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The Aries Man
I advise you to have your seat belt done up very tight for this roller coaster ride! You know how when your kids the boys are always little action men constantly wanting to be getting up to something and trying to find new things to do, well with the Aries man this never goes away. He is, if you like, the Peter Pan of the Zodiac in some respects. Except I don't recall Peter Pan ever having tantrums or getting overly emotional…maybe I missed that bit.
You will find the man of Aries to be very considerate and generous with both his time and his money, which is quite a rare thing these days. So if you do go to the fun fair with him you will be allowed as much candy floss and popcorn as you like and he will join you on all the rides until you both have spinning heads and feel rather sick…that won’t stop him either though, he will just laugh and then run straight towards the next fearful looking event he can find. The question is ‘are you going to want to join him?’ When the Aries man loves you he really does love you. It’s a fierce and fiery, hot and passionate love which he devotes all of himself too and will of course expect the same from you. He is, perhaps, a little overly idealistic. He wants to be your Romeo and for you to be his Juliet. And this can be quite hard to live up to all the time for most of us anyway. If you’re not devoting your time to loving him and caring for him then you will see the sulky, grumpy Aries man. Now, I live with an Aquarius and he is quite good at sulking, as I expect are all men, but the Aries man really does have that childish sulking, moody, stamping footy, folded arm tantrum thing down to a tee. This man also loves his freedom and will also respect yours, so if you’re the possessive type then this may not be the guy for you.
You will never have to worry about your Aries Man’s loyalty though; he is very faithful and would never cheat on you, or even flirt with anyone else. He will expect the same from you, don’t try making him jealous by flirting with other guy’s, this will just hurt him as he would never do the same to you, even to get you back. I suppose he is a lot like a child in a way. As are all Aries. Which is one reason why they are so adorable? Like a cheeky child he is always looking for something mischievous to get up to and will love you to join him. Some people may feel like they need to curb this need to be rebellious and that is a personal choice, I, myself enjoy that part of the Aries man. He will also expect you to agree with him, rightly or wrongly and stand by him no matter what, even if you don’t really think he is right. You must NEVER agree with an enemy of his, this would really hurt him. He will of course do the same for you as he believes this is part of loving someone…you may have to bite your tongue a bit to keep your home happy.
To be honest I am finding it quite hard to point out many bad points about the Aries man. In just the same way as I find it hard to tell one of my children off for being cheeky or too noisy. In essence you see this is what he is. A child, and as such wants to have fun and enjoy life, and I can’t find anything wrong with that. He will always make sure you and your family are looked after, he will make you laugh so hard you cry, he will spoil you unselfishly, and will remember every occasion from your birthday to valentines day with originality every time. Yes, so you may get annoyed with his hot headed tantrums, and the fact he likes to be boss…but he will be there holding your hand next to the fire when you are both in your 80’s. The Aries man’s love is eternal, and you will feel it every day of your life. And isn’t that what most of us want? The only question remaining will be whether you can keep up with him, as he will still have as much energy as a 30 year old on his 100th birthday…Enjoy!
Combined Astrology - The Aries Rat
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July 1st, 2008 at 8:30 am
I dated an Aries. I couldn’t run away fast enough. I don’t see how we are compatible. I am an Aquarius. He wasn’t that loyal either. He talked about me to his friends. He seemed nice to me, but later I found out he lied so much. He told on himself, he used to call me a liar all the time. I had nothing to lie about. I am not a good liar at that. But it was his guilt. I stay far away from them, these men will nag you to death!
July 1st, 2008 at 9:28 am
My Aries man is definitely a Peter Pan in some ways and is extremely extremely funny and witty. There isn’t too much of a roller coaster ride, more consistency than ups and downs.
He is definitely very very generous with his time, and I dont even have to ask him for it, its just a given. Also not a selfish person AT ALL!
I am cancer and worship the ground he walks on, so I’ve never seen him sulk because I dont give him enough attention. He gets more than enough of that, I spoil him rotten because he deserves it and he knows that he’s my Romeo and i’m his Juliet and so far, its not been that hard to live up to.
I am not the jealous type of Cancerian, I love my freeom as much as he does and hate someone telling me what to do or where to go. So, this is a real bonus for me.
Dunno why, but it seems like the signs are just a tad bit reversed cos I am more of the adventurous one than he is….I want to rush and get married, he wants to wait.
So far, so good, love him to bits and will continue to do so for the rest of my life.
July 1st, 2008 at 9:44 pm
I had a brief “thing” with an Aries. He was wild and life with him was never boring. But he was too wild, mostly due to his family. (He didn’t know his actual birthday until he was sixteen, so all that time we thought he was a Cancer.) He was very sweet to me, but so destructive to almost everything else. Quite a contradiction too. He hated animals, but was a strict vegetarian. He had at least six piercings on his face, but he had such lovely manners. In the end, I decided to just be friends with him.
July 4th, 2008 at 7:22 am
I guess it also depends on how they were brought up, what their values and morals are. My aries man is very old fashioned, he’s a 1 woman man and gets that from his father, who is still with his mother. He’s the last born and was spoiled by his mother, which is sort of what I do for him. Pack his lunch everyday, cook for him everyday. He will not dish up himself, I must do that but he does everything else around the house like the fixing of the pipes and cupboards and taps so its fair enough for me. He takes control of everything, being the “man” in the relationship. He never makes me feel like i’m alone, if I have a problem, “we” have a problem and he’ll do all that he can to help out, taking on the problem as if it was his. I cant even begin to describe how happy I am. I am truly truly blessed. I dont get very good reviews on a Cancer and Aries relationship but if I had to listen to that, I would be missing out so much.
July 9th, 2008 at 6:38 pm
I’m dating an Aries guy and he treats me like a Queen. From day 1, he has put me on a pedestal where I will hopefully be for the rest of my life. I’m a Sagittarius so we are both very energetic and keep up with each other easily. However, he thinks he is very funny (don’t get me wrong, he is) and it can get annoying when he rambles on for minutes. But I don’t mind all that much because he always realizes and apologizes for having done so and he also gives me my fair share of time to talk as well. He is not the jealous type and is fiercely protective of his loved ones.
August 5th, 2008 at 1:04 am
Well The Aries man I met was a nightmare and constantly wanted to be right.
I’ve met a few nice ones buts thats when they where younger and less corupt!!!!!!!!!!!
September 5th, 2008 at 6:08 pm
OMG… you are really good! You have the Aries man down to the “T” as well!
Yes, they will nag you… yes, they can be whiny… yes they expect the world.
Would they do all these things for you too??? Absolutely.
October 29th, 2008 at 11:16 pm
So I’m an aries and so is he, and it’s very hot and passionate right now. But I’m worried that maybe one of us is just gonna get over it cause that’s how we are. We jump in head first and then run for the mountains, right
November 2nd, 2008 at 9:25 am
I am Aquarius and I am draw to this type of man. Firery and hot. The hotter it is the better I say.
That’s just me.
November 6th, 2008 at 12:40 am
im a Sagittarius & i love love love my aries man!!! he really treats like his queen….dont get me wrong im sure i’ll see his “BAD SIDE” but come on, we all have that side!! for now, im loving it!!
November 11th, 2008 at 3:34 pm
Im a sag woman with an aries man and he is the most amazing person I have ever known. I love him to death. He is so honest and sees past the surface. He isn’t afraid of anyone or anything. He also knows how to make me laugh by doing outrageous things. He is also amazing in bed and super caring and romantic.
November 18th, 2008 at 12:54 am
I’ve also noticed that it can be quite hard to get an Aries attention. SERIOUSLY! What do I have to do? Stand naked in front of him and do backflips? Either he’s interested in you, or he’s not. And he gets bored just a bit too easily, but he’s so nice you won’t notice it until he just gets up and leave. Lack of manners too. Too bad I get easily, hopelessly infatuated with these guys. They’re one of the few signs who know how to break my heart. (end of rant.)
November 18th, 2008 at 1:00 am
I am a Aries woman involved with an Aries man. I have been with him on and off for 3 years. We are good friends as well as lovers. We generate a lot of heat and passion together. He is very giving sexually as well as anything else. He is very confident, funny, and charming. I think the description of an Aries Man is right on target! He is a talker though….whew….but, he is getting better at letting me talk sometimes….hahaha
I simply adore him!
November 26th, 2008 at 9:36 am
I’m falling in love with an Aries and wow how was this secret ever kept from me so long?? He is everything I ever wanted but could never find! Finally a real man who is masculine, strong, direct, brave, honest, open, funny, mischievous, but also kind and loving. He definitely moves fast, he knows what he wants and doesn’t mess around, and I love that. He is gonna find me worshiping the ground he walks on, what a total stud. He has four older sisters so I’m sure he was spoiled as a child, I’ll be happy to take over spoiling him! He spoils me too, he is taking me to Paris and writing me love notes every day, already talking marriage, asking me if I want to have a baby, wow! I can’t believe my luck! I would do anything for him but I play it a little cool, I have him saying he would do anything for ME! LOVE YOU ARIES!!!
December 1st, 2008 at 9:39 pm
I am a Libra girl in love with an Aries man. We definately balance each other out, but I also have Aries rising so we have our fiery moments. He is everything I could ask for in a man, charming, sincere, that twinkle in his eyes, has style, swagger, funny, and I feel safe with him. Plus he doesnt put up with my wishy washy libra ways. I appreciate being told up front, no holds barred. Its taken some time to grow a stiff upper lip to some of his harsh words, but I’ve learned they are jsut words and I know he loves me.
December 2nd, 2008 at 8:18 am
To Sasha: I am Aquiruas. I think it’s cool your Aries can tell you up front how he really thinks and feels. If he tell you how he feels and thinks, that tells me he really loves you. You always know where he stands.
I rather have someone tell me truthful what he/she thinks and feels, regardless if I don’t agree to it. Then have someone sugarcoat and prefume words. I like honesty in a person, a person that doesn’t beat around the bush and won’t piss down your back telling you its raining.
December 31st, 2008 at 3:19 am
I really like honesty in a person as well.
January 2nd, 2009 at 12:27 am
My son is an Aries
January 22nd, 2009 at 8:02 pm
I’am a Libra Female in love with a Aries Man. I Love this man so much it is scary. He tells me like it is with out a doubt. When he told me he loved me I was overwhelmed. I was falling in love with him anyway. I don’t want this relationship to end. I found love again. I read so many compatibilty charts and I am amazed how well we are described. Is there anymore I such Know. I feel I would marry this Man. He already made a comment about changing my last name to his.
January 26th, 2009 at 5:43 pm
My man is Aries I am Gemini/Cancer. We love each other alot. But He has Cheated a few times. And now I have a stalker woman( his ex lover) fallowing me for life I guess. My Husband and I do not get along to well. But our sex is great and we have some kind of love, Because when we have broken up he always comes back. We have been together for 8 years so far. So I guess all hope is not lost. But he is also a MONKEY & I a Tiger. =/ ughhhhh I hope I have not wasted all these years for nothing. Because we always have problems. But I really do love him. He is just to much sometimes.
January 26th, 2009 at 6:10 pm
Hi there Dawn,
Thank you for your comment. I would like to say that firstly no relationship is a waste of time, it is experience that for better or worse will help us some in a positive and some in a negative way but love was never said to be simple. Love is not perfect either and some relationships to others can seem most bizzare as to why people stay together, however, this is as we choose it. Aries men can be exhausting to be with, you’re not alone in that. I couldn’t handle it so I take my hat off to you for sticking it out for so long, I also have suffered with the ex, this is a nightmare. You obviously have amazing strength of character and of course the intimacy of sex can hold a bond more than people realise. It’s your life, live it as you choose! Good luck!
Love & Light
Becky
P.S To all of you who love to comment on how bad my spelling is, on this occasion I am in a hurry, bathing the kids, cooking dinner and cleaning the dog..so please excuse my bad grammah..however you spell it!!
January 26th, 2009 at 7:10 pm
Hi its me again. I love this Aries Man with all my heart. Me being the Libra woman I am finds my man to be so refreshing. Yet at the same time he carrys a firey way about him. Some times I just let him ramble on. He has the heart of a true leader and a sprit of a lion. He makes me feel so wonderful. He puts me on a pedstal like know other. I just want to say thank you for the knowledge I received on my Aries Man.
January 27th, 2009 at 1:25 am
To Becky:
How are you? A statement in Dawn’s comment caught my eye.
“the intimacy of sex can hold a bond more than people realise.”
Really, Becky???? In a way I see your point and in another way I have to disagree with that. I think any relationship has to have subtains. If there was only sex in the relationship in time it would get boring and people would go their own way. I think what makes a relationship true, is the love, the time and effort put into it. Weither or not two people can get along and deal with the other person’s annoyance. Weither you can hang in there when their ups and downs. To love each person falses. I think a relationship should have more than “Oh it’s good sex.” But that is just me. I am person that wants love, not sex. Sex is just ragging horomons and lust, that doesn’t have any real meaning behind it, as were love does. I understand, when two people are in love there will be sex, but when it’s love, it’s not sex anymore, there’s meaning, it’s something speical.
If I was in a relationship, and the sex was great, and there was nothing to the relationship, I would have to go. I don’t want to be with someone who just wants to have sex with me. I would rather be in relationship where the person loves me, and I make him happy when I am in his presence, and I make his heart swore and we have a good time with each other, also argue with each other. Help each other out.
I know you are busy, but I haven’t recived my consulation yet.
January 27th, 2009 at 1:35 am
To Dawn: I got to say you got some well-power. Me, I would say “enough is enough. No more, and leave.” That would drive me crazy. I couldn’t stand having a man that kept coming back and kept going off somewhere else.
Is his ex-lover still bother you, if she does, I would say get the police invole, if she starts getting creepy. Your health and safty is number one.
I wish you the best of Luck as well.
January 27th, 2009 at 7:21 am
Hi there Littleimpaler,
Thanks for your comment! I’m really sorry but I sent you your report a while back now, have you checked your spam folder?
Right, sex is always a tricky issue becuae, as you say, if there is nothing else there then sex isn’t important and the rest will wither and die. I do agree with you that it’s not the most important thing, but Dawn said that she loves her Aries very much..I was just saying that sometimes when the love is there the sex can reallt hold a couple together because of how close it brings you. The best way to sort out a relationship is by looking at all the good points first, then ask yourself whether you are happy. Then look at the bad points and ask yourself if you are sad. Many people stay in relationships for many years with a person who perhaps is the wrong one but when it comes down to it, they are happy, dosen’t work that well for us air signs, but for many others the physical bond is stronger than the mental.True love is different for everyone and in every relationship.
Love & Light
Becky
January 27th, 2009 at 10:10 am
To Becky: Oh I see, yeah I totally agree with you 110%. Nope I never recived my report. I checked my spam box, never got it. Is it possible for you to send it again.
Here’s my e-mail LittleImpaler@aol.com
Just thought of something, which e-mail did you send it too. I wonder if you sent to my other one. I will check in a moment and get back to you on it.
January 27th, 2009 at 10:11 am
If you email me and send me you’re details I will look it all up in my log, thanks xxx
February 25th, 2009 at 7:20 pm
Hi, I’m new here. I met this Aries guy who is a Wood Tiger.This guy is deep and fiery. As a Sag Fire Goat I don’t want to burn the wood element. Would we be a good match?
March 1st, 2009 at 9:22 pm
hi!well i am a pisces female and i am dating an aries…and it was all good at first..the conversations and the sex.he was laidback and quiet(atleast thats the roll he played.l0l)and that just made me want to learn more about him…now that we’ve been together for now 2 years and have a son together,..its a whole nother story.i mean he’s sweet most of the time and gives me basically whatever i ask for..but he just change.now he acts wild,loud and kind a childish..and sometimes he hurts my feeling,but i dont think he means t00.i luv him though
March 9th, 2009 at 2:07 pm
TO “BROWNEYES OR ANY OTHER ARIES GIRL DATING AN ARIES GUY:
Browneyes, your story sounds almost exactly like mine. I have been with him on and off for 2 years. We are also good friends as well as lovers. We also generate a lot of heat and passion together. He is also very giving sexually as well as anything else. He is also very confident, funny, and charming. And he is also a talker!! Oh, and I too simply adore him! Are we involved with the same guy? LOL!
My question is: AS AN ARIES GIRL, HOW IN THE WORLD DO YOU DO IT???
We had a spat about a month ago and this time it has been very difficult for us rams to unlock heads. This time I feel extremely exhausted. I don’t want to give up, I consider him one of my best friends…but, boy, it’s getting very difficult for me. During this past month we have only talked a couple of times, and it has been the typical Aries male behavior…one day he was all lovey-dovey, warm, sexy, looking for you know what, and the other day he was cold as ice! Ugh!
Running out of patience, which to begin with is not an Aries virtue!! Any clues or advice??
March 12th, 2009 at 3:35 pm
thankz 4 teeling me hu i am…..
March 14th, 2009 at 1:00 am
Can someone please give out more details on the relationships between a pisces woman and an aries man? Are they not a good match? Will the love eventually fade away? I am pisces and I hopelessly fell in love with this aries man who is crazily in love with me now. I couldn’t believe my luck! I read from lots of articles that these two signs are not good match. I am so scared. I don’t want it to be a sad story. How do I do to keep him by my side for the rest of my life? PLEASE HELP also PLEASE BE TRUTHFUL. I don’t mind being told the truth, so please offer whatever you have in mind. He is the man I found out that I’ve been looking for my whole life! But being a pisces, sometimes I can get a bit of too emotional and sensitive, will that be a burden to him and drive him away? Will my mood drive him nuts? But it’s so hard for pisces to realize those are ‘moods’, as pisces feel those are real. God, I really really don’t to lose him! No man would be better than him, I pray that I will have him forever! Please let me know the truth and also detailed help on how not to drive him away or lose interest on me. I deeply appreciate both feedbacks!!!! THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!
Please do help! I am really serious about this love. I swear.
March 16th, 2009 at 2:10 pm
wow. I love my airy aquarius, and this post is so right on. hmmm. thanks Becky!
love
March 19th, 2009 at 8:19 am
Hi Backey,
Am an Aquarius girl, I love what you said about Aries man, sounds like very attractive to me. However, I can never be a friend of them, I don’t understand why, there are always arguments between us. Recently, I fell in love with a beautiful Aries boy, but we could not even hold a normal conversation, he is too much a child, but I feel like his older sister. We broke up in only a week, no more talking. What I feel is that Aries man got very strong personalily and temper, but when an Aquarius girl is very independent and strong minded, trouble happened.
Love
Gia
March 25th, 2009 at 11:09 am
Hi,
Could you fill me in on the compatibility with an aries female (me!) and an aries/taurus cusp male??
Thanks
March 27th, 2009 at 3:45 am
my response is to mornging glory . We as pisces women tend to have the rose colored shades on which means we see things the way we have always dreamed to be but when the glasses come off and you see the real person you have then that will let you know whats really going on . An aries males is wonderful (at first). I will say it like this dont try to have your own opinion because they feel they are always right. They get offended when a woman is a leader and can assert herself more than them because they are natural competitors they cant help it. now if you are okay wih being a doormat then your relationship will be fine. There are so many things about the aries that attract us the sex, the looks, the masculinity but it is all false. If you got a good man then you wouldnt have to question it. There are already some things youve seen you just have to pay attention to the diffrence between reality and the reality that you are creating. I only say these things because i am a picses and i know how we are. Always remember to be good to you because we give to much and an aries will take and take until youve got nothing else to give.
March 29th, 2009 at 3:57 am
i want to get back with my ex boyfriend which was an aries he is really sweet and wantted me back and soo did i bt i said “idk ” 2 him 5 times in the same day kuz i didnt know if he actually meant it so i keep 2 my idk then 2 weeks later he tells me he wants 2 move on i said do yuuh still love me then he said ” i love u bt i dnt wnna try it agian ”
so i never message him back it was sunday. then monday came he got a new girlfriend bt he neve told anyone then he broke up w/ her after 3 days then we went 2 a basketball game and wen i asked him wats wrong he would smile and say nuthin bt then the next day after he got back with her i want him back bt idk how if he didnt tell me he loved me then i would have moved on and i am in love w/him, we have know eac other fer 2 years and was my frist friend in school when i was fat and ugly then we somehow went out fer 3 months in a half then a year later we wwent back out and he looked me in the eye and say “iloveyuh ” evr time we kiss bt then he got jelous and stress because guy were like checking me out :/
kuz suposly we r not meant 2 be and he doesnt want 2 break up in a week
so i need him i wnt him back more then ever help pleace && thank yuh
March 29th, 2009 at 3:59 am
BTW i am pisces and he is aries help please i need anwsers
April 2nd, 2009 at 8:14 pm
Let me say this, according to the compability charts a perfect match would be a Taurus and a Cancer. (Taurus) being my ex husband and me being the Cancer. Personality wise we got along great things seemed perfect but it was his moral, loyal, compulsive lying issues that ended the relationship. According to the charts Aries and Cancer is no match. But I will tell you this an Aries man has enlightened my heart, and awakened my spirits allowing me to fall back in love for a second time. He has fixed my little heart. A lot of the characteristics and personality traits do match that are listed for both of us. We are like night and day. Aries are natural born leaders, egotistical, self centered, selfish, all true- and a Cancer on the other hand is sensitive, emotional, needy, clingy so I DO experience how our opposite characteristics run into each other from time to time. But I think it all depends on how you handle things. I personally think that all the characteristics one could consider threatening to the relationship can actually be the saving soure. I learn so much from him, how to standup for myself, how to put myself above others, (because as a cancer I always out others before me) even if it means I have to take a loss on things and he gets mad because a cancer can easily be used and walked all over of we allow it. He motivates me to strive higher and go further in life. I tend to get hung up on the past but he’s taught me to never second guess myself and move forward. Not only is he an Aries but he’s also a soldier. He is gently enough to let me be, and does all possible to satisfy me in every way whether it be emotional, physically, spiritually. But lets me know when I need to back off a little and give him the space that he needs. I do wonder if our opposite personalities will end us one day. Because I need to roughen up and he needs to soften up. But then again I think it’s what keeps us interested and crazy about each other. Overall he has the qualities, morals, and values that I look for and need from a man. Hardworking, responsible, faithful and loving. I love him so much, he makes it want it and he loves that.
April 2nd, 2009 at 8:25 pm
its i love my king again, another thing I want to marry this man so badly and he’s mentioned marriage but I’m afraid he’d be a little too much for me.
April 6th, 2009 at 3:43 pm
I’m an aries girl and I just started dating an aries guy. We work at the same office and the attraction between us is CRAZY. We have been out a couple of times. The first time we went out we ended up in bed. He stimulates me mentally and physically. He has this confidence that I love and he is funny. We have had our share of little arguments, but I love them. But, the only thing is that I don’t feel he gives me enough attention (something us aries girls need). Then I act like a brat and I don’t want to. He’s told me that he likes me and doesn’t just want sex (if that’s all he wanted I would know). We talk on the phone often. What should I do?
April 9th, 2009 at 6:45 pm
TO JCON AND MORNING GLORY
jcon YOU ARE SO RIGHT ABOUT THE ARIES
I AM PICES 100% I HAVE/AM IN A REALATIONSHIP WITH ARIE FOR THE PAST 15 YEARS.THE RELATIOSHIP IS ABOUT TO CRUMBLE DOWN, I JUST CANT TAKE IT NO MORE. ARIE DO ALWAYS THINK THEY ARE WRIGHT IF YOU CAN’T PROVE IT TO THEM ON BLACK AND WHITE YOU HAVE NO CHANCE OF WINNING. THEY ARE VERY POSSESIVE, WANT YOU LOCKED UP IN A CAGE LIKE A BIRD.AND BECAUSE WE ARE MORE OUTGOING AND VERY SENSITIVE IT IS HARD TO DEAL WITH THEIR SHIT AND THEIR CONFIDENCE THAT THEY JUST KNOW AND CAN DO EVERYTHING BETTER THEN ANYONWE ELSE. BUT DON’T FORGET THERES A STRONG SIDE TO US WHERE WE FIGHT BACK AND THAT MAKES THE REALATIONSHIP SO MUCH HARDER. yOU WANT TO PROVE YOUR POINT AND HE KNOWS HE’S WRIGHT THE GOES THE BOMB. I WANTED TO LEAVE HIM SO MANY TIMES BUT THEY KNOW EXACTLY WHEN TO BE CHARMING AND MAKE YOU FEEL LIKE A PRINCESS, THEN YOU CAN’T RESIST AND YOU TRY AGAIN AND AGAIN, AND AGAIN. THE YEARS GO BY AND YOU CAN NOT REALEASE YOURSELF FROM HIM BECAUSE HE’S SO POSSESIVE THAT HE WON’T LET YOU GO. I LOVE HIM AND I HATE HIM. I WANT TO END THIS BUT HE WON’T GO AWAY AND WILL MAKE ME FEEL LIKE I CANT DO IT ON MY OWN, WHICH I KNOW I CAN BECAUSE WHEN HE WAS LOCKED UP FOR A YEAR I HAD TO DO EVERTHING MYSELF. I HAVE DONE IT BEFORE. OH BECAUSE HE CAME BACK NOW WE HAVE NO CHANCE BECAUSE HE THINKS I WAS UNFAITFULL TO HI BUT TALKING TO PEOPLE. WELL TOUGH SHIT BECAUSE I LOVE SOCIOLAIZING AND WITH HIM IN MY LIFE I CAN’T EVEN SPEND TIME ALONE WITH MY 19YRS OLD DOUGHTER.
April 9th, 2009 at 8:38 pm
omg gorgeousariesgirl that sounds like my aries bf and I!!! I want him all the time , I smother him! I wouldn’t feel bad I’m sure this guys is just as crazy about you and the time you see it is when you guys are together. When they are away they dont tend to call, email, text none of that but they do have you in mind. and once he is by your side you get alllll the attention in the world sometimes so much it gets overwhelming and i think aries are pretty upfront and bold they say what they mean and mean what they say and i dont think the aries guys is so much about just the sex they have to have much more of a connection to you when they want to take you serious.
April 16th, 2009 at 9:02 am
Dear friend,
I met a very handsome Aries man 2 months ago, I like him very much. We have dated a few times, but I found out that he has got very bad temper, and sometimes getting extremely aloof to me. I have asked if there was anything wrong, he said no. I can never understand what is going on with him, he seems to keep everything in his mind but not sharing. He knows that I like him, but he never tell me about his feeling. Now he is on a long business trip for next 5 months, I cannot really see a future with him. But he said he would like to see me in September, God knows what he meant. Aries man is big mystery to me.
April 16th, 2009 at 8:55 pm
I am an Aquarius and the Aries man…or boy i should say, that I was fooling around with tried to get me to admit that I loved him, and I think he loved me. But, for me, he was too childish and because he was so childish I couldn’t see myself with him. there were other things keeping me from getting any closer. A lot of people probably saw us as a couple but I never allowed us to have the label of boyfriend and girlfriend. I didn’t want a relationship especially with a boy. It was, as far as i know, just friends with benefits. But there were times I got jealous of him talking to other girls or hooking up with other girls and it was probably because I didn’t have any other guys to play with. A thing of fairness is what bothered me, but oh well. There were many times that we would tell our friends that we would not give into each other again, but we did anyway, although unpleasant, it just happened. Still, he then went off to another girl and I was done with him. I felt that there was no way I would allow myself to be so involved with him and I let it go. I do feel that he was a P.o.S. and well, one day I told him that I was using him to get back at him for being an a** and well, the look on his face was a look from a heartbroken soul. Still, I;m not sure if he ever had real feelings towards me, but I never had any real feelings towards him. The Aries are my closest friends, but I will never speak to him again. If I indeed did hurt him, then karma got me back already. Then again, I was in a phase of mine that I wanted to be free and wild.
April 26th, 2009 at 4:40 am
im a gemini and im in love with an aries man
i met him when i was 15 , now im 23 and he has been my crush since then
we have been seeing each other more often because we have mutual friends and hang out at the same places with the same people sometimes
we even have a class together
he is also an artist and everytime he makes exhibitions he invites me to participate with my photography
he really is a sweetheart
when we saw each other again after all these years i personally felt something so strong arround him , we always look at each other in the eyes,we talk a lot and he definitely makes me nervous
i knew he had a girlfriend but still i knew he liked me too
i couldnt help myself,i liked him and it was mutual
but the other night we went to an art exhibition and the romance started,we couldnt help it just went with the flow,it was meant to happen
we had the most wonderful night out together so much fun dancing,laughing and hanging out with him
he tells me now it was the most magical night ever and he will always have it in his heart,forever,he took the iniciative to tell me this i didnt say anythng before that night to be honest,im very good at hiding my feelings
anyways i just wanted to tell you my story
awww thing is i hate this,im so in love with this man , what the hell,i know aries man are loyal and tuff when in love but what should i think about all this now since he is with a nice girl i supose he loves her very much…
i totally hate this situation
April 28th, 2009 at 5:50 pm
I am an Aries woman; I dated an Aries man only 3 times and after the third time, he told me he had found a new girlfriend. Go figure! F that! Really I think we expected too much from each other ego stroking, attention so much so that we couldn’t do enough and were exhausted. The sex between two Aries is phenomonal, completely compatible! If you can get one of you to compromise, acquiesce good because that’s what it takes for two Arians to get along.
April 28th, 2009 at 6:03 pm
I am an Aries man I have to say you explain the aries man to the tee!! I agree with almost everything that you have written. Specially the one about taking “enemy’s” side, once someone does that to me they are dead to me because I would never do that for them. The part about loyalty is very true as well, once I date one woman she becomes my one and only and if she tries to get me jealous by flirting with other that will only hurt me and I will steer away from her (huge turn off!!!!)
And the part about giving my all to a relationship is very true as well but I have always looked at that as a weakness not a strength. I give the person or the people I care for everything I have and I expect nothing less in return and that can be very hurtful at times specially when you do not get what you want.
May 1st, 2009 at 11:26 pm
Hi Everyone,
I’ve really enjoyed reading the post on this site. Very informative.
I am a Virgo with lot of Leo qualities. I get along really well with Aries as friends as well as lovers. I did have to learn to tone down my razor sharp tongue.I’ve lost him before but surprisingly enough (most info says when their done it’s final) HE came back and apologized.Bet I won’t make that mistake again. I was miserable without him and I am usually a lot more resilient than that.
I am more cautious this time around because he turned into that cold person once before and I never want to see that guy again. My only concern is that I worry he may never want to settle down. He’s loyal, but I want to be his wife.Although I love him I hope I can ride it out.
Mine is a big flirt but he never crosses the line. All who are in our presence know I’m his lady. I actually think it’s cute 90% of the time.
I’d love to bounce a few things off an Aries male if you have time to give some advice. I’d like your Arian brother to be mine forever!Give up the info! LOL
May 6th, 2009 at 8:20 pm
my aries man ditched me-libra.
May 14th, 2009 at 8:52 pm
I am dating an Aries man and in the beginning things were wonderful. He is still the exciting and he loves to do wild things. He is giving and he loves to be with me but I do not believe he takes my feelings into consideration. I feel empty sometimes. I do not feel as if he is loyal. There are trust issues. I am at the end of my rope. I do not know anymore. He doesn’t make me feel pretty. He used to be clingy and now he seems to be distant. He also seem as if he likes to hurt my feelings on purpose. I don’t know……
May 18th, 2009 at 12:56 am
I am a taurus girl been dating an aries guy for almost 7 months. All the passion and energy was there the first few months but these past few weeks he has turned into a selfish, tired, ungrateful partner. Its turning into a roller coaster for me. One day he is into me calling & texting me all day then about two days later I have to be the one initiating the conversations. We both love attention & affection, but lately it seems I’m doing all the work, no longer a give & take situation. I give him a lot of space, compliments, & take care of his home. But I’m confused as to why he has not been that dashing ‘romeo’ sweeping me off my feet, but instead a big baby who wants me to throw myself at him? If I don’t lean in to hug him first he gets his feelings hurts. How do I approach him about his change in behavior???
May 18th, 2009 at 5:24 pm
for all you ladies that are saying your Aries man seems not interested and is not affectionate enough i have to say something. I am an Aries man and I personally wouldn’t say I am not affectionate but as an Aries man I also don’t feel the need to tell my partner ever second that I love her and etc. We believe it looses it’s value and meaning so don’t think just because he isn’t saying it he isn’t feeling you. You just have to stick in there (if you can) and know that he loves you and cares for you even though he isn’t saying it. Hope that clarifies some things
June 12th, 2009 at 3:20 am
I find everything I have read fascinating. I am an Aries/Taurus cusp girl (april 19th) and my ex is on the cusp as well I believe (april 18th). We were together for 3 years. In the beginning everything was such a fairy tale and very passionate and romantic. Talking every minute of the day and every other wonderful thing girls love. Then I got pregnant and he started to cheat. For 3 years our relationship was full of lies, cheating, and deceit. To him not telling the whole truth wasn’t a lie. Even while I was prego he cheated and verbally and emotionally was horrible to me and me being an Aries girl I didn’t take that well at all.
Now that our son is 4 we’re trying to repair our relationship and be cool for the baby. We both still love each other but hate each other equally. It sucks but I don’t think Aries men are as great as explained above. The feminine side (whinning, aruging, constant complaining..etc.) they display can be quite annoying to a woman who is half masculine.
Now that he has rebounded to another chic a week after we broke up and claims to be inlove with her and wants to marry her… guess what he’s cheated on her already 3 times. But still plays the “I’m in love with her” role. I don’t get it.. Aries men are very passionate, loving and all that but equally as bratty, talks too much, and annoyingly spoiled acting when they don’t get their way or is proven wrong.
My son is also an Pisces/aries and oh boy the attitudes just don’t stop in this circle lol SIGH!!
The sad this is my ex comes off very emotionally confused and I think he still wants me. Too bad for his live in girlfriend who is an Aquarius… I don’t think it will last even though he is desperately seeking love and marriage. He needs to grow up first and learn to be alone… but I guess that’s most men’s problem!
June 20th, 2009 at 12:46 pm
I am an Aries woman who dated an Aries man for 7 years. We would have gotten married eventually but he had a stalker ex whom he had a child with and I couldn’t deal with the situation any longer and broke off all communication (typical Aries trait). However, that relationship was one I will always carry in my heart. We got along greatly and the sex was always explosive. I still love and desire him to this day and we still keep in touch. I know that I will always have a part of his heart that noone can touch even though he is now married to someone else (NOT the stalker ex). Now to the meat and potatoes of the Aries man.
First, the way to an Aries man’s heart is independence. They do not like clingy women. Give them their space. Remember the old adage “If you set them free, they will come back?” It is so true. They like to spoil and be spoiled. They like affection but not too much in public. Treating them like a king is guaranteeing your spot in his life.
Second, allow your Aries man to be the man of the relationship. If he feels like you don’t need him or that you are TOO independent, he will look for someone else that needs him.
Third, be adventuresome. Boring and repetiveness will have him running to the hills.
Keep him guessing. If he knows your every routine, he will take you for granted.
Listen to him. He loves an audience and if you are truly in to him, whats a few minutes of your time?
He is a great provider. He will make sure you want for nothing. He likes the finer things in life and will do whatever he can to make sure you and he have them.
NO NAGGING! Nag him, lose him!
Praise him. He loves to know he is appreciated.
If you’ve dated an Aries man, the first thing he does is evaluate how you two would be long term, possbily even married. But if you do something to make them second guess that thought, he no longer seriously considers you marriage material. He will still date you but he doesn’t think of marriage.
They do tend to get jealous, some show it and some don’t. Arouse his temper and you’ll be nursing a bruised ego.
Aries men are very sexual. He will do his best please you in the bedroom. He delights in his prowess and doesn’t want a shrinking violet. You must be able to match his stamina and versatility or he will find it somewhere else.
For some reason, Aries men are attracted to Pisces women. Personally, I think these relationships can be toxic. My Aries stalker ex is a Pisces. Pisces women are nurturers. They will provide quite well for whoever they are with BUT sometimes that is not always a good thing. Aries men cannot resist this and will sometimes mistake this for love. Yes it may be love on the Pisces end but not necessarily on the Aries end, though they may think it is. I say this because when an Aries is truly in love, there is nothing anyone else can do or say to sway them from their love. They will be faithful. Now that is not to say they will not love someone and still cheat. They do love, but he must truly be in love with you. They can love and its like a caring very much for you or they can love and its like a can’t imagine my life without you. That is true love for them. Don’t not mistake what I say that an Aries/Pisces combo is not possible. Anything is possible. I’m just saying that it’s great in the beginning because the Pisces nurture and the Aries male loves it but in the end, he realizes he’s bored. Then the disinterest comes and he becomes distant, short, impatient and so on…
Aries men require a lot of work (just like the Aries woman) but if you truly capture his heart, you’ve got a gem.
June 22nd, 2009 at 8:20 pm
I am a pisces in a new relationship with an Aries. He is HOT! his body is amazing and flawless, he is so masculine! He is headstrong and will not back down from anything, but he is what I have always wanted which is someone “in my corner”. Someone who will back me up and allow me to do the same as a sign of our love to one another no matter what. I met him at work and here is where the problem is (maybe).. I have to say that I am scared of his temper. I had to refuse a request as it was against company policy (this was before we started dating) and he would NOT drop it! He called and called my extension every 5 minutes trying to coax me into doing what he wanted when it was my boss’s decision not mine. One time he would be angry and yelling into the phone, then 5 minutes later its him again “look I’m sorry, I know it’s not you but is it really a big deal”? “cant you just do it for me”? “Okay okay I will call back to talk to who is in charge” then again 5 minutes later ” IS HE IN YET”? he yells… good grief! I am glad that I was not the one who was telling him NO! In the end he got his way. After calling about 10 times in a row and talking to my boss twice. :(.. I am really supprised that he didnt come in and yell at me in person while he was waiting on my boss. I asked him about it once we got to know each other and he said he ALWAYS gets his way and I am thinking ( ohh… crap…) lol. This attitude has not been directed towards me yet - I would not want to disagree with him on anything as I really enjoy his company and don’t want to tell someone they are wrong if they are the slightest bit right! I am waiting for sex, I want to know that he is going to respect me as a sensitive and giving person without trying to take advantage of those qualities. I love how spontaneous he is! He will decide halfway through an early meeting for breakfast that he wants to pack a few things and head to the mountains for the day! I LOVE this. So fresh and new compared to my last relationship with a Virgo for 2 and a half years ( ICK!!! what was I thinking? In some ways now I am embarrassed for dating a virgo man when comparing him to an aries man. Virgo could never throw out the rules and just go for something.
July 2nd, 2009 at 2:08 am
I dated an aries man, i am an aquarius. We are now friends and have been for quite some time. Our relationship has changed drastically, would an aries man ever consider someone who is a friend as more? I know they love the chase and mystery and i feel that all of that would be gone now. Any advice would be wonderful.
July 6th, 2009 at 4:30 am
I am an Aquarius and I was in a relationship with an Aries for 2 and a half years. He was in love with me from the very first week and boy was he DEVOTED! We broke up recently cause I couldn’t keep up with him any longer. Everything that you’ve said on here is EXACTLY him! Right now he is acting so childish that he doesn’t know how to deal with his emotions! He would keep on insulting me like a child. Yes, as an Aquarius, I played the upper role in the relationship, and he blamed me for being that way cause I would always argue back why I am right. People thought I was crazy for leaving one of the sweetest guys, but really, it really irritated me how the way he treated me TOO kind. I mean, it was just too perfect. Then I would space out and have my own mental space, and he didn’t like that.
July 9th, 2009 at 5:19 pm
Man, these Aries men are a trip. Hell, Aries in general are a trip. I’m dating an Aries as of now. He wants to love me. Put me on a serious pedestal. I could do no wrong no matter if I’m wrong. He wont take no for an answer, and I really want him to.
I’m a Capricorn. I hate his bossy nature. Especially if I don’t want to do something. Originally, this Aries man is my ex. He cheated on me the first time we were together, I gave him another chance. I like to take things slow, and he’s always moving. I’m also part Aquarius due to the fact that I was born on a cusp. As I’m getting older, I find it a more joyful experience to be with him and I can keep up with his pace better. I mean, he is a sexy beast! His body is off the chain and he’s so energetic, it’ll probably stay that way for the rest of his life. I’m not fat now, but being with him makes me thin. I’m looking younger everyday with him. He keeps me moving!
Anyway, I love him, but I’m not in love with him and he doesn’t want to accept that. He’s in love with me, and he doesn’t wanna let me go. I can’t give him what he wants, and I don’t know how to refuse him altogether. That pedestal is so high, I don’t know how to get off; and I’m trying to before it’s too late. He’s determined to think that I’m the one for him.
July 10th, 2009 at 5:55 am
You described the Aries about 95 % accurately, now I realize that how one is brought up,such as parenting and the type of neighborhood one grows up should be considered, but the thing about me (im an Aries) is that I can get mad easily but I get over so fast that most people never even remember that I got mad. When I used to get mad at my parents or anyone else for that matter,within 5 minutes I would be talking to them as if nothing hapenned. Now this only for small things, when its something serious such as finding out your best friend was talking to your ex girlfriend or “friend” doesnt show up to help me from getting jumped by 5 dudes and 1 girls, then Aries tend to definitely take things like this to heart. The word to describe Aries is “REAL.” I never lie, unless im doing it intentionally, such as telling a joke, and I am always straight up. So when some one hurts Aries like i mentioned above, he will not waste his time and do away with such fake people. Aries does not like to be around fake or lying or two faced people, like I said we are REAL,and we will ignored people who arent going to help us or support us. I have the biggest heart you will ever see and its true I have never cheated on any girl, when I am in a relationship, my plate is full, one girl is enough for me. And I focus my attention on her, I make her the priority, and I take a backseat. Her being happy makes me feel invincible. But when something goes wrong, because Aries is so real, I tend to get hurt and the emotional pain can be hard to deal with. Once an Aries cathces his girl cheating, its definitely over and I can kill any feelings for her just like that. Aries are natural leaders and as long as youd dont have a problem with that or you keep your mouth shut and just let the Aries do his thing, then you will see that the Aries man is definitely one of a kind. Authentic and humanitarian, faithful, funny, youth at heart, strong, independent, loyal, hardworking, and unbreakable are the best words to describe Aries. Any girl would be lucky to have someone be faithful to you for life and get spoiled like an Aries.
July 10th, 2009 at 6:01 am
Oh and one more thing about Aries. A good example of how describe us or me
is that we are like a sponge. We absord other peoples pain and problems and make them our own in order to help that person overcome it. When someone close to me feels pain, I feel it too and I give such good advice. I am wise beyond my years (im only 21) but the things I say, people are just like wow, where do learn all this? We are humanitarians and I try to help anyone (not just friends) who I see is in pain or in trouble. Kinda like your neighborhood friendly Spider man 
July 21st, 2009 at 4:34 am
Okay I’m and Aries woman and I was in a relationship with an Aries man for 5 years. Lost my virginity to him… the whole works. He brainwashed me from the early age of 14. He was extremely controlling and hated it when I went and hung out with my friends b/c they were “sluts” He was very emotionally and mentally abusive. Everytime he ditched me or cheated on me he would say that it was my fault b/c I wanted to hang out with him so much. He was a liar, cheater and a woman beater. It has taken me years to get my full confidence back. He really did damage me for life. I finally just got up and ran away (out of state) to get away from him. He was also stalker like. He had his sweet moments though (just like any other guy though! So don’t be fooled) He would make me breakfast in bed and tell me all these wonderful things like he loved me and blah blah blah but then he’d go cheat on me right after lol An Aries man truly only wants what he can’t have. When I would break it off with him he would go truly insane. So don’t be fooled by their charm ladies. Aries men are always looking for the next thrill. But hell if you’re into that type of guy that always keeps you on your feet and keeps you constantly jealous b/c you don’t want him to be with anyone else… have fun. But as for me, I left him on a dirt road a long time ago and I WILL NEVER LOOK BACK. My Pisces man truly showed me how it is to treat a lady. Screw Aries men. They make me sick.
July 23rd, 2009 at 8:19 pm
well im dating an aries now he is like the greatest thing that has happend to me he’s soo lving and just like the besst and btw im a gemini so romantically is AWSSOMMEEEEEE.
August 5th, 2009 at 11:14 am
I am an aquarius/pisces cusp and have been in a relationship aries for 6months. Initially we both were friends but as soon as our first kiss we felt an amazing connection. everytime we kiss we get goosebumps all over our bodies. we have a great mutual trust and comfort around each other, something which both of us agreed we have never had. he got a job offer overseas for a large amount of money contracting for approx 1 yr. we decided not to do the long distance thing as it would put too much pressure on his career and my career. Even though he chose to leave, he told me i was the one and he’s never felt so comfortable and attracted to anyone. should i hold my breath
August 8th, 2009 at 9:42 am
Hi im pisces girl who has been dating an aries guy for a year on and off. I love this guy and i think he loves me back although never says it. Im too scared to tell him cos i think he would laugh. Im a very affectionate, loving, caring person and cant keep my hands off him. Hes great when we are together but when apart his texts are feelingless, never says he misses me, no pet names, very formal like some mates can be. even with phone calls, its like chatting to a mate. Hes a very shy guy and id say quiet but has opened up a bit since we met. Im feeling a bit unloved. Ive asked him about it before and he says hes no good with relationships. Can anyone give me an opinion?
August 17th, 2009 at 7:19 pm
my fiance is ariesand im aquarius , and we gone get marry this aug 30. 1 month ago i was hes house so he told me to checkhes computer to see cakes designs for our wedding cake, by mistake i open hes messenger and i saw has conversation at 3am with one b***.Immagin how im gone feel, he was talking so dirty with that girl, and he was saying what he would to to that girl like hes having sex but virtual. i was so hurt. So when he come back he try to explain me that he just was playing nothing else that he dont know that girl, and hes loyal he didnt did anything behinds me. but i dont belive him anymore, i know hes honest but he shouldnt do that to me, 1 month already past but im still so hurt, i dont know what to do & how to be. is any aries ma can explain me this situation??? plz
August 25th, 2009 at 10:49 am
I am Aries Man.
August 25th, 2009 at 3:26 pm
Message to Anna
I too have just found messages on my bfs computer to girls. dirty chat and photographs. I had it out with him as i was really shocked, didnt think he was like that. He said he has never cheated and ddnt mean to hurt me. He was very upset and felt ashamed. I have now put parental control on his computer with a password so that he cant accept chat rooms etc. Maybe u should try this. He told he he means nothing by it and its an addiction. I told him im off if i find anything else.
August 26th, 2009 at 4:56 pm
I need some advice….
I met this Aries guy (I am Aries too)bdays a week apart.
I asked for something and he gave me the wow who are you look and joked around..I could tell he liked me, talked loud on phone when I was around like showing off so I would notice.
Every time I was in there he would make a special point to approach me and say Hi how are you..but it was deep the way he said it….I would catch him looking at me and our eyes would lock so strongly.
One day got back to work my desk phone rang and it was the number from where he works… (shy)
A few months later I told a woman that works there that I had a litte crush and did he have wife or gf? She said no to either one so he was available.She kept it quiet. One day after I was in there my phone rang again twice and they hung up, 3rd time it was the woman and she said, “Do you want me to give him your number”..he had asked her if it was in her computer. It was just work # in computer..so I gave her cell…I said I felt obvious and she said “So does he”
He called a week later and he asked me out…I said maybe…we continued to talk and he revealed feelings that were very strong..he said, “Sometimes I want to shout it out that’s how strong it is.” “And i don’t even care who would hear it”…”I hold my pillow at night” and you know the rest…all good stuff. I was feeling same.He still showed an interest in going out, so I knew he was interested,but it was always not a good time or we were busy..he suggested lunch because we work close..I said thats too quick we need to meet after work and spend some time…we had one plan for a Fri and he cancelled due to sons banquet…
I didn’t text back for a few days bcause I thought it was a game and he said,”I thought I lost my chance with you”…very sweet. Well four months later and we have not gone out, but still talk…there is no one else, I asked the woman at his work and his phones are always accessable to me.I have home and cell, and we have talked Sat. nights etc.He said he has been hurt twice and his wife cheated and is now married to the guy. We had a month where we did not talk and I asked him when we talked again, “I was wondering..why didn’t we go out in the spring? He said, “I
got scared”
I got scared too and overtexted him and freaked out bcause we hadn’t gone out and I felt like he was hiding something. So now he may see that maybe I freak out?? and thats scaring him too? Everytime we made light plans he would say call me or I’ll call you and then it wouldn’t happen. Almost like he was interested, but stalling.I got scared of him too…when I was around him at work the intensity scared me and I felt the way you feel around your 8th grade crush…speechless
Can an Aries man explain….he was definitly interested or he would not have asked me out so many times..also told me of wanting to do dating things in future…he said he spends Sat night at home alone and he now knows since meeting me he won’t be. Also said if you didn’t bring in your car and work close I would have never met you.
So why is he stalling? Money trouble? Is he a smoker and is hiding that? Some people do..I dont want to give up…in my gut I know its real..is it relationship sabotage…(google that it exists!)
September 7th, 2009 at 6:22 am
to blondgirl
well we already get marry, and i still can not trust him, now every time when we walk around and when some girl past by hes watching them up and down, and today i told him, that he has no respect, he start screaming at me, he told me im crazy and he dont do anything, this and that..
what about hes computer chat,i can not stop that cuz thats how he work all the time, so if i catch im again then everything is gone be boom!!!
he said however he talk he keep distance so i hope hes honest about this…
and how u got ur bf’s pass, i want to make it…
September 13th, 2009 at 11:55 am
to Anna
If you access properties and content by right clicking on internet explorer you can enable a password of your choice and block certain websites. You will have to tell your husband that you are doing this. The internet is a horrible place and unfortunately people get addicted to chat websites. As for him eyeing the women up, i dont get jealous of that, well i never used to. I suppose im feeling a bit unsecure at the moment. Not nice.
September 13th, 2009 at 6:35 pm
TO blondgirl
THANK YOU VERY MUCH….
WHAT IS YOUR ZODIAC SIGN ITS INTERESTING FOR ME, IS YOUR BF LET YOU TO PUT PASS. TO HES COMPUTER, CUZ I KNOW IF I DO THAT TO MY HUSBAND HES GONE BE MAD AND UPSET. FOR HIM ITS SO EASY TO GET MAD AT ME LOL
September 17th, 2009 at 5:15 pm
HI I AM A TAURUS GIRL AND MY BOYFRIEND IS A ARIES I LOVE HIM SO SO MUCH, WHEN HE FIRST SEEN ME, HE DID ALL THE MOVES AND EVERYTHING UNTIL I WAS HIS, HE IS SO SWEET AND THE SAME GUY I MET IS STILL THE SAME GUY…SOMETIMES HE NEED ATTENTION LIKE A BABY, BUT I DONT HAVE A PROBLEM GIVING IT TO HIM..I CANT TELL HE HAS BEEN HURT IN THE PAST A LOT, BECAUSE ITS HARD FOR HIM TO TRUST ME, AND I DONT KNOW Y THAT IS, BUT IT SO AMAZIN CAUSE WHEN I THINK THINGS AND WANT TO TELL HIM WAT IM THINKING HE ENDS UP SAYIN IT BEFORE I CAN GET IT OUT MY MOUTH, Y IS THAT. HE CAN BE QUIET AT TIMES, AND I CAN ALWAYS, ALWAYS TELL WHEN HE IS MAD OR SOMETHING IS BOTHERING HIM, BUT HE TRY TO SAME EVERYTHING IS OK, BUT I JUST GET IN HIS FACE AND SAY I KNOW SOMETHING IS WRONG, THEN HE ENDS UP SAYING WATS WRONG WITH HIM, I DO BELIEVE HE IS WAITIN ON ME TO HURT HIM, CAUSE ALWAYS BRING UP HOW WOMEN HURT HIM IN THE PAST, SO I WILL JUST SAY TRUST ME AND STOP BEING SO HARD WITH YOUR GUARD UP, AND HE WILL ALWAYS REPLY I HAVE TO HAVE IT UP BUT THATS HOW PEOPLE GET HURT WHEN THEY LET IT DOWN, AND THEN TXT ME YESTERDAY SAYIN THE JUST NEED TO LET GO OF HIS PASS HURT, BUT HE STILL TRUST ME, BUT I WILL WAIT UNTIL ALL THAT IS PASS CUZ BOTH OF OUT FEELINGS ARE MUTUAL, AND I ALSO BELEVE TOGETHER WE CAN GET THROUGH EVERYTHING
October 5th, 2009 at 4:26 am
I’m a aries female with a aries guy our relationship is a very hot wet sexual wild roller coster ride, never a dull moment. Once and in a wild we may bump heads but you know aries we have to be the boss. he’s a sweet heart gives you all the attention and loves you deeply.
October 11th, 2009 at 6:26 pm
That’s pretty much it. Lot’s of hot passionate tango under the sheets (if you know what I’m driving at….and I know you do.
Aries equate Sex with Love. I’ve heard some women withhold sex to get what they want. That’s fine. I will personally help you with your match.com profile, that very night you try to get cute with my libido. I AM ARIES! We will give it to you just how you want it. There is nothing more beatiful than watching a girl get off on something I did. It’s an instant ego boost and we know we did our job. Staleness in the sack is a no go. I got many tricks. Enough to last a lifetime (I think. Never did the math). “I don’t do that”, is not in my vocabulary. Except three-somes and pain. Ok, maybe a little pain. For me, I mean. Unless you want some. You know what, we’ll talk about it later. Anywho, the point is. Loyalty. I will cut off anyone who gives me a reason not to trust them, pronto. I once had a girl who tried to make me jealous, which I mistook for being unloyal; only to find out she didn’t appreciate all the attention from the girls I would get. So, this was her way of showing me she didn’t appreciate it. Should’ve talk to me first, because I broke up with her, pronto (yes, I know I said pronto twice. This in America. Deal with it). Loyalty is non-negotiable. If I trust you, I’ll take a bullet for you. If you screw me over, I’m pushing you in front of the bullet (unless you’re a girl, in which case I’ll just dump you). Playing games of any kind is NOT the way to go with an Aries guy. That goes for openly criticizing your Aries guy in front of other people. Huge no, no. I would never do it to you, so don’t do it to me. Excitement. I constantly have to be doing something fun. If you’re idea of fun is sitting on your duff, watching 4 hours of tv on the weekend, it ain’t gonna work. I need some sort of adrenaline rush; whether it’s jumping out of an airplane, or making you scream in the pleasure square (or the “bedroom”, as some might call it; but I don’t. I call it the pleasure square. ‘Cause this is America, that’s why). I guess I should add something else. I love competition. I can’t stand hippies. I hate pascifists who are too scared to fight for anything they believe in. I don’t do tofu and I don’t do bumper stickers or t-shirts with political mumbo-jumbo statements. I do myself…..er, I mean, I keep it to myself. I don’t need to make any statement or get approval from people I don’t even know. This is my town, damnit. I like winners, and I need to be one. If I busting my arse trying to accomplish something only to here something negative from the one person I would take said bullet for. That is no bueno. Til the end baby. You and I. I would NEVER tear you and your dreams down, so don’t do it to me. I once had a dream of being a cardiovascular surgeon. I didn’t have the grades at the time (I later learned I was a visual learner, not good at “rote memorization”, which is how school’s are designed. Now I soak up books like crazy). Anyhow, we had an argument one day, and she threw out, “oh, you wanna be a surgeon one day? C’mon, be realistic”. She was right. I’m way to right-brained for such a boring career. It would have been disaster. Too bad I dumped her so fast, her head was spinning. Never, ever diminish me or my dreams. Again, I would NEVER do it to you, so don’t do it to me. What the hell. I might as well keep going. I would never cheat on a women. Never. I’m a man. Real men stand up and say what they want and what they need; never scared to let people know who they are or where they’re at. Stand up, gentlemen. Sex, loyalty and excitement. There it is. Don’t say I didn’t warn you.
October 12th, 2009 at 2:44 pm
to SexLoyalty&Excitement
Hi,
Can i have your aim or yahoo or msn??
i really need your advices..
October 21st, 2009 at 8:49 pm
Ok here goes..Im a capricorn falling for an aries for the first time. I do have to say that most ppl and most websites say that we are not compatible whatsoever. that scares me in alot of ways. we both realize that we are totally different ppl, but we both bring something to the relationship that is different and much needed to the other. I can be very quiet where he is very loud and talkative. we both love that fact about us. i have been hurt and cheated on too many times to mention. he is very bold, charming, outspoken, upfront, very romantic, passionate, honest, and loyal. which is something i need in a man to get me to the next level of trust. he knows that i have issues with trust and that i can tend to hold back my feelings or emotions cause im scared of getting hurt. he tells me that he understands and is willing to be patient and help me get pass that. so far he is the only man i have ever opened up too and expressed my feelings too. he is very good at doing that lol. is it possible, even though we are not compatible, to make this relationship work? he has waited on me for 2 yrs and knows and loves everything about me as i do him..man do i loves arians!!
October 21st, 2009 at 9:11 pm
I should say this too about myself. I am the kind of woman who does not stand in front of, behind but beside her man 100% in anything he does even if i don’t agree. I am very loyal and faithful. I have never and will never cheat on my man. once i am relaxed and comfortable and in love with my man, i am very open in the sex department. love the sex as much as him!! i have never and will never put my man down. im very passionate and romantic. i do not like to play games. i hate jealousness and i do not try to make my man jealous in any form..that only causes distrust and the relationship to fail. im very energetic and love adventures. I give my man all my attention but im very independent and like my freedom as well. i don’t mind at all that i get attention from my man and i don’t mind giving him his freedom either. I don’t mind my man being the leader. afterall he is the man of the relationship and i love that fact about arians!! i hope explaining the type of capricorn i am will help some arian man let me know if i am compatible with arian men!
October 28th, 2009 at 11:02 am
I am an aries man, I was maried for only 8 month, but it is over now.
Surprisingly i noticed that it was too noisy for her to keep up with me.
And as already mentioned we do not go half the way.
I am hurt and lacking my confidence.
I am now looking for the one who still sees in me what all the others -including me- do not see it anymore
November 2nd, 2009 at 9:52 pm
TO:yyy
and what was her sign?
I need your help, i want to get some advices from you, my husband is aries to and sometimes i feel like i dont understand him…
November 6th, 2009 at 6:30 pm
hello,
this is quite interesting but……….
what if an arian is dating …….me
but still remembers the old love:(
November 8th, 2009 at 3:36 am
I am a Sagittarius (taurus rising) woman dating an Aries Man. So far things have been good. He is very affectionate, the sex is good, he takes the time to call me through out the day and listens to me when I talk. He is very dramatic and funny and loves to cook. He is also a little lazy and just refuses to do house chores…maybe its his upbringing. I adore him and he stepped to me first. I wasn’t interested at first, but I decided to give it a chance by just talking to him. He is very educated and smart. I’m happy I met him and wonder why I waited so long.
November 8th, 2009 at 9:52 pm
to Annie
She was Gemini.
What do you need? I am pleased to help.
November 9th, 2009 at 6:48 pm
TO: yyy
ITS TO PERSONAL QUESTIONS. SO I WOULD LIKE TO ASK IF YOU HAVE ANY MESSANGER SO WE CAN TALK IF YOU HAVE TIME.
THANK YOU
November 20th, 2009 at 5:33 pm
Sorry annie for being late.
We can chat on just-chat.co.uk or facebook.
Tell me your account and i will add you.
November 22nd, 2009 at 5:34 am
TO SARA:
Hi Sara,
Aries man here. Broke up with virgo 3 months ago. if the aries man is dating u, im pretty sure he’s moved on from the ex. u need not worry. IMO
best of luck.
November 30th, 2009 at 10:59 am
I’m seeing an Aries man right now&he is VERY controlling in a sassy kind of way. Don’t get me wrong he is VERY masculine but cries when he doesn’t get his way. He always wants me 2b happy but if I get annoyed or disappointed n him he walks away w/ an attitude. I say if u want a man who has lots of game 2 keep u interested by his flirtatious ways & spoils ur feelings w/ love and attraction then may leave to explore something different when hes bored & ur just warming up go 4 an Aries man. Shoot u can have mine Im about 2 get rid of him Love Cancer Woman
December 1st, 2009 at 10:56 pm
hey yyy
ok this is my facebook email anulik888@hotmail.com
so we will talk soon.
December 6th, 2009 at 4:12 am
I agree with LittleImpaler & I am an aquarius as well. I sure do love me some Aries Men. They are filled with compassion and sure do know how to please but i must say they are liars…at least the ones i dealt with..bad liars at that! They can get jealous & play games. Also, they react just like a child would by getting revenge sometimes they may take it too far. They are easy to fall in love with & definitly do jump in head first despite all that they are excellent pleasers ooo i think i said that already…sigh… im infatuated
December 6th, 2009 at 7:25 am
Im am Aquarius and ive been with my aries man for 3 years. we drive eachother nuts!!!! I love him to pieces but our relationship is full of conflict. hes very stubborn and has an opinion on EVERYTHING. hes very mellow though, and gets along with everyone and has alot of friends. people worship the ground he stands on and have great respect for him. we have not alot of tolerance for eachother, although we are generally very mellow easy going people towards others. It frustrates the heck out of me when he accuses me of being in a bad mood (when im really not) and he gets snarky, and THEN i get in a bad mood and he says “seeeee.u R in a bad mood.” Our bedroom life has slipped too, he never had a huge sexdrive, altho ive been with 2 other aries men who did. My aries man is very generous though with money and things, and is very faithful and looks down terribly on others who cheat. hes the one person in the world i can trust with my life. Quite ironic that we are so in love but cant stand being witheachother for long periods of time!! haha.
December 6th, 2009 at 7:28 am
By the way, there are alot of aquarian woman and aries men comments on this page!! Maybe were more compatible than i thought
December 7th, 2009 at 2:15 am
My RESPONSE to:
“Aquarius Girl Aries Man
” By the way, there are alot of aquarian woman and aries men comments on this page!! Maybe were more compatible than i thought ”
Only when it comes to short-term relationships.
Or only when it comes to long-term sex and/or frivolity ONLY relationships.
If you want more than that from us, then I’d kindly suggest that you make that obvious in your actions AND by being blunt with us about that.
(a few months ago I rebuffed a single super hot body and hair though a little above average looking face single 19yr old Aquarius gal, I’m 37, for a 140 lbs overweight better face looking and great hair 40 year old divorced mother Sagittarius gal, because the former had been lying to me and others about different things and had arranged with an Aquarius 24?yr old dad to “steal” a hot looking bust and hair and face single 18yr old Leo gal from me and when that was only partly working to have him make complete lies to the Leo about me so as to then get me falsely accused of major issues which when later proven wrong the Leo wasn’t willing to apologize or consider me as a viable option anymore, the Aquarius guy was literally into her, though now they’ve broken up cuz she eventually realized his lies and manipulation, and the Aquarius gal turned on her charms to me…her superficiality being exposed when I mentioned why I would no longer consider her but instead was going after the Sagittarian: who by the way I’m no longer with because her 17yr old Leo daughter was using her mom’s FB account and pretending to be her when conversing with me and when I visited in person, the Leo daughter increased her sexual flirtations to me in front of her naive Sagittarius mom. This Leo, if you haven’t noticed, is different than the 18yr old Leo I mentioned)
So where am I at now?
I’m considering two different Sagittarius women:
One recently turned 23 years old and is single.
The other had her birthday today, is divorced/widowed/always-single, and a mother of a 10yr old.
(so this latter one is probably anywhere from 26-29yrs old, though she could be older/younger)
I prefer this latter one.
They both look hot, the younger one hotter, but I love the character of the latter one more.
By the way, I am NOT saying that ALL of ANY sign are bad.
I only mentioned some instances.
My first romantic relational mess had occurred (I was 34) when I was attracted to a single Gemini 21yrs old gal but a 26yr old Libra single mom of a 12yr old spoiled girl gal told the Gemini to leave me alone since I was going to be hers (I saw and heard her say it in person to the other and they both did not have a clue that I was there to witness this).
That Libra made my life “hell on earth”, even when I left a mutual organization and went elsewhere, since she spread not only exaggerations, but also outright lies about me (ever since I had insisted on the Gemini and rebuffed the Libra’s advances/flirtations, despite her looking much hotter in all aspects to the Gemini, who also looked hot). The Gemini rebuffed my flirtations ever since the Libra told her to leave me alone and only once responded in kind 2 years later when the Libra got leadership to have the Gemini ignore me.
Every Libra (who I knew was a Libra, the rest I don’t know) since then has screwed my life up whenever they didn’t get their way with me, where I’m including those who were already married and no sexuality was a part of the equation for either of us.
With one exception:
I have a FB friend who is a Libra and she’s been one of my best friends, including when I’ve been kindly direct with her as to why I wouldn’t consider her a potential mate and offered to help her secure a Scorpio gal she was attracted to…heh. To bad the Scorpio goes all for her in everything except an unwillingness to marry her, especially considering that she’s a single mom.
So as you can see:
Every sign has its strengths and weaknesses predispositions
which therefore means that not everyone in these signs does most of their good and/or bad predispositions, just that they do more of them than those of the other signs.
(don’t forget that the cusps and those close to cusps, are less of their sign with a little of sign close to them)
Ok, my “ratty” Aries blab-blab-blab-iness should come to a close.
Whoever had the patience to read through all of this with a fair approach the whole way through, should be commended for their patience and tolerance! LOL
December 7th, 2009 at 2:26 pm
yes tru Im another Aqua woman and my husband is Aries…
December 8th, 2009 at 12:17 pm
I have been in a relationship with a Aries man for 5 years. Been cheated 5 times. And the most incredible thing, he wont even see himself as a cheater. So glad i dump him
December 11th, 2009 at 4:54 am
TO BABYk,
Hi,
I beleive all zodiacs are compatibale with each other. Some are more compatible then others.. some naturally attract each other and some are different so they intrigue each other and teach each other. With aries and capricorn the case is that they look at life differently.. i think most people fail to recognize when they talk about the compatibility here that they are very similar in different ways. they are both ambitious, go getters.
it can work out because a serious aries person is usually intrigued by the different approach that capricorns take in life. for aries life is a fun maze.. with lots to explore and a capricorn is someone interesting to explore. so it could work if you both learn to understand each other. understanding wont come naturally; im sorry to say. but the good news is, it can work if u both want it to.
December 11th, 2009 at 2:12 pm
I’m an Aquarius and have been with an aries man for 7 yrs now……we get on like a house on fire and he worships the ground I walk on. We both love our freedom and are not jealous. We dont ever need other people around us to have fun, when its just us we have the most laughs and fun!!We both love adventure and going against the grain. Its funny im always drawn to aries guys. All my good friends are aries also and we understand each other perfectly. I think Aquarius and aries are a perfect match!!!
December 14th, 2009 at 7:56 pm
TO: Vernon
YES THAT’S THRU, BUT I LOST MY TRUST ON HIM. IS YOUR MAN IS FLIRTY??
December 15th, 2009 at 10:31 pm
To T.J.
I sure hope you are hot…because all you seem to care about is someone’s hotness…really there is more to someone than their face and hotness….your post sounds like a soap opera…how about someone your own age? Very shaollw sorry to say….
December 20th, 2009 at 10:05 am
I AM THE SCORP DAUGHTER OF AN ARIES MAN AND I WOULD NEVER BE WITH SOMEONE LIKE HIM, ALTHOUGH I DID ALWAYS SEE HIM WITH EITHER A GEMINI OR A LIBRA. MOST THE TIME HE IS A RECKLESS, SELFISH CHILD! BUT, LIKE A CHILD HE CAN BE SWEET AND INNOCENT AND WHEN HE IS NOT FEELING SELFISH HE WILL HELP ME OUT. I NEVER EXPECT HIM TO COMFORT ME WHEN I’M HURT OR UPSET, MUCH LIKE ALWAYS HE HAS NOTHING TO SAY, NO INSIGHT, NO WORDS OF WISDOM… I OUTGREW MY FATHER BY THE TIME I WAS 18. AS FAR AS LOYALTY GOES, HE HAS NONE… MY FATHER CHEATED ON MY MOM(PISCES) A FEW TIMES, LIED AND WORST OF ALL BETRAYED ME! HIS OWN DAUGHTER. YOU MAY NOT BELIVE THAT AN ARIES COULD DO THIS BUT I HAVE SEEN MY SHARE. I LOVE MY DAD, HE WAS ALWAYS A FUN PARENT, HE KNEW HOW TO MAKE ME LAUGH AND AS A LITTLE GIRL HE WAS THE BEST DAD. BUT AS I GOT OLDER AND HE SEEMED YOUNGER AND NOW I HELP HIM MORE THAN HE COULD EVER HELP ME. HIS BEST OUALITIES I WOULD SAY: SILLY SENSE OF HUMOUR, LAID BACK/COOL ATTITUDE, AND HIS PRIDE. HIS WORST QUALITIES: INSENSITIVE, SELFISH AND UNFAITHFUL/NOT LOYAL
I WOULD SAY WATCH OUT LADIES, YOUR WALKING ON A TIGHT ROPE OF GOOD MAN/BAD MAN AND DEPENDING ON HOW SMART, RICH AND HAPPY YOUR ARIES IS YOU COULD GET ONE OR THE OTHER, OR BOTH!
December 30th, 2009 at 3:31 am
Mature Leo in NEW lust(6 days) with Aries man 11 years my senior as a result of a blind date, I became totally HOOKED …. I w/ trust issues just back in the game after a 10 year hiatus is LOVE STRUCK with this viral man… although both of us like to be in charge we have found the middle of the seesaw… so what’s the problem? welll after a 72 hour date I can’t get enough of him but he lives 3000 miles away. When I dared to ask how he felt about long didtance “things” he said “if no one can control him when they are with me how do you think you could fare when you are not” …. then we had the hottest sex … so what does this mean…is he crazy am I I’m not long suffering and I don’t take anyones crap….. but I feel like this man could melt ALL my resolve and lead to scary choices…. do Aries men have VOODOO … lol
January 19th, 2010 at 1:07 pm
Best sex of my life, but he cheated on me with a friend. To get me jelouse, they love those mind game’s.
BUT….
He has never delt with the mind twist’s of a sag woman.
I turned the whole thing around on him. chipped his ego.
And have had him going crazy, because i told him he lost, i can’t get him away now.
I keep him around when i really need my kick’s
February 4th, 2010 at 1:59 am
Loved an Aries Man. He had a way about him that would make me smile. He could be passionate and gave me a taste of what it would be like to date him, but he didn’t want me permanently. I can’t get over him. It’s the worst feeling ever. The end.
April 28th, 2010 at 9:54 pm
the one thing i cant stand about an aries is how they r extremely talkative - to the point u fall asleep and they nudge u to wake up so they can keep talking. what is that?
And dont think u will be given the same courtesy bc they have better things to do than sit there and listen to you, even if they love you. no matter what is going on in your life - u could have just won an award they would want a quick explanation so they can get on to telling u about their day. anybody notice this?
May 11th, 2010 at 1:29 pm
Hi,
I’m an aries man deeply in love with a gemini woman. We met about 19 months ago at a time that I was going through the deep loss of my mother. I have grown to love this woman emencly, the challenge here is that we fight a lot and I constantly have this feeling that she will cheat on me. I do every thing I can do for her, I dont want to hear she has a care, i try to fix it. Since Im an outgoing person, I go ahead of things and do what i feel needs to be done. She complains to me about some of my dirty ways and I try to change them because I dont want to hurt her, I would get really angry and tell her terrible things, thats one of the things I changed cus I sincerely try to be the best I can be to her. She doesnt see my efforts and tells me that I dont trust her when she flirts. Its something that hurts me a lot and I tell her about it. Most recently, she told me that all the nice things i tell her means nothing to her cuz she doesnt believe me.Im devastated by that because I I know I love her dearly but she doesnt believe me.Its ripping me up inside, I cry all the time cuz I dont know what to do now. please help me somebody. I’m really desperate right now.
May 16th, 2010 at 5:34 am
Hey Johnny/ Aires Guy…..chill. I feel for you. Gem girls have mega trust issues, in my experience. I am a mature GEM/OX girl looking for answers myself about my aries man. For me, as a GEM I hate cheaters and liars…and the dirty stuff is kind of paralell with that. You “try” to change..which means what exactly? Like you cut down on the porn? Not enough. Yet, you want her to STOP flirting…not just cut down? Do you see why she doesn’t trust you. Its ok for you, but not for her. Let’s face it…you will not change, right? Neither will she. if you tell her you will NOT change, but respect the request…see what happens. She just may respect you for the honesty and yield.
Prove to her that you are the ARIES ROCK she needs and it will be fine. Keep telling her over and over and over, it will eventually sink in..and you gotta live it. Be Superman for her…you know you can. One big leap is all it takes.
You also hate the flirt because it is an ego blow. It is part of a GEM to flirt. You gotta be secure with her because that will NEVER change either. We flirt. It’s life. She is fearing the trust break because she hasn’t given 100% yet. Holding the bail out ticket just in case. (ask me how I know) Dont be desperate…its a killer. Be strong and talk to her. You will be ok. Hope that helps……
June 24th, 2010 at 5:07 pm
Ughh!! I am a cancer woman in love with an aries man. I seriously get confused when he tricks me with his funny words. I still can’t get it whether he wants me as a friend or the girl for him! he says that he loves me but in what way is the knot here!! :O apart from these tricks I really adore him. He loves me like i have never been loved before. Some times i sulk and the other times he does(haha). But he does cheat on me too(few things but not really much of it!) When i ignore, he comes for me. He always pretends to have no interest in whatever I do. But he then later secretly guides me through things. This is one of the most beautiful traits in him which i adore. Hope this continues FOREVER!
August 5th, 2010 at 5:45 pm
I am a female with a Capricorn sun/Taurus moon. My fiance is an Aries sun/Aquarius moon. Do not ask me how in the world we get along but we MAKE IT WORK!! In the beginning we didn’t like each other very much. His complaint was that I was waaaay too strong, sharp tongued, can be blunt and potty mouthed, etc. HOWEVER, once we started to get to know one another he discovered that I in fact DO have a heart of gold. He also treats me like I am. (Gold that is!) He has me on such a high pedestal it’s truly insane. He loves that I enjoy cooking for him (and has actually put on several pounds because of it. lol) He refers to me as his “rock” and “best friend.” He tells me EVERY DAY, atleast 4 times a day how much he loves me. He makes grand gestures of affection. He would buy me the world if could. I’ve gotten diamond watches, a beautiful wedding set, flowers for absolutely no reason, etc. I treat the man like he is King and in return, he refers to me as “the Queen.” He would rather be at home on the couch with me smothering him then out and about being social. We do give each other quite a bit of space and discovered early on in the relationship that arguing with each other was in fact…uh…NOT attractive. I have 2 sets of horns with a horrible temper and he has one set of rather strong ones with an equally crappy temper. If anything, we both wound up cowering away like 2 submissive pitbulls scared to death of one another. That was the first and last time that has happened in well over a year. We both admire the qualities in each other that one another lack. As far as the boudoir is concerned…let’s just say, neither one of us EVER says no. My most recent surprise was a text message from him as I was sitting in class. It said, “Just got done seeing the absolutely GORGEOUS townhome you wanted. Putting in a bid with the Realtor right now.” You see, you get what you give. Be loving, generous, and considerate and this man is 100% yours.
August 20th, 2010 at 3:14 pm
im am a virgo horse with aries snake man..where together for 5months and hes like a blessign..hes so nice and u always feel so loved around him..never mind the best sex ever!…and hes really good with my son..but sometimes i have a feeling hes up to something and being sneaky..which i really hope hes not..as i wouldnt do it 2 any1 i love..is it all in my head??can some1 write back whos similar to me..virgo…
September 14th, 2010 at 2:39 pm
hi, im a divorced sag female,whose quest in life was adventure, honesty and some one who could fit that peter pan syndrome i have! i was married to a scorpio and what a hectic ride that was! constant fights,and power play… i am now seeing an aries man.. First time in my life! all i can say is , man oh man, what a thrill! someone who finally gets my thinking, no matter how deep or how shallow! someone whose blatently honest, no matter how manipulative, or ugly!
he is everything i could ever have dreamt up of an ideal man!
we are strong and hard headed, we are stubborn, we are harmonious, we are friends, we are lovers, we are fighters, we can dance, we can sing, we can be!!
there is nothing better than being able to let yourslef be, and finding someone who totally gets you even at your weirdest moments!
the downside is, that aries man can be so idealistic,and self driven.they can over look the dedication youve put in and only see what hurts them, and they are so good at hurting themselves with information that isnt relevent to them… Indeed hes like a kid, but one that id wanna nurture for the rest of my life! the love i found within the aries man is one i could never imagine exceeding or finding better! i found my place of rest! because its just so much fun!
September 25th, 2010 at 6:21 pm
wow, well i am an aquarius female and I just got out of a one year engagement with an aries man. They all do vary by the way they grew up as they sorta seem to worship their values. He was crazy, but who isnt. The reason we broke up was because he just sorta gave up on me, and he stressed me out way to much. He takes all the small things and makes such a big deal out of it, i couldnt handle it. so i called it quits. He asked me to marry him, then changed his mind. He also plays alot of mind tricks (most all aries male/female do) these kind of games: driving me nuts so i dump him and then he will say some thing like it was your choice i dont know why your upset. They have absolutly no emotion for whats going on in the other persons heart, and aries expect us to talk to them with out blowing up, its impossible when they switch things around to make you feel and look like the bad one. I couldnt handle this. Libras are a good match for aries. But i dont think libra would like the jealousy that most aries had. My ex wanted me to spend time with him twenty four seven, he thinks that sex is the only way to express love and i totally disagree with that. he didnt understand it when i ditched my friends to hang with him becuase he wouldnt stop naggin me for attention. i have been in a relationship with all the zodiac signs and all i can say is this is the most confusing one i have been in. im a simple person i dont like games, i just want to be in love, thats not too hard.
October 20th, 2010 at 11:56 pm
Aries are douches! Recently dated one and I’ve never met a trashier person. Look at how these people talk about themselves. They act like they’re God’s. YOU’RE NOT! Relationships are a total game to them; when things are great, they make them crappy just to try and make them good again. And then when things are phenomenal they move on from boredom? screw that! I recently dated and broke up with an Aries and he was a total tool. He lied. Stole from me twice within a week and is just so lost in how great he thinks he is it’s disgusting to be around him. Avoid Aries at all costs! As Cancer, I know we can be a pain, but at least we’re aware of others feelings and have some sense of tact. Aries seem to be total lost causes. My new “dealbreaker”….Aries.
December 17th, 2010 at 2:55 pm
Im a aries guy and i just love the things most of you ladies said lol
i am crazy over this Libra girl, but im afraid shes into someone else, dont know the guy zodiac.
anyway i read that libra is air and aries is fire, and fire needs air lol, i dont know how long ima b this way, waiting for the chance to show her the real me, a krazzy loyal loving guy!
January 20th, 2011 at 7:31 pm
I am an Aquarius female and truly enjoy Aries men. Ive dated a few over the years and they are very fun, adventurous, and passionate. I love these men, but I do feel that I should put out a word of warning for my lighter hearted sisters. I was never heart broken over a ram because I never allowed myself to take them too seriously(they are too fun!I did not want to ruin that spirit). I am still good friends with two of my former Aries lovers and know that neither of them is particularly good at being faithful. They want to be, and they try every once in a while, but both are chronic cheaters. Their love is deep and intense and loyal, but sexually they cannot stay with one woman. Years later I still recieve random dirty messages from these men even though they are both committed. I also noticed while I was with them that they held their past loves on pedistals as well. I do not think an Aries man ever forgets a love, and sometimes I feel blessed to know that my friend still loves so many things about me (God these guys are sweet), but I do not feel it is fair for their current girlfriends. Obviously, I am not saying that all Aries men will cheat. I do feel it is worthwhile to keep an eye out, because they can be so absolutely loving to you, and so absolutely dirty to someone else at the same time :/
These men are wonderful people and I love them wholeheartedly…If you have a good (mature) ram, hold onto them. They are sweeter than sugar and full of good energy
February 7th, 2011 at 2:56 am
All of you women complaining about us Aries men are really the blame for those problems in your relationships. We come “as is” just like any other sign that has flaws..mainly the Pisces who has a cry baby whiny selfish complex. If you really take the time to really get to know an Aries try and get to know yourself as well, you would be so surprised that your traits may also be the downfall to your relatioonship with an Aries. Some of you may not be full bloods and may be on the cusp so that may be a problem also. Aquemini has a very good idea of what a full blood is all about and is pretty accurate from her experiences. Some Aries may not be full bloods and are probally in between another sign or may have bad history experiences which breaks their normal pattern. I would love to talk to anyone about this if you need advice from a real full blooded Aries man. email me at : ariesstorm@gmail.com for any questions I may be able to answer be an expert and all.
March 1st, 2011 at 9:43 pm
I am a Gemini/Cancer and happily married to a Pisces/Aries man for almost 12 years. I take good care of him and love him deeply. He’s the same way. With any zodiac sign just take it one day at a time.
March 27th, 2011 at 10:28 pm
I know an aries guy but he’s not so open with his affections and keeps alot to himself.
He sometimes acts interested when it suits him and other times he looks disinterested when you talk to him, hence blows hot and cold.
I have never seen a loyal bone from him to me even though i’ve tried to be a friend and help him out when ever possible. He just seems cold and calcualted for me. Well i look at it this way..its not all about attending to an aries man, they too have to meet you half way and show some loyalty. The more they act like cold blooded wierdos the more they are being tested. So they hve literally blew it! Thats how i look at it..their loss!
April 8th, 2011 at 12:46 pm
I just started dating an Aries Sun/Leo Moon man. I am a Taurus Sun/Sagittarius Moon so I get him like he gets me. We get along so well and I can honestly say some of these Aries guys you described probably have conflicting signs in their charts to yours which is why you don’t get along. Anyway, I love my new guy and he has treated me like a queen. I can honestly say I see a long term relationship with him because we are both mature enough and have learned from past long term relationships that ended bad. We both have trust issues but have been working through them one day at a time. If you’re willing to try and work on yourself, you can ‘get’ an Aries man. My dad was an Aries as well and we used to lock heads but I now understand that he only did it because he loved me. Aries men do love their family and will give them the world if you try to understand them. By the way, I have always attracted Aries men, must be the Venus in Aries I have.
April 11th, 2011 at 3:37 pm
Spot on! Exact description of my man!
amazing guy x
April 21st, 2011 at 4:06 am
Okay, I’m here to enlighten women about the Aries man. First of all, they are a very special type of male and definitely not like other men in the zodiac sign. They tend to be strong, capable, are very warriors by trait. These men are not confused about who they are & what they want in life. Rest assure that there will be no indication of a struggle of identity, for they are so matter of fact naturally. If an Aries man is interested in you, there are certain rules that must be followed, because they live such structured lives. They expect you to fulfill specific needs. For instance, they are extremely passionate and so they expect their partners to be willing to go the extra mile to meet their standards. Which means sexual stimulation, and LOTS OF IT!!! They need you to be the WOMAN. The person they desire as much as life itself. He would rather have someone who is exciting, exhilarating, thought provoking, sexy but not raunchy. They prefer confident successful woman, as long as you present a competitive strict against him. This will not work for they need to be & feel as though they’re in the drivers seat & have complete control. Don’t mistake this as him not wanting you to be an individual with your own mind & opinions. Because he loves that quality in his women. There’s nothing worse than a woman who lacks self confidence, because they live & breathe that in life themselves. Its also important to have a plan & know what you want in life. This speaks to an Aries man like music to their ears, for they love for their woman to know what they want in life & are definitely not afraid to go for it…they love go-getters!!!! Try not to be too obvious or predictable for they love the mystery & the chase. Because they’re warriors by nature, conquering something is challenging & they crave that. Its primarily how they go about their every day situations. Without the challenge they can extremely bored.
So keep it fresh, sexy, loyal, and exciting. And you will forever have him eating out of the palm of your hands, literally!!!!! Good luck ladies…..
May 20th, 2011 at 4:17 pm
Ok So i have a question, I met a Aries male and he was super i dont even know his name but i was so turned on by him. this was 5-17-11 that i met him for a brief and i mean brief moment. So he told me that he would be at the same place every Monday and Tuesday. I cant explain what is is but i have not be able to stop thinking about his since then. What should i do when i see him again? PLEASE HELP i am an aquarius female. i mean i have never felt this way after exchanging only a few words with a person. i will see on monday!
July 28th, 2011 at 8:04 pm
Alright i’m an ares male mars sun are my signs. I’ve been with a libra as my longest relationship and after i haven’t found anyone worth my time. out of all my female companions i can’t stop looking for someone who can just feel my fire again. i wan’t someone compatible and will be there but even if there just in my company i’m fine. my verbal skills are terrible and no one understands what i’m sayin sometimes so its hard to talk to ladies, i’ve resorted to one on one cause my friends always out talk me and get the girl. is there any way for me to just find the right way to approach anyone worth intrest?
September 23rd, 2011 at 2:14 am
Oh my!!! I am so glad I found this page!!! I am a Capricorn and I met an Aries in July and it was like love at first sight!!! He already asked me to be his woman and the sex was GREAT we had sex the first time we met…. A week after I flew to see him and we drove across country together. We both told each other we loved each other repeatedly in emails text verbally… I’ve helped him in school he has helped me in areas as well… Last Friday he called me from a private number and pretended to be someone else I didn’t recognize his voice, to make a long story short I fell for it, one part of the conversation he said “im trying to get into you tonight” the person that I thought I was talking to would have NEVER said this to me because we are not intimate have NEVER been intimate and NEVER even discussed a sexual encounter, so I was caught so off guard I replied, “oh really, i will call you after I get out of class” and I immediately hung up… The next day I call the person he pretended to be and he was like I didn’t call you… BINGO, light went off in my head it was my bf. I immediately called him to talk about it and he wouldn’t answer, so i called him 32 times (OMG I KNOW CRAZY) he answered once and hung up in my face and he texted me and said “now you’re tripping stop calling my phone” i replied “as in never call your ass again” he never replied… and I haven’t talked to him since. I have texted him expressing my apologies i explained the situation, I am not cheating on him and I have not… and expressed my LOVE for him. I am sick over this. The last text I sent him I told him I would give him his space and that I loved him, I also in many other text let him know that I realize we are different but I love him enough to try to understand why he thinks I deserve this treatment. I honestly haven’t done anything wrong… I am so heartbroken I don’t know what to do. It is so hard not calling him!!! Today is my first full day of no emails, no calls, no text to him. I feel like he’s my soul mate and to top it off two weeks ago I got a tattoo of his initials on my body….
Will he ever call me again????
(in tears)
September 29th, 2011 at 12:49 pm
THIS IS EXACTLY HOW I THINK… its almost like it was me who wrote it..
WE ARE 1 OF A KIND..
On3ofaKinD4Reals said back in 2009
“I have the biggest heart you will ever see and its true I have never cheated on any girl, when I am in a relationship, my plate is full, one girl is enough for me. And I focus my attention on her, I make her the priority, and I take a backseat. Her being happy makes me feel INVINCEABLE. But when something goes wrong, because Aries is so real, I tend to get hurt and the emotional pain can be hard to deal with. Once an Aries cathces his girl cheating, its definitely over and I can kill any feelings for her just like that.”
Specially the part where he mentions about if a girl/woman messes up on you… I’ve been there..
When she messed up on me, I immediately lost all love for her..”kill” is exactly the word I would use to describe what I did to the feelings/love/emotion/thoughts I ever had for her….. And omg I loved this girl with my all my heart..!! Just like that I never talked or saw her again.. I WAS GONE..!!
The pain I felt could be described in one of the TWILIGHT movies.. The scene where the main girl was grabbing her stomach screaming on her bed because that one vampire guy had left her.
It went from that to feeling nothing for her in a day.. “NEXT”,
Read more: The Aries Man 2011
September 29th, 2011 at 12:53 pm
Comments I took it from was number 60.. i think.
September 29th, 2011 at 1:23 pm
TO THE CAPRICORN GIRL/woman
wow…….. I feel for you.. I really do..
Me being an ARIES guy can tell you this..
I would never stay with a woman I’ve called “my woman” after hearing her say
“Oh really, I will call you after I get out of class” to a sex proposition from another guy…
I get it.. it was a joke.. but he doesn’t know this… he’s probably thinking the worst of you right now..
If I were him I would most likely place you on my “hoe” category
and hoes don’t get love from me…
I’m sorry this isn’t what you wanted to hear.. I really don’t know how to sugar coat it..
…Gotta love love…. :*( M/26
October 11th, 2011 at 8:27 am
I just meet Aries Man from the fisrt day he was just MR.PERFECT but after one week he is not even answering my calls,i don’t know what the hall happened,i was expecting from him to call me at least or answer me when i called but what can you do…..
November 22nd, 2011 at 11:12 pm
There cheaters dont’ even get involved, they are the master manipulators of the earth..