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The Aries Man
I advise you to have your seat belt done up very tight for this roller coaster ride! You know how when your kids the boys are always little action men constantly wanting to be getting up to something and trying to find new things to do, well with the Aries man this never goes away. He is, if you like, the Peter Pan of the Zodiac in some respects. Except I don’t recall Peter Pan ever having tantrums or getting overly emotional…maybe I missed that bit.
You will find the man of Aries to be very considerate and generous with both his time and his money, which is quite a rare thing these days. So if you do go to the fun fair with him you will be allowed as much candy floss and popcorn as you like and he will join you on all the rides until you both have spinning heads and feel rather sick…that won’t stop him either though, he will just laugh and then run straight towards the next fearful looking event he can find. The question is ‘are you going to want to join him?’
When the Aries man loves you he really does love you. It’s a fierce and fiery, hot and passionate love which he devotes all of himself too and will of course expect the same from you. He is, perhaps, a little overly idealistic. He wants to be your Romeo and for you to be his Juliet. And this can be quite hard to live up to all the time for most of us anyway. If you’re not devoting your time to loving him and caring for him then you will see the sulky, grumpy Aries man. Now, I live with an Aquarius and he is quite good at sulking, as I expect are all men, but the Aries man really does have that childish sulking, moody, stamping footy, folded arm tantrum thing down to a tee.
This man also loves his freedom and will also respect yours, so if you’re the possessive type then this may not be the guy for you. You will never have to worry about your Aries Man’s loyalty though; he is very faithful and would never cheat on you, or even flirt with anyone else. He will expect the same from you, don’t try making him jealous by flirting with other guy’s, this will just hurt him as he would never do the same to you, even to get you back.
I suppose he is a lot like a child in a way. As are all Aries. Which is one reason why they are so adorable? Like a cheeky child he is always looking for something mischievous to get up to and will love you to join him. Some people may feel like they need to curb this need to be rebellious and that is a personal choice, I, myself enjoy that part of the Aries man. He will also expect you to agree with him, rightly or wrongly and stand by him no matter what, even if you don’t really think he is right. You must NEVER agree with an enemy of his, this would really hurt him. He will of course do the same for you as he believes this is part of loving someone…you may have to bite your tongue a bit to keep your home happy.
To be honest I am finding it quite hard to point out many bad points about the Aries man. In just the same way as I find it hard to tell one of my children off for being cheeky or too noisy. In essence you see this is what he is. A child, and as such wants to have fun and enjoy life, and I can’t find anything wrong with that. He will always make sure you and your family are looked after, he will make you laugh so hard you cry, he will spoil you unselfishly, and will remember every occasion from your birthday to valentines day with originality every time. Yes, so you may get annoyed with his hot headed tantrums, and the fact he likes to be boss…but he will be there holding your hand next to the fire when you are both in your 80’s. The Aries man’s love is eternal, and you will feel it every day of your life. And isn’t that what most of us want? The only question remaining will be whether you can keep up with him, as he will still have as much energy as a 30 year old on his 100th birthday…Enjoy!
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I dated an Aries. I couldn’t run away fast enough. I don’t see how we are compatible. I am an Aquarius. He wasn’t that loyal either. He talked about me to his friends. He seemed nice to me, but later I found out he lied so much. He told on himself, he used to call me a liar all the time. I had nothing to lie about. I am not a good liar at that. But it was his guilt. I stay far away from them, these men will nag you to death!
My Aries man is definitely a Peter Pan in some ways and is extremely extremely funny and witty. There isn’t too much of a roller coaster ride, more consistency than ups and downs.
He is definitely very very generous with his time, and I dont even have to ask him for it, its just a given. Also not a selfish person AT ALL!
I am cancer and worship the ground he walks on, so I’ve never seen him sulk because I dont give him enough attention. He gets more than enough of that, I spoil him rotten because he deserves it and he knows that he’s my Romeo and i’m his Juliet and so far, its not been that hard to live up to.
I am not the jealous type of Cancerian, I love my freeom as much as he does and hate someone telling me what to do or where to go. So, this is a real bonus for me.
Dunno why, but it seems like the signs are just a tad bit reversed cos I am more of the adventurous one than he is….I want to rush and get married, he wants to wait.
So far, so good, love him to bits and will continue to do so for the rest of my life.
I had a brief “thing” with an Aries. He was wild and life with him was never boring. But he was too wild, mostly due to his family. (He didn’t know his actual birthday until he was sixteen, so all that time we thought he was a Cancer.) He was very sweet to me, but so destructive to almost everything else. Quite a contradiction too. He hated animals, but was a strict vegetarian. He had at least six piercings on his face, but he had such lovely manners. In the end, I decided to just be friends with him.
I guess it also depends on how they were brought up, what their values and morals are. My aries man is very old fashioned, he’s a 1 woman man and gets that from his father, who is still with his mother. He’s the last born and was spoiled by his mother, which is sort of what I do for him. Pack his lunch everyday, cook for him everyday. He will not dish up himself, I must do that but he does everything else around the house like the fixing of the pipes and cupboards and taps so its fair enough for me. He takes control of everything, being the “man” in the relationship. He never makes me feel like i’m alone, if I have a problem, “we” have a problem and he’ll do all that he can to help out, taking on the problem as if it was his. I cant even begin to describe how happy I am. I am truly truly blessed. I dont get very good reviews on a Cancer and Aries relationship but if I had to listen to that, I would be missing out so much.
I’m dating an Aries guy and he treats me like a Queen. From day 1, he has put me on a pedestal where I will hopefully be for the rest of my life. I’m a Sagittarius so we are both very energetic and keep up with each other easily. However, he thinks he is very funny (don’t get me wrong, he is) and it can get annoying when he rambles on for minutes. But I don’t mind all that much because he always realizes and apologizes for having done so and he also gives me my fair share of time to talk as well. He is not the jealous type and is fiercely protective of his loved ones.
Well The Aries man I met was a nightmare and constantly wanted to be right.
I’ve met a few nice ones buts thats when they where younger and less corupt!!!!!!!!!!!
OMG… you are really good! You have the Aries man down to the “T” as well!
Yes, they will nag you… yes, they can be whiny… yes they expect the world.
Would they do all these things for you too??? Absolutely.
So I’m an aries and so is he, and it’s very hot and passionate right now. But I’m worried that maybe one of us is just gonna get over it cause that’s how we are. We jump in head first and then run for the mountains, right
I am Aquarius and I am draw to this type of man. Firery and hot. The hotter it is the better I say.
That’s just me.
im a Sagittarius & i love love love my aries man!!! he really treats like his queen….dont get me wrong im sure i’ll see his “BAD SIDE” but come on, we all have that side!! for now, im loving it!!
Im a sag woman with an aries man and he is the most amazing person I have ever known. I love him to death. He is so honest and sees past the surface. He isn’t afraid of anyone or anything. He also knows how to make me laugh by doing outrageous things. He is also amazing in bed and super caring and romantic.
I’ve also noticed that it can be quite hard to get an Aries attention. SERIOUSLY! What do I have to do? Stand naked in front of him and do backflips? Either he’s interested in you, or he’s not. And he gets bored just a bit too easily, but he’s so nice you won’t notice it until he just gets up and leave. Lack of manners too. Too bad I get easily, hopelessly infatuated with these guys. They’re one of the few signs who know how to break my heart. (end of rant.)
I am a Aries woman involved with an Aries man. I have been with him on and off for 3 years. We are good friends as well as lovers. We generate a lot of heat and passion together. He is very giving sexually as well as anything else. He is very confident, funny, and charming. I think the description of an Aries Man is right on target! He is a talker though….whew….but, he is getting better at letting me talk sometimes….hahaha
I simply adore him!
I’m falling in love with an Aries and wow how was this secret ever kept from me so long?? He is everything I ever wanted but could never find! Finally a real man who is masculine, strong, direct, brave, honest, open, funny, mischievous, but also kind and loving. He definitely moves fast, he knows what he wants and doesn’t mess around, and I love that. He is gonna find me worshiping the ground he walks on, what a total stud. He has four older sisters so I’m sure he was spoiled as a child, I’ll be happy to take over spoiling him! He spoils me too, he is taking me to Paris and writing me love notes every day, already talking marriage, asking me if I want to have a baby, wow! I can’t believe my luck! I would do anything for him but I play it a little cool, I have him saying he would do anything for ME! LOVE YOU ARIES!!!
I am a Libra girl in love with an Aries man. We definately balance each other out, but I also have Aries rising so we have our fiery moments. He is everything I could ask for in a man, charming, sincere, that twinkle in his eyes, has style, swagger, funny, and I feel safe with him. Plus he doesnt put up with my wishy washy libra ways. I appreciate being told up front, no holds barred. Its taken some time to grow a stiff upper lip to some of his harsh words, but I’ve learned they are jsut words and I know he loves me.
To Sasha: I am Aquiruas. I think it’s cool your Aries can tell you up front how he really thinks and feels. If he tell you how he feels and thinks, that tells me he really loves you. You always know where he stands.
I rather have someone tell me truthful what he/she thinks and feels, regardless if I don’t agree to it. Then have someone sugarcoat and prefume words. I like honesty in a person, a person that doesn’t beat around the bush and won’t piss down your back telling you its raining.
I really like honesty in a person as well.
My son is an Aries
I’am a Libra Female in love with a Aries Man. I Love this man so much it is scary. He tells me like it is with out a doubt. When he told me he loved me I was overwhelmed. I was falling in love with him anyway. I don’t want this relationship to end. I found love again. I read so many compatibilty charts and I am amazed how well we are described. Is there anymore I such Know. I feel I would marry this Man. He already made a comment about changing my last name to his.
My man is Aries I am Gemini/Cancer. We love each other alot. But He has Cheated a few times. And now I have a stalker woman( his ex lover) fallowing me for life I guess. My Husband and I do not get along to well. But our sex is great and we have some kind of love, Because when we have broken up he always comes back. We have been together for 8 years so far. So I guess all hope is not lost. But he is also a MONKEY & I a Tiger. =/ ughhhhh I hope I have not wasted all these years for nothing. Because we always have problems. But I really do love him. He is just to much sometimes.
Hi there Dawn,
Thank you for your comment. I would like to say that firstly no relationship is a waste of time, it is experience that for better or worse will help us some in a positive and some in a negative way but love was never said to be simple. Love is not perfect either and some relationships to others can seem most bizzare as to why people stay together, however, this is as we choose it. Aries men can be exhausting to be with, you’re not alone in that. I couldn’t handle it so I take my hat off to you for sticking it out for so long, I also have suffered with the ex, this is a nightmare. You obviously have amazing strength of character and of course the intimacy of sex can hold a bond more than people realise. It’s your life, live it as you choose! Good luck!
Love & Light
Becky
P.S To all of you who love to comment on how bad my spelling is, on this occasion I am in a hurry, bathing the kids, cooking dinner and cleaning the dog..so please excuse my bad grammah..however you spell it!!
Hi its me again. I love this Aries Man with all my heart. Me being the Libra woman I am finds my man to be so refreshing. Yet at the same time he carrys a firey way about him. Some times I just let him ramble on. He has the heart of a true leader and a sprit of a lion. He makes me feel so wonderful. He puts me on a pedstal like know other. I just want to say thank you for the knowledge I received on my Aries Man.
To Becky:
How are you? A statement in Dawn’s comment caught my eye.
“the intimacy of sex can hold a bond more than people realise.”
Really, Becky???? In a way I see your point and in another way I have to disagree with that. I think any relationship has to have subtains. If there was only sex in the relationship in time it would get boring and people would go their own way. I think what makes a relationship true, is the love, the time and effort put into it. Weither or not two people can get along and deal with the other person’s annoyance. Weither you can hang in there when their ups and downs. To love each person falses. I think a relationship should have more than “Oh it’s good sex.” But that is just me. I am person that wants love, not sex. Sex is just ragging horomons and lust, that doesn’t have any real meaning behind it, as were love does. I understand, when two people are in love there will be sex, but when it’s love, it’s not sex anymore, there’s meaning, it’s something speical.
If I was in a relationship, and the sex was great, and there was nothing to the relationship, I would have to go. I don’t want to be with someone who just wants to have sex with me. I would rather be in relationship where the person loves me, and I make him happy when I am in his presence, and I make his heart swore and we have a good time with each other, also argue with each other. Help each other out.
I know you are busy, but I haven’t recived my consulation yet.
To Dawn: I got to say you got some well-power. Me, I would say “enough is enough. No more, and leave.” That would drive me crazy. I couldn’t stand having a man that kept coming back and kept going off somewhere else.
Is his ex-lover still bother you, if she does, I would say get the police invole, if she starts getting creepy. Your health and safty is number one.
I wish you the best of Luck as well.
Hi there Littleimpaler,
Thanks for your comment! I’m really sorry but I sent you your report a while back now, have you checked your spam folder?
Right, sex is always a tricky issue becuae, as you say, if there is nothing else there then sex isn’t important and the rest will wither and die. I do agree with you that it’s not the most important thing, but Dawn said that she loves her Aries very much..I was just saying that sometimes when the love is there the sex can reallt hold a couple together because of how close it brings you. The best way to sort out a relationship is by looking at all the good points first, then ask yourself whether you are happy. Then look at the bad points and ask yourself if you are sad. Many people stay in relationships for many years with a person who perhaps is the wrong one but when it comes down to it, they are happy, dosen’t work that well for us air signs, but for many others the physical bond is stronger than the mental.True love is different for everyone and in every relationship.
Love & Light
Becky
To Becky: Oh I see, yeah I totally agree with you 110%. Nope I never recived my report. I checked my spam box, never got it. Is it possible for you to send it again.
Here’s my e-mail LittleImpaler@aol.com
Just thought of something, which e-mail did you send it too. I wonder if you sent to my other one. I will check in a moment and get back to you on it.
If you email me and send me you’re details I will look it all up in my log, thanks xxx
Hi, I’m new here. I met this Aries guy who is a Wood Tiger.This guy is deep and fiery. As a Sag Fire Goat I don’t want to burn the wood element. Would we be a good match?
hi!well i am a pisces female and i am dating an aries…and it was all good at first..the conversations and the sex.he was laidback and quiet(atleast thats the roll he played.l0l)and that just made me want to learn more about him…now that we’ve been together for now 2 years and have a son together,..its a whole nother story.i mean he’s sweet most of the time and gives me basically whatever i ask for..but he just change.now he acts wild,loud and kind a childish..and sometimes he hurts my feeling,but i dont think he means t00.i luv him though
TO “BROWNEYES OR ANY OTHER ARIES GIRL DATING AN ARIES GUY:
Browneyes, your story sounds almost exactly like mine. I have been with him on and off for 2 years. We are also good friends as well as lovers. We also generate a lot of heat and passion together. He is also very giving sexually as well as anything else. He is also very confident, funny, and charming. And he is also a talker!! Oh, and I too simply adore him! Are we involved with the same guy? LOL!
My question is: AS AN ARIES GIRL, HOW IN THE WORLD DO YOU DO IT???
We had a spat about a month ago and this time it has been very difficult for us rams to unlock heads. This time I feel extremely exhausted. I don’t want to give up, I consider him one of my best friends…but, boy, it’s getting very difficult for me. During this past month we have only talked a couple of times, and it has been the typical Aries male behavior…one day he was all lovey-dovey, warm, sexy, looking for you know what, and the other day he was cold as ice! Ugh!
Running out of patience, which to begin with is not an Aries virtue!! Any clues or advice??
thankz 4 teeling me hu i am…..
Can someone please give out more details on the relationships between a pisces woman and an aries man? Are they not a good match? Will the love eventually fade away? I am pisces and I hopelessly fell in love with this aries man who is crazily in love with me now. I couldn’t believe my luck! I read from lots of articles that these two signs are not good match. I am so scared. I don’t want it to be a sad story. How do I do to keep him by my side for the rest of my life? PLEASE HELP also PLEASE BE TRUTHFUL. I don’t mind being told the truth, so please offer whatever you have in mind. He is the man I found out that I’ve been looking for my whole life! But being a pisces, sometimes I can get a bit of too emotional and sensitive, will that be a burden to him and drive him away? Will my mood drive him nuts? But it’s so hard for pisces to realize those are ‘moods’, as pisces feel those are real. God, I really really don’t to lose him! No man would be better than him, I pray that I will have him forever! Please let me know the truth and also detailed help on how not to drive him away or lose interest on me. I deeply appreciate both feedbacks!!!! THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!
Please do help! I am really serious about this love. I swear.
wow. I love my airy aquarius, and this post is so right on. hmmm. thanks Becky!
love
Hi Backey,
Am an Aquarius girl, I love what you said about Aries man, sounds like very attractive to me. However, I can never be a friend of them, I don’t understand why, there are always arguments between us. Recently, I fell in love with a beautiful Aries boy, but we could not even hold a normal conversation, he is too much a child, but I feel like his older sister. We broke up in only a week, no more talking. What I feel is that Aries man got very strong personalily and temper, but when an Aquarius girl is very independent and strong minded, trouble happened.
Love
Gia
Hi,
Could you fill me in on the compatibility with an aries female (me!) and an aries/taurus cusp male??
Thanks
my response is to mornging glory . We as pisces women tend to have the rose colored shades on which means we see things the way we have always dreamed to be but when the glasses come off and you see the real person you have then that will let you know whats really going on . An aries males is wonderful (at first). I will say it like this dont try to have your own opinion because they feel they are always right. They get offended when a woman is a leader and can assert herself more than them because they are natural competitors they cant help it. now if you are okay wih being a doormat then your relationship will be fine. There are so many things about the aries that attract us the sex, the looks, the masculinity but it is all false. If you got a good man then you wouldnt have to question it. There are already some things youve seen you just have to pay attention to the diffrence between reality and the reality that you are creating. I only say these things because i am a picses and i know how we are. Always remember to be good to you because we give to much and an aries will take and take until youve got nothing else to give.
i want to get back with my ex boyfriend which was an aries he is really sweet and wantted me back and soo did i bt i said “idk ” 2 him 5 times in the same day kuz i didnt know if he actually meant it so i keep 2 my idk then 2 weeks later he tells me he wants 2 move on i said do yuuh still love me then he said ” i love u bt i dnt wnna try it agian ”
so i never message him back it was sunday. then monday came he got a new girlfriend bt he neve told anyone then he broke up w/ her after 3 days then we went 2 a basketball game and wen i asked him wats wrong he would smile and say nuthin bt then the next day after he got back with her i want him back bt idk how if he didnt tell me he loved me then i would have moved on and i am in love w/him, we have know eac other fer 2 years and was my frist friend in school when i was fat and ugly then we somehow went out fer 3 months in a half then a year later we wwent back out and he looked me in the eye and say “iloveyuh ” evr time we kiss bt then he got jelous and stress because guy were like checking me out :/
kuz suposly we r not meant 2 be and he doesnt want 2 break up in a week
so i need him i wnt him back more then ever help pleace && thank yuh
BTW i am pisces and he is aries help please i need anwsers
Let me say this, according to the compability charts a perfect match would be a Taurus and a Cancer. (Taurus) being my ex husband and me being the Cancer. Personality wise we got along great things seemed perfect but it was his moral, loyal, compulsive lying issues that ended the relationship. According to the charts Aries and Cancer is no match. But I will tell you this an Aries man has enlightened my heart, and awakened my spirits allowing me to fall back in love for a second time. He has fixed my little heart. A lot of the characteristics and personality traits do match that are listed for both of us. We are like night and day. Aries are natural born leaders, egotistical, self centered, selfish, all true- and a Cancer on the other hand is sensitive, emotional, needy, clingy so I DO experience how our opposite characteristics run into each other from time to time. But I think it all depends on how you handle things. I personally think that all the characteristics one could consider threatening to the relationship can actually be the saving soure. I learn so much from him, how to standup for myself, how to put myself above others, (because as a cancer I always out others before me) even if it means I have to take a loss on things and he gets mad because a cancer can easily be used and walked all over of we allow it. He motivates me to strive higher and go further in life. I tend to get hung up on the past but he’s taught me to never second guess myself and move forward. Not only is he an Aries but he’s also a soldier. He is gently enough to let me be, and does all possible to satisfy me in every way whether it be emotional, physically, spiritually. But lets me know when I need to back off a little and give him the space that he needs. I do wonder if our opposite personalities will end us one day. Because I need to roughen up and he needs to soften up. But then again I think it’s what keeps us interested and crazy about each other. Overall he has the qualities, morals, and values that I look for and need from a man. Hardworking, responsible, faithful and loving. I love him so much, he makes it want it and he loves that.
its i love my king again, another thing I want to marry this man so badly and he’s mentioned marriage but I’m afraid he’d be a little too much for me.
I’m an aries girl and I just started dating an aries guy. We work at the same office and the attraction between us is CRAZY. We have been out a couple of times. The first time we went out we ended up in bed. He stimulates me mentally and physically. He has this confidence that I love and he is funny. We have had our share of little arguments, but I love them. But, the only thing is that I don’t feel he gives me enough attention (something us aries girls need). Then I act like a brat and I don’t want to. He’s told me that he likes me and doesn’t just want sex (if that’s all he wanted I would know). We talk on the phone often. What should I do?
TO JCON AND MORNING GLORY
jcon YOU ARE SO RIGHT ABOUT THE ARIES
I AM PICES 100% I HAVE/AM IN A REALATIONSHIP WITH ARIE FOR THE PAST 15 YEARS.THE RELATIOSHIP IS ABOUT TO CRUMBLE DOWN, I JUST CANT TAKE IT NO MORE. ARIE DO ALWAYS THINK THEY ARE WRIGHT IF YOU CAN’T PROVE IT TO THEM ON BLACK AND WHITE YOU HAVE NO CHANCE OF WINNING. THEY ARE VERY POSSESIVE, WANT YOU LOCKED UP IN A CAGE LIKE A BIRD.AND BECAUSE WE ARE MORE OUTGOING AND VERY SENSITIVE IT IS HARD TO DEAL WITH THEIR SHIT AND THEIR CONFIDENCE THAT THEY JUST KNOW AND CAN DO EVERYTHING BETTER THEN ANYONWE ELSE. BUT DON’T FORGET THERES A STRONG SIDE TO US WHERE WE FIGHT BACK AND THAT MAKES THE REALATIONSHIP SO MUCH HARDER. yOU WANT TO PROVE YOUR POINT AND HE KNOWS HE’S WRIGHT THE GOES THE BOMB. I WANTED TO LEAVE HIM SO MANY TIMES BUT THEY KNOW EXACTLY WHEN TO BE CHARMING AND MAKE YOU FEEL LIKE A PRINCESS, THEN YOU CAN’T RESIST AND YOU TRY AGAIN AND AGAIN, AND AGAIN. THE YEARS GO BY AND YOU CAN NOT REALEASE YOURSELF FROM HIM BECAUSE HE’S SO POSSESIVE THAT HE WON’T LET YOU GO. I LOVE HIM AND I HATE HIM. I WANT TO END THIS BUT HE WON’T GO AWAY AND WILL MAKE ME FEEL LIKE I CANT DO IT ON MY OWN, WHICH I KNOW I CAN BECAUSE WHEN HE WAS LOCKED UP FOR A YEAR I HAD TO DO EVERTHING MYSELF. I HAVE DONE IT BEFORE. OH BECAUSE HE CAME BACK NOW WE HAVE NO CHANCE BECAUSE HE THINKS I WAS UNFAITFULL TO HI BUT TALKING TO PEOPLE. WELL TOUGH SHIT BECAUSE I LOVE SOCIOLAIZING AND WITH HIM IN MY LIFE I CAN’T EVEN SPEND TIME ALONE WITH MY 19YRS OLD DOUGHTER.
omg gorgeousariesgirl that sounds like my aries bf and I!!! I want him all the time , I smother him! I wouldn’t feel bad I’m sure this guys is just as crazy about you and the time you see it is when you guys are together. When they are away they dont tend to call, email, text none of that but they do have you in mind. and once he is by your side you get alllll the attention in the world sometimes so much it gets overwhelming and i think aries are pretty upfront and bold they say what they mean and mean what they say and i dont think the aries guys is so much about just the sex they have to have much more of a connection to you when they want to take you serious.
Dear friend,
I met a very handsome Aries man 2 months ago, I like him very much. We have dated a few times, but I found out that he has got very bad temper, and sometimes getting extremely aloof to me. I have asked if there was anything wrong, he said no. I can never understand what is going on with him, he seems to keep everything in his mind but not sharing. He knows that I like him, but he never tell me about his feeling. Now he is on a long business trip for next 5 months, I cannot really see a future with him. But he said he would like to see me in September, God knows what he meant. Aries man is big mystery to me.
I am an Aquarius and the Aries man…or boy i should say, that I was fooling around with tried to get me to admit that I loved him, and I think he loved me. But, for me, he was too childish and because he was so childish I couldn’t see myself with him. there were other things keeping me from getting any closer. A lot of people probably saw us as a couple but I never allowed us to have the label of boyfriend and girlfriend. I didn’t want a relationship especially with a boy. It was, as far as i know, just friends with benefits. But there were times I got jealous of him talking to other girls or hooking up with other girls and it was probably because I didn’t have any other guys to play with. A thing of fairness is what bothered me, but oh well. There were many times that we would tell our friends that we would not give into each other again, but we did anyway, although unpleasant, it just happened. Still, he then went off to another girl and I was done with him. I felt that there was no way I would allow myself to be so involved with him and I let it go. I do feel that he was a P.o.S. and well, one day I told him that I was using him to get back at him for being an a** and well, the look on his face was a look from a heartbroken soul. Still, I;m not sure if he ever had real feelings towards me, but I never had any real feelings towards him. The Aries are my closest friends, but I will never speak to him again. If I indeed did hurt him, then karma got me back already. Then again, I was in a phase of mine that I wanted to be free and wild.
im a gemini and im in love with an aries man
i met him when i was 15 , now im 23 and he has been my crush since then
we have been seeing each other more often because we have mutual friends and hang out at the same places with the same people sometimes
we even have a class together
he is also an artist and everytime he makes exhibitions he invites me to participate with my photography
he really is a sweetheart
when we saw each other again after all these years i personally felt something so strong arround him , we always look at each other in the eyes,we talk a lot and he definitely makes me nervous
i knew he had a girlfriend but still i knew he liked me too
i couldnt help myself,i liked him and it was mutual
but the other night we went to an art exhibition and the romance started,we couldnt help it just went with the flow,it was meant to happen
we had the most wonderful night out together so much fun dancing,laughing and hanging out with him
he tells me now it was the most magical night ever and he will always have it in his heart,forever,he took the iniciative to tell me this i didnt say anythng before that night to be honest,im very good at hiding my feelings
anyways i just wanted to tell you my story
awww thing is i hate this,im so in love with this man , what the hell,i know aries man are loyal and tuff when in love but what should i think about all this now since he is with a nice girl i supose he loves her very much…
i totally hate this situation
I am an Aries woman; I dated an Aries man only 3 times and after the third time, he told me he had found a new girlfriend. Go figure! F that! Really I think we expected too much from each other ego stroking, attention so much so that we couldn’t do enough and were exhausted. The sex between two Aries is phenomonal, completely compatible! If you can get one of you to compromise, acquiesce good because that’s what it takes for two Arians to get along.
I am an Aries man I have to say you explain the aries man to the tee!! I agree with almost everything that you have written. Specially the one about taking “enemy’s” side, once someone does that to me they are dead to me because I would never do that for them. The part about loyalty is very true as well, once I date one woman she becomes my one and only and if she tries to get me jealous by flirting with other that will only hurt me and I will steer away from her (huge turn off!!!!)
And the part about giving my all to a relationship is very true as well but I have always looked at that as a weakness not a strength. I give the person or the people I care for everything I have and I expect nothing less in return and that can be very hurtful at times specially when you do not get what you want.
Hi Everyone,
I’ve really enjoyed reading the post on this site. Very informative.
I am a Virgo with lot of Leo qualities. I get along really well with Aries as friends as well as lovers. I did have to learn to tone down my razor sharp tongue.I’ve lost him before but surprisingly enough (most info says when their done it’s final) HE came back and apologized.Bet I won’t make that mistake again. I was miserable without him and I am usually a lot more resilient than that.
I am more cautious this time around because he turned into that cold person once before and I never want to see that guy again. My only concern is that I worry he may never want to settle down. He’s loyal, but I want to be his wife.Although I love him I hope I can ride it out.
Mine is a big flirt but he never crosses the line. All who are in our presence know I’m his lady. I actually think it’s cute 90% of the time.
I’d love to bounce a few things off an Aries male if you have time to give some advice. I’d like your Arian brother to be mine forever!Give up the info! LOL
my aries man ditched me-libra.
I am dating an Aries man and in the beginning things were wonderful. He is still the exciting and he loves to do wild things. He is giving and he loves to be with me but I do not believe he takes my feelings into consideration. I feel empty sometimes. I do not feel as if he is loyal. There are trust issues. I am at the end of my rope. I do not know anymore. He doesn’t make me feel pretty. He used to be clingy and now he seems to be distant. He also seem as if he likes to hurt my feelings on purpose. I don’t know……
I am a taurus girl been dating an aries guy for almost 7 months. All the passion and energy was there the first few months but these past few weeks he has turned into a selfish, tired, ungrateful partner. Its turning into a roller coaster for me. One day he is into me calling & texting me all day then about two days later I have to be the one initiating the conversations. We both love attention & affection, but lately it seems I’m doing all the work, no longer a give & take situation. I give him a lot of space, compliments, & take care of his home. But I’m confused as to why he has not been that dashing ‘romeo’ sweeping me off my feet, but instead a big baby who wants me to throw myself at him? If I don’t lean in to hug him first he gets his feelings hurts. How do I approach him about his change in behavior???
for all you ladies that are saying your Aries man seems not interested and is not affectionate enough i have to say something. I am an Aries man and I personally wouldn’t say I am not affectionate but as an Aries man I also don’t feel the need to tell my partner ever second that I love her and etc. We believe it looses it’s value and meaning so don’t think just because he isn’t saying it he isn’t feeling you. You just have to stick in there (if you can) and know that he loves you and cares for you even though he isn’t saying it. Hope that clarifies some things
I find everything I have read fascinating. I am an Aries/Taurus cusp girl (april 19th) and my ex is on the cusp as well I believe (april 18th). We were together for 3 years. In the beginning everything was such a fairy tale and very passionate and romantic. Talking every minute of the day and every other wonderful thing girls love. Then I got pregnant and he started to cheat. For 3 years our relationship was full of lies, cheating, and deceit. To him not telling the whole truth wasn’t a lie. Even while I was prego he cheated and verbally and emotionally was horrible to me and me being an Aries girl I didn’t take that well at all.
Now that our son is 4 we’re trying to repair our relationship and be cool for the baby. We both still love each other but hate each other equally. It sucks but I don’t think Aries men are as great as explained above. The feminine side (whinning, aruging, constant complaining..etc.) they display can be quite annoying to a woman who is half masculine.
Now that he has rebounded to another chic a week after we broke up and claims to be inlove with her and wants to marry her… guess what he’s cheated on her already 3 times. But still plays the “I’m in love with her” role. I don’t get it.. Aries men are very passionate, loving and all that but equally as bratty, talks too much, and annoyingly spoiled acting when they don’t get their way or is proven wrong.
My son is also an Pisces/aries and oh boy the attitudes just don’t stop in this circle lol SIGH!!
The sad this is my ex comes off very emotionally confused and I think he still wants me. Too bad for his live in girlfriend who is an Aquarius… I don’t think it will last even though he is desperately seeking love and marriage. He needs to grow up first and learn to be alone… but I guess that’s most men’s problem!
I am an Aries woman who dated an Aries man for 7 years. We would have gotten married eventually but he had a stalker ex whom he had a child with and I couldn’t deal with the situation any longer and broke off all communication (typical Aries trait). However, that relationship was one I will always carry in my heart. We got along greatly and the sex was always explosive. I still love and desire him to this day and we still keep in touch. I know that I will always have a part of his heart that noone can touch even though he is now married to someone else (NOT the stalker ex). Now to the meat and potatoes of the Aries man.
First, the way to an Aries man’s heart is independence. They do not like clingy women. Give them their space. Remember the old adage “If you set them free, they will come back?” It is so true. They like to spoil and be spoiled. They like affection but not too much in public. Treating them like a king is guaranteeing your spot in his life.
Second, allow your Aries man to be the man of the relationship. If he feels like you don’t need him or that you are TOO independent, he will look for someone else that needs him.
Third, be adventuresome. Boring and repetiveness will have him running to the hills.
Keep him guessing. If he knows your every routine, he will take you for granted.
Listen to him. He loves an audience and if you are truly in to him, whats a few minutes of your time?
He is a great provider. He will make sure you want for nothing. He likes the finer things in life and will do whatever he can to make sure you and he have them.
NO NAGGING! Nag him, lose him!
Praise him. He loves to know he is appreciated.
If you’ve dated an Aries man, the first thing he does is evaluate how you two would be long term, possbily even married. But if you do something to make them second guess that thought, he no longer seriously considers you marriage material. He will still date you but he doesn’t think of marriage.
They do tend to get jealous, some show it and some don’t. Arouse his temper and you’ll be nursing a bruised ego.
Aries men are very sexual. He will do his best please you in the bedroom. He delights in his prowess and doesn’t want a shrinking violet. You must be able to match his stamina and versatility or he will find it somewhere else.
For some reason, Aries men are attracted to Pisces women. Personally, I think these relationships can be toxic. My Aries stalker ex is a Pisces. Pisces women are nurturers. They will provide quite well for whoever they are with BUT sometimes that is not always a good thing. Aries men cannot resist this and will sometimes mistake this for love. Yes it may be love on the Pisces end but not necessarily on the Aries end, though they may think it is. I say this because when an Aries is truly in love, there is nothing anyone else can do or say to sway them from their love. They will be faithful. Now that is not to say they will not love someone and still cheat. They do love, but he must truly be in love with you. They can love and its like a caring very much for you or they can love and its like a can’t imagine my life without you. That is true love for them. Don’t not mistake what I say that an Aries/Pisces combo is not possible. Anything is possible. I’m just saying that it’s great in the beginning because the Pisces nurture and the Aries male loves it but in the end, he realizes he’s bored. Then the disinterest comes and he becomes distant, short, impatient and so on…
Aries men require a lot of work (just like the Aries woman) but if you truly capture his heart, you’ve got a gem.
I am a pisces in a new relationship with an Aries. He is HOT! his body is amazing and flawless, he is so masculine! He is headstrong and will not back down from anything, but he is what I have always wanted which is someone “in my corner”. Someone who will back me up and allow me to do the same as a sign of our love to one another no matter what. I met him at work and here is where the problem is (maybe).. I have to say that I am scared of his temper. I had to refuse a request as it was against company policy (this was before we started dating) and he would NOT drop it! He called and called my extension every 5 minutes trying to coax me into doing what he wanted when it was my boss’s decision not mine. One time he would be angry and yelling into the phone, then 5 minutes later its him again “look I’m sorry, I know it’s not you but is it really a big deal”? “cant you just do it for me”? “Okay okay I will call back to talk to who is in charge” then again 5 minutes later ” IS HE IN YET”? he yells… good grief! I am glad that I was not the one who was telling him NO! In the end he got his way. After calling about 10 times in a row and talking to my boss twice. :(.. I am really supprised that he didnt come in and yell at me in person while he was waiting on my boss. I asked him about it once we got to know each other and he said he ALWAYS gets his way and I am thinking ( ohh… crap…) lol. This attitude has not been directed towards me yet - I would not want to disagree with him on anything as I really enjoy his company and don’t want to tell someone they are wrong if they are the slightest bit right! I am waiting for sex, I want to know that he is going to respect me as a sensitive and giving person without trying to take advantage of those qualities. I love how spontaneous he is! He will decide halfway through an early meeting for breakfast that he wants to pack a few things and head to the mountains for the day! I LOVE this. So fresh and new compared to my last relationship with a Virgo for 2 and a half years ( ICK!!! what was I thinking? In some ways now I am embarrassed for dating a virgo man when comparing him to an aries man. Virgo could never throw out the rules and just go for something.
I dated an aries man, i am an aquarius. We are now friends and have been for quite some time. Our relationship has changed drastically, would an aries man ever consider someone who is a friend as more? I know they love the chase and mystery and i feel that all of that would be gone now. Any advice would be wonderful.