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The Pisces Man
The Pisces man is the dreamiest man alive! These men are highly spiritual in one way or another and can also be quite eccentric. I think that most women find it rather easy to fall for a Pisces male as they are highly perceptive, intuitive and even psychic, and let’s face it us girls love all that. Especially as we have a natural intuition that seem’s to have bypassed most men. So finding such a man is quite refreshing, and a little spooky too it has to be said!
In a relationship you couldn’t find a more gentle lover. The Pisces man will know how to touch you and make you feel like your floating on a cloud. Sex plays an important role in this man’s relationship too. They are always bonded spiritually to their partner and every time he makes love the bond get’s stronger. Eroticism is a part of the Pisces mans personality and therefore fantasies and love making is a way for him to express himself fully. I have had one relationship with a Pisces male. And for me (being a Gemini girl), it wasn’t too great.
I think it was the mood swings. The over sensitivity, and random depression that I couldn’t cope with. Obviously someone more compatible would be able to deal with these things and possibly love him for them. But they drove me insane! Mainly as I didn’t quite know what was going on in his head most of the time. It was quite nice that we both cried at sad bits in films though!! Don’t get me wrong, I know having a sensitive man is what a lot of women dream of, and for the Scorpio’s and Capricorn’s out there he will be fantastic. Just not perhaps the Gemini girls. (Or indeed boy’s). And it is nice to be able to have someone who you can sit with and talk with for hours about your inner most feelings. A lot of men you can’t, this one you can and for that reason alone he is great.
Being a very feminine sign can cause some issues with these men. They are feminine in the way that they can express emotion and their power to feel and be intuitive, but a lot of them are quite masculine as well, on the outside. But I feel you can tell a Pisces man because of this feminine streak. You certainly won’t find many, if any of them, at a football match with a can of lager in one hand and a clenched fist in the other waiting for a fight to start. Or on a builders site wearing a hard hat and covered in dirt. No, these men are a not at all like that. In fact a lot of Pisces don’t really like being a Pisces. I don’t think it is easy being a man who is so very sensitive and emotional. Perhaps it is a little easier nowadays than it would have been in the past, but still men are supposed to act like ‘men’. Whatever that means. This is where the depression can come from and angst. They are trying to run away from themselves.
Due to this weaker side in say half the Pisces men, they tend to go for women who are much stronger than themselves. And this will only lead to disappointment in the end.
What this man needs is a soul mate, someone who he can become united with both physically and mentally. I don’t think it is always so easy for the Pisces man, this world can be cruel and full of people that will lead you on only to drown you in dissapointment. For anyone out their who is with one of these dreamy men, let me know what your experience has been like, I’d be very interested to know!
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I am married to a Pisces(man) for 8 years.He is not spiritual at all unless you count Nascar as a religion.He doesn’t do anything for my Birthday actually he starts fights for every holiday I think to get out of giving gifst not just to me but our children too.Most of the time he is very womanish.He is more what did you do for me.He doesn’t have a loyal bone in his body.I am a Leo and to me RESPECT is very important not to mention a man needs to be a man.This doesn’t work with a Pisces man I am not basing this just on him I have known plenty soulless,unimaginative,disrespectful,perverted,and totally unromantic Pisces men.I thought eventually he would come around but after 8 years I’m done.I am fed up with this girly man and am off to just be happy with my sons that will grow up to be REAL men.If there are any Pisces men that aren’t like this then good for you and I am sorry that I have run into these type over an over again.They really don’t give justice to this sign.
Sorry i must also add he like to spend more time with the guys then with his wife and kids.Working on cars,watching football,and drinking beer.Then he wants to know why I am not longer interested in him in the bedroom.That seems to be the only thing he is concern with when he is home.I have been overly giving in this relationship I even went as far as opening a Cabinet business for him after he was repeatedly let go from jobs.Maybe he did bite off more then he could chew by being with a Leo we are very loving but when crossed or left alone too long that is gone and all that is left is bitter discontent.
see,Pisces is only compatible wid one and only one sign, and thts scorpio,coz they r both extremely emotional and since scorpio is erotic,pisces tends to be the part of her desires!and since pisces is vry short tempered,scorpio can only cool him down
I am a Pisces male. I feel sorry for the first commenter because the Pisces you married is not very Pisces at all. Like the post says I hate football, basketball even more, and I don’t very often drink. Most of my relationships have ended because I was either too attentive, too insecure not realizing when everything was alright and I should just back off, or because I got lost in a reality that my own head formed.
It’s very true that I am psychic but more so I’m empathic, meaning I draw on and share my own emotions with everyone around me. As a result it’s often difficult for me to go out in public because I become easily overwhelmed by the people’s emotions around me. I unfortunately have yet to come up with a successful for of shielding for the onslaught.
It’s also true that I am somewhat feminine. I am also partially ambidexterious so share both sides of the mind pretty equally. It’s very often difficult for me to know if a descision is made from logic (the more male aspect) of simply out of emotion. I have many times chosen the latter and really made my life more difficult for it.
Sometimes I think the overly attentive appearance of the Pisces comes (at least for me) the desire to help everyone around me solve their problems mostly because it can help me forget my own. It’s not a healthy approach but in many situations it’s an easy way for me to move past something. It’s sometimes why the Pisces will appear insecure, and most of the time when you’re lying to them saying “Every thing’s fine,” they know it, hence the bit about Psychics. We are the fish, we swim through everyone and everything, mind and soul alike.
I being a Gemini girl, dated a pisces man for three years. It just ended 3 weeks ago. I have not seen him for 8 months now because he moved to montana to find work, when it wasnt there, he moved to maryland where there are still few jobs. I just cant figure these guys out! untiul 3 weeks ago, he would call me 2-3 x a day, in the snow, freezing rain everything, claimimg he loves me and noone else. The problem started when he moved to Maryland, not much work there, and he was getting depressed. He doesnthave the money to move back here, so he started being very cruel, saying very hateful and hurtful things to me. He started cussing and flat out being rude. His drinking picked up, he is living with his best friend (who is a male) and has been for 7 months now. He hasnt saved any money, blames his mom for all of his problems and then breaks up with me because he thinks I am cheating on him! Which I am not! I have been totally faithful to this man for 3 years, turned down dates (and what comes along with the dates!) everything for this man. He told me its time to move on… Its been very difficult for me. I loved him with my heart and soul. I dont believe he has another girlfriend, his best friend told me he didnt, he just has alot of emotional problems going on right now, and his friend said he has started drinking more and more. Its like hes in a totally diffrent world. I still love him to this day, and honestly I think he does love me still. We never had any problems. I think it may be us being 1000 mies apart. That does put a blotch on things. The love, romance, and so much things we had in common, I miss so much. The drinking on the other hand I can live without, he is not mean when he is drunk, just annoying! I must add he did cut down to almost nothing on his drinking when he was with me. I belive I was his safe place, or should I say happy place. If he gets his life i order, do these guys go back to where they were happy? or is all hope lost. I havent been the same since we dont talk anymore. If anyone here has a similar situation, please comment.
Oh one more thing, you are right Tony you do absorb everyones feelings. Its amazing! But alot of times you will take things in internally and will literaly take what people say in the wronge way. I wouldnt mind dating another pisces man, but he must not be angry at his mother!
I am also a Gemini girl who dated a pisces a while back. He was sensitive, but tried to hide it by being logical and intellectual. He claimed to be sympathetic, but was really selfish since he cared way more about his own feelings than he did about mine. Also he was holier than thou, an criticised me a lot. I think with a lot of Pisces, they really do absorb other people’s emotions and reflect them back, so it is hard to tell if their feelings are their own or just what they think you want to see. I don’t even think they know! This can be very frustrating to someone who is more direct. It is true that is really hard to pin them down and they can break your heart because they seem like they care, but dont.
i’ve been with a pisces for tha last 5 years its been good and real i think that capricorns are good with this sign at all times…
geez lemme defend the fishies here!!! I’m a pisces girl and my older brother is a pisces. It’s amazing what a hurting the fish men can put on women. The truth is, most pisces men are NOT mean, selfish, or anything of the sort. HOWEVER, pisces are mysterious and live on earth and on neptune simultainiously. meaning, you will NEVER fully have a pisces, sorry to say, because a part of him will always belong to neptune, hence the “drawing within oneself” syndrome. to simpler signs, this may come off as selfish or mean, but it is a survival tatic the fish need because other signs tend to take take take from us (believe me you do). My older brother, once he hit a certain age, became very secretive and it was like living with a ghost. This is his nature. However, he is loving and nice. The loner mysterious things is more so in the pisces men then in the women. Basically, a pisces man needs a special kind of lover, one who can understand and appreciate this mystical, mysterious, and secretive yet very lovable and kind man.
Im a pisces male. I am aware very intiative of others, sincere and yes sensitive (hard to overcome, but try), along with other “traits”. Last relationship (5 yrs) with F Aries. Started fine, in middle communication just broke down. Do not tend to have mood swings. Yes do like some time to myself. Who doesn’t. Not generally insecure, but have been made to feel that way (lots of zings over a number of subjects).
Very romantic, etc. but do not live in dream world. Have been told great lover. So who is compatible with a male fish? Would be nice to actually know since not having find.
True, Pisces men tend to go for stronger women (that is, the straight ones), but they need one who is both strong and sensitive, like a Cancer or Scorpio. They need a woman who can “mother” them, if you will. They also have a tendency to not take good care of themselves, so they really need someone with the patience for all their needs, and it return they’ll get the most romantic and generous lover anybody could ever wish for. If you need a shoulder to rest your head on, they’ll be there, sharing that misery with you so it won’t be quite as bad.
I should know. My life’s full of Pisces, both men and women, and I have a good amount of Pisces in my natal chart as well so I have sympathy for them.
I am a pisces n a lot of my male friends r pisces. I dated a few pisces guys. They scare me bc they can finish my sentence even when I’m talking gibberish. As a pisces woman I am attracted to every sign.I try 2 stay away from leos bc they lie about everything. I know aries agree with me. The key 2 a pisces man is to always b in his corner even if he’s wrong. They r sensitive, secretive, mysterious and loners. One of the hardest thing 4 a pisces is to open up 2 a person. We will stay in the house all day even if the birds are chirping n its 80 degrees outside. We need time by ourself n the ppl around us has to accept that or it will never work. I live in my day dream and a lot of pisces guys do too.
I’m a Pisces man too. I doubt Vanessa will check back here to see if anyone has responded to her posts, but I feel for her. I was married to a Leo woman for three years. We just got divorced this year. Some of her complaints about her guy sound just like my wife’s complaints about me.
I think that the complaints about not being spiritual are the Leo woman’s perception not reality. Also, she complains about her husband being a girly man, which I encountered too. Being the people pleasing Pisces that I am I tried to adjust and be more manly. Reading through the lines I think her Fish did the same thing. NASCAR? Buddies? He seems like he is trying to be the stereotypical man for her.
I did the same thing, but forget NASCAR. I joined the US ARMY. I got into great shape and spent time with whatever Sagittarius or Aries guys I could, because I felt like maybe I could learn a thing or two from them and please my wife. While this plan makes sense in a sense… it was inherently flawed, because I’d be acting my whole life with this woman. Fish are supposed to be great actors, but ultimately I wouldn’t have been able to fake the funk through an entire marriage.
While I was doing my Army training my Lioness decided to have an affair and waited a little over ten months to tell me. A month later we were divorced. The funny thing is… Fish are psychic. When my Basic Training was over, my Leo came to my graduation and everything. When we were away on our own I got my first kiss after 10 weeks of separation. After that kiss I asked her if she had kissed someone else while I was gone. I knew she had, but she wasn’t ready to tell me yet. So, she lied to me then and for the next seven months… until she was finally ready to set everything straight. After living with all those lies for so long, she is a true believer that some Pisces are psychic, because I would always innocently ask the right questions at the right. I have enough self doubt that I believed her over my gut, but she knew all along that I was tuned into the truth.
I always hear that Scorpio is the best sign for me. I know so few Scorpio women it is sad, and I know the sign of just about everyone I know. The few Scorpio women I do know are either already taken or not very attractive to me.
Yes, if you are a Gemini you will not be happy with a Fish for long. Keep the guy fish as a friend and you’ll be OK. Maybe sleep with a fish sometime if you’re really curious about it. Other than that, just stay out of love with these guys.
Oh, Sheenz is right when she says that “the key to a Pisces man is to always be in his corner even when he is wrong.” I can’t tell you how true that is for me. I’ve taken notice of women or even fallen for some that I wouldn’t have normally simply because they were in my corner one too many times.
I think this is one of the reasons I like my Leo so much too. She was super loyal and it played out just like this. She was also gorgeous and brilliant though, and I am as superficial as Pisces come.
Hello everyone,
Thank you all for your comments on this post. It is all very interesting indeed. Pisces men really do need to be with the ‘right’ person for them to be able to be fully themselves. And yes, many of them live a lie in some hope that they will please others and be more ‘acceptable’, sad but true. I only know 1 Pisces man who is happy with his lot, and that is because he has fought to live his strange dream and is very succesful in his field (with his Scorpio wife behind him). My ex Pisces, like you David, joined the Army and now lives in Germany. He hates it, I know he does, but was pressured into it really. I love hearing from Pisces as I think many people find it hard to understand them, so it’s great to see Pisces men here having there say!
Power to the Fish!!
Love & Light
Becky
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Met this gentle Pisces guy last September and we’ve now been going out for 7months. Always wondered whether he would be there for me because his happiness seemed dependant on how I treat him. I am a cancer and I miss my fellow cancer who used to be there 100%.Anyway, I like the way this Pisces treats me, it reminds me of the cancer I used to have. He is very gentle and I love it but an unsettling feeling is that it all seems on the surface. Also he seems so easily influenced and a strange thing is that when he comes under pressure he crushes and I get scared because life is difficult enough, can I rely on such a person through thick and thin. What happens when I grow old or fall ill or get involved in an accident. The last Valentine was the first Valentine I didn’t enjoy - we argued - I couldn’t believe it. We went on holiday and he was very argumentative. Now I find out that he gets depressed. How do I deal with a depressed boyfriend. My birthday was last week and he is away recovering from depression. I tell him I understand but for the first time in a relationship, I am looking at finding someone else because I don’t think I can do a relationship on my own. I don’t think I can make him happy and I am scared of ending up as depressed and insecure and wrapped up in the past and wishing for what is not in the now like he does. The alternative is stick it out and hope he finds that I am enough, always as I am???
Hi Lilly,
Pisces will always need you and rely on your for support. They can suffer with depression, this is due to their over sensitive and intuitive characteristics. He will need a lot of support as Pisces can suffer from never feeling adequate.I am sure that he finds you enough but it may be that he worries that his ways are leading you to walk away from him, and he would be right!! Remeber these people are very intune and if he feels that your backing off then he may act a bit odd. On the other hand I never think anyone sould stay where they don’t feel it is working. But if you are going to end things make sure you tell him sooner rather than later as he will know something is wrong and will be waiting for you to tell him so. You two could be happy it may be that you just need to find yourselves, take some time out perhaps and talk.
Good luck
Love & Light
Becky
Appreciate all the feedback. Seems have been not with proper sign all these years. Cant recall anyone either Scorpio, Cancer etc. Agree we fish know when something not right. On flip side, thought everyone needed support from their other half. Do know my shortcomings and work on them to improve me, for me.
SC….FYI have always been there 100% plus for any woman in all manner. And never ever had a problem opening up. No way will it be different the in next relationship.
Hi Becky,
Thanks for feedback. My dear Pisces boyfriend tells me today that he misses me and cannot wait to see me and hug me. I say I miss him too but part of me is secretly holding back because I am not sure of what he has in store. Is he acting up, I wonder because when I am the happiest he always finds a way to overturn my mood. So still love him but watching out. He says he is dealing with the way he is and is working on changing and finding a fundament as he finds it hard to make decisions. So is he with me because he cannot make a decision to leave? How flattering! I know he loves me but sometimes I can vow that he doesn’t realise my value. Contrary to what I wrote yesterday, I have decided to try and stick out this relationship while protecting my feelings for a while. If things become very unstable and I feel my character is changing negatively, I will walk with a clear conscience. Before that I will tell him why I am leaving- I pray it doesn’t get to that because without me he will suffer and I might (for a while) too.
Hi,
Well Im another pisces male (Feb 28). I can say is all pisces men are not similar yet we have some common characteristics. Sensitive, Reformers, Non-decisive, Passionate, Intellectual, Sexual, Loners, Knowledgeable, Emphathic to those who we care about, Eccentric, Good-talkers, Calm, Mostly passive, Mysterious, Secretive, Comical, Satirical, and Others.
In my experiences, I usually draw attention of women because of my cheerful, energetic, sensitive, mysterious, psychic, and easy to talk to attitude. However, my love and passion for independence has always kept me distant from both men and women. I never had any serious romantic relationships with women(although I adore them in general and when I like someone I forget their flaws- which is wrong) because I need space and time for myself for for my creative endeavours and dreams. I love my privacy. For me, women are first friends and later lovers.I prefer honestly and originality in women with no pretensions (phony type). We pisces seek the truth.
I totally believe in self-reliance in all its dimensions (a loner, one can say)and don’t make expectations from people. I don’t borrow money; don’t ask professional favours; don’t want people to emotionally massage me or don’t massage others(straight forward in dealings. for such behaviour, I have paid a price). However, I have noticed that people (some other signs i am/was aquainted with like aquarius, cancer) have a high tendency to depend on us (taking, taking and taking) which makes you feel sick at times because of disbalance in the relationship. We don’t hate to give but excess of everything is too bad for us pisces.
When we are tired of relationships, we have the habit of slipping away. Exciting things draw our attention and consistent change is a must. Monotony kills us. We become lazy if we are not interested in something. We do not obey any rules and regulations, have a mind of our own.
If someone is truly interested in us (soulmates), we can go a long way for them. Lastly, not all pisces males are feminine. Its their passive behaviour and sensitivity that makes them look feminine. They can be very strong from inside even more than fire signs due to their practical nature of life besides their dreaming.
Hello there,
I just thought I would share with you my observation. Pisces people write the longest comments! I love it!
Also, Aly, I have to say that for a sign which you say the people of which are not all similar that is rather a long list of similar character traits! lol
Some people find that they are not exactly like their Sun sign, this is due to their chart having influences in other areas.
Becky
x
Hi there im a pises male ,, Well there are different types of pisces , once calm other is biting . But i agree on most is how each of us have been brought up . Me hell is all ive lived for a long time .. So i got married at 20 wife is 15 and a cancer .. everythign went fine but moodiness and ignorance led us apart . After a years i got involved with a aries it lasted like 6 weeks .she hate to talle me anything and does what she thijnks best and when i ask her where did you go ,, she says thats not your buissness ,, so that went overboard . Yeah true i always have 1 hand in my pocket and i sense lorts of vibes around ,, and think pretty fast what the other party are thinking . Now im single but am having a Leo on a internet dating realtionship ,, but we are doing okay and its been only 4 days but we went through hard times ,, so maybe it will work ,, I dont know .. Yeah im very very emotiional and just too caring,, true i sometimes dont want to be a pisces cause tears roll down faster then any sign and you should undertand we are the last sign that consists of all signs ,, and thats quite a lot to coope with . So Gl getting a pises male or a female cause its perfect.
Hi there im a pisces male (09),, Well there are different types of pisces , once calm other is biting . But i agree on most is how each of us have been brought up . Hell is all ive lived for a long time .. So i got married at 20 wife is 15 and a cancer .. everything went fine but moodiness and ignorance led us apart . After years i got involved with a aries it lasted like 6 weeks .she hate to tell me anything and does what she thinks best and when i ask her where did you go ,, she says thats not your buissness ,, so that went overboard . Yeah true i always have 1 hand in my pocket and i sense lots of vibes around me,, and think pretty fast what the other party are thinking . Now im single but am having a Leo on a internet dating realtionship ,, but we are doing okay and its been only 4 days but we went through hard times and talk like 4 hours and more ,, so maybe it will work ,, I dont know .. Yeah im very very emotiional and just too caring,, true i sometimes dont want to be a pisces cause tears roll down faster then any sign and you should undertand we are the last sign that consists of all signs ,, and thats quite a lot to cope with . I do agree we just need the right soul mate , and when we really have felt dropped we most of the pisces tend to drink and make there illusionary world to escape .. That sometime can be a belly smacker . And another thing about Pisces you should know , were very strong the body can decay but the soul wont.
Becky,
There are zillion characteristics in pisces males that are different from each other. I wrote a few common. Let me tell you, I have an aquarius friend (male), considered to be cool,
such an emotional wreck when it comes to love that makes me feel sick.
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I think, we can’t judge people based on astrology. I think it only tells you few things about personality type but not the whole person. As a pisces male, I had lot of characteristics of the sign as other guys have mentioned but as Im growing older (30 plus), I no longer have those signs. It all started when I identified my negatives (emotionalism, sensitivity, emphatic behaviour to everyone) and learnt to use my mind and heart. If one can use the mind more (rational thinking), there is a good probability to change your personality type. As a Piscean, I think from the mind than heart; am logical, like facts, statistics, and reasoning; although, I have great interest in poetry, music, movies, arts and cultures for relaxation of mind.
By using mind, I have noticed that you can’t be deceived, easily led, fooled in love, dominated, being made a fun bag, being lied to, intimidated, and blah blah blah. Being a so-called sensitive pisces, I can kick any one’s ass (sorry for using the word) not for the sake of it but to tell people “don’t try to tread on me” even with my friends and family.
Not confused as a pisces, I like it because it has given me originality, creativity, imagination, exploration, details, multiple-interests, knowledge, to examine things which others can’t.
Too long. We can enhance the use of your minds. It REALLY has GREAT POWERS beyond emotionalism and sensitivity.
Bye
Aly
Aly, I really like your comments! It is encouraging to know that someone thinks that way! In addition to what you wrote, I think emotionalism and sensitivity in itself is not bad - human beings need it. It becomes a problem when it gets in the way or in other words, it begins to work against you and be destructive towards you and others.When it distorts your vision and you loose sight of reality.
Hi Aly,
I have to say that I agree with you. I believe firmly though that by using astrology to get to know certain characteristic traits that this can help you to control the way you are. I had a real hard time when I was younger (I am a Gemini) I was so sensitive and rebellious etc. Once I discovered that it was who I was then I could move onward and grow further as a person. Life experiences alter us and help to make us who we are for better or worse, but my belief is that astrology is our basic personality that we can use to guide us throughout our life.
Love & Light
Becky
Thank you for your interesting comments!
Thank You Lilly and Becky
Love and all the best to all Pisces including Dear Albert (Einstein) for using his mind.
Ciao
Aly
I’m a 16 year old aquarius girl, this time last year I dated a 15 year old Pisces guy, but he had no life (loved sex, women, drugs, and anything bad you can think of!)
As a idealist I looked over his flaws!
I broke it off, then got back together, then broke it off for good!
I liked spending time with him, he was sensitive, gentle, and affectionate, but again he was a loser, and was using me for sure!
I have been with my Pisces man now for over two years, and I love him heart and soul.Becky hit us right on the head in her post on Taurus and Pisces-we do have a magical romance so much in fact that my Pisces proposed ring and all(which he had been saving up for for a LONG time) after being together for a year (but I was only 17 and he 19)!!!! We have agreed to wait until we are both done with college( where he claims he would like to propose again) at which point we can truly be “engaged” and set a date.
Becky was also right about it being easier in this match if the Taurus is male. My Pisces’ feminine side does drive me crazy at times, especially having grown up with a father who is the ultimate “man’s man”. It mostly bothers me because I feel that as the female I should be the more sensitive one,and I hate hurting him because of my lack of sensitivity. The longer we are together the better we understand each other, but still, my Taurus nature makes me jealous and I want to be the perfect match for my Pisces and care for him as well as any Capricorn or Scorpio.Becky, can we make it work as well as one of those matches?
In answer to those who have a bad experience with Pisces-something else must have affected his personality. The one I call my own is indeed nearly psychic to my needs and thoughts which is almost scary (my mother can’t even read me that well!) He is sweet and kind to everyone,and he has an adorable quirky nature that he tries not to let anyone see. He will help anyone who really needs it.. Kids cling to him. He is always patient and understanding, and he must be really bullied before saying something negative or demeaning to his partner.In my experience no man is more respectful and nurturing of his lady than a Pisces man. This is the guy who will encourage you to follow your dreams, and then support you all the way through with a shoulder to cry on whenever you need it.
Want to thank Aly for comments. Reminded myself of a number of things I had forgotten and I needed and need to overcome. These either created, contributed or perhaps caused relationship issues in past which cost me. Spent a lot of time figuring out which and have been using my intellect to work on to overcome. So far all working, but take it day by day.
Angela’s comments also rang true, in that have experienced something that had altered my pisces personality. As we get older events occur that impact negatively. Not a good thing when your a pisces since tend to hide within ourselves, rather than deal and work thru them.
So at this point, working on overcoming parts of my persona that should have been doing all along.
Do have one question to all. Anyone have input between either female scorpio/male pisces or female cancer/male pisces? Pro’s/cons etc?
Thanks Vern. I have to add a few things about pisces men. They are the most misunderstood creatures on this earth due to their sensitivity, passiveness, non-confrontationist and emotional behaviours.
In fact, we are liked by other zodiacs ‘mainly’ because of our non-confontational, kind and sympathetic behaviour (when we act as Dolphins using our hearts). That’s why we also tend to be taken for granted.
However, when we use logic, rationale, and eloquence (which we pisceans are very good at provided we use it), we can floor any one to the ground when the most stubborn ones (act as Sharks). This is where the problem starts. People, generally, don’t want us to be Sharks since they mostly want to see pisces as funny, jovial, kind, playful and condsiderate people (like Dolphins). I have witnessed this with a lot of my friends (ex-friends) including aquas, libras, cancers, and scorpios.
Pisces have exceptional minds unlike others provided they use them appropriately and don’t waste them on just day-dreaming.
Aly, Piscean-OX
becky, do you have any advise for a pisces male and aries female?? we do fight alot but its because either i say something that pisses him off (and sometimes i say things just to see his reaction, kind of a reassurance thing, just so i know he cares :/),or because he overreacts about something, or just anything in that nature. he is very, very protective and also thinks he’s the one in charge, i think its funny so i don’t give him much grief about it because i do what i want, but not to the point where it’d upset him or anything, but we do bicker alot. trust is a big thing, guess that stems from my insecurities but i’m working on it by not overthinking things, i often times listen to the tricks of the mind so i guess alot of our problems come from that, but he’s insecure. he tells me i can’t have guy friends, or a guy friend he doesn’t know anyways, but i’m ok with that (even though it probably shouldn’t be like that), because i don’t wanna do anything that makes him uncomfortable and i try to keep him happy, but only if he’s doing the same for me. we’ ve been on and off for three years but i love him with all my heart and soul. i’d do anything for him, but i want the fighting to stop. i want to keep our relationship ON.. no more off. that’s all i could ever ask for, ya know?
THANK YOU!
Hello ppl or whoevrs reading this…but i a cancer female and i have been with a pisces male for 2.4yrs now and began as bestfriends im not surprised we got together we were always drawn to each other…altho i must say i didnt notice him in the eginning his freinds..but not him..o well.. .to late now…but yea just abt evrything i have been reading sounds abt accurate a pisces male DOES NEED a motherly girlfirend good things cancers are in the fourth house of family etc. etc. cause they need to be takjen care of altho the pisces man does do half of what he needs to on his own he also tends to go towards wht he wants and leaves the business behind.. which is fine as long as its done later which is where the motherly part comes in with the reminding and helping…and the thing is altho he may never fully say it he really and truly appreciates what you do for him or at least my pisces does..his told me he loved a girl before me she was a pisces…but i am his true love and he said it out of nowhere…just like this one day…he was so mad because he parenst kept baggering him with “reality”…and i dont like to see him upset but anyways i gave him a long hug and long kiss and he outta know whre jus said u kno i love you rite…lol i dunno its like u kno he loves you but his randomness makes you really kno…he says im random too i pop up with long love notes and stuf n hes all shocked…i dunno im just the right cancer and woman for him as hes the right pisces and man for me…im extra patient for that is what he NEEDS.. as he is in return becuase hello imma crab i close my feelings…but no more…n i dunno we have a very nspiritual realtionship…lol i dunno i suppose hes found his soulmate, as i believe ive found mine…….and u kno really what i came on here for was to comment on how someone on here said ONLY scorpios are compatible…uuuhhh no i mean scorpios are pretty good but they have the shortest patience i know becuase of my mom and friend and they need the same amount of attention the pisces will be lookin for so in a realtionship i really dnt think they needa be fightin each other ovr attention…but anyways cancers are good…we might throw reality at ‘em sometimes but hey there needs to be balance n thts whut i do at least throw in a little business n a lot of pleasure n fantasy ..thats just how i am anyways…hey imma cancer the most adaptable so ive read…um capricorns are good i remember one of my pisces friends went out with this capricorn and it was pretty good but capricorns arent abt fantsy at all really they have all the fun in the world once their chores are down…i say the most responsible or at least my friend was ….but none-the-less…id like to think of it as water goes with water creating an extra large wave of love lol or at least for me…not sooo much with fire..( could work tho but id think itd be hard….um water with earth ( like the globe itself or like planting a seed u need earth and water to help it gro) besides the arguing id say pretty good…water and air i dnt thnk so ( dont believe theyd evr really meet eye to eye.)
*~his gurl~*
Hi Becky,
I am a gemini women, dating a picses man, but he is on the cusp of aries, he totally disagrees and doesnt think he has any of the picses qualitys, although i see so many. I think he is trying to hide the fact that he is so sensitive. He is very Romantic, very intune with my emotions and my needs. I have never met a guy that knew my emotions better then myself! but he has some really bad quality’s as well, for instance he always thinks he’s right, and always feels the need to correct my mistakes. Which i do not like at all. He treats me like a child at times, telling me that i need to learn patience or how to listen. Me being a gemini, patience is one thing i have always lacked. Are those bad traits also pisces traits?
Thanks,
Bridget
i am a scorpio currently dating a pisces guy and we get along great. Its like he knows me and how i feel without me saying a word and me vice versa. He does have a short temper and one of the previous posts stated that only a scorpio can calm him down - thats true with him. as soon as he gets heated up whatever i say is just “yeah ur right” and he’s good again. i like my pisces guy!
well i’ve think i met my dream man who is so caring and loving it just thrills me .. though i try to smile only when i turn away from him now.. he knows my feelings for him. but anyways i’m a capricorn. and i love my pisces babe. we had recently seperated and now talking again because i think we are so into each other. its addictive!
umm but during the time away from him, i realized how much i loved making him laugh and how he’d brighten my day with a few words. its hard to express my feelings verbally to him which is a good thing because he could feel pressured. i know his flaws and he knows mine as well.
in summary, capricorn loves pisces and pisces loves capricorn, deeply and so sweetly.
Hi Becky,
I seem to like your blog. Therefore, I am here again. Astrology is so interesting and great fun. Anyways, I got a detailed natal chart of mine with various influences on my Pisces (Sun Sign), one being Aquarius in Venus. Searched on it and found our really awful things about people with Venus in Aqua particularly in terms of love matters (detached, lacking emotions, take centuries to propose, non-expressive, friendship over love etc.). A lot of them infact appear to hold relatively true.
Can I change my Venus from Aquarius to some other sign, Hehehe. Sorry, I would appreciate your good explanation about people with Venus in Aqua.
***As far as your dimpled chin question, a know a few Aqua men, I tried very hard to see it but sorry they are all bearded.
Ciao
Aly, The Water OX
Hi all,
I have read interesting comments about the pisces man. I am pisces too (19th mar). I found myself extremely imaginative and sensitive as well. But one thing need to mention that I can control my emotion and act with any type of person while required to convince. I always try to learn the personality from the best person I meet and push myself to be like that. Last few months I was very depressed for some reason. I get over it very quickly and not feeling depressed anymone when the same situation arise. Rather I take them very positively and go beyond to find out the best solution.
I have dated with girls from both Aries and Sagitarius. Both of them I found very agressive, confident and determined which I quite liked and try to follow the attitude that I dont usually have personally.
At this moment I am still not sure who could be the perfect woman for me. Any suggestion about other sings would be great.
Tanveer
Hi i’m a female libra.
First forget any typing error, because my first language is not english.
I have read that libra/pisces is not a good match for a long time relationship. At the moment i’m head over heals for a pisces man. There are a few stones in my way with this pisces. First it’s the age difference (i’m 25 he’s 40), he is kind of my mentor and boss, he have divorced twice (with 3 sons as a result); in the other side i’m not very experience (something that frightened him).
I find him so stimulating, soo sexy (mostly for his brain), intelligent, well spoken, mysterious. He’s constanly describing he’s ideal woman and he describe me!!!. I’m a typical libra, talkative, love the glamour, see both sides of everything,indecisive and all the other stuff they say. He is totally attracted to me as i am to him. But i don’t know what to do. I feel this connection, actually everybody feels the connection and the sexual tension at work. When we look into each others eyes we lose ourself and left this world no matter where we are and who is with us. He drives me everyday to my home (is a 5 min car ride) and he goes around the city just so we can talk a bit more (and what conversations we have!!!). Right now we’re friends no more than that. But the attraction it’s both ways, i guess me being the typical libra who have to weight everything in and him being indecisive as well is hard to give the first step. And there’s the divorce and age thing to.
Anybody have a suggestion? I’m so confuse.!!!
Hey everyone…. I am a 26 yr old scorpio woman and i’ve had an experience with a pisces man that has literally shaken me to my core.
We met, he pursued, I avoided, but something had me going….we kept bumping into each other. fate? dont believe it in. he kept pursuing, so i gave him the time of day….he starts calling me ALL the time…learning to TEXT cuz i love it…wanted to see me ALL the time…we started to connect like theres was no tomorrow….the kissing was insane…everything was there…we were on the same page no matter what book we were reading..he felt it…and so did i…then there was intimacy, once…it was like nothing id ever experienced…everything was good……then a few weeks later …he told me he was going thru financial strife…literally, big $$ problems in is business…he started gettin distant…and i started running after him. long story short…he totally changed on me..he would call every ‘now and then’ no more msgs…and I even sensed hostility sometimes when i probed why he was acting evasive…we were never in a solid relationship..more like dating…so then i thought maybe its cuz he decided he didnt want ’seriousness’…but the things he would say to me before…like he was ‘laying out the boyfried platform’…and he was totally into me…and now its all gone…matter of fact i hardly even hear from him..thats it all of a sudden…i still dont hate him even tho my friends do…i was tooo connected to him and miss it..esp after the longest relationsip of my life was with a unexpressive, self-centred unappreciative, impossible to please Virgo man. Any advice folks? what about you picsean men out there? what is UP with him!!!!! how do i know if he didnt he lose interest? (IN A SCORPIO??)
pls help….cuz i CAN NOT STOP thinkin about him!
Hi,
It’s true that Pisces are very caring and loving. But only with good people he find. Otherwise, they become very rude and can do anything to get rid of dislikes. Don’t even bother to sacrifice anything.
Tanveer
can anyone help me!
Hey.
Im very confused.
Ive met a pisces male (26), and I think im falling in love. Its very unlike me to fall so quickly, weve been dating just shy of 3 months.
Before we dated we chatted extensively for hours phone calls, msn etc.. to say there was always a connection frm the beg, sounds cheesy but its true. On our first date something just clicked, there were so many little conincidences, he could finish my sentence, or wed say the same thing at the same time. He held my hand, we kissed for the whole date, this date was 13 hours, it was like we knew each other all our lives..
He texts me every day, we talk every day, sometimes twice 3 times a day. The dates have got better and better, in the first two months alone, we spent long weeekends together, round each others houses, which i guess was quite heavy but he wanted it and so did i.
We talked about the future, going on holiday together, he took me to meet his friends, his brother, and his father. I never asked where we were, i just wanted to go with it. I guess we resumed a sort of boyfriend girlfriend relationship, but i didnt want to appear needy or ask where we were going, i wanted to leave it up to him.
Then at the 3 month mark i spent last friday-sunday with him at his house. it was lovely. something changed, he held my hand in the car and looked at me, and i saw in his eyes this look of pure adoration.
Anyway this week, somethng changed. He text me and said sweetheart i cant go on holiday with you, wed arranged a few days away.. then he said something wasnt right and we needed to talk.
So i asked him was he ok, and he sounded pankcy anxious, said what was happening with us, we were acting like boyfriend and girlfriend, and he thinks im perfect, never met anyone like me before he wants a good lady like me in his life, but somethings niggling at him, he feels sad, but he doesnt know why.
I kept asking what it was, was it me? He said it wasnt me, im the best thing in his life, but he said he wants to be friends first. He says he wants to see me as often, spend weekends together, sleep together, just see each other, basically the same as we were, but he seems so scared abou t a label! I said i didnt care about a label, i never pressured him in to a bf/gf type relationship, he said he knew that, id been cool, it was just him.
He said hed never been away on holiday with a girl before, and he hinted in the past that when he has something good, he has the tendency to f*** it up. I reminded him of that, he was quiet. we spoke for two three hours, i got upset, i was frustrated and confused, i hated the label he was putting on us. I cried on the phone, he felt bad, i said i couldnt help that there was something wrong with me, i was taking it personally.. he kept saying it wasnt me..
Anyway, since then hes been caling me, texting me, he wants to spend next weekend together, but i feel anxious. I dont know why that call had to happen. I still feel like there are unanswered questions, i spoke to him today and said im too anxious now, and up and down, and perhaps we should just leave things, so i wont be hurt. He replied and said “no no, i miss you, i really like you, i just dont know how. Plse dont do this, and stop overthinking things”
So we are back to this friends thing, whatever that is.
P.s im a libra girl, (28) I think hes going to break my heart. I feel more for him than ive ever felt for anyone.
I just dont know what to do or how to act anymore.
any advice would be appreciated.
what’s the deal with libra women falling for pisces man??? They mess up our head!!!
Hi,
I have been with a Pisces man for over 13 months and he has become very distant with me.
Another point is that I’m 10 years older than him. He’s 20 and I’m 30 years old.
I met him when he was 19 and I was completely shocked to learn his age because he was probably one of the most maturest men I have ever met. He was deep, intuitive, and reflective along with communicative and funny.
But when I learned his age, I immediately said that we could only be friends.
I’ve dated only older men in my past, usually 10 years older and the thought of dating a younger guy was unheard of. I guess that’s why I was quick to reject him, just because of the age difference.
But he kept on persisting to meet with me as friends and I reciprocated. Each time I saw him, I grew more fond of him. I liked him for he was and the age difference started not to make a difference to me.
Finally after five months of becoming friends and hanging out, we got intimate with kissing.
And he wasn’t after sex, I wanted it and he didn’t want to because his reasons were that “he didn’t want thing to change with us.”
Was this really possible to meet a younger guy whose main objective wasn’t to have sex right away?
But I respected it and we continued to date each other regularly.
But like what the statement says that you wrote, “they are emotional, sensitive, and imaginative.”
He is the purest Pisces man…and I also read what another woman wrote about how her pisces husband rather go out with his friends and drink beer. My pisces man is like this, his friends are more important then being with me.
He lives in his own world and I told him before that I read about pisces man online and how they live in their own worlds, and he confirmed that it was true.
He is unmotivated, running from the world, and is sensitive to anyone’s comments towards him.
I’ve tried my best to excude my confidence on him and it’s worked alright.
I’m a Cancer woman and apparently Pisces is my match..we’re both dreamy, imaginative, intuitive, emotional, sensitive….
But lately, when real life situations comes into play: getting a job, finding work, helping me move to a new flat…he seems to disappear.
On August 1, 2008 I moved to a new flat and he agreed to help me but we got into a small argument before my move because I was a little stressed and he was saying he was sick with a pain in my back, I got angry at him for breaking his obligations with me.
I started to feel the imbalance and distance when I moved to my new flat because now he was no longer wanting to visit me, I had to initiate everything.
Then on August 10, 2008 I met him at the Red Bull Airplane show and when we were talking about our relationship, he blurted out that “he wasn’t my boyfriend.” I got really mad at that and was angry for the rest of the day.
Then last week on Friday, August 15, 2008 he got a temporary job cleaning houses and public places and he was tired. I met him for a beer and invited him to my place for dinner, he said “no” because he had another job assignment to go to. So I opted for Saturday evening and he said “yes.”
On Saturday, August 16, 2008 afternoon, I had a feeling I should’ve called him to confirm our dinner plans before I went out to the market to buy the food. And when I called him he was moody and said “I don’t feel like eating.”
That upset me even more. I just freaked out on him. I told him that “yesterday you agreed you would come to my apartment for dinner, and now you’re saying no because you don’t want to eat?”
And he kept patronizing me saying “Why are you forcing me to eat, when I don’t want to eat?”
And I started crying and said “You’re missing the point, it’s not about the food, it’s about the obligtion. You agreed with me and now you’re saying “No?”
And he said “I said that yesterday because I was tired from work.”
Then his story went to “We’re only friends.”
And I said, “So if you are my friend, why would you hurt me like this?” And he just couldn’t get why I was hurt and crying.
I was upset and yelling things at him saying that I’ve felt this imbalance between us and I’ve felt like he has been pushing me away.
He then just said “it’s the 10 years.”
And I asked him “What?” and he said “It’s the 10 years between us.”
That made me angrier and all my trust was thrown out the window?
Why now would he bring up the age difference? After 13 months of dating each other. He introduced me to his family and I even went out with them a second time to meet his Grandfather.
I think he’s using the 10 year age difference to run away from his responsibilities with having a relationship. He’s just too young to commit and like what it states here, he is running away from himself. He suffers from lack of motivation, depression, and anger.
I am just really hurt that he would say that to me, after I’ve learned to not care about his age by giving him a chance.
We haven’t spoken since this conversation and I assume that it is over.
What should I do?
Thanks for reading this long passage.
Hazel L
To Carolina,
I read what you wrote, I had the same deal happen this past weekend to me with my pisces man. The label thing….It caught my eye, b/c my pisces boyfriend is afraid of the same thing. And like you, I never put pressure on him about it. I’m 30 years old, I have been through 3 major relationships in my life, one that was almost 7 years on and off and one that I was going to marry but didn’t, because I didn’t love him anymore, and the third a serious relationship that lasted 2 years.
So now, i’m totally over labels. It’s what you have with each other that is important to me.
So this label thing..I think these men are just afraid of committment and totally letting themselves go.
I’m sorry you feel this way, I too was upset and crying on the phone when this happened on Saturday, August 16, 2008 and he said the same thing too “I like you, I really do.”
And for the past few days, we haven’t spoken.
And I too don’t know what to do anymore as well.
Hope you read this, just hang in there. I’m trying too as well.
hey Hazel i read your post, and just wanted to say i empathise.. although your relationship has been longer, so it must be much much harder..
I related to the points of depression, short temper, and lack of motivation.
he gets like this, but more with situations not me, he says i make him feel better, and comes to me for a hug when hes stressed with the weather, or on the road with other drivers lol
as quick is he gets in a strop hes out of it, but sometimes i wonder when we wake up if hell be happy, or in a mood..
He has these ideas, and i love his story telling, i could listen for hours, but every day its another idea or dream and although its wonderful he has these dreams, its all quite fickle really but he accepts that and oh how we laugh!
my pisces has slowed down with contact since “we are friends comment 6 days ago.. but hes still in contact every day, and he calls me every other day. this morning he woke up and called me very early which suggests he is constantly thinking about me.
We are seeing each other this weekend, which im so looking fwd to, but i invisage the same.. perhaps in the future, ill see he will let me down with dates etc.. im very intuitive. I dont want it to get to that stage.
Im riding it through because i think he needs time, and wants to grow and get to know me more, but i know i could be in for a big dissapointment. I dont think this man wants to let go, even when ive given him the oppurtunity he freaks out and says he must keep seeing me.. I think they can carry on for ages with no label, and they are content this way.
I will disagree on one point. He has friends, but hes bored of them. They dont go out, they sit round each others houses play computer games, go down the river etc.. he says hes bored of all that, and wants to spend time with a lady. I know that the choice came between spending time with his friends and me at the weekend, hed always choose me..
But i identify with so much, the freaking out bit etc..
i dont know what to say, the only thing ive brought from this, is when i chill out and accept it, hes must more forthcoming. Also sounds silly, but speaking to these guys in a softly spoken reassuring way seems to really help them- kind of like mothering them.
Ive never shouted at my pisces man, was too upset, but i was rational and very soft with him and he seemed to respond very well to this..
I cannot give any advice, coz im stuck and baffled too. But all i would say is talk it over, try not to ask too many questions and be calm and reassuring and pull back a bit, and i think he will come back.. I dont think these men ever dissapear for good, i think they swim a way for while..
Good luck.
I am a gemini woman and I have dated 2 pisces men.
The first pisces most obvious trait was his arrogance. He was so arrogant, that it came off as plain egotistical and rude to my friends and most people who had random run ins with him. I suspect he was over compensating for his insecurities but man was he good at pissing people off!
The second pisces male was the sensitive, quiet, gentle type. At first, this man was SO into me and than he just started to retreat. Not sure why, especially as we didn’t date that long(6 weeks) and everytime we were together, it was a wonderful time. Now, when I say retreat, I don’t mean he specifically tried to avoid me but he stopped taking initiatives, and replying to my emails.
What I mean is, he seemed more than anxious, excited and pleased to see me but I had to initiate everything. He never “stood me up”, for example but just never took any steps, like dropping notes to say “hi” or “will I see you soon?” etc..
Anyway, I decided that I didn’t have the energy to be with him and, as you can imagine, it has been and easy end to bring about. All I had to do was never call/email again! Lol…
I hope that doesn’t sound mean but there’s no point in an actual confrontation with someone who just isn’t there.
Hello Everyone
I found each commet so interesting I had to write something too.
Being an Aquarius always mysteriously drawn to Pisces men,I found that Pisces tend to retreat when they are in a fight or something that might shatter their fantasy world. They either choose to dissapear for a while and then come back as they were, or choose to stay and tell You the meanest things You will ever hear. And by mean I meant really really “MEAN”, since they are so intuitive and intune with their parterns feelings they can use Your weaknesses and flaws to hurt You right in the spot. But I don’t understand why When they realize they’ve hurt You and broken You they come back saying they are sorry and its their fault, that They didn’t mean a word they said at all,and saying “please don’t cry I hate hearing You cry You know that”
Is It What all pisces do? throw mean words at Your face and expect to get a loving smile for it?
My Pisces man “childish man” asked me something I couldnt accept, He wanted Me to change for Him,He wanted to “edit My personality”.As an Idealist Aquarian I would NEVER allow that I need to preserve My freedom and My individuality. We talked for 2 hours and He was ever so mean to Me I cried Like a heartbroken teenager. As soon as I shed a tear all of a sudden He started being sweet again and said sorry and that He loved me for what I am. Then he confessed something “I only wish You could be more tollerant of me…that You could be on My side whatever I do to You” I mean how can I take it if He Intentionally hurts Me!? and expects Me to be more in love with Him even if He does act like a jerk.
Is it an implus they have to be mean at times even a little cruel to Their loved ones becouse of their arrogance? I am guessing the reason they act so “secure” is that some poeple “like me” make the mistake of showing them that We Only and TRUELLY care about them and would never give them up.Maybe this knowledge makes them feel so secure and arrogant that they think “I know whatever I do to Her She’ll always com back to Me, she loves Me”
But isnt it obvious if they keep thinking this “illusion” of us never leaving them even if they stab us right in the heart, eventually we will leave for real!??
P.S: another thing Aly You said that Pisces are superficial is it Always the case? I mena do You fall in love for Personality and caring or Looks and charms?
I am dating a man with a Pisces Moon, Libra Sun, and Scorpio Venus. It’s a very weird combo. Sometimes he’s funny and present; other times, distracted, sarcastic, and very moody. I am a Cancer sun, Taurus moon, Leo Venus with Pluto in first house (strong scorpionic tendencies). I just feel I don’t know where I’m at with him alot and then when he gets sarcastic, watch out!!! Between the Libra sun (arguing) and the scorpio stinger, it’s strange and not very good for me. I wish things could work but I am afraid I am on my way out, as he’s disrespected me many times (I don’t care what you have to say, be quiet, etc.) I can’t live with that. Good luck everyone else…hope this helps someone.
Hey Carolina
Thank you so much for your reply.
I really appreciate you taking the time to tell me abour your experiences.
And the last part of communicating in a calm manner, I will try to apply. Nobody’s perfect, but I’ve battled with bouts of anger in relationships.
So you’re right, when I yelled at him because I was angry and frustrated, he shyed away.
We still haven’t spoken, and reading your post I think I will try to apply what you wrote with speaking softly and reassuring, I agree with that. I’ve spoken to him that way before and it helped. So i’ll chill out for now and really consider what you have wrote to me.
Good luck to you too, I hope your next meeting with him, you can start over and be back on the road again of friendship and love.
Hope this helps provide some additional insight to all you lady’s trying to understand male Pisces. I can only speak for myself. Like most male Pisces, I tend to respond better when spoken to in a softer tone of voice, then again most people do. Rarely loose my temper. Being extremely intuitive they could use your “weakness” against you verbally, then apologize for doing so. A lot of times this maybe out of frustration. Understand, until they have matured or decide enough and change, this tendency can continue.
Being extremely intuitive, we tend to connect very quickly with others. Far beyond what most other signs have encountered. You have all mentioned how you have felt, reacted etc both personally,emotionally and physically. What you seem to be describing is “chemistry”. If they have become withdrawn, means they need space. If this has happened after you have been together for more than 3 months, they want out.
Most are aware, yet personally, I have no clue as to impact I have personally to others when first seeing or meeting someone. All my friends (female and male) mention and comment to me about this. Perhaps that is what occured and your pisces just do not know how to handle this once they realize just how much you care for them, as they by that time are fighting with themselves to leave, accept and/or work through there emotions to stay. We do not just date, we prefer a relationship.
We tend to live in a dream state, but not all. Never asked anyone to change for me. Not good in any “relationship” regardless of sign. A lot just has to do with how each can accept each other, including each others faults.
I am currently pursuing a relationship with a Pisces man. I have known him for over four years now… and ever since I met him the feeling I get when I’m with him has been electric.
He is exactly as is described above. Very passionate and caring… very sweet and loving. I took him for granted once and I refuse to do that again.
I’ve been reading on other websites that relationships between Virgos and Pisces aren’t likely to last… but I’m going to be the one to change that. I am determined to make him mine, forever. And I will do whatever it takes to keep him. I love him. And I’m sure he knows this, I don’t have to say it.
Right now we are over 300 miles apart… I’m supposed to (possibly) see him this weekend… I can’t wait.
Ok…
I heard from the Pisces guy that I recently dated. After a week and a half of not calling/email, he writes to find out if I am ok and where I am and all that stuff.
After giving me a cold shoulder, he decides he wants me around. Anyway, I am taking the text book advice and accepting that this isn’t going anywhere… man, pisces dude are weird.
I’m a cancer women with a pisces man…dating a year this week….everything was going ok or so I thought when he suddenly gave me this wake up call…saying that I put my kids (from my previous marriage) first and not him…that he wants to be my first but understands that my kids have to be my 1st…he gets jealous and selfish and isn’t afraid to show it…he said he is gonna start living his life like I do mine with no regard to his….no matter how I tried to defend myself and tell him I never intentionally tried to hurt him, he didn’t believe me…ever since then, he has backed off on our regular daily communications but when we are together he seems fine…something in him has changed and I’m not sure what it is but I don’t want to lose him…
can anyone tell if a pisces man will go well with a cancer woman than with a pisces woman?
bucky…..i’m a cancer woman too been with a pisces man for a year and 8 months…3 months a we dated ,i did see a change in him too,but then with time i realised why he was being distant…but you know what time will tell…you will get the answers very soon…
I’m a CANCER MONKEY woman who has a LEO MONKEY man as my current boyfriend, is this a good combo? We already started talking about starting a family together, even though it’s too early for that but is there any hope for a good relationship between us? Also, being a monkey I am sneaky, hyper and loves being such a pain but there’s one thing I read about Monkeys on your site that is not really true about me - I DON’T like going out much, I DON’T have great social skills and I don’t like getting much attention, unless I have something important to say. Are these traits just blended qualities from both my Monkey and my Cancer side? I’m a water monkey if it helps you further to solving my question, so is my boyfriend.
I am a scorpio women who was married to a pisces man. We were married until he died from Cancer. I dated for several year but I was not happy with anyone except for my cancer who was married. I finaly let my cancer go and started dating again. I met another pisces and I am in love all over again. I agree a scorpio women and pisces man is a perfect match!!!!
We are getting married soon
Over the last few weeks, I have done some research on the detailed natal charts of my friends and siblings. Finally, I have come to the conclusion that merely the sun sign of an individual does not reflect the true personality and basing a person on it is simply incorrect.
We as individuals have lot of varied influences of other signs depend on the planetary positions of these signs in our chart e.g. I found that me being a pisces male (mercury in pisces) with venus and jupiter in aquarius and moon and mars in capricorn is not a typical pisces as described by astrology in general to be emotional, sensitive, impulsive, and blah blah blah. Although, the sun sign does affect the personality but in cases it has been observed that other influences over come the traits of the sun sign (Becky may explain it better???). One of my aquarian friend with with venus in pisces resembles more of piscean personality in relationships than me. e.g. In matters of heart, I am not interested in women with emotional, melodramatic tones and conventional types which I should being a pisces. why i give more preference to communication and intellect in a woman than merely here physical charm and beauty. While thisfriend of mine being an aquarian likes typical docile women with not much intellect but good looks (nothing wrong with that). Why is this difference? my guess is that detailed charts are essential.
I am talking ‘venus’ here in particular because this planet mostly tells you about your behaviour towards relationships and personal interactions and about love than any other planet. I have seen a sagittarius with venus in scorpio to be different than a typical sag. More so, planets in houses are also important in explaining the personality types.
Therefore in my own personal opinion, saying that all pisceans, aquas, caps, and sags, are alike in their zodiac indicates little knowledge of us which I also expressed earlier in this blog.
Have a nice day.
Aly, the Water OX
I am a Libra sun, Libra ascendant with a Sag moon who is dating a Pisces/Aries cusp, Taurus moon guy who is driving me bonkers! He plays push me, pull me all the time. I never know from one day to the next if I’m in his life, being pushed out of his life, or pulled back in again. He is the moodiest person I’ve ever gone out with. When he is in his good moods, things are absolutely wonderful. We have a lot in common and he’s talented, witty and has tons of personality. However, when he is in one of his dark moods, OMG, I can’t do or say anything right! We’ve been dating several months now, and, frankly, I’m almost at the end of my rope.
He’ll spend 3-4 great days with me and then I don’t see him for two weeks (we do talk though). He’ll talk about doing things in the future, yet trying to pin him down during the week is impossible. He’s also very secretive, but he wants to know everything that I do. Yes, he’s controlling also. We only do what he wants to do - compromise is not a word in his vocabulary. Also, he has a lot of female friends, which is fine, but due to things I know for a fact about his past, I believe some of these friends may be more than just friends, but I’m not sure, and he certainly won’t tell me anything. Any advice?? I am madly in love with him, but I’m beginning to wonder if it’s really worth it….
Wow.. to reply I was dating a libra oct 10th @ is like how u said the pisces u talk about I don’t understand him at all he is so sneaky @ dishonest. I’m a pisces cusp too march 20. I will tell u this though watch out for the cusp man ur are dating I’ve dated one his dob match 19 he also had lots of friends and it was more then friends they love women @ sex. the key to getting him to act right is make him chase u . when he gets in his good moods don’t respond to him.. and be direct @ blunt demand he compromise with u or else.. I know cause I can be the same. I love a chase that is the only me that gets my attention the ones I want but can’t have.
Hello everyone, im a scorpio girl n just came out off a relationship with a pisces male. My god am i happy i am out of that. Don’t get me wrong i love pisces bcoz my little sister is one, bt he was so hard to be with.
At the beginning it was fine, like the first month. He was loving, really sensitive and made me feel real good, plus he was a great lover. But i dont no what happened he jus changed! He became distant and started to lie alot He said he just had alot on but he wouldnt tell me anything and being a scorpio i need to no everything lol. he never let me no where we went wrong just brushes everything off like its nothing. He was the first pisces man i have been with but from what i experienced their nothing but bulls**tters and lack communication skills
I am aries female dating a pisces male and have been dating over 4 months. He told me he loved me after two and a half months and we have been like loves young dream since then. We see lots of each other and have spent weekends away. His tactile nature and romantic words have swept me away and Im loving the connection and chemisty we have. Are our signs compatible as I have read many blogs saying things could start well and go badly wrong? I am quite a loving tactile aries though and have not ever been in a relationship where someone is so open with their loving emotions!
Hi i’m a female libra.
First forget any typing error, because my first language is not english.
I have read that libra/pisces is not a good match for a long time relationship. At the moment i’m head over heals for a pisces man. There are a few stones in my way with this pisces. First it’s the age difference (i’m 25 he’s 40), he is kind of my mentor and boss, he have divorced twice (with 3 sons as a result); in the other side i’m not very experience (something that frightened him).
I find him so stimulating, soo sexy (mostly for his brain), intelligent, well spoken, mysterious. He’s constanly describing he’s ideal woman and he describe me!!!. I’m a typical libra, talkative, love the glamour, see both sides of everything,indecisive and all the other stuff they say. He is totally attracted to me as i am to him. But i don’t know what to do. I feel this connection, actually everybody feels the connection and the sexual tension at work. When we look into each others eyes we lose ourself and left this world no matter where we are and who is with us. He drives me everyday to my home (is a 5 min car ride) and he goes around the city just so we can talk a bit more (and what conversations we have!!!). Right now we’re friends no more than that. But the attraction it’s both ways, i guess me being the typical libra who have to weight everything in and him being indecisive as well is hard to give the first step. And there’s the divorce and age thing to.
Anybody have a suggestion? I’m so confuse.!!!
Hi,
I met a Pisces man once in my life, when I was 15 or so (he was my first love).I knew he was interested in me and I was so much in love with him but we were both very shy to admit our feelings.We just kept sending letters to each other every single week. Result? The time passed by and we finally got lost….After 12 years the same guy found me and he sent me like thousands of e-mails, he added me to msn, gtalk, everywhere and he even called me…! We were never friends (as there was always something more than that, between the two of us) and therefore I do not believe that the whole thing was a friend’s approach from the very beginning. I was shocked obviously and I was quite kind but I did not know what to say, or how to react and suddenly he stopped talking to me!!! Whenever I talk to him, he is busy …and some times he talks to me out of the blue. What is happening? No idea…I was just wondering if anyone else went through a similar situation with a Pisces male so that he could give some advice on how to behave.I am so confused
Thanks!!
Pisces = rabbit( chinese astrology)
you could be born under Pisces sign and at the same time be born under different chinese yearly astrology sign such as tiger,dragon,snake,rat,goat,,,,,,
i am born under year of a rabbit(Pisces), month of a Pisces(rabbit),and day of a rabbit(Pisces) and my chinese astrology element is FIRE and I love martial arts,admire Che Guevara …….?i don’t get depressed?i dont shy away from conflict?i stand up for what is right?i dont let others to boss me around? Plato said “Human behavior flows from three main sources: desire, emotion, and knowledge.” peace
In all honesty we are the most hurtful of all the signs but its not our fault! The attraction to us comes quickly. I’m being serious I’ve had many girls tell me they have never fallen for someone so fast and i’m not putting out game im being myself. this leads to them wanting to cage me and of course we run from commitment. If you give us space when we need it we will start to want you more. I don’t like being trapped early but its hard for me to hurt the feelings of those i talk to which in retrospect hurts them more because they think i was leading them on.
remember we are the perfect listeners, and i am often the one that everyone comes to to vent their life stories too as well. I apologizes for those who have ruined our name but in all honesty i’m the most faithful guy out there cuz i only need one but we have alot on our minds because we have everyone’s weight on our shoulders. we know how crappy the world is thats why we are dreamers.
those other fishes suck i love football but i love my women more, they jus gotta find me..
Pisces Male 88,
Are you 88 years old??? I indeed liked your comment a lot. What little you have written about the pisces guy really fits the criteria for some although there are various pisces-types. Me being one have noticed that committment is the big ‘turn-off’ for us mostly. I have been with different women over the years but I have always kept my distance which is usually not taken in good stead. Nobody wants to be caged or cage anyone. I guess, life for us is like a “free flowing water and we just like to swim in it without any nets”.
I quite agree that people often try to not just load but over-load us with their emotional baggages because we are good listeners and can do it for hours (but I’ve overcome that).
I also agree that (not the crappy world as an optimist) the world is becoming is becoming so self-centred, materialistic, and blah, blah, blah, that we tend to live in our own world of dreams as well as reality that I must say brings the best out of us in terms of solace, peace of mind, creativity, and comfort. Due to this generally cruel world of ours, we have the best of sense of humours.
Ciao
o yeah! i just recently met a pisces guy. its tru! its so easy to fall for them. they are really really funny. it makes the whole convo a lot more interesting. but the thing with pisces guys are, you are not sure if you have really fallen for them or its because they are so entertaining and well informed..
but its hard to get them to open up about themselves more. how do you get a pisces guy to talk about himself?
A few things include, Be honest, friendly, confident, and express your originality as a person; they will open bit by bit. I know its very frustrating but it works in certain ways.
I have been dating a pisces man for a few months and he is a great person. However, he is extremely insecure and needy and needs much too much attention. That is exactly what I don’t want in a relationship. I want someone who is independent and secure. I do not like jealous people and someone who seems extremely moody and easily depressed. He doesn’t seem to have too many hobbies and he seems a little girly boy to me. Way too sensitive for me. I’m not saying that he isn’t a good guy, but perhaps not for me. I am a Libra, so I guess we are not a good match.
JJ, yeah. they are really sensitive. and ur right bout the not many hobbies…
how do you apologise to a pisces? i think i might have hurt one tonight.. hehe
I am a Sag with a pisces man. who i just meet in july, here we are Sept, he asked me to be his girl friend. which i was in heaven when he did. I love him as a matter afact. iam in love with him. by now lots of feelings and emotions have opend up in my heart. this is crazy but i really feel good about him, but I am afraid of getting hurt, he knows this. i have told him i am not willing to share any part of him. he has told me that I will not share him. with anyone. and I dont want to get hurt in any way. I told him Iam in love with him,his answere was should i belive this i said “yes” why should u not believe me. I have had the most wonderful times with him and he is a lover of lvers in bed and out of bed his is funny cute loveing affectionate,warm,handsome,beautiful smile,dancer oh my goddness. losts of energy he is a loving uncle,brother,friend,and if he lazy so am i who cares he is a pisces Iam a Sag. i will go with what i have of him and my own Intuition of his love and his friendship to me. Iam a Sag.
The Pisces guy wants to see me again. He even sent me a cute message about giving me his heart… Weird… haven’t heard from him in weeks. He has never implied anything romantic with me before. Yes, he indicated his attraction to me but that’s all.
I am seeing someone else now but am definitely curious to see what phase the pisces guy is in now. Even if he is for real, he is eventually gonna pull away again. Or, at least that’s the impression I get from all these posts.
I think that I am gonna go ahead and see the pisces guy. Just one date and see what’s going through his mind. Yes, I am sincerely attracted to him but I am more curious about him. It feels almost like a puzzle that I want to figure out.
If there really is something there still, than I will break up with the cancer guy that I am dating. Btw, I am a gemini. I always end up with cancers/geminis for some reason. A few pisces along the way.
I wonder if my disapearing act is what worked? I just dropped off the face of the planet. Maybe he enjoys the chase?
Feel free to comment anyone…lol
I am a pisces female… dating a pisces male for the first time… talk about attraction and sexual compatability. We are so much alike in a lot of ways…
Mysterious… yes… romantic.. yes…
And in the bedroom… fabulous.
is there any one out there that will give me some kind of an answere to my pisces man. and a Sag. it will be two months an we still see each other and have good times with one another
i really like him alot he now says to me after chatting on the phone hell say ” I love u” an I will at times ask him for a kiss and hell give one out to me on the phone this is odd not to many me like doing this right? hell say to me I really like u lot love u. this makes me fell good. and this is the first time any one has said this to me. an its been sometime since any man has told me he loves me. Oh an mind u he is very affectinate with me. What is any one out there, A man of couse ( Pisces Man ) your out look to all this that i have posted . be onest and sincere Please thnks
cc rider
im an 23 year old aries and i was with a pieces guy for 4 years it was a horrible relationship he didnt care at all and beat me up alot! the relationship ended badly as he cheated on me then completely ripped me off in all he is a sly selfish person. I am once again in a relationship with a pieces guy who is also 23 and he loves nothing more than a drink and is always talking about fighting the only sensative side ive seen to him so far is he likes having a cuddle in bed he has a lot of charictaristics of my 1st pieces guy scary eh but he hasnt done any wrong 2 me but early days and he is a big flirt which i hate!! but i am ur typical aries ha x
Hi guys,
I’m an 35 yo Ox Pisces man (like you Aly). The girly thing about pisces doesn’t work with me, but, I think this is because of my ox side. In my very personal opinion, pisces people are being always negatively criticised about the same traits (highly emotional, depressed, etc, etc, etc) and it makes me tired. I think that we are very, but very strong. The fact that we don’t express our emotions is due to our way of thinking that is “I can deal with that, so why bother other people?”. Of course we are emotional, and that’s why the best art ever made is always created by pisces people, don’t get me wrong thinking that I’m over estimating my sign, but analise this people:
- Chopin (does anyone know any better pianist ever?).
- Michelangelo (such bad painter!!!)
- Villa Lobos (brazilian composer, listening to his music is just like feeling the nature getting form after the big bang)
- Bobby Womack (the “feeling: itself)
- George Harrison (for me, the best Beatle)
- Sly Stone (took black music to other level)
- Jack Kerouac (gave the society at that time a wake-up call)
- Liza Minelli (the finesse itself)
- Michael Caine (such bad actor!!!)
- Jerry Lewis (made money playing the idiot)
- Nat King Cole (my father is a non-speaking english person, a stubborn capricorn and he cries listening to this man’s voice)
- Glenn Close (yes, pisces people steam rabbits)
- Spike Lee (too good to be alive)
And not just in art, there’s Graham Bell, the man who invented the telephone, Copernicus, Einstein, etc…
The thing is, pisces people look beyond and don’t give importance to the formated requests of life, they are boring and don’t suit us. We are very good actors, but we leave this quality to the stage.
Other thing, there’s a lot of bad comments about our lack of confidence (????). In my opinion, confidence sometimes is just acting, and I could tell some star signs that think themselves very confident and when things don’t happen in their way, they go home, with the tail in between their legs and they cry like babies. Pisces men don’t do it. People say we don’t like competition (like Aries, or Taurus), but why to compete when you know that you are good at what you are doing?
Pisces can recognize an a**hole from miles away, that’s why we get a bit arrogant sometimes, pisces guys love to pay back with the same coin (sometimes even with a higher coin, and we don’t ask for the change). Yes, we are quiet, but that’s because we spend a bit of time analysing the enviroment and the people, so we can use the right words at the right moment, we can’t stand pedantry.
Poor are the people who will start an argument with a pisces, take a good lawyer with you, pisces guys will have a good reply for every word exposed by the other part. We are sensitive and easyly hurt, but sometimes we hurt with words that will stay in the other person’s life for the rest of her/his life.
Sometimes women with pisces men tend to think that they are too good for them and on reality, pisces men are just seeing them digging their own hole. As I said before, pisces people see beyond and when relationships come to these terms (like: “I’m too good for you”), pisces men think: “No problem, “too good” doesn’t exist, thank God I’m getting rid of you”.
Yes, our bitter side is as profound as the way I wrote above and, I believe, causes really deep wounds.
Becky, your web page is really nice, my daughter is 1 year and 4 months. She’s a gemini (like you) and is already the Queen of Communication, I think she will turn me to a fishbone !!! She knocks me out!!! But beautifully!!!
All the best!!!
Enry
http://www.cafeastrology.com/articles/venuspiscescompatibility.html
I’d go there to see if you and your pisces mate are good for eachother or if not; why youre not.
& for JAMIE = pisces will swim away if your playing games. to try & avoid getting hurt.
pisces need stability & emotonal security
if you wont give that to them then its probably better you dont ger back into contact w/ them. it’ll probably just hurt them more than help them.
My husband is a Pisces and he is the sweetest guy I have ever met in the whole world. We have been together about 6 years, and somehow we still manage to love each other! He doesn’t like sports, but loves beer. He’s very manly on the outside (being in the marine corp) but on the inside he is as sweet as sugar. I have never met anyone as humble, and whole hearted in my life. He has never cheated on me, maybe told some white lies but that’s it (and I found out later)… I always wonder what it would be like to be with a Scorpio or cancer because astrology always says those are the best signs a female Pisces should be with. I don’t know why they don’t say Pisces should be with other Pisces because we get along really well. I mean we are social when we want to be, but I love living in our own little world together. I have friends and school and he has work so that is enough reality for me! Pisces men love to kick back and relax, but also love to go out and party. We are both Pisces/rabbits and easy natured. He is not very emotional, but I think he tries to be strong for me. I have enough emotions to last 2 life times. I love being with a Pisces because he doesn’t hurt my self esteem like some signs would, listens and understand my problems, and has a beautiful sole. I honestly could say I love Pisces guys!!
I also want to add when we were together before he joined the marine corp he couldn’t hold a steady job and we were both floating through life, but now the govt. makes him to go work everyday because he is in the marine corp. So we aren’t just floating along anymore and we both have responsibilities. I do understand when people say that Pisces couples need an accountant because it is hard for us to get things done as a team… I don’t care though because other then that our relationship is perfect!
Im going to have to agree with Vanessa on this one,
the father of my son is a pisces…and I had some of the WORST years of my life with him.(Im a gemini)
He was soooo lazy ,cried ALL the time.was never dependable. When I was pregnant I was feeling a little nausiated and sent him out to get me a 7-up and he didnt come back untill 7am the next morning …and he didnt even get the soda.
We both started off as high school dropouts with no jobs or drivers licences.Within about 4 months I had my G.E.D., drivers licence and a jog.Now 3 years later he still has non of those.
The only positive thing I have to say about him is that he is a wonderful father and is very very involved in our sons life.
Hi Enry,
I couldn’t disagree a word of what you have expressed about pisces men. I may add that pisces have very sharp minds and quick thinking for any type of work/activity which attracts them and they can easily shock and flatten people with their logical argumentation and eloquence.
Being an OX in chinese zodiac, I must say that it brings out a strong personality and the ability to control the emotional side of pisces. Ox people don’t cry, keeps issues to themselves, think rational and practical, love their freedom, dependable, self reliant, and work hard and much more.
You post was interesting and informative. keep on writing if you find time.
Aly, the water-OX
Thanks Ali,
On reality I’ve wrote because I had a look on your posts before, and I thought them pretty good and real. The other reason that made me expose my opinions in an astrology website is that I think justice is not being made to our star sign as I said in my first post. I know we are far from perfect, but I feel sorry for some of the posts above when people mentioned that they had a miserable life with a pisces man. Those ones that say “my pisces man didn’t have a hobby”, honestly, there’s something really wrong with this fellow piscean, because pisceans just can’t live without some creative extra activity in their lives and in my case I take my hobby as serious as my regular job (sometimes even more), so I’d say to the ladies that if your pisces guy doesn’t have a hobby, dump him, because something is really wrong (probably he grew up in a really hard environment or he was raised by uneducated people). I have piscean friends and ALL of them have hobbies.
Other thing that you will agree with me Aly:
“Pisces guys know what a woman likes”. Doesn’t matter her star sign, as soon as we know her, we are able to write her instructions manual.
This is for the women: “Ageing beside a pisces man is honorable”. I’ve read that we are considered naive in love matters and I disagree. I think we are passive, and maybe the other part thinks that we can’t see, when on reality, we are feeling sorry for others stupidity.
I don’t know, I just don’t see us like the “crying and depressed people” that I read everywhere, it must be the other pisces combinations with the chinese astrology or the planets in the chart.
I think we are hard workers as you mentioned in your last post and also perfeccionists.
I think our bad goes like:
- Stubborness,
- I think we get enchanted with anything that “LOOKS” good and this is not good sometimes,
- We should sell ourselves better, we are too humble (there’s a lot of fake propaganda in other star signs),
- We should know how to say “no” earlier in life,
- We should learn how to explain that “time to ourselves” doesn’t mean “I don’t want to be with you”,
- We should write shorter posts,
That’s all for today Aly, the Ox has to go to work.
Want to hear from you,
All the best!!!
Enry
Ok WOW! I’ve been reading this on and off trying to get some insight to my 3 year on and off with my Pisces male. I wish I could figure it out!! I’m not sure if maybe I just haven’t gotten to the point of seeing his all sensitivity and what not but it comes soooo sporadically.
In our past he’s pursued me every single time. We have a casual thing for a few months and I get tired of him not wanting to commit to a little more, so we go separate ways. In a few months he comes back, always him initiating the contact and we repeat the same cycle.
This most recent time we’ve actually been in contact steadily for about 10 months but I can’t ever peg him down. When its great, its great. Feel connected to him on a level that I don’t with anyone else. But then he’s gone. I don’t feel I can depend on him for anything.
We both share the same thought that if we’ve been doing this on and off for 3 years, through other partners and a child on my side, then there must be something here that is too wonderful to let go. But I’m not sure how much more of this I can take. I feel like I’m wasting my life waiting for him and he’ll never come around but I also know that I can’t get over him nor do I want to. I know what I feel for him but I’ve never been able to actually tell him. I always try to make sure that he knows that he’s the one I want and that there is no one else for me, but I’ve never actually told him that I love him. Is telling him that going to push him further away or bring him to me??
well i have tryed to tell u my story but there is not feed back frm any one so i gues its not important to any one .
I have a pisces and its killing me he says there is no one else but i hurt wen he leaves an only i have to call him an he does not but has never told me not to call him back . but has given me home # to call there .
it been i a while no sex and yes i have gone to his home to find that he is sleepting alone and let me in we taked and no i did not stay i went home and we were going to mee the next day but he has to wk and he surprizenly calle and stated that he has an option an took it wkd on a wed thursday nite football field and we would go out friday well its friday and i fear the wait if he hell call or not I love him though but this is it if he does not call i will not call him at all this will kill me but will see what will happen right right! cc
Hi Enry
Must say that I found humour in your post. If the Ox finds time from work, toil, labour, and ploughing, read the post.
It’s true that all these frustrated women (sorry ladies) have been with the wrong Pisces if they don’t have any hobbies or are too laidback. Mostly, Piscean males have too many interests and diverse hobbies which is bad as we tend to lack focus on certain elements of our life at times. I suppose we are interested in almost anything concerning life such as arts, philosophy, technology, architecture, geography, cultures, books, sports, adventure, travelling, tourism, current affairs, the unknown, mystery, relationships, family, and last but not the least…..women. I agree dump my Piscean brothers who are boring, without any hobby, and are too laidback. You deserve it guys.
Being a Fish, I should say that I really don’t have much preference for women with respect to their colour, ethnicity, nationality, and age. I always try to find something best in a woman not just as a woman but as a person. One can admire the innocence, beauty, and energy of a young woman but also the intellect, grace, and communication of an older woman. The only issue is that we keep our emotions to ourselves (which at times is frustrating for others) as we rationally know that every woman can’t be your love so why waste your emotions on everyone and go search for the right one. We surely are taken as being passive in matters of the heart as we don’t wear our heart on the sleeve…but we also know that sans women, this world would have been a barren desert. Pisceans also have this bad habit at times that the woman we love, we believe that she’s flawless which is terribly wrong with us. No-one is perfect, neither me nor she.
In various capacities, I have been with women of most zodiacs and have tried best to avoid arguments and even if they do happen, I am the one who mostly tries to approach keeping intact my self-respect. There is something that we understand about women but I am not sure what it is as we often get along with them better than men. Help??? I suppose Pisces people also know well that every person in the world can’t be made happy and relationships are surely way complicated so it’s better to avoid useless and mundane confrontations and stresses. By the way, it is also good for mental health and protects one from Alzheimer’s disease later in life (every cell organ can redevelop gradually but not the brain cells).
Enry, I also agree that boring and depressed people to us are a big turn off. It feels like that you have been suffocated or put in a coffin. Unfortunately, I have seen many zodiacs considered as the most lively to be quite dull and boring at times, therefore, why this misconception and general judgement that Pisceans have the tendency for depression. Probably the emotional ones are. Can’t say. I know I will live for only once and there will be no reincarnation at least for me (can’t say of others) so try to have some good time if life is available to you.
Sorry, being a Pisces, can’t write any shorter even if I try too. Becky, Thanks for tolerating these long posts.
Have a nice day. Keep on posting. Peace.
Aly, The Water-OX
OMG ok im a pisces and i always want to help others and then when i need help its as if no one can help me or atleast when i use to need help you know with my emotions and stuff but i found my sister as of late and she totally understands everything i talk about. Neways, I seem to always attract women who care nothing about love and think im crazy for being open with my emotion and caring about things others feel are not important….when i ask them whats wrong the freakout because my thought of what is going on is correct. I’m not sure what im getting at but basicly why is it so hard for me to find love? i’ve read everyones responce and i can relate to someof em but really none at all because i’ve dated a gemi and the only reason it didnt last was because i moved away and with aquas i seem to be more of the friend and i just dont try to be with them….so why is it so hard i want love so bad i dont expect much i mean is it that hard to be funny and caring and most of all want love? gggeeezzz. i dunno.
Hi Aly!
Good to hear from you! Just before coming to work I was in the shower and in a sudden all this posting thing came to my mind and I got myself thinking: “What would I be if I didn’t have any hobby ?”, I just thought about what JJ and O__O have been through with a piscean with no hobbies. You know Aly, I think we are ok, but we desperately need to, somehow, release all the energy (good and bad) that we absorb from people and enviroments because at the same time that we are peaceful and bla,bla,bla, in the other hand, if we acumulate too many things inside, we turn to a bomb that will explode and cause a lot of damage around.
The thing is that we are good with words and if we use them in the bad way it hurts. Is like, if we get nasty, we know which words to use and hurt someone. I hope that JJ and O__O also had the chance to read this, because I thought about myself, being someone with no extra activity rather than my regular job, and honestly, I think I would be the saddest person on earth and if you feel in this way, how to be with someone else ? Would be hard enough being you with yourself.
Fortunately, I had the chance to be with woman of every star sign available during the course of my life, and when I evaluate the pros and cons, I ended up smiling and thinking that everyone of them were great, beautiful women (because we like the beauty) and even if something went really wrong, I just think that I was needing that at that moment and took the lesson to myself.
Aly, the only thing I don’t believe in astrology is the love matching part, because you know, when we are in relationships, both parts blend to each other and both change. Don’t tell me that this is a pisces thing (that we are like water and we change forms to fit the container), any person from any star sign changes to fit better in the relationship. For example, they say pisces and aries don’t match, but personally, I just can’t resist an aries woman, even before asking their names, I know them, and they are attracted to me too, somehow. I had a virgo girlfriend before, virgos are supposed to be our opposite sign, and she is one of the best women I ever met in any aspect.
Aly, I think that life actually is too busy and people are loosing the ability to talk, comprehend and open themselves. Is like, your ability to play games in a relantionship worths more than your quality of being spontaneous, because, in my opinion, games are full of acting and you play, play, play and your “yourself” is always in there asking you : “Let me out! Let me out!” Oh man! That’s painful.
I’m not saying that you don’t need to play, but depending on how the relationship develops, it has to stop, because is energy taking thinking how your next strategy will be.
Sorry Aly, I’m just helping you with your reading exercise…
Always a pleasure talking to you. Peace!
Enry
I am a 25 yr old Scorpio lady who is currently courting a 24 yr old pisces male. I remember the first time I saw him, 4 years ago, when he came to my 21st with a good (male) friend of mine.I saw him from a distance and it was like watching the Archangel Gabriel appear on the horizon ~ I was mesmerized by this vision of gorgeausness!Who IS this heavenly creature that has fallen to earth?! Indeed I remained star-struck most of the evening, and indeed to this day. But over the last 4 years I never imagined that he might be interested in me, as perhaps I misread his shyness for disinterest. However I recently started working in an office very close to his, so we started meeting up for lunch. Those went very well and I was amazed at how much he could remember about the little things in my life, places I had been to school, pictures I had painted, etc. No man has ever known so much about me! I was transfixed! Indeed in an attempt to get to know each other even better we bonded further by going for ‘Historical Walks’ (sounds nerdy perhaps but we both really enjoy these walks) and even discovered we both have a strange love of strolling through misty cemetaries! We then included visits to the pub as part of our walks, which then turned into a 6 hour long chat-fest, lots of flirtation and tactile affection, and yet we only seem to have one or 2 drinks. I feel absorbed into his very being and under his spell, enchanted, hypnotised, such feelings of warmth and contentment when we are togethor.As yet there has been no kiss, which I am attributing to his shyness, but we have another ‘date’ on Friday so maybe I can try and take the lead a little bit….:-)
As others have said, this Pisces guy is a wonderful mystery to behold. He has a depth to him that I can appreciate as I myself can’t stand the overly material and superficial aspects of our modern world. He is reserved and calm, a deep thinker and a kind and gentleman. In fact he is a true gentleman. He tells me that some people mistake him for being ‘grumpy’ but that he’s not at all, its just he prefers to be a quiet observer. This I can fully understand as I myself prefer to be one too, and neither of us can stand people who create unneccessary noise/commotion/drama.
Some women might be driven crazy by his need to ‘disappear’ into his own space and time, but I can sympethise with his need for personal space because I too enjoy my own space sometimes. As an independant spirit I believe the key to happiness in a relationship is giving each other that space and understanding, and that you both know that everyday is a choice to be togethor and not a ‘given’.
I really hope that things will blossom between me and my beautiful pisces man. He has stuck a chord within my soul that no other man ever has. I can understand that he might be afraid of being ‘tied down’ but I want him to know that I don’t wish to ‘tie him down’ but rather ‘ride the currents of the river’ togethor and see where they take us.
To Scorpio Lady:
I love the way you are seeing your pisces guy and I can say that you are an intelligent woman. You already know lots about him, and let me tell you something, you’ll love, love and love each other. Pisces and Scorpio is such a strong union and things will go to the point that you won’t need words to comunicate, you’ll see. If for some reason, he acts in a way that makes you insecure, for sure, he is not meaning it, as he probably has some difficulties to make himself clear (maybe because of shyness), but I can make you sure, if things go well in your relationship this man won’t get enough of you, as pisces guys see scorpio women as something new everyday (because you’re hard to pin down as well). By your words I know what sort of warmth you feel being with this guy. Sorry for taking the freedom to reply your post, but for some reason I felt a truly thing going on between you and the lucky one. I love the part of “no kisses yet”. Oh God!!! That’s the way we love!!! Enjoying and tasting every chew!!! Scorpio Lady, it will be HOT!!! You’ll see your fallen angel at his best, because you are exactly, perfectly, accuratelly, precisely doing things to get into this fish’s heart and stay there forever. I don’t know, your post just seemed very meaninful for me. Be ready to a happy life!!! All the best!!!
Enry
males pisces speakin get out of the way hehe
ok ive read a majority cause yes its the pisces in me
ive seen alot of gemini women hook up with pisces males
and ive noticed that gemini women love our way of just ignoring everyone else and just only showing them attention
what they dont know is that we show attention to everyone
i might as well have “vent here” printed on my forehead
the thing with us is we are only half listening until theres a question involved
we are natural listeners but half assed if we have too much of it
i think pisces men are not portrayed correctly
yes we are dreamers lost in our world but we dont need a dominate force
pisces need to be left alone when needed and there is just too many people that need affection when we dont
just leave us alone when we need it we are easily overwhelmed
if anything i want another to delve in with me
thats where the romantic connection lies
they say we are best with scorpio
i strongly disagree
scorpios are demanding, headstrong, and easily pissed off
i can deal with em though cause i grew up with a scorpio and leo in my immediate family
hehe poor me
but anyways funny enough the one person i found to love is a gemini
hoping i dont regret it
I have dated a Pisces man most of my life and i do mean most of my life my love affair with this man started 17 yrs ago and each time i have tried to leave him he has come to find me. It’s like he plays a game of pull and push with me. He was the first guy i was ever intimate with and I had his kids 10 yrs later, after being away from him for at least 6 yrs and involved with someone else. I’ve tried to get with other people many times and each time he has chased them away and then disappears. The reason i am reading this site is because after 4 yrs of staying away from him this time and learning to live my own life while raising his children he has now stepped back into my life, even though he knew i was with someone else, i told him that i thought that maybe we should just leave things as they are and not go on an intimate level but he pursued until i gave in. Then said some very hurtful things to push me away and when i would not respond to any of his text messages or calls, he text and said that he was sorry and that he didn’t mean it the way that it came out, but in my heart i think he did mean what he said and just doesn’t want me to disappear on him again. Unfortunately most of the men that i have dated when i’m not with him have been Pisces men and they all seem to play the same games, maybe it is the chase and maybe they do look for strong women that they can break down because that has been my experience with the Pisces man. I think that Pisces men and women are some of the most manipulative, game playing individuals on the planet and that they only care about themselves and i have known plenty ,my mother and my sister and all of the Pisces that i have come in contact with are controlling, manipulating people. They know what hurts you because you tell them when you have that wonderful beginning and you are doing all of the talking and they are being the great listener’s that they feel they are and then they use what you have told them against you in a very clam, cool and cold way. Yes they do hate confrontation and if you yell or get loud with them they can’t handle that and it throws them off of their game which is to hurt you because in their own little twisted world that is how they control. they let you know that they have the ability and know how to hurt you and thus you are kind and gentle with them.
Who doesn’t want to know where their love one is or if they are OK that is part of love and who doesn’t want to spend as much time as they can with the one they love. Pisces do all of these things in the beginning and then tell you that you are to needy when in essence it is really them they must know where you are and who you are with but they keep everything about themselves a secret and that is the power of their control.
I am a Leo woman and this is my experience with most of the Pisces men and women in my life. they will continue to do this until you pull a disappearing act on them but who wants to keep playing the same game over and over again that’s just plain crazy. As for me guess i will just get ghost on him again and this time for good. After all i did learn how to disappear from the best I had plenty Pisces teachers.
I’m a Libra girl dating a Pisces. We been together for 8 months now. But during those times. We been off and on soo many times. But usually as we got back together we grow closer to eachother. Everything said above so far is true. He’s sweet,loving,caring and sensitive. Well 2 months ago.(August) We were off. Back together after 2 weeks. I thought to myself. Okay so everything’s going to be fine. Nothing to worry about. But that month was hell. He talked less. Conversation became more silent. We never get to see eachother much. It was as if everything was falling apart. And just when you feel as though there’s no point in persuading this relationship no longer. He comes back. This ticks me off.But you can’t blame him right? I honestly have nothing against it. Yet he’ll take advantage of it and constantly disappear. He has alot of female friends. Hecka lot. He loves hanging out with his friends. I don’t know if he still has any feelings left over these last 2 months now.
I want to believe his words, that he loves me.
Cept I can’t see it at all. And about the label thing. Absolutely true. To his friends. He’ll describe me as a friend. While alone. We’re supposedly “girlfriend&Boyfriend” which really doesn’t make sense.
I guess right now, I’m willing to stay by his side. I’m willing to accept his new side. Or so trying.
I’ve completely fallen for him. Now I’m just lost. Pisces are great people. Sensitivity will get in the way. But just learn to cope with it. Beside one person can love that trait very much. I do :]
- Audrey
Ok,
It is true that Pisces men are pretty aloof. I am a Scorpio female and have been with mine for almost a year. We play this back and forth game…when he wants his space he’ll push me away and when I get too far he pulls me back in. The funny thing is that I am learning some of his little triggers. I know when he needs space before he realizes it and I give him space before he gets too crazy on me. When I see him pulling me in I try not to get too excited over it bcuz even though he may say he wants to see me everyday he really needs his space and will soon start pushing me away again.
I think it’s true that Scorpio women and Pisces men are good matches because we share some of the same qualities…but we do possess the qualities that they need. Like a nurturing instinct, sensitive, empathic and erotic nature. We are more willing to except them as they are and can adapt to the mood swings because we tend to be extremely moody too. Even though he was hard to get used to he is the only man that I feel extremely comfortable with, he’s my best friend. His strengths vastly outweigh his flaws.
And ohh yeah that thing about commitment is very true, they do not like to be tied down but can be extremely loyal in a relationship…
After reading all the comments i did have to leave one myself lol. I am a Virgo female. I am very interested in a Pisces male. He (seems) a wonderful man very good looking, intune with things. His birthday is Feb 19th, putting him on the cusp. After reading all the comments about the Pisces, and how they can be….. well i am not quite sure. I know Virgo and Pisces are not a great match and i am on the fence about possibly falling head over heels for this man. Does anyone have any advice for a stand-offish Virgo? :o) Thanks!
And i also do not really know much about being on aquarius/pisces cusp. Thanks!!
Lizzie
Hi Lizzie,
As I said in a post before, the love match is one of the few parts in astrology that I don’t believe. I had a long term relationship with a virgo woman (2 years exactly) and was very good. Good to the point that I miss lots of moments that I spent with her.You will teach him how to be more organized and he will show you how to enjoy some aspects in life that probably (you think) you didn’t have time to. If he likes you, he will change some aspects of his personality that you don’t like, because he will think that is for his own good as well. Use your analictical virgo qualities to study this man before you take things really seriously with him (I know you can do it pretty well). I can guess that you are a person who works with lots of paperwork, agendas, etc. If things go well and you want to have this man with you, ask him to help you writing letters for clients, writing ads for the office or anything that some creativity could be put in, he will love to help you.
If I can take the virgo-pisces relationship I had before as an example, in (or on, beside…) the sheets will be very good indeed. Both of you, probably, have a really refined taste for food and this will be the time for that nice and warm talk. I’m sure you will enjoy every moment, but as I said before, try to read him first. Another good thing about the relationship I had with a virgo was that, I don’t know why, I hadn’t felt the need to lie and this is a really good thing.
All the best and good luck!!!
Enry
IM A PISCES FEB 28TH. I DREAM ALL THE TIME AND PREDICT THINGS OFTEN IN DREAMS I HAVE. IM A GOOD FRIEND AND NEVER BACK DOWN FROM ANYTHING NO MATTER HOW DIFFICULT OR DANGEROUS IT IS. WE PISCES HAVE TO HELP OTHERS AND SE OTHERS HAPPY TO BE HAPPY WERE DREAMERS BUT I THINK WE LOOK AT REALITY AND MANY OF US ARE TALENTED IN THE ARTS WHICH IS THE GREATEST WAY FOR US TO EXPLORE OUR INNERSELVES. IM GOING OUT WITH A ARIES THE LAST 4 YESARS AND WHERE LIVING TOGEATHER 3 YEARS WE GET ON GREAT BUT AS A PISCES I NEED TO BE ALONE OFTEN AS I THINK A LOT MY FAVOURITE SPORT IS SWIMMING I LIVE CLOSE TO THE BEACH WHICH I LOVE AND I DO LOADS OF PAINTINGS AND CARVINGS.MY CHINESE ASTROLOGY IS A ROOSTER
Well, I am Gemini,Cancer Cusp and I am with a Pisces guy and he is all of those things. He hates being the sensitive guy when he has to admit it but he can not stand things like Football or any kind of sport for that matter. He is in the Band and is highly into it. As for being in a relationship with him. His good traits are, he does listen to me and he will talk with me forever, the gemini side of me looooves that. He is so smart and dreamy and I feel like I can talk to him about anything. We were friends first, for 6 years but for the last year we have been going out. I have been out with alot of guys with different signs signs that Gemini get along with (and there are not many) like libra and Aquarius. The Aquarius relationship was one of the worst relationships, he was controling and hateful. Then I went out with a guy that was tooo nice, i know i know i sound picky. This Pisces is the perfect balance of nice plus he will still tease me. We have a great relationship but he does have his faults. For instance he will wait until a situation blows up in his face before he admits there is a problem. He would rather hide from something hoping it will go away rather than face it head on. Sometimes he gets lazy and cranky and thats when i let him have some space so he can go off into his little world like pisces do. Other than that its a great relationship thats not expected from a Gemini.
Well, well, well!!! Pisces Men has become a Centurion by completing first 100 posts on this blog in 6 plus months (conditionally, if this post is accepted). Why Pisces Males are So Popular on this Blog??? Interesting.
Ciao and Peace
I have read most of the posts in here and at first I thought “Wow, that’s pretty harsh.” However, the more I read, the more I realized the comments were right on – but, the perspective is different.
Let me start by explaining that I am a female Pisces/Ox. On the one hand I am extremely sensitive and painfully empathetic but on the other more grounded and responsible than most of my peers. I’m not extremely emotional and tend to be very rational.
While I have no problem taking on commitments in education, careers, etc. romantic relationships have been a sore subject. For a five-year stretch I couldn’t date anyone for longer than three to six months. It would start out red hot and then I’d find any reason I could to break up. Looking back I see that I was just terrified of someone coming in and disappointing me.
The main thing you have to know about a Pisces is that most of them need to believe that all people are basically good and no matter how many times they see evidence to the contrary, they will continue to trust that. So when your Pisces male is distant toward you, he has probably sensed something in you that they perceive as a threat to their carefully established illusion whether or not you did anything wrong. As far as arrogance, it is only a defense mechanism. Because Pisceans are extremely sensitive, most have been trampled on throughout their life. That attitude is coming from years of being used and taken for granted by those closest to them. It doesn’t take much to hurt them but once they know for certain that you won’t do that, they will only grow closer.
I have been with a Libra for about three years now. For the first year I was constantly trying to escape and absolutely sure that our relationship wouldn’t work. Even through this very rough year, we were inseparable. He played it smart – instead of pushing me into a corner he challenged me. Of course the Ox in me (notoriously stubborn) couldn’t back down. It was almost like I had to push him to his brink just to see if I could count on him to stand by me. After a year of this back and forth, he was still there and the faith we had in each other grew so much that our bond became unbreakable. Now almost three years later we’re engaged and couldn’t be happier.
The moral of the story: When dealing with a Pisces, understand that in most cases they would never intentionally hurt anyone. Chances are they’re trying to fight off some overwhelming fear and if you can tap into their emotions, you probably have a chance at winning them over. Like one of the posts said, they need to feel that you’re in the corner regardless of how irrational they’re being. If you consistently stand by them, they will eventually trust you completely… it’s worth the wait.
As far as Pisces men being rude or offensive, I don’t have much insight there. I tend to be very levelheaded and careful with my words. I would guess that they are trying to protect themselves by pushing you away.
Hi I am a Pisces and im married to a pisces. I also have very vivid dreams that sumtimes come true and my birthday is also feb 28th. I was wondering if male pisces r prone to cheat? I know most guys are, but if there is temtation can they hold back? Just wondering if anyone had any experienced with this.
had any experience ******** with this
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thanks
I wanna ask the same question roxy asked, are pisces men prone To cheating? I always hear they are loyal once they loved truely and would never imagine them selves with someone else but, what if they met someone and really liked them would they cheat and hide the truth?
If anyone has a story to tell us about this
Midnight aquarius
To Roxy + Midnight Aquarius
I think I may be able to answer your question, sort of…
I have recently become involved with a Pisces man, we have infact been friends for a while but I was out of the country and recently returned and started meeting up again with him, things developed quickly between us but he never mentioned a girlfriend. (I wouldn’t have got involved with him if I had known!!!) We were spending so much time togethor I thought it was impossible that he would have a girlfriend anyway!!! So a couple of weeks ago things intensified and we had a very hot night of 6 hours of non-stop passion in bed togethor, However all night long I kept wondering why he didnt kiss me on the lips. The next morning he seemed fine and very sweet, as if he had done nothing wrong at all. Later that day I texted him to ask why he didnt kiss me on the lips. His response was erm…somewhat surprising!!! He texted back saying that “he apologised if he had been leading me on (errr…I think taking a woman to bed is a bit MORE than leading her on!) but infact he was currently in a relationship!” I was so amazed! Apparently he had been with this ‘girlfriend’ (who happens to be aquarius) for 8 months or more, yet even one of his best friends (a friend of mine also) didn’t even know! Mystery as to whereabouts was solved when I found out she lives abroad, so he flys out to see her once or twice a month. Except that I see him on a weekly basis as he lives very close by to me. So, there’s your answer - Pisces men WILL cheat, but hey, in their head they haven’t done anything wrong, cos they haven’t given away their sacred ‘kiss’, yes, their logic defies even me! So, now I am very confused as he has not stopped wanting to see me, i.e, he still invites me round to his even though now I know he is ‘taken’ I don’t sleep in his bed with him, but I can tell he wants to, and I want to, but its so awkward as theres clearly an emotional connection between us (I’m Scorpio by the way) and he doesn’t seem to have made a decision either way, but he still cuddles up to me and holds my hand, and stares into my eyes and into my soul, but I wish he could decide - because he can’t carry on with his Aquarius girlfriend acting like all is ok, when clearly he is involved with me emotionally and, on one occasion, physically, there is a massive amount of sexual energy between us, and I would love to see where it could lead, but obviously I can’t do that while he is carrying on with this so called ‘girlfriend’. I wish I could know what was going on in his mind…!
Any Man or a Woman can cheat (irrespective of the Zodiac he/she belongs to) if they are not happy with the marriage or a relationship they’ve been into!!!
im with a aries woman for almost 4 years on new years day, ive never cheated and had plenty chances but its not in me to do that cause i love her and our relationship works. people cheat if there not happy or geting lack of attention or just players.
WE PISCES CAN BE EXTREMELLY SENSITIVE BEEN ABLE TO FEEL THE PAIN OF SOME1 TALKING TO YOU CAN BE EXTROADINERY. WE CAN BE VERY STUBORN AS I AM BUT IN 1 WAY IT HELPS ME BE INDEPENTENT AND STICK TO MY GUNS AND ALSO PLAYED A BIG PART OF GOING THROUGH A ILLNESS FOR OVER 20 YEARS. WE ARE NOT ALL DEPRESSED OUT OF OUR HEADS WERE ACTUALY QUITE LEVEL HEAD PEOPLE WHO CAN SE THE FAR FUTURE AND TRY TO WORK THORDS IT. IM ALSO NOT TO INTERSESTED IN DETAILS AS YEE CAN PROBLEY SE. PISCES ARE BEEN TO HARD ON THEMSELVES ALWAYS BLAMING THEMSELVES FOR THE WAY THEY FEEL WHEN THERE WORRIED ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE AND FORGET ABOUT THEMSELVES. PISCES ARE ALWAYS HAPPY WHEN THERE KEPT ACTIVE CAUSE THE MIND JUST TAKES OVER IF THEYVE TO MUCH TIME O THERE HANDS.
Lol to aly dont tell me people cheat when they are not happy in their current relation ship! “DUH”. No I wanted to know if pisces men do it more since they kinda lie alot sometimes and are rather escapist!
I liked scorchio#scorpio’s answer, I could understand he was strong and he wanted to be true to his current girlfriend “aqua abroad girk:p” But he showed he can be weak, as most pisces can be that way uner certain circumstances. By the way!I so envy You , Youra scorpio and I always read that a pisces man is perfect fit for his scorio lady, aarrrrrgggg I get frustrated alot when I read that ending up as green as Mr.hulky!.I’m sorry for he aqua abroad girl But she’s far away and so”far from the eye, far from the heart”
if he seriously wants to be with his auqa goirl he should make up his mind or he should stay with You and lose him self into this newly found connection
Good luck to YOu and thanks alot for your comment!
Mightnight aquarius
Hi Roxy & Midnight. I’m a male Pisces. Can only speak for myself. Was married to a F/Pisces, was in serious relationships(2) with F/Aries and a F/Cancer. Can’t recall anyone that was either a Scorpio or Taurus, let alone any other sign. During each relationship, never “cheated”, or even thought about doing so with any woman I have been involved with.
Oh mid-night,
You have been focussing way too much on the cheating aspect of pisces men. It seems appropriate since from your posts it appears that you are very much into behaviour of pisces men. But….please, please, please, have some lessons in human psychology. You will find a much better answer that why men cheat (if you are interested in men only). Women cheat too.
Even all Pisces men are not alike psychologically and regards to frame of mind. Sorry, it is difficult to draw any solid conclusion on the cheating aspect of the Pisces. Some people will say “they do”, others will say “they don’t” depends on their kind of experience with a pisces male. Similarly, it also depends what kind of a life that respective piscean had, how he takes relationship and committment. There is a lot of variety of people and I’m dead sure, it also exists in pisces fraternity.
I suppose aqua women are not judgemental, this is what I have read. But who knows!!!
Peace and Ciao
Aly, The water-OX
Hello Pisces Ox,
Its interesting to read the early part of your comment, being a pisces Ox (water) myself (02/73). However, I find it strange that you are extremely sensitive and painfully empathetic which I as an OX don’t tend to agree. How come??? We Ox can be very harsh even in relationships, we don’t like sensitive and emotional ones as they are too weak for us. While grounded and responsible part is so accurate for an OX even if its Pisces. In my opinion, for us, committment to work and responsibility is synonymous to religion but religion is not. Also agree, we are not emotional people (hard shelled) who don’t break down and don’t really show our weaker side but relationships seem to be a big problem for OX particularly the romantic ones (at least for me) since we use way too much of our rationality than heart. Relationships come and go and to make long term committments are extremely difficult. At times, even the monotonous work kills me and I prefer to quit work to find something new and interesting that should give me mental stimulation and newer ideas. We also get bored easily.
Would appreciate to know something more about Piscean-OX from my fellow Piscean-Oxen.
Peace!!!
Aly, The Water-OX
I just absolutely love this board but I often walk away more confused than when I started! My Pisces and I hadn’t spoken in 3 weeks after he broke plans due to work. He didn’t get in touch with me and I ASSUMED ( I know!) that he didn’t want to talk because he often disappears so I didn’t call/text him. He texted Friday wanting to know why I haven’t gotten in touch with him. I wanted to scream!!!!!
Pisces/Ox-what exactly did your current love do that was different from others that made you want to stay? Is there a way that I can prove to him that I’m in it for long term?
One thing I would like to know is WHY???? do I keep attracting pisces men? AND Cancer men?
These guys are the least compatible with my sign, and I agree completely but for some reason, those are the ONLY guys who go out of there way for me? Other signs? Not so interested.
If anyone has inpute, please tell me. I am a Gemini 6/20/78 8:30 am and an earth horse, I believe.
ok, for the pisces males out there, any insight would be appreciated. I am a sagittarius woman seeing this pisces man for about 3 weeks. After 2 weeks, we had sex. I asked him where did he feel this was going and his response was its going with our hearts.That we are gonna have fun together, take our time and let the seriousness happen. So now I am confused because the sex came quickly and is still coming, yet what are we suppose to be taking slowly? He tells me he has been hurt in the past, so is this suppose to be the reason we are taking it “slow”?
Pisces men are beautiful. I was dating an Aquarius before him who I couldn’t take back esp after I met him. Dreamy Pisces floated into my life and I just lost interest in other men. The second time I saw this Pisces guy we started talking and clicked. I am a Sagittarian/Scorpio cusp Nov 24 I’m very sensitive but so is he and he has empathy that you’d never see on a man. He is psychic! He reads me! I can never lie to him but I know when he’s telling me tales, fish tales. Harmless lies because he’s really been hurt it seems and he lies to protect his ego. I know alot of things about him like lies that I don’t bring up. He injurs himself too how he deals w/ his tumultous emotions probably. I love him though and recently he was acting like a terrible child. BTW he is 10 years younger than me but I never saw him as less than a man but I do want to mother him. His mother killed herself so he’s scared by it or something. People tease him all the time his peers..I see his ego get destroyed and it makes me sad. He probably thinks I just pity him but it is much more. He’s docile and I’m stoic. But you would never guess that when we are together. I am emotional and soft around him and he takes charge around me. You break rules and laws sometimes because you really want someone to be happy. I think he’s a crazy romantic likeme.
He was acting in an irrational way because a new guy come to work and he is gay so no threat. But when he saw how well we got along Pisces guy got mean. He wanted to hurt me and he did. I was reaching out to him wanting to communicate and I understood. He was scared he just wanted to know that he was still important to me. Because after we talked he was back to his old charming self again. It is all in his body language. He wasn’t a bad guy. Being jealous nor caring too much was never a bad thing. If they are indifferent like Aquarius it means that they don’t care. That is how you know someone is really afraid of losing you. That is love w/ no bounds. Pure emotion like romeo and juliet.
I’ve had to admit things to myself today. Like how I thought of injuring someone I loved alot…thin line b/w intense love and hate. That’s why they say love is blind because when you’re in love you don’t give a damn about anything else.
Lily mentioned being attracting Cancer men and pisces men. I met a Cancer 10 years ago that changed my world and I only knew him for 3 months. I thought that these the were the men that women only dreamed of.
Yeah I know these guys are great but it never works out, so I swear them off and then everytime I meet a great guy, he turns out to be one of the two!
sag-girl-
Hi Roxy here again. I also am going to tell you guys about my pisces/pisces situation with my other half. But first I wanted to say to you sag-girl that I dated a male sagg and I am a female pisces. We were together for a few years but lets just say fire and water dont mix to well. It was never a smooth relatioship like the one I am in now. Fire and water just arnt a good match. Becareful into what you get yourself into, because its easy to get into sumthing, but it’s harder to get out.
Okay everyone now here is my situation… Well my husband is in the marine corp… and he is going on the boat. And I spoke to a psychic (that is very very good) and she told me that he will be tempted by another women. She said she felt a pain in her elbow which meant he was like elbowing her away. I am having a hard time with this because this psychic has been right about so many peoples lives…. I am just scared now, he is the one man in the whole world that treats me well and has never cheated. But when it’s out of my hands, and he will be so far away I dont know how he will act. I am his fist love, and his first everything. We have been together almost 6 years and got married 2 years ago. Its hard for me because the thought of him with another women makes me phycsically ill. He’s very charming, and a gentlemen, would never hurt a fly. Sometimes people get him being nice with mixed signals… so I am just so scared that he will do something when he is gone just because I wont beable to find out. I know I cant accuse him when he hasnt even left (leaves in Janruary) but I just dont know where else to turn at this point.
I’m a 29yr old Scorpio female who is dating a 29yr old pisces man I really like him alot and can’t stop thinking about him. I have read confused comment on August 13th and I have the same problem with my guy but the only diffence is that I think I may have pushed him I showed up at his house called first but he told me not to come over but I did anyway he did not have company I did ask him that so I did not understand why I could not come so when I showed up and knocked on the door he was very mad where he started hiting me stoping me from coming in I was not pushing myself into his home I was on the steps but he kept pushing me to where I started falling all over the place in order for him to stop I just walked away and got into my car and left he called me about 10 minutes later saying why would you come it’s not like we have any string attached I could not understand why he was so mad I was just over there that same morning we have only been seeing each other for about 6 months he has opened up to me talking about anything on his mind after everything that happen I left him a message the next day apologizing for showing up when he asked me not too but I also advise him that did not give him the right to put his hands on me it has been about a week now he has not called or replied back to my message. I feel so stupid to be still thinking about someone who has put there hands on me but I feel I need to help him but don’t know how to without feeling weird about coming around him now. Can someone please help me I would like a answer from a pisces male.
Thanks
Please help!!!!!
also i wanted to know if should just walk away or contacted him,is something that will happen often are all pisces men like this, this is my first pisces. I can’t stop thinking about his kisses him holding me, I don’t understand why he was so mean I always think about his feeling I feel before mine.
alot of sites will tell you that pisces are known to be flirtatious and whatnot but thats only bc they need sensual & emotional Reassurance. but they are very loyal in a relationship bc they’re a water sign and all water signs are extremely loyal & sensitive.
& pisces although they might be a little deceptive they would never lie to intentionally hurt anyone.
I have been married to a Pisces man for almost two years. We have been together for four years. I am a Virgo. He is my soul mate. Albeit we have had our struggles like any couple but it took me FOREVER to figure him out. Here is what I know…he hates to be smothered so I make sure I am never clingy. He must have time to do what he wants without me and above all I have to trust him and no call him when he is out with his Homies.
He is a dreamer but he makes his dreams come true so long as I dream along with him. Every morning we wake up snuggle and talk about the dreams we had the night before. Yes, sometimes I have to rein him in but the way I do it is with logic and ask him to think it over and allow him to make up his mind. My husband was single for ten years and was quite the player before I married him. He went kicking and screaming but once he took the plunge, he was ecstatic.
At our wedding his friends kept saying, “How did you do it?” My answer is simple. I never stopped him from being him. I let him dream, buy things like he used to when he was single and I allow him to play. A Pisces man is a fish. Ever try to hold a fish? My husband even jokes around with his buddies about me, the wife. It’s so ironic because he sticks his finger in his mouth and mimics a hook. Is that funny or what? He is a fish.
I am a Virgo. I describe us like this…I am the Virgin-like Maiden on the edge of the pier waiting for my fish to jump up and show himself to me. I clap and say, “Awesome.” As long as I am his biggest fan without losing myself in the process, we are a great team. It works because I know if I don’t, he is going to swim away to calmer waters-which is funny because I do not swim. Enough said.
Hello back again and still wondering if I should walk away from my Pisces man I keep reading these comments about how they want their space and since I’m a scorpio woman and being jealous in my nature when his phone is off I feel that he is with someone else but I don’t ever accuse him once I was about to accuse of being with someone then he called I stayed the night with him ( I felt really stupid for even thinking that). Can someone please tell me why Pisces men are so distance and will they ever be happy????
p.s.
Someone please help me with my previous comment he still hasn’t called but I don’t want to walk away from him……SO CONFUSED!!!!
Hi ‘Wondering’ sorry to hear about your struggle with your pisces man, i can understand as I am also a scorpio and although its early days with my pisces man, i know exactly what you mean - they do have a tendency to bury their head in the sand and a bit like an ostrich, if they don’t face up to their problems they assume that they will just go away…as a scorpio i can totally understand the frustration and yes, we do get jealous and our minds can get carried away, so many times i have been about to call or text him to tell him i ‘give up’ with him (exasperated!) but then just as i am thinking that, he will suddenly call me up and invite me over etc etc….so we are back to square one!
A part of me feels totally sympathetic and patient with him, and another part of me feels frustrated and puzzled by him!
‘Wondering’ have you tried to contact your Pisces boy? How did he leave it the last time you saw him? Do you know any of his friends that you can ask whats going on? I guess I am lucky as my Pisces boy is best mates with my good mate James so any time I don’t know what he is up to, his/my friend James will tell me exactly what he is up to, haha! I think Pisces boy knows this but tends to ignore the fact!
(Not that I try and keep tabs on him, but just good to know he is not off the radar all togethor!!!) Maybe you should just not contact him, as that is the policy I have always taken, and out of the blue he will contact you, I’m sure of it, Pisces boy will not be able to resist being magnatised back to his Scorpion lover….
Thanks Scorpio lady for your reply, yes I have contacted him but his phone was off I don’t know if he may have changed his number or the company turned it off for non-payment but before I called yesterday I did not call at all but I wanted to so much but I didn’t want him to push me away and I feel stupid for even trying in my mind so when I finally did I just did it and did not think about it but when his phone was off I was hurt then I started thinking if he did change his number would he call me to give it to me I don’t know how long it has been changed. I keep thinking this has not been going on for like yrs only months like 6 months so I feel to myself that I should not feel this serious. As I placed on issue on Nov. 13th, I don’t know if you have read that. I guess I should just walk away from the whole thing due to my comment on the 13th of Nov.?
Oh Scorpio lady I forgot to add that the next after the BIG issue happen with my comment on the 13th I advised that did text him and I advised him that I know that this is the end I also wished him the best of luck in everything he does….was that wrong to should have just apologized for showing when he ask me too but he still hasn’t apologized to me which I feel he should. This is the first time I could not figure out someone…….OMG!!!!!!
Oh Scorpio lady I forgot to add that the next day after the BIG issue happen with my comment on the 13th I advised that did text him and I advised him that I know that this is the end I also wished him the best of luck in everything he does….was that wrong to should have just apologized for showing when he ask me too but he still hasn’t apologized to me which I feel he should. This is the first time I could not figure out someone…….OMG!!!!!!
pisces men just tend to wonder off into dream land im sure his thinking of u but not sure why he hasnt called u im with a aries and at the start she kept phoning about 25 times a day and i asked her nicely to stop calling me all the time onless its something important and give me space.so adventinetly she stopped and i payed more attention to her then.now speaked of stoped we never had a few days without talking.
Wow - Eddie P - can’t believe she would call you 25 times a day! Thats crazy!
My rule has always been this (especially with my Pisces man): If I want to get in touch, I will do so only once. I will send a text or call him or email or whatever, and then the ball is in his court! Then when he decides to get back to me then he does! Sometimes I have had to wait nearly a week to get back to me, but I try and be patient.When I finally see him or hear from him it makes it all the more special!
To ‘Wondering’ - thats interesting you told him you knew it was the end. Sometimes I think that the mysterious and unfathomable nature of Pisces men can either a) lead you to assume he’s not interested and therefore you ‘give up’ and admit defeat or b) you give him the benefit of the doubt and feel determined to make things work.
Many times my Pisces man has acted in a way in which I have thought, oh he must want to move on now, and yetthen pokes his head out of the sand all of a sudden and takes me back into his arms! Wondering, as you say,yes he should apologise, but Pisces man will NEVER admit their wrongdoings, believe me, they prefer to live in denial. My dad is a Pisces and he managed to hide the fact that he had a ’secret’ daughter (my half sister) for 25 years. He is still in denial and even though he did tell us eventually, he refuses to apologise to my mum even to this day, he just goes into his make-belief world where everything is fine and dandy and he doesnt want to confront the fact that he might have hurt peoples feelings. Pisces often think its easier to keep secrets than to admit fault.
I am a 21 year old Pisces and have met a 26 year old Virgo at school. After talking to her for about 3 to 4 weeks, I asked her out and she said that she is busy .that day, I was into myself saying to myself(ohhh God what has happened to our world, I cant find any value with in the people I meet, I am lost living with, arrogant ,selfish, people with no meaning to their lives, God I feel lonely on this planet, relationships have come to be only for desires, I cant find a god loving, pure, simple, intelligent, person who I could trust to be my soul mate in this short life, …………………… that night I had a dream about my own death, a man came to me and talked to me about life and so on…….) on that day, my friend who was walking home with me, assumed that I was into myself because of the girl, but this was not true. Later that week, with out telling me, he talked to the girl and told her that I loved her something. Now, the girl thinks that I love her or something, she sends me messages and stuff but I don’t love her or look at her in that manner. I think, she thinks that way because I am so kind to her and I am humble person. She dosent know that I am kind to all and treat everyone with true sense of kindness and compassion…….now I don’t want to break her heart …………. Please help me out thanks
I got to say one thing though, for Pisces to not be depressed and too sensitive, they got to have a true meaning to their lives. I could say this because, I am a true Pisces, born: year of a fire Pisces, month of a water Pisces, day of a fire Pisces and hour of a metal Virgo. please Subscribe to my youtube account :
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thanks, peace
Thanks scorpio lady for your info it’s a big help but I’m just going to leave my pisces alone cut all ties like I said his number is no longer the same and he hasnt contacted me to give the new one plus this to much work for someone I may not even like when I finally get him in my corner pisces men seem like they make things harder than what they really have to be. To Eddie P your to nice if someone kept calling me that many times I would have figured she was crazy.
Wondering- good luck, i can sympethise with you. Indeed Pisces men can really truly make things ALOT harder than they need be! I have just got back from a ‘date’ with mine, he was very flirty and sweet all evening then suddenly upped and left like a bat outta hell! Arghh! Such an effort to keep hangin on~!
I am a leo woman. I’ve been dating a pisces guy for only a few months but I think he’s lovely. I think it’s true that he likes to be mothered, but show me a guy that doesn’t. I’ve dated heaps of guys that love that. I don’t mind - I like doing things for him, he’s very appreciative and I like mothering people sometimes. All we do is laugh - he’s a bit lazy, but I don’t care, I’ve got five older brothers that are ten times worse and they are NOT pisces. He does make me coffee in the morning although, I do breakfast but the giving is there. He’s kind of secretive, but he’s more mysterious than a person who I feel I can’t trust and I will not give in to prying. He’ll tell me stuff I about him when he’s comfortable enough too. I’m not exactly an open book either and there are things about me that he’s sure as hell is never going to know. I think he needs alot of space - he told me when we first met that he can’t commit to me right now, so I told him to slow up because I only met him once at that stage - and I really don’t want commitment from a person I don’t know that well so lets just go with the flow and see how we go. I find that as I’m getting to know him his insecurities are dropping away. He’s more romantic every time we see each other. When we first met I wouldn’t grab him when we were watching movies, but now he’s the one doing the grabbing. He’s deep I know that and emotional - that’s why you keep the atmosphere super relaxed with absolutely no pressure. When we’re together we’re both intuative not just him - I have not felt this comfortable with a guy for a long time. It’s still really too soon to tell - but I feel we are very compatible even though our star signs are not. I think the Leo ladies up the top put a hell of a lot of pressure on their men and probably expect too much from just one man. What have they done to help their men get out of that situation - do you think they really like being that way?
i am currently with a pices male and i am a scorpio, i think you are right about them trying to hide their true selves because we are very compatable and says he likes me alot and even at times tells me he loves me but he is so confusing and afraid of comittment that after like a week he will pull the we are just friends stuff, i cant figure out what to do or how to know what he really wants or feels…help!!!
Hi there, well that was a long but interesting read!
Im a pisces male (13 march) and I never really used to believe in astrology until i started to learn a little about myself and my own personal traits through general life experience. One day I decided to look into the ’so-called’ traits of a pisces…….and boy was I pleasantly surprised yet also scarily shocked at some of the things I read. Reading this blog among a few others has really started to make think I need to embrace the great qualities I have and also understand the bad ones that have on many occasion laid waste to relationships and other aspects of my life.
I am a very caring and sensitive person, with the typical ‘Im a great listener and will take on everybody’s problems’ kind of attitude. Although this can drive me crazy when I get overwhelmed I generally just hide away on my own with my phone on silent and sit in my home studio producing music which is VERY important to me as an escape.
I definately am a true fantacist, and my dreams can have a distinct effect on my life. A good dream can make me feel ecstatic for days, a bad one can leave me confused and dazed for days and the weird ones, the pre emptive foresight dreams can be a blessing and a curse as these ones really do have a profound effect on me.
Ive found that people can get very intimate about their feelings when conversing with me, and see the shock on their face when i can finish many a sentence for them before they finish! This is also extremely helpful in arguments, because if Im not drunk I can be one of the most formidable people you could ever get into an argument with. Although this is a great personality trait to have it has also been the downfall of a few very important relationships with women in my life. When things turn sour, if I feel I have had wrong done to me (especially lies) I can be one of the nastiest people with words I have ever come across. I find myself saying cutting people to the bone with the most intrusive comments possible due to my intuition, observation skills and sadly sometimes the things people have confided in me. I hate this part of me and Im trying really hard to stop myself from going down this road in the future although in some cases people deserve that kind of treatment (this doesnt stop me feeling bad though). This has also been mentioned by other people in this blog so I guess Im not alone in this and it seems a lesser talked about side of a piscean.
Im very wary of who I open up to, and will generally make fun of myself to avoid telling people the truth until I truly trust them. This means that although I dont make many new friends, the many I have made over the years are REAL friends and I can spot a bad apple very quickly.
When single I can be very promiscuous but when I find someone special I am totally devoted. I know the things to say that can make their day, make them feel special and safe nomatter what life throws at them and without trying very hard (because i enjoy pleasing others) tend to be a very, very good partner for someone…until the depression and self esteem problems kick in. At that point I try to compensate for my shortcomings by being overly needy or extremely distant and both states usually end up annoying the woman into a state of despair, annoyance and eventually dislike.
Ive only ever truly loved 2 women in my life, one a scorpio which was absolutely blissful for a number years until my sensitivity and insecurities pushed her away, although this was probably inevitable as I was punching way above my weight with such a beautiful girl. The other was a pisces and was very recent…I have never in my life fallen for someone so quickly and so heavily as I did for her. We were so similar and though not the ’standard’ pretty she was and still is the most beautiful girl Ive ever laid eyes on. It was like something out of a dreamworld when both of us were on the same level but the push and pull behaviour from both of us, her lying and yet again my depressive side wreaked havoc on the relationship and it ended in a nasty way. I have said some horrible things to her and if Im honest I doubt Ill ever forgive myself for the things I said to her. I will never see her again I will never get to tell her face to face how sorry I really am, despite how much she hurt me in the first place.
I know quite a lot of pisceans, and a lot of them share a lot of similar traits but none of them to my knowledge have the nasty streak in them. Maybe they have learned what Ive been forced to learn recently…
For any women out there wondering how to deal with a piscean man, talking from my perspective (which wont be true for all), be patient, understanding and above all else be honest. In the worst case scenario, if you find yourself being drawn to another man and you actively want to stray then finish it straight away. If you cheat, find that the grass wasnt greener on the other side and decide to cover it up and go back to the perfect loving ‘doormat’…your piscean man will know for sure and it would be better for both parties to come clean and take it from there. Our ability to make you feel happy, or sad, is no coincidence. For some reason I have a sixth sense when it comes to things like this and the facade of lying that comes afterwards is in my eyes, worse than the cheating in a lot of respects.
Well, I wish I could write something more insightful but all that reading and the late hour has made me tired!
In short I love and hate being a pisces. Maybe thats the price you pay for living under a sign that has duality!
Hi Melissa,
After quite some pisces bashing, its interesting to hear that being a Leo women, you are having a good relationship with a Pisces Man. What really interested me is that you are defying astrological compatibility. My mom was a Leo and I being a pisces usually had a good mum-son relationship. I think, Leo women are interesting and proud as ever. They also prefer to give more than they take. I agree when they push too hard, then things become sore.
It’s also note worthy that few people understand what pisces really are but if they do, both can have joy ride of life though pisces are also fickle, quirky, crazy, and escapists. Have a good day.
Aly, the water-OX
Hi Lara
I think the best thing for you to do (and this is just my opinion) is not to listen to anything he’s saying. He’s may be saying that he loves you then the next thing it’s just as friends. I think when he says these things to you - don’t respond, don’t let him know what your true feelings until he says ‘I love you - do you feel the same way? Because then he’s asking you to confirm your feelings on top of his - and there is no backing out of that. With my one - straight from the beginning it was ‘I can’t commit blah blah blah’ but from then on - every second weekend for the last three months belonged to me. Use your intuition - does it really feel like you’re just friends? Hope this helps. Let things grow naturally - he will sort it out eventually. In fact - sounds like your already half way there.
Regards M
Hey Ox
Both my parents were pisces so I know that sign like the back of my hand. I am definately a Leo woman but I learned to tone down the bad points that leos can have and that’s purely so I don’t make other people feel intimidated or inferior and/or bring on a war I don’t want. I am proud of myself but have had people shoot me down before so I know exactly when and where to start blowing on my trumpet. I’ve learned to lose (it sucks) but I can do it gracefully - and then get over it. Astrology is a guide line - the bad points are the things (if you possess them) you can try to change about yourself if you don’t like them.
Thanks M
whippet,
Your comment seem to be long to me due to I got it though my cell phone but OMG! I love it it made me understand him so much more. Scorpio lady I loved that you are a Scorpio just like me and you know how we think I love your advice also, Whippet if you have anything else to say PLEASE! spill it.
Thanks
My little Fish Boy
From afar you saw my little Scorpion Tail
Lost amongst the weeds and scrub
Fighting with any
Little creatures that got in my way
You beckoned me down
Into your cool clear water
And I swam with you
In the shallows and I liked it
So you lured me into deeper waters
And I loved it…
We splashed around merrily
And you said “Follow Me”
So I did,
Because I wanted to know where you were going
You drifted along in the current
We glided round long windy bends
And crashed down waterfalls
Tumbling through rapids
And all along you made it look so easy
But my little Fish Boy
You just expected that I would follow
but I struggled, and I struggled
Because you looked back at me
to check that I was still there
but I was gasping for air
and you didn’t throw me any branches
I was kicking so hard I got so tired
And the tides were ebbing and flowing
So fast
I couldn’t keep up…
But you just made it look so easy
Little Fishy
And my little scorpion tail was weighing me down
I tried so hard to stay afloat
Because I loved this crazy river
That you took me down…
But you tire me out Little Fishy
And I cannot paddle on forever
With no branch to cling to
for security…
Oh my beautiful Little Fishy
I love you, but I think I am drowning
with each new twist and turn
Slowly sinking into the abyss
to lay buried in the sand
forever…
haunted by your distant echoes
far far above me
where I cannot reach.
Hi everybody
sorry but English is not my lanquage!
I have a question cause my Pisces friend makes my crazy!
I am Cancerian en I’ve met him again after 33 years . He was my first kindergarten love :). I am married now but I want to be friends with him but the power of chemistry is HUGE! Is that anyway possible to be “just” friends? I really want to but it’s hard !
I dont know what is that feeling I have never had. I know it is wrong but I think about him every day…
He probably reads my mind and was mad at me when I said I think I had feelings for him…
He contacts me from time to time in a way a cannot resist…
I feel he likes me but is that normal and can we be friends ?
greetings!
melissa
well to start it off i do love him and i have told him this but he is so afraid of commitment and i dont know what will happen next, he doesnt act like we are just friends when we spend time together and even calls me his girl when talking to friends but then he will back away again,in my heart i want to believe that my intuition is right and the feelings are mutual,but his fear of commitment makes me unsure.
Hey Lara
The thing I learned about men is that you have to give them alot of space and NOT worry. I haven’t come across many guys in my life that know what they want and the trick is not to make their minds up for them. Guys dream about meeting the one as well and when they find exactly what they’re looking for they totally freak out. When women get their hearts broken we tend to be able to get over it and quickly - it is a totally different story for men. They don’t rebound like we do - they stay down in depression for ages. Guys have alot on their shoulders - they are taught to be strong, the provider - the leader blah blah blah - and they fear failing at that. That is what he’s scared of not commitment and not you. Pisces will naturally think they are not good enough for you. The key is appreciation. OK maybe you haven’t got an engagement ring yet - but aren’t you greatful he’s with you. Appreciate him and be greatful with what you have with him now - and if you really are truly greatful then you won’t be worrying about anything. He will be attracted to you like bees to honey. He’s calling you his girl already he said something about love so you know there’s definately something there. Don’t let that go - and don’t focus too much on the future cause it’s coming. Relax and enjoy him.
Regards M
Hi, I’m dating a Pisces guy about a year now and I absolutely adore him. He has all the traits of a Pisces man and he could be very sweet and can turn me off at the same time. He has this way about him where he will do something to upset me like not call me for 10 days while he’s away on vacation, then call me and make it sound as though I was wrong for not calling him. Thing is I didn’t get him on his cell phone because he never answered. I also found out he told me a lie and absolutely went off on him. He sent a text saying he’s sorry and he never meant to cause me pain, but being the Leo that I am I want him to admit that he told me a lie but he said he doesn’t feel to talk about it. Now I think I kept pissing him off because I keep trying to bring up the fact that he lied not outright but I’ll say something to bring the topic back up again. As it stands he’s not really talking much to me but I sent him a text saying that I’m sorry for cursing him for not calling and that he’s a sweet guy and everybody makes mistakes sometimes. I really do love him and I hope I can do something to just get him back to feeling the way he usually feels about me. I wish he would just call me and forget about everything so we can get back to where we were. By the way, we are in a long distance relationship so I only see him like once or twice a year but we talk on the phone every day. Not sure how this would work out but I enjoy his company especially when we finally see eachother.
This is the first time I have ever been with a Pisces man. We have been together for 4 yrs. and now we are getting a divorce. He just asked me out of the blue. Not much I can do if someone does not want me, right? I have been crying for days and now I am fine but broken hearted. The next time someone tells me they are a Pisces, I am going to run screaming from the building. Pisces men are not for me.
I have never been able to figure him out. He is depressing, moody, unreasonable one minute and happy the next, cheap as hell, not romantic in the least, would cut off him arm first before buying me a gift. Like I said, I am broken hearted but actually now I am looking forward to being with someone more manly, romantic and not so selfish.
I gave my all to this man and you want to know what? I wasted my time.
Awe Dez - I feel really feel for you - I’m sorry that happened but I don’t think you wasted your time. I think it’s just another experience you needed to go through to find what you really want out of a partner, out of life. I use to go out with two cancerians and if you’re a positive person there is nothing worse than cancer - I never looked up pisces until I started dating one. I am almost polar opposite but I’m use to the cold hehe. But anyway - I haven’t seen that in my man yet - the moody depressing side - but I think he knows I don’t often go there unless I’ve lost something or someone worth getting that depressed over. Like you - I always give them everything and yeah I’ve been let down by everyone I’ve been with before. But that’s the risk I have to take but I realised I do get something out of it - even if its just experience. Keep your chin up girlfriend - you are supposed to give your everything to the one you think is the one even if they’re not - you are not doing anything wrong even though it feels like a waste of time. I know it feels really bad at the moment but it will get easier everyday - haha I will allow only 3 days of tears for someone I’ve broken up with - after that every day gets easier and easier. All the break ups I have had has refined me so that I am not afraid to get heart broken - and I’m not afraid to fall because I know failing at love with a man is not going to kill me and if this guy is NOT the one - well the way things are going I feel I am getting warmer and warmer. Love life - even the bits that suck ass.
Regards M
Hi Khemi lion
Did he apologise to you for lying? Yeah it’s wrong but what sort of weight does that lie hold - what is the reason that makes you bring it up all the time. Is he treating you like a fool? If he is get rid of him NOW. You watch when you shut the door he’ll come running back. He’s toying with you so give him the cut. Then you decide if you take him back or not. You’re leo - you are what I am - take the risk - even if it means losing him, and if he leaves - it’s probably worth it. Quit while YOU ARE AHEAD - and I betcha - he will come back with better manners. Pisces want what they can’t have so make yourself unavailable. You not enjoying your time with him cause you’re getting angry all the time.
Me
Melissa:
OMG you are such as wise woman. Thanks for the kind words. I finally stopped crying and went out and found an apartment, started packing and moving on with my life. I got this amazing power when I stopped crying. Then you want to know what my Pisces man did? He begged me not to leave. Arrrrrgggggghhhhh. This man is the most frustrating man I have ever met! Now he wants to stay married and make it work. He want to go to a marriage counselor. He says it’s him and he wants to get help before he loses me. SO off we go to counseling. We have our first session next week. Wish us luck. I am going to try my hardest to make it work too. Lord knows I am not perfect either.
Awe that’s good - I’m glad you’re sticking with it. They always come back - he sounds like a right pain in the butt, but you love him.
lads whats the crack? pisces are usually good and humoured people who live in there own fantasy world with a abstract mind which makes them great musicians and artists.they never want to hurt others but if you hurt them theyll usually come down on u like a ton of bricks and will sometimes go to far which there sorry for after which is to late. they know how to hurt u emotionly since there probley the most moody people. we like to help others which can make us more positive with ourselves. were very loyle and dont enjoy been pushed around, prob cause were to busy dreaming, ha ha.never talk a pisces down just help them help u even doe they prob know what u need just be patient with them cause they tend to hold back in opening up as they can really be deep and totally understanding but are sometimes to secret to show it cause thats where they keep private to themselves,which continues them dreaming i think.
Hello everyone!!!
I’m here to advertise my new business: I’m selling armors, helmets and shields for Pisces people, because the bashing up on our star sign is being so big that we are in need of some protection.
In every astrology website, we are the liars, cheaters, dreamers, weak willed, depressive, etc, etc…
But it’s ok, that’s part of Pisces job on Earth, we will take other people’s frustrations to ourselves, no problem. Yes!!! If that Aries girlfriend cheated on you, is because she has some planet in Pisces.
If your Gemini husband is having a double personality behaviour, of course, there’s a Piscean planet there.
Your Sagitarius business partner stole some money from you? I’m sure his sticky fingers belong to the 1st decan of March.
Do other star signs have any other weight to put on our shoulders? Don’t worry, we’ll carry it for you.
OMG!!!Lately I’ve seen lots of people around me colapsing for various reasons (stress, depression, fatigue, unhappiness and so on) and I haven’t seen too many Pisceans in this groups.
At the end, my conclusion is:
We are quiet (most of the times), we don’t like arguing, so, is very easy to drop all frustrations on Pisceans, simply because WE WON’T SAY ANYTHING BACK, we accept just to avoid confrontation and when we avoid confrontation they say that we are weak when on reality, we are just avoiding embarassment.
Honestly, cheating, lies and other bad stuff can be found in any star sign.
I think what is a huge problem with Pisceans is that we get completely lost and numb in our creativity, that is HUGE by the way, really, that’s what we live for.
Pisceans did so much for this planet, I think is time to look inside and ask ourselves:
-Do I really want a realtionship?
-Is my Piscean so bad?
-How were the ones I had before?
-If I make a list of the bad things of my personality and the bad things of his personality, who would have the bigger one?
Pisceans will hardly tell your pain in the neck side, Pisceans don’t like to hurt, even if they have to swallow a lot of bull****, and this is bad, as we don’t say anything, maybe the other part will think herself perfect.
All the best to everyone!!!
Good poetry Aly!!!
Enry
Enry:
Wow! Thanks for the great insight. I loved the manifesto.
Howdy!
95-98 percent of the posts on Pisces Men by non pisceans apparently seems to be written by frustrated individuals whose relationships are not ticking at all. Get some life people!!! Except for the blame game, it also seems that they don’t have any other thing to do. They clearly appear to be way too much opinionated and extremely judgmental. Unfortunately, the rationality has taken a backseat.
For instance, if I’ve been hurt by a Cancer, I cannot become judgmental about all Cancerians that they are all ***holes. Grow up guys. Secondly, if you are hurt by pisces men, why do you go for them??? Why don’t you study a person’s natal chart first and then decide whether to make him a friend, boyfriend, lover, or whatever. I think, that’s utterly foolish and stupid and I can bet if a capricorn or a leo(for instance) will hurt someone, the blame game will be on these two signs. Groooooooooow up!!!
Interestingly, there is some talk of wisdom here recently but unfortunately I don’t seem to find even any iota of it except blaming pisces men. It makes me laugh, really!!! I must say that some of the posts are so full of mediocrity and narrow in approach based on just personal micro judgment (of one man only) that even you don’t feel like looking at them let alone read them.
As a pisces-OX, I can say that we guys can pull out our horns and can kick a lot of *ss if needed. We are too proud even more than Leos. Don’t be judgmental/opinionated by considering Pisces men as just emotional, sensitive, and docile beings. Just go out and see, there are a lot of strong pisces men who give a damn. We are men of our own mind.
Good post Enry.
Aly
Any Pisces Sun with Venus in Aquarius male??? Would be interested to know this personality type.
Dear Becky!
Why my certain comments are not posted? Why? I don’t think so they are offensive?
Aly
Aly all your comments have been approved but I can only do so much, my internet wasn’t working this morning so I therefore couldn’t approve anyone’s comments.
Becky
My mistake. Thanks!!!
enry! i loved ur coment too~!
well ive had a bit more a detailed look into the other signs besides the sun signs.
Im a pisces sun, pisces moon, ascendant leo with venus/mars in aries.
most of what ive read rings pretty true besides most of the good points of my ascendant which after a good read seems to be just as important as the sun sign.
This has confused me a little as everything else is scarily accurate, and i cant make myself believe some and yet ignore others.
Maybe as ive read the leo ascendant is the mask I wear, and being a pisces wearing a mask is what I do until I trust people!
Can anybody recommend somewhere to get a full chart done, or anybody with more experience in this could maybe shed some light?
oops i forgot to add in the chinese astrology chart im a water pig which seems so similar to pisces that its no wonder i am the way i am hah!
Its pretty hard to ignore the similarities between a lot of my astrological traits, i just wish id started to look into this earlier in my life as it might have saved me a little pain along the way.
regards,
Whippet
Hi there Whippet,
I have a personal birth chart service myself so if you are interested email me at becky@love-astrology.com or click on this link http://www.love-astrology.com/personalised-natal-chart/ to be redirected to my services page. I also include the Chinese astrology in the chart as well.
Love & Light
Becky
Thanks Becky, note to self…..look around and you can see the answers your looking for! Unfortunately, being out of work at the moment means i cant afford it grrrrrrr. Damn this recession in the UK! On the flip side i get lots of time producing music though
Im wondering when other posters actually started to get interested in astrology and why?
For me it was the shocking truth i saw in front of my eyes, it seems as though someone has known me all my life and put it down in writing for me to read! Its scary!
Im only 25 so have a lot of life ahead of me providing i can stop my emotions from destroying myself, so hopefully the lessons i can learn from all this will help me along the trials and tribulations.
Id also like to add that im VERY sceptical about anything ’supernatural’ etc being quite a scientific and logical person. The fantacist side of me would love to believe in everything but says ‘Until i see it with my own eyes, i dont believe it’ and I must say that astrology has seriously overcome the scepticism i held regarding it previously and i find it quite enlightening. Is this similar to other pisces experiences?
Hi again, I live in the U.K as well, so I understand how you feel. Come back to me after xmas and we shall see what we can do
I too am sceptical about everything. But Astrology has always rang true. Pisces are the most intuitive of all signs, they see things others do not and do tend to enjoy astrology as it seems to help them over come a lot of emotional hurdles.
Love & Light
Becky
wow…the pisces male, funny that I have dated many men but the pisces male…until recently. Well, we haven’t actually dated…I just feel like I know this guy so much more than I ought to and I am extremely attracted to him. I get the feeling that he is attracted to me too….one night he was overly affectionate to me in a public place, in front of my friends, and I wouldn’t kiss him….yes, I am a scorpio woman, supposedly on the cusp, Nov.21st. Anyway, the next time I saw him, he was cruel to me….really mean! I couldn’t get over how cool, sweet and sensual he was before and then a total jerk! As an intuitive scorpio, I felt that he was hurt because I didn’t want to be intimate with him (in front of a whole bunch of people). Funny thing is, he still wanted to hang out with me….or maybe he didn’t and didn’t know how to get away from the situation. Anyway, his actions have been really hurtful and it is hard for me to tell my heart that he is a jerk and move on, being the obsessive scorpio that I am….thinking it was all my fault, blah, blah, blah..I guess that is why I found this website to understand the situation but really I am just more confused.
Sara-Marie… OMG, reading your post was like reading my own thoughts, I am in exactly the same situation and experiencing exactly the same issues! One minute they act like they are Prince Charming…the next minute they’re the Ice King! And I know..I know, I bet all your friends are telling you “forget him, he’s a jerk” but really you just cannot forget him, however much it hurts, you keep thinking that it’s you thats the fool for falling into this trap in the first place!
Hey Whippet!
You can just type the free natal chart in google and there are plenty of sites which provide relatively detailed readings for free. Yeah absolutely free. Ignore those that ask for money. Some of which are:
http://www.0800-horoscope.com/birthchart.php
http://www.cafeastrology.com/articles/howtoobtainchart.html
http://www.chaosastrology.net/freeastrologyreports.cfm
Have a great day.
Aly
Aly, you can’t possible tell people to ignore those of us who charge and I shall tell you why. I charge because my services are personal, I do it properly. The free ones are simply using software which adds your name, and may be very incorrect, there are huge benefits to buying a proper chart. Also you have to remember that this is my job, as you all have jobs so do I and I like to do my work properly. You wouldn’t go to a restuarant and not pay for your meal, well the same applies here. If you want the best then you have to pay for it I’m afraid. There are many people who like to call themselves astrologers but who are really just talented at copy and pasting and downloading software, who have no idea of planetary tables or the time it takes to create a proper report. You have to ask yourself why these things are free? There is always a reason, always.
Hey Becky!
No offense whatsoever, I was just tryin to help out the guy since he’s presently out of work. We all have been suffering from the consequences of recession in one way or another. My mentioning of ignoring various websites that charge money doesn’t include your blog. That wasn’t the idea and I didn’t mean that. What I really meant was that websites in Google that charge money can be ignored, above mentioned are not, so try them. I am not sure about the details yet I found their descriptions interesting to read.
I am well aware that there are hell lot of quack astrologers who just want to mint money by fooling people, the copy and paste thing is usually very common as I have found the same descriptions about signs on various websites, and the use of software is also very frequent. It doesn’t mean that people who have really studied astrology have no role. People who have too much faith in astrology always consult genuine astrologers. But if someone can’t afford and is not a big enthusiastic, and is in not interested in details, some basic information can be quite interesting for them. It’s up to the person how you take it.
Astrology is fun but I don’t take it as perfect to describe one’s life. Some people might take it as religion but there are numerous factors in one’s life that makes some one entirely different from their zodiac. Unfortunately, astrology becomes confusing as well for some. It’s how you understand it. For instance, if you take it seriously and commonly read the typical that one is a sensitive, emotional, clingy, and weepy kind of a person, you tend to behave in such a manner. However, if one continues to explore her/himself and use their mind more rationally, it is easy to realise that the person is not of this type as described in a typical manner.
Life is about continuous exploration and learning a new thing about yourself every day. After years and years of knowledge and learning, one still realise there is so much to learn more. There is no perfection in knowledge. Knowledge about anything (including astrology) is a never ending thirst. Sorry, enough of my philosophy.
Have a good day.
Peace, Aly
Well thank you Aly. I will always do what I can for people which is why I have asked him to contact me after Christmas, I am aware that people are suffering at the moment, and me being a non materialistic person would much rather not charge but my children keep needing to be fed!! lol
As for taking astrology seriously. I am not a fan of the word ‘believe’ and I do not believe in anything in that way including religeon or astrology or anything like that. I am however drawn to Astrology as I have watched it work over many years and can honestly say that the planets influence us just as they influence other forces on this Earth. I find it fascinating and am glad that you are part of my site. I just don’t wish people to think I over charge and don’t know what I am doing so I got a little protective.
Love & Light
Becky
Im currently talking to a pisces man and I do notice his random depression about things he CANNOT change. It frustrates me as an aries woman, because i am strong, self motivated and i just want him to get over it already! He says that in “his time” he will, but im not sure he HAS a time. ?? But I do love all the other qualities about him. All of them. He is soo sensitive (just the right amount), loving, caring,and a good listener. The random depression is about the only thing that bothers me. I am soo not like that. I move on,deal with things, get over things, and i just can’t understand WHY he can’t do this. I’m trying to, but i can’t grasp it.
whippet~ I am a Pisces and so is my husband and we both fit it to a T. I do more so because my moon sun etc all fall into Pisces. He is stronger and less depressed then me but it is soo weird how it completely describes both of us. If you look deeper into the charts you can see a lot of differences and they are so true, and we are only born one day apart literally by 23 hours. I looked up one of those free charts earlier for both of us and there were major differences that were very true to our personality’s. I would love a deeper reading one day. I would get one now but I guess everyone is having money issues lol.
I still sometimes wonder if both of our charts are put together if we would be a good match. Is it easy to learn how to do deeper readings by yourself?
Hi Roxy, thank you for your comment. Doing readings yourself is not that easy because there is a lot to learn not just about the placements of each of the planets but also because you need a good understanding of how the signs mix with each other with the different influences which each planet brings. Ofcourse you can learn to do it yourself but you will need time and patience. I love doing compatibility charts for people because it’s fascinating seeing two peoples charts together and seeing all there little quirks and reactions toward one another! You can pin point the weak spots and locate the strong ones, its fabulous! I just recieved an email from a client telling me I had saved her marriage with my chart, and that is what it’s all about, giving people the tools to get the best out of their relationship.
Even though you are only a day apart your Moon sign and Rising sign will be different and these will bring big changes as you have described. I am glad you are finding Astrology interesting.
Love & Light
Becky
ohhhhhhhhhh my gooooooooooooddddddddddddd, so much anger , so much frustration, so much of i dont know what to say ?????????? the girl who i assumed or imagined to be a good person and honest person turned out to be exactly opposite :((((all this long, she has a boyfriend and at the same time she is trying to become more then friends with me…….. i found out today that she has a boyfriend???? its ok,I say to myself, these dishonest and 2face people motivate me to work harder to become the best at everything that i do. why should i not achieve high positions in this material life? why should people like her who bring nothing positive into this life, become successful in life?i practice muay thai(martial arts)tomorrow,i am gona kick the life out of our punching bags…….i might go to her and give her helll, tell her that i have no respect for her as a human being.she is arrogant, dishonest,2 face, useless human being.but good thing that i found out this before our friendship got serious.if i found out then,honestly, i would have gone insane or done something really stupid. i would have felt the pain that her boyfriend would have gone through, and i would feel so so bad for him ……… thank god that i found out today. once every 3 or 4 years, when something really really really bad happens to me( when i fell betrayed, lied to, disrespected)i just cant control what i do,my emotions of love, justice, unity, respect, honesty.turns to, revenge, revenge……….. i still cant believe, how a person could look into your eyes and lie to you??????? this is how life is now a days……… nothing of value is left in our societies. people only care for material things and they have no values for themselves.in the end i say to myself,in my opinion,the one who created life and give our brain its abilities and ordered for the stars and the sun and all being to exist, will one day, definitely call everything to account. all the injustice, hate,poverty , oppression that we (all humans) have created on this planet,will come to end. we all must answer for what we did……….this heals my heart and brings peace to my mind and soul, i cant wait for that day…………
My grandmother is on her death bed now, we have a new born in our family, they have named her beautiful. I wrote this poem- letter for her. I have dedicated this to her and my dying grandmother. Sorry for any grammar mistakes, I had to translate the letter from Farsi to English.
O beautiful
O beautiful, you come to this world
You start walking and then you learn to play with your dolls.
O beautiful, you start growing too fast.
By the time you reach your teenage age,
All you want is attention from boys.
All you care about is to be beautiful like your dolls.
You spend so much of your time, trying to look good.
Then, all of a sudden, the boys come after you.
All they see, is your skin beauty.
They tell you that they love you but in reality they only know you through how you look.
They tell you that they love you,you fall for that trap.
You let them to use you in the name of love, 6 month later, you dont even know them.
This becomes the cycle of your life.
Satisfying yourself by pleasures and calling it love
Until, day by day this body of yours looses its youth.
One day, you say, I should look for the one who could take care of me,
and stay with me for rest of my life.
you find the person that you were looking for.
He has a good job, this marriage becomes like a trade.
He has come a long way, just like you.
This is the story of marriage, now a days.
You are tired, he is tired of playing this game of “Love”
Running, from one person to another.
After few short months, this marriage becomes so boring.
Now you want to bring another human being into life,
In your mind, this will make this marriage work.
O beautiful, you have a child now, its time for responsibility.
But you say to yourself, I was brought to existence in the same manner.
I wasn’t covered with love, attention or understanding.
I had problems all along my childhood days.
Then, you fall short of being that caring, loving and understanding mother.
slowly, slowly, time passes by.
One day, you find yourself sitting in a senior home.
Looking out the window, waiting for someone to talk with.
You are all lonely now, your children have no respect or any love for you.
old age has come now, your hair has turned white and your body has lost its beauty.
Your body is filled with all kinds of pains, now you think about your youth,
How you lived your life, now you feel that death is only few days away.
How everything has passed so quickly and there is no going back.
You cant do anything now, just waiting for that final hour of life.
One day, the nurse opens the door of your room.
She finds your lifeless body, your heart is all dead now.
Your eyes dont see, there is no sign of you left.
They carry your coffin to the graveyards.
dig a grave for you and leave your body inside.
Now, O beautiful, dont you see?
Cesar with all his greatness has taken the same route?
His body is resting in the grave, so many generations have come and gone.
O beautiful, here is your choice,
Dont follow the Hollywood’s ways of life,
Dont look for the fake image that they have created for you,
Everyday, look to grow and change for the better,
replace those magazines of yours with good books,
Care for your inside too, replace those fake models of yours for real ones.
Look up to those great women who have lived positive lives and were good members of their society.
Look up to, Mary (the mother of jesus)
Look up to, mother Teresa, look up to, princess Diana.
Look up to many great people who have lived good lives.
Choose to be yourself, dont let ignorance, jealousy, hate, arrogance to darken your heart.
Be kind, good, pure and truthful, always look to become better.
O beautiful, there will come a time, I be already gone,
Dont forget to visit my lifeless body at the grave yards.
Remember that one day, you are going be there too.
This is the truth about life, at least,
if you dont want to believe or know the one who created you and your life,
choose to be good, kind and pure, this is the key to happiness in life
and soon it will be at the way things are going
ehsan
Hi Ehsan,
Thank you for your comment. My thoughts are with you at this time. The letter/poem is beautiful, thank you for sharing!
Love & Light
Becky
Ehsan that was very beautiful and so true!
Becky- yah I have always been into astrology since I was very young. Maybe one day I will learn to read the charts too! I know it takes time and practice because I remember looking over the ‘deeper’ meaning a long time ago and it went over my head so I just gave up! lol
Hello Ehsan!
Life always has its ups and downs for everyone. But when one is down, we usually tend to think that it will continue forever. Fortunately, it doesn’t. Life is full of surprises, beautiful things, and change. Bad times do not continue forever, that’s the beauty of life.
I can imagine that you have been passing through a rough phase but you will be over it after some time. Time is the biggest healer.
One should never let go off even the smallest moments of joy in life as they come.
By the way, My grand dad’s mother tongue was Persian (Farsi). It’s such a sweet language but unfortunately, I don’t understand a sentence of it. I liked you poem. It was beautiful.
Have a nice day.
Peace, Aly
bad times will end mine took 23 years after been ill for all that time day after day but when it ended believe me for the reliefe i felt it was nearly worth going through all those years. just a part of life thats all it is
Hey Scorpio lady…thanks for your comment and I really enjoyed your poem! So true….wow, at the moment I am surrounded by Pisces in my life. And yes, I definitely do gravitate towards their nature. They are good people and I know that deep down they really do care about LIFE…and when I say LIFE I mean the essence of LIFE….For me it is so important to be around. I can be very cerebral but I am also very much of a dreamer. I feel conflicted ALOT! As for the Pisces guy that i have been obsessed with, this website has been really enlightening….I guess I don’t always believe in astrology but a good part of me is very much attracted to it….mostly because I feel very different from other people and try to live my life in a sincere way and I think that most of the scorpios I have met are like that too. I am ok with brutal honesty and even though it hurts sometimes it is what I need to hear. That is what has been so confusing about pursuing this Pisces man….I have no clue why he can’t just be honest with me! Well, it is really over now though….in my own scorpio way I basically cut off communication with him. I feel bad about it because I am also a person that doesn’t like cutting ties with people, even people I hate. I say it is the best for me but really I still want to be friends…….or whatever we were before without the drama…I guess love is like that…not saying that there was love between us but there was definitely attraction, mostly from my end….
thanks everyone for your positive and supportive comments :)I am not sad or anything.It is my grandmothers time to go and there is nothing i could do about it.for what happened yesterday is for yesterday, there is no point for me to ruin today for what happened yesterday.I wrote the poem or letter, so that it might help my uncle’s daughter in realizing her potentials and make it easier for her to choose the way that she want to live her life.
Hiya Sara-Marie, yes, I totally understand. I think for us scorpios we hate not knowing - if there is a mystery then it has to be solved.As you say brutal honesty, even if it hurts, is always better than being ‘kept in the dark’. I don’t know why our Pisces men like to keep us in the dark, I think perhaps it is a control mechanism, i.e they wanna know exactly where we are (emotionally/physically etc) but God help us if we begin to question THEM!About a week ago I had a bit of emotional episode when after leading me on for many weeks he told me that he didnt want to commit to a serious relationship, and he asked me how I felt about that. Obviously I poured out my heart, crumbled into an emotional wreck… but I was still none the wiser about how what he felt for me. So I gave him ’space’ for the last week cos I thought thats what he wanted, but then I heard thru a mutual friend that he felt that I was ‘ignoring’ him! So on Friday morning I emailed him to ask how his week was. Didnt get any reply so I felt yet again that he had made me look like a fool, so I sent a hot headed email saying “fine, i wont ask how ur week went! I’m bloody sorry for ever even asking!!!” Haha…I guess that was me being brutally honest. (Why our we always so brutally honest?!!!) and then he emailed me back saying “hi, sorry i was out of office today, only just checked my email, i’m fine thanks how are you?” (i don’t believe that was the case, i think he just felt guilty!) Then yesterday he texted me to say “I can’t believe ur email, did i piss you off and if so how/why?” Can you believe?! How can he NOT see why I was pissed off/upset/hurt?! I then replied in a series of texts basically saying that I felt I didn’t know what to do as whatever I did seemed to be a lose-lose situation. He then called me back saying “hey, it would be great to see you tonite, let’s meet up” so then we met up and it was just another confusing night of him being flirty and telling me how much he didn’t want to lose our ‘friendship’ etc etc… so, it’s frustrating as we both know its more than just ‘friendship’ and yet not officially a ‘relationship’ sometimes I hate him and sometimes I love him with all my heart…. I really don’t know where its all gonna end up! Good luck Sara-Marie, I hope that things work out well for you. As you say, it’s so hard, severing the bond with our Pisces men is like trying to get off drugs, they can make u feel so good and yet sometimes make you so low, and so damn addictive you can lose yourself in them, and impossible to quit!!! (Even if u know it would be for the best…!)
Scorpio lady, this is so funny to write like this…I don’t even know you but we share this commonality which is soooo cooool! Also, are you from the UK? I am American, I can say that now that we don’t have a misfit for a president…..Can’t say that I share the feeling that scorpios are that secretive, huh?! Wow, your pisces situatin does seem complicated…don’t worry about losing him though and when I say that…maybe he needs some straight up talking to, possibly a little more brutal honesty without the brutality. My Pisces guy seemed to really “appreciate” that even though it was really frightening for him at the same time. I think people get really scared by their mood swings that they don’t challenge or call them on it! Sounds like you have been challenging him but you need to just use your instincts and talk to him from that place….instead of anger I mean. He sounds young and needs a bit of growing up and if you are the person to help him with that then it will be a growing experience for the both of you. You may not get what you want from him but at least you can tell yourself that you tried. I don’t know if i am making sense here, just kind of rambling but…..I am just hoping that I can be open to someone that isn’t so complicated and it trully attracted to me and can articulate that to me on a level that I understand and feel comfortable with. isn’t that what everyone wants? aaaaaaaahhhhh..take care, in the mean time try and flirt with some other cute boys in your life, it will make you feel better!!
Hello everyone,
As I have recently been briefly involved with a pisces/ox man, I find it deeply intriguing to read this blog (of course especially the posts from other pisces/oxen like Aly and Enry), and I find what you guys say rings a bell about “my” pisces/ox - curious nature, insightful, interested and interesting in general. This pisces also draws out my philosophical side, and he seems otherworldly in his demeanor, very pleasant but reticent at the same time. All these lead me to seek some clues from astrology, and discovered that I’m a cancer monkey with leo moon gemini venus etc etc.
Now..regarding this pisces/ox, we have spent 3 whole days together (he came from another country to visit me), beginning as relative stranger, since we only met and talked very briefly at a party couple months before, plus emailing back and forth, and there is no doubt we are seriously attracted to each other. We could talk about anything under the sun - we both appreciate arts, music, jokes, life, and I could feel that we share lots of feelings for each other, but for some strange reason he was not demonstrative about those feelings in his words and action,and he behaved like the coolest guy on the planet(which actually made him more desirable), but which at the same time left me with many many question marks. So after those 3 days, he is back in his country, and we now email once in a while as “friends” as he labeled us. Insight into this, anyone?
Thanks,
Anna
Ok, is it true that Pisces men deal with their women/mate interests differently than other men? Most men I have been involved with are pretty obvious about their interest…even if they are a little shy. One of my friends is a Pisces male and it is obvious that he is into me and would possibly want to date me if I was interested in return. However, I have no real attraction to him. BUT, the reason why I even found this site was because of an interest I had with a different Pisces male, who has skipped out on meeting me two times now but will still write me back emails if I contact him….what the f***? Most guys just wouldn’t get back to you if they weren’t somewhat interested….right? My guy friends say he just wants to have sex with me…but he definitely doesn’t seem like he does on a superficial level at least….why, why, why do I feel the need to resolve my strange situation with this man?? Is it a scorpio trait? Am I just retarded(sorry for not being PC) when it comes to attraction? Yikes…there is more, he is in a band, that I love, love, love and it makes me sad that he thinks I am a weirdo and doesn’t respect me…I feel like a groupie and maybe I am….I talk too much about my deep thoughts which I think is totally inappropriate since we aren’t even friends really. Sad thing is that whatever we had is really over…and here I am, complaining away as if there was something between us and there wasn’t. Not from his end at least…how did I become attracted to nothing????
Hello Anna!
I’m not an expert on Pisces-OX but can only write a few lines.
Yes, Pisces-OX are eloquent in expression (at times assertive and stubborn) but also reticent at the same time. In my understanding, its because pisces-OX are mostly not-interested in the mundane discussions of the world and there are very few things like these which attract them. Although, these Oxen like to listen to people and prefer those who have expression and can discuss anything but very few conversations really make them tickle and interested. I tend to agree that they like music, jokes, movies, philosophy, fun, adventure, outdoors, sports, or anything that is related to life and humans that provides motivation, energy and action. Whereas, they also stubbornly protect their space for their own endeavours and activities. That’s why, Pisces-OX is not a very social kind of an animal (as both Fish and OX) but for some reason, they usually get the attention of people around because of their expression, eloquence, quirkiness, detachment, and variety.
Since Pisces-OX are not social, they try not to make many friends although capable of doing so. They truly believe in quality of friendship rather than the quantity of friends. The OX part makes the person wanting strong friends straightforward, communicative, intellectual, hard working, funny with good sense of humour but not emotional types who have their daily dramas and mundane issues. Yup, it also seems difficult for OX to express their emotions even if they are Pisces. In expressing love, I think they are kind of too-controlled and they don’t wear their heart on their sleeves. Even with close friends, their prefer to keep their independence and freedom intact and are not drawn away in to emotions. Beneath the tough exterior, they are also gentle and kind beings. They are also appear sort of detached and cool which doesn’t mean that they are unapproachable. They love to communicate provided if the other person is not shy. Quiet and cool attitude helps the piscean-OX in conserving its energies for utilisation in some other task they consider to be worth doing. Additionally, it also means preserving your own mental state and time for your own interests and hobbies. Some people often consider their cool behaviour as dull since mostly they do not show the crisp of their personalities as well as their emotions. This depends on that particular situation which may not be interesting to them.
Pisces OX are also philosophical, the reason being that they really want to get the insight of life and and people. Even with bestest of friends, they know them more the better it is but they don’t except that friend should take them for granted. Taken for granted is one of the most hated word in their dictionary although if they really really click with some friend, they are not shy of offering favours and any kind of support.
Have a nice day.
Peace, Aly
Hello Aly,
Thank you for your response. I guess there is no better pisces/ox expert than a pisces/ox himself. I must say I am in awe of this level of self knowledge, and to be able to express it like that…I think you have just won yourself a medal in the “know thyself” department.
What you described is eerily close to what my friend is like, and it helps me to unlock part of the mystery of his sometimes strangely undemonstrative ways. I think you pisces/oxen have so much to give to the world, and are truly uniquely gifted people (my friend is a published art writer - talk about eloquent expressions!) Perhaps if the pisces/ox could ever lose the seemingly impenetrable exterior sometimes, and be a little more affectionate, then you guys would be absolutely a dream come true. (My dream at least!) But for that to happen, I think we need to believe there is evolution even in astrology!
Really appreciate your post, Aly.
And thanks to Becky for maintaining this lovely site.
Anna
ok guys this is all very interesting I love how pisces guys got to speak their minds. sorry for my grammar..
lol
Im a gemini girl and I think Im in love with a pieces guy we’ve known each other for about 5 yrs now we met through a friend and dated no longer than a week when i got tired of his sensitivity and the fact that he was acting as if he was in love with me..I freaked out and dumped him.. hurting his feelings really badly.. but he stuck around for while ..in which I was going through personal problems and then i never heard from him again. now as a gemini I like my space and to be free. I was dating around ..we got in touch got back together 2 yrs. later except this time I really was feeling him and now he had become distant which i thought that it might have been cause i had hurt his feelings in the past.. but i thought coming clean and being honest and telling him how i felt would work and it didnt.. now I understand why..I never believed in horoscopes or anything like that.. but now Im drowned to it because now we have started talking again and Im confused he is very secretive and pushes me away he wont call me very often and wont pick up when i call and that just irritates me..I dont know what to do with this guy cause i really do care about him I mean its weird how we always end up back with each other.. and i know he likes his space from reading all of ur comments. but i cant let him go ..I feel he opens up and then shuts me completely off..I want to make this work..
what can i do?
Hello Anna, Thank you for your comment and your lovely compliment, much appreciated
I was going to write a lot more on Pisces men but due to the level of comments I figured you were all doing very well on your own, and I love this little community that has formed. Will hopefully soon be making a special forum for everyone. I will also be doing all the chinese/western combinations..eventually! So much to do and such little time to do it!!
Love & Light
Becky
Hi Anna,
Appeciate, you like the comment. I can say that it is kind of a dicey and somewhat strange combination. Reason being that there are lots of gaps between a sluggish and determined OX and the fickle and quirky Pisces. This makes it a very hard to understand, often confusing, combination.
I couldn’t disgree with you that we need to be affectionate in our expression of love and emotions but it seems very hard to apply since OX has too much pride (not arrogance) and self-sufficiency. We do have emotions but we keep them to ourselves and never show it in public or in front of others. I guess, that’s why we are equivalent to Capricorns in the western astrology (firm and fixed). However, the pisces side gives it some crazyness, excitement and fun.
Anyways, have a nice day.
Peace, Aly
Hi everyone :)sometimes, i make a fool at of myself by trusting and believing what people say
now,the girl and i started talking again… someone else, told me that she has a boyfriend but now i found out that the person who told me that, is not that honest or truthful.today, i finally decided to send her a Real serious message and see what happens.this is the message that i sent her:
Hi *****:) I hope that you are ok. I don’t know what to say, to explain the situation that I am in…
I guess, nothing is better then honesty, so I am going to explain, the things which I have gone through so far, since the time that I have meet you. You know, I have not kissed a girl yet in my life….I have always wanted to be with some one that I loved, the first girl that I ever loved 100%( stabbed me in the back and was dishonest with me. As result I went through, really , really rough times….) when , I met you at school, I saw some special things in your character, that’s why, I liked you for those, as a friend. That’s why, I asked you out twice(because I liked you and I wanted to know you more and I wanted to have the opportunity for you and me to get know each other ) all I told my friend, was that you are a good girl and that I liked you……. I did not tell him that I loved you. After the second time that I asked you out, I was little bit sad, and did not talk much to my old friend (****), he asked me why? I told him that I asked you out and you told me that you are busy, but I did not ask him to talk to you or anything like that . after on that day, in front of you, I asked him that if I told him that I love you and he (Lied in my face and told me that I did and after he asked you out to movies) that made me upset, that s why I don’t talk to him anymore. He is dishonest, 2 face person and it wasn’t his business to come and talk to you like that. After that day, I tried to not talk to you( I am not a rude person, you know that, and I never try to be disrespectful to others, especially, my friends and those who i like ) I only did that , because I wanted to forget about you and move on with my life…….( I knew that for some reason you did not want to go out with me and I did not want to push you)I thought, may be you have a boyfriend or something and I would never try to go after a girl who has a boyfriend…..i am not that kind of a man. for some reason, I cant stop the feelings that I have for you. But now, there is a dilemma in my head, one side of me says that you don’t have a boyfriend and that I should talk to you and tell you that I like you and one side of me says, she has a boyfriend and that I should not talk to you because you have a man in your life. I cant keep going like this, that’s why I am sending you this message. I want you to know that no matter what you say, I will not be sad because you are a good person and that I like you and wish the best for you in life. if you have a man in your life, I hope that you 2 will have a good and loving relationship and I hope if you two, have any problems, you will overcome those problems together. I hope that you will find peace, love, happiness and everything else that you want in your life. I hope that you will be happy and successful. I hope that all your family comes to ***** and you all could live in peace and happiness, together. No matter what you say, we be friends. I understand that two people must like or love each other truly and even if you don’t have a boyfriend and still dont look at me as a person you want to be with, I will still understand you……… I hope, that from now on, whenever you see me, you will act in the same manner as before because I don’t want for you or me, to feel awkward or uncomfortable.
*****, you are a great and a wonderful person and I am happy to have you as a friend
Looking forward to hear from you, bye for now.(LOL, I have to work on my spelling and grammer)
this is too personal,but i hope it helps those who are interested to knowing what is Pisces.
Hi everyone
that night, she replied to my message. Saying, she wants to be friends for now. She did talk about her having a boyfriend or not.I saw her in school and we be talking and everything, just like two friends.
This is how I as a Pisces see or feel the situation.
When I look into her eyes,(by some divine miracle) I see how she feels without she telling me a single word. She ( being the intelligent and analytical Virgo that she is) has analyzed every move that I have made while swimming towards her. She knows what kind of a man I am and she doesn’t want to lie to me or at the same time, she doesn’t want to tell me the truth , for she knows that I admire her for her good qualities and if she lies to me, I move on looking. That’s why she did not talk about having a man in her life. she is in a relationship that she does not want to be in, she knows that if their were true love in her relationship, she would not be here now. I look into her eyes, I see a girl, who has been lied to, many times. She has been hurt many times but now she sees that kind, loving, generous, intelligent, selfless and loyal man that she has been looking for. I too, see that intelligent, perfectionist and pure girl that she is inside her heart. It is funny, we both , in our own ways, know each other inside out. Now, we are just going to be 2 good friends . I hope, from back of my heart, that her relationship works out for the best. If one day, she is to be single , we are going to see then. I don’t expect anything form this situation, for me and her have to start university next year and we have to work hard. God willing, everything works out for the best.
I learned on important fact and a lesson about having feelings for someone. If a man has true and sincere feelings for a woman, he can not logically doubt his feelings. The only way to reaching a conclusion, is to reveal his emotions, sincerely. This is the only way to reach that conclusion and feel relieved and relaxed of the burden that he has in his heart.
hi,i m a pisces man,read and like comments in this site,it is mostly said by the pple that v pisces r day dreaming but tell me dear ,is there anything which in not on the base of dream,i think dreams r the foundations of reality,first a person see dream and then try to fulfil it,
I waan say to all Pisces ,not to make a relation with leos,as they r the most liesr persons of the zodiac,as i i have been dated with a leo girl for abt 2.5 year,and i have to leave that as she was a big lier,cheater though she was saying me that she realy loves me
after 3 year ,i made a contact again with her,n i thought that wd have change but i find her as previous,n in response i hav to leave her.
It is said abt pisces that v r dependent ,but such type of thing ,i didt find in myself as i m fully independent,hard worker ,competent,challinging,never make beleive on other even to my close friends,n y should i believe on others when i know that other has no solutions of my problems
Another thing,it is thought that leos r independent,but i have many friends of leos,but they r dependent of their family,sleep for the whole day and doing nothing,
Hi,
I feel that ladies who’s waiting for tt Pisces man should just move on. If he wants to carry on he WILL make sure you know abt it ;p
I’m a Scorp too.. and my man is Pisces.. so coincidentally haha..like some of the stories i’ve read above.. seemed like a Pisces traits somehow..the first few mths seemed like a retreating time for fish.. after 3 mths we’ve been together he told me he’s not ready in a r/s and that he wanna remain as good friends.. I thot what crap I got no time to entertain this crappy man.. how to be good friends and just friends when you’ve been in r/s before.. so I cut off communication with him telling him I dun wanna be his friend and let’s not talk anymore..
and he began calling me MANY times EVERY day.. after abt 2 wks I picked up his call and the first word he asked was,” why didn’t you pick up my call?” what the hell I thot I dun owe him an explanation.. I pick up the call when I WANT to .. and he asked me out again so I said why not.. see what this crappy man has to say.. then he told me he can’t do without me and that we continue the r/s .. many yrs later we r now hb and wife..
He’s stll using me as ever .. Pisces for his own purposes.. but whenever I showed him colours he’ll give in and b very nice gentleman..
so Ladies.. Pls pls pls do enjoy the wonderful dreamy feelings whilst with the fish but do let him know you r pissed so that he FINALLY realised how much you’ve done for him then he’ll WAKE up and do something to save the damsel in distress..
Truly,
Pisces’s Wife
Hello everyone! I just wanted to tell you all thanks for posting on here, it really helps to be able to add other insight to my already existing thoughts. I try to give my Pisces the benefit of the doubt most often and to hear others speak about them helps me understand him more and how to approach him with things. So thanks!
Hi,
I’m a Virgo woman married to a Pisces man for 6 years. We’ve been together for 10 years. My Pisces is warm, tender,loves sports - former rugby player,plays tennis, football, does not love beer or any kind of alcohol, he is the most romantic man, even now, after 6 years of marriage..He likes to help people, in general, loves to offer support, he is very good in fixing everything in the house and loves to work in the open, does not like closed buildings and working in the office.He is a very good driver and takes pleasure in driving a car for the journey, not for the destination. He is a very good companion,almost every day in a good mood,likes telling jokes and see you smile; he’s crazy about children and children feel great in his presence; he loves animals; he has a very good memory,loves math and numbers and he’s the house accountant;very empathetic; best lover, not only warm and tender and romantic but also imaginative and spontaneous.He’s very calm, mature, caring.Loves to call me up from time to time just to say he misses me..
As for his flaws, not many: he’s not keen on order and things in their right place as I am, but Virgo women are so..; he’s never in time, and if he is, he expects a compliment.
There are many good things about Pisces that remain to be said..
so i just got some communication back from the Pisces guy that I have been infatuated with and it was really terrible. Crazy to think that this person that I really wanted to get to know, just really disliked me for it. I insulted him for what I called being disrespectful…maybe I should have learned from all of the entries about Pisces men here…but I didn’t. However, he deserved to be told he was disrespectful because he was…I guess I learned my lesson. When someone is mean to you, even if you are attracted to them, let them go. It is disrespectful to yourself to keep up the idea that deep down they really didn’t ‘mean’ it. Good luck to everyone else and their love lives! Please comment….I need to learn, maybe I am too strong and honest.
Hi Sara Marie- sorry to heat that. You probably did the right thing though. As I mentioned in my earlier message dated Nov 30th, I finally was a the end of my tether and I made it known to him how much he has pi**ed me off. To say he was shocked was an understatement. I think these Pisces must be so busy floating around in their own little watery world they neglect to notice even the sky above
I was amazed though because I managed to put into words why I was so annoyed with him and he actually said he understood. i.e, as you say…they seem to be uncomfortable with idea that someone deeply loves and cares for them, and yet paradoxically they hate the idea that nobody cares or loves them. You can’t win, hey?! Being a Scorpio I suppose I tend to enjoy the drama of it all, even if it’s abumpy ride. I think how many ‘relationships’ I have been in that were devoid of any passion, intensity, mystery…so in a strange way I am keen to play ‘this game’ that Mr Gorgeaus Pisces wants to play. I might have scorched my fingers from poking them into this fire a bit too early but hey, I still want to play… maybe I am a masochist :-p
Scorpio lady,
Yeah, funny how us ladies can deal with the drama! As for me though…I am too old for this crap. This Pisces guy is totally and completely confusing. He is even the type that is telling me that he said things that he never said. I am sure he imagined them up to make his side of the story sound more credible…. I wanted him to like me too much and he sensed that and therefore treated me like a peon. I know it is my ego too though. A good part of this whole thing was to protect my ego, i really can’t believe that I went to these lengths to do this to myself….it was so obvious he wasn’t interested in me the way I was interested in him, so obvious. Deep in my heart, I knew…but I also didn’t want to give up on trying to be friends since I had put myself out there so much….if we couldn’t be more than friends. Maybe that was my ego too, I have friends….lots of friends. It was all my ploy and fantasy and ego and none of it was REAL. This was a good reality check for me. Hope things work out for you and your man. Keep it REAL as they say in the hood…
My pisces e-love left me for someone else who is near him. I am afraid and a bit embarrased to ask this but, will he come back? He says I have not been affectionate with him for a while. I told him I never mean to neglect him and I apologized. Told him that I loved him, he says he still loves me and that’s why we should not talk for a while, coz it would not be fair to me or to ‘her’. It breaks my heart coz I was here before her, and now he wants to be fair to her?? Told him I love him and he needs to go live what he needs to live, and that he can contact me if he wants to but I will not be contacting him again. Do you think he will come back or am I way too naive? Just hurts to lose someone you loved for a year so unexpectedly to another…
…a montha after he e-mailed me two pictures, no wording on the e-mail. I did not respond. Today I see he deleted my name in his MSN messenger personal message box.
can someone please tell me anything about this? I feel lost and heartbroken. Thank you.
brooke dear,never show ur emotions to ur pisces,as for as u will go behind him,he will get away from u,as i m a pisces too,and that moment was too come in my life when someone behind me and i was,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
when u will stop behind him,he will look back and if it was found by him that u r behind him,he will far from u,and if he found that instead of picking him u r getting far from him,then he will behind u with crazy
i think i should,t tell u this deep thing abt pisces as thats the scret of pisces,anyway do the thing which i tell u,then lets see,whats happen,
why this stranger type of confusion is found in pisces,i dont know myself,,,,,,,,,,
Who say Pisces Men are Chasers??? I don’t think so. I’m one fish.
jeck, thank you. thanks very much for taking the time to explain.
aly, do you have any advice for me since you seem to differ from jeck?
any help is much appreciated…
he did email me twice last weekend, probably tofigure out if i’m online or not. I did not reply and I saw that this week he deleted my name from his personal message part of MSN.
any advice? anything? thank you much!
Hi brooke,
I kinda agree wif jeck. When I gave up on my Pisces he chased me like mad.
Now that I know another Pisces whom I have feelings for.. whenever he showed appreciation for me he can but when I showed mine his responses are very quiet and no reply at all.
Guess this is just their way of rejection. I’m kinda hurt too.. I know God forbid but I can’t control my feelings for him as I couldn’t get comfort from my current Pisces.
Worst thing is, this Pisces has a family too it’s kinda messy.
I really know how you feel as I’m hurting by 2 Pisces now.
Think need to move on to save our own soul. If he really miss you, he will prove himself but we can’t wait forever so I suggest trying to divert your attention to other matters for the moment.
After the cool down, you may even feel that he’s not worth your wait at all … I have faith you can do this to help yourself.
Best of Luck to us!
Hi All
I have dated 2 pisces men in my past:
The first one was very femine, took great care in himself and spent more time in the mirror than me.I struggled with his femine side as Leo women tend to prefer more masculine men. Nevertheless he was the absolute love of my life and as a leo my loyalty and love for him was never questioned. However, he on the other hand was very much a lone ranger; opportunistic, never really there for me, never let his guard down, did what he wanted…when he wanted: A law unto himself. And Yes from a leo’s perspective VERY self centred. He ended it because he couldn’t “give me what I wanted”.
The second pisces was very recent. An Army man: VERY masculine, macho but yet incredibly sweet and gentle at the same time (tho that didnt last long). I was slightly worried when I fist met him, having gone through the experience with the first, but I thought this one was different. After a few short and intensive weeks of full on love an attention (from his side!)as soon as I let my guard down and recipricated he pulled back within a blink of an eye.
Both my pisces men had very few girlfriends in their past. There’s so much I love about pisces men, but also so much I hate.
I realise pisces men can be loner rangers and need to have time to themself for their own mental sanity… but how do you keep a pisces man? Is it being less available? the thrill of the chase? why do they struggle to keep a girlfriend?
Any advice?
p.s I don’t know if it helps but the first pisces (the very feminine one) was born year of the Sheep and the second (army boy)year of the Horse.
Hi brooke:) I hope that you are ok.
I am sorry to say this:( in my opinion:
when a man left you for someone else,he just walked over you and treated you like no body, where is the love in that? How could you love him after that? how could he claim that he loves you now?
If this happened to me, I would not think about that person for even a second.
once, a poison was given to a blind man.He was told that it is his medicine.The blind man, day by day, drank full of the poison.All along, he assumed that it is, his medicine. it will heal me,said to himself.his condition,day by day, got worst,Until, his death. this story is all about, one sided “love” .when a man or a girl, falls in love with the wrong person, they become blind. when they are blind, they can not make right decision for themselves.their is no point to waste our time and life, thinking about people that we should not think about.I would say move on, look for the right person. In my opinion, he does not love you.Sorry, I might be wrong, again, this is my opinion. Take care and good luck
Hey Brooke!
You don’t have to feel heartbroken since there are millions of single men out there searching for the right woman. Sorry, I fail to understand why people get attached so quickly and feel heartbroken in the end. There are lots of choices in the world and it seems absurd to make yourself vulnerable to the whims and wishes of only one man/woman.
Yeah, I’m a fish but because of my venus effect, I take relationships more like an aquarian (friendly but emotionally detached). Therefore, I won’t be able to help you much in this regard.
However, I must say that if this man is acting childish, then it seems better to move on since you can’t waste your time and life thinking about it and getting hurt. Don’t think from your heart (alone) and use your mind. Put the question to yourself: Whether this person really likes you? and Why? Reasons? Also put a same question to yourself, why you like him? What are the commonalities you both have which you enjoy together. What are the underlying reasons for compatibility as well as differences? Make kind of a checklist and see the pros and cons of the relationship and know which one outweighs the other. Take your time in preparing the checklist. I know its sounds a bit scientific on paper but it’s interesting to analyse the personalities and assessing the need for each other. Some psychologists use it to understand compatibility. Just don’t go on infatuation but analyse long term possibilities that could assist sticking both of you together. When you make up your mind (that you want to continue), then be direct. If nothing happens, look ahead, see for other guys (if you want to), don’t make yourself heartbroken and vulnerable. Enjoy life.
Have a nice day.
Peace, Aly The water-OX
Thank you for all your advice
While I understand the need to be rational as well as being emotional, I just cannot muster that up now. I would probably tell someone else the same thing “why want or miss anyone who’s left you? move on, life is beautiful, live!” yet when I am in the situation all I can think of is how I miss my friend, how I miss his voic, his attention to me, how I miss the object of my affection. and how cold and cruel the world is all of a sudden after he left my life…and for another. I cant help thinking he is with someone else now. SOmeone he’s met when I think he was with me. Then he emails me 2 pics last weekend..expecting what? just checking out if I’m alive? I’ve talked to him, chatted, emailed him for a year straight, and now its all loneliness and emptiness. Not that I do not have my own life going on, I am busy with thinsg but without him everything happens without ‘life’… my legs walk, my eyes see, my mouth talks..but its like I’m not there…my life energy is not there.
He brought me back to life, and then he went away to another woman, just becoz she is there and I am at the other side of the world…
maybe I’m a fool.. maybe, its not a maybe…I’m a fool…
Pisces men have all the misfortunes which life has to offer. They often tend to go through utter financial ruin. Hardly are they financially successful. Really. This is because they are the most impractical sign of the zodiac. Dreaminess? What the hell? In the practical, sinister world, why the hell escape?! PATHETIC LOSERS are the Pisces men. If you would like a life of ease, never marry a Pisces Man! Take my word for it! A Pisces Man will just bring you misery and poverty. He is penniless. He’s got the love, the sex, the gentleness, yes! But YOU CANNOT LIVE WITH JUST THOSE! This world is just so ALL ABOUT THE MONEY, my dear.
lol that is sooo funny!!! its kinda true about pisces men being poor. i duno if its true for all of them but the few i have met have been pretty poor! my pisces takes care of me :). we dont live a lavish lifestule or anything but we are also very young!
brooke i know wut u mean when u say its hard to live with out ur love. when my pisces isnt around i feel the same way. almost lifeless. like you hang out with people and ur just doing things that have no point or sumthing? i duno .. i feel that way when mine leaves too.. he didnt leave for another girl, but for other reasons.
Hey Pisces Woman rejecting Pisces Man!
Your post is simply hilarious. Bravo!!! 2 Thumbs up for writing in a such a humourous manner.
Mind it exceptions are there, Rupert Murdoch is one. Well he interited it and multiplied it later.
Bravo, Aly
Hi Brooke,
You can do it because I can too. and I really wish you can cause I noe how it feels like listless having to do the daily things but just without the heart to some parts of you seemed to be missing and it’s aching somewhere you dun noe how and where it is.This can go on for a long time until you start somewhere.
BUT.. U R AS WORTHY AS HIM. and you must be fair to your soul as he is to himself now..only when u start doing it for yourself he’ll realise you r worthy enough to be respected or he may not be bothered and then you’ll know he’s not worth it.
and not doing it waiting for him to come back because if he’s meant to be he’ll be back.
Keep your Soul Alive first! It’s good for you!
Actually, my Pisces is starting to give me a kind of ‘attention’ the kind of surprise and interest that I’m enjoying my time equally good without his attention and he keeps appearing in front of me to ‘tell’ me that he actually exist *grin*
hi,pisces women rejecting pisces men
i regert it which u has said all abt pisces,dear v all know that the description and trait abt a zodiac is not alwayas 100% certified,then how u can say that.
every fish with i met ,i found them independent,havng a little ego too,as i m a fish i find a lot ego in myself though it is said that v fish hav no like this,anyways
i regert on ur wording ,
haven’t had time to read all these posts yet but tony (back in may) you sound like the male equivalent of me except you seem gentler! i am a very opinionated feisty female fish.i would encourage ppl to do voluntary/charity work for the same reasons you give for helping others with their problems as it helps to take the focus off your own problems aswell as helping others less fortunuate than yourself…are there any truly charitable acts?? even mother theresa liked the media attention her charity work garnered her apparently…lol
for ally who is managing to do what i have meant to get around to doing…using rational to reign in the more neg points to my piscean character…i will one day…no really i will!
astra inclinant, neque tamant necissitant -
the stars incline they do not compel…
ptolemy (so we have freewill…apparently!)
i have met a few pisces men in my time & without exception i have got along with then famously…one in particular was the brother of my first ex hubbie (you’ve had too many when you have to number them! lol) we got so well & would talk & debate (heatedly at times) that the running joke in the family was that i had married the wrong brother (the gemini!!) but tbh i thought we were too similar. if we’d both been feeling down we’d have stayed in & hid from the world…& sex wise…we’d have wanted to stay in for other reasons lol. funny enough he did marry a pisces woman yrs later.
anyway not sure if this has been said as haven’t read all the posts yet but the pisces men i have known so far…atleast 5/6 have all been quite unfaithful even when married. i have twice got into r/ships with pisces men before knowing they were married. the first time (no not with my brother-in-law…though he has cheated on his wife several times…) was with a detective…i was married myself at the time (harlot lol) but going through a divorce so i wanted us to keep it quiet. which of course i realised later fitted in with his deception! we only went to out of the way places etc. he was my one affair i think as tbh it was just about sex more than anything. two cold fishes together can be very hot btw!!
me typical pisces…living my life like in a movie as my friend has always said…used to open the door to him in very sexy lingerie & then well….lol…i think it messed up his mind a little though…as i’m sure he started to think i always dressed like that!! about a mth after out little tryst began found out he was married & i ended it. he was quite beside himself crying on my step..!!?? he admitted he thought he’d get away with it but had now decided to leave his wife as he’d realised that he didn’t connect with his wife like we did?? it was a nightmare. i would never break up a marriage & how could you trust him not to cheat on you too anyway?? i told him i didn’t want to see him again so i have no idea if he went back to ‘play’ the dutiful husband or not.
quite recently i got to know someone via a forum & we hit it off immediately. he told me he was an aries which kind of threw me as we would have all these indepth chats about the cosmos/after life/why are here etc. we were so alike but my son is aries & we are from it! it turned out he thought he was aries as he was born on the cusp on the 20th march?? to me thats pisces though isn’t it?? just as i was about to meet up with him he admitted he was married but more like it was no big deal. to me it was & have since refused to meet him. we still chat on the phone occasionally & true to form like the dectective he says that hes never been able to talk to anybody so easily as he has with me…i do know what he means…
pisces women rejecting pisces men,
Malcolm x said,” A persons judgment is the most outstanding sign of his or her character, the value that you give to people, is the value which they give to themselves.”
so I say to you, The value that you have, is the value that you give to yourself based up on what you have posted about Pisces Men.It was really disrespectful,inhumane and ignorant of you to speak about Pisces in such manner.You are a Pisces yourself, don’t forget that and I believe you own a apology to all of us for your disrespectful comment.
Ohhhhhh, I almost forgot, Malcolm X is a PISCES
Malcolm X - Who are YOU ??
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=63OHMLf9wUc
Thank you Roxy and Pisces’ Wife. I will try. I’ve been trying to move on, seriously. But I guess this thing comes in fluctuatuin cycles. SOmetimes when you think its all gone there it is dwelling in your heart. Some days are better than others. Guess its like addiction and I have to go through thr purification proces.. some sort of purgatory from my pisces.
I guess its like going through withdrawals like addicts, its just not fair to be cut off of my lover and friend and life energy that came with him. I miss him.
I am actually planning to mail him that gift pack I promised to. In return to something he’d sent me before but also coz I had wanted to send him some stuff. I dunno I may be doing the wrong thing here.. Its so funny that I;ve been holding on to the gifts I am meaning to send him. He broke up with me andI guess not sending the gifts was my way of hanging on to him. I guess I’ll need to let go. After I send him the gift package, I will have no more way of contacting him. I guess that’ll be the farewell to my pisces…
Ehsan,
Just a Correction!!! Malcom X was Taurus not Pisces (DOB: May 19, 1925). He was assassinated on February 21, 1965 aged 39.
Brooke~ well we will be going through the process together because my pisces will b gone for 6 or more mths! i know exactly wut u mean when u say its like going through withdrawls! it really is. hopefully i will still be functioning properly
OK…. I mailed my pisces the gifts I was meaning to send. I guess that concludes my whole relationship with him, now that he broke up with me for someone else who is right by his side (and I am in another continent). He used to send me gifts and I wanted to return the favor. Its interesting how I held onto the stuff I meant to send him for a while as if they are him. Well, they’re not. I hope he likes them but it is by no means a tool to win him back or start anything again. And I hope he does not feel such a thing from it. If it does, I will tell him (I have not been talking to him at all but I may this time just to clarify) that it is just a goodbye gift. I wish it solved everything and made it back to when everything was great but I am broken and nothing would be the same ever again..
If he calls me or e-mails me to thank for the gift package, should I answer the phone or reply to his e-mail? Or, should I just leave it unresponded? The latter feels a bit too rude but nonetheless I want to know what you guys have to advise me.
I’ve been listening to your advice to go on with my life and not pursue him.
dear PisCes,
If you go on wikipedia, it claims that he was born may 19,1925 but through what I have researched, he was born approximately 60 to 70 days before may 19 and his name was registered on may 19,1925.
brooke-I wouldn’t respond…not responding will give you the power back AND provide you with the closure you need….take care girl, you can do it!!
Thanks Roxy, that’s comforting to know. I think we’ll be able to function properly. Its just we could’ve function much much better with them still being around. But hey, what can we do, right? Justdo the best we can with what we have in hand.
But its great to know you’re out there supporting.
Thanks Sara Marie! Let’s see how I’ll do.
Dear Ehsan!
What and how your research says Malcolm X was born 60-70 days before his mentioned birthday??? How???
Hi brooke,
I’ve read somewhere that Pisces likes the person who give the gift and not the gift itself normally.
If he tries to contact you, that’s very sweet of him .. If I were you, I will respond Definitely .. tt’s just his way of showing appreciation for you.
U noe Pisces have a kinda lazy and hackcare attitude and If they do respond, they are real even if for a short while and I’ll treasure this moment before it’ll be gone soon.
Hope you are feeling better .. I Pray to Lord to pls send his angels to protect brooke from any further harm or hurt
Dear PisCes,
why does it matter to you, what day was Malcolm X born in?
First of all,before claiming that he was a PISCES, I knew that on wikipedia or sites similar to it, they claim that he was born on may 19.
Second of all, If simply I knew that he is a Taurus(officially speaking)why would I claim that he is a pisces?for I know, there are many intelligent people on this website, and they will go and search about Malcolm X’s birthday?
Thirdly,If I had said a false statement, I would correctly,take my words back and claim that I have made a mistake!
for me it’s not a war of EGOS between me and you, for I do not feel pleasure in proving others wrong and I do not feel low,egoistic or bad when others prove me wrong.It is not about me or you,it is about the truth.
I am sorry, I could tell you how i know that he is a Pisces but I do not want to tell you because it is not good for me to tell you how I know, that he is a Pisces.either you believe in my words or you follow wikipedia in this matter. regardless, Malcolm X was a great human being.
with this, I have decided to use the computer for only about 15 minutes a week(for email purposes only and uploading new videos on my youtube account)so, it was a great time for me to be here, and learn so many new things that I could use in my daily life. God bless everyone
Best Wishes To All 
few nice quotes mostly about love
“difference of opinion leads to inquiry, and inquiry to truth” Thomas Jefferson.
“love to faults is always blind,always to joy inclined,lawless,winged,and unconfined, and breaks all chains from every mind” William Blake
“Love blinds the eyes from seeing faults” Moshe Ben Ezra
“Love is such a tissue of paradoxes, and endless variety of forms and shades, that you may say almost anything about it that you please and it is likely to be correct” Finck
“Advice for a good love: Don’t love those far away.Take yourself one from nearby.The way a sensible house will take local stones for its building,stones which have suffered in the same cold and were scorched by the same sun” Yehuda Amichai
“We still by no means think decisively enough about the essence of action” (I don’t know, who said this quote)
“Like hatred, jealousy is forbidden by the laws of life because it is essentially destructive” Alexis Carrel
” what you leave behind is not what is engraved in stone monuments, but what is woven into lives of others” Pericles
“Love is the only sane and satisfactory answer to the problem of human existence” Eric Fromm
“Your task is not to seek for love but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it” Jalaleddin Rumi
“Who,being loved is Poor?” Oscar Wilde
For years my heart was in search of the Grail
What was inside me, it searched for, on the trail
That pearl that transcends time and place
Sought of divers whom oceans sail
My quest to the Magi my path trace
One glance solved the riddles that I Braille
Found him wine in hand and happy face
In the mirror of his cup would watch a hundred detail
I asked, “when did God give you this Holy Grail?”
Said, “on the day He hammered the world’s first nail!”
Even the unbeliever had the support of God
Though he could not see, God’s name would always hail.
All the tricks of the mind would make God seem like fraud
Yet the Golden Calf beside Moses’ rod would just pale.
And the one put on the cross by his race
His crime, secrets of God would unveil
Anyone who is touched by God’s grace
Can do what Christ did, without fail.
And what of this curly lock that’s my jail
Said this is for Hafiz to tell his tale. Hafiz
Hello all. Here’s my “fish story.” We went out for 10 months. I flipped over him. He’s super intelligent, witty, a musical genius, sarcastic (which I love), fun, can dance like there’s no tomorrow, handsome…and a cheat. In those 10 months, he would pull me close, then push me away. I would try and stay away and not talk to him, reply to his texts, nothing. But he would be soooo persistent, that after about a week or so, I’d give in and pick up the phone, and he’d suck me right back in, which wasn’t difficult on his part. I always suspected he chased other women, and didn’t trust him as far as I could throw him (because he gave me reasons not to trust him).
In any event, I kept focusing on the good side of him, and kept the nagging feeling at bay. Well, one day something told me to go on a singles site and look around for him. It was the site I met him on and which he said he took his profile off, which he did. Wellll, I found a profile without a picture, that sounded like him. It was the wrong age (10 yeas younger) and wrong profession, but boy it sounded like him. Yes, I did it. I created a fake profile, chatted him up, he sent me his picture, and you guessed the rest. He first tried telling me he was trying to bust me on the site. Yeah, right. Then when that didn’t work, he said he was on there for “entertainment purposes only” and I shouldn’t be mad, it’s no big deal, “shit happens.”
I cried and cried, but it’s over! I don’t want to see that lying scum ever again. How low can a person go?? I’ve asked him in the past if he wanted to date other people, and he always said no. I suppose he figured (and correctly so) that if he dated other people, so would I.
Don’t get me wrong. I loved my fish…blindly so. And I miss him terribly. But I deserve a lot better than a bottom feeding jerk that lies to not only his girlfriend, but the others he meets as well.
That’s my rant for today. Happy Holidays to all!!
Pisces’ Wife, thank you soooo much for your comment. I loved it and can anyone be any nicer wishing me protection. That is the sweetest thing of the day! Thank you, thank you! I wish you the same!!!
It makes a lot of sense what you’re saying. I am definitely not expecting anything from it, I have trained myself not to. Those were things that belonged to or wanted to belong to him in my mind and so I sent them. I really hope he likes them. That should create some good positive energy. And then I can go on with my life..which I already am trying to.
I’ve read somewhere a quote on unreciprocated love. It goes like this: “Love is never lost. If not reciprocated, it will flow back and soften and purify the heart.”
Corny as it may sound, I can feel it working on my heart..lol.. Or is it the hope that he will like the gifts and contact me…
Ugh..where do I reach true honesty with myself?!
dear Threw my fish back in the water…
yes all the pisces men that i know of, that i have met have cheated on their wives…i posted a rambly post above somewhere. but yes they are also very charming & sweet so i’m not surprised that you got sucked in!! now before any pisces men take offence i do not believe that all pisces men would cheat but many do so it seems…& so i assume do pisces women but i haven’t & don’t ever intend to…one man woman!
ok that may seem a little ironic considering i have been a bit of a serial wife but i was always fathful to each one at the time lol the affair with the detective happened during my divorce proceedings & i’d been separated for about 18 mths…so that doesn’t count. does it?
Brooke dont call him or answer his calls!! just cut him off. iv learned with pisces if they love u a lot and u completely cut them out of ur life, they will find a way to talk to you and then maybe not take u forgranted the next time around.. plus if u contiunue to talk to him you will just keep ur feelings going for him.
Ehsan,
Chill out man. I don’t have any ego problems nor I want to win this petty issue. You are tryin to be an extra sensitive Pisces which Unfortunately I’m not a bit. I mostly prefer intelligent people who really know what they are talking about or at least have confidence to describe the facts in an articulate and convincing matter. There are lots of Pisces out there who are non-egoistical, not-emotional, but rational.
Ciao
Brooke!
YOU CAN DO IT WOMAN, YOU CAN DO IT. Just have faith and confidence in yourself.
Peace, Aly
Aly, wait! So what say you? DO I respond to him if he calls or not?
Brooke!
Honestly speaking, I’m not really sure about it. But it also depends on the situation. If you have SERIOUSLY!!! overcome your emotionalities with this guy, there is no harm in talking back, however, I feel that conversation shouldn’t be at the emotional level but at the intellectual level. By this, I mean that you don’t loose yourself in the conversation and keep intact your own self, your demeanour, personality, and pride.
It’s my observation, the more one gets emotional, the more chances of being taken for granted.
On the other hand, If you have NOT OVERSOME your emotionalities and feel for this guy, I think, just think, that its better to avoid talking and getting hurt.
As a person, I feel that its your will-power and courage which takes you away from difficult times.
Have a nice day.
Peace, Aly
dear brooke,y u r not trying to understad,what will b happen if he will contact u n in responce u too responser him.The story will repeat again in the same manner ,like previous relation he will break this too,then y sould not avoid to make a such contact again with that person,about u know by make it again and loss it again nothing give u except sorrows,so my dear ,avoid this and never contact him even he want to
One more final post from me
I am no longer interested in the Virgo/girl and thus, I do not look at her, in the same way as before. She just send me a message last night, saying marry Christmas and everything….. this is my (to be final)reply to her:
Hi TTTT:)
I am doing fine, thanks for asking how are you?
Thanks a lot for the message that you have sent to me. I wish a great and a wonderful year ahead for you and your family, as well. I never have jealousy or hate towards any men, no matter what they do to me. With this into regards, I was a great and a wonderful friend towards my old friend(RRRR) with all that I had done for him, he choose to overstep his limits and he disrespected me ,big time. I never make a toy out of myself, so that people could play with me. He is a kind of a man, who, for money, his desires, fame, woman, will do anything. He will lie, steal, cheat, oppress others and live a useless life. Even though, I knew from beginning, what kind of a man he is, I choose to be good for him; I choose to give him the message of God; I choose to be a good example to him; I choose to show him what a real man looks like. But, ignorantly, he did not change. I see him, as a lost person and he will have a tremendous punishment after life, for all the wrong things that he does on this earth. Then, he wishes to come back to life, so that he could be a good, honest and a loyal friend. But, by that time, unfortunately, it will be too late. In regards to MMMM, he is different. MMMM is god loving and a wonderful person. Therefore, I have nothing against him and I wish him the best with everything that he does. Something happened, that is why, I do not talk to him. Now, it is the time, for me, you and TTTT, to work hard for our future. TTTT, now, I see you and me, heading into two different directions in life. I don’t want to go after a person, who has a different path in life. Because, if two people have different interests, they can not establish a honest, loving relationship, in which, they could walk hand in hand and overcome the obstacles that life puts on their path. I have said this to all my friends and I will tell you the same, I believe in my creator, who created me and my life. On daily bases, I don’t live for money, girls, fame, power or my desires. I am a servant of the one who created me. I will always try to be good, pure and righteous. For one day, I will return to the one who created me. Anyways, sorry for my long reply ) have a great Christmas break :)
God be with you, take care.
Your friend,
Ehsan
Dear PisCes, God knows best who you are and God knows best who I am.
jeck because:
For all sad words of tongue and pen, the saddest are these, It might have been.
John Greenleaf Whittier
I guess I still cannot believe this happened to me. Should get off my high horse I guess but something in me still says ‘no’… lol
Its gonna get better.. But you tell me, wouldnt it be rude not to answer him when he wants to thank me for the gifts I just mailed him??? but again one might ask, wasn’t it rude of him to dump me for the first girl he’s met at a bar, right? but it’s rude of him, I dont have to be rude, thats not me… tell me what u think.
But, I like the fact that you are trying to show me the truth Jeck, thank you.
Aly!
Thank you. Much wisdom, you have. I agree with you. I am usually not very open with the way I express my feelings. Most of the time I have great difficulty doing so, be it a happy feeling or a sad or an angry feeling. I think I would like to be civilized and also honorable. Therefore, if he tries to contact I should speak only to say something towards “you are welcome, I am glad you liked them” and that should be all. If he asks how my life is going I intend to tell him it is going well, and thank him for asking. I do not plan to ask him how his life is going, I intend to say nothing more than ‘I hope all is well with you’. And then goodbye.
Unless the other party opens up his guts and heart and talk all about what he was thinking and so on and so forth I would never in a million years show anything close to emotion to him. Unfortunately, that door closed when he broke up. But I intend to be polite and civilized, which is what I try to do with everyone.. nothing special to him.
it hurts to be a pisces sometimes.
coincedently, ive been hanging out with/ more or less being persued by a gemini female. although, i found this site while looking for information about being a pisces in a non-pisces world.
what i get from reading the majority of this is that somehow its “not ok” to be a pisces male, which is pretty lame if you ask me, and also funny to me since were the last house on the block. or that could just be me being sensitive here. i get pretty defensive.
ill tell you a little bit about my recent-past relationships, (or just trying to date) and see if i cant help add any insight to this, from a pisces male in his mid-20s perspective.
the last semi long-ish relationship i was in lasted for a few months with a libra women. it was really fun because she made me feel like i was one step ahead of everyone else- style wise, cool wise, surface stuff like that. problem is is that im pretty deep. it was good for my self esteem (outside things), but horrible for my spirituality and my mind.
i believe that the only reason it lasted as long as it did was because we both stayed pretty inebrehated and went out all of the time and acted immature and had a blast.
but she was not into the things that i hold close to my heart- spirituality, good music, good films, the arts, comedy, being kind to people, travel, etc.
it drove me to drink more, spend more, and become more of an asshole in general.
her friends all thought that i was funny and charming, but she did not at all.
also, in this relationship, i had a lot going on with school, work, and outside hobbies and things that im into. a full plate. but she still came first always.
i was there for her physically always, but after a while not at all mentally (and this is the pisces fault lol).
here is where i feel like going off on a tangent about the ladies who get angry at the pisces, but then in return they have their minds on gucci bags or NASCARR(LOL) or just really shallow, ignorant things that the pisces man is beyond.
but i wont. ill chill.
i dont even feel like writing anymore. maybe ill come back later.
After reading all these posts, I feel rather depressed, there seems to be no hope. I liked scorpio woman’s poem though, it almost made me cry it’s so true.
I think there is lots of hope in pisces males. Some of the most beautiful people I have ever met have been pisces males. I am a pisces female and I fit the “weak pisces” wayyy more then my husband. He is strong compared to me! So not all pisces men are weak! My husband is a leader, everyone he meets gets a new friend because hes so friendly. I don’t know what else to say about them except that pisces males are GREAT people and I wouldnt wanna be with any other sign/person.
I am in middle of a break up with my ex born march and myself march. I still love him we were togther six years and he has loved me and let me down. He has swept me off my feat and been the most romantic man in the world, love I never experienced before. Hence he gets down and hides away wanting space and loves his friendships and his me time. I really believed we would marry but I guess it’s all in vain. Being the same sign is hard as we mis understand eachother or assum too much as we are naturally so in tuned and understanding and caring we dont bother to ask or listen, as we know. I know him and he knows me this can be good and bad as the march born likes to dream and make things better.
But do we do when things go bad….. thats the problem we don’t like to hurt your feelings we see the good in everyone, so when tell the truth it seems so bad. Im hurting so much we had a fight and felt he needed time and wed make up as he always came begging he was sorry. But this time four months of crying heartbreak him telling me he loved me and always will but he can’t take when we fight I send him nasty texts and over react trust me he has moods and has a temper but this is okay for him but not me. We been fighting through the break through frustration we still love eachother. We meet up made love kissed and talked he confesssed He didnt know how to tell me that he was going away back to his country his got a good job. He didnt ask me to come as Im at uni working and have a good placement i uk. So the march born firstly blamed me for my attitude for the break up but he couldnt tell me he wanted out and felt we had no future in his culture even though he loved me. Im feeling town as he let me down why couldnt he communicate with me.He assumed I wouldnt come so he pushed me away. Ill miss him deeply his my soul mate my lover my best friend. But I guess I have to let him go and hope for the best. I don’t know if ill find this kind of love again. But all I know it was real his weaknesses getting depressed wanting to be motherd and letting me down and not talking and communicating when things go wrong are a march borns weakness. we were too, alike only I was seeing the future as us and he saw as meself!!!
My husband is a Pisces and when he fell for me he fell hard. He wears his heart on his sleeve witch at time is very difficult because I am after all a critical virgo. He is one who would give you his last dime. I love his gentleness but he is a very strong man as well. Dont cross him he has a temper and he is highly protective of those he loves. He does tend to always feel sorry for is self tough as if never to look at the things he has just at the things he doesnt. He lives in the past and dwells on things that hav hurt him
1. I’m a Libra (oct 16), he’s a Pisces (march 11)
I just wanted to say that I really resonated with scorpio-lady’s post about her initial experience with a Pisces.
I have a good friend (we’ve been friends for about a year and a half) who I’ve crushed on since the very first time I met him. And when I say “crushed” I really do mean that. He makes my heart beat FAST.
I knew that he had a girlfriend, but they didn’t talk a lot, and rarely saw each other.
We did make out while he was still dating her. I feel a bit weird about it, and I figure it’s something we’ll need to talk about if we do start dating seriously.
Anyway, he’s two months single now, and despite his busy schedule, we see each other really frequently. He just asked me to be his date to his cousin’s wedding, and I’m over the moon about it.
I’m nervous that he’ll pull away
I’m nervous that he’ll “connect” with another girl during our relationship, if we have one (although it really doesn’t fit his personality from what I know of him…)
I’m scared stiff cause I think this could be a really lasting ‘thing’. He’d be a fantastic father and I’d like nothing more than to grow old with him.
He is wildly affectionate, never makes me feel “crazy” like other men I’ve dated, he’s very obviously a true friend and his various friends (and mine) absolutely adore him.
He’s in constant communication with me, and I never feel like I’m having to “make” things happen.
He’s really drop dead gorgeous, and it’s kind of obvious that he thinks the same of me.
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