in essence it is really them they must know where you are and who you are with but they keep everything about themselves a secret and that is the power of their control.
I am a Leo woman and this is my experience with most of the Pisces men and women in my life. they will continue to do this until you pull a disappearing act on them but who wants to keep playing the same game over and over again that’s just plain crazy. As for me guess i will just get ghost on him again and this time for good. After all i did learn how to disappear from the best I had plenty Pisces teachers.
November 3rd, 2008 at 7:39 pm
I’m a Libra girl dating a Pisces. We been together for 8 months now. But during those times. We been off and on soo many times. But usually as we got back together we grow closer to eachother. Everything said above so far is true. He’s sweet,loving,caring and sensitive. Well 2 months ago.(August) We were off. Back together after 2 weeks. I thought to myself. Okay so everything’s going to be fine. Nothing to worry about. But that month was hell. He talked less. Conversation became more silent. We never get to see eachother much. It was as if everything was falling apart. And just when you feel as though there’s no point in persuading this relationship no longer. He comes back. This ticks me off.But you can’t blame him right? I honestly have nothing against it. Yet he’ll take advantage of it and constantly disappear. He has alot of female friends. Hecka lot. He loves hanging out with his friends. I don’t know if he still has any feelings left over these last 2 months now.
I want to believe his words, that he loves me.
Cept I can’t see it at all. And about the label thing. Absolutely true. To his friends. He’ll describe me as a friend. While alone. We’re supposedly “girlfriend&Boyfriend” which really doesn’t make sense.
I guess right now, I’m willing to stay by his side. I’m willing to accept his new side. Or so trying.
I’ve completely fallen for him. Now I’m just lost. Pisces are great people. Sensitivity will get in the way. But just learn to cope with it. Beside one person can love that trait very much. I do :]
- Audrey
November 3rd, 2008 at 8:12 pm
Ok,
It is true that Pisces men are pretty aloof. I am a Scorpio female and have been with mine for almost a year. We play this back and forth game…when he wants his space he’ll push me away and when I get too far he pulls me back in. The funny thing is that I am learning some of his little triggers. I know when he needs space before he realizes it and I give him space before he gets too crazy on me. When I see him pulling me in I try not to get too excited over it bcuz even though he may say he wants to see me everyday he really needs his space and will soon start pushing me away again.
I think it’s true that Scorpio women and Pisces men are good matches because we share some of the same qualities…but we do possess the qualities that they need. Like a nurturing instinct, sensitive, empathic and erotic nature. We are more willing to except them as they are and can adapt to the mood swings because we tend to be extremely moody too. Even though he was hard to get used to he is the only man that I feel extremely comfortable with, he’s my best friend. His strengths vastly outweigh his flaws.
And ohh yeah that thing about commitment is very true, they do not like to be tied down but can be extremely loyal in a relationship…
November 4th, 2008 at 8:57 pm
After reading all the comments i did have to leave one myself lol. I am a Virgo female. I am very interested in a Pisces male. He (seems) a wonderful man very good looking, intune with things. His birthday is Feb 19th, putting him on the cusp. After reading all the comments about the Pisces, and how they can be….. well i am not quite sure. I know Virgo and Pisces are not a great match and i am on the fence about possibly falling head over heels for this man. Does anyone have any advice for a stand-offish Virgo? :o) Thanks!
And i also do not really know much about being on aquarius/pisces cusp. Thanks!!
Lizzie
November 5th, 2008 at 5:49 pm
Hi Lizzie,
As I said in a post before, the love match is one of the few parts in astrology that I don’t believe. I had a long term relationship with a virgo woman (2 years exactly) and was very good. Good to the point that I miss lots of moments that I spent with her.You will teach him how to be more organized and he will show you how to enjoy some aspects in life that probably (you think) you didn’t have time to. If he likes you, he will change some aspects of his personality that you don’t like, because he will think that is for his own good as well. Use your analictical virgo qualities to study this man before you take things really seriously with him (I know you can do it pretty well). I can guess that you are a person who works with lots of paperwork, agendas, etc. If things go well and you want to have this man with you, ask him to help you writing letters for clients, writing ads for the office or anything that some creativity could be put in, he will love to help you.
If I can take the virgo-pisces relationship I had before as an example, in (or on, beside…) the sheets will be very good indeed. Both of you, probably, have a really refined taste for food and this will be the time for that nice and warm talk. I’m sure you will enjoy every moment, but as I said before, try to read him first. Another good thing about the relationship I had with a virgo was that, I don’t know why, I hadn’t felt the need to lie and this is a really good thing.
All the best and good luck!!!
Enry
November 5th, 2008 at 10:37 pm
IM A PISCES FEB 28TH. I DREAM ALL THE TIME AND PREDICT THINGS OFTEN IN DREAMS I HAVE. IM A GOOD FRIEND AND NEVER BACK DOWN FROM ANYTHING NO MATTER HOW DIFFICULT OR DANGEROUS IT IS. WE PISCES HAVE TO HELP OTHERS AND SE OTHERS HAPPY TO BE HAPPY WERE DREAMERS BUT I THINK WE LOOK AT REALITY AND MANY OF US ARE TALENTED IN THE ARTS WHICH IS THE GREATEST WAY FOR US TO EXPLORE OUR INNERSELVES. IM GOING OUT WITH A ARIES THE LAST 4 YESARS AND WHERE LIVING TOGEATHER 3 YEARS WE GET ON GREAT BUT AS A PISCES I NEED TO BE ALONE OFTEN AS I THINK A LOT MY FAVOURITE SPORT IS SWIMMING I LIVE CLOSE TO THE BEACH WHICH I LOVE AND I DO LOADS OF PAINTINGS AND CARVINGS.MY CHINESE ASTROLOGY IS A ROOSTER
November 6th, 2008 at 7:30 am
Well, I am Gemini,Cancer Cusp and I am with a Pisces guy and he is all of those things. He hates being the sensitive guy when he has to admit it but he can not stand things like Football or any kind of sport for that matter. He is in the Band and is highly into it. As for being in a relationship with him. His good traits are, he does listen to me and he will talk with me forever, the gemini side of me looooves that. He is so smart and dreamy and I feel like I can talk to him about anything. We were friends first, for 6 years but for the last year we have been going out. I have been out with alot of guys with different signs signs that Gemini get along with (and there are not many) like libra and Aquarius. The Aquarius relationship was one of the worst relationships, he was controling and hateful. Then I went out with a guy that was tooo nice, i know i know i sound picky. This Pisces is the perfect balance of nice plus he will still tease me. We have a great relationship but he does have his faults. For instance he will wait until a situation blows up in his face before he admits there is a problem. He would rather hide from something hoping it will go away rather than face it head on. Sometimes he gets lazy and cranky and thats when i let him have some space so he can go off into his little world like pisces do. Other than that its a great relationship thats not expected from a Gemini.
November 6th, 2008 at 1:57 pm
Well, well, well!!! Pisces Men has become a Centurion by completing first 100 posts on this blog in 6 plus months (conditionally, if this post is accepted). Why Pisces Males are So Popular on this Blog??? Interesting.
Ciao and Peace
November 8th, 2008 at 1:15 am
I have read most of the posts in here and at first I thought “Wow, that’s pretty harsh.” However, the more I read, the more I realized the comments were right on – but, the perspective is different.
Let me start by explaining that I am a female Pisces/Ox. On the one hand I am extremely sensitive and painfully empathetic but on the other more grounded and responsible than most of my peers. I’m not extremely emotional and tend to be very rational.
While I have no problem taking on commitments in education, careers, etc. romantic relationships have been a sore subject. For a five-year stretch I couldn’t date anyone for longer than three to six months. It would start out red hot and then I’d find any reason I could to break up. Looking back I see that I was just terrified of someone coming in and disappointing me.
The main thing you have to know about a Pisces is that most of them need to believe that all people are basically good and no matter how many times they see evidence to the contrary, they will continue to trust that. So when your Pisces male is distant toward you, he has probably sensed something in you that they perceive as a threat to their carefully established illusion whether or not you did anything wrong. As far as arrogance, it is only a defense mechanism. Because Pisceans are extremely sensitive, most have been trampled on throughout their life. That attitude is coming from years of being used and taken for granted by those closest to them. It doesn’t take much to hurt them but once they know for certain that you won’t do that, they will only grow closer.
I have been with a Libra for about three years now. For the first year I was constantly trying to escape and absolutely sure that our relationship wouldn’t work. Even through this very rough year, we were inseparable. He played it smart – instead of pushing me into a corner he challenged me. Of course the Ox in me (notoriously stubborn) couldn’t back down. It was almost like I had to push him to his brink just to see if I could count on him to stand by me. After a year of this back and forth, he was still there and the faith we had in each other grew so much that our bond became unbreakable. Now almost three years later we’re engaged and couldn’t be happier.
The moral of the story: When dealing with a Pisces, understand that in most cases they would never intentionally hurt anyone. Chances are they’re trying to fight off some overwhelming fear and if you can tap into their emotions, you probably have a chance at winning them over. Like one of the posts said, they need to feel that you’re in the corner regardless of how irrational they’re being. If you consistently stand by them, they will eventually trust you completely… it’s worth the wait.
As far as Pisces men being rude or offensive, I don’t have much insight there. I tend to be very levelheaded and careful with my words. I would guess that they are trying to protect themselves by pushing you away.
November 8th, 2008 at 1:16 am
Hi I am a Pisces and im married to a pisces. I also have very vivid dreams that sumtimes come true and my birthday is also feb 28th. I was wondering if male pisces r prone to cheat? I know most guys are, but if there is temtation can they hold back? Just wondering if anyone had any experienced with this.
November 8th, 2008 at 1:16 am
had any experience ******** with this
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November 8th, 2008 at 12:58 pm
I wanna ask the same question roxy asked, are pisces men prone To cheating? I always hear they are loyal once they loved truely and would never imagine them selves with someone else but, what if they met someone and really liked them would they cheat and hide the truth?
If anyone has a story to tell us about this
Midnight aquarius
November 8th, 2008 at 4:55 pm
To Roxy + Midnight Aquarius
I think I may be able to answer your question, sort of…
I have recently become involved with a Pisces man, we have infact been friends for a while but I was out of the country and recently returned and started meeting up again with him, things developed quickly between us but he never mentioned a girlfriend. (I wouldn’t have got involved with him if I had known!!!) We were spending so much time togethor I thought it was impossible that he would have a girlfriend anyway!!! So a couple of weeks ago things intensified and we had a very hot night of 6 hours of non-stop passion in bed togethor, However all night long I kept wondering why he didnt kiss me on the lips. The next morning he seemed fine and very sweet, as if he had done nothing wrong at all. Later that day I texted him to ask why he didnt kiss me on the lips. His response was erm…somewhat surprising!!! He texted back saying that “he apologised if he had been leading me on (errr…I think taking a woman to bed is a bit MORE than leading her on!) but infact he was currently in a relationship!” I was so amazed! Apparently he had been with this ‘girlfriend’ (who happens to be aquarius) for 8 months or more, yet even one of his best friends (a friend of mine also) didn’t even know! Mystery as to whereabouts was solved when I found out she lives abroad, so he flys out to see her once or twice a month. Except that I see him on a weekly basis as he lives very close by to me. So, there’s your answer - Pisces men WILL cheat, but hey, in their head they haven’t done anything wrong, cos they haven’t given away their sacred ‘kiss’, yes, their logic defies even me! So, now I am very confused as he has not stopped wanting to see me, i.e, he still invites me round to his even though now I know he is ‘taken’ I don’t sleep in his bed with him, but I can tell he wants to, and I want to, but its so awkward as theres clearly an emotional connection between us (I’m Scorpio by the way) and he doesn’t seem to have made a decision either way, but he still cuddles up to me and holds my hand, and stares into my eyes and into my soul, but I wish he could decide - because he can’t carry on with his Aquarius girlfriend acting like all is ok, when clearly he is involved with me emotionally and, on one occasion, physically, there is a massive amount of sexual energy between us, and I would love to see where it could lead, but obviously I can’t do that while he is carrying on with this so called ‘girlfriend’. I wish I could know what was going on in his mind…!
November 8th, 2008 at 5:13 pm
Any Man or a Woman can cheat (irrespective of the Zodiac he/she belongs to) if they are not happy with the marriage or a relationship they’ve been into!!!
November 9th, 2008 at 12:04 am
im with a aries woman for almost 4 years on new years day, ive never cheated and had plenty chances but its not in me to do that cause i love her and our relationship works. people cheat if there not happy or geting lack of attention or just players.
November 9th, 2008 at 12:42 am
WE PISCES CAN BE EXTREMELLY SENSITIVE BEEN ABLE TO FEEL THE PAIN OF SOME1 TALKING TO YOU CAN BE EXTROADINERY. WE CAN BE VERY STUBORN AS I AM BUT IN 1 WAY IT HELPS ME BE INDEPENTENT AND STICK TO MY GUNS AND ALSO PLAYED A BIG PART OF GOING THROUGH A ILLNESS FOR OVER 20 YEARS. WE ARE NOT ALL DEPRESSED OUT OF OUR HEADS WERE ACTUALY QUITE LEVEL HEAD PEOPLE WHO CAN SE THE FAR FUTURE AND TRY TO WORK THORDS IT. IM ALSO NOT TO INTERSESTED IN DETAILS AS YEE CAN PROBLEY SE. PISCES ARE BEEN TO HARD ON THEMSELVES ALWAYS BLAMING THEMSELVES FOR THE WAY THEY FEEL WHEN THERE WORRIED ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE AND FORGET ABOUT THEMSELVES. PISCES ARE ALWAYS HAPPY WHEN THERE KEPT ACTIVE CAUSE THE MIND JUST TAKES OVER IF THEYVE TO MUCH TIME O THERE HANDS.
November 9th, 2008 at 1:04 pm
Lol to aly dont tell me people cheat when they are not happy in their current relation ship! “DUH”. No I wanted to know if pisces men do it more since they kinda lie alot sometimes and are rather escapist!
I liked scorchio#scorpio’s answer, I could understand he was strong and he wanted to be true to his current girlfriend “aqua abroad girk:p” But he showed he can be weak, as most pisces can be that way uner certain circumstances. By the way!I so envy You , Youra scorpio and I always read that a pisces man is perfect fit for his scorio lady, aarrrrrgggg I get frustrated alot when I read that ending up as green as Mr.hulky!.I’m sorry for he aqua abroad girl But she’s far away and so”far from the eye, far from the heart”
if he seriously wants to be with his auqa goirl he should make up his mind or he should stay with You and lose him self into this newly found connection
Good luck to YOu and thanks alot for your comment!
Mightnight aquarius
November 9th, 2008 at 4:40 pm
Hi Roxy & Midnight. I’m a male Pisces. Can only speak for myself. Was married to a F/Pisces, was in serious relationships(2) with F/Aries and a F/Cancer. Can’t recall anyone that was either a Scorpio or Taurus, let alone any other sign. During each relationship, never “cheated”, or even thought about doing so with any woman I have been involved with.
November 9th, 2008 at 8:13 pm
Oh mid-night,
You have been focussing way too much on the cheating aspect of pisces men. It seems appropriate since from your posts it appears that you are very much into behaviour of pisces men. But….please, please, please, have some lessons in human psychology. You will find a much better answer that why men cheat (if you are interested in men only). Women cheat too.
Even all Pisces men are not alike psychologically and regards to frame of mind. Sorry, it is difficult to draw any solid conclusion on the cheating aspect of the Pisces. Some people will say “they do”, others will say “they don’t” depends on their kind of experience with a pisces male. Similarly, it also depends what kind of a life that respective piscean had, how he takes relationship and committment. There is a lot of variety of people and I’m dead sure, it also exists in pisces fraternity.
I suppose aqua women are not judgemental, this is what I have read. But who knows!!!
Peace and Ciao
Aly, The water-OX
November 9th, 2008 at 8:35 pm
Hello Pisces Ox,
Its interesting to read the early part of your comment, being a pisces Ox (water) myself (02/73). However, I find it strange that you are extremely sensitive and painfully empathetic which I as an OX don’t tend to agree. How come??? We Ox can be very harsh even in relationships, we don’t like sensitive and emotional ones as they are too weak for us. While grounded and responsible part is so accurate for an OX even if its Pisces. In my opinion, for us, committment to work and responsibility is synonymous to religion but religion is not. Also agree, we are not emotional people (hard shelled) who don’t break down and don’t really show our weaker side but relationships seem to be a big problem for OX particularly the romantic ones (at least for me) since we use way too much of our rationality than heart. Relationships come and go and to make long term committments are extremely difficult. At times, even the monotonous work kills me and I prefer to quit work to find something new and interesting that should give me mental stimulation and newer ideas. We also get bored easily.
Would appreciate to know something more about Piscean-OX from my fellow Piscean-Oxen.
Peace!!!
Aly, The Water-OX
November 10th, 2008 at 5:24 pm
I just absolutely love this board but I often walk away more confused than when I started! My Pisces and I hadn’t spoken in 3 weeks after he broke plans due to work. He didn’t get in touch with me and I ASSUMED ( I know!) that he didn’t want to talk because he often disappears so I didn’t call/text him. He texted Friday wanting to know why I haven’t gotten in touch with him. I wanted to scream!!!!!
Pisces/Ox-what exactly did your current love do that was different from others that made you want to stay? Is there a way that I can prove to him that I’m in it for long term?
November 11th, 2008 at 2:26 pm
One thing I would like to know is WHY???? do I keep attracting pisces men? AND Cancer men?
These guys are the least compatible with my sign, and I agree completely but for some reason, those are the ONLY guys who go out of there way for me? Other signs? Not so interested.
If anyone has inpute, please tell me. I am a Gemini 6/20/78 8:30 am and an earth horse, I believe.
November 11th, 2008 at 8:17 pm
ok, for the pisces males out there, any insight would be appreciated. I am a sagittarius woman seeing this pisces man for about 3 weeks. After 2 weeks, we had sex. I asked him where did he feel this was going and his response was its going with our hearts.That we are gonna have fun together, take our time and let the seriousness happen. So now I am confused because the sex came quickly and is still coming, yet what are we suppose to be taking slowly? He tells me he has been hurt in the past, so is this suppose to be the reason we are taking it “slow”?
November 12th, 2008 at 8:24 am
Pisces men are beautiful. I was dating an Aquarius before him who I couldn’t take back esp after I met him. Dreamy Pisces floated into my life and I just lost interest in other men. The second time I saw this Pisces guy we started talking and clicked. I am a Sagittarian/Scorpio cusp Nov 24 I’m very sensitive but so is he and he has empathy that you’d never see on a man. He is psychic! He reads me! I can never lie to him but I know when he’s telling me tales, fish tales. Harmless lies because he’s really been hurt it seems and he lies to protect his ego. I know alot of things about him like lies that I don’t bring up. He injurs himself too how he deals w/ his tumultous emotions probably. I love him though and recently he was acting like a terrible child. BTW he is 10 years younger than me but I never saw him as less than a man but I do want to mother him. His mother killed herself so he’s scared by it or something. People tease him all the time his peers..I see his ego get destroyed and it makes me sad. He probably thinks I just pity him but it is much more. He’s docile and I’m stoic. But you would never guess that when we are together. I am emotional and soft around him and he takes charge around me. You break rules and laws sometimes because you really want someone to be happy. I think he’s a crazy romantic likeme.
He was acting in an irrational way because a new guy come to work and he is gay so no threat. But when he saw how well we got along Pisces guy got mean. He wanted to hurt me and he did. I was reaching out to him wanting to communicate and I understood. He was scared he just wanted to know that he was still important to me. Because after we talked he was back to his old charming self again. It is all in his body language. He wasn’t a bad guy. Being jealous nor caring too much was never a bad thing. If they are indifferent like Aquarius it means that they don’t care. That is how you know someone is really afraid of losing you. That is love w/ no bounds. Pure emotion like romeo and juliet.
I’ve had to admit things to myself today. Like how I thought of injuring someone I loved alot…thin line b/w intense love and hate. That’s why they say love is blind because when you’re in love you don’t give a damn about anything else.
November 12th, 2008 at 8:27 am
Lily mentioned being attracting Cancer men and pisces men. I met a Cancer 10 years ago that changed my world and I only knew him for 3 months. I thought that these the were the men that women only dreamed of.
November 12th, 2008 at 2:06 pm
Yeah I know these guys are great but it never works out, so I swear them off and then everytime I meet a great guy, he turns out to be one of the two!
November 13th, 2008 at 12:28 am
sag-girl-
Hi Roxy here again. I also am going to tell you guys about my pisces/pisces situation with my other half. But first I wanted to say to you sag-girl that I dated a male sagg and I am a female pisces. We were together for a few years but lets just say fire and water dont mix to well. It was never a smooth relatioship like the one I am in now. Fire and water just arnt a good match. Becareful into what you get yourself into, because its easy to get into sumthing, but it’s harder to get out.
Okay everyone now here is my situation… Well my husband is in the marine corp… and he is going on the boat. And I spoke to a psychic (that is very very good) and she told me that he will be tempted by another women. She said she felt a pain in her elbow which meant he was like elbowing her away. I am having a hard time with this because this psychic has been right about so many peoples lives…. I am just scared now, he is the one man in the whole world that treats me well and has never cheated. But when it’s out of my hands, and he will be so far away I dont know how he will act. I am his fist love, and his first everything. We have been together almost 6 years and got married 2 years ago. Its hard for me because the thought of him with another women makes me phycsically ill. He’s very charming, and a gentlemen, would never hurt a fly. Sometimes people get him being nice with mixed signals… so I am just so scared that he will do something when he is gone just because I wont beable to find out. I know I cant accuse him when he hasnt even left (leaves in Janruary) but I just dont know where else to turn at this point.
November 13th, 2008 at 2:36 am
I’m a 29yr old Scorpio female who is dating a 29yr old pisces man I really like him alot and can’t stop thinking about him. I have read confused comment on August 13th and I have the same problem with my guy but the only diffence is that I think I may have pushed him I showed up at his house called first but he told me not to come over but I did anyway he did not have company I did ask him that so I did not understand why I could not come so when I showed up and knocked on the door he was very mad where he started hiting me stoping me from coming in I was not pushing myself into his home I was on the steps but he kept pushing me to where I started falling all over the place in order for him to stop I just walked away and got into my car and left he called me about 10 minutes later saying why would you come it’s not like we have any string attached I could not understand why he was so mad I was just over there that same morning we have only been seeing each other for about 6 months he has opened up to me talking about anything on his mind after everything that happen I left him a message the next day apologizing for showing up when he asked me not too but I also advise him that did not give him the right to put his hands on me it has been about a week now he has not called or replied back to my message. I feel so stupid to be still thinking about someone who has put there hands on me but I feel I need to help him but don’t know how to without feeling weird about coming around him now. Can someone please help me I would like a answer from a pisces male.
Thanks
Please help!!!!!
November 13th, 2008 at 2:42 am
also i wanted to know if should just walk away or contacted him,is something that will happen often are all pisces men like this, this is my first pisces. I can’t stop thinking about his kisses him holding me, I don’t understand why he was so mean I always think about his feeling I feel before mine.
November 13th, 2008 at 3:15 am
alot of sites will tell you that pisces are known to be flirtatious and whatnot but thats only bc they need sensual & emotional Reassurance. but they are very loyal in a relationship bc they’re a water sign and all water signs are extremely loyal & sensitive.
& pisces although they might be a little deceptive they would never lie to intentionally hurt anyone.
November 14th, 2008 at 1:43 am
I have been married to a Pisces man for almost two years. We have been together for four years. I am a Virgo. He is my soul mate. Albeit we have had our struggles like any couple but it took me FOREVER to figure him out. Here is what I know…he hates to be smothered so I make sure I am never clingy. He must have time to do what he wants without me and above all I have to trust him and no call him when he is out with his Homies.
He is a dreamer but he makes his dreams come true so long as I dream along with him. Every morning we wake up snuggle and talk about the dreams we had the night before. Yes, sometimes I have to rein him in but the way I do it is with logic and ask him to think it over and allow him to make up his mind. My husband was single for ten years and was quite the player before I married him. He went kicking and screaming but once he took the plunge, he was ecstatic.
At our wedding his friends kept saying, “How did you do it?” My answer is simple. I never stopped him from being him. I let him dream, buy things like he used to when he was single and I allow him to play. A Pisces man is a fish. Ever try to hold a fish? My husband even jokes around with his buddies about me, the wife. It’s so ironic because he sticks his finger in his mouth and mimics a hook. Is that funny or what? He is a fish.
I am a Virgo. I describe us like this…I am the Virgin-like Maiden on the edge of the pier waiting for my fish to jump up and show himself to me. I clap and say, “Awesome.” As long as I am his biggest fan without losing myself in the process, we are a great team. It works because I know if I don’t, he is going to swim away to calmer waters-which is funny because I do not swim. Enough said.
November 15th, 2008 at 8:08 am
Hello back again and still wondering if I should walk away from my Pisces man I keep reading these comments about how they want their space and since I’m a scorpio woman and being jealous in my nature when his phone is off I feel that he is with someone else but I don’t ever accuse him once I was about to accuse of being with someone then he called I stayed the night with him ( I felt really stupid for even thinking that). Can someone please tell me why Pisces men are so distance and will they ever be happy????
p.s.
Someone please help me with my previous comment he still hasn’t called but I don’t want to walk away from him……SO CONFUSED!!!!
November 15th, 2008 at 12:56 pm
Hi ‘Wondering’ sorry to hear about your struggle with your pisces man, i can understand as I am also a scorpio and although its early days with my pisces man, i know exactly what you mean - they do have a tendency to bury their head in the sand and a bit like an ostrich, if they don’t face up to their problems they assume that they will just go away…as a scorpio i can totally understand the frustration and yes, we do get jealous and our minds can get carried away, so many times i have been about to call or text him to tell him i ‘give up’ with him (exasperated!) but then just as i am thinking that, he will suddenly call me up and invite me over etc etc….so we are back to square one!
A part of me feels totally sympathetic and patient with him, and another part of me feels frustrated and puzzled by him!
‘Wondering’ have you tried to contact your Pisces boy? How did he leave it the last time you saw him? Do you know any of his friends that you can ask whats going on? I guess I am lucky as my Pisces boy is best mates with my good mate James so any time I don’t know what he is up to, his/my friend James will tell me exactly what he is up to, haha! I think Pisces boy knows this but tends to ignore the fact!
(Not that I try and keep tabs on him, but just good to know he is not off the radar all togethor!!!) Maybe you should just not contact him, as that is the policy I have always taken, and out of the blue he will contact you, I’m sure of it, Pisces boy will not be able to resist being magnatised back to his Scorpion lover….
November 15th, 2008 at 3:57 pm
Thanks Scorpio lady for your reply, yes I have contacted him but his phone was off I don’t know if he may have changed his number or the company turned it off for non-payment but before I called yesterday I did not call at all but I wanted to so much but I didn’t want him to push me away and I feel stupid for even trying in my mind so when I finally did I just did it and did not think about it but when his phone was off I was hurt then I started thinking if he did change his number would he call me to give it to me I don’t know how long it has been changed. I keep thinking this has not been going on for like yrs only months like 6 months so I feel to myself that I should not feel this serious. As I placed on issue on Nov. 13th, I don’t know if you have read that. I guess I should just walk away from the whole thing due to my comment on the 13th of Nov.?
November 15th, 2008 at 4:06 pm
Oh Scorpio lady I forgot to add that the next after the BIG issue happen with my comment on the 13th I advised that did text him and I advised him that I know that this is the end I also wished him the best of luck in everything he does….was that wrong to should have just apologized for showing when he ask me too but he still hasn’t apologized to me which I feel he should. This is the first time I could not figure out someone…….OMG!!!!!!
November 15th, 2008 at 4:06 pm
Oh Scorpio lady I forgot to add that the next day after the BIG issue happen with my comment on the 13th I advised that did text him and I advised him that I know that this is the end I also wished him the best of luck in everything he does….was that wrong to should have just apologized for showing when he ask me too but he still hasn’t apologized to me which I feel he should. This is the first time I could not figure out someone…….OMG!!!!!!
November 15th, 2008 at 5:15 pm
pisces men just tend to wonder off into dream land im sure his thinking of u but not sure why he hasnt called u im with a aries and at the start she kept phoning about 25 times a day and i asked her nicely to stop calling me all the time onless its something important and give me space.so adventinetly she stopped and i payed more attention to her then.now speaked of stoped we never had a few days without talking.
November 15th, 2008 at 6:59 pm
Wow - Eddie P - can’t believe she would call you 25 times a day! Thats crazy!
My rule has always been this (especially with my Pisces man): If I want to get in touch, I will do so only once. I will send a text or call him or email or whatever, and then the ball is in his court! Then when he decides to get back to me then he does! Sometimes I have had to wait nearly a week to get back to me, but I try and be patient.When I finally see him or hear from him it makes it all the more special!
To ‘Wondering’ - thats interesting you told him you knew it was the end. Sometimes I think that the mysterious and unfathomable nature of Pisces men can either a) lead you to assume he’s not interested and therefore you ‘give up’ and admit defeat or b) you give him the benefit of the doubt and feel determined to make things work.
Many times my Pisces man has acted in a way in which I have thought, oh he must want to move on now, and yetthen pokes his head out of the sand all of a sudden and takes me back into his arms! Wondering, as you say,yes he should apologise, but Pisces man will NEVER admit their wrongdoings, believe me, they prefer to live in denial. My dad is a Pisces and he managed to hide the fact that he had a ’secret’ daughter (my half sister) for 25 years. He is still in denial and even though he did tell us eventually, he refuses to apologise to my mum even to this day, he just goes into his make-belief world where everything is fine and dandy and he doesnt want to confront the fact that he might have hurt peoples feelings. Pisces often think its easier to keep secrets than to admit fault.
November 16th, 2008 at 1:31 am
I am a 21 year old Pisces and have met a 26 year old Virgo at school. After talking to her for about 3 to 4 weeks, I asked her out and she said that she is busy .that day, I was into myself saying to myself(ohhh God what has happened to our world, I cant find any value with in the people I meet, I am lost living with, arrogant ,selfish, people with no meaning to their lives, God I feel lonely on this planet, relationships have come to be only for desires, I cant find a god loving, pure, simple, intelligent, person who I could trust to be my soul mate in this short life, …………………… that night I had a dream about my own death, a man came to me and talked to me about life and so on…….) on that day, my friend who was walking home with me, assumed that I was into myself because of the girl, but this was not true. Later that week, with out telling me, he talked to the girl and told her that I loved her something. Now, the girl thinks that I love her or something, she sends me messages and stuff but I don’t love her or look at her in that manner. I think, she thinks that way because I am so kind to her and I am humble person. She dosent know that I am kind to all and treat everyone with true sense of kindness and compassion…….now I don’t want to break her heart …………. Please help me out thanks
I got to say one thing though, for Pisces to not be depressed and too sensitive, they got to have a true meaning to their lives. I could say this because, I am a true Pisces, born: year of a fire Pisces, month of a water Pisces, day of a fire Pisces and hour of a metal Virgo. please Subscribe to my youtube account :
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thanks, peace
November 16th, 2008 at 8:25 pm
Thanks scorpio lady for your info it’s a big help but I’m just going to leave my pisces alone cut all ties like I said his number is no longer the same and he hasnt contacted me to give the new one plus this to much work for someone I may not even like when I finally get him in my corner pisces men seem like they make things harder than what they really have to be. To Eddie P your to nice if someone kept calling me that many times I would have figured she was crazy.
November 17th, 2008 at 1:06 am
Wondering- good luck, i can sympethise with you. Indeed Pisces men can really truly make things ALOT harder than they need be! I have just got back from a ‘date’ with mine, he was very flirty and sweet all evening then suddenly upped and left like a bat outta hell! Arghh! Such an effort to keep hangin on~!
November 17th, 2008 at 1:04 pm
I am a leo woman. I’ve been dating a pisces guy for only a few months but I think he’s lovely. I think it’s true that he likes to be mothered, but show me a guy that doesn’t. I’ve dated heaps of guys that love that. I don’t mind - I like doing things for him, he’s very appreciative and I like mothering people sometimes. All we do is laugh - he’s a bit lazy, but I don’t care, I’ve got five older brothers that are ten times worse and they are NOT pisces. He does make me coffee in the morning although, I do breakfast but the giving is there. He’s kind of secretive, but he’s more mysterious than a person who I feel I can’t trust and I will not give in to prying. He’ll tell me stuff I about him when he’s comfortable enough too. I’m not exactly an open book either and there are things about me that he’s sure as hell is never going to know. I think he needs alot of space - he told me when we first met that he can’t commit to me right now, so I told him to slow up because I only met him once at that stage - and I really don’t want commitment from a person I don’t know that well so lets just go with the flow and see how we go. I find that as I’m getting to know him his insecurities are dropping away. He’s more romantic every time we see each other. When we first met I wouldn’t grab him when we were watching movies, but now he’s the one doing the grabbing. He’s deep I know that and emotional - that’s why you keep the atmosphere super relaxed with absolutely no pressure. When we’re together we’re both intuative not just him - I have not felt this comfortable with a guy for a long time. It’s still really too soon to tell - but I feel we are very compatible even though our star signs are not. I think the Leo ladies up the top put a hell of a lot of pressure on their men and probably expect too much from just one man. What have they done to help their men get out of that situation - do you think they really like being that way?
November 17th, 2008 at 9:32 pm
i am currently with a pices male and i am a scorpio, i think you are right about them trying to hide their true selves because we are very compatable and says he likes me alot and even at times tells me he loves me but he is so confusing and afraid of comittment that after like a week he will pull the we are just friends stuff, i cant figure out what to do or how to know what he really wants or feels…help!!!
November 18th, 2008 at 2:56 am
Hi there, well that was a long but interesting read!
Im a pisces male (13 march) and I never really used to believe in astrology until i started to learn a little about myself and my own personal traits through general life experience. One day I decided to look into the ’so-called’ traits of a pisces…….and boy was I pleasantly surprised yet also scarily shocked at some of the things I read. Reading this blog among a few others has really started to make think I need to embrace the great qualities I have and also understand the bad ones that have on many occasion laid waste to relationships and other aspects of my life.
I am a very caring and sensitive person, with the typical ‘Im a great listener and will take on everybody’s problems’ kind of attitude. Although this can drive me crazy when I get overwhelmed I generally just hide away on my own with my phone on silent and sit in my home studio producing music which is VERY important to me as an escape.
I definately am a true fantacist, and my dreams can have a distinct effect on my life. A good dream can make me feel ecstatic for days, a bad one can leave me confused and dazed for days and the weird ones, the pre emptive foresight dreams can be a blessing and a curse as these ones really do have a profound effect on me.
Ive found that people can get very intimate about their feelings when conversing with me, and see the shock on their face when i can finish many a sentence for them before they finish! This is also extremely helpful in arguments, because if Im not drunk I can be one of the most formidable people you could ever get into an argument with. Although this is a great personality trait to have it has also been the downfall of a few very important relationships with women in my life. When things turn sour, if I feel I have had wrong done to me (especially lies) I can be one of the nastiest people with words I have ever come across. I find myself saying cutting people to the bone with the most intrusive comments possible due to my intuition, observation skills and sadly sometimes the things people have confided in me. I hate this part of me and Im trying really hard to stop myself from going down this road in the future although in some cases people deserve that kind of treatment (this doesnt stop me feeling bad though). This has also been mentioned by other people in this blog so I guess Im not alone in this and it seems a lesser talked about side of a piscean.
Im very wary of who I open up to, and will generally make fun of myself to avoid telling people the truth until I truly trust them. This means that although I dont make many new friends, the many I have made over the years are REAL friends and I can spot a bad apple very quickly.
When single I can be very promiscuous but when I find someone special I am totally devoted. I know the things to say that can make their day, make them feel special and safe nomatter what life throws at them and without trying very hard (because i enjoy pleasing others) tend to be a very, very good partner for someone…until the depression and self esteem problems kick in. At that point I try to compensate for my shortcomings by being overly needy or extremely distant and both states usually end up annoying the woman into a state of despair, annoyance and eventually dislike.
Ive only ever truly loved 2 women in my life, one a scorpio which was absolutely blissful for a number years until my sensitivity and insecurities pushed her away, although this was probably inevitable as I was punching way above my weight with such a beautiful girl. The other was a pisces and was very recent…I have never in my life fallen for someone so quickly and so heavily as I did for her. We were so similar and though not the ’standard’ pretty she was and still is the most beautiful girl Ive ever laid eyes on. It was like something out of a dreamworld when both of us were on the same level but the push and pull behaviour from both of us, her lying and yet again my depressive side wreaked havoc on the relationship and it ended in a nasty way. I have said some horrible things to her and if Im honest I doubt Ill ever forgive myself for the things I said to her. I will never see her again I will never get to tell her face to face how sorry I really am, despite how much she hurt me in the first place.
I know quite a lot of pisceans, and a lot of them share a lot of similar traits but none of them to my knowledge have the nasty streak in them. Maybe they have learned what Ive been forced to learn recently…
For any women out there wondering how to deal with a piscean man, talking from my perspective (which wont be true for all), be patient, understanding and above all else be honest. In the worst case scenario, if you find yourself being drawn to another man and you actively want to stray then finish it straight away. If you cheat, find that the grass wasnt greener on the other side and decide to cover it up and go back to the perfect loving ‘doormat’…your piscean man will know for sure and it would be better for both parties to come clean and take it from there. Our ability to make you feel happy, or sad, is no coincidence. For some reason I have a sixth sense when it comes to things like this and the facade of lying that comes afterwards is in my eyes, worse than the cheating in a lot of respects.
Well, I wish I could write something more insightful but all that reading and the late hour has made me tired!
In short I love and hate being a pisces. Maybe thats the price you pay for living under a sign that has duality!
November 18th, 2008 at 4:28 am
Hi Melissa,
After quite some pisces bashing, its interesting to hear that being a Leo women, you are having a good relationship with a Pisces Man. What really interested me is that you are defying astrological compatibility. My mom was a Leo and I being a pisces usually had a good mum-son relationship. I think, Leo women are interesting and proud as ever. They also prefer to give more than they take. I agree when they push too hard, then things become sore.
It’s also note worthy that few people understand what pisces really are but if they do, both can have joy ride of life though pisces are also fickle, quirky, crazy, and escapists. Have a good day.
Aly, the water-OX
November 18th, 2008 at 8:27 am
Hi Lara
I think the best thing for you to do (and this is just my opinion) is not to listen to anything he’s saying. He’s may be saying that he loves you then the next thing it’s just as friends. I think when he says these things to you - don’t respond, don’t let him know what your true feelings until he says ‘I love you - do you feel the same way? Because then he’s asking you to confirm your feelings on top of his - and there is no backing out of that. With my one - straight from the beginning it was ‘I can’t commit blah blah blah’ but from then on - every second weekend for the last three months belonged to me. Use your intuition - does it really feel like you’re just friends? Hope this helps. Let things grow naturally - he will sort it out eventually. In fact - sounds like your already half way there.
Regards M
November 18th, 2008 at 8:39 am
Hey Ox
Both my parents were pisces so I know that sign like the back of my hand. I am definately a Leo woman but I learned to tone down the bad points that leos can have and that’s purely so I don’t make other people feel intimidated or inferior and/or bring on a war I don’t want. I am proud of myself but have had people shoot me down before so I know exactly when and where to start blowing on my trumpet. I’ve learned to lose (it sucks) but I can do it gracefully - and then get over it. Astrology is a guide line - the bad points are the things (if you possess them) you can try to change about yourself if you don’t like them.
Thanks M
November 18th, 2008 at 11:38 am
whippet,
Your comment seem to be long to me due to I got it though my cell phone but OMG! I love it it made me understand him so much more. Scorpio lady I loved that you are a Scorpio just like me and you know how we think I love your advice also, Whippet if you have anything else to say PLEASE! spill it.
Thanks
November 19th, 2008 at 12:53 am
My little Fish Boy
From afar you saw my little Scorpion Tail
Lost amongst the weeds and scrub
Fighting with any
Little creatures that got in my way
You beckoned me down
Into your cool clear water
And I swam with you
In the shallows and I liked it
So you lured me into deeper waters
And I loved it…
We splashed around merrily
And you said “Follow Me”
So I did,
Because I wanted to know where you were going
You drifted along in the current
We glided round long windy bends
And crashed down waterfalls
Tumbling through rapids
And all along you made it look so easy
But my little Fish Boy
You just expected that I would follow
but I struggled, and I struggled
Because you looked back at me
to check that I was still there
but I was gasping for air
and you didn’t throw me any branches
I was kicking so hard I got so tired
And the tides were ebbing and flowing
So fast
I couldn’t keep up…
But you just made it look so easy
Little Fishy
And my little scorpion tail was weighing me down
I tried so hard to stay afloat
Because I loved this crazy river
That you took me down…
But you tire me out Little Fishy
And I cannot paddle on forever
With no branch to cling to
for security…
Oh my beautiful Little Fishy
I love you, but I think I am drowning
with each new twist and turn
Slowly sinking into the abyss
to lay buried in the sand
forever…
haunted by your distant echoes
far far above me
where I cannot reach.
November 19th, 2008 at 12:07 pm
Hi everybody
sorry but English is not my lanquage!
I have a question cause my Pisces friend makes my crazy!
I am Cancerian en I’ve met him again after 33 years . He was my first kindergarten love :). I am married now but I want to be friends with him but the power of chemistry is HUGE! Is that anyway possible to be “just” friends? I really want to but it’s hard !
I dont know what is that feeling I have never had. I know it is wrong but I think about him every day…
He probably reads my mind and was mad at me when I said I think I had feelings for him…
He contacts me from time to time in a way a cannot resist…
I feel he likes me but is that normal and can we be friends ?
greetings!
November 19th, 2008 at 3:06 pm
melissa
well to start it off i do love him and i have told him this but he is so afraid of commitment and i dont know what will happen next, he doesnt act like we are just friends when we spend time together and even calls me his girl when talking to friends but then he will back away again,in my heart i want to believe that my intuition is right and the feelings are mutual,but his fear of commitment makes me unsure.
November 20th, 2008 at 2:29 am
Hey Lara
The thing I learned about men is that you have to give them alot of space and NOT worry. I haven’t come across many guys in my life that know what they want and the trick is not to make their minds up for them. Guys dream about meeting the one as well and when they find exactly what they’re looking for they totally freak out. When women get their hearts broken we tend to be able to get over it and quickly - it is a totally different story for men. They don’t rebound like we do - they stay down in depression for ages. Guys have alot on their shoulders - they are taught to be strong, the provider - the leader blah blah blah - and they fear failing at that. That is what he’s scared of not commitment and not you. Pisces will naturally think they are not good enough for you. The key is appreciation. OK maybe you haven’t got an engagement ring yet - but aren’t you greatful he’s with you. Appreciate him and be greatful with what you have with him now - and if you really are truly greatful then you won’t be worrying about anything. He will be attracted to you like bees to honey. He’s calling you his girl already he said something about love so you know there’s definately something there. Don’t let that go - and don’t focus too much on the future cause it’s coming. Relax and enjoy him.
Regards M
November 20th, 2008 at 11:44 pm
Hi, I’m dating a Pisces guy about a year now and I absolutely adore him. He has all the traits of a Pisces man and he could be very sweet and can turn me off at the same time. He has this way about him where he will do something to upset me like not call me for 10 days while he’s away on vacation, then call me and make it sound as though I was wrong for not calling him. Thing is I didn’t get him on his cell phone because he never answered. I also found out he told me a lie and absolutely went off on him. He sent a text saying he’s sorry and he never meant to cause me pain, but being the Leo that I am I want him to admit that he told me a lie but he said he doesn’t feel to talk about it. Now I think I kept pissing him off because I keep trying to bring up the fact that he lied not outright but I’ll say something to bring the topic back up again. As it stands he’s not really talking much to me but I sent him a text saying that I’m sorry for cursing him for not calling and that he’s a sweet guy and everybody makes mistakes sometimes. I really do love him and I hope I can do something to just get him back to feeling the way he usually feels about me. I wish he would just call me and forget about everything so we can get back to where we were. By the way, we are in a long distance relationship so I only see him like once or twice a year but we talk on the phone every day. Not sure how this would work out but I enjoy his company especially when we finally see eachother.
November 21st, 2008 at 5:34 pm
This is the first time I have ever been with a Pisces man. We have been together for 4 yrs. and now we are getting a divorce. He just asked me out of the blue. Not much I can do if someone does not want me, right? I have been crying for days and now I am fine but broken hearted. The next time someone tells me they are a Pisces, I am going to run screaming from the building. Pisces men are not for me.
I have never been able to figure him out. He is depressing, moody, unreasonable one minute and happy the next, cheap as hell, not romantic in the least, would cut off him arm first before buying me a gift. Like I said, I am broken hearted but actually now I am looking forward to being with someone more manly, romantic and not so selfish.
I gave my all to this man and you want to know what? I wasted my time.
November 22nd, 2008 at 12:40 am
Awe Dez - I feel really feel for you - I’m sorry that happened but I don’t think you wasted your time. I think it’s just another experience you needed to go through to find what you really want out of a partner, out of life. I use to go out with two cancerians and if you’re a positive person there is nothing worse than cancer - I never looked up pisces until I started dating one. I am almost polar opposite but I’m use to the cold hehe. But anyway - I haven’t seen that in my man yet - the moody depressing side - but I think he knows I don’t often go there unless I’ve lost something or someone worth getting that depressed over. Like you - I always give them everything and yeah I’ve been let down by everyone I’ve been with before. But that’s the risk I have to take but I realised I do get something out of it - even if its just experience. Keep your chin up girlfriend - you are supposed to give your everything to the one you think is the one even if they’re not - you are not doing anything wrong even though it feels like a waste of time. I know it feels really bad at the moment but it will get easier everyday - haha I will allow only 3 days of tears for someone I’ve broken up with - after that every day gets easier and easier. All the break ups I have had has refined me so that I am not afraid to get heart broken - and I’m not afraid to fall because I know failing at love with a man is not going to kill me and if this guy is NOT the one - well the way things are going I feel I am getting warmer and warmer. Love life - even the bits that suck ass.
Regards M
November 22nd, 2008 at 12:54 am
Hi Khemi lion
Did he apologise to you for lying? Yeah it’s wrong but what sort of weight does that lie hold - what is the reason that makes you bring it up all the time. Is he treating you like a fool? If he is get rid of him NOW. You watch when you shut the door he’ll come running back. He’s toying with you so give him the cut. Then you decide if you take him back or not. You’re leo - you are what I am - take the risk - even if it means losing him, and if he leaves - it’s probably worth it. Quit while YOU ARE AHEAD - and I betcha - he will come back with better manners. Pisces want what they can’t have so make yourself unavailable. You not enjoying your time with him cause you’re getting angry all the time.
Me
November 22nd, 2008 at 4:06 pm
Melissa:
OMG you are such as wise woman. Thanks for the kind words. I finally stopped crying and went out and found an apartment, started packing and moving on with my life. I got this amazing power when I stopped crying. Then you want to know what my Pisces man did? He begged me not to leave. Arrrrrgggggghhhhh. This man is the most frustrating man I have ever met! Now he wants to stay married and make it work. He want to go to a marriage counselor. He says it’s him and he wants to get help before he loses me. SO off we go to counseling. We have our first session next week. Wish us luck. I am going to try my hardest to make it work too. Lord knows I am not perfect either.
November 22nd, 2008 at 8:20 pm
Awe that’s good - I’m glad you’re sticking with it. They always come back - he sounds like a right pain in the butt, but you love him.
November 23rd, 2008 at 12:27 pm
lads whats the crack? pisces are usually good and humoured people who live in there own fantasy world with a abstract mind which makes them great musicians and artists.they never want to hurt others but if you hurt them theyll usually come down on u like a ton of bricks and will sometimes go to far which there sorry for after which is to late. they know how to hurt u emotionly since there probley the most moody people. we like to help others which can make us more positive with ourselves. were very loyle and dont enjoy been pushed around, prob cause were to busy dreaming, ha ha.never talk a pisces down just help them help u even doe they prob know what u need just be patient with them cause they tend to hold back in opening up as they can really be deep and totally understanding but are sometimes to secret to show it cause thats where they keep private to themselves,which continues them dreaming i think.
November 23rd, 2008 at 5:37 pm
Hello everyone!!!
I’m here to advertise my new business: I’m selling armors, helmets and shields for Pisces people, because the bashing up on our star sign is being so big that we are in need of some protection.
In every astrology website, we are the liars, cheaters, dreamers, weak willed, depressive, etc, etc…
But it’s ok, that’s part of Pisces job on Earth, we will take other people’s frustrations to ourselves, no problem. Yes!!! If that Aries girlfriend cheated on you, is because she has some planet in Pisces.
If your Gemini husband is having a double personality behaviour, of course, there’s a Piscean planet there.
Your Sagitarius business partner stole some money from you? I’m sure his sticky fingers belong to the 1st decan of March.
Do other star signs have any other weight to put on our shoulders? Don’t worry, we’ll carry it for you.
OMG!!!Lately I’ve seen lots of people around me colapsing for various reasons (stress, depression, fatigue, unhappiness and so on) and I haven’t seen too many Pisceans in this groups.
At the end, my conclusion is:
We are quiet (most of the times), we don’t like arguing, so, is very easy to drop all frustrations on Pisceans, simply because WE WON’T SAY ANYTHING BACK, we accept just to avoid confrontation and when we avoid confrontation they say that we are weak when on reality, we are just avoiding embarassment.
Honestly, cheating, lies and other bad stuff can be found in any star sign.
I think what is a huge problem with Pisceans is that we get completely lost and numb in our creativity, that is HUGE by the way, really, that’s what we live for.
Pisceans did so much for this planet, I think is time to look inside and ask ourselves:
-Do I really want a realtionship?
-Is my Piscean so bad?
-How were the ones I had before?
-If I make a list of the bad things of my personality and the bad things of his personality, who would have the bigger one?
Pisceans will hardly tell your pain in the neck side, Pisceans don’t like to hurt, even if they have to swallow a lot of bull****, and this is bad, as we don’t say anything, maybe the other part will think herself perfect.
All the best to everyone!!!
Good poetry Aly!!!
Enry
November 23rd, 2008 at 6:52 pm
Enry:
Wow! Thanks for the great insight. I loved the manifesto.
November 23rd, 2008 at 8:01 pm
Howdy!
95-98 percent of the posts on Pisces Men by non pisceans apparently seems to be written by frustrated individuals whose relationships are not ticking at all. Get some life people!!! Except for the blame game, it also seems that they don’t have any other thing to do. They clearly appear to be way too much opinionated and extremely judgmental. Unfortunately, the rationality has taken a backseat.
For instance, if I’ve been hurt by a Cancer, I cannot become judgmental about all Cancerians that they are all ***holes. Grow up guys. Secondly, if you are hurt by pisces men, why do you go for them??? Why don’t you study a person’s natal chart first and then decide whether to make him a friend, boyfriend, lover, or whatever. I think, that’s utterly foolish and stupid and I can bet if a capricorn or a leo(for instance) will hurt someone, the blame game will be on these two signs. Groooooooooow up!!!
Interestingly, there is some talk of wisdom here recently but unfortunately I don’t seem to find even any iota of it except blaming pisces men. It makes me laugh, really!!! I must say that some of the posts are so full of mediocrity and narrow in approach based on just personal micro judgment (of one man only) that even you don’t feel like looking at them let alone read them.
As a pisces-OX, I can say that we guys can pull out our horns and can kick a lot of *ss if needed. We are too proud even more than Leos. Don’t be judgmental/opinionated by considering Pisces men as just emotional, sensitive, and docile beings. Just go out and see, there are a lot of strong pisces men who give a damn. We are men of our own mind.
Good post Enry.
Aly
November 23rd, 2008 at 8:14 pm
Any Pisces Sun with Venus in Aquarius male??? Would be interested to know this personality type.
November 24th, 2008 at 5:04 am
Dear Becky!
Why my certain comments are not posted? Why? I don’t think so they are offensive?
Aly
November 24th, 2008 at 11:48 am
Aly all your comments have been approved but I can only do so much, my internet wasn’t working this morning so I therefore couldn’t approve anyone’s comments.
Becky
November 24th, 2008 at 1:09 pm
My mistake. Thanks!!!
November 25th, 2008 at 6:34 am
enry! i loved ur coment too~!
November 25th, 2008 at 6:08 pm
well ive had a bit more a detailed look into the other signs besides the sun signs.
Im a pisces sun, pisces moon, ascendant leo with venus/mars in aries.
most of what ive read rings pretty true besides most of the good points of my ascendant which after a good read seems to be just as important as the sun sign.
This has confused me a little as everything else is scarily accurate, and i cant make myself believe some and yet ignore others.
Maybe as ive read the leo ascendant is the mask I wear, and being a pisces wearing a mask is what I do until I trust people!
Can anybody recommend somewhere to get a full chart done, or anybody with more experience in this could maybe shed some light?
November 25th, 2008 at 6:14 pm
oops i forgot to add in the chinese astrology chart im a water pig which seems so similar to pisces that its no wonder i am the way i am hah!
Its pretty hard to ignore the similarities between a lot of my astrological traits, i just wish id started to look into this earlier in my life as it might have saved me a little pain along the way.
regards,
Whippet
November 25th, 2008 at 6:22 pm
Hi there Whippet,
I have a personal birth chart service myself so if you are interested email me at becky@love-astrology.com or click on this link http://www.love-astrology.com/personalised-natal-chart/ to be redirected to my services page. I also include the Chinese astrology in the chart as well.
Love & Light
Becky
November 25th, 2008 at 6:47 pm
Thanks Becky, note to self…..look around and you can see the answers your looking for! Unfortunately, being out of work at the moment means i cant afford it grrrrrrr. Damn this recession in the UK! On the flip side i get lots of time producing music though
Im wondering when other posters actually started to get interested in astrology and why?
For me it was the shocking truth i saw in front of my eyes, it seems as though someone has known me all my life and put it down in writing for me to read! Its scary!
Im only 25 so have a lot of life ahead of me providing i can stop my emotions from destroying myself, so hopefully the lessons i can learn from all this will help me along the trials and tribulations.
Id also like to add that im VERY sceptical about anything ’supernatural’ etc being quite a scientific and logical person. The fantacist side of me would love to believe in everything but says ‘Until i see it with my own eyes, i dont believe it’ and I must say that astrology has seriously overcome the scepticism i held regarding it previously and i find it quite enlightening. Is this similar to other pisces experiences?
November 25th, 2008 at 7:28 pm
Hi again, I live in the U.K as well, so I understand how you feel. Come back to me after xmas and we shall see what we can do
I too am sceptical about everything. But Astrology has always rang true. Pisces are the most intuitive of all signs, they see things others do not and do tend to enjoy astrology as it seems to help them over come a lot of emotional hurdles.
Love & Light
Becky
November 25th, 2008 at 9:19 pm
wow…the pisces male, funny that I have dated many men but the pisces male…until recently. Well, we haven’t actually dated…I just feel like I know this guy so much more than I ought to and I am extremely attracted to him. I get the feeling that he is attracted to me too….one night he was overly affectionate to me in a public place, in front of my friends, and I wouldn’t kiss him….yes, I am a scorpio woman, supposedly on the cusp, Nov.21st. Anyway, the next time I saw him, he was cruel to me….really mean! I couldn’t get over how cool, sweet and sensual he was before and then a total jerk! As an intuitive scorpio, I felt that he was hurt because I didn’t want to be intimate with him (in front of a whole bunch of people). Funny thing is, he still wanted to hang out with me….or maybe he didn’t and didn’t know how to get away from the situation. Anyway, his actions have been really hurtful and it is hard for me to tell my heart that he is a jerk and move on, being the obsessive scorpio that I am….thinking it was all my fault, blah, blah, blah..I guess that is why I found this website to understand the situation but really I am just more confused.
November 26th, 2008 at 9:55 am
Sara-Marie… OMG, reading your post was like reading my own thoughts, I am in exactly the same situation and experiencing exactly the same issues! One minute they act like they are Prince Charming…the next minute they’re the Ice King! And I know..I know, I bet all your friends are telling you “forget him, he’s a jerk” but really you just cannot forget him, however much it hurts, you keep thinking that it’s you thats the fool for falling into this trap in the first place!
November 26th, 2008 at 10:42 am
Hey Whippet!
You can just type the free natal chart in google and there are plenty of sites which provide relatively detailed readings for free. Yeah absolutely free. Ignore those that ask for money. Some of which are:
http://www.0800-horoscope.com/birthchart.php
http://www.cafeastrology.com/articles/howtoobtainchart.html
http://www.chaosastrology.net/freeastrologyreports.cfm
Have a great day.
Aly
November 26th, 2008 at 11:05 am
Aly, you can’t possible tell people to ignore those of us who charge and I shall tell you why. I charge because my services are personal, I do it properly. The free ones are simply using software which adds your name, and may be very incorrect, there are huge benefits to buying a proper chart. Also you have to remember that this is my job, as you all have jobs so do I and I like to do my work properly. You wouldn’t go to a restuarant and not pay for your meal, well the same applies here. If you want the best then you have to pay for it I’m afraid. There are many people who like to call themselves astrologers but who are really just talented at copy and pasting and downloading software, who have no idea of planetary tables or the time it takes to create a proper report. You have to ask yourself why these things are free? There is always a reason, always.
November 26th, 2008 at 7:03 pm
Hey Becky!
No offense whatsoever, I was just tryin to help out the guy since he’s presently out of work. We all have been suffering from the consequences of recession in one way or another. My mentioning of ignoring various websites that charge money doesn’t include your blog. That wasn’t the idea and I didn’t mean that. What I really meant was that websites in Google that charge money can be ignored, above mentioned are not, so try them. I am not sure about the details yet I found their descriptions interesting to read.
I am well aware that there are hell lot of quack astrologers who just want to mint money by fooling people, the copy and paste thing is usually very common as I have found the same descriptions about signs on various websites, and the use of software is also very frequent. It doesn’t mean that people who have really studied astrology have no role. People who have too much faith in astrology always consult genuine astrologers. But if someone can’t afford and is not a big enthusiastic, and is in not interested in details, some basic information can be quite interesting for them. It’s up to the person how you take it.
Astrology is fun but I don’t take it as perfect to describe one’s life. Some people might take it as religion but there are numerous factors in one’s life that makes some one entirely different from their zodiac. Unfortunately, astrology becomes confusing as well for some. It’s how you understand it. For instance, if you take it seriously and commonly read the typical that one is a sensitive, emotional, clingy, and weepy kind of a person, you tend to behave in such a manner. However, if one continues to explore her/himself and use their mind more rationally, it is easy to realise that the person is not of this type as described in a typical manner.
Life is about continuous exploration and learning a new thing about yourself every day. After years and years of knowledge and learning, one still realise there is so much to learn more. There is no perfection in knowledge. Knowledge about anything (including astrology) is a never ending thirst. Sorry, enough of my philosophy.
Have a good day.
Peace, Aly
November 26th, 2008 at 7:22 pm
Well thank you Aly. I will always do what I can for people which is why I have asked him to contact me after Christmas, I am aware that people are suffering at the moment, and me being a non materialistic person would much rather not charge but my children keep needing to be fed!! lol
As for taking astrology seriously. I am not a fan of the word ‘believe’ and I do not believe in anything in that way including religeon or astrology or anything like that. I am however drawn to Astrology as I have watched it work over many years and can honestly say that the planets influence us just as they influence other forces on this Earth. I find it fascinating and am glad that you are part of my site. I just don’t wish people to think I over charge and don’t know what I am doing so I got a little protective.
Love & Light
Becky
November 26th, 2008 at 11:57 pm
Im currently talking to a pisces man and I do notice his random depression about things he CANNOT change. It frustrates me as an aries woman, because i am strong, self motivated and i just want him to get over it already! He says that in “his time” he will, but im not sure he HAS a time. ?? But I do love all the other qualities about him. All of them. He is soo sensitive (just the right amount), loving, caring,and a good listener. The random depression is about the only thing that bothers me. I am soo not like that. I move on,deal with things, get over things, and i just can’t understand WHY he can’t do this. I’m trying to, but i can’t grasp it.
November 27th, 2008 at 9:47 am
whippet~ I am a Pisces and so is my husband and we both fit it to a T. I do more so because my moon sun etc all fall into Pisces. He is stronger and less depressed then me but it is soo weird how it completely describes both of us. If you look deeper into the charts you can see a lot of differences and they are so true, and we are only born one day apart literally by 23 hours. I looked up one of those free charts earlier for both of us and there were major differences that were very true to our personality’s. I would love a deeper reading one day. I would get one now but I guess everyone is having money issues lol.
I still sometimes wonder if both of our charts are put together if we would be a good match. Is it easy to learn how to do deeper readings by yourself?
November 27th, 2008 at 12:01 pm
Hi Roxy, thank you for your comment. Doing readings yourself is not that easy because there is a lot to learn not just about the placements of each of the planets but also because you need a good understanding of how the signs mix with each other with the different influences which each planet brings. Ofcourse you can learn to do it yourself but you will need time and patience. I love doing compatibility charts for people because it’s fascinating seeing two peoples charts together and seeing all there little quirks and reactions toward one another! You can pin point the weak spots and locate the strong ones, its fabulous! I just recieved an email from a client telling me I had saved her marriage with my chart, and that is what it’s all about, giving people the tools to get the best out of their relationship.
Even though you are only a day apart your Moon sign and Rising sign will be different and these will bring big changes as you have described. I am glad you are finding Astrology interesting.
Love & Light
Becky
November 28th, 2008 at 1:48 am
ohhhhhhhhhh my gooooooooooooddddddddddddd, so much anger , so much frustration, so much of i dont know what to say ?????????? the girl who i assumed or imagined to be a good person and honest person turned out to be exactly opposite :((((all this long, she has a boyfriend and at the same time she is trying to become more then friends with me…….. i found out today that she has a boyfriend???? its ok,I say to myself, these dishonest and 2face people motivate me to work harder to become the best at everything that i do. why should i not achieve high positions in this material life? why should people like her who bring nothing positive into this life, become successful in life?i practice muay thai(martial arts)tomorrow,i am gona kick the life out of our punching bags…….i might go to her and give her helll, tell her that i have no respect for her as a human being.she is arrogant, dishonest,2 face, useless human being.but good thing that i found out this before our friendship got serious.if i found out then,honestly, i would have gone insane or done something really stupid. i would have felt the pain that her boyfriend would have gone through, and i would feel so so bad for him ……… thank god that i found out today. once every 3 or 4 years, when something really really really bad happens to me( when i fell betrayed, lied to, disrespected)i just cant control what i do,my emotions of love, justice, unity, respect, honesty.turns to, revenge, revenge……….. i still cant believe, how a person could look into your eyes and lie to you??????? this is how life is now a days……… nothing of value is left in our societies. people only care for material things and they have no values for themselves.in the end i say to myself,in my opinion,the one who created life and give our brain its abilities and ordered for the stars and the sun and all being to exist, will one day, definitely call everything to account. all the injustice, hate,poverty , oppression that we (all humans) have created on this planet,will come to end. we all must answer for what we did……….this heals my heart and brings peace to my mind and soul, i cant wait for that day…………
November 29th, 2008 at 12:40 am
My grandmother is on her death bed now, we have a new born in our family, they have named her beautiful. I wrote this poem- letter for her. I have dedicated this to her and my dying grandmother. Sorry for any grammar mistakes, I had to translate the letter from Farsi to English.
O beautiful
O beautiful, you come to this world
You start walking and then you learn to play with your dolls.
O beautiful, you start growing too fast.
By the time you reach your teenage age,
All you want is attention from boys.
All you care about is to be beautiful like your dolls.
You spend so much of your time, trying to look good.
Then, all of a sudden, the boys come after you.
All they see, is your skin beauty.
They tell you that they love you but in reality they only know you through how you look.
They tell you that they love you,you fall for that trap.
You let them to use you in the name of love, 6 month later, you dont even know them.
This becomes the cycle of your life.
Satisfying yourself by pleasures and calling it love
Until, day by day this body of yours looses its youth.
One day, you say, I should look for the one who could take care of me,
and stay with me for rest of my life.
you find the person that you were looking for.
He has a good job, this marriage becomes like a trade.
He has come a long way, just like you.
This is the story of marriage, now a days.
You are tired, he is tired of playing this game of “Love”
Running, from one person to another.
After few short months, this marriage becomes so boring.
Now you want to bring another human being into life,
In your mind, this will make this marriage work.
O beautiful, you have a child now, its time for responsibility.
But you say to yourself, I was brought to existence in the same manner.
I wasn’t covered with love, attention or understanding.
I had problems all along my childhood days.
Then, you fall short of being that caring, loving and understanding mother.
slowly, slowly, time passes by.
One day, you find yourself sitting in a senior home.
Looking out the window, waiting for someone to talk with.
You are all lonely now, your children have no respect or any love for you.
old age has come now, your hair has turned white and your body has lost its beauty.
Your body is filled with all kinds of pains, now you think about your youth,
How you lived your life, now you feel that death is only few days away.
How everything has passed so quickly and there is no going back.
You cant do anything now, just waiting for that final hour of life.
One day, the nurse opens the door of your room.
She finds your lifeless body, your heart is all dead now.
Your eyes dont see, there is no sign of you left.
They carry your coffin to the graveyards.
dig a grave for you and leave your body inside.
Now, O beautiful, dont you see?
Cesar with all his greatness has taken the same route?
His body is resting in the grave, so many generations have come and gone.
O beautiful, here is your choice,
Dont follow the Hollywood’s ways of life,
Dont look for the fake image that they have created for you,
Everyday, look to grow and change for the better,
replace those magazines of yours with good books,
Care for your inside too, replace those fake models of yours for real ones.
Look up to those great women who have lived positive lives and were good members of their society.
Look up to, Mary (the mother of jesus)
Look up to, mother Teresa, look up to, princess Diana.
Look up to many great people who have lived good lives.
Choose to be yourself, dont let ignorance, jealousy, hate, arrogance to darken your heart.
Be kind, good, pure and truthful, always look to become better.
O beautiful, there will come a time, I be already gone,
Dont forget to visit my lifeless body at the grave yards.
Remember that one day, you are going be there too.
This is the truth about life, at least,
if you dont want to believe or know the one who created you and your life,
choose to be good, kind and pure, this is the key to happiness in life
November 29th, 2008 at 1:50 am
and soon it will be at the way things are going
ehsan
November 29th, 2008 at 9:42 am
Hi Ehsan,
Thank you for your comment. My thoughts are with you at this time. The letter/poem is beautiful, thank you for sharing!
Love & Light
Becky
November 29th, 2008 at 11:43 am
Ehsan that was very beautiful and so true!
Becky- yah I have always been into astrology since I was very young. Maybe one day I will learn to read the charts too! I know it takes time and practice because I remember looking over the ‘deeper’ meaning a long time ago and it went over my head so I just gave up! lol
November 29th, 2008 at 2:32 pm
Hello Ehsan!
Life always has its ups and downs for everyone. But when one is down, we usually tend to think that it will continue forever. Fortunately, it doesn’t. Life is full of surprises, beautiful things, and change. Bad times do not continue forever, that’s the beauty of life.
I can imagine that you have been passing through a rough phase but you will be over it after some time. Time is the biggest healer.
One should never let go off even the smallest moments of joy in life as they come.
By the way, My grand dad’s mother tongue was Persian (Farsi). It’s such a sweet language but unfortunately, I don’t understand a sentence of it. I liked you poem. It was beautiful.
Have a nice day.
Peace, Aly
November 29th, 2008 at 6:36 pm
bad times will end mine took 23 years after been ill for all that time day after day but when it ended believe me for the reliefe i felt it was nearly worth going through all those years. just a part of life thats all it is
November 29th, 2008 at 7:18 pm
Hey Scorpio lady…thanks for your comment and I really enjoyed your poem! So true….wow, at the moment I am surrounded by Pisces in my life. And yes, I definitely do gravitate towards their nature. They are good people and I know that deep down they really do care about LIFE…and when I say LIFE I mean the essence of LIFE….For me it is so important to be around. I can be very cerebral but I am also very much of a dreamer. I feel conflicted ALOT! As for the Pisces guy that i have been obsessed with, this website has been really enlightening….I guess I don’t always believe in astrology but a good part of me is very much attracted to it….mostly because I feel very different from other people and try to live my life in a sincere way and I think that most of the scorpios I have met are like that too. I am ok with brutal honesty and even though it hurts sometimes it is what I need to hear. That is what has been so confusing about pursuing this Pisces man….I have no clue why he can’t just be honest with me! Well, it is really over now though….in my own scorpio way I basically cut off communication with him. I feel bad about it because I am also a person that doesn’t like cutting ties with people, even people I hate. I say it is the best for me but really I still want to be friends…….or whatever we were before without the drama…I guess love is like that…not saying that there was love between us but there was definitely attraction, mostly from my end….
November 29th, 2008 at 10:46 pm
thanks everyone for your positive and supportive comments :)I am not sad or anything.It is my grandmothers time to go and there is nothing i could do about it.for what happened yesterday is for yesterday, there is no point for me to ruin today for what happened yesterday.I wrote the poem or letter, so that it might help my uncle’s daughter in realizing her potentials and make it easier for her to choose the way that she want to live her life.
November 30th, 2008 at 12:23 pm
Hiya Sara-Marie, yes, I totally understand. I think for us scorpios we hate not knowing - if there is a mystery then it has to be solved.As you say brutal honesty, even if it hurts, is always better than being ‘kept in the dark’. I don’t know why our Pisces men like to keep us in the dark, I think perhaps it is a control mechanism, i.e they wanna know exactly where we are (emotionally/physically etc) but God help us if we begin to question THEM!About a week ago I had a bit of emotional episode when after leading me on for many weeks he told me that he didnt want to commit to a serious relationship, and he asked me how I felt about that. Obviously I poured out my heart, crumbled into an emotional wreck… but I was still none the wiser about how what he felt for me. So I gave him ’space’ for the last week cos I thought thats what he wanted, but then I heard thru a mutual friend that he felt that I was ‘ignoring’ him! So on Friday morning I emailed him to ask how his week was. Didnt get any reply so I felt yet again that he had made me look like a fool, so I sent a hot headed email saying “fine, i wont ask how ur week went! I’m bloody sorry for ever even asking!!!” Haha…I guess that was me being brutally honest. (Why our we always so brutally honest?!!!) and then he emailed me back saying “hi, sorry i was out of office today, only just checked my email, i’m fine thanks how are you?” (i don’t believe that was the case, i think he just felt guilty!) Then yesterday he texted me to say “I can’t believe ur email, did i piss you off and if so how/why?” Can you believe?! How can he NOT see why I was pissed off/upset/hurt?! I then replied in a series of texts basically saying that I felt I didn’t know what to do as whatever I did seemed to be a lose-lose situation. He then called me back saying “hey, it would be great to see you tonite, let’s meet up” so then we met up and it was just another confusing night of him being flirty and telling me how much he didn’t want to lose our ‘friendship’ etc etc… so, it’s frustrating as we both know its more than just ‘friendship’ and yet not officially a ‘relationship’ sometimes I hate him and sometimes I love him with all my heart…. I really don’t know where its all gonna end up! Good luck Sara-Marie, I hope that things work out well for you. As you say, it’s so hard, severing the bond with our Pisces men is like trying to get off drugs, they can make u feel so good and yet sometimes make you so low, and so damn addictive you can lose yourself in them, and impossible to quit!!! (Even if u know it would be for the best…!)
November 30th, 2008 at 8:34 pm
Scorpio lady, this is so funny to write like this…I don’t even know you but we share this commonality which is soooo cooool! Also, are you from the UK? I am American, I can say that now that we don’t have a misfit for a president…..Can’t say that I share the feeling that scorpios are that secretive, huh?! Wow, your pisces situatin does seem complicated…don’t worry about losing him though and when I say that…maybe he needs some straight up talking to, possibly a little more brutal honesty without the brutality. My Pisces guy seemed to really “appreciate” that even though it was really frightening for him at the same time. I think people get really scared by their mood swings that they don’t challenge or call them on it! Sounds like you have been challenging him but you need to just use your instincts and talk to him from that place….instead of anger I mean. He sounds young and needs a bit of growing up and if you are the person to help him with that then it will be a growing experience for the both of you. You may not get what you want from him but at least you can tell yourself that you tried. I don’t know if i am making sense here, just kind of rambling but…..I am just hoping that I can be open to someone that isn’t so complicated and it trully attracted to me and can articulate that to me on a level that I understand and feel comfortable with. isn’t that what everyone wants? aaaaaaaahhhhh..take care, in the mean time try and flirt with some other cute boys in your life, it will make you feel better!!
November 30th, 2008 at 11:55 pm
Hello everyone,
As I have recently been briefly involved with a pisces/ox man, I find it deeply intriguing to read this blog (of course especially the posts from other pisces/oxen like Aly and Enry), and I find what you guys say rings a bell about “my” pisces/ox - curious nature, insightful, interested and interesting in general. This pisces also draws out my philosophical side, and he seems otherworldly in his demeanor, very pleasant but reticent at the same time. All these lead me to seek some clues from astrology, and discovered that I’m a cancer monkey with leo moon gemini venus etc etc.
Now..regarding this pisces/ox, we have spent 3 whole days together (he came from another country to visit me), beginning as relative stranger, since we only met and talked very briefly at a party couple months before, plus emailing back and forth, and there is no doubt we are seriously attracted to each other. We could talk about anything under the sun - we both appreciate arts, music, jokes, life, and I could feel that we share lots of feelings for each other, but for some strange reason he was not demonstrative about those feelings in his words and action,and he behaved like the coolest guy on the planet(which actually made him more desirable), but which at the same time left me with many many question marks. So after those 3 days, he is back in his country, and we now email once in a while as “friends” as he labeled us. Insight into this, anyone?
Thanks,
Anna
December 1st, 2008 at 8:59 pm
Ok, is it true that Pisces men deal with their women/mate interests differently than other men? Most men I have been involved with are pretty obvious about their interest…even if they are a little shy. One of my friends is a Pisces male and it is obvious that he is into me and would possibly want to date me if I was interested in return. However, I have no real attraction to him. BUT, the reason why I even found this site was because of an interest I had with a different Pisces male, who has skipped out on meeting me two times now but will still write me back emails if I contact him….what the f***? Most guys just wouldn’t get back to you if they weren’t somewhat interested….right? My guy friends say he just wants to have sex with me…but he definitely doesn’t seem like he does on a superficial level at least….why, why, why do I feel the need to resolve my strange situation with this man?? Is it a scorpio trait? Am I just retarded(sorry for not being PC) when it comes to attraction? Yikes…there is more, he is in a band, that I love, love, love and it makes me sad that he thinks I am a weirdo and doesn’t respect me…I feel like a groupie and maybe I am….I talk too much about my deep thoughts which I think is totally inappropriate since we aren’t even friends really. Sad thing is that whatever we had is really over…and here I am, complaining away as if there was something between us and there wasn’t. Not from his end at least…how did I become attracted to nothing????
December 2nd, 2008 at 5:56 pm
Hello Anna!
I’m not an expert on Pisces-OX but can only write a few lines.
Yes, Pisces-OX are eloquent in expression (at times assertive and stubborn) but also reticent at the same time. In my understanding, its because pisces-OX are mostly not-interested in the mundane discussions of the world and there are very few things like these which attract them. Although, these Oxen like to listen to people and prefer those who have expression and can discuss anything but very few conversations really make them tickle and interested. I tend to agree that they like music, jokes, movies, philosophy, fun, adventure, outdoors, sports, or anything that is related to life and humans that provides motivation, energy and action. Whereas, they also stubbornly protect their space for their own endeavours and activities. That’s why, Pisces-OX is not a very social kind of an animal (as both Fish and OX) but for some reason, they usually get the attention of people around because of their expression, eloquence, quirkiness, detachment, and variety.
Since Pisces-OX are not social, they try not to make many friends although capable of doing so. They truly believe in quality of friendship rather than the quantity of friends. The OX part makes the person wanting strong friends straightforward, communicative, intellectual, hard working, funny with good sense of humour but not emotional types who have their daily dramas and mundane issues. Yup, it also seems difficult for OX to express their emotions even if they are Pisces. In expressing love, I think they are kind of too-controlled and they don’t wear their heart on their sleeves. Even with close friends, their prefer to keep their independence and freedom intact and are not drawn away in to emotions. Beneath the tough exterior, they are also gentle and kind beings. They are also appear sort of detached and cool which doesn’t mean that they are unapproachable. They love to communicate provided if the other person is not shy. Quiet and cool attitude helps the piscean-OX in conserving its energies for utilisation in some other task they consider to be worth doing. Additionally, it also means preserving your own mental state and time for your own interests and hobbies. Some people often consider their cool behaviour as dull since mostly they do not show the crisp of their personalities as well as their emotions. This depends on that particular situation which may not be interesting to them.
Pisces OX are also philosophical, the reason being that they really want to get the insight of life and and people. Even with bestest of friends, they know them more the better it is but they don’t except that friend should take them for granted. Taken for granted is one of the most hated word in their dictionary although if they really really click with some friend, they are not shy of offering favours and any kind of support.
Have a nice day.
Peace, Aly
December 3rd, 2008 at 2:36 am
Hello Aly,
Thank you for your response. I guess there is no better pisces/ox expert than a pisces/ox himself. I must say I am in awe of this level of self knowledge, and to be able to express it like that…I think you have just won yourself a medal in the “know thyself” department.
What you described is eerily close to what my friend is like, and it helps me to unlock part of the mystery of his sometimes strangely undemonstrative ways. I think you pisces/oxen have so much to give to the world, and are truly uniquely gifted people (my friend is a published art writer - talk about eloquent expressions!) Perhaps if the pisces/ox could ever lose the seemingly impenetrable exterior sometimes, and be a little more affectionate, then you guys would be absolutely a dream come true. (My dream at least!) But for that to happen, I think we need to believe there is evolution even in astrology!
Really appreciate your post, Aly.
And thanks to Becky for maintaining this lovely site.
Anna
December 3rd, 2008 at 4:50 am
ok guys this is all very interesting I love how pisces guys got to speak their minds. sorry for my grammar..
lol
Im a gemini girl and I think Im in love with a pieces guy we’ve known each other for about 5 yrs now we met through a friend and dated no longer than a week when i got tired of his sensitivity and the fact that he was acting as if he was in love with me..I freaked out and dumped him.. hurting his feelings really badly.. but he stuck around for while ..in which I was going through personal problems and then i never heard from him again. now as a gemini I like my space and to be free. I was dating around ..we got in touch got back together 2 yrs. later except this time I really was feeling him and now he had become distant which i thought that it might have been cause i had hurt his feelings in the past.. but i thought coming clean and being honest and telling him how i felt would work and it didnt.. now I understand why..I never believed in horoscopes or anything like that.. but now Im drowned to it because now we have started talking again and Im confused he is very secretive and pushes me away he wont call me very often and wont pick up when i call and that just irritates me..I dont know what to do with this guy cause i really do care about him I mean its weird how we always end up back with each other.. and i know he likes his space from reading all of ur comments. but i cant let him go ..I feel he opens up and then shuts me completely off..I want to make this work..
what can i do?
December 3rd, 2008 at 7:41 am
Hello Anna, Thank you for your comment and your lovely compliment, much appreciated
I was going to write a lot more on Pisces men but due to the level of comments I figured you were all doing very well on your own, and I love this little community that has formed. Will hopefully soon be making a special forum for everyone. I will also be doing all the chinese/western combinations..eventually! So much to do and such little time to do it!!
Love & Light
Becky
December 3rd, 2008 at 2:06 pm
Hi Anna,
Appeciate, you like the comment. I can say that it is kind of a dicey and somewhat strange combination. Reason being that there are lots of gaps between a sluggish and determined OX and the fickle and quirky Pisces. This makes it a very hard to understand, often confusing, combination.
I couldn’t disgree with you that we need to be affectionate in our expression of love and emotions but it seems very hard to apply since OX has too much pride (not arrogance) and self-sufficiency. We do have emotions but we keep them to ourselves and never show it in public or in front of others. I guess, that’s why we are equivalent to Capricorns in the western astrology (firm and fixed). However, the pisces side gives it some crazyness, excitement and fun.
Anyways, have a nice day.
Peace, Aly
December 4th, 2008 at 12:01 am
Hi everyone :)sometimes, i make a fool at of myself by trusting and believing what people say
now,the girl and i started talking again… someone else, told me that she has a boyfriend but now i found out that the person who told me that, is not that honest or truthful.today, i finally decided to send her a Real serious message and see what happens.this is the message that i sent her:
Hi *****:) I hope that you are ok. I don’t know what to say, to explain the situation that I am in…
I guess, nothing is better then honesty, so I am going to explain, the things which I have gone through so far, since the time that I have meet you. You know, I have not kissed a girl yet in my life….I have always wanted to be with some one that I loved, the first girl that I ever loved 100%( stabbed me in the back and was dishonest with me. As result I went through, really , really rough times….) when , I met you at school, I saw some special things in your character, that’s why, I liked you for those, as a friend. That’s why, I asked you out twice(because I liked you and I wanted to know you more and I wanted to have the opportunity for you and me to get know each other ) all I told my friend, was that you are a good girl and that I liked you……. I did not tell him that I loved you. After the second time that I asked you out, I was little bit sad, and did not talk much to my old friend (****), he asked me why? I told him that I asked you out and you told me that you are busy, but I did not ask him to talk to you or anything like that . after on that day, in front of you, I asked him that if I told him that I love you and he (Lied in my face and told me that I did and after he asked you out to movies) that made me upset, that s why I don’t talk to him anymore. He is dishonest, 2 face person and it wasn’t his business to come and talk to you like that. After that day, I tried to not talk to you( I am not a rude person, you know that, and I never try to be disrespectful to others, especially, my friends and those who i like ) I only did that , because I wanted to forget about you and move on with my life…….( I knew that for some reason you did not want to go out with me and I did not want to push you)I thought, may be you have a boyfriend or something and I would never try to go after a girl who has a boyfriend…..i am not that kind of a man. for some reason, I cant stop the feelings that I have for you. But now, there is a dilemma in my head, one side of me says that you don’t have a boyfriend and that I should talk to you and tell you that I like you and one side of me says, she has a boyfriend and that I should not talk to you because you have a man in your life. I cant keep going like this, that’s why I am sending you this message. I want you to know that no matter what you say, I will not be sad because you are a good person and that I like you and wish the best for you in life. if you have a man in your life, I hope that you 2 will have a good and loving relationship and I hope if you two, have any problems, you will overcome those problems together. I hope that you will find peace, love, happiness and everything else that you want in your life. I hope that you will be happy and successful. I hope that all your family comes to ***** and you all could live in peace and happiness, together. No matter what you say, we be friends. I understand that two people must like or love each other truly and even if you don’t have a boyfriend and still dont look at me as a person you want to be with, I will still understand you……… I hope, that from now on, whenever you see me, you will act in the same manner as before because I don’t want for you or me, to feel awkward or uncomfortable.
*****, you are a great and a wonderful person and I am happy to have you as a friend
Looking forward to hear from you, bye for now.(LOL, I have to work on my spelling and grammer)
this is too personal,but i hope it helps those who are interested to knowing what is Pisces.
December 5th, 2008 at 7:47 pm
Hi everyone
that night, she replied to my message. Saying, she wants to be friends for now. She did talk about her having a boyfriend or not.I saw her in school and we be talking and everything, just like two friends.
This is how I as a Pisces see or feel the situation.
When I look into her eyes,(by some divine miracle) I see how she feels without she telling me a single word. She ( being the intelligent and analytical Virgo that she is) has analyzed every move that I have made while swimming towards her. She knows what kind of a man I am and she doesn’t want to lie to me or at the same time, she doesn’t want to tell me the truth , for she knows that I admire her for her good qualities and if she lies to me, I move on looking. That’s why she did not talk about having a man in her life. she is in a relationship that she does not want to be in, she knows that if their were true love in her relationship, she would not be here now. I look into her eyes, I see a girl, who has been lied to, many times. She has been hurt many times but now she sees that kind, loving, generous, intelligent, selfless and loyal man that she has been looking for. I too, see that intelligent, perfectionist and pure girl that she is inside her heart. It is funny, we both , in our own ways, know each other inside out. Now, we are just going to be 2 good friends . I hope, from back of my heart, that her relationship works out for the best. If one day, she is to be single , we are going to see then. I don’t expect anything form this situation, for me and her have to start university next year and we have to work hard. God willing, everything works out for the best.
I learned on important fact and a lesson about having feelings for someone. If a man has true and sincere feelings for a woman, he can not logically doubt his feelings. The only way to reaching a conclusion, is to reveal his emotions, sincerely. This is the only way to reach that conclusion and feel relieved and relaxed of the burden that he has in his heart.
December 7th, 2008 at 1:30 pm
hi,i m a pisces man,read and like comments in this site,it is mostly said by the pple that v pisces r day dreaming but tell me dear ,is there anything which in not on the base of dream,i think dreams r the foundations of reality,first a person see dream and then try to fulfil it,
I waan say to all Pisces ,not to make a relation with leos,as they r the most liesr persons of the zodiac,as i i have been dated with a leo girl for abt 2.5 year,and i have to leave that as she was a big lier,cheater though she was saying me that she realy loves me
after 3 year ,i made a contact again with her,n i thought that wd have change but i find her as previous,n in response i hav to leave her.
It is said abt pisces that v r dependent ,but such type of thing ,i didt find in myself as i m fully independent,hard worker ,competent,challinging,never make beleive on other even to my close friends,n y should i believe on others when i know that other has no solutions of my problems
Another thing,it is thought that leos r independent,but i have many friends of leos,but they r dependent of their family,sleep for the whole day and doing nothing,
December 7th, 2008 at 2:37 pm
Hi,
I feel that ladies who’s waiting for tt Pisces man should just move on. If he wants to carry on he WILL make sure you know abt it ;p
I’m a Scorp too.. and my man is Pisces.. so coincidentally haha..like some of the stories i’ve read above.. seemed like a Pisces traits somehow..the first few mths seemed like a retreating time for fish.. after 3 mths we’ve been together he told me he’s not ready in a r/s and that he wanna remain as good friends.. I thot what crap I got no time to entertain this crappy man.. how to be good friends and just friends when you’ve been in r/s before.. so I cut off communication with him telling him I dun wanna be his friend and let’s not talk anymore..
and he began calling me MANY times EVERY day.. after abt 2 wks I picked up his call and the first word he asked was,” why didn’t you pick up my call?” what the hell I thot I dun owe him an explanation.. I pick up the call when I WANT to .. and he asked me out again so I said why not.. see what this crappy man has to say.. then he told me he can’t do without me and that we continue the r/s .. many yrs later we r now hb and wife..
He’s stll using me as ever .. Pisces for his own purposes.. but whenever I showed him colours he’ll give in and b very nice gentleman..
so Ladies.. Pls pls pls do enjoy the wonderful dreamy feelings whilst with the fish but do let him know you r pissed so that he FINALLY realised how much you’ve done for him then he’ll WAKE up and do something to save the damsel in distress..
Truly,
Pisces’s Wife
December 8th, 2008 at 3:44 pm
Hello everyone! I just wanted to tell you all thanks for posting on here, it really helps to be able to add other insight to my already existing thoughts. I try to give my Pisces the benefit of the doubt most often and to hear others speak about them helps me understand him more and how to approach him with things. So thanks!
December 9th, 2008 at 10:11 am
Hi,
I’m a Virgo woman married to a Pisces man for 6 years. We’ve been together for 10 years. My Pisces is warm, tender,loves sports - former rugby player,plays tennis, football, does not love beer or any kind of alcohol, he is the most romantic man, even now, after 6 years of marriage..He likes to help people, in general, loves to offer support, he is very good in fixing everything in the house and loves to work in the open, does not like closed buildings and working in the office.He is a very good driver and takes pleasure in driving a car for the journey, not for the destination. He is a very good companion,almost every day in a good mood,likes telling jokes and see you smile; he’s crazy about children and children feel great in his presence; he loves animals; he has a very good memory,loves math and numbers and he’s the house accountant;very empathetic; best lover, not only warm and tender and romantic but also imaginative and spontaneous.He’s very calm, mature, caring.Loves to call me up from time to time just to say he misses me..
As for his flaws, not many: he’s not keen on order and things in their right place as I am, but Virgo women are so..; he’s never in time, and if he is, he expects a compliment.
There are many good things about Pisces that remain to be said..
December 9th, 2008 at 11:32 pm
so i just got some communication back from the Pisces guy that I have been infatuated with and it was really terrible. Crazy to think that this person that I really wanted to get to know, just really disliked me for it. I insulted him for what I called being disrespectful…maybe I should have learned from all of the entries about Pisces men here…but I didn’t. However, he deserved to be told he was disrespectful because he was…I guess I learned my lesson. When someone is mean to you, even if you are attracted to them, let them go. It is disrespectful to yourself to keep up the idea that deep down they really didn’t ‘mean’ it. Good luck to everyone else and their love lives! Please comment….I need to learn, maybe I am too strong and honest.
December 10th, 2008 at 9:37 am
Hi Sara Marie- sorry to heat that. You probably did the right thing though. As I mentioned in my earlier message dated Nov 30th, I finally was a the end of my tether and I made it known to him how much he has pi**ed me off. To say he was shocked was an understatement. I think these Pisces must be so busy floating around in their own little watery world they neglect to notice even the sky above
I was amazed though because I managed to put into words why I was so annoyed with him and he actually said he understood. i.e, as you say…they seem to be uncomfortable with idea that someone deeply loves and cares for them, and yet paradoxically they hate the idea that nobody cares or loves them. You can’t win, hey?! Being a Scorpio I suppose I tend to enjoy the drama of it all, even if it’s abumpy ride. I think how many ‘relationships’ I have been in that were devoid of any passion, intensity, mystery…so in a strange way I am keen to play ‘this game’ that Mr Gorgeaus Pisces wants to play. I might have scorched my fingers from poking them into this fire a bit too early but hey, I still want to play… maybe I am a masochist :-p
December 10th, 2008 at 10:35 pm
Scorpio lady,
Yeah, funny how us ladies can deal with the drama! As for me though…I am too old for this crap. This Pisces guy is totally and completely confusing. He is even the type that is telling me that he said things that he never said. I am sure he imagined them up to make his side of the story sound more credible…. I wanted him to like me too much and he sensed that and therefore treated me like a peon. I know it is my ego too though. A good part of this whole thing was to protect my ego, i really can’t believe that I went to these lengths to do this to myself….it was so obvious he wasn’t interested in me the way I was interested in him, so obvious. Deep in my heart, I knew…but I also didn’t want to give up on trying to be friends since I had put myself out there so much….if we couldn’t be more than friends. Maybe that was my ego too, I have friends….lots of friends. It was all my ploy and fantasy and ego and none of it was REAL. This was a good reality check for me. Hope things work out for you and your man. Keep it REAL as they say in the hood…
December 10th, 2008 at 11:15 pm
My pisces e-love left me for someone else who is near him. I am afraid and a bit embarrased to ask this but, will he come back? He says I have not been affectionate with him for a while. I told him I never mean to neglect him and I apologized. Told him that I loved him, he says he still loves me and that’s why we should not talk for a while, coz it would not be fair to me or to ‘her’. It breaks my heart coz I was here before her, and now he wants to be fair to her?? Told him I love him and he needs to go live what he needs to live, and that he can contact me if he wants to but I will not be contacting him again. Do you think he will come back or am I way too naive? Just hurts to lose someone you loved for a year so unexpectedly to another…
…a montha after he e-mailed me two pictures, no wording on the e-mail. I did not respond. Today I see he deleted my name in his MSN messenger personal message box.
can someone please tell me anything about this? I feel lost and heartbroken. Thank you.
December 12th, 2008 at 4:17 pm
brooke dear,never show ur emotions to ur pisces,as for as u will go behind him,he will get away from u,as i m a pisces too,and that moment was too come in my life when someone behind me and i was,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
when u will stop behind him,he will look back and if it was found by him that u r behind him,he will far from u,and if he found that instead of picking him u r getting far from him,then he will behind u with crazy
i think i should,t tell u this deep thing abt pisces as thats the scret of pisces,anyway do the thing which i tell u,then lets see,whats happen,
why this stranger type of confusion is found in pisces,i dont know myself,,,,,,,,,,
December 13th, 2008 at 8:05 am
Who say Pisces Men are Chasers??? I don’t think so. I’m one fish.
December 13th, 2008 at 4:31 pm
jeck, thank you. thanks very much for taking the time to explain.
aly, do you have any advice for me since you seem to differ from jeck?
any help is much appreciated…
he did email me twice last weekend, probably tofigure out if i’m online or not. I did not reply and I saw that this week he deleted my name from his personal message part of MSN.
any advice? anything? thank you much!
December 13th, 2008 at 6:09 pm
Hi brooke,
I kinda agree wif jeck. When I gave up on my Pisces he chased me like mad.
Now that I know another Pisces whom I have feelings for.. whenever he showed appreciation for me he can but when I showed mine his responses are very quiet and no reply at all.
Guess this is just their way of rejection. I’m kinda hurt too.. I know God forbid but I can’t control my feelings for him as I couldn’t get comfort from my current Pisces.
Worst thing is, this Pisces has a family too it’s kinda messy.
I really know how you feel as I’m hurting by 2 Pisces now.
Think need to move on to save our own soul. If he really miss you, he will prove himself but we can’t wait forever so I suggest trying to divert your attention to other matters for the moment.
After the cool down, you may even feel that he’s not worth your wait at all … I have faith you can do this to help yourself.
Best of Luck to us!
December 13th, 2008 at 10:12 pm
Hi All
I have dated 2 pisces men in my past:
The first one was very femine, took great care in himself and spent more time in the mirror than me.I struggled with his femine side as Leo women tend to prefer more masculine men. Nevertheless he was the absolute love of my life and as a leo my loyalty and love for him was never questioned. However, he on the other hand was very much a lone ranger; opportunistic, never really there for me, never let his guard down, did what he wanted…when he wanted: A law unto himself. And Yes from a leo’s perspective VERY self centred. He ended it because he couldn’t “give me what I wanted”.
The second pisces was very recent. An Army man: VERY masculine, macho but yet incredibly sweet and gentle at the same time (tho that didnt last long). I was slightly worried when I fist met him, having gone through the experience with the first, but I thought this one was different. After a few short and intensive weeks of full on love an attention (from his side!)as soon as I let my guard down and recipricated he pulled back within a blink of an eye.
Both my pisces men had very few girlfriends in their past. There’s so much I love about pisces men, but also so much I hate.
I realise pisces men can be loner rangers and need to have time to themself for their own mental sanity… but how do you keep a pisces man? Is it being less available? the thrill of the chase? why do they struggle to keep a girlfriend?
Any advice?
December 13th, 2008 at 10:29 pm
p.s I don’t know if it helps but the first pisces (the very feminine one) was born year of the Sheep and the second (army boy)year of the Horse.
December 13th, 2008 at 11:39 pm
Hi brooke:) I hope that you are ok.
I am sorry to say this:( in my opinion:
when a man left you for someone else,he just walked over you and treated you like no body, where is the love in that? How could you love him after that? how could he claim that he loves you now?
If this happened to me, I would not think about that person for even a second.
once, a poison was given to a blind man.He was told that it is his medicine.The blind man, day by day, drank full of the poison.All along, he assumed that it is, his medicine. it will heal me,said to himself.his condition,day by day, got worst,Until, his death. this story is all about, one sided “love” .when a man or a girl, falls in love with the wrong person, they become blind. when they are blind, they can not make right decision for themselves.their is no point to waste our time and life, thinking about people that we should not think about.I would say move on, look for the right person. In my opinion, he does not love you.Sorry, I might be wrong, again, this is my opinion. Take care and good luck
December 14th, 2008 at 4:16 am
Hey Brooke!
You don’t have to feel heartbroken since there are millions of single men out there searching for the right woman. Sorry, I fail to understand why people get attached so quickly and feel heartbroken in the end. There are lots of choices in the world and it seems absurd to make yourself vulnerable to the whims and wishes of only one man/woman.
Yeah, I’m a fish but because of my venus effect, I take relationships more like an aquarian (friendly but emotionally detached). Therefore, I won’t be able to help you much in this regard.
However, I must say that if this man is acting childish, then it seems better to move on since you can’t waste your time and life thinking about it and getting hurt. Don’t think from your heart (alone) and use your mind. Put the question to yourself: Whether this person really likes you? and Why? Reasons? Also put a same question to yourself, why you like him? What are the commonalities you both have which you enjoy together. What are the underlying reasons for compatibility as well as differences? Make kind of a checklist and see the pros and cons of the relationship and know which one outweighs the other. Take your time in preparing the checklist. I know its sounds a bit scientific on paper but it’s interesting to analyse the personalities and assessing the need for each other. Some psychologists use it to understand compatibility. Just don’t go on infatuation but analyse long term possibilities that could assist sticking both of you together. When you make up your mind (that you want to continue), then be direct. If nothing happens, look ahead, see for other guys (if you want to), don’t make yourself heartbroken and vulnerable. Enjoy life.
Have a nice day.
Peace, Aly The water-OX
December 14th, 2008 at 7:44 pm
Thank you for all your advice
While I understand the need to be rational as well as being emotional, I just cannot muster that up now. I would probably tell someone else the same thing “why want or miss anyone who’s left you? move on, life is beautiful, live!” yet when I am in the situation all I can think of is how I miss my friend, how I miss his voic, his attention to me, how I miss the object of my affection. and how cold and cruel the world is all of a sudden after he left my life…and for another. I cant help thinking he is with someone else now. SOmeone he’s met when I think he was with me. Then he emails me 2 pics last weekend..expecting what? just checking out if I’m alive? I’ve talked to him, chatted, emailed him for a year straight, and now its all loneliness and emptiness. Not that I do not have my own life going on, I am busy with thinsg but without him everything happens without ‘life’… my legs walk, my eyes see, my mouth talks..but its like I’m not there…my life energy is not there.
He brought me back to life, and then he went away to another woman, just becoz she is there and I am at the other side of the world…
maybe I’m a fool.. maybe, its not a maybe…I’m a fool…
December 15th, 2008 at 5:26 am
Pisces men have all the misfortunes which life has to offer. They often tend to go through utter financial ruin. Hardly are they financially successful. Really. This is because they are the most impractical sign of the zodiac. Dreaminess? What the hell? In the practical, sinister world, why the hell escape?! PATHETIC LOSERS are the Pisces men. If you would like a life of ease, never marry a Pisces Man! Take my word for it! A Pisces Man will just bring you misery and poverty. He is penniless. He’s got the love, the sex, the gentleness, yes! But YOU CANNOT LIVE WITH JUST THOSE! This world is just so ALL ABOUT THE MONEY, my dear.
December 15th, 2008 at 9:28 am
lol that is sooo funny!!! its kinda true about pisces men being poor. i duno if its true for all of them but the few i have met have been pretty poor! my pisces takes care of me :). we dont live a lavish lifestule or anything but we are also very young!
December 15th, 2008 at 9:34 am
brooke i know wut u mean when u say its hard to live with out ur love. when my pisces isnt around i feel the same way. almost lifeless. like you hang out with people and ur just doing things that have no point or sumthing? i duno .. i feel that way when mine leaves too.. he didnt leave for another girl, but for other reasons.
December 15th, 2008 at 11:33 am
Hey Pisces Woman rejecting Pisces Man!
Your post is simply hilarious. Bravo!!! 2 Thumbs up for writing in a such a humourous manner.
Mind it exceptions are there, Rupert Murdoch is one. Well he interited it and multiplied it later.
Bravo, Aly
December 15th, 2008 at 12:21 pm
Hi Brooke,
You can do it because I can too. and I really wish you can cause I noe how it feels like listless having to do the daily things but just without the heart to some parts of you seemed to be missing and it’s aching somewhere you dun noe how and where it is.This can go on for a long time until you start somewhere.
BUT.. U R AS WORTHY AS HIM. and you must be fair to your soul as he is to himself now..only when u start doing it for yourself he’ll realise you r worthy enough to be respected or he may not be bothered and then you’ll know he’s not worth it.
and not doing it waiting for him to come back because if he’s meant to be he’ll be back.
Keep your Soul Alive first! It’s good for you!
Actually, my Pisces is starting to give me a kind of ‘attention’ the kind of surprise and interest that I’m enjoying my time equally good without his attention and he keeps appearing in front of me to ‘tell’ me that he actually exist *grin*
December 15th, 2008 at 1:19 pm
hi,pisces women rejecting pisces men
i regert it which u has said all abt pisces,dear v all know that the description and trait abt a zodiac is not alwayas 100% certified,then how u can say that.
every fish with i met ,i found them independent,havng a little ego too,as i m a fish i find a lot ego in myself though it is said that v fish hav no like this,anyways
i regert on ur wording ,
December 15th, 2008 at 7:24 pm
haven’t had time to read all these posts yet but tony (back in may) you sound like the male equivalent of me except you seem gentler! i am a very opinionated feisty female fish.i would encourage ppl to do voluntary/charity work for the same reasons you give for helping others with their problems as it helps to take the focus off your own problems aswell as helping others less fortunuate than yourself…are there any truly charitable acts?? even mother theresa liked the media attention her charity work garnered her apparently…lol
for ally who is managing to do what i have meant to get around to doing…using rational to reign in the more neg points to my piscean character…i will one day…no really i will!
astra inclinant, neque tamant necissitant -
the stars incline they do not compel…
ptolemy (so we have freewill…apparently!)
i have met a few pisces men in my time & without exception i have got along with then famously…one in particular was the brother of my first ex hubbie (you’ve had too many when you have to number them! lol) we got so well & would talk & debate (heatedly at times) that the running joke in the family was that i had married the wrong brother (the gemini!!) but tbh i thought we were too similar. if we’d both been feeling down we’d have stayed in & hid from the world…& sex wise…we’d have wanted to stay in for other reasons lol. funny enough he did marry a pisces woman yrs later.
anyway not sure if this has been said as haven’t read all the posts yet but the pisces men i have known so far…atleast 5/6 have all been quite unfaithful even when married. i have twice got into r/ships with pisces men before knowing they were married. the first time (no not with my brother-in-law…though he has cheated on his wife several times…) was with a detective…i was married myself at the time (harlot lol) but going through a divorce so i wanted us to keep it quiet. which of course i realised later fitted in with his deception! we only went to out of the way places etc. he was my one affair i think as tbh it was just about sex more than anything. two cold fishes together can be very hot btw!!
me typical pisces…living my life like in a movie as my friend has always said…used to open the door to him in very sexy lingerie & then well….lol…i think it messed up his mind a little though…as i’m sure he started to think i always dressed like that!! about a mth after out little tryst began found out he was married & i ended it. he was quite beside himself crying on my step..!!?? he admitted he thought he’d get away with it but had now decided to leave his wife as he’d realised that he didn’t connect with his wife like we did?? it was a nightmare. i would never break up a marriage & how could you trust him not to cheat on you too anyway?? i told him i didn’t want to see him again so i have no idea if he went back to ‘play’ the dutiful husband or not.
quite recently i got to know someone via a forum & we hit it off immediately. he told me he was an aries which kind of threw me as we would have all these indepth chats about the cosmos/after life/why are here etc. we were so alike but my son is aries & we are from it! it turned out he thought he was aries as he was born on the cusp on the 20th march?? to me thats pisces though isn’t it?? just as i was about to meet up with him he admitted he was married but more like it was no big deal. to me it was & have since refused to meet him. we still chat on the phone occasionally & true to form like the dectective he says that hes never been able to talk to anybody so easily as he has with me…i do know what he means…
December 15th, 2008 at 8:07 pm
pisces women rejecting pisces men,
Malcolm x said,” A persons judgment is the most outstanding sign of his or her character, the value that you give to people, is the value which they give to themselves.”
so I say to you, The value that you have, is the value that you give to yourself based up on what you have posted about Pisces Men.It was really disrespectful,inhumane and ignorant of you to speak about Pisces in such manner.You are a Pisces yourself, don’t forget that and I believe you own a apology to all of us for your disrespectful comment.
Ohhhhhh, I almost forgot, Malcolm X is a PISCES
Malcolm X - Who are YOU ??
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=63OHMLf9wUc
December 15th, 2008 at 9:37 pm
Thank you Roxy and Pisces’ Wife. I will try. I’ve been trying to move on, seriously. But I guess this thing comes in fluctuatuin cycles. SOmetimes when you think its all gone there it is dwelling in your heart. Some days are better than others. Guess its like addiction and I have to go through thr purification proces.. some sort of purgatory from my pisces.
I guess its like going through withdrawals like addicts, its just not fair to be cut off of my lover and friend and life energy that came with him. I miss him.
I am actually planning to mail him that gift pack I promised to. In return to something he’d sent me before but also coz I had wanted to send him some stuff. I dunno I may be doing the wrong thing here.. Its so funny that I;ve been holding on to the gifts I am meaning to send him. He broke up with me andI guess not sending the gifts was my way of hanging on to him. I guess I’ll need to let go. After I send him the gift package, I will have no more way of contacting him. I guess that’ll be the farewell to my pisces…
December 16th, 2008 at 3:36 pm
Ehsan,
Just a Correction!!! Malcom X was Taurus not Pisces (DOB: May 19, 1925). He was assassinated on February 21, 1965 aged 39.
December 16th, 2008 at 5:58 pm
Brooke~ well we will be going through the process together because my pisces will b gone for 6 or more mths! i know exactly wut u mean when u say its like going through withdrawls! it really is. hopefully i will still be functioning properly
December 16th, 2008 at 6:50 pm
OK…. I mailed my pisces the gifts I was meaning to send. I guess that concludes my whole relationship with him, now that he broke up with me for someone else who is right by his side (and I am in another continent). He used to send me gifts and I wanted to return the favor. Its interesting how I held onto the stuff I meant to send him for a while as if they are him. Well, they’re not. I hope he likes them but it is by no means a tool to win him back or start anything again. And I hope he does not feel such a thing from it. If it does, I will tell him (I have not been talking to him at all but I may this time just to clarify) that it is just a goodbye gift. I wish it solved everything and made it back to when everything was great but I am broken and nothing would be the same ever again..
If he calls me or e-mails me to thank for the gift package, should I answer the phone or reply to his e-mail? Or, should I just leave it unresponded? The latter feels a bit too rude but nonetheless I want to know what you guys have to advise me.
I’ve been listening to your advice to go on with my life and not pursue him.
December 16th, 2008 at 9:26 pm
dear PisCes,
If you go on wikipedia, it claims that he was born may 19,1925 but through what I have researched, he was born approximately 60 to 70 days before may 19 and his name was registered on may 19,1925.
December 17th, 2008 at 1:18 am
brooke-I wouldn’t respond…not responding will give you the power back AND provide you with the closure you need….take care girl, you can do it!!
December 17th, 2008 at 9:35 am
Thanks Roxy, that’s comforting to know. I think we’ll be able to function properly. Its just we could’ve function much much better with them still being around. But hey, what can we do, right? Justdo the best we can with what we have in hand.
But its great to know you’re out there supporting.
December 17th, 2008 at 9:37 am
Thanks Sara Marie! Let’s see how I’ll do.
December 17th, 2008 at 11:12 am
Dear Ehsan!
What and how your research says Malcolm X was born 60-70 days before his mentioned birthday??? How???
December 17th, 2008 at 2:24 pm
Hi brooke,
I’ve read somewhere that Pisces likes the person who give the gift and not the gift itself normally.
If he tries to contact you, that’s very sweet of him .. If I were you, I will respond Definitely .. tt’s just his way of showing appreciation for you.
U noe Pisces have a kinda lazy and hackcare attitude and If they do respond, they are real even if for a short while and I’ll treasure this moment before it’ll be gone soon.
Hope you are feeling better .. I Pray to Lord to pls send his angels to protect brooke from any further harm or hurt
December 17th, 2008 at 7:46 pm
Dear PisCes,
why does it matter to you, what day was Malcolm X born in?
First of all,before claiming that he was a PISCES, I knew that on wikipedia or sites similar to it, they claim that he was born on may 19.
Second of all, If simply I knew that he is a Taurus(officially speaking)why would I claim that he is a pisces?for I know, there are many intelligent people on this website, and they will go and search about Malcolm X’s birthday?
Thirdly,If I had said a false statement, I would correctly,take my words back and claim that I have made a mistake!
for me it’s not a war of EGOS between me and you, for I do not feel pleasure in proving others wrong and I do not feel low,egoistic or bad when others prove me wrong.It is not about me or you,it is about the truth.
I am sorry, I could tell you how i know that he is a Pisces but I do not want to tell you because it is not good for me to tell you how I know, that he is a Pisces.either you believe in my words or you follow wikipedia in this matter. regardless, Malcolm X was a great human being.
with this, I have decided to use the computer for only about 15 minutes a week(for email purposes only and uploading new videos on my youtube account)so, it was a great time for me to be here, and learn so many new things that I could use in my daily life. God bless everyone
Best Wishes To All 
few nice quotes mostly about love
“difference of opinion leads to inquiry, and inquiry to truth” Thomas Jefferson.
“love to faults is always blind,always to joy inclined,lawless,winged,and unconfined, and breaks all chains from every mind” William Blake
“Love blinds the eyes from seeing faults” Moshe Ben Ezra
“Love is such a tissue of paradoxes, and endless variety of forms and shades, that you may say almost anything about it that you please and it is likely to be correct” Finck
“Advice for a good love: Don’t love those far away.Take yourself one from nearby.The way a sensible house will take local stones for its building,stones which have suffered in the same cold and were scorched by the same sun” Yehuda Amichai
“We still by no means think decisively enough about the essence of action” (I don’t know, who said this quote)
“Like hatred, jealousy is forbidden by the laws of life because it is essentially destructive” Alexis Carrel
” what you leave behind is not what is engraved in stone monuments, but what is woven into lives of others” Pericles
“Love is the only sane and satisfactory answer to the problem of human existence” Eric Fromm
“Your task is not to seek for love but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it” Jalaleddin Rumi
“Who,being loved is Poor?” Oscar Wilde
For years my heart was in search of the Grail
What was inside me, it searched for, on the trail
That pearl that transcends time and place
Sought of divers whom oceans sail
My quest to the Magi my path trace
One glance solved the riddles that I Braille
Found him wine in hand and happy face
In the mirror of his cup would watch a hundred detail
I asked, “when did God give you this Holy Grail?”
Said, “on the day He hammered the world’s first nail!”
Even the unbeliever had the support of God
Though he could not see, God’s name would always hail.
All the tricks of the mind would make God seem like fraud
Yet the Golden Calf beside Moses’ rod would just pale.
And the one put on the cross by his race
His crime, secrets of God would unveil
Anyone who is touched by God’s grace
Can do what Christ did, without fail.
And what of this curly lock that’s my jail
Said this is for Hafiz to tell his tale. Hafiz
December 17th, 2008 at 8:12 pm
Hello all. Here’s my “fish story.” We went out for 10 months. I flipped over him. He’s super intelligent, witty, a musical genius, sarcastic (which I love), fun, can dance like there’s no tomorrow, handsome…and a cheat. In those 10 months, he would pull me close, then push me away. I would try and stay away and not talk to him, reply to his texts, nothing. But he would be soooo persistent, that after about a week or so, I’d give in and pick up the phone, and he’d suck me right back in, which wasn’t difficult on his part. I always suspected he chased other women, and didn’t trust him as far as I could throw him (because he gave me reasons not to trust him).
In any event, I kept focusing on the good side of him, and kept the nagging feeling at bay. Well, one day something told me to go on a singles site and look around for him. It was the site I met him on and which he said he took his profile off, which he did. Wellll, I found a profile without a picture, that sounded like him. It was the wrong age (10 yeas younger) and wrong profession, but boy it sounded like him. Yes, I did it. I created a fake profile, chatted him up, he sent me his picture, and you guessed the rest. He first tried telling me he was trying to bust me on the site. Yeah, right. Then when that didn’t work, he said he was on there for “entertainment purposes only” and I shouldn’t be mad, it’s no big deal, “shit happens.”
I cried and cried, but it’s over! I don’t want to see that lying scum ever again. How low can a person go?? I’ve asked him in the past if he wanted to date other people, and he always said no. I suppose he figured (and correctly so) that if he dated other people, so would I.
Don’t get me wrong. I loved my fish…blindly so. And I miss him terribly. But I deserve a lot better than a bottom feeding jerk that lies to not only his girlfriend, but the others he meets as well.
That’s my rant for today. Happy Holidays to all!!
December 17th, 2008 at 9:56 pm
Pisces’ Wife, thank you soooo much for your comment. I loved it and can anyone be any nicer wishing me protection. That is the sweetest thing of the day! Thank you, thank you! I wish you the same!!!
It makes a lot of sense what you’re saying. I am definitely not expecting anything from it, I have trained myself not to. Those were things that belonged to or wanted to belong to him in my mind and so I sent them. I really hope he likes them. That should create some good positive energy. And then I can go on with my life..which I already am trying to.
I’ve read somewhere a quote on unreciprocated love. It goes like this: “Love is never lost. If not reciprocated, it will flow back and soften and purify the heart.”
Corny as it may sound, I can feel it working on my heart..lol.. Or is it the hope that he will like the gifts and contact me…
Ugh..where do I reach true honesty with myself?!
December 17th, 2008 at 10:21 pm
dear Threw my fish back in the water…
yes all the pisces men that i know of, that i have met have cheated on their wives…i posted a rambly post above somewhere. but yes they are also very charming & sweet so i’m not surprised that you got sucked in!! now before any pisces men take offence i do not believe that all pisces men would cheat but many do so it seems…& so i assume do pisces women but i haven’t & don’t ever intend to…one man woman!
ok that may seem a little ironic considering i have been a bit of a serial wife but i was always fathful to each one at the time lol the affair with the detective happened during my divorce proceedings & i’d been separated for about 18 mths…so that doesn’t count. does it?
December 18th, 2008 at 2:15 am
Brooke dont call him or answer his calls!! just cut him off. iv learned with pisces if they love u a lot and u completely cut them out of ur life, they will find a way to talk to you and then maybe not take u forgranted the next time around.. plus if u contiunue to talk to him you will just keep ur feelings going for him.
December 18th, 2008 at 4:48 am
Ehsan,
Chill out man. I don’t have any ego problems nor I want to win this petty issue. You are tryin to be an extra sensitive Pisces which Unfortunately I’m not a bit. I mostly prefer intelligent people who really know what they are talking about or at least have confidence to describe the facts in an articulate and convincing matter. There are lots of Pisces out there who are non-egoistical, not-emotional, but rational.
Ciao
December 18th, 2008 at 4:53 am
Brooke!
YOU CAN DO IT WOMAN, YOU CAN DO IT. Just have faith and confidence in yourself.
Peace, Aly
December 18th, 2008 at 7:51 pm
Aly, wait! So what say you? DO I respond to him if he calls or not?
December 19th, 2008 at 3:49 pm
Brooke!
Honestly speaking, I’m not really sure about it. But it also depends on the situation. If you have SERIOUSLY!!! overcome your emotionalities with this guy, there is no harm in talking back, however, I feel that conversation shouldn’t be at the emotional level but at the intellectual level. By this, I mean that you don’t loose yourself in the conversation and keep intact your own self, your demeanour, personality, and pride.
It’s my observation, the more one gets emotional, the more chances of being taken for granted.
On the other hand, If you have NOT OVERSOME your emotionalities and feel for this guy, I think, just think, that its better to avoid talking and getting hurt.
As a person, I feel that its your will-power and courage which takes you away from difficult times.
Have a nice day.
Peace, Aly
December 19th, 2008 at 7:17 pm
dear brooke,y u r not trying to understad,what will b happen if he will contact u n in responce u too responser him.The story will repeat again in the same manner ,like previous relation he will break this too,then y sould not avoid to make a such contact again with that person,about u know by make it again and loss it again nothing give u except sorrows,so my dear ,avoid this and never contact him even he want to
December 19th, 2008 at 7:25 pm
One more final post from me
I am no longer interested in the Virgo/girl and thus, I do not look at her, in the same way as before. She just send me a message last night, saying marry Christmas and everything….. this is my (to be final)reply to her:
Hi TTTT:)
I am doing fine, thanks for asking how are you?
Thanks a lot for the message that you have sent to me. I wish a great and a wonderful year ahead for you and your family, as well. I never have jealousy or hate towards any men, no matter what they do to me. With this into regards, I was a great and a wonderful friend towards my old friend(RRRR) with all that I had done for him, he choose to overstep his limits and he disrespected me ,big time. I never make a toy out of myself, so that people could play with me. He is a kind of a man, who, for money, his desires, fame, woman, will do anything. He will lie, steal, cheat, oppress others and live a useless life. Even though, I knew from beginning, what kind of a man he is, I choose to be good for him; I choose to give him the message of God; I choose to be a good example to him; I choose to show him what a real man looks like. But, ignorantly, he did not change. I see him, as a lost person and he will have a tremendous punishment after life, for all the wrong things that he does on this earth. Then, he wishes to come back to life, so that he could be a good, honest and a loyal friend. But, by that time, unfortunately, it will be too late. In regards to MMMM, he is different. MMMM is god loving and a wonderful person. Therefore, I have nothing against him and I wish him the best with everything that he does. Something happened, that is why, I do not talk to him. Now, it is the time, for me, you and TTTT, to work hard for our future. TTTT, now, I see you and me, heading into two different directions in life. I don’t want to go after a person, who has a different path in life. Because, if two people have different interests, they can not establish a honest, loving relationship, in which, they could walk hand in hand and overcome the obstacles that life puts on their path. I have said this to all my friends and I will tell you the same, I believe in my creator, who created me and my life. On daily bases, I don’t live for money, girls, fame, power or my desires. I am a servant of the one who created me. I will always try to be good, pure and righteous. For one day, I will return to the one who created me. Anyways, sorry for my long reply ) have a great Christmas break :)
God be with you, take care.
Your friend,
Ehsan
Dear PisCes, God knows best who you are and God knows best who I am.
December 20th, 2008 at 2:54 pm
jeck because:
For all sad words of tongue and pen, the saddest are these, It might have been.
John Greenleaf Whittier
I guess I still cannot believe this happened to me. Should get off my high horse I guess but something in me still says ‘no’… lol
Its gonna get better.. But you tell me, wouldnt it be rude not to answer him when he wants to thank me for the gifts I just mailed him??? but again one might ask, wasn’t it rude of him to dump me for the first girl he’s met at a bar, right? but it’s rude of him, I dont have to be rude, thats not me… tell me what u think.
But, I like the fact that you are trying to show me the truth Jeck, thank you.
December 21st, 2008 at 1:29 pm
Aly!
Thank you. Much wisdom, you have. I agree with you. I am usually not very open with the way I express my feelings. Most of the time I have great difficulty doing so, be it a happy feeling or a sad or an angry feeling. I think I would like to be civilized and also honorable. Therefore, if he tries to contact I should speak only to say something towards “you are welcome, I am glad you liked them” and that should be all. If he asks how my life is going I intend to tell him it is going well, and thank him for asking. I do not plan to ask him how his life is going, I intend to say nothing more than ‘I hope all is well with you’. And then goodbye.
Unless the other party opens up his guts and heart and talk all about what he was thinking and so on and so forth I would never in a million years show anything close to emotion to him. Unfortunately, that door closed when he broke up. But I intend to be polite and civilized, which is what I try to do with everyone.. nothing special to him.
December 26th, 2008 at 4:15 am
it hurts to be a pisces sometimes.
December 26th, 2008 at 10:16 pm
coincedently, ive been hanging out with/ more or less being persued by a gemini female. although, i found this site while looking for information about being a pisces in a non-pisces world.
what i get from reading the majority of this is that somehow its “not ok” to be a pisces male, which is pretty lame if you ask me, and also funny to me since were the last house on the block. or that could just be me being sensitive here. i get pretty defensive.
ill tell you a little bit about my recent-past relationships, (or just trying to date) and see if i cant help add any insight to this, from a pisces male in his mid-20s perspective.
the last semi long-ish relationship i was in lasted for a few months with a libra women. it was really fun because she made me feel like i was one step ahead of everyone else- style wise, cool wise, surface stuff like that. problem is is that im pretty deep. it was good for my self esteem (outside things), but horrible for my spirituality and my mind.
i believe that the only reason it lasted as long as it did was because we both stayed pretty inebrehated and went out all of the time and acted immature and had a blast.
but she was not into the things that i hold close to my heart- spirituality, good music, good films, the arts, comedy, being kind to people, travel, etc.
it drove me to drink more, spend more, and become more of an asshole in general.
her friends all thought that i was funny and charming, but she did not at all.
also, in this relationship, i had a lot going on with school, work, and outside hobbies and things that im into. a full plate. but she still came first always.
i was there for her physically always, but after a while not at all mentally (and this is the pisces fault lol).
here is where i feel like going off on a tangent about the ladies who get angry at the pisces, but then in return they have their minds on gucci bags or NASCARR(LOL) or just really shallow, ignorant things that the pisces man is beyond.
but i wont. ill chill.
i dont even feel like writing anymore. maybe ill come back later.
December 28th, 2008 at 4:10 pm
After reading all these posts, I feel rather depressed, there seems to be no hope. I liked scorpio woman’s poem though, it almost made me cry it’s so true.
December 29th, 2008 at 8:11 pm
I think there is lots of hope in pisces males. Some of the most beautiful people I have ever met have been pisces males. I am a pisces female and I fit the “weak pisces” wayyy more then my husband. He is strong compared to me! So not all pisces men are weak! My husband is a leader, everyone he meets gets a new friend because hes so friendly. I don’t know what else to say about them except that pisces males are GREAT people and I wouldnt wanna be with any other sign/person.
December 31st, 2008 at 12:48 am
I am in middle of a break up with my ex born march and myself march. I still love him we were togther six years and he has loved me and let me down. He has swept me off my feat and been the most romantic man in the world, love I never experienced before. Hence he gets down and hides away wanting space and loves his friendships and his me time. I really believed we would marry but I guess it’s all in vain. Being the same sign is hard as we mis understand eachother or assum too much as we are naturally so in tuned and understanding and caring we dont bother to ask or listen, as we know. I know him and he knows me this can be good and bad as the march born likes to dream and make things better.
But do we do when things go bad….. thats the problem we don’t like to hurt your feelings we see the good in everyone, so when tell the truth it seems so bad. Im hurting so much we had a fight and felt he needed time and wed make up as he always came begging he was sorry. But this time four months of crying heartbreak him telling me he loved me and always will but he can’t take when we fight I send him nasty texts and over react trust me he has moods and has a temper but this is okay for him but not me. We been fighting through the break through frustration we still love eachother. We meet up made love kissed and talked he confesssed He didnt know how to tell me that he was going away back to his country his got a good job. He didnt ask me to come as Im at uni working and have a good placement i uk. So the march born firstly blamed me for my attitude for the break up but he couldnt tell me he wanted out and felt we had no future in his culture even though he loved me. Im feeling town as he let me down why couldnt he communicate with me.He assumed I wouldnt come so he pushed me away. Ill miss him deeply his my soul mate my lover my best friend. But I guess I have to let him go and hope for the best. I don’t know if ill find this kind of love again. But all I know it was real his weaknesses getting depressed wanting to be motherd and letting me down and not talking and communicating when things go wrong are a march borns weakness. we were too, alike only I was seeing the future as us and he saw as meself!!!
January 2nd, 2009 at 12:39 am
My husband is a Pisces and when he fell for me he fell hard. He wears his heart on his sleeve witch at time is very difficult because I am after all a critical virgo. He is one who would give you his last dime. I love his gentleness but he is a very strong man as well. Dont cross him he has a temper and he is highly protective of those he loves. He does tend to always feel sorry for is self tough as if never to look at the things he has just at the things he doesnt. He lives in the past and dwells on things that hav hurt him
January 5th, 2009 at 7:19 pm
1. I’m a Libra (oct 16), he’s a Pisces (march 11)
I just wanted to say that I really resonated with scorpio-lady’s post about her initial experience with a Pisces.
I have a good friend (we’ve been friends for about a year and a half) who I’ve crushed on since the very first time I met him. And when I say “crushed” I really do mean that. He makes my heart beat FAST.
I knew that he had a girlfriend, but they didn’t talk a lot, and rarely saw each other.
We did make out while he was still dating her. I feel a bit weird about it, and I figure it’s something we’ll need to talk about if we do start dating seriously.
Anyway, he’s two months single now, and despite his busy schedule, we see each other really frequently. He just asked me to be his date to his cousin’s wedding, and I’m over the moon about it.
I’m nervous that he’ll pull away
I’m nervous that he’ll “connect” with another girl during our relationship, if we have one (although it really doesn’t fit his personality from what I know of him…)
I’m scared stiff cause I think this could be a really lasting ‘thing’. He’d be a fantastic father and I’d like nothing more than to grow old with him.
He is wildly affectionate, never makes me feel “crazy” like other men I’ve dated, he’s very obviously a true friend and his various friends (and mine) absolutely adore him.
He’s in constant communication with me, and I never feel like I’m having to “make” things happen.
He’s really drop dead gorgeous, and it’s kind of obvious that he thinks the same of me.
I’m incredibly excited about this (and nervous), and if anyone has any small bits of advice, I’d be very happy to hear them.
My initial instinct is to just talk about the things I’m nervous about… specifically whether he feels the need for an open relationship… And let him know that if he finds himself bored with the relationship, or just feels like fucking someone, to please let me know ahead of time so that we can talk over the least-painful way to fulfill both of our needs… whether that’s an open relationship or just ending the one we might have.
I really can’t see him cheating. My guess about his previous relationship was that it was over for a while before they sort of make it “official” but again, that’s something that I’ll need clarified before starting something serious with him.
January 5th, 2009 at 11:29 pm
I’m a Pisces guy but probably since I have mars and mercury conjunct the sun tend to be a strong advocate of Piscean traits!! Pisces men can be as authentically macho as any Aries so long as said fish is true to his heart. Problem is, many Pisces try too hard to be what they think society regards as manly. I know a couple fish men who play the NASCAR, football, muscle car thing to the hilt but you can tell they’re not really connected to all this stuff. I also know some very masculine photographers and artists born in Pisces who are not only genuine and fullfilled but also just as manly as any Aries throwing a football or pushing iron at the gym. Now that’s not to say that Pisces can’t really like average guy stuff; he might have lots of fire in his chart. But generally pisceans are attracted to things which aren’t part of typical everyday life. If they pursue these things which the same confidence and passion that other men pursue more worldy aims, they will appear no less masculine in their behavior.
January 5th, 2009 at 11:53 pm
I do not find myself attracted much to the astro cliche, Pisces gets on best with other water signs, blah, blah, blah. Sun sign romance astrology is both dangerous and misleading. Any two sun signs can be compatible if they’re motivated enough by the right things to make their union work. Astrology should not be used to determine whether or not two people are “right” for one another but rather to illuminate the weaknesses and strengths of the relationship and the essence of its spiritual advantages, should the union survive. It annoys me no end to hear things like Pisces is best with Scorpio and cancer but not well off with at all with either Sagittarius or Gemini, etc. I have been in love with an Aquarian lady for 5 years and engaged for two and if I’d listened to popular sun sign astrology would have given up long ago. We have a unique bond that is certainly more challenging than, say, pisces and scorpio, but the rewards in making it work are of a different quality as well. It is more interesting to some to be with another who’s got some similarity but takes you outside your psychological box too With her, I am far less passionate with her than I’d be with a Scorpio lady, sure enough, but my Aqua is also much warmer and more intimate than she’d ever be with a Gemini! This union has really electrified my life and I feel mentally transformed. She tries to be more feminine for me because she knows I like that. I try to be more Alpha for her because I know she like that. We don’t do it because we are faking it or feel forced to. But best of all, we accept one another at the end of the day for who we truly are, and for who we truly want to become. By the way, her Solar-lunar midpoint is in Pisces while mine is in Aquarius. Her moon is in Pisces conjunct my sun and my moon is in Capricorn, that other saturn ruled sign. Too, she has mars conjunct neptune in scorpio. A very complex mixture of clingyness and independence she is, but mostly just lots of fun. Hopefully my saturn exactly conjunct her sun will be the glue that keeps us together forever and beyond.
January 7th, 2009 at 1:27 am
I am a pisces girl and would like to hereby claim that all of this is true. I’ve been with a pisces boy for five years now (I was is fifth grade…. it was a match made in heaven..
) And I love him more than anything else in the world and one day we will get married.
Also, to all other pisces girls, I would like to give you a list of the best pisces matches and also ones to avoid. (yes, this list is very accurate, ive reasearched on it for a very long time!)
the rank is out of four….
Pisces with Pisces man 4/4
Pisces with Scorpio Man 4/4
Pisces with Cancer Man 4/4
Pisces with Virgo Man 3.5/4 and 4/4 if understanding
Pisces with Taurus Man 4/4
Pisces with Capricorn man 3/4
pisces men date a lot of signs but in the end theyll only settle down with pisces or lobra.
girls, beware of all air signs! and fire signs are bad for us too!
January 7th, 2009 at 2:49 am
Also to sara marie,
The explanation for what the guy you were with is kind of simple, but hard for many to understand– you see, it was just the pisces way for some people.
Piscean men are supposed to seldom get mad, but when they do, they can be very ice cold. What you saw, was a pisces being mad- and it may not even be your fault (us fish are not very rational logical creatures.) But know this: pisces are amazing at forgiving and forgetting and moving on. So if you were to be with this guy, you would have to learn that, and he would have to also appreciate and pay more attentinon to how you still may feel so you can fix it.
and one last thing… pisces has a weakness in taking responsibility for their actions. they change the situation in there heads making wahtever happened “your fault” or “not in their controll. this is because pisces is weak willed. they cant stand to be the bad guy- even if it was totaly 100 percent their fault. it is KIND OF ANNOYING!
so you shouldnt blame yourself, its their problem. if I were you, id back out but of course there could maybe be a way to get it smoother if you try……
-Maia
January 8th, 2009 at 1:31 pm
I am an Aries-girl who dated a Pisces-guy. We are still friends (it’s been 5 years since we first met)and sometimes I really hate him and sometimes I still, really love him.
I think that Pisces-guys are very mysterious and deep..
They are very loyal when it comes to friedship. But less loyal when it comes to love..
They tend to lie. But most often it’s white lies, or lies that aren’t intented to hurt. They just don’t want us to know what they are really doing or feeling. They seem to feel safe being this way.
But they do hurt their lovers at times, by being critical and cold. Although I really do think it only happens when they are tired and have a need to be left alone.
Despite that they are very social, they got to have their private moments, and just dissapear!
Pisces-guys are very funny and kind, when they are up to being social. Their warmth and innocence is very addictive.
It’s very easy to fall for a Pisces-guy. But also, it’s very easy to fall out, if you don’t take the time to try and understand him. (Although, I still don’t know if it’s worth it, because you may end up being without him after all)
They also seem to know you troughout, while you know next to nothing about them. That can be frustrating. But just let it be! They like it that way.
And it’s like they have lived hundreds of years and thousends of lives. They are the last sign in the zodiac, representing the death, and so their souls are old, and thus the Pisces are deep and wise. No other sign will ever be able to get to KNOW Pisces, but some of them may understand them.
This also means that Pisces are easily hurt, by the ignorence, harshness and impatience of the many of the other signs.
It’s hard to find a good match for a Pisces.
But if you want to keep him, you should accept him as he is, value his qualities, excite him and lead him gently and support his dreams and ideas. Give him a home where he can hide from the cruelness of the world and where he, when he needs to, can find peace and privacy.
January 11th, 2009 at 5:30 pm
Holy-Smokin’-Catfish Batman!
You all sound like you need therapy… LOL.
Pisces, me, different than what I have read here, sure I’m sensitive love being loved, dislike people who constantly feel the need to be dishonest with their feelings and dealings with others. And as far as being with any of the other signs it all depends on how well that particular person can deal with life and living to their very best potential. I get a long with everyone I’ve met so far, other than a few immature beings, and if I sense there is nothing there to get all excited about I don’t start a relationship. The great thing about being a Pisces is that I have learned over the years to be honest, and as open as any person can be and I expect the same from others but I will always allow them their faults as I would expect to be forgiven mine. Bad thing is that if I see a pretty girl I can easily fall in love, heeeheee, can’t help it I love women, I may not act on it but I love beauty and sexy. So, I’m a guy… I think this transcends all males regardless of sign. So… I have the best relationships with Aries. I don’t get along with Pisces, or Scorpio or Cancer women as well as I do with Aquarius, Aries and Gemini women. We seem to connect mentally and physically. OH, I like all types of sports; I worked in construction for several years, as a surveyor, as a technician, as a manager in information systems, and as a bus driver. Go figure…
January 12th, 2009 at 10:53 am
I just got out of a relationship with a pisces. I love him so much. but he puzzles me at times. Like he left me for a female that had her own place just because i couldnt offer him a place to stay when he was having problems at home. Crazy!!!! I am a virgo. And i try my hardest to just have patience. I am sensitive too. But sometimes I just dont understand how to make him happy. Its almost like he is trapped inside a world of hell. And i try to save him but he keeps letting go of my hand. We have broken up twice and this is the last straw. Because i dont know wat to do???? He still tells me that he loves me. Like wat the f%c# is going on? Im 19 he is 18. Its crazy. I love him though. And i always will. Not to mention i might be having his child. Just pray that he comes back to me and realizes that i love him. He had even told me once before that i confuse him. And i know i do because sometimes i confuse myself. Pray for us
January 13th, 2009 at 1:42 am
I am a Pisces woman and I have dated a Pisces man.I must say it has been the best. Although, I was a young girl at the time there was a power between us two that couldn’t keep us apart.
I was with him when I was 13 and it only lasted for 7 years because he refused to go back to finish high school. He complained alot about it not having the music program that was promised.He was very artistic, he played the piano, and had a hobbie of drawing. I was into acting, dancing, drawing and fashion,and cooking and i loved playing sports.Mostly anything that allowed me to be creative.
He would become overwhelmed and bored when surrounded by an environment that did not allow him to reach his true potential and that did not allow him to be himself.We both felt a pressure to move fast in finding what our career would be. This only made both of us want to escape from the pushy and judgemental minds only because we were laid back individual and tried to avoid the idea of judging others.
He was completely rapped into me. From the age of 15 until we separated it was very rare to find either one of us without the other. Honestly, I never got bored of him and I want to believe he never did as well. He would always want to be near me. He would wait in the rain for hours to see me for 5 minutes because he wanted to.Some found that to be creepy but I discovered him to be loyal, strong,honest,dreamy,and very talented. Yes, this sound like a cheesy love story but it was real. Anyone we both knew always tried to make fun of our togetherness because it made them sick in a way. But he refused to do things without me most times,And i did as well.He also tried to help me with my chores as much as he could. As children i would cook for my family and he would be there every night to eat. He hated to go home at the end of the night. He was my bestfriend no one ever top the friendship and love that i had with him.Since I have always been person to please the people i cared for i worked hard until i burned out and he would always be there to give me foot massages and to let me fall asleep in his arms.
He feed my heart and i feed his mind and tummy.lol.We found ways to entertain each other when there was no form of entertainment.If we ever got into a disagreement, which was rare, we would get over our difference in a matter of 5 minutes after the dispute.We always compromised and tried to share everything with one another.He always listened to me, whether it was happy or sad thoughts. I noticed that he barely had much to say but when he did talk i new it was important. We stood strong individually but we stood as one powerful force when we were together.I must also add we had sex everyday,if we could. At times i wasn’t in the mood but i went for it for him and i noticed he did the same for me.
Even though it has been Five years since we separated, i still feel the magic every time i see him. I also know that he feels what i feel whenever our eyes meet for short periods at a time. I sense that he avoids standing near me of fear of memories. I see it in his body language and how he glares at me. Because of the Pisces sign we have tendency to be secretive and guilty about our pleasures at times.And when i look into his eyes i see the thought run through his mind. An explainable feeling shivers my body. I could never be with him now because of circumstances, i do believe he is my soul mate.
If it weren’t for my Leo mother i would still be with him til this day.She was a women who could never understand that our puppy love was real. i feared disappointing my mother therefore i made the choice to leave him because she felt my future would crumble. I must say i was the happiest when i was with him. Leo are good people but can be very stubborn and pushy(buy expressing it or ignoring you) about things they feel is wrong, without understanding.
January 13th, 2009 at 2:38 am
Ladies and gentlemen. look at what your moons sign is.
January 16th, 2009 at 9:49 am
I’m a Pisces man and I’m an asshole.
January 17th, 2009 at 6:27 am
im a scorpio who dated a pisces for 2 years and we were completely in love. i was young tho, 15/16, but mature for my age and he was 20/21. then he moved to a diff. country and we left things hanging …. that is untill i found out he was dating a virgo and i realised id been dumped! i was left heart broken, and its been so hard letting go of him, even 3 years later! its something about the scorpio’s nature that when we really fall in love, its very likely that we love a person forever.
i hadnt seen or spoken to him in over a year till the xmas break when we both were home for the holidays and out of no where, he told me he loved me nd missed me and had thought of marrige when we were together. in a way i knew he still did, cos i still do, theres like a realli wierd, unbreakable connection between us- its kinda telepathic! but he’s been with someone else for 2 years+ now so how can he still love me?? its like he’s sitting on the fence and doesnt want to let me go, and i dont want to let him go, but because we live so far appart we know long distance wouldnt work atm. its kinda like he wants us to be together later, but for now we cant be so its easier to live our lives seperately till we’r brought back together.
i know i just have to let him go but its so hard. he doesnt talk to me when im not around him cos he says its ‘too painful’ and he makes it so hard for us to be friends, so its a lose-lose situation with him. when we’r together, he acts like we’r still together, then wen we’r not its like i dont exist. not even a happy birthday….
why do pisces act so hot and cold? 1 minute ur their world, the next they’r having a mood swing and want you to leave them alone… its confusing! and its also quite unfair on their partners, but we all have our short comings. he’s an amazing man and it sux cos he’s with someone else who he loves (too??), so im just trying to live life without the person im convinced i should be with. iv sort of become numb to the pain since iv been without him for this long…
any pisces in a situation where they’r with someone but are still in love with an x or any1 with a pisces u suspect still loves someone they were with before? id like to understand their perspectives better…
January 18th, 2009 at 7:06 am
i am a pisces male. i’m still young(18) and haven’t really had much experience with relationships. as you said i don’t do spectator sports but i do play occasionally. i am empathic but i would not say psychic. i am very spiritual,i have devoted quite a few years of thought into the subject already attempting to find my own truth in the believes of the world.
i to have had issues with my masculinity, i’ve been lifting weights for 2 of the last three years and i’m happy with my strength.i do find myself emotionally effeminite though. i am very devoted to the point that i feel guilty for looking at other people while in a relationship.
you said in your article that we search for women stronger than our selfs but i haven’t found this to be the case. i do not search out the weak but if i don’t of a weakness i feel to vulnerable to open up to them.
i have many friends that i love to no end but they all consider me as a brother which is a source of unending sorrow for i would give anything to be with them.
i’m done now.
January 18th, 2009 at 7:21 am
Taylor-I read your post and just died laughing, I highly doubt that you are an asshole….but it was really funny to read, hence all of the pisces male commentary.
lindsey beaver-thanks for your comments, I am very scared of ever speaking or interacting with the Pisces man I wrote about. It will never happen, the man hates me, and I’d like to think I have some respect for him to not piss him off anymore. Reflecting back on what happened I can see how much of my infatuation was just obsession, there was no connection, it was all in my mind and still is….now, I am just waiting for the next person to come along so I can think about someone else…much luck with your love…
January 18th, 2009 at 9:44 am
Confused Scorpio 18.
Im a Pisces female.
I don’t know too much detail about your situation, but Pisces live in two worlds.
reality and their fanatasy world. i can day dream about things for long periods at a time without anyone realizing it. My thoughts are my secret.
***Pisces have a tendacy to push things away when it doesnt fit close enough to the dream world.
Your ex has probably thought about you alot if he had the courage to blurt that out. But he wont pursue anything because of the distance between you two.In his perfect world he would be all over you. His not going to risk anything unless he is somewhat positive that it feels right. It sound like hes unhappy with his current girlfriend.Pisces bounce from one person to the next when we don’t know who we want.Sometimes we want both.Unless he is positive on who he wants to be with but is afraid to tell the truth.
this can get very complicated.If he continues to approach with affectionate gestures remind him about your feeling towards him.But let him know that it hurts to be apart. Be honest to him about his behavior, and how its hurting you. Be gentle though.
** this will do two things…
1)He will back off and try to keep it as friends…or..with the likely chance you will never speak to him again.to protect both of you.
2) He will begin to make up his mind about who he wants faster. The more you show you care about him the closer you are to having him all to your self.but don’t rush it. He has you on your toes,from what it seems.He just might be enjoying that.If you carry yourself with respect with also respecting him you will gain his trust.
Hot and Cold? it just means, overwhelmed.too much pressures makes us run and hide.We hold on to our emotions as long as we can but some might spill out.It might even seem random, honestly it not. its a build up of emotions from previous moments.if it comes out that means you just did something. Pisces verbally express ourselves when we kinda feel like we have been taken advantage of. Its a form of protecting our heart.Usually we say something quick and try to escape before it get to intense to regain our strength.Give us a few minutes of silence to get back to normal.only approach if you are coming with kisses and hugs and kind loving words. Nothing less. We dislike selfish qualities.
It not so easy being a Pisces nor is it simple to explain the layers. their are layer on how we handle certain people and situations. our minds are our gift and curse. we think to much and we dream to fulfill a happy feeling.We are the mixtures of all the signs. No wonder why we are so unpredictable.You have to be opened minded to be with a Pisces.
** I have been in love with my ex while i was in a relationship with my current boyfriend. I have my reason. My Scorpio boyfriend can be cruel. I will never get comfortable with his attitude to always win in an argument even when he is wrong.multiplicative.my emotions always drift. Not healthy.
January 19th, 2009 at 5:44 pm
My experience with Pisces men… not good. One in particular…
I befriended one about 2 and a half years ago. His initial conversations with me were childlike, and when he told me he was only 22 - heck I believed him. Only to find out later, he was really 29…and dating a 17 year old.
Me, I am an aquarian, and saw within him someone who was hurting, suffering from severe addictions. And in our relationship we discovered that we are alike in so many ways, and very tied together..and knows exactly what the other one is thinking.
Our friendship turned very physical. But where I may want to communicate on a certain level (i.e. we may be friends with benefits, but I think we should really discuss our relationship) he only ran away into the other corner. Stronger women who tend to confront him makes him run the other way…far far the other way.
He’s currently grossly addicted to alcohol…to the point where he cannot go to his job without drinking on the way to and from. He drinks at work. He gets high at work. His previous job, he was high on heroin and driving around.
Ok, I get it….red freaking flags here. But in my heart, I met the dreamy Pisces male that people speak of … and in my head that’s what I want out of him and know he can be.
But he’s prefers to live in his dream world, where he can get drunk and high…maintain a job…date teenagers (he’s now going to be 32 still dating teenagers) …and think that it’s all ok and acceptable to behave this way… all because he is too afraid to deal with his addiction and life.
And too afraid to love a stronger woman the way she deserves to be loved — and in the end blacked out during an alcohol rage and strangled his so called best friend. Not knowing he did it…not realizing his neighbor pulled him off her. Not realizing his actions drove his best friend, and probably the only true friend he had in his life away. Still living on the dream plane… he has no concept he lost his best friend. And to that end, probably doesn’t care.
In my experience because of the pressures of seeing the dream world and wanting to be there in the dreamland all the time, pisces men tend to have severe addictions problems. They can be moody and depressed and will blame you for their actions and moods.
But the positive side — highly charming, charismatic and a loving warm child like side that is hardly matched by any other in the zodiac.
January 20th, 2009 at 5:46 am
Hi everyone
I need advice. Im a gemini girl “seeing” a pisces guy. We started off as friends (about 4 months ago) and i felt a massive attraction to him instantly but on his side.. He only saw it as a friendship. we hung out almost every weekend as friends & i was always dying to be closer to him. He never rang, we mostly communicated via sms or the internet which pissed me off because id much rather face to face or over the fone communication.
One night we finaly kissed for the first time etc.. from that night we got closer and he admitted it was from that night he started to like me.. anyway.
we’ve been “together” well seeing each other basically for about 4-8 weeks now and he is so weird!!. We cant go by one week without having a fight or argument about the stupidest things. He is the one who always starts them and accuses me. He says he cant trust me and that im always doing “suss” things which pisses me off extremely because i have done NOTHING to show him that n i tell him ALL the time i try to re assure him that im going to be there for him and he just doesnt believe me i dont know what else i can do.
i REALLY like him but i dont kno why.. he pisses me off his insecurities piss me off. his SO insecure.He was in a 3 year relationship and his ex cheated on him with his friend (he caught them) and he hasnt had a gf in 3 years but even so NOT an excuse! recently he’s said to me that he doesnt like me talking 2 his friends unless his there (eg. on the internet or facebook etc). He talks to my friends i dont mind i trust him he seems to think that if i talk to them when his not there im going to run off with them and leave him. Everytime he has a go to me about something i just let it go and we stop talking for a few days and he comes back to me.
he says im very cold towards him all the time and he gets hurt by that but i TRY and be affectionate with him i send him sweet msgs throughout the day but he either takes HOURS to reply.. or replies with something blunt. The only time his affectionate is wen were alone just me and him or wen he wants sex. but then he complains saying im never affectionate towards him wen were around others and only reason im not is because his not with me and im scared to “try” and be affectionate and have him reject me. oh and he LOVES drinking.. if he could he’d b drunk during the week.. but he absolutely cannot wait until friday arvo when he finishes work to start drinking.
we’ve been on and off but theres something that i keep coming back to. i dont understand.. theres something about him i just cant leave.. everythings happend so quick since we’ve been seeing eachother i can honestly say i havent spent one weekend without him and i love his company i love it but wen we not together we always seem to argue about something.
wat can i do as a gemini woman to TRY and see things how he does to TRY and understand him? i dont want to lose him.
sorry about the long post.. got carried away haha
January 20th, 2009 at 8:04 am
thank you so much for that scorpio and pisces!
i understand slightly better now… i dont know much about my ex’s current pisces-virgo relationship, but im sure its something special. however, my ex has had a tendancy to stay in long-term relationships. before me, he was in a 3 year relationship, then he dated me for 2 and a half, and now he’s been in another for 2 and a half (which makes 8 years!). hes probably only been single for 6 months max between all of this, and hes turning 25 soon. this worries me. its like he needs a partner to fill some sort of void. also, he had told me before that he had trouble ending it with the girl he was with before me but it was around the time her mother passed away so i figured he didnt want to hurt her by ending it cos of what she was going through.
he did mention when we were home that if we bothed moved back we would be together… but he also seemed alittle different than i remembered. more aggressive and frustrated, like there was something bothering him. do pisces tend to take out their anger and frustration on other people?? or do they keep it inside? i was very suprised because never had i seen him raise his voice or fight with anyone. he was always soo gentle when we were together, we were very happy. but we would argue when we werent together, like on the phone he was more distant… he’d push me away.
i left and i havent heard from him… he’s gone back to ignoring me and acting like nothing happened (we made out!). i made it clear that i respected what he has with his girlfriend and i dont want to come between that (before we made out- woopsie!), but to be honest, i didnt want to give him an ultimatum because if it were between me or her, i know he’d choose her since he’s going back to her and i was leaving. on one hand its like we both want to save us for later, but i dont know if i can wait… i feel like if we’re gonna be together we should be together now. if not then he should be with her and forget me. although i know if we both moved back, we would be together, no matter who we’v been with in between, lol. i do love him and i told him so, and i want him to be with me, not her! but how ws i supposed to tell him that?? id look like that kid who jumps up and down saying ‘pick me, pick me!’ when the teacher asks a question that u know the answer to.
i started something with someone i met over summer in 08 who he happens to know (i found this out later!) and he found out and wanted me to promise to end it… i promised i would but i dont know if i can because its like he doesnt want me to be happy with someone else. he’s making things very complicated… i somehow feel obliged to go with what he’s saying. ok im rambling….!
if im his dream, i want him to tell me… all he said is he loves me. i need to hear him say more than that or else im soon gonna get tired of waiting around… but after 3 years, another few more wont kill me.
what sign is ur ex?? us scorpio’s find it hard to see our own flaws… point it out for him. its the stubborness. i remember i never used to let go of a grudge, admitt i was wrong or back down in an arguement. i learnt more about myself and mistakes i never wanted to make again and this helped me become a better lover and friend. i learnt most of this by losing the one person i cared for and loved the most in this world and the pain only makes you wiser and stronger. maybe ur bf needs a reality check. communicate how you feel. we can also be secretive so talk to him as maybe his behaviour towards you stems from a past or current problem he is facing. i know my family problems affected me in ways i never even realised. make him feel comfortable enough to open up- we like to keep a certain box under lock and key that no one can open and look into. hope that helps even a little- im no expert!
January 23rd, 2009 at 9:42 am
I am deeply in love with a Pisces man. We have been lovers for almost ten years. Our chemistry is out of this world, our lovemaking is the best I’ve ever had. We are crazy attracted to eachother. He is very gentle and loving but when he feels something is wrong, he is a monster. It is true when reality comes to play is when we begin to have problems. He wants all my attention. Very selfish if you ask me. My pisces man is very secretive, which I hate! I am a Sag and seek only for the truth! He is sensitive and cries more than I do. He doesn’t trust easily but once your in he can treat you like a queen.
We just had a son who turned one and we are currently seperated. I couldnt stand his mysterious ways anymore, he was never home, very controlling. I miss him dearly but I know I can never make him truely happy. Sags can not be told what to do. And when he upsets me I run away. Pisces men need a woman to stand beside him no matter what, even if they have done something wrong. I am to prideful for that. I miss the sex though!!!
January 25th, 2009 at 8:48 pm
I am a Virgo in love with a Pisces. He drives me crazy. He changes his mind all the time. One day he wants me next week he gets lost. Sometimes I see him and he acts as if nothing happened last night. Sometimes he calls me a dozen times a day. How do I know if he really wants me?
January 28th, 2009 at 1:08 am
Hi Guys.
Have been reading your comments with great interestest. I am however curious. I dont see much comments regarding a Aquarius women and Pisces Male.
Most people tell me that there is no hope for A Pisces and Aquarius. I dated a Auarius women for about 6 months, she however left.
I want her back, She is in contact with me and seems to regret her decision but will not reveal her true feelings.
I want her back and love her. Is there Hope???? Or should I just swim away?
January 28th, 2009 at 3:31 pm
Pisces Guy, first of all, why did she leave you? Was it something you did or she just wanted out? The answer to that question will help me (and others) form a better opinion.
January 28th, 2009 at 5:23 pm
I was in an aquarius/pisces relationship.
The reason I am no longer involved is because his addictions and abuse hit a level in which I could no longer tolerate it.
My situation may be unique for that reason. A very long time ago I was involved with another pisces and we dated for a very very long time, and he wanted to marry me. But only because he knew that I was going to leave him–so in desperation he thought proposing to me was the only option to keep me. I said no to the proposal (which was at a rest stop gas station)
I had the same problem then as I did now. He never wanted to grow up and wanted to do his drugs/drink and cheat on me.
I’m in no way saying that is your case Pisces guy.
With any relationship, if there is no balance…no matter what sign you are… the relationship will never work.
In my current case, the guy is just…well…he’s a heroin addict and a heavy drinker. As much as I loved the person I saw when he was free of the drugs and alcohol…addiction is a powerful thing. He has yet to go to rehab…ask for help…or show actual signs of wanting to be clean.
January 28th, 2009 at 8:18 pm
Hi Libra swimming with a fish
She just wanted out. This just happened out of the blue. I did not corner her and was not needy at all.
I gave her a lot of space. But the last month or so she did probably feel like she needed her space.
She was the one calling me all the time and looked very needy. She always re-assured me how much she cared for me. But been a Pisces male and needed this re-assurance all the time.
I was however not needy at all. The biggest problem was getting me to talk and open up. I also was very shy and lacked a bit of condidence. I hope this will help a bit and give me more insight.
Later
January 29th, 2009 at 7:59 pm
so I didn’t think I was ever going to write another post here again but here I go!! I saw the Pisces man that I wrote about earlier this past weekend in a public setting and he literally looked completely freaked to see me. He had a lot of fear and a vacant sadness in his eyes but mostly fear. We didn’t speak and kind of ignored each other but there was defintely a good amount of eye contact. I didn’t know what to do when I got home later but ask the Universe to give me a sign if I should contact him. So I looked at my burning candle and I asked, ‘burn out for yes and stay light for no’. In my mind, a candle burning out on its own, for no apparent reason, would be a good sign. So I asked, the light got very bright and then when out, out cold. Very fearfully, I contacted him via email and said that I hoped that he would take to heart that he was a good, respectable person and my irrational behavior was because I felt rejected. I also said said some other things…I am sorry, forgive me, blah, blah, blah….To my surprise he wrote back and was really kind and understanding. He even validated my irrational behavior and said he deserved it and learned something from it!
Problem is, is that I don’t know if asking for forgivness and saying I was sorry was really authentic. I still feel like what he did was mean, even though he acknowledged it and acknowledged it well. As a woman, I feel like I am always the one who has to say ‘I am sorry’ to get a person to be kind to me or give me the respect I deserve. Maybe I need better boundaries and more self respect? I don’t know if I disrespected myself in how I went about contacting him. However, I do feel relieved that there is some space and peace around the situation. I want to love, love, love but at the end of the day, I want to have some self respect…..
January 30th, 2009 at 7:13 am
hello everyone….i came here trying to understand a pisces male i have been in a 6 month relationship with….i am a taurus female and i am sooooooooooo confused….it has been an amazing experience until very recently…all of a sudden he decided that he didnt want the commitment BUT he admitted to forcing the relationship…i was the hesitant one at first…but NOW i am the rejected one…when i lashed out at him a little in hurt and anger he called me a pretty nasty name….he has stopped all contact with me and i miss him terribly…do pisces men really act like this?? it went from “i think about u all the time blah blah” to “please forgive me but i cant commit…goodbye”
someone please help!!!
January 30th, 2009 at 3:30 pm
Sounds like a typical Pisces males to me. I have dated many.. They seem to be all I attract. I have sworn them off but they can be really persistent at first and then just lose interest and disappear. I know alot of people say that you can’t live your life by astrology but there’s just too much coincidence for my taste. I have learned that when dating someone of this sign? To not take anything too seriously, even when a promise of exclusivity is exchanged. They are definitely heartbreakers, however, I have often heard that the “relationships” that start with a big bang often die out the quickest. I have also heard that when someone wants too much, too soon, it may be sign of shallowness and may be doomed from the start. I guess because it’s simply infatuation and that will die off.
January 31st, 2009 at 4:27 am
Hi Everyone
Lisa that is typical Pisces Male behaviour. When we are offended we normally lash out and defend ourselves. Pisces man are very emotianal and we get hurt very easily.
I can almost assure you that he will not apologize or make any contact for now as we are very proud. You will have to take initiative and contact him. You dont have to apologize. Just find out how he is doing. This will go a long way.
He will probably not be open and pretend as if he does not care for a while. But if he really cares I can assure you that he will then contact you at a later time. You just need to re-assure him that you care. He probably feels that you never cared for him since you are not contact him at all. This feeling is typical in many Pisces males.
You will however have to be patient as we normally move slower in everything we do.
If he does not contact you then. Then i think it is best to move on. Go for it you have nothing to lose!! And good luck
January 31st, 2009 at 4:48 am
Hi guys
Me again.
Elph thanks for you input!!.
I am however curious. Did you refuse the marraige proposal due to his cheating and addictions or was it because you wanted to keep you freedom ( which is typical of an Auarius women) You say he was also depareate? Was he perhaps needy?
You are also correct on the Pisces male and addictions thing. Most Pisces males has some kind of a addiction. I for one am not addicted to anything in a bad way. But when I do go out for a drink I cant stop!!! It is even worse when I go out on a date with a Pisces women. We seem to be addicted to bad things. Or at the very least have to much of something.
I am addicted to my ex LOL!! Even though I feel she is bad for me and causes me pain.
Also is it true that Aquarius women normally hide their feelings for someone? She did mention that she fels she is losing a good guy and even cried when she broke up with me. Is this typical of an Aquarius women?
January 31st, 2009 at 7:17 am
thank u soooooooooooooo much for your input…u have eased my mind on many things…..i DID however do something i am not sure if he would appreciate or not….i ordered some tulips and godiva choc to be sent to him in a couple of weeks…NOT on valentines day however…ha ha…the note simply said “im sorry”…i feel that is the only way i am guaranteed to know HE knows how i feel……i am almost certain he has blocked my emails…anyway thanks again!!!
January 31st, 2009 at 4:25 pm
Pisces guy…
With my proposal to from my pisces ex (many moons ago…to quote the great gatsby “in my younger and more vulnerable years…”) I said no because he waited too long to show that he really wanted me in his life. He initially dumped me 3 days into my 1st semester at college and I was depressed for a long time after that. He proposed months after we were broken up — when he realized I was finally moving on and he was about to lose me forever.
He was going to be child for a while - and I knew that. Even though I wasn’t ready to grow up and play adult at that time, I knew he wasn’t the “one”. He pushed me away and when it came time for him to come crawling back - I had learned my independence and wanted none of him.
My ‘current’ pisces…well today is my birthday. The last night that I saw him (weeks ago) he told me he loved me as his best friend. I drove 5 hours to see him that weekend and had to drive 5 hours home. He never called to see that I made it safely. This “best friend” has yet to try and contact me and wish me a happy birthday. Or even ask how I’ve been. Addiction is a powerful thing - and as of today I’ve broken off all accessible contact from him. Maybe he’ll get the message.
I’ve had my heart stomped on by more pisces then I really want to admit to. The two that I’ve mentioned were some of the heavy hitters. Yes, you cannot live your life by the horoscopes- but in my case I think the heavens are telling me “pisces are a no go for aquarius gals”…. well for now. I also do not get along with pisces women. But that is for a different post all together
January 31st, 2009 at 5:28 pm
Pisces Guy and Elph:
I am a Pisces male and have been in a very enjoyable relationship with and Aquarius female for about ten years. We are a team together, so to speak. We matured together and got over our personal egos in the very first months of our relationship. Being open and honest is the only way to make any relationship work. Be friends first; build a trust, which cannot be interrupted by anyone or anything. Maturity level has everything to do with your honesty in a love relationship. If you go for the flesh only, that’s what you get. Work on each other’s spiritual understandings of what it is the other is looking to fulfill in their lives, share, share, and share. Always be open to the one (one emphasized) you love. If you can’t love as one then it ain’t gonna work. Instead of going for the sex first try discussing reality and your future. If you can’t keep your panties on, or he can’t keep his thing to himself for enough time to discuss the future then you are both to blame. It always takes two to make whoopee, well in a one on one relationship anyway. Elph, if you want a Pisces guy to love you unconditionally he will, but you have to give him reassurances that he is the he for you and no one else will do. That’s all it takes, dedication to a life together, lots of kissing, and being open and honest. Really.
Pisces Guy, man, dude, kid-o… You watch too much TV.
January 31st, 2009 at 5:41 pm
Oh yeah… I have had pisces guys do that to me as well. They claim that they care for you but it seems that “out of sight, out of mind” really applies.
I flew to Spain to visit a guy and when I left? He just disappeared. Didn’t call me or ask if I made it back, or anything. I tried to call him but he was mia. A plane even crashed that same day, it left the same airport as mine, was headed to the same destination and left almost the same time as mine.
As far as I knew, everything was great between us but, as it wasn’t my first pisces relationship, I wasn’t surprised to find that he had disappeared. I was just waiting for the moment when he would “swim away”. Amazingly enough, going into it prepared has saved me worry and I look at it as a fun experience, when all was dull and boring for awhile!
Oh yes, not to mention a free trip to Spain…lol
February 1st, 2009 at 7:40 pm
You know Piecesdude, I couldn’t agree more being a pieces dude myself. But I don’t know if its so much reassurance as it is that we see through any bull.
I tend to pick up right away if I am just an option, or if the struggles have closed her heart and she isn’t receptive to it. and if she were to open a doorway to rethinking it.
That pretty much nocks down all the walls and all things are open to me as well.
For me that has been the struggle. I tend I love without condition and see that none so far are capable of that level of a commitment.
I really like how you put it on building a bases, that is where I am at now. I couldn’t agree more there.
I see that a lot of the negative things we are accused of, seems the steam for our reactions to superficial, plastic, waverly garbage. We are a true and faithful bunch and seek a true love that can only be found in a timeless commitment to that love. If it’s anything less then we tend to offer that much less. We are not selfish. But we will be seen as such if little is offered. So for me. If anyone really wants something with a pieces male, poor yourself into it and be in it. Part way wont work, it doesn’t really grab him. Conditions offered his love and he will be open to what he wants and may seek that with someone else.
My take on pieces anger is. Love is the strongest emotion and there is nothing worse than love than is scorned. Showing a pieces his love is not matched will anger him. Drawing him in and then showing you don’t have all the silly little love promises will turn that love into his defense. Love seeks to be loved. And Love has a self preservation. Love forsaken or turned to hurt seeks protection from any of the tools we have like anger, Judgment, revenge whatever. If he truly loves you he will fight you and fight hard to have what he wants or know where you stand, the only thing he is after is you. But he wont ever fight another man to have what you don’t offer. Deprive yourself and you have lost him. I have had my angry moments in relationships. But I have also had relationship that I was never angered. They have even ended in a great friendship. But I am no angle. My tongue should be cut off for some of the things I have said. But at the same time I would do anything to be able to take them back. Being a jerk or being mean doesn’t sit well with me. I do not find rest in the memories of my cruel moments and outburst. But we seem to be forgiving if what we seek is offered Lisa. I can say I cant find what I want in a Gemini. Although I found awesome passion, we were to completely different people. Found it in a Capricorn, love of a life time. Passion unmatched, great compatibility and harmony a deep love but we did struggle. Couldn’t keep her. Don’t know what I was thinking to marry a Virgo. AND we are not overly sensitive. Really nothing can be said to hurt my feeling. The only thing that hurts is not loving me as I love.
February 1st, 2009 at 10:31 pm
i am so confused….i am more than willing to give everything to him…but for now he wont communicate with me….
February 2nd, 2009 at 8:35 am
I am a Pisces man. The problem all these women are having with pisces men is that they are with inexperienced, immature fish that lazily float down the river. If they happen to find the right Pisces that flows upstream and can actually follow his dreams, they would have a lot better luck. As fish we struggle with the choice of two different paths. One of righteousness, the other of self destruction.
February 2nd, 2009 at 3:09 pm
In my experience, it seems like these fish live in a fantasy world, and they don’t realize it sometimes. So, without self realization and thinking that what they are fantasizing about is a real feeling, they drag another party into it. When the fantasy gets dull or tired, or something startles them back into reality, that’s when they swim away,leaving the other person confused.
February 3rd, 2009 at 4:36 pm
Ahhhhh! Once again, my fish is driving me nuts. At 4:00 a.m. this morning, he is doing the “heavy sighs.” So I ask him what’s wrong. He says nothing, and sighs again. So I ask again, and he proceeds to say I can’t tell you cuz I can’t talk to you. WTF!!!! I am very easy to talk to - strangers open up to me and this man is telling me he can’t talk to me??!! So I try and gently coax him into telling me what’s wrong. BIG mistake! He starts yelling at me telling me to leave it alone, and do I have to know everything that’s going on in his head, yada yada, blah blah.
By now, I am upset. HE woke ME up with his sighing; HE brought up the fact that something is bothering him, but it has nothing to do with us. HE is the one that started yelling at me when I became upset, and making fun of me because I was crying (how dare I), calling me hysterical and a “crazy woman.” Mind you, I was gently crying, not howling at the moon!
We are in the process of moving in together. I forgave his many discretions last year and he wanted to begin a new year and settle down with me and my daughter. Well, I was so mad I told him I can’t do it! If he’s going to be Mr. Secretive again, and yell at me when I ask him something, I don’t want to live with him. I finally just shutup and turned my back to him. He later tried hugging me and saying we’ll move his microwave in on our next trip to his place. WTF!!!! He can’t talk to me, and I’m a “crazy woman,” but he still wants to move in with me. I don’t get this man at all. I try and be patient and understanding with him (he was hurt badly 10 years ago; yeah, I know, get over it), but it’s getting old. Well, that’s my rant for now. I love him deeply, but he makes me want to drink! Thanks to all who read this lengthy post
February 3rd, 2009 at 5:53 pm
To A Libra Swimming with a Fish:
I’m going to go out on a limb here (being a libra trying to date a fish myself) and say that it’s possible (not necessarily excusable) that he just wants to feel like you care that he’s bothered by something, but he doesn’t know how to balance that with his desire to keep things to himself, and so you get stuck with the irritation of dealing with it.
Seems to me he just needs to learn how to manage his feelings in a way that would help you to feel like you can understand.
I’d suggest talking to him once you’ve both calmed down and saying something like “I know you need your space, and you like to work things through on your own, but it would help me if you’d just tell me when you’re working through something so that I can be aware… and know that you’ll talk to me about it when you’re ready. Because that scenario that happened _________ was very confusing to me, and it would help if you can let me know when you do, or don’t want me to lend an ear”
just my .02
February 3rd, 2009 at 9:23 pm
It seems to me like there is a lot more worthless Pisces males than good ones. I see it like fishing. You can fish all your life and get several small worthless Pisces, but if you happen to catch a big one, you are in for a treat! So ladies throw your small fish back into their sea of self pity, and go for the big ones that will treat you right. Unfortunately they are quite hard to find. Good luck.
February 5th, 2009 at 12:08 am
Gemini women and Pisces men simply DO NOT WORK OUT.
Pisces men are selfish, self centred and want everything THEIR way. Once they do not get it, they change in a split second. They are also rude but they do not seem to think so. They push you away and once they realise your not coming back, then they chase you again and the cycle begins and continues over and over again until someone finaly has the balls to end it. Or at least its the experience i have had with a pisces man. NEVER AGAIN.
But i miss him :(.
February 5th, 2009 at 3:35 am
To Liza
Thanks for your input. I have tried every possible method - from kindness, gentleness, and caring to getting frustrated and raising my voice (wrong, I know) - to get this man to open up. He texted me at 2:30 this morning and said we had to talk. He then called in the a.m. and again said he wanted to talk, but didn’t know how to tell me. I asked if it concerned another woman…he kind of said yes, but not 100% yes. He said it doesn’t affect his moving in with me at all. Then he said nevermind, he’ll deal with it like he has been. Ahhhhh!!!! I have no clue what’s going on and my mind is going nuts.
Oh, he called again tonight and AGAIN said we needed to talk. Then changed his mind and said he’s not going to tell me. Then changed it again and said maybe he’ll tell me on Friday.
What I’ve gathered so far from bits and pieces is: (a) it involves a woman he was with when we were having difficulties last year (yes, we were still a couple, but as I mentioned before, I forgave his indiscretions); (b) he feels like he’s caught in the middle (about what, I haven’t a clue); (c) he did something really stupid (he admitted that); and I may or may not leave him after he tells me. Then again, maybe he’ll leave, who knows. So he said goodbye and I’m left with my thoughts until Friday. This is a man who is supposed to be moving in with me…and he can’t talk to me about a problem??? WTF is that? Anyone have any ideas? I’ll read all your suggestions.
February 5th, 2009 at 2:28 pm
Wow… to Libra Swimming with Fish.
Your fish is really putting you through hell. It sounds like he’s been seeing someone else all along, even after you forgave him. What else could he be torn about?
It also sounds like he’s indecisive as to whether he really wants to move in with you or not. If he was really sure about it, he would have, most likely, never even mentioned this other woman. Or, if he did, it would have been over in a moment with the other woman and you two would be cozy together.
He’s dishonest and he doesn’t care or see that he is really hurting you. No offense, but you really need to kick his butt…lol
February 5th, 2009 at 5:11 pm
Gemini lavande, thanks for your input. He again called me this morning and from what I’ve gathered, and this is just a guess, he got a girl pregnant and wants to be involved with the child. He’s made one to many comments about families, doing the right thing, etc. and I’ve put two and two together.
I asked him flat out if he got someone pregnant, but he said he’s not going to say yes or no. He’ll tell me what the issue is on Friday night. So I asked him if he loves me; he said yes. I also asked if he still wants to move in with me and have a future together. Again, he said yes. He said it will be my choice whether I accept what he has to say or not. He also said when he tells me the issue on Friday night, he doesn’t want any tears, emotional outbursts, etc. He said he wants no part of that and if that’s how I’m going to be, then he won’t tell me. Nice, huh?
I am sooooo hurt and confused it’s not even funny. The week is dragging, I’m in tears on and off because I think I know what it is, but I’m not sure. This is almost tearing me apart. And if it is a pregnant girl, she got pregnant while we were a couple. I’m sure he would want to be involved with the child (he loves children), but everytime I would see that child, it would reopen the wound, and even though it’s not the child’s fault, I don’t know if I can handle that.
Another option I thought about is that maybe he wants to be involved with the mother and the child. You know, go there every other weekend or during the week…whatever. It wouldn’t shock me if that’s what he wanted.
This is all just guess-work on my part, but my gut is screaming at me that he got someone pregnant
I guess I’ll find out Friday. If this is the case (pregnant girl), I ask all of your opinions and advice, and don’t worry about hurting my feelings and such, I can’t be any more hurt than I am right now, and I am the type of person who is a realist and would rather hear the truth than a lie. Thanks to all of you for reading my lengthy tale of woe.
February 5th, 2009 at 6:46 pm
To Libra swimming with a fish:
you are the only one who knows all the nuances of your relationship, but if you want my gut-response to your story, I’d say run… far and fast. You can do better. There is someone out there who WILL treat you better than this, and it seems to really be painful for you… and not the rewarding type of pain.
I think you seem to be thinking this through pretty well, so just be honest for yourself. If the situation is what you think it is, then you’ve got some serious decisions to make about exactly what you are, and aren’t comfortable with.
Just make sure you are true to yourself and your needs, and don’t be afraid to voice them.
February 5th, 2009 at 6:49 pm
Also, in my own saga, I just had a semi-difficult conversation with my pisces “friend” about my concerns over holding in my feelings towards him… so that he has enough time and space until he’s ready for a relationship.
His immediate response was heartbreakingly sweet.
Be yourself… it’s what I like about you. You won’t scare me off, and I can take any pressure you can put on me.
We’ll see how it goes, but I feel more free to voice and show my feelings whether or not he’s ready to share his… and I’m okay with that.
February 5th, 2009 at 7:35 pm
I realize that he may be going through a hell of a time emotionally, and to have someone else to add to his guilt can be hard, but… he’s the one who put you in the situation in the first place. Now, the proper thing for him to do would be to accept that he has to deal with the consequences, emotional upsets…. whatever, you know take responsibility.
You can’t simply not get upset over cheating, lying, and his having a baby with another woman. What fantasy is he living in?
To deny you the right to be upset is very unkind and, I think, selfish. Although, trying to keep your composure as much as possible is best, especially if you decide that you do want to keep him after all of this.
If he’s the one that hurt you in the first place, don’t let him get mad at you for being hurt. Don’t let him punish you for his error.
February 5th, 2009 at 8:55 pm
I dont think you should be with that guy at all. He sounds like a jerk. Getting another girl prego is just crazy and so hurtful. There is no way I could ever forgive somebody for something like that. You deserve better.
February 5th, 2009 at 9:29 pm
im a Pisces with a sagittarius rising and im a badass.
February 6th, 2009 at 3:57 pm
Openness and truth is a virtue one must possess to have anything to offer or to have any peace.
I would say not to walk away yet he may be wanting to talk and it might be worth it to. But he clearly is struggling and he shouldn’t be. Try to help him talk to you. True and understanding for that talk with give you peace in the decision your going to make to stay or to walk away. Any love is worth the effort or it really never did develop in to a love. No one finds peace in shutting some out. So I am sure he is wrestling with the need to talk with you. We know that it is the ones we are closest to that we sometimes find it hardest to talk to. Sometimes we don’t want to bare ourselves to that openness, but if you can over come this then you can have that growth that make it all worth it.
Were do you want to head with this.
Love is: 4Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
8Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away.
February 6th, 2009 at 4:41 pm
David,
you have some good points… sometimes it IS good to talk things through to the end… BUT this:”No one finds peace in shutting some out. ” Is not necessarily a true statement. Some relationships can be very toxic and the only way to allow yourself to breathe, and to care for yourself is to shut that person out.
February 6th, 2009 at 7:02 pm
David, I think you misunderstand some of my post. I didn’t shut him out at all; he’s been shutting me out. I have tried to discuss this with him, but he gets mad, shuts me out, and if I try and bring it up, he tells me to shut up and “mind my own fu..ing business.” So why did he bring it up in the first place??? I understand that he’s wrestling with whatever it is. Also, from more conversations we’ve had over the phone, I definitely think he got someone pregnant. He also told me that he is going to do “whatever” and he doesn’t care whether I like it or not. If I don’t like it, “too bad, then we should break up.” His words, not mine.
I’ve gone from being exciting about moving in together and building a future with this man to wondering if I should stay or go. Confusion is not strong enough a word for what I’m going through…and I don’t even know for sure what his dilemma is! Oh, David, he also told me he doesn’t want any tears or emotion. I should just be quiet, listen, and “think before you open your mouth to speak.” Nice, huh?
Anyway, I do agree with some of the points you’ve made, but this man lives in his own world, doing this his way, and too bad for me. That makes me very sad
February 6th, 2009 at 8:44 pm
A Libra Swimming with a Fish,
I’ve been reading your posts and feeling your heartbreak. If you’ve read above you’ll see I’m going through my own Pisces male drama.
Your situation is raising MAJOR flags. It is obvious he’s not ready to commit to the same level that you’re willing to. If he has gotten another girl pregnant, this should be a nice push for you to move on. If you decide to stay and move in with him, this is only going to show that you condone his behavior.
It took something pretty strong to make me walk away from the guy I fell in love with. Because I stayed with him for so long, it was like the green light for him to keep treating me like crap because I kept coming back for more. Well, no more. As much as it hurts now, in the long run I’m going to be much better off. I’ll be away from his drama, his issues and his obvious bad behavior.
My suggestion is to cut bait and run. If you’re really looking for closure, sit him down and tell him (calmly and rationaly) that his behavior with knocking someone else up is just a final sign that moving in with each other and continuing this relationship isn’t healthy. He may try to turn it around on you, but be strong. He’s the one that obviously has issues, and you need to let him know that he needs to figure sh*t out on his own - deal with his new situation…and you don’t want to be apart of it. Don’t get sucked in by his “I want you, I need you” BS. If he really felt that way about you he wouldn’t have strayed and would have thought twice about his actions.
If you move in with this guy, I fear your problems aren’t going to correct themselves. Because with him closing off the routes of communication — and sending mixed signals — nothing is gonna change is his book. You’ll just get blamed for his problems in the end.
I wish you the best…just be strong and look out for you and your best interests. He’s obviously not looking out for yours.
February 6th, 2009 at 8:48 pm
Libra swimming with the fish, I feel very sorry for you but I think you should respect yourself enough to know that this has nothing to do with being a Pisces man, his behaviour is disgraceful and unacceptable. I wouldn’t put up with it on principle. You can’t make allowances for this just because he is pisces. You are a human being with feelings and you don’t treat people you love like a doormat. Don’t put up with it. I would turn the tables and be slightly less available instead of hanging on his every word and waiting for a crumb from his table. You don’t want him at any cost do you? You would never be able to trust him again. Sorry to be so blunt but I am appalled by this situation. I wish you all the best and hope it turns out not to be as bad as you think it will be but I doubt it somehow.
February 7th, 2009 at 3:24 pm
wow.. well sounds more like you both know what you need to do. maybe you need to just step back and make it clear your making a stand for what you need from them and until it is offered your not moving forward.
February 8th, 2009 at 2:01 am
Elph, David, Incognito, Liza and anyone I may have skipped.
First of all, I want to thank each of you soooo much for your wonderful advice. I sincerely appreciate it.
Here’s what I found out: Last night, my Pisces decided he wasn’t going to tell me what was going on — not yet, as he said. I told him that was totally unfair. I’ve been stressing out since Tuesday at 4:00 a.m. and he can’t do that to me. He still wouldn’t open up. So I asked him if it was a woman; he said yes. I then asked him was she pregnant; again, he said yes. So there you have it. Unfortunately, I was right, which in my heart, I knew all along. She is due in July, which means we were a couple (I broke up with him Dec 5 and we got back together Dec 28) when he was seeing her. He is 40 years old - not a child. I asked him didn’t he think about what may happen? He said no, because he’s older. Dumb statement on his part, and this man is far from dumb. Stupid maybe, but not dumb.
He was very clinical as he discussed this. I numbed myself with my friend’s xanax because I knew I couldn’t show emotion or he’d get mad and not talk. So I was very calm. He said he did it because we were fighting. I told him, I didn’t cheat. His reply? Well, that’s you; some people have alcohol as a vice, I have women. Real nice….
Bottom line: he still wants to move in with me, he’s going to be involved in the baby’s life (which is good) and he’s going to go with the mom to her doctor’s appointments, sonograms, etc. Why????? I said why can’t she go with her friends? He said no, it’s my child. Whatever.
I am sitting here torn apart. I know what I need to do, but he can be sooooo convincing and he knows how much I love him. I have read your posts, and all of you are correct: I deserve better. I have done nothing but treat this man wonderfully, and he’s done nothing but break my heart, time and time again. I have forgiven his lies and his cheating; I don’t think I have it in me to forgive this.
Elph, you are correct in that he will turn it around — he always does. He basically said it’s my fault he strayed because we were fighting. We fought because he started arguments over nothing so that he could go stray. I know how this man operates. Elph, I also wish you luck in your own situation. I can certainly sympathize with you.
Incognito, no need to apologize for your bluntness. You are being honest and that’s what I want, honest opinions.
David, you are correct - I definitely need to step back. As a matter of fact, if I had three cents of brains, I’d step all the back and out.
Thanks again to all of you. You have given me hope in myself that I can make it through this if I get the courage to do what I need to do, which is tell him to get out of my life once and for all. He made his bed (pun intended), he can now go lie in it without me.
February 8th, 2009 at 5:04 am
I love that pisces men are romantic but that is all I love above them. One lied and was married. I was a young girl and he was my first. I never knew he was married. Crushed when I found out.
The second, years and years later was NUTS. Do not get me wrong, he swept me off my feet. He was sweet and romantic and I loved the stories he told me about people from his past. He still cared for people from his past, to the point of pain. He was sweet with me until one day and then everything turned scary. He went after me and used private hurtful things I confided in him to hurt me and put me in my place. I am still scared of him.
February 8th, 2009 at 3:31 pm
There sure is a lot of discussion going on here about the pisces man. I may be able to provide a little useful information to help you girls deal with us.
Perhaps the worst thing about many pisces is the lack of understanding of himself. I can assure you that the very last thing a pisces wants to be is the kind of person that is described by many of the females here.
If a pisces man does things to hurt you emotionally, discuss it with him. Pisces often don’t really understand the meaning of a fair fight, until it is explained to them at least once. If you hurt a pisces, they will often use everthing they know about you to hurt you emotionally. You can either let him win by being deeply hurt and crawling away, or let him know that he isn’t fighting unfairly by attacking you in that way, and that he should really try and keep on track concerning only what the fight is actually about. As goofy as it may sound, it will actually work.
Some girls have mentioned a “out of site, out of mind” scenario. That’s true. The way around having a problem with it is to assure your pisces that you are completely dedicated to him, you won’t ever cheat on him, and if he cheats on you, the relationship is over - period. A pisces very much appreciates a woman who is independent and will give him his space. That’s one of the strongest attractions to gemini females by a pisces man. And the lack of confidence and insecurity of the pisces male, is perhaps the strongest failures in the relationship between a pisces man and gemini woman.
Help a pisces understand himself and he’ll love and admire you for doing so!
February 8th, 2009 at 6:35 pm
“A Libra Swimming with a Fish” I can not see you finding any contentment, meaning, purpose, fulfillment, closeness, love, happiness, trust, adornment, connection or anything in this relationship. As hurt as you are today. You will always feel that hurt with every reminder of his infidelity. Being a bigger person and accepting his mistakes is of good character. However that doesn’t offer you what you want or need. To some affect I want to say let him reap what he has sown. What good is it for you for him to be half in it. Half in your life and half in their lives?
Take some time come to a screaming halt and think about what’s right, what’s right for you and what you want out of life and what you want out of a relationship. Maybe in a nice way you should just tell the guy he belongs with that family he created and you hope he find some contentment in facing his responsibilities like a man. I am sorry you are going through all this. Be strong and open and true and let life come around to you.
February 8th, 2009 at 7:05 pm
John,
I agree with some of what you are saying, and I have been in my Pisces’ corner from day 1. He has put me through hell emotionally - from lies, to playing mental games, cheating, and now a pregnancy as a result of his cheating. I have been WAY to forgiving with this man, which is on me, and it’s because I really love him. But I can’t do it anymore.
If found out the woman that’s having his child is a co-worker, and has two other children by two other fathers. This is her third child with Daddy No. 3. I asked him why didn’t she believe in birth control, and I got a lecture about who am I to judge, I was being critical of her and I don’t know her, and “you’re talking out of her ass.” I told him I hope he has a daughter and he doesn’t discuss birth control, and she has three babies by three daddies. Needless to say, he didn’t like that remark, and it’s too damn bad. I asked if he cared about her and he said yes, a lot, because she’s a good friend, but he doesn’t want to be with her “in that way.” He loves me and wants to live with me. WTF!!!! I wonder if he ever listens to himself talk….
I keep going back and forth with telling him to leave me alone, and wishing he would call, which he does…10 times in a row or more, until I pick up. He’s driving me crazy!!! My emotions are in such turmoil I don’t know which way is up. We left it that when things calm down, he’ll get his stuff. I wish I was the type of person that could just bag it up and throw it on his front lawn; but I’m not that way
I sure wish I didn’t love this jerk as much as I do…I am feeling quite pathetic right now….
February 8th, 2009 at 8:42 pm
my previous message where I wrote:
You can either let him win by being deeply hurt and crawling away, or let him know that he isn’t fighting unfairly…
should have been written:
You can either let him win by being deeply hurt and crawling away, or let him know that he is fighting unfairly…
- in case that wasn’t already obvious.
Good luck girls!
February 8th, 2009 at 9:47 pm
I’ve read a few more of the messages here - there’s a lot! - and feel kinda bad about some of the problems between gemini and pisces in particular. I was already following another post about the subject. Although pisces are attracted to women of many different signs, this particular pisces, finds gemini women to be some of the most incredible women on the planet. I also consider myself to be extremely fortunate to be married to one!
As I mentioned in another message, if a gemini women helps a pisces understand himself (they are certainly one of the signs that are capable of that) I think the mood swings or whatever other issues that keep these signs apart will pretty much go away and everything that makes the relationship work so well will remain.
Okay - enough from this pisces for the day.
February 8th, 2009 at 10:33 pm
Sorry but I kind of disagree..
From what I read, the women on here have done nothing but reassure over and over and over…. To be completely honest, to truly love, to discuss…etc. etc..
In my own personal experience, I KNOW that I have given my pisces men space, been open, honest, caring, etc. all of the above. I have a feeling that a lot of women on here have really tried too.
February 9th, 2009 at 1:52 pm
A Libra Swimming with a Fish,
He doesn’t love you. If he did, he wouldn’t be doing these things.
You should leave him. If it’s difficult for you to do so, there are help groups (I’m not talking about internet types) that can help you through it.
Good luck.
February 9th, 2009 at 3:04 pm
A Libra Swimming with a Fish,
I seriously agree with John… Give this pisces man a taste of what a real woman with respect for herself is like. Kick his butt to the curb and get yourself back on track.
Obviously his taste for women are gals who may be a great person on the superficial level, but when it comes to independent and strong women — that’s not his thing. God knows that’s the deal with my pisces male.
I was in LOVE with this guy — but he put his hands on me, and I said that’s it and walked away. With the support of my friends, I’ve rediscovered life without him…and the life I couldn’t have being with him. It’s awesome!
Get angry, anger is a good motivator when used properly…pack his sh*t up and be done with it. He’s got a whole mess of drama to deal with, and as much as you WANT to hammer all the details out of what was or what will be- his focus should obviously be with getting his sh*t in order.
Show him that you mean business, pack his stuff up and get it out of your house. It’s liberating!
I wish you all the best!! If you need it, get a support system behind you–your friends/family!
February 9th, 2009 at 5:51 pm
And we love you Elphy!
February 11th, 2009 at 2:15 pm
I am an Aries female and have had a bit of a difficulty with the pisces water sign, could be that fire/water thing not sure. But I was married to a pisces who was very abusive to me mentally/verbally and cheated on me. He also moved around a lot always in search of “something” be it better work/money or relationships. What hooked me originally was his determination and that came from his idea of romantic love and fantasy that everything will work out with love, love will fix everything and I gout caught up his fantasy worl. I had a friend (who was determined to be more) who recently revealed he was a pisces and this explains my frustration with him because despite me being open and honest about my feelings he was subtly trying to force his romantic feelings and notions on me saying ” all hurt people say that” Love is the best thing out there” “you find the right person and you will want to marry” and “well I am not going to say anything but I truly hope you come around” and it was annoying and almost disrespectful because he did not respect my feelings or wishes when I said I only wanted a friend and not a romantic relationship. ( I have been unemployed since last June so thats my priority) and he is a good listener but he pries too much and reminds me of a father more and i don’t like him trying to impose his agenda on me for sake of beign a good friend and caring. He lives in la la land most of the time. Jane Seymour has been advertising this “open heart” jewelry at Kays and on TV an it says ” if you keep your heart open love will always find its way in” So now everytime I talk to him he says “ok closed heart I hope you have a good day” or “goodnight closed heart” and its annoying. I am limited our conversations now just based on these types of things.
February 11th, 2009 at 6:43 pm
I love to be a PISCES. Even If I would be given 9 lives of a Cat, without an iota of doubt, I would again love to be a Pisces in all of em.
Why women fall for Pisces men and complain later? Why you want to catch a fish and when it slips from your fingers, you blame the fish, not your fingers? What an interesting logic. Where the hell is intuition and intelligence in relationships? Why complaints later? It is said “Only Fools Rush In”. And Pisces men are way too smart to people’s imagination and liking. So many interests, plenty of hobbies, lots of diversity, and abundance of endless creativity and ideas.
Why bound oneself in the confined lake of love when there are oceans to swim and swim and swim further. The oceans are boundless for a good swim…never try to keep the fish in the aquarium…lol. Relationships are complicated and always will be. Why blame others for turmoils when you are yourself not capable of keeping them intact. Well…its good, we Pisces are not self-centred but never ever try to take them for granted because if you did, the fish can swim to any lengths never looking back.
We Pisces love strong women because we find substance, intellect, and rationality in them. Women who know well who they are. A good communication is a BIG turn-on whereas superficial women and small talk suck BIGtime (at least for many pisces like me).
Get Some Life. Live and Let Live, That’s a Piscean Philosophy.
Aly, The Pisces-OX
February 12th, 2009 at 3:50 pm
I am a pisces…and i am also dating a pisces guy..I have found out that a male pisces is very seceretive..and is a sucker for pretty women…i have also found out if they tell u to leave a situation alone….leave it alone…all they need is to rejuvenate and with in couple of hours u will have them back….they are really loyal and loving people….I would not trade him in….because when i am with him i get butterflies…lol.he is also a good father…
February 13th, 2009 at 4:22 am
Okay so I met my Pisces man on vacation in Miami and we jsut both happen to be from NY, we stayed in touch since last march and we had an instant attraction… both of us coming out of long relationships we stayed friends but would have an ocassional makeout here or there when we couldn’t help ourselves. He disappeared on me around Aug through Oct, I went about my life and i got a call late October from him. We started to hang out again and we ALWAYS have a good time together. He is always complimenting me somehow, which I love being a woman… and I am a Sag… and we began to grow really close really fast. He met my family and I met his all within 3 months after we became intimate and sort of exsclusive. And he even told me he didn’t think he was going to feel the way he did so fast. I am a very strong woman, I am 24 getting my masters and have a lot going on, but I am a burturer by nature. So i would always tickle him to sleep or rub him or be very sensual. He would pick up on it all the time and be like where did you learn this, you are so affecctionate. Maybe he thought I wasnt becasue I come off hard, being guarded. So all was fine and then we started to get even closer and I don’t know if he freaked out on me or if he just doesn’t like me anymore. But he went from telling me in one week that he is not just hanging out and spending all his free time with me just because to fading away and backing off. What does this mean. I really like him and care for him so I would love for it to work, but I can not make it work by myslef. I took a step back and told him i can’t force myself in his life he has something going on and i dont know what but he wont let me in. So we didnt talk for about 10 days, when I messaged him as a friend… if you ever need to talk, i’m here… because even if he just needs a friend i want him to know i am here for him. He messaged me we need to talk and i said ok then got no response again. So i said whenever you want to talk just let me know, that way he doesnt feel pressured. Am I do things right here? or should I just give up? I know he has a lot of emotional instability so i am trying to be patient but i am nervous i might be waiting and nothing will come of it and i will be stuck heartbroken… I think he has deep feelings for me but he is the only one with the answers, if anyone can help me to understand what might be going on please let me know…
February 13th, 2009 at 11:04 am
You’re scared to death - are you aware of that? I’m becoming somewhat overwhelmed by your emotion (as buried as it may be) and I don’t even know you, so I can imagine what he’s sensing, even though he may not have completely come to grips with it yet. Fear can really grow inside of a person, eating away at them. Fear leads to wide emotion swings, the worst being anger, the best being a great deal of passion. I sense that you have a great deal of good in you. I’m not really sure what to make of all this at the moment.
I feel a little odd about recommending this, but I think you should have the person who runs this site do a personalized consultation for you. Although I’ve never interracted with her, I sense that she is very sincere, will be happy to help you through that channel, and will give you more than your money’s worth. It should at least give you some understanding of yourself, and that will give you the tools needed to move forward. If you can’t afford the consultation, get some books on the subject and read, read, read.
For yourself and other’s who might be reading this, most specifically the part about telling a pisces that you will always be there if they need to talk, I should let you know that you will never be taken up on such an offer by a pisces - at least a male pisces. In this case, it’s actually you that needs someone to talk to, and if you find the right person to discuss yourself with, I feel that you will have a huge burden lifted and your life will take on a whole new meaning in a very positive way.
Sorry if this all seems a little weird.
I wish you the very best.
February 13th, 2009 at 2:28 pm
okay wait so I am scared to death of what? and I didn’t say I would be here for him whenever he wants, I told him if he needs to talk I’m here as a friend. I didn’t think that was a bad thing. I am okay with moving on and meeting someone new for I have done it before after a 4+ year relationship. I just would have liked for this to work out because we were friends before any of this and I liked his company. We got involved and I lost a him that way and as a friend. So I thought maybe giving him the friend shoulder was nice and would make him realize I am not out here to hurt him. He always tells me how he had an ex-fiancee who burned him, he loved her and she cheated on him and treated him badly. They still keep in touch when she comes to visit the country. And as he started to act differently I realized she was visiting. Could this have to do with him acting different? My question is do you think he cares for me or should I just move on? Not am I scared…
February 13th, 2009 at 3:14 pm
To Krisit
It’s kind of been my experience that when you have a hot and cold lover, they never change that. I am not just talking about the passion, as well as the person, coming and going but the constant secrecy that comes with it. For whatever reasons it may be, good or bad, the question you have to ask yourself is “is this behavior going to drive me friggin’ crazy?”
If yes, move on… lol Just explain to him that you need him to either be there or not, whether as lover or friend and you need him to make up his mind. Don’t wait forever for him to make a choice though, he’ll probably keep you hanging on for awhile and it will drive you crazy all the same. Give him a week or two, and if you have no response? Just simply leave it hanging and go out and date, consider yourself single. As long as there isn’t a real commitment, you’re free. As long as he isn’t really in the picture, it would be un fair for him to expect anything from you, especially exclusivity.
If you like the laid back nature, free space, a sort of no strings attached relationship than it may work for you.
February 16th, 2009 at 2:32 pm
Aly,
You stated “Why you want to catch a fish and when it slips from your fingers, you blame the fish, not your fingers? What an interesting logic. Where the hell is intuition and intelligence in relationships? Why complaints later? It is said ‘Only Fools Rush In’.
Let me explain, again. My fish got a woman pregnant in October because “we had a fight.” Nice. Go screw someone else because we were arguing. That’s “interesting” logic, isn’t it? Well, I found out about it a week and a half ago. Now, not only does this man want me to accept his “stupid mistake”, but I just found out yesterday, she’s being thrown out of her parents’ house because they’re fed up with her (they want to keep her two other kids by two different daddies), and she’s scared. So, being the great guy he is, he’s helping her. WTF?? He doesn’t even know if it’s his baby yet (DNA, ya know?), but he believes her when she says it’s his. Whatever. So, he didn’t “slip from my fingers.” He still wants to move in with me, which we were in the process of before this happened. He also wants me to accept the fact that he’s going to help her “for the baby.”
So, you tell me, how am I letting him “slip from my fingers???” He’s cursing me out because he transferred his job closer to where I live and now HIS plans are all screwed up. Excuse me, but I didn’t screw anyone else and get her pregant: he did.
Also, I accepted his “mistake” and was willing to work through it, but he’s being a complete ass if he thinks that even I (who thinks outside of the box) will accept his taking care of the woman he had an affair with and still have a “normal” relationship with me. I told him that he can’t have both of us, and he calls me a selfish bit*h who only cares about herself and has the never to blame me if we break up. Then, as most Pisces do, he exaggerated the whole thing and says I want him on a ball and chain. Mind you, this man comes and goes as he pleases, I don’t ask any questions, I haven’t a clue where he goes or what he does, but I want him on a ball and chain??? He’s an ass and he’s delusional, but I do love him because he does have some wonderful qualities and before the baby mama drama, things were going great.
So Aly, please tell me, what would you do in my situation? This particular fish wants both worlds and doesn’t want to swim away from either of us. How do you figure that if I leave, which I most likely will do, am I letting this fish “slip through my fingers?” I’d really like to hear your opinion on this matter.
Thanks in advance.
A Very Sad and Fed Up Libra
February 16th, 2009 at 3:03 pm
Aly,
One more thing. This man is comparing his “tryst” to me and my ex-husband and our daughter. He said to me that if he can’t help and talk to his potential baby mama, then I can’t talk to my ex. WTF is that??? I told him, I was married, we have a child together,and we are now divorced; he certainly can’t compare that to lying, cheating and getting his lover knocked up!!! So again, where is the “logic” in that since you seem so intent on logic and letting a wonderful fish slip through my fingers.
February 16th, 2009 at 3:56 pm
To - A Libra Swimming with a Fish
My goodness I really feel sorry for you, your Pisces man clearly is not thinking of anyone’s feelings but his own. Seems to be a typical trait of Pisces to blame anyone but themself.
I had a (thankfully) brief encounter with a Pisces guy just before christmas, he seemed like the perfect guy, everything was going great and our romance seemed blissfully romantic. Oh, until of course he decided to mention that he already had a girlfriend who he was supposedly ‘very happy with’. Since when did cheating on your partner = happy relationship??? I was devastated and felt like a fool for falling for him hook line and sinker. He knew how much I liked him yet he led me on and he knew all along nothing would come of it. He acted surprised and even shocked by my reaction (tears, anger, pain & heartache) when he said he was already with someone. Excuse me Mister….do you expect that you can lay someone down in a bed of roses then stab a dagger thru their heart and not expect them to be upset? Sometimes I wonder if these Pisces are on the same planet?!
Anyway of course he blamed it all on me and said that I never asked him if he had a girlfriend. Pathetic excuse!
Seems to happen alot with these Pisces. On the one hand they can seem like the most caring and romantic man on earth, and then on the other hand they go and act in the most breathtakingly jaw-droppingly self-centred way and refuse to admit responsibility when they are faced with the consequence. My dad is a Pisces and I can see it in him too. He managed to hide a secret from me and my brothers for 25 years, that we had a half sister, who he had only ever seen twice in her whole life (she’s 31) now he still blames my half-sisters mother for ‘not letting him see her’ even though I know thats rubbish and he just couldn’t face the ’shame’ of having a child outside of wedlock (he likes to think he’s an upstanding member of the church). Pisces, huh, they just can’t face the shame, can they? And yet they hurt many others as a result, rather than hurt their own ego.
After my experiences of these fishes I am staying well and truly clear of them and not gonna fall for their ‘wolf in sheeps clothing’ persona. And “A Libra Swimming with a Fish” I recommend you change your locks and get rid of this slippery fish, you deserve a man who will treat you with respect and honour you and ONLY you, a man who doesn’t cheat on you and get a floozy preggers then come running back to you like a naughty schoolboy saying “oopsy daisie silly mistake” and expect just to get a little slap on the wrist. Tell him GOODBYE and GOOD RIDDANCE, girl there are better men out there for you. If you were in London I would take you out right now for a GIRLPOWER night of dry martinis and pina coladas LOL
February 16th, 2009 at 4:21 pm
“Being there” for the child, is going to be the same as “being there” for the mother. He’s helping the child, by helping the mother. Also, in an indirect way, he will be helping the mother’s other children as well.
You can’t help a child, by allowing it’s guardian to be homeless, thereby allowing the child to be homeless, for example.
Unless, of course, you want to separate your boyfriend’s child from it’s mother. That will be the only way to stop him from supporting the mother as well as the child.
I know I don’t need to point out that this other woman and the child are going to be apart of your boyfriend’s life forever, indefinitely. Also, that by your decision to stand by him, you’ve agreed to their being a part of your life as well.
You’re going to need to try and conquer all the angry feelings and be accepting of the situation. A sort of “whatever” attitude, which is going to be impossible, I know. It’s the only way to bring back a bit more peace into the situation. Especially, if you don’t want everyday to be an emotional hell of a roller coaster. Essentially, you’re gonna have to try anyway..
Either way, you have tough road ahead of you if you decide to continue with him.
I don’t think you did anything wrong, nor did you “let him slip through your fingers”. Relationships are complicated and he did a chicken s*** thing. Now you’ve decided to stay and deal with the consequences, he should feel really lucky. He’s going to be moving in with you, and you are going to be helping to support him, which in turn helps him free up cash to support them… Really, he is lucky!
February 16th, 2009 at 5:05 pm
Dear A Libra Swimming with Fish,
I have to say that I have been reading about the Pisces man to try and understand where they come from… which has helped me to understand their logis of thinking, especially since I am a Saggitarius and we are logically inclined to actually think and not dream all day long! As Pisces tend to do… but I also know that they tend to run a lot. So in your case he ran to another woman for fear of rejection when you guys fought. They have emotional instabilities which is causing you a lot of heartache. And a Pisces man will always play the VICTIM, it is in their nature to be the victim. I don’t know why but they do it. Which is why he is turning things on you. My Pisces man always tended to make the situation out to be my fault, or like I was the crazy girl. He would take hours to call me back and when he finally did and I was cranky he would woner why?!?! They are not this stupid they just don’t know how to deal with emotions and conflict. They will avoid the situation as best they can. So I say trust your gut, which is the hardest thing to do especially becasue our mind is a powerful thing and so is our heart! I have been trying to understand why my fish has disappeared and not triend getting in touch with me for 2 weeks now but I am beginiing to think he is scared of conflict and wants to wait till he thinks I have forgotten about it, STUPID! Haha but I would say that if you ever want to understand them a little more pick up a book about the Pisces man it got me to understand him a bit more. Now I just have to figure out what I want and if I can take his instability.
February 16th, 2009 at 8:01 pm
Gemini L.,
You stated, “Also, in an indirect way, he will be helping the mother’s other children as well.” Re-read my post. The mom is leaving her two children from previous “relationships” with her mother. She is moving out on her own, I imagine in hopes that my EX-boyfriend will be with her. (By the way, we are not young people, who are prone to mistakes. We are in our 40’s, baby mama in her early 30’s.) So please tell me, how is he helping her other children? Also, he told me he wants no part of her other children because they are from different dads. Great guy, huh? And she is okay with this.
In any event, Liz, I took your advice and had my locks changed. I left him a text telling him that since he is looking for another apartment near where he lives, I take it that he decided to end our relationship, which is fine by me because I would have ended it anyway. I reiterated that he couldn’t have both of us, that I was bowing out, and I wished them both good luck.
I hurt like hell, but I know I did the right thing. I told him I will NOT play second fiddle to anyone. She says jump, and he says how high? Now he can go do whatever the hell he wants with her, and too bad if that’s not the way he wanted it. I have cut the fishing line and set him free.
Liz, once again you are correct - I deserve so much better. I treated this man like gold, and all I get is grief and a pregnant floozie. If I were in London, I would very gladly accept your offer for a drink because I could surely use one (or several). Thanks for your advice. I put it to good use.
Krisitne, you are also correct. This man can’t deal with emotions at all! And God forbid I show any - then I get called a crazy woman and he makes fun of my tears. I am well rid of him, but he did have wonderful qualities which I will miss dearly. However, I will not miss all the drama, lies, cheating, and name calling, which his darker side consists of. And I have read a lot about Pisces. I am very much into astrology and years ago, I used to do charts, but I became obsessed with it, so I stopped doing it.
No matter what a person’s sign is, a liar is a liar, a cheat is a cheat, and disrespect is disrespect. I am through with my Fish and will most likely stay away from them (in the near future anyway).
Thanks to all who have read my posts and given advice. I am going to lick my wounds and heal my heart and soul.
February 16th, 2009 at 8:29 pm
John and Alph,
I did it! I ended it. I changed my locks and sent him a text telling him I did so, and to throw away his keys, as they are useless. I’m done. Please read my above posts, if you haven’t already. The man is selfish and impossible and doesn’t appreciate me at all. He is now free to do as he pleases, and he won’t have my shoulder to cry on anymore. What never he had - expecting me to be okay with the fact that he’s talking to her and texting her so he can help her find a place. What if he didn’t do that?? Would she just stick her thumb up her butt and do nothing? I don’t think so. She’d manage. This woman knows exactly what she is doing, and I am NOT going to compete with her. No man is worth that. I thank both of you for your well thought out input. It has truly helped
February 17th, 2009 at 3:08 pm
Having read all the comments above, I will again say that you people have a very poor intuition about Pisces men. I myself a Pisces have never taken any advantage of women that have come in my life. Honestly speaking, I have yet to express the words to someone that I love and care for the person (although I’m in my mid 30s). Why? because I am not ready to committ, so why should I be lying. I don’t want to fool anyone as well as create any kind of delusion that I love some one. However, the interesting fact is that most of us pisces are polite with women which is usually taken in a wrong manner. Being polite doesn’t mean that you are in love with someone. So why women take this politeness as some kind of a signal. It shouldn’t be. The point is that one should explore the person through every angle before making any long-term committments and secondly not all Pisces men are alike. So if you have a bad experience, you all tend to blame all in a generalised manner which is totally absurd. I have seen Cancer, Tauras, and Leo men cheating on their wives so does this mean all Cancer, Tauras, and Leos are assholes. That’s an absurd logic. Another thing about Fish is that don’t try to push and control him, if some one is going to do that, it usually slips away. Give fish a lot of space as you require it for yourself. If you are going to invade his space considering that since fish look docile, they can be dominated, you are grossly mistaken. Fish always do what they prefer and in reaction to how people behave towards them.
But pls stop generalising and taking astrology too seriously.
Peace
Aly, the Water-OX
February 17th, 2009 at 4:31 pm
Hi, I’ve been reading these comments for a while and find them very interesting! I am a cappy with a moon in virgo and Venus in pisces. My boyfriend of 8 months is a Pisces with moon in Cancer and Venus in Aquarius. We have been together for around 9 months now and moved in together but unfortunatly we lost the flat as we both lost our jobs this year. we are both back home with our parents, im 24 and he is 28 this year. He can be very distant sometimes but soo can I, but he is one of the sweetest men i have ever met in my life. All I read about pisces men is that they lead double lives and cheat on their partners because they cant help it? is this true?? I know that my boyfriend did cheat on his ex but he said that he wasn’t happy, do you think he will do the same to me. i dont think i would handle it very well if i was to find out he was cheating on me. I’m very confused.
February 17th, 2009 at 8:35 pm
Liz,
I’m a pisces and have never cheated on my wife or any girlfriend in my lifetime. Yet, I’ve known a lot of other guys of other signs that have done just that, and much worse.
Perhaps, the spiritualality associated with pisces, or those who become involved with him, brings them to places like this in search of answers while not so much with the other signs. That can certainly make pisces seem like the worst of the worst, when the truth is, you just happen to end up in a bad relationship.
I think that for anyone to be truly happy in a relationship, or any other aspect of life, they first need to really get to know themselves.
February 18th, 2009 at 1:02 pm
Gemini lavande,
I think it’s gemini’s like you that create an infatuation between pisces and gemini’s even though, unfortunately, it’s an infatuation that sometimes doesn’t go as well as it should. My wife is a gemini and I’m a pisces. I love and respect her more than I ever imagined I could love and respect any woman. I think it’s the straight-forward logic of the gemini that really infatuates this pisces. I don’t know if it’s that way with all pisces men though. Gemini’s like yourself, rather than interracting in a confused and combative sort of way, interract with a sense of confidence and honesty. Most gemini women seem to have childish ways about them, and perhaps it’s that, which is somewhat responsible for being able to relate to a pisces the way you do.
So, with that being said, those women of other signs who are here looking for answers, it may be worthwhile just to follow along with the logic of the gemini woman. Even though, as seems to be obvious in another post here, such a relationship may not work out, I think that
any gemini that has her head together, if a relationship is broken with a pisces, the pisces will most likely regret it as much as, if not more than the gemini woman.
February 18th, 2009 at 3:24 pm
Cheater and thats pisces?i dont beilive this,as being a pisces myself ,i didt cheat with any one.But people think abt us that v r cheater.I am 24,and have been dated with two girls but they were unable to understand me.After that ,i decided not to make a relation with any girl as i think no one in this world who is able to understand me.If u r think thats cheating then wht i can say abt that,but to leave a person due to reason ,that person is not according to ur desire,thats not cheating.
February 18th, 2009 at 3:29 pm
I am a Pisces and i am not a cheater.
a birth sign has nothing to do with a mans character. or what he values.
February 19th, 2009 at 11:28 pm
Hey laddies, being a Pisces is the most challenging sign to be. It has the characteristics of all the zodiac signs, plus it’s own. If a Pisces man had a strong support system to be independent during childhood to develop a healthy ego then Pisces men will find the life purpose and self esteem that Pisces been looking for. In many ways it’s a gift to be a Pisces us long us we develop self esteem based on life purpose and high morals and not competitive ego that our society programs into us. Yes we are cheaters and lairs and thieves and con artists and we suffer with some heavy emotional baggage that feels like we carry all the worries of the Universe.
But in the end we are Artists and Designers of Life and Spirit. Subconsciously we know what counts in life and if we don’t do what counts then we loose ourselves in this material world with SEX, DRUGS, ALCOHOL, ENTERTAINMENT,and ILLUSIONS. We would abuse it to the point of no return. It’s like having a double edge word. That’s why it’s important for a Pisces men to always know oneself as the main goal, to have discipline and to work toward improving ones awareness and gather knowledge and gain wisdom from experience and then putting it to use in everyday life. What I mean is that we understand and sense things that lay hidden to most people and that’s what scares us. Many Pisces are just afraid and anxious because they don’t know there own gifts but only feel fear and insecurities, and I’ve seen it in almost all Pisces except one. I’m a Pisces and I wouldn’t be any other sign because I could change myself to any circumstance, adapt, and evolve with ease (mutable to the highest degree). Most actors are Pisces! Also I believe it’s very important for Pisces to have strong mothers and great father Figures(teachers) And yes I cheated and I was a player, and I did things that I knew were wrong but in the end it’s life experience that shapes us and makes us who we are and now that I know this it’s no longer a longing to repeat the same mistakes.
The worse cheating is cheating yourself out of life.
February 24th, 2009 at 6:12 am
hey is a pisces and a taurus a good match because i was reading and some sites say they are excelent together and other sites say ehh well you’d be good as just friends
im only asking this because there’s this guy and he;s a pisces and im a taurus so yeah i just wanna know please help
February 26th, 2009 at 4:49 pm
A Libra Swimming with a fish
I just meant that the benefits of you two living together would in turn enable him to help this other woman and the child more. Perhaps she is leaving her other children with her mother but for how long? If he’s, for example helping her with rent or general money or even just spending time with the children etc.. you can be sure the other children in her life will benefit. Whether the other kids come to stay with the mother a couple times a week or month(at the place your guy helped her attain) or the mother simply takes the other kids to the park or out to lunch with the same support she receives from your guy. Those are things for his child that have benefitted the other children. Even if she leaves them with someone else, doesn’t mean she will never have a hand in there upbringing.
It wasn’t a terribly important point but, for some reason, it’s what would irk me the most if I were in your position.
Glad to hear you dumped the jerk!
Thanks for the comment John. Lol… so true, so true..
February 26th, 2009 at 8:17 pm
Gemini Lavande,
I know what you meant, but you don’t understand - the pregnant woman is a loser. And I’m not saying that just because she slept with my boyfriend. I am saying that because she already has two children by two different fathers, who are staying with her mother because she is incapable of taking care of her own children. She has also had two abortions — nice birth control, huh? And now she is pregnant by a different man, will not get an abortion this time, and is out drinking and partying while she is pregnant. To me, that is a woman who is an irresponsible loser.
On another note, being the lovestruck fool that I am, after much discussion, yelling (on my part) and tears (also on my part), I am forgiving my Pisces (for now anyway) and we’re going to try and make a go of it. Do I think it will last forever? Probably not. I honestly don’t think this man is capable of being either faithful or in a long term relationship. So why am I going back to him? Because he is unique, funny, warm, extremely intelligent and never dull. I accept him for exactly who he is, and he knows this. He also probably thinks I’ll forgive him for anything he does, being that I have already forgiven him quite a few things, cheating and getting a girl pregnant being the largest on his list of indiscretions.
But for now, he will remain in my life. I feel empty when he’s gone, as does he when I am not around. So we shall maintain our strangely dysfunctional relationship until one of us is completely tired of it, that person most likely being me, because I imagine I will eventually get so fed up with his behavior, that no amount of my love or forgiveness will glue the pieces back together.
Thanks again to all of you. I know you must think I have completely lost my mind, but believe me, I haven’t…it’s my heart that I completely lost
March 2nd, 2009 at 7:30 pm
Hey there Libra Swimming with a Fish,
This is just my opinion and I hope you don’t get offended.
It seems to me from what you wrote that you depend on love from outside urself. That is not love but addiction to pain and your pain body which is part of your ego and it’s craving that form of suffering in order to justify and maintain it’s own existence.EGO
(check it out in two great books that will help you to regain yourself - The Power of Now: A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment by Eckhart Tolle, and The Mastery of Love: A Practical Guide to the Art of Relationship (Toltec Wisdom Book) by Don Miguel Ruiz.)
If you want to be happy and start having a healthy relationship then you need to respect and love urself before anyone else.Otherwise you will always be used and feel like a victim for the rest of ur life.
Ur man is a Love dealer and you are on addict and all of this stems from having ones mind set on the outside circumstances to find happiness and love. You will probably not listen to me but maybe in a decade of this kind of suffering you will come to ur senses.
There are so many man in this world that would treat you and love you and respect you for who u are.
Take care.
March 2nd, 2009 at 8:57 pm
something that women should know about the Pisces men.
In my relationships I found out that I’m always more interested in a woman if she is stronger then me and doesn’t give in to my bullshit. Meaning that we talk more then we put what we say into action. If you want to test a Pisces man see how good he keeps his promises and for how long he’s consistent in keeping his word. Then yo will know if he is true or falls. Back in the day I felt that I needed to conquer a woman in all aspects (emotionally, sexually, mentally)-Lack of confidence and maybe it’s the same with many other Pisces.
Also if a woman gives herself up to quickly then I would subconsciously or continuously loose respect and any deep emotions that I had for her. That’s only if I had feelings for her. Pisces also like sluts, but not to be in a relationship with just to have an exciting evening. We totally contradict ourselves.
It’s also true that most Pisces men don’t know what they want and what they are looking for.
what Pisces really wants in my opinion is the option of having a relationship as friends with benefits but still having romantic moments from time to time when ever we like. Kinda confusing for both partners. We feel much more comfortable being in control of all the aspects of relationship. We don’t like commitment if we are looking for sex. but most of the time we are just F___ed up in the head, due to extreme sensitivity emotionally, mentally and physically . Some of us just can’t handle it. But most of our negative outbursts is due to the fact that we don’t know ourselves and fear that we don’t have any control. We are always trying to escape from our reality. Kinda sad. We like to play the roll of a victim, that’s out favorite song.
I don’t even tell women any longer that I’m a Pisces, (except on this blog) due to how women react to me. ” oh no, I know your type” They all had such traumatic experience with other Pisces men that I tend to get the evil eye if I mention that I’m a Pisces. It’s better to play along as a Sagittarius. LOL
March 2nd, 2009 at 11:48 pm
it’s so strange that even though it’s difficult so many gemini girls are attracted to pisces men… as a gemini i frequently find myself drawn to pisces guys… i dont know what it is!
March 3rd, 2009 at 7:02 am
I am also a Pisces male (23 Feb.)and I have to say that most of these things are NOT true w/ me. I do NOT try to run away from myself or what I am, I am PROUD to be a Pisces i wouldnt have it no other way and shame on anyone that tries to deny that. As a Pisces male, we can relate to women and get on a level that others struggle with; I have more female friends than guy friends. I am a athletic freak, rather play it then watch it, I can write songs for DAYS, I am the life of the party, I can get any girl that I desire with my charm, but I choose not to be a player but seek a long term relationship, NEVER cheated one time. Libra’s, Scorpio’s, and Virgo’s LOVE me 9/10 times I’m the one that gets seduced. I can basically read a girl like a book, I LOVE having LONG conversations (longest convo. went from 12am-6am) & my brown eyes & smile can make a girl melt. Im loyal and love to help people more times than i would help myself. fo rsome strange reason when I get Married I pray that it is a Beautiful Scorpio Woman because I have a ex who is a Scorpio female that everytime we get around each other were too “playful” with we other can’t be apart from each other, we are basically friends with benefits. And for some strange reason, I want to marry by water a beach, lake, i dont know why……
March 4th, 2009 at 2:44 pm
Hi,
For the pisces guys - would you go into a relationship with your 7 years older cancer female boss? If you knew she was crazy about you? And if you were in a “standard” relationship with a very criticising girl?
March 4th, 2009 at 5:32 pm
Unlike what you may have read, not all pisces are attracted to cancereans - I’m one of them. Also, I prefer someone within 2-3 years of my age, either older or younger. I suppose all men, including myself can be “attracted” to women of any age - within reason of course, but that doesn’t mean a relationship is worth persuing. I, for one, for example don’t understand why someone older than 40 would get involved with someone in their 20’s. There are a few celebreties and others that seem to do that sort of thing. The level of communication and maturity is just too different for a good love relationship.
March 5th, 2009 at 7:53 am
He’s attracted all right, that’s not the problem - only he might be afraid to get involved with his boss (he’s very cautious about his position in the company), plus I get the feeling he is not convinced this is serious. I don’t know what to tell him without scaring him…
March 5th, 2009 at 12:14 pm
Adina,
You could start by telling him that it would really help his career if he got involved with you… just kidding.
I, as a pisces, don’t like anything but a straight-forward approach. So if you want to start a relationship with him, you should let him know directly, then discuss what complications may or may not occur as a result.
I didn’t mean to discourage you about a pisces and cancer relationship. It seems like most everything that is written, says it can be a good one. I may be one of the few that aren’t attracted to cancer women.
Good luck.
March 5th, 2009 at 9:17 pm
well i have friends that are pisces and are married or in a relationship with a cancer.i’m a pisces and married to a cancer myself…..
March 6th, 2009 at 12:27 am
My boyfriend’s roommate is a Pisces male. I don’t know him too well but we’ve had quite a few conversations. My boyfriend has tried numerous times to hook him up with women. But after the 2nd or 3rd date, it seemes like they aren’t “dating” anymore. Being the alpha male my boyfriend is, he’ll tease his roommate and tell me that his roommate is a wimp or something is wrong with him. There is nothing wrong with him. He doesn’t have a lot of female friends and just a handful of makle friends. The roommate came by my bar last night and pretty cute chick that caught his eye (unfortunately, she was there with another guy). Well he was confident in getting ready to talk to her. Anyway, this roommate seems like a really nice guy. The kind of Pisces who is off in his own little world. He’s a gentle soul and loves the more simpler things in life. And he is content in living his life the way it is, girlfriend-less. But my boyfriend and I know he wants one. In fact I think a good woman, who isn’t too self-indulgent, would be good for him. Any advice on who or what kinda girland maybe even how to hook him up with a girl for a potential long-term relationship?
March 6th, 2009 at 4:00 am
I’m a 24 year old male Pisces, and have read about half of this topic so far, and would say that I agree with what Aly has to say about most things. From my experiences, generalization and assumations are most notedly the root of the problems people around me have. Reading only half so far and thats all I’ve got, I’ll add more as I continue on.
Chris, wood Ox
March 6th, 2009 at 12:36 pm
Vicky,
Find him a gemini female, as that would seem like a really good fit for a pisces who, as you describe your boyfriend’s roomate, isn’t really looking, and also appears to be content where he’s at - by himself. Odd thing is that he may not even realize the fit until he gets to know the gemini female.
Unfortunately, it can be kinda tough going around asking a bunch of girls their sign and then telling them that you have a pisces that you’d like to link them up with.
I’m a pisces with a gemini. This is a partnering I never imagined would work well, but has turned out to be the best one of my life.
March 10th, 2009 at 7:38 pm
Hi Everyone,
I am a Pisces woman who dated a Pisces man. I know the saying…”don’t date your sign,” but there was something about him that was different. It was easy for me to talk to him and he always seemed to understand my problems. We dated on and off for almost two years until I had enough. He wasn’t really open with me about his feelings. He is sensitive and romantic which I love about him. He never missed a birthday or anniversary. I do miss him terribly, but I will always wonder if he will ever open up to me.
March 10th, 2009 at 9:21 pm
well it should all depend on what you have on your birth charts….not all pisces get along great with geminis ….your pisces friend might not get along great with a gemini…you never know maybe an aries could fit him or a leo whatever.check what’s on his birthchart…
March 13th, 2009 at 10:13 am
This has certainly been an interestin thread, however I am surprised to see that many of you have overlooked the separation between “Character” and “Personality/Behavior”. A soul’s character or free will can certainly be influenced by our birthsign, however our personality and how we conduct ourselves in life, love, and day to day activity. Also, being the product of our parents, their signs are imprinted on us through upbringing, a moral and ethical base, and our culture. Obviously a Pisces male brought up in a violent place such as central Africa will not have the same sense of living Life as one growing up in a small town in Europe. There is one thing to say about the Pisces and that is, because we are water signs, water takes the shape of its container. We are also conductors of energy, electricity, and heat from an elemental point of view. We are druids, shapeshifters, and we resonate with the field the universe has us operating in at the moment. This makes for a fairly confusing and overwhelming realm to live in. Sometimes, as a young boy, I felt things that no child should have been feeling. For example, when I was 5 years old, I looked at my brother and asked him what the meaning of the universe is? He almost spit his coffee half way across the room. I think we all need to keep in mind that we are creatures of nature, under the influence of light. Light is made up of a spectrum of colors, but any way you pass light through a medium and whatever color or perception of it you see before you, in the end, it is still Light. I believe this to be true for all the signs. Pisces I feel are able to move within the spectrum of light and if each color represents a personality or character trait in reference to astrology, well the possibilities and combinations are quite extensive. I myself am an airline pilot, a professional drummer, a writer working on three novels, and have had poetry published. In any sense of the word, I am all over the map. But my upbringing included two brothers and sisters in addition to my parents. I have been imprinted with all their qualities and influenced by each of them. For those of you seeking love, look at the big picture and take your consideration of the opportunity of falling in love more spherically and completely, rather than linearly and matter-of-fact. I wish you all well in finding the love of your life. We are all beautiful in some way or another, but somehow we have forgotten. I think we are here to remember who we are and in the end, we seek resonance, rapture, Love, and balance. As Joseph Campbell says, Find Your Bliss.
March 13th, 2009 at 10:39 am
Hi there PiscesRapture,
Thank you so much for your beautifully put comment. And I agree with you as well.
Thank you for sharing.
Love & Light
Becky
March 13th, 2009 at 11:41 am
PiscesRapture,
I found your thoughts interesting. You appear to be very spiritual. I too am considered, by those who know me, to be quite spiritual. However, my spirituality is likely different than yours in many ways. I agree with you, that one’s environment can have a profound effect on them. One very good example is the lives and influences of some pisces that most people are familar with. There is the well known Einstein on one hand, and on the other is Osama Bin Laden. Both were/are quite spiritual in their own way but it’s obvious that the expression of that spirituality took different paths. There is also the pisces that many are familar with - Edgar Cayce - perhaps the most famous spritualist since Nostradamus. The teachings of Edgar Cayce had a rather profound positive effect on my life, back when I was desperately trying to find my way, and learning to deal with my own spirituality.
I, for example, had a very rough childhood which carried into my early teen years. As a result I have likely taken different paths though life than someone who was born and raised in an environment free of challenge.
I see that you, like many pisces, have many hobbies and interest. I too have a list of such things that is quite unbelievable to people who manage a much simpler way of life.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
March 13th, 2009 at 4:50 pm
Thanks to John and Becky for your kind feedback. I must admit it is quite interesting to see how the attributes of all the signs can certainly be accurate, sometimes even on a day to day basis. According to the modern Pisces model, we are comprised of all the other 11 signs which means we are quite complex or sociopaths!!! LOL Anyways, thanks John for sharing your thoughts and to Becky, this is a great site…keep up the good work.
Consequently, I am dating a Virgo girl and she certainly has the many negative qualities of a Fire Dragon in the chinese zodiac. But when a person is made aware of their negative faults especially, do they blindly continue to behave and treat their friends and significant other within that framework? That would mean, based on cosmic influences, we are fixed in that construct and have no control over our lives! I like to think that I am responsible for my own destiny, and I have always held myself accountable for how I treat people because Karma has the unswerving ability to send what you give. Garbage In=Garbage Out and I have seen with all my friends time and time again.
I am also a firm believer in procrastination. I think in this day and age, where the individual and his/her external success in a material world are measured by money and status are considered the end-all be-all, it stifles the potentiality of what that person can be as an individual. When you only put energy in few directions, the others remain stagnant. That is why many people are emotionally constipated, lack manners and class, or are simply disrespectful and operate in a mindset that nothing has value. I feel these people have been either held back by their environment, family upbringing or lack thereof, or are very lazy and don’t take on a self-scholorship to figure out who they are and what they want. Most people fail to do the most important job in the world before being in love with another - to work on themselves. This to me is why 90% of the people who get divorced have failed miserably in their relationships. They come in with a lot of expectations, the “list” of things their partner must have or make them feel, etc. My advice to those of you playing the “Which person is perfect for me?” game…rethink your list and ask yourself whether many of your demands should have been provided by yourself. When you come in solid as an individual and so does your partner, you stand a far better chance at having a love to last a lifetime because you don’t put your needs, baggage, issues, and shortcomings on your partner right from the get-go. And for those who frustrate the hell out of you, an exercise in compassion is sometimes necessary because they just don’t get it. They don’t get themselves, they certainly don’t get the depths of us Pisces, and they don’t understand what it means to abandon the ego for the sake of sacrificing oneself to the person they love. We live in a society of many who want it now, want it all, and don’t want to earn it, and this transcends into relationships as well. Like George Michael says in one of his songs: You get what you give. Sorry for such a long message but Love is a profound topic for me as well as the human condition. Look forward to all of your reflections on this.
March 13th, 2009 at 8:22 pm
PiscesRapture,
Brilliant! Simply brilliant. I wish my fish had your depth and insight — he does have intelligence and musical genius however.
March 13th, 2009 at 9:37 pm
im a female cancer talkn to a pisces and its true verything theive wrote about these piscis men!!! the picsis i was talkn to is stubborn and only cares about what he wants and what he feels,i started talkn to him the beggining of my freshmen year….then he got into some trouble and went to jail and i stoped seeing him! but b4 he went to jail we stoped talkn bcuz he got mad at me bcuz we didnt kik it……when he new i had stuff to do! he would try and manipulate me! so i let go and shut him out..i had a feeling for him!but im the type that i dont lyk to be told what to do!he would try to scream at me lyk if we really went out…and no uhuh! now the second semester of ma sophmore year he came back!i seen him around and i really didnt wanna talk to him but unfortunetly i have him for two of ma periods!!! when he seeen me he talked to me and let go what had haad happened last year…..i started talkn to him again dis year and he was coow..we were finally gonna hook up and den he dissapeard for 1 week! i didnt noe anything of him! then when he comes back i ask him were was he at! and he gets an attitude with me tellin me dat dont worry about it! i was mad!!!!!!!!!!!!so then he started actin all weard and rude to me! and i dont lyk that at all…..so i was lyk f*** u then! lol! he got mad and didnt talk to me…..then days after i confronted him and talked shit to him he gets more mad1 AND STARTS SCREAMING AT me so idk how but we solved dat lil issue we had! then i got mad at him bcuz he was flirtting with this grl infront of me!i got mad but didnt show him i was mad….i just didnt talk to him when it came to being in class together….now hes mad and doesnt talk to me aat all…..and im frustrated cuz i really do lyk him!and i wanna be with him but he tripps off…and i defenetly aint going to beg him…..i think he gets influenced by his friends..lyk infront of his friends and other people he tries to act hard on me! but when its just me and him hes soft kind polite omg hes just a whole diffrent person….and hes told me he wants a relationship with me! but then im not shure…..idk what to do! cuz when im with him he just weakens me out! lyk when he was gone i would talk and date other guys! and now that hes back ive turned down sooo many guys just for him bcuz i think that were gonna get to something and we dont!so somebody please give me advice of what should i do….should i just shut him off??? sometymes i think thaT BCUZ WE ARE FROM A DIFFRENT RACE HE WOULDNT TAKE IT SERIOUS! BUT HES TOLD ME THAT HE DOESNT SEE RACE…AND ME EATHEIR HES BLACK AND IM MEXICAN….SO DO U GUYS THINK ITS THAT…CUZ I DONT BUT PROBLY CUZ I SEE HIM WITH OTHER EYES I DONT SEE THAT!
March 13th, 2009 at 9:38 pm
BY THE WAY HE IS YOUNGER BY ONE YEAR1 IM 17 AND HES 16…
March 13th, 2009 at 11:16 pm
Well PiscesRapture, you’ve certainly lived up to what Becky mentioned somewhere in this topic about pisces writing long messages. I suppose I do too. I get a sense that you are still going through a greater discovery of yourself.
Remember when you look around at so many people stumbling through life, that what may seem to be an obvious life lesson to one, may not be so obvious to another. I feel very blessed to have such diversity in the kind of people I encounter in life - both those are stumbling and ruthless, as well as those that seem very connected with themselves and life in general. There is a lesson to be learned by each, and I suppose that there are lessons to be learned by them from me.
Good luck with your new relationship with the virgo. As I think I’ve mentioned, I have some wonderful friends both male and female that are virgo. I hope that she understands that she will likely never completely understand you, and that that’s okay. I hope that you’ll understand that many signs aren’t as fluid as the pisces and thus may not be able to make changes in themselves even if they know that those changes may be beneficial to themselves and their relationships.
Virgo females are very attracted to this pisces. I was in a love relationship with one. It started out really well - full of love and passion. When the dust finally settled, we both pretty much realized that it certainly wasn’t a match made in heaven, or even one that either of us could grow by if we had pursued it. I don’t think that a long term love relationship can or should be worked on to the bitter end for two people that discover that they are incompatible in too many ways. There is often an initial profoundly exhilarating startup to many love relationships that really aren’t meant to be, and there is no fault in that. The fault, in my opinion is persuing such a relationship. Don’t get me wrong, all relationships require some work. Men and women, and even people in general are different. It still takes a great deal of love, understanding, and respect to make a relationship between two people that are very compatible, for that relationship to endure, long lasting and as rewarding as it can and should be.
March 14th, 2009 at 6:59 am
aaaaahhh, pisces rapture…yes, you have provided some peace and space around the bashing of the Pisces male here. Thank you for your insights. I keep thinking that I have given up on this site but really I am still so curious about my past feelings/obsessions for a particular Pisces male and what I need to get out of it to grow. You are so right though about loving yourself first. I think I am slowly getting it…having the obsessive Scorpio trait, I find it so hard to let go, especially when it comes to ‘almost’ love….that is the worst, love that goes nowhere or isn’t easily understood. Sometimes I think, ‘why can’t someone love me just the way I am?’ but realistically why can’t I love myself just the way I am? Because sometimes loving yourself feels like a constant activity….like taking care of a difficult child! Anyway, that is the journey…..
March 16th, 2009 at 3:42 am
John, thanks for your feedback again. Once again, I agree that some people need to follow their path until a sense of self realization or growth is achieved. The only advice I would offer, regardless of their zodiac sign, is to decide that while their partners are on their way to self discovery, that they don’t allow them to enter your circle of personal and emotional comfort in a denegrading and parasitic way. It’s okay to allow people the latitude to follow their journey and figure out what they are made of, but not at the cost of undermining and marginalizing who you are. I have found that many people remain where they are, even in the face of abuse, no love, or just plain selling out to material gain or a standard of living, instead of being honest with themselves and admitting they are with someone who is completely wrong for them. When the norms of society, pier pressure, the media, etc have penetrated the psyche of a population of males or females, the danger is in that group of people not questioning the source of all this nonsense they sell you. When you don’t think for yourself, there is a danger of projecting all the stereotypes, models, or ideas (that are not your own) onto your expectations or your partner. This is a mistake that I have seen far too often in all walks of life. Then when it backfires in their faces, they wonder what went wrong. Again, we are back to the concept of working on yourself, truly finding what makes you tick, what attracts you, what turns you off, etc and then proactively making your potential partners aware of this so that there are no pretenses, surprises, or false signals. To Sarah Marie, I say to you sweety, attachment is a terrible thing. Becoming off-centered in yourself and what you hold true is a journey not well endured, especially for a soul that feels as deeply as Pisces or Scorpio. Part of letting go is acknowledging the mystery of the universe and that the energies and impulses that seem to move things via free will and consciousness, have a sense beyond our own human limitations. When you let go, you are allowing the path of that person to unfold without any sense of obstruction, especially on your part. If you release your attachments, you lose the fear of losing that which you hold dearest. This is a liberating experience and sometimes healthy. Almost Love as you say is not Love. I think Love has become very perversed in society, commercialized, and made almost cliche. We have a generation that has no sense of romance, is fairly passive to the whole boy meets girl process, and fairly sexualized which is only one aspect of loving a person. Love, is a word. But it’s all encompassing energy and power transcends human thought to the point that it is a language dying a slow death and entering the endangered species list. I’m no expert. I am not saying I know what Love is, but I certainly know what it is not. As for loving yourself Sarah, it’s not an activity, it’s a choice. Acceptance of who you are, both good and bad, is he beginning to bettering yourself. You are unique, powerful, and have something to offer in your own way. Also, when you look at the core of you, the little girl who is innocent living within the modern day version of you, you reconnect with a purity that existed as a young child before it became structured, corrupted, and infiltrated by the man-made systems in society. Find that little girl in you, give her a break, give her a hug, and tell her everything will be fine. And as any child, if you love them, you know you would never betray or hurt them, so why would you do that to yourself? Usually, if you take a good look and see or feel something inside you that you don’t like, did you ever ask yourself if you gave that part of your the love it needed or deserved? Again, you get what you give. If you give your body stress, bad food, no exercise, have vices like drugs, alcohol, etc, your body will reflect what it is being given right? Find that part of you that you are having difficulty loving and do all you can to send that love you have inside you to the place you need it most. I hope that helps.
March 16th, 2009 at 7:22 pm
pisces rapture…..so kind and sweet, thank you. Yes, I think I have always had a very deep connection with the word ‘Love’. However, it is so unlike what I see and hear from people’s relationships with others and themselves that sometimes I forget that I have my own true meaning and feeling….something very pure, innocent, safe and nuturing. Sometimes I don’t even understand my own depths but they are there….not to get too into astrology but both of my parents are Taurus, basically the opposite extreme. They think they are deep because they have lived a life of chaos but it was so difficult never being understood by them or loved in the way that was the most nurturing for my soul. So, I am searching…..thank you, I can’t say thank you enough, you are so beautiful and kind, thank you….much love to you..
March 17th, 2009 at 7:49 pm
I am married to a Pisces and I have to say he is the best husband ever. He helps me out around the house all the time without my even asking and even makes dinner sometimes for me. He is very loving and caring and loyal. I’ve dated many other signs, and I have to say this one is the best! (For a taurus woman anyhow.) We do just about everything together and I couldn’t ask for a better partner!
March 19th, 2009 at 3:16 pm
I am a cap girl and I have a crush on a pisces dude. He’S 6 yes older than me… I hve him for a class and he’s so cute because he seems to be so serious and he’s always taking notes in class he also seems to be very reserved and I have only heard him talk like once or twice. I really want to talk to him I just don’t know how to approach him. I know he knows I exist because we’ve made eye contact before I just turn away because I get scared so can any one give me some advice on how to approach this fish
March 19th, 2009 at 6:32 pm
010319xx - ask him to help you with a class related problem you are having and then see where it goes from there.
March 20th, 2009 at 1:26 pm
John,
Ok I’ll try that but do you think he would say something eventhough he’s quiet?
March 20th, 2009 at 3:53 pm
010319xx,
If he’s interested in you - absolutely!
March 21st, 2009 at 6:12 pm
Interesting read! Amazing how spot on these signs can give us spot on insight sometimes. I’m a Saggitarious female (born on the cusp with Capricorn) and my high school sweetheart was a Pisces and yes exhibited everything you say here… I ended up marrying a Libra but recently noticed that every rock star I’m absolutely enthralled with has an early March birthday and I’m wondering if this is due to the fact that if they’re typically more sensitive intuitive people, this seems like a more natural and acceptable career path for alot of Pisces guys… rock God…. anyways thanks for sharing!
March 22nd, 2009 at 11:30 am
I have been connected with a pisces male for many years, he is 8 years my senior. We had a very up and down connection and no matter what we always connected back to one another. He is very closed and private and shocked me when he expressed somethings to me last year about his marriage! I went away to college for a couple of years and he married a woman that he now with, and she is also a pisces, he didnt tell me he had gotten married when I returned I found out myself! He is also a former marine and currently a cop! So you know what they says! In any event he told me everything seem perfect at first with her and then, things blew up…he stopped at that, didnt get any deeper…So stayed connected until a few months later and he vanished without a trace, Although we know the same people that I have consistent contact with- I havent pushed anything would like to respect his marriage, so they do cheat, and I cannot say if he is happy or not, I know there is a child involved as well. My connection with this pisces male is like no other, I always thought I would marry him, it was a genuine and full feeling, we have great romance, and a very good overall connection, I understand him and he understands me, so I would definately say that a Taurus & Pisces are a great match!
March 25th, 2009 at 2:24 am
Hello, everyone.
I read this entire blog and noticed what I thought might be a common misconception about Pisces men. Being one myself, I hope to be able to shed a little light on it. Warning, wall of text following.
Women hear that Pisces is an extremely sensitive sign and think that means Fishes wear their hearts on their sleeves. They don’t, especially males. As boys, we grow up following the traditional male pattern; playing with guns, watching violent movies, and being taught that real men never cry. Obviously this isn’t true, and as they grow older most Pisces will realize this, but still, old habits die hard. Therefore, many Pisces men learn to bury their emotions, deeper than even they realize. So even though we feel emotions very intensely, they rarely show on the surface, and if an emotion IS showing, it’s probably a “false” used to disguise how we’re actually feeling.
Now I’m only speaking for myself now, as a Pisces Sun/Scorpio Rising, that my emotions are closely guarded, sacred ground that only I can enter freely. So to the women asking what it means when their Pisces boyfriend/husband suddenly becomes distant, more often than not they simply want to be alone with their emotions to figure out what they’re feeling (and you thought it was tough for YOU to guess what the Fish is feeling, it’s usually just as hard for them). So once the Fish is there, don’t bother trying to follow because it’s forbidden, and trying to pry your way in is a surefire way to scare your Pisces off, or cause them to lash out with violent, hurtful words.
That’s not to say that you should let your particular Fish go off without a word, because sometimes they do in fact want you to pry a little to show you really care for their well-being. I know it’s confusing, but I’d like to think that when we’re not being insane, Pisces men are worth it. Again speaking simply from my own experiences, people close to me have adopted a sort of “3 strike system” to know when to back off. An example conversation would go something like this:
Her: Is something wrong?
Me: No, nothing. (Strike 1)
Her: Sure? You seem a little off.
Me: Don’t worry about it. (Strike 2)
Her: Positive?
Me: I said don’t worry about it. (Strike 3)
Her: OK, sorry I was just worried about you.
*Note I don’t actually say Strike # those are simply for the reader’s benefit to better understand what’s happening*
And usually on strike 3 I get visibly irritated and I unconsciously raise my voice a little. Getting asked 3 times is USUALLY a good indicator for whoever I’m talking to, be it girlfriend or just regular friend, that it is not one of the “ask me again because I actually want to tell you” and is instead one of the “seriously stop asking before it really gets annoying.”
Clearly not a hard and fast rule for every Pisces and every situation (such as the more personal the problem, the less strikes I’m willing to put up with) but it does help cut down on misunderstandings and keeps the hurtful exchanges to a bare minimum. If your Pisces needs to be alone it’s best to let them be for 2-3 days, a week at most and he’ll return to being himself. If he doesn’t, I hate to say it, but your Fish might not really be that into you. Sorry.
Anyways, I know I wrote a lot (keeping the tradition of Pisces writing long posts) but I thought I might be a help some women here by giving a small window into our crazy way of doing things. I hope I helped at least someone.
Thanks for your time,
Impossible
March 29th, 2009 at 6:27 pm
Okay so this sight is probably one of the truer sights I’ve found on Pisces and compatibility because of number of great comments so thank you very much for everyone’s input.
I am a Scorpio with Sagi and Scorp as my ascending and moon signs (I don’t know the order though :)) and I am about to marry a lovely, wonderful pisces man. I am scared out of my mind! Why? I am realizing, three months before the wedding, that his dreamlike state overshadows everything he does in our relationship. Recently now the negative fantasy victimization is much more prevalent and me, bein a scorpio, feel and take on every aspect of it. I am also someone who always wants to talk stuff out with the possibility of always finding win/win solutions to every issue, argument, disagreement. I am possitive and I have a huge love and passion for life. None of the above, however, is a big part of my piscies fiance’s vocabulary. It’s tough trying to pull him out of his nutty head all the time which is usually a very dark, destructive place. I really don’t want our kids to be exposed to these extreme negative traits either. My dad was a pisces and, lovely soul, extremely toxic and abusive human being. I love and care for him deeply. I want us to have a healthy communicative life together and it’s getting more and more difficult to have faith in this now. I also have noticed he tends to act selfish, defensive, egotistical with a “deal with it!” attitude towards: me moving to his city to be with him, giving up everything I currently am familiar with, helping with planning the wedding, finding solutions to his financial crisis in his business (my suggestion was to find a part time job and he refuses), and only thinking of his feelings, conveniently when I decide to bring up my feelings. I’m getting so tired of being the one putting effort into the relationships whether it be in our commuication, our actions, emotionally, financially.. everything. I want to make the best choice for myself and I know I have never met anyone with the tenderness of his soul. What I am not sure of is whether or not it will be enough. What do I do friends?
March 29th, 2009 at 8:42 pm
Update: We both know we are strapped for cash as he’s not making the dough in his business so months ago we agree that we are selling his car because we get more money off it and use my “aged and still beautiful” car. A month ago he tells me he wants to keep his car. Okay .. so I say, look at the budget and we’ll figure it out. Does he? No. Today he says he’s selling it and getting another one .. while making some off the one he’s selling he’s still putting a good chunk of money on this new one. Although this situation isn’t huge, he doesn’t discuss it with me and it happens all the time and we’re getting married and would like to start a life together. What does he really want? I’m frustrated and need to get this sh*t off my chest .. it’s getting too heavy.
March 31st, 2009 at 7:03 am
Hey there!
Are there no Virgo/Pisces relationships out there? I’m a female Virgo and just spent the last 3 years with a Male Pisces. I was well aware when we began dating that Virgos and Pisces were opposites according to the astrological scale and that we were often, “not a match made in heaven” but opposites attract right? The start of our relationship was absolutly phenomenal. I was attracted to all of his “feminine” qualities. He was sweet, caring, sensitive, fun, quirky, dreamy, somewhat shy, but deep. He was laid back, and yeah often spent too much time in his own dreamworld…but its something I admired. I am one hundred percent the definition of a virgo in every sense. I am well organized, clean, determined, loyal, a bit too honest for my own good, caring, dependable, responsible and I think through every single thing a dozen and one times before I make a final decision. As different as we were…we were also so alike. We had MANY of the same interests, whether it be in movies, books, music, activities…friends. We just seemed to share a lot of the same goals and interests. Only the best part was…we balanced one another nicely. I was able to awaken his driven dependable side, and he was able to sooth and calm my over excessive perfectionist side. In my eyes, we were very much “a match made in heaven.”
He had a way of touching my face, kissing my forehead and just gazing into my eyes that made me melt. No matter what the circumstance I always felt at ease in his arms. We just sort of, “fit.” As far as I was concerned, I had met my prince charming. I could sense the amount of admiration and adoration when he looked at me, and in the way he spoke to me. I always knew Pisces was one to, lets say “merge to fit in with their surroundings.” Well…that my friends, was the death of us.
Much like many other Pisces, my Pisces joined the military. Although…very fishlike…he was drawn to the Navy. I always understood why he chose the Navy instead of college…he needed structure, something that wouldnt allow him to slack off or fail. I was very proud of him for making such a responsible decision and all on his own. We had dreams, and he wanted to make sure that he played a part in helping us achieve those dreams. Being a Virgo, I was more then positive I could handle such a lifestyle. I’m very independent and very loyal…and also raised within a military family, so distance was no stranger to me. After his first full year in the Navy, we got married and moved in together. Big mistake.
I decided to go against my gut and pulled a very “fishlike” move. I put all of my dreams on hold, and gave up my job (that I loved) and moved far away from my family and friends (my support system) just so I could be with my Pisces. That of course, was my first mistake. Being a Virgo, I became bored very quickly. I needed order and structure, and although maintaing my own home allowed me to play out those needs daily, I needed interaction. Finding a job was NOT an easy task…and I became bored and depressed, and along with that came the nit picky nature I seem to have. I became obsessive with keeping my home in perfect order. Its all I had. And my Pisces, is what I would call a slob. He wasnt greatful for anything I did, and all he wanted to do was “go out with the guys.”
By the way…”the guys.” They became our biggest issue. Much like Vanessa’s Pisces. Mine had befriended a group of “menly men.” Or as I would like to call them, self centered shovenistic pricks that I couldnt stand. Obviously dominant personalities are going to clash and his new “bestfriends” and I did not see eye to eye on ANYTHING. Unfortunatly my poor people pleasing Pisces didn’t stand a chance. Being forced to spend 60 or more hours a week with these men in Aschool, caused him to begin to envy and emulate them. Within two months he began obsessing over going to the gym and “bulking” up. He also started talking about wanting to buy a truck or motorcycle (things he had NEVER had an interest in, in the past) and fell in love with ONLY hanging out with the “boys” or staying out to all hours of the night “playing pool.” He wouldn’t return my phone calls, stopped caring about holidays, family events, anniversarys, birthdays…ANYTHING. He lost touch with all who he knew and began talking down upon those who chose a different path then he. Basically, I couldn’t stand what he had become. If left home with me for three days, I would see his old laid back fun loving self begin to emerge, but the second one of his sailor friends gave him a call, there was a change in his eyes. He would intentionally pick fights with me just so he could leave and not come home. He became cold, emotionless and somewhat robotic. It disgusted me. Towards the end of our marriage, he’d sleep every minute he was home, began lieing about EVERY tiny little thing, even foolish things and had found a way to talk down to me and make me feel as if I was nothing to him. I felt ugly, useless and unappreciated.
Some how my beautiful absolutly wonderful Pisces transformed into a monster that I couldnt even begin to relate too. The worst part being, he didn’t even notice the change. He and I are not yet divorced, but about a month ago I packed my car one weekend he chose not to come home or call, and made the drive home. I’ve been here ever since and still have yet to hear from him. I’ve sent him sweet caring emails voicing my concern for him and reminding him that I’ll always be here as his friend. I’ve also questioned about our situation and what he’d like to do, but no response. The truth of the matter is, I’m extremly hurt and upset with the person he’s become and the treatment I have recieved…but I can’t help but love my Pisces. I wish more then anything that things could have ended differently, but hes trying my temper. He’s also toying with my head. He refuses to respond to my emails or phonecalls and the last time I saw him claimed he “didnt know what he wanted or if he even wanted to be with me” but yet he continued to pay my phone bill, hasn’t asked for a divorce yet and has begun getting back in touch with our old friends. Is this still a control issue for him? Is he just trying to keep tabs on me? Or perhaps is he attempting to straighten out his ways? I’m so confused and so lost. I wish I could just sever the connections between he and I and move on, but its a lot harder then I thought. Normally I have little to no problem just cutting a negative relationship out of my life, no matter what our history. Its always been my way of dealing with things. I keep the good and demolish the bad…yet this time am finding it very difficult.
So tell me…do my Pisces and I have no chance of rekindling our love as long as he is in the military? Or is this something he and I may be able to work through? I desperatly need some advice. Are Virgo and Pisces truly just “not meant to be?”
March 31st, 2009 at 11:26 am
It seems to me as though your “stressed” situation probably greatly amplified the virgo characteristics that make a virgo/pisces relationship difficult. If you can learn to work on how you act under stress, and your pisces can understand that such characteristics are those of a virgo, perhaps it could still work - in my opinion. Being a pisces myself who hasn’t had much luck in romantic relationships with virgo, I may not have the kind of response you were hoping for.
I do wish you the very best outcome - it seems as if this was a relationship you were really hoping would work out.
March 31st, 2009 at 6:47 pm
Hey John,
Thanks for the response. It may not have been what I was looking for, but I did ask for advice and am willing to accept any I recieve. You know, I found it very interesting that you referred to my situation as a “stressed” one…because although I was very depressed and bored, I never really considered myself as stressed. The only thing that ever really caused me stress was my relationship with my Pisces. I was unfamiliar to his new ways and not a fan of them. In fact I almost felt as if my Pisces and I had switched signs for awhile there. He became the “stressed” one that had a quick tongue and often said hurtful things and then would later take them back. And when you mix characteristics like that with his “forgetful” nature, he and I became quick enemies, because as all know Virgo’s too have a reputation of saying exactly what they want and mean no matter how hurtful it may be. Basically, he and I were destroying one another. Well, when we actually fought anyway. I’m one not to raise my voice or swear during a disagreement, and I almost ALWAYS try to carry it all the way out to the end. Sure, I can have a fight with someone, but at the same time I want to just completely get everything out on the table so things can be resolved and discussed. I don’t believe in secrets or lies, they only cause pain. My Pisces however, did not feel that way. He was once one to talk and discuss, but once in the military he’d just become cold and distant. He wasn’t willing to work through arguements. He only wanted to walk out on them and then pretend they were over and done with. Unfortunatly thats not something I can do so easily. Sure, I would pick and choose my battles, there was no use in fighting all of the time. I just didnt have the energy for it. I don’t know.
I’m sorry…this has gone completly off topic. Basically, my Pisces and I have a lot of issues to work out, and although I try to understand his ways and the reasoning behind it, he isnt open to anything. He wasn’t willing to talk to me or anyone else about our problems. Therapy wasn’t an option either. It didn’t exactly fit into his new “macho” ways, because “real men” don’t go to therapy. I don’t know.
Thanks for the kind words though. Perhaps someday my pisces and I can work things out and if not, then at least it was good while it lasted. You’ve gotta take the good with the bad and sometimes things don’t work out the way we would like, but at least I can say I tried.
April 1st, 2009 at 11:21 am
Alexz, don’t worry about going off topic since it’s all related in one way or another.
People have conflicting definitions of the word “stressed”. I consider one to be stressed when they are feeling any way that is outside of the norm. That could be a result of being pressured to do more than they are capable of, worried, depressed, fearful of one thing or another, or many other influential factors.
In my opinion, the root of just about any problem in a relationship is fear. Many relationships dissolve due to fear of some sort - be it fear of abandonment, lack of recognition, issues related to money, or whatever. Sometimes it’s just the fear of getting out of a failed relationship since that in itself could make one fear that they have failed, when that type of fear really doesn’t even need to be part of such an equation.
Whatever direction this ends up taking for you, you may find solace in the fact that there is usually a perfect “someone” out there for anyone.
April 1st, 2009 at 11:42 am
Alexz,
Sorry for your situation. I just thought I’d throw in my two cents. I briefly touched on it in my last post, but boys grow up being force-fed the ideas of what it means to be a “real man”: don’t cry, you can walk off anything, there’s no such thing as emotions, etc. This can cause a lot of distress for Pisces because they don’t really believe the person they’re supposed to be. Most guys will outgrow this during their lifetime. However, it seems that because your Pisces spends most of his time around alpha male types, he’s done that thing that Pisces do, and absorbed the personality and mannerisms of those around him.
I hate to say it but I doubt you’ll see the Pisces you know and love while he’s still in the military. That persona is very deeply wired, very easy to get into and very had to get out of. Especially when he’s around someone who knows him by that persona, it’ll spring back out without warning. However, there is hope - your fish is almost certainly still in there, but he’s scared to come out around his Navy buddies.
I don’t know how much comfort this is to you because I don’t know the specifics - how long he plans to stay in the Navy. If it’s not long, you may be able to weather the storm and try to bring out the Pisces you knew after he’s out of the military. However if it’s a longer plan, or you don’t think you can wait it out, or just don’t want to risk the chance he may or may not be the same person you fell in love with anymore. This part is entirely up to you. Good luck.
Sincerely,
Impossible
April 1st, 2009 at 6:33 pm
Hey John,
You know…you make a very good arguement. In fact, I do fear failure and always have. Its just not something I handle well. And, to be honest there was awhile there in my relationship when it began to descend that I constantly debated with myself as to if that was why I couldn’t gather up the energy to just walk away. Not that it means much to you, but I am normally a very outgoing individual who cares very little of what others may think of me. Im not easily embarassed and never really have been, but failure…thats a whole different story. I used to fear what people would think or say about my failed relationship. I didn’t want to have the sterotypical marriage that fails more often then it succeeds. I’ve always believed that most problems can be worked through as long as two people are accepting and can be completly honest with one another. I suppose you can call me foolish for that belief. I just don’t understand why people, humans tend to make simple things so difficult. We often blow things completly out of proportion and its just a lot of wasted time, energy and emotion.
But anyway…I did eventually work through that fear and haven’t had a second thought about it since I’ve been home. My story is out there for all to see, and to be honest, I almost feel relieved. I’ve dealt with the few snide remarks by just turning my cheek the other way and have also realized that many of my friends and family were very accepting of my situation. They’ve all been absolutly phenomenal. Somewhere during all of my pain and hurt I guess I managed to forget the meaning behind real friends and family. They love me no matter what I do, and there are very few things I may do that will cause them to ever think differently of me. I’m very lucky to have such a large support system filled with so many loving people. I really couldn’t ask for anything more. Ready for my, “but”? Haha. BUT…now that I’m home and have overcome that fear its really no longer a factor and at the end of the day I still love and miss my Pisces very much. Now,although foolish at times I am not a fool and know the difference between being in love with memories and comfort rather then the person, and I can honestly say that my Pisces still holds a very large piece of my heart. I often wish it wasn’t so, but then again that would make life to easy and unfortuantly for me thats not the way love or life seem to work.
You know, I find it hard to believe that you have had so many failed relationships because you seem to have a pretty good understanding of relationships and how people tick. Obviously I know very little of you based off of this blog, but if there truly is a, “perfect someone” out there for everyone, then I pray you have luck in finding that special person as well. You’ve been very helpful and I thank you for your kind words and advice.
Now…moving on to “Impossible.” Thanks for wishing me luck…I am sure I will need it. Whether it be in learning to let go or rekindling a broken romance, I’ll take what I can get. As much as I love and long for my Pisces, I do share the same beliefs as you. I forever feel torn, as if my head (my in touch with reality, reasonable side) and my heart (my foolish side) are never going to come to an agreement. Originally my Pisces only planned on staying in the military for 6 years. In and out, that was the plan…but after spending so much time with his new “aplha male” friends he has been leaning towards re-enlisting…which obviously isn’t an option for me considering the Navy is what initially dug this trench between us and he’s only working on his second year. I really don’t believe I would have the strength to endure any more then six years. Especially when he is distrubuting so little effort on his part. No relationship will ever work if one party is emotionally detached from life, considering love is made up completly of emotion.
I know what you are thinking now, I’ve just answered my own question right? What to do? If only it were that simple. I understand that time heals, but I can’t even begin to move forward and move on, when he refuses to return any calls or emails so that we may begin splitting our things and take our first step towards a divorce. And unfortuanly, I’m not sure if I should interpret his stubborn childish ways as a form of hope, or just an annoyance. His actions don’t ever seem to add up with his words. And people say that women are confusing? Haha. At least I know what I would choose if I had the option, he on the other hand seems to have no idea what he wants and all of this waiting is tearing my heart into pieces. For the most part I am taking it one day at a time, but am becoming very impatient. I just can’t bring myself to move forward while still having that tie to him. Its a very unsettling feeling.
Oh, lets backtrack for a few shall we? I’m sure you read what John and I had discussed and I wanted to point out one of my Pisces fears. Money…or lack of it. He’s miserable in the Navy, truly. But he feels the need to re-enlist and remain a member of it because he views it as security. He didn’t grow up poor or anywhere near it, but for some reason is terrified of not having money. Its sad really, because he is very bright and has the dedication and intelligence to accomplish anything but lacks faith in himself. Its not as if he has a miniscule easy job in the Navy…he is a nuclear engineer. And he’s been the honorman and very top of his class ever since he joined the Navy. I just don’t understand where his fear comes from? To be honest, the Navy is paying him less to perform his job then the real world would, but he just doesn’t see it that way. He likes the idea of not having to job search when he finally gets out of the Navy, because he fears he won’t find anything. I just don’t understand his thought process. I would rather live an average life, together at his side, rather then live an above average one behind him. He and I both come from middleclass families and we have turned out fine, so I really wish he could see that. Did you know, he never even considered re-enlisting until he heard that he’d recieve a forty thousand dollar bonus for it? Big surprise right?
I don’t know. This post has become far to long, so I’m just going to wrap it up. John, you’re right…”the root of just about any problem in a relationship is fear.” In fact, I believe I just further proved your point. And Impossible, thanks for the words of reason and wishing my luck. I’m sure I will need it.
April 2nd, 2009 at 4:15 am
I’m curious…how do pisces males act when they like or have a crush on someone. do they act shy or are they straight forward….do they tend to smile or do they like for girls to make the first move????
April 2nd, 2009 at 9:50 am
Alexz,
Unbeknownst to many virgos, is that the grass-roots sort of honesty that you just displayed can be a very strong glue between a virgo and a pisces. In fact it is frequently one of the strongest glues between virgo and anyone. However, I’ll explain it’s effect on pisces. Pisces are like psyche magnets. They soak up the emotions and other psyche influences of everyone around them. The very unfortunate thing is that they (or should I say “we” since I too am a pisces) don’t always know how to interpret it. That’s why the talking and honesty from the person they are interacting with can be such a relief. That’s where the “honesty” comes in. If you lie to a pisces, it really fuels the fire. Because even though the pisces may not know that you are lying, or what you are lying about, they will definitely know something is amiss, and that will cause even further withdraw as they make an attempt to figure it out. It may be a little late to put all this information to good use at this point in time, but it may be worth a try. Keep in mind, that even if you do, it may seem a little one-sided at first, since even though you know what you’re feeling, it will take him a while longer still to sort through what you express to him and then to actually figure out how he’s feeling. Perhaps a reason pisces and virgos in the end don’t always work out.
A piece of information that may be very useful to you, is that pisces are very attracted to independence in a woman. Allowing this thing to settle from a distance, and I do mean “settle” without you attempting to find a quick resolve, may actually be the thing that can heal it.
You know what, you may find a lot of calm in your life if you make it a habit to practice the “My story is out there for all to see” thing whenever the opportunity arises. You don’t necessarily have to say it out loud, but just knowing that you’ve cleared yourself can be a very good thing for not only yourself, but others as well.
Good luck.
April 2nd, 2009 at 9:56 am
FoxyFoxy,
It may be best for you to make the first move. How you make that move can also be very effective. The best thing to do, is to approach the pisces just like you’d approach a stranger on the street. I’m not sure exactly how to explain that, but hopefully you can take it from there. You can let him know that you’re interested, but doing so in a very “as a matter of fact” sort of way, will probably work the best.
April 2nd, 2009 at 2:48 pm
John,
What could be the best way to show interest to a pisces male while making the move at the same time?
April 2nd, 2009 at 9:59 pm
FoxyFoxy,
Since pisces like water, throw a bucket of water on him and then let him know that you’re really interested in him and would like to know if he’s interested in you too… just kidding.
Most pisces appreciate creativity. Go up to him and tell him that he looks like someone you used to know and ask if he happens to know someone else you know named Bob, or whatever. He’ll likely know you’re fibbing (especially since it’s about the oldest line in the book), but will probably appreciate your attempt to get acquainted. You can then let him know that you really wanted to talk to him, but didn’t know how to start. I doubt that he’d appreciate you coming on to him really strong at first.
April 3rd, 2009 at 5:28 am
John,
First off, thanks for your advice once again…but I must admit you threw me for a loop a bit when you began speaking of honesty. Forgive me if I misunderstood, but it almost sounded as if you were at first hailing me for my honesty but then it sounded as if you were explaining to me why one should never lie to a Pisces, as if I have? Haha. If that be the case then I thought I’d let you know that although many people and signs arent accustomed to handeling a virgo’s form of honesty, I can assure you I don’t waste my time with lies. Even small white lies. I truly am as loyal as they come. Respect and honesty go a long way with me and I can whole heartedly say that my Pisces trusted me one hundred and one percent. He knew I would never lie to him and that I never did. Its just not in me to do so. I feel too strongly on the matter. He however, has been caught in a web of lies on many many occassions. Being a Pisces yourself, perhaps you can answer me this…do many pisces continue to lie even after being caught or is that just a characteristic my Pisces holds? Granted, I don’t allow myself to lie so I’ve never been caught in one, if I ever were too once caught I would throw in the towel and take responsibility for my actions. My pisces however…just builds lies on top of lies. He takes it so far that it hardly even makes sense in the end and he often begins to forget his own lie. Talk about aggravating. I don’t know.
Moving on…attracted to independent women huh? Lol. Well that would certainly explain my Pisces attraction to me. I’m probably as independent as they come. I’m pretty much a free spirit, a leader. In fact, the only time I ever followed anyone else was the day I made the choice to move in with my Pisces. With that being said, my Pisces was well aware of my nature. He knew that I’d never do something just because everyone else was. He knows that I am one hundred percent true to myself. I like to stand out and on my own, being just another face in the crowd is not an option for me. I’m a dreamer…and no matter what my environment, I’m always going to be that way. Its unavoidable. I have a dream and then plan a way to accomplish it. I’m surprised he thought that he could get away with confining me to our home and telling me where he was going and what he was doing and expecting me not to react. I’m not used to being told what to do…and I’m honestly shocked I allowed him to walk all over me as long as I did. I suppose in a way I felt sorry for him and his stressful lifestyle, but I now know that is no excuse. Wow, the things I recognize while socializing with a complete stranger.
But yeah thanks for the luck. You really have been a great help to me. If you ever have any Virgo or female problems, feel free to ask. I’d say I owe you, and I normally have a very good insight when it comes to others. Most everyone I know comes to me to solve any problems they may have so why not a stranger?
Thankyou so much. I’ll let you know if anything ever changes between my Pisces and I.
April 6th, 2009 at 4:09 am
How can you tell when a pisces male is into you?
April 8th, 2009 at 5:08 pm
MATCH MADE IN HEAVEN!!!
I’m an Aries woman married to a Pisces man. Boy oh, boy… I could write VOLUMES! We’ve been married for 7 years, and I still can’t believe how long it’s been, yet, I feel like we’ve known each other through eternity.
First off he’s much older than I am. This tends to be the secret recipe for us, because we are soooo compatible - soulmates.
He treats me like a QUEEN. It’s amazing how much he likes to just sit back and watch me be myself (fiery arian!!!) We laugh a LOT together. We’re a STRONG team personally and professionally. He LOVES that I get lots of attention, yet when we’re alone, he knows he’s KING OF MY HEART. He is my MAN!
He will never hesitate to pick up on chores that I’ve managed to neglect because of a harsh week with work. I am glad to make him breakfast, pack his lunch, make his dinner. He’s a high-powered exec who frequently travels for work, and will take me along because I know most of his colleagues. We get into a room and I can feel the buzz. People love us both together and individually.
We are a power couple. No doubt.
He is the sweetest, most thoughtful, smartest man I know. He’s well traveled, well spoken, brilliant, yet has the softest most delicate way of conveying to me his love.
He LOVES football and all sports. Played a bit of football in college but got hurt early first season (I’m guessing that’s where the feminine thing comes in…) I sometimes tease him and tell him that he should have just walked it off. LOL!
I LOVE him (no, strike that ADORE HIM!) and he adores me. I have a drawer full of cards and trinkets that he’s given me over the years “just because”. Never EVER forgets a special occasion. Always the first to call his friends in time of need - and on their birthdays.
I love this man. He is heaven sent. Oh, and in the bedroom… FIREWORKS.
bez
April 9th, 2009 at 3:52 am
bez,
wow you are so lucky to have someone love you that much…congrats
April 10th, 2009 at 12:22 am
Hi xD
I’d just like to say I’m in a relationship with a pisces guy.
I feel really lucky, because he’s so adorabely sweet, and he cares a hell of a lot.
Only problem is, I think he falls in love to easily. We’ve only been together for a about a week now (after knowing eachother for a few months) and he’s already told me he loves me.
That’s a bit of a problem seeing as I’m an aries, me thinks.
April 10th, 2009 at 1:48 pm
This is a question for Impossible. If a Pisces man is in love with you (i.e. an emotional affair) but in a relationship with somebody else out of a sense of duty, do you think for him to withdraw indefinitely is reasonable? I mean like 3 months. Do they think well it’s just not possible and forget about you and move on or do they think about it alot not knowing what to do? Is it painful for them or do they just not care at all? Your previous posts make alot of sense and I would appreciate your perspective on this.
April 10th, 2009 at 7:09 pm
Hello!
I am a Capricorn women, and I am in a deeply committed relationship with a Pisces man for almost a year and a half. Our journey together has been unlike any relationship I have had before. I never knew a man who can put up with my wild mood swings, and excepts everything that I am, even my faults. At the same time, my Pisces man is willing to let me in to help and support in any area of his life. Our time together is always filled with laughter. We have also cried together. He has giving so much to me and taught me how to dream. I’m so very lucky to end up with a Pisces man. Your article on the Pisces man is right on! oh, and did I mention the sex is spectacular?
April 10th, 2009 at 10:07 pm
Twin Flame,
If your Pisces loved you you’ll be in his heart forever, as cheesy as it sounds. It’ll take awhile for him to trust you enough to let you in, but once you’re in, you’re in for life. So if it’s something he really wants but can’t have, he’ll fantasize about it constantly. He won’t forget about you, and it’s probably painful for him regardless of how apathetic he appears.
Sincerely,
Impossible
April 11th, 2009 at 1:57 am
I am a gemini woman and the man I fell in love with happened to b a pisces. Everybody says that is not a good match but we love each other and we never had a bad day or anything like that. We always have something to talk about and we r always laughing and in each others faces. Idk what i would do if we broke up. I cant live without him
April 12th, 2009 at 7:47 am
Impossible, thank you so much, you’ve made my day! x
April 12th, 2009 at 11:22 am
OOhhhh to be a Pisces. Such gentle yet hard creatures we are to understand. I believe many of our problems come from our ability to understand people so well. We can feel people pain and even feel like we cash in on their sucess. I believe our biggest battles come from our dark side though because we cannot understand people so well without having experienced these personality traits in ourselves. I personally have a dark side that I have been fighting since the 7th grade, during a time in my life where I used my understanding of people for complete manipulation. This wasnt because I hated the world it was because we pisces love too much at times and when we learn how cruel the world really is we try to fight this quality in ourselves. We try to become the fish that swims downwards only to learn that the way we care for others will never leave so we try to hurt them before they get to close. The BIGGEST RELATIONSHIP PROBLEM with us is we know people to well and we can see right through their bullshit, so be HONEST. MOst of all we hate GAMES they are not entertaining to us and only add to our dissapointment in ur ability to not act as someone who has respect for someone elses emotions. The mystery that a pisces potrays can also be misleading since people tend to make many assumptions about us that seem so far from the truth. Our hearts our big but try to manipulate us and we will make ur head spin. We Pisces have so many sides to us and our fantasies our so real that its our hard for us to know oursleves, especially with me. Since we are the last sign we have a piece of everybody inside of us. Women should just understand that this man doesnt need much just be prepared to never really quite understand us because as soon as we think we know ourselves before we even realize it were back at square one. We have more love to give then any other sign and we have that ability to make ur heart melt in our hands and help you explore parts of ur mind that u never knew about.
April 13th, 2009 at 5:21 am
I am a Pisces male myself. Im my experience with women they generally will seem frustrated with me being a wall at times.
Libras seem to be attracted to me for some reason it really confounds me.
I was with a cancer woman for 3 years. If she had not lived over 1000 miles away I would have gladly spent the rest of my days growing old with her. ( immigration is brutal )
I always have been loyal in any relationship. As far as other woman are concerned when im dating im completely blind to the opposite sex.
Im not sure if the rest of pisces men are like me. My career is in the arts. But i see people as perfectly flawed.
Im attracted to a womans unique qualities flaws and spirit more than her body. The combination of those sparks the sexual fire which everyone so seems to be surprised by.
I seem pretty feminine to some and ive been told i am. However im comfortable in my skin. I do miss the cancer girl deeply but perhaps our stars will cross again in the future.
Its weird being not sexually driven women seem to be weirded out when im not looking for a piece of booty when out on a date.
My advice for you if your having trouble with your Pisces man. If you make him feel secure and that regardless of whats happening in the hailstorm around him you will be there. Chances are you will win and hold his heart.
Hurt him once and it will take you a long time to recover. Maybe longer than you like. Remember how his memory of every event between you two is vivid?
Well is vivid in good or bad. Anyways im successful now i wasnt in my early twenties but when i learned to harness my dreams with art i was bale to turn madness into sanity.
Good Luck with your pisces man.
~
April 15th, 2009 at 8:26 pm
BeZ, i am riding the same boat as you & i cannot wait to be with my pisces man for eternity!
this fire sign and water sign are definitely making hot hot steam!
April 18th, 2009 at 2:36 pm
I’ve recently met a Pisces male that I’m very much attracted to and came to this site to see if Pisces (male) and Aries (female) can work. I’ve found a lot of encouragement because I had read that we are not supposed to be compatible. I’m the slightly older of the two (by 1 year). He and I connect on an intellectual level and he is waiting for me to connect to him (stay connected really) in an emotional way. He came to visit me (which was a shock) as I met him over the internet. This is going to be long distance west coast / east coast thing. He and I are just starting out but he seems to mirror my views on life and loves family (both of us already have children and are not looking for anymore). He wants me to come out and see him (and I do plan to this summer). At first I thought he might be a player but he seems to be a genuine person. He keeps telling me that I need to let my hair down as he has done a LOT in life (not in a bad way) but has had his own business, travelled the world, etc. Although I was born in a different country, I have only travelled the U.S. and my life has just been a straight arrow in morals and how I’ve lived it. I’m at the point where I want to explore and really live and that is what he’s encouraging me to do.
I am learning a lot from him and he from me. Both he and I are divorced and he is currently working on his Ph.D and I will be working on my masters as my children age (his range from teens to toddlers… mine will be teens by the time he’s done with his Ph.D). We have time to explore our relationship and really are enjoying it. The journey has just started and we both respect and have high regards for the other.
Can any Pisces males tell me if they’ve been in a relationship with an Aries female and how that dynamic works for you? I would really appreciate any insight.
– ArianGem
April 20th, 2009 at 1:35 pm
I am a pisces lady and I am entertaining the thought of being in a relationship with a pisces guy I have known for almost 18 years. That is how long I have had a crush on this guy! We met at grade school and has been the secret love of my life ever since. We have never dated before and I would love to date him, even get married to him. Circumstances of life got in our way (His family moved to another state, I went to study in another and we completely lost touch) that is why we couldn’t have a relationship. We have recently found each other again, through his Sagittarian younger brother who displays some pisces charateristics, I guess big brother rubbed onto him! We are both in relationships, I am with a Capricorn, I don’t know the sign of his girlfriend. We call each other every single day and we are getting closer and closer. Neither of us are happy in our current relationships and want to break them off. The issue is I can call mine off this evening but he says he needs a few months or even a year to completely break it off. Huh? I have a child with my Capricorn man who emotionally abuses me and I am ready to leave him regardless of our baby situation. The pisces guy is takin care of 2 kids that are not even his own in his current relationship with a woman who hits him (he doesn’t believe in hitting a woman back)! Has he lost his marbles or am I too desperate? I can wait yes, I have practically waited all my life but I somehow feel he enjoys the abuse even if he tells me the opposite. We finish each other’s sentences, I know how he feels because I feel it too but if I am ready to leap, why isn’t he? What’s with the stalling?
April 20th, 2009 at 7:38 pm
ArianGem,
If the ArianGem indicates aries/gemini, then I’d guess this relationship would have a lot of potential!
April 20th, 2009 at 7:42 pm
It can be hard for a pisces to get out of a relationship that he’s deeply involved in - especially when kids are also involved. I’d guess that he will eventually get out of it one way or another and that you two may make a good match. The only problem that I (I’m pisces) have had with pisces females is the quick temper. Maybe all female pisces don’t have that though.
April 21st, 2009 at 8:17 am
Hi there, I’m a 24 year-old female kinda dating a Pisces male. He is 33 so a little older than me but it works :). I met him 7 months ago and we just started to chat a lot online and on the phone. I’ve only hung out with him 3 times and the last time was recent and everything was like magic, from kissing to him holding my hand. He and I both are just looking to have fun right now and see where it takes us, but he’s acting weird lately, I literally have to chase him if I want his attention, I don’t if he’s just being afraid of committment or if he is even into me? It seems that he is, he texts and calls me when HE wants to and that is not everyday it’s like once a week and it just is making me wonder what, cuz I’m starting to have feelings for him I thought this match would be good. Help anyone with advice.
April 21st, 2009 at 11:22 am
Sabina,
I think that most pisces want to see some depth and creativity in a girl that they are about to get involved with, soon after the initial intimate encounter. I don’t mean that you need to be creative, but just creative in how you decide to spend the day with him. Perhaps planning a day of activity would help jump-start things. Maybe a concert, or visit to an art museum. Better yet, a craft show that involves demonstrations of making things out of wood, metal, or whatever. Pisces are generally very creative, and are always looking for such things to fuel their creativity. Even a trip to the ocean, beach, waterfalls, or some other place where there’s water, but not a whole lot of people. Find out if there’s someplace he’s really wanted to go, but hasn’t because it might have been a place that is better suited to taking a female along.
Most pisces like intimacy, and are even known for being quite good at that. However, much of that intimacy is brought on by being impressed by the girl they are with.
I’m sorry if I’m not of much help. I’m a pisces too, and these are some of the things I enjoy, but not all pisces are alike.
Good luck Sabina.
April 21st, 2009 at 9:51 pm
Hey John,
Thank you so much for your advice. And you are of help because your a pisces, but tell me this, do pisces men become confused a lot? I mean it’s scares me to figure him out, but I just don’t want to be pushy because I really like him but he’s shy and very undecisive at times so i think I could recommend what you said about doing something different because you are right, you guys DO not want to be in places where there are crowds of people haha, why is that? Is there anything else I should know? I’d appreciate it. Have you been with a Capricorn before? Let me know, thanks :).
April 22nd, 2009 at 12:41 am
ive dated a pices for 9 mos off and on i love this man dearly he puts me on cloud nine when were tog hell come over tell me how much i mean to him. spend the night with tell me things will be different between us and they never are than i wont see him for 5 days and get the same story again . im a aquarian .he just broke up me again for the 4th time and after 2 weeks came over and spent some time.lately ben making up excuses he has to leave early.i agree on the itimency part i think more they like the woman to start anything there shy i think .i think most pices are afraid of comminenet and being hurt so they rather just come and go he does opogize when he hurts me says he has no rght to treat me this way .i would do anything to spend the rest of my life with guy.so i keep hoping things will change between us .
April 22nd, 2009 at 9:17 am
Sabina,
So, you are capricorn? Keep in mind that not all pisces or capricorns are the same. With that in mind, it’s been my experience that pisces and capricorn can become incredible friends, but do not do well together in a long romantic relationship. Yes, I have been with capricorn.
I think most pisces prefer not to be around a lot of people when they are trying to interract with a female they are either interested in, trying to get to know better, or trying to convey to the girl which direction they might really like a relationship to go. However, pisces do love being around large crowds of people at certain times. It can be either extremely draining on their psyche, or if in certain states of mind, can act to recharge them.
April 22nd, 2009 at 9:26 am
lisa,
Aquarian is probably the most puzzling of all for a pisces to interact with - at least this pisces. There is an extreme psychic connection, but it’s difficult for a pisces to really get a handle on that connection. I’ve been with aquarius, and even though I can usually come to grips with my feelings about any female of any sign, you aquarians put out some kind of energy that is difficult for our psyche. And it seems to come in waves - sometimes it’s there and other times not at all.
I really have no suggestions for you concerning this relationship. Maybe Becky that runs this site might have some ideas if that is what you are looking for. I do wish you the very best of luck.
April 22nd, 2009 at 6:45 pm
hi, i´m a balance born female, that had the oportunity to have a relationship with a male piscis for 5 year. What can i say, i really don´t undestand most of why he get´s so trouble with how thing´s goes around the world. I really admire is sence of justice and well done life, But, is really disturbing to see my couple trying hard to just don´t get sentive or change his mood only because people around them are not thinking people.
He get´s too depress about everything, and normal situations that for me will be a no matter like -people talking shi*** around- for him is like a hell and burns is happyness away.
It really dipress me a lot, and make me realize i´m not being helpfull at all…
April 22nd, 2009 at 7:00 pm
Hi all. It’s me again, and yes, I’m still with my fish, though at times, it’s quite maddening. I really want to make this work, but I’m not sure if it ever will.
In any event, here’s my question. My particular fish only has female friends, no male friends. Fine. So be it. However, I have only met one of his friends one time, and that’s it. For whatever reasons, he doesn’t/won’t introduce me to his friends. With that background in mind, I noticed he talks/texts/IM’s a lot — and I mean like 54 texts within a couple of hours to a “mystery” friend, as the numbers don’t show on IMs. He initiates sometimes; his friends initiate other times. I have asked him about these calls/texts/IM’s and he tells me it’s none of my business.
Now, I’m all for privacy in certain instances. However, to refresh your memory, this is the same man that possibly got one of his “friends” pregnant (it could be another man also). So, yes, I am suspicious, and yes, I think he owes me explanations because of his past indiscretions. He just gets mad and tells me if I don’t trust him, then we can’t have a relationship. Duh! He cheated on me and probably got someone pregnant. How can I trust him? I keep telling him it’s going to take time, but he doesn’t want to hear it.
Anyway, back to the original question. Do you think it’s okay to ask what all these “discussions” are about? I haven’t a clue. I know personally, I wouldn’t care if he asked me the same thing because I have nothing to hide.
Thanks in advance for your help
April 22nd, 2009 at 11:03 pm
Hey John,
So your telling me, that a Capricorn like me and a Pisces won’t end up in a relationship? I’m a little confused? How was your experience with a Capricorn? I just need your intake on it all, and yes I do agree on the friendship part. I actually have already been with a Pisces but I was the one who broke it off, because overall, his whole life didn’t match mine, but it didn’t mean that we didn’t have a connection, but currently with this Pisces man, I have a lot chemistry physically and mentally but I guess he needs more time to think and I have to be understanding of his emotions because he is always busy with job and family life and I believe he’s been hurt badly so I’m someone new and exciting so I don’t know I guess keeping things slow.
April 23rd, 2009 at 7:02 am
‘ello Libra (Still) Swimming With Fish,
I’m actually wondering why you’re still with this guy? You said you broke it off but I guess you took him back and I’m thinking it might have been a mistake.
Personally, I have to agree with your Pisces on this one. It’s not really any of your business what company he keeps. It seems like a trust issue - he doesn’t trust you enough to let you in on his conversations and you don’t trust him enough to not keep tabs on him. Now don’t get me wrong, you have an excellent reason to be wary of his friends, but, at least in my opinion, if you truly forgave him this wouldn’t be a problem and you wouldn’t think twice about who he texts. You might not ever be able to truly forgive him though, even if you wanted to with your head. You said it yourself; “How can I trust him?” If you can do it and put yourself out their for him again, I wish you the best of luck.
Anyways, those are my thoughts on your situation. If both of you don’t start trusting each other, I think the relationship is doomed to failure. Sure, you could grind out a relationship of constant prying and secrecy but neither of you would really be happy. Again, you have my best wishes for a joyous ending, truly.
Sincerely,
Impossible
April 23rd, 2009 at 11:35 am
Sabina,
I’m not saying your relationship won’t work. Besides many influences outside anything related to astrology, there is a lot of various influences related to astrology besides just sun signs in western astrology.
My experience with most capricorns, male and female, has been that they are very down to earth and practical. Although we pisces consider ourselves to be practical, most people see us as impractical - and of course we are very dreamy. An issue I had with the capricorn I was involved with was lack of understanding for me to be left alone when I needed to be. Pisces desperately need to be left alone at times. It’s not just a “thing”, it’s a “requirement” for a pisces to be left alone when they feel a need to be left alone. My capricorn seemed to be desperate to know what I was thinking and feeling at every moment. Another thing, is when a discussion over a disagreement escalates, a pisces does best to back out of it completely, think it through which could take days, and then return to the discussion. That was also a difficult thing for my capricorn to relate to. Now all of this was many years ago and as people age, they are often more adaptable. With some capricorns, money is also an issue. Although most pisces like money for what it can do, and even enjoy finding creative ways to make it, many are very bad at any kind of saving. My capricorn was very much interested in sacking it all away and had a difficult time understanding my outlook that my endeavor to make money was so we could have a good time spending it. There were other issues too. Many of these, or perhaps none of them may be anything you encounter in your relationship.
April 23rd, 2009 at 12:34 pm
So I broke it off with my Capricorn baby daddy last night… This morning I call Mr Pisces to tell him the good news but he was not excited as I was and cut me off! WTF? His brother then assures me everything is still on the roll and that I musn’t worry. I am starting to fret… I thought I was a moody piscean, he gave me a new example! I understand that kids are involved, what about reassurance from him and not his brother, that is what I am looking for!
April 25th, 2009 at 1:25 am
Alright guys, i’ve read through a few novels above, a few happy love stories and a few sad ones as well.
I too am a Piscean, I am however very skeptical of astrology, however, always had a love for mystical knowledge and spiritual intrigues like zodiac signs. In this way, as a skeptic and someone who has scant knowledge of astrology, maybe my voice will be an unbiased perspective on what has been said about fish men.
I’ve been surprised by what I’ve read, personally I think many things are spot on. I consider myself very intuitive, empathetic, a good listener, and very flexible and adaptable to social situations.
I think Pisces men are strange creatures, we sometimes seek great intimacy (and are naturally very good at finding it with women), we sometimes seek to know ourselves, our own thoughts and emotions in the solitude of a run or just making our favorite meal alone, and we sometimes also seek and recharge are batteries as the social butterfly fish at a party charming our friends, relatives and possible mates! We are adaptable at best, indecisive in what we want and need at worst.
I despise the idea that some people are feminine or masculine, some are manly or womanly. Maybe some would say this has been my way of embracing my more feminine side, however I just think its how pisces embrace and understand people. We accept others for who they are not for how society reacts to their interests or “characteristics,” and so are not afraid to just cast aside society’s expectations and just enjoy whatever we find enjoyable. I enjoy project runway, top chef, keeping my place clean, and maintaing relationships as much as I enjoy playing football/volleyball/basketball, drinking some beer with friends or standing my ground in a fight.
I do not know the signs of past relationships as I am terrible with dates on the calender, but I do know I was in a terrible relationships with an Ares who was domineering, pessimistic and inflexible but am currently in a relationships with a capricorn who is loyal, loving, and intelligent
If there is one common feature that unites Pisces men it is that we listen with our soul, embrace with our heart, and write comments for as long as people will read them.
Best Regards,
Piraat
April 25th, 2009 at 6:28 am
I am the epitome of a pisces man. I’m a big dreamer and thinker. I can just see how I want my life to be and when reality doesn’t meet my expectations I can get very depressed and turn to drugs and alcohol. I often say fuck it I don’t care and give up when things don’t go my way but that’s my way of not stressing too much about things that go wrong. When things do go wrong I’m constantly thinking of ways to fix the situation and if I can’t find a way to fix things that’s when the depression kicks in. I have learned to use my logic instead of my emotions to make decisions and things feels alot more clearer for me.
I love being spontaneous and I’m very adventurous. I tend to get bored with things, situations and people very easily so it’s real hard to keep my attention. My mind easily wanders when I’m not interested in something. I feed off of emotions even when I don’t want to. I feel compelled to help people and better their lives even at my own expense. I’ll go broke trying to help someone and then get depressed when I’m broke and can’t do the things I want to do. Unless I really like what I’m doing it’s real hard for me to focus on it and I will be easily distracted and start to procrastinate which makes pisceans look lazy. I guess you can call me lazy or a procrastinator if I have to do something I’m not interested in.
I don’t think any piscean is meant to work on a regular 9-5 job that we hate. If we’re not doing something we actually like then our unhappiness will show and we’ll become easily irritated by everything and everyone in our environment.
I’m athletic but I’m not really into watching sports. I’d much rather play sports than watch them. I’m jsut not one of those guys that love to meet with other guys and watch sports. I do like to play host and entertain people and do things I like to do like play dominoes, have a few drinks, smoke a lil weed and engage in stimulating conversation.
I’m a loner and prefer the company of like minded individuals who can make me laugh and know how to have fun. Although sometimes I get lonely and just want to be around a few people but not necessarily interact with them. I get the feeling of being alone in a room full of people quite often. The majority of the time I have a very care free, free spirited approach to life. If I feel you are incapable of understanding my mentality and who I am then I’ll keep you at a distance and never let you see the real me. I’m confident in my abilities and my feelings are not easily hurt at least not for long. I give great advice.
It’s hard for me to get angry and when I do it’s hard for me to stay angry. I love my freedom and have problems with authority. As far as being sensitive and emotional….. I feel that I am very in tune with my feelings and don’t mind expressing them so you can understand who I am and I why I feel what I feel. Disappointment in life hits me hard especially when I’ve worked so hard not to be disappointed which of course leads to more depression. I tend to beat myself up alot. I’ll blame myself before I blame someone else. As far as being psychic, I just think our intuition along with our natural logical way of thinking leads us to be able to read people and situations very well. Our subconscious mind is very knowledgeable and shares that knowledge with our conscious mind when needed.
Pisceans are emotional, sexual intellectuals. So we are naturally attracted to things that stimulate and arouse us emotionally, sexually and mentally. I’m a rebel and I only go with the flow when I feel like it but I find life more enjoyable to do things and think in ways that are opposite to the majority of society. I love exploring things that are mystical and seemingly unexplainable. I’m a deep thinker and able to amaze people with what I know and how I think about things. Thinking and day dreaming happens the second we are left alone and even during a boring conversation. I love to let my mind wander and think of things I never thought about before.
When I was into spirituality and religion I could see myself as a religious leader. I’m an atheist now and I prefer to use logic over anything else. I can easily see myself being the leader of some rebellion. I have a soft heart for humanity and want everyone be to be treated equally and will die for a cause I believe in.
Since I’m an emotional sponge I can often get tired of soaking in negative energy and pressures of the world so I need to escape in order to recuperate and re-energize. I love to escape reality especially when it contradicts what I want it to be. I often seek solitude to be alone with my day dreams or turn to alcohol and drugs. I used to be an alcoholic too loosen up around people but I turned to it when I got depressed as well…. Now I don’t even drink that much. I’ve tried a few drugs but now I only smoke marijuana to relax, unwind and escape.
I adapt to people and environments very easily but that doesn’t mean I’ll be happy around those people and in those environments, it just means I know how to make adjustments in order to survive.
In relationships I strive to make my woman happy in all areas. I’ll study everything about you and use what I what I know to please you. I unconsciously start to mold my life around my woman. I’m very romantic and ooze sexuality. Spontaneous sex is always welcome. Sex to me is an art that I’ve mastered through trial and error and can’t wait to use my creativity to keep the fire going. Passionate love making and being romantic is my way of expressing how I feel about you. If I’m not being affectionate when I’m around you then something is wrong.I love to pamper just as much as I love to be pampered.I have to be updated on how our relationship is going often so I’ll know you’re happy with me. I have to be told and shown that you are happy with me. Giving lots of affection is the preferred method of showing me how you feel about me. Your dreams and goals will become my dreams and goals and I’ll support you even if the whole world is against you/us. Most people view men as being the dominate leaders but I don’t believe that someone has to be the leader in a relationship but equal partners, we’re in this together. I hate bossy people and the only way I’ll follow you is if you make sense….but sometimes I’ll follow you even when you don’t make sense just so you can learn from the experience. I hate drama and arguing. I believe in communicating how you feel in a civilized manner. Nagging, argumentative woman are a definite turn off. I’m an escape artist and I feel that the relationship is taking a turn for the worst and I’ve given it chance after chance to get better I’ll secretly plot my escape. You may wake up or come home one day and I’m gone. My kindness is often mistaken for weakness but I’m far from weak. Just because I understand emotions, how to express them and I actually care about how you feel doesn’t make me some sensitive little girly man. If I actually like you then I’ll rarely need time away from you. As a matter of fact, if I really like you then I can tend to become clingy and want to be around you all the time unless I know you don’t like me to be clingy and need your space more than I do then I can adjust. I’m a natural giver and pleaser. I like to be dominate just and much as I like to be submissive so mix it up and take turns. I love variety and can’t stand doing one thing the same way all the time.
Remember this! In order to keep a pisces man truly happy in a long term relationship…. you have to stimulate him mentally. Start stimulating conversations about his interest. Get involved in his passions in life, support and encourage him. Stimulate him emotionally. Show and tell us how you feel about us on regular basis. Last but not least…..stimulate us sexually. Intense, passionate (sometimes rough, kinky, freaky and erotic) sex is welcome at all times. I don’t care where you are or who is around if a pisces man rejects your sexual advances something is wrong.
~Morpheus Blaze
April 25th, 2009 at 1:53 pm
Morpheus Blaze - that was a pretty accurate description of this pisces as well. It’s nice the way you clarified the issue about sports, as that is a common misconception. I think most pisces are somewhat athletic and even though we often enjoy competing in sports we rarely enjoy sitting around watching them.
The explanation of our apparent psychic ability was also well explained, as was the explanation of what some may interpret as weakness in us. The interpretation of weakness or even martyrdom is actually an expression of kindness and strength.
One of the most interesting characteristics of pisces, is that even those who think they know us well, never really know us at all because we never let others know everything we know about them. Some people never realize how in tune we are to people around us because the response we provide to their actions is often based on what we know they would expect based on what they think we know about them. That is perhaps something that creates the most confusion in a relationship, and why when we end a relationship the other party can be quite baffled as to why. You kinda touched on this characteristics within various segments of your discussion.
Thanks for explaining all these things as well as you did.
April 25th, 2009 at 3:52 pm
Pisces men are the best. Do not try to tie them down for they will have already ound someone else. Don’t appear as if you are a couple in public and have much patience. Don’t lie and don’t talk to everyone abput what you do in private.
April 26th, 2009 at 4:53 am
Hi John,
Sorry that I’m just getting to your comment. Unfortunately the Gem doesn’t indicate an Aries / Gemini mix. When I’ve done my charts, my ascension has been in Leo, my venus in Pisces (his is in Aries). I don’t know much else about his chart. He and I most definitely connect on an intellectual level and before he came to see me, he just “knew” that we would get along well. When we did meet, besides being a little uncertain and nervous (on my part), we got along very well. We seem to value the same things. I DO seem to get along very well with Leo’s, Gemini’s, and Pisces men (as my brother is a Pisces). Other than my brother, the Pisces men that I’ve seen are ummm… very sensual, erotic and very confident of their ummmm abilities (which is something that this Aries girl has not ran into… lol). For whatever reason, this one I KNOW will always be a very good friend. He’s a strong and phenomenal man who for whatever reason I feel I need to protect. He has been through a LOT in his life and I can’t help but feel like I really want to be a bright spot in his life. Anyway, I’ll check back again to read any more thoughts on this subject.
– ArianGem
April 26th, 2009 at 5:31 am
John,
Btw… my Pisces is a Pisces Goat and I am an Aries Horse (I guess that’s where the Gemini would come into play).
April 26th, 2009 at 3:29 pm
ArianGem,
I’m glad all is going well for you and your pisces. It’s funny what you said in the same sentence about your pisces being strong and yet you feel a need to protect him. That’s one of the good things about a pisces - they will allow that. The “need” to be taken care of or “mothered” is a misconception about pisces. The thing is, if they love you, they will “allow” you to do that - to take care of and protect them - because they know it gives you self-worth, and we really don’t mind sharing in a relationship in that way. Some guys of various signs would be offended or act defensive under the same circumstances. Sometimes it takes strength to allow someone else to become part of your life in that way, and many pisces are good that way.
Lot’s of people mention that pisces make for good friends… but only if you are honest with them.
April 28th, 2009 at 6:02 pm
So, I’m a sagittarius female, and I have been with this pisces male for about 16 months…I ABSOLUTELY LOVE HIM. I have never felt a connection with anyone else the way I feel when I’m with him. I feel as if he reads my thoughts, and caters to my feelings. He TEACHES me to be a better person. I kind of look at him as a father figure (he’s 1 year older than I am…and my dad’s a pisces too). The funny thing is that his mother’s birthday is a day before mine, and HIS birthday is 3 days after my dad’s!
But anyway, are arguments are THE WORST. We are both emotional people (I think it’s because both of our Moon’s are in Scorpio), and he’ll get mad because I sometimes come off as inconsiderate and blunt/harsh, and he reacts HORRIBLY to it, because he’s so sensitive. We end up fighting for control, and we go to the extremes. But as extreme as our fighting is, our loving is just as extreme. We are an extreme couple, and that’s why I feel as if I could never leave him. We connect so well :0)
He’s very considerate though, and he has a lot of friends, and they’re always coming to him with their problems. Sometimes I get a little afraid that he might stray from me, but…he has remained faithful to this day, and with the amount of love we make, I’m not surprised…lol
April 28th, 2009 at 6:05 pm
And, I must say…he LOVES the PDA (public display of affection) just as much as I do, and we always play around and wrestle just as if we were kids..I look at him as my brother, and even he says that he looks at me as a family member he never had. That’s how intense our love is, and I wouldn’t have it ANY other way.
Virgo men are too into themselves,
Cancer guys are too sensitive,
Leo’s are JUST RIGHT!!! lol
Capricorn men are sometimes assholes,
and so on and so forth…
April 29th, 2009 at 1:22 pm
I am glad to say I met with my Pisces guy over the weekend, thanks to his brother who arranged everything! It was a very emotional encounter for both of us, we havent’s seen each other for over a decade. He introduced me to his best friends and cousins and everybody seemed to know our ‘love story’ and he even phoned his mom who is in the UK and told her about me. Do I believe in fairytales? I have to say in this one, I believe I will have my happy ending! Everything is going according to plan even though he hasn’t officially broke it off with his Aquarian girlfriend (who has recently moved out), he has hinted that he wants to tie the knot soon! I am so happy, he is everything I’ve ever dreamed of. My grade school sweetheart is finally mine!
April 30th, 2009 at 6:05 am
Hi there Paul,
Thank you for your comment. I have to say that everything you have written describes a Pisces man beautifully!! You have a great intuition, you love your family, you work with people that really need help, and no Paul, not everyone would or could do that, it takes a very special type of person to reach out there hand and touch a persons life, if this wasn’t such a rare quality the World maybe in far better order!
You say you enjoy arguing and are good at finishing them, yep, another Pisces quality! You even have an Gemini ex! So do most Pisces men!! haha! What I have written above is short and typical, I have just finished writing an EBook on Pisces which mentions far more the type of things you have mentioned above. Of course there is also the rest of one’s chart to consider as well.
Enjoy your Libra, they are wonderful people, together you could probably change the world! If you haven’t already that is!
:)
Love & Light
Becky
April 30th, 2009 at 12:39 pm
Excuse me Becky… but it can be said that not all pisces/gemini relationships result in the pisces having a gemini ex - I’m one of them. I’m very happily married to my gemini. Unfortunately, as you know, not all pisces/gemini relationships work out. However the diplomacy ability of the pisces, combined with the amount of effort a pisces will put into a relationship (or anything else) he really wants, combined with the intellect of the gemini can make such a relationship work, and work very well.
April 30th, 2009 at 4:54 pm
Hi John,
I’m sorry, I can assure you I meant it with the best humour intended. I just have known so many Pisces guys and most of them have a Gemini ex somewhere! Any one can make any relationship work, I just ry and help people see where there needs to be understanding. I don’t mean to offend in anyway..I love all signs!
Love & Light
Becky
April 30th, 2009 at 7:11 pm
Hi Becky,
One of the problems with this sort of interaction - the written word - is that some things get lost in interpretation. I was not offended in any way, and in fact was quite light-heartedly expressing my idea, as was you in a humorous way.
I do understand that you love all signs. In fact one of the great things about gemini women is that they seem to love just about everyone. Just one of the things that pisces really love to see in not only a mate but anyone in general.
Anyhow, thanks for being so kind as to make sure things were properly understood.
May 6th, 2009 at 9:42 am
Hi, i have just split up with my picses partner of two years. i am an aries and was 13 years younger than him. at first it was out of this world, had never felt love or had a sexual relationship so strong!!!! we were both very attracted to eachother! then it all started, he started to get really controlling and everyhere i went he thought i was up to something, it got to the point thet he would ring me 10 times whilst i was out with my mates and in the end i felt i couldnt handle all the hassle i got for going out that i just didnt go out! i couldnt even got swimming at the gym , even if i popped to the asda which was round the corner from me, that was suspicious!! i really couldnt cope with it, he would even cause trouble with my dad if he thought i was up to something! we then moved in together and things got worse as so i moved out, we then got back together and he said he would relax with me (which i had heard several times but that never happened!) and then he cheated on me!!! all because he thought i had!! which i would like to add that i am probably the most trustworthy girl going!!
i even loved him that much that when he was crying and tried to win me back i was going to give him another chance but then he gave up as i couldnt forgive him, 2 weeks later he is seeing someone else! so my experience is that i was truly hurt by one!!! and this is from someone who swore they had never felt the emotions he had felt about me!! he was tremendously sneaky himself and think that the way he behaved with me was to cover up his own sneaky ways, on the other hand he was very loving but he had a nasty streak with a temper i had never seen before!!
May 6th, 2009 at 10:11 am
I am a Pisces male. I feel sorry for the first commenter because the Pisces you married is not very Pisces at all. Like the post says I hate football, basketball even more, and I don’t very often drink. Most of my relationships have ended because I was either too attentive, too insecure not realizing when everything was alright and I should just back off, or because I got lost in a reality that my own head formed.
i also agree with the 3rd poster, this is a big reason why it ebded , things were ok but his insecureties drove me away as he didnt know when to back off and give ma space!
May 9th, 2009 at 5:32 am
Dear John or Becky,
I spoke to you John about a current Pisces male that I was dating, recently it is not so. I hope that you and Becky can help me, because i feel absolutely awful today! :(. I used to be the one chasing him so we could hang out because he is always busy with work and life and he knows I am too so we would only see each other like once every 2 or 3 weeks and talk a lot of the phone because it was still new and we totally had a connection and it was great. Now the past 2 weeks, I decided to not call him or text him because I thought to myself if he’s really interested in myself then he would take the initiative to call me himself and set up our dates together, but I never heard from him, just today I went online to FB (Facebook) and found out that he was in a relationship with another female that is a Gemini! Oh my God! I become so angry and sad, all I did was cry my eyes out. It is just not fair, I don’t understand how he could reject because first off, he is not being honest with himself or me. So I thought that Pisces men and Capricorn woman were a great match, it’s just weird and now he’s with a Gemini, I don’t get it at all, I mean does that go? What do you guys think, John & Becky? I don’t know how to go about it, I want to speak to him and find out what is going on, I called him and he didn’t answer what do I do? Ughhhh ;(
May 12th, 2009 at 7:33 am
As a pisces man having been in many failed relationships, I can tell you first hand what the issues are with dating one of us. Like was said here before, we can see right through each and every one of you (spiritually), and it scares most of you shitless. Instead of becoming engaged in valuable dialogue with us, you tend to say whatever is on the tip of your tongues to placate us, even though you are all just spewing culturally and societally induced rhetoric, imposed upon you by the mass media and/or by your immediate families. We have very long attention spans when it comes to discussing deep philosophical topics, yet have very short ones for unthinking/unfeeling ones (sports and violence anyone?). Due to the mainstream social puppeteering imposed on you (which 90% of you don’t - or choose not to - see), you miss the point of what it means to be fully human. I have a strange and funny feeling that the only people who will survive into the next spiritual and physical earth age approaching (the age of aquarius) are those of our design. Be prepared for 2012, for it will reshape everything in our world…
May 12th, 2009 at 11:19 am
Sabina,
Becky can probably give you a whole lot more insight than I can on matters of the heart since she too is a woman. However, I should first let you know that my heart really goes out to someone who has experienced a failed relationship. I’m very sorry that this didn’t work out for you. Secondly, I should inform you of the hard facts - your Pisces either never developed the same feelings for you as you did for him, or his feelings faded. If a Pisces truly wants you, then there really isn’t much that would stop him from pursuing you.
Any relationship requires a lot of work by both, especially after the initial attraction. I have an incredible relationship with my Gemini wife, but we do have to work at it continuously. The rewards greatly outweigh the effort we both put into our relationship to understand and deal with our differences.
Concerning Pisces and Capricorn, in my opinion, it is not a very good match - except as perhaps life-long friends. However, there are a lot of other things that can have enough influence to make many such relationships work. Becky could give you more insight on the various astrological influences. You may be able to find out more just looking around this website.
Again, I’m deeply sorry for your loss and I hope that someday you will find the perfect partner.
May 12th, 2009 at 11:29 am
Ray,
I think a few more than just us Pisces “will survive into the next spiritual and physical earth age approaching”. It takes every kind of sign to balance the other. What would one really be without the other? If there was no dark, there would be no reference point from which to quantitate the light. What would scenic beauty be without the wasteland to compare it to.
The Piscean insight can be both a blessing and - at times - a curse.
May 12th, 2009 at 11:32 am
Hi there Sabina,
Thank you for your comment. Like John I am sorry that you have had to go through this, any break down of a relationship is sad but sadly also a part of life. It is never easy to say why a person behaves in a certain way, but astrologically speaking there is more to a person than their sun sign alone and some signs within our charts can make us very slefish.
With regard to the new found Gemini girl he has hooked up with. Gemini’s are fanastica t communication so social networking sites are full of them, they can also make anybody fall for them because of their charm and flirtatious ways so on Facebook it is easy for people to get stuck on someone they don’t even know.
Sometimes the best advice is to walk away with your head held high, I would suggest that you don’t contact him again, only ever follow up on a positive never a negative. You obviously have far more depth to you than he does at this moment in his life, and one day someone will come along to share life with you, think of this as a learning curve!
Love & Light
Becky
May 12th, 2009 at 11:41 am
In addition to what I just wrote to Ray, I hope I didn’t come across as me thinking that we Pisces are any better than anyone else. I really wasn’t comparing us to either “the light” or the “scenic beauty”. My point was that everyone is special in their own way, and there have been many times that I truly wished was something other than a Pisces. In fact there are many other signs that really can’t stand us. I can find certain qualities in each and every sign that are very special. Intuition, is just one of the things that happens to distinguish us Pisces just as being “down to earth” is something that distinguishes most Capricorns, and just so happens to be a quality I wish I had a bit more of.
May 12th, 2009 at 11:48 am
Becky,
Beautifully put.
May 12th, 2009 at 9:09 pm
I started talking to this guy about 3 or 4 months ago at first everything was fine until I realized that he had gone back to his last cheating ex-girlfriend. After they broke up he came back to me and like an idiot i decided to take him back. The thing is he seemed more sincere the first time around. He would call me but he didn’t stop by the house much which is understandable because he worked the night shift and had to sleep during the day but this time everything is different now he will stop by the house only once in a while but he refuses to call me and he is never home and sometimes he stay at work to watch over the place. Honestly I’m begining to think the first time around he would call me only to make his ex-girlfriend jealous. I’m not good at conforting people but for some unknown reason he prefers to be with his cheating ex-girlfriend and I can’t understand why. She wasn’t very nice to him even when they were dating and she was sleeping around on him. I don’t know if I’m doing something wrong or if he needs more time to get over the last relationship. I’m not even sure if he wants to be more than just my friend. Any advice will be greatly appreciated.
May 12th, 2009 at 11:23 pm
Ladies and Gentlemen,
After reading these comments, I am grateful that I am not alone. My ex-girlfriend is a crab, and I am a fish.
Here is our story:
January 2005: Crabina and Fishy start talking (Columbia, SC).
May 2005: We officially start dating (Columbia, SC)
September 2005: Her father makes it clear that he does not like my
religion (I am Catholic, they are Protestant) and this makes things
awkward for me since I have intentions to marry this girl later on.
January 2006: I am forced to move (New Orleans, LA), and we stay in
touch over the months (several visits and lots of phone calls)
August 2006- May 2007: She moves down to New Orleans to attend graduate
school, and we can continue to be together, while loving and supporting each other. She goes home for holidays and visits like that.
May-August 2007 (summer break 1): She goes back to Columbia to stay with
her parents; maintain daily calls on the phone, visit when I can, etc…
August 2007 (fall): She returns to grad school in New Orleans so that
we can be together again.
December 2007: I discover that her parents are suffering from Empty
Nest Syndrome, which is a psychological condition where parents try to
control the lives of their “children” even though they are grown adults
capable of making decisions on their own. I tell her about ENS, and she
becomes very angry and defensive. I tell her that I love her very much,
but I cannot deal with this controlling behavior from her parents. I
wish that they would lighten up, and let us lead our lives as a couple.
We were not living together or anything like that, nor did we ever live
together. I just don’t like the fact that her parents have to talk to
her every single day, and also have a major influence on even the
smallest decisions that she makes.
May-August 2008 (summer break 2): She goes back to Columbia. We have some fights on the phone. My friend (a Scorpio male) was suffering from alcoholism and separation anxiety disorder, and I spent time with him trying to help him defeat his demons by going hunting and fishing, and I attend his AA meetings
with him as his friend. I do this because his wife ditched him, and he
didn’t have anyone else to help him. Girlfriend gets jealous of my friendship because I have less time to talk on the phone, and she starts secretly dating another guy.
August 2008: Crabby returns to my arms in New Orleans, and tells me that
she was not proud of her decision to end our relationship. Further, she
feels as though it was wrong and a mistake to end our loving relationship. She comes back to me, and we are together again mentally and emotionally. There is a very strong mental-emotional bond between us again, and she tells me that
rebound boy is a thing of her past. She is even lying to her parents
about the survival of our special relationship as they are convinced she is
single again, even though she is with me in a very intimate and loving
way. Yes, I still loved my crabby then, and I love her even now as I write this to you.
November 2008: Crabby and I have a fight about where to spend
Thanksgiving (her parents house or mine), and it just gets worse to
December. Angry feelings persist through the holiday break from both
her and me, even though I make an effort to try to get things right
again.
December 2008: Crabby has returned to New Orleans for final exams, and we
are together again, but on rocky circumstances. Crabby finishes exams,
returns to Columbia and secretly resumes relationship with summer rebound boy. I make an effort to visit her and her parents in Columbia, but her father
is against this idea. She later confesses to me that rebound boy has
resurfaced in her home in Columbia for visits, and they are in fact
kissing and spending time together. I am devastated because I thought
we were working through our problems.
January-May 2009: Very little contact between us. Occasional talks and
emails, but nothing serious. This is due to her basically cutting me out of her life.
May 2009: She graduates with her degree, and secretly gets engaged to
rebound boy.
Now, all of that said, I am devastated right now.
Completely and totally devastated.
Even if we were having fights on the phone, was there ever a need to destroy the
relationship completely? She tells me that she has “moved on” and has
cut all communication with me entirely, but what I cannot figure out is
why a human being would return to me for a very intimate relationship
only to get engaged to a rebound boy several months later?
I have zero interest in jumping into a relationship with a new woman
right now because I miss my crabby so much, but I cannot figure out why she
would dive into a rebound engagement in less than 12 months after ending
a 4 year relationship.
PS… Rebound boy is very much like me. Looks like me, has my same
name and even is Catholic (only he is renouncing his religion to be with
her). He is also former military just like me. In fact, I call him
“Bizarro” simply because of the strong and bizarre similarities.
Is my ex-girlfriend’s behavior psychologically unhealthy, or is this
normal behavior?
I still love her, and I believe she may still have feelings for me but
chooses to block them out and seek rebound boy simply because he lives
in Columbia and has the approval of her father.
I wish that I had asked her to marry me first, but I heard that you can
never marry a woman if her father doesn’t like you.
What’s the deal?
Thanks for your time and support.
May 13th, 2009 at 12:51 pm
Mr. Pisces,
For whatever it’s worth, I too am a Pisces male.
If you were a female, I’d be a little easier on you, but since you’re not, I be point-blank. You need to move on.
I get a feeling that the line, “I wish that I had asked her to marry me first, but I heard that you can never marry a woman if her father doesn’t like you” is just an excuse to yourself for not asking her to marry you. I also have a feeling that you had a gut feeling that it wouldn’t have been the right thing to do anyhow, but have been so caught up in everything that you still continued to go forward. The fact is it’s probably a good thing you didn’t ask her to marry you since it may have been something you’d have regretted even more than regret having lost her completely. I really don’t think that the Pisces male, Cancer female is such a good coupling anyhow. While the Pisces female, Cancer male might be.
This is just a very frustrating time for you with all that has recently taken place. It won’t be long and you’ll look back and see things in a much different way.
Good luck.
May 13th, 2009 at 10:20 pm
I’m a Pisces woman with a Pisces boyfriend of just over a year. He is the most amazing, romantic, sexy, soulful, nurturing, stabilizing and dependable man I’ve ever had the good fortune of meeting. He knows who he is, knows what he wants out of life and I have no doubt he will reach every goal. I was married for 15 years to a Scorpio but he didn’t have a clue how to really talk with me and he certainly didn’t have a plan for his life. With my Pisces sweetheart, I feel for the first time in my life, that I’ve found the one I want to have children with and hold hands with on long walks along the beach.
May 14th, 2009 at 10:24 am
Jenn,
I have a tip for you. Make sure that you continue to present your Pisces man with opportunities to inspire his creativity. Although everything may be great right now, your Pisces man will eventually become somewhat bored with an everyday routine of just being close and sharing long walks on the beach.
I was involved with a Pisces woman many years ago, so I’m talking from experience. I have an insatiable appetite for learning new things. I am really always going a mile-a-minute from one new project or learning experience to the next. My Pisces female counterpart really just wasn’t able to keep up, and even tried to hold me back from pursuing my interests. Eventually the female Pisces’ temper showed itself - again, and again. Long story made short… we didn’t last. Perhaps all Pisces women don’t have the violent temper my Pisces woman had. I sure didn’t see it coming.
Anyhow, I hope things go well for you and your Pisces man. The more you allow him to “do his thing”, the more he’ll continue to give you the love and nurturing that you need, and the more he’ll truly appreciate the love and nurturing that you provide in return.
May 17th, 2009 at 7:01 pm
I’m a scorpio woman dating/dated a pisces guy, things were pretty good. What made me angry was that his female friends liked how sensitive he was and came to him with all their problems. Anyway I said something really terrible to him, and I apologized but he hasn’t said anything. I guess i want to know the chances of us getting back together or at least talking to each other?
Also what you meant about them preferring “strong-willed” women and why that will dissapoint?
May 18th, 2009 at 12:08 pm
~+Moskau+~,
I am a Pisces man. I’ll offer my point of view and you can take it for whatever it’s worth. I think your chances of getting back together with him may be extremely good. There is a strong attraction between Pisces and Scorpio. The biggest problem, as you have suggested is perhaps the Scorpio jealousy, and a little too quick to be harsh. The problem going the other direction, is what is often perceived as the Pisces being secretive, which can add fuel to your jealousy streak. I think that any sincere apology you give to your Pisces will go a long way in keeping him near you. Either way, he may need some time alone to collect his thoughts. Be sure to give him lots of space.
Good luck.
May 20th, 2009 at 4:30 am
Hey John,
I am a Scorpio/Sag cusp but more Scorp than Sag and I am not a jealous person. However, in the beginning of a relationship when I don’t know how much a man feels about me, I can get frustrated easily by things. And if they aren’t showing preference to me over their other girlfriends, like maybe in Moskau’s case, then it is possible to feel neglected. Yet, if I know my love interest has strong feelings for me then these little things like other female friendships dont matter. It seems that Pisces like to make you wonder…however maybe I am wrong with this. Because they are intuitive, i think they use this to confuse people into not liking them so much. Maybe some kind of defense mechanism for not getting close too soon?? Even so, Pisces aren’t the only deep waters they run through many people I have met in my life..Leos, Libras and Cancers to name a few.
May 20th, 2009 at 11:15 am
Sara Marie,
I’m not sure about all Pisces, but this Pisces has never intentionally made a girl “wonder”, or tried to create confusion. But perhaps you are correct that this may be done unintentionally as a Pisces defense mechanism for not getting too close too soon. However, the only reason a Pisces would not want to get too close very soon is if his intuition tells him that he needs to be aware of some things before going into a relationship full-heartedly, and those things are yet to be discovered. Since he hasn’t yet quite got a handle on it, it is of course difficult to convey that to the girl, and as many people know, coming out with something like “there’s something about this whole thing that just isn’t quite right” isn’t usually very productive. Such dialog often leads to conversational exchanges containing phrases like “what do you mean” and “I haven’t a clue - something just doesn’t feel right”. And things often go downhill from there when all that is sometimes required is for the Pisces to discover what it was that triggered this reaction and then if it is even something to be concerned about.
There is a definite attraction between Pisces and Scorpio. I was involved in such a relationship early in life, but as many early-life relationships go, we were still to busy in the process of discovering ourselves that we never acquired a very good understanding of each other.
Thanks for your insight about the Scorpion female.
May 22nd, 2009 at 11:56 pm
I am the product of a birth that took place in the begining of March, with this I have investigated and proven the definition of a Pices to be apropriate to my personality. Although I must point out that pices sensitivity at times becomes his power. Any overwhelming feeling of Pices he can convert into anything. This is where the Pices becomes Mysterious even spooky. Pices is intelligent, but his intelligence is different than the one that we think can be quantified, it is rather an automatic spiritual flow of knowledge that sometimes is hard to live with. The love of Pices is his hatred. His weakness becomes his power, he becomes the Ying & Yang abruptly ciruculating energy amongst the oblivion.
May 24th, 2009 at 12:40 am
john,
thanks for your reply. It is easier to understand different signs through written dialogue like this instead of reading countless articles online…I dont have the patience!! You did make another point that I found interesting about being harsh. I am totally harsh. Some would call it brutal honesty….I even have another sister who is Scorpio…..whew, the honesty just flies like little daggers sometimes. Anyway, when I was dealing with a Pisces man i was interested in, i think the brutal honesty was too much for him. He didn’t like it at all. I think he respected it but the honesty was just too real. I think that is the gift that the Scorpio can give a Pisces. Even though i can be a dreamer too, at least I know I am dreaming and then get to the heart of the matter…articulating my feelings, using my intuition to ask deep, probing questions that can open up people’s hearts as oppose to hurt them. Due to my honesty I think he did learn some things about himself and so did I. Not really sure if Pisces is my best match if the one thing I am really good at in a relationship is something they want to squirm away from. I have always felt that honesty is the kindest form of communication, even if it is hard to hear. And the only way to have a lasting, loving relationship is through kindness.
May 25th, 2009 at 7:54 am
I seem to not have a clear understanding of who I am and at times,and I don’t think I ever will. My mother and ex best friend were both Gemini and my anger for the two of them will never go away. they think they have all the answers to life and never seek to understand me..but want to advise and judge me. Gossip behind my back..I don’t have to know, I FEEL them talking about me every so often..perhaps they can’t control their mouths? I also thought it was a good idea to tussle with a Sagittarius female a while ago and I ended up with a bullet wound to the heart (figuratively speaking). It’s true that their words cut deep.
At times I hate myself for being a Pisces.a DOUBLE pisces at that(Sun and Moon-rising sign is Sagittarius ) and I choose not to help it. The feminine outweighs the masculine so naturally I don’t attract many females who want a “manly man”. Being called weak and all manner of things to my face when all I did was try to be the best version of myself for that day in the best way possible. Then I change things up, create illusions that fool you and myself at the same time..and those who are close to me tell me I’ve changed..they want the old “Nique” back. But wasn’t he passive? Not aggressive enough? It was what you said.
I suppose I’m ranting, and I apologize. I thought if I could release any emotions anywhere, it would be here since it isn’t appreciated anywhere else.
in any case, nice article. And I like your whole site btw..very informative!
May 29th, 2009 at 1:07 am
Dear ~Morpheus Blaze,
I think I have been living with you for a year and a half!!!!! You are about 99% correct…
I am a Aries and my lover/live in is a pisces! I messed our relationship up, but then again so did he. He doesn’t view it that way, but he hurt me, I hurt him, and he hurt me back! We are still together but it has taken a lot of work! I wish we could start over but there are major trust issues now and we are having to overcome them! But yes I feel as though, he will just leave me! It is like he is looking for a escape! But I have finally come to grips with this! I have never loved a man like I love this man! And I would never want to be without him and tell him that on a regular basis! But as a aries I have to much pride to try to stop him. I know I can have other men, but I don’t even want anyone else. So now comes the wait game! I have been married in the past and will never do it again! This he knows and loves this, we are both in agreement on that one! If he truly wants me then I want him but I will not beg again! If he leaves, he just has to leave but I will never love another like I love him. Your description of the pisces man is dead on for me anyway! Would love to chat with you sometime! Maybe you could give me some insight into this man and myself! Thanks!
Rhonda
May 29th, 2009 at 3:52 pm
Pisces men are simply the best. I could not imagine my life without them. I believe I could have died of boredom. I am a scorpio woman and have had only two serious relationships, both with pisces men and both wonderful. The first was not meant to be; I was very young and there was a considerable age difference between us. At some point, I moved away to take up my studies and we both ended up very heartbroken. The second relationship is with my husband; we have been together for almost 14 years now and very fulfilled.
June 2nd, 2009 at 10:04 pm
Being a “triple pisces” man let me clear up a few things about Pisces men.
We are misunderstood. All my life there have been many people who consider me a daydreamer and maybe even “autistic,” but my mind thinks very abstractly all the time (although I have learned to act without emotion on the outside). I consider myself blessed and cursed because even though I have total empathy for humanity, we live in a time where most people just don’t understand about loving each other and respecting each other. It is very difficult for me to stay in crowds long and I need to rest at home to re-energize. I’m also very intuitive, almost psychic. I have things come into my dreams and I’ve felt prescences around me (good and evil). My real life problem is that fact that my older sister is a “triple virgo”. It’s almost karmic the polarity between us. I have not had a good relationship with her growing up and to this day because of this. I can’t stand nit-picky detail-oriented people who are very critical. All I’ve tried to do was give love and understanding to my sister but it goes unreturned. For those who want to be a pisces, you should know how hard it is to be one in a world like today. I hope and want to be positive that someday the sensitivity and empathy we carry will reflect on everyone someday. I think the “triple pisces” mantra is “give agape-or uncondition love” and try to remain hopeful.
June 3rd, 2009 at 11:19 am
Anonymous,
I’m with you on the issue with Virgo. Although I have very good friends who are Virgo, I cannot be in their presence for extended periods of times without feeling extremely drained.
As far as feeling the good and evil around us, that does seem to be a Piscean misfortune. Although I love being in large crowds, it is extremely taxing on my psyche. There is so much evil and manipulation around us that it can be difficult maintaining a nature of hope and goodwill. The bright side of things is that there is also a lot of good which, when you do encounter it, can be extremely invigorating.
The dreams and intuitiveness, I think is something experienced by many, but perhaps not all Pisces.
June 3rd, 2009 at 12:53 pm
Anonymous,
In addition to what I already wrote to you, there’s something I should mention, which I typically wouldn’t even bring up, but feel somewhat compelled to mention it to you. Have you made any attempt to get in touch with your spirit guide? If not, perhaps you, being a Pisces, should do a little research into the subject.
That’s all I’m going to write about that subject.
June 3rd, 2009 at 7:53 pm
I went to a psychic a year ago (first time for me) who said he really felt “light” emanating from my heart area (chakra). I’m extremely caring about things and people and the psychic is pretty popular around here. At least it was nice to get some recognition of how I feel. As far as spiritual guidance, I’ve tried to ask or wish before I go to sleep for guidance before, but my dreams are so abstract (and I don’t usually remember them when waking up) that I don’t come up with much. BTW, the few things I truly despise are ignorance from people, lieing, and people that are truly greedy and manipulative. I rarely lie because its not worth it to me and I like being upfront with people. I loathe pettiness (and I seem to get it alot lately). I don’t consider myself a real negative person but encountering everything like a sponge really is draining to me.
June 7th, 2009 at 5:09 pm
I am a pisces guy and I just ended a relationship with a Sagittarius.
It was a neat experience, probably one of the most stressfull relationships I ever had. It was a combination of what i was feeling and changes in the relationship.
Basically she would go through these “phases” that would make her more distant to me. I felt this and it sucked. It got so bad that i thought she was playing mind games with me and even cheating on me. In my mind, i firmly belive that she was fooling around with others or just being a flirt. In my heart, she was my sweetheart.
I knew what i was getting myself into when I went out with a sagittarian girl, the war was warned thus I wanted to make sure I could undesrtand it well since I really wanted to love this girl.
Anyways, it just doesent work. The sex is great and oh man it was great. But it was not passionate, it was just different and that was the way she liked it. Fine with me.
The biggest issue i had with this relationship is that she never made me feel as though she was commited to me and only me.
Sometimes she would say I am not strong enough for her, and you know what perhaps it is true.
I am sorry but I am not an asshole, and it does not turn me on to treat a girl like an asshole in order to have her keep me happy.
I like beeing sweet and i love being romantic, and honestly I try to stay away from the girls that usually try to pick me up. But i always end up being a sucker for them and end up developing some emotions that she is completely not fully interested in. And this actions can start becomeing abusive because the pisces will try to please their partner but their partner will still be distant.
Well we broke up and got togeather about 5 times. Last time around as soon as the distance started developing i knew it was over, and i felt as though there was someone else involved. I could always read her mind without her telling me what happend, and i could always know when she was saying the trouth or lieing, yet it was cloudy.
My heart wants to belive her but my mind is fixated in one idea. Thats why the relationship became cloudy, i couldent read her well, thus when she lied it was eminent yet i chose not to belive my own gut feeling.
I gave up went to her computer, snooped around and found chat logs that made me forget about her instantly out of my heart.
She was telling some other guy she loved him, and even talking about how sex would be between each other.
Now i just find her repulsive, but thats my defenses. I understand shes just a different type of person for someone else, but just not with me. I want my scorpio sweetie.
June 13th, 2009 at 4:38 pm
Very inciteful, especially from Impossible and PiscesSoul. I am a Cancer married to a Pisces for 20 years this September. He does close off his feelings that I take it as not caring. He’s forgetful of my feelings, or when I express them he can’t handle it and acts like I shouldn’t have said anything. He’s not a very happy person when he wakes up and can find a way to hurt me everyday (remember I’m a cancer and very sensitive), but then will call for something; locked the keys in the car, make me a dentist appointment, etc. I truly don’t know what would every happen if I needed something, as a Pisces male would he be able to be there for me? There are some days I feel so used, especially if I’m blamed for something that is not my fault, he loses his keys, and then asked for a “favor” without any kind of apology. As we get older will this change, will he ever find the sensitive side of being a Pisces? After 20 years have I let him get too dependent on me?
June 15th, 2009 at 6:38 pm
I have been into a relationship with my Pisces guy for almost 6months now. Suffice to say, my Pisces guy is empathic, romantic, sensitive, funny, almost psychic with all my needs, feelings, sentences! As a Taurus, I am always amazed! I also want to agree that Pisceans are dreamers, and artists. My guy is into a band, and this keeps him motivated. Since I am well aware of this artistic and dreamy side of his, I just let him be, and I don’t prevent him from doing the things he like, he still has his much-loved freedom, to the point that sometimes, he asks me, why is it that you always let me do the things I seek your approval on, unlike other girls, who would budge guys, not to do it. And I always answer him, well we are grown-ups here, it is up to you if you want to wander away from me forever, it won’t be my lost, it’ll be yours. I think my strong personality makes him challenged, so in return, we are still together. Don’t get me wrong, if I don’t prevent my Pisces guy from doing what he is passionate for, of course I do love him, it is just that I do understand his personality, really like a fish, if you would cram the fish, the more it’ll swim away, but if you just let him, then he will wander back to you, the person he cares and loves. We don’t argue that much, because, he can already sense if I am about to be pissed off by his faults. Pisces guys can be one of the most wonderful relationships you can have, if you will accept his flaws, which are by far outnumbered by the good, anyways.. My best friend is a Taurus, his husband is also a Pisces, and they get along well. Chemistry, love and companionship are just great outcomes of this tandem, as long as you know how to set the Pisces in tune still of their “own world”.
June 17th, 2009 at 4:07 pm
Some of you know me. Well, I am more confused than ever. Long story short - my Pisces got a girl pregnant and she’s due in mid July. I wanted to work it out anyway, but he told me to “deal with it” by myself and was not comfort, help or support when issues of his baby mamma arose. I finally had enough about a month and a half ago. Not only did I have baby mama to contend with, the so-and-so put this girl back on his MySpace that he cheated on me with last summer. (Yeah, I know, real nice guy.) He was also browsing for single, available women who were looking for a relationship within five miles of our neighborhood. (A charmer, I know.) Well, that did it. I finally had enough and ended it.
Problem: He lives me with. The man gave all his stuff away when he moved in with me, even though I told him not to. Therefore, I am trying to remain strictly friends/roommates. Well, even the friendship has to be on his terms. He won’t “allow” me to ask any questions about his life, baby mama, or what’s going on with her. He doesn’t talk to me about anything except movies and mundane things. I think this hurts more than our break-up. He talks to baby mama all the time via tons and tons of texts. He says it’s about the baby, who is (a) not even born yet; and (b) he’s not 100% sure it’s his - she has two other kids by two other dads. A DNA test is going to be done (supposedly).
Keep in mind this girl is ghetto white trash, and I’m not saying that to be mean. That is a fact, even he calls her that. But he is excited about the baby. I asked him today if he loved her, and he yelled at me and said it isn’t my business, which it probably isn’t, but because he ruined our relationship over her, who he claims he doesn’t want as a girlfriend, I want to know what’s what. He can’t afford to move out right now and I need his help financially also. He hasn’t been giving me all of the money he owes me for rent and utilities; I think he must be helping her, but I’m not sure.
Help!! I know I’m being an idiot, but I just want to know how to live with this through the summer without losing my mind completely. Oh, keep in mind when we’re watching movies, he puts his head in my lap and cuddles. We are also intimate on occasion (basically scratching an itch). I am trying to date other people, but I’m still confused. If you have any good advice, I’d be more than happy to listen. But please remember, I can’t afford to boot his butt out until the end of summer. I also want at least some of the money he owes me. That’s my Pisces story…sorry it’s so long. And yes, he can be absolutely wonderful - that is the side I fell in love with. He can also be the coldest, cruelest man I ever had the displeasure of knowing
Thanks to all who took the time to read this lengthy post.
June 19th, 2009 at 5:04 am
Libra Swimming with a Fish,
I know what is like to be financially dependent on someone because of the fear of yourself going under….but you honestly need to boot him out NOW! I dont think the money he owes you is any good to you now anyway. Even if you are in debt, he needs to leave or you need to move out ASAP. The emotional turmoil you are going through having him there is way worse than any financial debt you could ever be in. Think of yourself as a woman who is transcending thousands of years of female dependency. It is a very unhealthy cycle that we woman have to break through and the best time to do it is now…starting with YOU!
I wish you much love and peace in your home…
June 19th, 2009 at 3:04 pm
Sara Marie,
Thanks for your input. However, I guess I didn’t make myself clear. It’s not that I am financially dependent on him; I never was. I work and have supported myself for years. I have never depended on anyone to support me.
He is the one that is dependent on me. He gave away everything he owned when he moved in with me. He wants to stay for the summer and save some money so he can move, which is fine. However, I would like the money he owes me because I am finacially struggling at the moment. Yes, I could kick him out and survive. However, I’d be cutting off my nose to spite my face. He does owe me money and he gives me some weekly. I feel that’s the least I could get out of our so-called relationship. I don’t hate the guy; nor do I hold grudges (maybe I should, lol). I just want advice on how to live in peace throughout the summer. Most of the time we get along. It’s just when I want to discuss anything concerning him and his baby mama drama that things heat up. I would really rather be friends than enemies — that’s just how I am, and I know many will disagree.
In any event, thanks for the time you took to respond…I appreciate it.
June 19th, 2009 at 5:56 pm
A Libra swimming with a Fish,
I’m a Pisces.
I can only imagine how difficult this must be on you! However, what is important now is the baby. The baby is, after all, the only one that is completely innocent in this whole situation.
Quit worrying about yourself for now, and how miserable you might be for a while and try to have a discussion with him about how he plans to support the baby when it comes - and I don’t mean in an argumentative sort of way, but rather in a matter-of-fact sort of way. Stress to him his obligation to offer support to both the mother and the baby when the time comes. If you do these things, you may see a gradual change in the tide.
June 19th, 2009 at 10:20 pm
Prompted by Alex’s post, I would like to add that I am infuriated with people who comment that pisces men are not strong enough. That’s a great misconception!!!! Often people confuse ’strength’ with macho/alpha male types who are rude, truly weak, arrogant, full of insecurities and who try to survive in groups and by pushing people around. Pisces men may be soft and gentle, but they have an infinite inner strength and the ability to assist and support people at levels that everybody else would fail.
June 21st, 2009 at 7:42 am
Libra Swimming with a Fish,
I have read a lot of your posts and I think that the drama you are dealing with is not emotionally healthy. It sounds like you are a strong person but due to dependency you keep this person in your life who doesn’t trully love you the way you want to be loved. Emotional dependency is maybe what you are dealing with? I dont want to come off as blunt or harsh but I think that from your posts, it is time to move on and physical separation is necessary. Dealing with a lover’s other lover and her baby is too much heartache. It is very possible deep down you want what this woman has…your lover’s baby….he seems to be happy with having the baby, let him be happy about it. If that changes him for the better then good, even if that doesn’t include you. Are you struggling with the fact that he is using you but then you don’t want to give him up to be independent and possibly alone? I have dealt with a lover who was polyamorous but also a very good friend that I was in love with. Needless to say, it was unsettling to the core. I had weekly panic attacks because of my confusion and knowing that I wasn’t trully ’special’ to this person. It wasn’t until I physically separated myself from him that I was able to see our situation rationally. I have faith that you can make a clean break, whether you remain friends or not. You want people in your life that are 100% for you…that is what you deserve. That is what everyone deserves…I wish you the best in your journey.
June 21st, 2009 at 10:50 am
Hello, Im Jordan a 18 yr old pisces male. I have grown to quickly understand my emotions, and feelings that dwell inside me over the years. I have a Scorpio mother who I learned a lot from, and an Aquarius Father who I don’t understand, but love very much. The ony thing that I cannot come to grips with is this love thing, I’m a 18 year old African-American Male, I believe I’m exceptionally attractive… lol but I still cannot find anything. I am not the most intitiative person, but when I do take the risk it always back fires. I had a Cancer Female in my life, who was said to be my soulmate by others, and I did have and still do have feelings for her, but she doesn’t seem to have the ability to fulfill my needs. Then I met one of my best friends a Cancer Male, and I feel in and out of emotions. I notice that I quicklly become submerged in people, when they charm me, or show sensitivity or a lot of emotions, especially men. I guess my question is, how do I go about finding true love, and stop all of the foolishness? I mean I know I’m a pisces, and I am in touxh with a lot of me, but how do I show it off to make these other signs appreciate it as much as I do, I though it might be with sensuality, and sex but that doesnt achieve much. I need help…..
signed…
A Lonely Pisces Teen….
June 22nd, 2009 at 3:42 pm
I am a female gemini who has dated a male pisces for over 2 1/2 years. The first month was wonderful. after that the true jim came out. an insecure, no back bone man came out. he promised me lots of things that never happened. he was never ever there for me. whenever i would talk with him about how he would need to do more in the relationship, he would turn it around and tell me that i was “putting him down.”
June 23rd, 2009 at 8:30 pm
I am a classic pisces guy, and I am constantly torn between loving it and hating it. I am overly sensitive about things, don’t like hurting people’s feelings in any way, and even though women are often attracted to me, I find I sink myself with the ones I like because of my general nature. So many women are looking for this super masculine type of guy and sometimes I wish I just knew how to pull that off!! I fake it as best as I can, but in the end, everyone just knows me as this shy guy, who is super nice, and would make the best catch. Never for the ones I want though. I guess another curse of the pisces is that we tend to get stuck looking for the “pretty girl”, but sadly, most of these girls are the ones that are much more feminine and looking for a heavy masculine balance. Not me sadly!
All this said, I guess I have to say that I do appreciate certain things. I play the piano (again, not particularly masculine, but it’s a part of who I am). And as for feelings, well I have them, highs and lows, and both feel pretty intense sometimes. And this tells me I’m alive. And finally sex, well I need it bad, and while I am open to doing just about anything to make the girl happy, I cannot really get excited about it unless I feel something for the person. A friend of mine (a leo) is always trying to convince me to go out and pick up women with him, just to take them home and get laid. But I just simply can’t do that. I once had a woman just throw herself at me (something my leo friend would have been all over), but I couldn’t even get the slightest bit turned on. In fact, it made me pretty uncomfortable.
I guess in the end, I need to find someone I love and who will just accept me for who I am. Sometimes I feel like this is a pretty hopeless endeavor, but I’m still out there, looking (swimming).
June 27th, 2009 at 3:20 pm
Seriously classic Pisces guy
Don’t under estimate yourself. There is a twin flame out there for everyone. You have probably already found him/her but you have to be ready to let this person into your heart. You cannot allow yourself to continue suffering and resisting when “The One” is right under your nose. Not every pretty girl wants or needs a macho man. It is okay to be the female in some situations. Gender is a pretty silly thing that we all know is manipulated by the media and the rest of the world around us. Do not put yourself down because you do not belong down there. Piano is beautiful. Things are only what you believe them to be. The right person is right under your nose…. your challenge as a pisces is to decide whether you want to be caught or not. Otherwise there will still always be a bunch of attractive women around you, all the time but it seems as though you aren’t into those women. A little thinking wouldn’t hurt. Trying to put the pieces together is not as hard as you think. Oh well hoped that helped. Oh and if the window is open and you want to go through it
take action.
June 29th, 2009 at 8:43 pm
ClassicPiscesGuy, I happen to agree with you.Women find me highly attractive but it seems that I’m the only one that doesn’t seem to notice it. My best friend (a Taurus)is always out partying and when I go out with him It seems they are more interested in me the quiet laid back guy than him who is the life of the party.I just don’t seem interested in girls that go out and throw themselves at you at a club. I am more attracted to girls that have some sort of a mystery to them.Where are these girls that I can’t find them????Or is it my Pisces imagination??
June 30th, 2009 at 2:40 pm
PiscesMan,
You sound in denial. You sound like you love it when these girls throw themselves at you. Have you been in a relationship before, if so that may be the case why you want a girl that you have to “work” for. Maybe you are looking to settle down or have a companionship with someone and the club is not the ideal place for that.
July 4th, 2009 at 1:02 am
Amazing! This thread has been going for over a year…. lol…
July 7th, 2009 at 4:52 pm
hi i just wanted to say that not all piscease hate being a piscease it is dificult true but at the same time if one can come to an understanding of who they truly are and really know yourself it semms that pisceaes gets the worst of it and is the most ripped on sign in the zodiac often called the weakest well not true i am a very independent piscease true i engoy time to my self i need space i daydream alot more than most people i know but i also know when to come back down to earth in fact being a piscease can be very enjoyable i wont lie the super sensitivity thing dose suck half the time i cant tell if my emotions are what i am really feeling or do they just belong to someone els nerbye wich can create alot of confusion and miscommunication depinding on the situation.
and on a side note people that say piscease needs a stronger partner than themselves well i am proade to say that i dont fall into that catagory even though i do have a tendancy to take on everyone elses problems just recently it came to my attention that subconscusly i was doing it to avoid dealing with my own sh@t
i do have to agree however that we do have a strong sense of intuition i also found that this can either intriuge or scare people i had a good friend who was a tauran female who also had a high sense of intuition beyond the normal female six sense half the time we spent together it felt like she new what i was thinking and that did a number on me since being a piscease its hard to tell what im thinking with alot of my other friends we had a rare connection unfortunantly it didnt go to much further beyond friendship we had some romantice moments,and we had almost everything in common but i just felt it couldnt go beyond that i look back on that experience as a moment in time thats all she was a fun person to be around but i felt like the more timewe spent together i was holding her and myself back from moving on to better things we also had completly different lives so eventually we went our seperate ways thats another thing about being a fish always on the move!
July 7th, 2009 at 6:38 pm
Whatever, you are right maybe I am looking in the wrong places.
July 7th, 2009 at 11:35 pm
Well im a pisces male. very sensitive! but dnt let myself get down in the dumps! think this is because i have alot of female friends who are compatible with me as a pisces.
one whos a capricorn she can be a shoulder to lean on and like can open up to her and she understands everything going on with my little sensitive self lol
theres also a virgo whos really great to be around full of complaments n really makes me feel good abot me.
pisces on pisces is also okay but just as friends lol end up emotianal wrecks!
taurus is okay as friends only lol my ex girlfriend whos still a really good friend is one! we get on fine as friends but relationship was great at 1st then i rebeled alot and they hate change so it killed the romance which is a big part in a pisces’s life
2 friends who are scorpio and i must say im so lucky to have these one is in and out my life but we stay in touch all the time n still know whats goin on between each other without bein told its weird lol
the other is my best friend my soulmate and definitly the best person for me to go to when everything is depressing and i feel down she picks me up n makes me strong again! its like id be lost without her n no matter what she will always be the one to do these things! soul mate is what describes us best
there’s a tip for any pisces try with a sign such as capricorn or definitly scorpio because all the others dnt seem to be able to deal with us :))
one last thing is aries is what i seem to have a really big attraction to in a girl but in the end it just aint good as there not able to cope with being loved as much as we pisceans put it across
suppose this is just my opinion and experiences but the signs also tell you this so before you settle ? why get hurt look it up
July 8th, 2009 at 7:05 am
john just because you don’t like cancerian women doesn’t mean all pisces men feel the same way you seem to be very shallow for a pisces. and they’re are plenty of pisces/cancer couples johnny cash and june james taylor was with carly 11 years liz taylor mike todd till he died that alligator guy steve irwin/terry irwin and plenty of my good friends so maybe you should research before giving other pisces men inaccurate advice based on you’re shallow opionions
July 9th, 2009 at 12:07 am
To Classic Pisces Male: I am a Pisces woman. I believe scorpio or cancer women may be good for u. At least that is true for the female Pisces with men of those water signs.
Someone please help me. I think an old flame and I are going to get back together. I found out he is a Pisces. I don’t know how it will work. I am sooo turned on by scorpios. I would rather be dominated during intimate times. So being with a Pisces man seems odd even though I heard it can work. But I am not turned on by a man that’s apprehensive about taking it from me lol. And this old flame of mine was really soft. Truthfully, he was immature. But now it’s years and years later and he seems pretty aggressive and has definitely matured. One thing that is interesting is that his Ascendant sign is Scorpio (yummy). Any pisces/pisces out there?
July 9th, 2009 at 2:58 am
hello every one,I am a pieces man, born feb.21.
yeah I am too sensitive, easily get hurt but i keep it myslef,also sensitive to the people around me.Im emotional, easily get worry, i must say i want everything is fine,and secured… Yeah im insecure, in a relationship with the woman i really love, afraid of losing her… I hate liars, thats why i do ask questions and very attentive to answers, once i knw ur lying or hiding, not transparent, its hard for me to establish a strong trust, a complete trust to that person.
July 9th, 2009 at 3:05 am
and also pieces man, are the sweetest man ever, romantic, thoughtful, loyal, faithful(once inlove),sensitive to your needs,emotional where you can share your sad stories for long hours. high in imagination,
July 9th, 2009 at 3:46 am
john also if you read most comments above the cancer women aren’t the ones complaining about how mean pisces men are
July 9th, 2009 at 5:19 am
I too am a pisces man. I’m with a lovely cancerian women. Am quite attracted to moon children. Some Hot cancerian women gisele buchen, liv tyler, julianna hough, meryl streep. natalie wood jessica simpson pam anderson genevive bujold and many more.
July 9th, 2009 at 11:01 am
I am glad to announce that my pisces guy and I are now enganged and are in the initial steps of planning our wedding. It has been a long time coming and it may sound very alarming that I’m suddenly engaged to someone I haven’t seen in perhaps 8 years. It has been a long wait of 18 years and we feel so deeply for each other.
I’m a pisces myself and I know it is very typical for a piscean to be heavily infatuated with a person. This is not infatuation, this is more spiritual than anything. This is my soul mate, I can’t really explain it…we love each other so intensely and passionately, it seems to grow day by day.
July 9th, 2009 at 5:48 pm
I absolutely love Pisces, especially the men. I don’t know what it is, but we always have a natural affinity with one another.
This one Pisces, I’ve known him since childhood. We’re all grown up now and we still talk. But, he was always too shy to tell me how he felt. Sometimes, I think he still is.
One time, we hurt each others feeling so bad; and since then we haven’t really talked about being together.
He essentially is my first love, but I don’t think he realizes that. I am a Capricorn female. I’m generally the more dominating sign most of the time, and sometimes, I think that scared him away. He was always extremely sensitive to everything I did and said…even who I talked to.
This Pisces man? This is what got me about him. He got upset because another Pisces (That he doesn’t necessarily like) took me to my junior prom, and we had begun seeing each other frequently. What I didn’t know, was that these two hate each other! No matter what happens, he gets hurt.
July 9th, 2009 at 6:44 pm
Andy, you bring up a good point. I have friends that are Air and Fire signs but the one’s I am closest with are Earth and Water. I happen to hang out more with Capricorn’s,Scorpio’s and Taurus than with my other friends who are Aquarius,Aries and Libra.I do have friends that are Pisces but we don’t stay in touch that often.I have to agree with you about Aries women. They are extremely attractive but their rebellious nature is too much for us I guess.
July 9th, 2009 at 10:19 pm
Wow, a lot of discussion. Very interesting.
I don’t believe in astrology wholeheartedly, but i do notice how true they can be in pinning down peoples dispositions to certain situations.
I’m a pisces guy. But i rarely identify with some of the qualities, maybe its because I’ve been told i have a ‘Leo Rising and a Virgo Moon’. So i don’t get too wound up in those self-pity emotions. I’ described more like an ‘tough guy’ with a softside once you get to know me.
But i do see a trend in a lot of the complaints here. In that we can flux back and forth. Which is true. Finding a tough line in between being so caring, and having enough time for yourself is something that takes practice. Pisces aren’t supposed to roar like a lion when they feel as if they are being taken for granted or being stretch thin. So instead of having a limit and telling you that, they act out in quiet, but potentially hurtful ways. So while you find us so romantic and caring one second, and then selfish and self-absorbed the next, its because theres no gauge there. In the past, I’ve acted unusually harsh at random times toward women. But luckily, i have a lot of ‘Air’ and ‘Fire’ in my chart, so i notice it, and genuinely dislike the random and hurtful darker emotions. I may have some qualities that help me sort out the issues with my Sun sign, but it also keeps me perpetually confused with myself.
Recently I’ve changed quite a bit, and I’ve noticed it. Now I’m very rational, find over-emotional people annoying, and I roar back when I feel like I am being taken advantage of. So now I am concerned if I am losing that part of me that used to be caring and empathetic. Friends of mine and former girlfriends tuned me into it at first. Some acted like I used to, they got so hurt by the change in my personality that they acted out toward me. Threw a fit, yelled, and just over-powered by irrational emotion.
And seeing that blind emotion made me realize what so many women or friends I
I’ve had in the past felt when they said I had hurt them. Emotions can be so self-centered and destructive. Some emotional people are so certain that their feelings are true that they don’t even notice that it was never real if it could be overturn by something so petty. Real feelings and love can stand through disaster and pain. Proving it. I think over-emotional signs like Pisces, Scorpio, and Cancer especially - are too petty in their emotions. They feel things so deeply that they can’t sort through whats fake and whats real. Maybe your Pisces man was feeling so much for you, that it scared and confused him? If you have that much power over him. Isn’t it a human reaction to try and distance yourself from something that can cause you so much pain? Pisces men are men who are in constant denial about how sensitive they are. Maybe they are feeling the exact same thing you are. We just have different ways of dealing with it. If you are really that insecure of where it is going, just be direct and ask him. Pisces dig bold women. So being bold shouldn’t hurt your chances.
So don’t count out all those pisces guys. Some of us do grow up. But really its up to you women to find what you think is most important to you. If you adore the sensitivity and positive qualities that make these pisces men so infatuating, then you’ll have to put up with the darker qualities. Every sign and every single person has flaws. If the good outweighs the bad, then the person is worth keeping.
July 10th, 2009 at 7:38 pm
Love this thread!! I am a cancerian lady (31) He is a Pisces male (30) I adore him already and we have only been kind of seeing each other for 2 months..
Any piscean men got any tips on how to keep you lot interested or what not to do?
Cheers
Juicy x
July 11th, 2009 at 2:13 am
hi Becky , my name is nick
needless to say my favorite movies are comedies.
and i totally agree with your analysis of the pisces character. I may not be a guy (nick short for nikki) but i totally understand this. i am a very social person and i love being around people, but only when i have to be or when i have not seen someone in a very long time. generally i spend most my time in my own little dream world and i have a hard time feeling connected to this world, quite like an outsider.
In my mind i am a lot more spiritual than religious. In order to mend my soul i just spend some time outside because i truly believe earth as a living breathing organism that feels empathy for our heartache and sadness, and yet comforts us with its loving nature and sometimes even ironic humor
.i have read that majority of pisces love the high life, well unlike most pisces i love nature and would spend most my time in it if i could.
and also unlike most pisces i dont really get my feelings hurt as easily as described and i have gotten over my depression phases and just delt with it. however i am a very emotional person and god sometimes how the tears can flow and it can be over something stupid too like a really sad song or a sad story and sometimes even when i am not sad and i might even be happy i cry.
also like you said i often feel no one really understands me and no one ever will. not fully at least, sometimes i dont even know myself. sometimes i wish i were a different sign maybe i wouldnt be so, i dont know otherworldly i guess lol, but i know that i would not be myself without it and i have finally become to love me for me, which i think can be a hard thing to do for a pisces.
i agree that pisces are generally laid back, but catch them on a bad day boy and you will feel their wrath even if you have not done anything. however they will apologize for everything they said the minute they are done with their rampage because we cant take being mean to others, of feeling as though we hurt their feelings, it breaks our hearts.
being a pisces myself, there is a certain mystic quality about us and we truly are totally unique people. you cant understand us unless you get in our heads and even then you wont understand lol its impossible but if you are in a relationship with a pisces, you wont find anyone more loving at least from the perspective being a pisces and dating a pisces once they fall they fall hard
anywho lol
just wanted to give insight from a pisces girl lol and if this is really terribly writen or typed, forgive me i am half asleep
nick
July 12th, 2009 at 10:16 am
Hi Guys!
I’m a Pisces girl, born on 28th Feb (luckily it’s not on the 29th!)
I have been reading this Pisces-Men thread for… days! Lol. And WOW.. A lot of stories you guys got here..(I still haven’t finished reading it though.. )
I’ve been following Aly the Pisces Ox comments, and I must say Aly.. you’re the most selfish fish here! Lol. You always think that all the Pisces male are the best and if there’s any bad things happen, it’s their partners fault.
My opinion is, in this world, there are good people and not-good people, and same happens for Pisces too, there are good Pisces, and there are not-good ones also.
Cheers!
July 18th, 2009 at 5:30 am
I too have been following this thread for quite some time and would like to voice my opinions on several matters.
First of all, I agree with the above poster in that this “Aly the Water Ox” is selfish and has a superiority complex. He also insists that pisceans are infact extremely logical and rational based on his own experience as a pisces. Well, if you’re reading this, Mr. Water Ox, then have you ever considered that maybe those qualities can be attributed to your Chinese Zodiac sign? The Water Ox?
I also find these overconfident “pisceans,” for instance PiscesKing on March 3rd, to be very unattractive. Everybody likes confidence, whether it be in themselves, friends, or romantic partners, but does anyone seriously find these guys attractive? I ask because I’m not a woman so any female reading this right now please give me your opinion of those types of people. People who say things like, “we pisceans are such a special breed,” “we are the best,” etc. Is it attractive? I admit that I’m charming and attractive as well, so maybe I’m no different from them. Ideally I wouldn’t want these guys repping pisces. It seems as if they’re trying to overcompensate for all the negative stereotypes of pisces as weak effeminate two-timers by being overconfident and representing themselves as pisces…
Anyway, that’s all I have to say… except that I think many problems can be avoided if
everybody (especially pisceans) get to really know and accept themselves for who they are. I think that is really important.
Tuan
July 20th, 2009 at 5:06 am
tuan, i agree. That john character is a complete idiot and closed minded glad he left the post
July 20th, 2009 at 4:08 pm
Tuan,I completely agree with what you said. There are certain Pisces who don’t feel comfortable with who they are and they try to be someone who they are not just to please other people. When I was younger I used to hate being sensitive but as I grow older I have become more acceptable of my Pisces characteristics. Nowadays I have no problem being sensitive and dreamy as long as I am fully aware of my sorroundings.
July 21st, 2009 at 3:59 am
Jen,
That was uncalled for. We’re all adults here, I would hope we shouldn’t need to resort to petty name calling simply because we disagree. John is allowed his opinions, just as you’re entitled to yours, but there is no need to be so insulting about them.
July 21st, 2009 at 9:49 pm
impossible if you read all the comments you idiot you would understand what i’m saying towards the ever opionated subjective idiot john and yes it was called for he shouldn’t be giving advice when he doesn’t know what he’s talking about you’re probably john yourself
July 23rd, 2009 at 11:15 am
ok i am a pisces male and i am very intuned to psychic experiences and my intuitive talents and i can listen in to peoples thoughts. theres actually times where i think im actually tuning in to exactly what someone else thinks its pretty remarkable but it sucks for relationships. i am very sensitive and do turn inward to try to avoid the unitedness of everything i cant control the feelings around me and it can just be too much. im very calm and usually pretty quiet and its hard for other peole to understand me since my dreamyness can be pretty evident. its just hard to share the feelings of so many people when i can hardly understand my own. and for relationships i am just waiting for that one perfect girl that can just relate on another level.. well i have great friends and roommates that keep me in check with reality otherwise i can be pretty introverted.
July 23rd, 2009 at 9:46 pm
rcol, I agree with everything you wrote. I feel the exact same way. It’s weird when I know what a person is thinking even without exchanging words with them and yes I am too waiting for that perfect girl which I think is a product of our imagination…sad but true.
July 24th, 2009 at 1:54 am
Jen,
I see I was wrong about the whole “we’re all adults” thing. I’m not going to bother responding to you until you stop acting like a child with misguided anger against Pisces and can refrain from name-calling.
Best wishes,
Impossible
July 24th, 2009 at 3:33 am
rcol….she will find you!
July 24th, 2009 at 5:24 am
Let me just clarify, I’ve never been into this whole astrology thing. A lot of is bogus to me. One day out of curiousity I decided to read what pisces were, because people often ask me what my birthsign was. I can not believe some of the similarities between the signs and people I know, most notably myself. It’s …scary.
I am a 21 year old pisces male. I am too also enlisted in the US Army. I joined out of obligation. I felt extremely disheartened with all the bloodshed, and hatred going on in the world and always do. It crushes me, it utterly crushes me when I see or hear or read about the devastation my fellow man causes upon one another. I felt…I feel, obligated to do something about it. Joining the Army was a way I sought to do this, and I don’t regret it. Is it the life I want to live forever? Most definitely not…I want to be a teacher when I leave. Anyway I can potentially help my fellow man out, that’s what I want to do. I don’t know how I can explain it to others…it’s a very weird feeling. I do often dream of things playing out, but I don’t let them take me over. I do get very sensitive about things and take criticsm very harshly. It’s just, the hatred, the blatant disregard for each other, our overly compulsive and rash disgust for other people utterly overwhelms me. It makes me cry, often, at night, as I stare up at the ceiling knowing there’s not a damn thing i’ll probably do to solve it but i’m going to try. If it means my life, then so be it. I will die for something that I believe in.
As far as relationships go, I’ve had very few. I’ve always longed for love. For someone who trusts in me, and I them. Someone who is kind, gentle, and passionate. Someone whom I can stare into their eyes in complete and utter silence and never be bored. I think I may have found her, she is what they would call cancer, and she is a lovely human being.
July 24th, 2009 at 2:05 pm
Daniel,beautifully written.As only a Pisces can.
July 24th, 2009 at 2:08 pm
Daniel:
You have just described what I feel in my heart.Just remember that there are better times ahead for humanity.Peace and Love
July 28th, 2009 at 9:42 pm
As a male with Pisces Sun,Rising Sign,Mercury and Venus (alot I know) I read something that made me think I should share with fellow pisces. We are all encompassing of all the other signs, we are in a sense on our last legs. I’ve been to psychics who have said that I am an old soul and I suppose that being so sensitive as a pisces makes me far removed from our youth-centric materialistic culture. I believe in altruistic love (aka love without strings) and forgiveness to those have not understood pisces people. Kindness and Sensitivity are to the surface acts of weakness when however they are probably the strongest characteristics to share with people who need them. Unfortunately we take the hits from people who just don’t understand. What I read was that we as old souls or Pisces (or just very sensitive people) have a gift but we have to learn balance. We have to control our anger/depression when people harm us emotionally yet share our sensitivity with people that need it. Not easy to do, easy to say. I’m still learning! Love is stronger than any hate. Water (pisces) is stronger than Fire,Metal or even Earth. Remember this pisces!
Use your powers wisely
July 29th, 2009 at 5:48 am
hello, i was currently talking to a pisces male and he had a lot of mood swings as if he was PMSing. seriously one day he would be nice and the next completely ignore me. he would get on my case a lot and all of the sudden he became worried about my finances and me eating candy was bad for my health and then he’d ignore me like if i didn’t exist. and then he was cracking jokes and giving me advice…and then he tells me to shut up..then he tells me he likes me cuz im crazy and cool (but didn’t say in what way he liked me) and then the next day he ignores me..is that normal of a pisces male…does it mean he is interested or is he just a jerk?
July 30th, 2009 at 1:58 am
Im a cancer woman and Ive been in love with a Pisces man all my life. I have no idea what my (or his) rising sign, or ascending whatever is, I just know that regardless of what happens, the two of just keep coming back around to each other and when we do, its like we’ve never been apart. I met him when I was 14 and for both of us there was an instant knowing that we were for each other, love at first site I guess you would say. The moment I set eyes on him I told my best friend that he was going to be mine and at the same time he told his friends that I was his (I later discovered). Over the years we have drifted apart at times and led totally seperate lives, sometimes due to circumstances beyond our control and sometimes by choice….we’ve both had different partners, other loves, but something always keeps pulling me back to him and I end up contacting him or vice versa (usually me contacting him) Although I have to admit he loves being ‘found’ and delights in the fact that I havent forgotten him and have taken the time and energy to track him down again. What he doesnt consider is that Ive always known where he was and what he was up to. (not in a stalker kind of way mind u) Now again Im speaking to him after 13 years (it took me that long to get over him hurting me very badly) and although I dont completely trust him I still love him as much as I did the first day I laid eyes on him.
Unfortunately we are both moody and inevitably end up offending the other and retreating in each our own way, I clam up and he swims off. I have to admit though, he is much more sensitive and moody than I am! This is what has stopped us being a couple and it seems too high a hurdle to get over at times, maybe we wont ever be a consistant and solid couple but I know I will always love him, and no one can replace that place I have for him in my heart. I thought cancer and pisces were supposed to be a match made in heaven????
July 30th, 2009 at 1:47 pm
Just when I thought I had entered paradise, I get a cold emotional slap on my face. My piscean guy can say very spiteful things when angry or pissed off. Stuff that seem out of character for him and because we are both pisces, the bad mood extends for more than a few hours. I have tried more than once to be the bigger person but everytime I feel like I’m giving him the upper hand. What is the best way of dealing with that spitefulness? Is it a common trait?
July 30th, 2009 at 4:51 pm
I would say to talk to him truthfully and ask him why he’s feeling that way. He probably is just emotional and stressed out. Being spiteful is just a defensive thing, sounds like he hasn’t matured about it.
July 31st, 2009 at 2:19 pm
I am an aquarius woman in a relationship with a Pisces man. An unlikely match, but he’s my soulmate. I appreciate his sensitivity and feminine side. I tend to have some masculine traits, so we balance each other very well. I remember the first time my Pisces man cried. I was a bit taken aback, but then I realized how fortunate I was to be with a man who was not afraid to show his emotions. He treats me like an absolute Queen and has become my best friend. He is not my first Pisces relationship, so all I can say about Pisces men is that they flourish when they feel respected and appreciated. The Pisces men I have known who are cold and insensitive have been hurt one too many times for their sensitivity. Not everyone is able to appreciate this aspect of their character. But when it IS appreciated, be prepared to be treated like you are the best thing that ever walked the earth! This is a match truly made in heaven for me.
August 1st, 2009 at 11:20 am
Aquarius girl, you r quite right, that is good advice, Pisces love having their ego stroked, they r at their best when they feel loved and appreciated. If Pisces is in a bad mood, give him time and space for a bit, then come back and talk to him, he’ll usually apologise cuz they dont like to hurt people’s feelings intentionally.
August 1st, 2009 at 4:34 pm
I’m March 9th. I for one am almost dangerously Piscean! In all honesty, I’ve never been able to really initiate a relationship with anyone, which is probably because I feel as if someone’s gonna come to me, instead of the other way round, which is a very feminine thing. Also, I’m wildly dreamy, I cannot properly focus on anything, even if it’s really plain to see, right in front of me! And I’m pretty damn depressive, can’t help wearing my heart on my sleeve, can suddenly become extremely happy for just a moment then go back to being blue again, and constantly thinking about something I saw on TV or an awesome piece of music or what have you.
I rather like all this astrology stuff (though I don’t necessarily believe in it as such!), so I think a piscean girlfriend would do me so much good. Or maybe not, I dunno…
August 3rd, 2009 at 7:55 pm
You sound like me Dan. Have you done a full birth chart yet? You may have alot of water in your chart. I’ve always been that way with women also because I’m been so sensitive and shy growing up with women. I’m older now and see that I can talk with women easier now and take it easier (I think my hormones were off the chart back then). Just remember that being sensitive is a blessing and a curse and to learn to balance it or it will take control of you (from experience). You are who you are and should love yourself as yourself. Also try to remember that there people who will try to take advantage of your gentle nature, some more subtley than others.
August 7th, 2009 at 12:17 pm
I’m also a pisces man. I am exactly the way you’ve described a pisces man. I just want to be involved in a sexual intercourse wit hot, cute attractive and beautiful girls.
August 7th, 2009 at 8:40 pm
I am very much a pisces man. I am a dreamer, I am moody, I am shy, I want to save the world. I am everything a pisces man can be (the good and the bad). With my daydreaming I can see any and everything I want but don’t know how to go about achieving all of it. I can escape from things I don’t want to deal with but I know they have to be dealt with so I move forward and do it. I am moody and can get depressed. I do want my down time away from my love, friends and family. It does not mean that I don’t love them. If you are dating or married to a Pisces man be understanding and know that his moodiness isn’t about you. With that being said, I have to understand that these people love me and I have to give as well. Just because I want my alone time does not mean I can have it all the time. Dating is hard for a pisces male because of the mood swings. Women take it personal when we do this. I am going to be honest, if you have not heard from me in awhile it means I am not feeling you. We know when it is right for us. I date all the time and I know when I meet her that she is someone I want to date or not. I know it!! I will go out anyway sometimes because I let others tell me there is no way to know it that fast. I go on a couple of dates and I know she isn’t the one for me. I find that women attach to me very easy. Ladies if a man does not call you back after a few dates “he’s not that into you”. As I get older I have learned that I can’t be sexual with every woman I date. I am a pleaser when it comes to sex. I will do anything in my power to please you. That gets me off knowing that I have pleased her. I think its that way with most pisces men. We do whatever to please. Its an ego thing too. Knowing that about myself, I don’t have sex with someone who is looking for a relationship. I do like to date without the committment if I have not found the one. I can see a woman once or twice a month for sex without there being a committment for years. Ladies know the rules of the game before you start having sex with a pisces man. We DON’T committ easily. Finding the one is hard for us but when we do find her, we fall hard. Ladies, I know we are hard to read and hard to get along with sometimes but if you know he loves you, stick with him. I promise you 9out10 his alone time is alone time. Don’t fear that he is with someone else. The moodiness is apart of us. Pisces man, if you have a good woman and you know she loves you, work with her. Don’t be selfish and stay in your world.. You will lose her if you are not careful. I am a true pisces man but I can’t let that control my life. I have to control it.
August 11th, 2009 at 3:08 pm
I am a Cancerian dating a Pisces man for almost 4 months, we have been inseperable since the day we met. We are crazy about each other.
I think Pisces men do enjoy a bit of a chase, the first night we met was at a party and the chemistry between us was off the charts, I had been led to believe he was interested in a friend of mine, but when she left he stayed and even asked me to kiss him (this astounded our friends as he is quite shy), I gave him a small peck on the lips then went to keep enjoying the party, he followed me around bantering with me all evening. All of our mutual friends said they had never seen either of us behave that way. We ended up kissing a lot at the end of the night and he made sure I got home safe and asked for my number, but I teased him and said if he liked me enough he would find it…
The next day he called all my friends til someone gave him my number and we have been a couple since. I used to tease him a lot in the beginning and playfully pretend I wasn’t interested in him, but he loved this…he just kept coming back for more.
Now we are very settled together, we play fight and joke around and snuggle up watching movies, we talk about everything thats in our heads and hearts. I think Pisces men need a touch of mothering from their woman, someone who makes them feel safe but also a very strong woman…recently we had a few bad arguments about how jealous he can be (about exes/total strangers…you name it) and he said some very hurtful things to me, but I showed respect for myself and stood my ground, I distanced from him and gave him space and he has come back stronger, apologising for hurting me. He knows now that I will reassure his fears but I will not be atttacked verbally or he will risk losing me.
We can really be ourselves together and it is quite a beautiful union, we are both creative (me and artist and him a musician) he writes me poems and I shelter him from the harshness of the world and boost him up when he is feeling down. His soft words and kindness shine through, we have incredible passion and real intimacy.
I know we are both truly in love, we both have freedom but never want to leave each others side.
A Pisces man will give the Cancer woman the sort of adoration and security she needs, and she in turn will love him for who he is and not try to fit him in a mould, she will look after and nurture him. They can both show their vulnerabilities but will be strong for each other…A match made in heaven.
August 14th, 2009 at 7:44 pm
I am a pisces male. Everything confuses me. I try to help others over helping myself. It’s something I’m going to have to get over. I’m absolutely head over heals for a gemini girl, but she won’t see me or herself in the of the goddess that she is. It also confuses her how I could feel so deeply for in such a short amount of time that we’ve been hanging out. I try really hard to question myself if whats going on is reality, or my reality. It leads to self doubt. I’m trying to find balance, but it’s really hard. I like any good hearted individual wants to save the world. You don’t have to be a pisces to feel this way. Just like there are good and bad people in the world, no matter what sign they are. I am Sagitarrius rising with some earth planets. Haha.. double mutable.. doesn’t feel nice but the potential is there and it puts alot of pressure on me.
When with anyone, if they treat you badly, they are not worth your time. Don’t blame their sign, blame them. They are bad people for whatever reason. Have some self worth, be honest with yourself and others, and things will always work out. We live our own lives, so take control..
August 15th, 2009 at 8:12 am
I’m a Pisces female myself..
The need of constant loving and security is what we need. We need a guy that understands us and listens to every detail we speak of. We like guys who remember the slightest things eg. Birth date, fav colour, an embarrasing moment or a funny/dry joke..etc. But we dont like guys who just sigh and get bored of us because of what we have to say..It hurts our sensitive souls..Listen and keep an opened mind..Many pisces will open up once they know they can trust you..
The need to laugh is what we consider emancipation..We need a guy who can make us laugh..Make us realise that things can better if we turn to the real world but in a positive manner..By all means, never force us into doing things that are too complicated for us that can make us regret.. We first of all need the trust from a guy to know and be sure that he is going to be there for us when we fall..So its better to start of with a simple friendship, and let it rip from then on..
Anyways..I`ve read a couple of comments about pisces men, and i was quite shocked at what you all had to say..I was once in love with a Leo guy, and yes it was a bad one.. He always gave me the hot and cold signal..A bit of advice, don’t hold on for too long..A leo likes to chase..But its hard for the pisces to resist being around them..maybe even stalkn them..lol..It didn’t go so well for me with this lion since he was too confusing for my liking..
We like guys who are straight up with their feelings..with honesty..we don’t want a guy who can play with our minds, otherwise we`ll become aggressive or make us feel sad, weeping for days, keeping us locked away in the dark.. which isn’t so good for us.. That’s why we must stick with the signs : Pisces, Capricorn, Scorpio, Cancer.. These signs will be a satisfying one..
Also..i am currently in a erotic relationship with another pisces..Guy of course..lol..the need for sexual satisfaction is a must for this guy..Im not sure about him..He is in a relationship, but not commited..The only thing we do together, is have phone sex..I mean, i try to slow it down sometimes, but he always gets frustrated and wants more..I tried to open up about how i feel, by saying lovey dovey things to give him signs that i like him, but he just changes the subject..To me, he`s secretive, sexual, sensitive and a good listener..His all i want in a man..But im not sure what role i play in his life atm? He says im his toy girl..Yeah, it makes me laugh, but then again confused and kinda hurt..I know not to give up..Because a pisces needs that trust..That satisfation..And yes, i have been trying to..But then again, ignored him and his texts..i want him to come to realisation that it isn’t only me that is supposed to put in effort to call..He should too..and its working..His been more clingy then ever before..Hmm..I need to know from a pisces guy himself what this all means..What does it mean when a pisces looses touch, and then all of a sudden, becomes more clingy..I know for a fact that him and his gf are on a rocky boat..I feel he comes to me for comfort..sexual satifation..and laughter..I feel like im liking this guy..But not fully able to say im in love..I wish he was mine..AM i doing the right thing by giving him my all, even knowing that he is a taken pisces who is currently in a rocky relationship?
August 15th, 2009 at 8:29 am
Im March 2nd
His Feb 28th..
Any good becky?
August 19th, 2009 at 2:14 pm
Maybe this piscean guy and me are not a match made in heaven after all. He says I’m impatient with him. Well maybe I am but he has to earn good money for himself if he is to achieve his glossy entrepreneural dreams. I’m also a pisces so I know a daydreamer when I see one! Right now he feels like calling the relationship off because of my tendencies to worry. Heck, I can’t help it, I neet to know I will be financially secure if I settle down with another dreamer. Career wise, I’m much further than he is and I’ve made it known that financial security is of great importance to me. Does he feel threatened? I try not let him feel that way but at the same time I can’t live on “one day…you never know…” Maybe I’m a different breed of a pisces, but I find it frustrating sometimes. Any good strategy toward this?
August 19th, 2009 at 9:46 pm
I have my pisces guy for 8 months now. What I can say about his general characteristics and traits ( he was born 03/08/87)? First, he is musically inclined, as he is a drummer of a band. He can create his own song compositions, and he sounds like a poet. He is funny one moment, and the other, drifts from his usual self. This is the characteristic I am really trying hard to learn to understand, because whenever he drifts and thinks deeply, and wants his own space and time for the meantime, I am thinking and feeling that I did or say something awful towards him. This was my usual reaction, but whenever I try to ask him, when he comes back to his senses, he just answers me that he is fine and nothing is wrong. And then he would be back with his funny and normal side. He is intuitive and caring and loving. As the fish is their symbolism, I can say that indeed, there are 2 fishes swimming on the opposite tides and currents. One fish cannot live without the other fish, but they cannot swim on the same current, and will never meet, whatever happens. That has been my experience with my pisces guy. I have accepted all his flaws from his past, and I think this brought me closer and had him opened up his emotions. I was always there for him, no matter what. No other sign was able to reciprocate my love and affection, than what he did. He would really go the extra mile, meaning do silly things just to make me happy, would adapt with my mood swings, and be really really patient with my stubbornness ( am a Taurus girl). We never had a major argument, and he always reminds me not to fight things out, because this makes him insane. He wants us to talk things over first always, so this impresses me a lot. Any topic would be good for us, even his plans for our future, and we love to travel! I am just happy that I have met this guy. He was the one person, I thought I would only meet in my dreams, but he is real. I know there are 2 sides of his fishes, and I am accepting both sides, may it be dark or good.
August 24th, 2009 at 10:48 pm
I’ve never believed in the zodiac signs because I don’t think that we 6 billion people can be separated into 12 only.
However, a lot of the girls, I have been with, have always something to say about the horoscope.
I decided to go online to check mine and I ended up here.
I could only read some of the comments here. I am really amazed how people can judge me through their personal experience.
Lame, extremely lame.
August 25th, 2009 at 10:53 pm
I am a Scorpio woman I met a pisces guy at a wedding 3 years ago.. i was at the point of breaking up with my ex when we met.. he got my number of hes cousin and he texted me saying i looked amazingly nice.. we had the nicest conversation until 4am on our first phone call we just clicked. went out but we just talked a little about our relationship problems and had ice cream. at this point i really started liking him..after a few days he was moving away for work.. i told him i liked him and he just wouldnt call or text me.. he finally called and sed that i needed to sort my life out first (not in a rude way) but as a friend and he also said he did not want to be a rebound.. we both moved on in our lives and i was with another guy for 2 years i broke up with that guy and i get a message from the pisces as he read my status as single on my profile.. he asked me what happend and i answered we started texting..this was early this year.. he even called me a couple of times but then i had to keep my distance as i was hurt but the previous guy and also i had some family problems (this was also the time to find out what i really wanted) .. well just recently i messaged him again and he sed he had just split up with hes girlfriend..i asked what happend and he said that he will tell me when he sees me.. he messaged me saying how about food and a movie? i said that would be great .. he said he will call me and let me know when.. it has nearly been 2 weeks and he hasnt called.. i really do have feelings for him i dont know maybe its a soft spot i was also doing research on our horoscopes and our western horoscopes and chinese horoscopes also make the best match.. i dont want to go too much into horoscopes but i just feel there is a connection between us two and i dont know how he feels sometimes he excites me then he disapears.. i think im in love with him but i dont know how or why!! helpp
August 27th, 2009 at 11:55 am
Evalina, your story sound almost like mine, just that mine spanned over 18 years!!! If it were really meant to be then come hell or high water, the two of you will be together… even if it may take years. He’s a pisces and you’re a scorpio, you pair like a match made in heaven!! Whatever happens, do not put your life on hold for him, if you meet other guys who seem good for you, then do go out, live your life, experience and learn…in time after you’ve done all the living you think you would have done, then you know know, he might just show up form around the corner and propose! In my experince, a pisces man might not show it because he is shy, but they do believe in soulmates. When I gave up on my pisces guy, he showed up out of the blue and proposed. He had never stopped believing we wer meant for each other. Because I was driven more by the actions he took, I assumed he was just no that into me, but he was. I think it’s the emotional and psychological stages that they go through that makes them delay for that long. Do not loose heart, I know it sounds impossible to do, but maybe like me, your case is a special one. 18 years. That’s long enough to get married, have a family and get divorced! But he found me and the thoughts of settling down were now gone out the window. During those years I did meet guys who I thought were the “one”, I almost had a nervous breakdown after my scorpio guy broke up with me! Now I look back and I’m glad none of those relationships worked out because I would have missed my destiny. Did the thoughts of him being married ever cross my mind? Almost everyday and he also thought the same of me, only to find out how wrong we were. Sometimes the pisces just assumes something and then start to believe it’s true. It maybe that he thinks you’re committed to someone else that he’s stalling. I believe he will come around, the question is will your heart be open to him when he does????
August 28th, 2009 at 4:16 am
Hello,
I am a Leo and I dated a pisces when I was just a teenager. He was extremely sweet, affectionate, and loving. We had a great relationship in my opinion. However I really didn’t quite get the emotional side of him at the time and was uncomfortable with the situation. In the end, he must have felt me pulling away and we ended up breaking up. That was 14 years ago.
Very recently, we met up again and I realized how some aspects of that sensitive side were good. Leos love attention and the pisces definitely doesn’t lack in that area. He right away starting saying and doing all the romantic type of things that I absolutely loved about him. I think that he was on to something at a young age and understood what women need. Unfortunately, I didn’t know what I wanted out of life at the time so it didn’t work out.
So, I like this pisces man. The one I know is a great friend, sexy, and sensitive. Since fourteen years have gone by I would like to see what kind of man he has evolved into. I appreciate strength at the right times too.
August 30th, 2009 at 9:01 am
I dated this guy who was a pisces. We had a inter racial relationship. He was different the other pisces. He sensitive a little, he was neat, but powerful with his presents, voice, and mind. I believe he had psychic powers. He put my mind in a trance or read it. It seemed like he was playing mind games but he wasnt. He could read into me. I never felt anything so fluint. Even in the bed room he was AAAAAMAZZIING. So damn it creep me out. He was not dramatic anything. He was charming sexy, athletic. The down fall was he was too good to be true. I read what some people say about pisces, in which they run away but he didnt run away i made myself. Everytime i looked in his eyes he takes my mind on a journey. i dont know im not crazy. the SOB was perfect. He could read me but i couldnt not read him i dont know if he was defensive, but i dont think any one could. i think pisces get what they want and then go on with life. i was scared. He was a beautiful black male and i was a lucky asian half white woman. im just 25, and yes im a vigro. He was 25. Pisces has to be the most powerful sign because they can come and go with ease
August 30th, 2009 at 4:33 pm
Hello everyone,
I have really enjoyed reading all the post about Pisces men. For years I have known that a Pisces is supposed to be my perfect match….I finally met one at the beginning of this month…and I am 41 yrs old! Wow…the connection was instantaneous…the moment I laid eyes on him. This never happens! All of the great qualities you all have mentioned have been very clear.
However the bad ones surfaced to. He seems very insecure despite being a very good looking man. He seems nervous when he is not in his own surroundings/comfort level. And recently I noticed he can be moody and irratable and even mean.
The problem is that I have a very low tolerance for someone’s crap so to speak and I am worried that I won’t be able to hang in there. The connection and hold he has over me is incredible though. Any ideas of how to handle him?
Also, my sister is a Pisces and we are truly best friends. She is kind and caring and I see none of the bad traits…are females Pisces any different? I really am shocked to see such a bad side of my Pisces guy so soon. Any comments would be great:)
August 31st, 2009 at 7:27 am
Hey Scorpiogal…
I’m a pisces woman dating a pisces guy. In one of my recent posts I asked about the same question on a pisces guy being mean and spiteful things. It all boils down to the individual’s personal experience with life and relationships. If he’s been really hurt by some past relationship, I think to protect himself, the pisces man can go the 180 degree opposite of his sensitive side - to be a mean heartless motherfucker!!! But that doesn’t last long either, give hime some space (but you must also stay close enough) to sort those negative energies out and he’ll be back to this old caring, sensitive and sensual self again. I know when I go through my own “stuff” and I’m all bitchy towards him, he absorbs it like a sponge and I love him for that. The fun part is that we can get to ring out the absorbed issues in a sexy way!!!
I know pisces woman can have a temper, I don’t know about scorpio woman, a little bit of patience goes a long way when dealing with a pisces man. Active listening and talking about his issues while doing an acivity which he likes will also help. I know sometimes to get a bugging issue out of my pisces man is to help him wash the car (his other girlfriend!) and lightly bring the subject up, and my goodness, does it really open up the jammed clogged up parts of his soul. I respect that sometimes, when he talks heartfelt issues, he won’t be able to look me in the eye but that’s ok because I know it’s his heart that’s talking. So try that. I’m not saying my formular works with every pisces guy, I’m merely sharing my experience. It can be a tough journey getting to know a pisces, but the efforts really pay off, especially if it’s “written in the stars”. It took me 18 yrs to finally connect with my guy so I’d rather work harder at making this relationship work than continue with the “trial & error” relationships, I’m not getting any younger!!!
September 2nd, 2009 at 5:28 am
I just don’t know what to do about pisces male anymore. I have already “laid it on the line” for him. I still get no response. I don’t want to make assumptions but I’m guessing he does not feel the same way about me. Its just weird because when we hug its like there is no earth below our feet. Atleast thats what I felt. I just feel like there is only SO MUCH I can put into this relationship before I have nothing more to work with in terms of where I stand with him. I will not make demands. I will lay here until I grow a beard. Honestly that is how much I love this fellow.
I believe in him. I support everything he says & does. I thought that is what pisces liked? Perhaps he only sees me as a friend and can’t get away from that notion. He has really got me scratching my head here. Its like dying a slow death happily with him in mind. It does not matter though because damn he’s fine. Too perfect for me. Any of you feel like Pisces man is just too good for you? Im giving him his much needed “space” right now but its not bringing him into my loving arms any faster.
September 2nd, 2009 at 10:16 am
I am a fish I believe that at least 75% of all posts on this website are true about Pisce specially male since I am one. I am a dreamer I dont like drama I am extremely sensitive I do not like judgment I love the serenity my heart mind and soul receive from beeing with myslef I do not believe this is loneliness instead I see it as the cultivation of knowledge. I do believe we intercept other peoples emotions it makes me strong but at the same time weak, it is very true that hardly ever any one can truly understand this gift we have to offer. I am all about love, respect, understanding, and I am willing to give my life heart and soul to some one who can truly comprehend the value of the gift that is instored with in me. Life is complicated I am looking for simplicity for the best things in life are free, love, oxigen, our true sences.
Ivan
September 3rd, 2009 at 5:43 am
becca and sexybecky what are your sunsigns if i may ask?
September 3rd, 2009 at 6:14 am
Becca,
I can’t help but think your Pisces is trying to save you from yourself. You said “I believe in him. I support everything he says & does. I thought that is what pisces liked?” and you have to ask yourself are you doing that because that’s how you truly feel? Or are you doing it because you think it will somehow get him to like you? If you’re doing it for reasons that are not truly the desires of your heart there’s a good chance your Pisces can feel it. He may unknowingly be more devoted to the relationship than you are.
The way you phrased your post makes it sound like you’re being completely subservient to your Pisces guy, which is really never a good thing. A relationship should be between equals. If you want your Pisces guy to take the next step in the relationship with you, it has to arise naturally from both partners. It can’t be forced through passive subservient play.
Instead of acting like a slave to your Pisces, be yourself and take charge, at least a little. Give friendly hints at opportune times that you’d like something more from the relationship and see how he responds to that. Of course this is just my opinion - take it for what it’s worth.
Sincerely,
Impossible
September 3rd, 2009 at 7:45 pm
Greetings, I am a pisces male who has been following this thread for a while, although never given my two cents.
They say the activity in a dolphins brain is so great that it would appear to them as if we were asleep, if you based this on the science of brain activity. What is it you are looking for in a relationship? Really? Do you want to love and grow? Or are you caught up in the mundane distractions of this world? Pisces need love too, and you can’t blame them for making some bad choices in women for long term relationships. A good long term match is hard to find for a pisces male but not impossible; part of pisces
problem is he never knows how to let a person down easy
and does not want to hurt their feelings, they think you might be able to buy a clue. If you are caught up in only what you see in this world don’t date a pisces, it is only for the brave and adventurous who truly wish to be better people and see what magical realms that two can explore, money won’t buy you happiness, just a very dull life. I don’t believe in Jesus, Chrisitianity or the belief in a god who cares what we do, but I am willing to bet that Jesus had he existed, was a pisces, no one seemed to understand him either and thought he was
crazy, if however you were the sensitive pussy like jesus boy that Kurt Cobain (FEB 20) complained about being you
would just shoot yourself. Maybe pisces don’t make the
perfect relationship for humans because thety are aliens from another world or angels on their last worldly mission before they become angel again. They are also aghast at the profound stupidity of most human beings
who will have to live a thousand life times before they get it right and “god” don’t care. You are you’re own God and hey, if you want to learn something in this life you woud be best to learn it from a pisces. Dig your own hole or save your soul the choice is yours. You’ll
never get to heaven with a smile on your face from a pisces anyway. Shout out to Scorpio lady if you ever
come back I am so hot for you and sorry for your pisces who didn’t care, his other girlfriend must be just like you. I wish I’d met you. Apologies for all spelling/gram
September 4th, 2009 at 4:34 am
Dan, you were better off keeping your mouth shut. You sound awfully arrogant. Pisces are no big deal. You say you don’t like to hurt people they should get a clue. Well than why lead women on in the first place? Because you’ll are desperate for attention? At least Aries have the balls to say it to your face. “OH WE DON’T WANT TO HURT YOU.” this statement is said over and over in pisces posts. Then how bout not doing anything in the first place to hurt someone. TAKE THAT CLUE. Pisces men are just plain selfish and cowardly and very very mundane. JESUS who you don’t believe in anyway is a Capricorn. but osama bin laden is a pisces.Cowardly as they come.
September 4th, 2009 at 2:14 pm
if you cannot ‘get’ the pisces and this is causing you emotional pain, it is better to keep your distance. there is no need to make ANY sacrifices and certainly no need to spout abuse. a great man once said (and i wouldn’t use his name without his consent): “Don’t get used to emotional pain; you will see yourself as a noble martyr, which leads to nowhere.”
September 4th, 2009 at 6:48 pm
To Eve, What are you talking about and to whom?
September 5th, 2009 at 12:39 am
Look I’m not trying to start an argument with anyone, just
expressing my point of view-everyone’s got one right?
What was Hitler’s sign, I suppose a pisces too? Pisces get a bad rap and you bringing up bin Laden brings an interesting tidbit to light. If Pisces the water sign is feminine in nature that would mean bin Laden is a girl and add on top of that he is martyr, so you are looking at someone who’s belief system is fractured and he is behaving very vindictive, maybe even persecuted for his
beliefs Like it or not bad people exist in this world, but what is a bad man, but a good man’s job. This goes way
beyond the you and me and into something entirely different. A good man is a bad man ’s teacher. Like the guy who posted before me said, you should never get used to emotional pain. I can’t help it if weak pisces exist, I can only speak for myself. This astrology stuff is fun but it does not define people. Maybe if you knew more about your potential mates past you could bring to light more about who that person is based on how they grew up. Love and Light
September 5th, 2009 at 3:21 am
I feel this site is somewhat helpful in understanding some things about myself where I wouldn’t ever communicate my feelings before, in fact, this is the first place where I have ever had enough balls to talk about myself. Perhaps one of you could help me answer my life’s biggest enigma.
My pisces powers seem to be completely out of control.
I try not to be to concerned with peoples prying eyes but
when I go out in public all eyes are on me, ie little children, people young and old. In many situations I will try to converse with people and they will flat out ignore me and say nothing! I seem to cause extreme jealousy in people
friends and people who don’t even know me, therefore I have no relationships or true friends, everybody goes away in the end. I can see right through people but I downplay it and try to go along with the crowd, but it doesn’t work. I am highly efficient at my job but as time
goes by, I notice people do not know how to handle truly competent people, I would almost be better a loser.
I feel like a freak of nature and have had very few people approach me because of some fear, especially women, men usually respect me. I don’t like the feeling
of making people fearful because it is not a desirable trait for this life. It is like I have evolved into this strange character I don’t even know. I sometimes think
I know what its like to be a creature not of this world. I wish for so much goodness but even the best in this world have their doubts, no one seems to be truly free
of anything. Any of you intelligent people out there have any ideas on what is going on?
September 5th, 2009 at 5:42 pm
Hey Dan!
Have you thought what would make people be afraid of you? Could it be the fact you could see right through them??? and you choose not to act on it. Perhaps its like “This person knows something about me and I don’t how he does but he can expose me at any moment”. I know part of you can’t help seeing right through people but you can’t hold everything in forever to “protect” people. Its not doing YOU any good. Sometimes you just have to let it out. Like you said, “this is the first website where you’ve opened up about yourself”. That’s good you need to do that more often.
In fact, I bet there’s a chick who is madly in love with you right now and your seeing maybe a few other women and you really like her but can’t ever let her truley know how you feel because of this “fear” that is most likley not theirs but YOUR fear. Fear that one of these women is going to get seriously hurt. Thats t he price some people have to pay if you a want a nice loving, long, lasting relationship.
Take it from an Aquarius who can’t pry some feelings out of a pisces if she had a crowbar. Just be yourself and let people know how your feelin. Your not ALWAYS going to get beat over the head when you do. LOTS of people love you! They NEED to know how your feeling. They depend on your insight. Don’t deny them this great knowledge you have. Peace
September 5th, 2009 at 6:11 pm
Dan, your first comment did sound arrogant and you have to keep in mind that there are other sensitive people out there that could easily get offended with your comments.I couldn’t agree more with your last comment though.As a Pisces male myself I know exactly what you are talking about. I have very good intuition and I can sense jealousy from a mile away.There are certain times when people look at me like I’m from another planet and I can sense that they are fearful around me like I am going to eat them or something.It is uncomfortable living like this but I rather people be fearful of me than being stepped over like a rag doll.It’s very hard for non-pisces to understand this and I know what I just wrote might make me sound like a complete a-hole but this is what I have to live through everyday.
September 6th, 2009 at 5:41 am
Dan, what do you mean people are jealous of you? You say you can see right thru them. Usually it’s scorpios that have this problem not pisces. Pisces men do play a lot of games. some pisces are just pitied because they seem so lonely and this is how they get all the attention from women. They know how to play the game. Why would anyone be jealous of you? Usually that is a statement coming from a woman not a man. I don’t feel pisces can see right thru me i am a water sign also and very intuitive but certainly don’t fear other water signs.
September 6th, 2009 at 5:53 am
Dan, Don’t act like you are above everyone else just because your a Pisces. And hilter was a Taurus. So don’t play the persecuted martyr. Also if you don’t like us lowly earthlings get with other pisces men and women and leave us mundane souls alone.
September 6th, 2009 at 7:02 am
Hi all,
This is a big post.
I heard a story which i would like to share with my pisces friends.There was a old psychiatrist who visited an asylum where
mentally challenged people where kept under treatment.He was going around the area ,where he saw a person dragging a dustbin trolley
with wheels upside down.The old psychiatrist was very curious.He was suprised why is he dragging a wheeled dustbin upside down.He approached the person persuming to be the most critical cases in need of care.Old man asked the person”Can’t you see you are doing it all wrong”.The person cooly replied “yes,the last time i did right people put garbage in it”
The pisces case is the exact case of the person.
When the pisces person uses the dustbin upside down with his own logic ,he is looked upon as arrongant fool.If you are ready to accept the world like a open dustbin the world starts dumping in with its own share.Atleast be wise enough to decide who can dump in their garbage in you.
The question ,my pisces friends is how much are you capable of absorbing.Do you want to be with every body everytime.You all know this is
not possible.Your fellow water signs are atleast wise in this sense,cancer has a close circle of friends and family to care for.Scorpio is possesive about its things and don’t mind to give a sting or two if they are provoked beyond a limit.
What about you fishes?
The problem is fishes want to play the matryr,sacrificer and all those nonsense.You are the one who are after the worm and get caught in the hook.Believe me the world is full of hooks.This is a fast world nowadays where people mental space are eaten away by computers,internet etc etc.
Do you thing people care about your sacrifice and matryrdom.Things you value the most might be of little significance to people whom you please.Have you thought on this line?
Care about people who care about you not some x and y you meet in the busstand or grocery shop etc etc.The catch is to remeber to forgot the unneccesary things of life.
After all you don’t run the universe.If you get a fishy urge to solve somebodies problem solve your own problem first.I am sure there are lots of them which you have made yourself numb.There is no reward for getting caught in the hook.Believe me your mental space is precious.When are you going to bring your
dream into reality ,if you want to play the clown fish role pleasing everybody.You will remain the dustbin of the zodiac and door mat in real life.
I am sorry if my words are too strong,because i have seen many pisces friendsgoing after making a relationship happen only to feel sorry and go into depression.
The body part of fish is feet.As we walk on rough ground without shoes intially it will be painfull but make it a habit your feet
will become numb to it.So are you fishes the numbed punching bag of zodiac?
Think about it.
,
To DAN
Hi dan coming to your problem.I like your problem.It is a very genuine problem.
Problem 1:
“People try to flat out ignore me and say nothing”.Man this has nothing to do with
your sign,but with you.I am not sure about your personality.But from your statement you want to connect with too much people instantly,spontaneously all the people want to love you and when you come out of your house you expect everybody is happy and jumps in joy to see you.This “I too wanna be a King fantasy” which is peculiar only to pisces and leo won’t happen in real life.Everybody has their own problem and will be genuinely thinking about it.
Try to be your own friend ,your life will be
full of friends.People are drawn to people with composure not complication.
Simple example is when think about your child hood and how you made that friendship.
You will understand the innocence of friendship which is made on unconditonal bond.At that stage you didn’t mind
if the other person was ready to give you joy.When you people enjoyed a suprising thing together,the joy got multiplied.But after you have become adult people around you have developed conditions for friendship.I am not saying it is wrong we all have preferences,interest and we want to share things with our friends who share our outlook.Still if you go ahead with your unconditional friendship,it might take a long long time to find a friend.You will feel sorry for wasting your emotional transactional for nothing.(In short feel like a loser).
so,i would give suggestion to find your dear friend from your past and make things happen.Don’t let your unspoken years
ruin your close friendship.I am very sure old friends bring in a lot of joy because they carry a small part of unconditional friendship if it is not lost in this conditional world.:(
It is more of a subjective personality change rather than going after every person and making everbody happy.
Dan you have made my day bright ,you know why “when I go out in public all eyes are on me, ie little children, people young and old.”
seriously man either you have to be a look like a great actor or model.I don’t know how you carry yourself.
But with my small intelligence and knowledge i can say this:
Reality check:
As a child irrespective of sun sign ,children think all of them are seeing them.
As a teenager they want everybody to see them.
As a middle aged person they want nobody to see them
As an old age person they realize nobody was seeing them.
So, dan you are perfectly normal ,just develop an attitude to care for your aspirations be it music,art,sports
science whatever you aspire.Develop a healthy workout and stop worrying about why on the earth people are jealous
about me.Be happy you have got something to make them jealous :).
Last but not the least.Stop going throught the zodiac too much and learn to live your life.Life is too big to
be decided by dices.(pun intended).
Sorry for my bad english,it is not my first language.
I can go on taking about this whole pisces stuff.I will stop here.
Hi becca this is a wonderfull site .Keep up the good work.
Formless fish
September 6th, 2009 at 7:14 am
Hi guys
Just wanted to ask you all to not be too quick to judge another persons situation. I don’t want any arguments on my site. You will all find differences as this is just one sign of your chart, so no one is either wrong or right, just unique and individual.
Also, Hitler was an Aries.
Love & Light
Becky
September 7th, 2009 at 2:35 am
no hitler was a taurus.
September 7th, 2009 at 2:37 am
To formless fish, GREAT ADVISE.
September 7th, 2009 at 6:22 am
Hitler’s birth chart does say he is a Taurus. But the popular sign is Aries..due to people not understanding planetary tables etc. If you just look at Sun signs he is an Aries without getting into the technical stuff. It is an interest of mine as he and Sadaam Hussein shared many of the same attributes within their horoscopes.
September 8th, 2009 at 10:28 am
thank you for all your responses… the pisces man finally asked me to go and see a movie and have dinner with him.. what should i wear? how should i act?? i am going to be myself obviously but i just need a few tips on what conversations would he like and what can i wear that would leave a lasting impression but not too dressy?? im thinking skinny jeans and an off the shoulder top with court shoes… thanks
September 10th, 2009 at 2:15 am
Hi
The post was not meant to be an advise,it is just another perspective of looking at the world.Don’t make any ground rules based on the post.
cheers
Formless fish
September 10th, 2009 at 4:46 am
Hi becca
You are absolutely right in saying that,it is too premature in assuming other person’s situation.Yes,exactly each one in unique and individual.
Well said
cheers
formlessfish
September 11th, 2009 at 2:07 am
Wow this is VERY true. I am a Libra and I really am crazy about this pisces boy. i am in middle school and i knew him in 4th grade. He is like a best friend to me but things went wrong. i hate this girl, and my pisces boy dont even like her. he likes me!!! anyways he called me stupid and stuff and he hurted my feelings a lot so i pretty much hate him. and NOW he tries to ask me out when i kinda like someone else hehe. and now he turned into a monster, he is so jealous and he ask my friends what type of boys i like and crap like that. i do indeed still have feelings for him but im not over that. and im just moving on. and TRUE, pisces boys r VERY feminine and go after girls that is WAY less sensitive and WAY more stronger than him. i need a boy that could protect ME. i feel like im the girly looking man in the situation of the pisces boy.
September 12th, 2009 at 6:40 am
to formless fish Whatever
September 13th, 2009 at 1:14 am
I am a Pisces/ Aries cusp female with Scorpio/ Sagittarius rising, and I say dont be mean to Pisces guys!! They are so yummable and juicy!! This sign produces the most lovely men ever!!!- more than any other sign ever could! They are like magical bubbles- dont prick them too much, they could pop and dissappear!! (although it could be ace to do that, just for fun!). This sign produces the most angelic looking, dreamy guys ever. I love it when they get all arrogant and aloof, its so cute! They are like the Goblin king in the Labyrinth film (1980s American movie). Okay, obviously not ALL of them, but this sign makes more of these types of guys 1000% more than any other sign could ever hope to! Be kind to them, they are so yummy, and taste like marshmallow- YAY!!!
September 13th, 2009 at 2:28 pm
I gotta say, after reading some of the comments above, Dan sounds like an ants in the pants!!
Teehee, he sounds like one of those guys who, when he finds out he is a Pisces, and reads up on it, he suddenly thinks he is some amazing magical being like a dolphin- or more likely, a Unicorn!!! A large amount of Pisces males are lovely, but an equaly large amount of Pisces males only THINK they are lovely, as they see the real lovely Pisces guys around them, and think they are up on the same level as them, when they are severely NOT. They will see complimentary comments towards the REAL lovely Pisces guys, and think ‘hey, they are talking about ME, I just KNEW everybody thought I was as amazing as I thought I was myself!’, when in fact people were not refering to his type of low quality Pisces AT ALL. Dan probably thinks the birds tweet for him, amd the flowers scream with joy on a summer’s morning when he walks down the street. Ah well- whatever floats your boat! On a different subject though, just look at David Sylvian- now there’s an edible Picses if I ever seen one, yummy yummy yum!!!!
September 13th, 2009 at 2:35 pm
Debbie thanks for the compliment.I am too young to give advice ,that is why i put in the post as suggestion.Happy it is of some use to somebody.
September 13th, 2009 at 10:01 pm
To missyevil: really liked your description of pisces men
Re dan, there must be some bird tweeting and flower screaming when he walks down the street. It can’t all be in his mind. He is still pisces.
September 14th, 2009 at 11:45 am
Hi,
I have been following this blog for a few months now trying figure this guy out.He is a pisces.I have known him about 5 years with an on off relationship we drifted apart a few years back because I just did not know where I stood with him! He was so nice to me but never told me how he felt.Im not like normal Aries women I hate telling people how I feel for fear of rejection.im quite shy!…anyway in January we started talking again and I was really happy because I often hoped we would get back in touch.We have met up a few times and had fun catching up..I was amazed how much he remembered about our ‘relationship’ is that just a good memory of did he feel the same as me but did not say anything?? anyway have started to have feelings for him again , however with these feeling come the old feelings I had last time.I don’t know if it is a bit of fun to him or if he wants a relationship? When I text him he texts back etc when he went on holiday he texted me all the time which I thought was maybe the start of something but I seem to be back to square one.I really like this guy and would like to start a relationship but I really dont know how he feels he is so difficult to read!!. I want to ask him but if he rejects me I’ll be so gutted.Hes quite a bit older than me so I thought he would be over the messing around stage.Should I just ask him? Any thoughts would be greatly appreciated . Thank you x
September 16th, 2009 at 8:56 pm
formerlessfish, You are a bright young man.
September 16th, 2009 at 9:51 pm
Hmm what to say. About the “finding out your a pisces and think your a unicorn” is quite amusing. I think that when you research further and find more of your chart it will help but keep in mind we all have free will and some pisces will react differently for different reasons. And no sign is “better” than the other. I don’t think a true pisces male would say that people “are jealous”, except that I can say there may be a thing with people who are frustrated with us Pisces that perhaps they are a tad jealous of are ability to push stress away at times. I don’t know about you but I’ve always felt different and its not easy to deal with in this world. However I’ve grown physically and spiritually in the last decade to the point that I think something is going on. Perhaps its the 2012 thing our vibrations are rising to a higher frequency. I just feel that I’m more sensitive to things lately.
September 17th, 2009 at 6:15 am
I hate being a pisces.
September 18th, 2009 at 5:48 am
CHRISTOPHER, Don’t hate being a pisces. you are special. You’re cancerian will come back to you. I promise.
September 18th, 2009 at 8:47 am
I think you may have me confused with someone else Jen. I’m the one a couple posts up that’s crazy about a gemini girl. Although a cancerian will do me some good.. When I find myself I’m sure I’ll appreciate things alot more.
September 18th, 2009 at 12:33 pm
@Airesgirl25- hey girl, listen…i’m a pisces male and have also been getting close to an aires girl and have had some difficult times w/ her even tho’ we really like each other.
My advice to you is tell him what your feeling but come across in a very light-hearted manner w/ it. As if you were flirting but in a way that you mean what you say.Don’t close yourself up and get all knotted up about everything…that will create awkward moments and feelings. Try to make it very comfortable and in a way he can reply very easily to you.
My experience w/ my Aires girl is she won’t say what she really feels because she is scared too…DON”T be scared to tell someone what you really feel, you only live once and this is all you have so make it happen!!
Hope this helps you girl, good luck!!
September 19th, 2009 at 6:25 am
Male Pisces/dog i find it very interesting that there are a lot of male Pisces that have posted on here and it seems that this is the most popular post section since we are the most hardest sign to figure out lol. but i like being a Pisces it has taken me awhile to except the person that i am. nerdy funny emotional mind reader who seems to fall for the wrong lady all the time.
September 22nd, 2009 at 3:21 pm
@Sawyer , Thank you for your reply it has been a big help , especialy coming from a Pisces!:-) x
September 28th, 2009 at 12:46 pm
hi..i am also an aries woman 26 yrs old.. my story is almost the same as yours aries girl..I have a best friend for 10 years who also happens to be a very fickle “Pisces”.. he really confused me allot, he tells me that of all the women he has been with, he has the most respect for me, he also said that he loves me and he longs for me, according to him I am the closest to his heart and soul but he is also saying that he does not want to lead me on,its like he just wants to profess his love but his actions do not seem to prove it. Ever since we were young he has been like that to me.. He comes around profess his love for me, we always get along pretty well because we have the same outlook in life but as soon as the relationship sets in, poof! his back to the best friend mood again. Arrrgghhh… he is just so confusing..i hate the fact that I can’t erase him from my mind, I hate that I have loved him for such a long time..I have loved him for years.. he can feel that.. thats why he kept on coming back but the circumstances just won’t allow us.. Pisces men..I need your advice..thanx
September 29th, 2009 at 12:37 pm
Ahkim - I’m so glad i’m not the only one! this bloke has been renting space in my head for years!! yet we seem to be taking one step forward half a dozen back!Knowing most pisces men like their space I have never pushed for a relationship but now its frustrating and confusing to say the least.Ive finaly built up the courage to tell him next time I see him …its so scary incase he just wants to stay freinds!but I think its time I found out!x
September 29th, 2009 at 1:05 pm
ahkim1983>>> ….he’s scared, plain and simple. He’s scared because he is afraid if you 2 get serious it will ruin the closeness you now have. If you want it to go further you have to somehow assure him you will always be the same….and that is easier said than done.Many have tried and failed only to see it end with no relationship at all. So be sure your willing to go all out and make it happen before you do it. I’m a pisces M, and i know what i’m talking about.. =-)
Listen, if you tell him he’s scared he’ll get mad..you need to approach it from the standpoint of how can i take his fear away…to me it’s reassurrance over and over.
September 30th, 2009 at 4:59 am
I’m a gemini girl with a pisces man…really never saw it coming. I wanted to take everything apart and have a checklist for every guy I dated after my ex (a scorpio) when I ran into this pisces man - who I truly believe is my soulmate.
We’ve been together almost three years now and engaged - talking about kids and our future together. He really is sensitive and caring and self-directed. So after reading all these pessimistic forecasts about geminis and pisces having no future…I just wanted to let the ones out there that are doubting to try to create your own life and reflect on what you really want with your mate. I think discussing what direction and with what style you really want to go with your mate really helps.
Best of luck with love!
September 30th, 2009 at 11:56 pm
I am a gem grl and have been on and off (mostly off) dating a piscis man for 5 mths who has been “going through a divorce” for a year. His 13 year marriage with 3 kids ended when his wife left him for another man (she had been unfaithful to him before this) It is very frustrating b/c I would like to get closer to him, but whenever I feel like we are getting close he does the famous pull away and he tells me he is not ready to get serious. He says his life consumes him and he needs to “heal” and that being alone is best for him for now. So whenever I just give up and think, great, this guy is a total waste of time (he only calls about once or twice a month) and we are only intimate about once a month…He suddenly resurfaces and sends me some message about how much he wants me and how he loves how I am open with him…blah blah . Since I am not really seeing any1 else I get excited (he “hooks me”) again, but them of course, he pulls away. I wonder if he is playing games or he is just unstable. Or maybe not that into me. All I know is I am sick of this crap. I even told him to leave me alone once but then he called me like a month later and fed me some line about how he was grateful to have me in his life etc. I think he should be over his “drama” by now and ready to move on…But part of me is still kind of wanting to have something with him, even though he has shown to be flaky. Any advice on what i SHOULD do?
October 1st, 2009 at 5:20 am
Well Seal is a pisces and heidi klum a gemini
October 1st, 2009 at 5:21 am
pisces men usually go all GAGA and drool at the mouth for scorpio women.
October 1st, 2009 at 6:05 pm
>>>Amethyst, let me ask you, what is the value you see in this man? Is it worth your time?…or the time you have already spent with him? Only you know the answer to this.
If you see in him someone you can be with the rest of your life then be there for him while he heals. I know you are most likely worried that if you do commit, will you be hurt in the end…let me say this to you…there are many ppl in this life who have missed out on love altogether simply because they were too scared to make a commitment to go the long haul and wait it out…if you see enough worth in this man then be there and wait it out. If you do not see that value in him, then do both of you a favor and move on as best as you can. I’ve just had to do that myself in a friend/relationship. It’s hard to do… but sometimes it’s for the absolute best.
I feel your pain, but deep down you know what you see in this person…you must ask yourself is it worth waiting him out. You have obviously built a relationship some already and the best relationships in life are “built” over time by sharing feelings and hard times together. If you guys are together say 10 yrs from now…this guy will(or should) remember you bieng there for him during a difficult time in his life. Love is a labor that most aren’t willing to put time into to have something that lasts!! I hope this helps you in some way…good luck!!
October 2nd, 2009 at 11:19 am
yes you are not alone ariesgirl..I’m also planning on telling him the next time we talk that we should just end it, its harsh but this emotional roller coaster is really messing up my mind. I can’t stop thinking about him and i feel so helpless so i’d rather end the hurt.
SAwyer..thanx for the advice.. “the scared of messing up the relationship”thing was his excuse before, I mean if his not ready before, and his not ready for me now then he is not gonna be ready for me at all. I’m giving up! I can’t hold on to something that is make believe, as far as i can see he is sincere when he tells me that he loves me but his actions were very inconsistent. I want to be friends with him but i know I will just fall for him even more..I really like him but I know I can’t have him,our situation got complicated. Sawyer your a Pisces guy can you give me your advice?.. thanx!
October 3rd, 2009 at 12:28 am
I liked a pisces male coworker he would always joke and flirt with me. He was married tho and telling everyone he was getting a divorce. But i’m not into married men. i would have waited till he divorced. but a scorpio women was coming on to him when she found out he was flirting with me. i just acted as friends and joked with him somewhat he kept flirting with me but i think he was seeing the scorpio as more than friends and i think she ended up dumping him. He had called me 3 times and asked if he had a chance with me.i told him i was attracted to him but don’t date married men. so we kept talking he asked hobbies like etc . then next to calls he mentioned her name and stated they dated a few times but were freinds. all this while he is still legally married. anyway i told him sounds like he is hurting over her not his wife. he kept silent. also i told him off because he mentioned about us being freinds. that pissed me off. i felt he led me on. also all along i was hoping he and the other girl were just freinds. so once he told me that they dated a couple times i was pissed but held it in. and waited till 3rd call to tell him off. i said why don’t you call anna. he said ok i won’t call you anymore. i said ok and hung up on him. he would bring up my name at work to a mutual freind of ours. Why do pisces men lead women on is my question?
October 5th, 2009 at 12:36 am
Thank You Sawyer. To be honest with you, I have seen some qualities of Flakiness and insecurity in this man. He seems to be a bit wishy washy and kind of into his friends (he is 34). I think it has to do with the fact he married young and he is “overwhelmed” with all this divorce stuff, but the way I see it his wife has moved on and so should he. She is living with another man and it has been a year. Sometimes I feel he is a bit self absorbed and unstable and as a gem I need a stronger partner. someone who will not crumble and go hide when the going gets tough. So to answer your question I am not 100 percent sure I want to spend the REST of my Life with him. But I used to feel that way about my Aquarius Ex when we were together for 3 years and now…5 years later, I understand he was the best thing that has ever happened to me and I ruined that relationship and regret it terribly. Honestly, I have just decided , once again, to give on on the Fish. He honestly seems to just want someone to sleep with when he is in the mood. Thanks Again!
October 6th, 2009 at 1:17 pm
Ahkim1983>>> I admit we Pisces guys can be difficult to deal with when we fail to see our shortcomings and deal w/ them ourselves. We can be drawn in by certain ppl so easily and then at the slightest negative action towards us we run away into our own world. Honestly i was that way for a long time and i guess i “grew up”(LOL) one day… i’ve learned to not take things so seriously because ppl are going to do things/say things that they really don’t mean any harm(Aires Females being #1 at that).
>>this is for Amythest too!!>> All i can tell you is if your fish is a true pisces he is probably distant because that is simply his way of dealing with things in his life…he HAS to have his own lil’ world to be able to cope with the things going on around him. He most likely will NEVER change from that…he will “always” have to have that escape.You must realize it’s not an escape from you he wants it’s just his way to deal with frustrations and release stress.
Alot of my friends and family cannot believe how i can just go on sometimes w’out seemingly being stressed out over things…well,unless your in ICU or life threatening situations is it really so serious to just stop living???….the fish’ philosophy is this….just keep swimming,swimming…just keep swimming!! LOL
October 6th, 2009 at 3:01 pm
thanx again sawyer…oh well..i think i am his “ESCAPE” from the real world.. that’s why he comes and goes.. some say that i should just enjoy the moment and just go with the flow.. but I am not cut out for that kind of relationship.. anyway.. I’m giving up.. can’t do this anymore..
Just keep swimming.. LOL just watched finding nemo a while ago.. R u my conscience??.. loved that part.. thanx again..
October 8th, 2009 at 1:21 pm
May I just say for a pisces woman like me to date a pisces guy has been a DISASTER!! I think I had my feet on the ground more times than he did half the time. I know that it’s a pisces thing to fall in love with the idea of being in love but I never thought I could meet anybody who had lost touch with reality like the pisces guy I recently was dating. It wasn’t about spirituallity, because to be honest I was more into the spiritual things than his carnal self, he was just living on another planet, waiting to be rescued. How the hell does a guy reverse the fairytale storyline and play damesel in distress????
He might call me names behind my back, but at least I left with my sanity still in place. If it’s a thing with pisces guys to refuse help when they best need it, then I really don’t know! So my story ends with, “…and the handsome prince settled into the wolf’s house and left little red riding hood to wander off into the woods by herself. Along her way she could still hear her one-time prince and the wolf cracking jokes and she wonders are they laughing at her????”
Pisces guy????? NO THANKS!!
October 14th, 2009 at 9:24 pm
To Gemini1960 - Wow I had the exact same experience with my Pisces (ex) of 10 years. Pisces men can be the most loyal and giving people at one point and then the most selfish unreasonable people the next. He disappeared on me twice during our relationship and both times I took him back with very little explanation given. I know it’s just in a Pisces nature to occasionally retreat from the world including those who love them the most - but they expect the world from you when they come back as if nothing happened. The relationship ended after months of petty arguments about relationships and dates I had while we were separated - he became extremely possessive and jealous over things that I never even did or of relationships I had (including my own mother and my best friend - another girl). Be careful with these men because they have a way of figuring out your secrets on their own - by intuition or by prying it from you. They say Pisces men don’t judge but they do if it benefits them or causes them some type of insecurity. I would say by the end of the relationship I was relieved it was over, although for some reason I still love him and care for him. At this point I can’t even have a real friendship with him because he becomes demanding and is very bitter. I don’t think I will ever be completely over him and I’m almost positive he will never be over me - these men usually remember their first love for the rest of their lives.
October 17th, 2009 at 11:52 pm
Well, I had the same experience as the majority here. He was great and then he disappeared because he had “personal problems.” Ok. Whatever. I had no idea pisces men were this way and that is par for the course for them. Oh well. I am actually over it and found the experience kind of fascinating. I liked him a lot, not in love, but like. So, I am happy for that experience. It was nice.
Never was intimate with him. Guess I am glad about that?? Don’t know, don’t really care.
Btw, I am an aquarius, which I guess is the reason I can be so ok and detached about it all.
October 17th, 2009 at 11:55 pm
PS - I have no ill feelings about him and hope he is doing well.
October 20th, 2009 at 5:47 am
Well remember in junior high school when talking about a boyfriend was more exiting than actually being with the boyfreind. That is how Pisces men seem to be. They would rather be with the thought of you then the actual you in person. Because then they can make it their own little fairy tale and it is not reality. they hate reality. They do like the attention women give them but once they know you find them attrative they change becuz their afraid of the fact they have to date you and pay to take you out and afraid of being hurt of left or found out that they are not are they pretend to be. It is basically fear of rejection and fear of living in the real world. So good luck to you women wanting to actually hook a pisces.
October 24th, 2009 at 10:19 am
I want to share some of my experiences as being a pisces so far up to my mid 20’s life.
I am a male Pisces. Simply, I can change my mind easily and worst yet in an instance. Being a Pisces is kind of a curse that only a Pisces can understand and yet we have an ability that most other signs cannot comprehend. I am very in tune with who I am, as far as my sign which determines my intangible nature and in tune with myself as far as what is tangible. There are flaws in my sign which I try to habitually remedy (which I am sure there are flaws in every other sign), but you know what, the damn nature of the fishes naturally surface unknowingly and unintentionally sometimes and I habitually remind myself to learn how to supress some of the pisces nature. Like the loner aspect (as you get older you need to fix it right away or yea it’ll be too late!!), the overly emotional aspect (which affects decision making- HARDCORE). I practice making some practical responses instead of emotional responses. When I naturally want to instantly change my mind, I practice fighting back and double checking if that’s actually the best decision to follow.
As far as relationships I’ve had a good number of encounters, especially with virgos. I’ve had three women that all shared the same birth date (different years) that I met all within a single year. I went out with two out of the three b/c one of them was in a relationship, as tempting as it was for myself and my erotic nature, in reality that would’ve been a mess to mop up, she still sends that kind of energy to me today even with a child, again tempting but no. Wouldn’t it be great if you could just see someone’s sign over their head? I’ve had many flirtatious encounters with Leo women, but I’ve steered clear of that route as it would’ve just been fierce sex, but the ruin friendships/relations kind. Again, practice makes a happier pisces because we can hit random depressive moments easily. I am in a great relationship with a sagit/capricorn, but I still feel sad and unsure sometimes.
It’s really freaky and odd how some of this stuff about pisces resonates in reality, I can be androgenous, I am beyond in appreciation for the arts (this would be one lonely boring world without), I can most of the time read people like a book- their emotion and what they’re hiding or simply trying to convey, granted I am not correct 100% of the time but for some damn reason, it’s right “a lot” of the times. But man, when I get emotional, I get emotional, my chest sinks in and I feel the weight of the world on me. I tend to drift off into fantasy land as well as lonerville here and there. But one thing that can’t be argued is that a Pisces can be a great friend, loyal, do or die, tried and true and death before dishonor…. but practice common sense when you have a pisces buddy, our dark side can be quite sinister.
October 26th, 2009 at 12:57 pm
Im a Pisces, 27 year old man. Everything mentioned above is 100% accurate.
I am actually talking to a Scorpio (MY BEST MATCH) and feel things about her that I have never felt with any other sign. Its like a magnetic force pulling me tward her with no reason or motive.
I am emotional, I am a dreamer and somtimes I tend to try too many things at once, because I can not controll my dream like feelings. We as Pisces see the world in a diffent way.
We see the worlds beauty and art, basicly our own perfect world in our dreamy minds. We are very giving, very kind and very understanding. TO (VANESSA) with her pisces experiance.
Well being a pisces and the way they tend to live is kinda based on not just the Pisces but the month, if a Pisces is born between feb 20th and Feb 27th, they tend to differ from other pisces from the dates of Feb 28th on into March.
The differ of it, if a Pisces is born between Feb 20th and the 27th they tend to be the piscean that is more effectionet, the one who sets stronger gouls, more emotional, wants nothing more then to make others happy.
If the Piscean is Feb 28th and into March, they tend to think more about themselves, the drinking and lack of family commitment would tell me that he is a later dated Pisces.
October 27th, 2009 at 6:04 pm
>>>For those who want to connect to the “dreamy” Pisces Man (which i am btw, hehe). Here is some really good advice.I have not got to read Becky’s E-book on Pisces’ yet but i do want to! This is advice from living 1st hand in that dreamy Pisces world. Here goes:
1)Pisces men and the fear of rejection: If you want to hold onto your fish you must deal w/ his fear or feeling of being rejected. This feeling will almost immediately cause him to be depressed and cold. Yes even the slightest feeling of you rejecting him can cuase tsunami waves in your world of love and peace. If you love your fish(however hard it may be,)if you will make him feel as if he is the ONLY one in your world and that YOU “must” have him, build his confidence and i’m telling you …you will soar to new heights in your relationship. Personally, i think we fish’ biggest fear is ‘failure’…which we all have done but if you take the time to support him even after a failure he will come around and be better than ever!
2)Support his dreams…(no matter how crazy,foolish they seem to be)…this is connected to the 2 fears of rejection and failure. When he talks of his dreams be supportive openly even if in your mind your turning and saying “that’s the stupidest thing i’ve ever heard”. Now the reason for this is once you let him think on it for awhile and he talks about it again there will be an oppurtunity for you to “advise” him in a loving way and still boost his confidence and keep the “dream” alive.
3)Lastly, (at least for now)…Lean on the strength of the fish…we are mostly immune to stress (except when rejected or failed)…we have the inner desire to help fix the world at large and if “you” being our lover tell us ” i need your strength,help, advice,comfort..loving hand, passion”…let me tell you ladies you will have your most “dreamiest man alive”!!
I’ve lived,learned and loved and could say much more but I hope this helps some of you.
Love you all!!
October 29th, 2009 at 1:37 pm
Pisces guys are deeeeelish!!!!!! Leave them alone you pissy pants people!!!!
November 3rd, 2009 at 2:55 pm
BEING A GEMINI/SUN PISCES/MOON THAT I ABSOLUTELY LOVE PISCES MEN THEY ARE MY FAVORITE
I HAVE DATED LEO AND AQUARIUS MEN AND NONE HAVE WORKED FOR ME I AM DATING A PISCES MAN
RIGHT NOW HE HIS MY PERFECT MAN I LOVE HOW HE LISTENS AND HOW SENSITIVE HE IS AND
FOR SURE THE BEST IN BED EVER!!!
November 8th, 2009 at 1:49 am
hello. i am a piscean male, i have many of the characteristics, but i must admit i know i am capable of hurting loved ones in the heat of the moment saying things, then later feeling much regret and more than a stab of punction for it.i am tall for my age,5′10, had long hair but cut it recently, i have big and sometimes watery eyes and my face is easily weather beaten. i am an avid reader and writer of poetry, i play guitar, i am extremely interested in Astrology, also occult subjects. i am aware i am very sensitive to people and atmospheres around me, but i have a proclivity for changing myself in an instant. i understand where alot of the women are coming from here that say they were unhappy with pisceans because of how bad they were treated by them but it really depends on the person they are with, pisceans may not say when they are unhappy about something, so then they hold it in and suppress it without actually dealing with the problem and when it finally does catch up with them they may take it out on their lover and make up all at once for the problems they left unsaid. well, this is just my conjecture from my own feelings, i am not promoting this as a fact. at heart i am a loner, i often push peole away when i am restricted of further closeness, i need honesty and i find that if the girl isn’t concerned about my feelings and my interests and if they don’t pick up on things i often get disinterested in them, and drift off. i am often in love but i find i have only truly been in love with one scorpio my age i was rejected by, but i still feel confidence because i feel i will have her when the time is right, she is too beautiful and special to be left to pass by. this is how i feel right now, i will come back here tomorrow and be somebody completely different. as Bob Dylan said - “All i can do is be myself, whoever that is.”
FREEDOM,
MY short PSEUDONYM, J
November 8th, 2009 at 2:00 am
i reject the notion of pisceans as being simpletons and easily confused as they are often depicted in the various astrology books. it is not true of all of them of course, and blatently it would be the case with some (i could say this about any sign) so i do not think there should be such an emphasis on it in the books. think of the sundries of successful pisceans in their chosen fields, and they strive in creative fields.
November 8th, 2009 at 4:28 pm
im very confused…im a scorpio girl (23) and he is a picean male (27) we have known each other for 3 years but only very recently started getting together properly.. because i had guy problems and he wasmoving… but now we mat and we have made out a couple of times we see each other once a month or maybe a little more.. when we are together he said im the most beautiful girl he has seen…also when talking he admitted that he has not kissed anyone after he has kissed me… he said he doesnt need to. i know he is sexually frustrated but i cant give myself away very easily becauseiam a virgin and i feel like i need to spend more time withhim and get to know him alot more.. he told me im difficult because he wants to take me home but he respects me… so i told him go and find someone that he can take home then… he said no i dont need to.. he looked into my eyes and it was so magical i really like him and he told me he likes me.. he even told me to call hes mum… mum and not aunty when i talk about her… he calls and texts me now and again but all the guys i have been with and liked have always talked to me on a daily basis and we have had long conversations… with this pisces we hardly talk… now and again he will text or call… i dont call first because he is always busy… when we are together he said to me he is my man and when we are apart it looks as if he is only calling as a friend…. i dont understand im confused.. does he like me? does he only want me for sex? he also gets jelous when i talk with other men he admited that to me… so what does that mean? please help i really like him and i dont want to carry hopes that he will like me for the person i am and not only for sex… he also admitted to me that he has fancied me since he saw me 3 years back
November 8th, 2009 at 7:34 pm
To J
I rejected my Pisces twice. We’ve just celebrated 14 wonderful years together. If she is special, persevere…
November 8th, 2009 at 8:02 pm
Evalina…hmm…if you haven’t had sex before I can definitely see your fears. I was much like you when I was your age and did not want to have sex with someone until I was completely and utterly ready and felt safe. It seems like maybe the reason you dont feel safe with him is because of his elusive nature and not being completely in your life. I dont like the fact that he said ‘your difficult’. If you aren’t really dating him or getting together with him regularly then how do you build trust?
Sexually, the draw of the pisces man is pretty intense, especially for us scorpios. I think the draw is also spiritual so it is possibly deeper than other signs, making us feel a unstable and frustrated for fear of going into some deep, black hole. I would definitely not go by the things he says….i think you probably already know that us scorpios are feeling based creatures and can feel peoples real intentions…it is our best and our worst…..realistically though being a scorpio woman is a true blessing in that regard. I wouldn’t worry about his sexual frustration…in some ways that is a red flag, if it is obvious to you. You need to have confidence in your feelings towards him and confidence in his feelings towards you. There is nothing more beautiful than having sex with someone who really cares about you. What happens in the future is a complete unknown. First sexual experiences should be with someone who completely likes you, gets you and most of all, respects you……
November 12th, 2009 at 7:06 am
i am a gemini female, and i had an affair with a married pisces male. we grew close and he supported me emotionally while i was going through my divorce. after my husband and i separated, we began a romantic relationship. he and his wife were having problems also, and they separated and he moved out. we had a wonderful, almost perfect relationship for a few months…except that he never wanted his wife to find out that we were seeing eachother. even though he told me he loved me and not her, and he wanted to be with me and was going to divorce her. all along i told him, married men never leave their wives, so i will end up with a broken heart, but he assured me that our situation was different. he was so romantic and tender and caring, and i really felt that we had a connection. i fell for him like i had never fallen for any man. one day, very suddenly, he broke up with me via email, saying he was going back to his wife. he never gave me a reason. it has been a year and a half, and i still think about him sometimes. he absolutely broke my heart. pisces is no good for gemini.
November 13th, 2009 at 12:49 am
Thank you sara marie…
every time he calls me…when he does…
he tells me he really wants to meet me but then always gets busy. we had a nice talk yesterday and i was joking around saying that the meeting he is going to… im the manager of it lol and he said in that case he shouldnt invite any one else because he only wants it to be me and him.. he even said to me that he likes talking to me because i make him feel good ( i gave him a complement) but then why does he hardly call or text? do u think maybe he wants me to make some effort? i havnt been doing that because i thought i would give him some space but the he goes on for days without talking to me. he said he is my man but he really isnt acting like it when we are not together? do u think he wants to give me space?
its frustrating me so much
November 14th, 2009 at 2:25 am
evalina,
well….again, the attraction to a pisces is difficult and frustrating to say the least!! I know I have been there but really, dating someone should be fairly simple. Men, and I include all men in this, definitely make it known when they really like you. And that means, it is obvious that they want to hang out and get to know you. It may not be that they want to hang out with you everyday but you should definitely get the sense that they really want to be with you. I think a lot of Pisces men are so dreamy, deep and say nice things and we women forget that that is just part of their personality, it has nothing to do with whether or not they are really into you. As far as this guy being your first sexual partner, he doesn’t sound too promising. Tell him that you want to hang out with him more and get to know him better. If he isn’t into that then move on. I would recommend finding other men in your life interesting besides just him anyway…..it is healthy to think beyond just this one person….
November 14th, 2009 at 11:53 am
sara marie, I couldn’t put it better myself. When a man really likes you and wants to be with you, he will let you know to the extent that there is no doubt in your mind. I have said this to friends a million times. At your age evalina, no matter how much this pisces guy is into you, you have to have interest in other guys as well. Neither you nor him are at an age where you can ’settle’ feelings, thoughts, etc.
November 14th, 2009 at 6:31 pm
I am Leo (not very typical though) and I have been dating Pisces guy for over a 2 years now. It has been a joy and we have been a real match in every level. Last year we have lived apart because I am finishing undergraduate and he is working in a different country. Distance though made us even closer and we always set our schedule the way we could meet up every month or two.
Recently though he had some issues with his work and he got really depressed over it. I was there for him as a best-friend, being supportive and encouraging to explore other opportunities as he is very smart and talented. All was well, and then suddenly out of the blue he told me that he does not feel close to me because of distance and he knows he loves me but he cant say it! wohaaa… really unexpected. Ok.. so I backed off because I felt hurt and told him that I cant talk to him and hope he can figure out what he is actually feeling. We met after 2 weeks for a weekend. He was so loving and attentive and I kind of felt wierd. But i took it very casually and said no problem, lets see where it is going and etc. Then suddenly he went cold on me and I kind of got a message he wanted to break up but could not say it. So I got pissed and told him lets do break up, and that he is out from my life! And I walked away (Leos pride you know :)) He tried calling but i did not answer. So after deep thinking I called him up, and he was very happy to hear from me. I told him that I deeply care and love him, that I dont want to walk away just like that, and I do believe he is the Right one for me. He said it hurts him to know that he hurt me. I did not demand any answer just asked him to think about it and let me know. He agreed and asked will I answer when he calls, I said I will. Now I have not heard from him for a week. I am very calm and doing everyday stuff, but this situation is very difficult because he has never taken his time like this, so I feel little nervous. I know i should give him his time, but for how long….. what if he does not call back for a month?
Advice pls ..
November 17th, 2009 at 6:41 am
Hello Everyone,
I am a Gemini female and I am currently involved with a Pisces male, I’ve known him for about 3 years, and all throughout that time I paid him no attention eventhough he constantly called and texted…. but we recently started talking in a romantic type way in May of this year and I have to admit I enjoyed it, I enjoyed his commitment to me and to our budding bond but this august he moved to california for school and I am still back in Florida, we have talked everyday and we’ve become really close but I am now having a lot of second thoughts about starting a official relationship once he gets back next month. He is a typical Pisces from what I have noticed so far, and before I actually knew his sign I didnt want to get involved with him because I could tell that he was a flirt, He is very artistic, he can sing and he is a musician, and he is constantly daydreaming and it gets annoying to me at times because we will be having a phone conversation and he will be in a daze, its frustrating due to the fact that currently that is our only way of communication until he returns home.Eventhough I am a Gemini I prefer to be in long lasting relationships and I love to cater my significant other.. I have found myself falling for him and I am interested to see where it will go but at the same time I dont want to have my heart broken so I feel kind of stuck!!! any advice from Pisces men.. or anyone else???
November 17th, 2009 at 6:52 am
By the way I am a Gemini- Horse and he is a Pisces- Tiger
November 17th, 2009 at 3:08 pm
Pisces Male here…you ladies seeking advice on your Pisces man plz read post 579 first.
Remember this, pisces can be sensitive and actually “feel” things from others, sometimes those feelings can be misleading and cause assumptions and then we make decisions based on those false assumptions. It leads to the downfall of many relationships, along with the lack of communication, frustration with each other and lack of patience. To me when 2 ppl can come to trust each other then a relationship can begin and only then, otherwise it is purely physical.
Have you experienced this conversation …”are you okay?”…”are you mad at me?”…’is there anything wrong or have i done something to you?”…lol…to me this is simply a lack of confidence and trust in a relationship on one or both ppl(or the lack of a relationship). When you REALLY love each other you want have to ask when something is wrong, you’ll know it.
Gotta go for now
November 20th, 2009 at 4:54 pm
I have been deeply, truly and completely in love with a Pisces man for the last year. I am a Sag woman and most times the “charts” say we’re incompatible. But I have found this to be completely untrue. For me, I feel so deeply calm when I am around this man. Maybe this is a version of his “water” tampering down my “fire” and this is something I definitely need. In turn, my “fire” heats up his “water” and gets him motivated and out of his head for a while. He is amazingly kind, sensitive, sexually connected, empathetic, a wonderful listener, a giving individual, strong, smart, funny and simply moves me like no one else I have ever met. When he needs alone time, I give it freely. When I need alone time, he does the same. We ask and receive. I am not in his head, so I have to go by his actions and what he says to me and those two combined tell me he deeply loves me. I know I am deeply blessed to have him in my life. It’s true that I am definitely “stronger” than he is in a lot of ways, but in other ways, he is much stronger than I am. What I have discovered is that every relationship is what you choose to make of it. Every intimate encounter waxes and wanes and open and honest communication is the only true path to happiness and joy and a love fulfilled. Even if the “charts” say you are compatible, you choose every day whether or not you actually are. When you focus on being the best person you can be to your partner and giving respect to them and also asking for it in return, anything is possible.
November 20th, 2009 at 6:38 pm
I met my pisces man one night at our local karaoke night. I sang “Elvis’s Fever. After I sat down, someone was yelling my name above me on the second floor over the banaster, only I didn’t hear it- but my bff called it to my attention. When I looked up he said” I loved your rendition of that song, well done!”. I replied thank you. Just minding my own business listening to the rest of the karaoke singers, and here comes John, pulls up a chair and sat next to me. He introduced himself as John. I noticed he had Elvis sideburns, but I didn’t say anything about them. However, he began to tell my all the statistics on the Elvis song, and then he was called up to sing.
Now I’ve been in love with Elvis since I was 5. John gets called up to the stage, his turn to sings the “Wonder of You”. I simply melt in my chair- he sings just like him. Now when John returns to his seat I complement him, and rave about how ironic it is he sounds so much like the King. John announces he was a Elvis impersonator and had just returned from living in Tennessee
where he had moved to embark on his routine-or-dream. The dream he soon awakened from- and now was back here.
We talked all night, mostly about Elvis. John said he worked as an auto mechanic nearby. Being new to Georgia I asked him to give me his information as a good mechanic was hard to come by.
A few weeks later I called John and said my car needed an oil change and tune-up. He called back and said, he could do it at my house or his to save me some money. I’d have to buy the parts, no problem. Well, the first night John came over after work- it was almost 9 pm. I knew he’s be hungry and so I cooked for him. He was very pleased, and he ate and went to work. He did notice that the “plug wires” were not in the supplies he ordered. So he had to return the next day to finish the job. Again, I cooked for him, and he was very pleased. The following day, John called me and asked me to lunch. I had to decline cause I had somewhere I needed to be.
The next time I saw John was at karaoke, we sat together and chatted and he seemed interested in me.
I was interested in him. Well, while out with my daughter at lunch one day, I got a text from John, inviting me out to the movies and dinner. I agreed. I sat in my clothes waiting four hours after what was the official time set for the date waiting for John. He then texted that he had fallen asleep in his car, while waiting for it to warm up. Granted, John works at the shop 8am-sometimes till 9pm everyday except Sunday.
Its been a good month or two now. John and I see each other, we have dinner, lunch, see each other on ocassion but always on his terms. We have slept in the same bed, and nothing ever happens.
He has not kissed me once. Just yesterday I waited one and a half hours in a restaurant waiting for him to meet me for lunch. I’m an Aries woman by the way…..he’s a Pisces man.
He is single, I’m a widow. I have not been with any man since my husband passed two and a half years ago. But this man- I like, however I don’t get him AT ALL. I’m quite frustrated, I don’t know if I should even contemplate continuing to see where this goes, or if I should just throw in the towel! Any and all comments are much appreciated- especially good solid advise without critism.
November 22nd, 2009 at 3:32 am
so it is my birthday and I saw the pisces man that I have written about before here…..kind of confirmed some things for me….he is the probably the most attractive man I have ever met…..I dont even know him that well but there is something so lovely, deep and joyful about him. Until I meet someone who I am this attracted to and humbles me the way he does, then I guess I will just keep thinking about him. Seeing him also confirmed that there are people out there that you just hopelessly fall for, even if it isn’t reciprocated….and that is the hard part about this situation, that he most likely never thinks of me….at all. So I am stuck in this place of being totally enamoured by this person even though he doesn’t feel like I do. I must say that I am a deep person and I can feel peoples souls and intentions….and I kind of feel blessed to have met someone like him….it makes me feel good that someone can move me in this way, like there is hope or a chance that someday, with someone, it will be mutual…
November 27th, 2009 at 1:14 am
Hi, i really need help. I am a capricorn woman and my pisces man just left me 2 days ago. We have been together for abt 2 years and hv been having major quarrels for the last few months. he finally told me he is too tired and wants to leave. I tried to make him stay and he did. But we had another quarrel agn and this time he is determined to leave. He says i will always have a place in his heart and that he will definitely miss me alot but he just wants to be happy now. He doesnt wana be burdened by all the pain inflicted from the quarrels and tells me he just wants to do things on his own. He also tells me he will always be here for me because we can be friends and still go out even if we are no longer together. But the point is, i still love him very very much and I really do care about him. We are not seeing each other or keeping in contact.. I know I have been harsh during some of the quarrels and may have hurt him. But above it all, i really do want him back. Please, are there any ways i can win him back or at least try to get him to forgive me? And do i give him some space for now?
November 30th, 2009 at 3:02 pm
I am a Libra woman married to a Pisces Man. We have been married for 13 years with two beautiful children. My pisces husband is sensitive, secretive, kind and a great father to our children. But he has never really been a great husband. He’s a momma’s boy and tends to allow her to control his thoughts and direction. We married when I was 27 and he was 33. Before marrying me he had never lived on his own. Moved from his mother’s house at 32 to live with his cousin before moving in with me. His mother has been divorced 3 times and depends on my husband for emotional and financial support. She competes with me for his love and affection. Most times she wins out. My pisces husband is extremely jealous of my family and friends and goes to great lengths to allienate them whenever possible. Because I am a true Libra and enjoy socializing and making friends this really bothers my husband and have created many problems for us in our marriage. He’s very secretive about finances as well and we have never had any joint accounts. We run our house hold like roommates. The only documents that have both of our names on them are our marriage certificate, our home mortgage and our kids’ birth certificates. His mother’s name is on all of his bank accounts and although we have argued about my concern about this for years he has never changed it or explained his reasoning for doing this. I could go on and on but basically I have a very emotionally draining relationship with my pisces man. It’s no pleasing him. He makes his own reality and does not compromise. Everything is a competition to him. If I go out with my girlfriends once a quarter- in his mind I am choosing them over him. Our lives are totally centered around our kids. He never wants dates with just the two of us and gets upset when I plan them. I think he’s had at least one affair on me in the past. He travels alot and constantly accuses me of cheating but a couple of years ago while looking for a phone number to call one of his relatives, I came across a woman’s home/work address, home/work number, cell #, home/work e-mail, birthday, and other personal information written in his planner. The woman had an address that was about 2 blocks from our house. I had never heard of her. Didn’t know nothing about her. Did some investigating and found out that she went to high school with him and was divorced with a child. I confronted him about her and he said she was an old friend of the past that he met at Wal-Mart while shopping. She gave him her business card at that time and wrote all of her personal info on the back. But he never used any of this info according to him but keep in mind he felt a need to transfer this info into his personal address book. He said they (our kids were small but were with him) ran into her once or twice again at Wal-Mart but they never got together or talked via phone. Of course, I knew he was lying but I knew I had found out after it was already over. My mom always told me to watch a jealous man because usually he’s doing to you what he doesn’t want you to do to him. This was definitely the case with my pisces man. I am still hanging in here but I am definitely looking for the right time to get out. I don’t have many more years to give him. I am tired and have lost a huge part of myself trying to deal with his emotional mood swings and needy personality. We tried counseling once and I was just taken back with how easily he recalled events that never actually happened. He actually sat there and lied in our counseling sessions. Like I say he lives in his own reality.
December 1st, 2009 at 1:42 am
hey, i dont think pisces guys are selfish. i agree with LENA
im a pisces too: My younger brother is a pisces…ok..nevermind, my brother is just plain annoying.
but still i agree with LENA
December 1st, 2009 at 3:49 am
CGD, I’m sorry about your situation. You’re pisces man will never change. Your kids are prob in 20’s You should separate or just leave. You’re still young. He probably secretly wants you to leave anyway just too wimpy to tell you.
December 1st, 2009 at 3:57 am
Im a scorpio female that was dating a male pisces. Everything seemed amazing at first. He treated me like such a lady. He listened to everything I had to say. He kinda came in my life at a very hectic time. I did make him aware that there was never a dull moment so to speak…but also told him it’s not always like this. He seemed to not mind at all. He even said ” good i wont get bored” He took me home to meet his family for thanksgiving only after a couple of weeks of seeing eachother. He took me out with all of his friends and made sure everyone he knew or speoke to knew that I was there with him. He was very observent of anything or anyone I mentioned or looked at for that matter. He seemed to care a great deal , very fast. And i started falling for him quickly for all these reasons. We also could laugh and just have fun together. we matched wits very well. Then from one day to the next, he acted differently towards me.He was very cold and distant and just was not the same person I first met. He did a complete flip. Now we are not talking at all and I am so confused as to why he decided from one day to the next he didnt want to talk to me. He said it was because I didnt have any ‘ chill” days…but somehow i think there is more to it because I kinda gave him that to say…i told him tell me if it becomes too much with everything going on…he never said anything bothered him…actually im a scorpio and pretty intune myslef and i know thats not the reason. I just wonder how he feels right now? I wonder if all the hours upon hours that we spent with one another and talking everyday is even effecting him right now.. i really do miss him like crazy and wonder hoe pisecs men are…do they come back around? I told him that i was very hurt by his decision and i also told him that he didnt deserve to know the rest of me…well he is intne he knew i was husrt… maybe there was someone else..im just so too confused as to why he wanted me to meet everyone in his life and then one day to the next just drop me like nothing…any comments id really appreciate it…im at a huge loss… should i just let it be and try and move on…i also was mad the day before and said i was done..i was mad because i live 45 mins away from him and that he didnt even bother asking if i got in okay when the night b4 i got lost for two hours in the dark..and earlier that day got pulled over going to his house a got a huge ticket…anyways i think my words may have hurt him but maybe im just stupid confused….
December 1st, 2009 at 4:36 am
Cap girls are MENT for pisces boys. Iv been crushin on a pisces boy since forever. It wont ever work for me since i guesss they are so sensitive & i hurt him unknowling. or he just saw right through me and thinks im a phony…
I know we are ment for each other. Because no matter how much I try and forget him he crosses paths with me. Even when we both moved from our home towns we crossed paths 4 years later. Now hes on my mind constantly and we have mutual friends. I accept his weird behavior and him wanting to just be alone & to himself Hes so mysterious it just makes me want him more! ah. UGH I wish the pieces would just fall in place already. We are compatible in everything. Even in numerology. and hes Horse & me snake whatever. I wish I knew why he shuts me down everytime I see him. Im his perfect girl and he doesnt even know it. In every way possible. He has to be GAY! Help oh ya. bdays are me 1.11.90 - 3.6.90
December 1st, 2009 at 8:38 am
To ME,
I’m a Pisces male so I know first hand that we have a particularly nasty habit of wanting what we can’t have. We’ll pine for a woman for years, writing her love notes and writing songs about how much we love her, then once she finally agrees we don’t want her anymore. It’s completely unfair, especially for the woman, but unfortunately it’s part of who we are - we get bored incredibly easy. I think the reason for your current predicament is that your boyfriend has “figured you out,” and is now unfortunately bored of you. I’m sorry but I think your guy is lost, at least for now. Perhaps in a few months if you run into him again, you might be able to pique his interest, but if you couldn’t hold his attention now, I don’t know why it would be different down the road unless you pretend to be someone else to keep him interested, which isn’t healthy. If he doesn’t like you for who you are then he’s not worth it, and you should find someone who appreciates you for yourself.
Sincerely,
Impossible
December 1st, 2009 at 4:26 pm
ME,
IMPOSSIBLE is telling you the truth. Pisces men do not change and you shouldn’t have to change you to be with him. Please read my comments at 599. I married a Pisces man more than 13 years ago. He would act similar to your guy while we were dating. He wouldn’t just go cold turkey but he was very intimidated with my relationships with family and friends. I am a very social person and it drove him crazy. I thought that after we married and he realized that I was his and wasn’t going anywhere that he would change but it only got worse. Nothing pleases my husband. If I am home he doesn’t want to interact with me and when I am gone he’s mad because I am not home. He withholds sex to punish me - yea, just like some women do. And he is a very poor communicator. I never know what he’s thinking. He lives in his own reality and usually it’s filled with lies and half-truths. I say get going while you can. Move on- find somebody else. Don’t make my mistake. There is someone out there that would love to share life’s pleasures with you. Don’t let him steal your joy because my husband has stolen mine and I am searching to get it back.
December 2nd, 2009 at 6:33 am
ME,
I feel so bad for you! Cheer up! I went out with an aaaammmmazing Scorpio guy for the last four years. It was great- we really really got each other without even having to speak (I’m cancer. But being so in tune we knew it wasn’t meant to be and broke up. I didn’t really give it a second thought (which is weird- but was natural) and for some reason IMMEDIATELY started dating a Pisces dude. I say dating– but it wasn’t really that… I was incredibly physically attracted to him but half of me couldn’t stand him personally! He was at least 75% woman and I think the other 25% was frog. I hate having issues with people- it was summer I just wanted to have fun! But it seemed like the only time he really enjoyed being with me was the night I bitched about my childhood and my family– normally NOT attractive (in my book at least!) but he LOVED it! Oh and he would love it if I had a bruise or some flaw… You know my point of mentioning my 4 year relationship prior was to compare this major life changing positive experience with this one wasted summer with a pisces man that I OBSESSED over for months for some reason. He was infuriating! This guy you were with sounds like a complete TOOL! You deserve way better- like someone who will consistently treat you well. This Pisces I was with had been married to a Leo– he told me that one night he woke up cause she was pulling his hate and hitting him. He ALWAYS wanted sympathy but even then I knew there was more to the story… he probably drove her nuts!
Maybe the rotten fish are our lesson in life… before we move on to something better. I always treated him as I would want to be treated myself. He did NOT reciprocate- was sometime open but totally over dramatic and ultimately a coward. It sounds like these guys miss out on a lot of great girls by being so self absorbed and into mind games and BAD MANNERS. Life really doesn’ty have to be that hard. Don’t let HIS bizarro behaviour get you down! Find a Cancer man (the ultimate sensitive gentleman or a jealous devoted Taurus!
December 4th, 2009 at 8:26 pm
Oh Pisces men! Hearing others interactions with pisces men has been entertaining… My first love was a pisces, if I had known what it would turn into, I would have ran the other way. I am a libra and totally the type that is in love with love and always have been. We fell for each other at 13, and it just never stopped. Through high school, now through marriage to other people 18 years later. I am starting to think it probably would have been easier to just marry him in the first place. But oh well. We tried not speaking to each other for years at a time and see how we feel with absolutely no contact. We only messed up our vows once, neither of us regret it. The problem for me at least is that libra girls and pisces guys seem to get along so well? I don’t think we have ever really had a fight or real disagreement about anything. Never met anyone else in our situation…maybe it’s not astrological at all?! Libras and Pisces should just get married..they seem to go well together.
December 12th, 2009 at 9:38 pm
Hey I’m a cancer with aries rising..my lover is a pisces guy.
He was the first boy I was in a relationship with, back in 2005. We dated 8 months then he dumped me b/c he was over jealous and I was breaking his heart sometimes and being just like aries more than cancer…
Then after 3 years, we began seeing each other since 11 months now. I became his gf again. It became a peculiar relationship with a lot of running and catching for both signs. I should really say he is a born in 20th feb aquarius cusp..and just like Mr. Aly he has aquarius in VenuS..which says he is too independent to commit. He really is like that. So I wanted to break up but he didnt accept/like that idea too. He only calls me if he wants to see me. The most things I read here fits him exactly.
I love him really. But I never understand him. He always expects me to be initative he is sometimes like a girl. Its hard. But worth it I suppose.
December 13th, 2009 at 3:22 am
TO ME, i don’t know what makes pisces men think they are not boring. They say people who get bored easy are people who are boring.
December 19th, 2009 at 4:48 pm
It’s taken me hours to read this post,but its been well worth the effort.Trying to understand a bit more about a Pisces guy (Leo asc) i know.I’m a Capricorn (Taurus asc)i had hoped to have a ‘deep and meaningfull’ relationship with this guy but i always seem to do the one putting in all the effort.I have just deleted his numbers from my phone hopefully this will stop me reaching out to someone who never reaches out to me.Sick of feeling ignored.Truly,i don’t think i gave him enough ‘drama’ as he seems to have gone for (and maybe preferred) women who mess him about.
December 20th, 2009 at 10:17 am
Okay so I’ve been reading a lot of the posts here and then skimmed a few of the LONGER ones, but all in all I’ve come to a conclusion: you can pin down a Pisces make/female into any “type”. They are not bound to these types that are labeled for what kind of guy they are or girl for that matter. You just have to accept them for who they are, rotten apple and all if that seem sot be the case.
The last three guys, no joke, have all been pisces, including my current romantic interest. He has a Gemini moon, so he keeps me on my toes. I’m and Aries with a Scorpio moon and Pisces rising, so I can understand the moody behavior, welcome his creative abilities, laugh half the time when he flirts with other women, and kind of relish in his sweet and romantic nature. It’s refreshing, due to my history of bad apples of a gemini (taurus moon) and leo (scorpio moon).
I do not love it when pisces get lazy though with communication. Kind of irks me, but with my scorpio moon, I’m dangerous in a way actually. Mostly due to the fact that it sends me on this kick of intense moods then. Not out of needing attention more so the fact that I don’t know where I stand half the time. So I end up going on flirting with other guys, one in particular is also a Pisces, but with a Libra moon.
Anyway, my Pi Guy with a Lunar Gemini, was in a horrible car accident recently and we all know that with Pisces, that if they do something they shouldn’t or they are going down a karmic path of bad choices, life seems to throw a monkey wrench in, more so if the universe feels that need to SLOW down in general and wake up to what’s important. Same goes for Scorpios too, not so much with Cancer for some reason I’ve noticed. But yeah after it happen I called him asap and we talked and I think it left an impression, cause basically I was really the only one that actually called him up out of everyone (ahhh my lunar moon just KNEW to call and at the right time too!). Cause now I’m singing a different tune and kind of know where I stand with this guy.
It’s also that I took a risk (all or nothing) and mentioned something that he read and now he is singing a different tune as well, a good one. I’m really happy with this Pisces and to everyone woman out there that had a bad pisces. He probably had a moon sign that conflicted with your moon sign ladies. You gotta look at his entire natal chart and compare it to your to find out. I did and my goodness it really is dead on!
Anyway… to all the GOOD Pi Guys, I have your back on this. You are a rare group of guys and I love it! Don’t change and I hope to never have my Pi guy change, I love him just the way he is
December 23rd, 2009 at 2:44 pm
As a pisces male i agree with Becky…
I would encourage woman to really try and get to know the pisces man underneath even if its only as friends.
To be successful with pisces you should be yourself and be honest….as from my experience i run as far away from dishonesty or deceipt as possible…
He will accept you for who you are.
Also for any pisces males out there i would encourage you to believe in yourself more and fight for what you love….sometimes we loose what we should have had because we are too nice or we give up too easily….
I must add…..even if its as a hobby never give up on your passions or dreams…work hard at them tho as i know we can be slackers at times….but never give up until you achive your goal as you’ll only regret it forever….
all the best with life, love and happiness.
-aboycalled
www.myspace.com/aboycalledb
December 28th, 2009 at 1:17 am
I tend to agree with the 4th comment tony,I’am a piscean as well,and i always wondered why i get along with all fire type signs like my friends,and never water signs like my sisters(because they were geminis),and when I found out about 13 zodiac signs and that the sun actually goes in to the zodiac signs at different periods of time ,A pisces is born between march 12-april 18,and this fits with a friend who was born in early april,we were very similar in terms of spirituality,playing video games,going barefoot even at other friends houses,and he did not seem like an aries to me in the bit,he was more calm and collective,so to you miss Vanessa i believe you got an aquarius,reminds me of of my brother in law Peace and Love eveyone,I’m thinking of writing a book about this,It needs to get out to the public,so that people who don’t feel comfortable with their current star sign,this might help clear things up
January 6th, 2010 at 7:14 am
Iam a pisces man, was born in the first of March. Everything you guys say it is reaaly true, I like to dream, it is like you have a journey to another world where you can do whatever you want, you can be whoever you like to be. One more thing about pisces men, they are really tough, I mean, they are sensitive but they never show their pains, you never know and they are physically tough (Andrew Jackson is an example), they are brave too, because they don’t care about life and death, body is unimportant, as long as their minds and souls are ok, their bodies dont matter. Gemini girls are very attractive to me ^-^, they are pretty and smart, I dont know why people say cancer and scorpio are the best matches to pisces, I think gemini and pisces can be a good pair as well. I am happy to be a pisces because I can read people’s mind and that is so awesome (well, that ability seems to disappear when I fall in love).
January 6th, 2010 at 7:24 am
Oh, one more thing, pisces men are extremely shy, dont ever wait for him to confess his love for you, they are scared of being rejected, you girls should start first, well, he will confess if he his love for you is so trong that he cannot hide it anymore.
January 6th, 2010 at 8:56 am
In the beginning of this thread, someone said that Pisces is only compatible w/one sign and that’s Scorpio (me-scorpio female) cause of the sex & we are both emotional. I briefly just hung out with a Pisces male that I was instantly attracted to & interested in for 2 seconds. It was the first Pisces I had sex with (cause usually they turn me off really fast when meeting them) & yes we both said the sex was the best we ever had & it was. It was crazy. I’m very conservative/innocent w/ a lot of morals on the outside to others personality wise (I don’t look innocent though looks wise), but in the bedroom if I’m comfortable w/ the person & feel close to them I will be very wild but just w/ them. We are not talking at all now, but yes I secretly miss the sex (but I can’t have sex w/out meaning & when I find out I did by being manipulated into it I feel very used like in this case). Lies were definitely told to talk me into it, which now pisses me off cause I just don’t have sex w/ anyone. They can also play games in the beginning to test you & they think u don’t realize (Scorpios realize). So I also test them back & do things to them back to fuck w/ their head (A Scorpio is always going to give u back what u r giving them/we don’t like to be played with or manipulated w/ mind games & we always see through it cause we are very intuitive), which I think just confuses them & causes some competition b/w us which never turns out good. I know a lot of Pisces guys. Every Pisces guy I dated briefly & blew off. I have Pisces best guy friends that I love, but there is something I find w/ every single Pisces guy I met that I can’t stand as a Scorpio Female. As a Scorpio Female what I need & want the most above even love (& love/romance/passion is extremely important to me) is RESPECT!!! Pisces males always piss me off, because every single one of them that I know all share my major pet peeves about guys. All of them I met are always attractive, but they turn me off so bad because they all & even my guy friends are always checking out other girls when you are w/ them & always gauking at & saying other girls are hot every 2 seconds while you are with them. Like they just got out of prison & haven’t seen a female in 20yrs. That is my #1 Pet Peeve w/ guys & all Pisces do it! If you like a Scorpio girl, you better act like she’s the most beautiful girl in the world & never, ever once mention any other girl is hot or even on TV or dare look at another girl in front of her. It’s all about respect & if you disrespect us, your done. I also know if a Scorpio girl did that to a Pisces guy, he would flip out. Because I do it back on purpose & the idiots gets pissed and they are so stupid to realize I’m only doing it to them to get back at them & prove a point. Then you tell them well you were doing it & they were like oh yea like they didn’t realize it. Like it’s ok for them to do it & be rude/disrespectful, but god forbid you do it to them? Like you almost need to show them so they get it, but then it’s too late for me. Why should I have to show a guy how to respect a girl? It should be common sense for any idiot not to do that, yet their are still guys who don’t get it. My #2 Pet Peeve is cheap guys & Pisces males can sometimes be a lil cheap (they are not the worst sign w/ cheapness like Virgo males/some Caps/some Geminis, but they will start expecting you to go halfsies on meals or pay after a couple dates to me that’s still cheap). I’m not a goldigger & don’t expect a guy to pay my bills/buy me things or anything that I am dating, but I do expect a guy to pay for every date. It’s not about $, I have my own $. It is about chivalry and being old fashioned and I do believe guys should be a man & take a girl out still if your going to dinner or out on a date. #3 Pisces are way to liberal in their thinking!!! I don’t mind being wild in the bedroom w/ just them only, but I’m conservative about a lot of other things they are not like using condoms, don’t sleep w/ hookers, even in their politics they are all almost way too liberal (but they are the most unprejudiced guys I ever met & seem to be interested in any race of girl/any type of girl), but also they all seem usually attracted to really slutty girls w/ the hugest, fakest boobs that look like basketballs to hook-up with not to date tho & obsessed w/ porn (which I hate). Scorpio’s love sex, but it’s more about passion & deepness & souls connecting. People think Scorpios are just all into sex/kinky crap (which is not true). We don’t want rough, raunchy sex w/ no meaning. Most male Pisces just want to have sex to have sex, unless they really like a girl. Then they will be all passionate & dreamy, but they hardly like anyone a lot other than casual sex. I always need meaning in my sex/passion, even if I don’t like the guy that much or don’t want a relationship. He has to be into me still for more than sex & care about me even if I don’t like him. If he’s not, I can’t have sex w/ him. I can’t have sex w/ someone I know is just using me for the act of sex, even if that’s all I want. Scorpios like passion & chemistry. The only things I do like about Pisces is they do share our emotions & can be sensitive (which I like). They also constantly stress/obsess/can’t stop thinking about a girl they liked if she disappears or it ended & they can’t figure out why? Scorpios do the same thing (if they were interested only), but we usually know why it ended. We can have very deep conversations also & they are very dreamy like me (I’m very into astrology/psychology/spirituality & some of them are like me in that way which I love), but that is mostly just w/ my male guy Pisces friends cause I am close with them. I know a lot of Pisces girls too & I think Pisces Males & Pisces Girls are very different in relationships, but they are both the same in that they are easygoing & that they all love to disappear when they get fixated on doing something like an activity or work. They forget about the whole world & you can’t get a hold of them for a couple weeks, then they come back like they never left & then they are off again. They are actually not usually being shady, they just get really focused sometimes on things they are doing & need their time to themself.
January 6th, 2010 at 10:08 am
Oh & that one Pisces I was just dating recently was always very suspicious of me. I could read it in his face. I always knew what he was thinking face to face. I am very real/sincere actually, he didn’t need to be fearful of me being honest w/ him but he was. So he started testing me & playing games, which in turn made me not trust him so I played the game back & started manipulating him (which actually in the end made me sad, cause I hate playing the game). I think we actually had a deep connection at first & we could of really liked each other, but he started being manipulative w/ these games to test me. He started also saying things like when you go out your probably a big flirt. Are you going to be flirting w/ every guy when your out? I would never give him straight answers on purpose, which I know made him more suspicious. I just said well your a big flirt, instead of saying of course I won’t if I’m w/ u (which actually if I really, really like a guy, I never flirt when I’m out. I will be wishing they are w/ me the whole time, but I have to really, really like the guy). I also thought well I know he is a big flirt & he’s probably scared of me doing it cause he does it. Even one night, I went home early cause I had to get up early for work & wouldn’t stay over to get sleep which I needed. If I stayed w/ him, I know I’d never sleep. He thought I was just going home as playing a game to make him fall for me more. Now we don’t talk at all & it makes me sad of what could of been, cause I felt it could of been really good but it just blew up into a big mess. He just kept getting more suspicious of me & the games began & then I joined in, then that’s when he started checking out other girls when we went out cause I could tell he was losing interest. The more cocky he got in attitude, I gave it right back & I know Pisces males hate cocky girls. We both liked fun sarcasm, but it turned into kinda overly cocky on both sides like who can out do who, a game of who could act like they were more better looking, more confident or too good for the other. I don’t even know he realized any of this, but I did. I guess it’s sad, cause for a second it had potential. But then again, if you know anything about astrology Mars is in Retrograde (which totally affects my own chart hugely) & this happened during it. I really think it did affect a lot of this relationship.
January 7th, 2010 at 10:15 am
Hi uncompatible,
thanks for your /long ;-)/ writing.
Although I am only a friend with a pisces man - I feel the same as you do.
Because we water signs are so cocky ? that is not so convinient to them! They love confident person till she/he is not TOO cocky! And this is why the circel is round here! They are probably scared of us bc we DO know who they REALLY are! Am I right? Give them a girl who messes him up! Thats what he wants… We are far too nice… /and cocky ;-)/ bye
January 9th, 2010 at 5:13 pm
I’m a gemini and i’m with a picses guy and I sometimes can’t really hold the thought of him still being in love with me.
When a Pisces man is in love, do they stay in love until something makes them fall out of love? Would they get too emotional about something and stop feeling the way they do about their lover? If they fall out of love with you, will they tell you or just cut you out of their lives all together?
January 9th, 2010 at 11:02 pm
Hi
I find all of this fascinating as I had a very dramatic relationship in the past with a pisces man who went into depression and managed to marry a pisces man with the same tendancy! We are currently on a trial separation as I couldn’t live around him anymore.
I am a Virgo/Libra (on the cusp 20th Sept) and wondered if anyone had any advice about our two signs as a mix. The main problem is that I deal with things quickly and throw all of my cards out on the table, I then pick myself up fast and remain positive no matter what. He doesn’t open up to me at all, hardly talks and draw into himself, it can take days for us to make up about something unless I spend hours talking and bullying him into expressing his emotions which can either work and we’re fine or he can explode and throw something or storm off.
My first relationship with a pisces man verged on violent, he once dragged me accross the kitchen floor by my hair and then cried and broke down. From then on when he was angry he’d tell me to “watch out or he might hurt me” which didn’t go well with my way of dealing with things head on and fast! Now that my husband is showing some of these signs throwing objects / food when I push him to talk, I’m scared and worried about where we are headed.
For now I’ve moved out, he’s been texting / messaging me that he loves and misses me etc, but I’ve suggested we date again and go from there.
On the good side our creative personalities mix well, we are both musicians and write music together and had a band for the last 3 years performing at gigs regularly, we mainly enjoy going out drinking together or being silly. We often make each other laugh.
Again, any advise greatfully received! Does our star sign mix have a chance?
January 10th, 2010 at 5:20 am
COMPATABLE, I’m also a cancerian. But you as a scorpio sound just like me. And i found your comments very imformative about scorpios. The part when you stated people think scorps are wild in the bedroom i thought so too wondering why all astrological forums and info always seem to act as thou scorpio are kinky etc….. But was very interesting you explaining it. I am alot like yourself and want the same things from a man. But i don’t care if they glance or mention about a women on tv. It doesn’t bother me depending how it comes across . If the gawk at other women or look at bodyparts of a women and or are crude they would piss me off. I agree a man should pay for the dates. I too have always been old fashioned. And I’m a flirt but just friendly really not a sexual flirt and my guy better not flirt . But I know the one sunsign Pisces always fall for is a Scorpio Women. Most scorps have Pisces wrapped around their little finger. I like how you give it right back to him. I used to do that with an Aquarius man but it does get tiring the mind games.
January 10th, 2010 at 5:49 am
Im dating a Pisces. Hes so very sensitive. like a delicate feather. he expresses his feelings with no shame and never second guesses himself while doing so. his sensitivity only makes him more lovable. And we get along so well because of our compatible signs. mine being a scorpio.
January 13th, 2010 at 3:06 am
I am a Leo woman involved with a Pisces male. I absolutely love him!! He is not afraid to share his feelings with me. He is extremely attentive to me…he does sometimes go into this introspective state, which often leaves me feeling concerned if all is ok. However, I have learned to give him his space. Honestly, I feel deeply there is a connection beyond the astrological sign. I never thought as a fire sign I would be involved with a water sign…but we balance each other out. Our differences we embrace and support each other in our endeavors to grow spiritually.
January 15th, 2010 at 2:39 pm
Vanessa get a life, i am a pisces man and im nothing like yyour so called husband.
January 15th, 2010 at 3:35 pm
I’m a Scorpio girl dating a Pisces guy. I always thought Scorpio men were it for me because they would match my sexuality….boy was I wrong! I’ve dated most other signs (except for Aquarius, i won’t stoop that low) and there was NOTHING. I’m big on chemistry and if there is nothing there on the first date i won’t even bother seeing you again. Why waste both our times? My pisces pursued me like no one’s business, and I had no clue why! He said when he looked into my eyes, he knew :). I’ve never felt so comfortable with another man. EVER. and im in my late 20s. He makes me feel like it’s ok to have this whole raging storm inside me. Im very independent so I dont’ need a man to lean on, i just need a man who is there for me. It’s very soon in the relationship but I think we both feel the same. Hope it lasts a very long time!
Sue
January 18th, 2010 at 2:32 am
Hi,
I am a 30 year old cancer woman and I was in a relationship with a Picses man for three years. Every man is different but its quite funny after reading all the comments on pisces men, agreeing to some of their traits…From my experience they are very sensitive and are dreamers and ambitious, but also they seem to say what people want to hear, they are influenced by friends easily, have an adddictive pesonality ( alcohol, money etc ), are very moody, very selfish, very indesicive and they have the tendancy to run away when things become difficult.
Needless to say this star sign although is very compatible with cancer, it is one to be careful of.
As cancer is too giving, will put full trust and love in that relationship and commit, there is no saying that pisces man will definitely do the same.
In my situation, my pisces man and I nearly bought a house together…but he broke up with me instead. ( he was afraid of the commitment all along but hadn’t been honest with me! )
He was single now, making loads of money, traveling all over the world with his job and visiting places like Ibiza, Punta del Este, Argentina and Miami with his guy friends.
But to make things wosre…didn’t want to let me go and strung me along for another 2 years, making me think we were going to end up together and get married as he had not felt anything for a girl like he had for me. ( thats what he said! )
As I loved him, I believed him but he was just saying that, to keep me there, as he loved the fact that I loved him and not because he really loved me. I was his security blanket, while he was out there living his life and dating other women.
So I dunno maybe they are better off with Scorio women, or other star signs who would be passionate but strong and not too sensitive.
A pisces can crush a cancer. But I am sure you know that a cancer can be crushed by all the other star signs as they are too sensitive for their own good, dependent and can be a bit needy at times which can put others off! We make great friends, lovers and will be there practically there for ever to the ones we love..
Fortunately its over now..his parents and friends told him that what he was doing wasn’t right and he told me ( crying ) that he didn’t love me enough to commit to me ( recently to my face ). He said he was saying what I wanted to hear, because he didn’t want to lose me…
So you go figure that one out….
I am going to stay away from that star sign though as I’d rather have someone tell me something the way it is even though it hurts rather than sugar coating things to their advantage!
Also learnt that giving love uncoditionaly to people that don’t appreciate you and don’t really love you back and waiting around for someone is a loss of valuable time…in my case 5 years!
So whatever the star sign love yourself more and watch out for the signs in your partners bahviour.
Remember actions speak louder than words!
January 20th, 2010 at 5:59 pm
im a pisces man ladies . but bored of being a pisces. bored of emotions.bored of dreams . bored of ladies. i love ladies but.when im in deep no one next to me when im up there a lot of eyes on me (eager and willing to do anything).but that time i dont have the wish to do anything with them.why to do. for what.im going on a way that is full of holes. when i jump in one of them , i need s.o. bu t noone in sight.im married to a scorpio.i love her , but that is she who makes me swim away by saying the same thing every time, ordering . o fcourse no change cos if i dnot want to do one thing thre is no way for anyone in this planet make me do it. in private an d of course in my job too. but one thing love .and forcing me to do that even makes me more stubborn. i love her but trying so else anyone.cos of what she has done so far to me cut my piece of love for her. and im married to her yes i respect her i need her. true . i feel her as one of friend now. i need love more than her.any one. and there is alot of candidates willing. but i cant do anything.thinking of her makes me stop. thinking of her forces me to do. im in no where .isnt that the worst.i smile it is best. i cry it makes me relaxed , discharged.but with out of both just suffering and going to deeper each time.at the same time i just look at ladies all most of which i get the acceptance. but that is bad too. i give them the sign one day, and other day is as if we ve met new.i look like im trying to find someone for love , but not just that but also a friend, but after the sign green no way to change it to regular friendship. so at the and no one near to me. yes i need loneliness but not that much as if in this world just me…..
bear in mind that we pisceans need always love and interest on us sometimes much but after we r ok .i need to reflect it back much more.but who cares this.
i made my wife very sad alot of time.but thatis cos of ivent decided what to do in future and a wonder of making her sad more sad that any other guys can do.that is the thing make me swim away. yes making her sad but much more less than that is possible in future…..
and that is cos of bed times. i mean sexuality that makes me swim again.not the details…
what im doing now . im listening to this http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W-4g-pXZ8AQ&feature=related
and others like this for hundred times and stimes crying and smoking smoking smoking
January 21st, 2010 at 2:04 am
Thank you, Scorpio Lady. OMG I don’t even care to remember the first post’s name, only the ROOOAAAAARRR of her Leo desperation. Give us Pisces men a break. I don’t drink beer, have few male friends, and yes, I am in touch with my feminine side. . . maybe Ms. Angry Leo, “Oh yeah, I forgot something (read: one more angry slam),” he was forced away because you cannot deal with someone being more effiate than you? C’mon. This extraordinarily perceptive Pisces man hears, “I tell my kids all the time what a loser you are,” so who can blame him? I think, maybe. . . just maybe. . . you need to explore your own sexuality just a tad. Might solve some issues for ya
Honestly. Pisces men are dreamers, lovers, believers. But for that to work, we have to have someone who believes in our dreams, enjoys are passion for giving love and pleasure, and believes in our aspirations. Clearly, you need a man who WANTS you to provide him with a career, just so you can assert every little bit of control you can muster.
Shame, shame on you. He probably loved you at some point, but cannot for the life of him remember why . . .
Scorpio’s, Cancer’s and Caps rock our world because they get our sensitivity. As opposed to the many knuckledraggers out there who will stroke the lions mane, expecting the lazy lion to ambulate and get off the couch for a day or two. :))
January 21st, 2010 at 11:01 am
To Dan Bower
Love your post, especially the last paragraph. So true!!!
January 22nd, 2010 at 5:22 am
I am currently going out with a pisces man and sometimes l don’t understand him, He is successful, handsome but so insecure! sometime i wonder if he really is that insecure or just being plain manipulative! But even with his “episodes he is the best boyfriend i’ve ever had; very romantic, humorous and charming!” Try check out mizian website they do a good job describing them.
January 22nd, 2010 at 11:31 am
Hello,My name is John Wood.I am a pisces.we are very very dangerous people to be in a relationship with.we want all the alone time we can get.we are super super super mysterious.nobody will ever know how deep the rivers flow in my veins.i can indeed read peoples thoughts so i tend not to go out into public places cause it hurts my head.we are theeee best lovers.every girl i see i want to give her the world.the sex is great,gets better and better everytime.i want to change the world with my talents and with my fantasy imagination.i am a musician.i am 18 years old.i beleive in god very deeply but i wont judge you or talk your ear off about god.i love mysteries such as;knights templar,tupac shakurs death,kurt cobain,the lyrics to black by pearl jam,my thoughts ha,my lyrics,god,3:33 a.m.,and i love planning things.pisces’ heads are insane.ive been inside everyone elses….boring.i dont stop thinkng.music,girls,the world,god,etc….o and girls,you will never have all of a pisces,he built a kingdom that he calls home on neptune and a part of him will alwaya stay there.something new you might not know of…idk if its just me but i dont drink water,eat fish or seafood and i can hold my breath for 4 minutes.weird…?? let me know what you think about that.my thoughts might be weird and the things i say as well but to me they are beautiful.everything is beautiful to us.the little things.we notice everything,so girls,dont try and hide your thoughts to a pisces.i am built like an athlete,bright green eyes,talented in music,can play drums,piano,guitar,bass,and i can sing like no other.my favorite bands our unique-muse,delirious,pearl jam,kings of leon(first three cd’s),maroon 5(songs about jane)
thats it.
thanks.
a pisces is gonna change this world,remember the name…..
John Wood
California
Stay Wet
January 24th, 2010 at 5:58 am
John Wood your gross. And pisces are the most boring of all men. It’s funny they always seem to thing others are boring. But as the saying gos people who get bored easily are boring people. zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz STAY DRY
January 24th, 2010 at 6:10 am
#630 hope your not the same jo and number 626 cuz he was a jerk to you. Don’t waste your life. Dump him so fast his head will spin. He doesn’t deserve you. You are way too good for him.
January 24th, 2010 at 1:59 pm
Hi John Wood! Uh-Oh!!! You sound like one of those self inflated Pisces guys who have over done it on the self worshipping front. If you kiss your own behind for just a fraction more than you have done already, you may just dissappear up your back end!! I am just trying to help you out here- no offence intended! I am a Pisces/ Aries cusp, with Scorpio rising in the second decan ( the Pisces/ Neptune decan), and have Pisces all over the place elsewhere in my chart, so I am practically a full Pisces anyway, and have always felt so. So I completely understand and love and embrace everything Piscean. If a Pisces is going to change the world for the better, it will most likely be a Pisces female- no offence to any Picses men out there, whom I absolutely LOVE (not including John Wood of course). And if you want to see some REAL magic and enchanting artistry, just check out David Sylvian ( not that Pearl Jam and Kurt Cobrains etc. guff you go on about). Now Dave truly has the voice of an Angel, and is the sweetest Piscean Piece of Ass I have ever witnessed in my whole life! If you happened to be in one of those boastful and arrogant Piscean moods in the time that you wrote you previous comment, then its OK, I forgive you.
But if you happen to really believe all that piffle, and think you are some kind of amazing oracle, then John Wood- go fish, ya phony!! TeeHeeeee!! 
Take it easy!!! Love from missyevil.
January 26th, 2010 at 4:59 pm
OMG….LOL, reading the last few posts>>John Wood,Missyevil, hilarious stuff…I’m a Pisces Male born on the Aries cusp, so maybe i’m a lil’ different but…(tongue in cheek) yeah John right on, we are answer to all worlds problems, God must be a Pisces too…we fantastical, all women want us, yada,yada…we are perfection, we know all, see all things…we greatest kissers of all mankind, yada, yada….please let’s be real. Hey, we are dreamers as Pisces but we have to come out of “Fantasy Land” to real world. Missy, don’t be to hard on John, he’s probly a decent guy. We can come across as ‘brash’ and a lil” arrogant not meaning too, maybe in John’s case meaning too LoL…
January 31st, 2010 at 4:01 am
I have been a friend with a pisces man for 7yrs off and on and for the yr of 2009 we became really close. This man lost his only son of 18yrs and his girlfriend put him out and was really rude to him. Well I being the good person that I am really felt bad for him and was a shoulder for him to cry on for days and weeks until he got stronger. Then after about 4 months later he turned on me and started being mean, critical and started slipping away. He didn’t konw how to handle crisis when they come and I have always helped him whenever he neede help. I have loaned him money on several occasions and he has always paid me back. Well for Xmas 2009 I took him shopping and bought him nice gifts and then the very same nite that I asked for $60.00 back that he owed me from that week he got mad gave it to me and I have not talked to him since and he changed his phone number too. I was reall good to this pisces man and I never gave him a hard time. I have been in his corner 100% and I have never said a mean thing to him, in fact he has been the mean one. So whoever say that pisces men are sensative and caring I cannot tell. I am mad and hurt that this man treated me like this and I will be taking him to court for $200.00 that he still owe me to this day.
February 5th, 2010 at 4:49 am
Dan Bower,
I love your posting! But I have one problem: what about the people who may have a different sun sign, but have a natal chart FULL of water or tons of Pisces influence? I myself am an Aries. But here is the kicker: I have a Pisces Ascendent, Venus in Pisces, a Scorpio moon, and a Pluto in Scorpio. I’ve found that having these help a lot. I’ve been a calmer Aries and tactful more on my communication. But boy oh boy, when I get annoyed or angry, my Scorpio moon comes out and I lash! I’ve been known to cut deep in a man, even almost verbally castrating sometimes.
But I can say that my Pisces Ascendent/Rising makes me a day-dreamer, indulgent for creativity, and also the ability feel the need to escape when things get really tough.
Anyway… the next part is just a general posting and not geared towards anyone….
I can say I’m dealing with a Pisces, whom has expressed interest, strong (while under the influence *sigh*), but expressed it. That was three months ago. Since then I’ve found out before hand that a few weeks prior to that, he got out of a year and a half relationship. And the thing is I know Pisces, mulling it over is a huge thing, especially if you truly loved someone.
But with my water placements in my chart, I’ve been able to pick up on all sorts of “lovely” things about him. I’m not looking for any commitment really, just that I keep getting the irking feeling he is not only hung up on his ex, but I just fear he won’t ever let go of the pain or at least bury some of it. I just don’t want to feel as though “she” has this hold on him, the kind that makes him unable to move on. The only real problem I have as of lately is his super need to just not communicate. It’s not that it annoys me as much more as he seems so distant even when I talk to him sometimes, more so around people than alone. And I wonder if not only work and family issues are bugging him, which I know they are, but his ex too. I did find out from a friend of his that apparently she possible works at the same job as him. Kind of a catch-22 for healing and moving on if you ask me.
Anyway, here is the catch: He has a Moon in Gemini, a Venus in Aquarius, Mars in Taurus, and I’ve got a Gemini Mars. So we’re both aloof and detached. But it’s his Taurus mars that makes him sort of jealous, touchy-feely, and gives him stamina sexually that most Pisces don’t have unless they have a good placement of Taurus in their chart. So because of this, I’ve noticed that the more he influences himself with alcohol or drugs, that Mars in Taurus comes out to play. I’ve noticed he suddenly can’t help himself and lets his hands get all over me! It’s so night and day if you ask me haha.
Oh here is something to know if you don’t really know anything beyond Sun Signs: A man’s Moon sign certainly factors into the “equation”. While Venus offers clues as to what type of women and situations attract a man on a romantic level, the Moon reveals what qualities makes a man feel comfortable and warm. Sometimes we see men with very different Venus and Moon signs who have distinctly different “types” of women when it comes to pure attraction and those he would consider as long-term or relationship material. For example, a man with Venus in Aries and Moon in Taurus might be attracted to forthright, independent women in general, but as far as “selecting” a woman for a long-term partnership goes, he might choose a more demure woman with steady affections and a softer, more traditionally “feminine” personality and/or appearance.
However, the position of Mars by sign in a woman’s chart does tend to offer some clues as to what she will find attractive in a man. This is because Mars reveals what turns us on to some degree, and represents traditionally masculine qualities.
February 6th, 2010 at 7:26 pm
I am a Pisces too, even though I don’t believe in any spiritual things, I do think what you guys have said are true. At least for me, I am a loner, I live in 2 completely different world, especially my job allows me to work at home 24/7. I expect a lot more from people which of course result in lots of disappointments. Most people will never see the true side of me and that make me even more depress.
I feel like there is a constant fight inside of me to be myself and to be someone else that I am not. I don’t know if most Pisces hate to be themselves but I know that I do and I have tried so hard to change myself and become someone better (maybe I’m trying to become the fantasy in me). I’m not so good with women because I am shy, but I have the need for love and be love. I came from a family that my parents, brothers, sisters don’t really care much about how I feel so that make it even worst.
Maybe I’m looking for a way to change myself so I can finally be happy with myself. I consider myself a smart person and this makes it even worst because I can start realize more about me, who I am, and why do I act in such ways. I never talk to anyone about my true feelings, even my ex girlfriend and she is a Taurus. I tried to talk to my parents about my feelings but they doesn’t seem to care.
Anyways, if you guys know any books about this matter, I would like to read about it because I’m sick and tired of being so feminine and emotional about every little things. I want to become more calm, relax, and emotional stable not only just for dating purposes but also for my own peaceful life.
February 11th, 2010 at 6:40 am
The big difference between pisces can often be clarified by comparing the chinese sign as well. This answered a lot of questions for me because until I found out I was a Tiger.. it seemed i was a very eccentric pisces both sensitive yet often fearless .. especilally for worthy causes.
One thing for all other pisces.. BEWARE avoid Gemini’s like the plague (note the posts on this site) they are my nemisis and are manipulative self centred and “can’t even lie straight in bed”.. as an Australian would say. let them play their stupid mental games with each other or a sign less honest and caring as a gentle Pisces. I believe Pisces generally care more about humanity/ their community .. which is the opposite of what I have observed to be the case with completely selfish Gemini’s.
Just my opinion and sorry to be so frank when the web creator? is a gemini.. will she put this posting up?? I will be stunned if it happens.
barry
February 14th, 2010 at 10:59 am
Hi, I am a pisces man, and i can fully relate with most everything on this site. It is sorta scary actually. But, let me tell you this.
As a man, I feel very uncomfortable in my own skin. I am a pisces-horse, and i feel like i need to be running with the pack, fitting in, etc. etc. I feel like I can read peoples thoughts and ideas, through the sound/tone of their voice, facial or hand gesture, or pure eye contact. I dont like it, because i feel as if people can always read me as well (but in the wrong way). If i seem submisive, or scared to show my feelings towards someone, I am probably just trying to avoid people thinking that I am trying to observe them… even just eye contact makes me overthing myself. =(
I’m not sure if this makes sense, but I’m trying to make it make sense.
And one thing that is VERY true, that i have had since i was a child and was oblivious to the sun signs, is the lying to ease either self pain, or another persons pain (usually a mix of both).
For example, since i was in middleschool, i have just wanted to have fun, hated school, class clown, you get it. I never done my assignments, out of sheer laziness (another horrible trait that i posess, i do believe that i have the potential to succede in studies, and eventually a career, but thats if i get off my ass and actually turn my dreams into action, right?) But i would lie to my parents, and say that my assignments that were graded as “0’s”, that I had forgotten to turn them in, or the teacher must have made a mistake and missed inputing it on her computer.
I know this paragraph is a rant, but what i am trying to say, is that i have a really hard time not “softening” the truth. Maybe its because im so sensitive, or maybe i am just a coward. I dont know what it is.
But to the women who are dating a pisces male, dont take these negative traits personally, i believe that it is just the defect of the piscean.
I hate being a pisces male. Wherrrrrrre is my scorpio?
February 18th, 2010 at 12:40 am
Tammy #633 thanks for your advice and kind words! I am Jo #626 and haven’t had any contact with my ex for a month and a half now. Still really hurts, but trying to keep busy and move on. This site is quite cool as people write their experiences and its cathartic! Thanks for reading through, I appreciate your feedback! Jo #630 should watch her back, as you would do with any man, especially one that is good with words and is a bit mysterious!
February 18th, 2010 at 10:26 am
I must say Im a cancer female and we are the best match for pisces male hands down. Its meant to be.Its the motherly thing and the fact that pisces and scorpio are too similar to work in a practical relationship they do share a strong connection though just not of that sort, its more of a joy ride. Cancers and Pisces are like puzzle pieces. A good match for a scorpio is another scorpio they can only fully appreciate someone like them
February 22nd, 2010 at 5:49 am
My pisces is a mix. Hates to drink, likes to play football and is very attentive. I dont think theyere only made for Scorpios even though theyd probably give eachother a headache but laugh at it it can also happen between other signs. I love pisces especially mine. Yes their somewht complicated mentally be some are out spoken about how they feel thats the part that blows you away. They truly are wonderful. Although mistaken to be gay they truly are great lovers. Theyre somewhat evil though. Mix them up with a virgo theyll catch on to the virgos devious sexual ways and use it on the lover back. They are very interestin and certainly loveable.
March 1st, 2010 at 2:03 am
I love Pisces men, they are so sweet and charming. I’m a Taurus, so that makes me biased.
March 3rd, 2010 at 9:40 am
I have read many sites on the personality of a Pisces about a month after dating him. Before I read the personality profiles on the Pisces man, I was confused. When we first met, we instantly hit it off. I really liked him alot. He asked me out and I felt really comfortable with him. The more we saw each other the more I saw how distant he could be. At times he would be right there with me then all of a sudden look at me as if I had 2 heads. I am a Libra and very strong willed and independent. He seemed to really like that about me. When we first met, his dad was really sick and was ready to go any day. I told him that maybe we should cool our guns and let him deal with his family thing as I figured that was most likely the reason he acted as he did and I felt as though I was in the way. He swore I was not in the way and he wanted to continue our relationship. Knowing it was not a good choice, I continued to see him anyway. If we were to have sex, I would always have to be the one to initiate it. Keep in mind, a Libra also likes to be “taken”. He told me he loved me in an email. Didn’t like that and in so many words, told him that I would have much better appreciated it had it been said to my face. I did not return the words as I am very careful with those words and wanted to be sure of who he was before I blurt them out. The man is talented in so many artistic venues. I mean, it’s amazing. He can pick up a guitar and play whats in his head and cant even read musical notes! Had no education in it, just picked one up and played. Well guarding myself but still falling at the same time (that’s me, contradictions) his dad passed. I know it was very hard on him while also losing 2 aunts a month before and a week before, he had alot on his plate. A week later he played a houdini act right after having sex saying he left his oven on. He knew it upset me and left without any kind of response and haven’t heard from him since (almost a week). It seems to be so out of character for him and I am left totally confused and hurt. It’s eerie reading the profile above especially where it says it drives you insane dealing with the mood swings. It drove me crazy too! I am an upfront honest person and respect my company by being there with them not only in body but spirit too. I took a VERY long hiatus from men before I met him gave myself up for this?!?! It’s hard but I’ll bounce back.
March 3rd, 2010 at 3:33 pm
I am a Cancer with Scorpio rising and the love of my life is a Pisces. I only wish everyone got to feel this kind of love at least once in their lives.
March 4th, 2010 at 5:04 pm
I’m a taurus girl with a pisces male. We’ve tried being together at one time..it didn’t work out because of his alcohol problem and lack of communication between us. we were friends for 2 years before trying it out, guess it was too akward. Now we are back together after a long year of tension due to the desire to be together. It feels as if we complete eachother. Hes so watery, and im so earthy. Hes a pisces with a moon in pisces and a pisces rising. Im a taurus with a moon in taurus and virgo rising. We have so much fun together, he takes me away to his dream world and im the only one that makes him feel comfortable enough to bring him out. he loves making me happy and i love making him happy, too. theres so much romance between us, so much chemestry, i love it. I know hes madly in love with me and i love him too, im just afraid that with his venus in aquarius and my venus in taurus that’ll i’ll feel insecure and unstable, and he’ll feel smotherd by my need for stability..
March 4th, 2010 at 5:06 pm
and the pisces male is amazing btw!! talk about a sign knowing how to steal the heart of a taurus woman!
March 13th, 2010 at 1:29 am
Hi. I am a Cancer woman and i have been talking to this Pisces Man for a while now and he is a romantic man. I feel like our relationship will last because he understand me. I know he is emotional and i can talk to him about anything and even cry with me but sometimes i feel like its too good to be true. As a Cancer i don’t really like expressing my feelings but since i have been with me i have talked to him about so many things that i wont tell anyone else. I just hope things will always be like this between us. amen…lol
March 24th, 2010 at 5:45 pm
I am a man that like every beauty around me and i am easily getting hurt by female that i like . I cant even make the difference between like and love , but i just felt disappointed or moody when the girl i love giving me the cold shoulder or thinks that not going like what i thought .. i feel bad about being emotional because of that i am trying my best to get ride all of the heart feeling in me every time i face the love problem .
March 27th, 2010 at 3:22 am
I’ve been reading this forum for over an hour! I am incredibly in awe of how similar my relationship is to many who have written. My beloved is Feb 28 pisces and i am june 30 cancer. I did research when we first got to know each other and I knew we were going to blissfully hit it off. I have a strong psychic urge and predicted everything in all stages of us falling in love. Being 32 and he 38, we both felt like this was the soulmate ‘thing’ for the first time ever in our lives. Even early on, we talked of marriage and growing old together. I was hesitant sometimes to believe wholeheartedly that this was as wonderful as he believed it was-I am slow to trust-you know that hard crab shell and all. However, I did trust and I let us be in the flow of happiness-no pressure b/c i knew we were going to be together forever. He did too. He believed that and proposed, I said yes and 3-4 weeks later he began to retreat and isolate. He was good at communicating in writing and expressed in a letter that he likes to be alone with he gets depressed and stressed. However, he also really wanted to share all of that with me and invite me ‘in’ to his heart even further. Now, I’m not entirely sure he actually was able to do that in since the time that followed he stopped communicating. He focused mostly on how much he loved me, telling me all the time and how happy he was I was in his life. Next thing to happen was a shock as he coldly and abrasively told me that our relationship was over. I was in shock and I couldn’t figure it out, I didn’t mind telling him that I thought he needed some therapy or maybe we both needed it. He was telling me how much he loved me but didn’t want a relationship. So, I said we could not be friends as he asked and told him now was the time for him to have life without me. I urged him to listen to his heart while he coldly walked away. After two weeks, we’ve not spoken or seen each other. I feel like my intuition is telling me we will collide again and then, I don’t know how I’ll react. I love him completely. I also believe his action toward me was rather unforgivable, coming at the most intense time in my life (work/education). I needed him the most and he left in the cruelest way. I can understand all of the reasons-life, stress, work, moving. However, in his heart, as even he knows, he love me. We united on a sacred plane and I know we are still there. I don’t want to let him go. I am patiently believing that he will settle back into his happy flow of life and want to reunite with me. Anyway, just wanted to share, I really think this is one of the best astrology websites I’ve ever read. I’ve never, ever written in one either!
Cheers!
April 1st, 2010 at 4:28 pm
Just want to say”things are meaningless when v get them,thats the nature of our pisces.Dont show your inner feelings so quickly just give us a chance to predict ur feelings ourselves
I think v give time to that problem and project and file till to its solution.Once problem/project solved v put that file in record room forever as Case has been solved.Same is here,when v pisces understand completely…………………..problem starts here.So dont give a single chance to pices that he has undrstand u.Present urself in a new way so that pisces get Mad thats the only solution .Its funny But true.
April 12th, 2010 at 9:54 pm
I dated a pisces guy a while back and considering I’m a libra… (never ever going through that again!!!) He was happy then he was sad then he was suicidal then he was horny the he was suicidal again it was god awful!! he was an extreme pervert and all he did was try to get me to suck his … you no what and stick his hand down my pants. and when I said get the hell out of there he’d go all suicidal and try to make me feel bad and I dumped him and he’s been stalking me ever since. oh well I have my Taurus guy to save me from that creep now
April 13th, 2010 at 5:04 pm
Skittles- you are just totally lame, and a killjoy. I’ll bet your Pisces is having plenty fun stalking you, air head- HA!!
Typical lightweight Libra- cant handle the cool Pisces action- youre boring, boring, boring!!!! TeeeHeee!!! ;P
April 19th, 2010 at 2:24 am
I am a Scorpio woman, and have just recently started something with a Pisces man. We have been acquaintance’s for many years now, and he has been chasing me for just as long, but we never had the time to get to know each other. The first night that we spent together, I couldn’t believe how I could not get him out of my head. We have both agreed that this relationship will be very relaxed, and not too serious at all, as we both would rather live without the drama. Yet, he speaks with me every day, he asks to see me every night, and the time we spend together, no matter how short or long, is like nothing I have ever experienced. Is this b/c of my nature to get attached and obsessed to these types of situations? Or is this man really what I’ve been researching, and quite possibly a perfect match for me? I know a few other Pisces men, and they are sweet, gentle, caring, CLEAN lol, funny, and motivated. I have not met one yet that I do not adore. In my case, I wonder if it’s too good to be true, and how long I can keep trying to fight the need to make it more serious. When we are together, it feels like we have been together since day 1 of our lives, not only a short time. Without even speaking, we understand and know each other’s needs and wants. It is very scary, as I have NEVER felt this way before with someone, except once actually, with another Pisces man…. But that relationship was pure friendship, and even though we live apart now, the love I feel for him is so deep that it burns in my heart.
Any Scorpio women that find themselves falling for a Pisces man, I’ve heard too many good things to ignore, but at the same time have been told to guard my heart with them, especially if they have been burned in the past, b/c they remember like us, and can guard themselves against future heartache. If we can be patient, which we know we can…. because anything so great is worth it, Then I believe that this match will be the one that we have been yearning for, and the one that we have needed all this time.
April 20th, 2010 at 12:33 pm
I agree with missyevil; a pisces man is wasted when with a Libra female.
E, I am a scorpio woman married to a pisces man. It is as good as you describe it and it gets even better with time. There are no ‘buts’,'ifs’, or any hidden agendas. Just relax, be cool and enjoy it.
I adore pisces men (and women, not romantically lol), too. Most of my friends are pisces and, despite their quirkiness and unpredictability, they are the most worthwhile people in my life.
April 28th, 2010 at 10:52 am
I think My post disappeared or i pressed enter by accident sorry ! :(but as i was saying before id actually like a reply to this Because i need advice plz and thank U :} i think , pisces both male an female are they cutest things ever :). awwww they’re so adorable even when they’re not doing something cute it’s still adorable to me lol. well i seem to observe people alot and tend to want to b more carefree or sensitive im not sure what term to use ( i dont want to offend ne body).
so yes this girl i get into a relationship ( was previously my best friend) and i get in the relationship to find out that she was joking with me. now, i dont know what on earth she was talking about because some time after that i recall her crying about the whole thing. sigh* neways i continued to b her best friend for the next year she always would play mind games on me and try to not Really control but influence me esp from guys i’d be with this would bug me but i loved her all the same. our friendship actually came to an end when , in grade 9 when i got With this Pisces male i was 14 he was 17 she was Telling me he Only wanted me for sex and this is what she had been telling me for almost all of my boyfriend which i did not of course hav sex with any of them. I really did not want to hear this from her because at this point i was so deeply in love with this pisces guy and would do anything for him. a Little before that while I had this Pisces Female best friend in grade nine also who we spent almost every waking min together 
it was so fun we were the best of friends but something had happened to me :/ ( i had been molested , my parents separated and etc sum other things ) so i had tended to become what we teenagers and other ppl call “emo” which is like goth but not Really more on the emotional depressed side and as i shared my feelings with her she right there and then dropped me as a friend. :/ and I had to admit that i reaaly adored her and had a bit of a girl crush on her. so i was very upset at the fact that these two “best friends” were now out of my life.
our relationship has been rough actually very.
awww . well of course i dye the cookies pink 
and after that i would give him so much attention but end up feeling like i’m not getting any in return and i would say it to him and stuff but he would try like the first three days then nothing, some time after that my guy hes the party type and he would ask my permission to go and seeing as how cute he is i cant tell him no. he would be upset and I dont want to ruin his fun he’s too cute when he’s happy. so he would party alot and u kno he comes home and is tired we re on the phone and u kno i tell him i miss him and such it was fine until a point where i was lonely but sumtimes he wouldn’t ask my permission and i let him Know of the Lonelyness that’s when this gemini guy came in and would talk to me when he was out and eventually :/ i liked him because he made me feel appreciated and special. of course feelings guilty plus them being psychic or how ever it’s spelt (sorry) he found out and was furious after that i continued to have lil crushes but feel awful about it him finding out always of course. but i ahd stopped and well our relationship is actually good like we bond alot and seem to understand each other i practically treat him like a king apart from the crushes thing and at this current time time i’m a bit confused because i love him to death of course
I’m a CAPRICORN female age 16. and i was in this relationship with a girl pisces in grade 8 of high school and U kno i really absolutely adored this gurl i thought she was so cute i’d love to give her tons of attention and for me their cute isnt necessarily their face i mean like their personality over all esp when they are happy it’s the CUTEST thing
i was with this Pisces guy and I hav been for approx 1 year and tomoro makes 11 months
but i remember when we spoke at first which was online i had thought she was an aquarious which i think for me an them is just sexual so i had so idea he was a pisces but i kept sayin to him that You know , i have this Vibe this Feeling that There’s a real sensitive side to you and he would always deny it but i felt it there. every one else in the entire world told me i was crazy to get with him, he’s a man whore ( which technically he was but i hav never thought of him in a bad way because of that or have looked down on him NEVER). but there was somthing drawing me to him. i would flirt and be nice and such but since he was older i wouldnt think he would notice me. but randomly one day he had asked me to b his Girl friend at first i said no but then for the Follwing week he asked me twice a day every day and about the Thursday i said yes.
i Remember in the first couple of weeks in our relationship i had cheated ( i regret to this day) my ex had managed to seduce me and yeah. :/ then after that i had done many things for him like well, I love art so im good with my hands i made stuff for example going to the beach one day and collecting sticks to come home and weave it into a big heart an the next time i see it give it to him. and i made a heart thing out of wax lil things like that and i bake for him alot. normally his fav color pink
but
ok listen to this now i’m confused about my sexual Orientation
Because i have done sexual activities with women from 5 to 14 then there was tht relationship in grade 8 with a girl , that girl crush on my other friend and now theres a lesbian girl i know and i spoke to her shes the “cocky” type as how my guy is and i also sensed a deeper side to her and such which is opposite from what others think of her i had written to her on a site and she had replied sayin what i said i was true i had also stated u Kno shes human too and its unfair how people come on here and judger her etc etc and she replied telling me its true and im really sweet and some other stuff and that we should talk more. so i did and i hav her number and we ve talked today and she had asked me if i like girls and i told her my story an such which is i do like girls, but she had asked me “do u wnat me to find u a gf” i told her no and about my boyfriend and such an she had asked if i wanted her to be my boyfreind and i told her no and blushed . she made me worried now thought because she had asked his age i told her he is currently 19 , and her reply was “he’s def cheating on you” and it makes me feel a way i think i have or had a lil crush on this girl but right now im just worried about my pisces guy i remember him sayin something about wanting to join the army i’m going to have a lil talk to him about that today i told him today was his day and i’m checking him emotionally today but yes, that girl made me wonder because it crosses my mind and I worry because he is older and Stuff By the way he doesn’t party and such any more or drink as he did before. but i am now worried that maybe he is cheating on me and I’m not sure what to do becaus e i havn’t been the best Girlfriend with the crushes sense But apart from that there really is alot i do for him and I put him first with Everyhthing, and he is Like my Only best Friend and I love him so Much, i’m just at this point worried about that and Worrying that I’m turning Into a Lesbian . My guy has told me in a recent email that he is sorry that he doesn’t make me feel important, Because i make him feel like the Most important person in the world. ( which he is , to me ) as in i Practically praise him, and like with everything i support him 100 % and make sure hes never down even when i am i tend to b a downer sometimes he tells me which i hate that about me . i would never want to down his mood unpurpose and i always give him confidence in himself even when he doesnt have it but at the Moment I’m wondering if he’s Cheating on me.
April 28th, 2010 at 10:59 am
i Reply alone would satisfy me But i would Love if a Pisces guy Replied P L E A S E
, I wake up in the morning ang massage him and suk u kno what ( Im sorry if this diturbs u ) feed him he really loves food and Id always make sure hes fed and hes Comfortable BAsivally i baby him all the time … and I compliment him alot as in he has these gorgeous eyes soo pretty and it’s 6 and the sun just came up and i called him and told him the sun was as pretty as his eyes . so yes, please reply to mineee pleasee !!
and i know this is inappr. but also when i said I’d treat him good I mean esp when i marry him if he marries me
May 9th, 2010 at 5:33 am
SKITTLES, IGNORE MISSY EVIL, AND SIREN , THEY ARE GROSS THEY PROBABLY DO ANYTHING SEXUALLY CUZ THERE NASTY. You did the right thing by kicking her sorry arse to the curt. Scorpios think they are all that they’re just very loose sexually and so are pisces women. You have more class Libra woman skittles.
May 13th, 2010 at 9:48 am
I am a capricorn girl
Dated a few pisces male
Over time and found
Out that not all of them
Are alike but do have
A lot in common..
I find pisces males
A little hard to understand
They don’t really like to be told
What to do but who does?
They are great lovers
I must say…(Hands up to you guys)
And always bring a smile to a sad face
I only date pisces guys
Sounds crazy but its my choice
Out of all the other signs
They are the only ones that are the way
I desire a man to be
I’m sorry for those of you who didn’t meet
The right pisces and you must understand
Some pisces pick up on how they
Were raised..
Don’t give up on love bcause of one soul
Tip: stay single like I am
Don’t search
Someone will find you
May 27th, 2010 at 1:13 pm
Well folks - I am a cancerian woman who loves a Pisces man. It’s a wonderful relationship and satisfying in so many ways. One thing I find it fascinating as I read the posts here and so I will ask this question. Do you all expect relationships to be easy? Anything worth having is not easy. I do think compatibility is important, but it is also important to understand each other’s needs. So ladies, if your Pisces man needs some space, some “alone-time”, give it to him. I am well aware that Cancers are sensitive, giving and can be easily hurt. But you need to accept that about yourself, and accept his traits too. Being with my Pisces guy is so fulfilling, we are both giving, and we do tend to both be psychic. I can always tell when “things are up”, and do my best to back off a bit. This is hard for a Cancer, because being the protective, giving folks that we are, we want to wade right in and help out, and also perhaps be reassured in the process.
Is this ringing any bells with anyone? Anyways, take a deep breath, sit back and go with the flow. You will find it is so worth it. I have never been so satisfied emotionally and physically. The reality is, we are all imperfect creatures. How we make things work with each other is accepting (and relishing) those imperfections, understanding our the needs at play, and making it all “combine”.
Faint heart never won fair maiden or fair man for that matter. Patience, love and understanding will get you there.
June 4th, 2010 at 1:54 am
I am a pisces male and i am very secretive and love to draw and play the piano. I am my own self and no one else is like me at school. All of my relationships hve ended because they expect me to do everything and they never worry about my feelings. Also in all of my relationships i try to talk to the person but it never goes anywhere and when i dont the dont try to alk to me and then they get mad. Also i have always been waiting for that special someone and i hae all sports. I can always seem to make people laugh even though i am not happy at that moment. I’m always day dreaming at school and my friends always pick on me and make fun of me for daydreaming. I just wish that i could find someone that would actually talk to me tell me how they are and they also try and make the relationship work no just me.
June 5th, 2010 at 1:42 pm
hey, Nice to see John’s comments. I am a Geminian who is interested in a Piscean guy at the moment and it looks like we do have a great connection. But I am wondering whether (Becky)the admin of this blog will please do a chart readings and see whether we matches otherwise i know a relationship between a Gemini and Pisces is a match made in ‘hell’ .And if that is so, I certainly won’t “rushes in where angels fear to tread”.
my birthday; 21st may 1980. His 4th march 1982.
thank you.
June 7th, 2010 at 7:43 pm
I see this disscussion/comments have gone on 34 pages I never expected Pisces men could get that much attention!
so here are some truths I wish to share as a Pisces man On what dating or friendship is like.
First of all pisces truly is the shapeshifter of the zodiac while most ppls moods swings can change with their ups and downs within the range of moodswings a pisces experiences are traits from all other signs and this can make us pretty dangerous and unpredictable “creepy” “psycho” what ever ppl are saying
when our feelings get hurt which is often the case being sensitive as we can apear be just as insensitive our coping mechanism may go from being angry prideful and volatile as fire signs to shy and going into depressive retreating, hiding, Or may even get really intellectual and rationalize things, with this said It really is a mixed bag on our reactions to the unaware person…
the truth about this chameleon like gift is that we often mirror other peoples personality pisces are often said to make good actors and this is really not the case with us pisces men we arent acting most of the time I actually belive and percive and become the emotions and moods that surround which goes with the spiritual sensitive qualities associated with this sign
often just as easily we can detatch from everything or everyone around into this internal imaginative dreamy or contemplative state in another galaxy which makes us seem distant detached and not there I would advice women of any sign to be careful with the pisces withdrawn side being too pushy, controling or acting in tricky or dishonest ways can totally antagonize you to the Pisces man… just be real gentle waking us out of it
I am highly intuitive and I can really tell from the start on wheather I like someone or not we have that gut feeling and If weve had a bad past we can be real paranoid if weve had a happy life we might be flaky and blissful. the happy pisces is known for being the one to be honest or shy right away too gentle/loving maybe.. really easy to hurt or walk all over but be warned can easily change into something else or just swim away so dont take for granted!. The downtrodden pisces will probably be elusive and mysterious or secretive they probably have some spiritual goal to achive in life and will not tolerate anyone or anything getting in their way or any distraction from thier ideals If you dont fit into his world or discover you hinder his progress they will also swim away!
so be sure to find out how you fit into his world, I want true understanding caring friends not tyrants, bullies or athoratarian control freaks…
Ive noticed that many pisces men do seem to have some kind of addiction or obsession going on that can be bad some are love addicts, sex addicts, drug addicts, gambling maybe, addicted to risktaking, food, or spirituallity and art oh and I wont forget to mention sleep… I am guilty of being addicted to love and infatuations and sleep. I find that with my own addictions and habbits they grow more being depressed… In many spiritual texts this type of addiction Is called the spiritual nectar or ectstacy and I belive that often when a person specially spiritual pisces men cant find that state of ectstacy from love or career or spirituality or sex or whatever it is they will substitute it with more destructive habits such as drinking or escapism. I noticed the more depressed he is the more he will indulge in the habitual ectasy or forgetfulnes
I know allot of this stuff might sound awful but deep down theres a vast ocean of unconditional love and emotion or vision, idealism, creativity, potential id say describes a pisces man NEVER ever underestimate! there could be allot hidden from plain view alot you can learn allot you can show the man… allot of interesting moments you can share to pisces variety really is the spice of life a trapped pisces man is usually a depressed helpless one If you can give him that glimmer in the eyes you can probably turn his life around 180 if you cant uplift him like that then forget it, hes probably looking for something or someone else…
June 7th, 2010 at 9:19 pm
So here are some tips and how tos for Pisces men from the pisces man himself
1.
the golden rule of “treating others as you like to be treated” probably applies best to pisces men
its not rocket science folks pisces wants to please you very much and live in peace but if you threaten them or are malevolent towards them 80% is they will just retreat swim away they rather let karma get you than go to war them selves if they are pissed enough to attack you then it means they truly care enought to use that energy towards you but it can be the worst emotional beating youll get next to scorpio maybe its very rare for this to come out we usually bottle it up but beware if this happens its usually in response to something real bad they are just throwing back at you and most likely either enjoys it if you do or is as much hurt as you are in the battle but normally a quarrel is their last resort…
2.
Just be yourself… Dont be fake or rude and cocky most likely If youve made a connection already youre off to a good start
3.
Go straight to the point If you like the pisces chances are he already detects it if he likes you tho its either real easy or confusing to tell just remember the above rules and this next one.
4.
Attention give him attention show interest if he returns it then you are doing good pretend you are really fishing give him bait or another suggestion… for those of you who are wanting to get crazy If he goes for you and you got him going for you as aggressively as you are persuing him try just diving into the water he might just devour you like a shark sexually, emotionally, affectionatelly whatever aspect of yourself is apealing to him!
friendship If you arent a good friend first be respectful
5.
Honesty be honest chances are if you lie and try to trick or act manipulative he will find out! this will depress him… leading him on is the worst, just as bad as leading on poor pisces girl it will scar her deeply pisces man sorta is like a girl when in love… now if he doesnt love you and you are dishonest thats it for you, bye bye… however in love they are clingy and will put up with allot of your flaws but theres a point where dishonesty can get so bad that he will feel insoulted unloved and used up emotionally drained because he knows what you are doing even if you think you are being clever he can sense it and does not approve he might not even confront you or anything one day hes gone forever he finds something else but never forgets what you did…
If you are honest then he will also sense that and will very much apreciate it and do the same for you as long as theres trust
6.
communication this can either help or hurt sometimes its better not to talk sometimes talking can bring allot of hidden secrets and things up from my experience with a scorpio I learned how loud actions speak for any relationship allot of it really is body language so if you use words be real careful not to go contrary to your intentions
7.
critiscisms DO NOT critiscize them unless it is constructive in some way pisces men want to learn to be better not chastized for not being so Pisces loves unconditionally real sensitive its better to just tell them what you dont like and have to prove that you still care while they pick up their peices or work with them I find that the gemini diplomatic skills sales pitch type method Is the best at giving them advice or selling them on something glamourize it exxaggerate on how great it would be
and final advice dont be afraid but be prepared cause anything goes for short term or just sex be real short on words and heavy on phisical stimulation as soon as you see that hes focused on you touch him hug him if he responds back in phisical then grab him by the hand and take him out back and get it on! just dont let him into your personality much let the sex talk… For long term it is a better to share interests become trusted friends and comfortable with the type of relationship ease into it The pisces man Is famous for choosing bad partners so trust me this is not the type of boy to mess around with once it gets bad it you might regret it so be wise
June 8th, 2010 at 6:45 pm
Hi everyone (first of all, sorry about my English, but I’m a foreign student and I’m still learning)
I just need some help and advices, as I recently started going our with a Pisces man.
I known him for 6 or 7 months, but he had a girlfriend at the time we met. We started flirting while he was still in that relationship and eventually his relationship ended 3 weeks ago.
When we first met, we were going together to the gym, or just taking walks and speaking to each other. We were playing tennis and spending time together, no matter that he was commited to another woman.After breaking with his girlfriend, he told me that he need to be alone and free but he continued going out with me. He met me with his friends and we went out together for several time, but still he cant stop telling me that we are not “in a relationship”.
Two nights ago we went to play some tennis and the things went out of controll … edning with me and him having sex for the first time. Today we were texting each other on skype as usual and i was shocked when he asked me the question “When are we going to have sex again”. It semed so straight and rude to me, that I felt really bad and confused. Now I cant get it out of my mind that all this time he was just so sweet and kind because he wanted to bring me into his bed.
I dont know how to interpret his behavior, because when we are together he’s usually pretty gentle. I know that he wants to be free and i’m not trying to limit or to stop him. I just want to know if everything is just about sleeping with me, or there is something else to this. Give me some advice please, how is the best way to put the things in front of him and try to make his speak to me abou this.
I asked him once about that and his answer was ” i just want to go with the flow and not to make any plans. Just let us see what will happen”. I realy like that man, but it seems to me that i’m loosing him :S
June 16th, 2010 at 10:37 pm
I have a question for all Pisces MEN AND EVERYONE ELSE:
HOW DO YOU MAKE A LASTING FIRST TIME IMPRESSION?
I HAVE HAVE A HUUUUUGE CRUSH ON THIS hott, successful PISCES MAN (MOON IN TAURUS, ASC CANCER, VENUS IN ARIES…)
BUT WE NEVER BEEN OUT BEFORE (I ONLY SAW HIM ONCE, THEN I ADDED HIM ON FACEBOOK, BUT HE HAS LIKE 1000 FRIENDS, SO WE NEVER TALKED ON FACE BOOK EITHER)! HOWEVER I ALWAYS READ UP ON HIM AND I AM AMAZED BY THE WAY HE TREATS HIS FRIENDS AND FAMILY… HE IS 24 AND IM 27…
WELL, WE WILL HAVE OUR FIRST “REAL INTERACTION” NEXT WEEK>>>>>>>>>> YOU SEE, MY FRIEND, WHO IS HIS COUSIN, HOOKED US UP ON A BLIND DATE, WELL I KNOW IT’S GOING TO BE HIM, AND HE HAS NO IDEA ITS GOING TO BE ME ON A DATE WITH HIM…
So I WANT to impress him so much to the point where he would start talking to me and possibly ever fall in love… lol ( I know I’m day dreaming, but ay I’m a cappy with moon in Pisces, asc in Scorpio and Venus in Capricorn)
Please help… any advise will be appreciated…
xoxo
June 18th, 2010 at 6:49 pm
galeona,
I am no expert on the Pisces but I do have very close friends that are Pisces. Pisces men are sweet but sexually can be kind of pervy. It seems you should be able to trust him based on the fact that he didn’t put the moves on you while he was with his girlfriend. At least you can trust that he isn’t a creep with no standards. Yeah, since he just got out of a relationship then I would give him space and moreso for your own sake since it sounds like you want him a bit more and he possibly just wants to just fuck around and not commit to anything. However, I get the feeling that Pisces men are a bit like women in that the more they have sex with someone the more attached they get.
Hopefully, one of the pisces guys that posts at this website will give you a better clue of what is really going on. But as far as the texting you about sex…if you dont like it….TELL HIM!! Just tell him that his approach is too honest for your taste and aggressive and most of all, it makes you feel bad.
Men want sex, women want a relationship….it is always the same, right?!! Jeez!!
Good luck
June 21st, 2010 at 9:47 pm
I am a Piscean male and if you are dating a male my suggestion is this. Tell him he is a pisces. If you are on this site then you have some floatyness about you. if he doesn’t understand himself. he will literally hate himself. I thought I was gay for years. only because I had strong feminine qualities. I was surrounded by many fire elements growing up. which wuld make me even more confused. another thing, if a he has an idea that sounds a little crazy tell him to do it. to crazy tell him possible logical flaws. for we love are intellectual debates. also get the guy a plant. from my opinion we have a strong love of nature and natural beauty. the plant will allow him to indulge in caring for something and wont suck his energy allowing creative endeavors. I am dateing a pisces woman and been together for a year and 3 months. this has been the most fruitful relationship and we click so well I wish all is well love and peace.
anthony
June 22nd, 2010 at 4:00 pm
Ok I know from the Pisces man point of view as far as I can simulate it In my mind what previous comment posted is very likely most Pisces men do tend to get “attached” often seen as clingy but dont trick yourself into thinking sex is the only important thing … yes to pisces its like a magic trick the amplifies passion but in truth It would be best just to sleep with him when you really enjoy and want to not just to please him… sex should be something you both can share and understand and also keep in mind the addictitions he may have could be sex so if hes doing with many girls the sex might be one of his addictions… so best advice here is put your heart where you feel is best remember If you like him… to be able to wrk out long term friendship is a MUST if you have good things to share together thats not only sex with your personality or interests then It may be a good connection…
June 22nd, 2010 at 4:55 pm
Oh man the advice about the plant is genious! some pisces will probably take care of it while others will probably forget about it and let it die because they are too lazy its really funny actually I bet if he really cares about you he will keep the plant alive as long as you ask about the plant and talk about it he will take care of it just to keep you happy…
so I am a pisces guy and im interested In dating a Pisces woman but It seems like I only run into taurus and libra gals… taurus acts friendly and interested like 20% of the time then it goes nowhere like they put up all these obstacles and hide everything they really feel… libra is really sweet but kinda shallow and narssisitic and want to be constantly talked to to feel loved not very caring in a way just seem like want to keep things pretty…
I was at an important event and this pisces girl kept eying me out I felt really strange like detatched of reality I had small talk with here it felt like I had seen her before but had to go and we kept just looking at eachother from a distance it was really really strange i probably wont see her again but who knows this was my last pisces encounter all the other pisces women seem to ignore me or I dont know of them
June 25th, 2010 at 6:44 am
Really interesting reading here. I am a 42 year old pisces male. I have always said that no one, and I mean, no one, truly understands us. The main reason for this is that we are so complex. When I was a child, I was very sensitive and shy to a fault, but I also was highly intelligent, and highly skilled. I do remember getting bullied by so-called stronger types because of my gentle, passive nature. But people, don’t be fooled. This so-called feminine side, is not that pisces men are feminine. It has taken me 42 years to figure this out. It is that we can express the more feminine traits, but inside I feel that I am more of a man than these so-called more masculine signs. I know this through experience. I had a friend who is an aries. We got along most of the time, but from time to time he would bully me around. We generally don’t deal with violence well, because pisces men, for the most part, see violence as counter-productive, and pointless. We are about, or at least I am about solving problems, not creating them. However, once he crossed my final line, I let him see my masculine side. I still have to laugh when I picture this. Let’s just say it was like Mike Tyson fighting a girl scout. I demolished him, with ease. What people don’t seem to understand is that most pisces are the perfect blend of both the masculine and the feminine traits, so when some people see some of our softer traits, they tend to think that we are soft and easy to control, but if they could get into our minds, they would turn the other way, because if it were not for my compassion, I would have probably killed quite a few people at this point. We have an inner strength that no one can match, and a resolve, once applied that even the strongest of signs cannot come close to. The key to unlocking this for the pisces man is maturity. I am one of those pisces men who is of the more masculine type now, but it is not an act. It is just that I selectively allow my more feminine traits to come out, because people are takers by nature. I have learned that, and I will not allow people to take from me anymore if I can help it. I have learned so much in my 42 years that I could write a two thousand page book, and just scrape the surface. I am highly spiritual and very much, non-religious. I am a Christian, but I do not follow tradition, I follow Christ, who, by the way, was also non religious. I am a bullshit detector, and a very straight shooter, so much so that fake people run for the freakin hills if they are around me for any length of time. I used to be vague and weak willed till I decided not to be. It was truly that simple for me. I can be tougher than an aries, more obstinate than a taurus, more social than a gemini, more psychic than a cancer, believe it or not, even more domineering than a leo, more of a perfectionist than a virgo, more balanced than a libra, more secretive than a scorpio, more independent than a sagittarius, more laid back than a cappy, and more huimanitarian than an aquarius. I am all those things wrapped up into one, and then some. That is the main reason for my stress, because people do not, and will not ever know the real me, and I don’t expect for them to be able to. As far as indecision, and I can only speak for myself. The problem, if you want to call it that, is that I know and see, way too much. When I get inundated with so much information from the physical world, coupled with the unseen yet real things, it does make it hard to make a decision on certain things. Most of my indecision is in the area of relationships though. Because I will let only a select few into my inner circle. I have very high standards, but I also impose them upon myself, not just have expectations of others.
To run through each of the signs, and how I do with them on an intimate level, since I have had dealings with most, here goes:
Aries: So damn sexy. Great for a short term relationship. Easy to fall into, but their superficial attitude is a major turn off.
Taurus: Crazy attraction, but again, she must be mature, because they can be controlling and manipulative, and like revenge too much, but if they have that under wraps, they make great partners.
Gemini: I have always thought gemini women are just about the most sexiest women in the world with their perfect symetrical faces. Great for conversation, but far too much work too have anything lasting.
Cancer: They either bug the crap out of me, or I could live inside them. Crazy psychic bond. I knew one that I could actually do telepathy with.
Leo: I can cozy up to a leo so easily. Shyness goes out the door and I do not know why. Not a long term prospect though, but it could work.
Virgo: Opposites attract, that’s true, but they drive me crazy with their perspective. I do not get them. I start with the spiritual and end at the physical, they start at the physical and end with the spiritual. Great for learning the opposite perspective though.
Libra: They are a lot of fun, and easy to get along with, but we can never really connect because they have too many things going on. They are the perfect multi-taskers though.
Scorpio: I know for a fact that only a pisces man can understand and even come close to taming the scorpio woman. My strongest relationships have been with scorpios. Perfect pairing and pisces best match if she is mature.
Sagittarius: They are far too independent for my taste, but oh so sexy!
Capricorn: Sweet, affectionate, loyal and stable. I love them, but the only drawback is that they are a little too predictable for my taste. But they provide amazing stabilty.
Aquarius: No connection whatsoever. My worst relationship ever, but a fantastic girl, just not for me.
Pisces: Crazy attraction, but they need way too much attention and propping up. I married one and we have been separated for 8 years now, and we still live together because she cannot take care of herself. I also have noticed that pisces women pick some of the worst men. We do get along well though, but I would never be with one again.
All personalities have their good points, and their bad points. The trick is to work on the good ones to make them better, and to work on the bad ones to eliminate them. Also, it is best to be with someone that you are compatible with. It makes life so much easier and you can make more progress.
June 25th, 2010 at 8:18 pm
wow, i am a pisce male at 28, i like Pauls C’s comments. I can see myself as an immature pisce, i am still searching myself. Paul you explain every thing almost perfectly. Good points… if you can share more about your dating life and marriage life, that would be great. Hope i will see you post more in this forum.
June 29th, 2010 at 5:29 am
I am a Gemini girl, and I have a close Pisces friend. We became friends almost from the first day we met each other about half a year ago, and he swept me off my feet right away. He’s 21, I’m 18, and although we may be not compatible as lovers, we definitely click concerning everything else: love the mystical and unknown, love to dance, love music in general, find dreams a “sport” haha, etc. He attracted me at first with his extremely good looks, his sense of humor, his kindness and acceptance with open arms. I guess I got him with something, too…something respectable he said. He just says I’m beautiful and awesome, so it works out. He has a Taurus girlfriend, but we’re really close so I don’t mind that he’s not available (now anyway). I’m grateful with the way he accepted me, just when I got over my abusive Sagittarius ex of 2 years. I haven’t seen my fish for a month and I’m hoping to see him soon, because I know that no matter when we see each other, I’ll always be greeted by one of his amazing smiles and warm hugs
I guess that’s what really got me into his ocean in the first place: the irresistible thing that I can still be his and he can be mine in the world of dreams and fantasy~
June 30th, 2010 at 8:47 pm
I’m also a pisces male I’m 17 and whoever wrote this article couldn’t be more right. It described me dead on. I try so hard to run from myself, I’ve contemplated suicide many times. Idk where I’d be without my female friend she’s a Cancer. She’s the nicest person in the world. I can’t get a girlfriend to save my life lol. Being a pisces sucks big time
July 8th, 2010 at 8:00 am
Hello there i am a 19 yr old pisces male and i have come to terms that we pisces males are very difficult to be with because we worry to much i was with the same girl for almost 4 years when one day we got into a fight over her ex and of course being a worrier and being male gender didnt help much but we were going to tell our families we were getting married then the fight came and we broke up and now she is dating the same ex we had the fight over so now i believe she was wanting him all along and cheated with him but it only took me 7 months to get her out of my mind i had to change everything i did jsut to forget her. and now im trying to move on but it seems since then i have had so much trouble with relationships is it cause they arent compatible or is it because i cant seem to trust women anymore? someone please help me figure this out email me at timgraybeal_2011@yahoo.com or baller24_tim@yahoo.com or my myspace which is baller24_tim@myspace.com please and thank you.
July 9th, 2010 at 5:17 pm
The last 2 relationships I have been in has been with scorpios. The beginings were always great. The first relationship I really didn’t know what was going on. Plus I was in a drunken haze as well. The next time around I was sober and much more interested in this type of stuff. I am interested in getting a full reading, when I get the money together Becky. Anyway, just knowing the signs were supposed to mix well, I thought maybe this time it would work. The explosiveness wore me down. I have found from reading about my aloofness sometimes, and my own healing and engrossment times can spur this on. I can say a lot of times I could have been very mean, and said somethings that could have been bruttally hurtful, but I held them in. I sometimes wish I could have just come right out and said them, but it never seemed fair. She on the otherhand, seemed that all areas were open to comment, or judgement. I also understand this happened to be this particular scorpio. To throw all scorpios, as to throw all pisces under a bus for generalities isn’t wise. I feel like that as a general rule, I am prone to times where I go away, but I can’t see thats what I was doing until weeks later. I also know that it takes a lot for me to aproach a love interest. This is getting easier, being 30, I have learned that women like to be persued. I do know also that some of the things that I have tried to change, seem to go in a circle. Like I tend to work on money stuff, that goes to working out more, to getting back into my music, and on and on and on. It is hard for me to commit to working on one thing til a mastery is had. Back to girls that I meet. I find that if I see there is no chance for me to be with them, It is easier to turn on a harmless charm. Be nicer and have a friendly harmless flirt. Or if i’m not attracted to them, I can turn on the same charm, because it feels natrual. I don’t mean to lead on anybody, but when I am not thinking it all seems to come out. When I ended the relationship with my dear scorpio, I do still love her despite all the land mines, she accused me of being manipulitive, leading her on, being a waste of her time. I tend to act out first then later relize why I am acting that way. She wanted me to do things naturally and not have to be told to do them. When I would disapear, especially the last night, she sent a text message and said she wasn’t getting her needs met. I came that night to see about her, then she wanted to be by herself. I went running and came to the relization that sometimes I couldn’t come out of hiding natrually, and if I was prompted, and I was, rejection of that really hurt me. It was on the decline for awhile. I am sure that if she were to read this, she could point out and make me look like a jerk in a lot of ways. In my heart of hearts, I never ment to do that, nor would I hurt her on purpose. I can see that now a lot of times my 2 fishes were swimming the opposite direction. I could feel it. The one wanting to love her inspite of it all, and the other swimming away for protection from the onslaught. I wish I was better at money, I wish I wasn’t so flighty, I wish that I cared more for some of those things that would make me more socially acceptible to what seems the intire world. I wish that seeing where I clash with the world, I could change. but as I said, I seem to be on a 3 or 4 week disconect on what i’m feeling. As a pisces male, It takes a lot of energy to fight what is my natural state, and where I need to be to function. I have a job that I love now, being a massage therapist. I have been blessed to make strides on getting out of debt. I hope that that this will help some people. I don’t speak for all the pisces males but I will say that for me, I don’t mean to harm or hurt anyone. Lies and escaping come out of not wanting to hurt. I have a hard time letting a loved one in. I am more likely to let someone with out emotional capital invested into my life. I can say that I do listen well. I know I just said its hard for me to open up, but if you just softly ask after deep moments, after talking about things otherworldly, those are some of the best moments to find out about me. I will say that my wonderful scorpio, was very full of herself, and in interacting with others never seemed to be interested in them. With me talking about your fears and doubts and loves, and all that is you when you are with me is fine. When with others please act like you are interested in them. explore that world sometimes. My good friends said that in most of the conversations with her while with me was always focused on her, what she wanted to do, her dreams. Just like it was with me alone. I know that I have things that are like that in my life that contradic this critisem. I will say your kindness to others, the pisces sees. that is also a attractive part. I am crushing on a very cool pisces right now, and I hope that maybe our 4 fish can swim together soon. What if i said i read almost all these posts? I just relized how so me that is. I love you guys. I so want to be everything you need, but I need support, because I can’t be everything you need. I hate that more then you will ever know.
July 14th, 2010 at 12:38 am
stung fishy dude….you are so sweet, I am feeling the love man! just a couple comments about your post…..your scorp lady does sound a bit immature and she probably IS full of herself (I know, I am a scorp too :)…it is sad that she isn’t curious about you and your dreams, that is essential in a partnership….so onto some other cute fishies in the sea, right?! As for wanting to be everything for everyone? It is impossible….you are so right, you need support…no one should try and play Jesus…we are all just bozos on the same bus, trying to get through. The cool thing about you being a Pisces is that you are geared towards spirituality. I’d do my best to support myself in whatever spiritual form suits you and get your needs met there.
I am writing here today though cuz I had a very interesting encounter with the Pisces man that I was completely in love/lust with about a couple years ago. It is the reason why I found this site! anyway, I just saw him at a festival which I knew he might be at but 30,000+ people go to this thing. I saw him within the first 15 minutes of entering the festival. He looked cute, as usual and I starting feeling something again!! aaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhh!!! Seriously wanted to cry, I didn’t want to make any eye contact because…………he makes me feel so confused.
However, the next day at this festival, i was feeling really annoyed with myself for still having feelings around this person. So after much inner dialogue with myself, I decided to ask the Universe if I could have the opportunity to literally ‘bump’ into him; I wanted it to be obvious. And guess what happened?! Hours later I was watching a band and waiting for a friend to come and in my obsessive scorpio way was thinking to myself ‘this pisces guy wouldn’t like this music, I’ll never see him here’….but he walked right in front of me!
Our conversation was one word. awkward. This guy has the ability to be so charming and also so mean that it has been insanely hard to understand my attraction to him….During our awkward talking, he totally tried to flirt and I wouldn’t have it. I was feeling cautious and protective of myself which is good since his charm one day, rude behavior the next, broke my heart. Yet, the interesting thing is that he stood there and chatted with me for awhile…not sure how long but it felt like forever since I was so nervous. I asked him a bizillion questions and he asked me none, even though there was plenty of awkward silences. Pretty typical and it again reinforced his lack of interest in me as a person. Thing is that he tried…he tried to be nice and stood there through the awkwardness which I guess I should give him credit for. He even gave me a couple hugs but the last hug he gave me when he left was very sad. He had this grimace on his face, like he totally thought I was yucko! Wow, anyway I am greatful to the universe for giving me some closure. I guess i really needed it and I am so thankful for the opportunity.
July 19th, 2010 at 6:36 am
My pisces boyfriend and I have been together several months, and I must say that I don’t understand all the negative things that are said about these fishies. I could blather about how awesome he is, but to summarize, he’s shown me how all those losers I used to date SHOULD have been treating me. I’m a scorp, and I’ve heard many a scorned scorpio woman complain about her former fish, but to me he’s the perfect lover. The only thing that’s ever bothered me is his tendency to wander around and do his own thing, but I’ve come to understand. He needs space, and I need to learn to not be so damn possessive. He always comes straight back to me when he’s done hanging out with his friends or whatever it is he does, and I’ve learned to begin to trust him. We must be good for each other, we’ve been together since a week after we’ve met and we’ve never had an argument. He is gentle and considerate and his favorite thing is when I give him a “job” to do, even if it’s simple, like I might ask him to download some of my favorite songs off the internet. In a nutshell, just be sensitive. Tell him honestly how you feel. Make him feel appreciated and needed. Be sensual and interesting in bed, rock his world. Never, EVER, tease or mock him unless it is completely clear that you’re kidding, and you love all the weird little things about him anyway. He has secrets, you have to learn how to read his mind. Keep some of your own secrets too, he likes puzzles. Never forget to have your own social life and interests, you’ll need them when he’s off in dreamland, and that will keep him interested too. All this is worth it– his most used phrase is “I just want you to be happy.” Hope my input helps.
July 20th, 2010 at 2:50 pm
Hello everyone, im a scorpion female,
Ive been reading all the comments n i liked ALY’s comments a lot the way he expressed himself throughly being a pisces man,the way he cleared out many things reg this sign, i wish every piscean man expresses himself like u.
i recently got engaged to pisces man we live in different countries,since it wud b a complete arranged marriage (after few months),we dont know eachother much and that was troubling both of us,we hardly talk,he doesnt express himself much coz of his shy nature may b, ive no idea, n im also too shy to take any initiative coz wat i think is tht its men’s department,still i try lot, he wud hardly call us n talks to me untill there isnt any important concern reg our families or any xyz reason..whereas m anxiously looking forward to knowing him coz it matters our life.. whole life..
Ive been observing people after engagement they talk to eachother a lot,they express & share love, care, show concern, everything, he never said a single word of love to me never.i think he is not romantic, it seems he is not concerned to even think abt this relationship & me(his fiancee) m worried abt future, wat gonna happen later wen we will b living togather after marriage, his indifferent attitude towards me n this relationship wud kill me .. ive started liking him after ma engagement,..n started dreaming my married life wid him but wen i dont see anything coming like this from his end it disappoints me badly, his lack of interest in me made me think he might b stuck sumwhere else or may b he liked sum other girl, but it has been confirmed too, nothing like tht,
if its not that then how come a man has no interest in a women hez going to marry in few months, y is he not concerned abt me? y is this indifferent attitude for? it scares me badly, i can not imagine of seperation, divorce and 2nd marriage (God forbid) for me one man for one life!!
After reading all stuff in this website abt pisces and scorpio compatibility and tht they r the perfect match for eachother m bit relaxed, confident and hopeful and looking forward wat future hold for me..its my very first experience wid pisces personality, i never met any pisces person. my friends used to b of usually air signs,,
no idea abt him.. wat he thinks, wat he feels, whther this marriage wud work or not..so many questions hovering ma mind,watever mentioned here abt a scorpion woman was true so i can have this hope watever written abt pisces man wud b true also n sumday he(ma fiancee)wud follow this, m looking forward he’d open his heart to me, he’d love me, wud cares abt me, wud show sum concern,understand me n finally we’d become “one soul” IA.
apart from all this .. i really loved knowing pisces men through the content available in this website, it wud help me to cope up wid all his good n bad, Thanks to this website for providing detailed information n thanks to everyone who shared their comments n expereinces wid us….it wud surely help us all.
Gud Luck
July 20th, 2010 at 3:54 pm
im scorpion female,
i have read paul c’s detailed views/comment n i loved it so much so tht it pushed me to appreciate his views specially wen he mentioned compatibility wid all the other 11 signs including reason n justifications, really i liked it very much …i want to know abt pisces romance,hows their love life, how does he behave in romantic mood,is he romantic? i wana know each n everything abt him as im getting married to a piscean n i know nothing abt him at all,plz share ur love, romance,expereince, ill b greatful.
paul c! i hope to hear from you soon
July 22nd, 2010 at 11:30 pm
Hi, I’m a 19 year old aquarius. And the pisces male I am involved with is twenty. We met around the end of September started to hang out a lot frequently in October, and started dating in November. Now it’s been 8 months and I really fell for this guy. I love how our relationship started because we both got out of relationships that ended horribly and ruined us differently, and none of us were looking for a relationship. We just happened. What attracted me most by him was the fact that he basically told me his whole life story and I didn’t even know the guy for more than two weeks. And most of the stuff he shared with me that day, not many of his close friends knew. He trusted me so much it just drew me to him and I felt like I can trust him too. Trust is a big part of a relationship to the both of us, we both wanted the same things in a relationship. We were both cheated on in our previous relationships but he went through worse than I did. And I sympathisize a lot for him because I want to prove to him that not all girls are like that and I can truly make him happy. And lately I’ve been scared because we have become off and on during the 8 months because of him. He’s going to join the navy this December, at first it was May then June, they keep switching his dates and he’s been getting depressed because he’s leaving but doesn’t want to leave me behind. He won’t talk to me for a days, weeks and the longest was two months because of that. And he’ll put himself down saying that I deserve better he’s fallen for me but I have to move on. But he always came back to me telling me he misses me. It’s breaking me really because I have such patientence with him because I don’t want to let him go. he wants to be alone yet wants me there for him. I give him his space, I really do, but always comes back after multiple times he’ll tell me to move on and to just be strangers. We both need each other. We’re on again but I’m scared that he’s going to let me go again. I’m too involved with him now that it just wouldn’t be fair. We make each other happy and not once have we argued except for the times when we talk about being together because he doesn’t want to get attatched to me and it gets harder and harder for him to let me go. I know that Aquarius and Pisces aren’t always the best match but I don’t see that with Jon and I. I’m really hoping it works out, and this isn’t just a sad ending for us and fell in love at a wrong time.
July 22nd, 2010 at 11:59 pm
Sorry I also forgot to mention that I truly agreed with everything you have said about the Pisces male. Jon is like that very much. He is truly a wonderful person and I appreciate the person that he is. He’s very mysterious most of the time, he cares but seems like he doesn’t. He tries really hard sometimes to hide his sensitivity, but I can read him like a book. But never do I know what is going through his head. We are both very sexually driven and enjoy each others company no matter where we are.
August 11th, 2010 at 8:40 pm
hi everybody, I have a question to these hidden people outthere.
why a pisces male says he has /lives together/ with a girl and keeps contacting me? /we know each other from school/ and I know he hasnt. /I cannot see him we both live far away from each other/ and when he HAS a girlfriend why he keeps contacting me? thanks for your answer /is this just an EGO problem?/
August 14th, 2010 at 9:44 pm
Hi!
I mostly find it risible rather hilarious when Pisces men, in general, are termed as dreamy, sensitive, emotional, and whatever…
With Sun in Pisces, I have five planets in Air Signs (including the detached Venus in Aquarius) and Moon in Capricorn (cold, unemotional, and never needy about emotions). Besides Sun, I have one more planet in water (Pisces) with an Aries Rising… With these placements, in reality, I do not seem to have emotions to display in public as the society requires from one; focussing more on intellect and communication instead of giving hypocritical and false vibes of hearty feelings. I do care about people at large (the Humanitarian in Jupiter in Aquarius) but not at the emotional level but at the pratical and realistic one…Hahahaha. Expressing emotions for a particular person is indeed the toughest bargain for me…lol. With due respect, I have pissed various women by such behaviour…
I wonder how Pisces Men with Moon in Virgo and Venus in Capricorn behave or somewhat similar cominations that have least emotions to display in their showroom. Therefore, the general discussion on the stereotypical nature of Pisces Men being sensitive, emotional, and dreamy seems to be bullshit…
August 17th, 2010 at 1:08 pm
Not-Emotional Pisces- You try too hard, and sir doth protesteth too much! TeeHee!! You’ve obviously got ants in your pants about these issues, and you are in the teeny tiny minority of lame Pisces. Go dribble into your pillow some more, cheesy Hawking….. aka Rainman. Ahahah!!
August 17th, 2010 at 9:26 pm
I get your point there and its a good observation on your part It seems as tho pisces born in march have a more serious tone than those born februrary (cusp of sensitivity). If you have many planets in air then you might have a deficiency in water or fire(impulsion/passion) perhaps so that the influence of your sun sign as a person you may be able to stand back and live without the emotions surfacing into the concious I know as for myself I have deficiency in air thus Im not very adept at communication.
August 19th, 2010 at 7:15 am
@ missye… whatever, Hahahahahahahahaha! the comment sounds as pathetic as your mind (if you have one)…LMAO. It’s stereotypical, subjective, judgemental, frustrated and above all totally worthless…LOL again. Anyhows, get a life.
@ AllOrNothing,
You seems to have a valid observation about charts (presence of one element makes other elements deficient). Although, my DOB is in Feb but Moon, Venus, Mars and Ascendant placements seems to play a significant role in one’s personality in general; some astrologer put larger emphasis of Moon and Ascendant (emotions and Outlook). On numerous occassions, have tried my best to tone down the bluntness and charging nature of Aries Rising but it hardly works. Seems Aries is a very wild Ascendant…
August 20th, 2010 at 10:27 am
Not-Emotional Pisces- You are talking to yourself again, and you still try too hard. Take it easy Rainman!! TeeHee!!
August 22nd, 2010 at 3:46 am
I fell head over heels in love with a pisces in 1993 we did everything together we talked about everything, he cheated on me from the time we first met. I believed that i was enough for him because he was enough for me. he began arguing all the time, when he got angry about something or someone he came home and argued with me. the more i forgave his indiscretions the more my cancerian side hurt but i knew that on some level he loved me. Every time i left and walked away he came and found me, me being a cancer, I went back, tooo forgiving, I watched the lies he told about the relationships he say wasn’t in, but was. I’ve watch him give academy award winning peformances about how he doesnt love me anymore, then when I’m about to leave he loves me like no other in the bedroom, when he thinks that all the dramatics have worked then he goes back to playing around and us being right in the same house and half the time dont speak until he thinks I am pulling away then he wants to make love or talk to keep me on his string. I’ve been doing this same song and dance for 16 years. Because i know if he gets in touch with me when i leave, I will come back to him I am leaving the state can’t do it anymore he doesnt want to be happy, he really doesnt know what he wants. Can’t take another letter, crying, arguing, cheating or the performance of a life time. Don’t get me wrong he has a big heart and i still love him but i need to be happy, I want to see that every day cant be roller coaster ride. Maybe I love too hard but I believed that if i stood by him things would be okay. I’m sorry to say but it’s not. They are very secretive, i have to wait until he might want to talk before he will say anything about how he really feels. My birthday is the only real day of the year that is important to me i go all out for his birthday,on mine he starts an aguent a week in advance and then wont even call to ssay happy birthday or give a card. If a person is supposed to love you WHO DOES THAT?? WHO???
August 28th, 2010 at 11:44 pm
Hello everyone! I was hoping someone would have some input on my crazy situation. My dreams are so intense that I wish that I would not dream at all. I have been in and out of love with a pisces man, whom it has never been the right time to start a relationship with. It’s truely nobody’s fault. It has been for legitamate reasons & I am thankful that we have not started at the wrong time. For over two years we have been in a subtle tug-o-war over being friends & being immensely attracted to one another. We met in college & did not become intimate for over two years until this summer. But it got too hot & heavy too fast as all of that pent up energy was finally released. He had just broke up with his fiance whom he found out was telling horrible, elaborate lies in mid-June & it is probably going to take him a long time to trust & recover. I had never believed in soalmates, the thought has always been quite irritating to me but I have some very strange spiritual connection with this man. I am a Libra in western astro & a Horse in Chinese astro & he is a Dog. I am Scorpio in my Venus & Mars, so I don’t know!! I know that destiny is partly what you make it & my diplomatic Libra side has forced me to remain friends with him hoping that he will have a strong change of heart & chase me once again. Which brings me back to my dreams…I have dreams that he comes to me smiling & soothes & comforts me. Last night I dreamt that I was free diving down into the ocean & feeding sea creatures. One giant squid kept coming back for more, as I was sharing hunks of cooked abalone flesh with him. An immense jelly fish kept resurfacing in the same spot but I couln’t figure out what to feed him. Then this adorable & playful sea otter was taking mussels from out of my hand. I tried to unshell them & then throw them to him but he only got more confused chasing the empty shell instead. Finally I figured out that I had to give him the entire mussell in tact… then I woke up & felt good. I can’t help but think that maybe this ocean creature dream has something to do with my pisces man. Could someone hopefully enlighten me?? I am tempted to be friends with benifits because he is soooo, sooo good but I don’t want to ruin my chances of his loyal love either…please somebody help! :o)
September 1st, 2010 at 7:01 pm
Can a pisces man please help me out here ! :(( I met this guy online a year back ..we started off a friends but later fell for each other ! We never met each other we live in different countries but he gonna be here soon to visit This one guy i cant understand so difficult we have had the relationship going for about six months within these months he said he loved me and wants to be with me ! unfortunately i am in am getting marry next year to a Aries man , i was honest and told him this fom the beginning . Things with the Aries man were not going so well so i fell for the fish
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About a month ago he started acted strange ..never online and always busy . Week later got a text from a girl said she was his gf on facebook using his account saying she his gf asked the fish about it he said he doesnt have a gf and she married and have a child and dont bother with her ! T hings got a bit crazy for that week me being a Leo i got my anger issues so i made things kinda huge i kept annoying him with my texts and all i wanted him to communicate with me he was running away from that never wanted to talk about it !
Then he disappeared ..for 2 days i called him the other woman took the call and said to leave him alone that she is gf i was pretty shocked ! i then asked him that his gf he was like call back later and all i asked again he said yes . I was like speechless called him a liar and hung up on him . Two days after i decided to call him again because he was never online he was hiding i wasnt rude or anything very nice i said ” LETS BE FRIENDS” he was like ok , sure .
So two weeks passed not a word from him not even to check up on me talk about heartless people ! A few days back i accidentally sent a text to his phone thinking it was my best friend , i was using a text id numbers i didn’t know when they change ,i didn’t even know he was online he got like thre texts from me , he reply saying you got the wrong person and asking who is this ! like he didn’t know it was me /:) So i was kinda shocked so i didn’t reply ….i got over him didn’t want to go down that road again. Then he said “is this …….( my name ) ? “i didn’t reply to that he was like ” you little whore ” i was like what the ….i was pissed like crazy because i am a very religious girl and all that hurt like hell ! he kept going on called me a bitch and so ..
the next day he started acting nice with me and doing gunny things like saying sorry this way yrros ! rry so ! i was rude with him told him i cant stand him and i need a apology so i can leave him alone , he stubborn fish ! I even told him i would delete him at all the ids he was like ” no i like you 
” i was again shocked by his words !he enjoyed hurting me because he knows its bothers me ! This went on for like 3 days still no apology he was like keep sending , keep waiting ….it pissed me off ! i said mean things to him ! the next day he was gone again no apology nothing i want one and i gonna get it!
So i asked him for a apology it would make me feel better he said no ! I am a very stubborn girl i was determine to get that apology so i bugged his phone he with my texts every 15 mins so i could get one
So can a fish please tell me why he liked me again ? why he came beck ? why he disappear again ? and how can i get to apologize to me ? that’s means a lot to me and i know he knows that , is this like a game for him ? Help me plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz i need it badly i going crazy trying to figure this man out !
September 8th, 2010 at 5:58 pm
I love my Pisces man. He is great. We have been dating for over a year now and he is simpl wonderful!
September 8th, 2010 at 6:33 pm
Here is why I say that my Pisces man is simply wonderful. Being a gemini, I like to flirt, not directly but indirectly in that I would make up stories about other men to get my man jealous. I am moody sometimes but tries very hard to control it. I love attention and I change my mange of mind ver easily. On the other hand, I am very loving, charming, social, forgiving, kind, independent among other tings. My pisces man, i think, understands me. He is patient, loving (even though I don’t buy it because if he simply can’t express it verbally probably he really doesn’t feel that way). He tolerates my some times childish, uncalled-for behaviour. He tries to please me however he can and since of late I find him to be clingy. He wants to be aroung alot and sometimes I really want to be left alone bu t afraid to tell him for fear of hurting him.
I get confused sometimes because at first his withdrawn, shy, unpredictable, closed behaviour resembles everything astrology says about Pisces but now his behaviour doesn’t quiet match up at all.
At first I fell head-over-heals with him but he was so vague so i decided to secretly sudy him and I found some interesting thing about him that makes and things that breaks him and I have been living by them. To my surprise it seems like I have caught my fish! Being a natural communicater, I tell him how I feel about him (even though my actions sometimes might not be a intense as my words). I really don’t want to hurt him but sometimes the thought of him hurting me in the future - because they are really indecisive - makes me want to give up everything and run.
I want to be his wife and the mother of his children and i told him so as well. He is much slower than any other man I know. I am the initiator and the pusher in the relationship, he will follow if lay the ground rules and set the pace and this becaomes tedious at times. I wish he was more aggressive and ambitious. I send him little notes and give him A LOT of kisses and hugs and love…God i love him. I told him that the is my better half because he balance me in areas like: patience, understanding, caring for EVERYBODY, longsuffering and being more rational sometimes than I am.
We had a major quarrel because he used a word to me that i thought was disrespectful. He apologized seveal times and said he didn’t meant it that way but it hurt and so bad too that I think something has be damaged within the relationship and I really don’t know I I can be at the place I once was with him…I will try though. That is another flaw I have, can’t seem to recover from the slightest hurt that people deem menial.
Is this pisces really in love with me? Does it look like we will have the perfect relationship that I am sure he is dreaming of? I am willing to compromise with this King.
September 16th, 2010 at 2:51 pm
I am a Gemini girl too and have been casually dating (on and off) a Pisces guy for almost two years and I am about to stop it all anytime soon.
During this time, he has been very passive. Almost like he would be there whenever I wanted. Me being a pure gemini, having a curious mind, being full of life and very independent, I have seen what we’ve had like a 100% casual arrangement…no strings attached. When we were together he was loving, affectionate and caring. But then we would not hear from each other for days and both were ok with that. Or so I thought. He used to “complained” that I was a busy girl. However, he had other girls on the go just like I was also seeing other people. So far so good…. Until I started to see someone more formally and had to tell him that I would not hang out with him anymore. That I was in love and happy and would not cheat on my new love… Then he started talking to me about how wonderful I was, and sexy, and that I would be a great partner, and that we might be soulmates. So I was shocked. I stopped any contact with him and he started to send me texts asking me to meet up, claiming that he desired me more than anyone else… I was more shocked.
We obviously are both very understanding of the changeable nature of the other, and have been able to keep this arrangement cause we both respect and liked each other. However, I want to put an end to it. And because I know myself and know that sometimes I can unintentionally hurt people with what I say, and considering he is very sensitive, I would appreciate any suggestions on how to tell him without hurting his feelings.
He already knows about me wanting to talk to him, and said that ok to meet and that it sounded omnious so I think he knows what is coming.
Thanks for reading and for your help
riviera
September 21st, 2010 at 3:14 am
I’ve been with my Pisces man for 4 months. He has the kindest and most sensitive eyes I’ve ever seen in a man. He cares so much about others; a bit of a careaholic really. I’m also discovering that in spite of being very strong inside, when push comes to shove, he is capable of being a people-pleaser above anything else. He likes to keep the peace at all costs. He needs time alone and I give him this space, so he can do his creative work. When he has this time away, he returns to me greatly enthused and fulfilled, and happy. When I see him this happy, it makes me feel happy too. I like to see him fulfilled, because he spends so much time giving to others before himself. He is especially giving to people he perceives as more vulnerable than himself. I know he is a romantic at heart, but it so far seems hard for him to open up to me. I think he longs to emotionally connect, but finds using words difficult. He seems to make most of his attempts at connecting emotionally during lovemaking. Our constant eye contact in the bedroom is bringing us closer I hope. I feel I’m looking into his beautiful soul when we do so. I hope he will fall in love with me, because I am starting to fall in love with him. He is capable of such tenderness.
September 22nd, 2010 at 5:43 am
OK I’m a cancer sign and well cancers are sensitive like Pisces and much more, OK so like with me and him we both like new what each other were going to say before it was said and we though the same things as well, well he is a great guy he is in the US Army and even though we don’t talk to much like we did before but when we do talk its always laughter and much more, but one thing i don’t understand is that he would talk to me for a week or more then when i go to talk to him he wouldn’t answer me but would answer my friends then before i new it he would talk to me again, when he don’t talk to me for the first day ya just like any cancer id get emotional and ask questions of why he not talking but you know i wouldn’t change a thing cause i told him that i will wait for him and always be faithful and i have been and i stay to my words, one thing is true is ya some Pisces don’t like football and we and him both wouldn’t watch football we would rather be out doors then watch it, another thing when i would go and tell him i will have a surprise for him when he got back and i was thinking of the surprise for him and magiane he was all the was in Iraq and he told me what i was thinking of his surprise i asked him how did you know he said just had that feeling ,but i care for this man and well i know what lust is but i have never felt love and well i think i fell in love with this man, im a proud girlfriend and would do anything for my Pisces man,
September 23rd, 2010 at 8:49 pm
Hello,
I am a Virgo and all my life I seem to have one thing that I recently realized, I’ve have found myself dating Pisces men left and right. I don’t know if it is their sensitive side or the fact that we are usually opposites (and opposites attract is my case). But I find that Pisces men are definatly wonderful in their own aspects. Yes, they can come off annoying sometimes (especially when they drink >:( )but I really appreciate the sensitive side they bring to a relationship. I’ve dated a few Pisces and had 2 serious relationships with Pisces men (currently with one, been together for a long time and probably moving in together in the next year).
Being an earth sign does put my emotions away from public eye, but I feel so comfortable with my Pisces. He is always there to comfort me if I am down, always willing to help, and has the most wonderful sense of humor. And I appreicate those qualities in him, I wouldn’t trade him in for the world.
And yes, even though I am always right (if I do not know, then I state I do not know and then find the correct answer) but you really have to stay on their side sometimes, even if they are wrong or have a radical idea about something. It’s just good to entertain them on minor things, ask yourself, “Is it really worth an arguement?”
Also! Usually Pisces have huge families they come from, and if you date the Pisces be prepared to date the family too. These are guys that have strong families ties, do not cross that line!
September 25th, 2010 at 12:47 am
I am a sagittarius and my boyfriend/fiance is a pisces and i came to find out that because my moon sign is a cancer, it helps me a lot in our relationship and actually I seem to be far more sensitive then he is, which really ticks him off at times. However sometimes I feel really scared (like right now) because I just wonder if this relationship will last with me being so blunt, sensitive, and somewhat insecure. I think it will and I really want it too but who am I to say it will or won’t. I say this because a lot of times we get a long really well but at times we are very upset with eachother, and I don’t know if it’s just because I have issues in myself or if it’s just because I am a sagittarius and he is a pisces. It’s crazy because he does try to hide his sensitivity, he can be psychic, he is very understanding and intuitive, he is very nice and sweet,and he is there for me all the time. i have experienced him being depressed because of the lost of his grandmother, who was extremely close to him and really understood him. He shared with me that when his she passed he did’nt really have anyone until he found me. And from that day foward he began to tell me all of his deepest secrets that he usually would’nt share with anyone, and I began to tell him all of mine and for the first time ever I felt I had found someone who I could talk to that would’nt judge me. We started off as bestfriends and we eventually became lovers. We are extremely close to one another, and he has opened up parts of me that I would never share with anyone else. Before I met him I was the type a person that just held eveything in but now I feel like I can breathe. Another thing that really upsets him, is that he and his mother who is a (LEO) and his two older sisters who are a (PISCES AND AN AQUARIUS) do not get along. And also because his AQUARIAN sister says really harsh things to him at times, so I am there for him as much as possible and I am trying not to kick his sister’s a**, but she is pushing me. Any ways we are beyond extremely happy with eachother, but I just don’t want our relationship or friendship to end because of our differences and my insecurities and bluntness. I love him mind, body, and soul and our relationship and friendship means more than the world to me. I would be beyond crushed if I were to loose him. So Pisces’ can ya’ll help me??!!
September 25th, 2010 at 12:55 am
Oh yeah another thing it’s funny how a lot of these post talked about pisces being in the US Army, because my pisces wants to join the Navy and he is in training to do so right now LOL WOW HOW IRONIC!!!
October 5th, 2010 at 12:59 am
I just let go of my Pisces guy today… I am keeping my head and my heart together, I feel I am strong enough to walk away. I rather walk away now, before I catch stronger feelings. He is very charming, nice, sweet, moody he is a fun person to be around. When we are together we look like a perfect couple we enjoy each others company we have a lot of respect towards each other. I being a Aquarius women can not and will not tolerate game playing. He tells me he cares a lot and brings me around his friends and I feel he cares as well. He wants to be dominant and wants to be serious but then refuses to make me his girlfriend. He tends to confuse me and I don’t understand him. He doesn’t appreciate when i need my space, yet I need to give him his space. I feel I deserve the same respect I give him, I feel he is dating another person yet want me there. I feel its either all or nothing, I will not tolerate him disrespecting me by lying and not picking up my calls or tex… yet he demands I pick up my calls and tex when he calls … I am just tired of this, I broke it off by saying I completely understand life is to short. Drama attitude and games I dont care for .. Take care! I am sure he is upset and he hasn’t replied
October 8th, 2010 at 11:27 pm
much to dreamy
October 19th, 2010 at 2:35 pm
AS A FISH, I WAS NOT COMPATIBLE WITH SCORPIO TWICE
I am a Pisces man (a cusp with Aquarius). I relate myself very well to the description you’ve given. I am dreamy, intuitive, sensitive, eccentric and with mood swings etc. I can also be very creative and imaginative….
There’s one thing I wanted to mention. Wherever I read so far (also on other websites/books), it seemed that Pisces is compatible with Scorpio and Capricorn. In my personal experience, it was NOT so. On the other hand, I’ve had a great relationship with an Aquarian…but finally she could not handle my mood swings. Further, there was another Scorpio girl in my life, but again I think only the attraction was intense. However, I soon don’t like them. Mostly for their secretive nature, jealousy and possessiveness. Maybe coz I am a cusp with Aquarius??? So atleast I know I am in two cases not compatible with Scorpio.
November 1st, 2010 at 11:28 am
Hello everyone I read many of the comments about Pisces men but there were so many I couldn’t read them all. They sound very similar, the mysterious, shy, feminine, kind, caring, etc. Besides the birth month, the birth year also plays an important factor in determing the compatibility rate.
I am a true zodiac believer and had researched much information in great detail for years. That is why when I read other’s stories they weren’t that shocking or surprising to me. However, I did sympathized and undertand what most of the females were going through with their pisces men and how Pisces men saw themselves.
Once you read more about them in detail, you realize it was nothing personal it is just that is the way there are, just like every other sign, it is destined that way. There so much more to it though in astrology and because of the information I managed to gather up I get along with so many different people of all signs because I know what they like, don’t like, what they need and don’t need, and how to work around their personalities.
Before I knew anything about astrology I couldn’t understand why people acted the way the did. Of course you can’t get along with everybody so unfortunately there are signs that you just can’t be compatible with no matter how hard you try to make it work.
But since here we are focusing on Pisces men, I am going back to it. Just thought some of that information would help those who were confused and didn’t understand what was going on with their Pisces men.
They tend to be known for being escapism which means when life gets tough they turn to alcohol, drugs, etc. and even become more distant. (Not all) That is why they are represented as two fish streaming in two different directions. They are known for being the saint and sinner in one. For this reason, they can appear like the most sweetest caring person one moment, then the opposite the next. They are easily influenced so the people in their lives and who surround them play a huge role in determining their success or failure. Some could be strong and positive but that also depends on what other signs they possess.
I am between a Virgo and Libra right on the day and time when the signs change so I was confused for a while which signs I was compatible with. Turned out, there were cusp born signs which means a person can be two signs. So I read up both Virgo woman with Pisces man and Libra Woman with Pisces man and both exactly sound like the relationship I have now with my Pisces man.
I never been with Pisces man before, all my life I had only dated air and fire signs. Mostly the Leo men. I read Libra and Leo were very compatible and that was probably why we were so drawn to each other but all those time I thought I was just Virgo which they said weren’t too compatible. Anyways, don’t want to go off topic from the pisces men.
So now I am currently with a Pisces man, my first water sign ever! It is refreshing to date a different sign and is completely opposite of the men I have dated in the past and different from myself also since Pisces is Virgo’s opposite sign.
We are going on strong for exactly 4 months now. So it’s still new and exciting but I can only give information on how it been going so far. It’s funny how I read about how Pisces and Libra would never hook up unless somebody brings them together because Pisces men are so shy and I love shy guys but I could never get one since they too shy to even talk. And that is exactly what happened. A mutual friend brought us together and we instantly clicked from our first texting. Although our relationship is not perfect (but is there really one anyways?) the positive far outweighs the negative!
It is sad because I always thought I was Virgo and didn’t know the possibility of being two signs so I was on the lookout for a Pisces man but never could find one and ended up with nothing but Leos. Eventually I gave up looking and ironically right when I finally did I ended up meeting one through a friend and now I know why I couldn’t find one or have a conversation with, because Pisces men are so shy and always hiding in their own little world.
This Pisces man is a positive strong one though. Maybe his birth year sign makes a big difference and balances his Pisces side out. So don’t be discouraged you females who have had bad experiences with Pisces men in the past!!! There is still hope and every individual is unique so don’t close up because you never know who could be Mr. Right for you.
I tell all my friends that if it takes for me to find that one right person I am willing to get burned a few more times until I find him. Unfortunately not too many like that idea because each burn can be very painful so it is understandable but from my own experiences it is well worth it because I don’t regret any relationship I have had and each one was so beautiful and memorable as well as painful at times but that is life.
By year, he is an Earth Dragon and I am a Metal Monkey. So if you know about eastern astrology the Dragon and Monkey are soulmates, destined for great happiness and success. So far, it seems very much like it. Since by year we are so compatible with a rate of 100% and by month we are completely opposites, there is a great balance of being alike and different at the same time so it is never boring.
The chemistry is so hot!!! This relationship is so spiritual and physically exciting that I feel such great happiness in so many ways and he does too. We text all day and all night no matter how busy we are and talk occasionally throughout the day whenever we get a chance to. There is not a moment that goes by that we are distant, only physically which is when are jobs or school keeps us away. I never had a relationship like this before. I mean … how he be so attentive, when he wakes up throughout the night he would text me and we text till we both fall asleep and the cycle repeats again.
Spiritually we are always connected, and it is so true how they are psychic. At first, I thought this guy had cameras installed in my apartment because he always seem to know what I was doing or feeling and that scared the … out of me! LOL but it turned out he just sensed me and he would always tell me that. I told him I read about Pisces men but no matter how much I read I still can’t believe all I read!
With me being between two signs, and with Libra being one of them I am notorious for being indecisi ve and he deals with it so well and is so patient with me. He even gets amused by it but sometimes I know he gets irritated so I try hard not to be that way because I don’t want to end up scaring a good one away.
Other guys I drive away because of it even my Leo men who I was suppose to be so compatible with which I was but eventually I got tired of Leo MEN’s selfishness and domineering ways so that drove me away and now I am with a Pisces man who is the complete opposite. Libra woman are known for always wanting to please their mates, but eventually everybody has their limits.
This one I am with now is wonderful in so many ways. He may not give me material things or take me out and spoil me like my Leo men would, but he spoils me in another way I never had before and that is with his kind words, his spiritual connection, and tender yet erotic lovemaking. It is a unique experience. I wouldn’t trade those beautiful qualities for anything else in the world. Sometimes, it is just the simplicity of life that makes you feels so good. Well depending what makes you happy, but this does. We think about each other all the time and adore one another like little kids having crushes on each other to the point where all our friends and family are happy for us but at the same time makes them sick LOL
He likes to keep to himself and stays home a lot but it doesn’t bother me. It is just different. Me being a Libra Monkey makes me outgoing, but my Virgo side helps balances me out and sometimes I like to stay home too. We make time for each other but also allow space and respect this part of us because we know how we both are. But spiritually and mobilly we are never apart. His constant affection and tender kisses makes me melt and is so priceless compared to what I use to get from my past relationships.
Too much or too little of anything is usually not good, balance is the key. So if we both find ourselves being to phsycially distant, we make sure we both put one another back in check LOL ! And it’s true what they say “absence makes the heart grows fonder” and it is all worth it because we make up for lost time and just heats up the chemistry between us!!! Oh that’s another important key to making a relationship exciting, chemistry!!! Till this day my chemistry never died with my past relationships, too bad because of that I can’t be friends with my any of my x s because our of my respect for my current one, I had to cut contact.
I know many of my female friends who have lovers who take care of them financially but are never truely happy because they say they lack the love and affection. Words do make a difference it can make you feel so good. It is nice to hear good comments from your lover. Also, they do need someone always in their corner. This is not easy to do if a sign’s personality is not so patient and understanding because this will just drive them away.
It does help a lot once you understand everybody’s zodiac signs by year, month, day, and hour (if you got the time LOL) but if you are really interested and don’t mind researching it can improve your love life in so many ways as well as other parts of your life.
Well this my first Pisces man I every been with and ever had a conversation or chance to meet up with. I am so thankful I have found him … he showed me a world I never knew and I feel so lucky that he let me into his life and heart because he said he don’t open up or get too close with too many people because he been burned so many times. I have been too but I just love to luv so much that I always stay open. That is how we balance each other out, if we were both closed no one would ever had made the first move. And he say he completely trusts me and that makes me feel so good. So that is why I don’t mind bending over backwards to please him because he does the same for me. Just me being there staying in his corner having his back all the time, he does return it so kindly in return! It is refreshing to have somebody just love you for the way you are. We are never quiet and have constant conversation and so much fun in each other’s company.
Well that’s all I can so for now but hope this will give hope to those who been discouraged about dating a Pisces man. Everybody is not the same, they may share similar characteristics but you gotta know all their sign traits! So good luck to all of you and hope things will get better and you all find your soulmates. Thanks for taking the time to read this really long writing LOL
November 3rd, 2010 at 3:21 pm
Okay I have read so many comments that I couldnt read anymore. First of all I am a Leo and I began dating a Pisces about 5 months ago. I met him through a mutual friend. He does not live in the same city. Someone really close to me called and said I met this guy and I think he is perfect for you. Myfirst time speaking with my Pisces guy was amazing. He was so spiritual and loved the lord…And I loved that. He was really busy with work so our conversations were really spread out. Then my birthday came and he didnt even call or anything! About three weeks after my birthday he began calling aaaaall the time.I was so suprised! After talking again for weeks we finally agreed to meet. When I met him it was like I knew him forever.. We hung out and had a blast!!! We began talking about having children and getting married and everything! So after my wonderful weekend I went back home. Our relationship was stronger than ever. SO a few weeks later I went back to visit him. But while I was there he began comapring me to his mother stating that he wants his wife to be like him mom. I like attention and so does he. I felt myself catering to him but I didnt mind because I was crazy about him. Well about a week ago I asked my Pisces for help with something and he said he would. But as time went by he never helped me with the issue and he never brought it up. Instead he called me and said he had sex with another gir. I was all confused! Then he called me a few days later because I was so mad that I hadnt spoken with him. And he said he is no longer having sex and he wants to take things slow. And it was at that moment that I saw the light! He is crazy! And im not gonna let him DRIVE me crazy with him. I am a great person and if he can get his life together then maybe it can work. But whatever you do.. dont change who you are.. And speak dont hold your tounge ask the questions you want to know. And most of all DONT MAKE EXCUSES!!! They are very smart people. You are worth more! If a man wants something he will work for it! Why put yourself through pain? If you dont have to? Whos feelings are more important yours or theirs?
November 5th, 2010 at 11:55 am
@ Me:
I had almost the exact same scenario happen to me too about 4 weeks ago. Unlike you and your pisces, we did not have any sort of emotional exchange beforehand. My pisces however, didn’t have the balls to call me, but did have the balls to text me and tell me that he wanted to see other people. And like your situation, it came right out of the blue.
For weeks I’ve been trying to figure it out and the pisces male that responded to your post hit the nail right on the head. My pisces probably just got bored. I also believe he just wasn’t ready for any sort of committment. I’ve had not the same, but similar committment issues with two other pisces men I have dated in the past.
The guy that responded your post also makes another good point and one that I have always stood by. If someone doesn’t like you for who you are, then you need to move on. I also believe that if someone really and truly likes you, they won’t play games and you won’t have to either. I’ve never in my life had to play games and don’t intend on starting now. Simply put, if it’s that difficult to get together, it’s probably not meant to be.
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December 1st, 2009 at 3:57 am
Im a scorpio female that was dating a male pisces. Everything seemed amazing at first. He treated me like such a lady. He listened to everything I had to say. He kinda came in my life at a very hectic time. I did make him aware that there was never a dull moment so to speak…but also told him it’s not always like this. He seemed to not mind at all. He even said ” good i wont get bored” He took me home to meet his family for thanksgiving only after a couple of weeks of seeing eachother. He took me out with all of his friends and made sure everyone he knew or speoke to knew that I was there with him. He was very observent of anything or anyone I mentioned or looked at for that matter. He seemed to care a great deal , very fast. And i started falling for him quickly for all these reasons. We also could laugh and just have fun together. we matched wits very well. Then from one day to the next, he acted differently towards me.He was very cold and distant and just was not the same person I first met. He did a complete flip. Now we are not talking at all and I am so confused as to why he decided from one day to the next he didnt want to talk to me. He said it was because I didnt have any ‘ chill” days…but somehow i think there is more to it because I kinda gave him that to say…i told him tell me if it becomes too much with everything going on…he never said anything bothered him…actually im a scorpio and pretty intune myslef and i know thats not the reason. I just wonder how he feels right now? I wonder if all the hours upon hours that we spent with one another and talking everyday is even effecting him right now.. i really do miss him like crazy and wonder hoe pisecs men are…do they come back around? I told him that i was very hurt by his decision and i also told him that he didnt deserve to know the rest of me…well he is intne he knew i was husrt… maybe there was someone else..im just so too confused as to why he wanted me to meet everyone in his life and then one day to the next just drop me like nothing…any comments id really appreciate it…im at a huge loss… should i just let it be and try and move on…i also was mad the day before and said i was done..i was mad because i live 45 mins away from him and that he didnt even bother asking if i got in okay when the night b4 i got lost for two hours in the dark..and earlier that day got pulled over going to his house a got a huge ticket…anyways i think my words may have hurt him but maybe im just stupid confused….
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November 11th, 2010 at 3:20 am
My Pisces is loving, jealous, and doubting. Sometimes he is NOT correct in what he thinks, he is always suspicious that I am interested in other men. I am a Scorpio woman, and I believe that he has psychic tendencies beyond any other sign, yet this doesn’t make him perfect. He is slightly paranoid, and is addicted to weed, also he swings in and out of depression. When he’s happy, he’s cheerful, he tells jokes and makes everyone laugh. He makes friends quickly and appears to be extremely social. Out of the social world, he treats me well and jokes with me too, but also lets his serious, romantic side show. It’s obvious that he’s slightly ashamed of his desire for romance, and he finds it embarrassing, but it’s special to me to know that he yearns for it, so I bring it out in him. I try to highlight his best traits, keep myself from criticizing him, and bring him toward helping himself, as that’s all you can do with a Pisces male. Understand him when he’s quiet, laugh with him when he’s loud, and encourage him to succeed in his dreams, however far fetched, a Pisces man needs a little push to gain ambition. When I say push, I mean extremely gentle tap, he can not feel that you are trying to change him, chain him, or push him. Maybe this is too complicated, but I figure any Scorpio woman would understand. What he likes in courageousness he makes up for in spirit, and in the end his complicated and beautiful eyes hold more than any Leo man’s selfish muscle. I will always love my Pisces.
November 15th, 2010 at 10:39 am
WOW!!!…’Paul C’ is absolutely DEAD ON! I’m a 33 year old Pisces (with quite a bit of life experience and several Pisces male friends) and can asbolutely relate about being able to write endlessly about what you have learned about ‘us’ over the years, as I now, could also!
Ladies…’Paul C’ nailed it on the head about a ‘mature’ Pisces. If you can find one that has been through all he needs to have been through, knows (and accepts) himself, and has TRULY found his ‘Life’s Purpose’ then you have really found the catch of a LIFETIME!!!
‘Perfect10′…I don’t know if you’re still checking on here…if so, and you are still interested, I will fill you in on my experience and what I think you can expect from your new Pisces husband.
November 21st, 2010 at 3:25 am
i read most of the comments both good and bad side of piscean male were true i could say, my husband i jst got married this year..but after i read all these, im afraid if things could turn down for us..but i think all i can do now is pray, he’s almost like the things most of the women said here(dont want to mention those things).i dont want to look on his past mistakes nor on the future things that could happen..I agree that sometimes its really hard to deal with him..even thou how hard im trying to understand him and with all my heart i’ve given up everything just to make our reltionship work,since i love him so much and i know he does too.i think all of us has flaws, me too as a bold arian,i’ve read a lot about my astrology and trying to reflect on myself and avoid what is supposedly not to do,but somentimes you cannot change things because its who you are,the important thing is you are aware and trying…peace to all!
November 21st, 2010 at 6:21 am
I am with a Pisces man and I think that he is the greatest thing that has ever happened to me. He definitely is a dreamer and I love that about him because i am too. I am a Libra and although said that those two don’t go very well together, we go perfectly. We are alike in enough ways to get along and we are different in enough ways to have our own identity. He is emotional and so am I, he’s only gotten “depressed” a few times and I’ve always been there to pick him up, I don’t mind it at all, I love the fact that he needs me. He does the same for me too. He’s the first guy that I can have a conversation with probably for years without ending without it getting dull. I love it, and before anything he is my best friend and always will be.
November 25th, 2010 at 10:18 am
I am a Taurus girl and the only type of guys I have ever dated were Pisces. I am a different type of Taurus though for some odd reason I have traits of a Pisces, maybe that’s why I connect with them so well. I have dated A LOT of Pisces and they were all different yet the same… when you first meet them immediately fall in love with them type of approach understanding and a great listener. But this last Pisces I dated was verbally abusive towards me to the 20th power. I could never understand why. Now I am with one and I am so scared that he will just flip like the last guy or just leave like the other ones. He promised me that he wouldn’t leave me. I just wanna know from a male Pisces point of view, how I can keep his interest and not run away?
December 1st, 2010 at 9:35 am
@Kalah : Hi im a typical pisces 6th March. I find in all my prior relationships i would get nervouse or scared n run away. Dont know why 100%! But my previous Girlfriend had me the longest sounds arogant but she was good! not an easy thing!She would play me a little never give me to much love but when she did i love getting it just that she knew when it was time to pipe it down a bit.Not getting to clingy yet still giving plenty!she would let me crave it then she would give it! u need to know when to with draw n give space and when to give all u got i guess! Just remmember when u with draw still let him know u only want him and u there for him when he needs u! never withdraw compleatly or he will get all crazy in his thoughts lol! U should get to a point where u see these stages coming on and when u do, be prepared we are very emotional guys but if handeled well we will do anything for u and love u more than any man can! and only u!
December 9th, 2010 at 4:41 am
not true alisha!!! srry 2say but u must not b able 2 calm down a pisces guy. nd hey mAyb thats just u. but ima cancer girl nd im dating a pisces man. we’re innlove and 1 i dont do anything 2piss him off 2 he doesnt get mad at me 3and what did u do to piss of a pisces lolz
December 19th, 2010 at 8:30 am
Im a capricorn girl having a relationship with a pisces man much older than me.During courtship,he showered me with all his love,attention,poetic words and praises w/c made me fall for him instantly.But now he is already my boyfriend, i’ve noticed he has changed.No longer romantic and i dont feel his love anymore.Very moody and most of the time doesn’t like confrontation. Im trying to understand him because i love him.But i don’t know if how long could i stand with this kind of behavior.
December 26th, 2010 at 1:52 pm
I am a cancer female. Cancer/Gemini Cusp. Moon in pisces. Too often in relationships, our views are skewed. It is more about the bigger picture. Pisces see this thus they see things and react in a different manner. They are very sensitive and often interpret the worst so it is important to be very clear! I send my pisces little love notes all the time, he replies 1/20 if im lucky, but i cherish it, because i know that although he doesn’t reply, he’s read it and knows i love him unconditionally. and that is what they want, love - that transcends all. Love is all. Love is merging. No matter his clam appearance, he is an emotional livewire. He is an emotional mountain because he bears the turmoils of other’s and his very own. thus, love with all your heart and he will not stray. Pisces men only cheat when they feel misunderstood and when they are not satisfied. It is easy for them to get along w any sign, but for them to find one that loves him and understands what he has been doing for them - that is rare. Pisces don’t want much,just love and understanding - you don’t have to do anything, just by understanding what he let’s you see, he feels less alone.
Peace
December 28th, 2010 at 10:33 pm
Hi There,
I have read many of the posts on this site and find them interesting.
I am a female aries in a ‘no strings attached relationship’ of some sorts with a Pisces male. He is the most calming and sweet person I have met in a long-time. Out reltionship started off due to fate (according to him). I like him alot and have some feelings for him but I get frustrated sometimes due to his constantly changing moods. One minute we are really intense (calls every day, regular dates) next minute he seems to pull back from me(nothing for days).
I know he ‘talks’ to other women but truly do not believe there is anything serious going on and that most of them are just friends. I can contact him at minutes notice day or night and he usually makes himself availbable (unless of course he is going to football!! - however i do not do this too regularly as i do not want to appear too ‘head over heels’ even though i am close to it) - he lives alone and i know i am always welcome. We do not see each other every day - which i am cool with (he NEEDS space) but we speak regularly (when he’s not in his ‘zone’ lol!) and he takes me to nice places to relax and enjoy each others company. He has took me to a few functions that his male and female friends have held as well.
We are both separated (we started seeing each other when i was on the verge of separation). My separation is more recent than his and i feel that he wants to get closer but whenever we do, he kinda backs off for a while. This is driving me crazy, I can’t work him out sometimes!!
I am wondering why he does this? Is he scared or just a player……When we are together we get on so well and the relationship is very emotional. We have been ’seeing’ each other for about 6/7 months (although I blanked him for a month recently coz he was doing my head in!!!) and I would like to know where this is going, but i am afraid to ask as that might push him away. He can be quite evasive. However, I cannot go on like this. I do not want marriage for god’s sake just to know where i stand!!
Although we have been seeing each other for a while (nearly 7 months) we have not had sex yet!!
Yes in 2010 it is possible to be seeing someone without bringing sex into the equation. I didnt think it was possible myself until I met my friend!!! I am an Aries and LIKE SEX ALOT (lol!) He says he doesnt want to complicate things with sex at the momment and that we should take one day at a time (which is very sensible of him - and i actually agree with him kinda :-)) but I want some!! from him!! he says he doesn’t want to get hurt or hurt anyone either but i wonder if this is genuine or if he is just leading me on.
I do not want to be just his friend as i like him too much for that but at the same time i do not want too much of commitment yet (I like the idea of the friends with benefits thing at the moment!!) due to my circumstances, but he keeps putting up a brick wall!! He says he has been hurt before and doesnt want to get hurt again or hurt anybody else. I have neva had to initiate/push for sex with a man before, really not sure how to deal with this!!
I really like him….How do i get him to open up and be more committed to me with out appearing too pushy!! Sometimes i wonder if he is playing me but our ‘vibe’ (when we are together) tells me that he isnt.
What to do???? would really appreciate some help and opinions from pisces men especially Paul C and some of the other guys that have made comments on this site, also any aries women with similar experiences!!!
Thx
January 3rd, 2011 at 6:10 am
can someone give me some insight. i have been married to a fish for almost 7 years. he is a typical fish with all those charateristic that make you love themand confuse you at the same time. i am a leo. we had an amazing worldwind romance and got married within 6 months of meeting. he was very committed and devoted. within a few months he started asking what he was getting out of the marriage and started saying he wanted out. he has worked sporadically over the years and has a tendency to be depresed. i was not working when we met but started oon after - my career took off and i became sucessful and the mean breadwinner. about 4 years into the marriagem i lost my job. he hadnt been working for about 14 months and was very depressed i told him he had to go and stay with his family so they could help him and that we could keep staying where we were if neither of us had a job. he was mad and didnt fogive me for this. i went back to my folks for a while but continued coming to see him. i eventally got a job overseas and he agreed to give us another go. if i would give him space - we could travel and see each other. he felt he need to rebuild his life and blamed me for holding him back and ruining his career (which he didnt really hve just short term jobs). He has never stuck at anything for more than 6-12 months including school or work. he got a job back home and i supported him - but he went into a down and walked out of the job. it got so i could keep supporting him if he was living away from me so we agreed that he would come overseas. he came and after a couple of months moved out with a friend who he worked for. that didnt last. the friend would speak to me and complain about him - he found out and was devastated. he came backto me but then left again. after about 3 mobths he came back again - but i said i didnt know. but i was just confused and told him after a couple of days that i still loved him and wanted him back. he sid no and that that was the last time he would come back. it has now been 7 months that he has lived on his own. we still see each other every couple of days but he says he doesnt want to be married anymore and wants to be single. he hasnt done anything about the divorce but says he doesnt feel the same way anymore. i do love him very much and desparatly want to show him that i understand him and want to be there for him. i dont know if he will change his mind - he is so stubbon. we dont have any kids and there is no reason for huim not to do the divorce if he really want to. i desparately want to rebuild the trust and love. but at the moment i have been doing all the chasing. if anyone have any advice - that would be great.
January 17th, 2011 at 10:18 am
new dates published… similar to asian dates. explains a lot. i’m glad. the melodies, the dreams.. no more trying to be aries - i’m pisces and i always felt as one. behold! many “pisceans” are really aquarians. typing with joypad
January 17th, 2011 at 2:20 pm
I’ve been dating a Pisces male for about a year and a half now and its been amazing. I’m a cancer female and we have a whole lot in common, there are times where we have both finished each others sentences. Its soo creepy how much we think and act alike, and it makes it soo much easier for us to communicate. I used to date a Gemini and I absolutely hated it, he was so high strung and had such an aggressive personality. It definitely didn’t click as much as it is with my Pisces. I love how we both share that emotional trait because he’s the only person who understands why i feel the way i do most of the time, and he’s pretty much the only person who can put up with my mood swings and calm me down after. I’ve never been so in love before, he’s def my soul mate and I can never ask for a better boyfriend. Plus we’re having a baby, and I’ve never met a guy who reacted the way he did when he found out I was pregnant. He was so happy
I love him so much.
January 22nd, 2011 at 12:55 pm
I have read many of your articles and thought i’d leave a comment on this one. I am a Gemini woman and was with a Pisces for over 15 years. I have no idea why we stayed together so long as you rightly say its a total mismatch. I am a Gemini thru and thru and he drove me insane with mood swings and wanting praise and attention. we argued rediculous amounts and I changed to fit into what he wanted. He’s a lost soul and does need a soulmate who understands him and almost dotes on him. I am a carfree funloving girl and have just started seeing an Aquarius man. The difference is unbelievable. I feel that I am definately more myself and although only been together a few months .. we click on every level and yes he has a dimpled chin! As a summary Pisces Men can be lovely but need to be with the right person and NOT a Gemini woman…x
January 25th, 2011 at 6:35 pm
this is all well and good, but most of you are completely forgetting aspects within the natal chart, most notably the moon sign and ascendant. gather a better *understanding* of yourself and others through astrology rather than being overtly judgemental. I’m a pisces with a cancer moon and ascendant, and I’ve realised how to handle myself (and others) in order to make me (and others) happy. it sounds strange… despite your personality you always have a choice of perception, and the ability to see the good side of any given situation. this should be easy for most pisceans, because they view almost everything on a largely relevant scale.
February 16th, 2011 at 7:25 pm
Okay, so I’m a libra with a pisces guy, and we have been together for about three years. Not married or anything seeing as how I don’t like that kind of stuff this early in my life. But, wow, this man of mine is very over-protective, defensive, a bit whiny, and definitely sensitive. He is also very sweet and perceptive, giving me gifts on all the holidays (excluding easter, though) and it’s great like that. But, the only problem is our families, I don’t like most of his and he doesn’t like most of mine. I wish we could overcome this. But is there any way to fix his whining and sensitivity? I love him but it drives me nuts!
March 4th, 2011 at 8:14 pm
Chrystal,
Please get out while you can. I posted on page 31 about my Pieces man. Sounds a lot like yours. I never should have married him and had kids by him. I’ve been married to him now for almost 15 years and should have left a long time ago. RUN!!!!!!!!
March 4th, 2011 at 8:56 pm
Seems like there are a lot of Gemini’s that fell for a Pisces. I had a boyfriend for about a year (Pisces) it started out great, but then he got too attached too fast. He would always think I was trying to end the relationship or even cheat on him and this constant thought kept pushing us apart. Pisces are very emotional and feminine -that is true. I love that though, you cant find that in other men.
He also seemed like he couldn’t choose who he wanted to be with, I would always catch him eye-ing his ex or talking to other close female friends as more than a friend. Beware, I believe they tend to be flirts and also tend to attractive lots of females because of the way they talk. I think its best if Pisces men stayed away from other females while in a relationship.
He would always tell me he would change and he would be the perfect man while we were together but when we’d separate for a while he would quickly move on.
March 4th, 2011 at 9:07 pm
I dated a Pisces man, and my advice to Gemini’s - LEAVE HIM BEFORE YOU GET ATTACHED.
I have already posted before and ill add one more thing that Ive noticed a lot of people wrote. When i was with my ex he would be okay, treat me nice, tell me how much he loves me excreta.. But he would always cheat on me by flirting with other girls constantly. And every time he realized i was leaving him he’d completely change- he would do things for me and apologize in ways that would leave me in shock and i obviously didn’t have the heart to leave him. Pisces men can’t keep Gemini’s happy- they find it hard to leave Gemini’s though.
March 14th, 2011 at 3:53 am
I was nodding my head the whole time I was reading this! I’ve been with a Piscean for seven years now (since we were 14), and it’s all 100% true. It’s amazing to have a boyfriend who is also your best friend - and the reason he can be is because he’s very sensitive and perceptive and in touch with his (and your) emotions. Honestly, after dating a Pisces, I’m not sure I’d ever be able to go to any other sign.
March 14th, 2011 at 3:56 am
Also, I’m curious - I’ve read a lot that a Pisces’ true match is a Scorpio, but I’m a Sagittarius and we seem to be fairly well-matched (except that I think I’m a little too brash for him sometimes). How well do Sagittarians and Pisceans match up?
March 20th, 2011 at 8:04 pm
Hmmmph……Well it seems there are different types of Pisces. Lets not forget that everyone has a moon sign, ascendant sign, etc.
However, most Pisces are kind and honest and very open. If the Pisces was brought up in an abusive home, they tend to be suicidal, drug abusive, violent, etc. Of course, there is nothing that can be thrown at these people that they can’t handle. You see, a weak timid Pisces, is just one that hasn’t come to full realization of his/her nature. For guys it is harder because you have to accept the fact that you are sensitive in front of your “boys.”
Getting a job, money, security and things of the like, should be something a piscean can fit into his/her schedule. So jobs like internet marketing, advisor and things that require “a second glance,” should be something to look into. Otherwise they will be stressed at a desk job answering to someone instead of people going to him/her for answers.
As far as compatibility is concerned, I have to say it as a Pisces that, we are the biggest babies of the zodiac and we need a “mother” like figure. That being said, the “mother” of the zodiac would be the Cancerians. A relationship with them will always work out, if the Cancer woman is confident in herself as a “mother,” and knows when the “baby” is acting up.
They are both intuitive and romance rules their lives. However! WE NEED OUR SPACE TO RECOVER FROM “LIFE.” But I promise you, we don’t venture far. Maybe a random stroll to the nearest park, a visit at a close friends house or anything of the like, but we will be back to you.
Also Never question our integrity if we wonder off like this. Nothing is more disappointing. After all we dream for “us” and not “me” when we go out for some “space.”
I am in a relationship with a Cancer woman and she is so loving. I must say, they have the best looking breast known to man (generally speaking). She is just as sensitive. She does hold the reigns on me a little too tight, but I let her know with love that it is hurting me and she lets go slowly.
MR>A
March 23rd, 2011 at 12:53 am
I am an Atheist. I say this because I am also, according to this Astrology stuff, a Pisces. I fit the description above nearly to a T. I’ve read other “signs” and don’t see myself at all in them until I read the Pisces sign.
I am a hopeless romantic in search of a soul mate. I do tend to end up with stronger women which never ends well. I think football is irrational and pointless. Football is also too darn violent for my tastes.
I like to go with the flow but also tend to be somewhat of an architect. By architect I mean a social architect. I tend to look at the big picture and concentrate on the problems of others (rather than my own). I make
YouTube videos where I discuss Civil Right, Gay Rights, Women’s Rights, Labor Rights etc. I am very passionate about world issues and dream of a world where famine, poverty, war and suffering are nearly or completely
eliminated (call me a dreamer). I am intuitive (I just know things without knowing why I know them).
Sexually speaking… I prefer love making and pleasing my partner. I place her needs well above mine. My aim is to satisfy all of her desires and only once this is achieved do I satisfy my own.
But that’s who I am. I don’t think it has to do with an Astrological sign. I would rather place my bets on it being a mere coincidence that I fit the description of this Pisces sign (call my skeptical).
March 24th, 2011 at 9:33 am
Ello’ all
He sure loves to follow me whenever I goes as if he is obsessed with me or something. I knew him pretty well & just like most pisces, he has a sensitive & caring nature but doesnt have a bad habbit of drinking smoking etc as he cleary knows those aint good for him.
but what i’ve found is he has already replaced me with someone…..My MMO brother[Not real life brother] told me he thinks that my ex-partner misunderstood that I left the game & leaving him behind so he went to find another girl to cheer him up or whatever…
After reading so much interesting comments & stories. I decide to share my experince too ^^
Last year I’ve met a guy of my own kind. A japanese pisces & yes, I am a pisces too. We knew each other from the same MMO game we were playing. We became close friends since we do have a lot in common & have endless fun & sweet memories. I felt that there was some kind of connection that pulled us together & we both got attracted to each other. anyway, there was this fact that freaked us out which is….we were born of the same month, same day but he was 2 years older than me….25 February…. As time passes, he finally confessed to me, which is a dream come true for me but i accepted as a PARTNER not Bf or anything since we lived in diff countries and he knew the situation too and accpeted the fact.
Well we became closer than before, we talked and shared our stories, problems, sorrowful memories, past etc etc. Oh, and he is smart and sometimes share his knowledge with me
Anyway unfortunately there were once that my pc is packed with so much virus that i cant use it at all. About 5 months have passed & i got my pc finally fixed. I hurried re-download the MMO game to tell him the good news
But that doesnt mean I will forgive him as there is no turning back already since he found himself a girl and because of him, i hardly have any appetite or the mood for anything. But I recovered soon in just a few days as I need to move on.
I didnt quit the game even after he hurts me a lot because I wont let him ruin the fun to play the MMO. I noticed he usually gets the courage & try to chat with me but I usually reply with really cold & negative comments or just ignore him in a obvious way.
And days passed after the whole ignoring & stuff, I met his sister, who doesnt know anything about us at all. She told me that he is acting unusual as he started to get sad & angst few days ago. I’ve read about pisces could get emotionally influnced easily so I think sooner or later he wasnt the way he was before because of me. I wanted to apologize, forgive and care him but me being a very stuborn girl decide not to show it & acted like as if he is none of my concern. But i am confused and unsure of what to do as I dont want to see him end up in a horrible state but then again I dont feel like talk to him or anything. =/ Help? Advice?
March 27th, 2011 at 2:17 pm
Hi all, Im a Pisces male 22feb, and i must say that when i read the description of a pisces man it was spot on for me. Im can be very happy in my own space and now that i live alone after breaking up with my Saggitarius girlfriend i get to ‘plug into myself’ quite alot. But it has its downsides too as depression type feelings tend to creep in if im by myself too much so its both good and bad. I would say that im eccentric in that i will say whatever i feel like and usually go against the common trend just to be myself i guess.
My relationship history is not a good one really as ive always been the one who leaves. Every girlfriend that i had would have approached me first and as the relationship went on i would slowly become distant if there was no connection. But like others here said, when i want my own space at times my partners would see that as a rejection. And moods swings too had an understandable part to play in the eventual breakup. Also, and this is spooky for me, i have met ALL my girlfriends between JAN, FEB and MAR and i think that in FEB i can be in a very low mood which has led me to refrain from ANY contact woth women until the summer……haha.
Seems odd but i can and do fall in love instantly only to fall out of love when i slowly realise that we were miss matched.
Still, i love being a Pisces male and i embrace all the flaws as well as the attributes…..and now i must concentrate on scorpio and cancer……haha
April 1st, 2011 at 9:35 am
Hi I’m a pisces male and first off I’m terribly sorry for the females that have had issues with pisces relationships. Reading this though it kind of scared me a bit how spot on it was for me(I never really thought much of zodiac signs until now). I’ve never been in a relationship, but I’ve fallen for a few girls and they’ve all ended badly since many of them were the “wrong types”, but many of my female friends were kind enough to tell me what some of my vices were and how imperfect and dangerous the girls I liked and how to work on all of it. It’s true sometimes we can come on too strong or seem extremely feminine(I’ve had moments where friends have questioned my sexual orientation since I have never had a girlfriend, yet have many female friends). Many have said I’m just too nice and a lot of people find me hard to read because I do tend to keep things hidden because I don’t want to burden others with my problems, only sometimes I open up to people. I’ve gotten over how far I can fall into depression and learned to control it and pisces from what I have experienced and seen with others, can easily succumb to their emotions and will find it hard to overcome it and often will find a method to vent it, some methods good, others bad. I think pisces vary because of experience from individual to individual, but one thing I think is certain is that we have our own dream world or “safe zone” which explains why some of the females here are talking about how their pisces boyfriends or husbands watch basketball, work on cars, drink etc. Personally my opinion on that would be that those activities are their “safe zone” and something is bothering them deep down, but they do not want to share or admit it. On the opposite end of the spectrum, we can be extremely clingy and don’t understand how much of a moderation of space the people we care about need; because we fear losing them and want to be there every waking moment which at times can confuse people because it seems like we are super dependent, but more often than not from what I have seen from pisces and myself, a straightforward answer to us that you need space should suffice and we learn to understand and respect that because we care and want to only make you happy. I know we are hard to understand, but I think that’s because we are too busy trying to understand others around us and our special someone while at the same time insuring we are protected from getting emotionally hurt and trying our best to fulfill our dreams. Good luck to the ladies though, there are a few “true” and down to earth pisces that I’m sure (if you are looking for one) will live up to your expectations and possibly more. Being a pisces, I still feel that I need to know more about myself and my vices before I can find a girl and truly satisfy her without such problems. Because that’s my own fantasy, to be just one girl’s Mr. Right one day
April 2nd, 2011 at 8:17 am
I am a Pisces guy March 17th, I have been out with all different Star Signs and its funny I attract Gemini Girls for some reason and my ex wife was Libra married 13years.
I will be honest we do live in a dreamworld my mind wanders all the time , however I will say we are faithful, people say we are feminine I say no we just treat all people like human beings should be , unless they show us no respect. We also are affectionate and like sex thats just us and we enjoy doing things however most often we enjoy doing things solely with our partners, but certainly do mix well with others if we have too. We also are attracted to beauty and can always make good conversation as girls find us interesting, However we need a lot of time alone to think and to escape into the easier world I have read many comments and some is true however a lot depends of our partners and how they treat us we are just looking for love , companionship and understanding if treated right we are yours for life
April 8th, 2011 at 8:02 am
I agree with vanessa.piscean man is a person who luvs his freedom more than his life.we cannot tie them up in a relation.Ive being dating a piscean man since last 8 months,my brother he is also a piscean.They have a very casual attitute towards life and especially towards their relationships.They cant depart from their friends.They wont ever have any kinds of savings as they dont think about the future.They are very confused most of the time.Every time i take an initative to call him and make him talk.Since i love him a lot i cant leave him,got to agree to whatever he says.
April 13th, 2011 at 3:17 pm
I’m a pisces man feb. 19, 1993. I have to agree with this i am very unique with every aspect. I do tend to have more female friends (who all are beautiful) then male friends. many people do question my sexual orientation. I do tend to attract girls with the way i talk which is a form is “flirtin” but i really don’t try to. My close friends get mad at me sometimes because i really don’t open up to them as much as they open up to me. I sometimes do go off into my own world and distants myself from people. I have to say I do have a drug problem (marijuana). It helps me alot. I think about everything I do. And I realize i need to think before I take action, because if I don’t I make stupid decisions. I can sometimes sense what others are thinking about by just looking at them. I can tell when someone is mad or doesn’t like me. I feel like everyone should be treated with respect no matter there race, sexual orientation, and religion. I am very distant from people because I feel like people don’t understand me and don’t get where i’m comin from, and I hate to be made fun of so I keep my opinions to myself, and when I open up to people it takes me some years to do that. But I love being a pisces when I was young I use to hate it but as I grew older I grew mature and can deal with it more better. I do admit I do get easily depress but hey thats life :]
April 17th, 2011 at 7:28 am
Umm I must admit this article kinda scares me. I’m a Gemini lady and I’ve fallen pretty hard for my Pisces guy. This is my first Pisces experiance and it has been eye opening to say the least. Back massages for no reason? Driving 30 mins to my place because I’m sick and he WANTS to “baby” me… com’on who does that? Oh right my guy. Add to all that hes smart, romantic, good looking, and is hands down the best kisser and lover I’ve been with. I hope other factors in our chart make us more compatible because theres no way I want this relationship to end
peace & love
April 26th, 2011 at 7:12 pm
Oh dear, I do not know what to think after reading so much of different comments. We, as in scorpio ladies, seem to be one of the great matches for the Pisces, and I have found myself falling in love with one very charming Fish, but!…
-He’s totally married, and I feel terrible everytime I even look at him, because I realise that he somehow must understand the look in my eyes.
I sometimes even notice him looking at me in a very strange way that makes me feel so good, but my situation can’t be possibly more hopeless.
Honestly, I’d love to see him leave his wife after so many years of marriage, therefore I’m the most terrible and egocentric sign in the whole world, but I’m afraid his loyalty will be stronger than any charm of mine. I feel pretty sad, because we seem to have a connection together, and I feel guilty because of being unable to walk out of this addicting ‘mirage’. He manages to bring up the most typical ’scorpio emotions’ in me, the ones I control very well normally. I feel like a small child who isn’t allowed to taste the cookey, it’s unfair, finally I meet someone who needs just one look to say it all, who knows how to find exactly the right words to please me, who seems to understand my moodswings and the one who seems to respond to any of my behaviour very well, and tadaaa he’s married. I wish I was a Gemini or something, beacause this stupid match between Pisces en Scorpio causes me a lot of damage, help needed please!
It will help a lot to know whether he likes me at all, I have a certain feeling, but it’s quite possible that I’m being mislead by my own emotions.
I find him looking at me, making some jokes, sometimes rude sometimes not, as if he knows I’d forgive him anyway, but at the same time he hides his feelings very well (-he too has his moodswings, sometimes he just ignores me, next time he sees me he’d say something about my shoes, something stupid), he must do so, because we’re even not allowed to have any kind of relationship! Just tell me please, where should I pay attention for, it would be enough to know he feels the same…
April 28th, 2011 at 12:56 pm
hi lost scorpio,
haha
why should he leave his wife? I dont understand. Pisces men are all charming and understanding you know… So dont live in an ilusion its just a waste of time! They also like the game but after all - it means nothing… Be your feeling your best friend and just leave… Dont fool yourself! And yes - they are self-taught psychologists
April 28th, 2011 at 5:58 pm
Im a Libra and Im currently dating a Picses.. my last boyfriend was an aries
and the differance between these two men is night and day.
I find that the guy im now dating is extremely emotional, and could talk
for hours about his past relationships and life experiences that hurt him emotionally.
I find that he analyzes every situation and everytime we get into a fight he will literally
analyze everything I say and do and than give me a lecture on how I am and why Im that way.
Wether he’s right or not, it can be exhausting. I notice that he picks out alot of my faults,
personality wise. Im a libra and im incredibly indecessive and I like a man who
makes the important decisions, he is also indecessive, sometimes we argue because
we both cant make up our mind about where to eat, or what to do.
I believe he does have a very feminine side aswell, he takes care of himself always has his eyebrows
done, never allows dirt to form under his nails, always clean, neat, tidy
Would I recommend dating a picses man? only if your ready for an extrememly emotional
man who will notice alot of your faults, Ive gotten used to the way he works and Im
adjusting to him, but at the end of the day it was much easier for me to be compatible with
my ex who was an aries than the picses Im dating now.
May 13th, 2011 at 11:43 am
yeah I would say alot of this is pretty accurate. I think each pisces is brought up differently and this is the cause for the uniqueness of every pisces, but some things I think we were born with. Like all the pisces people I know including me, believe that everyone is innately good, and that was interesting to me. I also know that if any of my mates had any problems, they know they can count on me being the first at their doorstep. But for some odd reason, I only care when its emotional problems? I think thats because thats what I think is the most important. With fickle things I do not care so much, such as moving apartments and helping move things, remembering dates and giving presents e.t.c. This is where alot of the girls here thought we were being really distasteful? I can understand that, in that aspect we can be abit rude haha. But it probably should be noted that yelling at us would only make it worse, and if you do so it will most likely become a vicious cycle. We also seem to like being selfless. But shit just doesn’t seem to work that way right? I think there is a difference between your moral thinking and your human emotions, that shit just doesn’t mix haha. It’s almost like we want to be so perfect, why we gotta try so hard? People are just people, I think we all forget that at some point and expect everyone to be perfect. I mean you hear that alot but you never think about it don’t you?
There’s also the humanitarian side. About 6 years ago I knew that in my life I only wanted one thing, and that was to make one thing right in the world. But when you learn more and you grow abit older (And in my case only little bit, i am only 19), you learn that things aren’t black and white, but gray, I guess? Like when you take into account something like giving money to a beggar, will this really help him in the long run? Yeah he will get some food, sure he will survive a week more. But what after? You might just be helping him live an unfulfilling life, depending on the kindness of strangers. And that stretches to straight up charity, for instance, Africa. Giving money to charity to help starving children. Sure he survives for a week or two, but what after? He has no income, and therefore he can’t support himself. What people really should do is help their economy, not just giving two dollars to a kid, that ain’t going to support him forever. If you start to invest in their products, than more companies will be able to afford more employees, more people in Africa get paid and therefore more people live a fulfilled, non-poverty stricken lives. Now I sound like I’m preaching haha, but I think all I am trying to show is how a Pisce’s person thinks on a regular basis, at least for me anyway. The only reason I play my music is so I can have a voice to help others in need, thats all I really ask for in life.
I would also like to add, there are alot of arrogant Pisces people out there arent there! Man, what I really don’t agree with what alot of people are saying here, like we’re some sort of superior race or something? But yeah, what I learnt is that yelling at people and being negative towards other people because of their opinions really doesn’t make them see things the way you do, you know what I mean? Hate never really is an option to making a better you or others, just doesn’t work that way haha. Tolerate them and then maybe they will see past their judgements, right?
Also, in my case anyway, when I don’t text or call, it’s not because I don’t like a person, I could literally love someone (only once) and still never text or call. It’s not even a stubborn thing or like pride, trust me I think I can speak for most pisces. It’s almost like theres an invisible boundary that stops us from doing it and I’m still trying to figure out why. I think we like it when you text or call cause it shows you give a shit, you know? However, I think the good thing is, if you use your intuition when you meet us in person and you get the feeling we are emotionally attached to you, you are very much likely right. I don’t believe most Pisces people can cheat how they feel about someone, if you think somethings up something will probably be up, if things seem real dandy and we don’t call or text for weeks, you can rest assured there is really nothing wrong, just take the initiative to call, we’ll always be there to pick up.
I’m saddened by all these people that are being hurt by us, just know that in truth we really do love all. Thanks for your patience and hopefully understanding.
May 14th, 2011 at 6:57 am
I am a Pisces Male. Also a strong-willed Alpha Male, yet sensitive to a womans needs. I listen to women, and what they have to say. I ahve been described as a caveman with manners! I communicate as well as a man trying can communicate with a woman (actually I do very well!). I love women, from their gorgeous feet to the top of their beautiful heads, and their lovely crown of hair!
Though I am sensitive, I have a very strong backbone to fight and defend her honor, or do away with any lying desceiving bull. I do love football, I love sports. I have played baseball almost my entire life, and football. Physically, I will smash another mans skull in, especially if he mistreats a woman!!! I used to be shy around the “beautiful women” thinking they would never go out with me, but not anymore, those days are long gone! I had this perception that beautiful women were always spoken for, even if the guy was a jerk!
I am erotic, sensual in love making, and think about sex a lot with beautiful women. To make love to a woman is to put her first, make her orgasm first and do what she wants so that she is satisfied. Most men do not understand this, which is why they suck! I like to hold doors open for women, I am romantic also. I am not a wuse or sissy. I have turned down women who play games, because they feel I am a push over, because I am nice to them, therefore some women think they can run over me.
I am in a mental war with a beautiful-tall German-Brazilian girl at work, I am crazy about. I have respect for her, deeply love her, but I will not tell her that, because she toys with boys. I am a man! I have a backbone, and I will make her yeild, and dominate her. She is a Capricon born January 6th. I am a Pisces born March 6th. She is very intelligent, can outwit me, I think, but I am also silent and deadly serious when it calls for it. She does things to get my attention, yet I say nothing. I see her, and love the way she looks. A simple ponytail, gorgeous face, and those long legs I worship. I told her how I felt, I think she got scared, she likes to flirt which is okay, but she always looks to see where I am at, and listens to my conversations. Even her awkwardness is cute, I praise her silently, because if I say anything, she wins this war. She is accustomed to men falling at her feet just because she flirts with them. I will not bend so easily. Maybe I intrigue her? Maybe I am a test for her? I hope she does not hate me, but I am not a toy! Other guys in the lab do her bidding, and hover around her, not me! Yet she looks for me, I know it is a game. I know she and I would be a dynamic couple. She has some growing up to do. She likes to play some “Breakup Game”. Where she intentionally breaks up with a guy, she finds another boyfriend fast, and keeps in contact with the old boyfriend-delighting in his misery because he has not found someone to replace her yet, if at all. I told her how cruel, and that is very messed up. I kissed her 3 times. The last time I kissed her, I left her sat there in her office chair. You see, I am a man with a backbone, can kiss woman, and keep his mental faculties, as I walk away. It is not easy, especially if you are attracted to a powerful, beautiful woman. But somehow I have to give her something to think about…I want respect from her and her love!!
As I am attracted to the entire female body, I love to give women a warm sensual foot rub, so good her eyes will roll into the back of her head, or damn near put her into a deep sleep. A woman can feel safe, warm, and comfortable, and loved with me. I worship women, yet they do not control me. It is a struggle for both they and I. I feed off her physical beauty. I like brown, blue, green eyes, fair skin, long hair, short styled hair, tall and thin, those are my preferences. I am a black male, with milk-chocolate skin, very educated, hard working professional chemical lab technician and Quality Assurance/ I.T. guy. I am currently going back to school for 2 things, to earn my 2nd Bachelor’s degree (History)I already have, but the 2nd in I.T., and go for my MBA in business management. I cannot stop learning, and love women and learn everything I can about them, especially the naughty stuff, they are so sexy they blow my mind!
May 18th, 2011 at 9:22 am
Thankyou 4 th insight. Ur comments brought m to tears cause m in a relationship with a pisces.
I am a scorpio femaie. I met ths pisces guy 2months back nd i immediately fell in love with hm. This was after i had given up on love. Th last time i had similar feelings twas 2004 with a cancer who shattered my heart
to me meeting ths piscean ws like a drem cause i believed he had everything i wanted in a man. I called him my strong man cause i percieved his sensitivity as inner strength.
Because of my suspicious nature, i was so insecured of hs myterious side. He would say all th right things and sweep me off my feet one moment, the next moment he would b sooo moody and critical of everything i say.
This was so confusing cause one minute i would feel safe nd blessed to b with him, next minute i would feel rejected and not good enough.
He complained bout my sharp tongue nd about me jumping into conclusions without asking him 1st. I tried accommodating his complaints but i felt like by asking him something i felt was obvious i was giving him a licence to lie and convince him of anything.
I always felt like i had to prove myself with him, like he didnt accept me 4 who i am. We never sat and talk successfully about anything constructive except when he is declaring his love 4me.
This was jst nt enough 4me.
I tried to understand and love him without compromising myself bt twas never enough 4us.
Also he had jst gotten suspende from work. He never opened up about how he feel about this. He would b soo distant nd i would so frustrated trying to reach him cause i love his attention.
I love him, but i feel like i have damaged us somehow, jst by having these scorpio traits. I still want him cause i dont know if anybody can take me that high. I dont know what to do. Please help me.
Oh by th way he is 4years younger than me. Maybe this is a problem. Help!!!
May 19th, 2011 at 6:43 am
Hi Yolo!
Sounds like my fellow Piscean needs a swift kick in the butt, and hard!
We can be moody sometimes, and it is stupid, but something we have to go through.
I keep my moods in check, because they are stupid, and can cause damage to a relationship.
I am sorry he lost his job, but he has to go earn a new one, as well as earn you back.
You women are so loving and beautiful, you are very much worth the effort, worth the fight to do
things right. We need you in our lives, without you, we are NOTHING!!! We are empty without a good woman in our lives, and life would be horrible without you. I can not understand why a man would mistreat a woman. This business of taking you for granted also stinks. All I know is: the smallest thing you do for me, I am thanking you for it, because you went out of your way, to take care of me. You do something for me, I repay it back 10-fold.
Now, if you were my girl, I would apologize, take you to dinner, and we go do the things you would like to do. I would also have my romantic side kick in too. Lay you down on the couch, slowly take off your shoes, kiss your toes, rub your feet with my big warm hands until you are almost asleep. We talk, kiss, and I open up to you even more! I have to keep some cool mystery, so you remain intrigued!!! By the way, I don’t lose jobs, I get better with age! My belief system is this:
“Women need good-strong financial security plus love from a man”.
My concern is your well-being, and what you think about me. I want you to love me, then my protective instincts kick in. Actually, if I am physically attracted to you… seeing you the first time those protective instincts kicked in ages ago, I just never said anything. Don’t you just love us visual boys? HAHAHA!!! Seriously though, us Pisces have more good than bad in us.
I have learned to take criticism, and not take it personally, but what I do is turn it into constructive criticism, and then I go work on my faults in which you see. I can not always see them, which is why I need you. A problem I have is: if I criticize you for something I see, I would wait until we were alone, and to the best of my ability word it nicely in a very low voice, as I put my face into yours lovingly. Or whisper it in your ear, as I lean in to nibble your ear, and kiss it. There are ways to getting your points across to women, without shouting. Shouting is so ugly! Criticize with intimacy, and a woman will do whatever you want…within reason.
May 20th, 2011 at 10:30 am
Chad, you got such a jock name, you must be from america, right? I don’t think I’m much like you, in that case there are a few that are more this and others more that, but in the centre we all are pisces. I could name a few running themes: We all believe that everyone is good natured at heart, like the color blue, the sea and the moon, we hate texting or calling others unless they start it (I really don’t know why and it seems to be the root problem in a lot of these situations! Its not even a sense of pride or we’re being selfish or something, i think it might be something to do with you showing that you give a shit). I’m sorry that so many feel cheated by us, it sucks that it happens but I speak for all Pisces and say that we love everything and everyone no matter what, though it can seem misconstrued at times. When it comes to us, we are not exactly the best at hiding emotions when it comes to girls. If you see us, whatever you feel, trust it. Don’t be afraid to call us, if you have a feeling that we feel the same way, we will always be there to pick up. That much you can count on.
May 20th, 2011 at 10:37 am
Oh, also the worst things to ever do: Pry into our privacy and ask us what we are thinking all the time, and trying to get into our minds. Worst thing to do, the only person I now never want to see did all these at the same time. I tried to get over that cos it shouldn’t be a big deal but I can’t really control what I really feel, right? I never understood it, but there are certain things that just seem to be, with no reason. Ah well, good luck everyone.
May 28th, 2011 at 7:43 pm
@Lost Scorpio and @Impossible, and anyone else reading.
Sorry, this may be kind of long.
Lost Scorpio, I’m in a similar situation, and impossible I’m not sure if you visit this page anymore, but a lot of what you said about Pisces resonates with me and the experiences I have had. I can’t believe I’m about to write about my situation, but I have read every page of this comment section, and each of you have shared so openly, so here is to hoping that my particular Pisces doesn’t read this.
I’m a Scorpio woman and I’m married to a Sag guy - actually we are separated now and he is due to move out in a few days. I have known a Pisces man for 11 years now, and we have dated and have been casually on and off for these 11 years. So for example my husband and me have been together for 10 years, married for 4, and during our on and off periods the Pisces and me would hook up.
This Pisces had a pretty messed up mom, as did I, and this has messed him up a bit.
I ran into the Pisces about 2 months ago, and I hugged him before I left, and you can just feel the energy. So this person is on my Facebook page, and I tried to fight off this crazy pull I feel. I then preceded to unfriend him, and then send him a message apologizing for unfriending him, but letting him know I was going through an internal battle. Well he knew exactly what I meant, and then it started. So we both had an affair, as he is married too. He has had affairs before, but this is the first time I’ve done something like this. I felt an immense amount of guilt, so two weeks after we met I told my husband the truth, and that we should separate. I did this not for the Pisces, but because of what I was willing to do spoke volumes about my level of unhappiness with my current husband.
Anyhow, I suppose because of the extreme stress I have been under, my obsessive part of my Scorpio personality has went into overdrive.
For a tad bit of background, the Pisces has been with his wife for I think 8 years, and married for 4. He has been unfaithful for at least 6 of those years. So the time before last that we were together, she was just his girlfriend although we saw each other often. He use to say things like his buddy told him I was wife material, and things were great - he was a lot more emotionally open than he has been this time around. Even though things were great and I loved how natural and at ease I felt when I was with him I couldn’t deal with being with someone who was taken so I walked away - like just disappeared. I was really depressed for a while, and got married shortly after to the sag, my on and off boyfriend. In retrospect I think I was depressed because of the situation with the Pisces.
Anyway I texted him and asked if I wouldn’t have walked away would things turn out the same or different. He responded, “the same, I think” and then he texted “I only say that because I love my wife.” anyhow I then unfriended him again just to request he friend me again on Facebook, and then sent him the song “jar of hearts.” I know I feel like I’m 13, but at times I feel that through music and quotes is the only way I can adequately express myself, and as I said above, my obsessive tendencies were on overdrive. After texting him a few more times I could tell by his last response that he was getting annoyed, even though it was subtle. I told him in my last text that I wish he would tell me to leave him alone, and tell me to stop texting him; that was the last text I sent him 4 days ago.
I feel such a strong pull and connection, it is so hard to walk away at times, and hard to understand why we keep coming back to each other. I know I need to completely let him go, it is just hard. Especially with him being this kind Pisces that won’t push me away. I almost want him to really hurt me, so I can just turn it off.
Most of all, it makes me sad that he can’t admit to himself that there is a part of him that is not happy, regardless of what the outcome is for us.
Okay, now I am going to send a few responses out, as I want to contribute versus spouting on about only my dilemma.
Scorpio Lady 09
May 28th, 2011 at 8:00 pm
@Mr. A
I agree that a desk job is not the job for Pisces. I have dated three Pisces, one played in a band, and that is all he did. The other is now working at car dealership in sales, and the other is in a band, but also works in consulting.
Interesting about the Piscean looking for a motherly figure in his mate – I know Cancers who are suppose to be another one of my good matches, me being a Scorpio, are very motherly. But Pisces are also supposed to be compatible with Scorpios, and we are not domestic or motherly at all.
Scorpio Lady 09
May 28th, 2011 at 8:13 pm
@Ian
Good luck with finding that Cancer, or Scorpio.
Pisces do very much have their alone time. However, I will say that Pisces give me a sense of ease. Don’t get me wrong, as a Scorpio I still want to posses those I’m with and I still get jealous, but it’s not as bad with a Pisces. I feel incredibly safe with them, even though they can be incredible players.
Recently I have become a little bit more obsessive than usual with the Pisces I was seeing, but that was due to unusual stress, which triggers my obsessive side even more.
Scorpio Lady 09
May 28th, 2011 at 8:47 pm
Yolo,
I think that Pisces usually do need their space. If I reflect back on previous relations with Pisces it was like this dance we did, I would chase, then I would back off and then he would chase and it just like a dance we did back and forth. Although, I think their chasing is a lot more subtle than mine.
I think that we as Scorpios are pretty intuitive and that we can tell when we should pry more or when our Pisces just wants to be left alone.
It worries me when you say you always felt like you need to prove yourself to him. Something that I find special about the connection that a Scorpio and Pisces can have is the naturalness of it all, how easy we can read each other, if we just listen to what our intuition is telling us and not try to go into our analytical probing selves and try so hard to figure everything out. As hard as it is for us, I would try to let things flow, and to try not to over-think things.
I think being 4 years younger could absolutely be a factor. He may still be trying to understand himself.
Scorpio Lady 09
June 1st, 2011 at 10:04 pm
I’m so happy I found this web site. As a pisces male (37yrs)I can empathise with all of the stories I have read. I agree with most all of the traits about us pisces that have been listed. To be honest the only reason I stumbled upon this site is that I have run into a rather rough patch in the job market and have found myself really struggling to make ends meet. As a pisces I have found threw reading the stories on this site that the internal struggles I find myself fighting threw are just part of being a pisces. Not that it makes anything better in the interim as far as financial relief or finding a job, but it does put my mind somewhat at ease knowing that my internal struggles are a normal part of being a pisces. I have to keep reminding myself that “this too shall pass”, so I decided to try and research the possible job opportunities that would be the best fit for a pisces personality. So far not much luck, but I am really interested in learning more for all the folk that visit this site for possible suggestions. I feel like a lost sole wandering around in the dark with no direction. I, like most pisces have a great personality to deal with people and love the interaction with different personalities during the day. I am hoping to read a few success stories about how us “dreamers” have worked threw ugly situations and came out on top. Any advice on moving forward would be very appreciated.
June 7th, 2011 at 12:39 am
I have to agree with most things I have read on these posts. I felt compelled to say something about Piscean males and for Piscean males only. Do not ever get involved with a Gemini woman. They will hurt you. I have nothing against them. They are fun, sexually enticing and more importantly they have the capacity at times to make you feel like you are the king of the world. Gemini women love control, we get restless with that type of attitude, we hate being controlled, manipulated and more importantly overtly lied to. Yes we are extremely sensitive and very temperamental. Our temperament in a relationships can be measured on how much we feel the other person is putting in the relationships. We are direct, blunt and we expect exactly the same from our partners. We love our freedom, we love to explore and then at times we love to do absolutely nothing but stay in, have an amazing dinner, talk, joke, resolve the world and its problems and then make love like there is no tomorrow. However, we can be asexual as we get disappointed fairly easily by people and their actions in their life. Gemini Woman have a very hard time understanding what they want let alone understanding what we want, which is basically an overt commitment to love and each other. We want to know we have an important place in their hearts and that is impossible to achieve with a Gemini Woman because she does not look for that type of relationship. She wants an airy, dispersed and egotistical man that she can better relate to. That is not who we are. We both shredded our hearts to pieces. Nobody is at fault, we are just not even in the same spiritual zip code and we will never fully grasp the reasons why a Gemini or people in general can be egotistical. We are idealists, they are charmers of life with no regard to consequence. Pisces male will never use his wit, which is vast and probably the most inventive of all the signs; to hurt somebody else purposely or out of spite or to get what we want when we want it. My best experience is my wife, whom I have 5 children with. She is a Pisces. i have gone out with practically all the signs. Gemini is by far the worst for us and we for them. Pisces is probably the most enticing and wonderful relationship we can ever have. But both have to have their lives working and functional in order for it to work. Fishes can be the best lovers, the best friends, the most empathetic, loving and trusting sign. Flip the coin and you will have the worst enemy and you probably will want to wish you never met him if you ever wronged him.
June 8th, 2011 at 5:56 pm
I hear what you’re saying about Pisces men. However, people are not zodiac signs, and each Pisces is going to have a lot of other astrological influences.
I disagree with what you said about Pisces men needing to be with strong women and that that will lead to disappointment. Not at all. For example, Pisces guys and Cancer women tend to be completely great together, and Cancer woman is a leader and manager. Pisces guys are also great with Scorpio women, who are also good leaders and managers. And Pisces men are really compatible with Taurus and Virgo women, and these women are grounded and good at controlling house, money, etc.
Pisces tends to be dreamy, but some Pisces are absolutely great at working a lot and making a lot of money.
Remember - Zodiac signs are not people.
June 16th, 2011 at 11:57 pm
I’m not in a relationship with a Pisces man, however I am really good friends with one.. He is a genuine sweetheart. Easy to talk to, very understanding, and not judge mental at all. He is my best friend in the world and I love him for his ability to be a good friend. Not like most most men who will eventually try to sleep with you. If he was single, he would be my man.
July 8th, 2011 at 4:50 am
Reading most of the comments above I agree with alot that is said. I have dated two pisces in my life and have many male pisce friends. I have noticed that they all have addictive behaviors, mainly with alcohol, extremely sensitive with emotions, over anaylze, feminine in either demeonor or emotionally, can’t make a descion to save their life, passionate, sensual, can be faithful but if there needs emotionally arent being met they can stray if pursued, are great listener’s, dreamer’s, throw alot of self pity party’s, and are very insecure. I myself love pisces and would love to try to make it work but as a strong capricorn IT’S EXHAUSTING!!!! They are extremely jelous and insecure. Trying to not necessarily figure them out but even get on the same page is like going through fire,nearly impossible. The love making is alway’s sensual and amazing. They are in tune with what a women want’s sexually. But they alway’s have to be passionate which at times can be overwhelming. Little things like trying to decide where to eat or what to eat even just picking is insanity. Half the time I just have to do the ordering or deciding and although some females would love this at times you would atleast like some imput or decisiveness. I also feel as the pisces men I’ve dated and know alway’s feel like there’s something better so they hate to commit in all areas of there lives. They spend there time sitting on the fence writting list of pro’s and con’s and let whatever might come to them pass. The insecurities they have within is frustrating and let it everflow into there relationship’s. My last pisces boyfriend spent to much time being angry for any little reason and accusing me of cheating or lying. Mind you I was head over heels for him and NEVER even came close to wanting to even befriend another male. But the insecurities became draining and it was more unhealthy trying to convince him otherwise, making descion’s for him, guiding him, adjusting to his constant emotionally rollercoaster’s, and temper. I don’t want people to think I don’t find pisces great because they have so many great qualities as well. Great friends, loyal, kind, hard working, intelligent, good with there words, very talented in music and writting, most have beautiful shaped eyes, great listener’s, sensual, faithful, good to their families, inviting, thinker’s, soft kisser’s ;), these are just some qualities they possess. I just believe it takes a patient, strong, yet passive, sensitive women to be able to handle this emotionally difficult pisces man. So with that said goodluck and enjoy =)
July 8th, 2011 at 4:51 am
@ Cerena my male pisces friends are the same way’s and yes it is so refreshing and comforting to have a male friend that isn’t trying to take it further.
August 3rd, 2011 at 10:29 am
Well, i am a pisces man and i hate it !!!!! , why do i often get hurt in my life , seems like bad luck is always around me on every aspect of life .I am very deep in every emotion and sometimes i feel closer to the darkside than the bright light .
August 18th, 2011 at 1:18 am
I am a Gemini and I have recently dated a Pisces for a year and 4 months on and off. Things were perfect the first few months and I felt like I started to really get to know him and break down a couple of walls, he had shared intimate feelings/secrets with me. I thought I had him, but like many other women in the forum said, he would have random mood swings and fall into some sort of depression and say random hurtful things. I felt like I truly did have to mother this pisces, to the core. He made me treat him like a little kid in a sense, it was pretty sick. He was loyal-ish but if he was not in my arms/being intimate with me he felt so distant, these things turned me off about him and I started to really get into this whole astrology thing and everything I read told me to stay away and that it would never work so it made me want to defy the odds, but seriously, after this pisces i’m never ever going for another one ever again.
August 25th, 2011 at 2:43 am
I am a pisces male and I would never, ever cheat on another girl. I was so surprised by all of the negative comments but I realize that in a lot of those relationships there probably wasn’t a lot of compatability to begin with. I think that in a lot of cases your signs should be compatable. Especially when it comes to pisceans. I know there are exceptions and understand it. We have so many geminis even in my family and I find myself distancing myself so much from most of them. It doesn’t mean that they are bad people in any way because they certainly are not. Our personalities just don’t click and probably never will. But I still appreciate them for some of the qualities that they have.
And for the ladies that are looking for some advice, I think I might be able to help. You can catch a good fish or a bad one. Just like you can in all signs. If you get a keeper you really should read about them because what you caught really is a different species. I know with me I have a tendancy to distance myself a lot very regularly from people I am really attracted to for no reason at all related to them. My mind is someplace else. A pisces mind will wander far from everything. That is normal for them. So when you watch them it’s almost like watching a fish in the tide. Sometimes they will drift away from you and sometimes they will come back. You need to give this type some time and space to drift and let their mind wander. A lot of them are sensitive and much more affected by the world around them. I know, I am one. So what I am trying to get across is this idea that you should not take it personally if they sometimes seem distant. In a lot of cases it will have nothing to do with you and more to do with the world around them that bewilders them. In my opinion it’s the TYPE of person that you found. You have to understand what you are dealing with.
September 2nd, 2011 at 12:17 pm
I adore my pisces man. and my ex husband is a pisces. i just cant seem to shake them.
My sun sign is an Aquarian and my moon is scorpio..so im detached & emotional..this current pisces is an amazement.. psychic yes, sensitive yes, feminine sometimes, but i think that depends upon the up bringing, my relationship up and down, but in all its forms I totally and honestly love him..i believe i have found my soul mate, the psychic thing this one has going is absolutely awesome but scary at the same time. we connect so well that sometimes we do not need words. we can talk with our minds. i am still mastering the technique and never really thought i had it in me, well i did know i had it, but no-one to ever really test it with. but my man is better than me. for me it is more powerful when i am upset..i like to think that my pisces male would never lie to me, generally he tells me everything without me even asking, and from day one he has been very open & honest with me..even when he knows i am not going to like what he says, where as my ex husband would never say too much and was very very feminine, and would lie to me all the time. i thank david above for sharing his knowledge as you have made me appreciate my man even more. And i tell him everything i have nothing to hide and if he asks me an out right question i answer him out right and honestly also..if he asks a round about question i give him a round about answer. I have had 3 pisces men..the first two had the same first name, and the 2nd one i married…the 3rd is an enigma just like myself but thankfully has a different first name otherwise i wouldve ran for the hills..and maybe it was my destiny/fate to be with one, maybe this lifetime i was destined to meet my twin flame…but please dont let the sun sign be a deciding element in choosing your mate…all the other planets in your birth chart plays an even bigger picture…yep we do argue as nothing is ever perfect, but what we argue about is how much we want each other (which is something silent in the actual argument)
my pisces male me aquarius
moon cancer scorpio
mercury aries pisces
venus aries capricorn
mars cancer taurus
cheers everyone
September 2nd, 2011 at 11:18 pm
Nick, i love what you’ve written. What is your birthday? is it between march 10 to march 21? Im a pisces moon, and it has the most aspects in my natal. I think you’re right about the texting and calling thing, most of the time i start the convos but he always gives me a proper and well thought through reply, I think people tend to miss the effort pisces men put in when they care. I fell in love with a pisces man, and due to distance and timing, we are not currently together, nor arer we out of each other’s lives. I guess what i love the most, is that after being with him, loving him, learning about him, you too, begin to see the world in a different light. I think that is where pisces get it more. True divine love, is platonic, intellectual love, because it gives intellectual offspring which is immortal - an idea can live on forever. Where as physical love is merely our primal nature to be immortal through procreation. Relationships should be both platonic and romantic. but many pisces are in platonic intellectual bonds which are very romantic from their point of view that they choose to immerse in it. It never means they stop caring when they don’t text or call. They never forget. They are just waiting on the other end for us to care … not in a selfish possessive way, but to call and check up on how they are. It is nice to know that someone out there truly cares and understands you. I think at the end of the day, we can enjoy being alone or having alone time, but we don’t want to feel loneliness that lasts longer than an eternity where we know no one understands. I love my pisces, I know he knows. People say love lasts forever, eternity etc etc, but i think the people who really understand love don’t say it at all … words are so inadequate to even paint a smidgen of emotion. Kinda like transferring the subconscious into the conscious logic that we can activelynthink about. I think many women just look for proof of love, so much so that they forget to believe in love … sometimes we just have to believe and trust how we feel … searching for proof is doubting a pisces’ love and it hurts them, like the story of eros and psyche … don’t search for human proof, instead, lose yourself in the romance you already feel and appreciate it.
September 3rd, 2011 at 6:12 am
I am a piscean male, and I see all these comments about their fishes who aren’t living up to Pisces! That is regrettable! They don’t sound like Pisces at all! I am intuitive to the point of being psychic! I am a TRUE romantic, and very affectionate and attentive to those I love. Back in 2006, I met the most beautiful woman I have EVER seen!!! She’s a Leo, and I love her to DEATH!! I am skeptical about the whole “love at first sight” thing, but if this wasn’t love at first sight, then I don’t know what it was! I was just minding my own business when suddendly, I felt the most powerfully attractive aura I have EVER felt! THAT’S what drew me to her!! It’s quite hard to explain! It was magical!! It was WAY into the realm of metaphysics! And then, THEN I saw her!! She was the most beautiful being I had ever seen in my entire life!!!! As a Pisces, I am naturally a shy person, but I decided that I couldn’t, SHOULDN’T pass this opportunity!! I went over to her, and introduced myself, and without thinking, I blurted out that she was hauntingly beautiful, LOL, which was TOTALLY not me! I keep my thoughts to myself! Anyway, back then, I was only seventeen, and she was twenty, and about to be twenty-one, so she thought she was a little old for me, but, nevertheless, she gave me her email, and we exchanged emails for a few months, without seening each other at all, until eventually, I just gave up, thinking that maybe she wasn’t meant for me, after all….
UNTIL, she RANDOMLY emailed me on May, 11, 2010, and asked me how I was doing, and basically, we started from where we left off (which wasn’t much, LOL), only THIS time around, I was now twenty-one, and she was about to be twenty-five, and the difference wasn’t that big a deal anymore. We texted for a few months prior to her birthday, getting really excited to see each other again, and then on her birthday, we FINALLY hit it off, and I don’t know how to explain this, but I just FELT like I was EXACTLY where I was supposed to be! Everything made sense, and I had eyes only for her, and to my THRILL, she felt the same way, and I KNOW how she felt! I could feel it as if it was MY feelings!! Again, I don’t know if it was love, but it was the most powerful emotions EITHER one of us had felt before! I have FELT true love before through somebody else, so I know what It’s supposed to feel like! We dated for three months, and yes, we had some problems! Mainly it was her concern that I wouldn’t open up to her, and she was right! I’m a Pisces, and I don’t know if you Pisceans out there have the same problem, but I was TERRIFIED of admitting that I was hopelessly in love with her, and that frustrated her! Making love to her was being in Heaven! For BOTH of us! Again, I could just FEEL how much she enjoyed sleeping with me! Until November 2, when just out of nowhere, I felt this HUGE depression, I just KNEW that something was wrong!! Two days later, she told me that she had had an encounter with her ex, and that she felt TERRIBLE about it! Needless to say that it CRUSHED me! Then on the 11th, she told me she could no longer be with me, that she couldn’t stop thinking about how much she hurted me, and that she was sorry….
I don’t know what to do! She is my one true love, my SOULMATE! I KNOW it!! Often timed, I had tried to truly hurt myself, wishing I would die!! She’s EVERYTHING to me!! She blocked me from Facebook, changed her number, and told me that she wants nothing with me anymore, but you know what? I think that’s not true! Maybe It’s just wishful thinking, but I think she loves me, too…. Lately, like for the last three months or so, I have all these dreams about her, I see signs everywhere, like her number and what not, my horoscope keeps telling me things like “that who turned away will return with renewed love for you”, and how “something dramatic is about to occur in your life”, and similar things, and most importantly, I have this FEELING!! This SUPER POWERFUL feeling that It’s FAR from over! I have this FEELING that something BIG is about to go down!! I hope this isn’t just my imagination combined with wishful thinking….
Blessed Be….
September 7th, 2011 at 12:11 am
So, I am totally captivated by this pisces man. I’ve known him since my recent spring semester of college, but I had a bf at the time and I can tell he was totally into me. He’d send me messages to my inbox on the daily, then fb message me and send me comments on the social networking site, but now a summer past and its so different now. I have no bf and totally availble and he doesn’t show interest. He let me have his book and makes fun of me at any given moment, but I don’t know…I thought the horoscope didn’t lie…I am a scorpio and his a pisces, why doesn’t he see it? by the way, when we first spoke I can tell there was a connection there! He even asked me what classes I had, so we can take one together for the fall. And here we are with a class together but nothing… I don’t get it! I’m sad
September 14th, 2011 at 2:51 pm
Hey Gemini/Cancer cusp,
Na i’m not i was born on the leap year, 29th feb, haha. Very close though. I know what your getting at, the march and feb pisces are abit different ay. Been a while since I wrote all that stuff but still agree with what i wrote. Yeah, i agree, I absolutely hate people that judge others by looks! Its not only sucky for them to be sayin it, but things come in circles, what they will do will influence you too, and I don’t want to be influenced by such superficial qualities! Wish I could get along with everyone though haha, just can’t get along with particulars, but forcing yourself to like people you don’t is very, very hard. Do you mind asking me what happened to your relationship with him? I also agree with that, unconditional love is something thats really hard to get or take part in, I find alot of my new friends look at what you have first before you as a person (like above), drives me nuts! And its definitely affecting me. But then they’ll have all these romantic kooks like they believe in soul mates and shit, but I’m like then why do you say such sleazy and outrageous things about others? (They are girls, even more sleazy then my guy mates) OOh hes a doctor hes got money, so painful to hear. To be honest, if the sex was out of the question, it wouldn’t be too big of a deal, the importance is the intimacy and warmth, yeah, the connection is more important to me. Now I look back and these are all just random jumble of ideas haha, shows that I got alot of shit on my mind.
September 19th, 2011 at 11:19 pm
Nick
Thank you for your reply
Ah, that makes sense, a first decan pisces! one of my best girl friends has the same birthday! my moon is a first decan pisces. And I understand what you mean about thinking, feeling, knowing so much in your brain that you get lost in it, I have so much imagery and whatnots going on in my head that I get lost - but the type of lost that I really enjoy, because like travelling to a foreign land, you get the blessing of being able to feel free!
I am glad you agree with what you wrote, because I believe what you wrote is a pisces that understands and appreciates emotions. To think that most people gain wisdom when we are stripped of our material desires, thus there is a need to experience a turmoil, followed by a transformation, followed by a rebirth. and I think most pisces get that, that death is not the end, but merely a new insight, and new life. after all, we’re all Antevasins, travellers, seekers of truth. Except the greatest journey is not really about travelling a physical journey but more about discovering the vast area withing ourselves. Like the death and new life cycle, human life is marked by cycles, that is why there are patterns, analogies - because they are all patterns! So I definitely agree with you about the judgement cycle - and I get what you mean about wanting to be at peace with everyone, but I learned recently - That to be self fulfilling - is not the same as being selfish.
And I agree, love isn’t easy. Well unconditional love isn’t really unconditional at all, it is about a person who fits our conditions so should probably call it accepting and all encompassing love lol! and I get what you mean, for the man I love, I would stay with him no matter what, in fact, even if we cannot be together, I would give up my heart so that he could live. I think, when we meet the person that looks at us in a way that we feel invincible, they are the person who brings out the best because we want to be that person, not just for ourselves for for them as well.
And thank you for caring, we met at a time when it was coming close the ending of both our college degrees, before we’re about to complete the chapter and open teh new chapter of our adult life, and I guess we both realised that being in a relationship then wouldn’t be so wise. Yet the depth of feeling, the bond we felt was so, magical. I never told him, but my ‘happy place’ or the place - if asked to visualise, would be our second proper catch up, because during that time, I remember he was smiling with that distant look in his eyes, and I remember thinking - I’d fly away with you, even if it meant that we disappeared together. I struggled, because for a while, I thought I had to end it with him, then I realise, why end something that is beneficial. Like the story of Eros & Psyche, after coming through the thought of separation, both parties come again together - but wiser and as different people than they were before, and yeh, for us, I am so thankful that we are still compatible. Without a doubt. My heart has been and always will be with him. To the moon and back (cheesy eh?
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Hope you are well Nick
September 19th, 2011 at 11:43 pm
I’m a Pisces “March 4th”
not to much of a people person, but I’m much like a chameleon and have great communication skills.
after the people person time which is always short lived in the back of my mind
“we are not buddies stay the fuck away from me” and I would just rather have that hi and bye type of thing. As far as my lovely ladies out there, My GOD, I love women with all my soul, but that other part of me is no whimp either. My Passion, Sensuality peaks into overload of which it is something that is uncontrollable within me, this only happens when I’m with a woman I’m falling in love with.
My problem is I can fall in love with a woman, and as soon as she does something to spite me, I will bring the issue to her attention but if she waves me off…”OH we got problems” then I’ll break up with her (Flirting with other guys) ERRRRRRRRRRR, this really urks the hell out of me. In a deep relationship I see only her, don’t want to be bothered with no other women, I walk right thru them. I have a severe mean streak Temper (but not towards my woman) towards outsiders of which I feel they are only out to try to destroy my foundation of which I have built (My Relationship). I’m not a Jealous or Insecure man, Ide rather dump her and find a new woman friend the next day before I get Jealous or Insecure. Ok I’m falling in love with a Scorpio woman, my issue is that damn it, I don’t want to be to needy nor do I want to be distant either. we get along so damn good, most of the time, only time we would have disagreements is when, I feel that another dude is disrespecting my territory and when I bring it to her attention and she comes with that shit “it means nothing” then I go after the dude and ready for warfare till the death. Or Then My other side will kick in and Just Not give a fuck. Meaning I ain’t going to stress what ever happened, then I’m blamed for not caring. My Love for a woman is beyond human comprehension. Women You have to understand us Pisces are good men, don’t burn us or there’s hell to pay. I’m more of a revenge type of Pisces
The Rabbit (whatever that means). My love for a woman is a gift, I can take a woman to the edge of the earth and we’ll both fall off and keep falling. Yes I am a Passionate Sensual lover of which I prefer but on the other hand, all my passion for her can drive me into overload and I can get Severely aggressive still with that passion. Ladies you have to understand as a Pisces we fight with ourselves quite a bit we live in 2 worlds the spiritual and the living. I have some esp in me and I can feel a woman’s shift change before she gets comfortable with acting different, I’ll say something before that shift change in her takes over, which will cause us problems in our relationship. Overall I’m the same person, I never change up. But on the inside I’m fighting what I’m truly feeling, But never show that to my woman…I just wait and see if she ever changes up on me, and if she doesn’t she has herself a great successful man “ME!”
September 20th, 2011 at 12:00 am
Overall I love my Scorpio woman
some people say that Pisces have no ambition
HAAAAAAAAA I’m here to tell ya, My ambition has me going so bad I can’t sleep
most nights, My ambition has became a reality, I have my own business and things are going we’ll Laughter warms me up Inside, and I love to make my Scorpio woman laugh
Stop Judging a person by horoscope, some things are true however, my sensitive side only comes
out to my Scorpio woman’s needs.
(None of that weak stuff neither of which you are so mislead about Pisces)
Everything else for outsiders I’m a vicious Piranha.
October 11th, 2011 at 6:02 am
I am a young pisces man dating a capricorn. And this comment is to the Geminian woman that wrote this article: You have done us justice with this summary (Most of us at least). I’ll be honest with you, it’s very difficult to describe a piscean man, because we are so different in different age groups, and even then we are just like chameleons. But very good description in general, this entry helped me relate to many things about myself that I keep rejecting, like how I am pessimistic and dislike myself and run away from myself sometimes. I also have a lot of warring aspects in me…like moon in sagittarius, rising virgo, mars in gemini, and venus in aries, so even though this description fits my emotional nature, it still falls a little short of what I’m really like past these influences. I think the more fire and air a piscean side, the more passionate and ingenious it makes him. But very good description like I said =)
October 24th, 2011 at 12:56 pm
OMG - Gemini woman here hit hard by a Pisces man 25 years ago and I still can’t forget him! Recently saw him online and it brought back all those memories/feelings. Very intense relationship that ended abruptly by him, caused by my insensitive behavior (at least this is what I think caused it - I still do no know to this day). Was left dazed and confused. Afterwards I tried contacting him several times to no avail (this was back in the day when there were no cell phones/e-mail and we lived about an hour apart from each other). Problem is I never got over him - I never had any closure. Tried contacting him recently (just said hi and asked him how he’s been, no mention of past) - again, no response. WHY DOES HE TORTURE ME SO??? WHY DO I STILL CARE??? After reading all the posts here, I’m beginning to understand why. I’m thinking about sending him a letter apologizing for my behavior but also thanking him for being a part of my life (he taught me about unconditional love and the effects my words/actions can have on another). IS IT WORTH THE EFFORT 25 YEARS LATER????
November 9th, 2011 at 11:14 pm
I am an escort. 6/10 of the men i see are Pisces these guys are cheaters and delusional. they are good
liers and can justify cheating on their wives. One man said he didnt even find his wife attractive,
totally selfish.
November 11th, 2011 at 1:25 am
I feel bad for anybody who has anything negative to say about us Pisces men. We are among the most selfless, pure people in the zodiac. I always strive to project an aura of love, empathy and compassion. I know some may read this and think, “wow, what a cheesy guy” but i am sincere in my thoughts and feelings. Pisces men are among the true rare finds of the zodiacal circle. Do not take us for granted or we will silently exit your life. Peace and blessings to all who may read this…
December 14th, 2011 at 2:07 am
@Brandon.
It has taken me several hours to read most of these posting. Skim over a few and intensely read others.. I take it that you are very young Brandon. Pisces men are very nice people. But if you are a pisces, then you know that there are two very different sides to a Pisces man. I am a capricorn and have been involved in 3 serious relationships with Pisces men. One of the pisces I waas married to…I was also married to a cancer and currently have been with this Pisces that I live with for five years, so I do know a little bit about the pisces man. Pisces males can be users, manipulators and wishy washy. on the flip side, they are sweet, caring and no one can relax a capricorn like a pisces does. I have learnt so much from my current pisces that I am with. Yea, I am a cougar, he is a young man and I am 11 years older than him but he loves his mothering that I give him. and I give him so much space, he hates it, I use that reverse shit on him. Ya know cappys can give ya that cold shoulder, when needed. But the things that he loves about me is that I am a trend setter, a go getter, I am humble, down to earth, and I freak him, I dominate him in the bedroom, even though sometimes, he shocks me… I can’t explain it..Im rambling now..it’s the best of times and sometimes the worst of times. All I know is my destiny is with a pisces man…Dont know why, it just is.. And a little note to all you pisces men who think that scorpio is your soul mate..hah!! u just havn’t found the right capricorn or taurus yet.. I think the earth signs are best for the pisces dude. ONE LOVE….BLESS
January 6th, 2012 at 1:05 am
idk im a pisces born feb 23 and my older brothers is too and we’re nothin alike he is nice sensitivity cares bout ppl feelings and me im cold heartless dont care who’s feelings i hurt they are meant to be hurt what doesn’t kill you makes you colder rite? but i might be so cold and heartless cause i seen my bestfriend get murder and lost the rest before we got out of highschool i dont like bein around alot off ppl cause 99.9 percent of ppl are fake but i feel ppl pain that is the only way we can learn to love and not hurt rite? im down to die for what i believe i actually like bein hated cause the more ppl that hate me the more happier i become im not feminine but im fashionably senstivity but to cool to care ik there’s a God but i believe everybody’s religious believes are right cause who are we to say they’re not when we dont know for sure im DEISM i believe in an all power i stay in my own world but i do smoke alot of kush so that could be a reason why i dont like ppl to talk down to me i got a short temper i stay frustrated but i smile cause my time is dated never know when showin my love might be related feelings i dont have none or atleast i say i dont have none because they are meant to stay on the inside not told to everybody so the can judge you off of em and what ive read bout pisces idk how im one because only a few thangs i fit see nobody has ever understood me cause i dont let ppl in love is meant to turn to hate and like three day grace song pain i rather feel pain than nothin at all but if you look at me you would think im nice i got warm eyes a soft smile but a cold heart an empty soul and a mind full of suicidal and homicide thoughts always quick on my toes never fold so there has to be more to the sign than what ive read if it’s true bout you if you’re born in the sign idk tho but if somebody can explane it to me im be very thankful so incase somebody does please and thank you
January 6th, 2012 at 1:40 am
i just seen one that said comin from an abusive childhood would give me the traits i have but i have never been abused i come from a wealthy family my daddy is a preacher very religious family money aint a problem ive been with it since day one but like my moms tells me i live to fast look at all my friends that has pasted im a very paranoid person i think everybody want to murder or rob me i stay stupid high but i dont do no other drug beside bud but weed really isnt a drug nobody has ever died from smokin it maybe wreckin or gettin murder after they blazed down i quit drankin and not everybody dranks or gets high cause of problems idk wtf everybody do it fo but i like bein high lmao
January 14th, 2012 at 1:10 am
@Travis.
Now dats real talk. You are one of the honest pisces out there. You keep it real. Pisces ppl talk about how sweet and nice they are, yeah, well not all the time. My pisces man can be vindictive. Yep, he has those beautiful eyes, and a calm face, nice smile but, at times underneath that, he can be mean. He has a temper too, a mean real bad temper, which very rarely comes to light. You see, me being a capricorn, I study him. Cause I had a failed marriage with a pisces before. I wasnt going let him get control of my heart this time, so I studied him. He hates that. He wanna be unique and change when I least expect it. But I am now able to control my capricorn emotions and just stand firm. Aint nothing really wrong with smoking weed, (I do not) but maybe you bored. Idk. dont wanna judge no one. Maybe you just putting up mountains cuz you don’t wanna feel. No one wants to feel pain, you know.
I gotta go process my thoughts right now…later….one love y’all
January 14th, 2012 at 1:12 am
Travis,
You sound like the character from the catcher in the rye, Holden Caulfield? Very famous profile. It is very interesting. I do psychology in university, its not like I know much but I know some haha. And I am pisces too so i guess I know where your coming from. How old are you? Even as you said your not much like the sign, I can still see myself in you, but when I was abit more unhappy, but that comes around all the time you know. And yeah I don’t do drugs because I know that it would be easy for me to get addicted haha. It still looks like you got that martyr complex everyone in our sign has. And when you say, “nobody understands me” and your utopian perspectives about everyones religions being basically the same is very pisces. But hey, I could just be searching for something and finding it you know what I mean? I’m born in february too, it seems like we’re different to the march ones. Worse off I’d say haha! More pisces. But you really sound like Holden, think everyones fake and hate everyone, but I can tell from what you’ve written that your still innately good, but its cool to think the way you wrote, thats what I think. Cause its like what I’m like haha, gee you really are similar to me, might be a weird to say but its true.
Hope your doing well dude, I know it is strange the way it is or the way we are, it truly is fucking strange to think the way you or we do. Whether or not you choose to accept that you’re alike one twelth of the people in the world, or even whether you actually are like these people (which I have a feeling you are), we’re still all human in the end, or even including animals and plants, all spirits in this world. Whatever you do, it doesn’t matter, your a passenger on a big fucking ride full of everyone and everything. It’s hard to explain, but you know? You’ll always have people behind and in front of you, always the ying and the yang, always the balance. My familie’s wealthy too, and nothing truly bad has happened to me too, but you know whats fucked up? I bet you wish something did, just like me. Cause whats the point of a life with no adversary?
Stay well dude, you got more brothers and sisters than you think.
January 20th, 2012 at 3:15 pm
HI everyone, I have a few questions I’m hoping you guys and gals can answer. I’m a Capricorn/Sun Taurus/Moon Scorpio/Rising dating an older Pisces/Sun Leo/Moon Taurus/Rising. Our relationship is wonderful, no complaints from me, but I’m wondering how I can handle him being so emotional? I get to the point sometimes where I want to be alone, or where I dont have much to say. But he takes it as that I no longer want to be with him and he starts to cry, and starts to apologize profusely. Even tho I tell him that he didnt do anything wrong (I warned him that I get this way where I need to regroup). I guess if you can help me out on what to really say to him to make him understand that I’m not going anywhere, or how I can really understand him emotionally, I’d really appreciate it. I feel like when he gets this way I’m really insensitive to how he feels, because I don’t understand him or his emotions. I don’t want him to think that I don’t care, because I do. I hope you all can help me out. -Thanks-
March 24th, 2012 at 3:53 pm
hey keshia
how are you? i do hope you’re feeling better. i’m now dating my pisces man, he too is a taurus rising. i have a leo mars, so i attract a lot of leo moons into my life. i do find that leo moons can be more ‘dramatic’ in their emotional displays & it can be very overwhelming, but the thing is i do find leo moons, tend to sorta consider how you’ve hurt them first, and then just put on a whole melodramatic performance, because leo moons are all abotu integrity … i normally let my leo moon friends know that i can understand how they feel, but that they’re should be ‘fair’ and listen and try to understand how i am feeling, and just state what you have to say here. i think communication is not emphasized enough in relationships. if you can’t say things straight up, why are you with them? i get that it can be hard during a leo moon’s domestic displays, they’re just animated people in general, but i strongly suggest you read up a bit more about leo moons. i am a pisces moon & it colours my intimate emotional reactions a lot, as does the fact that my moon is placed in the third house (house of gemini) thus, i have both gemini & pisces qualities when it comes to my emotional displays in an intimate setting. being a taurus moon, based on your rising, your taurus is probably based in yoru 7th house (house of libra) you probably want to just too keep things simple (good food, good company, good sex, good money) & keep thinsg real (taurus), and you’re happiest when you’re in a partnership (libra) that means being heard & having how you feel ‘picked up on’. key w leo moons is to calm them down by letting them know it is the ‘RIGHT’, ‘INTERGRAL’ thing to do, and then telling them you get their point of view, but you’d like to share yours and becasue they’re so ‘FAIR’ they should understand. Being a taurus rising too, your man’s sun will probably be in the 11th house too (house of aquarius) so they will be a pisces that lieks to be with freinds. he’ll get it if you tell him objectively, but in a nice, balanced & diplomatic way - which, being a taurus & libra moon (both ruled by venus) you should have no problem with. i do hope you’re okay. peace and love
March 25th, 2012 at 2:24 am
Of course. I post a comment when the thread goes dead.
April 11th, 2012 at 6:29 pm
I am an Aries woman thats dating a pisces man for about almost 6 months and its been the best few months of my life. im normally one for romantacism and i have never seen anyone so sweet before. He goes off into his own little world a lot, sometimes ignoring me compltely as if he hadnt heard me talk. on some of our dates i had to be the one to hold his hand and start off things. but since then he has been perfect. i honestly couldnt ask for anyone better